Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Back there, Nice Little as back there,
Speaker 1: Little asked back there, Hey y'all, what stops? It's your girl,
Speaker 1: Justice Laris, Welcome back for another episode of Carefully Reckless.
Speaker 1: I got my brother sitting in with me today, my twin,
Speaker 1: my other half, my everything, Prince. Say, what's uping? Y'all know,
Speaker 1: if y'all see this mother with me, he's with me.
Speaker 1: That's my man's He's on my Instagram, he's on the
Speaker 1: roll with me. He everywhere. He's gonna listen in story time. Alright,
Speaker 1: So look y'all know I was dating Country Wayne, I
Speaker 1: want to say allegedly, but a nigga was dating a bit.
Speaker 1: He was, and he ended up being married. Now let
Speaker 1: me walk you through this. Now, Wayne liked me for
Speaker 1: quite some time. He was, I want to say, chasing
Speaker 1: me for two years. I don't like to say chasing,
Speaker 1: but that's what he was doing. And it was cool.
Speaker 1: You know, there's a woman you like attention, you know,
Speaker 1: from elsewhere. But I was in a relationship, so I
Speaker 1: never entertained him until I broke up with Chris. Shortly
Speaker 1: after I broke up with my ex. He popped up
Speaker 1: in West Palm Beach, Florida. Now I had a show
Speaker 1: and the improv he came. He popped up with his
Speaker 1: two brothers, and he wooed me, you know, as they say.
Speaker 1: And you know, I was not looking for love, but
Speaker 1: I was, you know, a little vulnerable after breaking up
Speaker 1: with my ex. And Waine looked good, you know, he
Speaker 1: looked good. He got his clowned out ways, but he
Speaker 1: looks good. And I allowed him to woo me or whatever.
Speaker 1: So after like a couple of months, we made it official.
Speaker 1: We were on I G. Then we go on our
Speaker 1: first trip. He took me to Puerto Rico and there
Speaker 1: is where I found out that he had a wife. Now,
Speaker 1: why the fuck she didn't come out before this? We
Speaker 1: had already been together for like three months, and then
Speaker 1: she decides to come out and say, I didn't know
Speaker 1: anything about us getting a divorce. I'm still happily married
Speaker 1: to my husband, Dwayne Coley. Which was some truth and
Speaker 1: then was some lies as well, because they in fact
Speaker 1: were in the middle of a divorce. But this nigga
Speaker 1: went as far as to even getting some woman that
Speaker 1: he had posed as a goddamn lawyer to call me
Speaker 1: to tell me that the divorce was final, which don't
Speaker 1: be over there laughing. He got the woman to tell me, yes,
Speaker 1: in her most professional voice, that the divorce was final, y'all.
Speaker 1: And I went with it. I believe them. And Ship
Speaker 1: and then the wife, Gina, she started going to shade
Speaker 1: room with Ship. Then she started talking to my sister
Speaker 1: about Ship. But she never would call me. I sent
Speaker 1: them my number. She never would call me a nothing,
Speaker 1: never ever even talked to me in the d M s.
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm saying all this to say, this man
Speaker 1: felt that he didn't do anything wrong because he was
Speaker 1: not with her like he wasn't with her. Nigga, you're
Speaker 1: still married to her. And that brings me to my question.
Speaker 1: This separation make it okay to cheat? I think absolutely not,
Speaker 1: because you are still legally fucking married, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. And then they were living in the same
Speaker 1: fucking house. You know. Sometimes she would go stay here,
Speaker 1: I imagine, and then he would be gone most of
Speaker 1: the time, because we are comedians, we are on the
Speaker 1: road most of the time. He does stand up and
Speaker 1: ship and then you know, sometimes I guess he would
Speaker 1: be filming or what have you. So she would see
Speaker 1: him barely, you know, barely, but at the same time,
Speaker 1: you know, and then he would spend a lot of
Speaker 1: time with me. And let me tell you, this man
Speaker 1: was in Baltimore for like too much straight help me
Speaker 1: look for a house that he got for me, like
Speaker 1: seriously moved me out of my other house and got me.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, yo, through all of this, Gina, you
Speaker 1: never came out and said anything anything. That's when later
Speaker 1: Ship admitted, Okay, we're in the middle of a divorce,
Speaker 1: but until we are finally divorced, that's still my husband.
