Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: A Wan air with a Ryan Seacrest a listener named
Speaker 1: Lily Siss and he tagged us in the comments of
Speaker 1: a TikTok video and wanted to get our thoughts. So
Speaker 1: I guess the original video is from someone named at
Speaker 1: Christina makes Content. So she asked the question, what is
Speaker 1: something incredibly immature you'll never stop doing? Here's what she said.
Speaker 1: Ever since my X and I broke up and two
Speaker 1: this in sixteen, I've had a very interesting tactic for revenge.
Speaker 1: My revenge comes in the form of email newsletters. So
Speaker 1: if I'm in the airport and I need an email
Speaker 1: address to give to the airport so I can use
Speaker 1: their WiFi, I give them his. If I want to
Speaker 1: read an article and they needed an email, I'll send
Speaker 1: them his. Do I want to be updated about events
Speaker 1: and happenings in the company? Yes, And he doesn't know why.
Speaker 1: And I will literally never stop doing it. Now, that's clever,
Speaker 1: that's funny, you know. I think that's that's immature, but
Speaker 1: that's kind of not so mature because it's smart. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So she wants our take. I can't think of anything
Speaker 1: off the top of my head. I want to like,
Speaker 1: I'm something totally immature. I mean, I'm sure if I
Speaker 1: see if I'm texting with somebody and I see that
Speaker 1: they're on their Instagram story, I'm like, I call them
Speaker 1: out on it, so I'll be like, can you text
Speaker 1: me back? I know you're on your phone. That's not immature.
Speaker 1: I don't think though, that's just kind of like direct. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I like I like teasing, Like I little things
Speaker 1: that would kind of annoy Michael. I. I I like to
Speaker 1: pinch his legs sometimes in bed, like with my toes.
Speaker 1: That's like those things are annoying. That's a different question,
Speaker 1: Audrey holding on during that song. Are you how are you?
Speaker 1: It's Ryan? Everybody, how's it going? Hey? Ryan, thanks so
Speaker 1: much for taking my call. Wow, I'm so excited for
Speaker 1: you guys to give me some advice. Well, thank you
Speaker 1: for listening. How are you doing this morning? I'm okay,
Speaker 1: I'm okay. It's a beautiful day. You know, yes, I
Speaker 1: can't complain. Well, here to ruin it with our advice.
Speaker 1: We are, Um, what can we do for you? Okay?
Speaker 1: So I've been going out with this guy. It's pretty new.
Speaker 1: He's gone out like four times, I think, um, so
Speaker 1: it's been going well, but I feel like there's this
Speaker 1: little red flag. He's um, he's divorced, which is fine.
Speaker 1: I get it, Um, it's totally fine. I am too UM,
Speaker 1: but his ex wife cuts his hair, and and they've
Speaker 1: only been divorced for about a year year and a half,
Speaker 1: I think, um, And I just don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: comfortable with that. Some of my friends say it's it's
Speaker 1: good because guys who have good relationships with their exes
Speaker 1: are good guys, and it's good that they have like
Speaker 1: a friendship, which means that like they there wasn't anything
Speaker 1: toxic going on, or he didn't cheat because like she
Speaker 1: wouldn't be cutting his hair still. But I kind of
Speaker 1: feel in my gut like it's it means he's too
Speaker 1: connected to her. Um, he might have feelings for her.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna give you very specific reactions to
Speaker 1: this because I have never had an ex wife, but
Speaker 1: I have that girlfriends, and I like the notion of
Speaker 1: being friends with anyone that i've dated after i've dated them,
Speaker 1: and I appreciate and respect the relationship that we can
Speaker 1: have after having a relationship together and when you think
Speaker 1: about all the things that people teach you in your lives.
Speaker 1: There's so much admiration to what they can bring into
Speaker 1: your life. And when you look back they you know
Speaker 1: they they've had an impact that's made you better or
Speaker 1: think differently than That's such a great thing. So I
Speaker 1: clearly don't mind now not I don't know, but the
Speaker 1: ex wife part of it. I really like it when
Speaker 1: people can remain friends with people who have been a
Speaker 1: part of their lives. Sissany has a different opinion. Major,
Speaker 1: major no. For me, I would be feeling all the
Speaker 1: emotions that you're feeling right now, which is probably a
Speaker 1: little jealousy, a little confusion, and I don't like it.
Speaker 1: Here is the thing. I think there's a really good
Speaker 1: balance between having a friendly relationship and having somebody cut
Speaker 1: your hair. Like he can find somebody else to cut
Speaker 1: his hair exactly. He can be friendly with her and
Speaker 1: have a cordial relationship, which I do think is lovely
Speaker 1: and fine, but he does not need to be having
Speaker 1: her cut his hair. That's a good point. That's a
Speaker 1: good point, So we don't Sonny is saying she does
Speaker 1: not mind the fact that there's an amicable break up
Speaker 1: and that they have a friendship, which is okay because
Speaker 1: when you've had someone close to you for a long time,
Speaker 1: they become your friend, they become your best friend. And
Speaker 1: so I think that's fair to say, Look, you don't
Speaker 1: need to cut her out of your life, but maybe
Speaker 1: he doesn't cut your hair. Audrey. That's that's actually finally
Speaker 1: some good advice from this show. Alright, I'll keep us.
