WEBVTT - Karol Markowicz Show: Misunderstandings in Politics with Matt Whitlock

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<v Speaker 1>Nine.

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<v Speaker 2>What In fact, Carol Markets show on iHeartRadio. Wishbone Kitchen

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<v Speaker 2>is an Instagram account I enjoy. She's a young private

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<v Speaker 2>chef and she posts about her morning diet, coke habit

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<v Speaker 2>and the amazing stuff that she cooks for her fairly

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<v Speaker 2>well off clients. She has a cookbook coming out too.

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<v Speaker 3>I plant buy it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>But she had this to say recently on the Better

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<v Speaker 2>Home and Gardens page, and I want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's roll that clip.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the beef I have with like child wife content.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like homemaking for me personally is just like

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<v Speaker 1>within me, Like I feel this urge to nest at

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<v Speaker 1>all times, and I'm, you know, not preparing.

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<v Speaker 3>For a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not nesting for a man. I'm not nesting for

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<v Speaker 1>a family. I'm doing it for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>And so it's so interesting that it's always through the lens.

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<v Speaker 1>Of I'm doing this for my husband, and like that

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<v Speaker 1>makes me feelicky because I'm like, well, if you're if

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<v Speaker 1>you're not doing it for yourself, you shouldn't just do

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<v Speaker 1>it for your husband.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's not right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I like to approach hosting homemaking, home cooking with

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<v Speaker 1>a lens of like, I'm doing this because I enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me happy, and this is how I like

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<v Speaker 1>to spend my time and period out of discussion.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it shouldn't bother me, but this whole, the

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<v Speaker 2>way I do it is the right way. Thing is annoying,

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<v Speaker 2>especially when we're talking about something like keeping house, something

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<v Speaker 2>our grandmothers and great grandmothers and so on did as

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<v Speaker 2>a matter of course, they didn't give it a name

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<v Speaker 2>or make it part of their personality. It makes everyone

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<v Speaker 2>imagine a much more difficult life than most people have.

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<v Speaker 2>Once you make a thing out of something, it's hard

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<v Speaker 2>to make it go back to just being a part

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<v Speaker 2>of life.

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<v Speaker 3>Again.

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<v Speaker 2>I really like this woman's work, but this whole I

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<v Speaker 2>don't try to wife like you guys do it for

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<v Speaker 2>your husband and kids. I do it for myself. It

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<v Speaker 2>rubs me the wrong way. You can cook for yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>You can cook for friends, as she often does, and

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<v Speaker 2>sure it's okay to cook for your husband and kids.

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<v Speaker 2>And I get that. Part of speaking in public is

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<v Speaker 2>the ability to do so with some degree of authority.

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<v Speaker 2>And of course, all of us, including myself, who give

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<v Speaker 2>public comment have to be saying some version of my

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<v Speaker 2>way is best. But I resent this constant drumbeat of

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<v Speaker 2>anti marriage and family rhetoric.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's what I think.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a part of I think about myself hearing

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<v Speaker 2>this kind of thing in my twenties and definitely believing

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<v Speaker 2>that marriage and children would be drudgery. And I was wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>And the truth is I learned to cook after I

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<v Speaker 2>started dating my husband, and it's still something I enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>doing so much. Could I have done it before him?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, maybe I should have done it for myself.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's fine that she is, but it's very enjoyable

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<v Speaker 2>to do it for your family. The woman at this account,

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<v Speaker 2>she's quite young, and I would bet she will love

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<v Speaker 2>cooking for a family, and I hope she gets the

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to do that and show her followers how that's done.

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<v Speaker 2>And it won't always be eating caviar on potato chips

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<v Speaker 2>as she's doing in this clip, and it won't always

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<v Speaker 2>be instagrammable or have a nice esthetic, but it will

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<v Speaker 2>still be fulfilling and can still make you happy. Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>for listening. Coming up my interview with Matt Whitlock. But first,

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<v Speaker 2>three two five. Welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show

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<v Speaker 2>on iHeartRadio. My guest today is Matt Whitlock. Matt is

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<v Speaker 2>a Republican strategist and host of the Ten Minute Drill podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>So nice to have you on Matt.

