Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision.
Speaker 2: Welcome guys to another episode.
Speaker 1: Of Hungry Blaze your Oh my goodness, we are back
Speaker 1: at it again.
Speaker 2: Still sell a bit, probably not by the time y'all
Speaker 2: actually hear this episode because I am about to get fucked,
Speaker 2: but I am Mandy b Aka about to get fucked
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Speaker 3: What's the not she wants them to have kids? What's up, y'all,
Speaker 3: I'm weasy. Welcome back to another episode. A few things
Speaker 3: off the top. I feel very self healthy today. Okay,
Speaker 3: yesterday I had a day where I just spent a
Speaker 3: lot of time committed to Like sometimes we get advice
Speaker 3: about whether it be manifestation or listening to certain things,
Speaker 3: and I was like, Okay, I'm actually just gonna take
Speaker 3: all of those things do them instead of like bullshitting okay,
Speaker 3: kind of like how when people say they're gonna go
Speaker 3: to the gym, but they don't go, right, I feel,
Speaker 3: and I'm not saying that to be shady to anyone listening.
Speaker 3: I mean, like, sometimes we know we need to do
Speaker 3: it for our health, we know we need to do
Speaker 3: it for our mental but we don't so yesterday I
Speaker 3: just did all the things I said I was gonna do.
Speaker 1: And what were some of those things?
Speaker 3: So during some tough moments this year, I hit up
Speaker 3: all the people that I felt like had elevated within
Speaker 3: the last year, just right before my eyes, just like
Speaker 3: fucking blow up right. One of my homegirls recently started
Speaker 3: a new business and one of the things that she
Speaker 3: told me to do was start talking to myself more. Okay,
Speaker 3: and it sounds kind of looney to me, but the
Speaker 3: gin will hold you. She was like, the second you
Speaker 3: feel like a tear coming on or just something making
Speaker 3: you feel sad, you have to start talking to yourself.
Speaker 1: So literally, yesterday it started.
Speaker 3: Happening, and she was like, even if you feel stupid,
Speaker 3: you might like laugh at yourself, but you gotta do.
Speaker 3: I was like, bro, you are so beautiful. I like
Speaker 3: looked at myself in my own eyes in the mirror,
Speaker 3: and I was like, you're so beautiful. You work so hard,
Speaker 3: You're going to get everything you want. Questlove sent me
Speaker 3: mourning meditations and he was like, he is one of
Speaker 3: those people. And I don't know if anyone listens to
Speaker 3: quest Love Supreme. I don't listen to podcasts. But there's
Speaker 3: no way he doesn't talk about this because he's been
Speaker 3: this person since I've become his friend. He is so like,
Speaker 3: you have to wake up in the morning and have
Speaker 3: a routine or you're not going to be successful. If
Speaker 3: you think that you can even wake up and not
Speaker 3: show gratitude, not stretch, not do these things, you can't
Speaker 3: be a functional, successful being, period. And he's been saying
Speaker 3: that to me forever. So finally I did his morning
Speaker 3: meditation shit, and one of the things in the meditation
Speaker 3: it was saying something about picture the life that you want, like,
Speaker 3: meditate on what that life feels like, think about that
Speaker 3: feeling and transfer that feeling into your body right now.
Speaker 3: And I've done thatation meditation a few times, but maybe
Speaker 3: I was just more open to receive it. It's crazy,
Speaker 3: like I literally thought about I don't know what he
Speaker 3: looks like, I know he was, Like I thought about
Speaker 3: me being outside with Nina and my man, and mind you,
Speaker 3: I've been having a lot of these days with the
Speaker 3: dread dude on day and right, we'd go to the
Speaker 3: parking shit like that, but I just pictured dumb man
Speaker 3: and like, was it a man that you know already.
Speaker 3: I don't even know a face. I just know the
Speaker 3: way that it made me feel. And it was very intense,
Speaker 3: and I was like literally in the meditating smiling thinking
Speaker 3: about it.
Speaker 1: That's how real it felt to me. It felt so
Speaker 1: like at home.
Speaker 3: It felt like I knew who it was and it
Speaker 3: felt right, and like I don't know when that's going
Speaker 3: to be welcomed into my life, but I had to
Speaker 3: know how it feels like.
Speaker 1: And I think.
Speaker 3: Another thing I was doing I literally journaled in a bar.
Speaker 3: I was at smash Burger and I got a journal
Speaker 3: and I started journaling the things I want. And I'm
Speaker 3: really not scared to say it out loud, because I
Speaker 3: find that sometimes I get very shy about expressing the
Speaker 3: things I want out of love because I know how
Speaker 3: like sinister and lonely single bitches could feel. But when
Speaker 3: I was broke, I was talking about how rich I
Speaker 3: would be, and so if an amazing love is something
Speaker 3: I'm gonna welcome into my life, like I'm gonna talk
Speaker 3: about it the same way.
Speaker 1: There were so.
Speaker 3: Many moments where I remember even talking about my studio
Speaker 3: or the things I would want or the money I
Speaker 3: would want to make, and maybe somebody looked at me
Speaker 3: and like laughed about it.
Speaker 1: So that might be happening right now, but I can't.
Speaker 3: Give a fuck about it because that's just like what
Speaker 3: I'm destined to have. So when I was writing down
Speaker 3: the things that I want, it was interesting because number
Speaker 3: eleven was something that I talked to my way Andre
Speaker 3: last night about it, and I was like, am I
Speaker 3: a bird for wanting this? So the first ten things
Speaker 3: are things that are deeply intellectual and spiritual in what
Speaker 3: I wanted a person, and number eleven was very basic
Speaker 3: and it was someone I can party with. And I
Speaker 3: was like, Yo, do I not know what I want?
Speaker 3: Because is this why I'm being kept from a good
Speaker 3: relationship because I'm looking for niggas to party with. He's
Speaker 3: like no, but do you really think you want to party?
Speaker 3: Like is that where your brain is at? You think
Speaker 3: you'll be there? And I'm like, bro, Like, look at
Speaker 3: my mom. My mom was a studio fifty four girl.
Speaker 3: My mom is seventy two years old, right. My mom
Speaker 3: isn't party on the weekends, but if my mom and
Speaker 3: I are out together.
Speaker 1: She is the life of the party.
Speaker 2: I don't think that that's I think that a lot
Speaker 2: of women associate partying with the fun girl.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of relationships that I know now like that.
Speaker 2: I see they literally plan to go out and they'll
Speaker 2: go to clubs together, they'll go to dinners after.
Speaker 1: And I think, is that social or party? No, it's
Speaker 1: just them too.
Speaker 2: It's not for work, which that's that is what I identify
Speaker 2: as social.
Speaker 1: Social media is I'm going.
Speaker 2: To network, I gotta be around people, I gotta show face.
Speaker 2: They literally went to like uh and they're married, married
Speaker 2: couple went to Habibie, which is this news place in Brooklyn,
Speaker 2: and then literally went to the rooftop, went to hookah
Speaker 2: and literally bounced around, had a good ass time. I
Speaker 2: remember that outside of the sex club, me and my
Speaker 2: ex used to do like and I think that that
Speaker 2: was a part of the things that I enjoyed like.
Speaker 2: It doesn't Partying has defined differently. Doesn't have to mean club.
Speaker 2: It could mean it could mean Sunday football, were going out,
Speaker 2: we gonna watch the game. We're just gonna be out
Speaker 2: around people and talk to me. And so the idea
Speaker 2: that I think you have to get out of the
Speaker 2: phase of or the mindset that partying is a part
Speaker 2: of and an attribute that lowers the value of a woman,
Speaker 2: which normally again the party girl, the fun girl. When
Speaker 2: we think of someone who constantly parties in the street,
Speaker 2: it's deemed as you in the street.
Speaker 3: So I realized why I've been enjoying the relationship I'm
Speaker 3: having with the dread niggas so much. The most fun
Speaker 3: relationship I was in was obay me and that nigga
Speaker 3: just knew how to move bro, Like it's just it
Speaker 3: is what it is. Like there wasn't a dull moment.
Speaker 3: We'd be in the bed in the Lower East Side
Speaker 3: and he'd be like, all right, let's go to let
Speaker 3: like and it happened to me and throughout the other day,
Speaker 3: like we had a great day. We were biking, we
Speaker 3: were doing shit, and I was like so and like,
Speaker 3: I don't know if anything is bad about it. But
Speaker 3: one thing he did say to me that made me
Speaker 3: feel a little like insecure, Not like he was saying
Speaker 3: it as a shot to me, but I realized, Oh,
Speaker 3: I wonder if I've seen this with other men. He
Speaker 3: was like, damn, Like, have we had like a chill night?
Speaker 3: Have we ever like watched a movie together? Mind you,
Speaker 3: this Nigga's flown to La to be with me, and no,
Speaker 3: I've never watched a movie with him, Like, I've never
Speaker 3: just chilled. And I was like, uh now, I will say,
Speaker 3: as someone that's by coastal, maybe we just have to
Speaker 3: make the most of shit. But bro, like we're moving,
Speaker 3: we're doing have an event, or it's just something going on,
Speaker 3: or he's taking me somewhere. It's always something active and
Speaker 3: I'm hitting me like Hospital Dick is a man and really,
Speaker 3: like truly, when I'm journaling, Vicious is in a bar,
Speaker 3: like I'm thinking about the men that I've dated and
Speaker 3: why I loved them, Why what was something that they lacked?
