WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Don't Like Your Sweater

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewels. Second date of date. I think the best

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<v Speaker 1>way to make a first impression on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>is to show her your rage issues right away. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Just rage on the first date

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. Usually ladies like that a lot. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>they do. Oh, they love it. That's why Adam is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now. He emailed us about a

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<v Speaker 1>date that he had that he feels didn't go so

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<v Speaker 1>great because he was a little angry when he showed

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<v Speaker 1>up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say I read your email and the issue

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<v Speaker 1>that you had in getting to your date and the

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<v Speaker 1>way you acted on your date. I can't blame you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I would have acted the same way I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>tell everybody about how you met the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. So her name was Wren,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know it was one of those like friend

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<v Speaker 1>of a friend to saying we were both single. They

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<v Speaker 1>set us up. But she was real good looking. I

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<v Speaker 1>was really at tracked to her looking through her pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>It really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was pretty stoked on the date from the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning before we even actually met for the day. Right

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<v Speaker 1>before you met and showed her your angry side, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That

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<v Speaker 1>listened the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your

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<v Speaker 1>email you said you got there and you just raged

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<v Speaker 1>for the whole time pretty much, and you felt kind

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<v Speaker 1>of awkward about it. Explain what happened. I mean, I was,

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<v Speaker 1>I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, last thing I want to do on a

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<v Speaker 1>first day to show up late. And all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta know where. This ass turns into the lane

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me and starts going like twenty miles

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<v Speaker 1>per hour. And I wasn't running late, but this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>he just I felt like he was messing with me

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm just sitting there and I'm beeping and I'm honking,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to be nice first, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>just lose it. I slipped the switch and I started

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<v Speaker 1>going crazy on this guy, and he's just just an

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<v Speaker 1>ask because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>already raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay. Yeah, no, hey, dude, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking to the king of road rage right here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand

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<v Speaker 1>you were angry about this dude. Yeah, well of course

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<v Speaker 1>I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me makes me ten minutes late and

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<v Speaker 1>that fits me off. And I tried to let it go,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess it was just nervous energy. I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wouldn't shut up, and I just talked NonStop

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this

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<v Speaker 1>guy the whole time? Pretty much? Do you have angry

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<v Speaker 1>issues normally? Are you an angry guy? I tend to

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm pretty even killed guy, But I asked you

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<v Speaker 1>to recap the incident on the way to the date,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just went off on us. So you sound

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<v Speaker 1>like an angry dude? Are you? Are you an angry

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<v Speaker 1>guy or are you I'm not normally, you know, really

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<v Speaker 1>an angry guy. I think it was just a nervous

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<v Speaker 1>energy of going to the date. And I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a mix of both of those things. I just kind of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, had a tough time. Did you explain to

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<v Speaker 1>her that you were upset at a guy that you did?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just came off angry. Yeah, I see

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<v Speaker 1>how that happened. Did she comment about your anger? Did

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<v Speaker 1>she say, like, whoa, You're so pretty upset about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, I was pretty quiet about it. She was

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<v Speaker 1>really quiet, probably quiet because she was scared for her life.

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<v Speaker 1>People get that way. That's where I felt real bad

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<v Speaker 1>with I just kind of just talked NonStop for forty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes. Did she get a word in edgewise? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean not much? All right, So so you talked at

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<v Speaker 1>her the whole time. Well, at the end, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I said to her, I asked her about

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<v Speaker 1>going out on another date, and I apologize to her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said that, you know, I'm not normally like

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<v Speaker 1>this and all this stuff, and you know, we slapped five,

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<v Speaker 1>you high five. At the end of the day. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna kiss her. I was like, from from

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<v Speaker 1>being so nervous, pissed off, what kind of five are

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about here, like on the side down low

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<v Speaker 1>high five up high? So you gave her a high

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<v Speaker 1>five to say goodbye? Did you ask to see her?

