WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Sushi With Ketchup

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels. Second date update date. The coffee shop. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a great place to meet people. Yeah, I know. When

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been trying to meet a lady, I always

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<v Speaker 1>go hang out at the coffee shop because you can

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<v Speaker 1>tell a lot about somebody based on what they order.

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<v Speaker 1>For an example, if the girl next to me orders

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<v Speaker 1>a frappuccino, I know she likes whipped cream on stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what it tells you. Or let's say short

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<v Speaker 1>is a hot chocolate. Yeah, that means she probably likes

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<v Speaker 1>chocolate on so and maybe even some whipped cream. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a horrible decisive A lot of freaky people at the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop. Damn not me. They're weird those chocolates. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's where the guy on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today met the lady that he wants to call.

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<v Speaker 1>He met her at a coffee shop. His name is Ronald.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, ronalds? Go on gat Are you a frappuccino

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<v Speaker 1>guy or a hot chocolate guy? Just coffee for me? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not. I'm not into all the fancy coffee stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that means he likes caffeine on stuff. Huh. Tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you want to call today for

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<v Speaker 1>your second ad update. So I met this really cool girl,

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<v Speaker 1>Jill at a Starbucks. Actually I was in I was

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<v Speaker 1>in line in front of her, you know, waiting to order,

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<v Speaker 1>just looking around because it was a long line, and

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly noticed, oh wow that you know, it's this cute

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<v Speaker 1>girl behind me. Did you spend the rest of the

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<v Speaker 1>time trying not to look behind you but also wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to look behind you to see Well, yeah, exactly. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I basically tried to look at her without being creepy,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, obviously she's pretty. I wanted to look

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<v Speaker 1>at her. He's like you to put your phone in

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<v Speaker 1>selfie taking mode and just hold it up, so you

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<v Speaker 1>just taking a bunch of selfies. Don't mind me because

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<v Speaker 1>that's attractive. I just tried to be cool about it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just look around and happen to catch her

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<v Speaker 1>in my gaze. But I decided, you know, when I

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<v Speaker 1>got to the counter, I paid for her drink. I

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<v Speaker 1>did kind of a pay it forward thing. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good way to do it. It is good because

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<v Speaker 1>that's commonplace, that's our bucks too. So if she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like you and just be like, oh I was just

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<v Speaker 1>doing when people do at Starbucks. But if she does

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<v Speaker 1>really like you and want to talk to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're like sweet at work, and it's like a bonus

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<v Speaker 1>because it says about you, I think of other people.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's what I'm saying. At Starbucks. When somebody does that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know they're a giver. Thank you. You can tell

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about people at Starbucks. So you did that,

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<v Speaker 1>ended she thank you for it? Well? Yeah, so she

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<v Speaker 1>goes to the counter and they said, oh, that guy

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<v Speaker 1>paid for it, and you know, she comes to thank

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<v Speaker 1>me and says, oh, wow, you know, it's nice of

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<v Speaker 1>you to do that. And I just said, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just like to do that every once in a while. Yeah. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>she was really cool to talk with and we had fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just said, hey, do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>at dinner with me tonight? Wow? Same night? Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said yes she did. She did, which was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>So we decided, you know, because we just met, we

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<v Speaker 1>would just meet at the restaurant. Yeah, okay, so we did.

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<v Speaker 1>We met at the restaurant. I mean, she has an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing smile, she's really intelligent, really easy to talk to,

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner was going really well. And you know and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're having a really good time together. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were laughing at each other's jokes and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just thought it was really I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just call it an easy date. Huh. Well, then

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<v Speaker 1>you're definition the easy day and mine is different. So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a good dinner and you like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think she's not calling you back? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean, the only thing I can

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<v Speaker 1>figure is I do have this, um, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny habit that I don't know, Maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>weirded her out or something. What is it? I really

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<v Speaker 1>love sushi. Okay, we went to this sushi place, but

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<v Speaker 1>I like having ketchup with my sushi. Oh go get

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<v Speaker 1>out of here. That's worse in ordering to stake well done.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually it's really good and it's surprisingly it matches really well. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'll take her. I'll take your word

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<v Speaker 1>that ketchup goes good with sushi, Ronald, I will take

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<v Speaker 1>your word on that. You're trying to say that you

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<v Speaker 1>have a more advanced palette. Don't knock it, you try it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna knock it all day. Long and never try

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<v Speaker 1>it long. How about that? Okay? So anyway, obviously you

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<v Speaker 1>know it's a sushi place, so I bring my own

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<v Speaker 1>ketch up with me. I bring little packet up with place.

