1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down, 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: giving them like the milling bus bus things. And it's 4 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: not true. Good Steve Star, please don't joy. You gotta 5 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: use that turn out. You gotta turn to turn them out. 6 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: Turn got to turn out to turn turn the water 7 00:01:47,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: the water. Come, come on your thing, I show we 8 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: all a good morning everybody, and you're listening to the voice. 9 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey 10 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Well, nothing changes about that. Nothing 11 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:19,119 Speaker 1: changes about that. Man. I was just so getting ready 12 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:24,119 Speaker 1: to come on to air this morning. I was just thinking, man, 13 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: I was just having a reflective moment of just how 14 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: really good God has been to me. I just it's 15 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 1: it's it's man. Let me just say that again, how 16 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: really good God has been to me. And here's a 17 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: cold part. In spite of myself, you understand, in spite 18 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: of all my shortcomings, in spite of all of my 19 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 1: flaws and and and and in spite of all of 20 00:02:55,880 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 1: what anybody has said about me, God, through his grace 21 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: and mercy, just keeps me anyway. So many of us 22 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: are exceptional people, but we refuse to just go ahead 23 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: and be exceptional. We settle for the ordinary, We follow 24 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: the pack, We try to fit in. Man, oh man, 25 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: oh man, You know, I've heard my wife say this 26 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 1: to my children all the time. When she's scolding talking 27 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: to him, she'd be talking to him about leadership. You know, 28 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: why are you following everybody when God clearly made you 29 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: to lead? So many of us are born, and so 30 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: many of you are born to be exceptional people, but 31 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: we always trying to follow the pack. Why would you 32 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: try to fit in? Why would you try to be 33 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: like everybody else be ordinary? Why would you follow the 34 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: pack when God has created you to be exceptional? The 35 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: key word in exceptional is accept you. You ever done 36 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: this right here? You know everybody did that, accept me. 37 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: Everybody felt that way except me. Everybody said that except me. 38 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: Everybody won't wanted that. Accept me. Everybody went over that 39 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: except me. Everybody jumped in except me, accept me. See 40 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: why have you saying that in your life? If you 41 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: were not to be exceptional? See you got to say 42 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: everybody accept me at one point in You're to I 43 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,160 Speaker 1: don't know who ain't done it? You know everybody wanted. 44 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 1: Everybody voted no except me. See it? So you're not 45 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: You're not created to follow the pack. You ain't created 46 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: to fit in. You ain't created to, oh, you know, 47 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: to be ordinary. You will create it to be exceptional, 48 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: as exceptional as your fingerprint on your finger is. You 49 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 1: were created to be exceptional. Why not make this the 50 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: year that you go ahead on and be exceptional? Why 51 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: won't this be the year that you decide in your mind? 52 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: But just has to be a decision that we make. 53 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: Now we're not following the pack no more. We're not 54 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 1: trying to fit in no more. We ain't settling for 55 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: ordinary no more. We're gonna be exceptional. But you know, 56 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: you got you got to go ahead and follow that. 57 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: You got to get on the exceptional path because that's 58 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: what you were created for. Why be ordinary? You know? 59 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: But all of this this comes to it has to 60 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: start with a thought. You got to first think something 61 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: thought to become things. A man is as he thinketh 62 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: that's all you will ever be. So what are your 63 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: thoughts today? Why not have exceptional thoughts instead of ordinary thoughts? 64 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: Why not have exceptional thoughts instead of fitting the in thoughts? 65 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: So why you want to be like everybody else? Why 66 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: you want to be ordinary when you could possibly be 67 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: extraordinary with a change of your mind, a change of 68 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: your venue, And you don't have to be any other 69 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: kind of way just because my mama was this way, 70 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: my daddy was this way, or this the school I 71 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: went to? This? What race I belong to? This is 72 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: my sexual preference, this is my this, this is my 73 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: dadd Why? How many? How many? How many excuses? You need? 74 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm an excuse? What? What? What? What? You? What's it 75 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 1: gonna be this year that we let another three hundred 76 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: and sixty five days slip by without improving our condition, 77 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: our place, our spot, our life, the quality of life 78 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: we have. We cannot afford to keep letting all these 79 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: years go by without changing. You're an exceptional person. How 80 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: many times have you set up and said, everybody did 81 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:02,559 Speaker 1: that accept me? You know I was only everybody jumped 82 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: in accept me. I told him I knew it. Everybody 83 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: voted for that. Accept me, And now look at him, man, 84 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: it seemed like everybody went that way, accept me. Okay, 85 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: do you get it? Do you understand what's being said 86 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: to you that don't accept me is because couldn't it 87 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: be because you're an exceptional person, and it's time for 88 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: you to take control of that. It's time for you 89 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: to start thinking different. It's time for you to start 90 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: acting on what you think. It's time for you to 91 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: start doing something about it. It's time for you to 92 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: stop taking each and every day that God gives us 93 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: for granted and letting them go by the wayside. Like 94 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: you got plenty more. Well, you may have plenty more, 95 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: but guess what what you're wasting the ones you got 96 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: for I got you young, and you and you feel 97 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: like you're gonna live forever. Da Okay, cool, But let 98 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: me ask you something. See here here, here, here go 99 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: the part about pose you do live? See see everybody 100 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: willing about dying. But I got news for you. Suppose 101 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: you keep on living. You want to keep living in 102 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: the condition you in now. You want to keep living 103 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: with the money you got now. You want to keep 104 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: living with the relationship you got now. You want to 105 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: keep living by yourself like you are now. You want 106 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: to keep wanting the right relationship, the right man, the 107 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: the right woman, but you keep getting the wrong one. 108 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: You want to keep doing that for the rest of 109 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: your life. Problem, ain't dying. It's problem is if you 110 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: keep on living. Who wants to keep on living just 111 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: the way they are right now? And if you can 112 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: say I'm cool what I am, just the way I 113 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: am right now, it in't cool. This conversation ain't for you. 114 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem with that. You know, you 115 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:46,959 Speaker 1: wanna say, greatness ain't for everybody. Being exceptional, ain't for 116 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: everybody becoming extraordinary. It ain't fun everybody. Heck, becoming successful 117 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: ain't fun everybody. I got it. And you can come 118 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: up with a way to justify your non existence in 119 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: your ordinary life. All you won't, And that's fine and dandy. 120 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem with it. Because some people 121 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: just gonna be regular. Some people just gonna follow the pack, 122 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: follow the crowd. Some people just wants to fit in. 123 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 1: But if you're not that person, if you want to 124 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 1: be extraordinary, if you want to be exceptional, if you 125 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: want to be if you want to dad or be 126 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: great at something, and you got to change your mind set. 127 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: You got to get with your creating, find out what 128 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: he created you fault. You gotta quit thinking of things 129 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: just in your own thought process, you know, lean not 130 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: to your own understanding I don't know what that is, 131 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: but it's in there somewhere. Seeing. Once you lean, if 132 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: you lean to your own understanding, you know what it's 133 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: gonna do. It's gonna limit you, man, it's gonna limit you. 134 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 1: Why not see what God got for you. I would 135 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: rather know what God got for me than to think 136 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: of all the things I could because I can't out 137 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 1: think him out and tried it before. All right, it's 138 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: just the beginning. We're gonna have a good one. Man. 139 00:09:55,920 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: Let's go. You're listening tow ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, 140 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: circus performers, athletes, talk show host social media influencers, inmates, 141 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: faith based people, pastors, choir members, stripples. Yeah, yeah, and 142 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: I remember former drug dealers. May I have your undivided attention. 143 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 1: This is for Steve Harvey Morny Show. Different Altho call. 144 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 1: That was altero call. That was just a call, that's all. 145 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: That was. Charlie Strawberry. Hey, good morning, Steve. I love it. 146 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: I love it. Colin for real, Good morning, Steve. What's up? 147 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:58,559 Speaker 1: Crew h the most promising young up and coming comedian 148 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: that I know. Junior morning, uncle, my mentor, man, how 149 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: you feeling lady and Jim mcking a prank, Nephew times 150 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 1: your sid Top of the Morning, baby fairs it is 151 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: the stairs. Yeah, I don't know. I just did it. No, 152 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't nothing with it. Ain't no that, ain't open 153 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:27,719 Speaker 1: it to no song, you know, just sang it to 154 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: my damn self. For god, I was on the video 155 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: really really it just I just started singing and where 156 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: a pool you're on the radio, st You're nothing. You're 157 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 1: having fun at your john Yeah school. You know. I 158 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: was gonna ask you remember the other day a couple 159 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 1: of days ago, we got really deep one morning when 160 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: we opened the show and talked about our regrets and stuff. Yeah, 161 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: doing it again. Well, no, come on, we're not doing 162 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: that again. You can't handle We're not doing that again, Steve. 