1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 1: Welcome to brain Stuff from How Stuff Works, Hey, brain Stuff, 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: Lauren bog obam Here. In pop culture parlance, it's known 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 1: as the Jimmy, the odd conversational quirk of referring to 4 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 1: yourself in the third person, named after the Seinfeld character 5 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: who bragged about his basketball skills as if he was 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: his own biggest fan. Jimmy's ready dud check. Oh yeah, 7 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: Jimmy played pretty good. Professional sports and politics are full 8 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: of real life Jimmy's outsized personalities with the off putting 9 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: habit of talking about themselves by name. Senator Bob Dole 10 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: was mocked relentlessly on Saturday Night Live for his Bob 11 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: doll Is ums. Lebron James, defending his controversial move from 12 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,480 Speaker 1: his hometown of Cleveland to the Miami Heat, famously said 13 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to do what was best for Lebron James 14 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 1: to make him happy. And now the United States has 15 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: a Jimmy in chief. President Donald Trump has repeatedly referred 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: to himself as Trump or Donald Trump in debates, interviews, 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: and tweets. For example, dismissing the allegations of collusion with 18 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:06,559 Speaker 1: Russia in the presidential elections, Trump tweeted in perhaps Trump 19 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: just ran a great campaign which prompted this reaction from 20 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: author J. K. Rowling. I wonder whether Trump talks to 21 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 1: Trump's self in the third Trump person when Trump's alone. 22 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: The real term for talking about yourself the third person 23 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: is ilioism, and every armchair psychologist has a theory for 24 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: why certain celebrities are rabbid iliasts. The easiest explanation is ego. Essentially, 25 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: their ego gets so big and inflated that it takes 26 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: on a life of its own. Same for narcissism. These 27 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: folks love themselves so much that they need to address 28 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,919 Speaker 1: the object of their affection by name. But the truth 29 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 1: is that no substantial research has been done on the 30 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:43,400 Speaker 1: question of why some A list athletes, actors, and politicians 31 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: can't keep their own name out of their mouth. Interestingly, though, 32 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: there is convincing evidence that regular folks like you and 33 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: me can actually boost ourself confidence through the simple trick 34 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: of thinking of ourselves in the third person. Ethan Cross 35 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: is a psychology professor at the University of Michigan, where 36 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: he runs the Motion and Self Control Laboratory. Cross studies 37 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: the ways in which people regulate their emotions, including the 38 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: handy trick of psychological distancing, taking a step back from 39 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: intense anger or pain to think about the situation as 40 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: an objective outsider. Cross said, what we've learned is that 41 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: language provides people with a tool to distance themselves psychologically, 42 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 1: including language that many people use spontaneously without even thinking 43 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: about it. It turns out that all of us, not 44 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: just celebrities, engage in what Cross calls third person self 45 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: talk when we need a little emotional or psychological boost. 46 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: Maybe it happens at the gym when we feel like 47 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: quitting with five minutes left on the elliptical, Come on, Lauren, 48 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: pushed through, or when we're trying to work up the 49 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: nerve to ask our boss for a raise. You deserve this, Lauren, 50 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: And as weird as that just felt it works. In 51 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: his lab, Cross ran experiments comparing the performance of two 52 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: groups in a stressful situation. One group that was prompted 53 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: to psych itself up with eye statements and a second 54 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: group that used use statements and their own name. When 55 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 1: the participants were asked to give an extemporaneous speech in public, 56 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: a true stress bomb. The Jimmy group came in with 57 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: a healthier attitude performed better and was less critical of 58 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: itself afterward. In a later study, Cross took fm R 59 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: I brain scans of people engaged in first person versus 60 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: third persons self talk. The scans revealed that I centered 61 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: thinking it triggers the areas of the brain associated with 62 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: negative self referential processes, while Jimmy style thinking does not. 63 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: In addition, the third persons self talk appears to bypass 64 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: the cognitive or effortful parts of the brain. In other words, 65 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: the positive effect is automatic. Cross recommends that everyone give 66 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: it a try the next time they're stressed or emotionally wrought. 67 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: He said, compared to other emotional regulation strategies, third person 68 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: self talk might be a little bit easier for people 69 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: to implement, the costs are minimal, and the potential upshot 70 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: is valuable. Does this mean that all the Lebrons, Jimmy's 71 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: and Trumps of the world are talking about themselves in 72 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: the third person because they're trying to establish psychological distance 73 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: from stressful situations, maybe, says Cross, But it's not something 74 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: that he or anyone else has study. Interestingly, in the 75 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: famous clip of Lebron James defending Lebron James, he also 76 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: tells the interviewer, What I didn't want to do was 77 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: make an emotional decision. Maybe for James, the best way 78 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: to distance himself emotionally and make an objective decision was too, 79 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: As he put it, do what's best for Lebron James, 80 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: not necessarily himself. One important difference between the lab experiments 81 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: and examples of celebrity self name dropping is that the 82 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: participants in Crosses study never spoke out loud. All of 83 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: the self talk was internal or written out on paper. 84 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: So there's still a possibility that when it comes to 85 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: celebrity self talkers, that first theory we mentioned still applies. However, 86 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: we'll leave you with an interesting case study soccer legend 87 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: Pel was a world class Jimmy, but for an interesting reason, 88 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: Born Edson arounts Pile, the person didn't identify with the 89 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: global superstar that had crowds chanting his name. He told 90 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: the Guardian, Edson is the person who has the feelings, 91 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: who has the family, who works hard, and Pile is 92 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: the idol. Pile doesn't die, Pele will never die. Pile 93 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: is going to go on forever. Today's episode was written 94 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: by Dave Ruse and produced by Tyler Clang for more 95 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: on this and lots of other topics, but none of 96 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: which make me feel so weird about starting out every 97 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: episode by stating my name. Visit our home planet, how 98 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: stuff Works dot com