1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: A Wan air with a Ryan Seacrest a listener named 3 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 1: Lily Siss and he tagged us in the comments of 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: a TikTok video and wanted to get our thoughts. So 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: I guess the original video is from someone named at 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,599 Speaker 1: Christina makes Content. So she asked the question, what is 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: something incredibly immature you'll never stop doing? Here's what she said. 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: Ever since my X and I broke up and two 9 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: this in sixteen, I've had a very interesting tactic for revenge. 10 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: My revenge comes in the form of email newsletters. So 11 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: if I'm in the airport and I need an email 12 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: address to give to the airport so I can use 13 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: their WiFi, I give them his. If I want to 14 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: read an article and they needed an email, I'll send 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: them his. Do I want to be updated about events 16 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: and happenings in the company? Yes, And he doesn't know why. 17 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: And I will literally never stop doing it. Now, that's clever, 18 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: that's funny, you know. I think that's that's immature, but 19 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: that's kind of not so mature because it's smart. Yeah, 20 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: So she wants our take. I can't think of anything 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: off the top of my head. I want to like, 22 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: I'm something totally immature. I mean, I'm sure if I 23 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: see if I'm texting with somebody and I see that 24 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 1: they're on their Instagram story, I'm like, I call them 25 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: out on it, so I'll be like, can you text 26 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: me back? I know you're on your phone. That's not immature. 27 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: I don't think though, that's just kind of like direct. Yeah, 28 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: but I like I like teasing, Like I little things 29 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: that would kind of annoy Michael. I. I I like to 30 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: pinch his legs sometimes in bed, like with my toes. 31 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: That's like those things are annoying. That's a different question, 32 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: Audrey holding on during that song. Are you how are you? 33 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: It's Ryan? Everybody, how's it going? Hey? Ryan, thanks so 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: much for taking my call. Wow, I'm so excited for 35 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: you guys to give me some advice. Well, thank you 36 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: for listening. How are you doing this morning? I'm okay, 37 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm okay. It's a beautiful day. You know, yes, I 38 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: can't complain. Well, here to ruin it with our advice. 39 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: We are, Um, what can we do for you? Okay? 40 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: So I've been going out with this guy. It's pretty new. 41 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: He's gone out like four times, I think, um, so 42 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: it's been going well, but I feel like there's this 43 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: little red flag. He's um, he's divorced, which is fine. 44 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: I get it, Um, it's totally fine. I am too UM, 45 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: but his ex wife cuts his hair, and and they've 46 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: only been divorced for about a year year and a half, 47 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: I think, um, And I just don't know if I'm 48 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:36,119 Speaker 1: comfortable with that. Some of my friends say it's it's 49 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: good because guys who have good relationships with their exes 50 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: are good guys, and it's good that they have like 51 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: a friendship, which means that like they there wasn't anything 52 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: toxic going on, or he didn't cheat because like she 53 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: wouldn't be cutting his hair still. But I kind of 54 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: feel in my gut like it's it means he's too 55 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: connected to her. Um, he might have feelings for her. 56 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna give you very specific reactions to 57 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: this because I have never had an ex wife, but 58 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: I have that girlfriends, and I like the notion of 59 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: being friends with anyone that i've dated after i've dated them, 60 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: and I appreciate and respect the relationship that we can 61 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: have after having a relationship together and when you think 62 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: about all the things that people teach you in your lives. 63 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: There's so much admiration to what they can bring into 64 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: your life. And when you look back they you know 65 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: they they've had an impact that's made you better or 66 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: think differently than That's such a great thing. So I 67 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: clearly don't mind now not I don't know, but the 68 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: ex wife part of it. I really like it when 69 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: people can remain friends with people who have been a 70 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: part of their lives. Sissany has a different opinion. Major, 71 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: major no. For me, I would be feeling all the 72 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: emotions that you're feeling right now, which is probably a 73 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: little jealousy, a little confusion, and I don't like it. 74 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: Here is the thing. I think there's a really good 75 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: balance between having a friendly relationship and having somebody cut 76 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: your hair. Like he can find somebody else to cut 77 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: his hair exactly. He can be friendly with her and 78 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: have a cordial relationship, which I do think is lovely 79 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 1: and fine, but he does not need to be having 80 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: her cut his hair. That's a good point. That's a 81 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: good point, So we don't Sonny is saying she does 82 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: not mind the fact that there's an amicable break up 83 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: and that they have a friendship, which is okay because 84 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: when you've had someone close to you for a long time, 85 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: they become your friend, they become your best friend. And 86 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: so I think that's fair to say, Look, you don't 87 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: need to cut her out of your life, but maybe 88 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 1: he doesn't cut your hair. Audrey. That's that's actually finally 89 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: some good advice from this show. Alright, I'll keep us. 90 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: That's that's a good happy medium. Sure. Ben. How are 91 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: you man? How you doing Ben? I'm good? How are 92 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: you doing doing well? Ben? So you're calling about a 93 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: woman at work? Yeah, what happened? So there was a 94 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm a teacher, and there was this teacher that was 95 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: hired probably a few months ago, and we've become closer 96 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: friends than any other coworker I've had, and we've been 97 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: texting and we talked on the phone a lot, and 98 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know if I should go for 99 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: this because we worked so closely together, and so I 100 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: just keeping the conversation going. And then I heard her, 101 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: I have a conversation with our boss the other day 102 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:32,239 Speaker 1: of what she's doing this weekend, and she was like, Yeah, 103 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: I'm hanging out with my boyfriend and we're doing this, 104 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: and like, wait, We've been talking for months and there's 105 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: been no conversation of a boyfriend, and she's been super 106 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: flirty with me, and now all of a sudden, I 107 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: find out not through her, that there's a guy involved. 