WEBVTT - Ep 82 "It's Not That Serious. Or Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion? Who

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<v Speaker 1>talks back? Hey, y'all, what's up? Y'all? Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in for a new episode if we talk back,

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<v Speaker 1>A show dedicated to you, niggas and knees holes. How

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<v Speaker 1>you doing, Tam? You sound especially southern this week. That's

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<v Speaker 1>giving real country girl right now. I like those terms southern. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>don't call me country. I'll take either or babe. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>come back now you're here? Hey, y'all is tam bam?

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<v Speaker 1>I love y'all? Man, I really do. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>coming back to see us. How you doing a j

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good man, just chilling out, trying to sell out.

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<v Speaker 1>The heat, thank god? Is raining a little bit now?

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like it rain every day. It do, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's good, like we need to rain. To me, feels

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<v Speaker 1>like a redo, a reknew, like a little fresh slate. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I like when it rains. Yeah, my friends said, sins

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<v Speaker 1>don't get no rain. That's why Las Vegas stay so dry.

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<v Speaker 1>That might be true. I don't know. I like when

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<v Speaker 1>it rains the grass be looking at all fu green

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<v Speaker 1>and ship. The grass likes it. What'd you do this? Weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do ship. I can't even think of one

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<v Speaker 1>thing eight food that I shouldn't eat. Nothing wash my

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<v Speaker 1>partner from penis. Well, I'm gonna do that anyway. That's

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<v Speaker 1>just how I get down. That's just how I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do that anyway. That's just how I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what say, I got a penis this weekend. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like I say, and I took a shower this weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>like everybody knows that. Oh, I just want to do

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<v Speaker 1>that anyway, because that's just how Oh, that's just how

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<v Speaker 1>I am. That's what she said. I um. I flew

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<v Speaker 1>to Atlanta this weekend to do a photo shoot for

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<v Speaker 1>a friend's clothing line that's about to drop Bell Interest Clothing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's exciting. I'm gonna wear one of her pieces for

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<v Speaker 1>the live show, soidy. It's very cute, sexy little blazer

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<v Speaker 1>number with a skirt. So yeah, that's what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>And girl, it was how this funk out there trying

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<v Speaker 1>to take pictures to be sexy and cute and clothes

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<v Speaker 1>and its six bit myself pressed my silk pressed baby

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<v Speaker 1>that back of my neck. It was an afro under

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<v Speaker 1>these tracks because I had clippings, girl, mistake. I should

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<v Speaker 1>have just braided this ship up and put them just

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<v Speaker 1>sold the hairry in instead of clipping it in between

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<v Speaker 1>my hair, real hair was swelling like hair stylers kept

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<v Speaker 1>having to like pull me to the side and like

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<v Speaker 1>refect my hair. Yeah, key, damn it. Yeah, was a

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<v Speaker 1>great experience though. It's fun. What's the name of the

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<v Speaker 1>clothing line again? Bell airis clothing? Okay, I think it's dropped.

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<v Speaker 1>The actual release date is August twenty. She's got some

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<v Speaker 1>cute pieces, y'all, so be on the lookout for that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we like black women in business, Okay. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to brought all this little outfits to wear to

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<v Speaker 1>the club. Aunt didn't go nowhere? All we can and

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<v Speaker 1>did you see them down? Monkey pox is popping up

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<v Speaker 1>in the lanty better say you're asking the house and

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<v Speaker 1>and sanity sanitize everything you touch. They keep talking about

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<v Speaker 1>monkey pox is all over the place. But I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>seen one monkey yet nowhere. Girl. He's got that monkeys

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<v Speaker 1>out here, y'all. Please, there plenty of them. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>see now monkey running around Atlanta yet. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>any stupid internet news. What's going on. Well, this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>really stupid, and I do want to start to show

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<v Speaker 1>off by sending out some super duper loving light to

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<v Speaker 1>Brittney Grinder. Britney Griner was sentenced last week to nine

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<v Speaker 1>and a half years for um little under a gram

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<v Speaker 1>of soil. Yeah, I'll just be out here with my ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be all in the way of just puffing it

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<v Speaker 1>right quick. But we aren't in Russia a luxury. We

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<v Speaker 1>have recreational we haven't medicinal purposes. But yeah, she got

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<v Speaker 1>caught up um back in February, right before Ukraine and

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<v Speaker 1>Russia went started the war. So it's just a bad

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<v Speaker 1>timing basically. But she was already over there for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a while playing basketball supplement her m w n B

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<v Speaker 1>a income here in America, so she's been over there.

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<v Speaker 1>She came into the country with the ship in her

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<v Speaker 1>bag accidentally. I feel like she was starting mm hmmm,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm pretty sure she does that all the time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure she does that all the time. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, it was bad timing for that, and

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<v Speaker 1>because of who she is, that was like, yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep this one right here. Yeah. I actually, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually went to Russia. I spent some time in Russia,

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<v Speaker 1>and I lived in the Ukraine for a year. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you know that? Yeah, you told me about that before.

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<v Speaker 1>I was an exchange student in the Ukraine and my

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<v Speaker 1>mama did not want me to take my blacks out there,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was so against it. But I begged and pleaded,

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<v Speaker 1>and because I was such a scholar, they sent me

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<v Speaker 1>for free. My high school paid for me to go

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<v Speaker 1>and I stayed there a year and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>great experience. I mean, it was fun. I did. I

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<v Speaker 1>was constantly reminded that I was black because at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>this is all right, what what years it's probably like

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<v Speaker 1>to thousand. I just told how old I am, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I always tell how old I am, so they know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>they know how your old, as they know that we

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<v Speaker 1>around the same age. T way back to the story.

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<v Speaker 1>So as soon as I got off the plane, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went to the home of the family I

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<v Speaker 1>was staying with, which they were very successful, wealthy family.

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<v Speaker 1>The student that was gonna, you know, go to the

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<v Speaker 1>US in my place. She came up to me and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I never see black like this, can

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<v Speaker 1>I touch? She never seen black like this up closer

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<v Speaker 1>in person, that's what she And she was like all

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<v Speaker 1>up in my face, trying to touch my face. And

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<v Speaker 1>I had to get real South Carolina ghetto right out

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<v Speaker 1>the game. Get the funk off me. This what you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do, like personal space. I think that's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the curses with social media is that we have

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<v Speaker 1>now given a lot of people access to our blackness

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<v Speaker 1>that otherwise don't need it and would not have had it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so now they get to really like put us on

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<v Speaker 1>their microscope see how we are without actually fucking with us, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's even worse as far as I'm concerned, because

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<v Speaker 1>then they might base it off of the brachet. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why and this is why. I you know, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>like what other and I don't give a funk who

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<v Speaker 1>get mad? Okay, but what other group of black black

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me? What other group of men do you see

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<v Speaker 1>like working on social media? Well, I mean culturally, twerking

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<v Speaker 1>is a black thing, you know what I'm saying on

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<v Speaker 1>a pole? On a pole? What other what other group

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<v Speaker 1>of men? So the way that we're displayed on on

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<v Speaker 1>on social media, on the internet, on TV, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>represent us as a whole. It just doesn't the representation

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<v Speaker 1>representation we got. I agree, it does not, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong. Like I used to watched Loving Hill Pop

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<v Speaker 1>faivorbably I don't watch it anymore, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the turret audience. But that is a part of that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the subculture within the culture, right But there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much more to us than just what the and I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like that's what's dominating right now. Yeah. But

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<v Speaker 1>but back to Brittany Grinder, Like, man, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>was so like when I saw the headlines last week,

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<v Speaker 1>like I got so I was vibrary and so low

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<v Speaker 1>because I couldn't believe it. You couldn't tell me that

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<v Speaker 1>she was going to get like not like a slap

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<v Speaker 1>on the risk risk, but like not nine and a

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<v Speaker 1>half years. And so the thing is that they said

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<v Speaker 1>they had to sentence her and then in negotiations will

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<v Speaker 1>now and take place for the for the swap, if

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<v Speaker 1>there is to be a swap. But you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>February they swapped this Trevor I forgot his last name,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was like a U. S. Marine. They swapped

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<v Speaker 1>him back in February or March but he had been

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<v Speaker 1>in prison over there for five years. And to people

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<v Speaker 1>who are trying to compare like her drug charge and

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<v Speaker 1>Russia and comparison to a Biden isn't doing in America

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<v Speaker 1>for the black men who are arrested or who have

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<v Speaker 1>been in prison for um marijuana over here for decades.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like that, it's just not the same. You

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<v Speaker 1>cannot compare a US prison to a Russian prison. You can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I have sat there and I was trying to figure out,

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<v Speaker 1>like where they're gonna have her at? What are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna house here at? I looked at so many videos

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<v Speaker 1>of the prisons that they have over there, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she makes it. The ship is not as inhumane

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<v Speaker 1>as fuck, they said some of the women if they

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<v Speaker 1>most of the women in Russia gets sentence for drugs,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they said. So there's one prison where the

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<v Speaker 1>women commit suicide as opposed to happen to do time

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<v Speaker 1>at this particular facility. Wow, that's so scary. That's scary.

