Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion? Who
Speaker 1: talks back? Hey, y'all, what's up? Y'all? Thank you for
Speaker 1: tuning in for a new episode if we talk back,
Speaker 1: A show dedicated to you, niggas and knees holes. How
Speaker 1: you doing, Tam? You sound especially southern this week. That's
Speaker 1: giving real country girl right now. I like those terms southern. Okay,
Speaker 1: don't call me country. I'll take either or babe. Y'all
Speaker 1: come back now you're here? Hey, y'all is tam bam?
Speaker 1: I love y'all? Man, I really do. Thank you for
Speaker 1: coming back to see us. How you doing a j
Speaker 1: I'm good man, just chilling out, trying to sell out.
Speaker 1: The heat, thank god? Is raining a little bit now?
Speaker 1: It seems like it rain every day. It do, but
Speaker 1: it's good, like we need to rain. To me, feels
Speaker 1: like a redo, a reknew, like a little fresh slate. Yes.
Speaker 1: I like when it rains. Yeah, my friends said, sins
Speaker 1: don't get no rain. That's why Las Vegas stay so dry.
Speaker 1: That might be true. I don't know. I like when
Speaker 1: it rains the grass be looking at all fu green
Speaker 1: and ship. The grass likes it. What'd you do this? Weekend.
Speaker 1: I didn't do ship. I can't even think of one
Speaker 1: thing eight food that I shouldn't eat. Nothing wash my
Speaker 1: partner from penis. Well, I'm gonna do that anyway. That's
Speaker 1: just how I get down. That's just how I do.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that anyway. That's just how I do.
Speaker 1: Oh what say, I got a penis this weekend. It's
Speaker 1: like I say, and I took a shower this weekend,
Speaker 1: like everybody knows that. Oh, I just want to do
Speaker 1: that anyway, because that's just how Oh, that's just how
Speaker 1: I am. That's what she said. I um. I flew
Speaker 1: to Atlanta this weekend to do a photo shoot for
Speaker 1: a friend's clothing line that's about to drop Bell Interest Clothing.
Speaker 1: It's exciting. I'm gonna wear one of her pieces for
Speaker 1: the live show, soidy. It's very cute, sexy little blazer
Speaker 1: number with a skirt. So yeah, that's what I did.
Speaker 1: And girl, it was how this funk out there trying
Speaker 1: to take pictures to be sexy and cute and clothes
Speaker 1: and its six bit myself pressed my silk pressed baby
Speaker 1: that back of my neck. It was an afro under
Speaker 1: these tracks because I had clippings, girl, mistake. I should
Speaker 1: have just braided this ship up and put them just
Speaker 1: sold the hairry in instead of clipping it in between
Speaker 1: my hair, real hair was swelling like hair stylers kept
Speaker 1: having to like pull me to the side and like
Speaker 1: refect my hair. Yeah, key, damn it. Yeah, was a
Speaker 1: great experience though. It's fun. What's the name of the
Speaker 1: clothing line again? Bell airis clothing? Okay, I think it's dropped.
Speaker 1: The actual release date is August twenty. She's got some
Speaker 1: cute pieces, y'all, so be on the lookout for that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we like black women in business, Okay. Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: get to brought all this little outfits to wear to
Speaker 1: the club. Aunt didn't go nowhere? All we can and
Speaker 1: did you see them down? Monkey pox is popping up
Speaker 1: in the lanty better say you're asking the house and
Speaker 1: and sanity sanitize everything you touch. They keep talking about
Speaker 1: monkey pox is all over the place. But I ain't
Speaker 1: seen one monkey yet nowhere. Girl. He's got that monkeys
Speaker 1: out here, y'all. Please, there plenty of them. I ain't
Speaker 1: see now monkey running around Atlanta yet. I don't know
Speaker 1: any stupid internet news. What's going on. Well, this isn't
Speaker 1: really stupid, and I do want to start to show
Speaker 1: off by sending out some super duper loving light to
Speaker 1: Brittney Grinder. Britney Griner was sentenced last week to nine
Speaker 1: and a half years for um little under a gram
Speaker 1: of soil. Yeah, I'll just be out here with my ship.
Speaker 1: I'd be all in the way of just puffing it
Speaker 1: right quick. But we aren't in Russia a luxury. We
Speaker 1: have recreational we haven't medicinal purposes. But yeah, she got
Speaker 1: caught up um back in February, right before Ukraine and
Speaker 1: Russia went started the war. So it's just a bad
Speaker 1: timing basically. But she was already over there for you know,
Speaker 1: a while playing basketball supplement her m w n B
Speaker 1: a income here in America, so she's been over there.
Speaker 1: She came into the country with the ship in her
Speaker 1: bag accidentally. I feel like she was starting mm hmmm,
Speaker 1: because I'm pretty sure she does that all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure she does that all the time. It's just
Speaker 1: like you said, it was bad timing for that, and
Speaker 1: because of who she is, that was like, yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna keep this one right here. Yeah. I actually, I
Speaker 1: actually went to Russia. I spent some time in Russia,
Speaker 1: and I lived in the Ukraine for a year. Did
Speaker 1: you know that? Yeah, you told me about that before.
Speaker 1: I was an exchange student in the Ukraine and my
Speaker 1: mama did not want me to take my blacks out there,
Speaker 1: and she was so against it. But I begged and pleaded,
Speaker 1: and because I was such a scholar, they sent me
Speaker 1: for free. My high school paid for me to go
Speaker 1: and I stayed there a year and it was a
Speaker 1: great experience. I mean, it was fun. I did. I
Speaker 1: was constantly reminded that I was black because at the time,
Speaker 1: this is all right, what what years it's probably like
Speaker 1: to thousand. I just told how old I am, bitch.
Speaker 1: I always tell how old I am, so they know, okay,
Speaker 1: they know how your old, as they know that we
Speaker 1: around the same age. T way back to the story.
Speaker 1: So as soon as I got off the plane, y'all,
Speaker 1: and I went to the home of the family I
Speaker 1: was staying with, which they were very successful, wealthy family.
Speaker 1: The student that was gonna, you know, go to the
Speaker 1: US in my place. She came up to me and
Speaker 1: she was like, I never see black like this, can
Speaker 1: I touch? She never seen black like this up closer
Speaker 1: in person, that's what she And she was like all
Speaker 1: up in my face, trying to touch my face. And
Speaker 1: I had to get real South Carolina ghetto right out
Speaker 1: the game. Get the funk off me. This what you're
Speaker 1: trying to do, like personal space. I think that's one
Speaker 1: of the curses with social media is that we have
Speaker 1: now given a lot of people access to our blackness
Speaker 1: that otherwise don't need it and would not have had it. Okay,
Speaker 1: so now they get to really like put us on
Speaker 1: their microscope see how we are without actually fucking with us, right,
Speaker 1: And that's even worse as far as I'm concerned, because
Speaker 1: then they might base it off of the brachet. And
Speaker 1: that's why and this is why. I you know, girl,
Speaker 1: like what other and I don't give a funk who
Speaker 1: get mad? Okay, but what other group of black black
Speaker 1: Excuse me? What other group of men do you see
Speaker 1: like working on social media? Well, I mean culturally, twerking
Speaker 1: is a black thing, you know what I'm saying on
Speaker 1: a pole? On a pole? What other what other group
Speaker 1: of men? So the way that we're displayed on on
Speaker 1: on social media, on the internet, on TV, it doesn't
Speaker 1: represent us as a whole. It just doesn't the representation
Speaker 1: representation we got. I agree, it does not, and it's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong. Like I used to watched Loving Hill Pop
Speaker 1: faivorbably I don't watch it anymore, but I don't think
Speaker 1: I'm the turret audience. But that is a part of that.
