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Speaker 1: Hey you don't stop that boy? I lock god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly I've had enough Sabrina Carpenter with that single espresso.

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Speaker 1: But Kiki, you got what.

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Speaker 3: That express that baby nice spread show is.

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Speaker 1: It's brought to my.

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Speaker 2: Attention in an executive meeting with the suits that I like.

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Speaker 2: I had a meeting with the suit There are suits

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Speaker 2: I don't like. Some of them have been fired, which

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Speaker 2: is wonderful, not that they're fired, but I don't like

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Speaker 2: that they're fired. But they're not in my purview anymore

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Speaker 2: so I wish you the best in your future endeavors.

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Speaker 1: Christopher, I didn't say that I'm.

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Speaker 2: Happy that people got fired anyway, stop it whatever. Don't

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Speaker 2: tell me you've never had a coworker that you're like,

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Speaker 2: I hope you do great somewhere else. And that's how

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Speaker 2: I feel it, and I feel that way genuinely. I

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Speaker 2: genuinely feel that way, like all the best. And I'm

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Speaker 2: talking about the suits. By the way, don't try and

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Speaker 2: read between the lines. There's nothing else here. But oh

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Speaker 2: so I've had to meet and they were like, hey,

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Speaker 2: with the texts, because we have a text you can

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Speaker 2: text and call the same number. And I have a

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Speaker 2: little thing, a little thing on my screen here that

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Speaker 2: shows me the texts. And people were like, and these

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Speaker 2: suits were like, hey, what if we just don't look

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Speaker 2: at the text for a while.

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Speaker 1: That's a great idea. Retweet.

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Speaker 2: I've been doing much better lately. I used to just

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Speaker 2: straight up read the hater stuff on the air. I've

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Speaker 2: been doing much better. You guys are just as bad

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Speaker 2: with the text as I lately. Yeah, I think people

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Speaker 2: were just some people have been very kind. Most people

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Speaker 2: have actually been very kind. Some people have been just

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Speaker 2: terear but today I come in to find that Jason

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Speaker 2: Brown's login, which is the one I use, the password

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Speaker 2: had been changed, constructed to change my password.

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Speaker 1: You were.

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Speaker 2: They told you they actually sent like a message.

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Speaker 1: This is an intervention, but little do they know I

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Speaker 1: have other means. Little do they know.

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Speaker 2: Well, I was trying to explain to that, like it's

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Speaker 2: most people are nice, and I can't not look at

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Speaker 2: Like people seem to be texting before they call a

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Speaker 2: lot of times, so otherwise I don't know what people

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Speaker 1: But I mean, you.

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Speaker 2: Remember last year, I would just straight up I'd go off.

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Speaker 2: I'd go off for twenty minutes on one time. I

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Speaker 2: don't do that anymore. I don't do that anymore, right,

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Speaker 2: I don't do that. I need you, I need your reassurance. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so you guys, well I didn't say that. So you guys,

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Speaker 2: look at the text.

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Speaker 1: I was told by our boss, I hit you stuff.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that somebody who cares about my mental health.

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Speaker 2: I do, yes, but I need to be able to

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Speaker 2: away then my.

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Speaker 1: Help, actually my memory of mental health.

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Speaker 4: Right, yeah, you like what I had to take away,

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Speaker 4: like my stepdad's like liquor bottle, who's just.

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Speaker 1: Had too much? Giving nothing my dad's cigarettes and you

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Speaker 1: got so mad. Nothing you've ever said is more relatable

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Speaker 1: to me. I do remember that, actually giving that, I

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Speaker 2: No, no, Dad, not another bottle of wine. I do remember.

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Speaker 2: You're hiding my text message access. You guys are doing

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Speaker 2: the best I can.

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Speaker 1: I am.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to I'm trying to make everybody happy, and

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Speaker 2: it's damn near impossible. I'm deep down inside, I'm a pleaser,

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Speaker 2: I think that people think that I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having us on the radio on the iHeart

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Speaker 1: Search for a fresh show on demand. Aren'ty of you?

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Speaker 1: Watching Severance. No, but like I feel like I should

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Speaker 1: because everybody talks about it. Could somebody tell me abot Severance? Please?

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Speaker 1: Eight five five five three five.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's usually somebody in the room who's watching,

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Speaker 2: you know, one of everything.

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Speaker 1: Someone in here covers all of it.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: Do we have any Minecraft people? I like it?

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Speaker 2: You like Minecraft the game or the like the movies

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Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. Because it was a movie, of course,

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Speaker 2: it was I think the biggest movie in a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this we records. But did you go no?

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Speaker 4: They sent me a nice pr box that was cool.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, so you're a Minecraft girl, mycraft.

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Speaker 4: You had no idea I'm going this week because you know,

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Speaker 4: we got the housewives people. We have the dayline people

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Speaker 4: me you have that, and we have the sports people

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Speaker 4: Jason and Mom.

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Speaker 1: We havee Mom Peeky. We have but we haven't like

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Speaker 1: I really do you do?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Before where do I have a story for you? That's

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Speaker 1: why I came to work today, and that will be

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Speaker 1: in the second port. So you're gonna have to hang

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Speaker 1: around exciting week and we have a fortune I know.

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Speaker 1: That's I'm clucking. Why I bring this up?

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Speaker 2: Because I don't I'm not watching okay, And you know,

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Speaker 2: sometimes I just reject. I just say no, no, Moss

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Speaker 2: is what I say. Sometimes when everyone's talking about something,

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Speaker 2: what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: You know how that goes? Are you watching Severance?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: You know the thing that people do when you're not

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Speaker 2: watching the show that everyone else is watching.

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Speaker 1: And I just I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I haven't watched it, And now at this point I

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Speaker 2: just not going to. But so I don't really know

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Speaker 2: what it's about. So I need someone to explained this

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Speaker 2: to me. But there's a big story. Today, Over a

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Speaker 2: third of real life employees would willingly undergo the procedure

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Speaker 2: to sever their work memories from their personal lives, like

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Speaker 2: Britt Lower did as Helly on Apple TV Severance. Among

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Speaker 2: eighteen to twenty five year olds, the figure rose to

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Speaker 2: almost fifty percent. Among workers age fifty five and over,

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Speaker 2: only one in five would want to be severed. One

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Speaker 2: expert says the fact that so many employees relate to

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Speaker 2: the characters in Severance shows just how blurred the lines

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Speaker 2: between work and personal life have become. The research is

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Speaker 2: a stark reminder of the stress and pressure people face today.

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Speaker 2: No one should feel the need to completely forget about

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Speaker 2: their work lives just to cope. Rather than employees feeling

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Speaker 2: the need to disconnect entirely from work to protect their

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Speaker 2: mental health, leaders should build cultures where people feel able

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Speaker 2: to bring their whole selves to work without feeling overwhelmed.

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Speaker 1: Or burnt out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, I guess I don't know if I need

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Speaker 2: someone to explain this to me, Like, okay, so that's

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Speaker 2: what the show is about. The show is about that

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Speaker 2: you don't remember work when you're at home. I guess

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Speaker 2: that would be nice for something, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 7: So Mark leads a team of office workers whose memories

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Speaker 7: have been urgically divided, like you said, between their work

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Speaker 7: and personal lives. So, yeah, you don't you don't have

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Speaker 7: any memories of it when you're at the other.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. That's amazing, ye, I feel.

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Speaker 8: Like that would be good for everyone's mental health, correct,

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Speaker 8: you know, like you can really clock in and enjoy

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Speaker 8: your family without checking email worrying about like Sunday scaries.

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Speaker 8: I don't know if you guys get that, but girl, yeah,

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Speaker 8: like Sunday scaries, you can really just enjoy without thinking

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Speaker 1: You on Monday.

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Speaker 2: I love the people that think that that's what this

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Speaker 2: job is for a lot of people like like oh, Fred,

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Speaker 2: you just you just go in there and talk and

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Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, this is not well not for Jason

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Speaker 1: Agreements freaking out. Well, you have four full time jobs,

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Speaker 1: so there's that would be amazing to not think about that.

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Speaker 2: But don't you think more about the other crap than

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Speaker 2: you've got actual jobs once you leave here, Like you're

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Speaker 2: the moron who decided during COVID to come in here

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Speaker 2: You were my favorite moron for that because you've made

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Speaker 2: a show so much better. But at the same time,

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Speaker 2: when you know, COVID started and you you were doing

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Speaker 2: you had the forethought to say, you know what, I

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Speaker 1: And we were like great.

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Speaker 2: And then when COVID was over, I remember the suits

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Speaker 2: how I responded professionally. I go, y'all better figure it out,

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Speaker 2: because my boy's not leaving. He's ours now, you know.

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Speaker 2: And then so here you are. But you know what

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Speaker 2: they did figure it out. They just gave you this

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Speaker 2: and all that.

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Speaker 1: Figured it out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean I just sit here in the

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Speaker 3: app so yeah, No, it's definitely the stuff after this

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Speaker 2: Well, you do more than that. But yeah, I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying this is a hard people driving to work. I'm

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Speaker 2: not speaking for myself. People driving to work right now

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Speaker 2: work a lot harder than I do. That's That's not

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But for those who think that we

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Speaker 2: there's like nothing that happens after that, that would be silly.

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Speaker 2: You would be silly for thinking that's silly.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. I don't think you could do that.

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Speaker 2: You couldn't do this job, and pretending you you couldn't

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Speaker 2: do it, I don't think you could. I don't think

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Speaker 2: you could have a radio show and and you know,

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Speaker 2: have a personality radio show and then no personality, well

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Speaker 2: I get the idea that people would like to leave

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Lana, Hey, thank you, have a great day.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, noum big fan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, thank you so much. I don't know, big

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Speaker 2: But I'm just curious for those of you who deal

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Speaker 2: with this. If one person is primarily raising kids and

441
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Speaker 2: one person's primarily working, do you really think you could

442
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Speaker 2: say that? Is that a fair thing to say out loud?

443
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Speaker 2: Because it makes it solo parent kind of implies that

444
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Speaker 2: the other parent isn't involved or doesn't care. It's like

445
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Speaker 2: dead beat. It's giving dead beat it is, but it's

446
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Speaker 2: the exact opposite.

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Speaker 7: Also, like, if you feel that way, it's it's not

448
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Speaker 7: the time to get it out on a zoom call

449
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Speaker 7: when it can just be overheard by your partner. And

450
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Speaker 7: what's sad is I think it takes both people to

451
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Speaker 7: make the raising the children work.

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Speaker 1: It does, you know, And comparison is the thief of joy.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I just I And if I heard I heard,

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Speaker 2: If this is me and I heard my wife saying

455
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Speaker 2: this to her mom, that's even worse because it's like

456
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Speaker 2: you're telling your mom that I'm basically about dad.

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Speaker 13: True.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't like to l is it l

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Speaker 1: or elliel? How you doing?

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Speaker 2: So this scenario and it's like you've got the dad

461
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Speaker 2: working twelve hours a day. In this case, you've got

462
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Speaker 2: the mom at home and the mom feels like she's

463
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Speaker 2: a single parent, and the dad's like, hey, at first

464
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Speaker 2: he was upset. Now he feels guilty. But I don't

465
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Speaker 2: necessarily think that's a fair thing to say about him, not.