163 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: I just wanted to. I just thought about something that 164 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: I didn't regret in my life, you know, because you 165 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: have you do have regrets. But one thing I do 166 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: not regret, and that's well, I mean, should I say 167 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: it ahead? I was just thinking it to myself. But anyway, 168 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: one thing I don't regret is cutting off my six finger, 169 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: because you know I had an extra finger on each hand. 170 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 1: I got him cut off. It was most I was 171 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 1: kissing because that extra fing on the back, I don't hear. 172 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: I don't regret. I don't regret doing that. I just 173 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: wanted to cause I tell you right now, if you 174 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,599 Speaker 1: shake my hand, I'm gonna snatch back. And that's what 175 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: was happening when I was little. Nobody wants my hand. 176 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: I can't even tell I shake your hand. Now. I'm 177 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: gonna try to feel around because I'm probably a nub 178 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: over there. It is. It's like where you used to start. 179 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: That you's got to be at least a little shiny spot. 180 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: Just yeah, that's my that's my. Did they charge your 181 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: extra when you got your name? He did nail a nail. 182 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: It was just about them. I'm just most people only 183 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,959 Speaker 1: got photos because the baby toe don't count. It's just 184 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,439 Speaker 1: tucked off in there. Yeah, but if you lose it, 185 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: you will fall, Okay, yeah right now? Yeah, I forgot 186 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: Carlin Broker. All right, coming up a thirty two. I 187 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 1: got a pardner that ain't got a big toe, and 188 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 1: he wears salmon. Oh, he gotta stay leading forward, all right, 189 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: we gotta go. Coming up at thirty two after the hour, 190 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: asked the CLLO right after this, you're listening to Steve 191 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, it is time now for Steve's 192 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: favorite segment. It's called asked the CLO the Chief Love Officer. 193 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: This one is from Lynn and Maryland. She says, I've 194 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: been married for ten years and I thought I had 195 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: a good marriage until I got into an argument over 196 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,319 Speaker 1: a game of Uno with my sister in law. I 197 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 1: beat her three times in a row and she got 198 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: mad and went off on me. She told me, that's 199 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 1: all it is, and too many reverses right after you 200 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: say it Uno, Right, Okay? Her sister went off on her. 201 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: She told me, my husband does not like my natural 202 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: short hair, my cooking is terrible, and my sex is 203 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: boring him to death. My husband didn't say a word. 204 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: Here we are a week later, and I'm still not 205 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: speaking to him. He hasn't even apologized. Is it safe 206 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: to assume he told his sister this stuff about me? 207 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: Hey yeah, hell ye. He said you can't cook, you 208 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: got shot him and your sexist draft. He said it. 209 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: He said it to his sister. All this, all this 210 00:14:56,200 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: because she said Uno, and you pull out draw she 211 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 1: poured by fifty cards. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, but he 212 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: could have at least apologized something. He cannot listen to 213 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: me if he cannot say, I was just Look, I 214 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: was just with my sister and when he was talking, 215 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: because you can't tell a woman you was talking to 216 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: her about another woman. Yeah, she don't kill who the 217 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: woman is? You got short hair? She don't. Hearn't like 218 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: your short hair. He don't like your cooking, and he 219 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: don't like you love it. That's everything? Ye When did 220 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: you get all that him out? To draw? Four? All right? 221 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: This one is from he don't like the way you look. 222 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: Those are three very important things, right, that's everything? And 223 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: if two out of three ain't bad over here, all right. 224 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: Karan in Southfield, Michigan says, I'm a forty two year 225 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 1: old woman and I was checking the texts on my 226 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: man's phone yesterday. Yes, he allows me to check his 227 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: phone whenever I want to. I can't across the text 228 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: message about child support for a seventeen year old daughter. 229 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 1: I asked him about it, and he admitted that he 230 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: has another child and he didn't tell me about her 231 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: because it might run me off. He is a total 232 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: of five children that I know of. Should I even 233 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: be planning a future with a man that hides children 234 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: and doesn't pay all of his child's support, that's a 235 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: good one. Steve well wait admitted you saw a text 236 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: about child support. He could be behind. He got five. 237 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: You know he could be behind. He didn't tell you 238 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: about the child because he didn't want to run you off. 239 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: He thought the foe was Max. You know five. Now 240 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: you think about not marrying him. You know what I'm saying. 241 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: He was right, you know, but I think you have 242 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: to stop the fact that the matter is he has 243 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: been paying child support. He might be in the reels 244 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: a little bit. That don't make him a horrible person. 245 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 1: Could have just got a little side tracked on something. 246 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: But he trying to do right and take care of child. 247 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: He didn't tell you about it. But how long have 248 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:11,200 Speaker 1: y'all been dating? How long they say they've been married 249 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 1: to day? Did it say in the question? No, it isn't. Yes, 250 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 1: she's planning. You know. You check your man phone. You 251 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: found out, you found out he got some text in it. 252 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 1: Found about another baby seventeen years old. What you're gonna do? 253 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 1: He's seventy baby seventeen baby seven time? I supported almost 254 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 1: over it. Yeah, you ride this one not got about 255 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: another year unless he rids good point. Her point is 256 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 1: that he was lying. Well, he didn't lie, he didn't 257 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 1: tell you about it. The same thing, same. No, that's 258 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 1: not that's not the same it is it is junior. 259 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: Is that the same thing? Hell, Tommy, is that the 260 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 1: same thing that the sixteen? Is that the same thing? Absolutely? 261 00:17:55,680 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: Note it is holding information. It's different from lying. Stent 262 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 1: of O mission we win, O mission YEA is different 263 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: from omitting. Steve, he lied if he told her he 264 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: had four kids and he got five? Lied? No, okay, 265 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: Shirley asked me a question. Watch this just ask Is 266 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 1: that a red shirt you have on there, Steve? No, 267 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 1: what do you mean? No, clearly it's red. You just 268 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 1: lied to me. No, I didn't. This shirt. This shirt 269 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: is red and black. I think you were gonna say that. 270 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,199 Speaker 1: I knew you were gonna say that because you got 271 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: riding on the side and what you're talking about. You know, 272 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 1: you're looking at the wrong side of whatever. Right like 273 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:53,479 Speaker 1: most hill in Missouri says, I'm a thirty four year 274 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 1: old man engaged to a beautiful forty three year old woman. 275 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: Before we met, she was in a relationship with him. 276 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 1: Man for thirteen years and her ex boyfriend got sick 277 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: last year and she was overly concerned with his health. 278 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: He's much better now, but she calls to check on 279 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: him and is offered to take him food. I feel 280 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: like she's doing too much and this dude is taking 281 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: advantage of it. I told her that I want her 282 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:17,920 Speaker 1: to stop talking to him, and she said that I 283 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 1: am being too controlling and making her have second thoughts 284 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 1: about marrying me. Am I wrong? Well? You know, man, 285 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 1: if she was with a man for thirteen years and 286 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: he got really sick, when you break up with a person, 287 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean you don't you know. She may not 288 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: be in love, but she wants loved the man, and 289 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: she's just caring for him a little bit. And now 290 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 1: I know that's hard on you because you're younger, she older, 291 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: But you know, sometimes like that, But you know, she 292 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: just seeing about him. The man sick. You know, he 293 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: could have almost could have got out. He might have corona. 294 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: You know, you don't ever know good. You gotta get 295 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: some soup over there in a mask. You gotta get 296 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 1: them too. Some hands sometimes flip that if the situation 297 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: were reversed, he was the one going to his ex Oh, 298 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 1: she have a hearted exactly. Yeah, so I understand. I 299 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:14,639 Speaker 1: understand his his doing the most and the dude probably 300 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:20,400 Speaker 1: is taking advantage of But now it's do you trust her? Right? See, 301 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: if some of these relationships, you're gonna have to put 302 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: your big boy pants. O good advice when it comes 303 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: to exs. I ain't got no big pants or whatever. 304 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the nephew to run that prank. 305 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: Tidy White is now right after this you're listening show. 306 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: Right now, the nephew in the building with today's prank 307 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: phone call, run that prank back. What you got next? 308 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 1: Copper's funeral at the club, Coppa's funeral at the club. 309 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: Let's go, let's let's go on on sending Topahon the 310 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 1: right way at the club, cat Doc, Yeah, trying to 311 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 1: reach your James James, James, Yeah, yeah, what's up? Hey, 312 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: this this is a Gerald. Uh. I was a friend 313 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: of uh uh your your friend Chopper, yeah, h and 314 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: Chopper just uh passed away last week? Right, Yeah, I 315 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: know they posed had the funeral and stuff over at 316 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: uh at mon Baptist Church. And uh, I don't really 317 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: know you, but me me and me and Chopper and 318 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: a bunch of wrestlers. Man, we used to hang out 319 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: at the club not too far from the house. You know. 320 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 1: That's pretty much with Chopper world all the time at 321 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: the club. Anyway, what a bunch of us was over 322 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 1: at the club talking, man, and I was we was 323 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: really want to reach out to one of the family members, 324 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 1: you know, And then somebody said you was, you know, 325 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,359 Speaker 1: kind of a good friend of Hells And when we 326 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 1: we we we decided to call you and see if 327 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: you didn't mind. Do you think that you can talk 328 00:21:55,359 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 1: to uh, some of the family members and see if 329 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 1: they don't mind having the funeral at the club. At 330 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: the club, let me let me try to explain something 331 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: to you, Jane. What we're trying to do is, see, 332 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: we believe that we believe you said at the club, 333 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: come on the club, there's a funeral, and I understand it. 334 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:21,120 Speaker 1: But see, see, chop Choppa ain't really go to church 335 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 1: a whole lot, you know what I'm saying. He didn't 336 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: really really go as long as I've been knowing him. Now, 337 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: he loved a lord and stuff like that. But I understand, 338 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 1: But see, Chopper woodn't chop Chopper went to the club, 339 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: so what I'm asking you will Let's have the funeral 340 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 1: at the club. Hell no, bro, come on, we can't 341 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: have no funeral at no club. Man, Come on. What 342 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,640 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, though, is that he wasn't really 343 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 1: no church going person. I believe that a person ought 344 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,360 Speaker 1: to be the last words are to be said over 345 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 1: him in a place he's more familiar with. You know 346 00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, player, No, I don't. I don't know 347 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 1: what you mean. Playout now, Just just gotta be a funeral. This, 348 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: This is this is church for I go to church 349 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: and all my folks go to church. Now we we 350 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: gotta do this thing up in church. This is a 351 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 1: church thing. But you don't feel But do you understand 352 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 1: where I'm coming from? No, that man ought to going 353 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 1: on and and the last words are to be in 354 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 1: a place he more familiar. Now, if he went to church, 355 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: then I understand that. You see him, o bro, Hell no, no, 356 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: see this his chance to get itself right, and we don't. 357 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna have him up in church in front of everybody. 