Speaker 1: That's the subculture within the culture, right But there's so
Speaker 1: much more to us than just what the and I
Speaker 1: just feel like that's what's dominating right now. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: but back to Brittany Grinder, Like, man, I just I
Speaker 1: was so like when I saw the headlines last week,
Speaker 1: like I got so I was vibrary and so low
Speaker 1: because I couldn't believe it. You couldn't tell me that
Speaker 1: she was going to get like not like a slap
Speaker 1: on the risk risk, but like not nine and a
Speaker 1: half years. And so the thing is that they said
Speaker 1: they had to sentence her and then in negotiations will
Speaker 1: now and take place for the for the swap, if
Speaker 1: there is to be a swap. But you know, in
Speaker 1: February they swapped this Trevor I forgot his last name,
Speaker 1: but he was like a U. S. Marine. They swapped
Speaker 1: him back in February or March but he had been
Speaker 1: in prison over there for five years. And to people
Speaker 1: who are trying to compare like her drug charge and
Speaker 1: Russia and comparison to a Biden isn't doing in America
Speaker 1: for the black men who are arrested or who have
Speaker 1: been in prison for um marijuana over here for decades.
Speaker 1: And she's like that, it's just not the same. You
Speaker 1: cannot compare a US prison to a Russian prison. You can't.
Speaker 1: I have sat there and I was trying to figure out,
Speaker 1: like where they're gonna have her at? What are you
Speaker 1: gonna house here at? I looked at so many videos
Speaker 1: of the prisons that they have over there, like, I
Speaker 1: hope she makes it. The ship is not as inhumane
Speaker 1: as fuck, they said some of the women if they
Speaker 1: most of the women in Russia gets sentence for drugs,
Speaker 1: That's what they said. So there's one prison where the
Speaker 1: women commit suicide as opposed to happen to do time
Speaker 1: at this particular facility. Wow, that's so scary. That's scary.
Speaker 1: And so it's not the same, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We understand. I understand who the fuck y'all voted for.
Speaker 1: Told y'all, nigga is not the vote for that dude.
Speaker 1: Y'all voted for him, and he did ship he said
Speaker 1: he was gonna do. But you can't none of these.
Speaker 1: You can't come pair, you can't compare, you know what's
Speaker 1: happening over here to to ship in Russia. And then also,
Speaker 1: I want to say this and then we can move
Speaker 1: on to the next topic. Y'all just standing solidarity with
Speaker 1: with Britney Grinder. I don't want to hear nobody saying,
Speaker 1: oh she knew better. How many times over here y'all
Speaker 1: trying to say free, free, such as such, when y'all
Speaker 1: know he a cold blood and motherfucking killer, but y'all
Speaker 1: still say free him. But when it comes to a
Speaker 1: black woman that you can't fuck right, it's people. Somebody
Speaker 1: can suck her, you know, like maybe not no dudes.
Speaker 1: That's yeah, woman, I'm talking about men. It's the men
Speaker 1: that I'm seeing that saying oh she knew better. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Oh yeah, it's not women that
Speaker 1: I'm seeing that saying that. So I don't don't there's
Speaker 1: no justification for the treatment that she's receiving. It's just
Speaker 1: not um. So I hope she comes home soon. I
Speaker 1: feel like she's coming home soon, very soon. I feel
Speaker 1: that her. Have you ever seen that movie Broken Down Palace? Y'all,
Speaker 1: guys are a movie buff. It's a it's a really
Speaker 1: good movie called Broken Down Palace, and it's about these
Speaker 1: actually two white girls from the US who went on
Speaker 1: like a vacation abroad and they who are having a
Speaker 1: good time and met this beautiful man who invited them
Speaker 1: to go somewhere else and really he used them as
Speaker 1: a drug depoise, take a whole bunch of drugs. But
Speaker 1: he was Was that based on a true story? Yes,
Speaker 1: I feel like I saw it. I feel like I've
Speaker 1: seen it before. And these girls took his backpack and
Speaker 1: they got caught with this amount of drugs and now
Speaker 1: they're in like I think it was like some Asian country,
Speaker 1: like I don't know where it was, I don't want
Speaker 1: to lie, but in this prison and they literally never
Speaker 1: got to leave, never like but the end of the movie,
Speaker 1: the girl was still in prison and she had been
Speaker 1: there for a long time and it was it's a
Speaker 1: very sad movie. I mean, it's a good story and
Speaker 1: it made me think of the Brittany Grinder situation. I
Speaker 1: hope she doesn't have to stay like they did. But
Speaker 1: if you ever get a chance, check that be all
Speaker 1: that is good. Yeah, our heart is with you, Britney Grinder.
Speaker 1: We hope you come home soon for real. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, did you watch Stranger Do
Speaker 1: you watch Stranger Things? Nelix? I watched UM the first
Speaker 1: season and then I kind of fell off. Everybody talk
Speaker 1: about it so much that I feel like I should
Speaker 1: go back and watch it at least watched the last season.
Speaker 1: This last season got so many gems in it, and
Speaker 1: y'all know how I feel. They have to give out
Speaker 1: get our consents, so they put a lot of things
Speaker 1: in movies. They literally have dark matter trapped in laboratory
Speaker 1: UM in Russia. Okay, so this is this the that
Speaker 1: that season is based in Russia's some parts of it.
Speaker 1: But listen, I feel like Britney Grinder might be a
Speaker 1: direct descendant of some ancient civilizations. I don't know sa
Speaker 1: Marian's or um the an ANARCHI I don't know, but
Speaker 1: she's pretty tall, and we know basketball players in America.
Speaker 1: They are our modern day giants. So maybe Russia knows
Speaker 1: something about Brittany that she doesn't even know about herself,
Speaker 1: but I'll leave that they you can go do some
Speaker 1: research on that. Yeah, we're gonna put We're gonna have
Speaker 1: a j with her theories of conspiracy on our patriarch.
Speaker 1: This is not a conspiracy. It's not a conspiracy. Listen,
Speaker 1: let me break the numbers down right quick, just one
Speaker 1: one to one to second. Brittany Grinder is six ft nine.
Speaker 1: They sentenced her to nine point six years, right. They
Speaker 1: they reported March six that they had Brittany Grinder in custody. Right,
Speaker 1: that's that's your three six and nine. Okay, that's your
Speaker 1: three six and nine. Google three six nine, everybody just
Speaker 1: google to three six nine, because once you understand three six,
Speaker 1: now you understand the universe. These people do things in
Speaker 1: numbers all the time. Is your mantrea? Okay? Next? Uh? Next?
