1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: with i R Radio, and we're back for another week 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: with my amazing co host Ashley. Oh thanks, Ben, You're 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: so sweet. Um. I think that you are feeling good today. Yeah, 5 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: I feel like you're feeling good today. I can see it. 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: You have your shirt off. You just revealed to me 7 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,639 Speaker 1: and the producers that you love being shirtless around the house, 8 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: but that you have a pet peeve. And that is 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: when the when Bachelor Nation guys habitually post shirtless pictures 10 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: on Instagram, is this your bend's bitches of the week, 11 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: Yeah it is. You know. Nick Vile is one of 12 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: my friends. He's one of your friends. I will tell 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: him in a second that I think it is unreal 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: how many shirtless pictures he posts. I think it is. 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: I just think it's weird. I think it's odd. I 16 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: don't like it, especially when you have a significant other. 17 00:00:55,680 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: That's where it really crosses, doesn't Well he can. I 18 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying like I can still get on him because 19 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: he's a friend, and we all think it's like funny 20 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: and ridiculous how often Nick takes off his shirt. I 21 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: think he even thinks it's ridiculous. What really gets under 22 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: my skin is when you have a significant other and 23 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: you're posting those pictures knowing the comments and what you're 24 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: doing to everybody out there, It's it's a lot, so wait, 25 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: what are they doing to everyone out there? Is a trap? 26 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: It's a thirst trap. It's making me envious, It's making 27 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: me and probably others mad, It's making people kind of 28 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: probably think some some very uh interesting thoughts. I don't 29 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: love it. I don't I've never understood it. Um And 30 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: I think it takes a lot of confidence, which hey, 31 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: if you've got the abs, maybe maybe it changes things. 32 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: And I just don't. Um, But wouldn't you think would 33 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: be weird if Jared every let's say, once a every 34 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: three weeks posted a picture shirtless on Instagram, it would 35 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: be weirds As we're married. And I want to go 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: back and defend Nick for a second. I think Nick 37 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: takes shirtless picks, but he's very self aware of it. 38 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: He's like, ha, ha, isn't it funny that I'm posting 39 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: other shirtless pick? What about Tyler Cameron who literally doesn't 40 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: seem like he owns a shirt. It really feels like 41 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: it's like working from him from an attention standpoint. But 42 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: I I look at it and I'm like, I can't 43 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: follow this because it's it's it's not fun for me. 44 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: Like that's not like I'm not a dude wanting to 45 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: follow a dude who takes off a bunch of his 46 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: pictures with his shirt off all the time. It's not 47 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: my thing. Um, yeah it is. It's a pet peeve 48 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: of mine. I'll put it out there. Um. And also, 49 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: so here's the reason my shirt off today. So yeah, 50 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: and then I'll reveal something silly about myself. I went 51 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: on a long run just about ten minutes ago. I 52 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: was working on the driveway and then Jessica's brother wanted 53 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: a haircut, so I cut his hair. So I took 54 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: off my shirt so I didn't get hair all over it. 55 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: And then I was sweaty from my run. I was like, 56 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: I'm not putting my shirt back on. In fact, i'm 57 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: with family here on this podcast, so I'm just gonna 58 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: sit down and through the whole podcast shirtless to cool down. 59 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: But also, I'm just feeling good today. I had a 60 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: good call. I'll close it here. I had a good 61 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: call today. Already, it's been a rough couple of weeks 62 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: for me personally professionally with the restaurants in the coffee shops. 63 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: I've talked about it. We don't need to talk about anymore. 64 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: But um I had a call today with a group 65 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: of people from Generous, the Generous Ambassadors, and they all 66 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: shared stories. There's forty of them, of stories of good 67 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: things that are happening in their life and around the 68 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: world and what they're doing. And it fired me up 69 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: because there's some people out there doing some awesome stuff 70 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: during the shut down for others. And so I was like, 71 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm encouraged today. I'm so encouraged that my 72 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 1: shirt came off. Okay. So I've had a habit of 73 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: wearing my underwear around the house, like my men's underwear, 74 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: so like boy short underwear and just's a tank top 75 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: around my mom my, sister and Jared, and they're like, 76 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: you know, you should probably put some pants on. It's 77 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: kind of weird. It's weird, and you don't look like 78 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: ever to Sucremol, you look like Tommy Pickles and those things. 79 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: And I didn't think I was sexy, but there is 80 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: something that I don't like wearing pants. I prefer shorts 81 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 1: for sure, but here at my parents house, I don't 82 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: really have a lot of shorts. So I'm like, hey, 83 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm wearing boy shorts like they're very covering. They're far 84 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: more conservative than my bikini bottoms. And sometimes when I 85 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: wake up and I come up the stairs and I 86 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 1: have a cup of coffee in the morning, I'll sell 87 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: on the couch just my underwear. But apparently it's not 88 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: sexy nor do they appreciate it. So it's too bad. Sorry, 89 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: are you gonna change? He's gonna keep going. Yeah, Well, 90 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: they gave me to talk about it, and and then 91 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 1: the next day I did again. But the reason was 92 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: because I was cleaning the house and I didn't want 93 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 1: to get like clorox and bleach on my my pants, 94 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: so I said, I'll put pants on what I'm done 95 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: cleaning that Ashley. This is This summarizes quarantining with your 96 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: family in one story. Things are a change in, but 97 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: things are not a change in. Here we're back for 98 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: another week of the Almost Famous podcast. If you listen, 99 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: and if you appreciate this podcast whatsoever, please go to 100 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: wherever you listen to podcasts and rate us and comment 101 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 1: on our podcast. Things aren't changing here, Ashley. It's been 102 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: awesome talking to you week O a week, and I'm 103 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: telling you, Bachelor Nation hasn't slowed down, not at all. 104 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: It's unreal. It's crazy. So we have some hot topics 105 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 1: that we're gonna run through real quick today. We're also 106 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: gonna break down this week's episode of Listened to Your Heart. 107 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: I've said it last week that I thought the show 108 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: really took a big dip in like kind of my 109 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: my personal um interest towards the show. Yeah, but I 110 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: think this week it picked up again. And actually, I'm 111 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: excited to hear your thoughts in just a few minutes 112 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: because I know that you've stayed very engaged. But before 113 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: we do, let's take one break. When we come back, 114 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna break down the hot topics in Bachelor Nation. 115 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: We'll be back on the Almost Face podcast and we're 116 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: back on the Almost Says podcasts, and we are here 117 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: to do hot topics. Ben The first hot topic is 118 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: the announcement of a new show for the Bachelor, but 119 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: it's basically a bunch of reruns. So ABC is set 120 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: to air Bachelor the Best of Series in place of 121 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. So actually crazy crazy is that The Bachelorette 122 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: was supposed to premiere in uh literally a week and 123 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: a half. Isn't that nuts? Like as of right now, 124 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 1: Claire was supposed to be like getting engaged this week. 125 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: So actually you follow this stuff? Is there any update 126 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: on when and if and how The Bachelorette is going 127 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: to be filmed, because they've been started yet. No. I mean, 128 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: the last thing I heard was what we reported a 129 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago that they were thinking about renting 130 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: out a hotel and quarantining the entire cast and crew 131 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: to that hotel for the five weeks shoot. And I 132 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: still think that seems like the most pausible way of 133 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: filming these days, and that they would be filming in 134 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: July and August and then I would be set to 135 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: air in September. If if this first headline does not 136 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: point to ABC's reliance on The Bachelor, I don't know 137 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: what does ABC to air Bachelor best of series in 138 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: place of The Bachelor at Ashley tell us what this 139 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: will be? You've highlighted it, but going to detail of 140 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: bit so in the replace of The Bachelorette, they're going 141 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: to be airing a ten episode series called The Bachelor, 142 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: the most unforgettable ever. It's gonna start airing on June eighth, 143 00:07:54,440 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: and each episode is three hours, and it's going to 144 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: highlight the wildest moments from the franchise is eighteen year history. 