WEBVTT - Best Bits: BTS From CMA Awards Night & Mike D Updates On Run Club Challenge 0:00:00.840 --> 0:00:03.920 The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:06.400 Behind the scene with a member of the show. 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:12.080 Good morning, everybody in Happy Saturday. Welcome to the Best 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:18.000 Bits post CMA Awards and pre Thanksgiving. That's weird primetime 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:22.240 right now, Babe, thing's going on. I know, it's really exciting. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:24.560 How are you feeling, Mike, Mike, if you didn't just 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:26.280 hear his voice, he is joining me this weekend. 0:00:26.600 --> 0:00:29.640 I'm like, not quite ready for everything yet. It doesn't 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:31.159 feel like holiday time to me. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:33.720 You know, every time you come on here, you're like, dang, 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.440 the year's just flying by. 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:39.640 It's just like I feel like it just gets earlier 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:41.680 and earlier every year. Like I used to be really 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:44.199 big into Black Friday, and now that's not really a 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:46.880 thing anymore because Black Friday starts like a month ago. 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:49.040 It's true, they started I think at the beginning of 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:51.080 November for some stores now, and. 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:53.560 It just feels like everything happens so early that once 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:55.480 it's actually time for it, I'm not ready for it 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.080 because it's already been happening for so long. 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:01.560 This is true, So not ready for Thanksgiving now or Christmas. No. 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.120 Also, it's a vegan Like what am I gonna eat Like, 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.440 there's not really I don't really look forward to turkey 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:09.200 all the food this is. So there's not a lot 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:11.399 on that front for me to look forward to. Not 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:12.720 going home for Thanksgiving. 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:15.640 So okay, well let's get into it. I mean we're 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:17.080 like we kind of already are a little bit. That 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:19.360 was our little intro. But if you do want to 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:22.360 check out the part two or where there's like all 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:24.199 the bits and catching up on the Bobby Bone Show, 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:29.240 lots of CMA content. There's a hoodie controversy if you will. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.840 There's some flirty things that happened in some of the interviews. 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.560 Lunchbox did our acceptance speech. Just a lot of good 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:39.920 stuff over there. But let's talk about live right now. 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:41.600 So you're not going home for the holidays. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:45.160 No, Thanksgiving is hard because it's a quick turnaround and 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:48.880 everybody's going home. So travel is just insane. We've done 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:51.480 it before. And also it's hard to split time between 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:52.200 two families. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:53.840 Yeah, and such a short amount of time. 0:01:53.920 --> 0:01:56.320 The one time we did go home and we did 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:59.240 both like a combo Thanksgiving where my family and my 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:01.800 wife's family came together. That was fun, but that's hard 0:02:01.800 --> 0:02:05.120 to do. It's also you're gambling a little bit banking 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:07.360 on the fact that both families were to get along, 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:09.800 which was nice that time because everybody did get along, 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:11.560 But it just seems like more times you'd do that, 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.600 you run into the possible risk of people not getting along. 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:16.640 So that was why it was maybe a one and 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:17.239 done type. 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:20.480 Of everything went well, We're good. It was fun, but 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:23.280 it's just a lot to go back for Thanksgiving and 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.320 then go back home again for Christmas. 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:27.920 Yeah, and maybe it's something that you guys can do 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:30.880 every couple of years versus you know, every single year. 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:32.680 Yeah, because last year we were like, we're not going 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:34.280 to do that again, and we went to New York 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:36.680 and went to the parade fun. 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:37.760 Do you remember this? 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:39.800 And I remember thinking, like, we just wanted to do 0:02:39.840 --> 0:02:43.560 something while we're still just us two don't have kids, 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:46.520 and we want to go do something fun for ourselves. 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:47.720 So we did that and that was awesome. 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:49.560 Are you guys going to go on a trip this year? 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:51.600 No, we're staying here because this is the first time 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.799 we're staying here since like twenty twenty. I think yeah, 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:59.040 because the Christmas, I mean the Thanksgiving before we went 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:00.680 with our both of our face families who were in 0:03:00.680 --> 0:03:03.600 Costa Rica. So it was like we just want a 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:05.760 normal Thanksgiving get home where we kind of try our 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:06.480 own traditions. 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:09.120 Okay, all right, anything you think you're going to try 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:10.120 this year for a new tradition. 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:14.000 We are actually like ordering a bunch of sides that 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:16.240 are already made, and then we're just focusing on like 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:17.919 our main thing, and I think we'll probably just make 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:19.520 what we eat each want to eat. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:23.480 Okay, A vegan Thanksgiving, yeah, and gluten free because this 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:25.119 is your wife also, she's gluten free. 