108 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: So do I go for it? No? She has a boyfriend? 109 00:05:56,360 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: What you Well, clearly she's confused, but that guy Ben, 110 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to put things into perspective, but I'm 111 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: gonna try. Do you really want to be with someone 112 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 1: that flirts with you and has a boyfriend means that 113 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: really you want to live with that anxiety every single 114 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: Monday night. Well, I don't have to be in a 115 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: relationship with her. I'm just saying, Look, then obviously you're 116 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 1: gonna do what you want to do. I'm just saying, 117 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: if you really want to be around somebody and cultivate 118 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: a relationship, then you probably don't want to start it 119 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: off with somebody that's already flirting with you while she's 120 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: got a significant other. Just seems like the wrong character 121 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: trait to me. Mm hmmm. I just think it's weird 122 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: that she's never brought up the boyfriend, and then clearly 123 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: she didn't want you to know she had a boyfriend, 124 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: so maybe she doesn't want to company. Maybe it's new. 125 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: Maybe they just established it became boyfriend friend. Maybe they 126 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: were in the great territory for a while and they 127 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 1: just established it. Or Ben, maybe she didn't want you 128 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: to know about her personal life. You do work with her, 129 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: maybe she wanted to keep that sacred. But I think 130 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: I think what Benn is asking is do I just 131 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: continue to hook up with her but not really try 132 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: to create those relationship type emotions. Well, the answers again, 133 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: no still no, no, no, no still, I mean I'm 134 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: still out of no and we've been talking for two 135 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: minutes and twenty seven seconds. Ben, Um, But I do 136 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: think that if you just want to hang out with somebody, 137 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: then find someone hang out with that doesn't have a 138 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: significant other. It makes life a lot easier, you'll sleep better. 139 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: Then yeah, you're gonna get hurt in the end. I 140 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: thought I found someone, and then surprise, boyfriend, move on? 141 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: Time to move on? Then thanks for calling? I like 142 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: I like Ben. You know, Ben is trying to figure 143 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: out the right thing to do. But he calls and 144 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: he asked for advice and we give it to Then 145 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: he wants to argue with the advice. I just still 146 00:07:50,520 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: hook up with it now, circles. I know that feeling though, 147 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: It's like you know it's wrong, you know it's wrong, 148 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: but you want to just trick your brain. Yeah, men 149 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: want what they can't have. We all want what we 150 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: can't have. It's not just men, Okay, Kanya just generalizing 151 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: entire gender. Tired genders generalize there, that's not totally true. 152 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: Ever since she's gotten back with Socrates, she's become the 153 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: be all no of all relationships. Get your hand off 154 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: your hip. Kickball change, all right, we can all kickball change. 155 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: Just because you're back in the second time around, so 156 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: perfect doesn't mean that you've written the book on all 157 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: of everybody's relationships and everybody's feelings, all of men and 158 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: all of women. So you know, they say, if you're 159 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,599 Speaker 1: trying to like sell your home or get somebody to 160 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 1: rent an apartment, that you bake when they come over 161 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: to see it, and put like a pan of cookies, 162 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: or bake some fresh bread banana bread or sukini bread 163 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: or carrot bread in there. So and I'm a sucker 164 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: for it. That just puts it actually does something chemically 165 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: to you, makes it feel homey, that's right. So if 166 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: you're looking at bake bread, this is your morning hack 167 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: for the morning thought. This might be good. Um, so 168 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: it never comes out too dry in the oven. Put 169 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: a second pan with eight ice cubes in it, one 170 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: rack below your bread. So put the bread in then 171 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: underneath eight ice cubes in it one below. The steam 172 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: from the melting ice makes it moist. This isn't It 173 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: is an old camping trick. Camping on the air with 174 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest coming up on the top of the hour. 175 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: Antonia in for Sysney. What do you have well? Starting today, 176 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: many school districts throughout California will be ditching their mask 177 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: mandates for students and teachers, but not l a U 178 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: s D. The state lifted its mask mandate, but districts 179 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: can make their own decisions. L a U s D 180 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: officials have a meat to discuss the matter on Wednesday. 181 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: Your Uber trips and Uber Eats deliveries will soon cost 182 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: more as gas prices skyrocket. Starting Wednesday, expect to see 183 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: a full surcharge of up to fifty five cents per 184 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: Uber ride and for five cents per Uber Eats order. 