Speaker 3: In Hospital Dick was the man that filled me the
Speaker 3: most and poured into me the most, But he was
Speaker 3: I didn't have fun with him like that, I really didn't.
Speaker 3: He was next level love, right, like sending me fucking
Speaker 3: poetry and just making me feel like love of my
Speaker 3: life type shit, But it wasn't the same like he
Speaker 3: was a He wasn't like so much of a hood
Speaker 3: nigga more than he was Like, my bitch is lit
Speaker 3: and if someone comes up to her and starts talking
Speaker 3: to her at a bar, I gotta protect her type
Speaker 3: of guy instead of like smiley face ah ah. I'm
Speaker 3: thinking about when I was out with the dread nigga
Speaker 3: that the night, and it reminded me of Old Bay
Speaker 3: because boom, we go out of dinner at seven o'clock
Speaker 3: like it's we in the street. So and that shit
Speaker 3: is fun and shit to me, it's a very New
Speaker 3: York night. It's something that makes me love this city.
Speaker 3: And no it's not every time, but I realize this
Speaker 3: is a fucking quality that I need in the person
Speaker 3: i'm dating. So literally, when I'm on a date with
Speaker 3: a guy, and it's terrible because I'm talking to my
Speaker 3: guy friends about what I want and I'm trying to
Speaker 3: see what they read in me.
Speaker 1: And Alex was.
Speaker 3: Like, you keep looking for fuck niggas, you keep looking
Speaker 3: produce the party with you can't. The reason you can't
Speaker 3: have a boyfriend is because you don't want the guys
Speaker 3: that are just chill. I'm like, bro, but they don't
Speaker 3: suit me. Who's going to fucking hop on a plane
Speaker 3: with me? The homebody nigga that don't want to leave.
Speaker 3: What if I have four days off, I'm like, baby,
Speaker 3: let's go to Mexico. The fun Nigga's gonna go, so
Speaker 3: this isn't so again.
Speaker 2: I just think that there's negative attributes being being added
Speaker 2: to those things. Like when we think of a partner,
Speaker 2: we want a partner that's at least got similar interests.
Speaker 2: This is just one of those similar interests that you
Speaker 2: have that you're like, I want someone to match that energy.
Speaker 1: Like, I know we talk about opposites of t a lot.
Speaker 2: But if this is one of those things that you
Speaker 2: really like, you can find a partner that's really into
Speaker 2: that as well.
Speaker 3: And I look at my parents' relationship a lot as
Speaker 3: the pinnacle of what I want, not just a man
Speaker 3: to take care of me, because I'm not necessarily looking
Speaker 3: for that. I'm very independent, not saying my mother is
Speaker 3: super dependent, but she's just very much like my man
Speaker 3: is handling this right. I thought about my father and
Speaker 3: how passive he is and how chill he is about
Speaker 3: my mom going out and he doesn't have to be there.
Speaker 3: But then I'm actually thinking back and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: my dad is the introvert, but never was my mom
Speaker 3: out and my dad wasn't dancing with her or wasn't
Speaker 3: smiling at her having fun. I mean, my dad is
Speaker 3: in a wheelchair now, But I remember that shit like
Speaker 3: getting up being excited about how his wife was the
Speaker 3: life of the part, like that, I do need it,
Speaker 3: And so you.
Speaker 2: Just what it sounds like is what I realized was
Speaker 2: happening with me. You just want someone that's not going
Speaker 2: to dim your life. You want someone that's literally just
Speaker 2: going to accept you for you. You don't want to
Speaker 2: take away the joys of your life, the things that
Speaker 2: bring you happiness. That is actually a basic ask for
Speaker 2: a relationship and for someone that you deem should love you.
Speaker 2: And that's the thing too, Like in dating, I think
Speaker 2: like we have these ideas of the wifey material or
Speaker 2: the girl who's gonna get cuffed or wiped, or what
Speaker 2: is deemed as the right type of behavior to be
Speaker 2: a girlfriend or a wife or a mother. A lot
Speaker 2: of those things are going out the window now. But
Speaker 2: if this is something that you enjoy, I guarantee you,
Speaker 2: because these niggas like doing it, They like being outside.
Speaker 2: If you're someone that they enjoy being around, they're not
Speaker 2: gonna mind going to the club and partying with you
Speaker 2: as well.
Speaker 3: But also, I think what is conflicting and interesting when
Speaker 3: I'm thinking about this. It's like I really do believe
Speaker 3: to most men, I don't think settling down. They don't
Speaker 3: want the girl that's necessarily house. So I think it's
Speaker 3: a very small pool for that.
Speaker 2: That's someone that we already both swimming in small pool
Speaker 2: and we really think about it.
Speaker 1: The pools are small, bitch. We swimming in box. We
Speaker 1: swimming in the little.
Speaker 2: Kiddie pools that you gotta blow up and guess what,
Speaker 2: it's so old school.
Speaker 1: There ain't no pump, Bitch. We in the pools where
Speaker 1: you gotta but.
Speaker 2: You gotta blow it and then you might have to
Speaker 2: take a break and come back.
Speaker 1: That's the type of pools we swimming in, bitch. So
Speaker 1: you just gotta know it's very much above ground. Kit
Speaker 1: you gonna be hard. But like it's crazy.
Speaker 3: Because you know what I did not write down, and
Speaker 3: I was like going through it, which I wrote nothing
Speaker 3: down about him having money in this list ten years ago,
Speaker 3: five years ago. Money was almost first. I remember some
Speaker 3: of the things I wrote. I want them to be
Speaker 3: weird to someone else and not me. I want them
Speaker 3: to be alternative in some way. I brought up attractive
Speaker 3: and like the first three lines I brought up smarter
Speaker 3: than me.
Speaker 1: It would be my first three lines too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, but like shallow as a bitch was
Speaker 3: fucking a nigga right now that like I just want
Speaker 3: to fuck all the time because he's so.
Speaker 1: Fine to me.
Speaker 2: Oh, I know, I would have been in jail if
Speaker 2: I got played the way I did by an ugly nigga.
Speaker 1: I would have been like, yo.
Speaker 2: My nigga gotta be fine, and it's this is the
Speaker 2: mental fuck of it all. Okay, I'm gonna excuse his
Speaker 2: nutty ass boy behavior because he's fine.
Speaker 1: I knew what I was signing up for. A ugly nigga.
Speaker 1: Try me, bitch. I'm a snapped.
Speaker 3: I mean because it's like you really you you you
Speaker 3: really fumbled me and you not okayway alternative was on
Speaker 3: there in whatever way that is, I don't know, but
Speaker 3: I realized.
Speaker 1: That you don't have an a Polish we know.
Speaker 3: No, maybe he doesn't, but like maybe he's just a
Speaker 3: weird ass fucking nigga that doesn't like normal shit. Whether
Speaker 3: it be music or he's had a fucking weird ass interest,
Speaker 3: I don't know, but like something about it that makes
Speaker 3: him different. Also, I think another thing I wrote on
Speaker 3: there is like taking serious pleasure in my elevation. And
Speaker 3: I've noticed with my closer friends how they take pleasure
Speaker 3: in my wins and accesses. And I'm not saying Old
Speaker 3: Day never did that, but I've known certain men over
Speaker 3: others to be like, fuck yeah, bitch, you fucking doing
Speaker 3: it like you know? And I love that energy from
Speaker 3: a man, which is really wild.
Speaker 2: That would probably be top three for me now because
Speaker 2: I didn't get it, because I've realized how draining it
Speaker 2: was to be with someone who, in moments that I
Speaker 2: was elated, found a reason to argue, found a reason
Speaker 2: to make me feel sad because the relationship wasn't where
Speaker 2: I wanted. I want someone who for sure can be
Speaker 2: around and pour into me, and maybe someone who sees
Speaker 2: more in me than I see in.
Speaker 1: Myself, because bitch, I'll see a lot of myself.
Speaker 2: So if I can get a man around me that
Speaker 2: doesn't sit here like, I'll never forget it. There was
Speaker 2: and may I may have said it on this pod.
Speaker 2: There's one thing that was said to me that when
Speaker 2: I've shared it with other men, they're like, oh, he
Speaker 2: was a hater. I remember we got together. I started
Speaker 2: the box, I started the pod with Bridget, I got
Speaker 2: the show with MTV. I'm doing all these things, and
Speaker 2: it was all literally things I said I wanted to do.
Speaker 2: And I remember hearing you better keep asking for what
Speaker 2: you want now because this doesn't last forever. Literally, I
Speaker 2: was told that this is a moment in your life.
Speaker 2: I'm seeing you get everything you want this shit, this
Speaker 2: shit ain't gonna be forever, so you better keep asking
Speaker 2: because you may be in a moment where all of
Speaker 2: you lose all of it. That was said to me
Speaker 2: in a moment where I was like, so, first off,
Speaker 2: I was busting my ass. Second of all, I was
Speaker 2: in a place of like, Wow, this guy's the limit.
Speaker 2: I'm doing things I would have never fucking imagined, and
Speaker 2: you're telling me that there's a time limit on this
Speaker 2: and that I.
Speaker 1: Need to go ahead and just hurry up and get whatever.
