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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the podcast, and gotta say happy June teenth. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hope you take a moment today to educate yourself

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Speaker 1: on the holiday. Maybe support a great black owned business

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Speaker 1: in your area, you know, do something good restaurants lately. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 1: So today we've got something a little different for you.

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Speaker 1: It's called a closure call. We don't do them that often,

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Speaker 1: but they're kind of cool. It's when people need closure

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Speaker 1: in their life from a past relationship, and that could

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Speaker 1: be romantic, it could be a family relationship, a work relationship,

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Speaker 1: and we actually get them back in touch with that

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Speaker 1: person from their past. So these are these are pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna get to hear that. But first we

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Speaker 1: love to highlight some comments.

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Speaker 3: Alexis yeah a Beer said, downloading episodes for my flight.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait tensten for five hours?

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Speaker 1: Whoa wow, oh Beer, But you.

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Speaker 2: Do what I do.

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Speaker 4: Well, you have to like download it on Spotify or whatever,

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Speaker 4: so you in case you don't have the internet on that,

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Speaker 4: that's right, smart.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you're gonna get a headache from that

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Speaker 3: much of us.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll take some child at all. All right, here,

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Speaker 1: your closure call starts now.

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Speaker 2: The truth is everyone has a price. So Brooke, let

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Speaker 2: me ask, how much would it take for you to

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Speaker 2: leave your husband and your children to start a whole

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Speaker 2: new life. A billion? I remember a Bogo cubeon to

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Speaker 2: the Country Buffet with the nacho cheese fountain.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, yeah, I were thinking about it.

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Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners faced a similar dilemma recently

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Speaker 2: where he had to choose either a life changing, insane

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Speaker 2: amount of money or his family.

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Speaker 5: What day.

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Speaker 2: You would think that'd be a pretty easy decision, but

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Speaker 2: it wasn't. You're going to find out what happened in

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Speaker 2: a brand new closure call coming up next. Quick history

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Speaker 2: lesson this segment started when Brooke suggested we do something

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Speaker 2: called foreclosure calls. She wanted us to call low income

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Speaker 2: families until them they're getting evictim while she laughed in

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Speaker 2: the background. It's a terrible.

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Speaker 1: Idea till you say something like this, I have to

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Speaker 1: do more charity work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of what we adjusted this segment to

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Speaker 2: closure calls, which is helping people. And I know Brooke

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Speaker 2: didn't like that idea as much, but management did. So

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Speaker 2: your mortgage was to deny. I love that, but we're

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Speaker 2: trying to help our listeners get some answers and much

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Speaker 2: needed closure about an issue or a question that's been

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Speaker 2: eating away at them for a while.

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Speaker 1: I love this segment.

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Speaker 2: And today we're talking to a guy named David who

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Speaker 2: reached out to us about his mom. Oh hopefully he's

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Speaker 2: not foreclosing on her, but David, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it always makes me so sad when people have

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Speaker 1: terrible relationships with your mom?

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Speaker 2: Are you assuming? Yeah, we don't even.

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Speaker 1: Know anything if he hasn't talked to her. Isn't that

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Speaker 1: the whole point of closure call? It's always like so

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Speaker 1: one that you need closure with you don't know.

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Speaker 2: What's ask what's going on with your mom? David?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I did have a falling out with my

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Speaker 1: Is really good that it's in the title of the segment.

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Speaker 4: You can say, like, I'm talking to my mom, we

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Speaker 2: Why did you and your mom have a falling out?

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Speaker 5: So it's all over this inheritance from my grandpa.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, cut the mom out there. Wait, what, that's

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Speaker 2: exactly what I would do. I don't know what is

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Speaker 5: So my grandpa lives in South America, and honestly, I've

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Speaker 1: Okay, and this is your mom's dad, right yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but he really likes me. You know. Actually, when

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Speaker 4: party for three I always.

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Speaker 1: Be a matter of money. But how old I was,

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Speaker 2: Your grandpa is pretty well off.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's not doing bad, or he wasn't doing bad.