145 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: This is why The New York Post is reporting Chris 146 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: Harrison will be the host, and um if it sounds 147 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: like it sounds like he's going to be filming this 148 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: from the driveway of the Bachelor mansion in you know, 149 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: the Calabasas area of California, and that they're going to 150 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: use a really small crew to work with him ensuring safety. Um, 151 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 1: what's what always what these specials always make me think of, 152 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: are what moments are we going to see? And how 153 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: many moments that are truly pretty forgettable are they gonna air? 154 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: If it's ten episodes with three hours each, meaning you know, 155 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: I don't know the math on that seems like it 156 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: would be a simple thirty hours, but then with commercials 157 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: or whatnot, it's gonna be less than that. So let's 158 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: just say it's to twenty hours. Am I doing this 159 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: math right? Twenty hours of wildest moments from the past 160 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: eighteen years, So it's gonna be a lot of Bachelor 161 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: and Bachelorettes that we don't remember, a lot of cast 162 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: people that we don't remember. Um. But I guess it's 163 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: cool because a lot of the seasons that we as 164 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: like millennials, have invested ourselves in um or haven't invested 165 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: ourselves in will we'll be able to see those you 166 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: know from our high school years and such. So it'll 167 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: be cool. It's gonna be a really interesting show. I 168 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 1: am not gonna be watching when it comes to my 169 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: season with just beside me. That is just so sad 170 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: to think about her having to see that season. But Ben, 171 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: I must ask you, yeah, of your time on the 172 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: show Bachelorette or Bachelor, which scenes do you feel will 173 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: hit the air again? It's hard to say, um fully. 174 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I think the I Love you will definitely 175 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: be a thing. Me not. But when it comes to 176 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: the Bachelor at Caitlin season had so many memorable moments. 177 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: One of the moments that I enjoyed the most was 178 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: when Tanner uh and I and Jared want a sex 179 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: ad date. I think that was I don't know if 180 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:18,599 Speaker 1: actually Jared was on that date, but Tanner, I know 181 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 1: was there. That was That was kind of my first 182 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 1: moment to relax on the show and actually start to 183 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: enjoy that experience. The second, which is what I really 184 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: hope they show because it has marked so much of 185 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: my life, is me feeling unlovable. Like that moment to 186 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 1: me was, honestly, to this day, the moment that I 187 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: felt like I could finally be free of an insecurity 188 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: I had held for a long time. And uh, and 189 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:45,599 Speaker 1: so it's just it's all I mean, honestly, it's just 190 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: really good for me to see and to feel again, 191 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: because that was really a real moment for me. So 192 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 1: I think I've recently told you this, but your sex 193 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:03,599 Speaker 1: at talk was just your your moment that struck me 194 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: as like you're going to be a Bachelor's star moment. 195 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Like at that moment, I was like, 196 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: this isn't gonna be some regular cast member, Like this 197 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: guy is the front runder to be the Bachelor for sure, 198 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: And I I mean, like Ben, it sounds really awkward, 199 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: but like at that moment, my mom and I rewounded 200 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: multiple times and I was like, I have a crush 201 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: on Ben Higgins. I feel like all them did well 202 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: and and that's sweet, you know, Ash, I'm glad, but 203 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: it is it's like the first remember, because it was 204 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: my first moment to like take a deep breath and 205 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 1: be like, holy cow, I can I can do this, 206 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,199 Speaker 1: Like I can be myself here in the midst of 207 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 1: this craziness. Ashley, What is it for you? What moments 208 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: do you hope comes out with with you a part 209 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 1: of it? Well, I know that the bad Lands will 210 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: come out, and I know people love the bad Land 211 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: scene and I love the bad Land scene too, And 212 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 1: I think everybody who says that it's like the most 213 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:58,439 Speaker 1: unforgettable two on one ever, it's funny because every time 214 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: I watched a two on one, I'm like, oh no, 215 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 1: this one, this one is definitely more epic. Uh. That 216 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: person was definitely wittier. That person has way better comebacks 217 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: than I did. That's what I think of when I 218 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: think of that scene. It's like, I know that I 219 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: was so proud of myself for telling Kelsey off in 220 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: the bad Lands, and I was very excited to see 221 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: it again and the reaction that I got was thrilling, 222 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: and I was proud of myself. But the only thing 223 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: is that I wish I sounded a little bit smarter 224 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 1: while explaining that I was smart. So, like, there I 225 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: am trying to like prove to this woman that just 226 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,599 Speaker 1: because like I'm into some vain things doesn't mean that 227 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 1: I'm a, you know, a surface type person and that 228 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: I had depth and that I was really well educated 229 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: and then I am smart. And then, um, I just 230 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: didn't sound super as articulate as I imagined I did 231 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: in the moment. But I'm seriously still very thankful grateful 232 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 1: that people think that I was. So I feel like, 233 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: every time I see that scene back, I'm like, oh, 234 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 1: you could have done better, you could have done No. 235 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:14,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think we all have those 236 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: months to stand out to us. Uh, it's coming out soon, 237 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation. You'll be having some more Bachelor stuff to watch. 238 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: But we have been entertained, Ashley by this next headline 239 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: one that I feel like is getting attention, but I'm 240 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: confused on why it's not getting more. This is a 241 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: big deal. The Bachelor's Peter Webber says he got it 242 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: right with girlfriend Kelly Flanagan. They are officially together, Ashley 243 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 1: tell us what you know, well, um, you know, and 244 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: they're together. The mid a Instagram official this week. Um, 245 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: he said in the Instagram caption you caught Me Let 246 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: the Adventure Begin that was posted on Sunday, a longside 247 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: a picture of him jet setting in the sunset with 248 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 1: Kelly as his co pilot or in the you know 249 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: the captains are the co captain's chair and then um, 250 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: that's it. It seems like his parents also posted pictures 251 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: of the two of them together reaffirming that they are official. 252 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: Is there anybody more excited for this than Barbe No, 253 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: definitely not Barbara. Barb is so happy, like so happy 254 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: this this all worked, This all worked how how she 255 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: wanted it to. Um, it's came full circle. But Peter 256 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: Weber is with one of his ladies from the season, 257 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: Kelly flannagain. They are still quarantining together. They seem happy. 258 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: We've had Peter on, we had Kelly on and almost 259 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: depth a few Yeah, it was like what three and 260 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: a half weeks ago and they were like, oh no, no, casual, 261 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: not defining the relationship. But I guess in quarantine you 262 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 1: define it fast. Yeah, So we're happy for him. I 263 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 1: know a lot of bachel Nation is criticizing them, but ultimately, 264 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: in ten years, what we'll look back on is are 265 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: they happy and did this work? And I hope it is. 266 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: It seems like it's working for a lot of people 267 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: from his season because Bachelor alum Hannah and Slus spotted 268 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: with Steelers Mason Rudolph. Yeah, so let's address the elephant 269 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: in the room here. These two aren't doing the best 270 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: job at social distancing. They've been seeing three times together, 271 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: um out and about and they they're like on a 272 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: coffee date recently, so they went to Starbucks, picked up coffee. 