Speaker 1: So yeah, like I'm saying, we're gonna start our patriarch
Speaker 1: real soon. I just like to get people a different
Speaker 1: perspective to look at things. I appreciate. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'd be like this this bit crazy. But then
Speaker 1: sometimes I'd be like that makes some fucking sense. You really,
Speaker 1: you really with somewhere with that one girl, You really
Speaker 1: have me and I always go somewhere. Yeah, sometimes maybe
Speaker 1: if you want to go with me far, sometimes it'd
Speaker 1: be too far from me. But then a lot of
Speaker 1: times you'd be making sense. For real, friend, I'm here
Speaker 1: for it most of the time. Don't tell you don't
Speaker 1: tell people. A lot of times you're not motherfucking friends,
Speaker 1: so you're always supposed to be where I'm at. That's
Speaker 1: just trying my best I try, my best friend, try
Speaker 1: all right. Next, who going to jail for COVID fraud? Okay, Biden?
Speaker 1: Oh fucking far and head ass. Look now, let that
Speaker 1: about our president. There was a time you couldn't talk
Speaker 1: about the president at all, but since Obama, you know,
Speaker 1: you can say whatever you want to say about the
Speaker 1: president and get away with it. Apparently. Um I remember
Speaker 1: growing up where they said like secret Service to pull
Speaker 1: up at your goddamn house, was saying something about the president.
Speaker 1: But now it's seeming as now we're calling our president
Speaker 1: of farmheading. Listen. That was nice, Okay, that was nice,
Speaker 1: But Biden says, you can't hide. We're going to find you.
Speaker 1: We're gonna make you pay back what you stole and
Speaker 1: hold you accountable under the law. Listen, I know my
Speaker 1: payment dates, I'm paying my ship back, and I'm confused.
Speaker 1: You know, I can understand, like the millions of dollars
Speaker 1: that people may not be able to pay back that
Speaker 1: they got um from you know, the P P P
Speaker 1: and all these different disaster disaster funds and all the ship.
Speaker 1: But okay, my little, my little piece I got, I
Speaker 1: got your mother like a money like I don't want
Speaker 1: to give it back. I just feel like if you
Speaker 1: got billions of dollars to send the Ukraine, why you
Speaker 1: need mind back? Clearly? You straight you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like you are the interest off all that credited money
Speaker 1: is what he used to send over to Ukraine. So
Speaker 1: now you want to collect from the people exactly. But no,
Speaker 1: that's not right. I don't know if I got it
Speaker 1: by it we don't see. And a lot of people
Speaker 1: I guess even if you got your ship forgiving, are
Speaker 1: he coming? Is he coming after those people as well?
Speaker 1: Because you had to show documentation to have things forgiving? Right,
Speaker 1: So I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I could only assume that
Speaker 1: you know, they're probably going after people who uh got
Speaker 1: you know, upward large yes, large, large amounts of money
Speaker 1: and you know, people were lying they was wild and
Speaker 1: bad to getting big money and then going to buy
Speaker 1: a Bentley, like are you serious that's what you wanted
Speaker 1: to do, and and then pulling up to your project
Speaker 1: house potmans pulling up in apartments with a Bentley parlay. Now,
Speaker 1: I mean we were saying that like Potman's so we
Speaker 1: associate that with black people, but white people was running
Speaker 1: the muck with the P P P and E I
Speaker 1: D L ship as well. They probably got the most money.
Speaker 1: And they were buying bullshit too, because I remember a
Speaker 1: guy out in Florida had the lambows the rollies that yes,
Speaker 1: that the government um um confiscated from him. M So
Speaker 1: it ain't just sus. That's the show who they're coming for.
Speaker 1: But don't you care. Let's get into that. Don't you care?
Speaker 1: This past week she cut her hair off and shaped
Speaker 1: her eyebrows, And at first I was like, is it
Speaker 1: a Britney Spears kind of meltdown situation? How she like?
Speaker 1: You like that? But I like it? And Richard happy
Speaker 1: and I do what the funk I want y'all and
Speaker 1: was like, and you got the face for it because
Speaker 1: I could, Yeah, yes that I was in the story
Speaker 1: the other day and I saw this girl. She had
Speaker 1: her hand. I was like, oh, you're so pretty, because
Speaker 1: I already know I can't pull off a ball head.
Speaker 1: That if you could do a ball head with no
Speaker 1: brows nor nothing, you like real life, yes, me and
Speaker 1: my damn daddy had I couldnot do it. I got
Speaker 1: a peanut right in the back of my head, like
Speaker 1: you know, wearing them a little nuts in the bad
Speaker 1: like that should just stop right there. Yeah, it's just
Speaker 1: like a little nugget right there in the back. And
Speaker 1: my mom joke with me, that was my brain right
Speaker 1: there in the back of your head, that little that
Speaker 1: little ball right there was my whole brain right there.
Speaker 1: You're mom and me for that, all right. So apparently
Speaker 1: kim Ka and Pete Davidson has call it quits after
Speaker 1: nine months. How you feel about that? Do you care?
Speaker 1: Do we even care? I mean, I saw, why do
Speaker 1: you want this woman with four child for four kids? Anyway?
Speaker 1: And apparently they said that he had recently tried to
Speaker 1: ask her to marry him, and I guess that that's
Speaker 1: probably made her run like she just got out of
Speaker 1: a marriage, she's still in a marriage. Yeah, she requested
Speaker 1: from the courts to be legally like to be legally
Speaker 1: a single person. So she wanted to be separated from Kanye.
Speaker 1: And then there's reports out that he has now went
Speaker 1: through his fifth attorney for the divorce, so they still
Speaker 1: working at shot out. She's still married. She's still married.
Speaker 1: I didn't think they were actually together in the first place.
Speaker 1: I thought it was pr stunt. She just was trying
Speaker 1: to have fun, That's what I think. I like, she
Speaker 1: got this younger guy opposite of what she typically dates,
Speaker 1: which is white. She always days black men, and he's
Speaker 1: a young white man, and she just was looking for
Speaker 1: some fun. I don't think she was looking forward to
Speaker 1: be to go to serious. And I think maybe before
Speaker 1: Pete almost called a man sky, before Pete got to
Speaker 1: too involved emotionally involved, she called it quiz right. She
Speaker 1: did um an interview and she literally said, like when
Speaker 1: she met him, she was DTF. That don't sound like
Speaker 1: taking him serious at all. She's not looking for no,
Speaker 1: no real relationship. He's twenty eight. Kim k is like
Speaker 1: forty one, Come on, what are we talking about? What
Speaker 1: then are we already talking about? So Kanye then took
Speaker 1: to his Instagram post and post posted like a fake article, Um,
Speaker 1: like a Times article that read, uh, Skeet is dead
Speaker 1: in wait what it's that Skeet Davidson dad at And
Speaker 1: it was like New York Times article And Kim K
Speaker 1: tweeted like, how does Instagram even lest somebody posting bullying
Speaker 1: type ship like that up there? And um and allowed
Speaker 1: it to stay because it was posted like last night,
Speaker 1: middle to night and I just checked and now it's down.