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Speaker 14: At all as a truly solo parent. This just makes

467
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Speaker 14: me so angry, I'm actually thinking because she's still like,

468
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Speaker 14: she's not had to work, she's not worried about the

469
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Speaker 14: bills herself. She's getting support in some way, shape or form,

470
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Speaker 14: even though he might not be present. So it's just

471
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Speaker 14: it's just not something that you can just say like that,

472
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Speaker 14: because she's just not even realizing the impact she's getting

473
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Speaker 14: from having that man in her life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that would trigger me too, because what

475
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Speaker 2: about the people who are in fact solo parents and

476
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Speaker 2: it all falls on them. They have to somehow figure

477
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Speaker 2: out a way to pay for the you know, pay

478
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Speaker 2: pay the bills and the mortgage and the rents and

479
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Speaker 2: the food and carry at soccer practice and figure out

480
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Speaker 2: the logistics of the rest of that. I mean, And

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Speaker 2: I'm not minimizing one or the other, but for you,

482
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Speaker 2: you have to figure out both.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, and not to minimized to either, because she still

484
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Speaker 14: has to step up in ways that maybe she didn't

485
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Speaker 14: anticipate when they originally decided to have a child. But

486
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Speaker 14: I mean, I remember when I just had a three

487
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Speaker 14: month old and I couldn't even just go to the bathroom.

488
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Speaker 14: I couldn't just go down the street and get a coffee,

489
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Speaker 14: like there's just so much you don't realize that actually

490
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Speaker 14: happens when you are a truly solo parent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, thank you so much.

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Speaker 15: He's definitely the ahole in this one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough, I'll let her know. Thanks,

494
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Speaker 1: thank you. Will guys love your show, Thank you, love

495
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Speaker 1: you too.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's a good point that you've made though, too,

497
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Speaker 4: where it's like you look at one side, look at

498
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Speaker 4: the other side right like you got it better.

499
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Speaker 1: I know you got it better, but.

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Speaker 4: I think it's also like for my personal experience, from

501
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Speaker 4: my experience, I feel like I'm looking at it that

502
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Speaker 4: what does his husband do when he comes home? Is

503
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Speaker 4: he playing video games? Is he disassociating from his family.

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Speaker 4: I know that the ten and twelve hour shifts are long,

505
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Speaker 4: and they're lengthy and hard, but I feel like they

506
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Speaker 4: can at least come home right, play with the kids,

507
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Speaker 4: make dinner, like help out, because I think then that

508
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Speaker 4: would take less off of the mom who is home

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Speaker 4: all day with the kids.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know what I mean. And Okay, so

511
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Speaker 1: there's a question. I don't know the answer.

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Speaker 2: I'm asking like an open ended question, but is it

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Speaker 2: fair for someone who worked ten hours a day to

514
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Speaker 2: then come home and take an hour to decompress. Yeah,

515
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Speaker 2: because because what I think. I think sometimes it's it's like, yeah, you, yes,

516
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Speaker 2: you were at home with the kids all day, But

517
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Speaker 2: then am I expected I don't know the answer, but

518
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Speaker 2: am I expected to just after my ten hour day

519
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Speaker 2: walk in and then just take over the parenting role

520
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Speaker 2: and then you get a break? I don't know the

521
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Speaker 2: answer to that, But like I think, sometimes there's not

522
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Speaker 2: a respect for what the other one's doing. It's like

523
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Speaker 2: I just went to work. I just sat in traffic

524
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Speaker 2: for an hour, right, Yeah, I just had spit up

525
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Speaker 2: on me all day and watched Miss Rachel for the

526
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Speaker 2: thirty seven times. Sounds like me, you know what I mean.

527
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Speaker 2: So it's like I don't know, I've heard that one

528
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Speaker 2: before where that guy comes home he sortaedy, he wants

529
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Speaker 2: to go to bed. And it's not that I don't

530
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Speaker 2: know that he's a bad guy or a bad girl

531
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Speaker 2: or whatever, but like, you're only capable of so much.

532
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Speaker 4: Yeah, communicate. I think you had a community with a partner.

533
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Speaker 4: How are you feeling this moment? Hey, I just walked

534
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Speaker 4: in the house, Like, give me you know, thirty minutes

535
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Speaker 4: and then I think, just so you got to work

536
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Speaker 4: it out. It's hard, but you got to balance it someway.

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Speaker 1: Melissa. Yeah, Melissa, good morning, welcome. What do you think so?

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Speaker 16: I think the bad here is that for nattier hole,

539
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Speaker 16: she just needs to reorganize her thinking to be able

540
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Speaker 16: to include him or incorporate him with more parental responsibilities.

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Speaker 17: Like you said, they're both performing a job here. His

542
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Speaker 17: is the financial income, the financial stability, the security there.

543
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Speaker 17: She is providing the parenting here, whether she wants it

544
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Speaker 17: or not. If that's something that she kind of and

545
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Speaker 17: formally agreed to that that's just the way it is.

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Speaker 17: If she's not reporting somewhere to go to and provide

547
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Speaker 17: the same way he does, then she's not the solo

548
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Speaker 17: parent here. She's just they're just providing different job aspects

549
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Speaker 17: of the family part the being at home, that being

550
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Speaker 17: the parent like the absent or the present parent. She's

551
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Speaker 17: just the main go to right now for him physically,

552
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Speaker 17: but the dad is definitely there to provide for them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Melissa, thank you, have a good day. Absolutely, I

554
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Speaker 2: feel like sometimes people would switch roles even like I know,

555
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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what you think it's you think it's

556
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Speaker 2: so great, you know, doing this, and the other you

557
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Speaker 2: think it's so great, you know, going to work and

558
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Speaker 2: dealing with these idiots, Like how about I stay home

559
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Speaker 2: and I'll take care of my kids, because you know,

560
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Speaker 2: I think the other thing that's sort of negated here

561
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Speaker 2: is like maybe he loves I'm sure he loves his

562
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Speaker 2: kids too, and I'm sure he would rather be at

563
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Speaker 2: soccer practice or being the coach or going to the

564
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Speaker 2: games or feeding the kids or whatever. I'm sure there's

565
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Speaker 2: bonding time that he's missing, right, So it probably has

566
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Speaker 2: moments where it's like, Okay, cool kids crying, I gotta go.

567
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Speaker 1: To work, by you deal with it.

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Speaker 2: But then I'm sure it also has moments where it's like, man,

569
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Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm missing that. But if he were there,

570
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Speaker 2: then who is making the money to pay the bills?

571
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Speaker 2: In this case, you know you can you could flip

572
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Speaker 2: it and they could be the other way around. It's

573
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Speaker 2: like the grass is always greener. I feel like Ashley

574
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Speaker 2: hi O in this scenario, if you're just tuning him,

575
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Speaker 2: there's a woman and this is from the male perspective,

576
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Speaker 2: but he heard his wife saying that she is a

577
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Speaker 2: solo parent because he works ten to twelve hours a

578
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Speaker 2: day and she's telling people this, like her mom and friends,

579
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Speaker 2: and he's offended and then he sort of vacillates them.

580
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Speaker 2: Well said, I feel bad for saying something to her

581
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Speaker 2: or not, but this is the agreement that we came

582
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Speaker 2: up with. I work in a traditional setting. I pay

583
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Speaker 2: the bills and you take care of the kids. That

584
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Speaker 2: doesn't make you a solo parent. What do you think?

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Speaker 18: No, she's absolutely wrong saying that she's a solo parent

586
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Speaker 18: parent I think is just really hurtful.

587
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Speaker 10: I have a two year old and a.

588
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Speaker 18: Baby on the way in three weeks, and my husband

589
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Speaker 18: has a traveling job.

590
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Speaker 10: And his travel is sporadic.

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Speaker 18: He can up and go and I only have a

592
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Speaker 18: week or a couple of weeks notice, and sometimes he's gone,

593
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Speaker 18: you know what seems like half a month and sometimes

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Speaker 18: until us By no means am.

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Speaker 10: I a solo parent at all.

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Speaker 18: It is very hard, especially with two small kids. But

597
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Speaker 18: we had a conversation and I knew his work before

598
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Speaker 18: we made these decisions, and we have to continue to

599
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Speaker 18: have conversation about hey, is do we need to make

600
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Speaker 18: a change, And I know job changes and things like that.

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Speaker 10: They're not easy at all.

602
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Speaker 18: But is it do I need to go part time?

603
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Speaker 18: Do we want does he want to be home or

604
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Speaker 18: do we need to make a change there or do

605
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Speaker 18: we need to make a lifestyle change you know with

606
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Speaker 18: you know home or otherwise, And those are big changes

607
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Speaker 18: and really tough decisions. But if it's bothering her that much,

608
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Speaker 18: it's definitely a conversation. Because she's not a solo parent

609
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Speaker 18: at all. I will say that like, oh I'm I'm

610
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Speaker 18: I'm solo this week.

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Speaker 10: My husband's gone and we have a village that helps

612
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Speaker 10: me out.

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Speaker 18: So it's just you got to talk about options, there

614
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Speaker 18: was ways to work things out. I'm with her, it's

615
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Speaker 18: not easy, especially with two kids being super pregnant, but

616
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Speaker 18: by no means am I solo mom?

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Speaker 10: And that's really hurtful to say about her husband.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, especially thank you for sharing. Congratulations by the

619
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Speaker 2: way on the new one in a couple of weeks.

620
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Speaker 10: Making more listeners we got to get you.

621
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Speaker 2: Know, my understanding is as soon as that baby's born,

622
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Speaker 2: he is that boy or a girl girl this time,

623
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Speaker 2: apparently Jessica listener number eleven is moving to like Microneese

624
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Speaker 2: or something, and like in the jungle there. No, I

625
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Speaker 2: don't know if there's a jungle there, but my understanding

626
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 2: is some form of jungle and there's no internet. So

627
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Speaker 2: we lost her. So the baby just so, it'll never

628
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Speaker 2: be more than thirteen. So don't even try and get greedy.

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Speaker 10: Okay, Okay, we're gonna start. We'll let you guys start

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Speaker 10: the whole NAT leave.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Thanks, you have a good day, Ashley.

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Speaker 16: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: You know, we keep adding cities and we only have

634
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Speaker 2: the same number of listeners. Hey, Linda, good morning, Hi

635
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Speaker 2: doing great, Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. So I'm

636
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Speaker 2: gonna give you the final say here. And someone brought

637
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Speaker 2: up military families too, by the way, which I mean

638
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Speaker 2: there's one. It's like people gone for you know, Shelley's

639
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 2: husband gone for two three months at a time, longer

640
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Speaker 2: years at a time, sometimes depending on what's going on.

641
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Speaker 2: And does that make that person any any less of

642
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Speaker 2: a parent?

643
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Speaker 1: Would?

644
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Speaker 2: I would argue, No, they're they're they're doing what they

645
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 2: got to do. What do you think, right, Well, I think.

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Speaker 6: The hardest part of this, this whole argument, is that

647
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Speaker 6: the role of motherhood is always somehow less stressful than

648
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Speaker 6: going to work for twelve hours. My ex husband was

649
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Speaker 6: an air traffic bro one of the most stressful jobs

650
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Speaker 6: of the world, as you might know. And you know,

651
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Speaker 6: I'm at home with two kids under two, and all

652
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Speaker 6: I want to do is take a shower.

