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Speaker 1: and Jewels. Second date of date. I think the best
Speaker 1: way to make a first impression on a first date
Speaker 1: is to show her your rage issues right away. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Just rage on the first date
Speaker 1: the whole time. Usually ladies like that a lot. Yeah
Speaker 1: they do. Oh, they love it. That's why Adam is
Speaker 1: on the phone right now. He emailed us about a
Speaker 1: date that he had that he feels didn't go so
Speaker 1: great because he was a little angry when he showed
Speaker 1: up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all,
Speaker 1: I will say I read your email and the issue
Speaker 1: that you had in getting to your date and the
Speaker 1: way you acted on your date. I can't blame you.
Speaker 1: I think I would have acted the same way I've
Speaker 1: been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and
Speaker 1: tell everybody about how you met the girl that you
Speaker 1: want us to call today. So her name was Wren,
Speaker 1: and you know it was one of those like friend
Speaker 1: of a friend to saying we were both single. They
Speaker 1: set us up. But she was real good looking. I
Speaker 1: was really at tracked to her looking through her pictures.
Speaker 1: It really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit.
Speaker 1: So I was pretty stoked on the date from the
Speaker 1: beginning before we even actually met for the day. Right
Speaker 1: before you met and showed her your angry side, dude,
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That
Speaker 1: listened the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your
Speaker 1: email you said you got there and you just raged
Speaker 1: for the whole time pretty much, and you felt kind
Speaker 1: of awkward about it. Explain what happened. I mean, I was,
Speaker 1: I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee,
Speaker 1: you know, last thing I want to do on a
Speaker 1: first day to show up late. And all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: I gotta know where. This ass turns into the lane
Speaker 1: in front of me and starts going like twenty miles
Speaker 1: per hour. And I wasn't running late, but this guy,
Speaker 1: he just I felt like he was messing with me
Speaker 1: because I'm just sitting there and I'm beeping and I'm honking,
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to be nice first, and then I
Speaker 1: just lose it. I slipped the switch and I started
Speaker 1: going crazy on this guy, and he's just just an
Speaker 1: ask because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: already raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay. Yeah, no, hey, dude, Adam,
Speaker 1: you're talking to the king of road rage right here.
Speaker 1: I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand
Speaker 1: you were angry about this dude. Yeah, well of course
Speaker 1: I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls
Speaker 1: in front of me makes me ten minutes late and
Speaker 1: that fits me off. And I tried to let it go,
Speaker 1: and I guess it was just nervous energy. I just
Speaker 1: kind of wouldn't shut up, and I just talked NonStop
Speaker 1: pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this
Speaker 1: guy the whole time? Pretty much? Do you have angry
Speaker 1: issues normally? Are you an angry guy? I tend to
Speaker 1: think I'm pretty even killed guy, But I asked you
Speaker 1: to recap the incident on the way to the date,
Speaker 1: and you just went off on us. So you sound
Speaker 1: like an angry dude? Are you? Are you an angry
Speaker 1: guy or are you I'm not normally, you know, really
Speaker 1: an angry guy. I think it was just a nervous
Speaker 1: energy of going to the date. And I think that's
Speaker 1: a mix of both of those things. I just kind of,
Speaker 1: you know, had a tough time. Did you explain to
Speaker 1: her that you were upset at a guy that you did?
Speaker 1: I think it just came off angry. Yeah, I see
Speaker 1: how that happened. Did she comment about your anger? Did
Speaker 1: she say, like, whoa, You're so pretty upset about that?
Speaker 1: Not really, I was pretty quiet about it. She was
Speaker 1: really quiet, probably quiet because she was scared for her life.
Speaker 1: People get that way. That's where I felt real bad
Speaker 1: with I just kind of just talked NonStop for forty
Speaker 1: five minutes. Did she get a word in edgewise? I
Speaker 1: mean not much? All right, So so you talked at
Speaker 1: her the whole time. Well, at the end, I said,
Speaker 1: you know, I said to her, I asked her about
Speaker 1: going out on another date, and I apologize to her,
Speaker 1: and I said that, you know, I'm not normally like
Speaker 1: this and all this stuff, and you know, we slapped five,
Speaker 1: you high five. At the end of the day. Oh,
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna kiss her. I was like, from from
Speaker 1: being so nervous, pissed off, what kind of five are
Speaker 1: we talking about here, like on the side down low
Speaker 1: high five up high? So you gave her a high
Speaker 1: five to say goodbye? Did you ask to see her?
