WEBVTT - Separated Ain't Single 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.120 Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:07.640 and the Black Effect. Back there, Nice Little as back there, 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:19.600 Little asked back there, Hey y'all, what stops? It's your girl, 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:23.279 Justice Laris, Welcome back for another episode of Carefully Reckless. 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:25.480 I got my brother sitting in with me today, my twin, 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:30.160 my other half, my everything, Prince. Say, what's uping? Y'all know, 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.600 if y'all see this mother with me, he's with me. 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:35.120 That's my man's He's on my Instagram, he's on the 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:40.760 roll with me. He everywhere. He's gonna listen in story time. Alright, 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:44.519 So look y'all know I was dating Country Wayne, I 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.960 want to say allegedly, but a nigga was dating a bit. 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:51.599 He was, and he ended up being married. Now let 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:54.760 me walk you through this. Now, Wayne liked me for 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:57.760 quite some time. He was, I want to say, chasing 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.600 me for two years. I don't like to say chasing, 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:02.240 but that's what he was doing. And it was cool. 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:04.480 You know, there's a woman you like attention, you know, 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.319 from elsewhere. But I was in a relationship, so I 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:10.240 never entertained him until I broke up with Chris. Shortly 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:13.280 after I broke up with my ex. He popped up 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:15.200 in West Palm Beach, Florida. Now I had a show 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:19.240 and the improv he came. He popped up with his 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:22.480 two brothers, and he wooed me, you know, as they say. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.640 And you know, I was not looking for love, but 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:28.760 I was, you know, a little vulnerable after breaking up 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.200 with my ex. And Waine looked good, you know, he 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:33.120 looked good. He got his clowned out ways, but he 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:35.919 looks good. And I allowed him to woo me or whatever. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:40.200 So after like a couple of months, we made it official. 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.280 We were on I G. Then we go on our 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:47.320 first trip. He took me to Puerto Rico and there 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:50.360 is where I found out that he had a wife. Now, 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:55.040 why the fuck she didn't come out before this? We 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:58.360 had already been together for like three months, and then 0:01:58.400 --> 0:02:00.760 she decides to come out and say, I didn't know 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:03.600 anything about us getting a divorce. I'm still happily married 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:08.639 to my husband, Dwayne Coley. Which was some truth and 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:12.400 then was some lies as well, because they in fact 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:15.320 were in the middle of a divorce. But this nigga 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:18.720 went as far as to even getting some woman that 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.600 he had posed as a goddamn lawyer to call me 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.919 to tell me that the divorce was final, which don't 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:28.239 be over there laughing. He got the woman to tell me, yes, 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:32.120 in her most professional voice, that the divorce was final, y'all. 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:35.320 And I went with it. I believe them. And Ship 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:39.519 and then the wife, Gina, she started going to shade 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:42.079 room with Ship. Then she started talking to my sister 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:44.359 about Ship. But she never would call me. I sent 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:46.840 them my number. She never would call me a nothing, 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:49.480 never ever even talked to me in the d M s. 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:53.520 Right now, I'm saying all this to say, this man 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:58.200 felt that he didn't do anything wrong because he was 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:03.440 not with her like he wasn't with her. Nigga, you're 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:06.600 still married to her. And that brings me to my question. 0:03:07.200 --> 0:03:11.760 This separation make it okay to cheat? I think absolutely not, 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:14.359 because you are still legally fucking married, you know what 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:17.000 I mean. And then they were living in the same 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:19.840 fucking house. You know. Sometimes she would go stay here, 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:21.520 I imagine, and then he would be gone most of 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:23.120 the time, because we are comedians, we are on the 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.000 road most of the time. He does stand up and 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:27.000 ship and then you know, sometimes I guess he would 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:29.040 be filming or what have you. So she would see 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:34.359 him barely, you know, barely, but at the same time, 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:35.560 you know, and then he would spend a lot of 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:36.880 time with me. And let me tell you, this man 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:41.800 was in Baltimore for like too much straight help me 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:45.880 look for a house that he got for me, like 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.200 seriously moved me out of my other house and got me. 