273 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 1: They've been strolling and I guess this is the guy 274 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: that Hannah kind of alluded to when we were interviewing 275 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: her a couple of weeks ago. I think they're a 276 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: cute couple for sure. Um, if you guys don't know, 277 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: Mason Rudolph is the Steeler's backup quarterback and he um 278 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 1: was the one had that crazy helmet hit in the 279 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: head controversy last fall. And he is, uh twenty four 280 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: and she used twenty four. And I don't know how 281 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: this romance got started, but I'm assuming this is probably 282 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: a d M situation. What do you think you know 283 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: it's a Well, I I'm assuming that just because I 284 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: think that's how a lot of stuff works. These days, 285 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: especially when we are at a distance and there hasn't 286 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: been a lot of group gatherings. Actually, this points to 287 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: a common theme though that's been happening over last let's 288 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: say three years, and it's happened off and on before, 289 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: but really got heightened over the last three years. Is 290 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation contestants dating celebrities or people already in the 291 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: spotlight after the show. It's the d m NG thing. 292 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 1: It's just it makes it so easy to connect with 293 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 1: anybody who is famous. And there's a lot of celebrity 294 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: fans out there, so of course of their age appropriate, 295 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 1: they're going to reach out to somebody to think is 296 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: cute from the show? You know what's funny? And I'm 297 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: gonna make this about me for a second, is um 298 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 1: You know if you asked me, and I think we 299 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 1: remember talking about this when I got off The Bachelor 300 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: app before I was the Bachelor, if there was one 301 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 1: celebrity that I was just like wanting to drop if 302 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: d ms were a thing back then, I think I said, 303 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 1: Jennifer Anison or Courtney Cox. You know what I found 304 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: out this week though Jessica looks just like Courtney. Oh 305 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: my god, that's so funny. Yeah, so I had the 306 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: pot just massive, massive home run for me. Uh. Next headline, 307 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: why Tylor Cameron wouldn't go on Bachelor in Paradise is, 308 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 1: according to e Online, Okay, Well, Tyler said that he's 309 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: a one woman kind of guy, and um he said 310 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: that he and then Dylan Dylan, who you know is 311 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: his close friend from Hannah season, said that Tyler would 312 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: absolutely be ruined by going to Bachelor in Paradise and 313 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: he warned his friend h that they would make you 314 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 1: look so bad. He also says, you had such a 315 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: great rise that they'd be like, all right, it's time 316 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: to have this guy fall. What else are we supposed 317 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 1: to do? Just keep him rising. That's actually a really 318 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: interesting that's a really interesting thought that he has. I 319 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:28,679 Speaker 1: think he's probably right. I think, especially with Tyler's dating 320 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: in the dating celebrities and all of that, that they 321 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: probably make him look like he was fame hungry, and 322 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: I just don't think that there's a way that they 323 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: would make Tyler look better than they did on hand 324 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: A season, especially, you know, like some of his his TikTok's, 325 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: they're like a little bit crude, you know, like you 326 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 1: can tell that the guy has a wild side. Thank you. 327 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: He's an it. He has a wild side. So here's 328 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 1: my question, though, you know, when we can blame it 329 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 1: on what they'd make him look like. But let's assume 330 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 1: for a second it's completely up to the contestants to 331 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: look like how they want to be looked. I mean, Blake, 332 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: another friend of ours, would be the first to admit 333 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: his decisions leading up until Paradise we're not good like 334 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: he He he made some you know, he dated around 335 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: Batch Nation pretty heavy. He set himself up for that 336 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 1: storyline during Paradise. So does Tyler have that storyline that 337 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: would that would crush him? Okay, I think so. I 338 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: think he's just dated too much publicly for them not 339 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: to be able to figure out a way to make 340 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 1: his storyline not look player like. I also need to 341 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: talk about the fact that it came out this week 342 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:52,959 Speaker 1: that g had deed as pregnant, and I think it's 343 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: absolutely ridiculous with the what the headlines have said this 344 00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 1: week about Tyler being affected by it emotionally, like that 345 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: that one night that he just had to play drinking 346 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,919 Speaker 1: games with his friends because he was so tarred up 347 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: about it. Oh my God. Now, guys, so over it, Like, 348 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 1: don't they're making something out of nothing? Yeah, it's it's nothing. Well, 349 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: one of the people that Tyler Cameron has been spotted with, 350 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: there has been rumors that maybe they are getting back together. 351 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: That has been crushed by both them up to this point. 352 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: But Hannah Brown is out here joking about her first 353 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: performance in the Fantasy Suite with Peter Weber. This is 354 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: according to Cosmopolitan. Al Right, before I explain this story, 355 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: let's listen to the audio on Hannah Brown's TikTok, with 356 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: the caption reading, when Chris Harrison asked you about Fantasy 357 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 1: s Week week and were you nervous doing that? Do 358 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: you know what I was nervous for my second performance? 359 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 1: For my first performance, I was like, okay, wait a second. 360 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: When I saw that on our TikTok, I didn't even 361 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: think toolice about what she meant. Oh my god. Duh. 362 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, she's saying like for her Fantasy Suite with Peter, 363 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: she's like a party. Let's like, you know, I'm not 364 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: taking this one super seriously. We're just gonna have a 365 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: ton of fun. And the second one, I was like, oh, 366 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: pressure on. So Ashley just in case anybody else is 367 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: out there going I have no clue what she was 368 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 1: talking about. What is she referring to. She's referring to 369 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: her overnight date with Peter and then her overnight date 370 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 1: with Tyler. Now we know she didn't end up sleeping 371 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: with Tyler. She decided that she wanted that their relationship 372 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 1: was already physical enough that she didn't feel like she 373 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: needed to test their physical chemistry. But you know, she's 374 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: still saying that she was nervous walking in there. Maybe 375 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: that was a decision she didn't make until later. Because 376 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 1: we're all talk we're talking about performance here, you know, 377 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 1: So that's so that's gotta be physical, right, I mean, 378 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: I would assume, I think that's what everybody's pointing towards. 379 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 1: If she meant something different, I would encourage Hannah Brown 380 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: to maybe explain herself. But I think we're we have 381 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 1: a pretty good idea what she was talking about. The 382 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: headlines picked it up, Press was all over it again. Um, 383 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: Hannah and Tyler have both stayed out there during this 384 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 1: quarantine in amazing ways, uh consistently, um, coming up with 385 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: just TikTok's and Instagram posts and also relationship rumors, but 386 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 1: we have had. Our final update would be that Hannah 387 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: Brown and Tyler have both said, hey, they aren't together. 388 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: They're not dating um, but we may see them together 389 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: again hanging out at some point. Uh. As Ashley and 390 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 1: I said, Bachelation does not slow down during the shutdown. 391 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: In fact, it feels like there's new headlines and more 392 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 1: headlines and interesting headlines every single week. Ashley, let's take 393 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 1: one more break when we come back. We have a 394 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: really really special guest coming on the podcast and just 395 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 1: a little bit. It's Bree from Listen to Your Heart. 396 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 1: But let's break down this week's episode. Bring her on 397 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 1: to clarify any questions that you and I may have. 398 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 1: Sounds good coming into this week of Listen to Your Heart. 399 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 1: The couples are shared and Julia, Matt and Rudy, Brie 400 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: and Chris, Jamie and Trevor Brandon and Savannah and Ryan 401 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 1: and Natasha again. This week, most of the drama was 402 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 1: around Julia, So we started the episode with Julia and Sheridan. 