358 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 1: You know that don't make sense? Who's this again? I mean, 359 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: who are you? My name is Gerald? But who is Gerald? 360 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: I mean? How do you how do you relate to this? 361 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: Are you preach your are you no? No? Are you no? No? No? No, 362 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I was friends with Chopper, and see I 363 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 1: hung out at the club and still hang out there 364 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 1: with a whole bunch of you know, was real good 365 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: friends with Chopping, and we were saying that, you know, 366 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: Chopper's the last words about Chopper are to be said 367 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: at the club, because see that's what Chopper would. But 368 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: five six days a week, that's what Chopper was. But 369 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,360 Speaker 1: what church are you affiliated with? I mean, what? Want 370 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 1: to hell? What I try to talk to the family? 371 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,160 Speaker 1: Make me look stupid in front of the family, telling 372 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: them to put the thing in a club? How that 373 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: gonna go off? Well? See, see that's what I'm saying. 374 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 1: You know them way more than we do, because see 375 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 1: that you're talking about trying to move from a damn 376 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: funeral add a church to a damn nightclub or strip 377 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: club or something. No, not no strip club, just a nightclub. 378 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 1: It's the same thing, ain't it. I mean you talking 379 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: about having folks travel from across the country and meeting 380 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: into the damn club. What kind of that? But that's 381 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: what Choppa was. That's what Chopper was. I'm gonna look 382 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 1: if I'm the one telling them to rooted to the 383 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: damn club, You're gonna look like somebody that's trying to 384 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 1: I'm gonna look like a fool. No, you're not. You're 385 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 1: gonna look like somebody that's trying to keep it real. 386 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: Come to the damn funeral if I will do something 387 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: like that, Okay, okay, let me ask you this, hitting 388 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 1: or Jane, do you think you can maybe get the 389 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: body and bring it over to the club. No, he knows. Well, 390 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: I'm just saying before they even do the funeral or whatever. 391 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 1: Hell no, I ain't touching getting the walk in the 392 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,959 Speaker 1: dog by my self. Whatna touch the body for? Hell Now, 393 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 1: we're just trying to say our last words. And Chopper 394 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 1: man in a place that Chopper most no helmer Again, 395 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: who do you you get my number? Somebody at the 396 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: club had your number, said you was print. But what 397 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 1: y'all call me? Of all folks, y'all called me. They 398 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: say you good. You in with the family, and you 399 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,479 Speaker 1: can tell me with the family. But I ain't end 400 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: in the family. Make me look stupid. Hell now, won't y'all? 401 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: I get all of them to the family. Y'all call 402 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: the family, y'all tell them that yourself. Man, I won't. 403 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 1: I just want trying to get you to brain the 404 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: body by man and let us no, I ain't touching 405 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,400 Speaker 1: no dead body. We just want to have one last 406 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 1: drink with Chopper. Man. You have one with your boys 407 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 1: and you you get together with him and y'all talk 408 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 1: about bottom and let him know how Chopper water what 409 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: kind of prisony? What what kind of we need to 410 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 1: We won't chop up to be there? This Chopper, this 411 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 1: is Chopper you talking about man? Bring y'all to the church. 412 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 1: Y'all need to be up in the church. We want 413 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: to have a Chopper at the club. Well, we don't 414 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 1: know mo man, y'all fully well, we know looking like 415 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: a fool at the damn funeral? What this about Chopper though? 416 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: And then write it about Chopper? You break Chopper to 417 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: that club, y'all tripping? Man, I ain't doing I'm just 418 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 1: going to this funeral. I'm gonna care to say what 419 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 1: I think about Chopping and I'm moving. If y'all want 420 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: to clay in front of town of y'all call the family, 421 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: y'all selling to that look I got one more thing 422 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: I want to see. I don't even know you well 423 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: what what what this is? Nephew Timmy from the Steve 424 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 1: Harvey Martin Show. You just got pranked by your board. 425 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 1: This nephew Timmy man from the Steve Harvey Morty Show. 426 00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: Your board told me to prank you. Man, I just know, y'all, Dame, 427 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: this his nephew tim Me. No, no playoff. Oh man, 428 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: I can't believe this. No, he didn't. I can't even 429 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 1: believe he did that. Hey man, I got one more 430 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 1: thing to ask you, man, what is the baddest radio 431 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 1: show in the land, The Steve Hardy Moaning Show. What 432 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 1: was that? Beats right there? Can y'all feel that in? Yeah, 433 00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: I know what that was? Blank blank you Chopper? That 434 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 1: was well, that's what Chopper more familiar with. Chopp spent 435 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: out his time at the club, wasn't at the church. 436 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: You know, people want to be buried with a familiar with. 437 00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 1: That's something they've been around all that. I'm with you. 438 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: People might not be having funerals at the club, but 439 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,399 Speaker 1: they're damn sure having to repass that club. I've had 440 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: a bunch of man, a lot of a lot of them, Shirley, 441 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: I'm telling sometimes you can't find a place to put 442 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 1: a whole family before COVID. I'm the people that can. 443 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: We rent the club and then they put a big 444 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: picture on stage and they dance and have Yeah. Man, yeah, 445 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: it's a celebration, right right, yeah, yeah, all right, more 446 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show right 447 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening stew all right, everybody show truly 448 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 1: gamed it around for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're 449 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: looking for a treat for the holidays. Nothing sets you 450 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 1: right like some of my delicious, delicious I mean delicious nuts. 451 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: Go to Hotter than the MoPo dot com to order 452 00:28:55,240 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: my spicy spicy spicy hot nuts hotter than a moofo 453 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: dot com and order some hot sauce witer hotter than 454 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 1: a moofo dot com for all your hot sauce needs. 455 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: Watch out, dare. Now, thanks for watching me on the 456 00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: Sister Living In That's it. I'm gonna just play this 457 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: for your short version of it. This is my reaction 458 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: listening to Shirley Murdocks as we laid. This is the 459 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: reason I'm ticked off because this happened to me in 460 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 1: the eighties. I was at a girl's house all night long, 461 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: and I don't know why Shirley thought was necessary write 462 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 1: it dawn song about such a bad memory for eight morning, 463 00:29:46,200 --> 00:30:00,320 Speaker 1: and we slept the night. Now we get to back 464 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: the hand of time. Yes we still this one simple fan. 465 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 1: Ain't no woman we someone the night. We ain't just 466 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: slept no nightem. I ain't been in your baby. You 467 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: just gonn fed me over his last shin across your 468 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 1: oh here. Yes, yeah, we always go to sleep a week, 469 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: but you taste supposed to be No this still posts 470 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 1: last night. We're supposed to be the gone, our separate way. 471 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: I'm a snowing hard we had were just supposed to 472 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: have a lovely view out the whole night. You got 473 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 1: some love to g I forgot shoe, knew I was 474 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: late snow and you can't sleep when I'm snowing like 475 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: leg hanging all mine about the price we had to pay. 476 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:52,600 Speaker 1: Now up in this daylight, I can't find my drawls, 477 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: stay down my shoe in the kitchen. Wow, I don't 478 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: a webber tize jacket turned inside out. I'm trying to 479 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 1: get to this car. What is you saying about my 480 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 1: wife folk, I had it when you that's me. You 481 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,320 Speaker 1: don't want to hurt it. What you tain't different to do? 482 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 1: She used to understanding that I'm right. She fron understand 483 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: you know crazy, I said, Shirley, who you want? I 484 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: can't stand that beil right there as we slept, Dan, 485 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: what is the bell going off? What was the beil 486 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: at one thirty? You forgot about your funking? You know, 487 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: counting up. You ain't got to deal with the calls. 488 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: I'm not the one got drivers in and explained it 489 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 1: did nothing help, Like Tommy says, eight hundred miss owned calls, 490 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:23,280 Speaker 1: seventy nine texts, all of them from huck you better 491 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: be dead. I'm driving home, trying to think on what 492 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 1: I'm busting my mom on the sand classic. What was 493 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: the beil at one thirty? Dude, you didn't run man, 494 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: sent have been looking at me talking about that as 495 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: the sunlight crossed your face. You ain't post be no 496 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: light on me. But that was the wild night, though 497 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: jacket with a little out. I need to find my 498 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: hanging off shoot the stands in the kitchen. I went home. 499 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 1: I ain't got no shirt. I just got a town. 500 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: I couldn't even find I know you gotta go home 501 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:12,479 Speaker 1: and face your wife. I never counted up to calls. 502 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: You know you ain't got going here to do. I 503 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 1: know how old you want? Gonna have no draws on 504 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,319 Speaker 1: its demnitely old women. You can't explain that university? Why 505 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: is your drolls? See what? I'm not taking the pants off? 506 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,479 Speaker 1: If I ain't got no draws on the pants gonna 507 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: stay on all the night? Are they? Though? I didn't 508 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: I didn't wear no How did you misplace them over there? 