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<v Speaker 4>It is such an honor. I have told you this,

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<v Speaker 4>but I've been a fan of yours for a very

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<v Speaker 4>very long time, everything from what you wrote about COVID

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<v Speaker 4>to what you're writing about parenting now. This is so great.

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<v Speaker 4>So thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much. The feeling is very mutual.

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<v Speaker 2>I always found you to be very, very smart and

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<v Speaker 2>interesting on the old Twitter.

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<v Speaker 4>Plans, very kind. We call X.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, how did you get into this world? How did

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<v Speaker 3>you become a Republican strategist?

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<v Speaker 4>It's so funny you asked that. So I actually had

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<v Speaker 4>intended always on going to law school. I just felt

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<v Speaker 4>like my dad's a lawyer. I thought, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 4>the lane for me. I love to argue with people.

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<v Speaker 4>But actually I was a missionary in Japan in my

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<v Speaker 4>college years, and I found that arguing with people didn't

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<v Speaker 4>appeal to me as much. And I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>that's what turned me or I just enjoyed communications. But

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<v Speaker 4>I found that I loved talking to people and figuring

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<v Speaker 4>out how to explain complex concepts. In that case, it

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<v Speaker 4>was like about religion to people who had a very

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<v Speaker 4>different religious background. But I think that sort of started

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<v Speaker 4>me thinking about it, and then I got home. I

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<v Speaker 4>actually moved out to Washington with the intention of starting

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<v Speaker 4>law school, but while I was doing my applications, I

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<v Speaker 4>had a friend in Senator Mike Lee's office and they

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<v Speaker 4>needed a driver for the senator for just the summer months,

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<v Speaker 4>and I thought, I'm fresh out of college, that would

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<v Speaker 4>be a really fun experience to just drive a senator

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<v Speaker 4>around see how the process works. And I ended up

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<v Speaker 4>having a blast. He was such a great boss. I

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<v Speaker 4>had so much fun with him. But I also got

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<v Speaker 4>to play a role in the writing, and after a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit of time, I realized speech writing was a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of fun. So I started writing his speeches and

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<v Speaker 4>he let me move into doing that full time, which

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<v Speaker 4>was a blast, and that led me into a very

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<v Speaker 4>different path than I had intended, but one that was

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<v Speaker 4>really enjoyable. You know, It's one of those things you

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<v Speaker 4>just never know where life's going to take you. And now, gosh,

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<v Speaker 4>thirteen years later, I've been doing you know, speech writing.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I was a press secretary. I worked in

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<v Speaker 4>corporate communications, and now I get to do kind of

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<v Speaker 4>a general grad bag of everything, which is so much fun.

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<v Speaker 4>But I did not intend that when I first moved

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<v Speaker 4>to Washington back in twenty twelve, was it like.

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<v Speaker 2>You realized you could argue without the law degree and

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<v Speaker 2>took off.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that, like, there's more fun outside of

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<v Speaker 4>the parameters of law when you get into that. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>for one, there's so much reading inment, but also I

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<v Speaker 4>just really enjoyed the creative side of debating and trying

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<v Speaker 4>to win people over to your side using sort of new, creative,

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<v Speaker 4>different storytelling measures, things like that. It was just so

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<v Speaker 4>much more fun outside of that realm. And it's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>The person who talked me out of going to law

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<v Speaker 4>school the most was Senator Lee, who's literally a constitutional

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<v Speaker 4>scholar and the United States Senator. But he said, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>if you don't want to practice law, you shouldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 4>And you're a creative, so you should do something that

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<v Speaker 4>allows you to sort of stretch your legs a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit more. And I think that really helped me decide,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, this was a better path to try and

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<v Speaker 4>chase what was Living in Japan life amazing. Honestly, Japan

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<v Speaker 4>is incredible. I feel like everyone if you have an

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<v Speaker 4>opportunity to go spend a week in one place in

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<v Speaker 4>the world. Go check out Japan and spend a day

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<v Speaker 4>or two in Tokyo or Kyoto or the high tourist places,

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<v Speaker 4>but also spend some time in the rural country. I

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<v Speaker 4>was up in Sendai way up north, which is very

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<v Speaker 4>rural but so beautiful, the best people in the world.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually served in a place that later had the

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<v Speaker 4>massive tsunamis in twenty eleven, and it was crazy to

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<v Speaker 4>see that happen in places that I knew, but also

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<v Speaker 4>how quickly they rebuilt and how fast they kind of

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<v Speaker 4>jumped into action. And that's what I really came to

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<v Speaker 4>love so much about the Japanese people, is that they're

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<v Speaker 4>so resilient and focused. I really loved my time there.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>How long were you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Two years as every two years, which if you're learning

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<v Speaker 4>a language like Japanese, is like you want all that time.

