Speaker 1: Brooking jewels. Second date update date. The coffee shop. It's
Speaker 1: a great place to meet people. Yeah, I know. When
Speaker 1: I've ever been trying to meet a lady, I always
Speaker 1: go hang out at the coffee shop because you can
Speaker 1: tell a lot about somebody based on what they order.
Speaker 1: For an example, if the girl next to me orders
Speaker 1: a frappuccino, I know she likes whipped cream on stuff.
Speaker 1: That's not what it tells you. Or let's say short
Speaker 1: is a hot chocolate. Yeah, that means she probably likes
Speaker 1: chocolate on so and maybe even some whipped cream. There's
Speaker 1: a horrible decisive A lot of freaky people at the
Speaker 1: coffee shop. Damn not me. They're weird those chocolates. And
Speaker 1: that's where the guy on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today met the lady that he wants to call.
Speaker 1: He met her at a coffee shop. His name is Ronald.
Speaker 1: What's up, ronalds? Go on gat Are you a frappuccino
Speaker 1: guy or a hot chocolate guy? Just coffee for me? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'm not. I'm not into all the fancy coffee stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that means he likes caffeine on stuff. Huh. Tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl that you want to call today for
Speaker 1: your second ad update. So I met this really cool girl,
Speaker 1: Jill at a Starbucks. Actually I was in I was
Speaker 1: in line in front of her, you know, waiting to order,
Speaker 1: just looking around because it was a long line, and
Speaker 1: suddenly noticed, oh wow that you know, it's this cute
Speaker 1: girl behind me. Did you spend the rest of the
Speaker 1: time trying not to look behind you but also wanting
Speaker 1: to look behind you to see Well, yeah, exactly. I
Speaker 1: mean I basically tried to look at her without being creepy,
Speaker 1: but you know, obviously she's pretty. I wanted to look
Speaker 1: at her. He's like you to put your phone in
Speaker 1: selfie taking mode and just hold it up, so you
Speaker 1: just taking a bunch of selfies. Don't mind me because
Speaker 1: that's attractive. I just tried to be cool about it,
Speaker 1: you know, just look around and happen to catch her
Speaker 1: in my gaze. But I decided, you know, when I
Speaker 1: got to the counter, I paid for her drink. I
Speaker 1: did kind of a pay it forward thing. Oh that's
Speaker 1: a good way to do it. It is good because
Speaker 1: that's commonplace, that's our bucks too. So if she doesn't
Speaker 1: like you and just be like, oh I was just
Speaker 1: doing when people do at Starbucks. But if she does
Speaker 1: really like you and want to talk to you, and
Speaker 1: you're like sweet at work, and it's like a bonus
Speaker 1: because it says about you, I think of other people.
Speaker 1: See that's what I'm saying. At Starbucks. When somebody does that,
Speaker 1: you know they're a giver. Thank you. You can tell
Speaker 1: a lot about people at Starbucks. So you did that,
Speaker 1: ended she thank you for it? Well? Yeah, so she
Speaker 1: goes to the counter and they said, oh, that guy
Speaker 1: paid for it, and you know, she comes to thank
Speaker 1: me and says, oh, wow, you know, it's nice of
Speaker 1: you to do that. And I just said, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I just like to do that every once in a while. Yeah. Actually,
Speaker 1: she was really cool to talk with and we had fun.
Speaker 1: So I just said, hey, do you want to go
Speaker 1: at dinner with me tonight? Wow? Same night? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: she said yes she did. She did, which was awesome.
Speaker 1: So we decided, you know, because we just met, we
Speaker 1: would just meet at the restaurant. Yeah, okay, so we did.
Speaker 1: We met at the restaurant. I mean, she has an
Speaker 1: amazing smile, she's really intelligent, really easy to talk to,
Speaker 1: and dinner was going really well. And you know and everything.
Speaker 1: I mean, we're having a really good time together. Okay,
Speaker 1: you guys were laughing at each other's jokes and yeah,
Speaker 1: like I just thought it was really I don't know,
Speaker 1: I just call it an easy date. Huh. Well, then
Speaker 1: you're definition the easy day and mine is different. So
Speaker 1: you guys had a good dinner and you like it.