Speaker 1: That's that's a good happy medium. Sure. Ben. How are
Speaker 1: you man? How you doing Ben? I'm good? How are
Speaker 1: you doing doing well? Ben? So you're calling about a
Speaker 1: woman at work? Yeah, what happened? So there was a
Speaker 1: I'm a teacher, and there was this teacher that was
Speaker 1: hired probably a few months ago, and we've become closer
Speaker 1: friends than any other coworker I've had, and we've been
Speaker 1: texting and we talked on the phone a lot, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know if I should go for
Speaker 1: this because we worked so closely together, and so I
Speaker 1: just keeping the conversation going. And then I heard her,
Speaker 1: I have a conversation with our boss the other day
Speaker 1: of what she's doing this weekend, and she was like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm hanging out with my boyfriend and we're doing this,
Speaker 1: and like, wait, We've been talking for months and there's
Speaker 1: been no conversation of a boyfriend, and she's been super
Speaker 1: flirty with me, and now all of a sudden, I
Speaker 1: find out not through her, that there's a guy involved.
Speaker 1: So do I go for it? No? She has a boyfriend?
Speaker 1: What you Well, clearly she's confused, but that guy Ben,
Speaker 1: I don't want to put things into perspective, but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna try. Do you really want to be with someone
Speaker 1: that flirts with you and has a boyfriend means that
Speaker 1: really you want to live with that anxiety every single
Speaker 1: Monday night. Well, I don't have to be in a
Speaker 1: relationship with her. I'm just saying, Look, then obviously you're
Speaker 1: gonna do what you want to do. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: if you really want to be around somebody and cultivate
Speaker 1: a relationship, then you probably don't want to start it
Speaker 1: off with somebody that's already flirting with you while she's
Speaker 1: got a significant other. Just seems like the wrong character
Speaker 1: trait to me. Mm hmmm. I just think it's weird
Speaker 1: that she's never brought up the boyfriend, and then clearly
Speaker 1: she didn't want you to know she had a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: so maybe she doesn't want to company. Maybe it's new.
Speaker 1: Maybe they just established it became boyfriend friend. Maybe they
Speaker 1: were in the great territory for a while and they
Speaker 1: just established it. Or Ben, maybe she didn't want you
Speaker 1: to know about her personal life. You do work with her,
Speaker 1: maybe she wanted to keep that sacred. But I think
Speaker 1: I think what Benn is asking is do I just
Speaker 1: continue to hook up with her but not really try
Speaker 1: to create those relationship type emotions. Well, the answers again,
Speaker 1: no still no, no, no, no still, I mean I'm
Speaker 1: still out of no and we've been talking for two
Speaker 1: minutes and twenty seven seconds. Ben, Um, But I do
Speaker 1: think that if you just want to hang out with somebody,
Speaker 1: then find someone hang out with that doesn't have a
Speaker 1: significant other. It makes life a lot easier, you'll sleep better.
Speaker 1: Then yeah, you're gonna get hurt in the end. I
Speaker 1: thought I found someone, and then surprise, boyfriend, move on?
Speaker 1: Time to move on? Then thanks for calling? I like
Speaker 1: I like Ben. You know, Ben is trying to figure
Speaker 1: out the right thing to do. But he calls and
Speaker 1: he asked for advice and we give it to Then
Speaker 1: he wants to argue with the advice. I just still
Speaker 1: hook up with it now, circles. I know that feeling though,
Speaker 1: It's like you know it's wrong, you know it's wrong,
Speaker 1: but you want to just trick your brain. Yeah, men
Speaker 1: want what they can't have. We all want what we
Speaker 1: can't have. It's not just men, Okay, Kanya just generalizing
Speaker 1: entire gender. Tired genders generalize there, that's not totally true.
Speaker 1: Ever since she's gotten back with Socrates, she's become the
Speaker 1: be all no of all relationships. Get your hand off
Speaker 1: your hip. Kickball change, all right, we can all kickball change.
Speaker 1: Just because you're back in the second time around, so
Speaker 1: perfect doesn't mean that you've written the book on all
Speaker 1: of everybody's relationships and everybody's feelings, all of men and
Speaker 1: all of women. So you know, they say, if you're
Speaker 1: trying to like sell your home or get somebody to
Speaker 1: rent an apartment, that you bake when they come over
Speaker 1: to see it, and put like a pan of cookies,
Speaker 1: or bake some fresh bread banana bread or sukini bread
Speaker 1: or carrot bread in there. So and I'm a sucker
Speaker 1: for it. That just puts it actually does something chemically
Speaker 1: to you, makes it feel homey, that's right. So if
Speaker 1: you're looking at bake bread, this is your morning hack
Speaker 1: for the morning thought. This might be good. Um, so
Speaker 1: it never comes out too dry in the oven. Put
Speaker 1: a second pan with eight ice cubes in it, one
Speaker 1: rack below your bread. So put the bread in then
Speaker 1: underneath eight ice cubes in it one below. The steam
Speaker 1: from the melting ice makes it moist. This isn't It
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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Secrets, let me grab Brian in
Speaker 1: Riverside morning, Brian, how you doing there? I'm good. How
Speaker 1: are you today? Ryan? I'm doing fine? Thank you. So
Speaker 1: it says here your X started reaching out to some
Speaker 1: of your friends. Yes, what do you mean? You broke
Speaker 1: up with your AX? And then what we haven't since then?
