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Speaker 1: in the morning. We got a brand new second Date episode.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know. I mean, I think that there

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Speaker 1: but yeah, that's true. But then there is Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: a lot of women might agree. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: There's all kinds of people out there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, either way, you're gonna have some feelings. Let us

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Speaker 3: I just really imagine a bag flying in first class

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Speaker 2: They're just putting the food in the purse.

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Speaker 1: That'll make sense on a second Yeah, sure, all right,

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Speaker 3: Yes, Stormy Sky said this is the type of calculated

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Speaker 1: Oh that must be from the one where she made

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Speaker 1: make you one of those people. I don't know being

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Speaker 1: I definitely was not calculated in my dating life. Very messy,

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Speaker 1: but it all worked out. So good luck to everyone,

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 2: Today's second date update is going to be a little

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Speaker 2: different because one of our listeners, Kelly, wrote in saying

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Speaker 1: Oh, we've done a couple like these, not very often,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand the confusion because it kind of goes

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Speaker 1: Why do I like her already?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Respect Kelly, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Hi guys, Hey, Kelly oh Man.

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Speaker 1: Such a nice voice for a threatening, scary one.

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Speaker 2: No, I have chills down my spine just hearing you

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Speaker 2: in person now. And Kelly, I don't know the full

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Speaker 2: You want us to call him today. What's his name?

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Speaker 6: Calvin said?

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Speaker 1: What did he do wrong.

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Speaker 6: With a name like Calvin?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 6: We met on a new dating app that I was

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Speaker 6: trying out.

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 6: Slightly risque and it has a financial bar.

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Speaker 1: For both sides? Are just for the men.

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Speaker 5: For both sides?

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Speaker 1: Rich people dated up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't.

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Speaker 1: We're not in the right tax bracket.

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Speaker 3: I literally can't picture with dating app.

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Speaker 2: This is still like I don't, but I've always said

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Speaker 6: Yeah, his lifestyle management. Yes, Yeah, we just clicked. We

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Well we're not in the same location, so you

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Speaker 2: I was going to Dubai next week.

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Speaker 6: I see your girl.

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Speaker 6: It was actually quite sweet. I we were talking one afternoon.

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Speaker 6: I said, you know, I've used to love the snow

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Speaker 6: we did that. He offered me the guest bedroom, which

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Speaker 6: I'll explain. So we get to the resort, and the resort,

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Speaker 6: Not suggested it?

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Speaker 6: Well, then it starts to feel like, you know, he's

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Speaker 6: I mean he didn't. He had also had no plan

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Speaker 2: And that sounds awful.

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Speaker 1: Talking to Lodge, it's only a spawn.

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Speaker 2: Hot Brook. What are you not understanding? He's a liar.

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Speaker 2: He manipulated her into thinking that they were going to

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Speaker 6: No, he didn't seem bothered by any of it. He

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Speaker 2: So you've decided he is not a good guy. You

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Speaker 6: Well, this is why my friend told me to call.

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Speaker 6: I have contacted him several times and asked him to

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Speaker 2: So you went straight from the resort to the airport

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I left a note.

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Speaker 1: Not skiing because there's no snow.

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Speaker 2: Oh selfish.

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Speaker 6: I just want my bag back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, we will actually follow through with our promises,

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Speaker 2: unlike Calvin. When we come back and do this call

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Speaker 2: right after this hold on.

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Speaker 2: I just want to apologize to all of the women

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Speaker 2: of this world for the low life, selfish men you

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Speaker 2: he should at least make sure winter is there. Come on,

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Speaker 2: hello Winter, where'd you go?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: But nope, despicable schmucks like Calvin exist, unfortunately, because he

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Speaker 1: No, she doesn't ski, but she did want to see

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he promised her that. But when they arrived, nope,

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Speaker 1: Okay, he controls the weather.

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Speaker 2: At least Kelly's blaming him for not checking. That would

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Speaker 1: In a hurry and just left him a note.