Speaker 1: Why do you think she's not calling you back? Then?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, the only thing I can
Speaker 1: figure is I do have this, um, I don't know,
Speaker 1: kind of funny habit that I don't know, Maybe that
Speaker 1: weirded her out or something. What is it? I really
Speaker 1: love sushi. Okay, we went to this sushi place, but
Speaker 1: I like having ketchup with my sushi. Oh go get
Speaker 1: out of here. That's worse in ordering to stake well done.
Speaker 1: Actually it's really good and it's surprisingly it matches really well. No, No,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'll take her. I'll take your word
Speaker 1: that ketchup goes good with sushi, Ronald, I will take
Speaker 1: your word on that. You're trying to say that you
Speaker 1: have a more advanced palette. Don't knock it, you try it. No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna knock it all day. Long and never try
Speaker 1: it long. How about that? Okay? So anyway, obviously you
Speaker 1: know it's a sushi place, so I bring my own
Speaker 1: ketch up with me. I bring little packet up with place.
Speaker 1: That is awesome. That is commitment to the ketchup. Well,
Speaker 1: and look, I mean she obviously looked weird at me,
Speaker 1: and she asked a lot of questions, and you know,
Speaker 1: I was just like, hey, this is the real me.
Speaker 1: I like ketchup on my sushi. And that was that,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, at least I'm honest about who
Speaker 1: I am. Yeah, it's how the sushi chef saw what
Speaker 1: you were doing and spit in your field exactly. You
Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna open my own restaurant, just show
Speaker 1: you how good this is. It's gonna be only you
Speaker 1: eating there. So how did things end then with her?
Speaker 1: So at the end of the date, I walked her
Speaker 1: to her car and I leaned in for a kiss
Speaker 1: and I got a handshake. That's not a good sign. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it could be, you know, it could be like some
Speaker 1: weird red flag to her. It could say that you're
Speaker 1: too picky, or you're too demanding, or you're weird. Oh
Speaker 1: come on, that's not weird, like weird would be like
Speaker 1: if I were making comments about whip cream and chocolate
Speaker 1: at a coffee shop. Very good point. All right, So
Speaker 1: do you think it's a catch up thing the reason
Speaker 1: that you didn't even want to kiss you? Honestly? I mean,
Speaker 1: it was obviously the weirdest thing on the date, and
Speaker 1: everything else seemed to be easy. So you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. And how many times have you tried to
Speaker 1: get ahold of her since then? Or do I have
Speaker 1: to admit that place I don't know. I mean I've
Speaker 1: texted her and called her a few times. That's double digits. Okay,
Speaker 1: so probably too much at this point. Well, we'll do
Speaker 1: it one more time for you. We'll play a song
Speaker 1: and then come back and call her and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. All right, just hang on, all right, thanks, Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll do it next Frooking Jewels Second date updated right
Speaker 1: in the middle of your second date updating if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us. Ronald is on the phone, and Ronald
Speaker 1: met a girl named Jill and took her out for
Speaker 1: sushi if you don't know what sushi is. And some
Speaker 1: ancient Japanese art where they carve up fish and place
Speaker 1: it on a bed of rice and maybe add some
Speaker 1: seaweed in to create a beautiful flavor combination. And Ronald,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone, has taken sushi to the next level.
Speaker 1: He likes to add something that we here in America
Speaker 1: call ketchup the sushi. You can't even say it like
Speaker 1: that and make it sound fancy. Ketchup is a fairly
Speaker 1: new thing, and it basically just covers up the flavor
Speaker 1: of whatever it's on, making it taste like tomato sauce.
