WEBVTT - The Oddly Specific Pillow

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

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<v Speaker 1>A Wan air with a Ryan Seacrest a listener named

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<v Speaker 1>Lily Siss and he tagged us in the comments of

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<v Speaker 1>a TikTok video and wanted to get our thoughts. So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the original video is from someone named at

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<v Speaker 1>Christina makes Content. So she asked the question, what is

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<v Speaker 1>something incredibly immature you'll never stop doing? Here's what she said.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever since my X and I broke up and two

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<v Speaker 1>this in sixteen, I've had a very interesting tactic for revenge.

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<v Speaker 1>My revenge comes in the form of email newsletters. So

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm in the airport and I need an email

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<v Speaker 1>address to give to the airport so I can use

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<v Speaker 1>their WiFi, I give them his. If I want to

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<v Speaker 1>read an article and they needed an email, I'll send

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<v Speaker 1>them his. Do I want to be updated about events

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<v Speaker 1>and happenings in the company? Yes, And he doesn't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>And I will literally never stop doing it. Now, that's clever,

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<v Speaker 1>that's funny, you know. I think that's that's immature, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of not so mature because it's smart. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So she wants our take. I can't think of anything

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<v Speaker 1>off the top of my head. I want to like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm something totally immature. I mean, I'm sure if I

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<v Speaker 1>see if I'm texting with somebody and I see that

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<v Speaker 1>they're on their Instagram story, I'm like, I call them

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<v Speaker 1>out on it, so I'll be like, can you text

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<v Speaker 1>me back? I know you're on your phone. That's not immature.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think though, that's just kind of like direct. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I like I like teasing, Like I little things

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<v Speaker 1>that would kind of annoy Michael. I. I I like to

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<v Speaker 1>pinch his legs sometimes in bed, like with my toes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like those things are annoying. That's a different question,

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<v Speaker 1>Audrey holding on during that song. Are you how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Ryan? Everybody, how's it going? Hey? Ryan, thanks so

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<v Speaker 1>much for taking my call. Wow, I'm so excited for

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<v Speaker 1>you guys to give me some advice. Well, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for listening. How are you doing this morning? I'm okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay. It's a beautiful day. You know, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't complain. Well, here to ruin it with our advice.

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<v Speaker 1>We are, Um, what can we do for you? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So I've been going out with this guy. It's pretty new.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gone out like four times, I think, um, so

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<v Speaker 1>it's been going well, but I feel like there's this

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<v Speaker 1>little red flag. He's um, he's divorced, which is fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, Um, it's totally fine. I am too UM,

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<v Speaker 1>but his ex wife cuts his hair, and and they've

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<v Speaker 1>only been divorced for about a year year and a half,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, um, And I just don't know if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with that. Some of my friends say it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>good because guys who have good relationships with their exes

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<v Speaker 1>are good guys, and it's good that they have like

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<v Speaker 1>a friendship, which means that like they there wasn't anything

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<v Speaker 1>toxic going on, or he didn't cheat because like she

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be cutting his hair still. But I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>feel in my gut like it's it means he's too

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<v Speaker 1>connected to her. Um, he might have feelings for her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm gonna give you very specific reactions to

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<v Speaker 1>this because I have never had an ex wife, but

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<v Speaker 1>I have that girlfriends, and I like the notion of

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<v Speaker 1>being friends with anyone that i've dated after i've dated them,

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<v Speaker 1>and I appreciate and respect the relationship that we can

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<v Speaker 1>have after having a relationship together and when you think

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<v Speaker 1>about all the things that people teach you in your lives.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so much admiration to what they can bring into

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<v Speaker 1>your life. And when you look back they you know

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<v Speaker 1>they they've had an impact that's made you better or

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<v Speaker 1>think differently than That's such a great thing. So I

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<v Speaker 1>clearly don't mind now not I don't know, but the

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife part of it. I really like it when

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<v Speaker 1>people can remain friends with people who have been a

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<v Speaker 1>part of their lives. Sissany has a different opinion. Major,

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<v Speaker 1>major no. For me, I would be feeling all the

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<v Speaker 1>emotions that you're feeling right now, which is probably a

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<v Speaker 1>little jealousy, a little confusion, and I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here is the thing. I think there's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>balance between having a friendly relationship and having somebody cut

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<v Speaker 1>your hair. Like he can find somebody else to cut

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<v Speaker 1>his hair exactly. He can be friendly with her and

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<v Speaker 1>have a cordial relationship, which I do think is lovely

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<v Speaker 1>and fine, but he does not need to be having

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<v Speaker 1>her cut his hair. That's a good point. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good point, So we don't Sonny is saying she does

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<v Speaker 1>not mind the fact that there's an amicable break up

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<v Speaker 1>and that they have a friendship, which is okay because

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<v Speaker 1>when you've had someone close to you for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>they become your friend, they become your best friend. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I think that's fair to say, Look, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to cut her out of your life, but maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't cut your hair. Audrey. That's that's actually finally

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<v Speaker 1>some good advice from this show. Alright, I'll keep us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's a good happy medium. Sure. Ben. How are

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<v Speaker 1>you man? How you doing Ben? I'm good? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing doing well? Ben? So you're calling about a

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<v Speaker 1>woman at work? Yeah, what happened? So there was a

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a teacher, and there was this teacher that was

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<v Speaker 1>hired probably a few months ago, and we've become closer

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<v Speaker 1>friends than any other coworker I've had, and we've been

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<v Speaker 1>texting and we talked on the phone a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't know if I should go for

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<v Speaker 1>this because we worked so closely together, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>just keeping the conversation going. And then I heard her,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a conversation with our boss the other day

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<v Speaker 1>of what she's doing this weekend, and she was like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hanging out with my boyfriend and we're doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, wait, We've been talking for months and there's

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<v Speaker 1>been no conversation of a boyfriend, and she's been super

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<v Speaker 1>flirty with me, and now all of a sudden, I

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<v Speaker 1>find out not through her, that there's a guy involved.

