1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,639 Speaker 1: My roommate is a nightmare, so I want to warn 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: my friends about her Friday. Friday, we have reached what 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 1: I believe is the fateful last day, and I would 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: be or miss if we didn't break down a little 5 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: bit before. 6 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: Let's break down. 7 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: First question, has Opie made any missed moves so far? 8 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: Sorry? I got distracted by the alarm. 9 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: Indeed, ah, what has Opie made any blunders? 10 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: I doesn't seem so. I think op got upset, which 11 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: I mean like in the perfect, perfect world, hope you 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: would have been able to, you know, express her feelings 13 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,639 Speaker 2: without getting all emotional and stuff. But people are emotional 14 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: beings and she's been kind of hurt over and over, 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 2: and so I don't think I can, I can you know, 16 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 2: say that she's done anything wrong in expressing her emotions. 17 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's kind of like what you said, 18 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: like when you get pushed to a point where it's like, okay, 19 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna let a lot. And you know what, 20 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: when she was sharing everything, I don't think she said 21 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:04,039 Speaker 1: anything that crossed the line. 22 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: And anything she said was like super hurtful. 23 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: It was it was just honest, Yeah, it was. It 24 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: was hurtful. Because it was because it was true and 25 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: what she's done to her is really bad and like 26 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 1: you know, messing with Moca. And again they had they 27 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: had this agreement. They Opie really gave her the tools 28 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: to be able to like, hey, if Mocha's bothering you, 29 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: here's a binder. I'm sure that Opie said many many times, 30 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: like you communicated her, Hey, yeah, you know, turning on 31 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: the TV, do this, all things that are pretty easy 32 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: to do. And if that gets her to, you know, 33 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: quiet down, and why not do it? Why not help yourself? 34 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 2: Literally? 35 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: But she I feel like she just she just wants 36 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: she wants something to schedule. 37 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: I think so, I think she. I think she's trying 38 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 2: to create her own problems. They're manufactured. 39 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: Wow, straight out the freaking factory, hot off the presses. 40 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: I agree. I agree with your agreement to my and 41 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: I agree with that. So yeah, op He's doing everything right, 42 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: I think. So try to move out as quick as possible. 43 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: Good thing you communicated with Eleanor, and just try to 44 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: protect Mocha and have your time in the apartment be 45 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: lived as best as possible. Is there like a travel cage? 46 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: Can we take Mocha with us? Anywhere. 47 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, probably, Yeah, yeah, it would be cute. I have 48 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: a little cage. 49 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: I saw a guy driving here right before Christmas that 50 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: always had his big old kitty on his shoulder. Compare it. 51 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: I love that, just saying, just saying, it can be done. 52 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: But let's get into our final day. It's Friday, etchy 53 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: h double hockey sticks week, and this could be or 54 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: something really bad happens. 55 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, no, okay go. 56 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: Friday. I did not talk to her. I wanted nothing 57 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: to do with her. She tried talking to me once, 58 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: but I was a bee and kurt. Because I was 59 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: not in the mood, I stayed up. I also love 60 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: I think Opie's version of like being kurt and mean 61 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: is like you're really frustrating and I just don't like you. 62 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, very kind. 63 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: I stayed as late as I could before my first job, 64 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: so that way the maximum amount of time she could 65 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: be with Mocha would be an hour. She didn't say 66 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: anything about Mocha and we didn't ended up talking. I 67 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: decided that I was commuting for the rest of the 68 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: semester and taking my break from the apartment early, so 69 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: I took all of my stuff home, including practically everything 70 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: in the fridge, since I bought it all. She was 71 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: too lazy to go to the grocery shopping, so she 72 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: had been mooching off of me. 73 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: That's very strange that she's just taking your. 74 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: Food, right, which I didn't mind that much until she 75 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: started snapping at me and was being me and awake, dude, 76 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: you literally could have had a free lunch and ate 77 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: it two silly. When I finished cleaning out the fridge, 78 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: I had one of those huge storage buckets full of 79 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: my food from the fridge, freezer, and pantry. All that 80 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: was left was literally some condiments as sandwich wrapped in foil, 81 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: and my stale vanilla wafers that I didn't have room for. 82 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: I love vanilla way for stuff. I was just annoyed 83 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: in general and feeling petty, so I acted on that well. 84 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: I was packing everything that I use on a daily basis, 85 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: even some of the stuff we jointly used, because it 86 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: was mine and I was going to need it. Mocho 87 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: was fine and we went home. I went to work 88 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: and felt like absolute crap the whole time I was there. 