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<v Speaker 4>And we spent three months at a training facility where

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<v Speaker 4>they work on things like both you know, how to

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<v Speaker 4>become a missionary, but also how to learn the language.

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<v Speaker 4>But three months is not close to getting you ready

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<v Speaker 4>to speak Japanese. But once you're there and you're surrounded

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<v Speaker 4>by people, it's you know, speak or don't talk to

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<v Speaker 4>anybody and don't figure out, you know, how to feed yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>So being there was incredibly helpful to learning the language,

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<v Speaker 4>learning to love the culture, the food, everything. It just

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<v Speaker 4>is the best. I had such a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>What would have been Plan B if you didn't go

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<v Speaker 3>into politics or law?

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<v Speaker 4>That's such a good question. I think about that sometimes.

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<v Speaker 4>I I mean, everyone always like falls back on things

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<v Speaker 4>like sports because that's what their dream was when they

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<v Speaker 4>were a kid. I played high school baseball and I

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<v Speaker 4>loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>We dream big here anything you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, Well, it's funny like as if as if like

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<v Speaker 4>professional baseball had really been a possibility. But the thing

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<v Speaker 4>that turned me off to it the most was when

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<v Speaker 4>I got to college and all my friends who were

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<v Speaker 4>on the team had to like wake up at five

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<v Speaker 4>am every day, And like, I was having way too

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<v Speaker 4>much fun in college to like wake up at five

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<v Speaker 4>am for baseball practice. So like, had they wanted this.

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<v Speaker 3>MLB career, guys went way too early.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want that anyways, even if it wasn't you know,

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<v Speaker 4>even if it was going to work out, not for me, no,

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<v Speaker 4>But so I don't know, I loved sports. I love

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<v Speaker 4>I actually was an English major. I really loved reading

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<v Speaker 4>and writing and composition. So I could see myself maybe

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<v Speaker 4>wanting to teach just because I love delving into literature

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<v Speaker 4>and things like that. I kind of nerd out over

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<v Speaker 4>like the American classes, so I could see that being

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<v Speaker 4>an angle that would be interesting. I had really amazing

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<v Speaker 4>teachers in high school, particularly in English and lit that

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<v Speaker 4>made me passionate about this stuff, and so I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's an area that I would have maybe spent some

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<v Speaker 4>time in. But it's really hard to imagine, like say

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<v Speaker 4>what I do now and then thinking of me like

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<v Speaker 4>in a classroom and like you know, telling kids about

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Dickens and Steinbecken. You know, it's just such

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<v Speaker 4>a different world. But it is the other thing that

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm probably most passionate about outside of politics.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think people misunderstand about the political world

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<v Speaker 2>and how things actually work on the inside.

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<v Speaker 4>I love that question because I think in the last

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<v Speaker 4>like ten to fifteen years, we've had a devolution of

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<v Speaker 4>everyone thinking politics is the West Wing, then thinking it

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<v Speaker 4>was House of cards, and landing on the resolution that

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<v Speaker 4>really is veep and weep is so much closer to

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<v Speaker 4>the actual experience. I moved to DC in part, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>with this dream because I had watched The West Wing

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<v Speaker 4>and I really loved it, and I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I could make world what I have to tell you, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I had experiences in the Senate, both for Senator Lee

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<v Speaker 4>but also in my time with Senator Hatch that did

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<v Speaker 4>feel like the West Wing, like we were doing huge things,

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<v Speaker 4>seeing really important things happen, and I loved that. But

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<v Speaker 4>so much more of the day to day of working

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<v Speaker 4>in politics really is deep. I think of the scenes

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<v Speaker 4>of the aid whispering in her ear who everybody is

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<v Speaker 4>and what to say and not say. I spent so

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<v Speaker 4>much time doing that, and a photo line trying to

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<v Speaker 4>tell the Senator, you know, don't say this to this person,

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<v Speaker 4>or watch out for this issue with that person, and that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the comedic moments really are so much more

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<v Speaker 4>what your day to day life is about than the glamorous,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, heroic moments with triumphant music playing from the

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<v Speaker 4>West Wing.