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<v Speaker 1>So do I go for it? No? She has a boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>What you Well, clearly she's confused, but that guy Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to put things into perspective, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try. Do you really want to be with someone

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<v Speaker 1>that flirts with you and has a boyfriend means that

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<v Speaker 1>really you want to live with that anxiety every single

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<v Speaker 1>Monday night. Well, I don't have to be in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with her. I'm just saying, Look, then obviously you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do what you want to do. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>if you really want to be around somebody and cultivate

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, then you probably don't want to start it

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<v Speaker 1>off with somebody that's already flirting with you while she's

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<v Speaker 1>got a significant other. Just seems like the wrong character

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<v Speaker 1>trait to me. Mm hmmm. I just think it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>that she's never brought up the boyfriend, and then clearly

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't want you to know she had a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe she doesn't want to company. Maybe it's new.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they just established it became boyfriend friend. Maybe they

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<v Speaker 1>were in the great territory for a while and they

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<v Speaker 1>just established it. Or Ben, maybe she didn't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to know about her personal life. You do work with her,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she wanted to keep that sacred. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think what Benn is asking is do I just

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<v Speaker 1>continue to hook up with her but not really try

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<v Speaker 1>to create those relationship type emotions. Well, the answers again,

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<v Speaker 1>no still no, no, no, no still, I mean I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still out of no and we've been talking for two

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<v Speaker 1>minutes and twenty seven seconds. Ben, Um, But I do

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<v Speaker 1>think that if you just want to hang out with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>then find someone hang out with that doesn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>significant other. It makes life a lot easier, you'll sleep better.

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<v Speaker 1>Then yeah, you're gonna get hurt in the end. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I found someone, and then surprise, boyfriend, move on?

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<v Speaker 1>Time to move on? Then thanks for calling? I like

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<v Speaker 1>I like Ben. You know, Ben is trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the right thing to do. But he calls and

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<v Speaker 1>he asked for advice and we give it to Then

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to argue with the advice. I just still

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<v Speaker 1>hook up with it now, circles. I know that feeling though,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you know it's wrong, you know it's wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>but you want to just trick your brain. Yeah, men

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<v Speaker 1>want what they can't have. We all want what we

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<v Speaker 1>can't have. It's not just men, Okay, Kanya just generalizing

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<v Speaker 1>entire gender. Tired genders generalize there, that's not totally true.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever since she's gotten back with Socrates, she's become the

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<v Speaker 1>be all no of all relationships. Get your hand off

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<v Speaker 1>your hip. Kickball change, all right, we can all kickball change.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because you're back in the second time around, so

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<v Speaker 1>perfect doesn't mean that you've written the book on all

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<v Speaker 1>of everybody's relationships and everybody's feelings, all of men and

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<v Speaker 1>all of women. So you know, they say, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like sell your home or get somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>rent an apartment, that you bake when they come over

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<v Speaker 1>to see it, and put like a pan of cookies,

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<v Speaker 1>or bake some fresh bread banana bread or sukini bread

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<v Speaker 1>or carrot bread in there. So and I'm a sucker

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<v Speaker 1>for it. That just puts it actually does something chemically

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<v Speaker 1>to you, makes it feel homey, that's right. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking at bake bread, this is your morning hack

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<v Speaker 1>for the morning thought. This might be good. Um, so

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<v Speaker 1>it never comes out too dry in the oven. Put

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<v Speaker 1>a second pan with eight ice cubes in it, one

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<v Speaker 1>rack below your bread. So put the bread in then

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<v Speaker 1>underneath eight ice cubes in it one below. The steam

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<v Speaker 1>from the melting ice makes it moist. This isn't It

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<v Speaker 1>on air with Ryan Secrets, let me grab Brian in

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<v Speaker 1>Riverside morning, Brian, how you doing there? I'm good. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you today? Ryan? I'm doing fine? Thank you. So

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<v Speaker 1>it says here your X started reaching out to some

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<v Speaker 1>of your friends. Yes, what do you mean? You broke

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<v Speaker 1>up with your AX? And then what we haven't since then?

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<v Speaker 1>This was about a couple of months ago, and just

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<v Speaker 1>recently I found out that she's been having lunch with

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<v Speaker 1>a few of my girlfriends. Who are you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>actually just friends? And I've just been wondering, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>what is kind of the reason because they weren't normally

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<v Speaker 1>the type to kind of talk and go out like that. So,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's keeping tabs on me trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>back together, like I don't know how, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>to what extent, but are these friends of yours? Friends?

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<v Speaker 1>She normally what you actually normally would not hang out with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what if she has a friendship with them too.

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<v Speaker 1>This is always the difficult thing with a breakup. H Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of having mutual friends type of thing, I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to expect them to kind of go out

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<v Speaker 1>regularly like that they were more of just like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>when we see each other, we're kind of just warm,

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<v Speaker 1>warm enough to each other. Uh, like mutile friends rather

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<v Speaker 1>than the ones who would really interact with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean looked in a breakup, there is

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<v Speaker 1>a category of mutual shared friends that just part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You kind of just need you know, if they if

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<v Speaker 1>they are friends of yours and friends of hers during

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<v Speaker 1>and you split up, then you can't expect them to

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<v Speaker 1>two sides and that's difficult. But if these are friends

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<v Speaker 1>or women that she's hanging out with, it she normally

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't even talk to then trying to make an effort

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<v Speaker 1>to stay connected to your friend group, Yeah, she's putting

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<v Speaker 1>off deelers. You just put off feelers to go back to.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, sir, you want nothing to do with

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<v Speaker 1>his friends. If you want nothing to do with him, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're reaching out and trying to like meet up and

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<v Speaker 1>have lunch or coffee with one of his girlfriends from

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<v Speaker 1>his Are you with someone else now? Brian No, I

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<v Speaker 1>was still simple at this moment. Okay, well then let's see.

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<v Speaker 1>I think let's see what happens. Let's see if if

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<v Speaker 1>you know, messages are coming to you, and how would

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<v Speaker 1>you feel if she continues to be in your circle?

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<v Speaker 1>Like if she starts building off of this relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>these girlfriends and now she's like coming around at parties

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<v Speaker 1>and dinners and things like that, I would it become

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<v Speaker 1>a weird u because if it became kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>more frequent thing, it would kind of be and it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like, well, what is what is behind this?

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably take if it really got into the

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<v Speaker 1>point where it was it was more frequent, I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably take the just asking like hey, what is what

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of going on? But yeah, yeah, well Brett,

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<v Speaker 1>have you We're gonna let you go now. But have

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<v Speaker 1>you moved past her? Are you? Have you moved on? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>It's still it's still pretty fresh. We're with each other

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<v Speaker 1>for about two years. Uh, well, there's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>slippery slope then if she's still hanging out with your

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<v Speaker 1>tight group. But let's let play out. Good luck, Bryant

0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:55.319
<v Speaker 1>thank you for reaching out. Yeah, you know there are

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<v Speaker 1>there is a shared friends group when you have a breakup,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't expect anybody to choose sides when they're

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<v Speaker 1>good friends of both. You can't no that. It just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of happens naturally. Carry good morning, Good morning. How

0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.480
<v Speaker 1>are you doing. I'm great? How are you? I'm well?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? So tell us how can we help you? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to say this. Um, you kept talking

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<v Speaker 1>about this new tender update, and I feel like I

