WEBVTT - Second Date Update: No Snow Show 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:03.040 Oh man, this one gets wild. Hey, it's freaking Jeffrey 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:05.239 in the morning. We got a brand new second Date episode. 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:09.080 And I don't know. I mean, I think that there 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:11.559 will be as many people on the woman's side as 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:14.319 there is the man's side on this one. Really, I 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:16.840 don't know. I tend to lean towards the guy here, 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:19.640 but yeah, that's true. But then there is Yes, yes, 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:21.759 a lot of women might agree. Yeah, I don't know. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:22.759 I don't know either. 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:25.320 There's all kinds of people out there. 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:28.920 Yeah, either way, you're gonna have some feelings. Let us 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:29.159 know that. 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:32.800 I just really imagine a bag flying in first class 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:33.440 by itself. 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:38.000 They're just putting the food in the purse. 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:41.040 That'll make sense on a second Yeah, sure, all right, 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:43.239 let's get to uh, listener, what do we got? 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:46.840 Yes, Stormy Sky said this is the type of calculated 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:48.919 dating I never knew I needed to hear. 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:53.440 Oh that must be from the one where she made 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:57.720 the rules for herself. Yeah, that we had last week. Yes, 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.160 so now that you heard it, I don't know if 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:01.720 this is going to make your dating life better or 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:04.600 make you one of those people. I don't know being 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:07.120 one of those people make things better. I don't know either. Yeah, 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.200 I definitely was not calculated in my dating life. Very messy, 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.000 but it all worked out. So good luck to everyone, 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.160 And here's your brand new episode right now. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:18.040 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date Updates. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:22.240 Today's second date update is going to be a little 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:26.360 different because one of our listeners, Kelly, wrote in saying 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:30.720 she is one hundred percent not interested in getting another 0:01:30.840 --> 0:01:31.720 date with this guy. 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:34.200 Oh, we've done a couple like these, not very often, 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:36.360 but every once in a while we're doing a second 0:01:36.480 --> 0:01:39.120 date and a revenge cal answer. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:42.000 Yeah, I understand the confusion because it kind of goes 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:44.600 against the whole point of this segment. But I'm giving 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:48.080 her a pass today because apparently there is a juicy 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:51.440 story that goes along with it. And also, I'm a 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.480 sucker for people who threaten me over email. I will 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:57.800 give in pretty much immediately threatened cut. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.080 Why do I like her already? 0:01:59.320 --> 0:01:59.520 Yeah? 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.000 Respect Kelly, Welcome to the show. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.960 Hi guys, Hey, Kelly oh Man. 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:08.960 Such a nice voice for a threatening, scary one. 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.480 No, I have chills down my spine just hearing you 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:14.520 in person now. And Kelly, I don't know the full 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:17.239 situation that you're in right now. But apparently there is 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.640 a dude that you went out with according to your email. 0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.000 You want us to call him today. What's his name? 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.600 Calvin said? 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:26.639 What did he do wrong. 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:29.840 With a name like Calvin? 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:30.360 No? 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.960 We met on a new dating app that I was 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:34.560 trying out. 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:37.280 What is it? 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:40.960 Slightly risque and it has a financial bar. 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:44.359 For both sides? Are just for the men. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:45.639 For both sides? 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.359 Okay, Oh it's. 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:48.320 Rich people dated up? 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:51.160 Yeah I didn't. 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:52.960 We're not in the right tax bracket. 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:54.959 I literally can't picture with dating app. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.440 This is still like I don't, but I've always said 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:00.680 the world needs more rich people marrying other rich people. 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:05.800 Yeah, his lifestyle management. Yes, Yeah, we just clicked. We 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.919 talked back and forth all the time. He just seemed 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:12.040 very cool and exactly what I was looking for on paper. 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:14.079 Was there a date that happened between you two? 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:16.600 Yeah, Well we're not in the same location, so you 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.520 can match with anyone all over the world. 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:21.880 Oh wow, so are you at least in the same country. 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.200 We were both in the US, Yeah, but we were 0:03:24.240 --> 0:03:26.880 in completely different places temporarily. 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:28.400 I was going to Dubai next week. 0:03:28.840 --> 0:03:29.080 I know. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:31.680 Alexis rolls her eyes at the idea of him being 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:36.080 in the US. But that's okay. Yeah, yeah, we are 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:38.280 your options all over the globe, and I guess you 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:39.160 want to slum it here. 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:40.120 I see your girl. 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:43.440 Wait did you fly to him or did he fly 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:43.720 to you? 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.440 It was actually quite sweet. I we were talking one afternoon. 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:48.120 I said, you know, I've used to love the snow 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:49.720 growing up, and I didn't get to see a lot 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:52.480 of it where I lived. And so he lives somewhere 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:55.320 that it's snowy in the winter, and so he suggested 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.400 a really nice resort in his area. 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:02.040 When resort, what do you mean? What type of resort? Ski? 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:02.520 Resort? 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:02.920 You? 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:06.240 Okay, it's a nice like five star with a spa 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:08.080 and locations. 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:12.200 The concierge that brings your skis to you. You can 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:15.720 hit the slopes after your morning breve, so you're both 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:16.560 good skiers. 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:20.080 No, it sounded great, but he well, it's not his fault. 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:20.360 I didn't. 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.920 He didn't realize. But I know I don't. I don't ski. 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:25.960 Oh what the bar of the launches is fun? 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:31.960 Yeah, okay, yeah, I didn't mind if he skied. So anyway, 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:34.360 we get out there and we'd agreed that I would 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:37.160 spend one night in his place before we drove an 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:40.920 hour away to the resort. Okay, okay, wow, all right 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:43.120 we did that. He offered me the guest bedroom, which 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:47.080 was very gentlemanly. Yeah, he made a great first impression. 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:48.400 It was right on target. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:51.039 Okay, sounds awesome to be able to do this for 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:51.720 somebody too. 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:53.760 Like I know, now I'm like confused because your email 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:57.040 said you're not interested in seeing him again? Like, how 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:58.440 did you reach that conclusion? 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:02.159 I'll explain. So we get to the resort, and the resort, 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:04.960 you know, it's nice enough, but there is zero snow. 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:07.960 Oh Brooks. 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.479 Oh geez, I gotta say though it's not a very 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:14.080 good season, right, like at a lot of resorts. Is 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:15.000 that what was going on? 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:18.560 I have no idea. I don't keep tabs on the 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.919 resorts because I don't ski and he does, so I 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.840 assumed he would have. He could have called just to text. 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:26.080 Oh. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:30.320 So, do you feel like he should have canceled the 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:33.159 date or changed the plan after realizing there wouldn't be 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:35.240 enough snow at the resort right, or. 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:36.440 Not suggested it? 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:38.400 I mean no, I. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:41.120 Mean, I know your goal was to see snow, but 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.920 maybe his goal was just to have a date weekend. 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:46.000 Well, then it starts to feel like, you know, he's 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.320 just inviting me over for Netflix and chill. He'd made 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.839 such a big deal about it being winter Wonderland. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.120 He did promise you a lot and not deliver on 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:53.600 any of this. 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:57.760 So, I mean, is this a reason why you're so upset? Yeah? 0:05:57.839 --> 0:05:59.960 I mean he didn't. He had also had no plan 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.120 to entertain us. I mean I had to kind of 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:04.840 fend for myself. I was like, oh, I guess I'll 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:06.840 get a many petty in a massage. 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:07.560 And that sounds awful. 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:09.880 Talking to Lodge, it's only a spawn. 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:14.040 Hot Brook. What are you not understanding? He's a liar. 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:16.880 He manipulated her into thinking that they were going to 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:20.400 have this magical winter experience and then didn't do anything. 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.200 I bet he was disappointed too, wasn't he Because he's 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:24.919 a skier, so wasn't he disappointed? 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.279 No, he didn't seem bothered by any of it. He 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:28.880 was happy to just Netflix and chill. 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.560 I think, oh, he's trying to turn, you know, lemons 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:32.359 into lemonade. 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:34.960 So you've decided he is not a good guy. You 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:36.920 don't want to date him. But what made you reach 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:38.560 out to us, like, what are you hoping to get 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:39.400 out of this call? 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:42.120 Well, this is why my friend told me to call. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.000 So I you know, I left. I just called an 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:47.839 uber finally because he just wasn't initiating any plans. I 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.120 just wanted to sit around all weekend. And finally I 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.600 was like, Okay, I think we've ridden this strain as 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:54.240 far as it's going to ride. And I called a 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:57.120 car and stopped the flight out. Well, my bag was 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:58.000 still at his house. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:59.760 What Oh. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:03.560 I have contacted him several times and asked him to 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.719 ship the bag back to me, and he's not responding 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:08.200 at all. My luggage is at his house. I only 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:09.840 had a small bag with me, like an overnight. 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.160 So you went straight from the resort to the airport 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:12.960 and flew home. 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.280 Did you tell him? Did you tell him you were leaving? 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:17.480 Yeah? I left a note. 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.760 Oh oh, So he came back from like skiing or 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:23.760 something and was like, ohne. 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:24.000 Not skiing because there's no snow. 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:25.920 Yeah. 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:27.520 Yeah, he was at the gym or something. 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:29.680 Oh selfish. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.480 So we're just calling him to try to get your 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:32.640 expensive bag back. 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:34.640 I just want my bag back. 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:39.560 Okay, Yeah, we will actually follow through with our promises, 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.440 unlike Calvin. When we come back and do this call 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:43.560 right after this hold on. 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:46.520 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second date updates. 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.680 I just want to apologize to all of the women 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:55.120 of this world for the low life, selfish men you 0:07:55.240 --> 0:08:01.160 lie and mislead them. Because when a man plans winter vacation, 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:05.920 he should at least make sure winter is there. Come on, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.440 hello Winter, where'd you go? 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:09.240 Okay? 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:14.520 But nope, despicable schmucks like Calvin exist, unfortunately, because he 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:18.440 promised our listener, Kelly, a luxury resort weekend full of 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.320 skiing and champagne and even hot tubs. 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.600 No, she doesn't ski, but she did want to see 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:24.040 the snow. 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:28.239 Yeah, and he promised her that. But when they arrived, nope, 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:32.280 not a drop of snow on the mountain. Thankfully, we 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:34.880 have somebody to blame for that, Calvin. 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:37.720 Okay, he controls the weather. 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:40.760 At least Kelly's blaming him for not checking. That would 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:43.280 have been the responsible, not selfish thing to do. I 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.200 guess he couldn't be bothered to do that. So that 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:47.840 brings us to where we are now. Oh and yes, 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.280 she also left her bag back at Calvin's house and 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.319 she kind of needs that back because she left. 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:53.800 In a hurry and just left him a note. 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.559 It's like, who could blame her? I would get out 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:59.319 of there too. So that's our mission today, Kelly. Again, 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.360 I am so so sorry that you were having to 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:01.960 go through this. 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.760 Thank you. I appreciate the sympathy. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:05.760 You are welcome. 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:09.840 Kelly. Can I play devil's advocate for just a second. 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:12.839 Right here? 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:15.160 Did you ever think that, like, maybe you could have 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:18.120 talked to him about how you felt what. 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:24.920 I spent two or three days expressing my discussion with suation. 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:27.079 I should have known you made it a lot of clear. 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:30.240 I just feel like you didn't give him a chance. 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:32.800 And it's kind of how many times on this show 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:36.120 are you going to take the men's side. It's annoying 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:40.200 that was constantly standing up for the male of it. 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:43.480 They're disgusted. Have a woman's back for once. Can you 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:45.080 please come on, Brug. 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:47.640 Just call Calvin. 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.520 We're going to reach out to Calvin and get your 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:51.720 bag back. Kelly, you ready, I'm ready? 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:52.319 Thank you. 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:55.760 Let's do start calling that tone, Jeff, I'll bring it down. 0:09:56.640 --> 0:10:02.480 Can't send sarcasm? 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:07.640 Hello, Oh Calvin, this is Calvin, right, do not come 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:10.120 in that hot jeff I just said his name, Calvin. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.520 No, you didn't just say it said Calvin. Hi, Calvin. 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:21.040 Hello, Yeah, good morning, Just confirming Calvin. Where we're with 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.240 a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:25.480 You've probably heard of it. 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.920 No, No, I don't know what to say, so polite. 