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.040 So I'm like, yo, through all of this, Gina, you 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:54.400 never came out and said anything anything. That's when later 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:56.680 Ship admitted, Okay, we're in the middle of a divorce, 0:03:56.720 --> 0:04:01.320 but until we are finally divorced, that's still my husband. 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:03.400 And I could not argue with her anymore, and she 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:08.600 was right. I had to leave the nigga. Does separation 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:11.360 make it okay to cheat? In your opinion, bro, No, 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:16.080 it does not. Doesn't make it okay to cheat because 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:19.880 a lot of times in separation situations people often end 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:23.000 up getting back together. Look at look at Uh. Look 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:26.120 at Crystal and Neo. You know, they were in the 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:30.160 process of found divorice for you know, whatever the reasons was, 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:34.360 um and then quarantine brought them back together and they 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:36.719 are happily married and living life like that part of 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.480 their life never happened. So if you cheat and do 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.400 things in between that time, you're only making it worse 0:04:42.640 --> 0:04:44.720 than what it already is. Yeah, you're right. And I 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.200 remember I was watching something about Crystal and Neo and 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:50.680 the problem that he said. Crystal never came out and 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:53.000 said you know what the problem was or whatever, but 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:58.800 Neo this Nigga said, our demons didn't mesh Neio, what 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:03.360 the funk are you talking? And in the political ship, sir, 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:07.240 like Nigga's always saying some ship to make them sound like, 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.880 wouldn't hold hands, like, sir, they're demons. That's not what 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:17.599 they did anyway, like what the funds hold? He was 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:20.720 dead ass, he said the ship Hella Times and Hella Interviews. 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.680 But I'm glad to see that back together. That actually 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:25.120 my good friends, you know, and they are back together. 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:28.240 So no separation does not make it okay to cheat. No, 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:30.240 And the reason that's why it's still cheating because you 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:33.880 are still legally married, which brings me to just fix 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:35.560 my mess. Now we got a commercial and if you 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:37.640 click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:40.480 your ass. Listen, they know this segment is where I 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:43.440 catered to my fans. Now I asked about this situation, 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:45.760 A lot of people write me, I'm just gonna read 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:52.599 a few off that I picked. Danny from Birmingham says Alabama. Yes, Obama, 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.839 She said, I am married to my kids father. We 0:05:55.920 --> 0:06:00.320 are currently separated. During our separation, he stepped out and 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:03.160 now he has a baby on the way, but we're 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:06.679 still living together and has decided to work it out. 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:10.120 I can't get that off my mind. Though. That's a 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:13.159 really tough pill to swallow. So are you going to 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:15.520 work it out? Danny? That is a hard pill to swallow. 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:20.680 Like I just said, they were separated, y'all, weren't divorced now. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:24.440 I I feel if you have an agreement with your 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:28.839 husband or your wife, if we're married and we tell 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:30.800 each other, we come together and we have a talk 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:33.800 and you say, look, while we separated, we're gonna date. 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:37.800 I feel like that's the only way if both parties agree. 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:39.960 You know what I mean, Because he's still stepped out 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.960 on you, Danny. He stepped out on you, and he 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:44.960 made a baby that ain't even stepping out, Like you're 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:48.440 imparted in somebody else completely, Like I know that's right 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:50.080 to you. I don't even know what imparted, mean, what 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.520 the hell is that? And you'll listening, I don't my 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:55.400 ship trying to fucking outdo me with the words. You'll 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:59.000 say this, take it, imparted, drop some you'll drop some legacy, 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:04.320 and somebody else. And he still lives and they have children, 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:06.719 you know what I mean? And then imagine what he 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:09.280 has to go home and tell his children if this 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.360 girl keeps his baby. Now, it ain't no telling what 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:13.720 kind of girl she is if she crazy enough to 