1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Back there, Nice Little as back there, 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 1: Little asked back there, Hey y'all, what stops? It's your girl, 4 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 1: Justice Laris, Welcome back for another episode of Carefully Reckless. 5 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: I got my brother sitting in with me today, my twin, 6 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: my other half, my everything, Prince. Say, what's uping? Y'all know, 7 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: if y'all see this mother with me, he's with me. 8 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: That's my man's He's on my Instagram, he's on the 9 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: roll with me. He everywhere. He's gonna listen in story time. Alright, 10 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 1: So look y'all know I was dating Country Wayne, I 11 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: want to say allegedly, but a nigga was dating a bit. 12 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:51,599 Speaker 1: He was, and he ended up being married. Now let 13 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: me walk you through this. Now, Wayne liked me for 14 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: quite some time. He was, I want to say, chasing 15 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: me for two years. I don't like to say chasing, 16 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: but that's what he was doing. And it was cool. 17 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: You know, there's a woman you like attention, you know, 18 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: from elsewhere. But I was in a relationship, so I 19 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: never entertained him until I broke up with Chris. Shortly 20 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: after I broke up with my ex. He popped up 21 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: in West Palm Beach, Florida. Now I had a show 22 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: and the improv he came. He popped up with his 23 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: two brothers, and he wooed me, you know, as they say. 24 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: And you know, I was not looking for love, but 25 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: I was, you know, a little vulnerable after breaking up 26 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: with my ex. And Waine looked good, you know, he 27 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: looked good. He got his clowned out ways, but he 28 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,919 Speaker 1: looks good. And I allowed him to woo me or whatever. 29 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: So after like a couple of months, we made it official. 30 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: We were on I G. Then we go on our 31 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: first trip. He took me to Puerto Rico and there 32 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: is where I found out that he had a wife. Now, 33 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: why the fuck she didn't come out before this? We 34 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: had already been together for like three months, and then 35 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: she decides to come out and say, I didn't know 36 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: anything about us getting a divorce. I'm still happily married 37 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 1: to my husband, Dwayne Coley. Which was some truth and 38 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: then was some lies as well, because they in fact 39 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: were in the middle of a divorce. But this nigga 40 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: went as far as to even getting some woman that 41 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: he had posed as a goddamn lawyer to call me 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: to tell me that the divorce was final, which don't 43 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: be over there laughing. He got the woman to tell me, yes, 44 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: in her most professional voice, that the divorce was final, y'all. 45 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: And I went with it. I believe them. And Ship 46 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 1: and then the wife, Gina, she started going to shade 47 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: room with Ship. Then she started talking to my sister 48 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: about Ship. But she never would call me. I sent 49 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: them my number. She never would call me a nothing, 50 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: never ever even talked to me in the d M s. 51 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: Right now, I'm saying all this to say, this man 52 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: felt that he didn't do anything wrong because he was 53 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: not with her like he wasn't with her. Nigga, you're 54 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: still married to her. And that brings me to my question. 55 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: This separation make it okay to cheat? I think absolutely not, 56 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: because you are still legally fucking married, you know what 57 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: I mean. And then they were living in the same 58 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: fucking house. You know. Sometimes she would go stay here, 59 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: I imagine, and then he would be gone most of 60 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: the time, because we are comedians, we are on the 61 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: road most of the time. He does stand up and 62 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: ship and then you know, sometimes I guess he would 63 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: be filming or what have you. So she would see 64 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 1: him barely, you know, barely, but at the same time, 65 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: you know, and then he would spend a lot of 66 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: time with me. And let me tell you, this man 67 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: was in Baltimore for like too much straight help me 68 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: look for a house that he got for me, like 69 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: seriously moved me out of my other house and got me. 70 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: So I'm like, yo, through all of this, Gina, you 71 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: never came out and said anything anything. That's when later 72 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: Ship admitted, Okay, we're in the middle of a divorce, 73 00:03:56,720 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 1: but until we are finally divorced, that's still my husband. 