Speaker 1: But it's been up there most of the after that's
Speaker 1: not it's not. But then NYT did a whole video
Speaker 1: burying him, and it was video he just had his head,
Speaker 1: he had a Pete Davidson head. Okay, that's that's kind
Speaker 1: of dark and sick. Okay, you don't think that's dark
Speaker 1: and sick. So you don't think that's how most Hollywood
Speaker 1: people are, or people with a lot of money, Like, yes, motherfucker.
Speaker 1: So you mean you think that only regular people are
Speaker 1: serial killers and stuff like that. You think that their
Speaker 1: exempt from me and fucking psychopaths. No, they probably do
Speaker 1: him and a lot of people. They have the means
Speaker 1: to do. What the funk they want to get away
Speaker 1: with him, But we don't be looking at them. Girl,
Speaker 1: I remember like maybe but maybe about five six years ago,
Speaker 1: there was a decapitative body found in Hollywood Hills, like
Speaker 1: in a in a prominent ass neighborhood of a West
Speaker 1: Indian man. Yeah, like who did that? And the ship
Speaker 1: just and then how about that that billionaire or a
Speaker 1: millionaire who just went to prison for killing all those
Speaker 1: black gay men. You know what I'm talking You know
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Yes, girl, For years, Niggas was
Speaker 1: coming up dead at his house. He was drugged him up.
Speaker 1: Fuck them. They might have a you know, overdose, or
Speaker 1: maybe he was causing him to have an overdose and
Speaker 1: getting away with it safe out here. Okay, she is
Speaker 1: getting real weird outside. Mm hmmm, wicked, wicked, wicked, Yeah, girl,
Speaker 1: we're both to think about his whack ass. So was
Speaker 1: Ashanti his side piece at the time, That's what I'm
Speaker 1: confused on. So, yes, he was married at the time,
Speaker 1: him and him and his wife and swoopsode. They didn't
Speaker 1: get a divorce until now. I don't know how long
Speaker 1: they were separated, but they didn't divorce until so we
Speaker 1: know whatever relationship that him and um A Shanty had
Speaker 1: going on his way earlier than that. But why I know,
Speaker 1: drink champs get you drunk so you could talk shit.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, ain't no way like you put that
Speaker 1: girl business out there like that twenty years ago, because
Speaker 1: she's still popping. There's not no regular woman. This is
Speaker 1: a shanty we're talking about. Yeah, a shanty still walking
Speaker 1: around here, extra fucking fine. And that's why he did,
Speaker 1: And that's why he might because if she was fat
Speaker 1: and ugly now with a bunch of kids, he wouldn't
Speaker 1: have mention her ass on the show. Not at all,
Speaker 1: Not at all. It kills me, all right. So if
Speaker 1: a woman is dealing with a married man and she
Speaker 1: comes out and says anything about it, then they're like,
Speaker 1: I ain't you was okay with it, so you should
Speaker 1: have kept your mouth closed. But if a man does it,
Speaker 1: nobody is giving him and saying like, why are you
Speaker 1: telling on her? Like shut your fucking mouth too, Yes,
Speaker 1: chatty Patty, shut up, chatty Patty. He's really he really, um,
Speaker 1: Like the interview is like three and a half hours.
Speaker 1: I haven't started listening to Yes, so I've only seen
Speaker 1: like the little clickbait stuff that's online. But I even
Speaker 1: saw a clip where um, he basically said that jay
Speaker 1: Z would periodically ask him if DMX is better than
Speaker 1: him back in the day, like like as a rapper. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: Why would you tell that that's something that somebody asked you,
Speaker 1: like in confidence? You know what I'm saying? What's up? Wait?
Speaker 1: So jay Z asked if he thought DM next was
Speaker 1: better than jay Z. Yes? Better, yeah, yeah yeah. So
Speaker 1: this goes back to nigga. It's not me you can't
Speaker 1: be vulnerable with. It's your friends you can't be vulnerable with.
Speaker 1: Don't confuse the two is, y'all. Niggas really be somebody
Speaker 1: different for your friends, but your woman know who exactly?
Speaker 1: Who then are you? So now it's your friends down
Speaker 1: to use some sh it against your ass? Because why
Speaker 1: why would he do that? Right earth gotty? I'm looking
Speaker 1: at him sideway and shout like I definitely would have
Speaker 1: some money put to the side and make his ass
Speaker 1: disappeared because I don't I don't like way, hey j
Speaker 1: what I mean? They could be like legally make him
Speaker 1: shut the funk up or permanently make him shut the
Speaker 1: funk up, either one whatever, whatever. If I'm a millionaire,
Speaker 1: just listen, just so y'all know for future reference. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Motherfucker's let me get a b if you want to
Speaker 1: shut up for ever, moving right home because this bit
Speaker 1: crazy and Jemini, y'all were going to pay some bills
Speaker 1: and we're gonna come back with our main topic. Are
Speaker 1: you coming to the cookout? Are you bringing your nigga
Speaker 1: to the cookout? Are not? Or is it? Is it
Speaker 1: even your nigga? That's what we're gonna talk about. We'll
Speaker 1: be right back. So apparently Tam and I have a uh,
Speaker 1: what is it? A difference in opinion? Okay when it
Speaker 1: comes to dating oftentimes, right, And I was telling her
Speaker 1: how I took a guy friend of mine to like
Speaker 1: a family gathering at my dad's house and this is
Speaker 1: a friend and this is how I introduced him to
Speaker 1: my family as a friend. Now I can count on
Speaker 1: one hand how many men I've had around my family. Right,
Speaker 1: But I don't see a problem with bringing a nigga
Speaker 1: to the cook out that that's not your man. I'm confused.
Speaker 1: I'm not bringing no niggas to nothing at my family
Speaker 1: house unless we're together. They don't get to be introduced
Speaker 1: to my family if they're at my house and I
Speaker 1: FaceTime with my mama. Don't say a word till I
Speaker 1: hang up with my mama because we're not Oh, you
Speaker 1: need to shut up, sir. So wait a minute. They
Speaker 1: can't come to the cookout and they can't like talk
Speaker 1: on it all. No, just be quiet because she don't
Speaker 1: need to know who you are unless you're my man.