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Speaker 5: It just felt like me and him connected when we

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't that make your mom happy though, that he passed away,

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Speaker 5: There's more to the story, Okay, all right, So when

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Speaker 5: he passed I got a letter in the mail. It

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Speaker 5: my grandpa's lawyer saying that in the will I was mentioned.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So Grandpa, what he did in the will is

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Speaker 5: he basically gave me two options. You know, I could

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Speaker 1: What a position to put you in choice? Do you

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Speaker 5: Know the amount it was. It was a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, damn, that is a big decision. Like what where

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Speaker 5: So of course my first thought is like, let me

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Speaker 5: split it evenly with everybody, you know. But then I

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Speaker 5: older than me, like, well older older than me. They're

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Speaker 5: already married, one has a kid, the other ones working

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Speaker 5: with the job she loves. I mean, they're set financially,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't need more money.

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Speaker 1: I cannot believe your grandpa left that decision to you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's just a decision that's going to tear

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Speaker 5: So, like, I just finished college. I don't have a

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Speaker 2: Didn't the five thousand dollars cover that? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah maybe in the sixties. Yeah, Okay, so I got

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Speaker 5: a lot of student loans, and you know, I also

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Speaker 1: He just turned you into a fun kid. You can

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Speaker 5: But then you know my mom, she's divorced from my

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Speaker 5: dad too, and she does work a couple jobs. But honestly,

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Speaker 5: I don't know what she would even use the money for.

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Speaker 2: Maybe so that she wouldn't have to work two jobs, yeah,

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Speaker 5: But you know, my mom is just one of those

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, I know what you mean, no matter what.

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Speaker 2: Who likes working just for work?

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Speaker 1: Could you say that? But how do you know that?

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Speaker 2: I mean, so big decision here. What did you decide

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Speaker 5: I decided to keep the full inheritance.

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Speaker 2: What I was d D that's kind of a rough

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 5: My mom kept asking me too, She was like, what

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Speaker 5: did the letter say that Grandpa sent you?

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Speaker 2: You know she didn't know?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I didn't tell her.

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you at least talk to your mom about that? Like,

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Speaker 5: Well, like I said, I didn't tell her, but now

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Speaker 1: Why why do you say that, because a couple.

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Speaker 5: Of days later, I get a text from my mom saying,

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Speaker 5: pick up all your stuff. I put it in the

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Speaker 2: Oh she kicked you out?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know it didn't. Honestly, it made me

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this is the falling out with your mom?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, yeah, it's been a few months since

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Speaker 1: You know, you haven't talked to her at all.

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Speaker 5: No, not for the last few months.

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Speaker 1: Wait, though, like that's how do you know that she knows?

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Speaker 1: Like it could be another reason, like how would she

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's the only reason I could think that

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Speaker 2: Was a normal issue. She would talk to you, right,

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Speaker 2: And so this has been a few months, now, what

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Speaker 5: Because I've been rethinking it and I'm you know, maybe

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Speaker 5: I should had probably split it up. But my mom

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Speaker 1: I just can't imagine money like this isn't worth money, right,

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Speaker 1: Like losing your relationship with your mom.

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Speaker 2: Depends on how much money. Everybody's got a price.

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Speaker 3: It could be known on a private island.

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Speaker 2: So obviously you know how this works. David. You've already

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Speaker 2: been working with our producer to come up with four

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Speaker 2: questions that we sent to your mom. I will tell you, David,

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Speaker 2: it to you coming up here, it's going to give

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Speaker 2: you a little bit of closure. My god, but it's

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Speaker 2: going to cost you some money. Okay, I think legally

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Speaker 2: I can. But when we come back, we'll read what

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Speaker 2: your mom had to say and do your closure call

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Speaker 2: right after this. Man, this is crazy. We've been talking

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Speaker 2: about it off the about what we would do if

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Speaker 2: we were in David's shoes, where you have the option

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Speaker 2: to take an entire inheritance just for yourself or split

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Speaker 1: Members, like it's a sick joke that your grandpa left

