WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Happy Shamaversary

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of what happens if you meet someone on

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<v Speaker 1>a dating app and you find out that both of

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<v Speaker 1>you have been in the dating pool for way too long.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, what's wrong with you? Yeah, that's when you

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<v Speaker 1>need to mix it up. Like one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>Wayne did recently. Did he suggest both of them dress

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<v Speaker 1>up as their favorite power ranger and meet in front

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<v Speaker 1>of the police station. That's actually really fun. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. He didn't It would have been a fantastic idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that he went a different direction, and now he

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<v Speaker 1>says he's living with a medium amount of regret.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I feel like that. Most adults live that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah at night, Wayne, only in ninety chance are going

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<v Speaker 1>to regret asking us for help today, So welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Now must stay.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I am having some regret. You know, it started

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<v Speaker 4>as a good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, they will get to your questionable idea and the second.

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<v Speaker 1>But first, tell us about the girl that you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with. Who's she?

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<v Speaker 4>And Isabella?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay that's name?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And from Jeffrey's description, it sounds like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe you're a little exhausted from online dating.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are we all okay?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, do you still have hope going into a

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<v Speaker 5>first date with someone when you're just tired.

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<v Speaker 2>Of it all?

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<v Speaker 4>I have a sliver of hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's like, all right, give me a reasonably

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about what you wanted to do with Isabella.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, so Isabella, you know, a couple of weeks

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<v Speaker 4>you're chatting and we had really awesome conversations, like talked

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<v Speaker 4>about our favorite candy and like our top three?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what is your favorite candy?

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<v Speaker 4>Kidding pieces?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, interesting, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>The does your first date have to do with like

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<v Speaker 1>a candy shop or something?

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<v Speaker 4>No, but kind of like a game. Well, basically, we

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<v Speaker 4>had so many fun conversations and she was like, it

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<v Speaker 4>never translates into a good first date. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 4>let's just skip the first date then, and we can

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<v Speaker 4>pretend like it's our second or third date.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, can you do that?

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<v Speaker 4>I like that, Yeah, you could do that. You can

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<v Speaker 4>act like remember last time when we talked.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you telling me this story again?

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<v Speaker 1>It's already buddy, bro.

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<v Speaker 4>We're getting along so well, And she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 4>what have we pretended? It was our one year anniversary.

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa, that escalated quickly, sir, let's jump right to the

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<v Speaker 5>divorce and start breaking up items.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been one year, you still won't sleep with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? Were you into that idea?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>You know yeah? I was like, why not? What have

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<v Speaker 4>we got to lose it this rate?

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<v Speaker 5>And you may get a free dessert out of it

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<v Speaker 5>from the restaurant, you know, whenever they know it's an anniversary.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, So what'd you end up doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, we made a reservation for a one year anniversary

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<v Speaker 4>and I ordered actually a bottle champagne and.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're a good boyfriend. After a whole year.

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<v Speaker 4>We had to put out flowers with a card. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>one year down, forever to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to steal this one year down forever to go.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the card.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, wow romantic. Did she think that's funny or

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<v Speaker 5>did it feel like too much to her? Because you

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<v Speaker 5>really took this too like a serious level.

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<v Speaker 4>You owned it when we met, like we had the

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<v Speaker 4>happy one year like anniversary jokes, and you know she

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<v Speaker 4>was into it too. She came with like a president

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<v Speaker 4>for me, which I was Yeah, her person was a

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<v Speaker 4>fake coupon book that's really Yeah, it was done like that,

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<v Speaker 4>but took like sarcastic, except free hug. It was like

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<v Speaker 4>hug yourself or to the laundry yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, that's more like the ten year anniversary.

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<v Speaker 5>She said, it's really funny. Did you guys laugh a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>On your date?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the first like fifteen twenty minutes of the dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>It's pretty fun. Okay. Then it got a little serious.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh serious, probably with me.