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<v Speaker 1>That is awesome. That is commitment to the ketchup. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and look, I mean she obviously looked weird at me,

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<v Speaker 1>and she asked a lot of questions, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, hey, this is the real me.

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<v Speaker 1>I like ketchup on my sushi. And that was that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, at least I'm honest about who

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Yeah, it's how the sushi chef saw what

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<v Speaker 1>you were doing and spit in your field exactly. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'm gonna open my own restaurant, just show

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<v Speaker 1>you how good this is. It's gonna be only you

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<v Speaker 1>eating there. So how did things end then with her?

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<v Speaker 1>So at the end of the date, I walked her

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<v Speaker 1>to her car and I leaned in for a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and I got a handshake. That's not a good sign. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be, you know, it could be like some

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<v Speaker 1>weird red flag to her. It could say that you're

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<v Speaker 1>too picky, or you're too demanding, or you're weird. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>come on, that's not weird, like weird would be like

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<v Speaker 1>if I were making comments about whip cream and chocolate

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<v Speaker 1>at a coffee shop. Very good point. All right, So

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<v Speaker 1>do you think it's a catch up thing the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't even want to kiss you? Honestly? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was obviously the weirdest thing on the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>everything else seemed to be easy. So you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. And how many times have you tried to

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<v Speaker 1>get ahold of her since then? Or do I have

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<v Speaker 1>to admit that place I don't know. I mean I've

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<v Speaker 1>texted her and called her a few times. That's double digits. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so probably too much at this point. Well, we'll do

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<v Speaker 1>it one more time for you. We'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>and then come back and call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. All right, just hang on, all right, thanks, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it next Frooking Jewels Second date updated right

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of your second date updating if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just joining us. Ronald is on the phone, and Ronald

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<v Speaker 1>met a girl named Jill and took her out for

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<v Speaker 1>sushi if you don't know what sushi is. And some

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<v Speaker 1>ancient Japanese art where they carve up fish and place

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<v Speaker 1>it on a bed of rice and maybe add some

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<v Speaker 1>seaweed in to create a beautiful flavor combination. And Ronald,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone, has taken sushi to the next level.

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<v Speaker 1>He likes to add something that we here in America

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<v Speaker 1>call ketchup the sushi. You can't even say it like

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<v Speaker 1>that and make it sound fancy. Ketchup is a fairly

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<v Speaker 1>new thing, and it basically just covers up the flavor

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<v Speaker 1>of whatever it's on, making it taste like tomato sauce.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea with a lot of sugar tomato sauce. Ronald thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe putting ketchup on his sushi might have sealed

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<v Speaker 1>his fate, and that's the reason his dat isn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>back because he knows it's weird, but at least he

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<v Speaker 1>owns Ronald, are you ready to call Jill and find

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<v Speaker 1>out if putting ketchup on your sushi ruined your date? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to find out now if she has a

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<v Speaker 1>problem with it. Do you want to continue to pursue

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<v Speaker 1>a second date? Yeah? I would. I mean, she's really

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<v Speaker 1>cool and she's very easy to get along with, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm curious to see what happened? Would you

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<v Speaker 1>stop using ketchup if she asked you too? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>would not do so. You like her enough, but you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like her enough to drop ketchup? Correct? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can figure out what we're wrong. Okay, all right? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>asking the Jill? Please? Yeah? This is Jill. Can I

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<v Speaker 1>ask his calling? Yes? You can, Jill. This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How are you hi?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you good? Are you familiar with

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<v Speaker 1>who I am at all? Yeah? I'm just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>curious why you're calling. You've heard the radio show Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning before. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>make very clear because sometimes people really have no idea. Yeah, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I have heard it. Okay, I think it's clear in

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<v Speaker 1>her giggle before? Well, what would you say if I

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<v Speaker 1>told you that I'm calling to do a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update with you? You're not serious right now, are you? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I am completely serious. You went out with a dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Ronald a little while ago, and now you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. Oh, there goes giggle. Oh suddenly you're

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<v Speaker 1>not laughing? Yeah? No, uh I went out with Ronald. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we know that. Yeah, I got your phone number and

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<v Speaker 1>everything from him, and we talked to him a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about your date. He thinks that you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back because he puts ketchup on his sushi. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was definitely a new experience, that's one way to

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<v Speaker 1>put it. Yeah, did you think that maybe he was

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<v Speaker 1>too picky or unclassified or no? I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he told you this, but I

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<v Speaker 1>actually to try it, um, And yeah, yeah I did.