89 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: My brother was the only one who knew the details 90 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: about what had happened, and I literally just kept hugging 91 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: him because I really needed to hug after being so 92 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: emotionally drained. I'm a total liar. I lied to Riley, 93 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 1: I lied to Sophia, I lied to everyone chat everyone watching, 94 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: and and you know what, even to the big man upstairs. 95 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: Oh dude, God is watching me. No, God is watching me. 96 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 2: And I lied am like it's the Christmas season, So 97 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 2: Sam is watching too. He was a few days ago. 98 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: I didn't I've been I'm on the naughty list because 99 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: Friday was not the last day. 100 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 2: Dang it, dude, you literally the last day of the 101 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 2: work of the. 102 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: Week, right, Jella says, your name is and John who 103 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: knows what my name is? Now, I'm such a liar. 104 00:04:58,080 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: You're such a freaking line. 105 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: You're such a fibb. I could it's actually j o In. Yeah, 106 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: that would be heinous. That's disgusting. I'm time, that's disgusting. Well, 107 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: let's get into this next day, Saturday. Are there more days? 108 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: Are there less? We don't know? She walked into work. 109 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: I got her a job at my work this past summer. Wow, 110 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 1: Opie is literally that is helping everybody. Yeah, like literally, 111 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: she has lost out in such an amazing friend, it's crazy, 112 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: and sat next to me acting like we were completely fine. 113 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: She had the audacity to ask me about how Mocha 114 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: was doing. You don't care right, to which I replied 115 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: that she was fine now that she was finally saying 116 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: okay oo. She brought up how she thinks it was 117 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: maintenance who came Monday before she was acting weird, and 118 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: I responded with I'm sure you think it was, and 119 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 1: ended up leaving her to go talk to my brother 120 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 1: because I just wasn't ready to jump back into things 121 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: like that. She kept bringing up and asking if I 122 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: needed her to give me space. Yeah, the irony, it's. 123 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 2: So funny because she's doid in this multiple pub She's like, 124 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 2: do you want me to give you? Give you space? 125 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 1: Hey? Do you want space? Do youan space? 126 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: Oh? 127 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait sorry, do you want space? 128 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 2: She'd get a little closer to ask you if you 129 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: want space? 130 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: Do you want space? 131 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 2: Sorry? Wait wait? 132 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: Sorry? 133 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: Do you do you space? Isn't sure if you needed 134 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 2: space or not? 135 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 1: Should I should I give that to you? Should I should? 136 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: I should I give you space? Should I should I 137 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: do that? 138 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 2: Space? 139 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 1: Space? Space? 140 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 2: It keeps Yeah, ask me, uh, she. 141 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: Came up to Op at work, would it would it 142 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: be too much if Op said, like every time she 143 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: came up to work, she's like, sorry, I'm not doing this, 144 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: and like literally runs from her. Would that be too much? 145 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: That maybe too much? 146 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:29,679 Speaker 1: And why? Well there was expound in length. 147 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: Well, I think they're at work, and you do have 148 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,799 Speaker 2: to maintain a certain amount of decorum at work, especially 149 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 2: if you're you know, working in the same you know 150 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: area or something. But I think you can you can 151 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 2: still maintain distance while being respectful and stuff. And that's 152 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 2: my that's my stuffs A good point. 153 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: That was a great, eloquent and perfectly timed response. 154 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 155 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: I believe. She kept bringing it up, asking if I 156 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: needed her to give me some space, to which I 157 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: told her that I didn't because we were at work 158 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: and being professional. There we go to, Sophia is a 159 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: very eloquent, well explained to me, eloquent point. There we go. 160 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm not thinking about the whole thing after exams are 161 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: over for both of our six So the first time 162 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: she brought it up, she talked about how I could 163 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: go ahead and bring my stuff home if I wanted it, 164 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: because she would be fine without it for the break. 165 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: I rolled my eyes and said I already did that 166 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: because it was my freaking stuff. Broo, I added the 167 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: bro part, Bruh, bruh. She brought it up twice afterwards. 168 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: Bro Eleanor does not get when a talking conversation topic 169 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: has finished. 