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<v Speaker 2>As I get older, though, I like wish I had

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<v Speaker 2>somebody whispering in my ear, like who everybody is?

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<v Speaker 3>I like who I shouldn't say? Certain things too that

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<v Speaker 3>would be very convenient.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a professor, like a profession that I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think exists, but like for regular people.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, honestly I think that, especially now I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not as old as I feel, but I still am,

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<v Speaker 4>like forgetting names of people that I should know, because

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<v Speaker 4>you have little kids and you don't get enough sleep,

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<v Speaker 4>and you start forgetting really easy things. Have you just

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<v Speaker 4>like someone on your shoulder, like, hey, don't say that

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<v Speaker 4>to this person. It would be awesome. I do think

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<v Speaker 4>that all the.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, and you meet people all the time. I like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when I moved to Florida and I met

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<v Speaker 2>like a whole new world world of people. One time

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot somebody's name and her husband actually said to

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<v Speaker 2>me something really kind, and it was just like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you moved here, you met like a thousand new people,

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<v Speaker 2>Like we only met like one person you like it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, So it was like, you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>really fair and some kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm glad that they get you some grace on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I always give grace when people absolutely my name.

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<v Speaker 3>And that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they should, they should.

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<v Speaker 2>But billion dollar profession you send people out to just

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<v Speaker 2>walk alongside and you know I would pay something for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So how did you start? What made you start

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<v Speaker 3>the Ten Minute Drill podcast?

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<v Speaker 4>So in this last election, I had so many conversations,

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<v Speaker 4>particularly with people outside of Washington, asking just like, what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on? What is this story? Particularly family members who

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<v Speaker 4>would see things in media and say that sounds crazy,

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<v Speaker 4>and I would, in a two minute conversation explain the

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<v Speaker 4>context and they'd say, oh, that makes so much sense.

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<v Speaker 4>And so my thought was, it would be great if

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<v Speaker 4>we had just one more channel to cut through the

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<v Speaker 4>noise and help people sort of really be able to

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<v Speaker 4>parse what is overblown, because one thing about the Trump

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<v Speaker 4>years is you do have a lot of media really

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<v Speaker 4>eager to jump in and report things, sometimes without getting

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<v Speaker 4>all the facts. And I think that one thing that

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<v Speaker 4>is helpful for people to know is what's normal versus

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<v Speaker 4>what's not. And also sometimes like what happens all the

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<v Speaker 4>time that is being treated as some crazy incident. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so that's a part of what really made me want

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<v Speaker 4>to do this. Like I had a family member ask,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, they had heard a story that President Trump's

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<v Speaker 4>still had kids in cages four years after he was

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<v Speaker 4>in the White House, and like I explained, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>that doesn't make a lot of sense, but I can

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<v Speaker 4>see where the sort of media would want to lead

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<v Speaker 4>you that way. And so that was a lago or

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<v Speaker 4>exactly like what you know, give us exactly. So there

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<v Speaker 4>are just so many absurd things. But I also feel

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<v Speaker 4>like the media has the capability to really warp minds.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's so interesting how the conversation in the last

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<v Speaker 4>ten years has been you know, more concerned about like

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<v Speaker 4>conservative family members being warped. But the number of I'm

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<v Speaker 4>from the San Francisco Bay area, the number of friends

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<v Speaker 4>of mine who have just totally warped views of the

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<v Speaker 4>reality of politics because of what media has really dug

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<v Speaker 4>into these last few years. It's been pretty shocking. I

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<v Speaker 4>have really smart, reasonable friends who have been sort of

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<v Speaker 4>led into conspiracy theories on things that I am like, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>a sect that's insane and totally not true. And so

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<v Speaker 4>being able to just spend a few minutes you can't

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<v Speaker 4>you know, whack every mole, but being able to say

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<v Speaker 4>here's a real thing and here's a fake thing in

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<v Speaker 4>ten minutes or less. That's that's my goal with it

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<v Speaker 4>is just to make a sort of quick rundown of

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<v Speaker 4>what's going on and why something you might have heard

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<v Speaker 4>about is real or not.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you choose which story to focus on?