Speaker 1: I just I just really don't think it's that serious,
Speaker 1: especially when you're getting to know stages and you hanging
Speaker 1: out with somebody. So if this is somebody I already
Speaker 1: hang out with on the weekend, right, and then that
Speaker 1: makes it different if you're talking about First of all,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? You know that I haven't
Speaker 1: had sex in years. Girl. In the beginning of the episode,
Speaker 1: sun like a shower, Like a shower, remember, he was like,
Speaker 1: I don't have to miss your fucking because that's just
Speaker 1: something I do. That's just who I am. Yeh'll see
Speaker 1: how this miss me up here showing up lying, just lying, listen, whatever, Okay,
Speaker 1: this is somebody, so but so what y'all can still
Speaker 1: be like friends and this is who I want to
Speaker 1: hang out with, and hey, I'm about to go do
Speaker 1: this for a couple hours. Used to come come with
Speaker 1: and the thing is that I didn't even expect him
Speaker 1: to actually come, but he did. So I see when
Speaker 1: you invite someone to meet your family, that's typically that's
Speaker 1: normally a big deal. I really don't feel like that's
Speaker 1: meeting and like, so people did have questions, you know,
Speaker 1: even but I haven't seen y'all and how long? So
Speaker 1: y'all want to know how to fun my life don't change,
Speaker 1: like and where your bitch and where your baby daddy? Like, uh,
Speaker 1: this is just my friend. But see that's the questions
Speaker 1: that I don't want to entertain. So that's why I
Speaker 1: don't bring anybody unless it's something where I could say, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is my man and let me let me introduce
Speaker 1: you to my man agres. You know, I just want
Speaker 1: to be able to say that that isn't married man,
Speaker 1: he married. Yes, okay, here this is my man. Um
Speaker 1: what's that finance dude from Jonathan Jonathan um majors. Yes,
Speaker 1: this isn't playing me that that is my boyfriend. He's
Speaker 1: whatever you too to the cook out, that's who your boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Bit like he is literally, oh my god, yeah that's
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. That girl I just claimed him. How you
Speaker 1: gonna when I just said, he is on my vision boards.
Speaker 1: You see her screen saver girl as my listen listen
Speaker 1: right next to the app the six pack, Like that's
Speaker 1: my whole boyfriend. Girl. Look, I never heard said you
Speaker 1: like him girl? Ever since Lovecraft Country, I've been on
Speaker 1: that nigger. What's the basketball player you like? Sergery ba?
Speaker 1: I let you have him, Okay, I leave you a
Speaker 1: lot of he's been doing a lot of Instagram like
Speaker 1: facial facials. He's given me too much metro lately, so
Speaker 1: I'm off for him. He's still fine. I let you
Speaker 1: have him, and that's how you're gonna do me. You
Speaker 1: can have him. I don't want that, dude. I want Johnson.
Speaker 1: Major's a You're just so fine. Yeah he is. Y'all
Speaker 1: know he played a Lovecraft Country and that that other movie.
Speaker 1: Jay Z only came on Instagram to promote that The
Speaker 1: Harder They Fall couple some months ago. Yes, he's he's
Speaker 1: actually doing a movie with the up my old crush
Speaker 1: from back in the day, um the one that was
Speaker 1: with um oh girl, Steve Harvey, Darter, Oh, Michael B. Jordan.
Speaker 1: They're doing a movie together. I saw that. That's a
Speaker 1: masturbation festival for me. I ain't gonna at much watch
Speaker 1: that movie out. No, I don't want to go to
Speaker 1: the movies to see that. I got planned, sent me
Speaker 1: in a whole of date night for the niggas meet
Speaker 1: y'allathing Michael in my rooms, getting it in, and for
Speaker 1: the movie shame Goodness. But yeah, So I had one
Speaker 1: of my friends, this is really my girlfriend, uh, my
Speaker 1: friend real. He came to my he lives in my
Speaker 1: building downstairs for me, and he came by my family,
Speaker 1: came for my birthday and we got on a grill
Speaker 1: and I had like so much food. So I was like, real,
Speaker 1: you home, you know if you want to come by
Speaker 1: and get some food, you can't. He's like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: pull up. So he got to meet my family and
Speaker 1: I have not brought a man around my family since
Speaker 1: for like two thousand and sixteen. But he's just my friend.
Speaker 1: And they just was like so confused, like they just
Speaker 1: didn't even know how to act around niggas. My mom like,
Speaker 1: are you gonna make his play for him? Get your
Speaker 1: heads up and make the play for him. I was like,
Speaker 1: my dad's not my nigga. Let him make his own food.
Speaker 1: That's just my friend. Like and my dad was like,
Speaker 1: what's up, my boy, and like just being so happy
Speaker 1: because he's ready to have like a son in law
Speaker 1: kind of energy. Bro, that's not that so I would
Speaker 1: never bring another guy around unless it's something serious, because
Speaker 1: it was ready to make him in my hood. I
Speaker 1: just don't think it's that serious. I don't think it's
Speaker 1: that serious. And I feel like you could be friends
Speaker 1: with somebody. I think we okay, I don't know do
Speaker 1: we do? We look too far into like things with
Speaker 1: the opposite sex. You know what I'm saying, Like why
Speaker 1: I can bring my home girl, but I can't bring
Speaker 1: this this guy friend. I and I understand the sex part, right,
Speaker 1: but if this is a good friend of mine who
Speaker 1: I already be hanging out with, like, I don't see
Speaker 1: the big deal. And maybe it has something more so
Speaker 1: to do with me because I also one of my uncles.
Speaker 1: And then my cousin had asked me something at the cookout, right,
Speaker 1: Other than that, my daddy ain't asked me ship. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like he's been around my mom,
Speaker 1: but my mom gonna be asking me because I he's
Speaker 1: my friend, that's it, your your special friend whatever, he's
Speaker 1: my fucking friends. But everybody in the family, even if
Speaker 1: they don't ask you any questions, they're gonna be like,
Speaker 1: that's your nigga and the head. That's not true, though,
Speaker 1: I think it depends on me, Like they're not just
Speaker 1: bringing they're not used to you bringing dudes around, not
Speaker 1: saying like I just be bringing all the type of
Speaker 1: niggas around my family because it's just not niggas. But
Speaker 1: I don't think they know me like that to even
Speaker 1: question me because I've been away for a long time.
Speaker 1: So now when I come to come intent, like when
Speaker 1: I'm now in town and I do like family ship,
Speaker 1: they probably don't know how to take me either. So
Speaker 1: what's the energy like? And then you also have to
Speaker 1: look at the energy that y'all sharing with each Did
Speaker 1: you make his plate for him? We was eating crabs, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I got whatever he needed while he was there, because
Speaker 1: that I mean, that's also like even if you bring
Speaker 1: your home girl, like your home girl don't like to
Speaker 1: get up and get their own food. Family don't be
Speaker 1: bringing me ship. You don't bring me ship. When have
Speaker 1: you been when have you ever been in like like
Speaker 1: whenever you went about it, you are clearly you dude
Speaker 1: be doing ship. You just had a crab ball where
Speaker 1: he was making that nig plate. First of all, the
Speaker 1: crabs dumped on the table and everybody go eat crabs. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't have to do much, but like getting him
Speaker 1: a drink or something like that. Yeah, you wouldn't have
Speaker 1: got me. No, let's be real, you wouldn't have got
Speaker 1: me a drinker. You would have appointed me to where
Speaker 1: the drink said. That's that's not true. First of all,
Speaker 1: I am, I serve people, so I went. I know
Speaker 1: that sometimes people are uncomfortable in front of other people's
Speaker 1: families and friend and ship like that. So I wouldn't
Speaker 1: put you in an awkward position to have to get
Speaker 1: up and do things for yourself when you may not
Speaker 1: be comfortable doing that. Me, on the other hand, I
Speaker 1: mean your fucking mama refrigerator, Like I'm comfortable. Like if
Speaker 1: you say I can do, I'm going to, especially when
Speaker 1: it come to food. Yeah, I just saw me in
Speaker 1: the right direction. Look, I just saw a post online.