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<v Speaker 1>And so it's not the same, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>We understand. I understand who the fuck y'all voted for.

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<v Speaker 1>Told y'all, nigga is not the vote for that dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all voted for him, and he did ship he said

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<v Speaker 1>he was gonna do. But you can't none of these.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't come pair, you can't compare, you know what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening over here to to ship in Russia. And then also,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say this and then we can move

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<v Speaker 1>on to the next topic. Y'all just standing solidarity with

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<v Speaker 1>with Britney Grinder. I don't want to hear nobody saying,

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<v Speaker 1>oh she knew better. How many times over here y'all

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<v Speaker 1>trying to say free, free, such as such, when y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know he a cold blood and motherfucking killer, but y'all

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<v Speaker 1>still say free him. But when it comes to a

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<v Speaker 1>black woman that you can't fuck right, it's people. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>can suck her, you know, like maybe not no dudes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's yeah, woman, I'm talking about men. It's the men

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm seeing that saying oh she knew better. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Oh yeah, it's not women that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm seeing that saying that. So I don't don't there's

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<v Speaker 1>no justification for the treatment that she's receiving. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>not um. So I hope she comes home soon. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like she's coming home soon, very soon. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>that her. Have you ever seen that movie Broken Down Palace? Y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>guys are a movie buff. It's a it's a really

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<v Speaker 1>good movie called Broken Down Palace, and it's about these

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<v Speaker 1>actually two white girls from the US who went on

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<v Speaker 1>like a vacation abroad and they who are having a

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<v Speaker 1>good time and met this beautiful man who invited them

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<v Speaker 1>to go somewhere else and really he used them as

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<v Speaker 1>a drug depoise, take a whole bunch of drugs. But

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<v Speaker 1>he was Was that based on a true story? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I saw it. I feel like I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen it before. And these girls took his backpack and

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<v Speaker 1>they got caught with this amount of drugs and now

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<v Speaker 1>they're in like I think it was like some Asian country,

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know where it was, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to lie, but in this prison and they literally never

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<v Speaker 1>got to leave, never like but the end of the movie,

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<v Speaker 1>the girl was still in prison and she had been

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<v Speaker 1>there for a long time and it was it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very sad movie. I mean, it's a good story and

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<v Speaker 1>it made me think of the Brittany Grinder situation. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope she doesn't have to stay like they did. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you ever get a chance, check that be all

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<v Speaker 1>that is good. Yeah, our heart is with you, Britney Grinder.

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<v Speaker 1>We hope you come home soon for real. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know, did you watch Stranger Do

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<v Speaker 1>you watch Stranger Things? Nelix? I watched UM the first

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<v Speaker 1>season and then I kind of fell off. Everybody talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it so much that I feel like I should

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<v Speaker 1>go back and watch it at least watched the last season.

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<v Speaker 1>This last season got so many gems in it, and

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know how I feel. They have to give out

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<v Speaker 1>get our consents, so they put a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>in movies. They literally have dark matter trapped in laboratory

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<v Speaker 1>UM in Russia. Okay, so this is this the that

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<v Speaker 1>that season is based in Russia's some parts of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, I feel like Britney Grinder might be a

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<v Speaker 1>direct descendant of some ancient civilizations. I don't know sa

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<v Speaker 1>Marian's or um the an ANARCHI I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's pretty tall, and we know basketball players in America.

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<v Speaker 1>They are our modern day giants. So maybe Russia knows

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<v Speaker 1>something about Brittany that she doesn't even know about herself,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll leave that they you can go do some

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<v Speaker 1>research on that. Yeah, we're gonna put We're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a j with her theories of conspiracy on our patriarch.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not a conspiracy. It's not a conspiracy. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>let me break the numbers down right quick, just one

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<v Speaker 1>one to one to second. Brittany Grinder is six ft nine.

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<v Speaker 1>They sentenced her to nine point six years, right. They

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<v Speaker 1>they reported March six that they had Brittany Grinder in custody. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's your three six and nine. Okay, that's your

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<v Speaker 1>three six and nine. Google three six nine, everybody just

0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.200
<v Speaker 1>google to three six nine, because once you understand three six,

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<v Speaker 1>now you understand the universe. These people do things in

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<v Speaker 1>numbers all the time. Is your mantrea? Okay? Next? Uh? Next?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, like I'm saying, we're gonna start our patriarch

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<v Speaker 1>real soon. I just like to get people a different

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<v Speaker 1>perspective to look at things. I appreciate. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I'd be like this this bit crazy. But then

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'd be like that makes some fucking sense. You really,

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<v Speaker 1>you really with somewhere with that one girl, You really

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<v Speaker 1>have me and I always go somewhere. Yeah, sometimes maybe

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to go with me far, sometimes it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be too far from me. But then a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times you'd be making sense. For real, friend, I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>for it most of the time. Don't tell you don't

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<v Speaker 1>tell people. A lot of times you're not motherfucking friends,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're always supposed to be where I'm at. That's

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<v Speaker 1>just trying my best I try, my best friend, try

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Next, who going to jail for COVID fraud? Okay, Biden?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh fucking far and head ass. Look now, let that

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<v Speaker 1>about our president. There was a time you couldn't talk

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<v Speaker 1>about the president at all, but since Obama, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can say whatever you want to say about the

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<v Speaker 1>president and get away with it. Apparently. Um I remember

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<v Speaker 1>growing up where they said like secret Service to pull

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<v Speaker 1>up at your goddamn house, was saying something about the president.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's seeming as now we're calling our president

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<v Speaker 1>of farmheading. Listen. That was nice, Okay, that was nice,

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<v Speaker 1>But Biden says, you can't hide. We're going to find you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna make you pay back what you stole and

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<v Speaker 1>hold you accountable under the law. Listen, I know my

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<v Speaker 1>payment dates, I'm paying my ship back, and I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I can understand, like the millions of dollars

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<v Speaker 1>that people may not be able to pay back that

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<v Speaker 1>they got um from you know, the P P P

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<v Speaker 1>and all these different disaster disaster funds and all the ship.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, my little, my little piece I got, I

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<v Speaker 1>got your mother like a money like I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to give it back. I just feel like if you

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<v Speaker 1>got billions of dollars to send the Ukraine, why you

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<v Speaker 1>need mind back? Clearly? You straight you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you are the interest off all that credited money

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<v Speaker 1>is what he used to send over to Ukraine. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you want to collect from the people exactly. But no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not right. I don't know if I got it

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<v Speaker 1>by it we don't see. And a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>I guess even if you got your ship forgiving, are

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<v Speaker 1>he coming? Is he coming after those people as well?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you had to show documentation to have things forgiving? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I could only assume that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're probably going after people who uh got

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<v Speaker 1>you know, upward large yes, large, large amounts of money

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, people were lying they was wild and

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<v Speaker 1>bad to getting big money and then going to buy

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<v Speaker 1>a Bentley, like are you serious that's what you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and and then pulling up to your project

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<v Speaker 1>house potmans pulling up in apartments with a Bentley parlay. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we were saying that like Potman's so we

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<v Speaker 1>associate that with black people, but white people was running

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<v Speaker 1>the muck with the P P P and E I

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<v Speaker 1>D L ship as well. They probably got the most money.

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<v Speaker 1>And they were buying bullshit too, because I remember a

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<v Speaker 1>guy out in Florida had the lambows the rollies that yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that the government um um confiscated from him. M So

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<v Speaker 1>it ain't just sus. That's the show who they're coming for.

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<v Speaker 1>But don't you care. Let's get into that. Don't you care?

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<v Speaker 1>This past week she cut her hair off and shaped

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<v Speaker 1>her eyebrows, And at first I was like, is it

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<v Speaker 1>a Britney Spears kind of meltdown situation? How she like?

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<v Speaker 1>You like that? But I like it? And Richard happy

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<v Speaker 1>and I do what the funk I want y'all and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, and you got the face for it because

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<v Speaker 1>I could, Yeah, yes that I was in the story

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<v Speaker 1>the other day and I saw this girl. She had

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<v Speaker 1>her hand. I was like, oh, you're so pretty, because

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<v Speaker 1>I already know I can't pull off a ball head.

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<v Speaker 1>That if you could do a ball head with no

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<v Speaker 1>brows nor nothing, you like real life, yes, me and

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<v Speaker 1>my damn daddy had I couldnot do it. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a peanut right in the back of my head, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wearing them a little nuts in the bad

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<v Speaker 1>like that should just stop right there. Yeah, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a little nugget right there in the back. And

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<v Speaker 1>my mom joke with me, that was my brain right

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<v Speaker 1>there in the back of your head, that little that

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<v Speaker 1>little ball right there was my whole brain right there.

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<v Speaker 1>You're mom and me for that, all right. So apparently

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<v Speaker 1>kim Ka and Pete Davidson has call it quits after

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<v Speaker 1>nine months. How you feel about that? Do you care?