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<v Speaker 1>They're brave. Yeah. I wouldn't have done that. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have punched him right in the face if he had

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<v Speaker 1>offered him up on it. What did it taste like? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't the worst thing in the world, But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that I would do it again. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't convert you over to putting ketchup on your sushi.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess No, No, he did not, So if you

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<v Speaker 1>tried it, I'm guessing that that's not the reason you're

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. Yeah, no, that's not so why are

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<v Speaker 1>you giving him the cold shoulder? Then? UM, to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you, guys. At the end of the date,

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<v Speaker 1>our server came up and offered us coffee, and don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell me you put did he put ketchup in his coffee?

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<v Speaker 1>Keep in him? But that I think I would have

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<v Speaker 1>probably just walked out at that point. Um, so I

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<v Speaker 1>want to have coffee. So I said yes to the

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<v Speaker 1>server and I asked him. I was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want some also? And he does no, I don't drink coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>and exactly exactly. So I was like, Okay, that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird. And I was like, we met at Starbucks?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you mean you don't drink coffee? And then he

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<v Speaker 1>went on to tell me that he just goes to

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<v Speaker 1>different coffee shops trying to meet girls. And that took

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<v Speaker 1>a completely different term for me. Why would he tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that? Why wouldn't he just say, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really a tea guy and they have a great line

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<v Speaker 1>of teas there question? I don't know. For me, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it made me question, Like in my head, I was thinking, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've met so organically, this is such a cute

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<v Speaker 1>story meeting at Starbucks, be paid for my drink, And

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<v Speaker 1>then it's not that cute when you realize he could

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<v Speaker 1>be doing this every day with the different girls and

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Then I started thinking. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even remember him ordering a drink, Like, did he

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, see me and decide to get in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me just so he could pay for my

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<v Speaker 1>drink and just so he can have an excuse to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me, you know, just I mean, it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>line up, and it was kind of starting to seem

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<v Speaker 1>a little creepy. I want to say, hey, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say something here, Jill. You might have forgotten you

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<v Speaker 1>say you listen to the second day updates and Ronald

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<v Speaker 1>is on the other line and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, Hi, Jill. I guess I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>surprised at your reaction to that. I mean, the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>I told you in confidence that I do this, But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't go to coffee shops every day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like, you know, some kind of lifestyle or something.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I just told you that in private.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that I go to coffee shops every once

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<v Speaker 1>in a while to meet people. Yeah, it just feels

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<v Speaker 1>a little out there to me. It seems almost like

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<v Speaker 1>you scope out people and go and meet them, which

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. That just to me seems a little creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess I don't understand how is that creepy?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's you know, not only am I honest

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<v Speaker 1>about it, but I'm not hanging out in bars or

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<v Speaker 1>online or you and I watch people and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>attack them like it's your prey. You know, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it's so not at a hole. I did I attack

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<v Speaker 1>you like prey. No, we actually had a conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>we met and the coffee at the coffee shop. If

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<v Speaker 1>you were like did you seems and just decide that

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to stand in front of me at the

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop and then you've that is your excuse to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me. That to me seems a little creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>And for me, I don't know how many people you've

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<v Speaker 1>done that with and it no, I like, listen, I've

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<v Speaker 1>only done it like a few times. It's not but

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's really where are you supposed to meet people?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean in a cool thing as I met you,

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<v Speaker 1>and we had a really easy conversation and a good

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<v Speaker 1>time out. And I just don't understand why it's that creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you make very good points. We did have

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<v Speaker 1>a very nice conversation and all. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I was just very taken aback by it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it just kind of made the date feel less authentic. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But Jill, I mean, have you ever done online dating? Yeah? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the thing I understand now more where he's

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<v Speaker 1>coming from. Just I mean, Ronald, if if we're being

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<v Speaker 1>honest now and we're being open and everything, how many

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<v Speaker 1>people have you done this too? Like? What is it

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<v Speaker 1>that number of girls that you have seen out a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop decided you wanted to go out with them

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<v Speaker 1>and bought them a coffee? Yeah, Ronald, how many women