509 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,760 Speaker 1: I was it tilet at the airport and I didn't 510 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:45,840 Speaker 1: make it. I had a little accident on them, So 511 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:51,560 Speaker 1: I just left them in the because I stop, you're lying. 512 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,760 Speaker 1: It's time to get out of here. As we lie 513 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 1: coming out more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 514 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, 515 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 1: you sir said you don't like watching your beautiful grandkids. 516 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: And they are beautiful, they are? And why what is 517 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 1: that about the lead? I don't like watching them. I 518 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 1: don't have a lot of time. Should have been here. 519 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: I always gotta tell him, so boy, get down off 520 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,720 Speaker 1: of them. Stop pulling her hair? Why y'all argus, Papa 521 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,319 Speaker 1: Rose won't let me. Well your baby, you don't need 522 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:35,720 Speaker 1: to hills. Well, I don't like pepper Peak lass cartoon. 523 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 1: I'm looking pig checking up in hill, Papa. Let's watch 524 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 1: pepper Peak. Papa. Don't like understand Papa like watching Sports 525 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 1: Center and seeing it and Netflix. That's what I'm gonna watch, Brave, Papa. 526 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 1: I want to drink of that. You can't drink mccallu. 527 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 1: And don't ask me no damn the grandkid Scotch, where 528 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:02,240 Speaker 1: is Marjorie? That's why they'd be having me watching that, Papa. 529 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 1: We want a bad time story your papa don't know 530 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 1: nod you know, tell but they don't be the ain't 531 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,840 Speaker 1: none that kids poked to Herede. Do they lead the 532 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 1: kids with you, like like lead the house and just yeah, 533 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: you know, they'll go to no Booze or something they 534 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,640 Speaker 1: know I don't want to go. Then they're watching, okay, 535 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: watching kids, so I don't put them in the movie 536 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: theater room. I got the big screen. All I got cartoons, 537 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: I mean little movies, you know, The Incredibles and all 538 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: this year they're gonna talk and ask questions all the 539 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 1: damn Yeah, I leave, and then they're coming here, Papa 540 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: and Emily Dan who is Emily? No, I don't know 541 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,399 Speaker 1: none of these people right here. I don't like none 542 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: of the better. And then my kid because I have 543 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: bought all of the iPads. Dad, we don't want our 544 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 1: children raised on iPad. Quit dropping them off over here. 545 00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: What they need the iPad for? They need somebody to 546 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 1: talk to other and me and your kids. Aren't your 547 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 1: grandkids vegan or something? The two of them vegan. That's 548 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 1: another thing coming in here. Carley left b J. Whitte 549 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 1: one time. Yeah, well, he came in my office. I 550 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 1: was eating some reals and I gave it, you know, 551 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 1: and he was chest over Joe. His eyes got big. 552 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: He kept looking at any Did you eat it a 553 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: little bit more? Ginny? You look at it? Didn't eat 554 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 1: a little bit more. Carley came in here, Daddy, what 555 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 1: did you give him? Eating the real? He don't eat meat? 556 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: I said, yes, he does. We don't do that at 557 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 1: our house. You ain't ask you how coming in here 558 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 1: asking me, man, and raise the kids. Watch these kids. 559 00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: I watched these kids like I won't to how long 560 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,760 Speaker 1: they've been in the water until they look like Prue 561 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,799 Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 562 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the 563 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 1: stew All right, guys, it's time for comedy route. Let's jay. 564 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: You want to explain it? Real question, very simple, it's 565 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: very simple. Our comedy ability gets tested every week. Tell 566 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: you what you do. Give us five subjects. Put them 567 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 1: on a wheel, spending wheel with a wheel stop. We'll 568 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 1: do the damn thing and we'll do it fast. All right, 569 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: here we go. I got the categories, all right. First one, 570 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 1: I think this eggnog has gone bad like that one? 571 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 1: All right? Now that's a thin ass Santa. Next one, 572 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:55,400 Speaker 1: ho ho ho. Yeah. People don't decorate like they used to. 573 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,840 Speaker 1: And there's nothing under the tree. Let's go spind the wheel, Christal, 574 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 1: what do you think it's on? Stoff? I don't know 575 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:14,439 Speaker 1: which one. People don't decorate like they used to. People 576 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: who don't they don't decorate decorate. People used to go 577 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 1: all out back in the day. The hot ass light 578 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,839 Speaker 1: bubs they used to put on the tree, the big 579 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 1: one sixty waters man. You want to you don't have 580 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,800 Speaker 1: to use heat during the one of time, just landing 581 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,919 Speaker 1: your tree and your your whole living room, was it? Man? 582 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 1: You go all out like they don't go all out 583 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,520 Speaker 1: like that. Out each watered them lights. He wanted them 584 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 1: lights look like a table spoon. I remember, yeah, yeah, yeah, 585 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell you why they don't decorate like these. You know, 586 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: you can go to the neighborhood and all our houses 587 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:54,080 Speaker 1: be lit up, stuff all into the yard. Who is 588 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: the lazy person? That just little bush? Who did that? 589 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,680 Speaker 1: They just put lights? Oh they bush shit and lamb 590 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: on the They ain't no padded too. And then they 591 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 1: go right back in the house like we're about to 592 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: clap from it. I remember when you used to actually 593 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 1: get your tree flocked. Remember that? Yeah, they take the 594 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,200 Speaker 1: white stuff and spray it on your too. You took 595 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: the time to wait to get your tree flocked. Now 596 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,279 Speaker 1: they go for a raggedy green tree in the living 597 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:31,440 Speaker 1: room and that's it, just tree. What happened to them? 598 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 1: A little bit in reefs that they used to hang 599 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 1: in the window with the one candle in the room. 600 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 1: But it was electric and it flickered and I missed it. 601 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,480 Speaker 1: We had them in all three of our windows. Yeah, 602 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: you got an activity scene in your living room, but 603 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,879 Speaker 1: none of the wise man's got hands because of them 604 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:58,480 Speaker 1: broke all. But you don't care. But ain't none of 605 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 1: the wise Ain't you got no hands to hand? I'll 606 00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 1: tell you what you ever walking somebody the house for Christmas. 607 00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,800 Speaker 1: You're going over there and you're looking at the Christmas 608 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 1: tree and you can see the metal pole in the middle. 609 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 1: Why why y'all didn't put all the pieces out of 610 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:21,280 Speaker 1: the him tree? Here? Looking, I can see the tree 611 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 1: is so draft. Ain't he got no water? What is 612 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:30,800 Speaker 1: going over here? I put this trifling Christmas tree? Christmas? 613 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:35,919 Speaker 1: All the little bristles that you ain't putting no water? 614 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 1: The lights is weighing down ranches where all the silver 615 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:46,520 Speaker 1: sickles a little pencils when used to throw all over 616 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 1: the tree and making yeah, And you take them out 617 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:51,799 Speaker 1: one at the time and put them back in the box, 618 00:41:55,120 --> 00:42:01,240 Speaker 1: saving the next year last one. Remember the Nativity scene 619 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,640 Speaker 1: that used to get put outside in the yard. Yes, 620 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,760 Speaker 1: but every time you passed by a hood Nativity scene 621 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 1: you had to explain it to the kids because items 622 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 1: was always missing. First of all, the wise men walked 623 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 1: because we didn't have the money for the camels. Secondly, 624 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: we couldn't use a baby Jesus this year because but 625 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,400 Speaker 1: Linda wanted a cabbage patch dial. So that's in the box. 626 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 1: Up May the Mary and Joseph is two pictures of 627 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 1: Deacon Patterson and Sister Porter. All people don't decorate like 628 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 1: they used to. It ain't no hay in the manger. 629 00:42:56,000 --> 00:43:00,360 Speaker 1: This just look like burlap sad laid. We're gonna have 630 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: money for the break coming up decks. You're listening to 631 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 1: morning show coming up at the top of the hour, 632 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's today's Strawberry letter. The 633 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 1: subject I left in the middle of the night. That 634 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,440 Speaker 1: the subject. But right now, nephew in the building with 635 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:20,080 Speaker 1: today's frank phone call? What you got for us? Now? 636 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 1: How much money do we have any account? Past watching? 637 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 1: Now came it came in three cents. I broke it up. Now, 638 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: how much money do we have any account? Pastor? Pastor, Pastor, 639 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 1: how much money do we have in the account? Let's 640 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,920 Speaker 1: go okay, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Pastor Hayes. 641 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 1: Pastor Hayes, how are you doing? This is? This is 642 00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:51,680 Speaker 1: brother Lennie Thompson. How you doing? I'm good brother, and 643 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,400 Speaker 1: how can I help you? Today? Past I'm actually one 644 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,440 Speaker 1: of your members at the church, and I want to 645 00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 1: just commend you that you're doing a good job the 646 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 1: way you are display in safety. Let me say that 647 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 1: first and foremost. Okay, cool, thank you. You know, we 648 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,799 Speaker 1: just want everybody to be safe and healthy. And your 649 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 1: name again, Brother Lenna Thompson. Okay, And and and other 650 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 1: times I'm kind of about to be in the middle 651 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 1: of dinner. How can I help your brother? Well, here's 652 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 1: what I wanted to ask you, man, uh paras, I 653 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,040 Speaker 1: want to ask you this. I know, you know a 654 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 1: lot of people are going through different things, and and 655 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,440 Speaker 1: people are, you know, trying to make sure they keep 656 00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 1: food and stuff in the house because you know, time 657 00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,959 Speaker 1: like this, you know you kind of want to stay put, 658 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: and but you want to make sure you got enough 659 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: food and water and things like that. So but but 660 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 1: but what I want to my reason for calling you 661 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,479 Speaker 1: is I wanted to ask you how how much money 662 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:47,720 Speaker 1: do we have in the account? Come again, the church account? 663 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,759 Speaker 1: How much money do we have in there? Brother? Brother? 664 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,239 Speaker 1: What what do you say? Your name was again, brother, 665 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 1: My name is brother Lenna Thompson. Okay, Brother Thompson. How 666 00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,279 Speaker 1: did you get my person to sell phone? Thembing to 667 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,640 Speaker 1: be calling me home this time of day. Well, I 668 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:03,759 Speaker 1: got this number from one of the brothers at the church. 