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Speaker 1: Lisa Lampanelli is not a licensed therapist or life coach.

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Speaker 1: She is a meddling advice giving yana and know it

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Speaker 1: all and her words come from her head, her heart,

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Speaker 1: and often out of her ass. His podcast should not

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Speaker 1: be misconstrued as therapy. I should be taking with a

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Speaker 1: huge strain of salt for entertainment purposes only.

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Speaker 2: These You need help, You're the problems. Come on, come down,

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Speaker 2: go lamb, take a pill. I think you're insane. Do

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Speaker 2: what I say, dumb ass, listen to me. You Hey, everybody,

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Speaker 2: it's Lisa lamp and Elli here on Shrink. This's a

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Speaker 2: little mini episode of the podcast where he tied you

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Speaker 2: over to season two. Oh yeah, season two? Yeah? What

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Speaker 2: do we got? We got? Who? Who's here with us today?

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Speaker 2: Whyat's you know what it is?

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Speaker 3: Normal? It's Nick scup care follow me on Instagram and

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Speaker 3: TikTok and Nick scopes you know what it is?

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Speaker 2: Boy? Yeah? And also with us is Celia really she

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Speaker 2: guilt tripped us last week because her shrines us. But

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Speaker 2: we're gonna try to path. We're going to try to

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Speaker 2: rise above it and not feel bad about ourselves. You

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Speaker 2: can find Celia Celia Underscore underscore my therapist takes Lisa

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Speaker 2: underscore Romano dot com. Wow, it's just Celia underscore Underscore Romano.

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Speaker 2: Correct Celia, that's correct posts.

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Speaker 3: Good picks, dude, you have good posts, Solia. I will

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Speaker 3: give you that.

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Speaker 2: I will say yeah, and you look out of full

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Speaker 2: yeah yeah, when you like juice yourself up closed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: J let's get and I just go through and highlight

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Speaker 2: the ones you were like, we're not gonna talk about

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Speaker 2: Sia's lack of a dick, just like we won't talk

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Speaker 2: about your lack of a dick. Yeah, how about that

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Speaker 2: good one? Tell your strength that we are teams.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes we can sometimes it's not just them ganging up

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Speaker 4: against me.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's like me and you gang up a nick.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Fuck anyway.

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Speaker 2: Every week I don't season two prepared the January, we

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Speaker 2: take a previous episode and we talk about some of

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Speaker 2: the letters that we did not get to. The episode

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Speaker 2: we're talking about today are was called BFF or just

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Speaker 2: b as where we were talking about do you remember

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Speaker 2: this neck. We're searching for the one when it comes

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Speaker 2: to friendship, like the bestie, like my BFF. And I

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Speaker 2: was saying the other day that I hesitate to send

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Speaker 2: you know how you'll see on TikTok, like a funny

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Speaker 2: thing about my bestie and I when we do whatever

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Speaker 2: at each other like we'll be talking about this. Well.

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Speaker 2: I have about five friends who I consider really great

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Speaker 2: ride or died great friends, but I always hesitate to

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Speaker 2: send those because I go then they'll think I think

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Speaker 2: they're my best friend. I'm their best friend, right, so

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Speaker 2: they'll be like, oh, well I have a different best friend,

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Speaker 2: and now Lisa thinks she's my best friend, so fuck Lisa.

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Speaker 2: She's weird and needy. So I don't even send the

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Speaker 2: memes because they get nervous. What do you think, Nick,

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Speaker 2: would you hesitate or would you just send it and

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Speaker 2: say I don't really like you that way?

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Speaker 3: Hey, check this out. Don't fucking think I like you

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Speaker 3: and I sent you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Exactly.

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Speaker 3: I think I would be a little bit maybe with

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Speaker 3: like a rope someone who I was romantically interested, I'd

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Speaker 3: send or I send this?

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Speaker 2: Okay, tedious by the way, not to interrupt, means like,

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Speaker 2: what's the word not hard? Difficult? A difficult task? So

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Speaker 2: I think you hesitant hesitant, which is see I correct

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Speaker 3: But I'm tedious.