170 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 2: You've beaten it. You've beaten it. 171 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: To the bone, dude. Where I responded that I wanted 172 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: to wait until after exams to talk about my feelings 173 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: and discuss the whole thing, both times when when Eleanor asked, 174 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: But then she decides to have control over the situation 175 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: again and told me that I should just wait until 176 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: January when I had time to cal him down, because 177 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: she knew I had a lot of stuff that I 178 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: was processing and needed to handle. YEA, that part takes 179 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: me off because the way she phrased that in person 180 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: really ticked me off. But she's like that ticked me 181 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: off because the way she phrased it, it takes me off. 182 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 2: I love it. 183 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: God's watching the exact way she said it, which I 184 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: can't remember. Implied that this was just me going through 185 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: something of my own creation, not suffering through the bull 186 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: crap that she is putting me through. I then said 187 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: once again, I would be texting her over break when 188 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,119 Speaker 1: I have space and we have time to process whatever 189 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: emotions came out of our conversation. I will text her 190 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: when I am ready, because right now I am still 191 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: processing and trying to get through the finals week of 192 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: the semester. I am Opie's frustration is coursing through my 193 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: veins right now. 194 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 2: I'm frustrated. 195 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: I feel that I have like I have spiritually like 196 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: intered like o pieces. 197 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: I am. I am like actually in Mocha's body right now. 198 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 1: WHOA, Okay, how you doing? Oh that's so great. I'm 199 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: so glad you're doing good. What did Eleanor do. 200 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 2: Start together? Oh? 201 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm scared. No, I'm scared right now. We haven't talked 202 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: since I left on Saturday, and I'm not planning on 203 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: talking to her until I feel because the ball is 204 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: in my court. 205 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 2: And the ball's in your court. 206 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: I mean, she did say give me time, like she 207 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: at least communicated that I'm not done fully processing my 208 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: feelings and planning for what is to come. I am 209 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: now having to change plans for living because it was 210 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: Eleanor and I going into an apartment with two of 211 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: our friends. However, I refuse to be stuck living in 212 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: a space with her again, because even without Mocha there, 213 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: she will randomly find things to yell at me about. 214 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 2: Oh man, it's. 215 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: True, Sophia stilly yelling. She's still yelling like Janet Yellen. 216 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 1: There's one time I left the crockpot on the counter 217 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 1: to cool after using it, and she got mad at 218 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: me because I needed to put it up when I'm done. Now, 219 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: dare you keep in mind that I made dinner for 220 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: us and two friends that night, and I had done 221 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: all of my dishes, so she had no reason to 222 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: be angry about anything to do with me cooking. Yeah, 223 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: you freaking put away the crockpot. 224 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. And I'm cooking for other people they're cleaning. 225 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: Okay, you're a crock. 226 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 2: Not otherwise if you just made food for yourself and 227 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 2: then you didn't put. 228 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: The crock by the way, different story story. What are 229 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: you laughing at? 230 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 2: Rally? So I feel like that's happened before? 231 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: Really here? 232 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: Never? 233 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can tell by Sophia's face it's definitely 234 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: never happened ever ever, And I definitely have never left 235 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: out a bowl after eating one bite and then abandoning 236 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: it for twelve hours. While I word during the day, 237 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: I've never done that, right, we can, we can cooperate that. Ever, 238 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 1: I don't do that every day. 239 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 240 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: Usually what I do is like I'll put a pan 241 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: in the sink and it magically disappeared magically. 242 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 243 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: The pants clean themselves, they really do, from your perspective. 244 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they go away and I'm like, oh, wow, 245 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: where did that go? 246 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: Don't need to do anything there anyways, Obie says it 247 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 1: was out of the way so she could reach everything else. 248 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: It just wasn't cool enough for me to feel comfortable 249 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 1: putting it back in the wooden pantry. Yet there you go, 250 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: trying to prevent a freaking fire. Fire, dude. I unfortunately 251 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: can't move out now because I can't afford to lose 252 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: the money I would lose. But I do have plans 253 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: to keep myself out of the apartment or just out 254 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: of her way while I'm navigating next semester. Smart. I 255 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: tried talking to housing, but they won't allow me to 256 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: cancel for the next semester without losing two thousand dollars 257 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: big ones. I see, not nothing. When I asked about 258 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: switching rooms. They told me they can't guarantee I'll have 259 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: any of the apartments available, and I may have to 260 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: live in a dorm again. I've lost over eleven pounds 261 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: because of the stress and being afraid to use my 262 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: own kitchen. Oh my gosh, God, I've stopped cooking and 263 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: inviting people over because my anxiety about using things in 264 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: my own apartment is so bad, because I don't want 265 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 1: to be yelled at or worse hurt if she gets 266 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: to that point. My worry is that if I don't 267 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: tell my friends, they could potentially end up suffering like 268 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 1: I am, and I don't want to do that to them. 269 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: I have never felt so trapped in cornered in my life. 270 