653
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Speaker 1: That's all I want to do is take a shower.

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Speaker 6: And so, you know, she comes home from work, and yeah,

655
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Speaker 6: he wants to unwind, and yeah, you know, he's not

656
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Speaker 6: really interested in two screaming, you know, two year olds.

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, I need you.

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Speaker 6: To acknowledge that my job is as important as yours,

659
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Speaker 6: and I just need to take a shower. And so

660
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Speaker 6: there was always that, there was always that argument.

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Speaker 1: Of whose job is more important, and they both are.

662
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Speaker 1: They both are important.

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Speaker 6: But for me, I felt that as a mother, a

664
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Speaker 6: stay at home mother, my job was made less important

665
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Speaker 6: because of the importance of his job in the world.

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Speaker 6: And and so I was just like, you know, can

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Speaker 6: I have five minutes him He's like, well, you know,

668
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Speaker 6: I've been busy all day and you know, my brain

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Speaker 6: I can't even think.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I understand that.

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Speaker 6: And he's like, well, you've been home all day, you know,

672
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Speaker 6: as if that's a vacation so I think in the

673
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Speaker 6: world in general, we need to give mothers credit for

674
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Speaker 6: how hard it is to be a mom full time,

675
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Speaker 6: and it is just as important, and it is just

676
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Speaker 6: as taxing at times, especially with.

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Speaker 1: Two hundred two.

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Speaker 2: I agree, I agree, but you know, I hey, in

679
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: his defense, he's been dealing with you know, screaming pilots

680
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 2: all day that are just the same as babies.

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00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: The story is audible hair, yeah, right.

682
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 2: Right, pilots are just annoying his baby. It's the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Lind good day. It is the frend Show. Good morning,

684
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 2: thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart

685
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: app Live and anytime search put a fresh show on demand.

686
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Speaker 2: I don't know that I completely understand the yacht thing.

687
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 2: If I had so much money that I just didn't

688
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: know what to do with it, like a Bezos or

689
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: a Zuckerberg maybe, but the yacht thing, it's the yachts

690
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 2: are expensive. It's four hundred million just to own it,

691
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 2: and then like someone's got to scrub the whole thing everything,

692
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 2: Like sixty people work on that thing.

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00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: I would rent if I ever want to go, yeah, right.

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00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 2: Right, I'd pay the money, go do what I want

695
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 2: to do, and then i'd leave and you know whatever.

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00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But the other thing is like, if you've got a

698
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Speaker 2: yacht and it's in wherever rich people go, then I

699
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Speaker 2: guess you're sort don't you feel kind of obligated to

700
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: go to your yacht? Yes, but like maybe you want

701
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: to go somewhere else.

702
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's if you, like, if you have a vacation.

704
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 2: Home or a cabin or something and you spend money

705
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 2: on it every month. I know some people have them

706
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 2: in their families or whatever. I guess it's like, well,

707
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Speaker 2: why are we going to San Diego? Shouldn't we go

708
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: to the yacht or shouldn't we go to the house

709
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 2: of the yacht because we're paying for that.

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Speaker 1: I think you have to have.

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00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 2: So much money that you don't even care, you know

712
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 2: that that you've got forty people living on this thing

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00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 2: taking care of it, and you're not even there.

714
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: In the city. What is How does your Urban Dictionary

715
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: name go again? Kaylin?

716
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Speaker 2: One of the most attractive people of all time or

717
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: something and good case always high standers. I'm one of

718
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: the hottest people of all time, wasn't it a Yeah,

719
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: that's what Urban Dictionary says about Fred.

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00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: Fred's show is on so kicking.

721
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 4: To the same thing where we would have a diary

722
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 4: when we were little, but instead of writing our truth

723
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 4: of what our life was actually like, we would make

724
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Speaker 4: up our lives.

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Speaker 19: You were writing in the diary was supposed to be

726
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 19: like your current writing.

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Speaker 20: Yeah, I want to know what a therapist would think

728
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 20: about that too, Like some people would sit down with

729
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 20: their diary and they would write like today I felt

730
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Speaker 20: this way about this.

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Speaker 1: You would just make up Yes. So how old are

732
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Speaker 1: you and you were doing this weird? Yes? And you

733
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Speaker 1: write about your six children. I was the mom was busy.

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Speaker 1: That's seven. I had brother and sisters, no brothers. Like,

735
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 1: what am I talking about it?

736
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't you guys want my camp letters, the ones

737
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 2: I wrote when I was a I want that trader.

738
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Speaker 2: What I wouldn't pay to read this diary about your

739
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 2: seven children when you're seven years old?

740
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Speaker 8: The imagination was why you did the same thing. Yes,

741
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 8: I don't know who started this to doing it.

742
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 2: As is your mom who's a mental health I'll take

743
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 2: Samanda too. I'd like to know, like what sort of

744
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: psychoses that.

745
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Speaker 8: I was a lady of the night, like I had

746
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Speaker 8: all the meet wait son man, like after me.

747
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: It was I went one date dates and mad and.

748
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 8: Then I was like, and then I'm going to sneak

749
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,719
Speaker 8: out tonight and go out with this present night.

750
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Speaker 1: There was no person ever been left waiting by the phone.

751
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Nick, good morning, welcome to

752
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: the program. Wow, Nick, you already sound distrust It's We've

753
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: said this before, but it's always wild to me that

754
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,239
Speaker 1: will Well, we check in with people and then I'm like,

755
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,239
Speaker 1: you know, you think you're being ghosted. So you call

756
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: the show and I'm like, hey, how you doing it?

757
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 1: And They're like, I'm great, but Nick doesn't sound great?

758
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: What's going on? No, Yeah, I appreciate you having me on.

759
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 21: It's uh So I went on a date with this

760
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 21: girl that I had been on hinge and I invited

761
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Speaker 21: out to dinner and she, I mean, she was like

762
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Speaker 21: perfect and when I met her in person, she was

763
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Speaker 21: even like way hotter than I had seen online, which

764
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 21: was you know, which is She's great, but it made

765
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Speaker 21: me really nervous and I really want to see her again.

766
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Speaker 21: I thought, I thought the dinner went great, but uh,

767
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Speaker 21: she's she's never called me back, okay, and she won't

768
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Speaker 21: respond to I tax either.

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Speaker 5: Or anyway.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's exciting when when you're looking forward

771
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: to meeting someone because you're attracted to them on the app.

772
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Speaker 1: And let's face it, I said, the.

773
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Speaker 2: Apps are all about it's all about hot or not

774
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 2: until you meet in person and then you get to

775
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 2: engage the chemistry. But then you show up to this

776
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 2: date and she's hotter than you already thought she was.

777
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, how do we to make this worse? I

778
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: don't mean to rub this.

779
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 2: I really you're being ghosted, as that said, but I

780
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 2: don't mean to you know, but I mean, you know,

781
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 2: sometimes it goes the other way. We've heard that before too,

782
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 2: where like the pictures are old or you know they've

783
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 2: been aditated or whatever. So you show up and she's

784
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 2: everything you wanted her to be and more, and you

785
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: were excited about where this was going, except you haven't

786
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: heard from her, and you assume you've reached out since

787
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: the day tried to plan another one. She's not responding

788
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, okay, yeah, Well look, let's

789
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 2: see if we can figure this out. We're gonna call Marina,

790
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 2: the woman that you met on hinge in just a second.

791
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: We're gonna ask these questions on your behalf, and the

792
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: hope is always is that we can straighten this out,

793
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: set you guys up on a second date, and pay

794
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 2: for it.

795
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, Thank you, I really appreciate it.

796
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 2: Hey Nick, Yes, okay, welcome back. Let's call Marina. You

797
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 2: met on hinge. You were really attracted to her. She

798
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 2: was better looking in person than you expected her to be,

799
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: and you already thought she's gonna be hot based on

800
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 2: the picture. She was hotter in person. You had a

801
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 2: great night with her, except you haven't heard from her

802
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 2: since to date. You've reached out, You've tried to plan something,

803
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 2: she's not responding. You want to know why. Yeah, yeah, no,

804
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 2: you sound very sad about this. Let's get at the

805
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 2: bottom of this and hope for the best. Good luck, Nick. Hello,

806
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 2: Hi is this Marina?

807
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? I Hey Marina, good morning. My name is Fred.

808
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,

809
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 2: and I do have to tell you that we are

810
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: on the radio right now and I would need your

811
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 2: permission to continue with the call. Cand we chat for

812
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: just a second, would you mind? I guess I know

813
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 2: it's kind of strange, but thank you for taking a call.

814
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 2: We're calling on. We have a dude named Nick. He

815
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 2: says that he met you on Hinge and you guys

816
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:43,279
Speaker 2: recently went out to dinner. I hope you remember this guy.

817
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 17: Yeah, I remember him.

818
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 1: Okay, Well see he had nice things to say about you.

819
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: We just talked to him, except he's kind of sad.

820
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: Because he says he's reached out to you since the day,

821
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 2: tried to plan another one and he can't get a

822
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 2: hold of you.

823
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: So what's going on.

824
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 22: Well, yeah, we went out to dinner and he uh

825
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 22: said some really bizarre things like okay, so when we

826
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 22: first sat down, like, uh, like I talked about like

827
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 22: I was like, whoa, that breadstick is huge, Like we

828
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 22: have like huge breadsticks or whatever they served us, And

829
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 22: he said something like there's such thing as.

830
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: Too big though, right, And I like thought he was joking.

831
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 2: But like, hey, we sound for a second we have

832
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 2: stuff because I want to know where they serve the

833
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: frank and breadsticks.

834
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:28,959
Speaker 1: I mean, did you go to Olive Garden?

835
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 2: I mean where could I get me a freaking bread

836
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 2: I was going to say, there is no such thing

837
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 2: as a breadstick that's too big in my opinion, that's

838
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: I just have you know, if that, if that's the

839
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 2: size of the breadstick, if it comes it looks like

840
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: one of those baggettes from you know, France, then that's

841
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 2: a single serving and I'm eating it.

842
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, give me some butter.

843
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,279
Speaker 2: Not the point though, so he said to you, He

844
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 2: said to you, there's such a thing as too big

845
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Speaker 2: of a bread stick.

846
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 22: Yeah, okay, the breadstick, so like and fine, like he

847
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 22: he wasn't laughing, which is really weird. But then later

848
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 22: on in the date, he like made some sort of

849
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 22: other like comment about how he's pretty average sized and

850
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 22: like nothing special, which what which I thought, like, first

851
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 22: of all, like that's a lot for a date, for

852
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 22: a date, but like I assumed he was just doing

853
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 22: the like under promised over deliver thing.

854
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 17: I don't know, it's weird.

855
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: But then like.

856
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 22: But then he said later like I can't believe I

857
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 22: have to say this on the radio. But after he

858
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 22: had some strings, he like confided in me how he

859
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 22: was like self conscious about the size of and like

860
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 22: he was upset, like he had tears in his eyes.

861
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 22: Like I don't know what was weird.

862
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what.

863
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 22: I didn't know what to do.

