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Speaker 1: is incoming. Yes, serve, let's get into it. So this

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Speaker 1: my friends, my friends, which was wanting either my money

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Speaker 1: me too far now, and we're mostly aiming for pity,

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Speaker 1: only wonder what they wanted this time. I picked a

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 1: We had an awkward greeting, ordered some drinks, and then

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Speaker 1: Apparently Dan's credit isn't so great. Gee, I wonder why.

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Speaker 1: Maybe because Dan doesn't know how to manage his family

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Speaker 3: I feel like he bought most of his used most

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what is Dan spending his money on? Like, I'm

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Speaker 4: I mean, but four kids and a wife. But like,

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Speaker 4: but he's not rent or kids and wife is.

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Speaker 1: A lot, That's true, That's like, that's like quadruple rent.

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Speaker 1: Each kid is probably like rent. Dang, dang. Gotta put

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Speaker 1: why I had to work at sawmill g I wonder,

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Speaker 1: why could it be his wife regularly spends him into

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Speaker 1: Probably, Well, they asked that I help by either supplying

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Speaker 1: this isn't a venture funder's asking me for money? Like,

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Speaker 3: Unaffordable?

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Speaker 1: That's right. They were pointing and laughing at me for

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Speaker 1: I'd love to delve into that. With plenty of ears

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Speaker 2: Well, you got a house, sell the house.

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Speaker 1: Come on. I broke it down and how much I'd

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Speaker 1: I then loosely broke things down in rough math in

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Speaker 2: You.

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Speaker 1: You want to have your savings to make sure.

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Speaker 2: You're safe, of course. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh, let me just like spend everything I make can

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Speaker 1: But if I spend it all on Dan, Dan's got

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Speaker 2: So proven such track record.

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Speaker 1: Nuts, Well, my truck is from the nineties. If it

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Speaker 1: so as you can see, I just can't spare money

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Speaker 4: Everything is just turning it back on them, like, oh, oh,

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Speaker 2: Okay, you co sign?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're his parents, and why aren't you doing it?

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Speaker 1: Because you don't want to be responsible for Dan. Because

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Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna do it either.

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Speaker 3: I get the sister in law cosn because she makes

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Speaker 2: True, that's a great point, she cut Listen.

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Speaker 1: Can only get you so far. Yeah, I was pretty

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Speaker 1: I'm not an ATM and I'm not a fool. And

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Speaker 1: I stated that right to their faces. I expect my

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Speaker 1: By this time, he just well didn't. I've known this

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Speaker 1: he just didn't do that. There wasn't even a sneer

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Speaker 4: You can be like, just just go across the street

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Speaker 2: Oh, this is so good.

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Speaker 1: That is brutal. So good, that is brutal.

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Speaker 3: Talk to me, did you say an apartment just for

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Speaker 4: Part and in his family, yeah, I mean they didn't

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Speaker 1: I guess they couldn't turn down free food they're graveling

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Speaker 3: You know, Dan's gonna definitely bring this up. Hey, you

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Speaker 3: remember that ten books I give for the tip? Though, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you only have apartment interest. Yeah, one thousand percent interest

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Speaker 1: My mother just excuses behavior. We all parted ways and

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Speaker 1: that was it. Not nearly as much drama as I

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Speaker 1: and it gets worse. It's about to go crazy. As

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Speaker 1: for sister in law. Well, she's been regularly complaining online

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Speaker 1: I think her toxic traits are finally getting to my parents.

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Speaker 1: Why else would they be so desperate to come crawling

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Speaker 1: back to me. Sister in law actually wants my parents

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Speaker 2: Go off influencer.

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Speaker 1: It starts small john and then it grows.

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Speaker 4: Then it grows that like conspiracy theory is part of

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Speaker 1: And then we're getting I think that honestly is a

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Speaker 1: Like we're we're still we're still moving, we're still grooving, we're.

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Speaker 2: Like merely halfway through.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, like we still have a whole.

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Speaker 2: We still have a whole as much as we've just

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't know. I think it could I

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Speaker 2: Because they don't care.

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Speaker 4: They will use every single tool of torture they have

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Speaker 1: Because here and there I get messages by someone I

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Speaker 1: weekday three PMPSD right here on YouTube. But there's another

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Speaker 4: Oh no, My sister in law has been trying to

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Speaker 4: So to catch you off to speed, Opie's parents basically

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Speaker 4: He got down on his luck. Years later, his parents

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Speaker 4: to this moment Part four. I figured I'd wait half

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Speaker 4: but it ended up being longer than that. Yes, things

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Speaker 2: You will read about here.