74 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: And I could not argue with her anymore, and she 75 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: was right. I had to leave the nigga. Does separation 76 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: make it okay to cheat? In your opinion, bro, No, 77 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: it does not. Doesn't make it okay to cheat because 78 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: a lot of times in separation situations people often end 79 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: up getting back together. Look at look at Uh. Look 80 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: at Crystal and Neo. You know, they were in the 81 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: process of found divorice for you know, whatever the reasons was, 82 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: um and then quarantine brought them back together and they 83 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: are happily married and living life like that part of 84 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: their life never happened. So if you cheat and do 85 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: things in between that time, you're only making it worse 86 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: than what it already is. Yeah, you're right. And I 87 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 1: remember I was watching something about Crystal and Neo and 88 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: the problem that he said. Crystal never came out and 89 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: said you know what the problem was or whatever, but 90 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: Neo this Nigga said, our demons didn't mesh Neio, what 91 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 1: the funk are you talking? And in the political ship, sir, 92 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: like Nigga's always saying some ship to make them sound like, 93 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't hold hands, like, sir, they're demons. That's not what 94 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: they did anyway, like what the funds hold? He was 95 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: dead ass, he said the ship Hella Times and Hella Interviews. 96 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: But I'm glad to see that back together. That actually 97 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: my good friends, you know, and they are back together. 98 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: So no separation does not make it okay to cheat. No, 99 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: And the reason that's why it's still cheating because you 100 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: are still legally married, which brings me to just fix 101 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: my mess. Now we got a commercial and if you 102 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat 103 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: your ass. Listen, they know this segment is where I 104 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: catered to my fans. Now I asked about this situation, 105 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: A lot of people write me, I'm just gonna read 106 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: a few off that I picked. Danny from Birmingham says Alabama. Yes, Obama, 107 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: She said, I am married to my kids father. We 108 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: are currently separated. During our separation, he stepped out and 109 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: now he has a baby on the way, but we're 110 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,679 Speaker 1: still living together and has decided to work it out. 111 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: I can't get that off my mind. Though. That's a 112 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 1: really tough pill to swallow. So are you going to 113 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: work it out? Danny? That is a hard pill to swallow. 114 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: Like I just said, they were separated, y'all, weren't divorced now. 115 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: I I feel if you have an agreement with your 116 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: husband or your wife, if we're married and we tell 117 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: each other, we come together and we have a talk 118 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: and you say, look, while we separated, we're gonna date. 119 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: I feel like that's the only way if both parties agree. 120 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Because he's still stepped out 121 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: on you, Danny. He stepped out on you, and he 122 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: made a baby that ain't even stepping out, Like you're 123 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: imparted in somebody else completely, Like I know that's right 124 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: to you. I don't even know what imparted, mean, what 125 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: the hell is that? And you'll listening, I don't my 126 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: ship trying to fucking outdo me with the words. You'll 127 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: say this, take it, imparted, drop some you'll drop some legacy, 128 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: and somebody else. And he still lives and they have children, 129 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And then imagine what he 130 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: has to go home and tell his children if this 131 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: girl keeps his baby. Now, it ain't no telling what 132 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: kind of girl she is if she crazy enough to 133 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: keep it just because she is being spiteful, you know, 134 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: because like you said, with those situations, people normally get 135 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: back together, but the nigga always, if not just the 136 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: majority of the time, guys always have this thing where 137 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: they they like the butter a bitch up to get 138 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: what they want. And he may have told her that 139 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: he would leave. His wife may have told her that, 140 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: and she might keep the baby out of spite, or 141 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: she might just get rid of it if she if 142 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 1: she's fucking smart. Because this woman here, the wife is 143 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: telling me that they're trying to work it out. So 144 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: obviously he wants to be forgiven and he don't want 145 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: to be with the girl. But I still wouldn't trust 146 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: this nigga, because now you have another baby mother outside 147 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: of me that you're gonna have to deal with for 148 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: eighteen years plus. I even people just stop at eighteen games. 