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<v Speaker 1>Do we even care? I mean, I saw, why do

0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:04.920
<v Speaker 1>you want this woman with four child for four kids? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>And apparently they said that he had recently tried to

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<v Speaker 1>ask her to marry him, and I guess that that's

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<v Speaker 1>probably made her run like she just got out of

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<v Speaker 1>a marriage, she's still in a marriage. Yeah, she requested

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<v Speaker 1>from the courts to be legally like to be legally

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<v Speaker 1>a single person. So she wanted to be separated from Kanye.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there's reports out that he has now went

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<v Speaker 1>through his fifth attorney for the divorce, so they still

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<v Speaker 1>working at shot out. She's still married. She's still married.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think they were actually together in the first place.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was pr stunt. She just was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to have fun, That's what I think. I like, she

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<v Speaker 1>got this younger guy opposite of what she typically dates,

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<v Speaker 1>which is white. She always days black men, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>a young white man, and she just was looking for

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<v Speaker 1>some fun. I don't think she was looking forward to

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<v Speaker 1>be to go to serious. And I think maybe before

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<v Speaker 1>Pete almost called a man sky, before Pete got to

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<v Speaker 1>too involved emotionally involved, she called it quiz right. She

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<v Speaker 1>did um an interview and she literally said, like when

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<v Speaker 1>she met him, she was DTF. That don't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>taking him serious at all. She's not looking for no,

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<v Speaker 1>no real relationship. He's twenty eight. Kim k is like

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<v Speaker 1>forty one, Come on, what are we talking about? What

0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:29.960
<v Speaker 1>then are we already talking about? So Kanye then took

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<v Speaker 1>to his Instagram post and post posted like a fake article, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>like a Times article that read, uh, Skeet is dead

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<v Speaker 1>in wait what it's that Skeet Davidson dad at And

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<v Speaker 1>it was like New York Times article And Kim K

0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:51.960
<v Speaker 1>tweeted like, how does Instagram even lest somebody posting bullying

0:20:52.000 --> 0:20:55.320
<v Speaker 1>type ship like that up there? And um and allowed

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<v Speaker 1>it to stay because it was posted like last night,

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<v Speaker 1>middle to night and I just checked and now it's down.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's been up there most of the after that's

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<v Speaker 1>not it's not. But then NYT did a whole video

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<v Speaker 1>burying him, and it was video he just had his head,

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<v Speaker 1>he had a Pete Davidson head. Okay, that's that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of dark and sick. Okay, you don't think that's dark

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<v Speaker 1>and sick. So you don't think that's how most Hollywood

0:21:28.359 --> 0:21:33.639
<v Speaker 1>people are, or people with a lot of money, Like, yes, motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 1>So you mean you think that only regular people are

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<v Speaker 1>serial killers and stuff like that. You think that their

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<v Speaker 1>exempt from me and fucking psychopaths. No, they probably do

0:21:46.480 --> 0:21:48.720
<v Speaker 1>him and a lot of people. They have the means

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<v Speaker 1>to do. What the funk they want to get away

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<v Speaker 1>with him, But we don't be looking at them. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember like maybe but maybe about five six years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a decapitative body found in Hollywood Hills, like

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<v Speaker 1>in a in a prominent ass neighborhood of a West

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<v Speaker 1>Indian man. Yeah, like who did that? And the ship

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<v Speaker 1>just and then how about that that billionaire or a

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<v Speaker 1>millionaire who just went to prison for killing all those

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<v Speaker 1>black gay men. You know what I'm talking You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about. Yes, girl, For years, Niggas was

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<v Speaker 1>coming up dead at his house. He was drugged him up.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck them. They might have a you know, overdose, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he was causing him to have an overdose and

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<v Speaker 1>getting away with it safe out here. Okay, she is

0:22:36.080 --> 0:22:44.960
<v Speaker 1>getting real weird outside. Mm hmmm, wicked, wicked, wicked, Yeah, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>we're both to think about his whack ass. So was

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<v Speaker 1>Ashanti his side piece at the time, That's what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>confused on. So, yes, he was married at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>him and him and his wife and swoopsode. They didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get a divorce until now. I don't know how long

0:23:04.240 --> 0:23:09.159
<v Speaker 1>they were separated, but they didn't divorce until so we

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<v Speaker 1>know whatever relationship that him and um A Shanty had

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<v Speaker 1>going on his way earlier than that. But why I know,

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<v Speaker 1>drink champs get you drunk so you could talk shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, man, ain't no way like you put that

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<v Speaker 1>girl business out there like that twenty years ago, because

0:23:26.480 --> 0:23:29.159
<v Speaker 1>she's still popping. There's not no regular woman. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a shanty we're talking about. Yeah, a shanty still walking

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<v Speaker 1>around here, extra fucking fine. And that's why he did,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why he might because if she was fat

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<v Speaker 1>and ugly now with a bunch of kids, he wouldn't

0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:45.040
<v Speaker 1>have mention her ass on the show. Not at all,

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<v Speaker 1>Not at all. It kills me, all right. So if

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<v Speaker 1>a woman is dealing with a married man and she

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<v Speaker 1>comes out and says anything about it, then they're like,

0:23:54.200 --> 0:23:56.480
<v Speaker 1>I ain't you was okay with it, so you should

0:23:56.480 --> 0:23:58.879
<v Speaker 1>have kept your mouth closed. But if a man does it,

0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:00.879
<v Speaker 1>nobody is giving him and saying like, why are you

0:24:00.920 --> 0:24:03.840
<v Speaker 1>telling on her? Like shut your fucking mouth too, Yes,

0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:10.240
<v Speaker 1>chatty Patty, shut up, chatty Patty. He's really he really, um,

0:24:10.320 --> 0:24:12.240
<v Speaker 1>Like the interview is like three and a half hours.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't started listening to Yes, so I've only seen

0:24:14.760 --> 0:24:17.200
<v Speaker 1>like the little clickbait stuff that's online. But I even

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<v Speaker 1>saw a clip where um, he basically said that jay

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<v Speaker 1>Z would periodically ask him if DMX is better than

0:24:24.800 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 1>him back in the day, like like as a rapper. Yes, yeah,

0:24:33.200 --> 0:24:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Why would you tell that that's something that somebody asked you,

0:24:36.119 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 1>like in confidence? You know what I'm saying? What's up? Wait?

0:24:40.240 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>So jay Z asked if he thought DM next was

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:49.720
<v Speaker 1>better than jay Z. Yes? Better, yeah, yeah yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>this goes back to nigga. It's not me you can't

0:24:52.880 --> 0:24:56.080
<v Speaker 1>be vulnerable with. It's your friends you can't be vulnerable with.

0:24:56.960 --> 0:25:01.280
<v Speaker 1>Don't confuse the two is, y'all. Niggas really be somebody

0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:04.600
<v Speaker 1>different for your friends, but your woman know who exactly?

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Who then are you? So now it's your friends down

0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:09.760
<v Speaker 1>to use some sh it against your ass? Because why

0:25:09.800 --> 0:25:13.200
<v Speaker 1>why would he do that? Right earth gotty? I'm looking

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:16.280
<v Speaker 1>at him sideway and shout like I definitely would have

0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:18.000
<v Speaker 1>some money put to the side and make his ass

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<v Speaker 1>disappeared because I don't I don't like way, hey j

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? They could be like legally make him

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<v Speaker 1>shut the funk up or permanently make him shut the

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<v Speaker 1>funk up, either one whatever, whatever. If I'm a millionaire,

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<v Speaker 1>just listen, just so y'all know for future reference. Y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Motherfucker's let me get a b if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>shut up for ever, moving right home because this bit

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:49.160
<v Speaker 1>crazy and Jemini, y'all were going to pay some bills

0:25:49.200 --> 0:25:51.720
<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna come back with our main topic. Are

0:25:51.760 --> 0:25:54.080
<v Speaker 1>you coming to the cookout? Are you bringing your nigga

0:25:54.119 --> 0:25:57.000
<v Speaker 1>to the cookout? Are not? Or is it? Is it

0:25:57.080 --> 0:26:00.200
<v Speaker 1>even your nigga? That's what we're gonna talk about. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>be right back. So apparently Tam and I have a uh,

0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:14.359
<v Speaker 1>what is it? A difference in opinion? Okay when it

0:26:14.400 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 1>comes to dating oftentimes, right, And I was telling her

0:26:19.280 --> 0:26:22.240
<v Speaker 1>how I took a guy friend of mine to like

0:26:22.320 --> 0:26:25.440
<v Speaker 1>a family gathering at my dad's house and this is

0:26:25.480 --> 0:26:27.919
<v Speaker 1>a friend and this is how I introduced him to

0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:31.280
<v Speaker 1>my family as a friend. Now I can count on

0:26:31.280 --> 0:26:34.520
<v Speaker 1>one hand how many men I've had around my family. Right,

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:38.520
<v Speaker 1>But I don't see a problem with bringing a nigga

0:26:38.560 --> 0:26:41.879
<v Speaker 1>to the cook out that that's not your man. I'm confused.