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Speaker 1: It was like the whole it was like a beam

865
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Speaker 1: on this date and himself.

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00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 2: God, I mean again, a breadstick oftentimes would make most

867
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 2: people self conscious. But then again, I'm really not thinking

868
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,799
Speaker 2: about that with the breadsticks come to the table, like,

869
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 2: that's not the first thing I think of.

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Speaker 1: Is how would I compare?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 2: No, no, So this is obviously something that weighs on

873
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Speaker 2: him because apparently nothing, nothing fallic, can come to the

874
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: table without some sort of.

875
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 1: Did you order a canoli? God forbid? Don't you dare? So? Wow?

876
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 2: So you struck a chord with this guy, like he

877
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 2: he feels self conscious about his you know, himself.

878
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know what I.

879
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 23: Did to make a build subconscious about himself because we

880
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 23: were at a restaurant and nothing was happening other than

881
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 23: dinner eating, So I don't know.

882
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 1: It was a strange for me. It was a strange.

883
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is that is a very strange thing. And

884
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 2: not you know, not putting your best foot forward. No,

885
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: no pun intended, not a foot But Nick, I forgot

886
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 2: to mention the nick is here, Marina.

887
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm very forgetful.

888
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 2: I get caught up in the story and oh, Nick,

889
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,240
Speaker 2: why why would.

890
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 1: We go there? Right?

891
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: Like it didn't take but a few minutes. The bread comes,

892
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 2: like within five minutes, Like, why are we already reflecting

893
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 2: on our you know, perceived inadequacies, Like oh, like come on,

894
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 2: you know, I'm sorry you feel this way, but like

895
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 2: if you know, that's not really selling ourselves, is.

896
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 1: It, uh?

897
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 13: Marina A, yeah, I just yeah, I guess, But I

898
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 13: kind of feel like, isn't it normal, Like you know,

899
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 13: like kind of everyone's self conscious about that.

900
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 2: Is normal within five minutes of the first date to

901
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 2: let your date know that you may be not.

902
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: Pack right right right? No?

903
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 2: No, no, no, And I think there are other ways

904
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 2: that I think you could have made up for it,

905
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,839
Speaker 2: like if she liked you. I think there are ways

906
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 2: you can make up for these kind of things. So

907
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 2: maybe or you know, if it what.

908
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 24: I'm just the way, no you to tell us the way?

909
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 24: I just I don't know. I mean, I feel like

910
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 24: I don't know. There's nothing that's going to come from

911
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 24: you immediately telling someone that you feel inadequate about a

912
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 24: part of your body, because then it automatically is going

913
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 24: to lead to more attention to that thing.

914
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: Right, So if you are.

915
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 2: A little bit less than others, then there's you called

916
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,799
Speaker 2: attention to it yourself, like why would you do that?

917
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: Why would you shoot yourself in the foot in that way?

918
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 25: I don't know.

919
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: I figure to address it and not you know, like

920
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. No, that's no, let her be surprised.

921
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 26: You know, I appreciate the openness what but not right

922
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 26: away exactly because if that's something that I really care about,

923
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 26: not me personally, but if I did, why am I

924
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 26: going to go like, however, many dates until I find out?

925
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: Okay, but let me see, Mareena, let me ask you this.

926
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 2: So let's say you really liked Nick and it did

927
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 2: get to the phase where you know that is exposed,

928
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 2: you know, contensually, and that's what you wanted.

929
00:40:58,840 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I.

930
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: Mean, I would imagine that there's a range that's acceptable, right,

931
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 2: And it would probably depend we're being honest, it would

932
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 2: depend on how much we like the person. And maybe

933
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 2: it's like more of a big picture thing, We're like,

934
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: let's see what you can do with it kind of thing,

935
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

936
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: Like, am I right?

937
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 5: Yeah?

938
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 22: Yes, I just like I don't know, I think part

939
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 22: of it. And also like I don't think it's like normal,

940
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 22: Like I don't think a lot of people are that

941
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 22: self conscious, and I just don't know.

942
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: Not to compare ourselves to it, to bring it up immediately,

943
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 2: you know, within five minutes, try about it on a

944
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 2: first date.

945
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 22: But yes, like if once you like get into that stage,

946
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,719
Speaker 22: like no, you see where you go.

947
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 23: But like I don't know, I just feel like weird about.

948
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 20: I feel bad for him, like I actually knew, but

949
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 20: I mean, we can't be crying about our inadequacies within

950
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 20: five minutes of a day, Like we just can't.

951
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: Like that hurt before you could tell like keep okay,

952
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,800
Speaker 1: but we got to hold it together. We got before.

953
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,800
Speaker 1: We don't care what it is.

954
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 2: I don't care if it's your ex or you're whatever,

955
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 2: your fega lang or whatever it is, Like you can't

956
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 2: you cannot start, you know, or you feel like you

957
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 2: have small hands or I don't know what.

958
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 1: You can't just like start crying on a date.

959
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,399
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry for you, Nick that you feel this way,

960
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 2: and I'm hoping maybe you're just being ultra self critical,

961
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 2: but like I think that just shows weakness off the

962
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: off the top, and I don't think that's always It's

963
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: not going to be attractive very often ever.

964
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 14: Damn.

965
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: Oh God, he's about to cry right now.

966
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Nick, don't cry, don't cry. Everything's fine, it's good.

967
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: No breadsticks are present, everything's good. No one's comparing anything

968
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 2: right now.

969
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: It's all about the motion.

970
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: Uh well, see, that's kind of what I was saying,

971
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: kicking you're trying to disagree with me, was that I

972
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 2: think I think I know what I said that earlier,

973
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 2: you know, and you said to me, you were like, oh,

974
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 2: I want to I want to hear the ways. And

975
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is I feel like there are people

976
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 2: out there that can make up for stuff with other things,

977
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 2: and I think there are people that have the tools

978
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 2: that don't know how to use the tools. So I

979
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, you could have been Okay, Nick,

980
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: you just we just don't need to be calling attention

981
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: to it, is all I'm saying.

982
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: I can lead with that. He says.

983
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 4: I might not look like the breadstick, but I can

984
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:16,399
Speaker 4: do this and this who is.

985
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 1: The breadsticks alone? They were waiting at the dinner. Let

986
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: me get on stuff, mushrooms, Let me get through the

987
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: salad first.

988
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 27: I mean, transparency's keys, No, it's sometimes there is such

989
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 27: a thing as too transparent.

990
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 2: This man was see through. Okay, all right, Look, I'm Marina.

991
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask the question. He sounds like a nice guy,

992
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 2: he's sad, he's really broken up about it.

993
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: He liked you.

994
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: Would you consider giving him another chance, maybe seeing what

995
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 2: he has to offer. I mean, he's called so much

996
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 2: attention to it now that it's going to be all

997
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 2: the focus.

998
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: But maybe we give another shot.

999
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 16: No, I'm so sorry.

1000
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 22: I know he's a nice guy.

1001
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 27: I just like.

1002
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 22: It was just too much for me on that first date.

1003
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 1: Not enough.

1004
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 6: But I don't know.

1005
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 10: I'm sorry it.

1006
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: Was too much. That's a weird way to end it. Nick. Look,

1007
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: you seem like a nice guy.

1008
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 2: My advice to you, not that you asked for it,

1009
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:23,439
Speaker 2: but maybe maybe we within Maybe never do we bring

1010
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 2: that up. We just sort of let things happen and

1011
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 2: see what happens from there, because maybe you're a very

1012
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 2: talented guy, Nick, and this never would have been an issue.

1013
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, here you go. There you go, very so simple.

1014
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 2: There, perfect, Marina, Thanks for taking it called good luck

1015
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: to you, Nick.

1016
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: Good luck as well is the fread Show. Good morning.

1017
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 2: Thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart

1018
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: app Live and anytime search for a fred show on demand.

1019
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: According to one judge, a taco is a sandwich.

1020
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: Oh not this one. A taco is a sandwich.

1021
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 2: Eight five five contextsas same number.

1022
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: I mean, let's have it out.

1023
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 2: This is a forum for the most important conversations to

1024
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 2: be had in society. That's what you can you can

1025
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 2: count on us for that. And this is that is

1026
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 2: a taco a sandwich because a judge says that it

1027
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:18,240
Speaker 2: is a restaurant. Tour said that he has been battling

1028
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: over what type of establishment was being built and going

1029
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 2: into a now eleven thousand square foot strip mall restaurant space. Previously,

1030
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 2: the commission that I guess oversees what can go where,

1031
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 2: zoning or whatever denied a famous Taco from being located

1032
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 2: in the Strip mall, partially based on a written commitment

1033
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 2: that he accepted with a nearby neighborhood association limiting any

1034
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 2: restaurant that did not offer alcohols in not allowed to receding,

1035
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 2: and only sold made to order or subway style sandwiches.

1036
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 2: The idea behind the agreement, according to court documents, was

1037
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 2: to keep national fast food, burger and chicken chains out

1038
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 2: of the Strip mall. They didn't want them there, So

1039
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: the court agrees with this guy. The tacos and burritos

1040
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:03,760
Speaker 2: are Mexican styles, all sandwiches, and the original written commitment

1041
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 2: does not restrict potential restaurants to only American cuisine style sandwiches.

1042
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: That's a torta, so he But tort is a sandwich,

1043
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's a Mexican sandwich, not a taco.

1044
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 2: Okay, But this guy really wanted to be in the

1045
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 2: Strip mall, and I guess you could have sandwiches in

1046
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 2: the Strip mall, but you couldn't have tacos. And so

1047
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: this guy, nope, he came to the rescue and and

1048
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 2: he sued, well, he.

1049
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:28,520
Speaker 4: Had to do what he had to do right to

1050
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 4: get his little business going. His three towels for the business. Okay, Bob,

1051
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 4: whatever is a taco? I mean, are we calling it?

1052
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 4: I think it's a stretch.

1053
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 2: But a tortilla, a hardened tortilla is still a form

1054
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 2: of bread, is it not.

1055
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: The bread needs to be separated from me for it

1056
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: to be a sandwich. There has to be two pieces

1057
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: as opposed to the one. Yeah, because like something folding.

1058
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my like that they're still connected right, because

1059
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 4: they didn't cut.

1060
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 2: That's true, like a HOGI is not necessarily maybe I

1061
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,959
Speaker 2: thought they is. They don't always something cut the bread

1062
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 2: down the middle. Yeah, some sandwiches they don't cut all

1063
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 2: the way through like someone used to do a well cut.

1064
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: If you remember that, they used to cut the bread

1065
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 2: out of the middle. They used to cut from the

1066
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 2: top and then stick this stuff in there.

1067
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a taco.

1068
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 4: People say that cheeseburgers or whatever can be a sandwich

1069
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 4: because there's two pieces of bread.

1070
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: Cheeseburger is a sandwich. Burger, by definition, is a sandwich.

1071
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 7: Okay, go to a restaurant and order a burger sandwich

1072
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 7: and see what the waitress says sandwich.

1073
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 2: But just because you wouldn't say it that way doesn't

1074
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 2: mean by definition it's not that. But the meaning of

1075
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 2: a sandwich is two or more slices of bread or

1076
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: a split roll between. So how is a How is

1077
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 2: a curved dried tortilla not the same as a split roll?