Speaker 1: And I could not argue with her anymore, and she
Speaker 1: was right. I had to leave the nigga. Does separation
Speaker 1: make it okay to cheat? In your opinion, bro, No,
Speaker 1: it does not. Doesn't make it okay to cheat because
Speaker 1: a lot of times in separation situations people often end
Speaker 1: up getting back together. Look at look at Uh. Look
Speaker 1: at Crystal and Neo. You know, they were in the
Speaker 1: process of found divorice for you know, whatever the reasons was,
Speaker 1: um and then quarantine brought them back together and they
Speaker 1: are happily married and living life like that part of
Speaker 1: their life never happened. So if you cheat and do
Speaker 1: things in between that time, you're only making it worse
Speaker 1: than what it already is. Yeah, you're right. And I
Speaker 1: remember I was watching something about Crystal and Neo and
Speaker 1: the problem that he said. Crystal never came out and
Speaker 1: said you know what the problem was or whatever, but
Speaker 1: Neo this Nigga said, our demons didn't mesh Neio, what
Speaker 1: the funk are you talking? And in the political ship, sir,
Speaker 1: like Nigga's always saying some ship to make them sound like,
Speaker 1: wouldn't hold hands, like, sir, they're demons. That's not what
Speaker 1: they did anyway, like what the funds hold? He was
Speaker 1: dead ass, he said the ship Hella Times and Hella Interviews.
Speaker 1: But I'm glad to see that back together. That actually
Speaker 1: my good friends, you know, and they are back together.
Speaker 1: So no separation does not make it okay to cheat. No,
Speaker 1: And the reason that's why it's still cheating because you
Speaker 1: are still legally married, which brings me to just fix
Speaker 1: my mess. Now we got a commercial and if you
Speaker 1: click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat
Speaker 1: your ass. Listen, they know this segment is where I
Speaker 1: catered to my fans. Now I asked about this situation,
Speaker 1: A lot of people write me, I'm just gonna read
Speaker 1: a few off that I picked. Danny from Birmingham says Alabama. Yes, Obama,
Speaker 1: She said, I am married to my kids father. We
Speaker 1: are currently separated. During our separation, he stepped out and
Speaker 1: now he has a baby on the way, but we're
Speaker 1: still living together and has decided to work it out.
Speaker 1: I can't get that off my mind. Though. That's a
Speaker 1: really tough pill to swallow. So are you going to
Speaker 1: work it out? Danny? That is a hard pill to swallow.
Speaker 1: Like I just said, they were separated, y'all, weren't divorced now.
Speaker 1: I I feel if you have an agreement with your
Speaker 1: husband or your wife, if we're married and we tell
Speaker 1: each other, we come together and we have a talk
Speaker 1: and you say, look, while we separated, we're gonna date.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the only way if both parties agree.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Because he's still stepped out
Speaker 1: on you, Danny. He stepped out on you, and he
Speaker 1: made a baby that ain't even stepping out, Like you're
Speaker 1: imparted in somebody else completely, Like I know that's right
Speaker 1: to you. I don't even know what imparted, mean, what
Speaker 1: the hell is that? And you'll listening, I don't my
Speaker 1: ship trying to fucking outdo me with the words. You'll
Speaker 1: say this, take it, imparted, drop some you'll drop some legacy,
Speaker 1: and somebody else. And he still lives and they have children,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And then imagine what he
Speaker 1: has to go home and tell his children if this
Speaker 1: girl keeps his baby. Now, it ain't no telling what
Speaker 1: kind of girl she is if she crazy enough to
Speaker 1: keep it just because she is being spiteful, you know,
Speaker 1: because like you said, with those situations, people normally get
Speaker 1: back together, but the nigga always, if not just the
Speaker 1: majority of the time, guys always have this thing where
Speaker 1: they they like the butter a bitch up to get
Speaker 1: what they want. And he may have told her that
Speaker 1: he would leave. His wife may have told her that,
Speaker 1: and she might keep the baby out of spite, or
Speaker 1: she might just get rid of it if she if
Speaker 1: she's fucking smart. Because this woman here, the wife is
Speaker 1: telling me that they're trying to work it out. So
Speaker 1: obviously he wants to be forgiven and he don't want
Speaker 1: to be with the girl. But I still wouldn't trust
Speaker 1: this nigga, because now you have another baby mother outside
Speaker 1: of me that you're gonna have to deal with for
Speaker 1: eighteen years plus. I even people just stop at eighteen games.