Speaker 1: It was like a video and it was like these
Speaker 1: two black guys and then the dude bringing up late
Speaker 1: the food and it was like how you act when
Speaker 1: somebody bringing you a plate of food, like looking around like, oh,
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were feeding me. I'm like, nah,
Speaker 1: I'm the type that's gonna meet you with the plate, bitch.
Speaker 1: So you don't gotta walk too far. But I'm never
Speaker 1: afraid to be myself in any setting, but some people are,
Speaker 1: so I would always if I bring somebody around my people,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure they're good man or a woman.
Speaker 1: M hmm. Okay, So yes, I was making a nigga drink,
Speaker 1: getting him some water if he needs to, instead of
Speaker 1: him going When people see you doing that, I don't
Speaker 1: care because guess what, I can bring another nigga in
Speaker 1: next week, like next It's really not that it's not
Speaker 1: that serious to me though there's no other nigga for
Speaker 1: me to bring just in case. But that's like you
Speaker 1: minimize the dynamic that you have with them. Man. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. Okay, No, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm minimizing it. It's just that I think a lot.
Speaker 1: I think for what black women, we need to watch
Speaker 1: our attachment issues. We need to live in a moment
Speaker 1: more with relationships. Understand the older you get, you start
Speaker 1: you know, looking at uh, your fertility, all these different
Speaker 1: things we start calculating right when we're dating and the
Speaker 1: older you get and you're single and all these different things.
Speaker 1: But you have to take some situations for whatever it is.
Speaker 1: So like I said, that's my friend, Okay, I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to force him into a relationship by taking him
Speaker 1: around my damn family. Yeah, you know, because if he
Speaker 1: do the same thing, he would expect me to not
Speaker 1: feel like that either, But some women would if if
Speaker 1: a man you take me to meet his mom, your mama,
Speaker 1: we try to gather together, and I'm gonna go together together.
Speaker 1: But the nigga mom and I met five bitches this year,
Speaker 1: Like you're not even special, like you think, yes I am.
Speaker 1: Don't tell me that. This is why I don't funk
Speaker 1: with mama's right now, Okay, because moms to be lying
Speaker 1: like they need your mama, that that means something because
Speaker 1: I'm so good with mama's. Like if I'm not good
Speaker 1: at anything else, I'm so good with moms. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm the queen of finesse and mama's. So you think
Speaker 1: finesse and the mom is like getting like your way
Speaker 1: to the man's heart kinda is that why you do it.
Speaker 1: I don't Uh, it might be a you know, last
Speaker 1: week episode, a little bit manipulation here, Honestly, honestly, I
Speaker 1: just if I love a guy, I want his mom
Speaker 1: to love me too, Honestly, that's really. If I really
Speaker 1: like this man, I want his mom to like me
Speaker 1: just as much. It depends. Your mama have to be married,
Speaker 1: your mom have to have a man because if it's problem, yeah,
Speaker 1: because those are the hardest wants to win. But I'm
Speaker 1: not trying, Like I feel like, if somebody's family makes
Speaker 1: it hard for me, I'm just not working with them.
Speaker 1: I'm not ever battling anybody's family. Remember again, I've done it.
Speaker 1: I would kill him with kindness, Like it's gonna be
Speaker 1: like if you really just if you act like you
Speaker 1: don't like me, you just a hater at this point
Speaker 1: because I've been so nice to you, Like, there's no
Speaker 1: reason not to remember this one guy. I won't say
Speaker 1: who it is because y'all would know him if I
Speaker 1: said it. We used to. This is years ago, and
Speaker 1: we were seeing each other and his mom came to
Speaker 1: visit for the summer, and I swear his mama called
Speaker 1: me every day to take her to Walmart. And I
Speaker 1: used to think like them, you couldn't have got that
Speaker 1: ship yesterday. But I would take her as every single
Speaker 1: day to Walmart. It never failed. She called me and
Speaker 1: I like, and she would pray for me on the phone,
Speaker 1: and then I come get her, take her to Walmart,
Speaker 1: drop her off. It if I never go in with her,
Speaker 1: and I just drop her off at the front door,
Speaker 1: and I watched the door to wait for her to
Speaker 1: be at the front door again. And I picked her
Speaker 1: up from the front door and then take her back
Speaker 1: to the house and she come out with like an
Speaker 1: apple or something like bullshit, Like it would just be
Speaker 1: like she didn't want to get out the house, yeah, something,
Speaker 1: and she just wanted to hang out and get out
Speaker 1: of the house. But I would take her every day.
Speaker 1: And that's back when I didn't have a lot of responsibility, honestly,
Speaker 1: because right now I had the uber her ass. I
Speaker 1: couldn't give her that much time now. But and she
Speaker 1: loved me, like I probably could call her right now
Speaker 1: to pray with me and she would. Yeah. You know,
Speaker 1: if I can't smack your sister, I just don't want
Speaker 1: to be with you no more. What toxic? If I
Speaker 1: can't smack your mama. I don't think we should. Why
Speaker 1: do you want Why do you want to smack somebody mama?
Speaker 1: Because adults be needing, Nate asked, whoop. Sometimes even mama's
Speaker 1: even want to even on my side, but they don't, stupid,
Speaker 1: I don't have mama's on my side. I have had
Speaker 1: a mom on my side too, and she's a real
Speaker 1: family member to me, and so is their son, so
Speaker 1: like that's my family at this point, we're not, you know,
Speaker 1: ain't nothing like that. But that's the only mom I
Speaker 1: ever liked. And then you know nigga who ain't got
Speaker 1: no mom? I liked them too. I did have a
Speaker 1: one relationship where his mom she was always on his
Speaker 1: side no matter what. But she did like me and
Speaker 1: she was always nice to me, but she definitely took
Speaker 1: her son's side on everything. And I used to be like,
Speaker 1: are you really listening to the facts? And he would
Speaker 1: call her every time we got That's how I was
Speaker 1: about to say, like why why are you even discussing
Speaker 1: what's going on with the mom? Like what the fun?
Speaker 1: Because he would call her every time for advice, and
Speaker 1: then she would call me to have a conversation with
Speaker 1: me because she's just trying to help us have an
Speaker 1: amicobal relations amicable relationship. That was her word. No, I
Speaker 1: don't need your mom and my business. And it used
Speaker 1: to be like a lot of things, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: do you hear yourself? Like you sound crazy? Because you
Speaker 1: know what type of relationship is she? And with the
Speaker 1: father with his dad? Because are you in a relationship
Speaker 1: with a narcissist? Are you in a relationship? Was she
Speaker 1: even in a relationship and getting very much single? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't got No. I can't take no advice from you, ma'am.