0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:28.800
<v Speaker 1>know you really well. I watch you every morning, so

0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can tell you when you're wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh sure you can't. I'm I'm used to it. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>So you kept talking about how it's going to make

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<v Speaker 1>it to that you don't run into your boss or

0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:43.680
<v Speaker 1>your ex. What about all of the people that are

0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:46.880
<v Speaker 1>now going to be blocking their contacts as in their

0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:51.880
<v Speaker 1>wife or their husband and end up on Ryan's roses? Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're going back, and I appreciate being caught out

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<v Speaker 1>on this. Did I bring this up? Or did Tiny

0:14:56.800 --> 0:15:00.320
<v Speaker 1>bring this up? I brought this up. You should be

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at I love you. But the culprit here, just

0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:11.200
<v Speaker 1>the messenger. So what happened with Tinder. I remember this. Basically,

0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:13.600
<v Speaker 1>they made it so that you can block your contacts

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<v Speaker 1>so that you don't have to accidentally swipe on a cousin. Carry.

0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.840
<v Speaker 1>Now you're gonna help. You're gonna help protect people from

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan's roses. Here's the thing. If if you're blocking your

0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:27.720
<v Speaker 1>husband and your wife on Tinder, like you've got bigger

0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:34.520
<v Speaker 1>problems than just car behind dating app. Are you on Tinder? No? No, no,

0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm happily engaged. So I just playing this out. So

0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:43.360
<v Speaker 1>if someone were not happily engaged, they could block out

0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:45.920
<v Speaker 1>their fiance and still be on Tinder and their fiance

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<v Speaker 1>would never see them, right, It's like, sure, that's what

0:15:50.600 --> 0:15:52.760
<v Speaker 1>thought I had. Yeah, that's bad news. I didn't even

0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:58.440
<v Speaker 1>think of that, And then they carry Thank you for

0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:02.960
<v Speaker 1>listening to us, appreciate it you calling us. Oh of course,

0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:05.560
<v Speaker 1>I love you guys, all of you. You know, this

0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:13.000
<v Speaker 1>show is in podcast form on a regular now. Anybody

0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:16.880
<v Speaker 1>who's not around or wants to hear it, missed it. Whatever,

0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.280
<v Speaker 1>It's on I Heart Radio on a podcast where we

0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:25.120
<v Speaker 1>get your podcast right on air with Ryan Seacrest podcast. Okay, good, yeah,

0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:30.240
<v Speaker 1>keep us posted. Thank you for calling on air with

0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest on a two point seven kiss up. Then

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<v Speaker 1>it's time for Ryan's roses. Let's get Natalie on the phone. Natalie,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for sending us your emails. So your husband

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<v Speaker 1>has a unique pillo. I actually have this same temper

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<v Speaker 1>panick pillow. I don't know if it's the same firmness,

0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.600
<v Speaker 1>but I have that pillow, um, and I take it everywhere.

0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:54.200
<v Speaker 1>But you say, you've never seen this pillow anywhere else,

0:16:54.720 --> 0:16:58.120
<v Speaker 1>And you follow his ex girlfriend on Instagram and the

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<v Speaker 1>other day she was doing a story from bed and

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<v Speaker 1>the pillow next or was the same pillow that he uses, right, yep,

0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.639
<v Speaker 1>that's right. So what do you make of that? I mean,

0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I have the same pillows, So it's not like I

0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.919
<v Speaker 1>would be with your husband, right, So why do you

0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:16.520
<v Speaker 1>think that she's with him? Well, I mean, I've never

0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:18.879
<v Speaker 1>seen it anywhere else before. We have a very close

0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:23.840
<v Speaker 1>like friend group, and UM, I mean it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>weird that I saw it. So he's been traveling a

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<v Speaker 1>lot for work, and um, you know, things started opening up,

0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:34.560
<v Speaker 1>so we started traveling again, and UM, I just had

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<v Speaker 1>a really bad feeling after I saw her story and

0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I saw that pillow. One likely scenario. For example, if

0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I had that pillow for years and then I broke

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<v Speaker 1>up with my girlfriend and left the pillow, the pillow

0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:53.280
<v Speaker 1>would still be there. So it's possible. Maybe could be. No,

0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:57.600
<v Speaker 1>he bought the pillows, um, So I went through his

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon history and he thought the pillows from Amazon and

0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:04.520
<v Speaker 1>when he bought him, he bought two of them. Where's

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<v Speaker 1>the seconde? What happened? Could one be his travel pillow

0:18:08.320 --> 0:18:09.800
<v Speaker 1>so that he doesn't have to keep moving and it

0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:13.399
<v Speaker 1>could be? Um, But I actually just asked him. I

0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:15.439
<v Speaker 1>asked him why he ordered two of them, and he

0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.199
<v Speaker 1>said he travels with one. So I said, you know,

0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:20.359
<v Speaker 1>like let me see it. And that's when it was

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<v Speaker 1>like magically as dissipote appeared and he left it in

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<v Speaker 1>a hotel room somewhere. And I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel right about it. Natalie. How long you've been married? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>About six years. It seemed a little bit of stress

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<v Speaker 1>because I have that pillow, so it's not so crazy

0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:39.159
<v Speaker 1>and unique to have that pill to me and I

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<v Speaker 1>have two one I have in my bed and want

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<v Speaker 1>I have in my bag. Interesting for traveling, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>then wouldn't it be in a pillow case, and you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be able to tell which pillow it was. Well,

0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:56.159
<v Speaker 1>they are different shaped. Yeah, even in a case, you

0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:59.040
<v Speaker 1>can tell this pillow it's a different shape. It's got

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<v Speaker 1>that little way for your neck, like the depth for

0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:04.439
<v Speaker 1>your neck. So, Natalie, I need you to say Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>you my permission to call, and then your husband's name

0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:09.840
<v Speaker 1>on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission

0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:13.600
<v Speaker 1>to call. We're gonna call him. Now. Be very quiet

0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:14.840
<v Speaker 1>till we tell me he's on the air. Let's see

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<v Speaker 1>we can find out. Okay, okay, all right, good luck.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello. Hi is this Davis? Yeah? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hi Davis? My name is lu Anne. I'm

0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:40.800
<v Speaker 1>calling from Lulu's Blooms. We're actually a floral design shop

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<v Speaker 1>here in Chatsworth. How are you doing this morning? I'm good.