Speaker 1: That baby gonna be your baby forever, forever, forever. Now,
Speaker 1: you can cut off all times with the mother at eighteen,
Speaker 1: but as long as the child is here, it's going
Speaker 1: to be connected to the mother and the father. So
Speaker 1: it ultimately connects, y'all, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: you have to deal with this woman whether you like
Speaker 1: it or not. Danny, I wouldn't be able to trust it.
Speaker 1: I would run for the motherfucking hills. Then, I just
Speaker 1: I can't prince what you think, what you want to
Speaker 1: tell her, because she still has feelings for him. I
Speaker 1: think that if they're still having sex, she should use
Speaker 1: a condom because he probably just out here raw dog
Speaker 1: and everybody period, And that might might not even be
Speaker 1: the only bitch out here that's pregnant, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: sure it's not just the only one that spoke out.
Speaker 1: And then separation always ain't easy because they have things together.
Speaker 1: Get out, Danny, go somewhere else. Alabama is pretty big,
Speaker 1: so you can ali bye bye your way right on
Speaker 1: out that door. Now, I don't have like the background
Speaker 1: of them and how long you'll been married. But you know,
Speaker 1: if you feel like it's worth it and you believe
Speaker 1: in God, if it's Aud's will, he'll bring you all
Speaker 1: back together. Pray through it. But me telling you from
Speaker 1: you know, woman to woman as a woman, that's a
Speaker 1: no good situation. I've seen a lot of situations like
Speaker 1: this and they don't turn out pretty. So that brings
Speaker 1: me to my next one. So now we got seven
Speaker 1: from Utah. People don't think we're making this up. Seven
Speaker 1: from Utah. Been in a relationship for four years, been
Speaker 1: suspected he was cheating, went through his phone, and he's
Speaker 1: been creeping with another guy. What is her husband's name?
Speaker 1: First of all, a shut up prince, she said. I
Speaker 1: definitely wanted to kill him at first, but honestly, I
Speaker 1: feel sorry for him because he's still is in denial.
Speaker 1: I would like to move on with him as friends
Speaker 1: and help him live in his truth, but he is
Speaker 1: denying it and still is trying to fix it with me.
Speaker 1: I ain't working with it. Okay, Now this is kind
Speaker 1: of different. I kind I like her disposition. I like it.
Speaker 1: That's a hard pill to swallow to find out that
Speaker 1: your man is cheating on you with a man, creeping
Speaker 1: with men and ship. You know, but she seems like
Speaker 1: the bigger person. She seems like she really want to
Speaker 1: help this nigga live in his truth. She want to
Speaker 1: help him come out and um ultimately be his friend,
Speaker 1: you know. And that's a strong motherfucking woman. I too
Speaker 1: has to be. She is too okay with this. But
Speaker 1: we often see a lot of women murray gay men.
Speaker 1: So did you not see these signs in the beginning? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that is true. You know, did you not see these signs?