403 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: She's I think, hamming it up, making it seem like 404 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 1: she likes it more than she really does. She's saying 405 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,479 Speaker 1: that there she's happy about their performance the other night, 406 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: and Sheridan is feeling good about their relationship and he's 407 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 1: saying that he feels like it's the best they've ever been. 408 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 1: But then of course Chris Harrison has to come in 409 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: and ruin every happy moment. Wait then pause here. I 410 00:23:54,760 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: have to say, how cringe does Chris Harrison feel when 411 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: he has to leave this conversation saying and don't forget 412 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: to listen to your heart. Oh? I think he turns 413 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: his back from the camera and just like shakes his head. 414 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,479 Speaker 1: I mean he has to, knowing Chris Harrison in real 415 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: life guys like that's the last thing he would say, naturally, 416 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: don't forget to listen to your heart. Now. I really 417 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 1: think when it comes to The Bachelor and The Bachelor 418 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 1: at his kind of taglines are one that he really enjoys, 419 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: like they're good, solid taglines. He delivers them well. But 420 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: listen to your heart, it just it feels it feels awkward, 421 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: like it just doesn't work. Truly. I feel like he 422 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: turns around after his little five second hit, he goes 423 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: back to his house is just like I'm sure within 424 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: five miles of this house, and he's like, I can't 425 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: believe I'm doing this well, but Ashley, I really, I mean, 426 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: I said to the podcast, I was saying it. Last 427 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: week I watched this and I was like, hey, I 428 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 1: don't know if this show has any legs, Like I 429 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 1: really don't. Okay, I just want to say I'm still 430 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 1: enjoying it. Yeah, I just think that Chris thinks it's silly. 431 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: But this week I watched it and I was I felt, 432 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 1: I felt more into it, and I'm gonna tell you why. 433 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 1: But let's set up the story first. Chris Harrison comes 434 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: in and makes announcement that the couples are going to 435 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: go on dates with other contestants that are not in 436 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 1: a relationship with These can be friendly dates, these can 437 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: be romantic dates if you want them to be. I 438 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: believe it was a way for the show to cultivate 439 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,399 Speaker 1: um not only a little bit of drama, but also 440 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: forcing people out of their comfort zones because people kind 441 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 1: of coupled up very quickly. Yeah. So we see that 442 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 1: Jamie and Ryan are set up on a date, which 443 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: I was excited about because they had an early connection. 444 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,919 Speaker 1: So I thought, you know, let's see if putting them 445 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: in a more romantic atmosphere will uh fire that up again, 446 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: and then Ris and Rudy go on a date because 447 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,959 Speaker 1: I think they wanted to see whether Rudy's man Matt 448 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 1: at home would start farding flarding with anybody else. But 449 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 1: I really think that the reason these dates were derived 450 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: was because of Julia and Brandon and their love square 451 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: sort of kind of with Sheridan and Savannah, and they 452 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: really just wanted to put Julia and Brandon in a 453 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: situation where they would feel that romantic spark again so 454 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: that the drama would go down in the house here. 455 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,720 Speaker 1: So and I don't mind this idea. Actually think it 456 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: was interesting television. I thought. I don't think it was 457 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: insanely unhealthy, because as we saw, you know, Jamie and 458 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: Ryan did just have a friendship, and it's actually really 459 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,359 Speaker 1: fun to see them just bond over their history and 460 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: how much they appreciate each other. Also think that they 461 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 1: wanted to test Natasha back at home because she never 462 00:26:55,400 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: really explored any relationships with anybody else. And Chris and Rudy, 463 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 1: you know, at this point, it just proved how much 464 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 1: Chris is in debris and how you know, Rudy is 465 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: in the Matt and that and that is going well 466 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:12,680 Speaker 1: so that was interesting. Now that Julian Brandon thing, I 467 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: have an issue because Sheridan has been kind and considered 468 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:20,479 Speaker 1: this whole time, he obviously has put his focus on Julia. 469 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:25,399 Speaker 1: I feel like Julie up to this point has I mean, 470 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,719 Speaker 1: watching this, I'm still shocked at how quickly she all 471 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 1: of a sudden became all about Sheridan, because I felt 472 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: like the whole time she was always questioning her feelings 473 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:39,200 Speaker 1: towards him, and for the first time ever, it became 474 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: very very present to me watching it, like Julie doesn't know, 475 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: she knows what she wants, but it's definitely not shared 476 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: in no no, I feel like I've known the entire 477 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: time she was like sharedon is the the safe choice 478 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 1: that God that's always gonna want me? And because he's 479 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 1: so safe, I'm just gonna play around a little bit 480 00:27:56,240 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: with Brandon now. I definitely think watching their date and 481 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,960 Speaker 1: their plan in the car sort of that the plan 482 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: was to break up with Sheridan and with Savannah, and 483 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: it seemed like he was breaking up with Savannah until 484 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,360 Speaker 1: he looked like he was a picking a fight with her, 485 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: and then he said, uh, if you want what the 486 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 1: heck was that situation Ben with with Brandon and actually 487 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 1: this is uh so let's pause here, let's get our 488 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: let's get our clarity back. I want to ask the listeners, Uh, 489 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: what do you think about this whole situation? Are you 490 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 1: enjoying this show? Uh? Comment? Uh? Email us at been 491 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: an Ashley, iHeart media dot com or hashtag and the 492 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 1: almost famous podcast on Twitter or read it. Okay, So, 493 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: as we grouped together here, um, we're focusing on Julianne Brandon. 494 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: They had a date that there obviously wasn't interest in 495 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: each other. I don't think we've been proven. I don't 496 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 1: think any of us assumed to this point that either 497 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 1: of them were going to be focused on the person 498 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: that they left back at the house. So we thought 499 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: this could get dangerous. It definitely got dangerous. It very 500 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 1: quickly became oh, no, Savannah and Shared are gonna think 501 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: the brunt of this. And I personally was hurting for 502 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 1: Sheridan and Savannah as they drove in the car back. 503 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: I I felt like this, but the and and they 504 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: breakups and feel and recognizing who you want to be 505 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: with is not a bad thing. It happens all the 506 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 1: time on the show, and even though it hurts, it's okay. However, Ashley, 507 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: what got me is how they both handled these conversations 508 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: once they got back to the house. So you have 509 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: to tell me what the kids are calling it these days. 510 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: But they both very quickly started to place blame on, 511 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 1: for lack of a better word, the victim, the person 512 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 1: getting broken up with. They they both made me cringe 513 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: at how quickly they're like, why are you mad at me? 514 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: Why are you acting like? Why are you walking away 515 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 1: from this conversation? And why are you being so mean? 516 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: Of course should be mean you're getting broken up with? Yeah, 517 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: of course that was like very weird of her to 518 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: respond to Sheridan with It's like, why am I giving attitude? Because, yeah, 519 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: you're you don't like me as much, so I think 520 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: that I don't have to be super nice to you 521 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,479 Speaker 1: right now. But and you promised me that you were 522 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: going to do this. Yeah, that's that too. But then 523 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: I guess at least Julia said I don't think I'm 524 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: going to be able to get there with you that. Yeah, 525 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm okay, That's what I'm saying. Like that's good. But 526 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: what Brandon did trying to like sort he didn't was 527 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 1: he breaking up with Savannah or did he have a 528 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: totally different mentality and then Julia did walking into that house. 529 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: Was he actually not sure or did he want Savannah 530 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: to just kind of like leave and he was going 531 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: to make it as sloppy as possible so that he 532 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: didn't have to formally dump her and she would just 533 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: decide to leave on her own. He I think he 534 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: wanted everything. I think he also couldn't take responsibility for 535 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: the decisions he had already made. I think he didn't 536 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: want to feel guilty for ending a relationship. I honestly 537 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: think Brandon was running away from conflict. I really disliked 538 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: this moment because, well, what sure, and I think a 539 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 1: lot of people feel that way. I don't think Julian 540 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: Brandon handled us it. Well what do you call it? 541 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: When you is? Is that that's not gaslighting? Right? But 542 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 1: like when you when you like flip the switch and all, 543 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: you're the one delivering bad news, but you manipulate it 544 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: to make the other person, yeah, to feel guilty about 545 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: it like that? That was not okay and it really 546 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 1: angered me because you know, I think Savannah was like, whatever, 547 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 1: this is not right for me. I'm just gonna go 548 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 1: home and like, I know, I'm gonna be fine. I'm 549 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 1: super talented. I'm gonna pick my self back up. Um, 550 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,480 Speaker 1: she's hurting because of another field shared in though I 551 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: think this hit him deep, Like this is a real emotion. 