Speaker 1: I'll take marriage advice from married people, and I'll take
Speaker 1: relationship advice from you know people, I mean dating advice
Speaker 1: from people who out here actually dating. I don't want
Speaker 1: no marriage, uh, no dating advice from nobody who's been
Speaker 1: married for fifteen years. You don't even know what the
Speaker 1: hell going on out here right now, right, And I
Speaker 1: don't want no relationship advice from somebody who's not in
Speaker 1: an a successful relationship or marriage, right. I agree, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you're gonna be coming with all your trauma and
Speaker 1: maybe maybe what you would have done differently, But I'm
Speaker 1: not dealing with the same man that you might have
Speaker 1: been dealing with. It could be all type of things.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I'm taking friends to the cookouts.
Speaker 1: I'm taking friends to people to places with me. I am,
Speaker 1: you can't come to my ship. I am I bring
Speaker 1: you a play after this over. I don't. I just
Speaker 1: really don't see the big deal. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: want you to meet my parents until not just my parents,
Speaker 1: my sister. It's not that what y'all think. Y'all hit
Speaker 1: us up. Let us know. Is it that serious? Meeting
Speaker 1: a man's family on some regular that's my friend, even
Speaker 1: if y'all kicking it intimately, Like, what's the big deal
Speaker 1: with meeting the family and friends? Like I like to
Speaker 1: meet new people? Maybe that's my thing. I like to
Speaker 1: meet new people. I like. I definitely like, like, you know,
Speaker 1: cookouts and house parties. I like that over a club
Speaker 1: any day. So yeah, you can invite me, but I'm
Speaker 1: not going. What about a round of guy and his friends?
Speaker 1: So is that not that's the same thing, Like a
Speaker 1: guy invites you out with him and his homeboys and
Speaker 1: the couples, like a couple of things. I could do
Speaker 1: that if it's not, If it's if it's super new. No,
Speaker 1: I ain't. I barely know you. I don't want to
Speaker 1: know your friends if I feel like that's the part
Speaker 1: of getting to know somebody, trying to see Like, so
Speaker 1: this guy, his family isn't here, but I would want
Speaker 1: to know how is his family. I would want to
Speaker 1: know that, because what if we do get serious, I
Speaker 1: didn't know if you came from a fucked up family
Speaker 1: or not. Right, So I agree there, but we would
Speaker 1: have to be headed toward that direction first. I would
Speaker 1: have to know if I want head there without knowing
Speaker 1: your family background. No more, I don't. I don't want
Speaker 1: to head there because what happens is like you head there,
Speaker 1: now you're there, right, and then you're having all these
Speaker 1: behavioral issues out this motherfucking now you got to now
Speaker 1: you now you finally see mama and whoever else is like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is why. But had you met them earlier on,
Speaker 1: it would have saved you some time and your insurance
Speaker 1: if I like to you know, I come from a
Speaker 1: crazy family, you know, and I just don't want people
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, let me go meet her family
Speaker 1: and determine who she is because of how they are.
Speaker 1: Because my family of the chain, you know, like they
Speaker 1: of the change. So I don't want I can't. I
Speaker 1: don't want to use that as my determining factor, not
Speaker 1: saying that I come from a bad family and my
Speaker 1: family is great and everybody's like funny, you're gonna laugh
Speaker 1: your ass off. But there is a little element, a
Speaker 1: little coop, you know. I mean, that's all families. I
Speaker 1: feel like that's kind of like the dynamic across the board.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I need to see how you
Speaker 1: interact with your daddy, how you interact with your mama
Speaker 1: like that. That's really what I'm looking for. I'm not
Speaker 1: really even looking for like interaction with the siblings and stuff,
Speaker 1: you know. I want to see that though. I want
Speaker 1: to see Yeah, I want to see that. But once
Speaker 1: we're determining that this is getting serious and this could
Speaker 1: be something real. But prior to that, no, no, thank you,
Speaker 1: and the friend thing, like you don't even want to
Speaker 1: take me around your friends to early, because if we're
Speaker 1: just getting to know each other and we need smash it,
Speaker 1: I might leave you for one of your homeboys. You know.
Speaker 1: If we had sex yet and we and we're hanging out,
Speaker 1: we're actually just friends at this point, right, friends? All right?
Speaker 1: So how you listen? How do how do you pull
Speaker 1: that out home? Let's go to break right quick. And
Speaker 1: then I want to hear how we would apply that
Speaker 1: in a situation. Y'all. We'll be right back, okay, damm, Like,
Speaker 1: I know we joke about this type of ship all
Speaker 1: the time, but what's the application for this? Okay? Like,
Speaker 1: you meet a guy, y'all kicking in y'all haven't had
Speaker 1: you haven't been intimate yet? You go, I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe he invites you out do bowling with his friends.
Speaker 1: They do this every Saturday night. Whatever. Girl friends, home, girls, whoever,
Speaker 1: everybody else. You get to pick somebody else though there's
Speaker 1: somebody else there? How how do you go about doing that? Like?
Speaker 1: How do you say? I would I would never be
Speaker 1: the aggressor. Honestly, they would have to like come at me.
Speaker 1: And if I'm not feeling in you, Like Jeffrey, he's cool,
Speaker 1: but here's uh Andre over here, and Andre is like
Speaker 1: making me laughing if he's you know, more entertaining me
Speaker 1: than Jeffrey. And then he comes around and sliding my
Speaker 1: d m S. I might holler at Andre, I might
Speaker 1: I never fucked Jeffrey. We just went on a date.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't owe Jeffrey ship. We already know
Speaker 1: men think pussy they never even have before is on
Speaker 1: reserve for them. So you know you'll still be a
Speaker 1: hole in Jeffrey's eyes. Right, Well, ho ho ho, Merry Christmas.
Speaker 1: I don't getting about that now. If we if if
Speaker 1: Jeffrey and I slept together, then okay, all his friends
Speaker 1: are off limits. I don't want that type of stigma.
Speaker 1: But we did nothing. You're just somebody I hung out with.
Speaker 1: Switch right, Are you gonna automatically start trying to hook
Speaker 1: Jeffrey up with somebody else? You know, I got a
Speaker 1: good friend for you. You know, honestly, if I think
Speaker 1: there's someone that Jeffrey might get along with better than
Speaker 1: me and vibe with, like definitely, why not If he
Speaker 1: would be up to it. He might be salty with me,
Speaker 1: you know, fucking bitch with my homeboy, But if you
Speaker 1: are a real decent dude, he probably wouldn't, you know,
Speaker 1: And you know it just depends. Yeah, I don't know
Speaker 1: that I've ever been in that situation or like picked
Speaker 1: somebody else over the friend. But listen, yeah, like if
Speaker 1: it hasn't happened. I might not be the aggressor. I
Speaker 1: might not be at the bowling alley like walking up
Speaker 1: to your homeboy like that. I like you, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: if your own boy don't give a funk about you
Speaker 1: or jumping my dad and d MS or something. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's on so general. Consisus a j It don't mean nothing, Like,
Speaker 1: don't take it too serious. If she invites you to
Speaker 1: the family cook out. Let's be clear. I like you
Speaker 1: a lot, and I want to hang out with you
Speaker 1: and my family. Like what with me, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: expecting a ring at some time in the near future.