669 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 1: What what brother the church if they know not to 670 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: give my person a number out too to people I 671 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 1: don't know? Are you? Well, I'm a I'm a but 672 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 1: I'm a but I'm a member though I'm a member. Well, 673 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 1: how I long you've been a member? Because I've been 674 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 1: pastor this church for ten years and your name ain't 675 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: familiar to me? How long? How long have you been 676 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 1: a member at my church? I've been a member of 677 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 1: probably going on going on three years now, but I 678 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 1: ain't I ain't been since, you know, since that day 679 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: I joined. You know, you know, I don't kind of 680 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 1: got caught out there, you know how I go? But wait, wait, wait, 681 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,680 Speaker 1: wait wait wait. So you you've been a member of 682 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,360 Speaker 1: my church two or three years? You ain't been to 683 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,200 Speaker 1: the church and two to three years? Are you calling 684 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 1: me to ask me about finances of my church? Well, 685 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,320 Speaker 1: I'm understand what you're looking for. Well, I am a member, 686 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 1: So I mean I do how to don't I how 687 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,320 Speaker 1: the right to know what we got in there? What 688 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: we got in the account? Actually, you don't you don't 689 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 1: have to write to that question. If you don't actively 690 00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,399 Speaker 1: come to the church, you can't come to the church, 691 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 1: sign up church, and then call me three years later 692 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,040 Speaker 1: asking me what we got going on at church? So 693 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 1: I need to understand what is your purpose? Well, like 694 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 1: I say, everybody going through hard times, I'm trying to 695 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: see what we got in there, because you know, I 696 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:16,479 Speaker 1: need to pick up a few things from the stove. 697 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,680 Speaker 1: I don't have the money right now, but shouldn't I 698 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,319 Speaker 1: be able to lean it on my church? Though? You lean, 699 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:24,919 Speaker 1: We've done a lot of stuff in the community. We've 700 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,759 Speaker 1: been feeding the elderly. We got a food bank, we've 701 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 1: been cashed happing people some money that when we can. 702 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,879 Speaker 1: But you ain't been at this church, and three years 703 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 1: you can't call me outter three years and think I'm 704 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: about to give you some money for something I don't 705 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:39,400 Speaker 1: even know if you're a real member. I am a 706 00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 1: real man. I'm a real member. So hold on, hold on, 707 00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: hold on, hold hold on, past, hold on, hold on, 708 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,239 Speaker 1: hold on, no, no, no, hold on, by boy. Look here, 709 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to sit down here dinner with my family. 710 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,680 Speaker 1: You sitting here on my last nerve. Look here, brother, Thompson. 711 00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,239 Speaker 1: I don't know you. I ain't never heard of you. 712 00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,840 Speaker 1: You am not about to call here and try to 713 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,160 Speaker 1: get some money out of me. You ain't even member 714 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,640 Speaker 1: of the church. You can't I am a member of 715 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 1: the church because you come to the church one time, 716 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,839 Speaker 1: you ain't been back in three years and you come 717 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 1: to me for some money. I am a member your mama, 718 00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: you are not a member of this church, sir, I 719 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 1: am a member of the church. Look, look, look, let 720 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,879 Speaker 1: me tell you something. I know. This ain't no time. 721 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 1: Let me tell you where You can't join my church 722 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 1: two or three years ago and called me three years later, 723 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,839 Speaker 1: get my number from somebody and ask me for money 724 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 1: because you're going through hard time. Now, if you was 725 00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: a true member of the church, you'll understand how we 726 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,920 Speaker 1: work and how we give money to people that are struggling. 727 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:41,279 Speaker 1: I just delivered forty meals today to our elderly. Last week, 728 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,880 Speaker 1: we cash out people money to go pick up grocery. 729 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 1: Comparing what do you need? Do you need my cash half? 730 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:50,200 Speaker 1: Then do you need my ca Boy? Boy, you gonna 731 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 1: make me because you ain't even tithing, So how are 732 00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,800 Speaker 1: you not tiring? And think you clod you I have 733 00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 1: fell on bad times, didn't I say I fell on 734 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 1: bad times? You feel on bad times for three years? Hey, hey, 735 00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,319 Speaker 1: you know it takes longer for some people. Okay, why 736 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: are you? Why are you judging me in opposed to 737 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,920 Speaker 1: trying to figure out how to cash at me so 738 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: I can get on a number of my church. I 739 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,560 Speaker 1: don't know if you some scam artists trying to get 740 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,920 Speaker 1: money from the church. Sir, I have never met you. 741 00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: I don't know you. Matter of fact, I'm about to 742 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,880 Speaker 1: call it the deacons to see who you are and 743 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 1: why they would give my number to some points to 744 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,239 Speaker 1: call me and ask me for some money. Hey, let 745 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,520 Speaker 1: me say this to you. If you don't cash at me, 746 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,040 Speaker 1: then I'm funny that all the members that I know you, 747 00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 1: I know our church ain't no mega church. You know 748 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 1: we got three four hundred members already know so. But 749 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 1: but I would let every member know that you're not 750 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 1: cash happening me to help me in a time and need. 751 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 1: I will do that. Rob Thompson, you can let them know. 752 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 1: You can Facebook, Instagram and you can put it on 753 00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 1: that tchektok and cag me in it. I ain't giving 754 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,399 Speaker 1: you a dime I don't know you. I ain't never 755 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,399 Speaker 1: heard of you. Matter of fact, you need to get 756 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 1: off my phone. I got dinner with my wife about 757 00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 1: to go on, man, and I ain't got tired of 758 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 1: me going back for with you. I need to know 759 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,879 Speaker 1: who gave you my number so I can call them 760 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 1: up and tell them don't be giving my number some 761 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,879 Speaker 1: stranger who ain't been our church in two to three 762 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,400 Speaker 1: years and gonna ask me for some money, some cash 763 00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 1: out or if you don't get off this phone, who 764 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 1: gave you? Um? Okay, so let me ask you something. 765 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 1: So so you know Deacon uh, Marvin Diller, don't know 766 00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:22,440 Speaker 1: Dickon Martha. Yeah, what about him? Do you know he 767 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 1: listened to the radio every morning. Yeah, he's listening to 768 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Martin show. Pastor, Haze, you just got 769 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:34,680 Speaker 1: pranked by your boy, deacon mom. Boy, I see, and 770 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:39,759 Speaker 1: that's why Deacon marm about to get kicked off the board. Boy, 771 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,320 Speaker 1: you got me eye in my yard. Yeah. My neighbor's 772 00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,400 Speaker 1: looking at me like I'm crazy. They know I'm not 773 00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,360 Speaker 1: on the block or you almost made me because you 774 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 1: can't be doing that during this time, man, past you 775 00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:54,799 Speaker 1: all right, man, man, I'm good man, I'm good, baby, Baby, 776 00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,840 Speaker 1: everything good. My wife man came out here, boy, and 777 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,879 Speaker 1: you ain't don't want her to set it off? Oh 778 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,439 Speaker 1: you don't want the first lady to go out? Okay, man, 779 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,560 Speaker 1: but no, we take care of our church man. We 780 00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,640 Speaker 1: feed them, sending the money. Man, deliver meals. Man, make 781 00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:14,160 Speaker 1: sure abody good during this time. That's good man. Hey man, 782 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 1: before we get off, you gotta let me know twenty twenty, Baby, 783 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,280 Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 784 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 1: show in the land. Man, It's the Steve probably Morning 785 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 1: Show with day ignorant nephew Tommy and there you have it, 786 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:32,839 Speaker 1: ladies and jail. I'm going Tommy and right. I wanted 787 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,080 Speaker 1: to hear Timmy how long before he cuts? Because he 788 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 1: was right there. He was right. You know what, Jay, 789 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,919 Speaker 1: and I pull it back. I got to the land 790 00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,160 Speaker 1: and I said, I'm not gonna I pull it back. 791 00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, the Strawberry 792 00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:48,319 Speaker 1: Letter subject I left in the middle of the night. 793 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:53,880 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It's time for 794 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,799 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And man, oh man, if you need 795 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,200 Speaker 1: advice some relationships, If you need advice un dating, work, sex, parenting, 796 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: anything and more. Submit your strawberry letter to Steve Harvey 797 00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit strawberry. Click needs that 798 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:21,359 Speaker 1: k on that uh right, Steve right, you want them 799 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 1: to click submit strawberry letter right now. I'm like, I 800 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:31,400 Speaker 1: like what you said. Click straw hit that button, hit 801 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: that thing right there. All right, let's go, all right, 802 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: buckle up, hold old tight he she is sure the 803 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,240 Speaker 1: strawberry with the straw very left. Thank you, junior. Subject 804 00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:46,800 Speaker 1: I left in the middle of the night. Here's Stephen Shirley. 805 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,759 Speaker 1: I need your honest advice here because I don't know 806 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: how to handle this situation. I'm in my late forties 807 00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:55,520 Speaker 1: and in a good relationship with a man my age. 808 00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:59,320 Speaker 1: We are well above the age of foolishness, but recently 809 00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 1: we had a big disagreement. I was staying at his 810 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:04,839 Speaker 1: house the other night and I got a call from 811 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 1: my ex husband, who I still consider a friend. My 812 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 1: ex husband is still single and he lives alone, so 813 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: when he called me at two thirty am, I figured 814 00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,840 Speaker 1: there had to be something serious going on and I 815 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 1: needed to go and see about him. So I got 816 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: up and was leaving to go help my ex husband. 