Speaker 1: End in herlocked fingers though? Gay? Oh nice, it's almost
Speaker 1: a handhold. You almost held her hand on the first date.
Speaker 1: Did you ask to see her again? Well? Yeah, we
Speaker 1: talked about it and I mentioned i'd throw her text
Speaker 1: and I texted her a few times and I haven't
Speaker 1: really heard back, so I'm kind of curious, you know,
Speaker 1: I know it didn't go great, but I thought it
Speaker 1: ended good after you apologize to orgies to say, oh,
Speaker 1: I totally understand. I've been there before or not so much.
Speaker 1: And so she seemed upset. Yeah, I mean I told her,
Speaker 1: I said, I told her that, you know, my energy
Speaker 1: level was often and I was really nervous for the
Speaker 1: date as it was, and then this happened and it
Speaker 1: just it just totally threw me and I and I
Speaker 1: feel horrible about it. And I told her that, and
Speaker 1: she seemed receptive to it. Yeah, but this whole situation,
Speaker 1: you know, it just it it didn't go well, and
Speaker 1: I really want a second chance because I think her
Speaker 1: and I could really do well. Together, and I think
Speaker 1: that even with my anger issues, you know, the little
Speaker 1: bit of road rates, because I feel like a girl
Speaker 1: like her could really call me down. Okay, that's kind
Speaker 1: of sweet. All right, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date up date. Okay, great,
Speaker 1: thank you? All right. Trying to freak out brooking Jubil.
Speaker 1: In the morning, Adam is on the phone with us.
Speaker 1: He wants us to call a girl named Rin today
Speaker 1: for his second date update. They went out met for coffee.
Speaker 1: He was ten minutes late and ended up being very
Speaker 1: frustrated from a road rage incident that made him late.
Speaker 1: Feels like he just vented about the thing the whole
Speaker 1: time and was just angry and didn't even literally get
Speaker 1: a word in edgewise while they had their coffee date. Adam,
Speaker 1: you're about ready to give her a call? I'm ready, man,
Speaker 1: all right. I was thinking about this. Most girls, when
Speaker 1: they list the traits that they like in a potential mate,
Speaker 1: they usually say something like I like a guy who's sensitive,
Speaker 1: a guy who's caring, good job, very responsible. They usually
Speaker 1: don't list potential homicidal maniac as a as a good quality.
Speaker 1: So that's probably why she's not calling you back. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you went on a first date with somebody and
Speaker 1: they showed up a little late, first of all, that's
Speaker 1: one strike against you, and then proceeded to just be
Speaker 1: angry the whole time, I doubt you'd be so to
Speaker 1: call him back to I mean, I think that's kind
Speaker 1: of issue. And that's why I'm trying to make it
Speaker 1: work with her again, because I really do feel like
Speaker 1: I had a bad representation. You want to do over? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just want to try one more time, you know,
Speaker 1: I want to. I want to kind of show Rends
Speaker 1: the adam that I really am. Okay, can you think
Speaker 1: this call is gonna do it for you? You've got
Speaker 1: a level head on you right now. Yeah. Can we
Speaker 1: just get this going so I don't get pissed off
Speaker 1: about it? Okay, all right, I'm gonna call it right now. Man,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. How can I speak to Ren? Please? Hey? Ren?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning, the radio program. I am sorry, I
Speaker 1: think you have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: I have the right number. Rend there's not a whole
Speaker 1: lot of rends and I was given your number by
Speaker 1: a guy named Adam to call you today. What. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Adam is a listener to our show, and he says
Speaker 1: he recently went out on a date with you, but
Speaker 1: you're not calling him back. And he asked us to
Speaker 1: see if we get you on the phone and ask
Speaker 1: why how do you know him? He listens to our
Speaker 1: radio show. Adam wanted us to call you to ask
Speaker 1: if if he did something wrong on your date or
Speaker 1: there's a particular reason that you don't want to see
Speaker 1: him again. This is I don't even really know how
Speaker 1: to respond to this. I know it's you about this
Speaker 1: he did. He told us that you went out for coffee,
Speaker 1: and he said that he was a little late, and
Speaker 1: he actually feels bad because he thinks that he may
Speaker 1: have been a little upset from a traffic incident and
Speaker 1: he wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh,
Speaker 1: oh my god, is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would say so. I get this is what you
Speaker 1: guys do. So I don't mean to be disrespectful at all.
