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Speaker 1: My dad abandons his mistress, So I gave her something

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Speaker 1: she'll never forget.

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Speaker 2: Gone Aria.

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Speaker 1: That is a burn you don't recover from or oh

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Speaker 3: Yeah who technically can't out? You technically can recover from it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out to anyone who has gone area in

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Speaker 4: the commons.

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Speaker 2: Woooa gang, we love you.

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Speaker 4: Feel the burn their slogan, I feel the burn. Gottaia

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Speaker 4: gang g g gg. All right, anyway, I twenty five female,

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Speaker 4: was an only child until all of this went down.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, my mom forty five female and my dad

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Speaker 4: sixty five male.

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Speaker 1: Damn, twenty year age different.

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Speaker 2: He's paganetic, he's been married for twenty six years.

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Speaker 1: Damn bro.

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Speaker 4: So she she was nineteen and he was thirty nine.

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Speaker 2: Is that the math? What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Nineteen and thirty nine.

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Speaker 2: Bro, that's a crazy that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, when they got together, my mom was nineteen

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Speaker 4: and my dad was almost forty. My whole life, I

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Speaker 4: thought their age gap was weird. However, my parents, for

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Speaker 4: the most part, appeared to be happy and in love.

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Speaker 4: They adore me, so I guess I never really saw

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Speaker 4: the problem until I put all the pieces together. Oh,

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Speaker 4: Just stick needles in your eyes. They as to see

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Speaker 4: this shit, dude. Damn nineteen and forty bro, that's that's

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Speaker 4: that's a lott. Your dad in like a wheelchair. That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Basically twenty five, Bro, that's crazy. Sixty five feels okay,

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Speaker 3: but that's still crazy. Forty five and sixty five, that's

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Speaker 3: still it's twenty years. Well at least they're like way older,

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Speaker 3: way older. But they were nineteen and forty nineteen forty nuts. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's insane.

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Speaker 4: My mom and dad are both professors, but originally she

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Speaker 4: was his students. Oh god, I don't think so, but

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Speaker 4: by different colleges. Yeah, my dad has always been that

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry, dead bro.

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Speaker 3: I know I'm failing my classes. There anyway I could

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Speaker 3: get extra credit?

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Speaker 4: Oh you know, maybe we could do some late night tutoring.

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Speaker 4: Come with my office after hours.

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Speaker 3: You know, I got a broken washing machine. I could

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Speaker 3: use her help fix.

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Speaker 1: Climb in there, see if he gets stuck.

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Speaker 4: Damn, bro, my dad always has been this professor to

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Speaker 4: go the extra mile to help students. I noticed in

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Speaker 2: Come on, it just rights itself.

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Speaker 1: Bro, tutor students at his house.

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Speaker 3: College professor, right, college professor, very good, very important distinction.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I mean I imagine a professor like I

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Speaker 4: imagine college. It's like and yeah, like I was a

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, it's like, how did you really need to

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Speaker 4: And it's always like they always kept saying like they

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Speaker 4: you want to F? Or give me that D? Like

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Speaker 4: why would you want a D?

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Speaker 2: He he wanted the A? Whyte a?

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Speaker 4: He's the one giving out giving. Well maybe he expects a.

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Speaker 4: He expects a right, yeah right, like give me your best?

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Speaker 2: Blessing to our our education, of our youth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what a guy.

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Speaker 4: A couple of times he did it when my mom

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Speaker 4: My dad retired pretty abruptly at the start of last year.

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Speaker 4: He never gave a hint that he'd do this. He

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Speaker 2: Oh, is you can't report me.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to no man's land. I'm going off the grid.

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Speaker 2: Report me to who the trees?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to the trees.

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Speaker 2: B dude, what and howl? He's sixty five at this point.

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Speaker 4: Bro, man is savage? Douchebag douchebag savage?

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Speaker 2: What what's he got going on?

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Speaker 4: I mean like, I'm like, is this guy like fucking

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Speaker 1: Yeah, God don't bless his dad.

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Speaker 3: Don't bless his God, I get him down, seriously, leave

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Speaker 4: Beia got in contact with me and explained everything that

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Speaker 4: my dad manipulated her okay, maybe not, said my mom

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Speaker 4: was evil and that he'd leave my mom for her. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so basically he was like selling in the world, selling

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Speaker 1: Yep. She admits to being stupid and in love, in.

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Speaker 2: Love with the sixty five year old bro He's just

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Speaker 1: He's just how big? How maig? We're talking?

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Speaker 2: Keep going, keep going?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's got that monster via agrishlong. Maybe he doesn't

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Speaker 2: He probably doesn't.