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<v Speaker 4>I was too into it, took it too far because

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<v Speaker 4>I started kind of telling her who she can be

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<v Speaker 4>friends with, you know what, Like I don't actually know

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<v Speaker 4>any of her friends, so I was kind of making

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<v Speaker 4>it up.

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<v Speaker 5>You turned into the boyfriend that she wants to dump

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<v Speaker 5>as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, your friends don't like what the hell?

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully you told her don't hang around Brooke because she's

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<v Speaker 1>a wet blanket about your date idea?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh terrible, said, you know, Lane's a bad influence she

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Oh, like, what do you mean? I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know if she meant what do you mean, who's Lane

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<v Speaker 4>or what?

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<v Speaker 1>Because there is no Lane? Yeah, yeah, totally okay.

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<v Speaker 2>You were a toxic boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cute? Confused, Like what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>To the romantic guy that she was dating, you know, faked.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I had to have fixed in a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of real fake life.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, that's exactly why she's not calling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have to create some fake lows to enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>those fake highs in your relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't put up with that type of crap in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>You can single long enough, he has to do something.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not surprised anymore. Maybe there's a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, was that it was there more to the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it kind of got worse, perhaps because then we

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<v Speaker 4>kind of shifted in the topic of how to discipline

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<v Speaker 4>you know, our kids, ohip.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even have kids.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we don't have kids now, but in the one

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<v Speaker 4>anniversary world, it's normal to talk about, you know, how

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<v Speaker 4>would you discipline kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you didn't see eye to eye on how to

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<v Speaker 1>parent your fake children.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we were disagreeing a lot about that, and she

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<v Speaker 4>said something about my mom being overbearing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I mean, how much longer did you guys last

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<v Speaker 2>after that?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, it was hard coming out of like

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<v Speaker 4>the overbearing mom thing. It got a little awkward. It

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<v Speaker 4>just wasn't a good idea, all right, man?

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<v Speaker 1>Well it sounds like you had a couple hiccups on

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<v Speaker 1>the date, very tiny ones, but we're big. Every relationship

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<v Speaker 1>goes through these moments before they find they're like, strip,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't that right? Brooke? The first date but on the

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<v Speaker 1>one year anniversary makes sense? So we're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna come back. We're gonna call your girlfriend of

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<v Speaker 1>one year, Isabella, and we're gonna see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get her to go out with you one more time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the second time hold on. Jose keeps telling me off

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<v Speaker 1>the air that he's gonna steal this date idea I am,

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<v Speaker 1>even though the girl clearly isn't calling back.

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<v Speaker 2>After it ended in total disaster. But it's so funny

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<v Speaker 2>left at each other.

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<v Speaker 1>If a girl isn't calling you back, Jose, usually that's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad sign, I know, but it's just like, how

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<v Speaker 1>much fun could you have imagining.

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<v Speaker 2>Your one year university? He just wants to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're talking about one of our listeners, Wayne, who

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<v Speaker 1>just went out on a date with someone named Isabella,

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<v Speaker 1>and on their first date, they pretended that it was

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<v Speaker 1>their one year anniversary, so they set it all up

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<v Speaker 1>with champagne and flowers at a restaurant. But Wayne thinks

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<v Speaker 1>he may have over committed to the character when he

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<v Speaker 1>made some jokey comments about who Isabella can and can't

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with and how they are going to parent

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<v Speaker 1>their future non existent children someday down the road. It's fake, guys.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, Wayne, why did you go with controlling boyfriend

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<v Speaker 5>as your persona?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I don't know. I wasn't really thinking I was

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<v Speaker 4>doing controlling boyfriend. I was just thinking, you know, one

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<v Speaker 4>year you have these.

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<v Speaker 5>Little like telling someone who they can and can't hang

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<v Speaker 5>out with is very controlling.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I was just looking out for lanes of

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<v Speaker 4>bad influence.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was not a good one in my life

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<v Speaker 1>yet it guys, it's funny. Didn't your husband buy you

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<v Speaker 1>a dish rack on your one year anniversary?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but he never tried to tell me who I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Couldn't Hay.