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Speaker 2: It's like, who could blame her? I would get out

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Speaker 2: of there too. So that's our mission today, Kelly. Again,

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Speaker 2: I am so so sorry that you were having to

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Speaker 6: Thank you. I appreciate the sympathy.

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Speaker 2: You are welcome.

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Speaker 1: Kelly. Can I play devil's advocate for just a second.

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Speaker 2: Right here?

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Speaker 1: Did you ever think that, like, maybe you could have

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Speaker 6: I spent two or three days expressing my discussion with suation.

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Speaker 1: I should have known you made it a lot of clear.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like you didn't give him a chance.

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Speaker 2: And it's kind of how many times on this show

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Speaker 2: They're disgusted. Have a woman's back for once. Can you

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Speaker 2: please come on, Brug.

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Speaker 1: Just call Calvin.

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Speaker 2: We're going to reach out to Calvin and get your

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Let's do start calling that tone, Jeff, I'll bring it down.

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Speaker 1: Can't send sarcasm?

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Speaker 2: Hello, Oh Calvin, this is Calvin, right, do not come

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Speaker 2: in that hot jeff I just said his name, Calvin.

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Speaker 1: No, you didn't just say it said Calvin. Hi, Calvin.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Yeah, good morning, Just confirming Calvin. Where we're with

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Speaker 2: a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: You've probably heard of it.

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Speaker 5: No, No, I don't know what to say, so polite.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Look, Calvin, this is a segment that we do.

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Speaker 2: It's called the second Date Update. Normally, we're trying to

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Speaker 2: like reconnect listeners after they've gone out with someone and

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Speaker 2: they're not getting a callback. We're on a kind of

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Speaker 7: Really joking right, he.

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Speaker 2: Shocked lot to say. I mean, spoiler alert, she's not happy.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't mince word.

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Speaker 2: You got the sense that she wasn't having a good

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Speaker 2: time on your quote unquote ski trip.

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, I got that sense over and over and over.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what was it like?

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Speaker 2: Happy?

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Speaker 5: H Are you calling me to like hear my side

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Speaker 5: of the story? Is that what it is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And an apology maybe? But go ahead, what's your

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Speaker 7: Sure? I mean I'm curious what you know, But you know,

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Speaker 7: it doesn't matter. Sure, here, it's the story.

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Speaker 5: She was really excited to see snow, so I said,

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Speaker 5: know it's great. And yeah, okay, so you've heard all that.

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Speaker 5: We got there and there was hardly any snows.

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Speaker 2: And how bad do you feel on a scale of

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Speaker 5: Right now? I don't feel badly.

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Speaker 1: At all now, But did you at the time?

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Speaker 5: Sure? Sure, Like I didn't take the time out to

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Speaker 7: And that's flowing on me. And I absolutely apologize for it.

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Speaker 7: But literally it was like taking.

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Speaker 5: A toddler candy shop and the candy shop is sold

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Speaker 1: Did she throw a fit?

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Speaker 7: She's such a fid And look, I'm the kind of

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Speaker 5: Have and make it as good a time as possible.

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Speaker 5: And that's not her. She just kept wanting to complain

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Speaker 5: and remind me, you know, how do you not check?

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Speaker 1: Like she was yelling at you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she was literally like, we're gonna do now there's

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Speaker 5: no snow, and I'm like, that's still the beautiful mountains, right, like,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to do that. I want a manny,

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Speaker 5: I want a petty, I want a massage. And you

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Speaker 5: have to pay for all that. Oh boy, people who

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Speaker 5: went out to like a really nice dinner that I

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Speaker 7: How was it that I didn't know there was some snow.

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Speaker 2: Like we understand, Calvin, shame on the woman for not

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Speaker 2: being happy when you didn't deliver on the promises. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: on your side with that. The weird part that we

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Speaker 2: true or not, is when she left, she forgot her

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Speaker 2: bag over at your place and she's asked for it

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Speaker 2: back and you're refusing to send it to her.

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Speaker 7: Yes, that is totally true.