Speaker 1: This was about a couple of months ago, and just
Speaker 1: recently I found out that she's been having lunch with
Speaker 1: a few of my girlfriends. Who are you know, just
Speaker 1: actually just friends? And I've just been wondering, you know what,
Speaker 1: what is kind of the reason because they weren't normally
Speaker 1: the type to kind of talk and go out like that. So,
Speaker 1: you know, it's keeping tabs on me trying to get
Speaker 1: back together, like I don't know how, I don't know
Speaker 1: to what extent, but are these friends of yours? Friends?
Speaker 1: She normally what you actually normally would not hang out with.
Speaker 1: I mean, what if she has a friendship with them too.
Speaker 1: This is always the difficult thing with a breakup. H Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: of having mutual friends type of thing, I mean, well,
Speaker 1: I wanted to expect them to kind of go out
Speaker 1: regularly like that they were more of just like, well,
Speaker 1: when we see each other, we're kind of just warm,
Speaker 1: warm enough to each other. Uh, like mutile friends rather
Speaker 1: than the ones who would really interact with each other.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean looked in a breakup, there is
Speaker 1: a category of mutual shared friends that just part of it.
Speaker 1: You kind of just need you know, if they if
Speaker 1: they are friends of yours and friends of hers during
Speaker 1: and you split up, then you can't expect them to
Speaker 1: two sides and that's difficult. But if these are friends
Speaker 1: or women that she's hanging out with, it she normally
Speaker 1: wouldn't even talk to then trying to make an effort
Speaker 1: to stay connected to your friend group, Yeah, she's putting
Speaker 1: off deelers. You just put off feelers to go back to.
Speaker 1: I think so, sir, you want nothing to do with
Speaker 1: his friends. If you want nothing to do with him, right,
Speaker 1: you're reaching out and trying to like meet up and
Speaker 1: have lunch or coffee with one of his girlfriends from
Speaker 1: his Are you with someone else now? Brian No, I
Speaker 1: was still simple at this moment. Okay, well then let's see.
Speaker 1: I think let's see what happens. Let's see if if
Speaker 1: you know, messages are coming to you, and how would
Speaker 1: you feel if she continues to be in your circle?
Speaker 1: Like if she starts building off of this relationship with
Speaker 1: these girlfriends and now she's like coming around at parties
Speaker 1: and dinners and things like that, I would it become
Speaker 1: a weird u because if it became kind of a
Speaker 1: more frequent thing, it would kind of be and it's
Speaker 1: kind of like, well, what is what is behind this?
Speaker 1: I would probably take if it really got into the
Speaker 1: point where it was it was more frequent, I would
Speaker 1: probably take the just asking like hey, what is what
Speaker 1: is kind of going on? But yeah, yeah, well Brett,
Speaker 1: have you We're gonna let you go now. But have
Speaker 1: you moved past her? Are you? Have you moved on? Uh?
Speaker 1: It's still it's still pretty fresh. We're with each other
Speaker 1: for about two years. Uh, well, there's gonna be a
Speaker 1: slippery slope then if she's still hanging out with your
Speaker 1: tight group. But let's let play out. Good luck, Bryant
Speaker 1: thank you for reaching out. Yeah, you know there are
Speaker 1: there is a shared friends group when you have a breakup,
Speaker 1: and you can't expect anybody to choose sides when they're
Speaker 1: good friends of both. You can't no that. It just
Speaker 1: kind of happens naturally. Carry good morning, Good morning. How
Speaker 1: are you doing. I'm great? How are you? I'm well?
Speaker 1: Thank you? So tell us how can we help you? Well,
Speaker 1: I just need to say this. Um, you kept talking
Speaker 1: about this new tender update, and I feel like I
Speaker 1: know you really well. I watch you every morning, so
Speaker 1: I feel like I can tell you when you're wrong.
Speaker 1: Oh sure you can't. I'm I'm used to it. Actually,
Speaker 1: So you kept talking about how it's going to make
Speaker 1: it to that you don't run into your boss or
Speaker 1: your ex. What about all of the people that are
Speaker 1: now going to be blocking their contacts as in their
Speaker 1: wife or their husband and end up on Ryan's roses? Wait,
Speaker 1: so we're going back, and I appreciate being caught out
Speaker 1: on this. Did I bring this up? Or did Tiny
Speaker 1: bring this up? I brought this up. You should be
Speaker 1: yelling at I love you. But the culprit here, just
Speaker 1: the messenger. So what happened with Tinder. I remember this. Basically,
Speaker 1: they made it so that you can block your contacts
Speaker 1: so that you don't have to accidentally swipe on a cousin. Carry.
Speaker 1: Now you're gonna help. You're gonna help protect people from
Speaker 1: Ryan's roses. Here's the thing. If if you're blocking your
Speaker 1: husband and your wife on Tinder, like you've got bigger
Speaker 1: problems than just car behind dating app. Are you on Tinder? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: I'm happily engaged. So I just playing this out. So
Speaker 1: if someone were not happily engaged, they could block out
Speaker 1: their fiance and still be on Tinder and their fiance
Speaker 1: would never see them, right, It's like, sure, that's what
Speaker 1: thought I had. Yeah, that's bad news. I didn't even
Speaker 1: think of that, And then they carry Thank you for
Speaker 1: listening to us, appreciate it you calling us. Oh of course,
Speaker 1: I love you guys, all of you. You know, this
Speaker 1: show is in podcast form on a regular now. Anybody
Speaker 1: who's not around or wants to hear it, missed it. Whatever,
Speaker 1: It's on I Heart Radio on a podcast where we
Speaker 1: get your podcast right on air with Ryan Seacrest podcast. Okay, good, yeah,
Speaker 1: keep us posted. Thank you for calling on air with
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest on a two point seven kiss up. Then
Speaker 1: it's time for Ryan's roses. Let's get Natalie on the phone. Natalie,
Speaker 1: thank you for sending us your emails. So your husband
Speaker 1: has a unique pillo. I actually have this same temper
Speaker 1: panick pillow. I don't know if it's the same firmness,
Speaker 1: but I have that pillow, um, and I take it everywhere.