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 1: Not concerned cornered, but probably concerned as well. And it's 271 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: getting to the point where I am now constantly being 272 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: passive aggressive with her and petty because I feel like 273 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: that's the only way I'm going to get her to 274 00:11:55,960 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: step back and give me some space. She still texts 275 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: me ever so often asking about my plans for going 276 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: back to the apartment. I'm not. We're on break and 277 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: she knew that if I can cover her shifts or 278 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: some random other things that she needs from me. I 279 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: went back to the apartment once to grab something and 280 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 1: she was there. I literally couldn't even go because I 281 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: was about to have a panic Attackris getting out of 282 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: my car before you are too concerned. I have a therapist, family, church, 283 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: other friends, and my doctor to monitor my way there 284 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: for my support. We love healthy tackling of problems. Heck yeah, 285 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: good good on uop for for doing that. Truly, even 286 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: though in my darkest moments it feels like I'm not 287 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: going through this entirely alone. That is great here. I 288 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: will accept any judgment you give me. Please just be 289 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 1: kind because I am emotionally exhausted and don't care about 290 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: how much more negativity and hostility I can take. Mini update, 291 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 1: the final final update. I better begin some bird tax 292 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 1: after the sopie. Yeah, some bird tax. 293 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: No, I need bird tax, parent tax, yeah, I see 294 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 2: pictures of the parents. Oh tax, I think you meant 295 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 2: like bird attacks. 296 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: I thought you said tax like tax, like you had 297 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: to send me pictures of your cat. 298 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 2: You know, like he is saying tax phantom tax kind 299 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: of text. 300 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta send it to me. The cheese text 301 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: shout out to the I R. S. 302 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 2: I gotta talk to them. 303 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: That's true. Do has OPI made even one mistake? 304 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 2: No, no, handle it all? 305 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: Well, right, I think so, I agree Opie's donewell take notes. Honestly, 306 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: if you're in a similar situation, lean on your support network, 307 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: just like, oh yeah, your friend, that is a big, Sure, 308 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: that is a big If you need help, reach out, 309 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 1: talk to your friends, Talk to your friends, talk to 310 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: your family, talk to your doctor, talk talk to everyone. 311 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: Call. 312 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: There are hotlines out there today. Talk to a doctor today. 313 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: We love to see that good stuff. Nice work, Navi 314 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: gatting Op. Let's close this out with the mini up takes. 315 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 1: I am currently drafting messages to send to my friends 316 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: in my roommate. I've had my therapists help me outline 317 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: them and ill I love that. I'll have a few 318 00:13:57,640 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 1: people go over them before I send them. Despite me 319 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: said firm boundaries, she has continued to message me and 320 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: tried to make things normal. It's frustrating because I've made 321 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: it clear several times that I need the space. They 322 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: do not Disturb function is coming in Andy. By the way, 323 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: you can not hit do not disturb by tapping her 324 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 1: profile and joining our Live a Love on Facebook. 325 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 2: YouTube. 326 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: Just type a profile, come on and. 327 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 2: Hang out with us. 328 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: Let's have a great fricking time. 329 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: Let's do it. 330 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna text my friends sometime this week, but it 331 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: depends on what they're doing. Unlike my roommate, I actually 332 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: care about the timing of things. I don't worry about 333 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: ruining their schedules, and I don't want to ruin anyone's 334 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: vacations or stress anyone out during a stressful time. I'll 335 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: try to update again as things go on, but hopefully 336 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 1: it'll be boring because I need a braich. God knows it. 337 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: By the way, I'm doing okay, I'm hanging out with 338 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: my loved ones. I'm working a lot, so while I 339 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: haven't had a lot of time to chill, I'm happy 340 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: and calm. Moca is also okay. Moca's made it and 341 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: we have a few seconds is left. Maybe Moca's life 342 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: is in danger, We don't know. Oh God, she has 343 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: been in enjoying home safe and getting all the positive 344 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: attentions and treats until just kidding. 345 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: Oh thank God. I love to see a happy ending. 346 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 2: I love to see Mocha getting what Mocha deserves. 347 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: Honestly, OPI I think gold medal and Navia. 348 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 2: You did it. This was a really hard situation and 349 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 2: there wasn't really anything that you could do in terms 350 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 2: of like getting out of there because it was financially 351 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 2: tricky and also just like getting off a lease is tricky. 352 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 2: But you handled it very well in terms of what 353 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 2: you were able to do. 354 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: I completely agree. Props to you, great point. And you 355 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: know what else I love is you all watching this 356 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: right now, so if you love us, make sure to 357 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: subscribe We love you, and see it tomorrow.