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Speaker 2: You're tedious. You are I'm playing that for my shrop.

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Speaker 3: Tell him get some balls.

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Speaker 2: You aren't getting some you're sacking up, bitch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, finally, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, claireming he Jones, it doesn't hurt. Okay, all right back.

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Speaker 2: So if it was a Roman, you'd be more hesitant

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Just just like is it too much? Am I

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Speaker 3: texting too much? Is this not funny? Will it hit

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Speaker 3: them the right way? Friends? I don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 3: I'll just be like, here you go.

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Speaker 2: I just worry that they'll be like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I have my other best friend. But now at least

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Speaker 2: the things we're besties do. We have to have a talk.

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Speaker 2: And I'd like to tell you all, if you think

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Speaker 2: go fuck yourself out, probamise myself. I wouldn't cry so anyway,

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Speaker 2: I think the theory of having one person who's your bestie,

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Speaker 2: I think we all have different people for different things.

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Speaker 2: And that's a beautiful thing. So we did an episode

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Speaker 2: on that. Nick. Do we have some letters time?

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Speaker 3: Are you guys ready?

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Speaker 2: I think so?

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Speaker 3: Okay, therapist, are you ready? Dear Lisa, Like my two kids,

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Speaker 3: my best friend changes daily.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's wait, that's not even a red flag. That's chartruse,

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Speaker 2: that's magenta.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's weird.

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Speaker 3: My best friend changes daily. This is an adult depending

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Speaker 3: on who has pissed me off?

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Speaker 2: Oh shit?

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Speaker 3: Do I need to be more flexible and less transactional

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Speaker 3: best friends? Thanks Sharon and Bethesda Maryland. Sharon, I'm just

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Speaker 3: gonna go off you fucking Jesus.

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Speaker 2: She's just damaged Jesus.

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Speaker 3: He's my best friend today. Don't you have kids and

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Speaker 3: shit to do? Who's worried about?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: Because I think all the time we're looking for some

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Speaker 2: through something, just a hard feeling. Feelings. By the way,

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Speaker 2: long is because we're trying to talk ourselves out of them.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to talk ourselves, give it a name, identify

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Speaker 2: say I'm I don't know, feeling disappointed in something. I

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Speaker 2: might then glance and say, my friend Amy text me.

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Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, she's the real one. Nick hasn't

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Speaker 2: you know what, fuck him? She's the bestie, he's not.

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Speaker 2: So that's I think what we do. We look for

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Speaker 2: me just feel the feelings. I'm disappointed about this other thing.

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Speaker 2: So I think that's what it sounds like this clam's doing.

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Speaker 2: She's just looking, not looking for things to be annoyed at,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, people like this should be.

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Speaker 2: Shocked anything I say.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just no, she should work through a ship.

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Speaker 3: But like, this type of shit makes me mad because

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Speaker 3: you know, this is the type of person that, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, the type of person that anytime they talk

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Speaker 3: about like, my boss was the worst about yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: maybe you're the common denomination. Yeah here, everyone can't. Not

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Speaker 3: everyone in the world could be this bad.

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Speaker 2: Correct. They never bother taking their own inventory, they never

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Speaker 2: what's the common denomene? Oh, it's me.

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Speaker 3: When they start the job, I'm sure it's great. When

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Speaker 3: they start the friendship, Oh my god, they're the best,

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Speaker 3: blah blah blah. And then at some point it's just, well,

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Speaker 3: now you know what, Actually.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I just don't need a boss. We did we

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Speaker 2: have an episode where somebody be like, I just I'm

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Speaker 2: you You're not You're not going to invent a puffer? Bess?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, guys, I love this puffer.

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Speaker 3: You can dress it up, dress it down, squeeze your

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Speaker 2: Who's selling those company.

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Speaker 4: Up?

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Speaker 2: But Celia, what do you think about this this situation?

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Speaker 2: Have you heard of bit just like this?

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Speaker 2: Okay, best I was just thinking about it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's the dumbest thing I've like

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Speaker 2: Like my kids?