Speaker 2: You believed it bro he said that to me, I
Speaker 2: say it and even and I don't know in what
Speaker 2: in what experiences he's had where maybe he's seen someone
Speaker 2: get everything and lose it all after, but he literally
Speaker 2: was like, I've sat here and seen you manifest the
Speaker 2: things that you want in life. You don't know when
Speaker 2: it's gonna end, but it's gonna end, so you better
Speaker 2: get everything you want now. And a part of one
Speaker 2: of our bigger breakups was after AVN. He made me,
Speaker 2: although he came with me there, made me feel really
Speaker 2: bad for us being a part of AVN and was
Speaker 2: like brought up like the whiteness of it and was like, oh,
Speaker 2: but it's just sex. Is that where you want to
Speaker 2: be for your whole life? And oh, why aren't you
Speaker 2: doing this? And was like we went, we elevated, were
Speaker 2: accepting a nomination. We looked beautiful, we looked beautiful, we
Speaker 2: felt beautiful. Even though we left after the first nominee.
Speaker 2: We got to be a part of building the elevation
Speaker 2: of what this show was that we've been doing it
Speaker 2: for seven years.
Speaker 1: And this is something that I was saying to you.
Speaker 3: I went on a date I was saying with someone
Speaker 3: super rich and famous, and one of the things we
Speaker 3: were talking about together, I was like, I don't even
Speaker 3: need this nigga to be like hell, I need them
Speaker 3: to just fucking thrive in their work, be really good
Speaker 3: at what they do to where they're stealing so much fulfillment.
Speaker 3: You know, Old Bay was making great money but I
Speaker 3: could tell he was bored, you know, but like, great,
Speaker 3: we lived a life we live. But also, and this
Speaker 3: is no shade to him, I also think he's a
Speaker 3: piece of shit, and you know, I hate him, but
Speaker 3: I think he was just more passionate about life than work.
Speaker 3: And in that particular point in my life, I had
Speaker 3: a passion and it was my work.
Speaker 1: So that was kind of out of alignment. Mind you
Speaker 1: bitch saying I was with a fucking retired nigga and
Speaker 1: that can be difficult. And he was like, I lived
Speaker 1: my life and I'm here you are just which is okay,
Speaker 1: it's not can at least, but the parallel.
Speaker 2: I don't think we think of where are our partners
Speaker 2: at in their life?
Speaker 1: Like I don't.
Speaker 2: I think when we draw lists, phase are you in?
Speaker 2: What phase are you in in your life? We know
Speaker 2: we've talked about building bear niggas, We've talked about holding
Speaker 2: niggas out. We've talked about maybe meeting someone young and
Speaker 2: knowing that they have a lot of growing to do.
Speaker 1: They have a lot of growth to do, even maybe
Speaker 1: in their job.
Speaker 2: I think now me being with someone who was retired
Speaker 2: and like I did all the work I could do.
Speaker 1: I'm making my pension. I have this, this is me.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize the resentment of Oh, he's at a
Speaker 2: place where his life work wise has ended. He feels
Speaker 2: like he's worked his blue collar, white collar, whatever job
Speaker 2: he's worked at for the twenty plus years of his life.
Speaker 2: He's now in a place where he's receiving the fruits
Speaker 2: of his labor.
Speaker 1: I'm in a grind mode.
Speaker 2: I'm not even halfway where I want to be. And
Speaker 2: I realized that it doesn't matter where he's at an industry,
Speaker 2: right he could work corporate, he could be somewhere else.
Speaker 2: He doesn't have to be in my industry at all.
Speaker 2: But I need the grind. I need to be able
Speaker 2: to have someone to understand the struggles of a setback
Speaker 2: or really being in a place where you're excelling and
Speaker 2: now you're thinking, Okay, damn, reach this goal.
Speaker 1: Let me move the goalpost a little bit. I realized that.
Speaker 2: I need someone that's in that same place so that
Speaker 2: we can sit here and root.
Speaker 1: Each other on.
Speaker 3: It is a little bit difficult when you are with
Speaker 3: someone that doesn't necessarily have your same tenacity in that
Speaker 3: but yeah, you know, and I don't even know if
Speaker 3: it was an incompatibility with Obay at all, like he
Speaker 3: was definitely making enough money. And I don't know. But
Speaker 3: what you're saying, yeah, I don't know. There's a few
Speaker 3: things that have shown me recently through the men i've
Speaker 3: been dating what I like. I was at Cadence, that
Speaker 3: restaurant that I shouted out, and when we were sitting
Speaker 3: in there, I was with the nigga that took me.
Speaker 3: He was a Dreadonaean and some fans were there and
Speaker 3: he looked at me and he was like like, this
Speaker 3: is power, Like do you feel that? And I'm laughing
Speaker 3: because this is just in my brain. My friends I've
Speaker 3: never met before. I know they listened to the podcast.
Speaker 3: Y'all ain't have no right Tello Weezy.
Speaker 2: I left because I didn't want vegan food and he was.
Speaker 1: Cool, but you know she didn't. She not only was
Speaker 1: the big and they didn't have a bar, and so
Speaker 1: I felt. But I know they had costals and of
Speaker 1: our day.
Speaker 3: I'm in this brain of it, and I really want
Speaker 3: people to tell them to hear this when they are
Speaker 3: talking to someone that they feel may need some words
Speaker 3: of encouragement. He told me that I need to start
Speaker 3: seeing myself in the way other people see me. And
Speaker 3: I think that that's a great compliment to give someone
Speaker 3: when you know there's someone who's liked, because I definitely
Speaker 3: don't underestimate like influence and influencer shit.
Speaker 1: I think it's silly, but what he said that to me.
Speaker 1: There was another man that week who's a friend of
Speaker 1: mine who told me that he loved watching me. And
Speaker 1: I was telling you this on the plane. He was like,
Speaker 1: do you see how lovable you are?
Speaker 3: You're so easy to love, Like if you don't, people
Speaker 3: don't know have to know what horrible is or weezy er,
Speaker 3: they don't care like you're lovable. And I think that
Speaker 3: when you're someone uh maybe it could sound like I'm
Speaker 3: being insecure, but when you're someone that's kind of finding
Speaker 3: their way, men that recognize that in you and that
Speaker 3: encourage you are definitely keepers and make sure you're opening
Speaker 3: your ears and your heart up to those people, because
Speaker 3: Nigga's got to really give a fuck about you to
Speaker 3: talk to you like that. It's not something to me
Speaker 3: that is like real basic bitch, like you could do it,
Speaker 3: Like that's a real thing to say to someone and
Speaker 3: a kind thing, and when dating, if you're seeing that
Speaker 3: in the person that you're dating, make sure you're that
Speaker 3: person that, to me, is what will separate you from
Speaker 3: the pack. I also wanted to know what you thought
Speaker 3: about this other thing I put on my list. On
Speaker 3: the list, I put someone that is communicating how they
Speaker 3: feel about me. Do you think that you need, if
Speaker 3: actions are being shown, someone to tell you that they
Speaker 3: feeling you, that they're fucking with you? Or do you
Speaker 3: think actions are enough? This goes to what your kink
Speaker 3: is you like affirming? I want to see actions.
Speaker 1: What are your love languages?
Speaker 2: I think I think they change. I think acces of
Speaker 2: service is now absolutely number one. Physical touch would be
Speaker 2: number two. Then I would say it's I've added it
Speaker 2: back because I feel like I lacked it in my
Speaker 2: last relationship. I want gifts again.
Speaker 1: Bitch, bitch shower me.
Speaker 2: I realized that that's been a thing that I've even
Speaker 2: been asking. And then what are the other two?
Speaker 1: I said? Physical acts of service like I don't need.
Speaker 2: I don't need I don't need words of affirmation and
Speaker 2: quality time is actually where I feel like I've lacked
Speaker 2: with my last partner because work has come first. Then
Speaker 2: friends and so quality time, I'll squeeze it in. And
Speaker 2: I know that that was a problem. I'll pencil quality
Speaker 2: time in because that fits around my entire schedule. I'll
Speaker 2: pencil you in, but everything else comes first. So but
Speaker 2: to me, acts of service making my life less stressful,
Speaker 2: bringing peace to me, touching me, caressing me, holding me,
Speaker 2: modeling totally changed. Yeah, now number five, Oh yeah, that's
Speaker 2: number five for me.
Speaker 3: It just went to number one, Okay, And I think
Speaker 3: it's because I've been so happy with the person that
Speaker 3: I'm dating, and I'm like, what is making me so happy?
Speaker 1: One it's the time that I'm spending.
Speaker 3: And two it's the attention, Like he's very attentive when
Speaker 3: you getting me time, kissing me, touching me.
Speaker 1: Like that's a physical touch. Hands that number two.
Speaker 3: But I think he's just making a lot of good
Speaker 3: use of the quality time. It's not just a but
Speaker 3: it's like a really big connect.
Speaker 1: That's my thing.
Speaker 2: If we have the time together, make it like I
Speaker 2: want it to be amazing, which is why, like I
Speaker 2: think we would do beach days. We would you know,
Speaker 2: do literally dinner, then a bar, then end up at
Speaker 2: the sex club and it would literally be a night
Speaker 2: that started at five o'clock and ended five in the morning,
Speaker 2: it would be the entire time.
Speaker 1: But I think that.
Speaker 2: It I didn't feel good the next day, and I
Speaker 2: still had to get up and work like he was retired.