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:46.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm not bringing no niggas to nothing at my family

0:26:46.440 --> 0:26:50.359
<v Speaker 1>house unless we're together. They don't get to be introduced

0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:52.760
<v Speaker 1>to my family if they're at my house and I

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:56.960
<v Speaker 1>FaceTime with my mama. Don't say a word till I

0:26:57.000 --> 0:27:00.480
<v Speaker 1>hang up with my mama because we're not Oh, you

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:06.520
<v Speaker 1>need to shut up, sir. So wait a minute. They

0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:09.119
<v Speaker 1>can't come to the cookout and they can't like talk

0:27:09.119 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 1>on it all. No, just be quiet because she don't

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 1>need to know who you are unless you're my man.

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:17.280
<v Speaker 1>I just I just really don't think it's that serious,

0:27:17.359 --> 0:27:21.000
<v Speaker 1>especially when you're getting to know stages and you hanging

0:27:21.040 --> 0:27:23.280
<v Speaker 1>out with somebody. So if this is somebody I already

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:26.919
<v Speaker 1>hang out with on the weekend, right, and then that

0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:30.360
<v Speaker 1>makes it different if you're talking about First of all,

0:27:30.400 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 1>what are you talking about? You know that I haven't

0:27:33.359 --> 0:27:37.320
<v Speaker 1>had sex in years. Girl. In the beginning of the episode,

0:27:37.480 --> 0:27:42.960
<v Speaker 1>sun like a shower, Like a shower, remember, he was like,

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to miss your fucking because that's just

0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 1>something I do. That's just who I am. Yeh'll see

0:27:50.880 --> 0:28:06.679
<v Speaker 1>how this miss me up here showing up lying, just lying, listen, whatever, Okay,

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:09.840
<v Speaker 1>this is somebody, so but so what y'all can still

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:12.560
<v Speaker 1>be like friends and this is who I want to

0:28:12.560 --> 0:28:14.200
<v Speaker 1>hang out with, and hey, I'm about to go do

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:16.520
<v Speaker 1>this for a couple hours. Used to come come with

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:19.199
<v Speaker 1>and the thing is that I didn't even expect him

0:28:19.280 --> 0:28:24.520
<v Speaker 1>to actually come, but he did. So I see when

0:28:24.560 --> 0:28:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you invite someone to meet your family, that's typically that's

0:28:29.200 --> 0:28:32.360
<v Speaker 1>normally a big deal. I really don't feel like that's

0:28:32.400 --> 0:28:35.159
<v Speaker 1>meeting and like, so people did have questions, you know,

0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:39.000
<v Speaker 1>even but I haven't seen y'all and how long? So

0:28:39.040 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 1>y'all want to know how to fun my life don't change,

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:44.680
<v Speaker 1>like and where your bitch and where your baby daddy? Like, uh,

0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:47.719
<v Speaker 1>this is just my friend. But see that's the questions

0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:49.960
<v Speaker 1>that I don't want to entertain. So that's why I

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 1>don't bring anybody unless it's something where I could say, yeah,

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 1>this is my man and let me let me introduce

0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:58.920
<v Speaker 1>you to my man agres. You know, I just want

0:28:58.920 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>to be able to say that that isn't married man,

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:08.960
<v Speaker 1>he married. Yes, okay, here this is my man. Um

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:16.320
<v Speaker 1>what's that finance dude from Jonathan Jonathan um majors. Yes,

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:20.960
<v Speaker 1>this isn't playing me that that is my boyfriend. He's

0:29:21.120 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 1>whatever you too to the cook out, that's who your boyfriend?

0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Bit like he is literally, oh my god, yeah that's

0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:33.960
<v Speaker 1>my boyfriend. That girl I just claimed him. How you

0:29:34.000 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>gonna when I just said, he is on my vision boards.

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>You see her screen saver girl as my listen listen

0:29:46.200 --> 0:29:48.600
<v Speaker 1>right next to the app the six pack, Like that's

0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:52.560
<v Speaker 1>my whole boyfriend. Girl. Look, I never heard said you

0:29:52.640 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 1>like him girl? Ever since Lovecraft Country, I've been on

0:29:56.120 --> 0:30:00.160
<v Speaker 1>that nigger. What's the basketball player you like? Sergery ba?

0:30:00.360 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I let you have him, Okay, I leave you a

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of he's been doing a lot of Instagram like

0:30:05.880 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 1>facial facials. He's given me too much metro lately, so

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:13.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm off for him. He's still fine. I let you

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:16.160
<v Speaker 1>have him, and that's how you're gonna do me. You

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:19.240
<v Speaker 1>can have him. I don't want that, dude. I want Johnson.

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:23.760
<v Speaker 1>Major's a You're just so fine. Yeah he is. Y'all

0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:26.480
<v Speaker 1>know he played a Lovecraft Country and that that other movie.

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 1>Jay Z only came on Instagram to promote that The

0:30:30.400 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Harder They Fall couple some months ago. Yes, he's he's

0:30:35.200 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 1>actually doing a movie with the up my old crush

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:41.080
<v Speaker 1>from back in the day, um the one that was

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:47.400
<v Speaker 1>with um oh girl, Steve Harvey, Darter, Oh, Michael B. Jordan.

0:30:47.760 --> 0:30:50.560
<v Speaker 1>They're doing a movie together. I saw that. That's a

0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>masturbation festival for me. I ain't gonna at much watch

0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:58.440
<v Speaker 1>that movie out. No, I don't want to go to

0:30:58.440 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 1>the movies to see that. I got planned, sent me

0:31:01.840 --> 0:31:04.880
<v Speaker 1>in a whole of date night for the niggas meet

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:08.240
<v Speaker 1>y'allathing Michael in my rooms, getting it in, and for

0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 1>the movie shame Goodness. But yeah, So I had one

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 1>of my friends, this is really my girlfriend, uh, my

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 1>friend real. He came to my he lives in my

0:31:23.480 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 1>building downstairs for me, and he came by my family,

0:31:27.600 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 1>came for my birthday and we got on a grill

0:31:30.200 --> 0:31:32.160
<v Speaker 1>and I had like so much food. So I was like, real,

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 1>you home, you know if you want to come by

0:31:33.840 --> 0:31:36.160
<v Speaker 1>and get some food, you can't. He's like, yeah, I

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 1>pull up. So he got to meet my family and

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I have not brought a man around my family since

0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 1>for like two thousand and sixteen. But he's just my friend.

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:47.200
<v Speaker 1>And they just was like so confused, like they just

0:31:47.200 --> 0:31:49.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't even know how to act around niggas. My mom like,

0:31:49.440 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>are you gonna make his play for him? Get your

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:52.800
<v Speaker 1>heads up and make the play for him. I was like,

0:31:52.880 --> 0:31:55.480
<v Speaker 1>my dad's not my nigga. Let him make his own food.

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:59.240
<v Speaker 1>That's just my friend. Like and my dad was like,

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:03.400
<v Speaker 1>what's up, my boy, and like just being so happy

0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:06.080
<v Speaker 1>because he's ready to have like a son in law

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:10.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of energy. Bro, that's not that so I would

0:32:10.880 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 1>never bring another guy around unless it's something serious, because

0:32:14.960 --> 0:32:16.760
<v Speaker 1>it was ready to make him in my hood. I

0:32:16.800 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 1>just don't think it's that serious. I don't think it's

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:23.200
<v Speaker 1>that serious. And I feel like you could be friends

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 1>with somebody. I think we okay, I don't know do

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:31.040
<v Speaker 1>we do? We look too far into like things with

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 1>the opposite sex. You know what I'm saying, Like why

0:32:34.040 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I can bring my home girl, but I can't bring

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:39.360
<v Speaker 1>this this guy friend. I and I understand the sex part, right,

0:32:39.560 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 1>but if this is a good friend of mine who

0:32:41.600 --> 0:32:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I already be hanging out with, like, I don't see

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>the big deal. And maybe it has something more so

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 1>to do with me because I also one of my uncles.

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:51.480
<v Speaker 1>And then my cousin had asked me something at the cookout, right,

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:54.200
<v Speaker 1>Other than that, my daddy ain't asked me ship. You

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:55.880
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like he's been around my mom,

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:58.360
<v Speaker 1>but my mom gonna be asking me because I he's

0:32:58.440 --> 0:33:04.680
<v Speaker 1>my friend, that's it, your your special friend whatever, he's

0:33:04.680 --> 0:33:08.200
<v Speaker 1>my fucking friends. But everybody in the family, even if

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 1>they don't ask you any questions, they're gonna be like,

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.920
<v Speaker 1>that's your nigga and the head. That's not true, though,

0:33:13.120 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I think it depends on me, Like they're not just

0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 1>bringing they're not used to you bringing dudes around, not

0:33:18.960 --> 0:33:20.320
<v Speaker 1>saying like I just be bringing all the type of

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:25.160
<v Speaker 1>niggas around my family because it's just not niggas. But

0:33:25.240 --> 0:33:27.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't think they know me like that to even

0:33:27.320 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 1>question me because I've been away for a long time.