Speaker 1: Yea with a lot of sugar tomato sauce. Ronald thinks
Speaker 1: that maybe putting ketchup on his sushi might have sealed
Speaker 1: his fate, and that's the reason his dat isn't calling
Speaker 1: back because he knows it's weird, but at least he
Speaker 1: owns Ronald, are you ready to call Jill and find
Speaker 1: out if putting ketchup on your sushi ruined your date? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm ready to find out now if she has a
Speaker 1: problem with it. Do you want to continue to pursue
Speaker 1: a second date? Yeah? I would. I mean, she's really
Speaker 1: cool and she's very easy to get along with, and
Speaker 1: you know, I'm curious to see what happened? Would you
Speaker 1: stop using ketchup if she asked you too? No, I
Speaker 1: would not do so. You like her enough, but you
Speaker 1: don't like her enough to drop ketchup? Correct? All right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now and see
Speaker 1: if we can figure out what we're wrong. Okay, all right? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: asking the Jill? Please? Yeah? This is Jill. Can I
Speaker 1: ask his calling? Yes? You can, Jill. This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How are you hi?
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you good? Are you familiar with
Speaker 1: who I am at all? Yeah? I'm just kind of
Speaker 1: curious why you're calling. You've heard the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning before. I just want to
Speaker 1: make very clear because sometimes people really have no idea. Yeah, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I have heard it. Okay, I think it's clear in
Speaker 1: her giggle before? Well, what would you say if I
Speaker 1: told you that I'm calling to do a second date
Speaker 1: update with you? You're not serious right now, are you? Yes?
Speaker 1: I am completely serious. You went out with a dude
Speaker 1: named Ronald a little while ago, and now you're not
Speaker 1: calling him back. Oh, there goes giggle. Oh suddenly you're
Speaker 1: not laughing? Yeah? No, uh I went out with Ronald. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we know that. Yeah, I got your phone number and
Speaker 1: everything from him, and we talked to him a little
Speaker 1: bit about your date. He thinks that you're not calling
Speaker 1: him back because he puts ketchup on his sushi. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was definitely a new experience, that's one way to
Speaker 1: put it. Yeah, did you think that maybe he was
Speaker 1: too picky or unclassified or no? I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know if he told you this, but I
Speaker 1: actually to try it, um, And yeah, yeah I did.
Speaker 1: They're brave. Yeah. I wouldn't have done that. I would
Speaker 1: have punched him right in the face if he had
Speaker 1: offered him up on it. What did it taste like? Um,
Speaker 1: it wasn't the worst thing in the world, But I
Speaker 1: don't think that I would do it again. Okay, So
Speaker 1: he didn't convert you over to putting ketchup on your sushi.
Speaker 1: I guess No, No, he did not, So if you
Speaker 1: tried it, I'm guessing that that's not the reason you're
Speaker 1: calling him back. Yeah, no, that's not so why are
Speaker 1: you giving him the cold shoulder? Then? UM, to be
Speaker 1: honest with you, guys. At the end of the date,
Speaker 1: our server came up and offered us coffee, and don't
Speaker 1: tell me you put did he put ketchup in his coffee?
Speaker 1: Keep in him? But that I think I would have
Speaker 1: probably just walked out at that point. Um, so I
Speaker 1: want to have coffee. So I said yes to the
Speaker 1: server and I asked him. I was like, do you
Speaker 1: want some also? And he does no, I don't drink coffee,
Speaker 1: and exactly exactly. So I was like, Okay, that's kind
Speaker 1: of weird. And I was like, we met at Starbucks?