817 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,839 Speaker 1: My boyfriend got very upset with me and we got 818 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 1: into a huge argument about it. I don't understand what 819 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 1: the big deal is. I would help anybody. I may 820 00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:37,840 Speaker 1: have shared too many details about my friendship with my 821 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 1: ex husband, and I probably shouldn't have told him that 822 00:52:40,640 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 1: my ex still has me listed as a beneficiary on 823 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 1: his life insurance policy. Surely my man doesn't think I 824 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,319 Speaker 1: still want my ex husband or vice versa. My man 825 00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,920 Speaker 1: said he was only angry because it was a safety 826 00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,360 Speaker 1: issue for me to leave at two thirty, But I 827 00:52:55,520 --> 00:53:00,200 Speaker 1: know it's deeper than that. So now I'm second guessing everything. Yea, 828 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 1: I should have even maybe I shouldn't have even answered 829 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,000 Speaker 1: the late night phone call. Was I not supposed to 830 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:09,160 Speaker 1: go help my ex? What do you think please help? Okay? 831 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 1: After he called at two thirty am and you ran 832 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:16,680 Speaker 1: off to as you say, go see about him. Yes, 833 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,840 Speaker 1: your man definitely thinks you guys have something going on okay, 834 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,520 Speaker 1: and that you guys still want each other. I mean, 835 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:26,040 Speaker 1: who does this? I don't get it. Who does that? 836 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,640 Speaker 1: Did your ex say something was wrong or seriously going 837 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,320 Speaker 1: on like you say in the letter. I'll ask it 838 00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:35,360 Speaker 1: this way, what man is going to sit back and 839 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 1: be okay with his woman running to another man at 840 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 1: two thirty in the morning. How does this make sense 841 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,800 Speaker 1: to you? This is a man who happens to be 842 00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: your ex husband. I mean, does this really sound reasonable 843 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,759 Speaker 1: to you? He may have said that it was a 844 00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:52,440 Speaker 1: safety issue with you, but it was way more than that, 845 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,319 Speaker 1: and probably that too. As a matter of fact, if 846 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,880 Speaker 1: it was a safety issue, if he thought he should 847 00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,279 Speaker 1: have gone along with you, I can get and tell 848 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:03,319 Speaker 1: you he's not upset about you and the life insurance thing. 849 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 1: That's not anything for him to be worried about, because 850 00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,640 Speaker 1: that's a good thing. It's about you getting up out 851 00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:12,879 Speaker 1: of that bed and going over to your ex's house. 852 00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 1: That's it. That's all. Let me ask you this, what 853 00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 1: if you were what were you going to do for 854 00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,399 Speaker 1: your ex? Did he say he never you never said 855 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 1: what it was. You just never said you never said 856 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:30,160 Speaker 1: what it was? Help him do? What I mean? Couldn't 857 00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 1: it wait until later in the morning? Otherwise it just 858 00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: sounds like a booty call, That's it. I don't see 859 00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:39,320 Speaker 1: how you don't see that. You're right, you shouldn't have 860 00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,440 Speaker 1: answered the phone when you saw it was your ex husband. 861 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,040 Speaker 1: You shouldn't have gone over there. It could have waited. 862 00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,680 Speaker 1: Whatever was Your man is right to be mad. If 863 00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 1: he was at your house and a woman called him 864 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 1: at two thirty in the morning, he got up to 865 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,440 Speaker 1: go see her, how would you feel. You would be 866 00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,920 Speaker 1: mad just like he is. So I know you'd be 867 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:02,560 Speaker 1: highly upset and have a major attitude. Okay, So you 868 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,960 Speaker 1: were wrong. You should have stayed there and not answered 869 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,200 Speaker 1: the call. Okay, And you're gonna have to deal with 870 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,759 Speaker 1: this because your man, hopefully he'll forgive you. But I 871 00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 1: don't know, Steve, I can't believe this is written by 872 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 1: a woman who's grown. I left in the middle of 873 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:24,080 Speaker 1: the night. The name of this letter should be how 874 00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,560 Speaker 1: stupid this sound to you? Right, that's the title of 875 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 1: this letter. Let's change this letter. How stupid this sound 876 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 1: to you? Shirley. I need your honest advice, and Steve, yeah, 877 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm glad you. I'm glad you said honest advice because 878 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 1: I want to hell you fitting to get him, Come on, 879 00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 1: bring it, because I don't know how to handle this situation. 880 00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:48,960 Speaker 1: I remember late parties. Get a good relationship with a 881 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:52,920 Speaker 1: man my age we above the age of foolishness. No, no, no, 882 00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:56,279 Speaker 1: stop right there, he is above the age foolish Thank 883 00:55:56,320 --> 00:56:01,200 Speaker 1: you all up in foolishness. But recently we had a 884 00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,600 Speaker 1: big disagreement. I was staring at this house the other 885 00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,000 Speaker 1: night I got a call from my ex husband, who 886 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: I still consider a Fred. Problem number one, my ex 887 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:14,359 Speaker 1: husband is still single. Problem number two. What's a little 888 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,160 Speaker 1: noise that's putting on the brake? And he lives alone? 889 00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,960 Speaker 1: That's problem number three. So he called me at two 890 00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:25,360 Speaker 1: thirty am. I figured there had to be something serious 891 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:28,080 Speaker 1: going on and I needed to go see about him. 892 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,200 Speaker 1: So I got up and was leaving to help my 893 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,960 Speaker 1: ex husband. That hell is wrong with you crazy? Let's 894 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:37,080 Speaker 1: go back to the title that I want to call 895 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:42,720 Speaker 1: this letter. How stupid this sound to you. We're laying 896 00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:49,200 Speaker 1: in bed, phone ring, it's two thirty. You figure something 897 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:52,880 Speaker 1: seriously got to be wrong. So you sits up, You 898 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,560 Speaker 1: gets dressed, and you're going to see about your ex 899 00:56:55,760 --> 00:57:06,719 Speaker 1: husband too thanty phone calls. It's prime booty time. Yeah, 900 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:12,160 Speaker 1: one more time, Prime booty time. Matter of fact, you're 901 00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 1: on the back end of a booty call two thirty late. 902 00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:20,480 Speaker 1: The booty is in the process of having already answered 903 00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 1: the call. Wow, we're showering about now this rist all 904 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:32,000 Speaker 1: usually the big rist all. We'll be back with the 905 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:35,200 Speaker 1: rest of his to hell you talking about. We'll have 906 00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,960 Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response coming out going right at 907 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:42,040 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour left in the middle of 908 00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 1: the night. Or how stupid does this sound to you? 909 00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:50,880 Speaker 1: You're listening to show? All right, come on, Steve, part 910 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 1: two of your response to to this. This woman got 911 00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: a booty call at two thirty in the morning, her 912 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,120 Speaker 1: laying next to her new boyfriend. It's her ex husband 913 00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 1: who is single and lives alone, and you figured something 914 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,760 Speaker 1: had to be seriously wrong at two thirty any morning, 915 00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:08,120 Speaker 1: So you gets up leading now yo, her boyfriend? Man, 916 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:11,560 Speaker 1: what are supposed to be you're getting up to answer? 917 00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:14,480 Speaker 1: Or what is we all know is a booty call? 918 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:19,640 Speaker 1: Sharlon know that? So why are we sitting up here 919 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: trying to act like this ain't what it is? My 920 00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,120 Speaker 1: boyfriend got very upset with me. We got into a 921 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 1: huge argument about it. I don't understand what the big 922 00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:31,120 Speaker 1: deal is. I would help anybody. Oh, so now you're 923 00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:35,760 Speaker 1: tricking You would help anybody. So anybody that calls at 924 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 1: two thirty, you willing to get up and help them. 925 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:40,920 Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you, lady. Let me just 926 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 1: dig off in my past a little bit here. I 927 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,080 Speaker 1: didn't call a lot of women at two thirty any 928 00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:52,880 Speaker 1: morning and said, it ain't ever been nothing wrong. You 929 00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 1: haven't been sick, or it's not an emergency, not a 930 00:58:56,320 --> 00:59:00,800 Speaker 1: toothy if I call you at tooth thirty going down. 931 00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 1: The only thing wrong with me. I'm lonely and through. 932 00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:13,240 Speaker 1: I just need to be I need some coming. I 933 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:18,240 Speaker 1: need somebody to put me to sleep. I'm suffering from 934 00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:21,400 Speaker 1: insthing new. I can't go to sleep. And you could 935 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:25,400 Speaker 1: be the bigg ass peel come rock a bye baby 936 00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:30,280 Speaker 1: in the tree talking, come on, come and put me 937 00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,480 Speaker 1: to sleep. But it took that in the moaning what 938 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:39,080 Speaker 1: a man called a woman. Something's going on. Someone's on 939 00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:46,320 Speaker 1: the phone three o'clock in the moaning talking about how 940 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:50,840 Speaker 1: he can make it right. Did you hear me al 941 00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 1: Green saying about this far? Now hear you answering it, 942 00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:57,320 Speaker 1: trying to figure out what the hell he's mad about. 943 00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:01,560 Speaker 1: Because Al Green is at your house. I would help anybody. 944 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:04,200 Speaker 1: I may have shared too many details about my friendship 945 01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:08,640 Speaker 1: with my ex husband so now you're running your mouth too, Okay, 946 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,520 Speaker 1: And I probably shouldn't have told him my ex still 947 01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,760 Speaker 1: has me listed as a beneficiary on his life insurance policy. 948 01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,640 Speaker 1: Oh well, maybe that was it. Maybe you was going 949 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:24,960 Speaker 1: over there and make sure you still be well. But see, 950 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,040 Speaker 1: but in order to make sure you the beneficiary, you 951 01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:31,760 Speaker 1: got to provide benefit. See you get the beneficial, You 952 01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,920 Speaker 1: got to be the benefit. You understand, see that one 953 01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:39,200 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Surely, surely my man doesn't think I 954 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,360 Speaker 1: still want my ex husband or vice versa. Why would 955 01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:46,400 Speaker 1: you not. He didn't put you on the policy. This 956 01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 1: he the impitied me a sugar daddy. I'm no sugar 957 01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 1: daddy now, and when I'm gonna hello hello, this a 958 01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 1: matter of fact, your ex husband falls into the category 959 01:00:57,360 --> 01:01:03,760 Speaker 1: a super sugar daddy. You rather dig I'm let and see. 960 01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,320 Speaker 1: So now, if you got a sugar daddy, that's a 961 01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:09,920 Speaker 1: super sugar daddy that can provide sugar, living and gold, 962 01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,200 Speaker 1: you got to get over there and provide benefit so 963 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:17,760 Speaker 1: you can be remained the beneficial. Arey that's what you 964 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:23,520 Speaker 1: need to do now. My man said he was only 965 01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:27,600 Speaker 1: angry because it was a safety issue for me to 966 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,360 Speaker 1: leave in two thirty, Your damn writer was a safety 967 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,959 Speaker 1: issue for you to leave. In two thirty, the damn 968 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:36,960 Speaker 1: safety issue was he might lose you to the man 969 01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 1: with all the damn. This man got a shore his policy. 970 01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:44,720 Speaker 1: But I know it's deeper than that. Let me see 971 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 1: what you say. Now. Maybe I shouldn't even have answered 972 01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:51,560 Speaker 1: the late night phone call. Well maybe you shouldn't. Was 973 01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:56,320 Speaker 1: I not supposed to go help my ex? What do 974 01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:00,760 Speaker 1: you think? Let's talk about the help you to provide it. 975 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,440 Speaker 1: Break it down, Steve, break it down. He's locked out 976 01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:09,360 Speaker 1: of his house. Oh and why do you have a key? 977 01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:14,080 Speaker 1: He's sick and only you can make him better. It's 978 01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 1: two thirty in the morning. He didn't got some bad news, 979 01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 1: and now here you come to hold him, console him, 980 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:28,560 Speaker 1: shape and mold him. You better make a song out 981 01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 1: of this. Nah, two thirty, Come on in the morning. 