0:33:30.600 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 1>So now when I come to come intent, like when

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm now in town and I do like family ship,

0:33:34.720 --> 0:33:37.120
<v Speaker 1>they probably don't know how to take me either. So

0:33:37.160 --> 0:33:39.280
<v Speaker 1>what's the energy like? And then you also have to

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:41.520
<v Speaker 1>look at the energy that y'all sharing with each Did

0:33:41.520 --> 0:33:45.160
<v Speaker 1>you make his plate for him? We was eating crabs, Like, yeah,

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 1>I got whatever he needed while he was there, because

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:50.520
<v Speaker 1>that I mean, that's also like even if you bring

0:33:50.560 --> 0:33:52.280
<v Speaker 1>your home girl, like your home girl don't like to

0:33:52.280 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 1>get up and get their own food. Family don't be

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:57.240
<v Speaker 1>bringing me ship. You don't bring me ship. When have

0:33:57.360 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>you been when have you ever been in like like

0:34:00.720 --> 0:34:06.920
<v Speaker 1>whenever you went about it, you are clearly you dude

0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:09.000
<v Speaker 1>be doing ship. You just had a crab ball where

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:11.960
<v Speaker 1>he was making that nig plate. First of all, the

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:15.120
<v Speaker 1>crabs dumped on the table and everybody go eat crabs. Like,

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:16.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't have to do much, but like getting him

0:34:16.760 --> 0:34:19.239
<v Speaker 1>a drink or something like that. Yeah, you wouldn't have

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>got me. No, let's be real, you wouldn't have got

0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:23.200
<v Speaker 1>me a drinker. You would have appointed me to where

0:34:23.239 --> 0:34:26.759
<v Speaker 1>the drink said. That's that's not true. First of all,

0:34:26.960 --> 0:34:31.279
<v Speaker 1>I am, I serve people, so I went. I know

0:34:31.360 --> 0:34:34.080
<v Speaker 1>that sometimes people are uncomfortable in front of other people's

0:34:34.080 --> 0:34:35.840
<v Speaker 1>families and friend and ship like that. So I wouldn't

0:34:35.840 --> 0:34:37.799
<v Speaker 1>put you in an awkward position to have to get

0:34:37.880 --> 0:34:40.600
<v Speaker 1>up and do things for yourself when you may not

0:34:40.680 --> 0:34:42.719
<v Speaker 1>be comfortable doing that. Me, on the other hand, I

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:46.399
<v Speaker 1>mean your fucking mama refrigerator, Like I'm comfortable. Like if

0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:48.839
<v Speaker 1>you say I can do, I'm going to, especially when

0:34:48.840 --> 0:34:53.400
<v Speaker 1>it come to food. Yeah, I just saw me in

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:56.280
<v Speaker 1>the right direction. Look, I just saw a post online.

0:34:56.440 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 1>It was like a video and it was like these

0:34:57.920 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 1>two black guys and then the dude bringing up late

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.359
<v Speaker 1>the food and it was like how you act when

0:35:02.360 --> 0:35:04.680
<v Speaker 1>somebody bringing you a plate of food, like looking around like, oh,

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:06.879
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know you were feeding me. I'm like, nah,

0:35:07.000 --> 0:35:08.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm the type that's gonna meet you with the plate, bitch.

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.399
<v Speaker 1>So you don't gotta walk too far. But I'm never

0:35:11.600 --> 0:35:14.600
<v Speaker 1>afraid to be myself in any setting, but some people are,

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:18.400
<v Speaker 1>so I would always if I bring somebody around my people,

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:20.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make sure they're good man or a woman.

0:35:21.440 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 1>M hmm. Okay, So yes, I was making a nigga drink,

0:35:25.040 --> 0:35:26.960
<v Speaker 1>getting him some water if he needs to, instead of

0:35:27.000 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 1>him going When people see you doing that, I don't

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:33.840
<v Speaker 1>care because guess what, I can bring another nigga in

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 1>next week, like next It's really not that it's not

0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>that serious to me though there's no other nigga for

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:49.279
<v Speaker 1>me to bring just in case. But that's like you

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:53.040
<v Speaker 1>minimize the dynamic that you have with them. Man. No,

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that. Okay, No, I don't. I don't

0:35:56.160 --> 0:36:00.520
<v Speaker 1>think I'm minimizing it. It's just that I think a lot.

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I think for what black women, we need to watch

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:08.640
<v Speaker 1>our attachment issues. We need to live in a moment

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:11.760
<v Speaker 1>more with relationships. Understand the older you get, you start

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:16.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, looking at uh, your fertility, all these different

0:36:16.320 --> 0:36:18.600
<v Speaker 1>things we start calculating right when we're dating and the

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>older you get and you're single and all these different things.

0:36:21.960 --> 0:36:24.920
<v Speaker 1>But you have to take some situations for whatever it is.

0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 1>So like I said, that's my friend, Okay, I'm not

0:36:29.200 --> 0:36:31.319
<v Speaker 1>trying to force him into a relationship by taking him

0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 1>around my damn family. Yeah, you know, because if he

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:37.800
<v Speaker 1>do the same thing, he would expect me to not

0:36:38.000 --> 0:36:41.800
<v Speaker 1>feel like that either, But some women would if if

0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 1>a man you take me to meet his mom, your mama,

0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 1>we try to gather together, and I'm gonna go together together.

0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:52.719
<v Speaker 1>But the nigga mom and I met five bitches this year,

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 1>Like you're not even special, like you think, yes I am.

0:36:56.200 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Don't tell me that. This is why I don't funk

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:05.400
<v Speaker 1>with mama's right now, Okay, because moms to be lying

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:08.799
<v Speaker 1>like they need your mama, that that means something because

0:37:08.880 --> 0:37:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm so good with mama's. Like if I'm not good

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:16.640
<v Speaker 1>at anything else, I'm so good with moms. Oh my god,

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:20.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm the queen of finesse and mama's. So you think

0:37:20.800 --> 0:37:22.879
<v Speaker 1>finesse and the mom is like getting like your way

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:25.200
<v Speaker 1>to the man's heart kinda is that why you do it.

0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't Uh, it might be a you know, last

0:37:28.680 --> 0:37:34.000
<v Speaker 1>week episode, a little bit manipulation here, Honestly, honestly, I

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:37.359
<v Speaker 1>just if I love a guy, I want his mom

0:37:37.400 --> 0:37:40.879
<v Speaker 1>to love me too, Honestly, that's really. If I really

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 1>like this man, I want his mom to like me

0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:45.760
<v Speaker 1>just as much. It depends. Your mama have to be married,

0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:51.239
<v Speaker 1>your mom have to have a man because if it's problem, yeah,

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:54.200
<v Speaker 1>because those are the hardest wants to win. But I'm

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:59.319
<v Speaker 1>not trying, Like I feel like, if somebody's family makes

0:37:59.320 --> 0:38:02.279
<v Speaker 1>it hard for me, I'm just not working with them.

0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not ever battling anybody's family. Remember again, I've done it.

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.360
<v Speaker 1>I would kill him with kindness, Like it's gonna be

0:38:09.400 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 1>like if you really just if you act like you

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:13.919
<v Speaker 1>don't like me, you just a hater at this point

0:38:13.960 --> 0:38:16.040
<v Speaker 1>because I've been so nice to you, Like, there's no

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:19.399
<v Speaker 1>reason not to remember this one guy. I won't say

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:21.319
<v Speaker 1>who it is because y'all would know him if I

0:38:21.360 --> 0:38:25.359
<v Speaker 1>said it. We used to. This is years ago, and

0:38:25.400 --> 0:38:28.319
<v Speaker 1>we were seeing each other and his mom came to

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:32.600
<v Speaker 1>visit for the summer, and I swear his mama called

0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 1>me every day to take her to Walmart. And I

0:38:36.640 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 1>used to think like them, you couldn't have got that

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:42.880
<v Speaker 1>ship yesterday. But I would take her as every single

0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:45.719
<v Speaker 1>day to Walmart. It never failed. She called me and

0:38:45.760 --> 0:38:47.680
<v Speaker 1>I like, and she would pray for me on the phone,

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:50.240
<v Speaker 1>and then I come get her, take her to Walmart,

0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 1>drop her off. It if I never go in with her,

0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:53.920
<v Speaker 1>and I just drop her off at the front door,

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 1>and I watched the door to wait for her to

0:38:55.680 --> 0:38:57.799
<v Speaker 1>be at the front door again. And I picked her

0:38:57.840 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 1>up from the front door and then take her back

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:01.719
<v Speaker 1>to the house and she come out with like an

0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:03.960
<v Speaker 1>apple or something like bullshit, Like it would just be

0:39:04.000 --> 0:39:06.880
<v Speaker 1>like she didn't want to get out the house, yeah, something,

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:08.440
<v Speaker 1>and she just wanted to hang out and get out

0:39:08.440 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 1>of the house. But I would take her every day.