Speaker 2: So the idea of us having these rock star nights
Speaker 2: and then me having to come in and record or nigga,
Speaker 2: you don't fuck my throat to death, I gotta talk. Like,
Speaker 2: I realized there was a bit of resentment because I
Speaker 2: just sometimes I just wanted to be in the house.
Speaker 3: Dude, I think I'm gonna say this and like, seriously
Speaker 3: mean this. Maybe old niggas on't for me because and
Speaker 3: that's some of the entrepreneurial shit that like, I kind
Speaker 3: of got to see you get up.
Speaker 1: I really don't like when men don't have a schedule.
Speaker 2: No, and well, and then also I realized, and this
Speaker 2: is I worked through it, y'all. I realized it probably
Speaker 2: wasn't good to me because I know you're not as
Speaker 2: busy as me.
Speaker 1: If he had a schedule or anything to do, you
Speaker 1: didn't take it serious. What the fuck you got to do?
Speaker 1: That's a little mean.
Speaker 2: And it could be and I'm very aware of that.
Speaker 2: You don't have a job, you don't have kids.
Speaker 1: Like, what the fuck you got to do? So what
Speaker 1: did he diely off? I don't know.
Speaker 2: You have a funerals, go to funerals and fly to
Speaker 2: Panama off for suits. So like, again clearly there was
Speaker 2: he was juggling and sign with other women. But like
Speaker 2: that's probably where my discomfort came in. You're lying, what
Speaker 2: the fuck do you really got to do? Where you
Speaker 2: really got to go? Damn bitch, And so like, nah,
Speaker 2: you niggas need a routine and I don't. I would like,
Speaker 2: and I've been saying it, I actually would not mind
Speaker 2: when when niggas off in my comments and they hop
Speaker 2: on here ooh, y'all wouldn't take no regular nigga. I
Speaker 2: actually don't mind a man having a schedule. I don't
Speaker 2: mind a man. I don't mind a man being a
Speaker 2: part of a fucking book club if he has to be.
Speaker 2: I would be okay with a man having some sort
Speaker 2: of routine and schedule because also that may come from
Speaker 2: a control factor where bitch, because if you steer beer off, bitch.
Speaker 1: What you're doing. Like I'd like, I didn't mind a
Speaker 1: man having.
Speaker 3: Aub Now, ladies, I just want to say, if you
Speaker 3: don't have necessarily a passion like we just brought up passion,
Speaker 3: maybe I don't know, maybe you're a call center. Maybe
Speaker 3: you're doing something that kind of isn't you think Nigga's gating.
Speaker 1: Maybe something that that package of baby.
Speaker 3: Maybe you have a job that's like office or something
Speaker 3: where you're not moving too much. I want to say
Speaker 3: this because I think it would be important for you
Speaker 3: to know having an extracurricular thing that you do is
Speaker 3: very attractive. I will say he did used to do that,
Speaker 3: he used to run, okay, would he would work out
Speaker 3: with his brother, like there was a healthcare gym routine.
Speaker 1: That's nice and I do like that.
Speaker 3: If you think if you listen to the Poor of
Speaker 3: Mines episode with Mandy and I and you heard us
Speaker 3: talk about or heard me talk about a man that
Speaker 3: I know that's a millionaire that's dating a girl that
Speaker 3: works at a We're not gonna say a retail store,
Speaker 3: a retail store. I'm gonna tell y'all what he told
Speaker 3: me last fucking week. And that episode was recorded a
Speaker 3: once a month ago. I was like, with by the
Speaker 3: time they hear it is two months ago.
Speaker 1: Maybe I was like, what's up.
Speaker 3: You'll been still working da da da, and he was like, bro,
Speaker 3: he was like yeah, Like it's crazy because she has
Speaker 3: like sometimes off hours and she does have a higher
Speaker 3: position in the job than I thought. The retail chain
Speaker 3: is kind of basic, bitch, but she does a decent
Speaker 3: job in it, right, so he said, but she's just
Speaker 3: hewa busy this week. And I was like do I
Speaker 3: want and he was like, we're learning Japanese right now.
Speaker 3: I was like really why. He's like, she's just really
Speaker 3: into uh watching uh anime and learning about it, and
Speaker 3: she just thinks it's just something she wants to do.
Speaker 1: And I was like, wow, so you know you got
Speaker 1: to take her to Japan, right.
Speaker 3: He's like, oh, Like now I'm excited to like take
Speaker 3: her not only to like Japanese, right, they.
Speaker 1: About to do amass to death. I love you. I
Speaker 1: want her to understand what this means.
Speaker 3: Even when we're having oh macasse, why certain traditional things happen,
Speaker 3: Like I'm telling you when I'm listening to him talk
Speaker 3: and it's so funny because we were kind of making
Speaker 3: fun of him for not doing enough.
Speaker 1: This man is so just enthralled by her and he's like.
Speaker 3: Bro, another bitch on my line is making a million
Speaker 3: dollars through some fucking clothing brand she got. Men do
Speaker 3: not care about how much money we make, right, But
Speaker 3: he said to me, the girl is making mad bread.
Speaker 1: And he was like, you know she's an entrepreneur. She's
Speaker 1: like killing it with his clothing. Rent. I'll tell you
Speaker 1: she is a minute. You know what she is. Most
Speaker 1: of us know who she is.
Speaker 3: He's like, but I don't know anything else she does
Speaker 3: her self. He's like, she's beautiful, Like the bitch works out,
Speaker 3: but like, I don't know she can't work out be
Speaker 3: for self. But because he said he doesn't think that
Speaker 3: she's doing anything beyond vanity. He's like, it's just you're
Speaker 3: a baddie. You make money being bad until you sell
Speaker 3: gym clothes and like that's why you're bad. And he's like,
Speaker 3: but like, I don't know if she learns anything. He's like,
Speaker 3: never has she told me she went on a trip
Speaker 3: because she wanted to explore her And he's like, this
Speaker 3: is just different for me.
Speaker 1: And he's like, this girl's fucking different.
Speaker 2: But it's not that she's It's what we talked about
Speaker 2: in the very beginning that may be something he does.
Speaker 2: So now you've met someone who is doing something in
Speaker 2: the same lane of what you like. Because just because
Speaker 2: I'll be honest with you, the way you used to
Speaker 2: speak about the gym, the way the gym has now
Speaker 2: become a part of my my healing and my mental health.
Speaker 2: I would hate for a god to be like, yeah,
Speaker 2: but the gym is for vanity. That's become something that
Speaker 2: actually makes me feel good. I'm going to classes, like
Speaker 2: I think, I don't like that, the putting into buckets
Speaker 2: what things matter to people and what don't. And so
Speaker 2: to see here and say she's doing things just for vanity.
Speaker 2: The gym was a place I never really liked. It's
Speaker 2: now something that I go at the end. We meditate,
Speaker 2: we do the we do all the things.
Speaker 3: Maybe and I enjoyed it for someone and you discussed
Speaker 3: that with them, you'd know, right, Like we don't miss
Speaker 3: necessarily know the ins and outside.
Speaker 1: Everyone to the gym to get a six pack.
Speaker 2: I mean maybe something that now allows me to disconnect
Speaker 2: for an hour.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's you.
Speaker 3: Though, right, So, like I think if someone's dating someone,
Speaker 3: they know when they're that type of person, Like shout
Speaker 3: out to Kayla Nicole Kayla has is a fitness girl.
Speaker 3: She's you know, talks about her fitness journey online and
Speaker 3: I literally was reading something she said the other day
Speaker 3: and I see why people get very inspired by that,
Speaker 3: because she was like, Oh, this is like the thing
Speaker 3: that's getting my body alive today, like we got to
Speaker 3: be grateful for mobility, Like this is really working my brain.
Speaker 3: And I was like, damn, I feel that alignment, Like
Speaker 3: I really do just like what you're saying. But I'm
Speaker 3: bringing all this up to say, there are so many
Speaker 3: ways to where we can become a better person for
Speaker 3: ourselves and somebody else will be watching you and inspired
Speaker 3: by that. And especially when it's in a romantic relationship.
Speaker 3: I just think we very seldom hear that. I don't
Speaker 3: really get to hear my homeboys talk about women in
Speaker 3: that way. They're normally talking about how bad they are
Speaker 3: or whatever it is. So I just kind of like
Speaker 3: that because when I hear about people talking about people
Speaker 3: like that, it's normally girls talking about niggas they met.
Speaker 3: It's very rarely mena like wow, she is xyz. I
Speaker 3: feel like we're always looking at some dude on this pedestal.
Speaker 3: So I just love hearing men appreciate women in that way,
Speaker 3: and I think we got to start doing that shit
Speaker 3: for ourselves, ladies, not just to catch a nigga, but
Speaker 3: on some real shit to.
Speaker 1: Have something else. I feel you. I want to learn
Speaker 1: Japanese now too.
Speaker 2: Well, let's get into our vanilla shit, y'all. Vanilla ship
Speaker 2: for this week is a debate that is probably WPS,
Speaker 2: but actually it's probably everyone because they are now having
Speaker 2: a debate regarding this is from the New York Post
Speaker 2: whether you should.
Speaker 1: Shower before sex.
Speaker 2: This debate is coming amidst the bedbug infestation that has
Speaker 2: taken place in Europe because it has moved from friends
Speaker 2: to more places and is also being traveled because it's
Speaker 2: at the airport size heat.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think alcohol and terminators.