Speaker 1: Would you mean you don't drink coffee? And then he
Speaker 1: went on to tell me that he just goes to
Speaker 1: different coffee shops trying to meet girls. And that took
Speaker 1: a completely different term for me. Why would he tell
Speaker 1: you that? Why wouldn't he just say, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: really a tea guy and they have a great line
Speaker 1: of teas there question? I don't know. For me, honestly,
Speaker 1: it made me question, Like in my head, I was thinking, Wow,
Speaker 1: if you've met so organically, this is such a cute
Speaker 1: story meeting at Starbucks, be paid for my drink, And
Speaker 1: then it's not that cute when you realize he could
Speaker 1: be doing this every day with the different girls and
Speaker 1: you know. Then I started thinking. I was like, I
Speaker 1: don't even remember him ordering a drink, Like, did he
Speaker 1: just you know, see me and decide to get in
Speaker 1: front of me just so he could pay for my
Speaker 1: drink and just so he can have an excuse to
Speaker 1: talk to me, you know, just I mean, it didn't
Speaker 1: line up, and it was kind of starting to seem
Speaker 1: a little creepy. I want to say, hey, I want
Speaker 1: to say something here, Jill. You might have forgotten you
Speaker 1: say you listen to the second day updates and Ronald
Speaker 1: is on the other line and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, Hi, Jill. I guess I'm a little
Speaker 1: surprised at your reaction to that. I mean, the thing is,
Speaker 1: I told you in confidence that I do this, But
Speaker 1: you know, I don't go to coffee shops every day.
Speaker 1: It's not like, you know, some kind of lifestyle or something.
Speaker 1: But you know, I just told you that in private.
Speaker 1: You know that I go to coffee shops every once
Speaker 1: in a while to meet people. Yeah, it just feels
Speaker 1: a little out there to me. It seems almost like
Speaker 1: you scope out people and go and meet them, which
Speaker 1: I don't know. That just to me seems a little creepy.
Speaker 1: But I guess I don't understand how is that creepy?
Speaker 1: I mean there's you know, not only am I honest
Speaker 1: about it, but I'm not hanging out in bars or
Speaker 1: online or you and I watch people and then you know,
Speaker 1: attack them like it's your prey. You know, that's what
Speaker 1: it's so not at a hole. I did I attack
Speaker 1: you like prey. No, we actually had a conversation and
Speaker 1: we met and the coffee at the coffee shop. If
Speaker 1: you were like did you seems and just decide that
Speaker 1: you wanted to stand in front of me at the
Speaker 1: coffee shop and then you've that is your excuse to
Speaker 1: talk to me. That to me seems a little creepy.
Speaker 1: And for me, I don't know how many people you've
Speaker 1: done that with and it no, I like, listen, I've
Speaker 1: only done it like a few times. It's not but
Speaker 1: you know it's really where are you supposed to meet people?
Speaker 1: I mean in a cool thing as I met you,
Speaker 1: and we had a really easy conversation and a good
Speaker 1: time out. And I just don't understand why it's that creepy.
Speaker 1: I mean, you make very good points. We did have
Speaker 1: a very nice conversation and all. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think I was just very taken aback by it, and
Speaker 1: it just kind of made the date feel less authentic. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But Jill, I mean, have you ever done online dating? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And that's the thing I understand now more where he's
Speaker 1: coming from. Just I mean, Ronald, if if we're being
Speaker 1: honest now and we're being open and everything, how many
Speaker 1: people have you done this too? Like? What is it
Speaker 1: that number of girls that you have seen out a
Speaker 1: coffee shop decided you wanted to go out with them
Speaker 1: and bought them a coffee? Yeah, Ronald, how many women
Speaker 1: have you bought coffee for? You? Describe it? It It sounds
Speaker 1: like he's sitting in the corner with binoculars taking like
Speaker 1: picture see for all I know. Look, Jill, I mean
Speaker 1: the number of people is irrelevant. The point is did
Speaker 1: you have a good time? Yeah? I did. I had
Speaker 1: a good time. But you need to tell me how
Speaker 1: many people you've done this too? You need to be honest.
Speaker 1: But that's not the point. The point is we met
Speaker 1: because I was sitting in that coffee shop waiting for
Speaker 1: you to walk in. That sounds creepy. I don't feel like, Jill,
Speaker 1: you really want to know the answer to the question
Speaker 1: that you're asking. I feel like that's only going to
Speaker 1: make things worse for you. I think you might be right. Look,
Speaker 1: I don't know what you want. I was honest with
Speaker 1: you about the sushi. I was totally upfront about this.