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Speaker 4: By the way, this comes from Camper Nomad from our

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Speaker 4: slash Okay story time. God what a writer op is also,

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Speaker 4: I just have to say, But I digress.

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Speaker 2: Let's keep going.

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Speaker 4: I did get a few cameras from my house, including

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Speaker 4: Both have been fantastic tenants. They know to keep quiet

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Speaker 1: Let's go.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry, just like's.

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Speaker 1: Finances are going through the roof.

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Speaker 2: Dude.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's up.

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Speaker 2: From the camper van to here.

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Speaker 3: And I think this is like two or three years later.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like pretty bounce back relatively quickly. Just to just

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Speaker 4: as you might imagine. My father and Dan stayed out

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Speaker 4: my mother come crying to me over how could I

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Speaker 1: Because Dan and you have been nothing but a pain

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Speaker 2: When will you understand?

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Speaker 4: We had a bit of an argument in which I

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Speaker 2: To steal it.

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Speaker 4: She wouldn't want to let someone who did that move

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Speaker 4: in with her. Mmm, okay, another great point. As per usual, Also,

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Speaker 4: there wasn't enough room for me, Dan and his entire

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Speaker 4: very well that I can't be around sister in law

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Speaker 4: because she intentionally antagonizes me, and they all mocked me

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Speaker 4: what is this someone I actually enjoy spending time with,

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Speaker 1: I feel like.

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Speaker 2: That is that a sub riley?

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Speaker 3: It's just we have.

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Speaker 1: Really big footed sopping through the hallways. What are you

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Speaker 4: My mother had some sobbing excuses for a while, but

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Speaker 2: That she was just desperate. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like that.

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Speaker 1: I kind of see w.

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Speaker 3: She couldn't lie anymore, so she tried out tell them

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Speaker 2: But yeah, right, she's just run.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, try every tactic in the book, yes, stealing

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Speaker 1: it and lies, pityon lies like and then it's it's

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Speaker 2: I'm just desperate. I'm just pathetic. What can I say?

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Speaker 2: What more can I do?

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Speaker 1: Stoop and stoopid, stupid.

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Speaker 4: But there's an edit here. So the parents found out

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Speaker 2: You see some ice ues.

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Speaker 4: I was wondering, is it is it her side guy

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Speaker 2: Because remember what, what does the sister in law have?

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Speaker 2: What is she?

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Speaker 1: He's hot?

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Speaker 4: She's hot, she's hot. She's got kids, but she's hot.

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Speaker 4: So does she have some side piece running around doing

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Speaker 4: my parents and Dan not so much. It turns out

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Speaker 4: even I thought. I already knew she was a gaslighting,

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Speaker 2: Dan's youngest child. No way did you call it you

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Speaker 2: turned out not to be his. Put some respect on

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Speaker 2: my name. I can't believe you called that some respect

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Speaker 3: This story's perfect. It has everything you.

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Speaker 1: Ever wanted, dude.

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Speaker 4: So all right, now that we've all calmed down from

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Speaker 4: that shocking news, Yeah, you all read that correctly. Sister

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Speaker 4: that surprising. She is hot, that is what we do know,

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Speaker 2: Dude, people are smark like me.

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Speaker 4: After being caught, sister in law was ousted from the family.

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Speaker 2: Wow, whoa, she's out, he's gone.

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Speaker 3: How many kids did she take with her? Just the one?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Like did she take them all?

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Speaker 2: Hopefully we'll see very soon.

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Speaker 4: Dan just recently finished with his divorce, which actually went

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Speaker 3: How how old is at least a year now?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: We made a rule that it's not your kid unless.

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Speaker 2: It's four years.

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Speaker 4: Basically after the incident where my parents tried to force

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Speaker 4: She was convinced somehow that I had tons of money,

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Speaker 4: It was also her idea to make my parents and

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Speaker 4: Remember the Garden of Alves experience. So it really burst

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Speaker 3: Dang, so she was pulling the strings the whole time.

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Speaker 2: It kind of seems like it. She seems like the

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Speaker 1: I mean, she has nothing but tie on her hands,

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Speaker 1: that's what.