185 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 1: Clayton Kershaw is staying in Dodger Blue for one more year, 186 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: at least his fifteen season in l A and Tom 187 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: Brady's retirement lasted about six weeks. He tweeted yesterday that 188 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: he will be returning to Tampa Bay for NFL season 189 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Secrets, let me grab Brian in 190 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 1: Riverside morning, Brian, how you doing there? I'm good. How 191 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 1: are you today? Ryan? I'm doing fine? Thank you. So 192 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: it says here your X started reaching out to some 193 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: of your friends. Yes, what do you mean? You broke 194 00:10:55,880 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: up with your AX? And then what we haven't since then? 195 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 1: This was about a couple of months ago, and just 196 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: recently I found out that she's been having lunch with 197 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: a few of my girlfriends. Who are you know, just 198 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 1: actually just friends? And I've just been wondering, you know what, 199 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: what is kind of the reason because they weren't normally 200 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: the type to kind of talk and go out like that. So, 201 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 1: you know, it's keeping tabs on me trying to get 202 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 1: back together, like I don't know how, I don't know 203 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: to what extent, but are these friends of yours? Friends? 204 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: She normally what you actually normally would not hang out with. 205 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: I mean, what if she has a friendship with them too. 206 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: This is always the difficult thing with a breakup. H Yeah, yeah, 207 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: of having mutual friends type of thing, I mean, well, 208 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: I wanted to expect them to kind of go out 209 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: regularly like that they were more of just like, well, 210 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: when we see each other, we're kind of just warm, 211 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 1: warm enough to each other. Uh, like mutile friends rather 212 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 1: than the ones who would really interact with each other. 213 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean looked in a breakup, there is 214 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: a category of mutual shared friends that just part of it. 215 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: You kind of just need you know, if they if 216 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: they are friends of yours and friends of hers during 217 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,599 Speaker 1: and you split up, then you can't expect them to 218 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: two sides and that's difficult. But if these are friends 219 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: or women that she's hanging out with, it she normally 220 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: wouldn't even talk to then trying to make an effort 221 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 1: to stay connected to your friend group, Yeah, she's putting 222 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: off deelers. You just put off feelers to go back to. 223 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: I think so, sir, you want nothing to do with 224 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: his friends. If you want nothing to do with him, right, 225 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 1: you're reaching out and trying to like meet up and 226 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: have lunch or coffee with one of his girlfriends from 227 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: his Are you with someone else now? Brian No, I 228 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 1: was still simple at this moment. Okay, well then let's see. 229 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: I think let's see what happens. Let's see if if 230 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: you know, messages are coming to you, and how would 231 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 1: you feel if she continues to be in your circle? 232 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: Like if she starts building off of this relationship with 233 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 1: these girlfriends and now she's like coming around at parties 234 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 1: and dinners and things like that, I would it become 235 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: a weird u because if it became kind of a 236 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: more frequent thing, it would kind of be and it's 237 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 1: kind of like, well, what is what is behind this? 238 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: I would probably take if it really got into the 239 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: point where it was it was more frequent, I would 240 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 1: probably take the just asking like hey, what is what 241 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: is kind of going on? But yeah, yeah, well Brett, 242 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: have you We're gonna let you go now. But have 243 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: you moved past her? Are you? Have you moved on? Uh? 244 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 1: It's still it's still pretty fresh. We're with each other 245 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: for about two years. Uh, well, there's gonna be a 246 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: slippery slope then if she's still hanging out with your 247 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: tight group. But let's let play out. Good luck, Bryant 248 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 1: thank you for reaching out. Yeah, you know there are 249 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: there is a shared friends group when you have a breakup, 250 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: and you can't expect anybody to choose sides when they're 251 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:05,839 Speaker 1: good friends of both. You can't no that. It just 252 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: kind of happens naturally. Carry good morning, Good morning. How 253 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: are you doing. I'm great? How are you? I'm well? 254 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: Thank you? So tell us how can we help you? Well, 255 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: I just need to say this. Um, you kept talking 256 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 1: about this new tender update, and I feel like I 257 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: know you really well. I watch you every morning, so 258 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: I feel like I can tell you when you're wrong. 259 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: Oh sure you can't. I'm I'm used to it. Actually, 260 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: So you kept talking about how it's going to make 261 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: it to that you don't run into your boss or 262 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: your ex. What about all of the people that are 263 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: now going to be blocking their contacts as in their 264 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: wife or their husband and end up on Ryan's roses? Wait, 265 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: so we're going back, and I appreciate being caught out 266 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: on this. Did I bring this up? Or did Tiny 267 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 1: bring this up? I brought this up. You should be 268 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: yelling at I love you. But the culprit here, just 269 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: the messenger. So what happened with Tinder. I remember this. Basically, 270 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: they made it so that you can block your contacts 271 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: so that you don't have to accidentally swipe on a cousin. Carry. 272 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna help. You're gonna help protect people from 273 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: Ryan's roses. Here's the thing. If if you're blocking your 274 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: husband and your wife on Tinder, like you've got bigger 275 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: problems than just car behind dating app. Are you on Tinder? No? No, no, 276 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: I'm happily engaged. So I just playing this out. So 277 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: if someone were not happily engaged, they could block out 278 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: their fiance and still be on Tinder and their fiance 279 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: would never see them, right, It's like, sure, that's what 280 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: thought I had. Yeah, that's bad news. I didn't even 281 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: think of that, And then they carry Thank you for 282 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: listening to us, appreciate it you calling us. Oh of course, 283 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: I love you guys, all of you. You know, this 284 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 1: show is in podcast form on a regular now. Anybody 285 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: who's not around or wants to hear it, missed it. Whatever, 286 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: It's on I Heart Radio on a podcast where we 287 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: get your podcast right on air with Ryan Seacrest podcast. Okay, good, yeah, 288 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: keep us posted. Thank you for calling on air with 289 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest on a two point seven kiss up. Then 290 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: it's time for Ryan's roses. Let's get Natalie on the phone. Natalie, 291 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: thank you for sending us your emails. So your husband 292 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: has a unique pillo. I actually have this same temper 293 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: panick pillow. I don't know if it's the same firmness, 294 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: but I have that pillow, um, and I take it everywhere. 