Speaker 2: So there's a blogger by the name of Karla Balucci
Speaker 2: who is urging people to freshen up before hitting the
Speaker 2: sheets and adding that it could help prevent the spread
Speaker 2: of the blood sucking parasites. I don't want anything smelling
Speaker 2: bread anything for me. It has to be clean. If not,
Speaker 2: I get the ick. Even if I had to sit
Speaker 2: in the sink, I would do it. Just freshen up.
Speaker 2: I would be uncomfortable otherwise. She said that being clean
Speaker 2: has made for more enjoyable sexual experiences overall, and wasn't
Speaker 2: just to prevent the spread of bed bugs.
Speaker 3: Did you know that bed bugs like remember when we
Speaker 3: were growing up and they said, lice can't get into
Speaker 3: black people's hair.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, it's because of a lot of the times,
Speaker 1: it's because of the products. They're like a dry environment and.
Speaker 2: Because of the and I learned this, well, well, well
Speaker 2: they don't like the grease.
Speaker 1: They don't. So the things that we perms grease lice.
Speaker 1: I thought it was because it was the the hair
Speaker 1: was straight, and they can.
Speaker 2: It's not even about it's not about the coarseness of
Speaker 2: the hair, it's about it.
Speaker 1: So they feed on the scalp. They don't feed on
Speaker 1: the hair.
Speaker 2: So it's the fact that, mind you, which is why
Speaker 2: it's connected now to PCOS cancer and all these things.
Speaker 2: A lot of the products that we put in our
Speaker 2: hair to relax it or just to grease it down,
Speaker 2: literally clog the pores of our scalp. Lice eat on
Speaker 2: blood and they're they're eating out of your scalp. So
Speaker 2: it's not the hair. Sorry, if y'all this is what
Speaker 2: I was gonna say. Yeah, So that's what it is.
Speaker 2: It's not about the texture of our hair. It's the
Speaker 2: products that we put in our hair.
Speaker 3: You.
Speaker 1: Uh okay, what was I gonna say? Uh okay? Yeah.
Speaker 1: Met this girl.
Speaker 3: I think she works at a place called Laca Fella
Speaker 3: in La and she was like, girl, you're not gonna
Speaker 3: believe some of the ship that people come with in
Speaker 3: the dreads. Oh of course, She's like, head buds are
Speaker 3: the number one.
Speaker 1: Thing and they're dreads. She's interesting, she said, to.
Speaker 3: Cut off hair. I winded up just when you said that.
Speaker 3: I went to a Japanese headspot in La. When you
Speaker 3: talked about clogged four mm. I don't know if y'all
Speaker 3: seen these videos I did. Were they massaged they head
Speaker 3: for forty five minutes.
Speaker 1: Bro. They put a camera. It was only like a
Speaker 1: hundred bucks.
Speaker 3: They put a camera, a little camera in my head
Speaker 3: to show me the follicles before baste. She was looking
Speaker 3: gunked up, and I was like, damn, I guess you
Speaker 3: have braids and you put a lot of products in
Speaker 3: your hair, probably.
Speaker 1: But like, I don't even really. I think it was
Speaker 1: just like old.
Speaker 3: Gel from like literally that day of washed my hair
Speaker 3: with the braids in it and was showing me the
Speaker 3: follicles after it, Like my scalp looked different.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 3: She also talked about how the center of your head,
Speaker 3: if it's like red or tense like that means you
Speaker 3: gonna have liver or heart problems. Oh yeah, bro, it's crazy.
Speaker 1: It's the same thing with reflexology.
Speaker 2: When you go and get your put your feet in
Speaker 2: the water and it changes colors, they can tell you
Speaker 2: about your body. I wanted to know because we've talked
Speaker 2: about it now we don't really think of bed bugs
Speaker 2: before fucking a nigga that turned us on and things
Speaker 2: like that. So I want to know if you're out
Speaker 2: all day, you're going on dates now, is it a
Speaker 2: task for either of y'all to shower before having sex
Speaker 2: or getting into the bed or fucking on the couch er?
Speaker 1: Is that a thing?
Speaker 2: I remember saying. One of the most sexiest things that
Speaker 2: my last party used to.
Speaker 1: Do was it didn't matter what we were doing, where.
Speaker 2: We were at he washed his fucking hands because a
Speaker 2: lot of our sex started with a lot of touching,
Speaker 2: fingering things like that. Oh no, I've from a finger
Speaker 2: as soon as you come into the house, wash your
Speaker 2: fucking hands. But I'll be honest, bitch, we did not
Speaker 2: shower after every time, or we could be out, we
Speaker 2: could be watching Sunday football. I've been so where I
Speaker 2: see niggas. Now, oh, bitch, you don't with your game
Speaker 2: now where he probably showered. I came from the game
Speaker 2: and met you at the hotel after. Like, I'm not
Speaker 2: showering in between.
Speaker 3: I only shower after, like when I'm with a nigga,
Speaker 3: like if we were in a club normally, if I'm
Speaker 3: going like dinner or something like that, like I was
Speaker 3: clean before then we start fucking.
Speaker 1: But and I'm not saying I only shower out.
Speaker 2: I don't believe shower. But if I have to go
Speaker 2: to your hotel room, I might make at a wet
Speaker 2: rag and literally just not even no soap because I
Speaker 2: don't want it to smell like soap. I don't want
Speaker 2: it to taste like soap. So all wet up a
Speaker 2: rag and literally make sure as is super clean.
Speaker 1: Pussy. Oh yeah, I'll do the hot towel thing.
Speaker 3: But like no, I'm really trying to think about before
Speaker 3: I have sex with someone. Just like no, only when
Speaker 3: we're like coming back from the club and we lit.
Speaker 3: I just went to some club where I was at labin, bitch,
Speaker 3: and you know when I only at least started smoking.
Speaker 3: We literally walked in the door at three am and
Speaker 3: I was like, oh yeah, like we're club boards, Like
Speaker 3: we have to shower, bitch.
Speaker 1: It was bad. I was in the shower. He was paying.
Speaker 1: It was like that drunk sex that you're about to have.
Speaker 3: But the only thing that I can think about is
Speaker 3: the ick of other people. If it's just dinner and
Speaker 3: something like me, I don't see the ick of smells.
Speaker 3: If we were in a hookah bar, nigga, we've been
Speaker 3: sitting and smoke all night. If we are at a
Speaker 3: club where everybody been smoking weed, to me, it's the
Speaker 3: To me, there is a smell of outside or whatever.
Speaker 1: Braves don't last. Actually, to me, it's this I'm a
Speaker 1: little outdoorsy hove. It's the smell where you're at.
Speaker 3: After that motherfucking hike I took where y'all bitches was
Speaker 3: dragging me for going to Connecticut for a hike, Bitch,
Speaker 3: who is dragging you for going to hike? Br there
Speaker 3: was three girls I was on live that was like,
Speaker 3: I can't believe you took your ass on a Vetro North.
Speaker 1: First of all, bitch of getting dead, I mean the train.
Speaker 2: I mean I still catch the train, so them drag
Speaker 2: You were taking a train to Connecticut, which is thirty
Speaker 2: minutes to an hour away, depending on how deep you want.
Speaker 1: I used to live in the Bronx. There's an hour. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well I used.
Speaker 2: To live in the Bronx and Connecticut was literally a
Speaker 2: twenty five minute ride.
Speaker 3: Which is why, like I get it, Like, you know,
Speaker 3: if he's driving there, cool, if he was already there, Like, bitch, damn, I.
Speaker 2: Can't say the train there probably in the middle of America.
Speaker 2: And don't realize that we lived by Connecticut. There was
Speaker 2: some New York hos in my common We could get
Speaker 2: to other states fairly quickly. I wanted for our HORRDR
Speaker 2: this week because we're talking about showers. There are some
Speaker 2: tips for six scessful shower sex. And while I'm not
Speaker 2: a fan, there is no shower sex of success. While
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan, and there are some tips. Be prepared.
Speaker 2: First offt so make sure any and all toys are charged.
Speaker 2: Place the lube in an easily accessible place, They say
Speaker 2: that because people water is not lub. I know it's wet,
Speaker 2: but it ain't the type of witness that you want
Speaker 2: during sex. So place lube in an easily accessible place.
Speaker 2: Confirm that you're both comfy with the water temperature. That's
Speaker 2: a big one, because maybe when I hop out the
Speaker 2: shower my skin is blistering red.
Speaker 1: I like it really hot.
Speaker 2: That don't feel good on a nigga balls, It don't
Speaker 2: feel good on the shaft. And you want that motherfucking
Speaker 2: water temper Sy to that man, because I great so
Speaker 2: plead to that. Also, keep starting positions in mind. You
Speaker 2: want to also be sure to add a non slip mat.
Speaker 2: I think that's the fear that also allows people not
Speaker 2: to really get into the vibe in the shower is
Speaker 2: that they're scared they're gonna slip. There are a ton
Speaker 2: you can go to the motherfucking dollar tree. Okay, get
Speaker 2: you a no slip matt. That's another one. Tidy the
Speaker 2: shower beforehand. This is important because I'd have been in
Speaker 2: a lot of my friends homes lately. Bitch y'all have
Speaker 2: every product. It'd be one hundred motherfucking products around. If
Speaker 2: we're gonna be grabbing and holding all this stuff you
Speaker 2: don't want it to be to wear. You knock a
Speaker 2: whole bunch of products over and now you ruin the moment. Also,
Speaker 2: you got to pick up your face, wash your motherfucking
Speaker 2: COUCHI wash.