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like, no, that's fine. I appreciate
Speaker 1: you taking the time out to talk to us. We
Speaker 1: just want to pass along a message to Adam and
Speaker 1: give him your perspective on the first date. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can talk about that. My experience with Adam was
Speaker 1: very limited, and I'm not a very confrontational person, and
Speaker 1: he was very, very angry, and I think that the
Speaker 1: first ten minutes of the time that we very very
Speaker 1: first were introduced to each other, it was really just
Speaker 1: all about this driving experience that we had had being
Speaker 1: so frustrated with this other person. Was he like cussid
Speaker 1: and stuff when he was explaining it to you, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like it was so so over
Speaker 1: the top that I would have need to have left,
Speaker 1: because I would have done that if it was really
Speaker 1: really that bad. If you so, I was going to
Speaker 1: ask you, rin, I was going to ask you if
Speaker 1: at any point you were scared for your life. No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but
Speaker 1: it was pretty intense. Even when he finally went to
Speaker 1: go get us some coffee, which he did, you know,
Speaker 1: finally pull himself up to be like, Okay, I'm going
Speaker 1: to go get us some coffee, but pulls himself together.
Speaker 1: Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee,
Speaker 1: he I can hear him from from all of the
Speaker 1: way at the other end of the shop, and he's
Speaker 1: ordering and he just sounds aggressive. So was he like
Speaker 1: yelling at the barista and stuff like I'm picturing him
Speaker 1: tearing up this Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it
Speaker 1: really wasn't like that. It wasn't like he was he
Speaker 1: was unkind towards the people around him necessarily. It's just
Speaker 1: the like the manner in which he was dealing with things.
Speaker 1: It was just like pent up. You know, when somebody's
Speaker 1: really upset about something and even though they are doing
Speaker 1: something normal, it's in an abnormal way. And here's the
Speaker 1: other thing that was that was tough. It was manifesting
Speaker 1: in like sweat. Oh, he was so mad that he
Speaker 1: was sweating. Well I don't know if he just sweats,
Speaker 1: if that's a thing independent of what was going on,
Speaker 1: but it seem like it was fueled or at least
Speaker 1: like made a lot worse by his emotional space. Rand
Speaker 1: It's called hyper hydrosis because people we can't control their
Speaker 1: sweat glands. Okay, they sweat a ton. He maybe he
Speaker 1: has that. So you don't want to see him again
Speaker 1: because he's an angry sweaty mess. It's not just that
Speaker 1: he was sweating a lot and being angry. He was
Speaker 1: sweating profusely, like in the bottom of his hands. There
Speaker 1: was wet dripping down him and then collecting like under.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of the right way to say this,
Speaker 1: um like, oh, man, boobs, you know, Oh, he sweat
Speaker 1: it out. His whole shirt like dark, dark, just covered
Speaker 1: in sweat. O. Man, Yeah, that's bad. If he's pitting
Speaker 1: out a little bit, that's kind of like whoa, man,
Speaker 1: you sweat a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole
Speaker 1: shirt was sweating out, I don't think that's what And
Speaker 1: that's what I was concerned about, because I know that
Speaker 1: when i'm offset, like I'll sweat a little bit and
Speaker 1: that's normal. But it was whoa, It was so mich.
Speaker 1: I'd be curious to find out if it's an issue
Speaker 1: or if it's just his anger that makes him sweat
Speaker 1: like that. Aren't you curious to at least? No? Honestly,
Speaker 1: maybe he's a really great person that just had a
Speaker 1: really bad day. But I just don't want to deal
Speaker 1: with this, Okay, I really don't. That's cool. Thank you
Speaker 1: for giving us an answer. I appreciate it, but I
Speaker 1: really need to find out about this sweat. And that's
Speaker 1: why I'm glad you're still on the phone, because Adam
Speaker 1: is also on the phone and heard everything you just said.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you hitting me? Oh I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry him, Oh my god. I'm First of all,
Speaker 1: I'm really really sorry. Look, this is really good. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: And then I'm also like annoyed to be put in
Speaker 1: this situation. But I am sorry. If you heard things
Speaker 1: that I said that you don't need to feel bad
Speaker 1: around every Pretty much everything you said is it's true.
Speaker 1: I mean I can kind of explain the sweating thing,
Speaker 1: the anger stuff, Um, the sweating thing, let's start with that. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I threw a hoodie in a
Speaker 1: coat on and it ended up not being as cold
Speaker 1: out as I anticipated. By the time I was all
Speaker 1: pissed off at this guy in front of me. I
Speaker 1: started sweating the car because I was lasting the heat
Speaker 1: and I was so pissed up. I wasn't thinking about it.