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:16.640 keep it just because she is being spiteful, you know, 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:20.760 because like you said, with those situations, people normally get 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:25.160 back together, but the nigga always, if not just the 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:29.280 majority of the time, guys always have this thing where 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:32.640 they they like the butter a bitch up to get 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:35.000 what they want. And he may have told her that 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:37.880 he would leave. His wife may have told her that, 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.440 and she might keep the baby out of spite, or 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:42.120 she might just get rid of it if she if 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:45.200 she's fucking smart. Because this woman here, the wife is 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.440 telling me that they're trying to work it out. So 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.520 obviously he wants to be forgiven and he don't want 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:52.400 to be with the girl. But I still wouldn't trust 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:55.160 this nigga, because now you have another baby mother outside 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.880 of me that you're gonna have to deal with for 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.360 eighteen years plus. I even people just stop at eighteen games. 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:04.520 That baby gonna be your baby forever, forever, forever. Now, 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:07.000 you can cut off all times with the mother at eighteen, 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:09.240 but as long as the child is here, it's going 0:08:09.280 --> 0:08:11.080 to be connected to the mother and the father. So 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:13.960 it ultimately connects, y'all, you know what I mean. So 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:16.040 you have to deal with this woman whether you like 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:18.720 it or not. Danny, I wouldn't be able to trust it. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:21.280 I would run for the motherfucking hills. Then, I just 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.400 I can't prince what you think, what you want to 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.640 tell her, because she still has feelings for him. I 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:27.480 think that if they're still having sex, she should use 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.360 a condom because he probably just out here raw dog 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.560 and everybody period, And that might might not even be 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:36.160 the only bitch out here that's pregnant, you know, I'm 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:37.880 sure it's not just the only one that spoke out. 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.440 And then separation always ain't easy because they have things together. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:45.920 Get out, Danny, go somewhere else. Alabama is pretty big, 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:48.560 so you can ali bye bye your way right on 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:55.160 out that door. Now, I don't have like the background 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.920 of them and how long you'll been married. But you know, 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:59.000 if you feel like it's worth it and you believe 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.160 in God, if it's Aud's will, he'll bring you all 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:05.880 back together. Pray through it. But me telling you from 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:08.560 you know, woman to woman as a woman, that's a 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:11.200 no good situation. I've seen a lot of situations like 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:15.240 this and they don't turn out pretty. So that brings 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:17.400 me to my next one. So now we got seven 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.680 from Utah. People don't think we're making this up. Seven 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:25.679 from Utah. Been in a relationship for four years, been 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:29.640 suspected he was cheating, went through his phone, and he's 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:33.319 been creeping with another guy. What is her husband's name? 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:40.280 First of all, a shut up prince, she said. I 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.719 definitely wanted to kill him at first, but honestly, I 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:46.800 feel sorry for him because he's still is in denial. 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.840 I would like to move on with him as friends 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:52.600 and help him live in his truth, but he is 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:55.360 denying it and still is trying to fix it with me. 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:59.079 I ain't working with it. Okay, Now this is kind 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:01.920 of different. I kind I like her disposition. I like it. 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:03.880 That's a hard pill to swallow to find out that 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:06.480 your man is cheating on you with a man, creeping 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:09.840 with men and ship. You know, but she seems like 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:11.840 the bigger person. She seems like she really want to 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.200 help this nigga live in his truth. She want to 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:17.400 help him come out and um ultimately be his friend, 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:22.920 you know. And that's a strong motherfucking woman. I too 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:26.559 has to be. She is too okay with this. But 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:31.040 we often see a lot of women murray gay men. 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:34.160 So did you not see these signs in the beginning? Yeah, yeah, 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:36.120 that is true. You know, did you not see these signs? 