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Speaker 4: And she also knows that, like she knows how much

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Speaker 2: I'm sure.

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Speaker 4: So for the longest time, she had Dan and my

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Speaker 4: their narcissism with her own. So her blaming me made

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00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 4: the rest of them blame me. This is until what

445
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 4: happened in front of the police when they tried to.

446
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 2: Steal my house. That is when the downfall of my

447
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 2: sister in law really started.

448
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 4: My parents and Dan were apprehensive about coming to Christmas

449
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 4: party after the way that I doubted them, but sister

450
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,480
Speaker 4: in law convinced them to just throw together a few

451
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 4: cheap gifts from what they could get at the last

452
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 4: minute and just show up, because.

453
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,920
Speaker 2: He'd never throw us out once we're already there.

454
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: How wrong you are?

455
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 2: Do you remember what happened the first time? Oh? Boy,

456
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 2: was she wrong?

457
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 4: She gambled on that plan, and I with the complete

458
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 4: blessings of everyone, and invited, through her and the rest

459
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 4: of the family out. Her plan, she no doubt thought

460
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 4: was the most clever thing ever, backfired in her face spectacularly.

461
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 4: I guess being chewed out by her family at my

462
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 4: party not only wrecked mya my parents' reputation even more,

463
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 4: it actually started a wake up call for them to

464
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 4: eventually not listen to sister in law anymore. And as

465
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,680
Speaker 4: I said in my last post, my parents decided to

466
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Speaker 4: go back to church, perhaps because last year I'd said

467
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,639
Speaker 4: they'd probably go to heck for their actions. I can't

468
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 4: say that's the real reason, but you gotta admit it.

469
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 4: It would feel kind of satisfying if that was the case.

470
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god. So though my parents hadn't been to

471
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 2: church in two.

472
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 4: Decades before going back, well, I don't think it's a

473
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 4: bad idea that they're going to church. They need to

474
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 4: understand that going doesn't just give them some do over

475
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 4: for all the crap they've done in the past.

476
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I have a little faith that.

477
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 4: They're at least trying more wordplay, because my parents came

478
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 4: to my house without Dan to personally apologize to me

479
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 4: after they'd seen an animated video of my first three posts.

480
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 3: I saw that to someone did animate this like series?

481
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: What dude?

482
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a redditor animated it. It looks pretty good too.

483
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 2: WHOA, that's right.

484
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,120
Speaker 4: They've known about this readit account for a long time. Now,

485
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 4: they know almost everything I'm saying. Yes, they're unhappy about it,

486
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 4: but I feel everyone here deserves.

487
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: An update since it's anonymous.

488
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 4: For my parents and Dan, though, watching an animated video

489
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 4: of themselves and their own actions was a great way

490
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 4: to make them see what kind of people they really are,

491
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 4: which honestly makes a lot of sense. They came over

492
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 4: to apologize to me later. I've never seen my father

493
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 4: apologize like that to anyone, and the man isn't a

494
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 4: good actor, so this did feel genuine. They fully acknowledge

495
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 4: what they did to me and how there's no excuse

496
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 4: for any of it. They even described themselves as narcissists

497
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 4: and admitted the truth that they had wronged me very badly.

498
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 2: What do they want? Yeah, yeah, yeah, what do they want?

499
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: Dude? They're trying to weasel in.

500
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 3: Like I got you, Hey, can you take care of

501
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 3: this fourth child that Dan can't take care of him

502
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 3: because he doesn't want it.

503
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 4: What if they're like, hey, we're still living with Dan

504
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 4: and the three kids or whatever, can we live with you?

505
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: Because then there's.

506
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: Well, I got a camp row back that I can

507
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 3: have for ten k a month, twenty k about it's increased, it's.

508
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: Got heating, but the air conditioner does not work.

509
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 4: So then they went on to blame sister in law

510
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 4: for a lot of things. Yeah, they kind of through

511
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 4: her under the bus, but it's not like she wasn't

512
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 4: guilty of everything.

513
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 2: They said.