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:26.880 So it's hard for us to find those to those 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:29.240 foods because it's so specific and an you think of 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:32.320 Thanksgiving food, it's all either meat or gluteness. That's sure, 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.720 gluteness all the bread and everything. 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:37.640 That's so true. Okay, Well, what else is going on 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:40.480 besides the holidays? And that's coming around the corner. I 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.160 am with you. My family's about to come into town 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:46.400 this weekend when everybody's hearing this, and they'll be here 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.440 for a week, which I'm really excited about. They always 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:51.360 come to me for Thanksgiving because I can't ever get 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:53.600 back into town and then I'm by myself. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.680 Do you like having everybody in the house or is 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:57.840 it overwhelming to you? 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.640 Oh? I love it. I love hosting people like I 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.000 The thing that's overwhelming about it to me is that 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.880 I love my house being clean and there's like chaos 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.520 in my house for a week. But I always just 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:11.040 remind myself, like it's once a year. It's so much 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:12.680 fun having them all in town. 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:15.600 For you, when you have your parents back in town, 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:19.120 do you revert back to being a kid, Because sometimes 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:21.599 when I have like even my older brother and sister 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:26.400 back in town, it's almost like they forget that I'm 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:28.680 an adult now and they still treat me the same 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:31.040 way they treated me when I was like a kid, 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.080 to where it feels like, hey, we're going to do 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:35.960 this and they're saying that like they're the authority. I'm like, no, 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.320 you're like in my house now, like I'm gonna do 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:39.919 what I want. And this is kind of how I 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.200 go Is that kind of how it is with your family, 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:43.800 Like your parents go back to being like, all right, 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:45.159 we're gonna do this, and You're like, no, you're in 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:45.640 my house. 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:48.560 You know, they do, at least in the sense of 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:50.320 like I always have a list for my dad and 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:52.000 I'm like, can you help me with these things because 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:53.039 I need some help. 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.600 Okay. That's also fun to do though. 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.360 Yeah, he loves it. He's like, make sure you have 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.320 your list ready for me so I can get things done. 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:03.040 But I that's where I like kind of revert as 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.720 a kid. Otherwise they look to me. They're like, tell 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:06.600 us all the new stuff we gotta go do, because. 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:08.280 They so when it comes to doing things, you're still 0:05:08.320 --> 0:05:09.720 the one because they're here and you're like, Okay, we're 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:10.679 gonna go do this, okay. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.719 Yeah, And because they know I'm out doing stuff all 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.440 the time and trying it, they don't know what's here 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:17.080 and what's good that I've tried, versus like, oh, this 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:19.320 isn't worth the time. So they do at least allow 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.440 me in that capacity. But for sure, like the dynamic 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:24.560 goes back to me being the youngest and I'm just 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:26.760 like there and hanging out kind of thing. I get 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:30.000 what you're talking about. So I am excited for that. 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:33.440 And they're bringing my parents are bringing their three dogs, 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:35.560 one of them being the dog that I had. 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:36.520 Found and they adopted. 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:38.800 That's cool, yeah, and I'm really excited to see her. 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:41.599 I'm hoping she remembers me because I dropped them. I 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:43.760 dropped her off with them in July when I went 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:45.520 back for my sister's wedding. So it's been a couple 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:48.200 months now, and either she's gonna want nothing to do 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.039 with me or she's gonna freak out and I cannot 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:52.520 wait to see it. So that'll be really exciting. 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:54.880 Yeah. I think you feel it more when you go 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:58.480 home though, and you're under their roof and doing things 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:01.960 like even like going out to run errands like I 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.359 want to go drive myself, or you have to always 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:06.960 go with them and be the passenger a little bit. 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:08.920 Yeah, definitely more when I'm at their house. 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:10.560 It feels weird to be like even now as the 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:12.080 don't When I go back, we have to rent a 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.320 car because I can't be at the mercy of like 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:16.599 my parents or my wife's parents are like, no, I 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:18.159 need to be able to get around and do what 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:19.560 I need to do and do what I want to do. 