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<v Speaker 4>I have to tell you so much of it has

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<v Speaker 4>to do with like the things that I am getting

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<v Speaker 4>to engage with on a daily basis. I get to

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<v Speaker 4>spend a lot of time with, you know, staffers on

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<v Speaker 4>Capitol Hill, with members with friends working in the administration

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<v Speaker 4>who are trying to navigate this media landscape and running

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<v Speaker 4>into these land mines of things getting misreported misrepresented. So

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<v Speaker 4>that's a big part of it, is working with my

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<v Speaker 4>own network about what's going on and what needs to

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<v Speaker 4>be explained a little bit better. But a lot of it,

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<v Speaker 4>too is just the things that I follow in track

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<v Speaker 4>and media and see, Okay, this is getting a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of attention, but this angle to it. For example, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>when we talk about protests at town halls, one thing

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<v Speaker 4>that hasn't gotten enough attention across media is the organization

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<v Speaker 4>behind that and the dark money that's funding so much

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<v Speaker 4>of this. So like if we can shine a light

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<v Speaker 4>on that and sort of show the reds and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>follow the money, things like that, those are things that, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I see so much in my feed that I'm like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I could spend a few minutes talking about We're going

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<v Speaker 4>to take.

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<v Speaker 3>A quick break and be right back on the Carol

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<v Speaker 3>Marcowitch Show. What do you worry about?

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<v Speaker 4>I do worry And this is going to sound ironic

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<v Speaker 4>from a like partisan political operative, but I do worry

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<v Speaker 4>about division because I grew up in the era of

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<v Speaker 4>you know, particularly after nine to eleven. For example, I

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<v Speaker 4>remember I didn't have a lot of Republican friends growing up.

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<v Speaker 4>President Bush was not popular, you know, among my friends

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<v Speaker 4>in high school, things like that. But after nine to eleven,

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<v Speaker 4>seeing people rally around the flag and feel really positive

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<v Speaker 4>about our country and the need to stand up for ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so interesting that when you look at events in

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<v Speaker 4>the last ten to fifteen years, we don't seem to

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<v Speaker 4>have that same unifying energy that sort of brings us

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<v Speaker 4>all together. We used to sort of have a code

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<v Speaker 4>that things division could only go so far. And I

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<v Speaker 4>just worry that, particularly, you know, from the old Ama

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<v Speaker 4>year's when we spent a lot of time. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>trying not to dive too far into politics because I

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<v Speaker 4>think one thing that's really fun and fresh about your

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<v Speaker 4>show is it's not hyperpartisan, but it felt like politics

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<v Speaker 4>shifted from we disagree about ideas too. If you disagree

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<v Speaker 4>with me, you're trying to shove Granny off a cliff.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't know that we've ever come back from that.

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<v Speaker 4>And I do think for a long time we tried

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<v Speaker 4>to sort of meander our way back to it. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>A Mitt Romney presidential candidate represented this idea that we

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<v Speaker 4>could go back to that where we were super respectful

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<v Speaker 4>of each other. But I think that what happened to

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<v Speaker 4>Mitt Romney was they still call them hitler and they

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<v Speaker 4>talked about how terrible of a person he was, even

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<v Speaker 4>though he was such a good guy, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>And so that radicalized so many people to the point

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<v Speaker 4>where they're saying, Okay, we need a Donald Trump type person.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that there's reason for that, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think it makes a lot of sense. I

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<v Speaker 4>just don't know how we ever go back to where

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<v Speaker 4>and MSNBC segments at night are not calling us all

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<v Speaker 4>murderers and getting half the country to think that we're

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<v Speaker 4>so much more divided because if you look in the

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<v Speaker 4>halls of Congress, Republicans and Democrats actually get along a

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<v Speaker 4>lot better than you would find. Yeah, how do we

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<v Speaker 4>spread that and actually show that people are not as

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<v Speaker 4>sort of hateful towards each other as a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>the political discourse seems to feel, right, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think when you're in the world, you get along far

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<v Speaker 2>better people on the opposite side, No question, it's actually

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<v Speaker 2>surprising to people that like activists on both sides.