Speaker 1: Because it ain't something that just went to sleep and
Speaker 1: woke up and he was like, I'm gonna go had
Speaker 1: sex with a man and cheat on my wife. Like no,
Speaker 1: this ship is deeper than that. Yeah, you know. Now
Speaker 1: they're not married. They're in a relationship, but like you're
Speaker 1: sitting and for four years. So but he can't marry
Speaker 1: her because he's not attracted to her. So at this point,
Speaker 1: she's an arm piece and you know that's just what
Speaker 1: it is. Yes, she says, cover up and eventually you know,
Speaker 1: and his arm piece and um, she's talking to me
Speaker 1: like she knew this though you know what, you know
Speaker 1: what I hate that? I hate you if he is
Speaker 1: he a pastor seven come come back and email us
Speaker 1: and let us let us know if a past because
Speaker 1: my brother that he's saying he think you no woman
Speaker 1: to show. He might know who that he is because
Speaker 1: that happens a lot here, so we need to see.
Speaker 1: But uh, you know our jokes aside seven off for real,
Speaker 1: man um, I think that's very very big of you to,
Speaker 1: you know, try to help him come forth and you know,
Speaker 1: living his truth. But baby, if he's not ready, he's
Speaker 1: not gonna do it, you know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: you can't. It's not one of those cases where you
Speaker 1: say you can't help somebody that don't want to be helped.
Speaker 1: He doesn't feel like he needs to be helped. He
Speaker 1: just needs his own time. It's everything happens with time,
Speaker 1: and he'll be comfortable enough to come out whenever he
Speaker 1: whenever he's ready, you know. But what he can't do
Speaker 1: is keep hurting women. He cannot keep dating him and
Speaker 1: if that's not what he wants now, he can be
Speaker 1: bisexual too. She didn't give me much clarity on that.
Speaker 1: She didn't tell me that she just said that she
Speaker 1: had been suspecting he was cheating and he was creeping
Speaker 1: with a nigga she found out. Okay, Well, like I said,
Speaker 1: he'll come out on his own time. You know, that's
Speaker 1: not something you can force someone to do. But it
Speaker 1: is absolutely wrong of him if he's not bisexual to
Speaker 1: keep dating women or to keep dating you and ship
Speaker 1: like that. You at least have to be honest with
Speaker 1: this person enough to tell them. Look, I like men
Speaker 1: and women, you know what I mean or whatever? You know,
Speaker 1: So honesty is key and a lot of this ship.
Speaker 1: The last one I'm gonna read is from Sheriff from
Speaker 1: West Bottomore. It says, hey bitch, Yeah, she definitely from
Speaker 1: absolutely stupid dumbasking you simpleton. Yes, she said, hey bitch,
Speaker 1: my nigga won't post me this bitch from Bottomore for
Speaker 1: my nigga. Yeah, she definitely something going on. Hey bitch,
Speaker 1: my nigga won't post me, So I know he's cheating
Speaker 1: or he's hiding me from his ex wife who he
Speaker 1: claims he doesn't want back. Little do he know. I
Speaker 1: called her myself and she told me that he told
Speaker 1: her I am the FedEx delivery driver in his neighborhood. Well,
Speaker 1: do you really work for FedEx? Because I've been waiting
Speaker 1: on this goddamn package for two weeks and I need
Speaker 1: the FedEx. Do she work for USPS? I don't know
Speaker 1: a boy, no mo Fex, but I know USPS was
Speaker 1: back throwing up and bitch, I don't even give give
Speaker 1: problems where my ship? I don't care because I think
Speaker 1: I noticed, bit right, Yeah, yeah, I think I noticed. Bitch.
Speaker 1: You know she don't work for FedEx. She worked at
Speaker 1: I've guard as the bartender her ass. Yeah, but I'm
Speaker 1: Sharon baby. If he ain't gonna post you, Um, it
Speaker 1: depends on the type of nigga he is. You got,
Speaker 1: you know, two types of niggas well, more than two types.