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:22.080 Yeah, like, hey, can can you take me here? Can 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.479 I go here? Is this allowed? It is? It's funny 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:28.080 because you're also like living there for because we go 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:30.479 back and we get to spend some time for Christmas, 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:33.120 and it's like I have to adjust and like try 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.960 and put my routines back into like my old life 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:38.800 in a way, you know what I mean, like where 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.000 I want to do all these things. But like I'm 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:42.800 at my parents' house again, and don't I feel like 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:43.560 I'm five years old. 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:45.680 You're like checking in, like I'll be back at nine thirty, 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:46.800 Like why do I have to tell you what time 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:47.760 are you back home? 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:50.479 Yeah? It's like more the existence of like oh, dang, 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.440 somebody's actually here and like wants to know what I'm 0:06:52.480 --> 0:06:56.320 doing versus me just going and be like, oh, you 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.000 don't need to know. It's fine. Like I remember last 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:00.719 year when I went home for Chris, I went on 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:04.119 a date. I was like, this is gonna be weird. 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:06.360 This is gonna be weird because I be weird. And 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:08.279 it did because it was literally like I was about 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.280 to leave and I had told them prior to us, 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:11.600 like okay, I think I'm gonna go on a date, 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:13.240 and then they had all these questions. I was like, no, no, no, 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:15.200 that's how this starts. I'm just going like it's just 0:07:15.240 --> 0:07:18.440 a first date. We're just seeing what's happening. So there 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:21.640 was it's more involvement in your life when you go 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:23.800 back home, I feel like and as an adult, you're 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:25.840 kind of like, Oh, that feels weird. I don't feel 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:27.320 like the involvement needs to be there. 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:28.920 Yeah. 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:33.680 Oh, what other updates are going on besides the holidays? Oh, 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:35.360 I need to know about run club. Did you go 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:37.080 to run club? Did you make a friend? We need 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:37.600 an update. 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:39.520 I tried to go to run club and I did 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:40.720 not make it to run club. 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:44.280 Mike. This is like, what in the time frame since 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:44.920 you've been here. 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:47.200 A month and a half ago and now all the 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:50.440 run clubs are kind of shutting down because it's getting colder, Mike, 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:53.040 I've tried to make I have tried to make a 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.520 friend on the trail because the weird thing is like 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:57.680 I start to notice other people who run as much 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:59.680 as I do, because around like the routes I run 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:02.600 to just notice there's seeing people I've been seeing for 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.800 a while now. And there's just one guy who I 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:06.640 always run into and I know he's a long distance 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:09.000 runner two because I'll see him like thirty to forty 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:10.880 five minutes apart going on the trail, and I always 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:12.480 like try to wave and say Hi to him, and 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:14.200 he never says hi to me back. And the thing 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:15.960 is like, I just want to compliment him because I've 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.800 noticed the more and more times I've seen him, he's 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:22.240 like gotten fitter and like healthier looking, and I can 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.640 see like the work he's putting into it, And I'm like, man, 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:26.840 could I just make like a casual friend, like just 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:29.080 out in the wild like that. It's so hard to do. 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:31.760 I mean, you totally can, but you're gonna have to 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.200 be maybe a little bit more aggressive about it. Yeah, 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:35.199 just this slight wave. 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:37.800 Yeah, it's just hard to do. Like you're not gonna 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.080 stop somebody. But I just feel like there's like this 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.720 weird bond that you have with somebody else you see 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.440 doing the same thing as you over and over again, 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.480 and you like encounter each other, but you never really 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:50.080 say anything to them. It feels like there's like almost 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:51.560 like a misconnection there. 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:55.120 There is you currently have a misconnection happening in your life. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.280 Maybe you have to go because you're so used to 0:08:57.320 --> 0:09:00.200 seeing him a little bit earlier to see if maybe 0:09:00.200 --> 0:09:01.640 you guys hit the trail at the same time. 0:09:01.800 --> 0:09:04.760 And then I started like following him home and then no, no, no, 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.600 I'm like that i've been seeing you out running. Oh. 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.800 The weird thing that happened to me running the other 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:13.600 day is somebody was concerned for me and they told 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.720 me like, hey, I've been like they literally yelled at 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.440 me from the street saying, hey, I've been seeing you 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.600 run and I think you run too much. And and 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.600 I just found it weird that there's been a person 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:26.439 like watching me. And it wasn't even what he said 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.520 of like it was a dude. It was a guy, 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.480 like an older guy in like a mini van, and 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.800 he's like yelled at me, and I had my headphones on, 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.120 but I'm always aware of my surroundings because I want 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:38.480 to know, like hear cars here, people yelling at me. 0:09:39.040 --> 