295 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: But you say, you've never seen this pillow anywhere else, 296 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: And you follow his ex girlfriend on Instagram and the 297 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: other day she was doing a story from bed and 298 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: the pillow next or was the same pillow that he uses, right, yep, 299 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: that's right. So what do you make of that? I mean, 300 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: I have the same pillows, So it's not like I 301 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: would be with your husband, right, So why do you 302 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: think that she's with him? Well, I mean, I've never 303 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 1: seen it anywhere else before. We have a very close 304 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: like friend group, and UM, I mean it's just it's 305 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: weird that I saw it. So he's been traveling a 306 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:31,479 Speaker 1: lot for work, and um, you know, things started opening up, 307 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: so we started traveling again, and UM, I just had 308 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: a really bad feeling after I saw her story and 309 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: I saw that pillow. One likely scenario. For example, if 310 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 1: I had that pillow for years and then I broke 311 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 1: up with my girlfriend and left the pillow, the pillow 312 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: would still be there. So it's possible. Maybe could be. No, 313 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: he bought the pillows, um, So I went through his 314 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: Amazon history and he thought the pillows from Amazon and 315 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: when he bought him, he bought two of them. Where's 316 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: the seconde? What happened? Could one be his travel pillow 317 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 1: so that he doesn't have to keep moving and it 318 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 1: could be? Um, But I actually just asked him. I 319 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 1: asked him why he ordered two of them, and he 320 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 1: said he travels with one. So I said, you know, 321 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: like let me see it. And that's when it was 322 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 1: like magically as dissipote appeared and he left it in 323 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: a hotel room somewhere. And I don't know, I just 324 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: don't feel right about it. Natalie. How long you've been married? Um? 325 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: About six years. It seemed a little bit of stress 326 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: because I have that pillow, so it's not so crazy 327 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 1: and unique to have that pill to me and I 328 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: have two one I have in my bed and want 329 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 1: I have in my bag. Interesting for traveling, Yeah, but 330 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 1: then wouldn't it be in a pillow case, and you 331 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to tell which pillow it was. Well, 332 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 1: they are different shaped. Yeah, even in a case, you 333 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 1: can tell this pillow it's a different shape. It's got 334 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: that little way for your neck, like the depth for 335 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,439 Speaker 1: your neck. So, Natalie, I need you to say Ryan, 336 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: you my permission to call, and then your husband's name 337 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission 338 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: to call. We're gonna call him. Now. Be very quiet 339 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: till we tell me he's on the air. Let's see 340 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: we can find out. Okay, okay, all right, good luck. 341 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:34,959 Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello. Hi is this Davis? Yeah? Hi? 342 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 1: Who's this? Hi Davis? My name is lu Anne. I'm 343 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: calling from Lulu's Blooms. We're actually a floral design shop 344 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 1: here in Chatsworth. How are you doing this morning? I'm good. 345 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: How can I help you? Um? Well, you know, we're 346 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: trying to promote our delivery business, so we're offering local 347 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 1: residents of promotion today of free roses. That means that 348 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,360 Speaker 1: you can send them to anybody that you'd like. They're 349 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: absolutely free. We just hope that you refers to friends 350 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: and family or leave us a Yelp review. Um, you 351 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,959 Speaker 1: can who's from pink red white Roses and they can 352 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:07,880 Speaker 1: receive them by lunchtime today. Really, there's no catch. They're 353 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 1: like legitimately free. I don't need any credit card, info, 354 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:15,679 Speaker 1: cash anything like that. They're absolutely free. Um, if you 355 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 1: have the name of the persons too, we can start there. Yeah. Yeah, 356 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 1: that's awesome. Congrat congratulations on a starting a new business. 357 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: That's a big deal these days. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I 358 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: actually do have someone that I'd like to send some to. 359 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: Um you can put on the card. Her name is Brian. Okay, 360 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: and do you need like a you know, do you 361 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: want something like you know, like a saying or something. Yeah, 362 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: I mean, who's Brian to you? Because we have a 363 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: bunch of different types of cards that like say I 364 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 1: love you, and one's with hearts. Oh no, she's just 365 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,479 Speaker 1: a friend. She's UM, she's got a job interview, and 366 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 1: so I just wanted to wish your good luck. So 367 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: if you can just write on the card good luck 368 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: on your interview, I love David, and then send that. Yeah, 369 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: just the regular card is Davis. Your voice is being 370 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: broadcast on the radio. I need you to know that 371 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:05,400 Speaker 1: we have your wife Natalie on the phone. Natalie. What's 372 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: Davis's ex girlfriend's name? Davis? What? What? What's going on? 373 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 1: Let me let me, let me explain. Your wife has 374 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: asked us to call you because she thinks that maybe 375 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 1: you're spending time with your ex girlfriend. Now you've just 376 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: sent noses to your ex girlfriend. You weren't, That's not 377 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: what you told Sissony. Who's the other voice you're hearing? Uh? 378 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: And you said good luck on your interview love Davis. 