982 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:45,160 Speaker 1: Somebody just can't sleeve. He picks up the phone and 983 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:51,000 Speaker 1: it called on me and I went out to do 984 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:58,680 Speaker 1: just to Skippy. Ain't happy on mine about to go 985 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:04,520 Speaker 1: out the door. I bought both fires. I'm about to 986 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:14,480 Speaker 1: give him some more because I'm beneficialing about used to 987 01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:20,920 Speaker 1: be Maverick, used to be mavering. Now I gotta go 988 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:36,280 Speaker 1: and take care my beneficier status won't and I won't heal. 989 01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:42,400 Speaker 1: Uh huh. He's leaving money when it ain't no more heal. 990 01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:49,600 Speaker 1: He got me now, and I get it then, So 991 01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 1: I go o open open, letting me all right, listen, 992 01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here. Email us Instagram us 993 01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:03,720 Speaker 1: her thoughts on today's Strubberry letter at Steve Harvey FM 994 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,360 Speaker 1: coming out more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 995 01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:11,640 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Show. All right, guys. 996 01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,720 Speaker 1: Before we went to break, I asked this question, do 997 01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:17,520 Speaker 1: you hold a grudge toward any family member? So have 998 01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 1: have you guys written off relatives or your entire family 999 01:04:20,520 --> 01:04:23,320 Speaker 1: because of what a person did? Because you're holding a grudge? 1000 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:31,240 Speaker 1: Junior me, Yeah, oh grudge. Now I love my sister. 1001 01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong here. Think yeah, yeah, old grudge, hold 1002 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:45,680 Speaker 1: on one right now? What happened? Yeah? I love you, Dan, 1003 01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,000 Speaker 1: I really do. But your friends probably gonna call you 1004 01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 1: in a minute. I'm not talking about you. Yeah, don't 1005 01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: get yourself in trouble. I'm grown sure. Okay, Well, I'm 1006 01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:02,040 Speaker 1: thinking with mo my time and money going into this, 1007 01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:04,520 Speaker 1: I should be able to say what I want to say. 1008 01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:09,760 Speaker 1: If I'm helping a family member, right a wrong? Can 1009 01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:13,960 Speaker 1: you say you know what I'm saying? So that for 1010 01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 1: what it is. Yes, I took my daddy truck back. Daddy, Hey, 1011 01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:24,840 Speaker 1: bet your ass walking night? Did she gonna lie me? 1012 01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:31,120 Speaker 1: Said she gonna lie me? Yeah, my daddy truck back. Yeah, 1013 01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:35,520 Speaker 1: so get dad. Bet your fall ranging now? So if 1014 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,800 Speaker 1: next thing you say gonna be the truth? Yeah, yes, 1015 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:46,440 Speaker 1: I changed the bank account bad. Yes, yeah, we each grudge. 1016 01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:54,480 Speaker 1: He gets louder though stuff. No, I ain't paying the 1017 01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:59,840 Speaker 1: rent that is so, Hey, I feel better. How about 1018 01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 1: your How long you've been holding this? June by three months? 1019 01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,080 Speaker 1: So glad Carl to put this in the show? What if? 1020 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:10,400 Speaker 1: What if they don't hear you? Do you think I 1021 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 1: give a damn not for real radio? It's fun? Thank 1022 01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:20,200 Speaker 1: you just be heard? You know what this is so rejuvenat. 1023 01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:26,360 Speaker 1: I didn't even know. Man, I've been involved therapeutic. Man. 1024 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,320 Speaker 1: You havn't therapy, man, Let it out. I do it 1025 01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:32,120 Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, all these lives. No, I wouldn't 1026 01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,240 Speaker 1: come see my daddy. You know you're a damn lot. 1027 01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 1: But I've been there. But I'm hearing out though what happened? 1028 01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. Y'all know what's going on? Show crazy, 1029 01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:46,520 Speaker 1: don't act or don't act. I think I just didn't 1030 01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:49,920 Speaker 1: think you'd say it, like, why wouldn't I couldn't wait 1031 01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:51,600 Speaker 1: for call to put this in the show. I've been 1032 01:06:51,680 --> 01:07:00,160 Speaker 1: waiting on this break how many months? Three? Say it out? 1033 01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,760 Speaker 1: If you're not yes, yes, you didn't tell me you 1034 01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:08,360 Speaker 1: was taking his money. I don't know how you say that? Then? Who? 1035 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:12,800 Speaker 1: Thank you? Then? You know? Do you think I give it? 1036 01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:16,680 Speaker 1: Damn time? Once again? Call me? You ain't been calling 1037 01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: by time. I've been trying to talk. Ain't nobody wanted 1038 01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:21,200 Speaker 1: to talk? Coming out more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1039 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:25,560 Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1040 01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 1: All right, it's time for something funny, for something. I 1041 01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,840 Speaker 1: got something, a list, we all got some. Just let 1042 01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,320 Speaker 1: you know right away when it ain't none of your 1043 01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:42,600 Speaker 1: damn biby. Yeah you mayn't see it, yeah it but 1044 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:45,520 Speaker 1: it ain't. Let it go. Let it go? What to keep? 1045 01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:50,320 Speaker 1: You know what you see, but it ain't you Biden instant. Sure, Yeah, 1046 01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:53,800 Speaker 1: you are going to have to do something. Now we 1047 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:57,600 Speaker 1: have for you because you're not good this. You don't 1048 01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 1: like this, coach, you bush. But listen, people's real blad. 1049 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,400 Speaker 1: I want you to read them. This is really going 1050 01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:06,040 Speaker 1: on in people's lives. I want you to read at 1051 01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,600 Speaker 1: least two of these, all of you, and read it 1052 01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:13,640 Speaker 1: like you mean it. All right, all right. If you 1053 01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:17,760 Speaker 1: see someone open the exit door, okay, you're at the 1054 01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 1: movies and they let nine people in the theater. Yeah, oh, 1055 01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:27,519 Speaker 1: come on, and you'll see they ask you to get 1056 01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:34,320 Speaker 1: out movie starting. If you're hanging out with some white 1057 01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:37,519 Speaker 1: folks at the park and they hear something and walk 1058 01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:40,040 Speaker 1: through the woods, let me tell you something that ain't 1059 01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:49,000 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with you. Now that he had one, 1060 01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:52,320 Speaker 1: lever had one? Let had one? All right, your homeboy, 1061 01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:57,519 Speaker 1: y'all been boys, see tight, y'all tight, just hang out. 1062 01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:01,080 Speaker 1: All of a sudden you see him ain't out hugged 1063 01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:12,320 Speaker 1: up with another dude. Ain't you gotta be careful, don't 1064 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:16,800 Speaker 1: say anything? What about this? Then? If you see someone 1065 01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:19,720 Speaker 1: at the drive through take the money and put it 1066 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,400 Speaker 1: in his pocket, that ain't your damn you. As long 1067 01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:24,720 Speaker 1: as you get your food, just get your food. You 1068 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:28,320 Speaker 1: gonna call the police. You don't know you don't drive 1069 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:31,000 Speaker 1: off from that wonder. You don't know what he going through. 1070 01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:38,800 Speaker 1: You don't know what happened at all. Man. If you 1071 01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:43,800 Speaker 1: in line, uh huh after amusement pause, okay, yeah, and 1072 01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:50,080 Speaker 1: somebody cut the line behind you, Yeah, that ain't your dad, 1073 01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:55,080 Speaker 1: come up here in front of me, but you cut 1074 01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,200 Speaker 1: You see him cut right there like that, right down you. 1075 01:09:58,680 --> 01:10:04,719 Speaker 1: That ain't your damn man, that's not right, not your business. 1076 01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,720 Speaker 1: Let me tell you that one if you win your 1077 01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:11,960 Speaker 1: wife huh and see your girlfriend with another man, huh, 1078 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:18,519 Speaker 1: that really ain't so damn your Yeah, you shouldn't say nothing, 1079 01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:27,040 Speaker 1: not a thing, little good time. Nothing. You're in the 1080 01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:30,200 Speaker 1: grocery store. Did see somebody go over to the grapes 1081 01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:35,280 Speaker 1: and they eat about they four handfuls of break up pound. 1082 01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:39,920 Speaker 1: They eat complete. That's wrong, they eat a pound break 1083 01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:47,200 Speaker 1: I just said that eating grapes. That ain't tell Jake, 1084 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:54,600 Speaker 1: is that that stealing? That's great about this j You 1085 01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 1: have to bank and you have to win that. And 1086 01:10:57,120 --> 01:10:59,040 Speaker 1: the man next to you have to win. If you 1087 01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:03,160 Speaker 1: see him slide to know to the teller, Hey, that 1088 01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:06,640 Speaker 1: ain't none of your tailfel give me my twenties I 1089 01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:11,080 Speaker 1: and let me go get out, and I'm with you. 1090 01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:15,160 Speaker 1: You and you in a coffee place, right. You see 1091 01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:19,200 Speaker 1: and you see somebody get a handful of them sugars. 1092 01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm just a handful who in each hand. Too handful 1093 01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:28,240 Speaker 1: the packs put them in their pocket. That ain't joking. 1094 01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:37,759 Speaker 1: They don't bother anyway. That's too many sugars, not chiping 1095 01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:41,160 Speaker 1: too much. If you in the gail, uh huh. Yeah. 1096 01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:44,720 Speaker 1: And you see somebody working out with a trainer, huh. 1097 01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:48,960 Speaker 1: And the trainer tell him to do fifteen ls and 1098 01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:55,760 Speaker 1: he walked on and they don't do but six. I 1099 01:11:55,920 --> 01:12:01,280 Speaker 1: gotta tell not honest. It ain't got nothing to do 1100 01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:05,320 Speaker 1: with being honest. All right, more of this crazy ignorant show. 1101 01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:10,200 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening Steve 1102 01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:16,240 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Gander Browns for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1103 01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:19,000 Speaker 1: Man in the Street. Very simple question. The question is 1104 01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:22,439 Speaker 1: what is your favorite Christmas song? Joy to the world, 1105 01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:25,960 Speaker 1: jingle bells, Oh Holy Night, Silent night. I'm dreaming of 1106 01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:28,840 Speaker 1: a white Christmas. Melly Kaliki Maka Did you sing that 1107 01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:32,880 Speaker 1: for me? Oh? No, silent night. Grandma got run over 1108 01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:37,679 Speaker 1: by Randma got run over by Raindeer, Rudolf, the Red Riddles, ringing, 1109 01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:41,639 Speaker 1: sing a little bit for me, No, Merry Christmas, Happy 1110 01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:45,439 Speaker 1: Holidays by in sync, jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle bells, 1111 01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:50,240 Speaker 1: a rock jingle bell rocking, No, no, no, no nothing. 1112 01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:54,519 Speaker 1: Then then in then night a Merry Christmas, Pretty baby, Christmas, 1113 01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:57,720 Speaker 1: pretty baby. But Yall Brown, what's your favorite Christmas song? 1114 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,120 Speaker 1: Baby like that one? Joy to the world, Solid Night, 1115 01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 1: Holy Night, Santa Claus went to the Ghetto, Chester Roast 1116 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:08,280 Speaker 1: Christmas Carol, I like the Mariah Carryway. The question today 1117 01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:12,160 Speaker 1: is what is your favorite Christmas song? Man Felice, no 1118 01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:17,960 Speaker 1: dog rocking around the Christmas Tree, Hang of the mistletoe. 