0:09:41.280 And he like yelled at me, like flagged me down 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:44.240 to stop and said he'd been watching me. And he's like, 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.199 I think you run too much. And he said I 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:49.480 should look into the effects of like overrunning. And I 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:51.920 don't buy into the thing like people telling me what 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:55.640 to do, but it was just so weird that somebody 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.480 had been watching like my route and knowing how much 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:00.360 I run. And then I worry, like how, oh, like 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:02.920 how long has he been watching me? And does he 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.319 watch me go all the way home? Does he watch 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.240 me go to my car? Like it just felt really 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.360 weird and like violating. But it's like I'm out in public, 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:13.720 you can see people, but it just felt so weird. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:17.000 Do you run kind of I'm assuming there's houses that 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:18.000 you run by at different point. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:19.680 I mean I changed my route up all the time, 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:22.319 so it's never the same spot because I don't want 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:25.000 to get bored. But now I have to think about, like, 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:27.560 here are people watching me this entire time? 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:31.120 Is it possible that like he lives near one of 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:34.040 the particular trails where like it's a spot you always 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.200 kind of hit, even though if you take different routes. 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:40.079 Yeah, it's close to Yeah, I would say the part 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:43.880 he saw me at is usually the basis of where 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.720 I start or at least go through at some point. 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.480 But it's really weird for him to see me repeatedly 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:53.520 because I run it all different times. Sometimes it's early 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:57.120 on the weekend, sometimes it's later because of work. It's 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:58.840 just really weird, and it's. 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:02.280 So weird that he just felt this is a stranger, 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:05.960 Like it's weird that he felt so inclined to stop 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:08.040 what he was doing. And stop you from what you 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:10.360 were doing and say, hey, this is how I think 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.360 you should stop doing something, you know what I mean? 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:17.160 Yeah, and you have no idea about anything about me? 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:23.079 Yeah, like what the audacity? Honestly, Oh my gosh, my god, 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:24.640 I'm sorry that happened. That's scary. 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:27.720 It's weird. And it's somebody who like just struggle I've 0:11:27.720 --> 0:11:31.400 struggled with like working out and like thinking, am I 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:33.000 doing too much? Am I doing too little? 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:33.520 Yeah? 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.600 And it's just like to have this other layer of like, 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.160 am I really like I don't know. It just felt 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:38.760 really weird. 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:40.760 No, I mean because Mike, at the end of the day, 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:44.120 you know you and your body better than anybody else, right, 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:48.680 And sure some people over indulge and less adult whatever. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.240 There's always gonna be this balance, especially when you're trying 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:54.520 to understand what you want to do, but you feel good. 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:59.040 You don't feel like if you're overdoing something. Your body 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.760 will tell you that, right, you will feel that in 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:04.240 your bones. Your body loves to tell you what's going on. 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:08.920 So unless you feel that way, you're not doing anything wrong, 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:11.440 you know what I mean? And I know that's hard 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.200 because somebody literally when somebody out of the blue, comes 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:17.000 at you and says, this is observes you so much 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:18.839 to the point of saying this is what you're doing wrong, 0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:23.200 which is an entirely wrong thing in my mind. But 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:26.360 does that I can see where it would plant the 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.640 seed in your brain to then justify the things that 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:33.520 you've already felt, you know what I mean. Yeah, but 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:36.880 you're not Mike. You're healthy, you're doing great things for 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.080 your body, You're moving the way that you should be. 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:42.800 And maybe this guy is jealous because he can't run, 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:44.800 you know what I mean? Like, maybe he tells because 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.520 he can't go running and he doesn't like running long distances, 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:50.880 and he wants you to live the life. If there's 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.960 something I have learned about people who criticize openly and 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:58.560 without the full history or knowledge of something, is that 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:01.160 they want you to live your life the way they 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:04.600 live theirs. So all he was doing was projecting what 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:07.679 he thinks and what he wants other people to live, 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:13.000 like based on his own life. So he's driving a minivan. 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.120 You know, do you want to be driving a minivan 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:17.880 instead of running on a Saturday morning and joining your life. 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:19.679 Yeah, it just took me a while to shake that, 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:21.599 Like I literally thought about it for like two to 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.920 three weeks. I just would come back to those comments 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.600 of like just questioning everything for a while. 