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.280 Because it ain't something that just went to sleep and 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:40.719 woke up and he was like, I'm gonna go had 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.439 sex with a man and cheat on my wife. Like no, 0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:46.199 this ship is deeper than that. Yeah, you know. Now 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.640 they're not married. They're in a relationship, but like you're 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:52.760 sitting and for four years. So but he can't marry 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:56.160 her because he's not attracted to her. So at this point, 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.520 she's an arm piece and you know that's just what 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:01.880 it is. Yes, she says, cover up and eventually you know, 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:05.400 and his arm piece and um, she's talking to me 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:11.959 like she knew this though you know what, you know 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:16.880 what I hate that? I hate you if he is 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:20.440 he a pastor seven come come back and email us 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:22.120 and let us let us know if a past because 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.400 my brother that he's saying he think you no woman 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.319 to show. He might know who that he is because 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.960 that happens a lot here, so we need to see. 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:32.120 But uh, you know our jokes aside seven off for real, 0:11:32.160 --> 0:11:35.120 man um, I think that's very very big of you to, 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:37.760 you know, try to help him come forth and you know, 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.079 living his truth. But baby, if he's not ready, he's 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:41.840 not gonna do it, you know what I'm saying. And 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:44.360 you can't. It's not one of those cases where you 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.080 say you can't help somebody that don't want to be helped. 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:47.720 He doesn't feel like he needs to be helped. He 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:51.160 just needs his own time. It's everything happens with time, 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:53.840 and he'll be comfortable enough to come out whenever he 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:57.160 whenever he's ready, you know. But what he can't do 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:00.199 is keep hurting women. He cannot keep dating him and 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:02.200 if that's not what he wants now, he can be 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.960 bisexual too. She didn't give me much clarity on that. 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:06.520 She didn't tell me that she just said that she 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:09.079 had been suspecting he was cheating and he was creeping 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:12.760 with a nigga she found out. Okay, Well, like I said, 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:15.319 he'll come out on his own time. You know, that's 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:17.200 not something you can force someone to do. But it 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:20.320 is absolutely wrong of him if he's not bisexual to 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:24.880 keep dating women or to keep dating you and ship 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:27.560 like that. You at least have to be honest with 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:30.000 this person enough to tell them. Look, I like men 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.240 and women, you know what I mean or whatever? You know, 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:35.120 So honesty is key and a lot of this ship. 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:38.960 The last one I'm gonna read is from Sheriff from 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:44.480 West Bottomore. It says, hey bitch, Yeah, she definitely from 0:12:45.559 --> 0:12:51.280 absolutely stupid dumbasking you simpleton. Yes, she said, hey bitch, 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:54.599 my nigga won't post me this bitch from Bottomore for 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:59.480 my nigga. Yeah, she definitely something going on. Hey bitch, 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.960 my nigga won't post me, So I know he's cheating 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:05.320 or he's hiding me from his ex wife who he 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:08.840 claims he doesn't want back. Little do he know. I 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:13.080 called her myself and she told me that he told 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:17.800 her I am the FedEx delivery driver in his neighborhood. Well, 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:20.240 do you really work for FedEx? Because I've been waiting 0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:22.760 on this goddamn package for two weeks and I need 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:26.040 the FedEx. Do she work for USPS? I don't know 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.319 a boy, no mo Fex, but I know USPS was 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:30.280 back throwing up and bitch, I don't even give give 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:34.520 problems where my ship? I don't care because I think 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:38.880 I noticed, bit right, Yeah, yeah, I think I noticed. Bitch. 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:40.480 You know she don't work for FedEx. She worked at 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:44.840 I've guard as the bartender her ass. Yeah, but I'm 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:49.200 Sharon baby. If he ain't gonna post you, Um, it 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:52.000 depends on the type of nigga he is. You got, 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:55.000 you know, two types of niggas well, more than two types. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.760 But in this case, you got the type that won't 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:01.920 post you because he likes to eat his business separate 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:06.160 from though most people on Instagram these days they have 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:10.720 business pages, business accounts and ship and I know that 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.880 a lot of y'all listening like bitch, please every time 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:14.760 I nigga say I want to buy my businesses because 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:17.720 he's hiding. Yeah that's not every time, though, not every time. 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:20.600 There are really guys out here who have businesses that 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.560 he liked that they like to keep separate from their 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:25.800 personal lives. And then you got the other type of 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:29.840 nigga who won't post you because he is hiding, you know, 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.640 and he don't want to post one bitch and lose 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:33.880 all the rest of this bitches, or not even losing 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.720 because bites don't leave these days. Bitches get mad, they 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:39.080 vent on social media, tell all your business, and then 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.760 they end up right back with you later once everything 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.280 calm back down and ship. So you got those two 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:46.720 types of niggas. You have to decide which one he 0:14:46.840 --> 0:14:49.440 is sharing because you know him. We don't not to 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:52.600 mention who wants to post their relationships status on social 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:57.040 media because the problems that every every individual fall short 0:14:57.200 --> 0:14:59.720 of something. So the problem is that as soon as 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:02.560 you ship relationship, because nobody's perfect, so as soon as 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.960 you post is kissing picture of you ain't get nigga 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:08.320 or whatever the case it. Maybe somebody has a story 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:10.480 in the d M of how fucked up this person is, 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:12.880 what this person did to them and how they reacted 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.800 or this and the third, but don't tell what caused 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:17.960 this because there's a reaction to ever reaction. You know 0:15:18.000 --> 0:15:20.520 what I'm saying, so social media has ruined it. Like 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.120 I haven't been a multiple relationshipship. I'm in a new 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.280 relationship every two weeks. But I mean posting the motherfucker, 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:27.040 you know what I mean? Like, yeah, see that's what 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:30.120 we do. It's okay, quity season's good coming up. But yeah, 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:37.760 you know what I mean, Like, sure, hoise what I mean. 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:39.760 But you just I don't think that you should post 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.960 your relationship or who you're dealing with on social media. Period. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:46.480 A happy life is a private life, and it's not 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:48.760 let you hide in anything. You know, what you do 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:50.800 in the comfort the comfort of your bed room, your 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.080 home is between you and that person. You don't gotta 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:55.560 post it. You don't gotta post it. Can't live through 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:58.360 social media. Social media will ruin your life. And that's 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:01.240 exactly what everybody does. Just like people get together for 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:03.560 the image of it, just to see how many comments 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:06.400 they'll get on it. Let's pose like this, y'all could yo, 0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:08.880 they could have just seriously got finished cheating on each 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.200 other or arguing about something, or he could have burned 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:13.760 her because he got an STD from somebody else. But 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:16.600 they're gonna get on social media and paint this perfect picture, 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.800 you know what I mean, like social it's like an 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:22.400 imagery and I can't stand that ship. And then not 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.960 to mention share it from West Baltimore. You said you 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:29.400 called the ex wife yourself and she told you that 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:33.360 he told her that you were a delivery driver in 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:38.880 the neighborhood. Baby girl, in my deepest beast of own voice, 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:43.600 what in the fuck did you think even just hearing that, 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:47.800 it's the audacity to call his ex wife don't like skills? Yeah, yeah, 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:50.320 you did that. And then you like you climbed up 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:52.520 the tree and the motherfucker shook that bitch and you 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:56.600 fell back down because you cannot do that. That's out 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:59.520 of line, that's overstepping your boundary. You never called my 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:02.640 ex wife and then you found out something new. Now 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.480 you never told me to see people. They only leave 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:06.919 like a bit of the story. I want to know 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:09.359 what the fun she said to this nigg And oh, 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:12.000 so you told your wife that I was the I 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:14.080 wouldn't have said it. That would have been the last 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:16.560 time he saw me and the last time she ever 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:19.439 heard from me, because obviously he's still sucking with his 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:22.960 ex wife. You know, she's an ex but she was 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.639 his ex wife. They shared a lot of history together 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:27.920 for him to even be talking about his new thing 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:31.840 with his old thing, and that thing being a wife. 