552 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: Sharedan is the sweetest. You can feel his kind soul 553 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: emit through the television. He's so nice, so rutable. You 554 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,959 Speaker 1: can tell the kind of relationship we had with everybody 555 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: in the house. Um, you know, Savannah deserves better, and 556 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: I truly think that Sharedon deserves better. And I know 557 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 1: that everybody's always so sad when they're leaving the Bachelor 558 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 1: mansion and it's like a self pity party. But but 559 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: the experience that you get will ultimately help you find 560 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 1: the person that you're meant to be with. And he's 561 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: meant to be with somebody both of them that respect 562 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: them far more than Julia and Brandon did, and our 563 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: context cluses fans are this. Brandon Julie walked back into 564 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 1: the mansion after their date. Brandon says, Hey, we're gonna 565 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: go have really tough conversation, but we're gonna come back 566 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 1: together and this will all be okay. So the assumption 567 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 1: is they're both in the same page that they're gonna 568 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 1: end there current relationships and get back together. Well, this 569 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: takes us to a point where that happened, you know, 570 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 1: even though we don't love how it happened, it happened. 571 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: Relationships moved on. Julian Brandon come back together. They both 572 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 1: are hurting a little bit from this. And this is 573 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,239 Speaker 1: where things get really weird now and and I think 574 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: it's a good question for audience, whose side are you on? 575 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: But there's a question asked to Brandon that's that says, Hey, 576 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: if Savannah would have said I want to fight for this, 577 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 1: would you have said yes? And he mouse right in 578 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,600 Speaker 1: front of Julie even though she can't hear it. Yes, 579 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 1: I would have said yes to Savannah. That's where things 580 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: get weird. Actually, what happens from there so so weird. 581 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 1: I'm so confused by him. I don't think that he 582 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 1: really has strong feelings for either woman, so he's just 583 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: gonna flip flop back and forth. He's a total player. 584 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: And um, so what happens from there is that Natasha, 585 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 1: backstage before they're about to perform at the Novo in 586 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: l A, tells Julia that Brandon said that he would 587 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 1: have kept Savannah if she really wanted to fight for it, 588 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: and then Julia gets very piste off that she would 589 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: offer up this information so close to their performance time 590 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: because it's obviously going to throw off their chemistry. Then 591 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: Julia goes to Brandon's room and he says, I didn't 592 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 1: definitively say that I was gonna choose Savannah if she 593 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 1: was going to fight for it, And you can just 594 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 1: tell in that moment that Julia was like, oh, not definitive, 595 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 1: but it was something on your mind. So you definitely 596 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: didn't stick to the plan that we had coming home 597 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: from our date. You still had feelings for maybe both 598 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: of us. Nothing frustrated me more, Ashley. And maybe it's 599 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 1: because I liked wh like this episode. I was so 600 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: into these moments. I was like, you, guys, this is 601 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: causing so much damage and so much pain to the 602 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: people around you. Brandon, the way that you're like looking 603 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: at Savannah during this breakup and the way that you're 604 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,840 Speaker 1: uh like kind of lying still to Julia and you 605 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:17,360 Speaker 1: can't decide what you want makes me, makes me angry, 606 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 1: makes me mad, And hey, I haven't honestly invested any 607 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: emotion into the show until this point. So I don't 608 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 1: know what that says about me, but do you know, Okay, 609 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,919 Speaker 1: so obviously I feel like Natasha had poor timing there. 610 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 1: She had very um she had timing that was going 611 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: to strike up a lot of drama. I'm assuming that 612 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 1: the timing wasn't necessarily uh something that she came up 613 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 1: with the I think that she was probably you know, 614 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:49,439 Speaker 1: said you know, I think there was like a little 615 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:54,879 Speaker 1: manipulation into that topic being brought up backstage at the performances. 616 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: But I also don't think that like Julia should have 617 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,840 Speaker 1: hid that information. I just think that she said it 618 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: at a bad time for Julia. What do you think? Yeah, 619 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 1: I mean Natasha said it, and if she was trying 620 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: to sabotage a performance, well she did it. She did it, 621 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 1: and it worked. And I guess at the end of this, 622 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: you know, people call it a game, people call called 623 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 1: a contest, and this, more than The Bachelor, definitely feels 624 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 1: like a contest in Natasha, Well she won the battle. Now, 625 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 1: before we get into the performances at the Novo um, 626 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: let's take one more break. Actually, when we come back, 627 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: we're gonna break down the performances at the Novo. So cool. 628 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 1: So then it's time for showtime. Chris Harrison announces that 629 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,240 Speaker 1: the performers are going to be performing at the Novo 630 00:36:55,520 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: in front of celebrities, people from Bachelor Nation and singers. 631 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 1: So we got Rachel, Lindsay and Brian. We got Andy 632 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:12,280 Speaker 1: Grammar and Tony Braxon huge names, but yeah, yeah, totally. 633 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 1: So how did you feel about the fact that Brian 634 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:20,719 Speaker 1: didn't didn't show Brian speaking at all? Every time Chris 635 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,320 Speaker 1: Harrison went to Rachel and Brian, she spoke on behalf 636 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: of them on air. From what even notice that I'd 637 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: even notice that, No, but now I do. I remember. 638 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: I think I think the only time we saw Brian 639 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 1: was when he walked down, and I think he whispered 640 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,040 Speaker 1: in somebody's ear, like maybe Tony Braxon's like, yeah, she's 641 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: nervous something. The only thing I think we heard from him, 642 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,320 Speaker 1: which is kind of sad. I felt bad. Brian just 643 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 1: doesn't like the guy, has never like he had He 644 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 1: was overshattered by Peter obviously during that season, and then 645 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,000 Speaker 1: you know they get married and like people want to 646 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 1: celebrate them, but we just don't. Like Brian just is 647 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 1: never like it's not like if anybody knows him yet, 648 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,920 Speaker 1: nobody knows Brian. He's like the only final one that 649 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: people can't say that they know. So first up in 650 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: the performances is Rudy and Matt and they sing Tennessee Whiskey. 651 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 1: They do a great job. They sounded so good together. 652 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 1: I felt the chemistry. Rachel and Brian loved their performance, 653 00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:21,359 Speaker 1: and they loved the way that they embraced and kissed afterward. Um, 654 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 1: I feel like it just was overall good. I mean, 655 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 1: I guess I wasn't blown I was. I was like, yeah, 656 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 1: like I would have been so into that in real life, right, 657 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 1: But like, I guess I wasn't blown away the way 658 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,400 Speaker 1: I am later in the episode what About You Now, 659 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,760 Speaker 1: I was more blown away with Tony Brackson's uh common 660 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 1: of play that guitar like you're playing her And I'm 661 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: kinda with her when she said like I want to 662 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: watch a performance a duet and be uncomfortable, like I 663 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: want to be in my chair being like I shouldn't 664 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 1: be watching this because it's so romantic, and and they 665 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,400 Speaker 1: kind of had that Like I think as much as 666 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,239 Speaker 1: I mean, Nan, Tasha and Ryan kind of had that too, 667 00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,879 Speaker 1: but like they definitely you could sense that they really 668 00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,359 Speaker 1: are into each other. Um, which is cool to see. Yeah, 669 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 1: I love that. I love their performance. So then Jamie 670 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 1: and Trevor went and they sang like I'm Gonna Lose You, 671 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,359 Speaker 1: and the judges thought that they were a little off. 672 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 1: It seemed like Jamie was really nervous, especially the first half, 673 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:21,439 Speaker 1: as um as um Andy Grammar pointed out, and yeah, 674 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 1: it seemed like she was nervous. Um. I think that 675 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: kind of nerves is probably going to be more evident 676 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 1: to the people who are watching in person than us 677 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:38,319 Speaker 1: watching on TV. Does that make sense? Do you think that? Yeah? 678 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I mean again, I watched it, 679 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't know what musical talent is, Like, 680 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 1: they all sound good to me. I don't know if 681 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 1: she like, she sounded great so much better than I would. 