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:33.160 Yeah, Look, Calvin, this is a segment that we do. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:36.000 It's called the second Date Update. Normally, we're trying to 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:39.360 like reconnect listeners after they've gone out with someone and 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:41.640 they're not getting a callback. We're on a kind of 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:44.120 a different mission today because we heard from a girl 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:46.520 that you met up recently named Kelly. 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.240 Really joking right, he. 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:56.040 Shocked lot to say. I mean, spoiler alert, she's not happy. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:57.160 She doesn't mince word. 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:01.920 You got the sense that she wasn't having a good 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:03.840 time on your quote unquote ski trip. 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:08.880 Uh yeah, I got that sense over and over and over. 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:12.480 Oh my god, what was it like? 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:15.520 Happy? 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:17.480 H Are you calling me to like hear my side 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:18.520 of the story? Is that what it is? 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:21.400 Yeah? And an apology maybe? But go ahead, what's your 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:22.160 son the story? 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:25.120 Sure? I mean I'm curious what you know, But you know, 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:26.960 it doesn't matter. Sure, here, it's the story. 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:32.080 She was really excited to see snow, so I said, 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:33.760 I would love to take it to this resort. I 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:36.959 know it's great. And yeah, okay, so you've heard all that. 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:40.360 We got there and there was hardly any snows. 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.080 And how bad do you feel on a scale of 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:43.079 one to ten right now? 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:45.800 Right now? I don't feel badly. 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.080 At all now, But did you at the time? 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:52.040 Sure? Sure, Like I didn't take the time out to 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:54.440 check the weather forecaster see what snow conditions were. 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:57.400 And that's flowing on me. And I absolutely apologize for it. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:59.720 But literally it was like taking. 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:02.160 A toddler candy shop and the candy shop is sold 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:03.200 out of candy. 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:05.120 Did she throw a fit? 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:09.560 She's such a fid And look, I'm the kind of 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:12.319 person who like she just wants to, you know, take 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:13.000 the situation you. 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:15.080 Have and make it as good a time as possible. 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:18.200 And that's not her. She just kept wanting to complain 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:20.800 and remind me, you know, how do you not check? 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:23.400 Like she was yelling at you. 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:25.480 Yeah, she was literally like, we're gonna do now there's 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:27.920 no snow, and I'm like, that's still the beautiful mountains, right, like, 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:30.680 go walk around outside, take a height, and she's like, no, 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:32.720 I don't want to do that. I want a manny, 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:34.640 I want a petty, I want a massage. And you 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:37.200 have to pay for all that. Oh boy, people who 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:39.199 went out to like a really nice dinner that I 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.880 paid for. He kept asking some outs to dinner. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:44.280 How was it that I didn't know there was some snow. 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:47.760 Like we understand, Calvin, shame on the woman for not 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:51.040 being happy when you didn't deliver on the promises. Yeah, 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:54.880 on your side with that. The weird part that we 0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:57.240 heard from Kelly, and you can say whether this is 0:12:57.240 --> 0:13:00.559 true or not, is when she left, she forgot her 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:03.560 bag over at your place and she's asked for it 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:05.560 back and you're refusing to send it to her. 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:07.560 Yes, that is totally true. 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:07.719 Bad. 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:09.640 It seems whether or not you had a bad time 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:12.400 on the date, that feels like you're crossing the line 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.640 and like not return to her items. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:17.559 I don't know hear me out here. I don't think 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.040 you know the whole story about this. 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:22.080 So she let me you a message, and her message was, Hey. 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:23.800 I'm a different guy in New York and he just 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:27.040 send my bags to his place one week later, Right? 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:30.400 Is that that's like her revenge tactic, Like I'm going 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:32.360 to show him I'm with somebody else already. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:34.040 Oh boy, she already got. 0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:35.400 This other guy and she wants me to send the 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:37.400 bags there, and she sends me the address, So I 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:40.040 look up the address for a multi million dollar condo 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.320 in New York. You know what, No, I'm not sending 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.640 your bags with some other rich dude who you already 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:46.720 you know, had lined up it a week later. 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:48.880 You know, I'm not paying I'm not paying another cent 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:49.600 for this woman. 