0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:47.000
<v Speaker 1>How can I help you? Um? Well, you know, we're

0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:49.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to promote our delivery business, so we're offering local

0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:52.399
<v Speaker 1>residents of promotion today of free roses. That means that

0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:54.360
<v Speaker 1>you can send them to anybody that you'd like. They're

0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:57.080
<v Speaker 1>absolutely free. We just hope that you refers to friends

0:19:57.119 --> 0:19:59.720
<v Speaker 1>and family or leave us a Yelp review. Um, you

0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:02.959
<v Speaker 1>can who's from pink red white Roses and they can

0:20:03.000 --> 0:20:07.880
<v Speaker 1>receive them by lunchtime today. Really, there's no catch. They're

0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:11.680
<v Speaker 1>like legitimately free. I don't need any credit card, info,

0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:15.679
<v Speaker 1>cash anything like that. They're absolutely free. Um, if you

0:20:15.720 --> 0:20:19.159
<v Speaker 1>have the name of the persons too, we can start there. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. Congrat congratulations on a starting a new business.

0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:28.320
<v Speaker 1>That's a big deal these days. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually do have someone that I'd like to send some to.

0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:35.560
<v Speaker 1>Um you can put on the card. Her name is Brian. Okay,

0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:39.520
<v Speaker 1>and do you need like a you know, do you

0:20:39.520 --> 0:20:43.040
<v Speaker 1>want something like you know, like a saying or something. Yeah,

0:20:43.040 --> 0:20:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, who's Brian to you? Because we have a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of different types of cards that like say I

0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:49.399
<v Speaker 1>love you, and one's with hearts. Oh no, she's just

0:20:49.480 --> 0:20:52.479
<v Speaker 1>a friend. She's UM, she's got a job interview, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I just wanted to wish your good luck. So

0:20:54.119 --> 0:20:55.600
<v Speaker 1>if you can just write on the card good luck

0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:58.760
<v Speaker 1>on your interview, I love David, and then send that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just the regular card is Davis. Your voice is being

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<v Speaker 1>broadcast on the radio. I need you to know that

0:21:03.359 --> 0:21:05.400
<v Speaker 1>we have your wife Natalie on the phone. Natalie. What's

0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:11.320
<v Speaker 1>Davis's ex girlfriend's name? Davis? What? What? What's going on?

0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:13.879
<v Speaker 1>Let me let me, let me explain. Your wife has

0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:15.880
<v Speaker 1>asked us to call you because she thinks that maybe

0:21:15.880 --> 0:21:18.439
<v Speaker 1>you're spending time with your ex girlfriend. Now you've just

0:21:18.520 --> 0:21:24.000
<v Speaker 1>sent noses to your ex girlfriend. You weren't, That's not

0:21:24.040 --> 0:21:27.200
<v Speaker 1>what you told Sissony. Who's the other voice you're hearing? Uh?

0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:29.719
<v Speaker 1>And you said good luck on your interview love Davis.

0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:34.879
<v Speaker 1>So are you spending time with your ex girlfriend? Davis? No,

0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:39.080
<v Speaker 1>we we are still friends. We text and talk. I'm

0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:41.399
<v Speaker 1>not spending time with her. I was just trying to

0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:44.680
<v Speaker 1>be a a good supportive friends. There's nothing going on.

0:21:45.440 --> 0:21:49.280
<v Speaker 1>I just you know, on are you spending your ex

0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:54.000
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend roses? Like? What are you doing? Oh? It's listen.

0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:56.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you it's nothing. I don't know what you

0:21:56.160 --> 0:21:59.560
<v Speaker 1>think is happening. I honestly was just trying to be supportive.

0:21:59.600 --> 0:22:01.160
<v Speaker 1>You know what talk. I tell you all the time

0:22:01.200 --> 0:22:03.040
<v Speaker 1>that I that I but you also know that I'm

0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:05.600
<v Speaker 1>just not comfortable with you being so close to her

0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:07.880
<v Speaker 1>and now you're sending her flowers that that's a problem

0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:13.800
<v Speaker 1>to me. Look, I don't know what what's going on here?

0:22:13.840 --> 0:22:16.119
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you have me on the radio. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you, I was just sort your travel pillow in

0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:24.320
<v Speaker 1>her bed. What what are you talking about? The distinctive

0:22:24.320 --> 0:22:26.680
<v Speaker 1>temper petic pillow you have? I saw it in Brand's

0:22:26.680 --> 0:22:31.840
<v Speaker 1>bed from her Instagram story. Okay, well that's not mine.

0:22:31.960 --> 0:22:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're talking about. Like maybe at

0:22:35.040 --> 0:22:37.080
<v Speaker 1>one point I mentioned it to her and she got

0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:39.600
<v Speaker 1>herself one, But that's not mine. I told you I

0:22:39.640 --> 0:22:41.840
<v Speaker 1>bought too so I could travel with one, and then

0:22:41.840 --> 0:22:43.720
<v Speaker 1>I left the other in a hotel somewhere. I told

0:22:43.720 --> 0:22:46.040
<v Speaker 1>you this. I don't know what you think is going on,

0:22:46.720 --> 0:22:50.119
<v Speaker 1>but I'm telling you nothing is going on. Just a

0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:53.680
<v Speaker 1>little too close for comfort. It's something's not right. It

0:22:55.560 --> 0:22:58.480
<v Speaker 1>is very coincidental. And also, David, if you know that

0:22:58.520 --> 0:23:00.960
<v Speaker 1>your wife is uncomfortable with you in touch with your ex,

0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:04.040
<v Speaker 1>and then you send her red roses with love on

0:23:04.080 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 1>the card, aren't you feeling inside like you're pushing the

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:11.560
<v Speaker 1>limit a little bit? I honestly, we have talked about

0:23:11.560 --> 0:23:14.280
<v Speaker 1>her comfortability with my ex, but it's never gotten to

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>a point where she said I can't reach out and

0:23:16.960 --> 0:23:21.240
<v Speaker 1>be stay friends with my ex. So I flowers roses.

0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:29.879
<v Speaker 1>She has a really big job interview, and I was

0:23:29.960 --> 0:23:34.000
<v Speaker 1>just trying to be nice. Who cares? How about your wife?

0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:38.960
<v Speaker 1>All right, well, listen, listen to David's and now I

0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:41.280
<v Speaker 1>will let you go with this. I mean that it's

0:23:41.359 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot of coincidence, and I agree that he shouldn't

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:47.080
<v Speaker 1>be sending her roses. It's a bit tone deaf. David's

0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:49.760
<v Speaker 1>a bit tone deaf, all right. You know, it is

0:23:49.800 --> 0:23:52.720
<v Speaker 1>interesting how the Instagram story can have something in the

0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:56.280
<v Speaker 1>background that strikes you. And that's what happened with Natalie,

0:23:56.600 --> 0:24:00.920
<v Speaker 1>her husband of six years. She she she's following even

0:24:00.920 --> 0:24:04.080
<v Speaker 1>think about this, So she's following his ex. Yeah, that's

0:24:04.080 --> 0:24:06.199
<v Speaker 1>a whole other thing. Right now, she's probably creeping on

0:24:06.200 --> 0:24:09.560
<v Speaker 1>it on her fins to, right, But then she's still checking.