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<v Speaker 1>have you bought coffee for? You? Describe it? It It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he's sitting in the corner with binoculars taking like

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<v Speaker 1>picture see for all I know. Look, Jill, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the number of people is irrelevant. The point is did

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<v Speaker 1>you have a good time? Yeah? I did. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. But you need to tell me how

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<v Speaker 1>many people you've done this too? You need to be honest.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not the point. The point is we met

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<v Speaker 1>because I was sitting in that coffee shop waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>you to walk in. That sounds creepy. I don't feel like, Jill,

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<v Speaker 1>you really want to know the answer to the question

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<v Speaker 1>that you're asking. I feel like that's only going to

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<v Speaker 1>make things worse for you. I think you might be right. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you want. I was honest with

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<v Speaker 1>you about the sushi. I was totally upfront about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, I don't know how many people I've

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<v Speaker 1>met there. I mean it's probably somewhere between I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty and fifty whoa, whoa. You must be notorious among

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<v Speaker 1>marisas they see Ronald coming from a mile away, and

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<v Speaker 1>you must also be rich. That's a lot of coffee

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<v Speaker 1>about for people. Hey, Jill, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Ronald on a second date? We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. I'm not gonna lie. I thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to say that it was going to be between

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<v Speaker 1>like five and ten people, But three and fifty eight

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot. I mean, what's a difference. He could

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<v Speaker 1>be sitting on Tinder swiping left and right on hundreds

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<v Speaker 1>of people's pictures. No. No, in person, it's totally creepier.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're watching a person as they come in. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that's so much creepier than online dating. I guess that

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<v Speaker 1>both parties on online dating know what they're in for.

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<v Speaker 1>In Ronald's case, it's only Ronald that knows what he's

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<v Speaker 1>sitting here. No, hey, I don't appreciate that comment. Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>will you go out with Ronald again? Just one more date?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. We have fun, but I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was just a little much for me. What if he

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<v Speaker 1>just shows up at the next coffee shop you go to,

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<v Speaker 1>will you share coffee with him? That? I think I

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<v Speaker 1>might run another direction. Now, come on, I'm sorry, Ronald,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't get a second date. Well, hey, you know

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<v Speaker 1>I was honest and if she doesn't like honesty, then

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she's not the girl for me. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 1>probably a lot of women aren't the girl for you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you'll find the one that is eventually. Ronald broken

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<v Speaker 1>jewel in the morning text in at seven, eight, five

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<v Speaker 1>to nine too says, I'm pretty sure that guy should

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<v Speaker 1>actually be arrested for putting ketchup on sushi, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think I agree with you. We're talking about today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update if you missed it, Ronald wanted to call Jill.

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<v Speaker 1>They met at Starbucks. They went out for sushi, and

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<v Speaker 1>he thought the reason that he wasn't getting a call

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<v Speaker 1>back was because he puts ketchup on his sushi, And

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out that wasn't the thing that turned her off.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a little disgusting, I guess to her, but

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<v Speaker 1>she actually tried it and just said it wasn't my

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<v Speaker 1>cup of tea. The reason that she didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again was during the date, he

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<v Speaker 1>revealed that he doesn't even drink coffee. He just goes

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<v Speaker 1>to coffee places and waits for people to come in,

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<v Speaker 1>so he could drive a couple of conversation and ask

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<v Speaker 1>him out on a date. So she was like, it

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<v Speaker 1>just felt creepy that he was doing that. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's I don't know, I think that's kind of judgy.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was so honest about it. I mean maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he was too honest about it and that's what bid him.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, it's too honest right and hurts you.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, since well since the Internet, now if

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<v Speaker 1>you ask anybody out in person, you're always a creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like people used to do that twenty thirty

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. They would wait around to try to find people.

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<v Speaker 1>But now if you talk to anybody in person, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a weirdo. It's like, whoa wait till I post something

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<v Speaker 1>and then randomly send me a message in my DMS picture. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll go out. That would be so forward.

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<v Speaker 1>You free right send me nude photos before we even

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<v Speaker 1>go out. Just sendee way to do it. So they

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to not go out again. She didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see him again because she thinks he's a weirdo who

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<v Speaker 1>just stocks women at coffee shops. He has gotten thirty

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<v Speaker 1>to fifty dates that I mean and impressive. Who really cares?

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<v Speaker 1>He puts ketch up on sushi and that's yeah the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest thing. Yeah, I remember. If you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a Seconday update, all have to do his email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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