514
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 4: My parents have been getting counseling now for a while too,

515
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 4: and did offer group family counseling, but I declined as

516
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 4: I'm not ready for that anytime soon. Dan himself didn't

517
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 4: apologize to me for some time, but he looked extremely

518
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 4: remorseful anytime the past was brought up. Meanwhile, Dan and

519
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 4: sister in law's marriage absolutely fell apart. It wasn't a crumble,

520
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 4: it was a cascade. And if Op with his life

521
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 4: says it's a cascade, you know it's an avalanche. Without

522
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 4: me is the scapegoat slash black sheep o slash atm

523
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 4: They couldn't mock or try to get money from anyone.

524
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 4: After the public humiliation of social media, my Reddit posts

525
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 4: and the animated video online.

526
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: Dude is getting everything.

527
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 2: They're cornered. Oh, such sweet justice for Ropie.

528
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,920
Speaker 4: Sister in law finally let out enough of her toxic

529
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 4: on Dan and my parents for them to realize she's

530
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 4: not the person they thought she was. Their denial had

531
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 4: been strong, but my sister's entitlement was even stronger. I've

532
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 4: had many a thought of lightsabers clashing over this dramash

533
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 4: sister in law clad like a bimbo scyth with a

534
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 4: lightsaber that looks like giant lipstick or something like that.

535
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:20,239
Speaker 2: Let's animate it.

536
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 4: I imagine there's a wealth of pun and jokes to

537
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 4: be had there, but I didn't really bother to think

538
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 4: that much more in detail about it. But as you

539
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 4: can imagine, things only got worse because sister in law

540
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 4: kept looking for other ways to get what she wanted.

541
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 4: She kept bringing up ads for used campers and RVs

542
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 4: to try to get my parents buy one to live

543
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 4: out of so they could have the main house. And

544
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 4: she kept doing this no matter how many times they

545
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 4: told her to stop. She even tried to say my

546
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 4: parents would just buy an RV and have a life

547
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 4: on the road like normal.

548
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 2: Old people do.

549
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 4: That was stupid, even for my sister in law. The

550
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 4: opposite was suggested by my parents that Dan and sister

551
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 4: in law by a camper themselves to live out of instead,

552
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 4: which listen, I watched a whole YouTube video about uh

553
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 4: actual travel parent content where they like packing their kids

554
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 4: like sardines and it's basically like a Actually one of

555
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 4: them did go to Reddit.

556
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: I think we might have possibly read this story.

557
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, but I saw a video that found what

558
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 4: they think was the person in that Reddit video was

559
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 4: talking about like the family.

560
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: And like basically like these these camper parents on YouTube

561
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: exploiting their kids.

562
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 4: Exactly, Like you think it's so sweet and innocent, but

563
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 4: I'm like a sixteen year old, I have no space.

564
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 2: It's like terrible, My education is trash and all that.

565
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 3: I think they're passing a law where that won't happen

566
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 3: in certain states.

567
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 2: There was something about like family content creators.

568
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 1: I remember that.

569
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 3: Really, what do they say, Uh, it's illegal in like California.

570
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 2: I can't remember.

571
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe it's like you can't use your kids in

572
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 4: the content or something like that. I think it was

573
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 4: in Wisconsin. Can't remember, but yeah, there was something that

574
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 4: was that was past. I remember that sister in law

575
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 4: basically said that she shouldn't have to do that since

576
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 4: she's the mom.

577
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,119
Speaker 2: She pretty much lorded the facts that she thought she

578
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: had total.

579
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 4: Parental authority over everyone's heads because the kids in the

580
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 4: house were all hers. And when sister in law didn't

581
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 4: get her away, she actually took her baby and left

582
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 4: the house to disappear for several days.

583
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Jesus.

584
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 4: They knew she was fine because her phone was still

585
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 4: working and she was responding to texts with short, passive,

586
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 4: agg aggressive answers. Yeah that's yeah, she's okay, I guess.

587
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 4: And when she came back she was even She was

588
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 4: only more embittered because nobody cave to her demands while

589
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 4: she was away. Sister in law also refused to go

590
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 4: to church, but Dan went with our parents and took

591
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 4: his kids along as well, save for the youngest sister

592
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 4: in law refuse to let him take the baby anywhere. Personally,

593
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 4: I don't go to church. I believe in God and

594
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 4: all that stuff. I just don't like church.

595
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: Besides, it never did me any good growing up.

596
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: We got Sophia coming in.

597
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: Now get out of here. I got lots of updates.

598
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 2: Oh Sophia, are you ready hear what happened? Can I

599
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: have that white pillow? Though you absolutely can