Speaker 1: But you say, you've never seen this pillow anywhere else,
Speaker 1: And you follow his ex girlfriend on Instagram and the
Speaker 1: other day she was doing a story from bed and
Speaker 1: the pillow next or was the same pillow that he uses, right, yep,
Speaker 1: that's right. So what do you make of that? I mean,
Speaker 1: I have the same pillows, So it's not like I
Speaker 1: would be with your husband, right, So why do you
Speaker 1: think that she's with him? Well, I mean, I've never
Speaker 1: seen it anywhere else before. We have a very close
Speaker 1: like friend group, and UM, I mean it's just it's
Speaker 1: weird that I saw it. So he's been traveling a
Speaker 1: lot for work, and um, you know, things started opening up,
Speaker 1: so we started traveling again, and UM, I just had
Speaker 1: a really bad feeling after I saw her story and
Speaker 1: I saw that pillow. One likely scenario. For example, if
Speaker 1: I had that pillow for years and then I broke
Speaker 1: up with my girlfriend and left the pillow, the pillow
Speaker 1: would still be there. So it's possible. Maybe could be. No,
Speaker 1: he bought the pillows, um, So I went through his
Speaker 1: Amazon history and he thought the pillows from Amazon and
Speaker 1: when he bought him, he bought two of them. Where's
Speaker 1: the seconde? What happened? Could one be his travel pillow
Speaker 1: so that he doesn't have to keep moving and it
Speaker 1: could be? Um, But I actually just asked him. I
Speaker 1: asked him why he ordered two of them, and he
Speaker 1: said he travels with one. So I said, you know,
Speaker 1: like let me see it. And that's when it was
Speaker 1: like magically as dissipote appeared and he left it in
Speaker 1: a hotel room somewhere. And I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: don't feel right about it. Natalie. How long you've been married? Um?
Speaker 1: About six years. It seemed a little bit of stress
Speaker 1: because I have that pillow, so it's not so crazy
Speaker 1: and unique to have that pill to me and I
Speaker 1: have two one I have in my bed and want
Speaker 1: I have in my bag. Interesting for traveling, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: then wouldn't it be in a pillow case, and you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to tell which pillow it was. Well,
Speaker 1: they are different shaped. Yeah, even in a case, you
Speaker 1: can tell this pillow it's a different shape. It's got
Speaker 1: that little way for your neck, like the depth for
Speaker 1: your neck. So, Natalie, I need you to say Ryan,
Speaker 1: you my permission to call, and then your husband's name
Speaker 1: on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission
Speaker 1: to call. We're gonna call him. Now. Be very quiet
Speaker 1: till we tell me he's on the air. Let's see
Speaker 1: we can find out. Okay, okay, all right, good luck.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello. Hi is this Davis? Yeah? Hi?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hi Davis? My name is lu Anne. I'm
Speaker 1: calling from Lulu's Blooms. We're actually a floral design shop
Speaker 1: here in Chatsworth. How are you doing this morning? I'm good.
Speaker 1: How can I help you? Um? Well, you know, we're
Speaker 1: trying to promote our delivery business, so we're offering local
Speaker 1: residents of promotion today of free roses. That means that
Speaker 1: you can send them to anybody that you'd like. They're
Speaker 1: absolutely free. We just hope that you refers to friends
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Speaker 1: like legitimately free. I don't need any credit card, info,
Speaker 1: cash anything like that. They're absolutely free. Um, if you
Speaker 1: have the name of the persons too, we can start there. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Congrat congratulations on a starting a new business.
Speaker 1: That's a big deal these days. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I
Speaker 1: actually do have someone that I'd like to send some to.
Speaker 1: Um you can put on the card. Her name is Brian. Okay,
Speaker 1: and do you need like a you know, do you
Speaker 1: want something like you know, like a saying or something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, who's Brian to you? Because we have a
Speaker 1: bunch of different types of cards that like say I
Speaker 1: love you, and one's with hearts. Oh no, she's just
Speaker 1: a friend. She's UM, she's got a job interview, and
Speaker 1: so I just wanted to wish your good luck. So
Speaker 1: if you can just write on the card good luck
Speaker 1: on your interview, I love David, and then send that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just the regular card is Davis. Your voice is being
Speaker 1: broadcast on the radio. I need you to know that
Speaker 1: we have your wife Natalie on the phone. Natalie. What's
Speaker 1: Davis's ex girlfriend's name? Davis? What? What? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Let me let me, let me explain. Your wife has
Speaker 1: asked us to call you because she thinks that maybe
Speaker 1: you're spending time with your ex girlfriend. Now you've just
Speaker 1: sent noses to your ex girlfriend. You weren't, That's not
Speaker 1: what you told Sissony. Who's the other voice you're hearing? Uh?
Speaker 1: And you said good luck on your interview love Davis.