0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:13.320
<v Speaker 1>And that's back when I didn't have a lot of responsibility, honestly,

0:39:13.360 --> 0:39:18.040
<v Speaker 1>because right now I had the uber her ass. I

0:39:18.080 --> 0:39:21.040
<v Speaker 1>couldn't give her that much time now. But and she

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:22.879
<v Speaker 1>loved me, like I probably could call her right now

0:39:23.320 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>to pray with me and she would. Yeah. You know,

0:39:28.239 --> 0:39:30.319
<v Speaker 1>if I can't smack your sister, I just don't want

0:39:30.320 --> 0:39:36.200
<v Speaker 1>to be with you no more. What toxic? If I

0:39:36.239 --> 0:39:39.640
<v Speaker 1>can't smack your mama. I don't think we should. Why

0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:41.760
<v Speaker 1>do you want Why do you want to smack somebody mama?

0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:47.200
<v Speaker 1>Because adults be needing, Nate asked, whoop. Sometimes even mama's

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:54.160
<v Speaker 1>even want to even on my side, but they don't, stupid,

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:57.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't have mama's on my side. I have had

0:39:57.960 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 1>a mom on my side too, and she's a real

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 1>family member to me, and so is their son, so

0:40:03.280 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>like that's my family at this point, we're not, you know,

0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:08.920
<v Speaker 1>ain't nothing like that. But that's the only mom I

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:12.040
<v Speaker 1>ever liked. And then you know nigga who ain't got

0:40:12.040 --> 0:40:14.799
<v Speaker 1>no mom? I liked them too. I did have a

0:40:14.800 --> 0:40:18.719
<v Speaker 1>one relationship where his mom she was always on his

0:40:18.800 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 1>side no matter what. But she did like me and

0:40:21.120 --> 0:40:23.839
<v Speaker 1>she was always nice to me, but she definitely took

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:25.840
<v Speaker 1>her son's side on everything. And I used to be like,

0:40:25.880 --> 0:40:28.439
<v Speaker 1>are you really listening to the facts? And he would

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:30.120
<v Speaker 1>call her every time we got That's how I was

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:32.680
<v Speaker 1>about to say, like why why are you even discussing

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>what's going on with the mom? Like what the fun?

0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:38.040
<v Speaker 1>Because he would call her every time for advice, and

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:40.120
<v Speaker 1>then she would call me to have a conversation with

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:41.920
<v Speaker 1>me because she's just trying to help us have an

0:40:41.960 --> 0:40:47.360
<v Speaker 1>amicobal relations amicable relationship. That was her word. No, I

0:40:47.360 --> 0:40:50.319
<v Speaker 1>don't need your mom and my business. And it used

0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:51.799
<v Speaker 1>to be like a lot of things, I'd be like,

0:40:51.920 --> 0:40:55.239
<v Speaker 1>do you hear yourself? Like you sound crazy? Because you

0:40:55.280 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 1>know what type of relationship is she? And with the

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:00.440
<v Speaker 1>father with his dad? Because are you in a relationship

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:02.520
<v Speaker 1>with a narcissist? Are you in a relationship? Was she

0:41:02.560 --> 0:41:07.239
<v Speaker 1>even in a relationship and getting very much single? Yeah?

0:41:07.239 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't got No. I can't take no advice from you, ma'am.

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:13.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll take marriage advice from married people, and I'll take

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:16.880
<v Speaker 1>relationship advice from you know people, I mean dating advice

0:41:16.880 --> 0:41:19.000
<v Speaker 1>from people who out here actually dating. I don't want

0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:23.160
<v Speaker 1>no marriage, uh, no dating advice from nobody who's been

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:25.279
<v Speaker 1>married for fifteen years. You don't even know what the

0:41:25.280 --> 0:41:28.560
<v Speaker 1>hell going on out here right now, right, And I

0:41:28.600 --> 0:41:31.080
<v Speaker 1>don't want no relationship advice from somebody who's not in

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:36.399
<v Speaker 1>an a successful relationship or marriage, right. I agree, Yeah,

0:41:36.400 --> 0:41:38.839
<v Speaker 1>because you're gonna be coming with all your trauma and

0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:42.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe maybe what you would have done differently, But I'm

0:41:42.600 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 1>not dealing with the same man that you might have

0:41:44.719 --> 0:41:46.719
<v Speaker 1>been dealing with. It could be all type of things.

0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:50.560
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. I'm taking friends to the cookouts.

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm taking friends to people to places with me. I am,

0:41:54.960 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 1>you can't come to my ship. I am I bring

0:41:58.600 --> 0:42:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you a play after this over. I don't. I just

0:42:02.239 --> 0:42:05.799
<v Speaker 1>really don't see the big deal. I don't. I don't

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:09.840
<v Speaker 1>want you to meet my parents until not just my parents,

0:42:09.920 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 1>my sister. It's not that what y'all think. Y'all hit

0:42:14.719 --> 0:42:18.080
<v Speaker 1>us up. Let us know. Is it that serious? Meeting

0:42:18.160 --> 0:42:22.000
<v Speaker 1>a man's family on some regular that's my friend, even

0:42:22.080 --> 0:42:25.680
<v Speaker 1>if y'all kicking it intimately, Like, what's the big deal

0:42:26.000 --> 0:42:29.200
<v Speaker 1>with meeting the family and friends? Like I like to

0:42:29.200 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 1>meet new people? Maybe that's my thing. I like to

0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:35.279
<v Speaker 1>meet new people. I like. I definitely like, like, you know,

0:42:35.480 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 1>cookouts and house parties. I like that over a club

0:42:39.200 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>any day. So yeah, you can invite me, but I'm

0:42:46.000 --> 0:42:49.280
<v Speaker 1>not going. What about a round of guy and his friends?

0:42:49.560 --> 0:42:51.560
<v Speaker 1>So is that not that's the same thing, Like a

0:42:51.640 --> 0:42:55.400
<v Speaker 1>guy invites you out with him and his homeboys and

0:42:55.680 --> 0:42:59.799
<v Speaker 1>the couples, like a couple of things. I could do

0:42:59.840 --> 0:43:03.239
<v Speaker 1>that if it's not, If it's if it's super new. No,

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:06.279
<v Speaker 1>I ain't. I barely know you. I don't want to

0:43:06.280 --> 0:43:11.359
<v Speaker 1>know your friends if I feel like that's the part

0:43:11.360 --> 0:43:13.600
<v Speaker 1>of getting to know somebody, trying to see Like, so

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:16.359
<v Speaker 1>this guy, his family isn't here, but I would want

0:43:16.400 --> 0:43:19.080
<v Speaker 1>to know how is his family. I would want to

0:43:19.120 --> 0:43:21.560
<v Speaker 1>know that, because what if we do get serious, I

0:43:21.600 --> 0:43:23.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't know if you came from a fucked up family

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:27.799
<v Speaker 1>or not. Right, So I agree there, but we would

0:43:27.800 --> 0:43:31.040
<v Speaker 1>have to be headed toward that direction first. I would

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:33.919
<v Speaker 1>have to know if I want head there without knowing

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:38.359
<v Speaker 1>your family background. No more, I don't. I don't want

0:43:38.360 --> 0:43:41.640
<v Speaker 1>to head there because what happens is like you head there,

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:43.920
<v Speaker 1>now you're there, right, and then you're having all these

0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:46.439
<v Speaker 1>behavioral issues out this motherfucking now you got to now

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:49.480
<v Speaker 1>you now you finally see mama and whoever else is like, oh,

0:43:49.520 --> 0:43:52.839
<v Speaker 1>this is why. But had you met them earlier on,

0:43:54.360 --> 0:43:57.600
<v Speaker 1>it would have saved you some time and your insurance

0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:02.680
<v Speaker 1>if I like to you know, I come from a

0:44:02.840 --> 0:44:05.640
<v Speaker 1>crazy family, you know, and I just don't want people

0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:07.880
<v Speaker 1>to be like, oh, let me go meet her family

0:44:07.920 --> 0:44:10.239
<v Speaker 1>and determine who she is because of how they are.

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Because my family of the chain, you know, like they

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:15.719
<v Speaker 1>of the change. So I don't want I can't. I

0:44:15.719 --> 0:44:18.920
<v Speaker 1>don't want to use that as my determining factor, not

0:44:18.960 --> 0:44:20.680
<v Speaker 1>saying that I come from a bad family and my

0:44:20.680 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 1>family is great and everybody's like funny, you're gonna laugh

0:44:23.120 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 1>your ass off. But there is a little element, a

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:29.440
<v Speaker 1>little coop, you know. I mean, that's all families. I

0:44:29.440 --> 0:44:33.160
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's kind of like the dynamic across the board.