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Speaker 6: Bad.

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Speaker 2: It seems whether or not you had a bad time

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Speaker 2: on the date, that feels like you're crossing the line

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Speaker 2: and like not return to her items.

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Speaker 5: I don't know hear me out here. I don't think

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Speaker 5: you know the whole story about this.

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Speaker 7: So she let me you a message, and her message was, Hey.

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Speaker 5: I'm a different guy in New York and he just

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Speaker 5: send my bags to his place one week later, Right?

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Speaker 1: Is that that's like her revenge tactic, Like I'm going

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Speaker 1: to show him I'm with somebody else already.

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Speaker 5: Oh boy, she already got.

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Speaker 8: This other guy and she wants me to send the

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Speaker 8: bags there, and she sends me the address, So I

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Speaker 8: look up the address for a multi million dollar condo

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Speaker 8: in New York. You know what, No, I'm not sending

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Speaker 8: your bags with some other rich dude who you already

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Speaker 8: you know, had lined up it a week later.

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Speaker 7: You know, I'm not paying I'm not paying another cent

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Speaker 7: for this woman.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you should have told her to come pick

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Speaker 1: it up at the front desk of your condo building.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she can.

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Speaker 2: I will say, Calvin, we did not hear that part

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Speaker 2: of the story about the other guy in New York,

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Speaker 2: and she wants you to mail it directly to him.

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Speaker 1: I got to say, which people problems are so juicy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it gets even juicier for you, Calvin, because

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Speaker 2: Kelly is on the other line right now, waiting to

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Speaker 2: jump in and talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh really, yeah, go for it. Put her on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Kelly jumping in.

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Speaker 1: It's a battle.

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Speaker 6: I want hi, Calvin, Oh Hi, Kelly, that package yet

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Speaker 6: perhaps it was delayed in the mail.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you just listened.

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Speaker 7: Yeah it was.

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Speaker 5: It was delaying the mail because it wasn't paid for,

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Speaker 5: because I'm not paying for anything else. But honestly, like,

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Speaker 5: I will do you the favor of bringing it downstairs

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Speaker 5: and leaving it with my doorman so the Seedex guy

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Speaker 5: doesn't have to ring my bell.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, this.

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Speaker 6: Is punitive and it's child Can just call your assistant.

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Speaker 6: This is a two second problems.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, he's childish.

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Speaker 7: It's not about the time, Kelly.

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Speaker 5: It's about the money.

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Speaker 7: I spend thousands of dollars on you.

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Speaker 6: Would it cost one hundred and twenty dollars to set

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Speaker 6: the package?

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Speaker 5: How about you have your witch New York boyfriend paid

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Speaker 5: for it if you can, because it.

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Speaker 7: Seems like you can't pay for anything.

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Speaker 6: Okay, now you're childish, angelous, Calvin, really.

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Speaker 2: Grow up, I will say, Kelly, it's a litt odd

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Speaker 2: that you didn't mention this second part of the story

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Speaker 2: where you've moved on to a new guy already.

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Speaker 1: Do you think any of that matters. It's all could

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Speaker 1: have been avoided if you were so entitled and you

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Speaker 1: just told him like, hey.

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Speaker 2: We'll be careful with the word on this show, bro.

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Speaker 1: I want to leave, And Calvin, I'm sure would have

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Speaker 1: taken you back to his place to get your bag

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Speaker 1: and then taken you to the airport.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, absolutely would have done that.

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Speaker 6: Oh, so you wanted me to believe that he was

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Speaker 6: going to drive me back to his place, get my

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Speaker 6: luggage and take me to the airport, just like you

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Speaker 6: wanted me to believe there was snow on the mountain.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he didn't lie about the snow.

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Speaker 7: He didn't know.

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Speaker 2: That was a good one, though. You got to give it.

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Speaker 2: He has a point. You don't follow through with your promises.