379 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: So are you spending time with your ex girlfriend? Davis? No, 380 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 1: we we are still friends. We text and talk. I'm 381 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: not spending time with her. I was just trying to 382 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 1: be a a good supportive friends. There's nothing going on. 383 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: I just you know, on are you spending your ex 384 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: girlfriend roses? Like? What are you doing? Oh? It's listen. 385 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's nothing. I don't know what you 386 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: think is happening. I honestly was just trying to be supportive. 387 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 1: You know what talk. I tell you all the time 388 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: that I that I but you also know that I'm 389 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: just not comfortable with you being so close to her 390 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,880 Speaker 1: and now you're sending her flowers that that's a problem 391 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: to me. Look, I don't know what what's going on here? 392 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 1: I can't believe you have me on the radio. I'm 393 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: telling you, I was just sort your travel pillow in 394 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 1: her bed. What what are you talking about? The distinctive 395 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 1: temper petic pillow you have? I saw it in Brand's 396 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: bed from her Instagram story. Okay, well that's not mine. 397 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. Like maybe at 398 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: one point I mentioned it to her and she got 399 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,600 Speaker 1: herself one, But that's not mine. I told you I 400 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: bought too so I could travel with one, and then 401 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: I left the other in a hotel somewhere. I told 402 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: you this. I don't know what you think is going on, 403 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: but I'm telling you nothing is going on. Just a 404 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,680 Speaker 1: little too close for comfort. It's something's not right. It 405 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: is very coincidental. And also, David, if you know that 406 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: your wife is uncomfortable with you in touch with your ex, 407 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: and then you send her red roses with love on 408 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: the card, aren't you feeling inside like you're pushing the 409 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: limit a little bit? I honestly, we have talked about 410 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: her comfortability with my ex, but it's never gotten to 411 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: a point where she said I can't reach out and 412 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 1: be stay friends with my ex. So I flowers roses. 413 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 1: She has a really big job interview, and I was 414 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 1: just trying to be nice. Who cares? How about your wife? 415 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: All right, well, listen, listen to David's and now I 416 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: will let you go with this. I mean that it's 417 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 1: a lot of coincidence, and I agree that he shouldn't 418 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: be sending her roses. It's a bit tone deaf. David's 419 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 1: a bit tone deaf, all right. You know, it is 420 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: interesting how the Instagram story can have something in the 421 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: background that strikes you. And that's what happened with Natalie, 422 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 1: her husband of six years. She she she's following even 423 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: think about this, So she's following his ex. Yeah, that's 424 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 1: a whole other thing. Right now, she's probably creeping on 425 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: it on her fins to, right, But then she's still checking. 426 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: So Natalie, his wife, is checking out his ex girlfriend 427 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 1: through fins to or however, it doesn't matter. But he's like, 428 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 1: that's already kind of playing with fire. Unhealthy. It's unhealthy. 429 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: You have to stop that. That's not great. But she 430 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: was worried about him staying in touch with her, which 431 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: is why she's probably checking out her story all the time. Anyway, 432 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: in his ex girlfriend's story. There was this temperpedic pillow 433 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 1: that is very easy to spot. I have it. I 434 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 1: mean it looks a little goofy when I'm carrying it 435 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: around myself, but I do. And she thought, wait, he 436 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: has two of those, one has gone missing ones at 437 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend. Maybe something's going on, could be. But 438 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 1: more importantly, he knows that she's uncomfortable with him staying 439 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 1: in touch with his ex, and he went ahead, didn't 440 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: think of his wife and just sent the roses to 441 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 1: his ex in support of a job interview. Now, the 442 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: fact that he knows the date of the job interview 443 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,919 Speaker 1: is a little close, isn't it. It's too close? And 444 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: even if she wasn't an ex, being married and sending 445 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: flowers to another woman for good luck on your job 446 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: interviews seems sketch like I would be uncomfortable if Michael 447 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: did that some flowers? Is that Tania? Good luck on 448 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: your interview? Love Michael? And you didn't know? So that's strange, Taylor. 449 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 1: Now what do you think you heard that? Do you 450 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: think he's cheating or just making bad judgment calls? I 451 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 1: hate to say this, but I one d think he's 452 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: cheating with Brianne, like, yeah, he bought two of those pillows, 453 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 1: one for himself and one for Brianne. And I bet 454 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: if she checks, he's probably buying two of everything deodorant 455 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: razors and there's probably closed missing from their house because 456 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 1: it's at Brianne's. You, yeah, I hate it. It's something's wrong. 457 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: Something's wrong, for sure. I agree with you. Thank you 458 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: for calling. You make the point about the razors. I 459 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 1: have to tell you, I have to one of my 460 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 1: shower one at my encounter. So I went and got 461 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 1: some of the ones that were probably duplicated that are pink, 462 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: and now in me too, And now in my shower, 463 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: I have one that's double lubricated pink with the nice 464 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: bumper around it, and I've got my yeah maybe called 465 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 1: it's called maybe called that, and I've got magelet sensor. Now, 466 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 1: if you were to walk into my shower and see 467 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 1: that and I were in a relationship, that would possibly 468 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 1: be a red flag. But it's mine, then I'd be like, 469 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 1: that makes a lot of sense now because it's mine. Yeah, 470 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: because you know, you kind of like really things. It's 471 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: not like really things. I just like maintaining myself. Yeah, 472 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 1: I've a little sauce. If we were newly dating, I'd 473 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: be like, well I'm saying it now, okay, And frankly 474 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 1: all men should have this. It feels so good that 475 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 1: bumper around it. Yeah barely. It's just like you know, 476 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: it needs sup shaving and the way it's so weighty. Heads. 