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Speaker 1: That's not what it tells you. Or let's say short

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Speaker 1: date update today met the lady that he wants to call.

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Speaker 1: He met her at a coffee shop. His name is Ronald.

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Speaker 1: What's up, ronalds? Go on gat Are you a frappuccino

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Speaker 1: and I'm not. I'm not into all the fancy coffee stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: your second ad update. So I met this really cool girl,

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Speaker 1: Jill at a Starbucks. Actually I was in I was

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Speaker 1: in line in front of her, you know, waiting to order,

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Speaker 1: See that's what I'm saying. At Starbucks. When somebody does that,

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Speaker 1: So I just said, hey, do you want to go

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Speaker 1: I just call it an easy date. Huh. Well, then

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Speaker 1: that ketchup goes good with sushi, Ronald, I will take

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Speaker 1: in the middle of your second date updating if you're

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Speaker 1: just joining us. Ronald is on the phone, and Ronald

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Speaker 1: sushi if you don't know what sushi is. And some

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Speaker 1: that and make it sound fancy. Ketchup is a fairly

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Speaker 1: Yea with a lot of sugar tomato sauce. Ronald thinks

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Speaker 1: owns Ronald, are you ready to call Jill and find

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Speaker 1: out if putting ketchup on your sushi ruined your date? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm curious to see what happened? Would you

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Speaker 1: if we can figure out what we're wrong. Okay, all right? Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: asking the Jill? Please? Yeah? This is Jill. Can I

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How are you hi?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you good? Are you familiar with

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Speaker 1: not laughing? Yeah? No, uh I went out with Ronald. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Would you mean you don't drink coffee? And then he

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