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Speaker 4: Like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: She's saying her two kids, like the little kids, like, well,

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Speaker 4: Well, I just think that's the fact that you can

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they should just give you the answer. There? Are

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Speaker 2: you're still in your pants right now? Yeah, you potty

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Speaker 2: Let's go to the next question, right?

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Speaker 3: What is our next question here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's gotta be another one.

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Speaker 3: On the same page.

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Speaker 2: Here, I'm changing my best friend from Nick to someone.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I only do with the stars. Next, Lisa hits

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Speaker 3: me all the way. All right, here's what we're gonna

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Speaker 3: go through this, all right, Dear Lisa. My six year

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Speaker 3: old son asked me who my best friend was the

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Speaker 3: other day and I couldn't answer them. Oh, there's two

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Speaker 3: to talk. Do you think it's okay to spread the

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Speaker 3: that one person Hillary.

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Speaker 2: I'm suspicious of a name Hillary because of Hillary Duff,

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Speaker 2: because Hillary Duff strikes me as someone who'd want a

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Speaker 2: best friend. I'm just saying, is she Lizzie McGuire is?

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Speaker 2: And who that is? Okay? I don't like any of that.

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Speaker 2: She's okay, forget it, she's great. So Hillary, You're fine. No,

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Speaker 2: I like the idea. I think it's just such a

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Speaker 2: But think about having what an embarrassment of wealth to

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Speaker 2: have three people who you could just call to talk

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Speaker 2: in an emergency, Like whenever I'm feeling like, oh I

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Speaker 2: don't have enough. I literally have a favorites list on

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Speaker 2: and it's like twelve people like that's great to be

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Speaker 2: able to even have that. Sure, they never really answer

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Speaker 2: because it's a delusion and it's all like AT and

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Speaker 2: T customer service. Amazon would pick up and talk to me.

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Speaker 2: I'm a prime member. They would say, what's her emergency? Lies,

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Speaker 2: and I just cry no. But I mean, I like

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Speaker 3: A little bit? I mean, I like I'm in the

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what I think too. With my friends. It's

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Speaker 3: It's definitely evolved. It's funny you said that I'm thinking about, like, wow,

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Speaker 3: I do Gonzo rooms in Westchester.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you do any kind of fight Columbus with a

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Speaker 3: They have less stress because they're happier.

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Speaker 2: This way, I could just throw a fucking you take

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Speaker 2: move right on to nick my life. No, but I

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Speaker 2: And this is where you say, you sure do, Lisa,

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Speaker 3: Your talent and success is a beacon to someone like

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Speaker 2: Nothing, I mean really nothing.

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Speaker 2: Also, I'm very impressed everybody says he's done nothing with

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Speaker 3: And what I don't?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought you did. I respect you less. How

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I just have a lot of certifications and things.

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Speaker 2: Well, I take it back, you are a nothing. Enjoy

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Speaker 2: beef and beer, the school of life.

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Speaker 3: I have a PhD.

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Speaker 2: That is true. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone's dead.

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Speaker 2: No, everyone's dead, and I'm gay. You are Celia way

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Speaker 2: Because clearly you've had friendship struggles. I only know that

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Speaker 4: Probably the ones that I met most recently.

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Speaker 2: I would say, you're correct, but I would never want

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Speaker 2: I want them to die so you could see what

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Speaker 2: because that's what happened to me. I was here and

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Speaker 2: So I only wish that upon you people listen to

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Speaker 2: the podcast. No, I hope none of your friends die.

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Speaker 2: You're fine. Every who's a good girl? She is?

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Speaker 2: She is? Celia is a good girl? Nick? Where can

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Speaker 2: we listen to the podcast?

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Speaker 3: You could listen to us on the iHeartRadio app or

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Speaker 3: anywhere you get podcasts. And if you'd like to write

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Speaker 3: into the show, yes, please send us an email at

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Speaker 3: shrink this show at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 2: And that's all for you.

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Speaker 3: Follow Lisa, she throws up on the microphone. Follow on

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Speaker 3: Instagram Lisa them Now you can follow me and Nick Scobs,

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Speaker 3: my big titties and dick on on Instagram. Follow. Celia

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