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<v Speaker 3>Would get along well, or list or politicians or any

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<v Speaker 3>of that. But I also I think about, like, if

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<v Speaker 3>the internet was what it is today.

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<v Speaker 2>On nine to eleven, I think it would have been

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<v Speaker 2>not quite the easy, exactly right.

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<v Speaker 3>Post nine to eleven experience. I don't know that we

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<v Speaker 3>would have rallied around the flag quite quite like.

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<v Speaker 4>We did exactly right. Either. Social media and the media

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<v Speaker 4>have incentivized so much outrage and division that like that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, that has so much to do with what's

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<v Speaker 4>shifted and changed us in this sort of rapid dopamine

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<v Speaker 4>hit that comes from dunking on somebody else whatever. I

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<v Speaker 4>think that, like the nine to eleven reaction would have

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<v Speaker 4>been completely different. The conspiracy theories that we've seen pop

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<v Speaker 4>up online later would have been immediate. We wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 4>had the sort of rally around the flag that we had.

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<v Speaker 4>So I do think that you're absolutely right, that's a

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<v Speaker 4>huge part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>There were conspiracy theories even back then, of course, but

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<v Speaker 2>they were spread in like books you had to read

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<v Speaker 2>a book about it, you know, or the websites. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>there were some, but it just wasn't quite what it

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<v Speaker 2>is now, which is somebody could say something crazy on

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<v Speaker 2>x and get you know, a million shares or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely absolutely, it spreads a lot faster now.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and it's so hard. I mean, there's the saying

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<v Speaker 4>that what is it alike and travel halfway around the

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<v Speaker 4>world before the truth get its shoes on. With social

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<v Speaker 4>media and the media, it's even so much faster that

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<v Speaker 4>being able to sort of put the toothpaste back in

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<v Speaker 4>the tube is now almost impossible, you know. And so

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<v Speaker 4>that's that's I think the challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what advice would you give your sixteen year old self?

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<v Speaker 3>What a sixteen year old Matt need to know?

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<v Speaker 4>That's such a good question because I feel like sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>I think, you know, maybe I shouldn't have been as

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<v Speaker 4>stressed in high school about things like, you know, grades

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<v Speaker 4>and what I was studying, things like that. But I

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<v Speaker 4>also think that stress was really important because I needed

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<v Speaker 4>to get the education I got, I needed to get

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<v Speaker 4>into a good college and things like that. But I

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<v Speaker 4>do think when we look back on those formative years

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<v Speaker 4>and think about the things we learned that don't matter now,

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<v Speaker 4>For example, trigonometry whatever, when's the last time I used that,

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't about learning trigonometry. It was about learning how

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<v Speaker 4>to learn, and it was about learning how your mind developed.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think that I would tell my sixteen year

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<v Speaker 4>old self, keep your head down, keep working through it,

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<v Speaker 4>because all of these things will play a role at

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<v Speaker 4>some point in your life, even if it's just conditioning

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<v Speaker 4>your mind to be able to sort of do things

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<v Speaker 4>later that are hard, or helping you think outside the box.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I would probably that's such weird advice, but

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<v Speaker 4>just you know, stay the course and remember that all

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<v Speaker 4>these things have some value. All of these experiences have

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<v Speaker 4>some value for you that you're going to lean on

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<v Speaker 4>at some point in your life. Because I think that

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<v Speaker 4>it's so easy to think back on those formative years again,

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<v Speaker 4>as I was saying, and think of parts that were

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<v Speaker 4>less relevant or that you were more worried about than

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<v Speaker 4>you should have been or more stressed about. But all

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<v Speaker 4>those are building blocks, right, All those are a part

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<v Speaker 4>of our development, and I think that that really is

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<v Speaker 4>so important. And so I'm grateful for the hard times

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<v Speaker 4>when I was a teenager, but also the really good

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<v Speaker 4>times that helped me sort of learn and grow and

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<v Speaker 4>learn how to build relationships and all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, you're never going to use trigonometry kids, never. No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>Actually I made myself figure out a percentage today, even

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<v Speaker 2>though I could have just googled what is this percentage?