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:51.600 Yeah, but you should have told her to come pick 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:53.720 it up at the front desk of your condo building. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:55.280 Yeah, she can. 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.560 I will say, Calvin, we did not hear that part 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.680 of the story about the other guy in New York, 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:01.760 and she wants you to mail it directly to him. 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:04.200 I got to say, which people problems are so juicy? 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:08.680 Yeah, And it gets even juicier for you, Calvin, because 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:11.240 Kelly is on the other line right now, waiting to 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:12.960 jump in and talk to you. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.440 Oh really, yeah, go for it. Put her on. 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:17.520 Yeah, okay, Kelly jumping in. 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:18.200 It's a battle. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:23.520 I want hi, Calvin, Oh Hi, Kelly, that package yet 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.280 perhaps it was delayed in the mail. 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:28.800 Oh no, you just listened. 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:29.560 Yeah it was. 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:31.200 It was delaying the mail because it wasn't paid for, 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:34.120 because I'm not paying for anything else. But honestly, like, 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.400 I will do you the favor of bringing it downstairs 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.720 and leaving it with my doorman so the Seedex guy 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:39.720 doesn't have to ring my bell. 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:40.760 Oh wow, this. 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.640 Is punitive and it's child Can just call your assistant. 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:45.040 This is a two second problems. 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:46.880 Oh oh wow, he's childish. 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:48.240 It's not about the time, Kelly. 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:49.160 It's about the money. 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:51.360 I spend thousands of dollars on you. 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.080 Would it cost one hundred and twenty dollars to set 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:54.680 the package? 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.160 How about you have your witch New York boyfriend paid 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:58.200 for it if you can, because it. 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.560 Seems like you can't pay for anything. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:05.680 Okay, now you're childish, angelous, Calvin, really. 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:07.720 Grow up, I will say, Kelly, it's a litt odd 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.080 that you didn't mention this second part of the story 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.160 where you've moved on to a new guy already. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.640 Do you think any of that matters. It's all could 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.480 have been avoided if you were so entitled and you 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:22.840 just told him like, hey. 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:23.080 We'll be careful with the word on this show, bro. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:25.680 I want to leave, And Calvin, I'm sure would have 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:27.960 taken you back to his place to get your bag 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:29.880 and then taken you to the airport. 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:31.640 Yeah, absolutely would have done that. 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:34.560 Oh, so you wanted me to believe that he was 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:36.720 going to drive me back to his place, get my 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:38.880 luggage and take me to the airport, just like you 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.040 wanted me to believe there was snow on the mountain. 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.280 Oh, he didn't lie about the snow. 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:44.840 He didn't know. 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:46.600 That was a good one, though. You got to give it. 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:50.600 He has a point. You don't follow through with your promises. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:56.400 I can't promise snow. I mean, no, ridiculous. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.640 Woman is yes, please, Calvin. What you don't seem to 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:01.680 understand is that I need a man who takes initiatives 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:05.320 and responsibility for his own actions. If there was no 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.000 snow on that mountain, you should have flown us to 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.120 another resort where there was. 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:12.480 Oh that's a good point, Calvin. You say that you're 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:13.960 able to adapt on the fly. 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:16.440 But count mountains. 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:18.080 Yeah, you didn't come through this time. 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:21.640 I mean, obviously not leading up to Keilly standards. Fine 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:24.040 by me, But she found another man who does, so 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:27.320 why doesn't she Why immediately out to my place and 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:28.000 pick up the bag. 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.360 Yeah, I know you're trying to stand your ground on 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.480 this one, but I feel like the headache is just 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.760 going to be over if you ship or the damn bag. 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:37.640 It's like, yeah, Calvin, listen to them, Please don't drag 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:40.520 this out. It's ridiculous. You know that my new boyfriend 0:16:40.560 --> 0:16:41.080 is a lawyer. 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:44.080 Oh oh, are you threst me now? 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:48.280 I mean's just saying, don't make this more complicated than anything. 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:51.080 Oh my gosh. We are living for this drama. But 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.720 we are running out of time here. So at this 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:56.760 point I would ask would you go out on a 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:59.240