0:44:33.920 --> 0:44:36.359
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. I need to see how you

0:44:36.400 --> 0:44:38.960
<v Speaker 1>interact with your daddy, how you interact with your mama

0:44:39.600 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 1>like that. That's really what I'm looking for. I'm not

0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:44.640
<v Speaker 1>really even looking for like interaction with the siblings and stuff,

0:44:44.719 --> 0:44:47.680
<v Speaker 1>you know. I want to see that though. I want

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:49.680
<v Speaker 1>to see Yeah, I want to see that. But once

0:44:49.719 --> 0:44:52.520
<v Speaker 1>we're determining that this is getting serious and this could

0:44:52.520 --> 0:44:56.080
<v Speaker 1>be something real. But prior to that, no, no, thank you,

0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:58.640
<v Speaker 1>and the friend thing, like you don't even want to

0:44:58.680 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 1>take me around your friends to early, because if we're

0:45:01.600 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>just getting to know each other and we need smash it,

0:45:03.880 --> 0:45:07.920
<v Speaker 1>I might leave you for one of your homeboys. You know.

0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 1>If we had sex yet and we and we're hanging out,

0:45:11.239 --> 0:45:16.520
<v Speaker 1>we're actually just friends at this point, right, friends? All right?

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:18.319
<v Speaker 1>So how you listen? How do how do you pull

0:45:18.400 --> 0:45:19.880
<v Speaker 1>that out home? Let's go to break right quick. And

0:45:19.880 --> 0:45:23.160
<v Speaker 1>then I want to hear how we would apply that

0:45:23.360 --> 0:45:32.680
<v Speaker 1>in a situation. Y'all. We'll be right back, okay, damm, Like,

0:45:32.840 --> 0:45:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I know we joke about this type of ship all

0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:39.440
<v Speaker 1>the time, but what's the application for this? Okay? Like,

0:45:39.560 --> 0:45:42.120
<v Speaker 1>you meet a guy, y'all kicking in y'all haven't had

0:45:42.239 --> 0:45:45.759
<v Speaker 1>you haven't been intimate yet? You go, I don't know,

0:45:45.800 --> 0:45:48.240
<v Speaker 1>maybe he invites you out do bowling with his friends.

0:45:48.360 --> 0:45:51.520
<v Speaker 1>They do this every Saturday night. Whatever. Girl friends, home, girls, whoever,

0:45:51.600 --> 0:45:54.239
<v Speaker 1>everybody else. You get to pick somebody else though there's

0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:58.920
<v Speaker 1>somebody else there? How how do you go about doing that? Like?

0:45:59.040 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 1>How do you say? I would I would never be

0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:07.319
<v Speaker 1>the aggressor. Honestly, they would have to like come at me.

0:46:08.120 --> 0:46:11.760
<v Speaker 1>And if I'm not feeling in you, Like Jeffrey, he's cool,

0:46:11.880 --> 0:46:15.640
<v Speaker 1>but here's uh Andre over here, and Andre is like

0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:19.279
<v Speaker 1>making me laughing if he's you know, more entertaining me

0:46:19.320 --> 0:46:22.320
<v Speaker 1>than Jeffrey. And then he comes around and sliding my

0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:25.040
<v Speaker 1>d m S. I might holler at Andre, I might

0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:28.000
<v Speaker 1>I never fucked Jeffrey. We just went on a date.

0:46:28.120 --> 0:46:32.319
<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't owe Jeffrey ship. We already know

0:46:32.480 --> 0:46:34.800
<v Speaker 1>men think pussy they never even have before is on

0:46:35.000 --> 0:46:37.400
<v Speaker 1>reserve for them. So you know you'll still be a

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:40.840
<v Speaker 1>hole in Jeffrey's eyes. Right, Well, ho ho ho, Merry Christmas.

0:46:40.840 --> 0:46:47.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't getting about that now. If we if if

0:46:47.120 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey and I slept together, then okay, all his friends

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:53.240
<v Speaker 1>are off limits. I don't want that type of stigma.

0:46:53.280 --> 0:46:57.160
<v Speaker 1>But we did nothing. You're just somebody I hung out with.

0:46:57.760 --> 0:47:01.839
<v Speaker 1>Switch right, Are you gonna automatically start trying to hook

0:47:01.920 --> 0:47:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey up with somebody else? You know, I got a

0:47:05.239 --> 0:47:08.479
<v Speaker 1>good friend for you. You know, honestly, if I think

0:47:08.680 --> 0:47:12.040
<v Speaker 1>there's someone that Jeffrey might get along with better than

0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:15.279
<v Speaker 1>me and vibe with, like definitely, why not If he

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:17.120
<v Speaker 1>would be up to it. He might be salty with me,

0:47:17.160 --> 0:47:21.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, fucking bitch with my homeboy, But if you

0:47:21.440 --> 0:47:23.719
<v Speaker 1>are a real decent dude, he probably wouldn't, you know,

0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:27.560
<v Speaker 1>And you know it just depends. Yeah, I don't know

0:47:27.600 --> 0:47:30.400
<v Speaker 1>that I've ever been in that situation or like picked

0:47:30.440 --> 0:47:34.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody else over the friend. But listen, yeah, like if

0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:36.480
<v Speaker 1>it hasn't happened. I might not be the aggressor. I

0:47:36.560 --> 0:47:40.400
<v Speaker 1>might not be at the bowling alley like walking up

0:47:40.400 --> 0:47:46.000
<v Speaker 1>to your homeboy like that. I like you, Yeah, but

0:47:46.719 --> 0:47:48.480
<v Speaker 1>if your own boy don't give a funk about you

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:50.799
<v Speaker 1>or jumping my dad and d MS or something. Oh,

0:47:50.840 --> 0:47:56.640
<v Speaker 1>it's on so general. Consisus a j It don't mean nothing, Like,

0:47:56.760 --> 0:47:59.239
<v Speaker 1>don't take it too serious. If she invites you to

0:47:59.320 --> 0:48:08.319
<v Speaker 1>the family cook out. Let's be clear. I like you

0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:09.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot, and I want to hang out with you

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:13.279
<v Speaker 1>and my family. Like what with me, I'm gonna be

0:48:13.320 --> 0:48:15.840
<v Speaker 1>expecting a ring at some time in the near future.

0:48:21.719 --> 0:48:23.960
<v Speaker 1>You mean my daddy, Ni, we better be getting married

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:25.840
<v Speaker 1>next year. That's that's the type of time. You know.

0:48:27.400 --> 0:48:30.000
<v Speaker 1>My daddy is so cool, Like I love my daddy

0:48:30.080 --> 0:48:32.680
<v Speaker 1>so much. My daddy don't ask me ship you hear me.

0:48:32.960 --> 0:48:36.640
<v Speaker 1>He ain't getting excited like like hes gonna be like, yeah,

0:48:36.680 --> 0:48:39.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm drone like that and that, like just regularly like

0:48:40.120 --> 0:48:44.759
<v Speaker 1>just nice, good people. That's it. That's all. I've really

0:48:44.800 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 1>got to find somebody because when real was there, my

0:48:48.000 --> 0:48:50.439
<v Speaker 1>daddy was just because all right, my family is nothing

0:48:50.480 --> 0:48:53.400
<v Speaker 1>but women. It's a bunch of women. It's no guys.

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 1>The guys that were in my family someone had passed

0:48:57.680 --> 0:49:00.239
<v Speaker 1>away jail, you know, the things that happened to black

0:49:01.280 --> 0:49:03.680
<v Speaker 1>So there are not very many black men left in

0:49:03.760 --> 0:49:07.160
<v Speaker 1>my family. So when Real came over, my daddy was

0:49:07.239 --> 0:49:10.200
<v Speaker 1>just let's go upstairs to the roof or shoot spool

0:49:10.280 --> 0:49:13.000
<v Speaker 1>real like. He was just so excited to have like

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 1>some male energy in the room. So and then my

0:49:16.719 --> 0:49:18.840
<v Speaker 1>sister and my older sister, she a lesbian soul. She

0:49:18.960 --> 0:49:21.520
<v Speaker 1>with a woman like it's nothing but bitches. So I

0:49:21.600 --> 0:49:26.080
<v Speaker 1>really need to find a guy to bring home and

0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:28.759
<v Speaker 1>take serious. But it won't be probably till even if

0:49:28.800 --> 0:49:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I meet you today, it won't be till three Christmas

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:37.520
<v Speaker 1>until you get that invite. Niket terrible, that's terrible. I

0:49:37.600 --> 0:49:39.279
<v Speaker 1>just I don't know. I think I just feel like

0:49:39.320 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 1>this is a that's a part of dating. For me.

0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:43.839
<v Speaker 1>It's a part of dating, and that's all we're doing.

0:49:43.920 --> 0:49:46.800
<v Speaker 1>We're just kicking it with dating. We have fun together.