Speaker 1: There's your body.
Speaker 3: That many things in the shower anyway, i'd hear you.
Speaker 3: I had a functuy lady. Come, y'all will see it
Speaker 3: on sex cells. She came and she basically talked about
Speaker 3: how many things I probably don't use daily in the shower.
Speaker 3: I was like, damn, it was only three things pussy wash,
Speaker 3: Lavo Noir twenty nine, and a fucking like coconut rice
Speaker 3: body wash that I use. However, I have mad shampoo
Speaker 3: and conditioner, different types, masks, whatever.
Speaker 2: I don't wash my hair every day. Oh, I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie you do. Because I'm a blonde person,
Speaker 2: Like I do a lot of the purple shampoo and
Speaker 2: then I have regular shampoo.
Speaker 1: Do you wash your hair every day? Do you have
Speaker 1: to know? It depends like when I do.
Speaker 2: When I set my like, I do a lot of
Speaker 2: foaming lotions, So I don't like those chemicals sit in
Speaker 2: my hair and it ends up changing my hair color,
Speaker 2: Like I'm platinum, So I constantly if I'm doing fingerwaves
Speaker 2: or I have a setting lotion in my hair, yeah,
Speaker 2: I wash it out because I don't want it to
Speaker 2: affect a my texture, but also the color.
Speaker 3: You know what I wanted to know. So right now
Speaker 3: I'm kind of reddish braids. All my niggas all one
Speaker 3: and a half, So this is their favorite hair on me. Okay,
Speaker 3: what is men's favorite for you?
Speaker 1: I mean, I honestly don't care. It's what I feel comfortable, and.
Speaker 3: I'm just asking what the people said on It's weird
Speaker 3: because my favorite is the blonde.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm in the cut that most niggas before I
Speaker 2: cut my hair was like, bitch, I ain't fucking you
Speaker 2: if you ball head.
Speaker 1: A lot of niggas don't like baldhead bitches.
Speaker 2: Niggas love this shit, Like when twenty four to seven
Speaker 2: came back over after we took our little break during
Speaker 2: the pandemic and during my relationship, said I don't really
Speaker 2: like this. I like this a little blonde shit on you.
Speaker 2: So right now it's this, I.
Speaker 3: Don't like the I like the cut on you. My
Speaker 3: favorite of the colors is blonde. Then my second favorite
Speaker 3: hairstyle on you. I would say I saw some pictures
Speaker 3: of us that Siggi brought where you had the curl.
Speaker 1: I liked you in a curly weave. That was cute. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was my go to.
Speaker 2: But I mean the curly weave for me, especially the halfwig,
Speaker 2: reminds me of me trying to hide my face or
Speaker 2: me trying to look smaller. So I used to do
Speaker 2: really big hair to make my face seem smaller. That
Speaker 2: was like, so like, when I look at me in
Speaker 2: the curly hair, I'm so like, this is liberating for
Speaker 2: me to be able to have a short cut.
Speaker 1: Short hair is bold. Bro, Yeah, I don't think I have.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lie twenty twenty four. I'm doing the buzz.
Speaker 1: So it's not gonna be Pixie. I'm going buzz. I
Speaker 1: was gonna do it. You're gonna keep blonde. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna keep blonde, but I'm going buzz.
Speaker 2: So I'm going from Pixie to like the amber Rose,
Speaker 2: and I'm excited about it.
Speaker 1: Kind of fun story for you guys, go ahead.
Speaker 3: Recently, I asked Mandy for some advice about fingering a
Speaker 3: butthole on Patreon and it wasn't the butthole that I
Speaker 3: thought i'd be fingering. I had sex with a woman recently,
Speaker 3: because I haven't had sex with a woman in a
Speaker 3: long time. But I had sex with a woman recently,
Speaker 3: and when I fingered her, she was super clean, no taste,
Speaker 3: no smell, like just great, well, we're perfect pussy taste.
Speaker 3: And I would also say, this person is very clean.
Speaker 3: I was in their home after I fingered her asshole.
Speaker 3: There was a smell in the room that changed okay,
Speaker 3: And I probably had coffee that day. I literally couldn't finish.
Speaker 3: I wasn't going to hide the fact that I could
Speaker 3: smell the shit. I looked at my hand and I
Speaker 3: was like, there's no shit here, and I'm like, oh
Speaker 3: my god. I unlocked her asshole like I opened her
Speaker 3: booty hole. There was there was no residue.
Speaker 1: You know, It's crazy. I was like, the smell like
Speaker 1: I opened to where maybe she's like.
Speaker 2: Maybe or no, maybe it's just on the walls. It
Speaker 2: didn't land in your fingers. It's crazy because I got
Speaker 2: that little thing you know when you go to the
Speaker 2: nails line brush, So I have it in my in
Speaker 2: my bathroom because if I'm fingering or doing anything.
Speaker 1: Oh bitch.
Speaker 2: I scrub under my nails, like like before and after sex,
Speaker 2: like every time I hop in the shower. Anytime I'm
Speaker 2: done with my makeup, I take the little brush and
Speaker 2: I scrub. I know my stomach's been growling all day.
Speaker 2: I scrub underneath my nails. But I don't have sex
Speaker 2: is one of those where where it may turn me off.
Speaker 2: I go into sex now understanding there may be smells,
Speaker 2: especially like now when I when I left my relationship
Speaker 2: and went back to protected sex, the smell of condom,
Speaker 2: I was like annoyed by it. I'm not gonna lie
Speaker 2: I've been condomsaying I haven't been using condoms. And I
Speaker 2: realized my pussy when I rubbed it, like just the
Speaker 2: smell on his dick when I sucked it. After I
Speaker 2: had to realize, like, there's literal smells that come with sex.
Speaker 3: So I just want to say, they just can't be
Speaker 3: bothered by that. When the shit came out of her ass.
Speaker 2: You said there was no shit on your fingers, so
Speaker 2: the shit came out of her ass, the smell smells happened.
Speaker 3: It was super uncomfortable because I feel like her and
Speaker 3: I were both very aware that like we couldn't finish,
Speaker 3: and she texted me about it after and the text
Speaker 3: message almost any more uncomfortable. She's like, Oh, here's the thing,
Speaker 3: and I'm bringing this up because I feel like we
Speaker 3: need to talk about how to get away from awkward situations.
Speaker 3: The text message I got was so insecure and weird
Speaker 3: and uncomfortable that like I felt myself trying to pacify
Speaker 3: her for the moment, and I wish you could have
Speaker 3: just like laughed it off.
Speaker 1: She was like, it was like almost like a long
Speaker 1: Oh I.
Speaker 3: Don't even want to read it because I feel bad,
Speaker 3: But basically it was like this, like I feel like
Speaker 3: you're never gonna see me again. I've known her for
Speaker 3: just like a little bit. We've been flirting around while
Speaker 3: I grab a drink randomly, and so we had sex,
Speaker 3: where like it was a very quick thing. Okay, So
Speaker 3: when it happened, I had felt like maybe it would
Speaker 3: have happened in the past, But when it happened, I
Speaker 3: feel like when I said would have happened in the past,
Speaker 3: I mean just us fucking.
Speaker 1: I felt like she could have just been like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, girl, let's shove in the shower.
Speaker 3: Like there could have been this something that you covered
Speaker 3: it up with, but instead you just wrote me and
Speaker 3: told me how I'm never going to see you again
Speaker 3: because XYZ happened.
Speaker 1: How years There was.
Speaker 2: Probably a level like where you made her feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: But I mean we've talked about this. I think it
Speaker 2: was with four. Like we both respond very differently to
Speaker 2: bodily functions. I would say, I like we talked about
Speaker 2: the farting with four. I'm finding comfortable with that, and
Speaker 2: I don't think there's a problem.
Speaker 1: You know, if there's a way I can make someone
Speaker 1: feel comfortable for shit, I think.
Speaker 2: What we could do it. But it wasn't even shit.
Speaker 2: It was just the smell of an anus.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the smell of an as many.
Speaker 3: Basically, what I think happened was after my hand came
Speaker 3: out of her, not my whole hand. It was like
Speaker 3: two or three fingers though. I just think that the
Speaker 3: fart really was there.
Speaker 1: Was there anything on the sheets? Here's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I feel like there has to be some kind of
Speaker 3: dialogue that you have when we all can smell something
Speaker 3: thank pussy too, bro, Like when my hand came out
Speaker 3: of her, I think she just kept fighting. I think
Speaker 3: her boat was like open and like the fart was
Speaker 3: so intense. Bro Like you know when it's thick in
Speaker 3: the air. I don't know if there's a wor you
Speaker 3: hear a noise, there's music on. I mean there's air.
Speaker 3: I mean to me, I'm not gonna lie. I go
Speaker 3: into anything anal understanding. There may be a mess or
Speaker 3: a smell. I mean, we're humans. We can't control that.
Speaker 1: If there are. We not going to talk about the
Speaker 1: business smell. There's nothing she could have. I mean, damn,
Speaker 1: your summer really growling. I'm hungry, I'm starving.