477 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 1: Derek is on the line here, Derek in Fullerton, Derek, 478 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning Ryan. How are you doing all right? Man? 479 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:39,359 Speaker 1: Thank you for asking? What's up? How can we help you? Um? 480 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: I got like a weird dilemma. I just want to 481 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: see if I'm I'm the bad guy here. I have 482 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,239 Speaker 1: a roommate. Every morning, I drew coffee as most people do, 483 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: and I put creamer in that coffee, um, and I 484 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 1: think it expired two three days ago, which means it's 485 00:27:55,880 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 1: so good, you know. And I went to go my 486 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: morning or team before work. I go to get the 487 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: creamer out of the fridge and it's not there, and 488 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,120 Speaker 1: there's still some left, you know, maybe like two cups 489 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: of coffee left. And I look in the trash and 490 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: it's there and it's empty. And I didn't do it. 491 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: And I only have two other people who live in 492 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 1: my house. Am I crazy for being upset about that 493 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 1: that one of my roommates used the last of my 494 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: cream in their coffee and then a third away without asking. Yeah, yeah, 495 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: I mean because no, no, you're not crazy. You're in 496 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,439 Speaker 1: the right, because to me, it's a sign of a 497 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,879 Speaker 1: bigger problem. Right, the creamer is just a tool. The 498 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: creamer is just the creamer. But it could have been 499 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: a pizza, It could have been a meal that you 500 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,479 Speaker 1: were because I will tell you saying, Derek, this has 501 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,479 Speaker 1: happened to me in the past, and I resent it still. 502 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 1: I literally will put something in the refrigerad, put some 503 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: in the refrigerator. And I was so stoked about having 504 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: when I got home, I was picturing it all day 505 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 1: and it was gone, and it was left over from 506 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: the night before. But I love I really love left 507 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: especially tortillas, like tortillas called enchilad it's cold, I love 508 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, I love them cold. And I had 509 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: a container of cheese enchilades with chopped onions on top 510 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: from the night before. And I came back and Tenas 511 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him out, ten as my old roommate. 512 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: I still he denies it, but I still think he 513 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 1: ate them because they weren't there, so well you you 514 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: accused him of stealing and saying, look, this is not 515 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: about the creamer. This is about a bigger notion. You know, 516 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: if you took the last of the creamer, what you 517 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: took the last of the dinner. I was looking forward 518 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 1: to the last of the groceries. I stop for. I mean, 519 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: he just can't do that. It's just not It's not 520 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: the size of the violation. It's the violation. And Derek creamer, 521 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 1: what's in creamer? Does it ever go bad? I don't 522 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 1: even know if it's cream is it all right? It 523 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: does go bad, but like a while years after spices are. 524 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: It's the violation, not the size of it. So yeah, 525 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: I would. I would address it head on. Bro it happens, 526 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: if it could get worse. If you don't address it now, 527 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,000 Speaker 1: it gets worse, becomes other things. They're using yours and 528 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: take your girl. Yeah exactly, you guys, all right, that'll 529 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: motivate you. She's not wrong. Give him an inch, they 530 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 1: take a yard. Yeah. Respect, you gotta lay down the 531 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 1: law trillion. It's not the creamers about his girl. It's 532 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: about self respect, boundaries, self respect, and self confidence, and 533 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: it's about because you too live alone. So everything you 534 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 1: have in your fridge right now is yours, Like you 535 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: live in a house with every it's a free for all. 536 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: Like I'll buy something, it might be gone tomorrow, Like 537 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know. I know I have lived in 538 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: a home with a plethora of women in my day 539 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: and we did not. No, you got it. You can't 540 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 1: do that. If you want to share, you can say 541 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: this is for the house, and you share. But if 542 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: you take the last of anything, you buy a new one, 543 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: you replace and replenish. It is a rule that it 544 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,600 Speaker 1: doesn't sign on the door, replace and replenish and recycle. 545 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: Like we've often said that, I feel a responsibility to 546 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 1: make sure that everyone who works on the show is 547 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: in a happy, peaceful, significant relationship with somebody before I 548 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: focus on myself. Uh so far sysy check Tanya, I'm 549 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: not sure. Tubs check Erica, un check Erica. You don't know. 550 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 1: You don't hear much about Erica. She works behind the 551 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 1: scenes here, she works for quite a while. She's been 552 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 1: in and out of quarantine in her own bedroom at 553 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: her parents house, which is depressing um and isolating, so 554 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 1: we feel bad for her, Like put it out on 555 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: paper like that, it's really that is not going well 556 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: for me. And now she comes with a real dilemma 557 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 1: and frankly question that I'm shocked to hear. So what's 558 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: the issue, Erica. You're on hinge, right, You're you're looking 559 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 1: for love on hinge. Yeah. Yeah, I'm back on Hinge recently, 560 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 1: and I'll be like talking to a guy or FaceTime 561 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: with a guy, start getting to you know, the next 562 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 1: steps of meeting them, we're starting to date them, and 563 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: I realize it's not going to go there for me. 564 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 1: I'm not going to feel that, and I'm starting to 565 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: wonder if I should start ghosting them because when I'm 566 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: honest with them, I'm getting really rude responses in return. Well, 567 