0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:12.520
<v Speaker 1>So Natalie, his wife, is checking out his ex girlfriend

0:24:12.600 --> 0:24:15.520
<v Speaker 1>through fins to or however, it doesn't matter. But he's like,

0:24:15.560 --> 0:24:20.200
<v Speaker 1>that's already kind of playing with fire. Unhealthy. It's unhealthy.

0:24:20.400 --> 0:24:23.560
<v Speaker 1>You have to stop that. That's not great. But she

0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:29.520
<v Speaker 1>was worried about him staying in touch with her, which

0:24:29.520 --> 0:24:33.080
<v Speaker 1>is why she's probably checking out her story all the time. Anyway,

0:24:33.160 --> 0:24:37.240
<v Speaker 1>in his ex girlfriend's story. There was this temperpedic pillow

0:24:37.960 --> 0:24:39.879
<v Speaker 1>that is very easy to spot. I have it. I

0:24:39.920 --> 0:24:41.399
<v Speaker 1>mean it looks a little goofy when I'm carrying it

0:24:41.400 --> 0:24:45.320
<v Speaker 1>around myself, but I do. And she thought, wait, he

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:47.840
<v Speaker 1>has two of those, one has gone missing ones at

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:53.679
<v Speaker 1>his ex girlfriend. Maybe something's going on, could be. But

0:24:53.960 --> 0:24:57.760
<v Speaker 1>more importantly, he knows that she's uncomfortable with him staying

0:24:57.760 --> 0:25:00.200
<v Speaker 1>in touch with his ex, and he went ahead, didn't

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:02.240
<v Speaker 1>think of his wife and just sent the roses to

0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 1>his ex in support of a job interview. Now, the

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:06.600
<v Speaker 1>fact that he knows the date of the job interview

0:25:06.880 --> 0:25:09.919
<v Speaker 1>is a little close, isn't it. It's too close? And

0:25:09.960 --> 0:25:12.800
<v Speaker 1>even if she wasn't an ex, being married and sending

0:25:12.800 --> 0:25:15.800
<v Speaker 1>flowers to another woman for good luck on your job

0:25:15.800 --> 0:25:19.040
<v Speaker 1>interviews seems sketch like I would be uncomfortable if Michael

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:25.040
<v Speaker 1>did that some flowers? Is that Tania? Good luck on

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:32.960
<v Speaker 1>your interview? Love Michael? And you didn't know? So that's strange, Taylor.

0:25:33.040 --> 0:25:35.119
<v Speaker 1>Now what do you think you heard that? Do you

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:39.919
<v Speaker 1>think he's cheating or just making bad judgment calls? I

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 1>hate to say this, but I one d think he's

0:25:44.680 --> 0:25:48.040
<v Speaker 1>cheating with Brianne, like, yeah, he bought two of those pillows,

0:25:48.320 --> 0:25:51.160
<v Speaker 1>one for himself and one for Brianne. And I bet

0:25:51.200 --> 0:25:54.600
<v Speaker 1>if she checks, he's probably buying two of everything deodorant

0:25:54.880 --> 0:25:58.800
<v Speaker 1>razors and there's probably closed missing from their house because

0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:06.400
<v Speaker 1>it's at Brianne's. You, yeah, I hate it. It's something's wrong.

0:26:06.760 --> 0:26:10.080
<v Speaker 1>Something's wrong, for sure. I agree with you. Thank you

0:26:10.119 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 1>for calling. You make the point about the razors. I

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:14.399
<v Speaker 1>have to tell you, I have to one of my

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:18.120
<v Speaker 1>shower one at my encounter. So I went and got

0:26:18.200 --> 0:26:22.359
<v Speaker 1>some of the ones that were probably duplicated that are pink,

0:26:23.119 --> 0:26:25.760
<v Speaker 1>and now in me too, And now in my shower,

0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I have one that's double lubricated pink with the nice

0:26:28.880 --> 0:26:32.800
<v Speaker 1>bumper around it, and I've got my yeah maybe called

0:26:33.000 --> 0:26:36.120
<v Speaker 1>it's called maybe called that, and I've got magelet sensor. Now,

0:26:36.240 --> 0:26:40.119
<v Speaker 1>if you were to walk into my shower and see

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:44.280
<v Speaker 1>that and I were in a relationship, that would possibly

0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:48.919
<v Speaker 1>be a red flag. But it's mine, then I'd be like,

0:26:49.000 --> 0:26:54.160
<v Speaker 1>that makes a lot of sense now because it's mine. Yeah,

0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:56.840
<v Speaker 1>because you know, you kind of like really things. It's

0:26:56.840 --> 0:26:59.560
<v Speaker 1>not like really things. I just like maintaining myself. Yeah,

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I've a little sauce. If we were newly dating, I'd

0:27:02.080 --> 0:27:06.280
<v Speaker 1>be like, well I'm saying it now, okay, And frankly

0:27:06.960 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>all men should have this. It feels so good that

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:19.639
<v Speaker 1>bumper around it. Yeah barely. It's just like you know,

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:25.760
<v Speaker 1>it needs sup shaving and the way it's so weighty. Heads.

0:27:29.160 --> 0:27:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Derek is on the line here, Derek in Fullerton, Derek,

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 1>good morning, Good morning Ryan. How are you doing all right? Man?

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for asking? What's up? How can we help you? Um?

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:42.119
<v Speaker 1>I got like a weird dilemma. I just want to

0:27:42.119 --> 0:27:44.879
<v Speaker 1>see if I'm I'm the bad guy here. I have

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:48.239
<v Speaker 1>a roommate. Every morning, I drew coffee as most people do,

0:27:48.400 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and I put creamer in that coffee, um, and I

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:55.840
<v Speaker 1>think it expired two three days ago, which means it's

0:27:55.880 --> 0:28:00.360
<v Speaker 1>so good, you know. And I went to go my

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:02.280
<v Speaker 1>morning or team before work. I go to get the

0:28:02.280 --> 0:28:05.080
<v Speaker 1>creamer out of the fridge and it's not there, and

0:28:05.240 --> 0:28:07.120
<v Speaker 1>there's still some left, you know, maybe like two cups

0:28:07.160 --> 0:28:09.280
<v Speaker 1>of coffee left. And I look in the trash and

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>it's there and it's empty. And I didn't do it.