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<v Speaker 1>End in herlocked fingers though? Gay? Oh nice, it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>a handhold. You almost held her hand on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ask to see her again? Well? Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it and I mentioned i'd throw her text

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<v Speaker 1>and I texted her a few times and I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>really heard back, so I'm kind of curious, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it didn't go great, but I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>ended good after you apologize to orgies to say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally understand. I've been there before or not so much.

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<v Speaker 1>And so she seemed upset. Yeah, I mean I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I told her that, you know, my energy

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<v Speaker 1>level was often and I was really nervous for the

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<v Speaker 1>date as it was, and then this happened and it

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<v Speaker 1>just it just totally threw me and I and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel horrible about it. And I told her that, and

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed receptive to it. Yeah, but this whole situation,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it just it it didn't go well, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really want a second chance because I think her

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<v Speaker 1>and I could really do well. Together, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that even with my anger issues, you know, the little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of road rates, because I feel like a girl

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<v Speaker 1>like her could really call me down. Okay, that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sweet. All right, well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date up date. Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? All right. Trying to freak out brooking Jubil.

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning, Adam is on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants us to call a girl named Rin today

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<v Speaker 1>for his second date update. They went out met for coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>He was ten minutes late and ended up being very

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<v Speaker 1>frustrated from a road rage incident that made him late.

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<v Speaker 1>Feels like he just vented about the thing the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time and was just angry and didn't even literally get

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<v Speaker 1>a word in edgewise while they had their coffee date. Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>you're about ready to give her a call? I'm ready, man,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I was thinking about this. Most girls, when

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<v Speaker 1>they list the traits that they like in a potential mate,

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<v Speaker 1>they usually say something like I like a guy who's sensitive,

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's caring, good job, very responsible. They usually

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<v Speaker 1>don't list potential homicidal maniac as a as a good quality.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's probably why she's not calling you back. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you went on a first date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>they showed up a little late, first of all, that's

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<v Speaker 1>one strike against you, and then proceeded to just be

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<v Speaker 1>angry the whole time, I doubt you'd be so to

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<v Speaker 1>call him back to I mean, I think that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of issue. And that's why I'm trying to make it

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<v Speaker 1>work with her again, because I really do feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I had a bad representation. You want to do over? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to try one more time, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to. I want to kind of show Rends

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<v Speaker 1>the adam that I really am. Okay, can you think

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<v Speaker 1>this call is gonna do it for you? You've got

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<v Speaker 1>a level head on you right now. Yeah. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>just get this going so I don't get pissed off

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<v Speaker 1>about it? Okay, all right, I'm gonna call it right now. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. How can I speak to Ren? Please? Hey? Ren?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, the radio program. I am sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>I have the right number. Rend there's not a whole

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<v Speaker 1>lot of rends and I was given your number by

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Adam to call you today. What. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Adam is a listener to our show, and he says

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<v Speaker 1>he recently went out on a date with you, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling him back. And he asked us to

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<v Speaker 1>see if we get you on the phone and ask

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<v Speaker 1>why how do you know him? He listens to our

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. Adam wanted us to call you to ask

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<v Speaker 1>if if he did something wrong on your date or

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<v Speaker 1>there's a particular reason that you don't want to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again. This is I don't even really know how

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<v Speaker 1>to respond to this. I know it's you about this

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<v Speaker 1>he did. He told us that you went out for coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said that he was a little late, and

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<v Speaker 1>he actually feels bad because he thinks that he may

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<v Speaker 1>have been a little upset from a traffic incident and

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say so. I get this is what you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do. So I don't mean to be disrespectful at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kind of like, no, that's fine. I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you taking the time out to talk to us. We

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<v Speaker 1>just want to pass along a message to Adam and

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<v Speaker 1>give him your perspective on the first date. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can talk about that. My experience with Adam was

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<v Speaker 1>very limited, and I'm not a very confrontational person, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was very, very angry, and I think that the

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<v Speaker 1>first ten minutes of the time that we very very

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<v Speaker 1>first were introduced to each other, it was really just