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: then you know that's a red flag you're making a 568 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 1: good mistake of people are rude to you when you 569 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: say something honest. Yeah, that's true. But yeah, one guy, 570 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: I said, I just don't think we're on the same page, 571 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 1: and he was like, Frankly, you really don't know anything 572 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: about me, so how could you possibly already know that? 573 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 1: And I'm like, because you're sending me drunk selfies and 574 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm not interested, so should I just like that? And 575 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: that's cool. So I'm gonna give bad advice that I 576 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: would take, and that is, yes, I would just disappear 577 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: on these guys if you're not feeling because it's weird 578 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: for them to be rude to somebody they don't even know. Um, 579 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I think the most appropriate response would be 580 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: I understand, right for them, I understand, you know, good 581 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: luck with good luck and then move on. Like rejections 582 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: not fun, but it's it's weird ghosting if you haven't 583 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 1: met in real life. I think if you're talking on 584 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: an app, it's easy just to be like, just stop responding. 585 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 1: I used to do that all the time. I'm like 586 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 1: the Queen of no response. So I don't owe them 587 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: anything until what one date to dates until you feel 588 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: like there might be a connection, um, you know, then 589 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: there's a tiny you would ghost and then would they 590 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 1: send question marks like customer mark question They would send 591 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:57,280 Speaker 1: the yea question mark and I just don't respond Erica 592 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: the the the bad good advice is I'd rather you 593 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 1: ghost then be honest and have guys be rude back 594 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: to you. It's just a creepy feeling. Yeah, it's not good. 595 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,760 Speaker 1: And then what if they I run into them in public, 596 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: and then it's a weird thing and they were mean, well, 597 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:15,800 Speaker 1: when are you going to get out of your parents bedroom? 598 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:19,279 Speaker 1: That that is a bigger issue. I don't know, probably soon, 599 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 1: but like, you're still there. I'm looking at the door. 600 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 1: You're still in your parents bedroom. No, I'm in my 601 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:30,200 Speaker 1: bedroom and your parents across the hall listening to this 602 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,719 Speaker 1: whole conversation. I have a nice view of like the 603 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: outside right now, so we're all good. I see the 604 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 1: outside of the outside twice if you need help. All right, well, Erica, 605 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 1: good luck with the hinging tubbs found success on it? No, tubbs, 606 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 1: it was tinder, it was tiny, and found success on it, 607 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: but not really because he didn't. So good luck, all right, great, 608 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 1: thank you. Air with Ryan's Secrets. Tell me something good, 609 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: Lenaia and rever side, Lanaia, good morning, we are ready. 610 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 1: We want good news. Tell us something good in your life. Okay, 611 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: So I've had a horrible year. But then all of 612 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 1: a sudden, after eleven years, a daughter, Jade, who has 613 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: never in her life met her father, who was in 614 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 1: the same city, has decided that since he's gone back 615 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,880 Speaker 1: to church and he's a good man, he's finally in 616 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: her life, and it's like from zero to one hundred. Wait, 617 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: were you trying to encourage her to meet her father 618 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: before that? Or how did how did you get to 619 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 1: this place? Well, she's only eleven, so she knew there 620 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 1: was a man, but we didn't really get into it. 621 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,320 Speaker 1: And so I even told her, like his numbers in 622 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 1: your phone because she has my old phones and stuff. 623 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 1: And but I let it go because I mean, he 624 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 1: didn't want to be there, so I don't want to 625 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,839 Speaker 1: say nothing. And so one day I finally found out 626 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 1: he was going to church, and so I kind of 627 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,640 Speaker 1: sent a mean message and then he broke back, like 628 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to church because I want to meet Jade, 629 00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, I'm just kidding, Like, but 630 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 1: what's so funny is like the Ryan's Route, this thing 631 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: where the guy didn't say he had a kid. That 632 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 1: totally happened in the beginning of his relationship. He pretended 633 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 1: like he didn't know he had Jade and like they 634 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 1: found out at the same time together, which is so 635 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,720 Speaker 1: not true. He pretended he did not have a daughter 636 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:24,359 Speaker 1: to his whoever he was seeing. Yeah, and then and 637 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 1: I told him, and then finally after I submitted for 638 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 1: child support. He was like, Okay, I actually do because 639 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 1: you can't hide that with it, you know, But are 640 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: you are you happy that all this has come full 641 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 1: circle and everybody's where they are now? Okay, I think 642 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 1: so right? Oh yeah, it's just I didn't think he 643 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 1: would ever come, and now he is, and he takes 644 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: her shopping and we go to dinner and we actually 645 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: hang out all like my fiance, his wife and all 646 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 1: the kids, and that's awesome. It's a good situations happiness 647 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,439 Speaker 1: and positivity. Well, NANAA, thank you so much for calling. 648 00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,799 Speaker 1: We appreciate it. Good luck with it, keep it up. 649 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 1: Thank you, I love you. I love you too. By bye. 650 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:10,960 Speaker 1: On air with Ryan Seacres, Hello, good morning. How are 651 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 1: you good? Hey Ryan, how are you? I'm doing well, Stevie, 652 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 1: thanks for asking. How can we help you? Um? I 653 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,919 Speaker 1: just had Oh so I go on this weekend trip 654 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,279 Speaker 1: right uh with this girl kind of seeing each other 655 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 1: for about a week or two, and you know, my 656 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,400 Speaker 1: whole mindset is that I'm gonna have a nice weekend, 657 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 1: pay for this hotel when it's been some time together, 658 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 1: get close to each other, and I'm going in knowing 659 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 1: that she's dealing with some family stuff, some emotional stuff 660 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 1: with work. So my you know, expectations are, well, I'm gonna, 661 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, have I'm a helper, I'm gonna be there 662 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,919 Speaker 1: for her, and everything's gonna be really copathetic, and she's 663 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,400 Speaker 1: gonna fall in love with me, when in reality it 664 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,400 Speaker 1: was like the complete opposite. So she gets overwhelmed with everything. 