Speaker 1: So are you spending time with your ex girlfriend? Davis? No,
Speaker 1: we we are still friends. We text and talk. I'm
Speaker 1: not spending time with her. I was just trying to
Speaker 1: be a a good supportive friends. There's nothing going on.
Speaker 1: I just you know, on are you spending your ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend roses? Like? What are you doing? Oh? It's listen.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's nothing. I don't know what you
Speaker 1: think is happening. I honestly was just trying to be supportive.
Speaker 1: You know what talk. I tell you all the time
Speaker 1: that I that I but you also know that I'm
Speaker 1: just not comfortable with you being so close to her
Speaker 1: and now you're sending her flowers that that's a problem
Speaker 1: to me. Look, I don't know what what's going on here?
Speaker 1: I can't believe you have me on the radio. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, I was just sort your travel pillow in
Speaker 1: her bed. What what are you talking about? The distinctive
Speaker 1: temper petic pillow you have? I saw it in Brand's
Speaker 1: bed from her Instagram story. Okay, well that's not mine.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. Like maybe at
Speaker 1: one point I mentioned it to her and she got
Speaker 1: herself one, But that's not mine. I told you I
Speaker 1: bought too so I could travel with one, and then
Speaker 1: I left the other in a hotel somewhere. I told
Speaker 1: you this. I don't know what you think is going on,
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you nothing is going on. Just a
Speaker 1: little too close for comfort. It's something's not right. It
Speaker 1: is very coincidental. And also, David, if you know that
Speaker 1: your wife is uncomfortable with you in touch with your ex,
Speaker 1: and then you send her red roses with love on
Speaker 1: the card, aren't you feeling inside like you're pushing the
Speaker 1: limit a little bit? I honestly, we have talked about
Speaker 1: her comfortability with my ex, but it's never gotten to
Speaker 1: a point where she said I can't reach out and
Speaker 1: be stay friends with my ex. So I flowers roses.
Speaker 1: She has a really big job interview, and I was
Speaker 1: just trying to be nice. Who cares? How about your wife?
Speaker 1: All right, well, listen, listen to David's and now I
Speaker 1: will let you go with this. I mean that it's
Speaker 1: a lot of coincidence, and I agree that he shouldn't
Speaker 1: be sending her roses. It's a bit tone deaf. David's
Speaker 1: a bit tone deaf, all right. You know, it is
Speaker 1: interesting how the Instagram story can have something in the
Speaker 1: background that strikes you. And that's what happened with Natalie,
Speaker 1: her husband of six years. She she she's following even
Speaker 1: think about this, So she's following his ex. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a whole other thing. Right now, she's probably creeping on
Speaker 1: it on her fins to, right, But then she's still checking.
Speaker 1: So Natalie, his wife, is checking out his ex girlfriend
Speaker 1: through fins to or however, it doesn't matter. But he's like,
Speaker 1: that's already kind of playing with fire. Unhealthy. It's unhealthy.
Speaker 1: You have to stop that. That's not great. But she
Speaker 1: was worried about him staying in touch with her, which
Speaker 1: is why she's probably checking out her story all the time. Anyway,
Speaker 1: in his ex girlfriend's story. There was this temperpedic pillow
Speaker 1: that is very easy to spot. I have it. I
Speaker 1: mean it looks a little goofy when I'm carrying it
Speaker 1: around myself, but I do. And she thought, wait, he
Speaker 1: has two of those, one has gone missing ones at
Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend. Maybe something's going on, could be. But
Speaker 1: more importantly, he knows that she's uncomfortable with him staying
Speaker 1: in touch with his ex, and he went ahead, didn't
Speaker 1: think of his wife and just sent the roses to
Speaker 1: his ex in support of a job interview. Now, the
Speaker 1: fact that he knows the date of the job interview
Speaker 1: is a little close, isn't it. It's too close? And
Speaker 1: even if she wasn't an ex, being married and sending
Speaker 1: flowers to another woman for good luck on your job
Speaker 1: interviews seems sketch like I would be uncomfortable if Michael
Speaker 1: did that some flowers? Is that Tania? Good luck on
Speaker 1: your interview? Love Michael? And you didn't know? So that's strange, Taylor.
Speaker 1: Now what do you think you heard that? Do you
Speaker 1: think he's cheating or just making bad judgment calls? I
Speaker 1: hate to say this, but I one d think he's
Speaker 1: cheating with Brianne, like, yeah, he bought two of those pillows,
Speaker 1: one for himself and one for Brianne. And I bet
Speaker 1: if she checks, he's probably buying two of everything deodorant
Speaker 1: razors and there's probably closed missing from their house because
Speaker 1: it's at Brianne's. You, yeah, I hate it. It's something's wrong.
Speaker 1: Something's wrong, for sure. I agree with you. Thank you
Speaker 1: for calling. You make the point about the razors. I
Speaker 1: have to tell you, I have to one of my
Speaker 1: shower one at my encounter. So I went and got
Speaker 1: some of the ones that were probably duplicated that are pink,
Speaker 1: and now in me too, And now in my shower,
Speaker 1: I have one that's double lubricated pink with the nice
Speaker 1: bumper around it, and I've got my yeah maybe called
Speaker 1: it's called maybe called that, and I've got magelet sensor. Now,
Speaker 1: if you were to walk into my shower and see
Speaker 1: that and I were in a relationship, that would possibly
Speaker 1: be a red flag. But it's mine, then I'd be like,
Speaker 1: that makes a lot of sense now because it's mine. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you know, you kind of like really things. It's
Speaker 1: not like really things. I just like maintaining myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've a little sauce. If we were newly dating, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, well I'm saying it now, okay, And frankly
Speaker 1: all men should have this. It feels so good that
Speaker 1: bumper around it. Yeah barely. It's just like you know,
Speaker 1: it needs sup shaving and the way it's so weighty. Heads.