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<v Speaker 1>all about this driving experience that we had had being

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<v Speaker 1>so frustrated with this other person. Was he like cussid

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff when he was explaining it to you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not like it was so so over

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<v Speaker 1>the top that I would have need to have left,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would have done that if it was really

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<v Speaker 1>really that bad. If you so, I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you, rin, I was going to ask you if

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<v Speaker 1>at any point you were scared for your life. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was pretty intense. Even when he finally went to

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<v Speaker 1>go get us some coffee, which he did, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>finally pull himself up to be like, Okay, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go get us some coffee, but pulls himself together.

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<v Speaker 1>Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>he I can hear him from from all of the

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<v Speaker 1>way at the other end of the shop, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>ordering and he just sounds aggressive. So was he like

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at the barista and stuff like I'm picturing him

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<v Speaker 1>tearing up this Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>really wasn't like that. It wasn't like he was he

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<v Speaker 1>was unkind towards the people around him necessarily. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>the like the manner in which he was dealing with things.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like pent up. You know, when somebody's

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<v Speaker 1>really upset about something and even though they are doing

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<v Speaker 1>something normal, it's in an abnormal way. And here's the

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<v Speaker 1>other thing that was that was tough. It was manifesting

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<v Speaker 1>in like sweat. Oh, he was so mad that he

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<v Speaker 1>was sweating. Well I don't know if he just sweats,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's a thing independent of what was going on,

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<v Speaker 1>but it seem like it was fueled or at least

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<v Speaker 1>like made a lot worse by his emotional space. Rand

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<v Speaker 1>It's called hyper hydrosis because people we can't control their

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<v Speaker 1>sweat glands. Okay, they sweat a ton. He maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>has that. So you don't want to see him again

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<v Speaker 1>because he's an angry sweaty mess. It's not just that

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<v Speaker 1>he was sweating a lot and being angry. He was

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<v Speaker 1>sweating profusely, like in the bottom of his hands. There

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<v Speaker 1>was wet dripping down him and then collecting like under.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of the right way to say this,

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<v Speaker 1>um like, oh, man, boobs, you know, Oh, he sweat

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<v Speaker 1>it out. His whole shirt like dark, dark, just covered

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<v Speaker 1>in sweat. O. Man, Yeah, that's bad. If he's pitting

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<v Speaker 1>out a little bit, that's kind of like whoa, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you sweat a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole

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<v Speaker 1>shirt was sweating out, I don't think that's what And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I was concerned about, because I know that

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<v Speaker 1>when i'm offset, like I'll sweat a little bit and

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<v Speaker 1>that's normal. But it was whoa, It was so mich.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be curious to find out if it's an issue

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<v Speaker 1>or if it's just his anger that makes him sweat

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Aren't you curious to at least? No? Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's a really great person that just had a

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<v Speaker 1>really bad day. But I just don't want to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with this, Okay, I really don't. That's cool. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for giving us an answer. I appreciate it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>really need to find out about this sweat. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm glad you're still on the phone, because Adam

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<v Speaker 1>is also on the phone and heard everything you just said.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, are you hitting me? Oh I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry him, Oh my god. I'm First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really really sorry. Look, this is really good. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm also like annoyed to be put in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation. But I am sorry. If you heard things

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<v Speaker 1>that I said that you don't need to feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>around every Pretty much everything you said is it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can kind of explain the sweating thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the anger stuff, Um, the sweating thing, let's start with that. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I threw a hoodie in a

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<v Speaker 1>coat on and it ended up not being as cold

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<v Speaker 1>out as I anticipated. By the time I was all

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<v Speaker 1>pissed off at this guy in front of me. I

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<v Speaker 1>started sweating the car because I was lasting the heat

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<v Speaker 1>and I was so pissed up. I wasn't thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>The coffee shop had the heat on. I couldn't stop sweating,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew I was and I know that my

0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:31.880
<v Speaker 1>man hoops were sweating. Yeah, and that was a crappy