149 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: That baby gonna be your baby forever, forever, forever. Now, 150 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: you can cut off all times with the mother at eighteen, 151 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: but as long as the child is here, it's going 152 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: to be connected to the mother and the father. So 153 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: it ultimately connects, y'all, you know what I mean. So 154 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: you have to deal with this woman whether you like 155 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: it or not. Danny, I wouldn't be able to trust it. 156 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 1: I would run for the motherfucking hills. Then, I just 157 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: I can't prince what you think, what you want to 158 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: tell her, because she still has feelings for him. I 159 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: think that if they're still having sex, she should use 160 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: a condom because he probably just out here raw dog 161 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: and everybody period, And that might might not even be 162 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: the only bitch out here that's pregnant, you know, I'm 163 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: sure it's not just the only one that spoke out. 164 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: And then separation always ain't easy because they have things together. 165 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: Get out, Danny, go somewhere else. Alabama is pretty big, 166 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: so you can ali bye bye your way right on 167 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: out that door. Now, I don't have like the background 168 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: of them and how long you'll been married. But you know, 169 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: if you feel like it's worth it and you believe 170 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: in God, if it's Aud's will, he'll bring you all 171 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: back together. Pray through it. But me telling you from 172 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: you know, woman to woman as a woman, that's a 173 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: no good situation. I've seen a lot of situations like 174 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: this and they don't turn out pretty. So that brings 175 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: me to my next one. So now we got seven 176 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 1: from Utah. People don't think we're making this up. Seven 177 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: from Utah. Been in a relationship for four years, been 178 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: suspected he was cheating, went through his phone, and he's 179 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: been creeping with another guy. What is her husband's name? 180 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: First of all, a shut up prince, she said. I 181 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 1: definitely wanted to kill him at first, but honestly, I 182 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: feel sorry for him because he's still is in denial. 183 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: I would like to move on with him as friends 184 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: and help him live in his truth, but he is 185 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: denying it and still is trying to fix it with me. 186 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: I ain't working with it. Okay, Now this is kind 187 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: of different. I kind I like her disposition. I like it. 188 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: That's a hard pill to swallow to find out that 189 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: your man is cheating on you with a man, creeping 190 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 1: with men and ship. You know, but she seems like 191 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: the bigger person. She seems like she really want to 192 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: help this nigga live in his truth. She want to 193 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: help him come out and um ultimately be his friend, 194 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: you know. And that's a strong motherfucking woman. I too 195 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 1: has to be. She is too okay with this. But 196 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: we often see a lot of women murray gay men. 197 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: So did you not see these signs in the beginning? Yeah, yeah, 198 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: that is true. You know, did you not see these signs? 199 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: Because it ain't something that just went to sleep and 200 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,719 Speaker 1: woke up and he was like, I'm gonna go had 201 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 1: sex with a man and cheat on my wife. Like no, 202 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 1: this ship is deeper than that. Yeah, you know. Now 203 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: they're not married. They're in a relationship, but like you're 204 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: sitting and for four years. So but he can't marry 205 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: her because he's not attracted to her. So at this point, 206 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: she's an arm piece and you know that's just what 207 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: it is. Yes, she says, cover up and eventually you know, 208 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: and his arm piece and um, she's talking to me 209 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 1: like she knew this though you know what, you know 210 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 1: what I hate that? I hate you if he is 211 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: he a pastor seven come come back and email us 212 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: and let us let us know if a past because 213 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: my brother that he's saying he think you no woman 214 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: to show. He might know who that he is because 215 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 1: that happens a lot here, so we need to see. 216 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: But uh, you know our jokes aside seven off for real, 217 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: man um, I think that's very very big of you to, 218 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, try to help him come forth and you know, 219 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,079 Speaker 1: living his truth. But baby, if he's not ready, he's 220 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 1: not gonna do it, you know what I'm saying. And 221 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: you can't. It's not one of those cases where you 222 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: say you can't help somebody that don't want to be helped. 