Speaker 2: To me, there's no she's really loud, and look, you
Speaker 2: can't help that your stomach is growling. I'm not she
Speaker 2: ain't she probably there was no ship. It was just
Speaker 2: a smell. It's an aintal smell. To me, I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie. There's nothing to talk about. It's a humanly
Speaker 2: bodily function. Bit ch'all was in the motherfucking depth's a
Speaker 2: lounge the other day. This nigga walked by and we
Speaker 2: heard me me, this lady crossby, and.
Speaker 1: The lady next to me. We all just looked at
Speaker 1: each other. We're like, yep, that's what he just said.
Speaker 2: He just sparked, didn't fucking apologize, kept on walking to
Speaker 2: the motherfucking buff face. It didn't say nothing. So we're
Speaker 2: all just looking at each other. We have a quick laugh,
Speaker 2: and then, bitch, we all go back to our laptops
Speaker 2: that he knew her motherfuck hole. Okay, but okay, I
Speaker 2: know it sucks for it.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: I've looked on the sheet and seen something on the sheet. Bitch,
Speaker 2: I might pull the blanket over it.
Speaker 1: Do I see here and be like, damn, you see
Speaker 1: the st mark our left on the sheets?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I see here if we're I'm in the booty hole,
Speaker 2: Like if anything is happening in the boodhole, bro, we
Speaker 2: don't see here and acknowledge that a bodily function took place.
Speaker 2: We literally realize that that's what we were. I feel
Speaker 2: like you can say this, but we don't talk about it.
Speaker 1: I feel like you can say this because you don't
Speaker 1: smell it. No, but I've got antal sex. Have you
Speaker 1: ever smelled eggs when you're old? Bitch?
Speaker 2: I have fucking pegged a nigga and I pulled that
Speaker 2: shit out, and shit was on the strap. I have
Speaker 2: definitely seen and smelled shit. I have seen skid marks
Speaker 2: on sheets. To me, if you are going into the boodhole,
Speaker 2: I what I'm not gonna do is makes makes someone
Speaker 2: feel like damn, nay, thank you, or that I know
Speaker 2: where I'm at I know where you at either or
Speaker 2: and no, I'm not gonna lie. There has never been
Speaker 2: a conversation about anything left or smelt while antal sex.
Speaker 1: We literally go and clean up and get back into it.
Speaker 1: The emotional dumping on me was the issue.
Speaker 3: Also, she doesn't know I have a podcast, which is
Speaker 3: why I'm feeling uncomfortable talk about this in this moment.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm saying this is why. That's why I'm
Speaker 1: bringing it up.
Speaker 3: She doesn't know I have a podcast, so that's why
Speaker 3: I'm feeling comfortable to talk about you.
Speaker 2: But did you have someone that don't know you have
Speaker 2: a vodcast? Now, where'd you meet her? Because, bitch, I'm
Speaker 2: trying to meet niggas that don't know I got a
Speaker 2: vodcast honestly in the Lower East Side. But she foreigns,
Speaker 2: so that's probably why, Like she's.
Speaker 3: Not And it's crazy because when you meet black foreign people,
Speaker 3: it's like even funnier because you're just like, damn, you're
Speaker 3: really not African American.
Speaker 1: Wow, all right, but uh no, we have we have
Speaker 1: a lot of are no, no, no.
Speaker 3: I'm saying when you're having when you're having conversations like
Speaker 3: a hip hop and we.
Speaker 2: Got South Africa, we got London, we got a lot
Speaker 2: of places overseas with hip hop with us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was too, bitch. I went to Ghana.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize how many fucking HORRORHID members were in Ghana.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm dating an African dude who's like, yo,
Speaker 3: like this country should you be listening to do not
Speaker 3: resonate bits?
Speaker 1: But nah.
Speaker 3: I think like what made it crazier was the request
Speaker 3: for the anal ship and then the emotional dumping after.
Speaker 3: So that kind of of like really made me uncomfortable,
Speaker 3: Like I don't want this to now be something where
Speaker 3: like you know, if you're hella insecure about it, you
Speaker 3: gotta dump on somebody else. Bro, you can't dump on
Speaker 3: the person you just have sex with.
Speaker 1: That's why you're talking about it on the podcast you're
Speaker 1: doing right now.
Speaker 3: No, I'm jumping like dump. I didn't just fuck you
Speaker 3: and part in your face Manby.
Speaker 2: But see, I've had a girl fart in my face
Speaker 2: while I ate her pussy, and I laughed about it later.
Speaker 1: Bodily functions.
Speaker 3: Bodily functions, you're trying to shame me for not being
Speaker 3: able to have sex.
Speaker 1: With shit, I'm not me and her literally never talked
Speaker 1: about the fact that she farted while I.
Speaker 2: Was there, but we kept going, Okay, you know what, noise, smell,
Speaker 2: skid marks.
Speaker 1: I told you if you win a bootle hole just expected.
Speaker 3: It was like I opened something that was expired and
Speaker 3: riding for a week.
Speaker 1: It was like a tapeworm was in her stomach. That's
Speaker 1: how bad it was.
Speaker 2: But okay, anyway, we haven't really done home mail in
Speaker 2: quite some time. We're going to get into home mail. Clearly,
Speaker 2: the horrible decision this week was all about the vodahole.
Speaker 2: So I have this pulled up and I feel like
Speaker 2: they're probably from San Francisco. I don't know because it
Speaker 2: says home mail, fuck the whole family.
Speaker 1: This is the subject line. This is a lot of things.
Speaker 2: This is a confession, a request for advice, and a
Speaker 2: shout out to Mandy because I'm going through something similar
Speaker 2: aka dating a fucking shape shifter.
Speaker 1: The short version.
Speaker 2: There are two sisters in a family, and I have
Speaker 2: fucked each of their significant others at different points in
Speaker 2: my life.
Speaker 1: Oh bitch, Oh bitch, is this a nigga.
Speaker 2: From No, this was just saying while we was in Orlando.
Speaker 2: So this is not very this is this is not old.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: I should mention that I did not do this intentionally
Speaker 2: and only found out when I started deep dive stalking
Speaker 2: my most recent partner.
Speaker 1: The first sister. The first sister travels a lot for work.
Speaker 1: She's a girl boss.
Speaker 2: Her man worked as a DJ at a club, and
Speaker 2: I fucked him at twenty on a messy night. I
Speaker 2: was young and I'm MOLLI and he was a beautiful
Speaker 2: six or four linebacker looking dude who wanted to eat
Speaker 2: my pussy?
Speaker 1: How could I say?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: How could cha?
Speaker 2: After exchanging numbers and hooking up with him for a
Speaker 2: few months, I did the classic girl thing and stalked
Speaker 2: his social media. When I found out he had a
Speaker 2: long term girlfriend, I ghosted him, but didn't tell her.
Speaker 1: I was twenty and didn't want all the drama. The
Speaker 1: second sister. No.
Speaker 2: Fast forward seven years later, I met a seemingly sweet
Speaker 2: guy on tenders who just got out of a relationship
Speaker 2: and was looking for something no pressure. We hit it
Speaker 2: off and started an open relationship that lasted for a
Speaker 2: few years. At the early stages of dating, he mentioned
Speaker 2: kicking his ex out of his house for being dishonest loo,
Speaker 2: and upon doing the deep dive back on Instagram, I
Speaker 2: see that it is the sister of the girl who's
Speaker 2: still dating the lying ass, cheating ass DJ. I said
Speaker 2: nothing and chalked it up to a creepy coincidence. The
Speaker 2: sisters don't live in the same city. Within the four
Speaker 2: years that I was in the open relationship, he was sweet,
Speaker 2: he was giving, and he was obsessed. Picked up my
Speaker 2: dry cleaning, made breakfast every morning and dinner every night.
Speaker 2: But something in my heart didn't feel right. I met
Speaker 2: his friends, his family, and we saw each other dimn
Speaker 2: near every day. I refused to let him meeting my
Speaker 2: family and only let him meet a handful of friends
Speaker 2: because something just didn't feel right. We talked about hooking
Speaker 2: up with other people casually early on in our relationship,
Speaker 2: but he constantly insisted that other than the early few months,
Speaker 2: he was only sleeping with me, even going as far
Speaker 2: as getting upset if you found out that the other
Speaker 2: guys were in my DMS or heating me up. I
Speaker 2: recently found out he was still with his girlfriend since
Speaker 2: the second year of us dating, all his friends knew.
Speaker 2: I found out there were times where we were at
Speaker 2: his house minutes apart. She left things as wow, and
Speaker 2: he would pack them into the garage every time I
Speaker 2: came over.
Speaker 1: Here are the questions of confusion.
Speaker 2: Oh, In the last year ISH, our biggest issue was
Speaker 2: he would get upset and constantly express that it hurt
Speaker 2: him that I wanted to keep our relationship open because
Speaker 2: he wasn't seeing anyone else. Multiple times, I even expressed
Speaker 2: that I would find it hot if he hooked up
Speaker 2: with another girl, but still he insisted he didn't want
Speaker 2: to and was only interested in me all the while
Speaker 2: he had a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Why do niggas do this? Like? Is this some psychoass shit? Yes?
Speaker 2: It is because exit that do I tell his girlfriend
Speaker 2: that I know about her and he has been seeing
Speaker 2: both of us for four years?
