1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Lachelle in Chicago. Lachelle writes, I'm forty seven and my 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: husband is fifty two. We've gone from having sex four 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: or five times a week to twice a week. He said, 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: it's normal to take breaks so that we don't get bored. 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: After almost twenty years of marriage, why does he need 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: a break all of a sudden, that's. 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 2: What you want a lot. 9 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 3: God, you gotta understand something. I don't know why he 10 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 3: needs to break Your man ain't what he used to be. 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Ooh, he's fifty two. 12 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: Uh huh yeah, oh fifty two. Ain't like when you 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 3: was twenty two. Yeah, no, no, it's a difference. You know, 14 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 3: women go through changes in life. You know, there's mental palls, 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 3: there's different things that women have that's uniquely. 16 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: The men had him things too, now, hormonal issues. Yeah, 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: as you aged. I don't know. 18 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 3: You call whatever you want to call you ain't what 19 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: you want, homie. I promise you that me and Paul's too. 20 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, so he's just and then twenty some years. 21 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 2: Let me say this here. No they gonna say they 22 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:18,839 Speaker 2: go ahead. 23 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: Shut You can't say that, Okay. 24 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no, hell no. 25 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: Right. Moving on to Bricelyn coming out of Tampa, Bricelan says, 26 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: my wife and I met in the strip club nine 27 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,559 Speaker 1: years ago. I don't think our eight year old daughter 28 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 1: needs to know that my wife was a bartender, not 29 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: a stripper. So why does she feel it's funny or 30 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: cute to add strip club to the story? Is that necessary? 31 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 2: No? Everybody ain't, by the way, Yeah, no strip club. No, 32 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 2: are you're right? 33 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: Your daughter about a strip club? Eight years old? 34 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: He'll be find they don't like to, they'd be fine. 35 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 3: Everybody in there working on tips. 36 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: Ain't nothing wrong with a tip? Wrong. 37 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I bet you got a thin strip part out, 38 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: strip club part out. That's what her husband. 39 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 2: It was a bartender that just WoT chaps. Okay, you 40 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: know that's how you. 41 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 3: Know that. 42 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: Back in the day. A waitress. She was a waitress. 43 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 2: She had on chaps. She it was in Miami. 44 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 3: It was in Miami. 45 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: In my. 46 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 2: All right, you want to move along that night. You 47 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 2: like it when she coming, you love it when she leaves. 48 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: All right? 49 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: This is from my moving on, This is from Curtis 50 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: and Louisville. Curtis Rights. Watch my girlfriend's car often Saturday 51 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: was muddy outside and her floor mats were filthy. She 52 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: said she let her son use it. I told her 53 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: to let her son wash it. Then she said, it 54 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 1: looks better when I do it. Am I expected to 55 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: clean up after her son? Wow? 56 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 3: Well, dog, dog, dog, listen to me to quit categorize me. 57 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 2: You wash your girl's car for who had it? 58 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 3: Look these women, they raise these kids different. Now, this 59 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 3: generation right here of young men. Whoo man, it's different. 60 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 3: And I can tell even at my minring camp from 61 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: ten years ago, the average kid that comes to the 62 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 3: camp is different. 63 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 2: And we got a minerrum different. Man. We can't take 64 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: the same approach anymore. 65 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 3: So she may not, even this boy may not have chores, duties, responsibilities, nothing. Now, 66 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 3: you know what you need to do is have a 67 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 3: cool relationship with the guy and say, hey, my man, 68 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 3: why don't you help your mom out? 69 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 2: It would be real noble of you to do that 70 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: for your mom. 71 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 3: If you take a car to return it the way 72 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: you got it, it could be a teaching moment for 73 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 3: you without being too forceful. Like you because you ain't 74 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 3: his dad, you know, and y'all ain't married. Y'all just 75 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: her girlfriend. That's just your girlfriend. But if you've been 76 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 3: washing a car, then you know you don't want to 77 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 3: wash the car because the boy had it, because you won't. 78 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 3: You want you want to know why he's not taking 79 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: the responsibility and understand that one hundred percent. But may 80 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 3: you know she yeah, you know, she say you do 81 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 3: it better. She liked the way you do it. Now 82 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: if you don't want to do a car, then that's 83 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 3: you started doing that, you know. But I think maybe 84 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: y'all just saying, my man, you know what you ought 85 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 3: to do when you take your mom's car, you ought 86 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 3: to give it back to it the way she had it. 87 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 3: That would be the cool thing to do. And I 88 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 3: ain't coming at you with no disrespect. And just see 89 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: if you can give him that moment. 90 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: He ain't gonna take that. 91 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 2: But you. 92 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:59,799 Speaker 3: Know, mom, a dirty car. See that boy driving age? 93 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: I don't know if he twenty two, twenty four. You 94 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 3: don't know who had the car. You don't afore a 95 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,679 Speaker 3: young as boy gets stumped. Now you know, real fast, 96 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 3: because you're gonna be ready for it. I did this turn, Yeah, 97 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 3: you know, I'm trying to keep it from turning. 98 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 2: He could be seventeen, he could be young. 99 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I like the fact that you said it 100 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: is a teaching moment for the boyfriend. 101 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool. 102 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, hopefully that's what it will be. 103 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: Some gas in there. 104 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you could get out there with him, go hey, man, 105 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 3: we're gonna do this together and then oh no, no, man, 106 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 3: put the soap on there like that. 107 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 2: Then risk it off. You know, you could do it 108 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 2: like that. 109 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 3: It could be a moment to build a relationship with 110 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:39,359 Speaker 3: him because it looked like you're trying to stay with 111 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 3: this girl because you're doing stuff for. 112 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: Nice. 113 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: All right, good answer. Still though, I liked that one 114 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: last night, last one. Yeah, Anitra in Montclair writes, my 115 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: boyfriend asked if he could bring a friend on our date. 116 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: His friend was in down for the weekend. I got 117 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: so mad that I canceled our date. Why can't he 118 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: leave his friend for a few hours to take me 119 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: to the movies? Am I acting like a spoiled brat? 120 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 3: I think you might have missed a moment here, m h, 121 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 3: his homie come in town. What we like to do 122 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 3: is we like to show off what we have. And 123 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 3: you could have missed a moment because I think he 124 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 3: might have been trying to show you off, and he 125 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 3: might have missed the moment because he has no other 126 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 3: reason to want to take his friend than to show 127 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 3: you off. That that might have that might be what 128 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 3: you missed. You know, you could have missed that moment. 129 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: And what is just one date? It ain't that bad, 130 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 3: you know, it just ain't that bad for sure. 131 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: She didn't say if it was a male or female? 132 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 1: Does that make way in. 133 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: Hell it could? 134 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 3: There ain't no way to she'd have put that into female, 135 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 3: a female take her on the date. 136 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 2: He can't be that stupid. There's no way he could. 137 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 1: He's that stupid because she didn't say she just said 138 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: a friend. 139 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 3: Uh No, she would have put female friends in that. 140 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 3: And you can't bro she in town. He gonna bring 141 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 3: her on a date? Man, that's so stupid. Now we're talking. 142 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 3: He's stupid. 143 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: Now, Yeah, she. 144 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: Just said, why can't he leave the friend for a 145 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: few hours? 146 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 2: All right? 147 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: All right, clo, thank you. You're listening to the Steve 148 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show.