223 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: He doesn't feel like he needs to be helped. He 224 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: just needs his own time. It's everything happens with time, 225 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 1: and he'll be comfortable enough to come out whenever he 226 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: whenever he's ready, you know. But what he can't do 227 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: is keep hurting women. He cannot keep dating him and 228 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 1: if that's not what he wants now, he can be 229 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: bisexual too. She didn't give me much clarity on that. 230 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: She didn't tell me that she just said that she 231 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 1: had been suspecting he was cheating and he was creeping 232 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: with a nigga she found out. Okay, Well, like I said, 233 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: he'll come out on his own time. You know, that's 234 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: not something you can force someone to do. But it 235 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: is absolutely wrong of him if he's not bisexual to 236 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: keep dating women or to keep dating you and ship 237 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,560 Speaker 1: like that. You at least have to be honest with 238 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: this person enough to tell them. Look, I like men 239 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: and women, you know what I mean or whatever? You know, 240 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: So honesty is key and a lot of this ship. 241 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 1: The last one I'm gonna read is from Sheriff from 242 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: West Bottomore. It says, hey bitch, Yeah, she definitely from 243 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: absolutely stupid dumbasking you simpleton. Yes, she said, hey bitch, 244 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,599 Speaker 1: my nigga won't post me this bitch from Bottomore for 245 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: my nigga. Yeah, she definitely something going on. Hey bitch, 246 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: my nigga won't post me, So I know he's cheating 247 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: or he's hiding me from his ex wife who he 248 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: claims he doesn't want back. Little do he know. I 249 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: called her myself and she told me that he told 250 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 1: her I am the FedEx delivery driver in his neighborhood. Well, 251 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 1: do you really work for FedEx? Because I've been waiting 252 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: on this goddamn package for two weeks and I need 253 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: the FedEx. Do she work for USPS? I don't know 254 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 1: a boy, no mo Fex, but I know USPS was 255 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: back throwing up and bitch, I don't even give give 256 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 1: problems where my ship? I don't care because I think 257 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: I noticed, bit right, Yeah, yeah, I think I noticed. Bitch. 258 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: You know she don't work for FedEx. She worked at 259 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: I've guard as the bartender her ass. Yeah, but I'm 260 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: Sharon baby. If he ain't gonna post you, Um, it 261 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: depends on the type of nigga he is. You got, 262 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: you know, two types of niggas well, more than two types. 263 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: But in this case, you got the type that won't 264 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: post you because he likes to eat his business separate 265 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: from though most people on Instagram these days they have 266 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: business pages, business accounts and ship and I know that 267 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: a lot of y'all listening like bitch, please every time 268 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 1: I nigga say I want to buy my businesses because 269 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: he's hiding. Yeah that's not every time, though, not every time. 270 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: There are really guys out here who have businesses that 271 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: he liked that they like to keep separate from their 272 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: personal lives. And then you got the other type of 273 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: nigga who won't post you because he is hiding, you know, 274 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: and he don't want to post one bitch and lose 275 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: all the rest of this bitches, or not even losing 276 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: because bites don't leave these days. Bitches get mad, they 277 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: vent on social media, tell all your business, and then 278 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: they end up right back with you later once everything 279 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: calm back down and ship. So you got those two 280 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: types of niggas. You have to decide which one he 281 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: is sharing because you know him. We don't not to 282 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: mention who wants to post their relationships status on social 283 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: media because the problems that every every individual fall short 284 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: of something. So the problem is that as soon as 285 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: you ship relationship, because nobody's perfect, so as soon as 286 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: you post is kissing picture of you ain't get nigga 287 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: or whatever the case it. Maybe somebody has a story 288 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: in the d M of how fucked up this person is, 289 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: what this person did to them and how they reacted 290 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: or this and the third, but don't tell what caused 291 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: this because there's a reaction to ever reaction. You know 292 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so social media has ruined it. Like 293 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: I haven't been a multiple relationshipship. I'm in a new 294 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: relationship every two weeks. But I mean posting the motherfucker, 295 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, yeah, see that's what 296 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: we do. It's okay, quity season's good coming up. But yeah, 297 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, sure, hoise what I mean. 298 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: But you just I don't think that you should post 299 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 1: your relationship or who you're dealing with on social media. Period. 