Speaker 1: Derek is on the line here, Derek in Fullerton, Derek,
Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning Ryan. How are you doing all right? Man?
Speaker 1: Thank you for asking? What's up? How can we help you? Um?
Speaker 1: I got like a weird dilemma. I just want to
Speaker 1: see if I'm I'm the bad guy here. I have
Speaker 1: a roommate. Every morning, I drew coffee as most people do,
Speaker 1: and I put creamer in that coffee, um, and I
Speaker 1: think it expired two three days ago, which means it's
Speaker 1: so good, you know. And I went to go my
Speaker 1: morning or team before work. I go to get the
Speaker 1: creamer out of the fridge and it's not there, and
Speaker 1: there's still some left, you know, maybe like two cups
Speaker 1: of coffee left. And I look in the trash and
Speaker 1: it's there and it's empty. And I didn't do it.
Speaker 1: And I only have two other people who live in
Speaker 1: my house. Am I crazy for being upset about that
Speaker 1: that one of my roommates used the last of my
Speaker 1: cream in their coffee and then a third away without asking. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean because no, no, you're not crazy. You're in
Speaker 1: the right, because to me, it's a sign of a
Speaker 1: bigger problem. Right, the creamer is just a tool. The
Speaker 1: creamer is just the creamer. But it could have been
Speaker 1: a pizza, It could have been a meal that you
Speaker 1: were because I will tell you saying, Derek, this has
Speaker 1: happened to me in the past, and I resent it still.
Speaker 1: I literally will put something in the refrigerad, put some
Speaker 1: in the refrigerator. And I was so stoked about having
Speaker 1: when I got home, I was picturing it all day
Speaker 1: and it was gone, and it was left over from
Speaker 1: the night before. But I love I really love left
Speaker 1: especially tortillas, like tortillas called enchilad it's cold, I love
Speaker 1: I don't know, I love them cold. And I had
Speaker 1: a container of cheese enchilades with chopped onions on top
Speaker 1: from the night before. And I came back and Tenas
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him out, ten as my old roommate.
Speaker 1: I still he denies it, but I still think he
Speaker 1: ate them because they weren't there, so well you you
Speaker 1: accused him of stealing and saying, look, this is not
Speaker 1: about the creamer. This is about a bigger notion. You know,
Speaker 1: if you took the last of the creamer, what you
Speaker 1: took the last of the dinner. I was looking forward
Speaker 1: to the last of the groceries. I stop for. I mean,
Speaker 1: he just can't do that. It's just not It's not
Speaker 1: the size of the violation. It's the violation. And Derek creamer,
Speaker 1: what's in creamer? Does it ever go bad? I don't
Speaker 1: even know if it's cream is it all right? It
Speaker 1: does go bad, but like a while years after spices are.
Speaker 1: It's the violation, not the size of it. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I would. I would address it head on. Bro it happens,
Speaker 1: if it could get worse. If you don't address it now,
Speaker 1: it gets worse, becomes other things. They're using yours and
Speaker 1: take your girl. Yeah exactly, you guys, all right, that'll
Speaker 1: motivate you. She's not wrong. Give him an inch, they
Speaker 1: take a yard. Yeah. Respect, you gotta lay down the
Speaker 1: law trillion. It's not the creamers about his girl. It's
Speaker 1: about self respect, boundaries, self respect, and self confidence, and
Speaker 1: it's about because you too live alone. So everything you
Speaker 1: have in your fridge right now is yours, Like you
Speaker 1: live in a house with every it's a free for all.
Speaker 1: Like I'll buy something, it might be gone tomorrow, Like
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I know I have lived in
Speaker 1: a home with a plethora of women in my day
Speaker 1: and we did not. No, you got it. You can't
Speaker 1: do that. If you want to share, you can say
Speaker 1: this is for the house, and you share. But if
Speaker 1: you take the last of anything, you buy a new one,
Speaker 1: you replace and replenish. It is a rule that it
Speaker 1: doesn't sign on the door, replace and replenish and recycle.