1078
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: It is a tortilla is a split roll.

1079
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 2: Hold on Laura's Laura's a chef. Laura calls us a

1080
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 2: lot of times. Texas called it, Laura, you're a chef.

1081
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 2: So what say you he is a taco a sandwich,

1082
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 2: Laura calls all the time, trust it is, you're saying

1083
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 2: it is?

1084
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 10: Yes, Yes, a.

1085
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 15: Sandwich is a vehicle with things inside of it.

1086
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: Cornshell, right, So it's.

1087
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 2: A cornshell, which is a which was originally pliable, which

1088
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,240
Speaker 2: a vehicle, which is a vehicle, which is a vehicle

1089
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 2: that Ensuran can drive his song through. Yeah, okay, all right,

1090
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 2: so Laura says that that she agrees with this court case.

1091
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 2: All right, thank you, have a good day.

1092
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: Thank you too.

1093
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 2: Now let's be honest. You said it, Paulina, Like, this

1094
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: guy just wants to be in that strip mall. So

1095
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 2: he was making whatever legal argument he could, but a

1096
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 2: judge agrees with it. So whether he agrees with it

1097
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 2: or not, we don't know. He just wanted to make

1098
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 2: sure that the ordinance didn't apply to him, so he

1099
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 2: got a judge you agree with him. But see here

1100
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,439
Speaker 2: we go, Carrie, you're gonna do this. Now, we're gonna

1101
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,280
Speaker 2: we're gonna take it one step further on. We carry

1102
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 2: go ahead.

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00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 6: Yes, So we have a big debate at my work

1104
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,800
Speaker 6: one day about whether or not a hot dog is

1105
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:08,720
Speaker 6: a shandling.

1106
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 2: By by definition, it is. By definition of hot dog

1107
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 2: is a sandwich, it is. I'm sorry, guys, roll yeah,

1108
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 2: a sweat roll. Now do you call it a sandwich? No,

1109
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: you call it a hot dog. You call it hamburger sandwich. No,

1110
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 2: you call it a hamburger. But by definition they are

1111
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 2: both sandwiches are crazy, that's true. Carry, You're right, thank you.

1112
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: What do you think do you think it is?

1113
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 6: I'm kind of like where Yes, by definition it is,

1114
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 6: but I don't think it's.

1115
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 2: A sandwiched by by vernacular, nobody calls it that.

1116
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: But by definition, yeah, yeah, thank you. Carrie, have a

1117
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 1: good day.

1118
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, just like bred, Just like Caitlin wants you to

1119
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 4: go order would you say a sandwich roll whatever.

1120
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 1: A hamburger sand sandwich, I burger sandwich. You and I

1121
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: are going to go to your favorite spot at at

1122
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love that place. Pick me up

1123
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: in your in your Nai and then we're gonna do it.

1124
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: We're gonna drive over with Nikiya. Yeah, and I want

1125
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: you to sit down.

1126
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 4: I want you to say I would like a sandwich,

1127
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 4: Just say sandwich. I want I want to see what

1128
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 4: they bring you and it's not going to be a taco.

1129
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 4: So therefore the argument that's not hold up in court.

1130
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1131
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 2: Okay, but see that's different because we're talking about is

1132
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 2: it a sandwich not is it? Is that what people

1133
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 2: call it or is that what you would normally associate. No,

1134
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 2: I would not normally say I want a sandwich? Less

1135
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,919
Speaker 2: who get a taco? I wouldn't normally say that, but

1136
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 2: for legal purposes like the definition an item of food

1137
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 2: consisting of two pieces of bread with meat, cheese, or

1138
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 2: other fillings between them, eaten as a light meal. Now

1139
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: someone else, I guess Miriam Webster added a split roll.

1140
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 2: Now that's the real differentiating factor, you, guys, is whether

1141
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 2: or not a split roll.

1142
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 1: But it is a split roll is a sandwich. It's

1143
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: like a saw.

1144
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 2: But a split roll is not necessarily connected the way

1145
00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 2: that a taco is. Right, Hey, Nick, Nick, thanks for

1146
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 2: weighing in on this important debate. Is a taco a sandwich?

1147
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 9: The taco is definitely not a sandwich. Okay, Why I

1148
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 9: say this because a sandwich you think of Let's see,

1149
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 9: what's the example of peanut, butter and jelly, the two

1150
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 9: pieces of bread. I think it has bread talking about it.

1151
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 9: A taco is a shell, and I know it has

1152
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,479
Speaker 9: the things in the middle, but I would never ever

1153
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 9: consider that.

1154
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,439
Speaker 2: Okay, now, Nick, have you ever had and I did

1155
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 2: this recently?

1156
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:38,919
Speaker 1: I think I did it two days ago.

1157
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 2: Have you ever had taco bell delivered via like door

1158
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:45,759
Speaker 2: dash or somebody? Yeah, because I got hard, I got

1159
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 2: crunchy tacos delivered as part.

1160
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: Of my way. I got hard when my crunchy taco

1161
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 1: showed up. But anyway, don't don't don't worry about that.

1162
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 1: Don't worry about that. I met in the midsection. I

1163
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: mean I became I became stronger. I'm talking about rock

1164
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: hard my muscles of like my abs and stuff.

1165
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,919
Speaker 2: But if you don't delivered the meat, the meat sort

1166
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 2: of makes the taco shell a little bit like mushi,

1167
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:11,399
Speaker 2: such that when you go to eat it, you wind

1168
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 2: up eating it like a sandwich because you have to

1169
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 2: eat it on the side, because if you eat it

1170
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,800
Speaker 2: up and down, the stuff just falls through, in which case,

1171
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 2: my taco became a sandwich, did it not, Nick?

1172
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: My taco, But it's not.

1173
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 9: It could like a sandwich, but it is not.

1174
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you, Nick, I'm just on the

1175
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 2: I'm the I'm on the polst of what people are

1176
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 2: talking about today.

1177
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: Have a good day, man.

1178
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just see like and you know me, I'm

1179
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 2: always like scrolling through the latest legal advancements, you know,

1180
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 2: And so this is what people are talking about. Hey, Michelle, Hi, Michelle.

1181
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 2: You're saying not a sandwich, which of course is the

1182
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 2: wrong answer. But that's fine, Like you're entitled to not

1183
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 2: be correct.

1184
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:01,280
Speaker 17: Definitely not a sandwich.

1185
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 1: But why explain to me why because.

1186
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 25: Like you need breadford to be a sandwich and no

1187
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 25: bread on a taco.

1188
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 10: It's like someone said, it's a corn shell.

1189
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 1: It doesn't want to be a corn. Show could be flower.

1190
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: It could be flower and bread too. Is there corn?

1191
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: Is ther corn bread?

1192
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 10: That can be corn flower tortillas.

1193
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: You're you're wrong. You need to always eat cornk Okay? Now,

1194
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot of things that are wrong

1195
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: right now, Michelle, this is wildly controversial. Now flower, that's

1196
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 1: a different segment, Michelle. All right, so wait your turn,

1197
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 1: all right, have a good day. I hate that I

1198
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: have a good day.

1199
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 17: Let me go.

1200
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 27: I know, I.

1201
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: Know the killers in the room. Good. You need a flower,

1202
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 1: I know, do you do it holds more? They're bigger?

1203
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:51,360
Speaker 19: No, But the corn it makes a biggerier sandwich with

1204
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 19: a flowered bertilla.

1205
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 2: Hey, Kley, a taco a sandwich. That's what the court

1206
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 2: of law says. That's where the Supreme courts nudded. Someone

1207
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 2: in Florida's somewhere said.

1208
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 10: This, Yeah, okay, So I was getting all wiled up.

1209
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 15: I was about to say, it's not a sandwich, but

1210
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 15: then I started thinking of the actual verb.

1211
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 10: You're sandwiching things together, you know, you're squeezing them to

1212
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 10: get into your mouth.

1213
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 9: Sutter.

1214
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: What an excellent point, What an excellent point.

1215
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 9: It came to me.

1216
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 15: I don't know. I took a sip of my coffee

1217
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 15: and I came.

1218
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: You're so smart.

1219
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 2: Yes, sometimes you've got to like marinate on this really

1220
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 2: heavy hitting content before you, like you got allow it

1221
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 2: to settle in for a second, before you make your decision,

1222
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 2: like before you're outgrade.

1223
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: Right. Yeah.

1224
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: I would always ask people, because we do a lot

1225
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 2: about very very serious topics on this show, and before

1226
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 2: we become outrage, like, let's take a second to think

1227
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 2: about our position. And you did that, and you were

1228
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 2: going to call and tell me I was an idiot,

1229
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 2: and then you took a sip of coffee and you

1230
00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 2: were like now hold on, I see the lights, you

1231
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 2: know what.

1232
00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 10: I zoned out into traffic and I let it come

1233
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 10: to me.

1234
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: And I was like, when I'm eating a taco, you're.

1235
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 15: Using it as much as I can, rotating it.

1236
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, take it into my mouth.

1237
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 2: That's exactly. And yeah, no, thank you, you've you've seen it.

1238
00:54:58,400 --> 00:54:59,399
Speaker 2: You were on the same page.

1239
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: Have a great da. Thanks for listening.

1240
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 10: I love yeah you too.

1241
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: Let me true story. I survived, you know, David, David,

1242
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:09,640
Speaker 1: it's a sandwich.

1243
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 25: Yeah, it's a sandwich.

1244
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1245
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 2: And and telling people that don't they don't see our position.

1246
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: Why well, because.

1247
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 25: I mean you could have like an open, open face sandwich, right,

1248
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 25: you just want need one piece of bread, you need

1249
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 25: like a piece of cheese on there, a piece of

1250
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 25: meat whatever. And it's a sandwich, So then why not

1251
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 25: a taco? You have a todi, have some fillings in there.

1252
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 25: It's a sandwich.

1253
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 1: I think by definition it is.

1254
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 2: I do, and I understand no one calls it that,

1255
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 2: but no one calls a Hamburger sandwich.

1256
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: And there's no debate about that. I'm not I'm not

1257
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: subscribing to that.

1258
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,399
Speaker 25: I'm gonna take a I'm gonna take this step Further,

1259
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 25: I also think that a hot dog is a sandwich.

1260
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I do have to control no I do

1261
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 2: to I do to to any thank you, no, thank you.

1262
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm like minded geniuses. Have a good day. Hey, you

1263
00:55:56,239 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: do a problem solve? No, I mean the law. You

1264
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: know that's what they said. Let's take this to the

1265
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 1: Supreme court. Honestly, they got nothing else right morning. The

1266
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: inside of my booty cheeks probably you know they're used

1267
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 1: to it. The inside of your booty cheeks. Well, you

1268
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: know how your hand like callous and just come back vacation.

1269
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 1: So is Jack Harlow and Kaylin.

1270
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 2: Another side effect, men are saying that their penises are

1271
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 2: getting bigger.

1272
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: Oh no, they could just see them or why true?

1273
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,839
Speaker 1: I made an employment today? Would I say?

1274
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 2: I run a few pennies together, and you know, I

1275
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 2: want to apologize. I'm going to join you. You think

1276
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 2: that's what it is? Do you think you think that

1277
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,280
Speaker 2: it's not actually bigger, you're just skinnier.