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Speaker 4: They had a relationship for about a month, then he

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Speaker 4: almost two. Bia asked me to meet her and her daughter,

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Speaker 4: already knew. BIA's been conducting my mother this whole time,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: He also admitted to cheating and said my mom had

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Speaker 4: My dad asked how he could make it better, and

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Speaker 4: I said, DNA test, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Let me go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, yeah, you know if you don't think it's

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Speaker 1: A wall fucking spit.

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Speaker 4: That's all right, lay it down. It's been a few

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Speaker 4: I have met my little sister and Bea, and I

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Speaker 4: love them both so much. Already, be and her daughter

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Speaker 4: have moved in with me, and I'm helping Bea get

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Speaker 4: child support. I've also found out my dad has had

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Speaker 4: affairs with dozens of women ages eighteen to twenty. My

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean also like that's like like can't couldn't

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Speaker 4: you even go after that post him not being in

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Speaker 4: a college, Like, isn't it some kind of like title

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Speaker 4: NIND violation for a professor to hook up with their

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Speaker 2: Riley, what do we got?

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Speaker 1: We look? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Does it? Yeah? I wonder is it? Does it go

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Speaker 1: Sort of like I think it. I think there is

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Speaker 2: State SA say stay stay state. Yeah. To answer the question,

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Speaker 2: in most countries, there is no law against consensual relationship,

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Speaker 4: So, yes, consenting adults even if they're doing fucked up things, even.

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Speaker 2: If they're sixty five and twenty years old, Like.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's still it's still it's still fucked up

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Speaker 1: like you know, they're consenting adults.

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Speaker 3: It's technically it's leal. It's legal, yeah, but it's not

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Speaker 4: My mom found out about Bea and my sister living

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Speaker 4: She keeps calling me a traitor and saying if I

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Speaker 2: Opie's doing a lot like shout out to Opie.

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Speaker 4: However, I'm having second thoughts about everyone being so upset,

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Speaker 4: and even Bia says I don't have to do this

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Speaker 1: So I guess I just need to know for sure

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Speaker 4: And there are some irrelevant commons and an update? But

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Speaker 4: is op wrong for you know, basically going after her

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I mean, there's everything right with it, but I do

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Speaker 3: which is like opis literally, you know, bringing them into

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Speaker 2: And I think is a she by the way, oh

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Speaker 2: did I see Okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Opie is bringing them into her home. And

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Speaker 3: I think, you know, she can sit down and ask

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Speaker 3: that too much? Do you need some space, like just

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Speaker 3: having to sit down with yourself? And I think asking yourself, Like.

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Speaker 4: I think really like already Opi has done so much,

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Speaker 4: so much, so much, and it's up to her how

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's up to her.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like Bea is down, but she's like BEA's like, hey, like,

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Speaker 4: you don't have to do this. But I think op

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Speaker 4: you're doing the right thing. It's just like how far

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Speaker 4: some relevant comments. Okay abbreviations four or five one zero says,

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Speaker 4: The only way she would be culpable if she knew

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Speaker 4: like OPI can't demand anything of the mother, that's up

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Speaker 1: Supposed to do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a result of his action and legally, yeah,

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Speaker 4: And then Ruth Barb, another commoner, says, the only thing

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Speaker 4: she's still trying to tell herself that she is special.

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Speaker 4: You may have more siblings out there, and then Opie says,

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Speaker 2: It's crazy.

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Speaker 4: And then here's the update October twenty seventh. Firstly, I

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Speaker 4: It hasn't been long, but there is a small update.

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Speaker 4: I've agreed to meet with my mom. We spoke a

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Speaker 4: I'm going no contact. That meeting will happen this weekend,

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Speaker 4: I have no interest in being in contact with my dad.

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Speaker 4: Anytime I saw a woman in our house, my mother

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Speaker 4: The good news is be starts her new job on Monday,

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Speaker 4: I need my space back. I told her she's welcome

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Speaker 4: Once again, thank you guys so much for the support.

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Speaker 4: This whole situation has been so stressful and overwhelming. Reading

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Speaker 4: all the encouraging comments have really helped. And there's no update.

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Speaker 2: There's no updates, no updates.

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Speaker 4: At the end of the story, we don't know what

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Speaker 4: to know, like what what?

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Speaker 1: What? What do you guys think the mother and daughter

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Speaker 4: What could possibly have been said that she I don't

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, my best guess is that maybe the

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Speaker 4: All these girls known about she's in fidelity for years.

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Speaker 3: Maybe she's finally come to her senses and it's like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let us know what you think happened in the comments.

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Speaker 4: We'd love to hear from you. But you know what

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Speaker 4: I want to hear.

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Speaker 2: What do you want to hear?

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Speaker 1: Sam? I want to hear your next story.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it