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:13.600
<v Speaker 1>And I only have two other people who live in

0:28:13.640 --> 0:28:16.960
<v Speaker 1>my house. Am I crazy for being upset about that

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:19.240
<v Speaker 1>that one of my roommates used the last of my

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 1>cream in their coffee and then a third away without asking. Yeah, yeah,

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean because no, no, you're not crazy. You're in

0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:29.439
<v Speaker 1>the right, because to me, it's a sign of a

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:32.879
<v Speaker 1>bigger problem. Right, the creamer is just a tool. The

0:28:32.960 --> 0:28:34.840
<v Speaker 1>creamer is just the creamer. But it could have been

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:38.120
<v Speaker 1>a pizza, It could have been a meal that you

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:40.479
<v Speaker 1>were because I will tell you saying, Derek, this has

0:28:40.520 --> 0:28:43.479
<v Speaker 1>happened to me in the past, and I resent it still.

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I literally will put something in the refrigerad, put some

0:28:47.520 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 1>in the refrigerator. And I was so stoked about having

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:52.720
<v Speaker 1>when I got home, I was picturing it all day

0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:54.680
<v Speaker 1>and it was gone, and it was left over from

0:28:54.720 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 1>the night before. But I love I really love left

0:28:57.600 --> 0:29:01.760
<v Speaker 1>especially tortillas, like tortillas called enchilad it's cold, I love

0:29:01.880 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I love them cold. And I had

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>a container of cheese enchilades with chopped onions on top

0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 1>from the night before. And I came back and Tenas

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:15.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him out, ten as my old roommate.

0:29:15.960 --> 0:29:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I still he denies it, but I still think he

0:29:18.240 --> 0:29:25.040
<v Speaker 1>ate them because they weren't there, so well you you

0:29:26.200 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 1>accused him of stealing and saying, look, this is not

0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:31.880
<v Speaker 1>about the creamer. This is about a bigger notion. You know,

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:34.000
<v Speaker 1>if you took the last of the creamer, what you

0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:35.640
<v Speaker 1>took the last of the dinner. I was looking forward

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:37.720
<v Speaker 1>to the last of the groceries. I stop for. I mean,

0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>he just can't do that. It's just not It's not

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:47.320
<v Speaker 1>the size of the violation. It's the violation. And Derek creamer,

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:50.240
<v Speaker 1>what's in creamer? Does it ever go bad? I don't

0:29:50.240 --> 0:29:53.880
<v Speaker 1>even know if it's cream is it all right? It

0:29:53.920 --> 0:29:59.040
<v Speaker 1>does go bad, but like a while years after spices are.

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:01.880
<v Speaker 1>It's the violation, not the size of it. So yeah,

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I would. I would address it head on. Bro it happens,

0:30:04.040 --> 0:30:05.800
<v Speaker 1>if it could get worse. If you don't address it now,

0:30:05.840 --> 0:30:08.000
<v Speaker 1>it gets worse, becomes other things. They're using yours and

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:19.480
<v Speaker 1>take your girl. Yeah exactly, you guys, all right, that'll

0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:23.320
<v Speaker 1>motivate you. She's not wrong. Give him an inch, they

0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 1>take a yard. Yeah. Respect, you gotta lay down the

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 1>law trillion. It's not the creamers about his girl. It's

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>about self respect, boundaries, self respect, and self confidence, and

0:30:42.520 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>it's about because you too live alone. So everything you

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 1>have in your fridge right now is yours, Like you

0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:50.360
<v Speaker 1>live in a house with every it's a free for all.

0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Like I'll buy something, it might be gone tomorrow, Like

0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. I know I have lived in

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 1>a home with a plethora of women in my day

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:01.480
<v Speaker 1>and we did not. No, you got it. You can't

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:02.920
<v Speaker 1>do that. If you want to share, you can say

0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 1>this is for the house, and you share. But if

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:07.400
<v Speaker 1>you take the last of anything, you buy a new one,

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 1>you replace and replenish. It is a rule that it

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 1>doesn't sign on the door, replace and replenish and recycle.

0:31:19.680 --> 0:31:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Like we've often said that, I feel a responsibility to

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:25.080
<v Speaker 1>make sure that everyone who works on the show is

0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 1>in a happy, peaceful, significant relationship with somebody before I

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:34.240
<v Speaker 1>focus on myself. Uh so far sysy check Tanya, I'm

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 1>not sure. Tubs check Erica, un check Erica. You don't know.

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>You don't hear much about Erica. She works behind the

0:31:41.760 --> 0:31:44.760
<v Speaker 1>scenes here, she works for quite a while. She's been

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 1>in and out of quarantine in her own bedroom at

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:53.760
<v Speaker 1>her parents house, which is depressing um and isolating, so

0:31:54.000 --> 0:31:57.400
<v Speaker 1>we feel bad for her, Like put it out on

0:31:57.480 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 1>paper like that, it's really that is not going well

0:32:01.040 --> 0:32:06.080
<v Speaker 1>for me. And now she comes with a real dilemma

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>and frankly question that I'm shocked to hear. So what's

0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 1>the issue, Erica. You're on hinge, right, You're you're looking

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:15.600
<v Speaker 1>for love on hinge. Yeah. Yeah, I'm back on Hinge recently,

0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>and I'll be like talking to a guy or FaceTime

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 1>with a guy, start getting to you know, the next

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:24.320
<v Speaker 1>steps of meeting them, we're starting to date them, and

0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I realize it's not going to go there for me.

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to feel that, and I'm starting to

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 1>wonder if I should start ghosting them because when I'm

0:32:33.560 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 1>honest with them, I'm getting really rude responses in return. Well,

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 1>then you know that's a red flag you're making a

0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:41.200
<v Speaker 1>good mistake of people are rude to you when you

0:32:41.200 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 1>say something honest. Yeah, that's true. But yeah, one guy,

0:32:44.720 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>I said, I just don't think we're on the same page,

0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, Frankly, you really don't know anything

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.200
<v Speaker 1>about me, so how could you possibly already know that?

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:54.640
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, because you're sending me drunk selfies and

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested, so should I just like that? And

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 1>that's cool. So I'm gonna give bad advice that I

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:11.120
<v Speaker 1>would take, and that is, yes, I would just disappear

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:14.400
<v Speaker 1>on these guys if you're not feeling because it's weird

0:33:14.440 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>for them to be rude to somebody they don't even know. Um,

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think the most appropriate response would be

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I understand, right for them, I understand, you know, good

0:33:23.680 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>luck with good luck and then move on. Like rejections

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>not fun, but it's it's weird ghosting if you haven't

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:33.160
<v Speaker 1>met in real life. I think if you're talking on

0:33:33.200 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>an app, it's easy just to be like, just stop responding.