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:35.320 So Sharon, I'm just saying, baby, I don't know, maybe 0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:37.440 you need to date around some more in West Baltimore 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:39.840 or some ship because this guy don't seem like he's 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:44.000 in to you much. And yeah, and I think you 0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:46.200 need to stay yourself because if you call the people 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:49.240 x as and ship, you got some insecurities within yourself. 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:52.120 And it's a lot of toxicity going on there. Like 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:56.360 that word, that word that was Yeah, yeah, well, you know, toxicity. 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.080 That was my first word. You know, that's the first 0:17:58.080 --> 0:17:59.399 word I have to said when I was you know, 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:04.840 little That brings us to the current news. We're gonna 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:07.440 wrap up that portion of just fix my mess. Yeah, yeah, 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.440 I hope we helped, y'all know. Yeah, absolutely probably did. 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:12.639 Let us know if we did. Hit me in my 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.080 d M s and we'll be right back after this. 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:19.320 That brings us the current events. Now Listen for me, 0:18:19.400 --> 0:18:22.600 there are a lot of celebrities that have gotten caught 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:26.280 cheating on their significant others that I want to speak 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:30.600 on briefly. Little baby, and Jada. Every so often there 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:32.359 is something in the media, there is a woman that 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:35.960 comes forth about, you know, sleeping with little baby and 0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:39.360 ship like that. Now it's a rumor that he has 0:18:39.400 --> 0:18:43.359 contracts with these women and he pays them. Yeah, and 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:46.000 I don't know what the contract is, you know that 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:48.440 of A and d A or whatever. But they're not 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.399 supposed to say ship. And every time one comes forth, 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:57.120 everybody bashes Jada because she still stays. That poses this question, 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:01.280 do you let a niggad cheat on you because he's 0:19:01.440 --> 0:19:05.880 rich and you love the lifestyle? Are you okay with 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:11.359 being publicly embarrassed? Are you okay with humiliation? Are you 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:14.920 okay with decreasing your dignity? Are you okay with that? 0:19:15.200 --> 0:19:21.240 It's his millions, your Berkins, your big home, your Bentley's, 0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:24.840 your ferrar Is, the races, all that, all that designer ship? 0:19:24.960 --> 0:19:28.840 Is that lifestyle worth your heart? And you know as 0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:31.680 a woman, what you stand for, your pride and everything. 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:34.480 Not to me, not to me? And I could be 0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:36.920 just different, you know what I'm saying. I've never been 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:39.480 in her in her predicament. Jada has her own money. 0:19:39.480 --> 0:19:41.919 She's a money maker, you know. She she's a hustler. 0:19:41.960 --> 0:19:45.600 She's an entrepreneur, but she's not little baby, you know 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:49.520 what I mean. And her money don't make him, and 0:19:50.920 --> 0:19:52.840 his money makes her. You know what I'm saying. It 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:55.520 makes her, it betters her, and then they have a baby. 0:19:55.920 --> 0:19:58.200 She's in love with him. It's a lot of other factors, 0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:02.560 but families break up every day. Um in regular life celebrities, 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:05.360 it seems like a little bit harder the infidelity I 0:20:05.400 --> 0:20:09.440 feel when you're a celebrity, I feel like they kind 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:12.600 of wanted overlooked because I got this money, I bought 0:20:12.640 --> 0:20:14.320 this ship for you. Because I remember a little baby 0:20:14.320 --> 0:20:17.399 tweeting who goes harder for their girl than me? And 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:20.560 I'm not just talking about financial gifts. I'm talking about 0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:22.680 in every way. I remember. I put that in jest 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:25.240 with the mess, and I named about ten other niggas 0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:28.760 that immediately came to mind. Who goes harder for the girl. 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:31.679 We're not saying you don't love her, you love her 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:33.919 to death. You don't love any of these bitches, But 0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:36.840 that does not mean that you get a past the 0:20:36.920 --> 0:20:39.240 cheat because you ain't gonna love this bitch, or you 0:20:39.280 --> 0:20:41.600 ain't gonna buy a nothing, or you ain't gonna, Yeah, 0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:44.760 why I step out on me? Jadab's fucking beautiful. That's 0:20:44.760 --> 0:20:48.320 your son's mother. She's beautiful, beauty. Ain't to it though. 0:20:48.600 --> 0:20:53.760 She cooks, she do TikTok's, she cleans, she takes care. 0:20:54.400 --> 0:20:56.320 You know, all the new little you know, millennial ship, 0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:59.280 they all do it. Why can't you just keep your 0:20:59.280 --> 0:21:03.639