1119 01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get no, you better. What's the name of 1120 01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:29,920 Speaker 1: that one? This Christmas fire? Five plasing bride, Randy? Can 1121 01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,360 Speaker 1: you sing a little bit? What is Christmas? Sing it? Oh? No, 1122 01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:36,760 Speaker 1: Michael Jackson, I saw Mommy kiss and Santa Claus? Can 1123 01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:42,040 Speaker 1: you sing it? White Christmas? Um the one from Charlie 1124 01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:46,280 Speaker 1: Brown Christmas the Christmas Tree? Oh no, that's not it? 1125 01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,640 Speaker 1: Is it? No, it's the other one. It's the is 1126 01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:53,000 Speaker 1: that that is my favorite Christmas song? Is Santa Claus 1127 01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:55,240 Speaker 1: comes to the Ghetto by Snoop Dogg and Nate Dog. 1128 01:13:55,880 --> 01:14:01,680 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Steve, You sir said you 1129 01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:05,280 Speaker 1: don't like watching your beautiful grandkids. And they are beautiful, 1130 01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,439 Speaker 1: they are, And why what is that about the lead? 1131 01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:12,559 Speaker 1: I don't like watching them. I don't have a lot 1132 01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:14,960 Speaker 1: of time. She up been here always gotta tell him, 1133 01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:19,160 Speaker 1: so boy, get out off of them, stop pulling her half? 1134 01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:23,439 Speaker 1: Why y'all argut? Papa Rose won't let me well, your baby, 1135 01:14:23,479 --> 01:14:27,200 Speaker 1: you don't need to look in here. But I don't 1136 01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:32,679 Speaker 1: like pepper pig lass cartoon. I'm looking pig up in hill, Papa. 1137 01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:37,600 Speaker 1: Let's watch Pepper Pig Papa don't like understand Papa like 1138 01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:42,120 Speaker 1: watching Sports Center and seeing it and Netflix. That's what 1139 01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch, Brave Papa. I want to drink of that. 1140 01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:51,799 Speaker 1: You can't drink McCall and don't ask me, no damn Scotch, 1141 01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:55,960 Speaker 1: where is Marjorie? That's why they'd be having me watching that, Papa. 1142 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,800 Speaker 1: We want a bad time story. Your papa don't know. 1143 01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:05,519 Speaker 1: No damn what do you know? But they don't be 1144 01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:08,559 Speaker 1: They ain't none that kids post to hill? Do they 1145 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:10,880 Speaker 1: lead the kids with you? Like like lead the house 1146 01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:13,080 Speaker 1: and just yeah, you know, they'll go to No Booze 1147 01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:14,880 Speaker 1: or something. They know I don't want to go. Then 1148 01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:17,680 Speaker 1: they're watching, okay, watching kids, so I don't put them 1149 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:19,840 Speaker 1: in the movie theater room. I got the big screen. 1150 01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:23,720 Speaker 1: All I got cartoons, I mean, little movies, you know, 1151 01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:27,120 Speaker 1: the Incredibles and all this hill and they're gonna talk 1152 01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:32,200 Speaker 1: and ask questions all the damn Yeah, I leave, and 1153 01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,800 Speaker 1: then they're coming here and proper Emily Dan, who is 1154 01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:39,920 Speaker 1: Emmaly dog? I don't know none of these people right here. 1155 01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:43,439 Speaker 1: I don't like none. Then my kids because I'm bought 1156 01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:46,479 Speaker 1: all of them iPads, and Dad, we don't want our 1157 01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:49,400 Speaker 1: children raised on iPad. Quit dropping them off over here. 1158 01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,000 Speaker 1: But they need the iPad for they need somebody to 1159 01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:56,800 Speaker 1: talk to other than me. And see, your kids, aren't 1160 01:15:56,800 --> 01:16:00,280 Speaker 1: your grandkids vegan or something? Aren't there two of them vegan? 1161 01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:04,360 Speaker 1: That's another thing coming in here. Cary left VJ. Whitney 1162 01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:08,960 Speaker 1: one time. Yeah, well he came in my office. I 1163 01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:12,800 Speaker 1: was eating some ribs and I gave it, you know, 1164 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:18,160 Speaker 1: and he was just over Joe. His eyes got big, 1165 01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,320 Speaker 1: he kept looking at any. Didn't eat it a little 1166 01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:23,120 Speaker 1: bit more Guinny to look at it. Didn't he eat 1167 01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:26,360 Speaker 1: a little bit more? Carl came in here, Daddy, what 1168 01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:29,760 Speaker 1: did you give him? I said, eating the real He 1169 01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:34,920 Speaker 1: don't eat meat? I said, yes, he does right now. 1170 01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:38,519 Speaker 1: And we don't do that at our house. You ain't 1171 01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:45,000 Speaker 1: ask your house coming in here asking me many sit 1172 01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:49,320 Speaker 1: raise these kids. Watch these kids. I watched these kids 1173 01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:53,240 Speaker 1: like I won't to how long they've been in the 1174 01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:57,439 Speaker 1: water until they look like pruney. Keep coming up closing 1175 01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:03,400 Speaker 1: remarks right after this. You're list s all right, Steve. 1176 01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:08,280 Speaker 1: Here we are our last break of the day. It's 1177 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:13,720 Speaker 1: the last break up the day. Yes it is. And 1178 01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:17,800 Speaker 1: what are you doing? It's been a good day though, 1179 01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:23,200 Speaker 1: a good day. Oh you weren't. No, we're to it now. Okay, 1180 01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:27,920 Speaker 1: uh let me do this, you know. Um hey, uh, 1181 01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:30,400 Speaker 1: I got I got something I want to share with 1182 01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:35,960 Speaker 1: you all today. Um, you know today. When I woke 1183 01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:40,240 Speaker 1: up this morning, I had all because it was Super 1184 01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:44,240 Speaker 1: Bowl weekend and we were in Miami. I didn't do 1185 01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:49,760 Speaker 1: my usual meditation every morning, and I missed about three 1186 01:17:49,880 --> 01:17:52,400 Speaker 1: days in the row of my early morning meditation. I 1187 01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:54,680 Speaker 1: always get up is something I've been doing for a 1188 01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:59,360 Speaker 1: little while now. I started at last summer and I 1189 01:17:59,560 --> 01:18:02,200 Speaker 1: very really miss a day. I've been very very happy 1190 01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:06,320 Speaker 1: about that. The benefit of it is it gives me 1191 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:11,919 Speaker 1: a moment alone before the hectic part of the day begins, 1192 01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:15,400 Speaker 1: and before the phone starts ringing, and before I you know, 1193 01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,639 Speaker 1: I used to wake up and look at my emails 1194 01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:20,880 Speaker 1: and my text and get started. And I stopped doing that. 1195 01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 1: And it has been a big refresher for me and 1196 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:27,439 Speaker 1: my life because I just felt like I was starting 1197 01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:32,439 Speaker 1: my day wrong. I needed to have some spirituality brought 1198 01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:35,439 Speaker 1: into my life first thing in the morning. And I 1199 01:18:35,640 --> 01:18:38,400 Speaker 1: found that. Ever since this summer that has been a 1200 01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:41,560 Speaker 1: very very important aspect. It's been very calming for me. 1201 01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:47,479 Speaker 1: It has been very very invigorating. It has helped me 1202 01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,560 Speaker 1: change the way a lot of my days start. But 1203 01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:54,240 Speaker 1: that alone time that I sped having my spiritual moment 1204 01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,200 Speaker 1: with my creator is the way I've chosen to do it. 1205 01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:01,920 Speaker 1: I want to tell you are something if you haven't 1206 01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:05,840 Speaker 1: tried that, give it a try. It's something about the 1207 01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:10,479 Speaker 1: early morning hours before you start hearing trafficking, before you 1208 01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:15,080 Speaker 1: turn the TV on, or answer emails or texts. It's 1209 01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:18,719 Speaker 1: something about the quiet of early morning before the house 1210 01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 1: starts moving around, and plates clanging and stuff like that, 1211 01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:28,000 Speaker 1: and doors shutting. It's an amazing time to get in 1212 01:19:28,200 --> 01:19:33,439 Speaker 1: touch with your spirituality. And I suggest just give it 1213 01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:37,840 Speaker 1: a try. You know, it may not be for you. 1214 01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:41,479 Speaker 1: It may not. I don't. I don't know you, but 1215 01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:44,519 Speaker 1: it happens a lot. I was reading the scripture once 1216 01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:48,000 Speaker 1: doing this thing and it and it, and was saying 1217 01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:50,960 Speaker 1: that I'm paraphrasing it because it's showing't what it said exactly, 1218 01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:54,879 Speaker 1: but I will come with you in the early mornings 1219 01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:59,480 Speaker 1: and hear your cry. And so it's been very beneficial 1220 01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:05,599 Speaker 1: to me. And this morning in particular, after spending about 1221 01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:10,320 Speaker 1: three days not doing it, today I sat down and 1222 01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:15,519 Speaker 1: all I did in my journal, because I have a Bible, 1223 01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:18,639 Speaker 1: I have a daily devotional, I have a journal. All 1224 01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:21,960 Speaker 1: I did in my journal this morning was I began 1225 01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:28,560 Speaker 1: to write out everything I could think of that I 1226 01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:33,479 Speaker 1: wanted to thank him for. I just put a list 1227 01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:38,000 Speaker 1: of things I was grateful for. And the next thing 1228 01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:41,840 Speaker 1: I know, I had feeled up two pages, I mean 1229 01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:45,599 Speaker 1: two complete pages in my journal. You know. And now 1230 01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:49,040 Speaker 1: it's not a piece of notebook paper. You know, they're 1231 01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:52,800 Speaker 1: going to three ring binder, but it's it's a substantial 1232 01:20:52,880 --> 01:20:56,680 Speaker 1: piece of paper, and I filled it up because I 1233 01:20:56,960 --> 01:21:00,799 Speaker 1: was just I couldn't stop writing, and I was writing 1234 01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:06,080 Speaker 1: everything I'm thinking for safe passage in the airways. I 1235 01:21:06,280 --> 01:21:10,320 Speaker 1: thank him for my children's health. I thank him for guidance. 1236 01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:15,600 Speaker 1: I started thinking him for everything that he's done for 1237 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:18,439 Speaker 1: me that I pray about, and the things that I 1238 01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:20,719 Speaker 1: that he's done for me that I don't pray about. 1239 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,640 Speaker 1: I thank him for my breath. I thanked him for 1240 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,880 Speaker 1: my measure of health. I thanked him for being able 1241 01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: to have a lifestyle beyond my dreams. I was thanking 1242 01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:35,639 Speaker 1: him for the ability to dress myself. I was thanking 1243 01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:42,160 Speaker 1: him for meeting people, for taking on the mantra of 1244 01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:46,839 Speaker 1: two twenty twenty twenty of no complaints. I just decided 1245 01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:50,160 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty I didn't want to complain. So I've 1246 01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:52,760 Speaker 1: cut back on that. I haven't stopped completely. You know, 1247 01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:56,160 Speaker 1: I'm catching myself every now and then, but I've been 1248 01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,680 Speaker 1: so far. I've cut down on complaining drastically. And I 1249 01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:03,519 Speaker 1: thought thing for that, because instead of complaining whatever I 1250 01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:05,720 Speaker 1: feel like I want to complain about something, I find 1251 01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:08,360 Speaker 1: a way to be grateful. I find something to be 1252 01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:14,840 Speaker 1: grateful for. So I've I've replaced complaining with gratitude. Wow. Wow, 1253 01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:19,960 Speaker 1: what a game changer, What an amazing mental state that 1254 01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:24,720 Speaker 1: puts you in. If you could exchange complaining for gratitude. 1255 01:22:25,960 --> 01:22:33,280 Speaker 1: Gratitude is a very very underrated principle of success. Not 1256 01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:37,120 Speaker 1: many people talk about it. But the more grateful you are, 1257 01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:40,960 Speaker 1: the more things grateful God will give you to be 1258 01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:43,840 Speaker 1: grateful for. The more grateful you are, the more thing 1259 01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:46,400 Speaker 1: God God will give to you to be grateful for. 1260 01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:53,720 Speaker 1: That's a fact. That's a fact. And so I'm suggesting 1261 01:22:53,800 --> 01:23:00,519 Speaker 1: to everybody get up a little bit earlier and spend 1262 01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:06,519 Speaker 1: twenty minutes, fifteen minutes, let's start there. The more you 1263 01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:08,720 Speaker 1: can do, the better. But if you could start with 1264 01:23:09,000 --> 01:23:12,960 Speaker 1: ten quiet minutes with just you and you and God, 1265 01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:18,080 Speaker 1: and I don't care what faith you're in, just you 1266 01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:21,360 Speaker 1: and God. Just spend some time talking with him, thanking him, 1267 01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:24,160 Speaker 1: tell him what you want, tell him what you need, 1268 01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:28,160 Speaker 1: asking for the help that you want. But tell him 1269 01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:30,360 Speaker 1: you love him, and tell him you and tell him 1270 01:23:30,400 --> 01:23:32,559 Speaker 1: you're trying to get it right and you need some helping, 1271 01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:36,040 Speaker 1: and tell him what you want and thank him. It's 1272 01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:38,519 Speaker 1: an amazing way to start your day. Just give it 1273 01:23:38,560 --> 01:23:40,879 Speaker 1: a thought, y'all. That's all. Those are my close remarks. 1274 01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:58,320 Speaker 1: Um y'all have a great wicked for all. Steve. Every 1275 01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:01,840 Speaker 1: contest no purchase necessary, word where prohibited. 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