Speaker 1: She won one hundred million percent has no idea?
Speaker 2: Is it messy if I also tell the other sister
Speaker 2: that I fucked her man over five years ago. They
Speaker 2: are now engaged, but he is still a bum ass DJ,
Speaker 2: so I'm sure he's still cheating. Also, what are the
Speaker 2: odds that there are two sisters living in two different
Speaker 2: nearby cities that I fucked both their men?
Speaker 1: What the fuck is my luck?
Speaker 2: I want to speak about the first one only because
Speaker 2: of someone who is open up the buyer.
Speaker 1: It's a lot.
Speaker 2: I actually spoke about being fine. I was reprimanded for
Speaker 2: not cooking that much in the end of my relationship.
Speaker 2: I was reprimanded for traveling, for working so much, for
Speaker 2: having to pencil him in, to the point where there
Speaker 2: was a conversation, if you need someone to show you
Speaker 2: the time, because this is what you need, which you're
Speaker 2: retired as while I'm on the road that you are
Speaker 2: invited to but haven't chose to meet me in every city,
Speaker 2: Let's talk about what it looks like for you having
Speaker 2: someone while I'm away. He was insistent on the fact
Speaker 2: that sex was not that important to him, He didn't
Speaker 2: need that much attention.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that, mind you.
Speaker 2: He clearly was fucking four bitches out of the sex
Speaker 2: club and going to the sex club before and after
Speaker 2: and without me.
Speaker 1: So to me, I do think it's some psycho as shit.
Speaker 2: But I also think there's a level of men still
Speaker 2: not believing that that would be okay, whether you express
Speaker 2: it or not, whether you're talking about being open or not.
Speaker 1: I think men would rather not deal.
Speaker 2: With the headache of constantly being questioned about shit or
Speaker 2: having the drama that they know normally comes with fucking
Speaker 2: off or fucking with multiple women. So I think this
Speaker 2: is their way of literally like, no, I only want you,
Speaker 2: because I think men believe we want to hear that, although.
Speaker 1: We would much rather prefer honesty.
Speaker 3: It's very exhausting though for honest men, I agree, So
Speaker 3: I would say, yeah, I think you were hitting a
Speaker 3: point when you said that. They just say I only
Speaker 3: want you because it appeases them. Like literally, I have
Speaker 3: a friend right now who's dating maybe six eight, six
Speaker 3: to eight women okay, and was like, bro, like, I
Speaker 3: feel like I'm hurting these girls just by telling them
Speaker 3: the truth. And he's like, but I'm not gonna lie
Speaker 3: to them. He's like, they're asking me if there's other women.
Speaker 3: He's like, I can almost like see the pain. Then
Speaker 3: I got to cut them off because like, I don't
Speaker 3: want them.
Speaker 1: To those women probably want monogamy.
Speaker 2: This woman said, I've offered an open relationship to him,
Speaker 2: so I'm mad that he lied that he had someone
Speaker 2: else when I've literally said let's be open. I think
Speaker 2: women are hurt when they want monogamy and they don't
Speaker 2: want to share their partner. When you have a woman
Speaker 2: telling you let's be open and you lieing about another partner,
Speaker 2: that's different.
Speaker 1: Men are used to lying.
Speaker 2: Men are used to lying, So I think that that's
Speaker 2: where the lie is easier for them because.
Speaker 3: Now wait, learning how to be honest. Fucking the family members,
Speaker 3: it's hard. I fucking the sisters, my niggas bro. I
Speaker 3: was getting a little confused.
Speaker 2: I mean, she clearly just had relationships seven years apart
Speaker 2: with two different men that happened to literally be fucking sisters.
Speaker 1: That's not hard to like. The world is a lot smaller.
Speaker 1: Do I tell? Do I do?
Speaker 2: And then I think even one of them, She's like,
Speaker 2: do I tell the girlfriend? Because I know the girlfriend
Speaker 2: doesn't know. To me, there's there's malice in that. If
Speaker 2: you've opened up about having an open relationship, that needs
Speaker 2: to be a conversation he needs to have with her.
Speaker 2: They're telling me, here's the thing, bitch, we done have
Speaker 2: the Hey Barbara, dis is surely.
Speaker 1: My Hay Barbert girl. We've been talking a lot.
Speaker 2: We talk about I told my hay Barbara girls, stop
Speaker 2: texting me because you still want to fuck that nigga.
Speaker 3: Nah, she just mine is just helladope, like just honestly.
Speaker 3: We both blocked him, like we're both like bitch.
Speaker 1: We moved on.
Speaker 3: She was helping me about her new niggas that she
Speaker 3: was visiting this weekend. I like gifted or something. She
Speaker 3: gifted me a Bosk yacht painting, like, okay.
Speaker 1: We're cool. I fucked with her.
Speaker 3: She was at our show in La But I brought
Speaker 3: that up because when she reached out to me, I
Speaker 3: don't believe she had any malice in it, because it
Speaker 3: wasn't this let me tell you about that nigga more
Speaker 3: than it was like, Hey, I'm in this situation and
Speaker 3: feeling really lost and like you're the only piece to
Speaker 3: the puzzle.
Speaker 1: Now. I don't do that because I.
Speaker 3: Genuinely feel like women are gonna front on me yep,
Speaker 3: and they're just gonna go back to the nigga her
Speaker 3: and I chose not to do that, And I say
Speaker 3: to her all the time, bitch, I really thought she
Speaker 3: was gonna go back to this nigga.
Speaker 2: She was like fuck first, the first girl that contacted me,
Speaker 2: she was gonna be out of the country for some months.
Speaker 2: She really came at me like she was healing, then
Speaker 2: went down the same rabbit hole as me and spining
Speaker 2: out all these things about a narcissist and for whatever reason,
Speaker 2: she wanted to heal him but also was in love
Speaker 2: with him.
Speaker 1: Bitch, she was waiting for six months. I was waiting
Speaker 1: for three years.
Speaker 2: Like so the fact that she would keep texting me
Speaker 2: knowing that she was still talking to him. The last
Speaker 2: time she reached out to me, I said, girl, you're
Speaker 2: gonna still fuck this nigga and be in his spell
Speaker 2: and under his spell. Ma'am, I get it. I was
Speaker 2: there for three years. You cannot hit me no more
Speaker 2: because we are not gonna trauma bond over a nigga
Speaker 2: when he was cheating on me with you. I'm not
Speaker 2: trauma bonding with you over being with an unwell nigga.
Speaker 2: We're not gonna do that. So I literally had to
Speaker 2: tell her, do not hit me anymore. Bro, I can't
Speaker 2: help you. I could barely help my goddamn self. I'm healing,
Speaker 2: leave me alone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that we're not supposed to keep like
Speaker 3: trauma bonding over the dude more than like it's supposed to.
Speaker 1: He's supposed to grow lead that nigga. But if one
Speaker 1: of the.
Speaker 2: Bitches is still fucking the nigga, there's no bonding that
Speaker 2: needs to be had.
Speaker 1: You both have to get him. Yeah.
Speaker 3: There were moments though, in the first two weeks where
Speaker 3: like she would call me and be like asking about
Speaker 3: a little detailer I'd want to know, and she'd be like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, why are we doing this press?
Speaker 1: But now we really don't talk about that anymore.
Speaker 3: We talked about new niggas, but like seriously, like I
Speaker 3: wrote her, I was high the other day and I
Speaker 3: was like, bitch, we were really stressing over this nigga.
Speaker 1: Like you know, we always stressed over the niggas.
Speaker 2: We shouldn't stress over raggedy when you look back at it.
Speaker 1: And I just did this.
Speaker 2: When we was in Charlotte, I was talking to my
Speaker 2: ex nigga cousin. I was like, ew I really liked him, yuck.
Speaker 1: I was disgusted. I was I was literally like he
Speaker 1: even only married because of me, But we're not gonna
Speaker 1: get into that. My ex nigger cousin is crazy. Damn.
Speaker 1: I want to name this episode do I keep sucking
Speaker 1: through the smell? Oh?
Speaker 2: I literally wrote the title already. By the way, hold on,
Speaker 2: let me tell you. If you in the hole, there's
Speaker 2: gonna be a smell. Okay, if you in the hole, I.
Speaker 3: Want y'all in the YouTube comments to tell me was
Speaker 3: I wrong for stopping through the rotten egg part?
Speaker 1: Think of throw up.
Speaker 3: Think of when you walk outside or maybe you had
Speaker 3: someone throw up in a car and you can still
Speaker 3: smell the throw up.
Speaker 2: That's how bad it was. I also may make this
Speaker 2: a little shorter. If you're in the hole, be prepared
Speaker 2: if you're in the hole. If you in the hole,
Speaker 2: it's gonna be something. But I might make a small no.
Speaker 1: Maybe there's always a smell in the hole.
Speaker 2: But there's not, because my hole be open and I
Speaker 2: be in the hole, there's not always a smell.
Speaker 1: Sting, you're trying to make me feel like there was.
Speaker 1: If you in the hole, you need no.
Speaker 2: There's just there's gonna be a mess. It's gonna be
Speaker 2: a smell. There's going to be a bodily function. God
Speaker 2: damn it. Anyways, y'all, thank you're fortuning in to another
Speaker 2: episode of Horrible Decisions. Y'all have a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful
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