300 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: A happy life is a private life, and it's not 301 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: let you hide in anything. You know, what you do 302 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: in the comfort the comfort of your bed room, your 303 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: home is between you and that person. You don't gotta 304 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: post it. You don't gotta post it. Can't live through 305 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: social media. Social media will ruin your life. And that's 306 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: exactly what everybody does. Just like people get together for 307 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: the image of it, just to see how many comments 308 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 1: they'll get on it. Let's pose like this, y'all could yo, 309 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: they could have just seriously got finished cheating on each 310 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: other or arguing about something, or he could have burned 311 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: her because he got an STD from somebody else. But 312 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: they're gonna get on social media and paint this perfect picture, 313 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like social it's like an 314 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: imagery and I can't stand that ship. And then not 315 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 1: to mention share it from West Baltimore. You said you 316 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: called the ex wife yourself and she told you that 317 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: he told her that you were a delivery driver in 318 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: the neighborhood. Baby girl, in my deepest beast of own voice, 319 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: what in the fuck did you think even just hearing that, 320 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: it's the audacity to call his ex wife don't like skills? Yeah, yeah, 321 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: you did that. And then you like you climbed up 322 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: the tree and the motherfucker shook that bitch and you 323 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: fell back down because you cannot do that. That's out 324 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: of line, that's overstepping your boundary. You never called my 325 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: ex wife and then you found out something new. Now 326 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: you never told me to see people. They only leave 327 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:06,919 Speaker 1: like a bit of the story. I want to know 328 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: what the fun she said to this nigg And oh, 329 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: so you told your wife that I was the I 330 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't have said it. That would have been the last 331 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: time he saw me and the last time she ever 332 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,439 Speaker 1: heard from me, because obviously he's still sucking with his 333 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: ex wife. You know, she's an ex but she was 334 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 1: his ex wife. They shared a lot of history together 335 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: for him to even be talking about his new thing 336 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: with his old thing, and that thing being a wife. 337 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: So Sharon, I'm just saying, baby, I don't know, maybe 338 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: you need to date around some more in West Baltimore 339 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: or some ship because this guy don't seem like he's 340 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: in to you much. And yeah, and I think you 341 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 1: need to stay yourself because if you call the people 342 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: x as and ship, you got some insecurities within yourself. 343 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 1: And it's a lot of toxicity going on there. Like 344 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 1: that word, that word that was Yeah, yeah, well, you know, toxicity. 345 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: That was my first word. You know, that's the first 346 00:17:58,080 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: word I have to said when I was you know, 347 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: little That brings us to the current news. We're gonna 348 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: wrap up that portion of just fix my mess. Yeah, yeah, 349 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 1: I hope we helped, y'all know. Yeah, absolutely probably did. 350 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 1: Let us know if we did. Hit me in my 351 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: d M s and we'll be right back after this. 352 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: That brings us the current events. Now Listen for me, 353 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: there are a lot of celebrities that have gotten caught 354 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: cheating on their significant others that I want to speak 355 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: on briefly. Little baby, and Jada. Every so often there 356 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: is something in the media, there is a woman that 357 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: comes forth about, you know, sleeping with little baby and 358 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 1: ship like that. Now it's a rumor that he has 359 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 1: contracts with these women and he pays them. Yeah, and 360 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what the contract is, you know that 361 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: of A and d A or whatever. But they're not 362 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: supposed to say ship. And every time one comes forth, 363 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 1: everybody bashes Jada because she still stays. That poses this question, 364 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: do you let a niggad cheat on you because he's 365 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 1: rich and you love the lifestyle? Are you okay with 366 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 1: being publicly embarrassed? Are you okay with humiliation? Are you 367 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: okay with decreasing your dignity? Are you okay with that? 368 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: It's his millions, your Berkins, your big home, your Bentley's, 369 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: your ferrar Is, the races, all that, all that designer ship? 370 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: Is that lifestyle worth your heart? And you know as 371 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 1: a woman, what you stand for, your pride and everything. 372 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: Not to me, not to me? And I could be 373 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 1: just different, you know what I'm saying. I've never been 374 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: in her in her predicament. Jada has her own money. 375 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 1: She's a money maker, you know. She she's a hustler. 