665 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: We end up fighting all weekend. Um, she's dealing with 666 00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:00,760 Speaker 1: just a bunch of stuff, and instead of us getting closer, 667 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: we kind of like moved apart from each other. And 668 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was like my expectations, you 669 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 1: know what I mean, that we're that were wrong, or 670 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,279 Speaker 1: if it was just like the wrong weekend, because now 671 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,759 Speaker 1: we're not talking anymore. So we went from like hanging 672 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: out every day, seeing each other, spending times together, going 673 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 1: on this nice little weekend to like absolutely nothing. Now 674 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 1: she's like, I need to spend my time and my 675 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,239 Speaker 1: energy focusing on work, focusing on my family, and I'm 676 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 1: sitting here over here, like, well, I just spent like 677 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 1: six hundred dollars for like this hotel, and now I 678 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: don't know what to do. So yeah, so I don't know. 679 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,319 Speaker 1: It was kind of. It's just kind of crappy, little 680 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: crappy situation and weekend. But you know, love is hard, 681 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 1: and so did you? I did you? You fought the 682 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 1: whole time? Then No, it was just like what Yeah, 683 00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: there was like moments, like little spats here and there 684 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,799 Speaker 1: where I definitely saw little aspects of her personality that 685 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 1: came out, and I just I attributed it to her 686 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,400 Speaker 1: being like overwhelmed. I'm very patient, so me, I was 687 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: just trying to be there for her do all these things, 688 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: and it just became a point of contention. And then 689 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 1: there was other aspects of it near the tail end, 690 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 1: where it was like booking another trip on she was 691 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,919 Speaker 1: like looking a trip with her friends, like in front 692 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 1: of me on the phone after like this trip went 693 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 1: so wrong, and I was like, well that's kind of 694 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 1: messed up too. I don't know, and again I don't 695 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,480 Speaker 1: know my own stuff. Yeah, but here's the thing, Stevie, 696 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:21,839 Speaker 1: I have to think of it this way. Maybe all 697 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: of that happens so you could see her true self, 698 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,840 Speaker 1: because she sounds to me like these sound like little 699 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 1: tiny potential buds of red flags, right, So if you 700 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: think about it, maybe this all happened early, so you 701 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 1: could see the unvarnished side of somebody. Because we're often 702 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,359 Speaker 1: on a performance mode first week, week and a half. 703 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:46,720 Speaker 1: I mean, you're like your best behavior. But those candid 704 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 1: moments might be very, very telling about who she is 705 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,239 Speaker 1: once things go a different way or go longer with her, 706 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 1: you know, Stevie, I might look at it that ye. 707 00:39:58,600 --> 00:39:59,920 Speaker 1: For me, I just was like, you know, it's hard 708 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,959 Speaker 1: myself thinking that was my fault for setting certain expectations 709 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 1: and when they weren't met, I put it on. I 710 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,919 Speaker 1: put on this on on me. You know, why don't 711 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 1: you do if I want you to do this? Youmer me? 712 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: I would file that and and really file that, okay, 713 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 1: as important information to see if it's consistent with other 714 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 1: things that happened along the way, because let's forgive, let's 715 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,319 Speaker 1: forgive once, and let's file it away. But let's see 716 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 1: if there's a theme. Let's see if there's a consistency, 717 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,359 Speaker 1: and then you need to, like, I need to look 718 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,840 Speaker 1: inside of myself introspectively figure out that's something that I 719 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 1: need to work on. You mean, no, I don't think 720 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 1: it's about you. I think it's about much how she 721 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,239 Speaker 1: responded to certain things that bother. I would file that 722 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 1: a way and see how things go. See her again 723 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 1: and see how things go. And if you see any 724 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:49,840 Speaker 1: sort of consistent themes in how she's handling certain things 725 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 1: that you don't feel all right, then you've then you've 726 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 1: got to address it. I think gracist. I think she 727 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:57,799 Speaker 1: needs to make you more of a priority. And I 728 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,680 Speaker 1: know that she's got her own stuff going on. Whatever. Okay, fine, 729 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: but it just sounded like we weren't but it wasn't 730 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: sound like they were waying this weekend and he wasn't 731 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 1: like top priority per se. And then she's starting to 732 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,799 Speaker 1: book a trip with her friends. So so just like 733 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 1: I think we all want to be someone's top priority, 734 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: and I get that sometimes you don't have to, you 735 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 1: can't be, but you just got to look for that 736 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 1: as well. I definitely felt like I wasn't, you know, 737 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: considering everything I did that I wasn't like it, you know, 738 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 1: a priority at all. So I was trying to understand 739 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,560 Speaker 1: her situation to its work and family stuff. But she's good. 740 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 1: You sound like you're doing handling pretty well, Stevie. As 741 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 1: you said, the beginning love is tough, alright, So take 742 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 1: that advice as soon as you can appreciate. Thank you all. 743 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying, basically saying, Stevie, leave the door a jar. 744 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:52,759 Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Okay, that's it. One or 745 00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 1: two point seven Kids, a Family, the Morning Show portion, Well, 746 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 1: I guess this portion of the day of the Morning 747 00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 1: Show has concluded. Um, you could hang out our podcast 748 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: if you miss anything today one or two point seven 749 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 1: kiss m. 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