Speaker 1: But in this case, you got the type that won't
Speaker 1: post you because he likes to eat his business separate
Speaker 1: from though most people on Instagram these days they have
Speaker 1: business pages, business accounts and ship and I know that
Speaker 1: a lot of y'all listening like bitch, please every time
Speaker 1: I nigga say I want to buy my businesses because
Speaker 1: he's hiding. Yeah that's not every time, though, not every time.
Speaker 1: There are really guys out here who have businesses that
Speaker 1: he liked that they like to keep separate from their
Speaker 1: personal lives. And then you got the other type of
Speaker 1: nigga who won't post you because he is hiding, you know,
Speaker 1: and he don't want to post one bitch and lose
Speaker 1: all the rest of this bitches, or not even losing
Speaker 1: because bites don't leave these days. Bitches get mad, they
Speaker 1: vent on social media, tell all your business, and then
Speaker 1: they end up right back with you later once everything
Speaker 1: calm back down and ship. So you got those two
Speaker 1: types of niggas. You have to decide which one he
Speaker 1: is sharing because you know him. We don't not to
Speaker 1: mention who wants to post their relationships status on social
Speaker 1: media because the problems that every every individual fall short
Speaker 1: of something. So the problem is that as soon as
Speaker 1: you ship relationship, because nobody's perfect, so as soon as
Speaker 1: you post is kissing picture of you ain't get nigga
Speaker 1: or whatever the case it. Maybe somebody has a story
Speaker 1: in the d M of how fucked up this person is,
Speaker 1: what this person did to them and how they reacted
Speaker 1: or this and the third, but don't tell what caused
Speaker 1: this because there's a reaction to ever reaction. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so social media has ruined it. Like
Speaker 1: I haven't been a multiple relationshipship. I'm in a new
Speaker 1: relationship every two weeks. But I mean posting the motherfucker,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, yeah, see that's what
Speaker 1: we do. It's okay, quity season's good coming up. But yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, sure, hoise what I mean.
Speaker 1: But you just I don't think that you should post
Speaker 1: your relationship or who you're dealing with on social media. Period.
Speaker 1: A happy life is a private life, and it's not
Speaker 1: let you hide in anything. You know, what you do
Speaker 1: in the comfort the comfort of your bed room, your
Speaker 1: home is between you and that person. You don't gotta
Speaker 1: post it. You don't gotta post it. Can't live through
Speaker 1: social media. Social media will ruin your life. And that's
Speaker 1: exactly what everybody does. Just like people get together for
Speaker 1: the image of it, just to see how many comments
Speaker 1: they'll get on it. Let's pose like this, y'all could yo,
Speaker 1: they could have just seriously got finished cheating on each
Speaker 1: other or arguing about something, or he could have burned
Speaker 1: her because he got an STD from somebody else. But
Speaker 1: they're gonna get on social media and paint this perfect picture,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like social it's like an
Speaker 1: imagery and I can't stand that ship. And then not
Speaker 1: to mention share it from West Baltimore. You said you
Speaker 1: called the ex wife yourself and she told you that
Speaker 1: he told her that you were a delivery driver in
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. Baby girl, in my deepest beast of own voice,
Speaker 1: what in the fuck did you think even just hearing that,
Speaker 1: it's the audacity to call his ex wife don't like skills? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you did that. And then you like you climbed up
Speaker 1: the tree and the motherfucker shook that bitch and you
Speaker 1: fell back down because you cannot do that. That's out
Speaker 1: of line, that's overstepping your boundary. You never called my
Speaker 1: ex wife and then you found out something new. Now
Speaker 1: you never told me to see people. They only leave
Speaker 1: like a bit of the story. I want to know
Speaker 1: what the fun she said to this nigg And oh,
Speaker 1: so you told your wife that I was the I
Speaker 1: wouldn't have said it. That would have been the last
Speaker 1: time he saw me and the last time she ever
Speaker 1: heard from me, because obviously he's still sucking with his
Speaker 1: ex wife. You know, she's an ex but she was
Speaker 1: his ex wife. They shared a lot of history together
Speaker 1: for him to even be talking about his new thing
Speaker 1: with his old thing, and that thing being a wife.