682 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 1: So I was only picking up on that because I 683 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:57,800 Speaker 1: think there was this you know, unlike um, Rudy and Matt, 684 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:00,320 Speaker 1: she had her hand on the whole time, and it 685 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: looked comfortable to have it, like I want to touch 686 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: you and sing with you and know you're there. When uh, 687 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,160 Speaker 1: when Jamie would do that it would almost just feel 688 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 1: like a little uncomfortable, like neither one. She wants it, 689 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,839 Speaker 1: but he kept backing away. So that was my only 690 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: sign up. I feel like Jamie's still twenty one. I 691 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,120 Speaker 1: still feel like she's getting to know herself and getting 692 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,399 Speaker 1: comfortable in her own skin. I don't know if it's 693 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: just a performance thing. I think it's just an overall 694 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 1: human thing. It could be, but she wants it. She 695 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: wants it so bad. Next up was Chris and Brie 696 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 1: and they sang Taylor Swift's lover. Tony Braxon loved the performance. 697 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: She says she really saw a connection. You know, there 698 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,239 Speaker 1: was definitely chemistry between them. They sound great together. That's 699 00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: all I want to say. Yeah, I would agree. Um, 700 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 1: they they're just two people. They're consistent. But there are 701 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: two people that I'm watched in the show that I say, 702 00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: this is beautiful, Like I think this could work out 703 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: long term. And this is what keeps me coming back 704 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,879 Speaker 1: to being a fan of the show is watching these 705 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 1: two just sing together and relate with each other is 706 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,560 Speaker 1: really a beautiful thing to be on TV. They teased 707 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,840 Speaker 1: them getting married in Vegas next week, and you know what, 708 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:18,320 Speaker 1: why not? I think they might m why not. The 709 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 1: biggest part of their performance was, of course her admitting 710 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 1: that after it she whispered I love you, and then 711 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,120 Speaker 1: she told the whole audience what she said and that 712 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 1: he didn't hear it, and then of course he said, 713 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: if I had heard that, I would have said the 714 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:32,880 Speaker 1: same thing back to you, and they kind of exchange 715 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,319 Speaker 1: I love to use backstage afterwards. Very very sweet. Um. 716 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 1: Julian Brandon are up next and they sang Pat Benatar's 717 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: Amazing ballot We Belong Together. Rachel felt that they were 718 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: a newer couple and she was glad that they admitted 719 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:48,560 Speaker 1: that because she felt like it was kind of like 720 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:53,120 Speaker 1: a karaoke performance. And Tony said that she felt tension. 721 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 1: I felt tension. I felt like his body language was 722 00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: so off from her and she was completely turned in 723 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 1: to him and she was trying to connect with him, 724 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: but he is just like I'm performing for the audience. 725 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:11,120 Speaker 1: Now you. I watched this and I missed Brandon and 726 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 1: Savannah because I felt like they did have a connection. 727 00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: Now was it a healthy one? I can't say, but 728 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,480 Speaker 1: I don't like Julian Brandon just didn't like it was 729 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,839 Speaker 1: so it was like hard Jamie. It was not hard 730 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 1: for me to watch Julia and Brandon hard for me 731 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 1: to get through because it just it felt so weird. 732 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 1: He just didn't seem into her. H is rough. And 733 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:41,839 Speaker 1: then there was the performance of the night you love 734 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 1: that you love this guy? Oh my god, it's amazing. 735 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: Ryan and Natasha saying the best thing that ever had. 736 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: You are the best thing that ever happened, And it 737 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 1: was hot. They are so equally talented, like he has 738 00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:02,480 Speaker 1: this amazing, amazing tone to his voice and she has 739 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 1: pipes and strength and they they don't I don't think 740 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 1: have chemistry off the stage, but damn is an electric 741 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,480 Speaker 1: on the stage. I could watch them before all day long, 742 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,879 Speaker 1: and I'm good with that. Like I think watching the show, 743 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 1: I watch it because I want to see connection on stage. 744 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,640 Speaker 1: Just listen to your heart, right, if love happens with 745 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 1: Chris and Bree amazing, how beautiful. But if you can 746 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,640 Speaker 1: and this is the wrong term, but like if you 747 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 1: could fake it on stage similar to Bradley Cooper, uh 748 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 1: and uh you know they like that's beautiful and it 749 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,279 Speaker 1: makes us intrigued and it's fun to see and and 750 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,680 Speaker 1: so Ryan Natasha definitely have that um here's a cool part. 751 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 1: Last week, and I thought it was true. The judges 752 00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 1: said Ryan, Natasha could overpower you, like she could run 753 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,400 Speaker 1: you out of this room. Ryan stood up to it. 754 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,760 Speaker 1: This week they were equally as great. I completely completely agree. 755 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,640 Speaker 1: They have different voices, but the way that they work 756 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 1: together is so amazing, and I think you're right for them. 757 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,279 Speaker 1: It's about performance. They're kind of singing and acting at 758 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 1: the same time. They know that give a friendship and 759 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 1: like they're probably attracted to each other, but there's not 760 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 1: some great romance there. But for us as viewers, it 761 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 1: doesn't matter when they're on stage, not at all, not 762 00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 1: at all. Well, that leads us all up. There's a 763 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 1: performances that leads up to the road ceremony where the 764 00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 1: judges have the power. Brie and Chris stay not a surprise, 765 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: Matt and Rudy stay, not a surprise. Natasha and Ryan stay. 766 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 1: Their performance was incredible, but it was down to Trevor, Jamie, 767 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,360 Speaker 1: Julia and Brandon and the judges I think made the 768 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 1: right decision. Actually do you. I was actually surprised that 769 00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: the drama was sent home. So next week, I think 770 00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:52,840 Speaker 1: we're gonna be concentrating more on actual connection and performance chemistry. Julia, 771 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 1: I mean Brandon. Brandon doesn't care about any of this. 772 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 1: He's so nonchalant. And Julia, she was the drama queen 773 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 1: of the house, so it was kind of like, all right, 774 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 1: let's let's get rid of this and concentrate on the 775 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 1: important stuff. Next week, Julian Brandon are sent home, and 776 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 1: the drama doesn't stop there. Julia's exit starts to bring 777 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:23,040 Speaker 1: up how mad she was at Brandon, how disconnected he was, 778 00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 1: and how she wishes she would have chose Shardan. Now 779 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,920 Speaker 1: I'm all confused, and in fact, I'm so confused, I'm 780 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,919 Speaker 1: just saying I'm I'm happy to go on to next 781 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,879 Speaker 1: week because I don't think I can take another week 782 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 1: of the going as back and forth as much as 783 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,040 Speaker 1: we had. It always takes being screwed over from by 784 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 1: a bad guy to appreciate the good guy that you had. 785 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,400 Speaker 1: You never know what it's what you had until it's gone. 786 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,800 Speaker 1: I think that's a song at some point. It's a 787 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 1: Nick Jonas sung song, Do Know what You Got? Deal? 788 00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 1: It's good? I don't I think there was like I 789 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,680 Speaker 1: think I'm thinking like an oldies song too. I think 790 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, ash Um, Well, that was this week's 791 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 1: Listen to Your Heart. Uh, it was a a better 792 00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,759 Speaker 1: performance for me. I'm going to grade it this week 793 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:17,359 Speaker 1: on a scale of what we expect, a B plus good. 794 00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:22,440 Speaker 1: I write it a B plus as well, and I'm intrigued. 795 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch next week, excited to watch. I'm not 796 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 1: gonna be dreading it. Um, it's actually it's it feels 797 00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 1: like these couples have some potential, Ashley. Uh, let's bring 798 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 1: on Bree to break down this week's episode a little 799 00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,840 Speaker 1: bit further. But also, I mean, what do you think, like, 800 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:43,280 Speaker 1: just really focus on Brie and Chris because their relationship 801 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,919 Speaker 1: is beautiful. I agree, and like I like I said 802 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,920 Speaker 1: to Brie, I think it's going to come down to 803 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,399 Speaker 1: their real life love versus the passion that we feel 804 00:46:53,440 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 1: between Ryan and Natasha on stage. Let's bring in brief Ye, 805 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 1: so I's promised we have one of Bachelor nations favorite 806 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:15,440 Speaker 1: Listen to Your Heart contestants, Brie is here with us 807 00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 1: on the Almost Famous podcast. Hey Bree, Hey, how's it going? 