Speaker 1: I mean, look, I don't know how many people I've
Speaker 1: met there. I mean it's probably somewhere between I don't know,
Speaker 1: thirty and fifty whoa, whoa. You must be notorious among
Speaker 1: marisas they see Ronald coming from a mile away, and
Speaker 1: you must also be rich. That's a lot of coffee
Speaker 1: about for people. Hey, Jill, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with Ronald on a second date? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it. I'm not gonna lie. I thought you were
Speaker 1: going to say that it was going to be between
Speaker 1: like five and ten people, But three and fifty eight
Speaker 1: that's a lot. I mean, what's a difference. He could
Speaker 1: be sitting on Tinder swiping left and right on hundreds
Speaker 1: of people's pictures. No. No, in person, it's totally creepier.
Speaker 1: If you're watching a person as they come in. That's
Speaker 1: that's so much creepier than online dating. I guess that
Speaker 1: both parties on online dating know what they're in for.
Speaker 1: In Ronald's case, it's only Ronald that knows what he's
Speaker 1: sitting here. No, hey, I don't appreciate that comment. Joe,
Speaker 1: will you go out with Ronald again? Just one more date?
Speaker 1: I don't know. We have fun, but I think it
Speaker 1: was just a little much for me. What if he
Speaker 1: just shows up at the next coffee shop you go to,
Speaker 1: will you share coffee with him? That? I think I
Speaker 1: might run another direction. Now, come on, I'm sorry, Ronald,
Speaker 1: you didn't get a second date. Well, hey, you know
Speaker 1: I was honest and if she doesn't like honesty, then
Speaker 1: obviously she's not the girl for me. Yeah. I think
Speaker 1: probably a lot of women aren't the girl for you,
Speaker 1: but you'll find the one that is eventually. Ronald broken
Speaker 1: jewel in the morning text in at seven, eight, five
Speaker 1: to nine too says, I'm pretty sure that guy should
Speaker 1: actually be arrested for putting ketchup on sushi, and I
Speaker 1: think I agree with you. We're talking about today's second
Speaker 1: date update if you missed it, Ronald wanted to call Jill.
Speaker 1: They met at Starbucks. They went out for sushi, and
Speaker 1: he thought the reason that he wasn't getting a call
Speaker 1: back was because he puts ketchup on his sushi, And
Speaker 1: it turns out that wasn't the thing that turned her off.
Speaker 1: It was a little disgusting, I guess to her, but
Speaker 1: she actually tried it and just said it wasn't my
Speaker 1: cup of tea. The reason that she didn't want to
Speaker 1: go out with him again was during the date, he
Speaker 1: revealed that he doesn't even drink coffee. He just goes
Speaker 1: to coffee places and waits for people to come in,
Speaker 1: so he could drive a couple of conversation and ask
Speaker 1: him out on a date. So she was like, it
Speaker 1: just felt creepy that he was doing that. I think
Speaker 1: that's I don't know, I think that's kind of judgy.
Speaker 1: And he was so honest about it. I mean maybe
Speaker 1: he was too honest about it and that's what bid him.
Speaker 1: The thing is, it's too honest right and hurts you.
Speaker 1: The thing is, since well since the Internet, now if
Speaker 1: you ask anybody out in person, you're always a creepy.
Speaker 1: I feel like people used to do that twenty thirty
Speaker 1: years ago. They would wait around to try to find people.
Speaker 1: But now if you talk to anybody in person, you're
Speaker 1: a weirdo. It's like, whoa wait till I post something
Speaker 1: and then randomly send me a message in my DMS picture. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then we'll go out. That would be so forward.
Speaker 1: You free right send me nude photos before we even
Speaker 1: go out. Just sendee way to do it. So they
Speaker 1: agreed to not go out again. She didn't want to
Speaker 1: see him again because she thinks he's a weirdo who
Speaker 1: just stocks women at coffee shops. He has gotten thirty
Speaker 1: to fifty dates that I mean and impressive. Who really cares?
Speaker 1: He puts ketch up on sushi and that's yeah the
Speaker 1: biggest thing. Yeah, I remember. If you want to do
Speaker 1: a Seconday update, all have to do his email the
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