Speaker 1: So Sharon, I'm just saying, baby, I don't know, maybe
Speaker 1: you need to date around some more in West Baltimore
Speaker 1: or some ship because this guy don't seem like he's
Speaker 1: in to you much. And yeah, and I think you
Speaker 1: need to stay yourself because if you call the people
Speaker 1: x as and ship, you got some insecurities within yourself.
Speaker 1: And it's a lot of toxicity going on there. Like
Speaker 1: that word, that word that was Yeah, yeah, well, you know, toxicity.
Speaker 1: That was my first word. You know, that's the first
Speaker 1: word I have to said when I was you know,
Speaker 1: little That brings us to the current news. We're gonna
Speaker 1: wrap up that portion of just fix my mess. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope we helped, y'all know. Yeah, absolutely probably did.
Speaker 1: Let us know if we did. Hit me in my
Speaker 1: d M s and we'll be right back after this.
Speaker 1: That brings us the current events. Now Listen for me,
Speaker 1: there are a lot of celebrities that have gotten caught
Speaker 1: cheating on their significant others that I want to speak
Speaker 1: on briefly. Little baby, and Jada. Every so often there
Speaker 1: is something in the media, there is a woman that
Speaker 1: comes forth about, you know, sleeping with little baby and
Speaker 1: ship like that. Now it's a rumor that he has
Speaker 1: contracts with these women and he pays them. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I don't know what the contract is, you know that
Speaker 1: of A and d A or whatever. But they're not
Speaker 1: supposed to say ship. And every time one comes forth,
Speaker 1: everybody bashes Jada because she still stays. That poses this question,
Speaker 1: do you let a niggad cheat on you because he's
Speaker 1: rich and you love the lifestyle? Are you okay with
Speaker 1: being publicly embarrassed? Are you okay with humiliation? Are you
Speaker 1: okay with decreasing your dignity? Are you okay with that?
Speaker 1: It's his millions, your Berkins, your big home, your Bentley's,
Speaker 1: your ferrar Is, the races, all that, all that designer ship?
Speaker 1: Is that lifestyle worth your heart? And you know as
Speaker 1: a woman, what you stand for, your pride and everything.
Speaker 1: Not to me, not to me? And I could be
Speaker 1: just different, you know what I'm saying. I've never been
Speaker 1: in her in her predicament. Jada has her own money.
Speaker 1: She's a money maker, you know. She she's a hustler.
Speaker 1: She's an entrepreneur, but she's not little baby, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And her money don't make him, and
Speaker 1: his money makes her. You know what I'm saying. It
Speaker 1: makes her, it betters her, and then they have a baby.
Speaker 1: She's in love with him. It's a lot of other factors,
Speaker 1: but families break up every day. Um in regular life celebrities,
Speaker 1: it seems like a little bit harder the infidelity I
Speaker 1: feel when you're a celebrity, I feel like they kind
Speaker 1: of wanted overlooked because I got this money, I bought
Speaker 1: this ship for you. Because I remember a little baby
Speaker 1: tweeting who goes harder for their girl than me? And
Speaker 1: I'm not just talking about financial gifts. I'm talking about
Speaker 1: in every way. I remember. I put that in jest
Speaker 1: with the mess, and I named about ten other niggas
Speaker 1: that immediately came to mind. Who goes harder for the girl.
Speaker 1: We're not saying you don't love her, you love her
Speaker 1: to death. You don't love any of these bitches, But
Speaker 1: that does not mean that you get a past the
Speaker 1: cheat because you ain't gonna love this bitch, or you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna buy a nothing, or you ain't gonna, Yeah,
Speaker 1: why I step out on me? Jadab's fucking beautiful. That's
Speaker 1: your son's mother. She's beautiful, beauty. Ain't to it though.
Speaker 1: She cooks, she do TikTok's, she cleans, she takes care.