Speaker 1: You mean my daddy, Ni, we better be getting married
Speaker 1: next year. That's that's the type of time. You know.
Speaker 1: My daddy is so cool, Like I love my daddy
Speaker 1: so much. My daddy don't ask me ship you hear me.
Speaker 1: He ain't getting excited like like hes gonna be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm drone like that and that, like just regularly like
Speaker 1: just nice, good people. That's it. That's all. I've really
Speaker 1: got to find somebody because when real was there, my
Speaker 1: daddy was just because all right, my family is nothing
Speaker 1: but women. It's a bunch of women. It's no guys.
Speaker 1: The guys that were in my family someone had passed
Speaker 1: away jail, you know, the things that happened to black
Speaker 1: So there are not very many black men left in
Speaker 1: my family. So when Real came over, my daddy was
Speaker 1: just let's go upstairs to the roof or shoot spool
Speaker 1: real like. He was just so excited to have like
Speaker 1: some male energy in the room. So and then my
Speaker 1: sister and my older sister, she a lesbian soul. She
Speaker 1: with a woman like it's nothing but bitches. So I
Speaker 1: really need to find a guy to bring home and
Speaker 1: take serious. But it won't be probably till even if
Speaker 1: I meet you today, it won't be till three Christmas
Speaker 1: until you get that invite. Niket terrible, that's terrible. I
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I think I just feel like
Speaker 1: this is a that's a part of dating. For me.
Speaker 1: It's a part of dating, and that's all we're doing.
Speaker 1: We're just kicking it with dating. We have fun together.
Speaker 1: We laugh, We laugh most of the time. So if
Speaker 1: this's who I like to laugh with, why can't laugh
Speaker 1: with him and my other my people? That's all. It
Speaker 1: ain't that serious. I think women we should just enjoy
Speaker 1: the moment something times, you know, and just y'all saw
Speaker 1: with uh, Laura London, you know, just just experiencing people.
Speaker 1: I'm into that. I'm into experiencing people. I don't want
Speaker 1: to own nobody. You're free, You're free to move about
Speaker 1: the country. I'm a Gemini. I definitely like to be
Speaker 1: motherfucking independent while in a relationship. And so is this
Speaker 1: guy here gemini too, So it's just like, yeah, don't
Speaker 1: don't stress me. I'll about some ship. I won't stress
Speaker 1: you out. It's not that serious. So I feel like
Speaker 1: those be like the best relationships like friends. No, m
Speaker 1: it's too much pressure. I feel like we put too
Speaker 1: much pressure on each other in relationships, and I don't
Speaker 1: want to pressure anybody into anything in life. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: I think my last guy, I definitely, uh, you know,
Speaker 1: let him know how big of a deal it was
Speaker 1: for him to meet my family. So by the time
Speaker 1: I did invite him to meet my family, he has
Speaker 1: so much anxiety about it, Like and then when he
Speaker 1: shook my daddy hand, like he didn't look my daddy
Speaker 1: in the eyes and stuff, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll never marry you. I had decided right then Wow,
Speaker 1: why are you're not looking my daddy in the eyes
Speaker 1: when you're talking to him? Wow? Was that tripping? Is
Speaker 1: that too? No? I mean no, but I mean maybe listen,
Speaker 1: you needed to have Maybe you should have done that earlier.
Speaker 1: Maybe he should have met your daddy sooner. You could
Speaker 1: have been the relationship earlier. Like, if that's really all
Speaker 1: it took, you didn't know. Now that's saying it. But
Speaker 1: I like people who just be cool. They could be
Speaker 1: in any setting. They're just chilling everybody like them. You
Speaker 1: can't be like scared, go find that out? How do
Speaker 1: you find that out? Yeah? But I mean, like, still,
Speaker 1: you need to be serious. We need to be serious.
Speaker 1: I kid, just bringing around my daddy. I don't think
Speaker 1: it's that serious. I'd be listening. I like, this is
Speaker 1: this is why all the people that I like, I
Speaker 1: love when they are all in the same place. I
Speaker 1: guess so much joy Like when this set of friends
Speaker 1: is around, this set of friends, like, I'd be so
Speaker 1: happy that all my favorite people like together. That's fun
Speaker 1: for me. Meanwhile, y'all, I have been invited to ship
Speaker 1: girl white been ats? Where what have I been doing? Like, like,
Speaker 1: you want to come up with me and this nigga
Speaker 1: I like crabs that line. All right, So y'all we're
Speaker 1: nearing the end of the show obviously, and I just
Speaker 1: wanted to remind everybody that, uh, it is currently uh
Speaker 1: the Lion's Gate Portal portal open between like either I think, um,
Speaker 1: it's at its peak today. So obviously our show is
Speaker 1: all pre recorded. So today is August eighth, okay, this week,
Speaker 1: so the portal is at its peak today. So any
Speaker 1: magic anything you want to manifest, uh, you want to
Speaker 1: meditate on on you know, some more uh being abundant anything,
Speaker 1: this is what you want to do today, right, and
Speaker 1: it's the gate is going to be the portals open
Speaker 1: no today to eight today. Well, they ain't gonna here
Speaker 1: this till I understand. He's not gonna here till Thursday.
Speaker 1: But if you let me finish what I'm saying, then
Speaker 1: we can. I can, I could wrap it up. Okay.
Speaker 1: So the portal the portals open from they of July
Speaker 1: through August the twelfth, right, which is Friday, So you
Speaker 1: have they still have time, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: to do any magic manifestation they want to do, just
Speaker 1: do some research research on um um the lions Gate.
Speaker 1: So it's uh leo the moon is in leo um
Speaker 1: right now, Okay, so just look it up. It's just
Speaker 1: a magical time of the year. It happens every time
Speaker 1: I think I manifested some magic. Today my friend me
Speaker 1: and him rode out to look at some pretty u
Speaker 1: uh in Edgewood and we was on the way back
Speaker 1: to his space and it's like twelve red lights. You
Speaker 1: gotta go through twelve lights to get to his house,
Speaker 1: and all of them was green, And I told him
Speaker 1: all of them are gonna be green. He said, that's
Speaker 1: only happened to me one time in fifteen years. I
Speaker 1: was like, it's gonna be all green today, and they were.
Speaker 1: If but it do be that type of ship or
Speaker 1: even just like pulling for me, It's like it'd be
Speaker 1: simple as little ship. I'd be like, you know what,
Speaker 1: just gonna parking space in the front every time, Like
Speaker 1: that be for me. Every every time, like I think
Speaker 1: about something and it goes as planned, I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is this is all the ship for me? Like you
Speaker 1: got the power to manifest your own destiny. So today
Speaker 1: it's at that peak. I like it. I feel energized.
Speaker 1: I did my work out to David ate some mothering
Speaker 1: salt in Venniker chips and eyes. Was that bag? I
Speaker 1: might do me some motherfucking yoga pilates in a little bit. Okay,
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Speaker 1: right now? He probably like coming over too much. Okay,
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