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I used to do that all the time. I'm like

0:33:37.200 --> 0:33:40.840
<v Speaker 1>the Queen of no response. So I don't owe them

0:33:40.880 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 1>anything until what one date to dates until you feel

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:48.200
<v Speaker 1>like there might be a connection, um, you know, then

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:50.200
<v Speaker 1>there's a tiny you would ghost and then would they

0:33:50.240 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 1>send question marks like customer mark question They would send

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:57.280
<v Speaker 1>the yea question mark and I just don't respond Erica

0:33:57.360 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 1>the the the bad good advice is I'd rather you

0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:06.800
<v Speaker 1>ghost then be honest and have guys be rude back

0:34:06.840 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>to you. It's just a creepy feeling. Yeah, it's not good.

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:11.760
<v Speaker 1>And then what if they I run into them in public,

0:34:11.800 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 1>and then it's a weird thing and they were mean, well,

0:34:14.200 --> 0:34:15.800
<v Speaker 1>when are you going to get out of your parents bedroom?

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:19.279
<v Speaker 1>That that is a bigger issue. I don't know, probably soon,

0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:22.520
<v Speaker 1>but like, you're still there. I'm looking at the door.

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:25.719
<v Speaker 1>You're still in your parents bedroom. No, I'm in my

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:30.200
<v Speaker 1>bedroom and your parents across the hall listening to this

0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:33.719
<v Speaker 1>whole conversation. I have a nice view of like the

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 1>outside right now, so we're all good. I see the

0:34:36.080 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 1>outside of the outside twice if you need help. All right, well, Erica,

0:34:42.360 --> 0:34:45.960
<v Speaker 1>good luck with the hinging tubbs found success on it? No, tubbs,

0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:48.319
<v Speaker 1>it was tinder, it was tiny, and found success on it,

0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:51.880
<v Speaker 1>but not really because he didn't. So good luck, all right, great,

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 1>thank you. Air with Ryan's Secrets. Tell me something good,

0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Lenaia and rever side, Lanaia, good morning, we are ready.

0:35:02.360 --> 0:35:07.920
<v Speaker 1>We want good news. Tell us something good in your life. Okay,

0:35:08.040 --> 0:35:11.640
<v Speaker 1>So I've had a horrible year. But then all of

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:15.120
<v Speaker 1>a sudden, after eleven years, a daughter, Jade, who has

0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 1>never in her life met her father, who was in

0:35:17.200 --> 0:35:20.799
<v Speaker 1>the same city, has decided that since he's gone back

0:35:20.840 --> 0:35:23.880
<v Speaker 1>to church and he's a good man, he's finally in

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 1>her life, and it's like from zero to one hundred. Wait,

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:30.640
<v Speaker 1>were you trying to encourage her to meet her father

0:35:30.760 --> 0:35:32.920
<v Speaker 1>before that? Or how did how did you get to

0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:37.279
<v Speaker 1>this place? Well, she's only eleven, so she knew there

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 1>was a man, but we didn't really get into it.

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:42.320
<v Speaker 1>And so I even told her, like his numbers in

0:35:42.360 --> 0:35:44.360
<v Speaker 1>your phone because she has my old phones and stuff.

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:47.080
<v Speaker 1>And but I let it go because I mean, he

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to be there, so I don't want to

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:50.839
<v Speaker 1>say nothing. And so one day I finally found out

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:52.279
<v Speaker 1>he was going to church, and so I kind of

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 1>sent a mean message and then he broke back, like

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:56.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to church because I want to meet Jade,

0:35:56.640 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh, I'm just kidding, Like, but

0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 1>what's so funny is like the Ryan's Route, this thing

0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 1>where the guy didn't say he had a kid. That

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:11.480
<v Speaker 1>totally happened in the beginning of his relationship. He pretended

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 1>like he didn't know he had Jade and like they

0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 1>found out at the same time together, which is so

0:36:16.040 --> 0:36:19.720
<v Speaker 1>not true. He pretended he did not have a daughter

0:36:19.840 --> 0:36:24.359
<v Speaker 1>to his whoever he was seeing. Yeah, and then and

0:36:24.400 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I told him, and then finally after I submitted for

0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:30.520
<v Speaker 1>child support. He was like, Okay, I actually do because

0:36:30.560 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 1>you can't hide that with it, you know, But are

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:35.560
<v Speaker 1>you are you happy that all this has come full

0:36:35.640 --> 0:36:38.879
<v Speaker 1>circle and everybody's where they are now? Okay, I think

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:42.480
<v Speaker 1>so right? Oh yeah, it's just I didn't think he

0:36:42.480 --> 0:36:45.400
<v Speaker 1>would ever come, and now he is, and he takes

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 1>her shopping and we go to dinner and we actually

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 1>hang out all like my fiance, his wife and all

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:54.480
<v Speaker 1>the kids, and that's awesome. It's a good situations happiness

0:36:54.480 --> 0:36:57.439
<v Speaker 1>and positivity. Well, NANAA, thank you so much for calling.

0:36:57.600 --> 0:36:59.799
<v Speaker 1>We appreciate it. Good luck with it, keep it up.

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, I love you. I love you too. By bye.

0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:10.960
<v Speaker 1>On air with Ryan Seacres, Hello, good morning. How are

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:14.320
<v Speaker 1>you good? Hey Ryan, how are you? I'm doing well, Stevie,

0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 1>thanks for asking. How can we help you? Um? I

0:37:18.239 --> 0:37:21.919
<v Speaker 1>just had Oh so I go on this weekend trip

0:37:22.040 --> 0:37:25.279
<v Speaker 1>right uh with this girl kind of seeing each other

0:37:25.280 --> 0:37:27.879
<v Speaker 1>for about a week or two, and you know, my

0:37:27.920 --> 0:37:31.400
<v Speaker 1>whole mindset is that I'm gonna have a nice weekend,

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:33.160
<v Speaker 1>pay for this hotel when it's been some time together,

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:35.400
<v Speaker 1>get close to each other, and I'm going in knowing

0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 1>that she's dealing with some family stuff, some emotional stuff

0:37:38.600 --> 0:37:42.120
<v Speaker 1>with work. So my you know, expectations are, well, I'm gonna,

0:37:42.280 --> 0:37:44.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, have I'm a helper, I'm gonna be there

0:37:44.640 --> 0:37:47.919
<v Speaker 1>for her, and everything's gonna be really copathetic, and she's

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna fall in love with me, when in reality it

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:53.400
<v Speaker 1>was like the complete opposite. So she gets overwhelmed with everything.