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<v Speaker 1>Get in the kitchen and dishes, don't get the water

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<v Speaker 1>all over the count.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm hanging out mister clean.

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<v Speaker 1>So it can't turn out any worse than that, right, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just call Isabella and see how this.

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<v Speaker 6>Here we go, Isabella, Let's do this. Hello, Hey, is

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<v Speaker 6>this Isabella.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Hey Isabella, my name is jeff from a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, like that, sas, I don't know what it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>You're really funny, Isabella already?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hi, this is the whole morning show that's a Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>You probably know they're social media handle Brook Fox Fox, Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>at Hilarious everything. Yeah, and then Alexis at Alexis Fuller

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen sixteen. Okay, I don't follow you, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not calling because of social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Just see no follow us. We're doing a dating segment

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<v Speaker 1>on this show asking about somebody that you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with recently named Wayne.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh oh hell.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that a good?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You want to know, Well, we want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>you thought about your date because we've heard a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about it from Wayne, but we'd like to get

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<v Speaker 1>your perspective on it.

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<v Speaker 6>Was it was it producer dancing a corner?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I think it was a really clever idea

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<v Speaker 3>of mine.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, to do the one year anniversary thing.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah yeah, we love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell Brooke what an amazing idea? That day

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<v Speaker 1>was so fun? It sounds like she doesn't believe that

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<v Speaker 1>people can have fun doing that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying it didn't sound fun. It just you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, it depends on what you think, Like

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<v Speaker 5>did you think it was fun?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it started out pretty fun because like it

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<v Speaker 3>was silly and just like, yeah, we already know each other.

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<v Speaker 3>We've known each other for a year or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 3>then like, I don't know, we're talking about our family

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<v Speaker 3>and there was like this weird moment where I made

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<v Speaker 3>this joke.

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<v Speaker 5>About his mom being overbearing and stuff like that, which

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<v Speaker 5>is a pretty stereotypical mother in law joke.

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<v Speaker 8>Like absolutely, but his response to that was like, are

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<v Speaker 8>you sure you want to eat that pasta?

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<v Speaker 7>Like I want you to live along and help you life,

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<v Speaker 7>and I don't know if that's to be something that's

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<v Speaker 7>a part of your diet.

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<v Speaker 2>He already told me about the friend thing too.

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<v Speaker 1>Like why is he doing or does he have kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a point if he wants you to live long?

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, if he really cared about you, that

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<v Speaker 1>is red.

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<v Speaker 3>But then he like he like brought up this person

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<v Speaker 3>I can't even remember her name, but like he brought

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<v Speaker 3>up this person because it's made up or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 3>he was like I don't want you seeing her anymore,

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<v Speaker 3>bad influence for you, and blah blah blah, and like

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<v Speaker 3>yeah it was made up, but like I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>a red flag for me.

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<v Speaker 5>I would have alarm bells going off left and right,

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<v Speaker 5>likes of.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, wait, I'm an understand you made a joke about

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<v Speaker 1>his mom being overbearing, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a stereotypical joke, right, Oh why is that okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Because it's not talking about who he is as a

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<v Speaker 5>person's she's not talking about who she.

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<v Speaker 1>Is as a person.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I just say something? It wasn't a real person?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Uh, sorry, that's Wayne Isabella. He just jumped in

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation up.

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<v Speaker 4>Person, Isabella. We were in it together for one year anniversary.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what when you talking about my mom,

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<v Speaker 4>even though she is very overbearing, you don't know her.

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<v Speaker 3>Nail on the head. Huh, you're not listening, like you're

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<v Speaker 3>saying about the mom. And then you completely change around

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<v Speaker 3>onto me and something about me as a person, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's like that didn't really hit well, you know, we weren't.