Speaker 1: You know, all the new little you know, millennial ship,
Speaker 1: they all do it. Why can't you just keep your
Speaker 1: ship at home? Because he gets bored, Yeah, he gets bored.
Speaker 1: And the fun part about it is that he can
Speaker 1: go out here and do whatever he wants to these
Speaker 1: quote skank as bitches that he wouldn't do too his
Speaker 1: girl because he considers her wife. Yeah, you just never
Speaker 1: know why people move and do certain things, like because
Speaker 1: everybody is coming forward, is even strippers, ex trippers, bartenders
Speaker 1: or whatever. These are. These are people who this is
Speaker 1: what they do for a living, you know. So he
Speaker 1: can do super nasty ship with these people that he
Speaker 1: wouldn't even think about doing to you know, Jada, because
Speaker 1: he respects Jada. You know, he loves Jada. He don't
Speaker 1: love these these these bitches. That's why he has them,
Speaker 1: uh signing in das or whatever the case, contractual joints.
Speaker 1: But they're not even working because they're telling on us
Speaker 1: that's still period. So you know the type of consequence
Speaker 1: are they facing because they keep coming out and not
Speaker 1: paying somebody six thousand for them to telling on you.
Speaker 1: Giving away Freeman, that's a charity as it's so many
Speaker 1: starving kids that can have that money. Baby Ship, there's
Speaker 1: so many other little babies out this motherfucker you get
Speaker 1: that money too, and then we have the baby and Mimi. Now,
Speaker 1: Mimi has never come out and said this nigga has
Speaker 1: cheated on me with Danny Lay. She's never said that,
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna say that he cheated, but I
Speaker 1: believe he goes back and forth between the two people.
Speaker 1: We see it on social media all the time, and
Speaker 1: we have been seeing it for months now. Danny Lay
Speaker 1: cannot stop posting this nigga when he's around me. Me.
Speaker 1: She don't post them, but you know they're there. You
Speaker 1: know they're around each other because they posting their stories,
Speaker 1: their locations and leaving the shade room, leaving the Hollywood unlock,
Speaker 1: leaving to the neighborhood talk, leaving the jazz and brand
Speaker 1: and all the other people. They know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So he goes back and forth. That is still infidelity.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, because although we never heard
Speaker 1: Mimi say, oh he's cheating were this is like a
Speaker 1: love triangle. It's like Tara Amediate and Peter. And it
Speaker 1: makes me think, like, do they have an agreement that
Speaker 1: we don't know about what that's not publicized? Because that
Speaker 1: ship don't ever get messy, It don't never get too messy.
Speaker 1: It never goes over the top. So that that that
Speaker 1: agreement ship now that you just said, and I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about it as well, because bitches argue like Jada has.
Speaker 1: Jada has went back and forth with most of every
Speaker 1: most of all the bitches that didn't come out and
Speaker 1: said they funck little baby, And I wish she didn't
Speaker 1: do that because it's like, you don't need to do that.
Speaker 1: You don't need to do that. You don't like if
Speaker 1: you check him in private, like she tweeted before, if
Speaker 1: you check him in private, he's checked. Fuck it. Don't
Speaker 1: go online and start fussing with these bitches. That's what
Speaker 1: they want. They want to be in your shoes. They
Speaker 1: want your life, you know, and that little bit of
Speaker 1: piece that he's giving them makes them feel entitled. Let
Speaker 1: them bitches talk, because if y'all don't say ship, It'll
Speaker 1: go away. Baby, get on there saying ship too. Oh,
Speaker 1: this is like y'all lie, y'all lot no no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, Just don't say nothing nothing, say nothing, and
Speaker 1: it'll go the funk away, guarantee you Visiness Turns. When
Speaker 1: Turns got that motherfucking car accident, we still don't know
Speaker 1: who the bitch was he got to a car accident with.
Speaker 1: We don't know it wasn't his girlfriend, but we don't
Speaker 1: know who was that. Nigga ain't never said nothing about nothing.