376 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: She's an entrepreneur, but she's not little baby, you know 377 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: what I mean. And her money don't make him, and 378 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: his money makes her. You know what I'm saying. It 379 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: makes her, it betters her, and then they have a baby. 380 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: She's in love with him. It's a lot of other factors, 381 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: but families break up every day. Um in regular life celebrities, 382 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 1: it seems like a little bit harder the infidelity I 383 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:09,440 Speaker 1: feel when you're a celebrity, I feel like they kind 384 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: of wanted overlooked because I got this money, I bought 385 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: this ship for you. Because I remember a little baby 386 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: tweeting who goes harder for their girl than me? And 387 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm not just talking about financial gifts. I'm talking about 388 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: in every way. I remember. I put that in jest 389 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 1: with the mess, and I named about ten other niggas 390 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: that immediately came to mind. Who goes harder for the girl. 391 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 1: We're not saying you don't love her, you love her 392 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 1: to death. You don't love any of these bitches, But 393 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: that does not mean that you get a past the 394 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: cheat because you ain't gonna love this bitch, or you 395 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: ain't gonna buy a nothing, or you ain't gonna, Yeah, 396 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: why I step out on me? Jadab's fucking beautiful. That's 397 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: your son's mother. She's beautiful, beauty. Ain't to it though. 398 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: She cooks, she do TikTok's, she cleans, she takes care. 399 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: You know, all the new little you know, millennial ship, 400 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: they all do it. Why can't you just keep your 401 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 1: ship at home? Because he gets bored, Yeah, he gets bored. 402 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: And the fun part about it is that he can 403 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: go out here and do whatever he wants to these 404 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: quote skank as bitches that he wouldn't do too his 405 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 1: girl because he considers her wife. Yeah, you just never 406 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: know why people move and do certain things, like because 407 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 1: everybody is coming forward, is even strippers, ex trippers, bartenders 408 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. These are. These are people who this is 409 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: what they do for a living, you know. So he 410 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: can do super nasty ship with these people that he 411 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 1: wouldn't even think about doing to you know, Jada, because 412 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 1: he respects Jada. You know, he loves Jada. He don't 413 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 1: love these these these bitches. That's why he has them, 414 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: uh signing in das or whatever the case, contractual joints. 415 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: But they're not even working because they're telling on us 416 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 1: that's still period. So you know the type of consequence 417 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 1: are they facing because they keep coming out and not 418 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 1: paying somebody six thousand for them to telling on you. 419 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: Giving away Freeman, that's a charity as it's so many 420 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 1: starving kids that can have that money. Baby Ship, there's 421 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: so many other little babies out this motherfucker you get 422 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: that money too, and then we have the baby and Mimi. Now, 423 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: Mimi has never come out and said this nigga has 424 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: cheated on me with Danny Lay. She's never said that, 425 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna say that he cheated, but I 426 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: believe he goes back and forth between the two people. 427 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: We see it on social media all the time, and 428 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: we have been seeing it for months now. Danny Lay 429 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: cannot stop posting this nigga when he's around me. Me. 430 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 1: She don't post them, but you know they're there. You 431 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 1: know they're around each other because they posting their stories, 432 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 1: their locations and leaving the shade room, leaving the Hollywood unlock, 433 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 1: leaving to the neighborhood talk, leaving the jazz and brand 434 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: and all the other people. They know what I'm saying. 435 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: So he goes back and forth. That is still infidelity. 436 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, because although we never heard 437 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 1: Mimi say, oh he's cheating were this is like a 438 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: love triangle. It's like Tara Amediate and Peter. And it 439 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: makes me think, like, do they have an agreement that 440 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,199 Speaker 1: we don't know about what that's not publicized? Because that 441 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: ship don't ever get messy, It don't never get too messy. 442 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: It never goes over the top. So that that that 443 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: agreement ship now that you just said, and I'm thinking 444 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: about it as well, because bitches argue like Jada has. 445 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 1: Jada has went back and forth with most of every 446 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 1: most of all the bitches that didn't come out and 447 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: said they funck little baby, And I wish she didn't 448 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: do that because it's like, you don't need to do that. 449 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: You don't need to do that. You don't like if 450 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 1: you check him in private, like she tweeted before, if 451 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: you check him in private, he's checked. Fuck it. Don't 452 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 1: go online and start fussing with these bitches. That's what 453 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: they want. They want to be in your shoes. They 454 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: want your life, you know, and that little bit of 455 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: piece that he's giving them makes them feel entitled. Let 456 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: them bitches talk, because if y'all don't say ship, It'll 457 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: go away. Baby, get on there saying ship too. Oh, 458 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: this is like y'all lie, y'all lot no no, no, no, no, 459 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: no no, Just don't say nothing nothing, say nothing, and 460 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 1: it'll go the funk away, guarantee you Visiness Turns. When 461 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 1: Turns got that motherfucking car accident, we still don't know 462 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 1: who the bitch was he got to a car accident with. 463 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: We don't know it wasn't his girlfriend, but we don't 464 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 1: know who was that. Nigga ain't never said nothing about nothing. 