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<v Speaker 3>We were joking about our family and then suddenly you

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<v Speaker 3>started telling me that I shouldn't eat Costa, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeh, family joking is okay, but talking about food that crosses.

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<v Speaker 5>The line what they can or can't eat, can can't hang.

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<v Speaker 4>Out with.

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<v Speaker 1>Safety and health?

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<v Speaker 5>And well she's not child, you're not your dad, Like

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<v Speaker 5>get out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>And why do you think boyfriends act that way? Like

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just even if you're just pretending, and like.

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<v Speaker 3>Pasta isn't even bad for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Like what are you?

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<v Speaker 3>What are you doing? You're basically just feeding into the

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<v Speaker 3>stereotype that carbs make you fat and I'm fat, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't mean it like that. I was coming from

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<v Speaker 4>the health perspective and daring about you wanting to have

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<v Speaker 4>a health long boss's life together.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean it'd be one thing if you said

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<v Speaker 2>don't smoke.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's wrong with smoking? I'm my cigarettes? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you telling me what I can and can't do?

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<v Speaker 2>Get her?

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff? I mean, if it wasn't positive, there wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 4>the freak out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it seems like a bit freak out over

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<v Speaker 1>one thing. Is that all that it was? He made

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<v Speaker 1>a bad joke about what she can and can eat

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<v Speaker 1>in a fake scenario.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of the it was a lot of them

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<v Speaker 3>making optic.

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<v Speaker 8>Stuff which you know, Like there was one where he

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<v Speaker 8>was talking about like our kids.

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<v Speaker 3>And disciplining our kids, and I was like, okay, if

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<v Speaker 3>we're just dating on a one year anniversary, that's not

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<v Speaker 3>something that you usually talk about, is disciplining your children

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<v Speaker 3>if you haven't even talked about wanting to have kids yet.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, all right, I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you talking about. We already talked about having

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<v Speaker 4>kids at our six months March.

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<v Speaker 1>You forgot that conversation, Isabella.

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<v Speaker 3>God, conversation maybe happened with another girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know a lot hotter situation than this.

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<v Speaker 5>He's not very funny, Like, come on, man, it's like foreshadowing.

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<v Speaker 2>Just a crappy relationship, is what you were doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, Brook, she's just against me the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>You've emailed us for help. Remember that, Brook, This date

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<v Speaker 1>idea was all her idea to pretend to be like

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<v Speaker 1>a couple a year into a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple, that's fun. You pretend European vacation.

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<v Speaker 7>You have this.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he has to pay for a big euro Trip's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's obviously going to split the cost. Jeffrey. They've

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<v Speaker 2>only been together for one year. Okay, she's an independent

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<v Speaker 2>working woman, give her a break.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that true, Isabella?

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<v Speaker 3>I would absolutely pay my own way, but like I

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<v Speaker 3>would appreciate if he offered.

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<v Speaker 2>Conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, would you like to go to Europe with me?

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<v Speaker 4>I'll pay for it?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, absolutely, got way better.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah for it? You?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow? The kids behind Well, come on, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, I think he tried to take the bad angle

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<v Speaker 2>as a joke and it didn't work. But I think

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<v Speaker 2>she was her gut.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are still laughing right now. You have chemistry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we can all tell when a joke is a

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<v Speaker 1>joke and when it's not a joke, except and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not joking right now when I say I want to

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<v Speaker 1>pay for a second date for both of you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for it, yes, pre Europe, Europe. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>just a regular first date, and we can pretend that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys haven't been dating for a long time anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>a real second date.

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<v Speaker 3>I would be okay with a real second date and

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<v Speaker 3>just see what he's really like in the present moment

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<v Speaker 3>instead of thinking what a future should be.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe, Oh my god, I can't believe you said, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still You're still up for this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, of course she won't regret it at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Just no more hypotheticals on your guys date.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys should not joke at all. Look what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>True love prevails even when Brooke tries to actively check

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.