Speaker 1: The coffee shop had the heat on. I couldn't stop sweating,
Speaker 1: and I knew I was and I know that my
Speaker 1: man hoops were sweating. Yeah, and that was a crappy
Speaker 1: thing for me to say about man the steps for
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that was just the first time was just
Speaker 1: easy here. That's what I think I want you to hear.
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm not that angry guy. I know I
Speaker 1: was sweaty, I know I was hot, ash and I
Speaker 1: thought about a kid, and you wouldn't mention it. Like
Speaker 1: I was so lost in that date and like I
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do and I went home and
Speaker 1: showered right away. I was like I was living in
Speaker 1: the mirror and like I literally like was mortified by
Speaker 1: myself because I was really excited about this date and
Speaker 1: like I never tell friends about going out with anybody,
Speaker 1: but for some reason, I was kind of stoked on
Speaker 1: you and I just crashed and burned. And I kind
Speaker 1: of do that a lot in life. And I just
Speaker 1: want you to know that I really am sorry. And
Speaker 1: as far as you and I are concerned, like I'd
Speaker 1: love one more shot. There's one more chance to maybe
Speaker 1: sweat it out with you and Heyn, would you like
Speaker 1: to go out with Adam again. I will pay for
Speaker 1: a second date. We can send you guys to a
Speaker 1: spin class or something. We're sweat is supposed to be there,
Speaker 1: and would you maybe give him another shot to see
Speaker 1: if he's not so flustered this time he can you
Speaker 1: can do a better job, Adam. I am, like, this
Speaker 1: is awkward, and I just want to say I appreciate
Speaker 1: you eventually being honest. I think that what I would
Speaker 1: have preferred is if you could have communicated this to me,
Speaker 1: not on a radio station, because you did contact me,
Speaker 1: and you didn't really ever just come out and say
Speaker 1: I totally did it. Rent. I mean, as crazy as
Speaker 1: I was there, it's probably crazier that I ended up
Speaker 1: on the radio with you right now. But I tried
Speaker 1: calling and I texting you, and you know you ever
Speaker 1: got back to me here. So like, I thought like
Speaker 1: this was my last option of how I could get
Speaker 1: ahold of you. Rin, Will you do it? Will you
Speaker 1: go out with him one more time? Come on, we've
Speaker 1: never had anyone be so sincere. Will you drive? Plea's
Speaker 1: just a weird It's oh right, okay, all right, yeah
Speaker 1: one more day? Nice? All right, Rin, thank you for
Speaker 1: your time, Adam. Congratulations, you got your second date. Man,
Speaker 1: you guys, this is gonna be great. I promise you, Adam.
Speaker 1: Two words before your next date. All right, gold bond
Speaker 1: today in the morning text in at seven eighty five
Speaker 1: to nine and two about today's second day update. It's
Speaker 1: just says four words gold bond and uber, which could
Speaker 1: have helped out Adam a lot. On his date, he
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl name Rin. He was a
Speaker 1: little late for their coffee date. He got into a
Speaker 1: little road rage incident on the way, and he thought
Speaker 1: that was the reason why he wasn't a call back,
Speaker 1: because he was just venting about that the whole time.
Speaker 1: It's partly why he wasn't going to call back. But
Speaker 1: he was also super sweaty, yeah, because he was nervous
Speaker 1: and upset, and I guess he was just drenched in
Speaker 1: sweat the whole time, and he dressed wrong. It's hard sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know, you do the sweat shirt and the co
Speaker 1: and then you realize it's too late. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: once you start sweating, you can't take any of it off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to leave it on because now you have
Speaker 1: pits stains. Yeah, and now it's like eighty times worse. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And like what a bad day to start already with
Speaker 1: the rotary interest and then just keep snowballing Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was a spiral, but I think they're going to recover.
Speaker 1: I think they're gonna be good. Yeah, they decided to
Speaker 1: go out again still, and he'll just make sure that
Speaker 1: he wears enough deodorant and maybe he takes that text
Speaker 1: there's advice and get some gold bond and he rubs
Speaker 1: down and everything else too, to make sure that he
Speaker 1: doesn't get too sweaty on his next date. I really
Speaker 1: think he needs to learn how to layer clothing. It's
Speaker 1: gonna help him a lot. Will definitely remember. If you
Speaker 1: want to do a second day of the date, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back five