808 00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,800 Speaker 1: Really good? Brie? I got a burning question for you. 809 00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 1: It seems in this episode that we're going to narrow 810 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,920 Speaker 1: this season down till there is one couple standing. Is 811 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 1: this couple going to be there standing at as the 812 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,240 Speaker 1: last couple in the end because of love or because 813 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:47,920 Speaker 1: of their performance passion together? Mm hmm. So it's definitely 814 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: going to be a little bit of both their chemistry 815 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 1: on stage as well as their chemistry UM in their relationship, 816 00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 1: So it's equally judged on both. I'd say, can I 817 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:04,880 Speaker 1: make a prediction as to who's standing in the end? Yes? Man, 818 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,799 Speaker 1: I think it's gonna come down to you and Chris 819 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 1: and Natasha and Ryan. I feel I like that prediction. 820 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 1: I feel like you and Chris definitely have the genuine love, 821 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:22,080 Speaker 1: and I feel like Natasha and Ryan have a talent 822 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: and performance that they really mend melt together. Natasha and 823 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: Ryan are very very hot on stage. There's no denying 824 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:38,200 Speaker 1: that they're quite a duo. Bree. Let's start at the 825 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 1: beginning here. What was this a whole experience like for you? 826 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 1: Listen to your heart. The experience for me was everything. Um. 827 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 1: You know, I have performed a lot in the past, 828 00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:02,680 Speaker 1: but never with someone that I genuinely love. Um. I've 829 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,200 Speaker 1: performed with other musicians and stuff, but for the most part, 830 00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 1: it's just been me. So it's a really interesting experience 831 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,000 Speaker 1: to you know, not be given a lot of time 832 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,640 Speaker 1: to be super prepared and then just to be on 833 00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 1: stage with a partner and um having to you know, 834 00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 1: impress the judges while also communicating chemistry that you know 835 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 1: is there but hoping they receive it. Well. So there 836 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,520 Speaker 1: were just a million things going on in my head 837 00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:31,359 Speaker 1: the entire time. Um, so it's really fun to look 838 00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 1: back and see how it was communicated now that I'm 839 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:38,759 Speaker 1: watching it. We saw you guys totally. If all I'm 840 00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:40,359 Speaker 1: going to say you kind of like fell in love 841 00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:45,480 Speaker 1: during that scene at the Guitar Center on Sunset, is 842 00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,840 Speaker 1: that you feel like that was the moment you started 843 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 1: to fall Yes, definitely. Guitar Center will always have the 844 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 1: most special place in my heart because, um, you know, 845 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 1: it's just one of those things where the I can't 846 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,839 Speaker 1: we forgot the cameras and everything. It was just us, 847 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,640 Speaker 1: um and when we were playing Calpfall and and Love 848 00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,799 Speaker 1: by Elvis on the piano, it it was just such 849 00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 1: a moving moment, as stupid as that sounds, but the 850 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 1: feeling was just incredible and something I've never experienced before. 851 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,239 Speaker 1: And there's just no denying that. That's the moment when 852 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,719 Speaker 1: I started to fall in love with him and um 853 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 1: and him as well with me. What was it initially 854 00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 1: about Chris that stood out to you? Chris has the 855 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:37,280 Speaker 1: most genuine, open energy that I've ever seen in anyone. 856 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:41,279 Speaker 1: Like when we first met, you know, he he just 857 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,239 Speaker 1: came right up to me, UM in a very non 858 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,759 Speaker 1: aggressive way, UM, and introduced himself and then kind of 859 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:50,239 Speaker 1: like backed off because there were other guys talking to me, UM. 860 00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 1: And then as like the night progressed. Um. He I 861 00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:55,960 Speaker 1: just noticed that when he would walk in the room 862 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,840 Speaker 1: and things would get brighter and people would kind of 863 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,239 Speaker 1: flocked toward him, and he could just bring up best 864 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 1: in people and would start to see music that really 865 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,240 Speaker 1: united all of us. So it's just his open energy 866 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,400 Speaker 1: that he gives off. It's very genuine. In this episode, 867 00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 1: we see that you say I love you to him 868 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: for the first time in front of a live audience 869 00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 1: on stage, and it just slipped out. How did you 870 00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 1: feel what that just popped out of your mouth? Honestly, 871 00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,880 Speaker 1: I feel like a stupid school girl that's like so giddy. 872 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,360 Speaker 1: I it was just ridiculous, But again, Um, it was 873 00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:35,240 Speaker 1: natural everything's just been so natural with him. So usually 874 00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,320 Speaker 1: when I perform, you know, I have family come that 875 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: supports me, and so I have that like that comfort, 876 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,040 Speaker 1: but being on stage with him, um, he's the only 877 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,200 Speaker 1: comfort that I had because we didn't you know, know anyone, 878 00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 1: and it was just really it was a lot. And 879 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 1: so for me to naturally hug him after and say 880 00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,719 Speaker 1: I love you, there's no forcing that. And it just 881 00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 1: showed me how, um how William I am to give 882 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,200 Speaker 1: him my heart and to feel like I can trust him. 883 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,839 Speaker 1: And this is a big moment for you because as 884 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 1: we learned early on this season, it's been a storyline throughout. Uh. 885 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,760 Speaker 1: One of the moments that I think most affected everybody 886 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 1: that's watching the show is you admitted and kind of 887 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,760 Speaker 1: opened up about being previously engaged and during what I remember, 888 00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 1: right when you picked out your wedding dress, your fiance 889 00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 1: at the time had called you and said, hey, this 890 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 1: is over. I know when Jess and I were watching this, 891 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,160 Speaker 1: we both know we just recently got engaged and we 892 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,640 Speaker 1: were watching this and just like her mouth was like 893 00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:37,920 Speaker 1: on the floor, like just hurting for you. Yeah, that 894 00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 1: experience was really difficult, just because, um, you know, it 895 00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 1: was very traumatic for me, just because I had physically 896 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,680 Speaker 1: picked out the dress. It wasn't it was making it real, 897 00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And so when you're wearing it, 898 00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 1: you envisioned your dad there and your mom, and um, 899 00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,400 Speaker 1: it just kind of becomes it's very it just it's 900 00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 1: brought to lie and so um to have that kind 901 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,680 Speaker 1: of just taken from you, it caused a lot of, um, 902 00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 1: you know, deep pain and so it's been hard to 903 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 1: to trust again because I never expected him to do that. 904 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,280 Speaker 1: So you know, when you get in the next relationship, 905 00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: you're like, well, I hope you don't do this, but 906 00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,560 Speaker 1: I never expected this guy to do it. Um. So 907 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 1: with with Chris, you know, it's just been very natural 908 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:26,960 Speaker 1: and I haven't had the same kinds of fears that 909 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 1: I've always had. And yeah, I know that he wouldn't 910 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 1: ever do anything like that to me. So Ben has 911 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,840 Speaker 1: been talking throughout the season about how he can't relate 912 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: to the impasity the intimacy of writing songs and performing 913 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 1: songs together. Can you enlighten us no musicians how that feels. Yes, So, 914 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,560 Speaker 1: first of all, with our guitar sturd day and our 915 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 1: freestyle and It was definitely rough because we hardly knew 916 00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,880 Speaker 1: each other, Like, let's just bury that, Okay, let's just 917 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 1: forget about it. Um. It really was so fun. But 918 00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,880 Speaker 1: you know, we didn't we just we just met and 919 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 1: so we were like trying to figure out our musical 920 00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:14,640 Speaker 1: chemistry because we haven't really like sung together. But honestly, 921 00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:18,959 Speaker 1: it comes very quickly and easy when you just both 922 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,399 Speaker 1: put yourself out there, your vulnerable. Um. It's a really 923 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,359 Speaker 1: amazing process when you both do that, because you get 924 00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,920 Speaker 1: to places that you never would have gone through words, 925 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:32,840 Speaker 1: because music just brings this other element that you know, 926 00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 1: no one can deny, like it's music is very truthful, um, 927 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,080 Speaker 1: and so it really brought us together way. I feel 928 00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,239 Speaker 1: like we've like skipped ahead of year in our relationship, 929 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,799 Speaker 1: you know what I mean at this point, because um, 930 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,640 Speaker 1: because music just does that. I Astley's right, And a 931 00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,680 Speaker 1: lot of this show I am watching now from a 932 00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,200 Speaker 1: perspective of, Hey, I can't relate at all except for 933 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,600 Speaker 1: the pursuit of love piece. You know you singing in 934 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,960 Speaker 1: front of people would make me have hives, or me 935 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 1: singing in people make me have hives? Literally breathe, What 936 00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 1: was it about going on listen to your heart that 937 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,960 Speaker 1: you were interested in. Was it love or was it 938 00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,680 Speaker 1: to increase your musical kind of exposure, which would be 939 00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:23,200 Speaker 1: fair too. Um, you know it was definitely both. Because 940 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 1: I'm a musician, I think naturally we're always trying to 941 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,360 Speaker 1: be like, you know what's next, looking further our careers. 