0:37:53.440 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 1>We end up fighting all weekend. Um, she's dealing with

0:37:57.000 --> 0:38:00.760
<v Speaker 1>just a bunch of stuff, and instead of us getting closer,

0:38:00.800 --> 0:38:03.600
<v Speaker 1>we kind of like moved apart from each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if it was like my expectations, you

0:38:06.920 --> 0:38:09.000
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, that we're that were wrong, or

0:38:09.040 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 1>if it was just like the wrong weekend, because now

0:38:11.280 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 1>we're not talking anymore. So we went from like hanging

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>out every day, seeing each other, spending times together, going

0:38:17.120 --> 0:38:20.359
<v Speaker 1>on this nice little weekend to like absolutely nothing. Now

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 1>she's like, I need to spend my time and my

0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:26.239
<v Speaker 1>energy focusing on work, focusing on my family, and I'm

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:28.719
<v Speaker 1>sitting here over here, like, well, I just spent like

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 1>six hundred dollars for like this hotel, and now I

0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:34.520
<v Speaker 1>don't know what to do. So yeah, so I don't know.

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 1>It was kind of. It's just kind of crappy, little

0:38:36.320 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>crappy situation and weekend. But you know, love is hard,

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:43.360
<v Speaker 1>and so did you? I did you? You fought the

0:38:43.400 --> 0:38:46.600
<v Speaker 1>whole time? Then No, it was just like what Yeah,

0:38:46.680 --> 0:38:49.440
<v Speaker 1>there was like moments, like little spats here and there

0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:52.799
<v Speaker 1>where I definitely saw little aspects of her personality that

0:38:52.840 --> 0:38:55.239
<v Speaker 1>came out, and I just I attributed it to her

0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:58.400
<v Speaker 1>being like overwhelmed. I'm very patient, so me, I was

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:00.560
<v Speaker 1>just trying to be there for her do all these things,

0:39:00.600 --> 0:39:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and it just became a point of contention. And then

0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:05.080
<v Speaker 1>there was other aspects of it near the tail end,

0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:08.160
<v Speaker 1>where it was like booking another trip on she was

0:39:08.200 --> 0:39:09.919
<v Speaker 1>like looking a trip with her friends, like in front

0:39:09.960 --> 0:39:13.279
<v Speaker 1>of me on the phone after like this trip went

0:39:13.440 --> 0:39:15.400
<v Speaker 1>so wrong, and I was like, well that's kind of

0:39:15.400 --> 0:39:17.120
<v Speaker 1>messed up too. I don't know, and again I don't

0:39:17.160 --> 0:39:19.480
<v Speaker 1>know my own stuff. Yeah, but here's the thing, Stevie,

0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:21.839
<v Speaker 1>I have to think of it this way. Maybe all

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:24.680
<v Speaker 1>of that happens so you could see her true self,

0:39:24.840 --> 0:39:27.840
<v Speaker 1>because she sounds to me like these sound like little

0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:32.319
<v Speaker 1>tiny potential buds of red flags, right, So if you

0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:35.759
<v Speaker 1>think about it, maybe this all happened early, so you

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 1>could see the unvarnished side of somebody. Because we're often

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:42.359
<v Speaker 1>on a performance mode first week, week and a half.

0:39:42.400 --> 0:39:46.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're like your best behavior. But those candid

0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:51.560
<v Speaker 1>moments might be very, very telling about who she is

0:39:52.280 --> 0:39:56.239
<v Speaker 1>once things go a different way or go longer with her,

0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:57.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, Stevie, I might look at it that ye.

0:39:58.600 --> 0:39:59.920
<v Speaker 1>For me, I just was like, you know, it's hard

0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:02.959
<v Speaker 1>myself thinking that was my fault for setting certain expectations

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:05.160
<v Speaker 1>and when they weren't met, I put it on. I

0:40:05.160 --> 0:40:07.919
<v Speaker 1>put on this on on me. You know, why don't

0:40:07.960 --> 0:40:09.600
<v Speaker 1>you do if I want you to do this? Youmer me?

0:40:09.640 --> 0:40:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I would file that and and really file that, okay,

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:16.680
<v Speaker 1>as important information to see if it's consistent with other

0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:20.359
<v Speaker 1>things that happened along the way, because let's forgive, let's

0:40:20.360 --> 0:40:23.319
<v Speaker 1>forgive once, and let's file it away. But let's see

0:40:23.320 --> 0:40:27.319
<v Speaker 1>if there's a theme. Let's see if there's a consistency,

0:40:27.400 --> 0:40:30.359
<v Speaker 1>and then you need to, like, I need to look

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:32.840
<v Speaker 1>inside of myself introspectively figure out that's something that I

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>need to work on. You mean, no, I don't think

0:40:34.760 --> 0:40:36.680
<v Speaker 1>it's about you. I think it's about much how she

0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>responded to certain things that bother. I would file that

0:40:40.360 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 1>a way and see how things go. See her again

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 1>and see how things go. And if you see any

0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:49.840
<v Speaker 1>sort of consistent themes in how she's handling certain things

0:40:49.880 --> 0:40:52.239
<v Speaker 1>that you don't feel all right, then you've then you've

0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:55.840
<v Speaker 1>got to address it. I think gracist. I think she

0:40:55.920 --> 0:40:57.799
<v Speaker 1>needs to make you more of a priority. And I

0:40:57.880 --> 0:41:00.680
<v Speaker 1>know that she's got her own stuff going on. Whatever. Okay, fine,

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:04.080
<v Speaker 1>but it just sounded like we weren't but it wasn't

0:41:04.080 --> 0:41:06.160
<v Speaker 1>sound like they were waying this weekend and he wasn't

0:41:06.239 --> 0:41:08.480
<v Speaker 1>like top priority per se. And then she's starting to

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:10.799
<v Speaker 1>book a trip with her friends. So so just like

0:41:10.840 --> 0:41:13.880
<v Speaker 1>I think we all want to be someone's top priority,

0:41:13.920 --> 0:41:16.440
<v Speaker 1>and I get that sometimes you don't have to, you

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:18.239
<v Speaker 1>can't be, but you just got to look for that

0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:22.120
<v Speaker 1>as well. I definitely felt like I wasn't, you know,

0:41:22.160 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 1>considering everything I did that I wasn't like it, you know,

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:28.960
<v Speaker 1>a priority at all. So I was trying to understand

0:41:29.000 --> 0:41:31.560
<v Speaker 1>her situation to its work and family stuff. But she's good.

0:41:31.600 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 1>You sound like you're doing handling pretty well, Stevie. As

0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>you said, the beginning love is tough, alright, So take

0:41:36.000 --> 0:41:40.200
<v Speaker 1>that advice as soon as you can appreciate. Thank you all.

0:41:40.840 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, basically saying, Stevie, leave the door a jar.

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