1278
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 7: Yes, people do say that when you lose weight, it

1279
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 7: looks a little bigger, But.

1280
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: I would think you would lose weight everywhere including there. Well,

1281
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: there's is there, there's a way to be lost there.

1282
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:05,439
Speaker 1: I mean it's muscle, but I don't know you order

1283
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: it's a fresh shell.

1284
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:08,919
Speaker 9: Cord.

1285
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 1: All rise, The honorable Kik is here. Judge your honor.

1286
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: I'm doing. The floor is yours? All right, let's get

1287
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: into the courtroom.

1288
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 8: The gavel has been hit, it says, hey, Kiki, Am

1289
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 8: I wrong for reporting my neighbor's rescue dogs sanctuary. I

1290
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 8: live in a quiet suburban neighborhood. My next door neighbor, though,

1291
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 8: started fostering rescue dogs. At first, he was sweet two

1292
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 8: or three dogs in the yard, but now he's got

1293
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 8: ten dogs at a time, and it feels like I

1294
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 8: live next to a kennel. The barking is constant, the

1295
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 8: smell is awful, and to make things worse, the dogs

1296
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 8: keep escaping through gaps in his old fence and running

1297
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 8: into my yard. They've torn up my flower beds, knocked

1298
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 8: over my trash cans, and even scared my niece when

1299
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 8: she was outside. I tried talking to him calmly, but

1300
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 8: he brushed me off, saying these dogs would be dead

1301
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 8: without me. You should be grateful that I'm saving lives.

1302
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 8: I suggested to him, maybe lemiting how many dogs he's

1303
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 8: fostering at a time or.

1304
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 1: Fixing his fence.

1305
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 8: He then accused me of being anti rescue and said

1306
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,440
Speaker 8: people like me are the reason that shelters are full.

1307
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 8: That was my final straw, So I filed a complaint

1308
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 8: with the city. Animal control came out and deemed his

1309
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 8: home unsafe. They removed all of the dogs, even his

1310
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 8: family dog. Now he's telling everybody that I'm evil and

1311
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 8: I hate dogs, and my neighbors seem to be siding

1312
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 8: with him.

1313
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: Was I wrong for filing the complaint? That is a

1314
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: very complicated case. It really is all right.

1315
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 2: Well, judge Kiki, by the way, you guys are the

1316
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 2: jury eight five five three five What say you?

1317
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 5: So?

1318
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,040
Speaker 8: You know, I have a problem with people who adopt

1319
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 8: dogs and they can't take care of them, A big problem.

1320
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 8: Like I understand your heart is in the right place.

1321
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 8: My heart is in a lot of places, but you

1322
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 8: don't need to adopt pets if you can't properly take

1323
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 8: care of them.

1324
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: You know, I wish you wouldn't have called and complained

1325
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: on him.

1326
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 8: However, I'm glad she did because when they got there,

1327
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 8: they deemed it unsafe, and if it is indeed.

1328
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 1: Unsafe, they need to be taken out of.

1329
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:24,520
Speaker 2: The home, like, girl, I mean you can, but then

1330
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 2: what happens, what happens to him, that might be unsafe too, No, I.

1331
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: Know, And I don't want any of the dogs to

1332
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: go to glory.

1333
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 8: I want them to be rescued in the safe but

1334
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 8: they clearly were not being treated properly in his home.

1335
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 2: So yes, well call and you might be doing a

1336
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 2: good thing, but the neighborhood doesn't have to be affected

1337
00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 2: by your good thing, because you should be able to

1338
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,919
Speaker 2: do the good thing in a way that is good

1339
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 2: for the animals and also good for the community, right,

1340
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 2: I mean, it's just whatever you're doing next door might be.

1341
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 1: A nice thing.

1342
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 2: But like if again, if it's unruly and unkempt and

1343
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 2: there's just there's chaos and whatever, well then are you

1344
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 2: really doing a good thing?

1345
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: Right?

1346
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 8: And I was with him, I was with the neighbor

1347
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,240
Speaker 8: up until they deemed it unsafe. Like Okay, the dogs

1348
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 8: were barking, Okay, dogs bark The dogs tore up your

1349
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 8: flower bed, Okay, girl, they needed home. You know they're

1350
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 8: gonna be there forever. You know, I can get past

1351
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 8: all of that. But when they deemed the house unsafe, bro,

1352
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:20,959
Speaker 8: I have to call the people.

1353
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1354
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 8: You know, it's not about you know, me hating or

1355
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 8: her hating dogs.

1356
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 1: It's just you.

1357
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 8: You did not have a safe environment for them, and

1358
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 8: I know your heart was in the right place, but

1359
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 8: I don't understand adopting pets you can't take care of.

1360
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: But my question is white fostering.

1361
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 2: Why are all the neighbors turning on her if it

1362
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 2: was that bad, because wouldn't they have been affected by

1363
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:40,959
Speaker 2: the same thing.

1364
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,280
Speaker 8: It sounds like they didn't have the same issue that

1365
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 8: she was having. She was his direct next door neighbors,

1366
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 8: so they're going off of his word and he's just

1367
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 8: telling everybody she hates dogs and she's evil.

1368
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I would rather that. I mean again, so

1369
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 2: you're saving these animals. They're not you know, potentially being

1370
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 2: put down or or whatever else. But you're not providing

1371
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 2: them with a very good environment either, right, So it's

1372
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 2: something better than nothing, I guess it is the question

1373
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:11,080
Speaker 2: or that's hard. That's hard to say.

1374
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 1: You don't want them to go to like one of

1375
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: those shelters, you know they you know.

1376
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 2: Right, But then again, if they're not living good lives

1377
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 2: where they are, I mean, they're alive, but then at

1378
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 2: what expense?

1379
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 1: Hey Laurie, good morning.

1380
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 15: Hello, good morning, Hi Laurie.

1381
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: So what do you want to say Kiki's court, you're

1382
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: the jury.

1383
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 15: Okay, So here's the thing. How often did these issues occur?

1384
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 10: A lot of times?

1385
01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 15: What happens is, you know, the wind is blowing in

1386
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 15: the wrong direction, maybe.

1387
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 18: There's a smell.

1388
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 15: Okay, what was that? You know, once every couple of

1389
01:01:41,440 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 15: months when the wind was blowing in the right direction.

1390
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 15: How often was the dog getting into the neighbor's yard?

1391
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 15: Was it once every six months? I just think that

1392
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 15: what happens is is people they judge right off the

1393
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 15: bat immediately there's two or three circumstances, and they immediately

1394
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 15: want make this person guilty without hearing the other side.

1395
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 27: Yeah.

1396
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 1: I guess the thing that's.

1397
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 2: I guess the thing that verifies all of this is

1398
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 2: when they show up to investigate and they're like, oh, no, no, no,

1399
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 2: you can't do this.

1400
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you know.

1401
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 2: Now, I also know that cities and municipalities and whatever

1402
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 2: have been known to overreact, you know, and say that

1403
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 2: something is hazardous when it's not, or say that something

1404
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 2: is bad when it's not. So, I mean, how bad

1405
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 2: was it really?

1406
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: And I'm still.

1407
01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: Wondering why none of the other neighbors had as much

1408
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: of an issue with it as she did. Now, granted,

1409
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 2: the proximity may have been it, but somebody must have

1410
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 2: been on the other side.

1411
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: Or is she really just overreacting?

1412
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 15: That should tell you. I think there's over reaction here,

1413
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 15: I really do. That should tell you right there, if

1414
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 15: all the neighbors are saying, hey, it really wasn't this bad,

1415
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 15: and the city has to do that. They can't come

1416
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 15: out under those circumstances and not do something about it.

1417
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 17: Yo.

1418
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that.

1419
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 15: Although I agree that, you know, maybe something had to

1420
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 15: be done, I do also believe there's another side to this.

1421
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 15: I'd like to hear that person's side.

1422
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Laurie, thank you, have a good day. We'll welcome

1423
01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 2: you to I think people think, well, I'm adopting these

1424
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 2: animals and they're not in the shelter so that they're better.

1425
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 2: But if they're not, what if they're not being fed properly,

1426
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 2: what if there's what are there are too many where

1427
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 2: the conditions aren't sanitary that you're really not doing anybody

1428
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 2: any favors in that case, And it does happen, you

1429
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 2: hear about hoarders. You hear about all kinds of different things,

1430
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 2: or people that adopt an animal. I mean I've dealt

1431
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 2: with it one hundred times with pallets and pads. I mean,

1432
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 2: Kaylyn knows of one where you know, you adopt an animal,

1433
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 2: the animal gets too big. This is happened three or

1434
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 2: four different times. You buy a mastiff, or you adopt

1435
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 2: a mastiff, or worse, you buy one like a purebred mastuff, right, Like,

1436
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 2: everybody knows that they're going to be huge, and then

1437
01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 2: they get huge and people are.

1438
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,600
Speaker 1: Like, what is this? Right, shock, I don't know what's

1439
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: to do with this?

1440
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 2: And then they're not treating it well and they can't

1441
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 2: afford to defeat it and whatever, and then it's like

1442
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 2: what do we do?

1443
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 1: And then it's not great for anybody? Right, But like

1444
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 1: what do you do when you know you knew what

1445
01:03:57,840 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 1: you were doing?

1446
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 2: And in that case, the animal needs to be re

1447
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 2: homed or and luckily they're organizations that are out there

1448
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 2: trying to do this. But otherwise the animal is the

1449
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 2: one that you know, takes the brunt of it. Because

1450
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 2: they're the only ones in this. They don't have a

1451
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 2: whole lot of control of where they're going, hey, Daphney, Hi,

1452
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 2: how you doing Gigi's court?

1453
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: Good morning? What say you?

1454
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 28: I say that she should have definitely called animal control.

1455
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 28: I think it's so often that people don't stand up

1456
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:31,120
Speaker 28: for their own right and it's ridiculous.

1457
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Daphne, thank you, I'm glad you called. Have a

1458
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 1: good day.

1459
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 2: And I guess the thing is you could say, well,

1460
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 2: why didn't she call like a no kill or something like.

1461
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 2: There's a bunch of organizations that would have taken these

1462
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 2: animals and found them homes or kept them. But I

1463
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:44,640
Speaker 2: don't think that those organizations have the right to just

1464
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 2: go and it needs to be a governmental agency right

1465
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 2: to go into the house and be like, hey, you know,

1466
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 2: I don't think you know, our friends at whatever organization

1467
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 2: can just go knock on the door and go, hey,

1468
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm taking all these animals. No, because there needs to

1469
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 2: be some jurisdiction.

1470
01:04:58,080 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: I missed it. Did they try? Did she trying to

1471
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 1: have a conversation first?

1472
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 17: Oh?

1473
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, she said.

1474
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 8: I tried to tell him like, hey, why don't you

1475
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 8: foster less dogs at a time?

1476
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: Why don't you get your fence fixed?

1477
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 8: And he told her you're the reason that that was

1478
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 8: the first, shelters are fool.

1479
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: Hey Jenna, Yeah, Hi, Jenna. Kinky's Court.