942 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,600 Speaker 1: Oh cool, this is a great opportunity. Why wouldn't I 943 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: do it? But I wasn't going to go into it 944 00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:38,239 Speaker 1: if I wasn't truly open to finding love. Um, I 945 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,759 Speaker 1: can't say I totally believed in it, and I didn't 946 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:44,399 Speaker 1: think that it would happen to someone like me. Um. 947 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,680 Speaker 1: But you know when I was deciding, and I was 948 00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,840 Speaker 1: just like, you literally nothing to lose, um, love and 949 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,960 Speaker 1: music or everything you've ever wanted, So you'd be an 950 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,480 Speaker 1: idiot not to So obviously I'm very thankful that I 951 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,640 Speaker 1: just went with my gut and and went with it. 952 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 1: Next week, we see that you guys bring the show 953 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,600 Speaker 1: on the road and you'll be you'll be sharing a 954 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 1: tour bus with Chris. Does that change? How does that 955 00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 1: change the couples? Because I feel like given that more 956 00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:16,080 Speaker 1: private time, that quality time, you guys are gonna learn 957 00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:22,040 Speaker 1: more about each other and you're the dynamic of living together. Yeah, 958 00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 1: I'm really excited for that because, um, you know, they 959 00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: always say, like, go on a road trip with whoever 960 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 1: you're interested in, do this, do that, So it's it's 961 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 1: definitely a next big step. UM. And then just getting 962 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,200 Speaker 1: that one on one time is something that we haven't 963 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,800 Speaker 1: had a lot of because we're in a house with 964 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people. So I'm just really excited for 965 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 1: that time to just be able to focus on us 966 00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:50,800 Speaker 1: the breed. This all kind of summarizes here at the 967 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:54,760 Speaker 1: end with um hopefully a great love story and also 968 00:56:55,080 --> 00:57:00,600 Speaker 1: a great opportunity to further your music career. Looking back 969 00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:03,160 Speaker 1: at it all, was it worth it? You don't have 970 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,399 Speaker 1: to give us any hints any ideas of what this meant, 971 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,719 Speaker 1: but just for you, sitting where you're at now, was 972 00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:13,279 Speaker 1: this worth it? Definitely worth it. I I would never 973 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:17,360 Speaker 1: want to go back to the life that I had before. UM. 974 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,800 Speaker 1: I wanted all to be what it is right now, 975 00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:24,040 Speaker 1: and yes, it was a thousand times worth it. You 976 00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 1: and Chris seemed to be unbreakable at this point in 977 00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:31,760 Speaker 1: the competition, and I'm going to assume right now that 978 00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 1: if you don't win the show. You're still together? Am 979 00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: I right? I guess we'll have to see. Okay, okay, 980 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 1: So we've talked a lot about your love story. It's great, 981 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,520 Speaker 1: we're huge fans of it. Um, it's keeping me going 982 00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,600 Speaker 1: during this show. But can we just take a second 983 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,440 Speaker 1: and what was it like being in the house with 984 00:57:56,640 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 1: the drama that ensued this week between Brandon and Savannah 985 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:03,880 Speaker 1: and Sheridan and Julia. Was it Was it as wild 986 00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:09,360 Speaker 1: as it seems? Yes, the drama is definitely as wild 987 00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,680 Speaker 1: as it seems. Um, as much as Chris and I, 988 00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:16,240 Speaker 1: you know, have tried to stay out of it, Um, 989 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 1: there's an energy there and me and him are both 990 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,040 Speaker 1: big feelers. We feel for people, and so it's been 991 00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:28,120 Speaker 1: really heavy and definitely, you know, you take stress into 992 00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 1: um relationships and performances and you hope that you can 993 00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:33,480 Speaker 1: just do your best because we all kind of are 994 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 1: a family living together. So yeah, it's been challenging, but 995 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:42,520 Speaker 1: it's definitely there. I felt like it. Mm hmm, alright, 996 00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,040 Speaker 1: well I can't take it. Thank you Bree so much 997 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:48,160 Speaker 1: for joining us today. We're rooting for you and Chris 998 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:51,920 Speaker 1: in real life and on all the show. That's right, 999 00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:56,560 Speaker 1: Thank you answering. Thank you. You guys are great. Have 1000 00:58:56,640 --> 00:59:01,280 Speaker 1: a great day. Al right, guys. So we got one 1001 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,640 Speaker 1: email about the Matt James versus Claire drama that we 1002 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 1: addressed during last week's Hot Topics. This is from Amy. 1003 00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:12,360 Speaker 1: She says, I had a thought on the drama of 1004 00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,640 Speaker 1: Matt James. My feelings about it are that it came 1005 00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 1: across like Claire is assuming that Matt James is going 1006 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:22,440 Speaker 1: on her show to get famous as a result of 1007 00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,880 Speaker 1: being a contestant on the Bachelorette, when in reality, he's 1008 00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,600 Speaker 1: famous already because he is friends with Tyler and everyone 1009 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 1: who is following the Quarantine crew. I feel like more 1010 00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:36,520 Speaker 1: people know more about Matt than I know about Claire. 1011 00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:42,680 Speaker 1: What do you think? I certainly don't agree, Amy, um My. 1012 00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:49,000 Speaker 1: My thoughts are that Matt maybe famous amongst uh gen 1013 00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:54,720 Speaker 1: z gen z right. Matt maybe famous to TikTok watchers 1014 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,840 Speaker 1: and people who follow Tyler and his group of friends 1015 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:02,600 Speaker 1: very closely on social media. I feel like Claire is 1016 01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:09,400 Speaker 1: far more famous amongst the nation Bachelor nation. I feel 1017 01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:12,320 Speaker 1: like what we've gotten to know about Claire over four 1018 01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 1: seasons of televised programming is more than you guys are 1019 01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:20,360 Speaker 1: seeing from the quarantine crew house about Matt. You are 1020 01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:22,760 Speaker 1: getting to see from Matt what he wants to put 1021 01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 1: out there for you guys. And Claire has had a 1022 01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 1: whole bunch of things that she probably wishes she could 1023 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 1: edit it out be broadcast on national TV. I also 1024 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't call him famous. I'd call him um a social 1025 01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:41,880 Speaker 1: media personality right now. I I think it's weird to 1026 01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 1: call anybody from pass Nation famous. And I think that 1027 01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 1: I would repeat with what you're staying here by saying 1028 01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:54,560 Speaker 1: Matt going on an ABC prime time show is just 1029 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,800 Speaker 1: gonna make him more famous than he is going to 1030 01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 1: be from social media. Yeah. So even if you think 1031 01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 1: he already is famous, I don't think that he is. 1032 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 1: I think that there's always ways for him to be 1033 01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:12,440 Speaker 1: more famous. Yeah, I mean I think now, maybe as 1034 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:14,439 Speaker 1: we sit you could have the argument who's better known 1035 01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,000 Speaker 1: if that's how we're gonna do it, And maybe Matt 1036 01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 1: James right now is better known, but let's not forget 1037 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 1: I don't think he's better known. I feel like Claire 1038 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:24,440 Speaker 1: Crawley is going to explode here when she becomes a 1039 01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,920 Speaker 1: Bachelorrette like she'll go from zero to a hundred in 1040 01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:34,439 Speaker 1: terms of a recognized person personality very soon. So yeah, 1041 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,360 Speaker 1: being on an ABC show always helps your relevancy. Being 1042 01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:40,720 Speaker 1: on AB show definitely helps the attention come to you more. 1043 01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:44,440 Speaker 1: So if we're defining who's more known, I really think 1044 01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:47,880 Speaker 1: that it Claire very soon will be one of the 1045 01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,920 Speaker 1: most recognized people in the use. Don't you think it's 1046 01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:55,240 Speaker 1: a generational thing because like, yeah, like millennials, probably no 1047 01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:58,080 Speaker 1: Claire More and then gen Z who was like the 1048 01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 1: newcomers on TikTok People below the age of two, they 1049 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,840 Speaker 1: probably know Matt More. Hey, I'm on TikTok to and 1050 01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying hard actually and I'm thirty one. Hey, uh, 1051 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 1: this has been another awesome episode of the Almost Famous podcast. 1052 01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:15,920 Speaker 1: We really do appreciate all of you listening. It's been 1053 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,200 Speaker 1: a blast, uh talking to you through this shutdown. Again, 1054 01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:23,800 Speaker 1: Please rate and comment on our podcast wherever you listen 1055 01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:28,920 Speaker 1: to podcasts. In addition to that, um, stay strong. 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