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Speaker 5: I can't promise snow. I mean, no, ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: Woman is yes, please, Calvin. What you don't seem to

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Speaker 6: understand is that I need a man who takes initiatives

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Speaker 6: and responsibility for his own actions. If there was no

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Speaker 6: snow on that mountain, you should have flown us to

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a good point, Calvin. You say that you're

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Speaker 3: But count mountains.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't come through this time.

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Speaker 5: I mean, obviously not leading up to Keilly standards. Fine

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Speaker 5: by me, But she found another man who does, so

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Speaker 5: why doesn't she Why immediately out to my place and

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Speaker 5: pick up the bag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know you're trying to stand your ground on

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Speaker 1: this one, but I feel like the headache is just

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Speaker 1: going to be over if you ship or the damn bag.

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Speaker 6: It's like, yeah, Calvin, listen to them, Please don't drag

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Speaker 6: this out. It's ridiculous. You know that my new boyfriend

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Speaker 6: is a lawyer.

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Speaker 7: Oh oh, are you threst me now?

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Speaker 6: I mean's just saying, don't make this more complicated than anything.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. We are living for this drama. But

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Speaker 2: we are running out of time here. So at this

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Speaker 2: point I would ask would you go out on a

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Speaker 2: second date and we would pay for that. But this

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Speaker 2: time I'm gonna ask Calvin, would you be willing to

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Speaker 2: ship Kelly her bag at her new guy's place and

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Speaker 2: we will pay Since I don't know how much it

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Speaker 2: will cost, let's say half of the shipping price, assuming

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Speaker 2: it's not overnight delivery.

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Speaker 1: Maybe no, no, no, we're doing seven to ten business days. Kay,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't deserve.

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Speaker 2: Shipping and will help chip in for that.

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Speaker 5: Guys, don't I don't need or want you to have

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Speaker 5: to pay for this and honestly, like at a time

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Speaker 5: with this argument. But now I'm just I'm annoyed. Okay,

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Speaker 5: Oh by Kelly. Maybe the battle shop, maybe it won't.

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Speaker 5: It'll be in a street corner.

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Speaker 1: Hey, someone's gonna fight it. Me excited. You should start

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Speaker 1: opening bags on the street corner.

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Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: There's something so poetic about a Burro radio station offering

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Speaker 2: to help rich people pay to ship their stuff across

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Speaker 2: the country for them.

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Speaker 1: That woman was not rich. I think she was poor,

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Speaker 1: and she lied on that day nap to get on there.

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Speaker 1: She wouldn't come to us for free advice if she

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Speaker 1: actually has.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but all of her boyfriends are rich, so that

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Speaker 1: A rich guy isn't even gonna want to fight for

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Speaker 1: any woman after they've only known him a week. You

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Speaker 1: know what, she just met this guy in New York.

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Speaker 1: She's like, you're gonna have to be the lawyer for

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Speaker 1: he doesn't care.

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Speaker 3: I do think it's funny though, that normally we offer

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Speaker 2: We don't even do the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, it was her purse. I thought it was

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Speaker 1: her bag, like that she stayed with. She's had a.

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Speaker 3: Small bag, so I'm assuming.

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Speaker 2: It's like a large purse side. Yeah, it's probably like

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Speaker 2: a Russian one night a Russian doll sort of situation

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Speaker 2: with a really nice big bag with a really nice

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Speaker 2: smaller bag inside. Smaller about this?

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Speaker 1: Can we do we have Calvin's number saved? It sounded

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Speaker 1: pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I don't know what's gonna happen with

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Speaker 2: those two. Will he ship the bag, will her new

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Speaker 2: rich New York boyfriend and buy her a new set

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Speaker 2: of Louis Vatan luggage? Will the stitching inside even be

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Speaker 2: in the color that she likes? Questions? Will you probably

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Speaker 2: never know the answer?

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Speaker 1: That's white, not cream, oh man.

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Speaker 2: But one question that we can answer possibly is why

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Speaker 2: isn't that guy or girl not calling you back? Reach

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Speaker 2: out to the show and we can help get it

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