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I bet he's laughing. For it's a big moral

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Speaker 2: dilemma though, and David chose not to split it with

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Speaker 2: the whole bag for himself, which it was his decision,

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Speaker 2: that was what his grandpa wanted him to make. This

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Speaker 2: is what we didn't discuss though in the first part,

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Speaker 2: is transparency, Like should he have told his mom his

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Speaker 4: And that's what I agree with. No matter what you choose,

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Speaker 4: it's a hard decision. I would at least set my

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Speaker 2: Are you telling your family that you're holding onto the

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Speaker 1: I know I have inherited in my family. To be

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Speaker 2: Duh, you can call her a name, David, that's okay.

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Speaker 2: And she's just jealous of you that you know you're

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Speaker 5: You know. I'm just I'm just waiting for these answers.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I am. I'm curious before we get to the answers,

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Speaker 5: No? And then none of the money has come through yet.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if it's tied up in paperwork or something.

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Speaker 4: But he was South America, so maybe it's harder to transfer.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, it doesn't come through a money order.

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Speaker 2: So we're going to read your mom's answers here. How

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Speaker 5: Like I'm probably a little anxious, you know. Like I said,

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Speaker 5: I'm I don't want it to be mad at me,

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Speaker 5: so I'm trying to figure this out. So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, We've already sent these four questions to your mom.

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Speaker 2: You worked with our producer on him. The first question

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Speaker 2: We don't know if she knew about his decision with

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's number one what I need to know why

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Speaker 1: Because if she doesn't know about it yet, did she explain?

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Speaker 2: She said, because David, you were given a big decision

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Speaker 2: how does that feel? David?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't feel like I need to

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh, did you not hear what she said? She's

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Speaker 1: already talking about the money. She's talking about your you

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Speaker 5: No. I feel like if that was the case, that's

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Speaker 5: But nah, right now I'm here and she's jealous. Balance.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it was kind of a rude answer back

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Speaker 4: So with you, Brooke did mention earlier. She is being

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Speaker 3: Kicking you out.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: I think you're both a little bit could be handling

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Speaker 2: But that is why we do these calls. I try

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Speaker 2: go to the second question, which was, I'm assuming you

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Speaker 1: Okay, we already got that answer.

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Speaker 2: What would you have done in my shoes? I guarantee

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Speaker 2: you wouldn't have split the money evenly. O.

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Speaker 4: Wow, that's coming in hot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean now that's almost sounding like an accusation.

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Speaker 1: Is that how you meant it? David?

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Speaker 5: You know it feels fine. After that first answer, she

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Speaker 5: got up, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well she did answer that to quote, like send a

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Speaker 2: quotation and it says, greed is a fat demon with

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Speaker 1: Is that a comment?

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Speaker 5: Does she call me? Does she just call me fat?

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Speaker 5: I don't even know I've been greed.

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Speaker 2: Greed is the fat demon, not you.

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Speaker 4: I feel like we're getting answers here. But we're not

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Speaker 1: I think the mom is just disappointed.

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Speaker 5: What what's she disappointed about? I mean she has a

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Speaker 5: lot more money than I do.

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Speaker 1: I mean, your whole life provided for you.

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Speaker 2: Still a little tense. Maybe things will get better.

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Speaker 5: I hope she puts that quote on her wall.

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Speaker 2: Okay, next to love fan. Let's hopefully make the mood

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Speaker 2: a little better with question three. It says, it's been

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Speaker 2: three months and I haven't seen any money from the inheritance.

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Speaker 2: Are you blocking my inheritance? Or do you know what's

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Speaker 2: going on with it? So you you suspect your mom

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Speaker 5: I mean she's blocked me out of the house.

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Speaker 1: I thought we were doing this. So try to repair

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Speaker 1: your relationship with your mother, David, not to attack her.

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Speaker 3: Find out where your money is.

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Speaker 5: Her. I'm asking, does she know anything about it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's quoting Rihanna, you better have my money.

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Speaker 1: What did she say?