Speaker 1: Like we've often said that, I feel a responsibility to
Speaker 1: make sure that everyone who works on the show is
Speaker 1: in a happy, peaceful, significant relationship with somebody before I
Speaker 1: focus on myself. Uh so far sysy check Tanya, I'm
Speaker 1: not sure. Tubs check Erica, un check Erica. You don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't hear much about Erica. She works behind the
Speaker 1: scenes here, she works for quite a while. She's been
Speaker 1: in and out of quarantine in her own bedroom at
Speaker 1: her parents house, which is depressing um and isolating, so
Speaker 1: we feel bad for her, Like put it out on
Speaker 1: paper like that, it's really that is not going well
Speaker 1: for me. And now she comes with a real dilemma
Speaker 1: and frankly question that I'm shocked to hear. So what's
Speaker 1: the issue, Erica. You're on hinge, right, You're you're looking
Speaker 1: for love on hinge. Yeah. Yeah, I'm back on Hinge recently,
Speaker 1: and I'll be like talking to a guy or FaceTime
Speaker 1: with a guy, start getting to you know, the next
Speaker 1: steps of meeting them, we're starting to date them, and
Speaker 1: I realize it's not going to go there for me.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to feel that, and I'm starting to
Speaker 1: wonder if I should start ghosting them because when I'm
Speaker 1: honest with them, I'm getting really rude responses in return. Well,
Speaker 1: then you know that's a red flag you're making a
Speaker 1: good mistake of people are rude to you when you
Speaker 1: say something honest. Yeah, that's true. But yeah, one guy,
Speaker 1: I said, I just don't think we're on the same page,
Speaker 1: and he was like, Frankly, you really don't know anything
Speaker 1: about me, so how could you possibly already know that?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, because you're sending me drunk selfies and
Speaker 1: I'm not interested, so should I just like that? And
Speaker 1: that's cool. So I'm gonna give bad advice that I
Speaker 1: would take, and that is, yes, I would just disappear
Speaker 1: on these guys if you're not feeling because it's weird
Speaker 1: for them to be rude to somebody they don't even know. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean, I think the most appropriate response would be
Speaker 1: I understand, right for them, I understand, you know, good
Speaker 1: luck with good luck and then move on. Like rejections
Speaker 1: not fun, but it's it's weird ghosting if you haven't
Speaker 1: met in real life. I think if you're talking on
Speaker 1: an app, it's easy just to be like, just stop responding.
Speaker 1: I used to do that all the time. I'm like
Speaker 1: the Queen of no response. So I don't owe them
Speaker 1: anything until what one date to dates until you feel
Speaker 1: like there might be a connection, um, you know, then
Speaker 1: there's a tiny you would ghost and then would they
Speaker 1: send question marks like customer mark question They would send
Speaker 1: the yea question mark and I just don't respond Erica
Speaker 1: the the the bad good advice is I'd rather you
Speaker 1: ghost then be honest and have guys be rude back
Speaker 1: to you. It's just a creepy feeling. Yeah, it's not good.
Speaker 1: And then what if they I run into them in public,
Speaker 1: and then it's a weird thing and they were mean, well,
Speaker 1: when are you going to get out of your parents bedroom?
Speaker 1: That that is a bigger issue. I don't know, probably soon,
Speaker 1: but like, you're still there. I'm looking at the door.
Speaker 1: You're still in your parents bedroom. No, I'm in my
Speaker 1: bedroom and your parents across the hall listening to this
Speaker 1: whole conversation. I have a nice view of like the
Speaker 1: outside right now, so we're all good. I see the
Speaker 1: outside of the outside twice if you need help. All right, well, Erica,
Speaker 1: good luck with the hinging tubbs found success on it? No, tubbs,
Speaker 1: it was tinder, it was tiny, and found success on it,
Speaker 1: but not really because he didn't. So good luck, all right, great,
Speaker 1: thank you. Air with Ryan's Secrets. Tell me something good,
Speaker 1: Lenaia and rever side, Lanaia, good morning, we are ready.
Speaker 1: We want good news. Tell us something good in your life. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I've had a horrible year. But then all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, after eleven years, a daughter, Jade, who has
Speaker 1: never in her life met her father, who was in
Speaker 1: the same city, has decided that since he's gone back
Speaker 1: to church and he's a good man, he's finally in
Speaker 1: her life, and it's like from zero to one hundred. Wait,
Speaker 1: were you trying to encourage her to meet her father
Speaker 1: before that? Or how did how did you get to
Speaker 1: this place? Well, she's only eleven, so she knew there
Speaker 1: was a man, but we didn't really get into it.
Speaker 1: And so I even told her, like his numbers in
Speaker 1: your phone because she has my old phones and stuff.
Speaker 1: And but I let it go because I mean, he
Speaker 1: didn't want to be there, so I don't want to
Speaker 1: say nothing. And so one day I finally found out
Speaker 1: he was going to church, and so I kind of
Speaker 1: sent a mean message and then he broke back, like
Speaker 1: I'm going to church because I want to meet Jade,
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, I'm just kidding, Like, but
Speaker 1: what's so funny is like the Ryan's Route, this thing
Speaker 1: where the guy didn't say he had a kid. That
Speaker 1: totally happened in the beginning of his relationship. He pretended
Speaker 1: like he didn't know he had Jade and like they
Speaker 1: found out at the same time together, which is so
Speaker 1: not true. He pretended he did not have a daughter
Speaker 1: to his whoever he was seeing. Yeah, and then and
Speaker 1: I told him, and then finally after I submitted for
Speaker 1: child support. He was like, Okay, I actually do because
Speaker 1: you can't hide that with it, you know, But are
Speaker 1: you are you happy that all this has come full
Speaker 1: circle and everybody's where they are now? Okay, I think
Speaker 1: so right? Oh yeah, it's just I didn't think he
Speaker 1: would ever come, and now he is, and he takes
Speaker 1: her shopping and we go to dinner and we actually
Speaker 1: hang out all like my fiance, his wife and all
Speaker 1: the kids, and that's awesome. It's a good situations happiness
Speaker 1: and positivity. Well, NANAA, thank you so much for calling.
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Good luck with it, keep it up.
Speaker 1: Thank you, I love you. I love you too. By bye.
Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacres, Hello, good morning. How are
Speaker 1: you good? Hey Ryan, how are you? I'm doing well, Stevie,
Speaker 1: thanks for asking. How can we help you? Um? I
Speaker 1: just had Oh so I go on this weekend trip
Speaker 1: right uh with this girl kind of seeing each other
Speaker 1: for about a week or two, and you know, my
Speaker 1: whole mindset is that I'm gonna have a nice weekend,
Speaker 1: pay for this hotel when it's been some time together,
Speaker 1: get close to each other, and I'm going in knowing
Speaker 1: that she's dealing with some family stuff, some emotional stuff
Speaker 1: with work. So my you know, expectations are, well, I'm gonna,
Speaker 1: you know, have I'm a helper, I'm gonna be there
Speaker 1: for her, and everything's gonna be really copathetic, and she's
Speaker 1: gonna fall in love with me, when in reality it
Speaker 1: was like the complete opposite. So she gets overwhelmed with everything.
Speaker 1: We end up fighting all weekend. Um, she's dealing with
Speaker 1: just a bunch of stuff, and instead of us getting closer,
Speaker 1: we kind of like moved apart from each other. And
Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was like my expectations, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, that we're that were wrong, or
Speaker 1: if it was just like the wrong weekend, because now
Speaker 1: we're not talking anymore. So we went from like hanging
Speaker 1: out every day, seeing each other, spending times together, going
Speaker 1: on this nice little weekend to like absolutely nothing. Now
Speaker 1: she's like, I need to spend my time and my
Speaker 1: energy focusing on work, focusing on my family, and I'm
Speaker 1: sitting here over here, like, well, I just spent like
Speaker 1: six hundred dollars for like this hotel, and now I
Speaker 1: don't know what to do. So yeah, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was kind of. It's just kind of crappy, little
Speaker 1: crappy situation and weekend. But you know, love is hard,
Speaker 1: and so did you? I did you? You fought the
Speaker 1: whole time? Then No, it was just like what Yeah,
Speaker 1: there was like moments, like little spats here and there
Speaker 1: where I definitely saw little aspects of her personality that
Speaker 1: came out, and I just I attributed it to her
Speaker 1: being like overwhelmed. I'm very patient, so me, I was
Speaker 1: just trying to be there for her do all these things,
Speaker 1: and it just became a point of contention. And then
Speaker 1: there was other aspects of it near the tail end,
Speaker 1: where it was like booking another trip on she was
Speaker 1: like looking a trip with her friends, like in front
Speaker 1: of me on the phone after like this trip went
Speaker 1: so wrong, and I was like, well that's kind of
Speaker 1: messed up too. I don't know, and again I don't
Speaker 1: know my own stuff. Yeah, but here's the thing, Stevie,
Speaker 1: I have to think of it this way. Maybe all
Speaker 1: of that happens so you could see her true self,
Speaker 1: because she sounds to me like these sound like little
Speaker 1: tiny potential buds of red flags, right, So if you
Speaker 1: think about it, maybe this all happened early, so you
Speaker 1: could see the unvarnished side of somebody. Because we're often
Speaker 1: on a performance mode first week, week and a half.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're like your best behavior. But those candid
Speaker 1: moments might be very, very telling about who she is
Speaker 1: once things go a different way or go longer with her,
Speaker 1: you know, Stevie, I might look at it that ye.
Speaker 1: For me, I just was like, you know, it's hard
Speaker 1: myself thinking that was my fault for setting certain expectations
Speaker 1: and when they weren't met, I put it on. I
Speaker 1: put on this on on me. You know, why don't
Speaker 1: you do if I want you to do this? Youmer me?
Speaker 1: I would file that and and really file that, okay,
Speaker 1: as important information to see if it's consistent with other
Speaker 1: things that happened along the way, because let's forgive, let's
Speaker 1: forgive once, and let's file it away. But let's see
Speaker 1: if there's a theme. Let's see if there's a consistency,
Speaker 1: and then you need to, like, I need to look
Speaker 1: inside of myself introspectively figure out that's something that I
Speaker 1: need to work on. You mean, no, I don't think
Speaker 1: it's about you. I think it's about much how she
Speaker 1: responded to certain things that bother. I would file that
Speaker 1: a way and see how things go. See her again
Speaker 1: and see how things go. And if you see any
Speaker 1: sort of consistent themes in how she's handling certain things
Speaker 1: that you don't feel all right, then you've then you've
Speaker 1: got to address it. I think gracist. I think she
Speaker 1: needs to make you more of a priority. And I
Speaker 1: know that she's got her own stuff going on. Whatever. Okay, fine,
Speaker 1: but it just sounded like we weren't but it wasn't
Speaker 1: sound like they were waying this weekend and he wasn't
Speaker 1: like top priority per se. And then she's starting to
Speaker 1: book a trip with her friends. So so just like
Speaker 1: I think we all want to be someone's top priority,
Speaker 1: and I get that sometimes you don't have to, you
Speaker 1: can't be, but you just got to look for that
Speaker 1: as well. I definitely felt like I wasn't, you know,
Speaker 1: considering everything I did that I wasn't like it, you know,
Speaker 1: a priority at all. So I was trying to understand
Speaker 1: her situation to its work and family stuff. But she's good.
Speaker 1: You sound like you're doing handling pretty well, Stevie. As
Speaker 1: you said, the beginning love is tough, alright, So take
Speaker 1: that advice as soon as you can appreciate. Thank you all.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, basically saying, Stevie, leave the door a jar.
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