1480
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,560
Speaker 2: So this woman, you know, had a neighbor who was

1481
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 2: fostering a bunch of animals but really didn't apparently have

1482
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:24,480
Speaker 2: the means to or the ability to keep to take

1483
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 2: care of them properly. Finally, she called animal control animal

1484
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 2: control and deemed the place unsafe, took all the animals.

1485
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 2: Who knows what happens now, and the neighbors are pissed

1486
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 2: at her for that. What do you think?

1487
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 12: I think that he shouldn't have been able to have

1488
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 12: as many animals as he did in the first place,

1489
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 12: so she shouldn't have had to make a complaint because

1490
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 12: I've tried to foster and I have one cat and

1491
01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 12: I wasn't able to because of the cat.

1492
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 17: So the fact that he.

1493
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 12: Was able to have so many foster pets, they should

1494
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 12: have been doing their due diligence and looking into.

1495
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 10: A man further and it would have never got to

1496
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:57,040
Speaker 10: that point.

1497
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 25: Just my opinion.

1498
01:05:58,400 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: I agree with that.

1499
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:01,440
Speaker 8: People lie about that process all the time. And I

1500
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 8: don't know if he was getting him off the street

1501
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 8: or you know, actually going through the whole process, but

1502
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 8: people do lie when they're trying to foster animals.

1503
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

1504
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 17: True.

1505
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, it's not good for the animals.

1506
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 2: Thank you, Jenna, have a good day. Okay, Well, what

1507
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 2: is this one? No offense? I love y'all, but I

1508
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 2: think you're a bunch of hypocrites, because if this was

1509
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 2: not a fluffy dog and a fluffy catter bunny rabbit

1510
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 2: or something that was cute, if it was snakes, all

1511
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 2: y'all would have agreed with her and told her she

1512
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:30,400
Speaker 2: what what we did agree with her.

1513
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 1: He said that it was unsafe and they shouldn't be there.

1514
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 2: Don't matter what the animal. I don't care if it's

1515
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 2: snakes or fluffy bunnies. It doesn't matter if the animals

1516
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 2: are not. If in fact, it was an unsafe place

1517
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 2: for the animals and it sounds like on top of

1518
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: that it wasn't well managed and they weren't being well

1519
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,400
Speaker 2: taken care of they were running around and whatever else,

1520
01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 2: then I don't think there's a choice here, right, I

1521
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 2: really don't. And again I would love to have seen

1522
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 2: him go to a place where they would be safe

1523
01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:00,120
Speaker 2: and they would live forever for sure, you know, no

1524
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 2: kill shelter.

1525
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 1: But I don't think it.

1526
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 2: No kill shelter has the authority to come in and

1527
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 2: be like, we're taking all these animals, especially for somebody

1528
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 2: who doesn't seem to have the self awareness to realize.

1529
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 2: But maybe they're in over their head even if they

1530
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 2: are doing a good thing.

1531
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:15,480
Speaker 1: Yep, why did we say that? We Well, we didn't,

1532
01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 1: we did. I don't know why I read that. I

1533
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 1: just I don't know why I read it. I love snakes,

1534
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 1: to be honest. I know I'm a weirdo, but yeah,

1535
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 1: I don't.

1536
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 2: I don't say, Hey, Brandon, if you guys have to

1537
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 2: say about a snake, you better stop right now.

1538
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 1: You better, said Brandon. If if you talk about a

1539
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: snake or not a fluffy bunny, then we're gonna have

1540
01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 1: a problem.

1541
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 5: We need to use some logic and intelligence here. The

1542
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 5: city doesn't just deem a house unsafe because it's a

1543
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 5: little fluffy buddy or a little uh puppy that's barking. No,

1544
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 5: the house is a piece of crap. It needs to

1545
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 5: be shut down for a legitimate reasons. It's not because

1546
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 5: of a dog. The house itself is garbage, therefore the

1547
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:02,240
Speaker 5: inside is not. People just need to think a little

1548
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 5: bit more clearly before they're panicking about.

1549
01:08:05,080 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 1: Well you hate my dove.

1550
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 5: No, that's just the house itself.

1551
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: Look at this, look at brand business, thank you brand

1552
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:15,480
Speaker 2: and have a good day. Brand is standing own business.

1553
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 2: And because you know, government can be overreaching. But at

1554
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 2: the same time, I'm sure they don't want to have

1555
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 2: to deal with this now, you know, it's like this

1556
01:08:21,560 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 2: is a logistical issue for them too.

1557
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, Kate, good morning. Hi Kate, key Key's car?

1558
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: What say you?

1559
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 29: I'm just wondering what kind of shelter is giving this

1560
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 29: guy twelve dogs to take care of. There's no way

1561
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 29: that that he's working with like a reputable place that's

1562
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 29: doing that.

1563
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that is a good question where all these

1564
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,640
Speaker 2: animals coming from, you know, because even the Pound, I

1565
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 2: think at some point would be like, what what are

1566
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 2: you doing with all these you know, what what are

1567
01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 2: we doing here?

1568
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 1: He's playing on different weeks, where are they going?

1569
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 2: And again, if in fact he has the best intentions

1570
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:58,720
Speaker 2: and he really is just trying to save all these

1571
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 2: animals from certain death, that I respect that, but there

1572
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 2: is an obligation to the animals here, Yeah, to make

1573
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:06,320
Speaker 2: sure that they're well taken care of and accounted for

1574
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 2: and they're not running loose, because that again, it defeats

1575
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:11,600
Speaker 2: the purpose if they're just if they're not safe and

1576
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 2: they're not being well fed or taken care of her

1577
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 2: that you know, a sort of a sanitary environment, and

1578
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:19,280
Speaker 2: took the.

1579
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 8: Family doll like they took his, you know, they took

1580
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 8: his doll too, So that lets.

1581
01:09:23,760 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 1: You know, they must have really not liked what they saw, right,

1582
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 1: And I don't think.

1583
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 29: It's like an animal hoarding situation, right yeah.

1584
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 2: Right, right, right right right, And yeah, I would feel

1585
01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 2: bad if I'm the neighbor that has to make that

1586
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 2: call and that's what happens. But again, I mean, we

1587
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 2: got to have some accountability here for the fact that

1588
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 2: somebody came in there and saw it and goes, no, no, no, no, no,

1589
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 2: we can't do it like this. Yeah, so there was

1590
01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 2: someone's really wrong. Thank you, Kate, thank you.

1591
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 1: Have a good day.

1592
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 2: Well now, Kelly, Kelly, it's the neighbor's fault. Which neighbor.

1593
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:55,840
Speaker 30: I think it's the neighbor with the pets because the

1594
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 30: other neighbor tries to compromise. I think she was very

1595
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:01,920
Speaker 30: kind and try to reach out and talk to him

1596
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 30: about it, and I don't think she had bad intentions

1597
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,920
Speaker 30: because she was even shocked at it was being done safe.

1598
01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 1: So I think that the.

1599
01:10:09,240 --> 01:10:11,040
Speaker 30: Neighbor did the best she could to talk to the

1600
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 30: other guy.

1601
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 17: He just didn't want to compromise.

1602
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:14,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right. Thank you, Kelly.

1603
01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 9: Have a good day.

1604
01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 2: I think it's been decided. Okay, I think he gets caught.

1605
01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 2: I think it's a case close. She's not wrong, no,

1606
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 2: and it's kind of feel bad. And now the neighbors

1607
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 2: are mad. But then again, I want to know which

1608
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 2: neighbor are the neighbors like two streets over mad that

1609
01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 2: didn't even have to deal with this.

1610
01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:31,080
Speaker 8: I don't know, but let this be a lesson. If

1611
01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 8: you can't feed yourself or if you're struggling to feed

1612
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:33,760
Speaker 8: your so.

1613
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 1: Don't get a pet. Yeah it's like a baby, like

1614
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 1: a kid. Don't have a kid if you know you

1615
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:38,599
Speaker 1: already stry.

1616
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 2: Like I'm all for doing the noble thing, but like, yeah,

1617
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: sometimes sometimes we gotta do a noble thing for ourselves.

1618
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 1: At this, Look at this the golden rule. Oh my,

1619
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:49,719
Speaker 1: he's the freend Show. Good morning.

1620
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:51,599
Speaker 2: Thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart

1621
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 2: app Live and anytime search for the freend Show on demand.

1622
01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 1: Here's the scenario.

1623
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 2: We moved into a new build a few months ago home,

1624
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 2: and we just a mailed letter from a house that's

1625
01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 2: behind ours. Note that there is a wash and a

1626
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 2: road between us. I shall type it word for word.

1627
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 2: This person wrote, I believe on Reddit, dear neighbor, congratulations

1628
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,240
Speaker 2: on your new home. I live across the way from

1629
01:11:15,280 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 2: you in Wherever. Although our homes are not very close together,

1630
01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 2: I can see directly into your home from my living

1631
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 2: room in backyard. I can clearly see as you walk

1632
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 2: around your kitchen and even when you get things from

1633
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 2: your refrigerator.

1634
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: Well, I'm happy for new neighbors.

1635
01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 2: I would prefer not to have a view into your

1636
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 2: home when I'm in my living room in backyard. For

1637
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,560
Speaker 2: your privacy, you may want to consider some blind curtains.

1638
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy your new home and neighborhood. Your

1639
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:47,799
Speaker 2: neighbor is this my neighbor. So this person who received

1640
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 2: the letter the commentary was this, So let me get

1641
01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 2: this right. We have to close our curtains so that

1642
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 2: you can have yours open. Also, you've been watching us

1643
01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 2: in our house like a creep. And then some choice

1644
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 2: words for your neighbor, Carol, my curtains will be open,

1645
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 2: and I think some naked dancing in the kitchen is required.

1646
01:12:08,280 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 2: So here is my question. Wow eight five five three five.

1647
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 2: You know there have been people arrested. There are stories

1648
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 2: about this on the internet chat GPT. I'm sure we'll

1649
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 2: tell you about people who've been in their own home.

1650
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 2: Like there was a story I remember years ago that

1651
01:12:23,320 --> 01:12:25,720
Speaker 2: made the news. It was a man who just I

1652
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 2: guess he slept naked, and he woke up every day

1653
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,080
Speaker 2: and walked out to the kitchen and make coffee naked.

1654
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 2: And apparently the window was a jay's like I don't know,

1655
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 2: like right next to but like somewhat adjacent to a

1656
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 2: bus stop, and people could I guess in the morning

1657
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,640
Speaker 2: they if you looked in that direction, you'd see him

1658
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,799
Speaker 2: in his own home. And he was charged with something

1659
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 2: like indecent exposure is something.

1660
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 1: And his argument was I'm in my house.

1661
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 2: And I don't remember what the resolution was, but it

1662
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, but people can see you. So my

1663
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 2: question is whose responsibility is it If you're in your

1664
01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 2: house and there's a reasonable distance from the next house,

1665
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 2: is it my responsibility to close the blinds because I'm

1666
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 2: naked in my house. Or if if you're in your

1667
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 2: house and you're looking across and you don't want to

1668
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 2: see that, then you close your blind cause it's not

1669
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 2: like they're they're inside their home. I mean, I guess

1670
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:15,600
Speaker 2: you could argue, like if you had a view of

1671
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 2: their backyard and they were sun tanning naked or something,

1672
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:21,280
Speaker 2: I guess you could say, well, you're not really in

1673
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 2: the confines of your house, and like, is there any

1674
01:13:23,240 --> 01:13:24,720
Speaker 2: like I got kids or whatever, like is there any

1675
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:27,559
Speaker 2: way we don't do that, But who's who has to

1676
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 2: be mindful of whom in this scenario?