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<v Speaker 3>Which is the other thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, you have all this information and access to information,

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<v Speaker 2>we should still exercise your brain. So they exactly that

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<v Speaker 2>person walking around with you telling you the names of

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<v Speaker 2>everybody that you already know exactly. It's all one thing, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you might never use trigonometry, but there is some important

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<v Speaker 2>stuff you pick up along the way.

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<v Speaker 4>Stretch your brain, stretch your brain a little bit. I

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<v Speaker 4>think that's when I took the l SAT for example,

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<v Speaker 4>which again I didn't end up it and I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>end up going to law school, but there are exercises

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<v Speaker 4>that stretch your mind. And I was like, this is insane.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never thought this way, But I'm so glad that

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<v Speaker 4>I'm learning how to do this. And I do feel

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<v Speaker 4>like I should clarify. I never took trickon on my treat.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I stopped math. I think I stopped making

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<v Speaker 4>a like algebra two, just trying to make a smart

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<v Speaker 4>word math person. I never did in mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I took the outside.

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<v Speaker 2>I did pretty well. I like puzzles, you know, all

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<v Speaker 2>of that was it was okay.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I'm not a I'm a I'm even like.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, I count on my fingers like I am not

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<v Speaker 2>a math.

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<v Speaker 4>My god, my wife makes fun of me. I count

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<v Speaker 4>on my fingers when I'm like doing like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>ten twenty thirty, fifteen, thirty, forty five, sixty. But she

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<v Speaker 4>thinks I'm kinding like one two, three, four five, like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm moron, And I'm like, oh no, these are big numbers.

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<v Speaker 4>These are like giant times tables. This is smart, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't look smart one two five, Right, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of wish I didn't count the little.

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<v Speaker 4>No judgement here whatever, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>A words person. I'm not me too, you know that's

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<v Speaker 2>a very different mindset.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, no question, all right, well this is so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and us here with your best tip for my

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<v Speaker 2>listeners on how they can improve their lives.

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<v Speaker 4>My best tip for how you can improve your lives

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<v Speaker 4>is figure out how to shut out the noise in

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<v Speaker 4>certain moments. Figure out how to unplug from things. Figure

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<v Speaker 4>out how to put politics away, turn off Twitter, whatever

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<v Speaker 4>for certain amounts of time so that you can actually

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<v Speaker 4>enjoy other things. I find that I enjoy the news

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<v Speaker 4>and politics so much more when I've taken some time

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<v Speaker 4>away from it so I can come back with fresh eyes.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard. It's hard, honestly, especially in these Trump years,

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<v Speaker 4>when there's so much news all the time. He's doing

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<v Speaker 4>so many things. The media is up in arms all

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<v Speaker 4>the time. But I remember when I got married, I

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<v Speaker 4>went on, like in twenty eighteen, I went on my

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<v Speaker 4>honeymoon and like put my phone away, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my gosh, it's the early Trump years. I'm a

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<v Speaker 4>Senate communications director. I'm gonna miss so many things. I

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<v Speaker 4>missed a million things, but then there are a million

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<v Speaker 4>more things that came so I didn't matter. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>so unplugged, you're not going to miss anything that you can't,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, pick back up on when you need to.

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<v Speaker 4>But it makes it so much better to enjoy your family,

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<v Speaker 4>your life and other things and then come back to

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<v Speaker 4>it with fresh eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that I unplug for like my vacations with

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<v Speaker 2>my family and I take X off my phone and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you miss a news cycle and you sometimes come back

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like, wait, Nikki Haley said.

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<v Speaker 4>This good, you know, like wait, yes, catch heay, So.

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<v Speaker 3>What you missed it? It's gone.

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<v Speaker 4>It's well fill space within ten seconds exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>You got the time with your family and that you

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<v Speaker 2>can never get back.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much, Matt. He's the host of the

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<v Speaker 3>Ten Minute Jill Podcast. Check it out. Matt Whitlock, thank

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<v Speaker 3>you so much for coming on.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks so much for joining us on the Carol Marko

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<v Speaker 2>Witch Show.

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