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<v Speaker 1>thing for me to say about man the steps for

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, that was just the first time was just

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<v Speaker 1>easy here. That's what I think I want you to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I'm not that angry guy. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>was sweaty, I know I was hot, ash and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought about a kid, and you wouldn't mention it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was so lost in that date and like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to do and I went home and

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<v Speaker 1>showered right away. I was like I was living in

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<v Speaker 1>the mirror and like I literally like was mortified by

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<v Speaker 1>myself because I was really excited about this date and

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<v Speaker 1>like I never tell friends about going out with anybody,

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<v Speaker 1>but for some reason, I was kind of stoked on

0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:06.280
<v Speaker 1>you and I just crashed and burned. And I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of do that a lot in life. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>want you to know that I really am sorry. And

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<v Speaker 1>as far as you and I are concerned, like I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love one more shot. There's one more chance to maybe

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<v Speaker 1>sweat it out with you and Heyn, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Adam again. I will pay for

0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:22.679
<v Speaker 1>a second date. We can send you guys to a

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<v Speaker 1>spin class or something. We're sweat is supposed to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>and would you maybe give him another shot to see

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<v Speaker 1>if he's not so flustered this time he can you

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<v Speaker 1>can do a better job, Adam. I am, like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is awkward, and I just want to say I appreciate

0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:40.480
<v Speaker 1>you eventually being honest. I think that what I would

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<v Speaker 1>have preferred is if you could have communicated this to me,

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<v Speaker 1>not on a radio station, because you did contact me,

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't really ever just come out and say

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<v Speaker 1>I totally did it. Rent. I mean, as crazy as

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<v Speaker 1>I was there, it's probably crazier that I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio with you right now. But I tried

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<v Speaker 1>calling and I texting you, and you know you ever

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<v Speaker 1>got back to me here. So like, I thought like

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<v Speaker 1>this was my last option of how I could get

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<v Speaker 1>ahold of you. Rin, Will you do it? Will you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him one more time? Come on, we've

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<v Speaker 1>never had anyone be so sincere. Will you drive? Plea's

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<v Speaker 1>just a weird It's oh right, okay, all right, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>one more day? Nice? All right, Rin, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your time, Adam. Congratulations, you got your second date. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, this is gonna be great. I promise you, Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Two words before your next date. All right, gold bond

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<v Speaker 1>today in the morning text in at seven eighty five

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<v Speaker 1>to nine and two about today's second day update. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just says four words gold bond and uber, which could

0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:48.040
<v Speaker 1>have helped out Adam a lot. On his date, he

0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:51.960
<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl name Rin. He was a

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<v Speaker 1>little late for their coffee date. He got into a

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<v Speaker 1>little road rage incident on the way, and he thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was the reason why he wasn't a call back,

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<v Speaker 1>because he was just venting about that the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's partly why he wasn't going to call back. But

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<v Speaker 1>he was also super sweaty, yeah, because he was nervous

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<v Speaker 1>and upset, and I guess he was just drenched in

0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:14.760
<v Speaker 1>sweat the whole time, and he dressed wrong. It's hard sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you do the sweat shirt and the co

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<v Speaker 1>and then you realize it's too late. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>once you start sweating, you can't take any of it off. Yeah,

0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:23.320
<v Speaker 1>you have to leave it on because now you have

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<v Speaker 1>pits stains. Yeah, and now it's like eighty times worse. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And like what a bad day to start already with

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<v Speaker 1>the rotary interest and then just keep snowballing Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a spiral, but I think they're going to recover.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're gonna be good. Yeah, they decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go out again still, and he'll just make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>he wears enough deodorant and maybe he takes that text

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<v Speaker 1>there's advice and get some gold bond and he rubs

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<v Speaker 1>down and everything else too, to make sure that he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't get too sweaty on his next date. I really

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<v Speaker 1>think he needs to learn how to layer clothing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna help him a lot. Will definitely remember. If you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second day of the date, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back five