1677
01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:32,360
Speaker 3: Jason Brown, I think about this all the time because

1678
01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:35,160
Speaker 3: we don't have blinds or curtains ever since we painted

1679
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:37,600
Speaker 3: all the walls, we never got new blinds.

1680
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 1: So we hide.

1681
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I feel responsible, Like I don't

1682
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:42,719
Speaker 3: want like whatever, so I'll make sure like if it's nighttime,

1683
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:44,640
Speaker 3: like the lights are off and we're not like I

1684
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 3: do not even want you to see me, and like

1685
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 3: I'm not like walking around my house naked, but like

1686
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 3: even in like my little chony's, I don't want you.

1687
01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:53,519
Speaker 1: To see me. So I take responsibility. I ask him

1688
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 1: all the time Okay, there was a story about it.

1689
01:13:56,800 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 1: I think it was like two or three years ago.

1690
01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 2: Because if you've ever been to Denver's Airport, there's at

1691
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:02,680
Speaker 2: and it's attached to Denver's Airport, like it's attached to it,

1692
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 2: and like so that the tower for the hotel is

1693
01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 2: right across the way from the terminal. And so I

1694
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 2: guess there was a like pilot I don't remember what airline,

1695
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 2: United maybe or Delta, and I don't know American. We'll

1696
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 2: just keep naming airlines.

1697
01:14:15,320 --> 01:14:15,639
Speaker 17: He flew.

1698
01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:17,479
Speaker 2: He flew for one of them, and he was in

1699
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 2: his hotel room on the phone, naked at the window

1700
01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 2: in his room, not trying to like like why.

1701
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:26,000
Speaker 1: Are you doing that? Right, But he's standing at.

1702
01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:28,240
Speaker 2: The window on his phone talking to violence, his wife

1703
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 2: or somebody anyways, some people, and you know how it

1704
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 2: there's also like the reflective material on each side of

1705
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 2: the window, so like he couldn't see into the terminal,

1706
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 2: and he's assuming that they can't see into the hotel,

1707
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 2: so he's standing there naked. Well, they called the police

1708
01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 2: on him and he was arrested because they were like

1709
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 2: you're you're like gross, you know, you're you're predators and

1710
01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 2: he's like, no, I was in my hotel room. I

1711
01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 2: sleep naked, phone rang I stood up and whatever I wouldn't,

1712
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:54,280
Speaker 2: I wouldn't necessarily.

1713
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 20: I mean, I'm sure I've done that. I'm in my

1714
01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 20: hotel room in the window, naked. Yes, why are you

1715
01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:02,440
Speaker 20: in the window, neckd Because.

1716
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:04,760
Speaker 2: I'm in my hotel room, because because I haven't gotten

1717
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 2: ready yet, because because it's in the privacy of it.

1718
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 20: It's like I'm walking down the hall like this, Well,

1719
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:11,240
Speaker 20: why are you in the window?

1720
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 1: Really?

1721
01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:16,000
Speaker 19: You don't think you can see I didn't get the

1722
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 19: presidential suite this time, okay, so I didn't have like

1723
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 19: multiple rooms and like a lot of places, you know,

1724
01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 19: so I can.

1725
01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 8: See the nice view, y'all. Just in the window, neked.

1726
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:27,320
Speaker 8: I hope nobody sees me in this window?

1727
01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:29,600
Speaker 1: Or do you want someone to see it's like a

1728
01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:30,320
Speaker 1: thrill thing.

1729
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 2: It's not thrilling somewhere. I think I'm okay in my

1730
01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 2: own house. And so but it comes back to whose

1731
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:42,559
Speaker 2: responsibility is it. If I'm in my house with a

1732
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: reasonable distance and you have to and you can look

1733
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 2: and see it, but you it's you know, I don't know.

1734
01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you try at that point, like you you know

1735
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: what you want to look.

1736
01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:52,160
Speaker 4: For if you're looking at me across the farm or

1737
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 4: whatever it is.

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01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:55,360
Speaker 1: The farm, there's a lot of rooms.

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01:15:55,560 --> 01:15:57,799
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I guess enough that you could see,

1740
01:15:58,160 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 2: not enough that you couldn't see, but enough to it

1741
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 2: wasn't like, you know, you're right on my right here, Alyssa.

1742
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:07,040
Speaker 1: Yes, So whose responsibility is it to cover up?

1743
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 15: If there are children at the other home, it is.

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01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:14,799
Speaker 1: My responsibility to cover up. But if there's no children,

1745
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 1: they're going to see me in my free form period.

1746
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 2: Well, but how do I I just moved in. What

1747
01:16:19,640 --> 01:16:20,840
Speaker 2: do I go knocking on doors? Say do you have

1748
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 2: any kids? Because I'm going to walk around.

1749
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 1: My own stands. Yeah, that's not going to go. I mean,

1750
01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 1: but I'm in my house. Like, stop looking at my house.

1751
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 14: I mean, what if they're walking by and they start

1752
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:36,040
Speaker 14: looking through the window, what am I going to do?

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01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:36,920
Speaker 5: Well?

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01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:38,960
Speaker 1: Now, now, why are you looking at my window? It's

1755
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 1: my window. I'm in my house.

1756
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:42,679
Speaker 2: If you look at my window from a reasonable distance

1757
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:45,120
Speaker 2: and I'm walking around naked, well that I think you're

1758
01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:46,559
Speaker 2: the creep, Like look the other.

1759
01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:50,439
Speaker 1: Way at that point, probably, Yeah, yes, thank you, Alyssa.

1760
01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:51,719
Speaker 1: Have a good day, of course.

1761
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not going to survey the neighborhood to see

1762
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 2: who's got kids. You know, I don't think that's going

1763
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:59,439
Speaker 2: to help my cause when when someone walks by and

1764
01:16:59,439 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 2: sees me make it. He was just at our house

1765
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:02,479
Speaker 2: yesterday asking if we had children.

1766
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 1: A single man can't do right any kids in these Ye,

1767
01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:10,120
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to do that.

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01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:15,040
Speaker 2: I would argue that it is your responsibility not to

1769
01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 2: look into my house to be off.

1770
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: That's right, yeah, stand on it.

1771
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:22,599
Speaker 3: I think everyone has to take ownership. Like you shouldn't

1772
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 3: be standing in your window naked window.

1773
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 1: That's my just to come to my window in the

1774
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:30,160
Speaker 1: window naked is weird?

1775
01:17:30,400 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 5: Wow?

1776
01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:36,599
Speaker 27: The house in the window just naked. Wow, So I'm

1777
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:39,760
Speaker 27: supposed to I'm in a hotel room. There aren't that

1778
01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 27: many places to stand in a hotel room because.

1779
01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: You got a bed in a desk and in it.

1780
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 1: You know, he's got a full size refrigerator that she

1781
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 1: ordered and microwave.

1782
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:53,960
Speaker 3: We're just ever just stand around hotel rooms like I'm

1783
01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 3: always doing something.

1784
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:58,439
Speaker 1: I'm laying down or like body or like I'm just

1785
01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: standing indow in a freaky.

1786
01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:09,639
Speaker 2: Why are you looking at me here Wesley tomar Crack

1787
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:12,040
Speaker 2: research team. He said the city of Denver wound up

1788
01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 2: paying that pilot three hundred grand. Yeah, I mean he

1789
01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 2: got his job back because you know, the airline suspends

1790
01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:19,680
Speaker 2: him and it's like investigation.

1791
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 1: And all he was doing was he was in his

1792
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,000
Speaker 1: room and he was on the phone.

1793
01:18:24,280 --> 01:18:26,479
Speaker 3: Well he thought it was tinted like that is kind

1794
01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 3: of what is it deceitful to like be tinted one

1795
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 3: way but not the other like that?

1796
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 2: That's okay? So, like I live in a high rise.

1797
01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 2: There's a high rise adjacent to ours across the street,

1798
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 2: not on my side, but on my neighbor's side. I

1799
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:41,000
Speaker 2: was at my neighbor's house the other night, and they

1800
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 2: look right into the other building. And when it's dark

1801
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,120
Speaker 2: and people have their light on inside the unit, then

1802
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 2: you can see right in the unit like everyone's unit.

1803
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:50,479
Speaker 2: So is he just not allowed to look out the

1804
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,240
Speaker 2: window at night of his own house because he might

1805
01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 2: happen to see somebody? And then if he does and

1806
01:18:56,360 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 2: they're just minding their own business in their house because

1807
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:01,400
Speaker 2: their beds right there, then am I supposed to call

1808
01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 2: the cops if I see somebody in their room doing

1809
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:05,160
Speaker 2: the thing because they didn't close their blinds.

1810
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 3: No, no, you can call the cops. Just be able

1811
01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:08,720
Speaker 3: to look out your window. But I think you need

1812
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:10,400
Speaker 3: to take like a little bit of ownership to.

1813
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:15,400
Speaker 26: Not be standing in you put your put your telescope away,

1814
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 26: like honestly, put the binoculars down.

1815
01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 1: The fread show is on Fred's fun Fact.

1816
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:34,320
Speaker 31: Fred, you can learn so much right now, Gids, you

1817
01:19:34,479 --> 01:19:39,040
Speaker 31: know there is a planet made almost entirely of a diamond.

1818
01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's the one Big Tim should have given you.

1819
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 2: Yes, he should have been like, baby, you know, I

1820
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:47,640
Speaker 2: know this is just this is token of my appreciation.

1821
01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:49,800
Speaker 2: But really the ring I wanted you to have is

1822
01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:52,559
Speaker 2: the size of that planet the sky called fifty five

1823
01:19:52,760 --> 01:19:53,560
Speaker 2: cancari e.

1824
01:19:54,080 --> 01:19:57,679
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I'm here for it.

1825
01:19:58,080 --> 01:20:00,599
Speaker 1: Let me ask, oh my, let me ask at GPT

1826
01:20:01,040 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 1: how to use that other dating app or something. Man,

1827
01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: I could take all the stars in the sky and

1828
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 1: put them in your eye. Yeah, take it, take me,

1829
01:20:10,960 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 1: take me.

1830
01:20:11,640 --> 01:20:15,360
Speaker 2: Yes, scientists believe that there's an exo planet called fifty

1831
01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:18,920
Speaker 2: five can cree eve. It's a carbon based world where

1832
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 2: about a third of the mass could be a crystalline diamond.

1833
01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:27,240
Speaker 1: So maybe space is cool. I don't know, maybe we

1834
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:31,240
Speaker 1: should go there like that, that is, like, let's go

1835
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:32,720
Speaker 1: to the Diamond planet, you know what I mean, Like,

1836
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 1: forget about this man, this is this is a racket

1837
01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 1: down here. Take me to the Diamond planet.

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01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 5: Man.

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01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:41,040
Speaker 1: More Fresh show next right here.