Speaker 1: He popped back on the screen talking about yeah and
Speaker 1: this is the Star's power party. Like nothing, he say shit,
Speaker 1: He ain't entertained nothing about nothing, and it eventually went away.
Speaker 1: Should I keep bringing it up every now and then
Speaker 1: and just with the mess, But he won't say nothing
Speaker 1: about it. It will go away. That's how it is.
Speaker 1: You ignore ship and they gets smaller and smaller. Then
Speaker 1: we go to Cardi being offset. Now this was more
Speaker 1: so in the past. We haven't heard anything about him cheating,
Speaker 1: you know, lately and for a long time, I honestly
Speaker 1: felt like he's changed. At first, he was like little
Speaker 1: baby offset. This nigga was like little baby, this motherfucker.
Speaker 1: But I feel like he changed. I think he It's
Speaker 1: just that she can't say nothing else about it because
Speaker 1: remember the last time he cheated her comeback was I
Speaker 1: went back because I'm a dumb bitch and I like Dick.
Speaker 1: So at that point, even if he cheat on you again,
Speaker 1: what else can you say because now we don't want
Speaker 1: to hear it, like we know you're gonna go back
Speaker 1: to him. You're a dumb bitch and you like Dick.
Speaker 1: You said it, not us, you know so, But yo,
Speaker 1: yeah stop because that's still at the same time, that
Speaker 1: still won't stop the bitches from saying, yeah, you're right,
Speaker 1: Oh he did this, he did this. Yeah, bitch, what
Speaker 1: you're gonna say, whether she's gonna come back with it
Speaker 1: or not, it's always a bitch who wants somebody to
Speaker 1: know that they fucked your nigga, or they fucked your husband,
Speaker 1: or I'm sucking a celebrity fuck his wife. That's offset bitch,
Speaker 1: I fucked him that type of ship. Bitches just want
Speaker 1: people to know that. And that's that's really really fucking
Speaker 1: sad in hindsight when you think about it, because it's
Speaker 1: just like everybody wanna be famous. That motherfucking yeah, that
Speaker 1: fucking fame, that image, that that ship social media. Yes,
Speaker 1: the industry used to be so motherfucking different. Oh it's
Speaker 1: so sad now. But that brings us to the end
Speaker 1: of the show. I just want to leave you with
Speaker 1: some positivity. Three things in your relationships, Please please, please,
Speaker 1: please be upfront about everything. You never want to have
Speaker 1: your significant other in the dark. Your girlfriend, your boyfriend,
Speaker 1: your wife, whatever, your lover. You don't want to have
Speaker 1: them in a dark about anything. Do not hide your feelings.
Speaker 1: You can't do that, whether you're feeling some type of
Speaker 1: way about this thing or that thing, because that's how
Speaker 1: people go and look other places for other things. When
Speaker 1: you start lacking whatever it is you're lacking your relationship,
Speaker 1: you don't have the balls to say it, so you
Speaker 1: start cheating or you start going you know, and some
Speaker 1: people cheat for no fucking reason. But if you can
Speaker 1: help it, these things could help you. Be up front
Speaker 1: about everything. Do not hide your feelings, and communicate. Always
Speaker 1: communicate yes, yes, yes, yes. And I just want to
Speaker 1: add to that and have a peace of mind, even
Speaker 1: if that means being by yourself. I don't never be
Speaker 1: when nobody for convenienced, because that ship is whack and
Speaker 1: that's our ship bubble and it can become very toxic.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna leave you all on a note. Today
Speaker 1: they buy to my brother brother, say by to them.
Speaker 1: All right, fancy y'all later. I ain't saying to be
Speaker 1: word today, but see y'all later. I love y'all very
Speaker 1: motherfucking much because we want them to come back next Wednesday.
Speaker 1: That's it for Carefully Reckless, y'all, and then my best
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Speaker 1: shut the fuck up. I've been out hit on my cash,
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