465 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,360 Speaker 1: He popped back on the screen talking about yeah and 466 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 1: this is the Star's power party. Like nothing, he say shit, 467 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 1: He ain't entertained nothing about nothing, and it eventually went away. 468 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,239 Speaker 1: Should I keep bringing it up every now and then 469 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: and just with the mess, But he won't say nothing 470 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 1: about it. It will go away. That's how it is. 471 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 1: You ignore ship and they gets smaller and smaller. Then 472 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,880 Speaker 1: we go to Cardi being offset. Now this was more 473 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 1: so in the past. We haven't heard anything about him cheating, 474 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 1: you know, lately and for a long time, I honestly 475 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 1: felt like he's changed. At first, he was like little 476 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: baby offset. This nigga was like little baby, this motherfucker. 477 00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: But I feel like he changed. I think he It's 478 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: just that she can't say nothing else about it because 479 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: remember the last time he cheated her comeback was I 480 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: went back because I'm a dumb bitch and I like Dick. 481 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 1: So at that point, even if he cheat on you again, 482 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: what else can you say because now we don't want 483 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,400 Speaker 1: to hear it, like we know you're gonna go back 484 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: to him. You're a dumb bitch and you like Dick. 485 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:22,120 Speaker 1: You said it, not us, you know so, But yo, 486 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: yeah stop because that's still at the same time, that 487 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: still won't stop the bitches from saying, yeah, you're right, 488 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: Oh he did this, he did this. Yeah, bitch, what 489 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 1: you're gonna say, whether she's gonna come back with it 490 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,479 Speaker 1: or not, it's always a bitch who wants somebody to 491 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: know that they fucked your nigga, or they fucked your husband, 492 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: or I'm sucking a celebrity fuck his wife. That's offset bitch, 493 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 1: I fucked him that type of ship. Bitches just want 494 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 1: people to know that. And that's that's really really fucking 495 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: sad in hindsight when you think about it, because it's 496 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: just like everybody wanna be famous. That motherfucking yeah, that 497 00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: fucking fame, that image, that that ship social media. Yes, 498 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: the industry used to be so motherfucking different. Oh it's 499 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: so sad now. But that brings us to the end 500 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: of the show. I just want to leave you with 501 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: some positivity. Three things in your relationships, Please please, please, 502 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: please be upfront about everything. You never want to have 503 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: your significant other in the dark. Your girlfriend, your boyfriend, 504 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,159 Speaker 1: your wife, whatever, your lover. You don't want to have 505 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: them in a dark about anything. Do not hide your feelings. 506 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: You can't do that, whether you're feeling some type of 507 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,880 Speaker 1: way about this thing or that thing, because that's how 508 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: people go and look other places for other things. When 509 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 1: you start lacking whatever it is you're lacking your relationship, 510 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 1: you don't have the balls to say it, so you 511 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: start cheating or you start going you know, and some 512 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,160 Speaker 1: people cheat for no fucking reason. But if you can 513 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,160 Speaker 1: help it, these things could help you. Be up front 514 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: about everything. Do not hide your feelings, and communicate. Always 515 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 1: communicate yes, yes, yes, yes. And I just want to 516 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 1: add to that and have a peace of mind, even 517 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 1: if that means being by yourself. I don't never be 518 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: when nobody for convenienced, because that ship is whack and 519 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 1: that's our ship bubble and it can become very toxic. 520 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: So we're gonna leave you all on a note. Today 521 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: they buy to my brother brother, say by to them. 522 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,800 Speaker 1: All right, fancy y'all later. I ain't saying to be 523 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: word today, but see y'all later. I love y'all very 524 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 1: motherfucking much because we want them to come back next Wednesday. 525 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: That's it for Carefully Reckless, y'all, and then my best 526 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: pad voice peace be like just you got your ass, Nicka, 527 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: shut the fuck up. I've been out hit on my cash, 528 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: on you bot, my hustle, I've been stop. I don't 529 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 1: do no getting. Carefully Reckless is a production of I 530 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: Heart Radio and The Black Effect. 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