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Speaker 2: You asked if she's blocking the inheritance, and she wrote

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Speaker 2: Greed is a fat demon with a small mouth, and

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Speaker 2: whatever you feed it, it's never enough.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 2: She's doubling to you.

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Speaker 5: Guys for the help. Man, all I'm getting is bathroom quotes. You. Oh,

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Speaker 5: I think I should charge her for my school loans

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Speaker 5: after this.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's a battle. Smooth things over house?

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Speaker 1: Responsible for that, you know, I mean, we can't control

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Speaker 5: David answers question for with that quote. I don't know

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Speaker 5: what the hell.

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Speaker 2: We We made zero progress. We only have one question

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Speaker 2: less but keeps getting worse. Maybe we should just get

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Speaker 2: through it question four. Know we wrote. I know you're

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Speaker 2: how things went down.

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Speaker 1: Mom, Okay a little remorse.

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Speaker 2: Can I please call you so we can talk this

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Speaker 2: thing out. Yes, that's great. That's a good Olive branch.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm the only good person between us.

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Speaker 1: I would have I would have recommended leading with that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you, David, she didn't write back with

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Speaker 2: the same quote. That's the good news. Yes, here's what

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Speaker 5: David.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for this?

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Speaker 5: Let's go?

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Speaker 2: She says, maybe you should call your grandpa instead.

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Speaker 1: I thought he died.

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Speaker 2: She says, he didn't really die, but he did want

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Speaker 2: to test you, to see if you'd make the right

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Speaker 2: choice and put your family first.

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Speaker 5: Got to be a joke.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm serious, man, She says, you didn't, and now

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Speaker 2: we all know the answer. So you've been effectively removed

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Speaker 5: I don't believe that. I think she lost her mind.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I'm reading her her answers right here.

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Speaker 2: She says, there's no money coming to you. If you're wondering,

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Speaker 2: you reap what you sew. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: We might have to throw her in a facility. I

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Speaker 1: You don't have money to pay for a facility in

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Speaker 5: Well, what's that called? When when the police just get her? Then,

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Speaker 5: because we have to follow one.

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Speaker 4: Really take your advice and call your grandpa and once

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Speaker 4: he answers your tire.

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Speaker 1: I was like, why would a grandpa put that in

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Speaker 5: I don't believe her, and I honestly, I don't think

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Speaker 5: you guys should believe her. I think died and she's

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Speaker 5: just like holding on to my check at the house.

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Speaker 1: Oh, make awkward Tuesday phone calls to South America. I

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Speaker 1: want to call it Grandpa.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get any deeper involved into this

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Speaker 2: family situation. It was messy, This was amazing. I hope

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Speaker 2: it got you a little bit of closure there, David,

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Speaker 2: don't I don't know.

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Speaker 5: If it's I don't know, like I don't believe it.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you keep in touch with us and let

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Speaker 2: to your grandpa for us.

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Speaker 1: Apologies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's your closure calls. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the.

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Speaker 1: Morning brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Man, That grandpa is genius. Yeah, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed that closure call. We are getting

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Speaker 1: tons of comments flooded, especially on our YouTube page.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Yeah, so many of you guys want

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Speaker 3: to follow up, and we are with offer Tuesday another

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Speaker 1: That's a hard part of these follow ups is that

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Speaker 2: I know, surprisingly we don't harass them. Yeah, week after

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Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, he's going to be a little busy talking

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Speaker 3: It's just a joke.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna split it with everybody totally.

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Speaker 3: In the comments about him, we got a lot of

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Speaker 3: oh selfish again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So it's kind of the majority is against

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Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd say so.

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Speaker 1: And for grandpa, I think a lot of people, I

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Speaker 2: So I have a nice little test as you go

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Speaker 1: Totally. Yeah. Yeah, Well, thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 1: It means so much to us, especially on this Second

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Speaker 1: Date podcast, So please subscribe, share, follow, do all the things,

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Speaker 1: and you can always follow us on social media. You

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Speaker 1: can harass us there, Okay, it's just and Jeffrey