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.680 Yeah, and I'm really sorry that that's not fair. It 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.400 shouldn't have happened, you know what I mean, Like, at 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:33.000 the end of the day, it just shouldn't have happened. 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:37.280 And nobody should feel so obligated to tell a stranger 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:43.400 such an unsolicited, unwarranted opinion. You're gonna make me go 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:46.720 on a tangent. People make me so mad sometimes. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.360 Of the unsolicited of advice and opinion. 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:52.720 Yeah, Like that's so and it was so unwarranted in 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:55.840 so many ways and all so creepy that he's been 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:58.000 watching you. Yeah, I think maybe he's obsessed with you. 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.560 The creepy factor is more what I was concerned with, 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.400 of just the idea of somebody watching me, because I 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.080 think when you're out in public, as much as we 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.760 think that everything we do people are paying attention to, 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:10.760 it's all inside our minds. But that was just the 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:12.679 one moment I had of like, oh, there are actually 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:15.160 people like paying attention to things. And then I also 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:17.920 have this whole other theory of like NPCs and like 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:20.200 am I living in some weird simulation, Like I know 0:14:20.240 --> 0:14:22.440 Bobby goes on that tangent, but there are just some 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:26.760 people I see so repeatedly and I have no interactions 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.320 with them. It just feels weird to me. Like people 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.400 at the gym, people out in public, at the grocery store, 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.720 I see them repeatedly. I'm like, is there like just 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.160 a limited amount of people that I encounter or is 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:41.440 it just a coincidence that I'm I'm also at the 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.480 same places at the same time as these people in 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:44.720 all these weird situations. 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:47.600 No. I think that's an interesting perspective too, write because 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.680 you'll run into other people for the first time ever, 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.400 and you're like, we have the same circles, We've had 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.720 all these same scenarios. How have we never met each other? 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:57.760 And then you're like, I see this other person fifty 0:14:57.800 --> 0:14:58.480 times a week. 0:14:58.760 --> 0:14:59.400 Yeah, why? 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.200 And I'll even like change up my routines and I'll 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:05.280 encounter the same people and I'm like, how how am 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.480 I still running into you if I'm not doing this 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:10.040 thing at the normal time that I'm doing it at. 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:11.880 But then I like look back on it, like, well, 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:13.960 I'm also here at different times, so maybe they're thinking 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:14.880 the same thing about me. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.840 It's possible you guys are both the NBCs to each other. 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:22.640 Are there just NPCs in our life just all the time? 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:26.240 I think that's possible. I mean, I'm never going to 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:28.360 say nothing is not an option. But I also think 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:33.160 people who are super self aware is very uncommon right 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:34.400 to be aware of your surrounding. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:38.040 So much of the time, I'm like hyper aware of surroundings. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:39.400 And a lot of people aren't, you know, Like I 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.120 see and experience everything that happens to me, and there's 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:44.560 a lot of people that don't. They'll be like this, 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:46.680 like all the crazy things that happened to me, Right, 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:48.840 I have weird stories to share all the time, and 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:50.560 I think so much of it is related to that. 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:54.480 I'm just paying attention a lot. Like I'm so much 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:57.320 like you, hyper aware of what's happening around me anytime 0:15:57.320 --> 0:16:00.360 I go out in public spaces, so I can't not 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.360 notice things. And I think there's a lot of people 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:05.920 that just go out exist and do and they're in 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.800 their bubble, and there's nothing wrong with that. But when 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:10.840 you're in your bubble, you're not seeing everything that's happening 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:11.320 around you. 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:13.880 I wish I had just like a level of that 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:16.200 inside of me, yea of like not being able to 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:19.000 care about my surroundings, even like sometimes in public where 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:22.080 you encounter people who aren't really trying to be rude, 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.680 but they're just like not there's just nothing going on 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:27.520 to where they're aware of people around them or they're 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.080 surroundings or even that they're doing anything wrong. I was like, 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:31.760 I wish I just had an ounce of that in me, 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:33.960 because I'm out in public thinking like I don't want 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:36.480 to inconvenience this person, I'm taking too long to do this, 0:16:36.560 --> 0:16:38.800 I'm holding everybody up in this line, and there are 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:39.520 people who are. 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:43.240 Just like lady DADDI dad cool and like I just wish. 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:44.200 I had that inside of me. 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:46.440 I know, but it also makes you a better person 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:49.240 that you don't Mike. You know, you are self aware 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:52.040