0:49:46.920 --> 0:49:50.440
<v Speaker 1>We laugh, We laugh most of the time. So if

0:49:50.480 --> 0:49:52.680
<v Speaker 1>this's who I like to laugh with, why can't laugh

0:49:52.719 --> 0:49:56.680
<v Speaker 1>with him and my other my people? That's all. It

0:49:56.719 --> 0:49:59.279
<v Speaker 1>ain't that serious. I think women we should just enjoy

0:49:59.320 --> 0:50:03.319
<v Speaker 1>the moment something times, you know, and just y'all saw

0:50:03.480 --> 0:50:08.440
<v Speaker 1>with uh, Laura London, you know, just just experiencing people.

0:50:08.880 --> 0:50:11.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm into that. I'm into experiencing people. I don't want

0:50:11.880 --> 0:50:14.480
<v Speaker 1>to own nobody. You're free, You're free to move about

0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:18.439
<v Speaker 1>the country. I'm a Gemini. I definitely like to be

0:50:19.280 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 1>motherfucking independent while in a relationship. And so is this

0:50:23.040 --> 0:50:27.920
<v Speaker 1>guy here gemini too, So it's just like, yeah, don't

0:50:28.000 --> 0:50:30.240
<v Speaker 1>don't stress me. I'll about some ship. I won't stress

0:50:30.280 --> 0:50:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you out. It's not that serious. So I feel like

0:50:33.640 --> 0:50:38.080
<v Speaker 1>those be like the best relationships like friends. No, m

0:50:38.719 --> 0:50:40.680
<v Speaker 1>it's too much pressure. I feel like we put too

0:50:40.760 --> 0:50:43.799
<v Speaker 1>much pressure on each other in relationships, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to pressure anybody into anything in life. Yeah, I do.

0:50:48.760 --> 0:50:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I think my last guy, I definitely, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let him know how big of a deal it was

0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:57.120
<v Speaker 1>for him to meet my family. So by the time

0:50:57.600 --> 0:51:00.000
<v Speaker 1>I did invite him to meet my family, he has

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<v Speaker 1>so much anxiety about it, Like and then when he

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<v Speaker 1>shook my daddy hand, like he didn't look my daddy

0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:08.040
<v Speaker 1>in the eyes and stuff, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never marry you. I had decided right then Wow,

0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:15.200
<v Speaker 1>why are you're not looking my daddy in the eyes

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<v Speaker 1>when you're talking to him? Wow? Was that tripping? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that too? No? I mean no, but I mean maybe listen,

0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:27.040
<v Speaker 1>you needed to have Maybe you should have done that earlier.

0:51:28.160 --> 0:51:30.799
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he should have met your daddy sooner. You could

0:51:30.840 --> 0:51:33.600
<v Speaker 1>have been the relationship earlier. Like, if that's really all

0:51:33.640 --> 0:51:37.560
<v Speaker 1>it took, you didn't know. Now that's saying it. But

0:51:37.640 --> 0:51:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I like people who just be cool. They could be

0:51:39.600 --> 0:51:43.040
<v Speaker 1>in any setting. They're just chilling everybody like them. You

0:51:43.080 --> 0:51:46.319
<v Speaker 1>can't be like scared, go find that out? How do

0:51:46.400 --> 0:51:50.960
<v Speaker 1>you find that out? Yeah? But I mean, like, still,

0:51:51.000 --> 0:51:52.720
<v Speaker 1>you need to be serious. We need to be serious.

0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I kid, just bringing around my daddy. I don't think

0:51:55.000 --> 0:51:57.400
<v Speaker 1>it's that serious. I'd be listening. I like, this is

0:51:57.440 --> 0:52:00.600
<v Speaker 1>this is why all the people that I like, I

0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:03.319
<v Speaker 1>love when they are all in the same place. I

0:52:03.360 --> 0:52:05.920
<v Speaker 1>guess so much joy Like when this set of friends

0:52:05.960 --> 0:52:07.680
<v Speaker 1>is around, this set of friends, like, I'd be so

0:52:07.800 --> 0:52:11.319
<v Speaker 1>happy that all my favorite people like together. That's fun

0:52:11.360 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 1>for me. Meanwhile, y'all, I have been invited to ship

0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:18.600
<v Speaker 1>girl white been ats? Where what have I been doing? Like, like,

0:52:18.719 --> 0:52:20.160
<v Speaker 1>you want to come up with me and this nigga

0:52:23.320 --> 0:52:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I like crabs that line. All right, So y'all we're

0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:31.160
<v Speaker 1>nearing the end of the show obviously, and I just

0:52:31.200 --> 0:52:36.959
<v Speaker 1>wanted to remind everybody that, uh, it is currently uh

0:52:37.040 --> 0:52:44.960
<v Speaker 1>the Lion's Gate Portal portal open between like either I think, um,

0:52:45.000 --> 0:52:47.080
<v Speaker 1>it's at its peak today. So obviously our show is

0:52:47.120 --> 0:52:51.200
<v Speaker 1>all pre recorded. So today is August eighth, okay, this week,

0:52:51.880 --> 0:52:55.560
<v Speaker 1>so the portal is at its peak today. So any

0:52:55.600 --> 0:52:59.400
<v Speaker 1>magic anything you want to manifest, uh, you want to

0:52:59.440 --> 0:53:04.080
<v Speaker 1>meditate on on you know, some more uh being abundant anything,

0:53:04.640 --> 0:53:06.880
<v Speaker 1>this is what you want to do today, right, and

0:53:06.880 --> 0:53:08.799
<v Speaker 1>it's the gate is going to be the portals open

0:53:09.960 --> 0:53:12.759
<v Speaker 1>no today to eight today. Well, they ain't gonna here

0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:15.920
<v Speaker 1>this till I understand. He's not gonna here till Thursday.

0:53:15.960 --> 0:53:18.240
<v Speaker 1>But if you let me finish what I'm saying, then

0:53:18.000 --> 0:53:20.640
<v Speaker 1>we can. I can, I could wrap it up. Okay.

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:25.200
<v Speaker 1>So the portal the portals open from they of July

0:53:25.920 --> 0:53:30.880
<v Speaker 1>through August the twelfth, right, which is Friday, So you

0:53:30.960 --> 0:53:33.240
<v Speaker 1>have they still have time, you know what I'm saying,

0:53:33.239 --> 0:53:36.080
<v Speaker 1>to do any magic manifestation they want to do, just

0:53:36.440 --> 0:53:41.839
<v Speaker 1>do some research research on um um the lions Gate.

0:53:41.920 --> 0:53:49.040
<v Speaker 1>So it's uh leo the moon is in leo um

0:53:49.160 --> 0:53:52.160
<v Speaker 1>right now, Okay, so just look it up. It's just

0:53:52.200 --> 0:53:54.719
<v Speaker 1>a magical time of the year. It happens every time

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<v Speaker 1>I think I manifested some magic. Today my friend me

0:53:58.400 --> 0:54:00.600
<v Speaker 1>and him rode out to look at some pretty u

0:54:00.800 --> 0:54:03.279
<v Speaker 1>uh in Edgewood and we was on the way back

0:54:03.320 --> 0:54:08.480
<v Speaker 1>to his space and it's like twelve red lights. You

0:54:08.560 --> 0:54:10.760
<v Speaker 1>gotta go through twelve lights to get to his house,

0:54:11.520 --> 0:54:15.440
<v Speaker 1>and all of them was green, And I told him

0:54:15.440 --> 0:54:17.520
<v Speaker 1>all of them are gonna be green. He said, that's

0:54:17.520 --> 0:54:20.080
<v Speaker 1>only happened to me one time in fifteen years. I

0:54:20.160 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, it's gonna be all green today, and they were.

0:54:24.560 --> 0:54:26.920
<v Speaker 1>If but it do be that type of ship or

0:54:27.000 --> 0:54:29.000
<v Speaker 1>even just like pulling for me, It's like it'd be

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:30.839
<v Speaker 1>simple as little ship. I'd be like, you know what,

0:54:31.600 --> 0:54:34.960
<v Speaker 1>just gonna parking space in the front every time, Like

0:54:35.239 --> 0:54:37.839
<v Speaker 1>that be for me. Every every time, like I think

0:54:37.840 --> 0:54:40.719
<v Speaker 1>about something and it goes as planned, I'm like, this

0:54:40.760 --> 0:54:42.560
<v Speaker 1>is this is all the ship for me? Like you

0:54:42.719 --> 0:54:45.600
<v Speaker 1>got the power to manifest your own destiny. So today

0:54:45.920 --> 0:54:49.160
<v Speaker 1>it's at that peak. I like it. I feel energized.

0:54:49.239 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I did my work out to David ate some mothering

0:54:52.600 --> 0:54:56.040
<v Speaker 1>salt in Venniker chips and eyes. Was that bag? I

0:54:56.160 --> 0:54:59.400
<v Speaker 1>might do me some motherfucking yoga pilates in a little bit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>up with a whole ball in your house. Uh, we

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<v Speaker 1>get the nick up out of there whatever he like

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<v Speaker 1>right now? He probably like coming over too much. Okay,

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