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Speaker 1: and Jewels. Second date of date. I think the best

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Speaker 1: way to make a first impression on a first date

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Speaker 1: is to show her your rage issues right away. You

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Speaker 1: the whole time. Usually ladies like that a lot. Yeah

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Speaker 1: they do. Oh, they love it. That's why Adam is

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Speaker 1: on the phone right now. He emailed us about a

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Speaker 1: date that he had that he feels didn't go so

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Speaker 1: great because he was a little angry when he showed

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Speaker 1: up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all,

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Speaker 1: I will say I read your email and the issue

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Speaker 1: way you acted on your date. I can't blame you.

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Speaker 1: I think I would have acted the same way I've

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Speaker 1: been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and

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Speaker 1: tell everybody about how you met the girl that you

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Speaker 1: want us to call today. So her name was Wren,

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Speaker 1: and you know it was one of those like friend

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Speaker 1: of a friend to saying we were both single. They

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Speaker 1: set us up. But she was real good looking. I

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Speaker 1: It really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit.

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Speaker 1: So I was pretty stoked on the date from the

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Speaker 1: before you met and showed her your angry side, dude,

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That

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Speaker 1: listened the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your

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Speaker 1: I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee,

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Speaker 1: ask because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: already raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay. Yeah, no, hey, dude, Adam,

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Speaker 1: you're talking to the king of road rage right here.

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Speaker 1: I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand

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Speaker 1: you were angry about this dude. Yeah, well of course

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Speaker 1: I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls

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Speaker 1: pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this

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Speaker 1: People get that way. That's where I felt real bad

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Speaker 1: thank you? All right. Trying to freak out brooking Jubil.

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Speaker 1: In the morning, Adam is on the phone with us.

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. How can I speak to Ren? Please? Hey? Ren?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning, the radio program. I am sorry, I

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Speaker 1: think you have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: I have the right number. Rend there's not a whole

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Speaker 1: a guy named Adam to call you today. What. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Adam is a listener to our show, and he says

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Speaker 1: why how do you know him? He listens to our

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Speaker 1: he wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but

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Speaker 1: Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee,

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Speaker 1: tearing up this Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it

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Speaker 1: really wasn't like that. It wasn't like he was he

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Speaker 1: other thing that was that was tough. It was manifesting

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Speaker 1: in like sweat. Oh, he was so mad that he

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Speaker 1: if that's a thing independent of what was going on,

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Speaker 1: It's called hyper hydrosis because people we can't control their

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Speaker 1: you sweat a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you hitting me? Oh I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry him, Oh my god. I'm First of all,

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Speaker 1: around every Pretty much everything you said is it's true.

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Speaker 1: Two words before your next date. All right, gold bond

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Speaker 1: today in the morning text in at seven eighty five

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