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Speaker 1: tuning in for a new episode if we talk back,

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Speaker 1: A show dedicated to you, niggas and knees holes. How

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Speaker 1: you doing, Tam? You sound especially southern this week. That's

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Speaker 1: giving real country girl right now. I like those terms southern. Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't call me country. I'll take either or babe. Y'all

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Speaker 1: come back now you're here? Hey, y'all is tam bam?

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Speaker 1: I love y'all? Man, I really do. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: coming back to see us. How you doing a j

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Speaker 1: I'm good man, just chilling out, trying to sell out.

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Speaker 1: The heat, thank god? Is raining a little bit now?

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Speaker 1: It seems like it rain every day. It do, but

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Speaker 1: it's good, like we need to rain. To me, feels

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Speaker 1: like a redo, a reknew, like a little fresh slate. Yes.

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Speaker 1: I like when it rains. Yeah, my friends said, sins

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Speaker 1: it rains the grass be looking at all fu green

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Speaker 1: and ship. The grass likes it. What'd you do this? Weekend.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do ship. I can't even think of one

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Speaker 1: thing eight food that I shouldn't eat. Nothing wash my

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Speaker 1: like I say, and I took a shower this weekend,

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Speaker 1: like everybody knows that. Oh, I just want to do

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Speaker 1: I am. That's what she said. I um. I flew

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Speaker 1: a friend's clothing line that's about to drop Bell Interest Clothing.

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Speaker 1: the live show, soidy. It's very cute, sexy little blazer

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Speaker 1: number with a skirt. So yeah, that's what I did.

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Speaker 1: And girl, it was how this funk out there trying

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Speaker 1: these tracks because I had clippings, girl, mistake. I should

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Speaker 1: have just braided this ship up and put them just

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Speaker 1: did you see them down? Monkey pox is popping up

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Speaker 1: any stupid internet news. What's going on. Well, this isn't

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Speaker 1: Brittney Grinder. Britney Griner was sentenced last week to nine

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Speaker 1: be vulnerable with. It's your friends you can't be vulnerable with.

423
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: Don't confuse the two is, y'all. Niggas really be somebody

424
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: different for your friends, but your woman know who exactly?

425
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: Who then are you? So now it's your friends down

426
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: to use some sh it against your ass? Because why

427
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: why would he do that? Right earth gotty? I'm looking

428
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: at him sideway and shout like I definitely would have

429
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: some money put to the side and make his ass

430
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: disappeared because I don't I don't like way, hey j

431
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: what I mean? They could be like legally make him

432
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 1: shut the funk up or permanently make him shut the

433
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: funk up, either one whatever, whatever. If I'm a millionaire,

434
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 1: just listen, just so y'all know for future reference. Y'all.

435
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: Motherfucker's let me get a b if you want to

436
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: shut up for ever, moving right home because this bit

437
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: crazy and Jemini, y'all were going to pay some bills

438
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: and we're gonna come back with our main topic. Are

439
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: you coming to the cookout? Are you bringing your nigga

440
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: to the cookout? Are not? Or is it? Is it

441
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,200
Speaker 1: even your nigga? That's what we're gonna talk about. We'll

442
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: be right back. So apparently Tam and I have a uh,

443
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: what is it? A difference in opinion? Okay when it

444
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: comes to dating oftentimes, right, And I was telling her

445
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: how I took a guy friend of mine to like

446
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: a family gathering at my dad's house and this is

447
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 1: a friend and this is how I introduced him to

448
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: my family as a friend. Now I can count on

449
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: one hand how many men I've had around my family. Right,

450
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: But I don't see a problem with bringing a nigga

451
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: to the cook out that that's not your man. I'm confused.

452
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 1: I'm not bringing no niggas to nothing at my family

453
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: house unless we're together. They don't get to be introduced

454
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: to my family if they're at my house and I

455
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: FaceTime with my mama. Don't say a word till I

456
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 1: hang up with my mama because we're not Oh, you

457
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: need to shut up, sir. So wait a minute. They

458
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: can't come to the cookout and they can't like talk

459
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: on it all. No, just be quiet because she don't

460
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: need to know who you are unless you're my man.

461
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: I just I just really don't think it's that serious,

462
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: especially when you're getting to know stages and you hanging

463
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: out with somebody. So if this is somebody I already

464
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: hang out with on the weekend, right, and then that

465
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 1: makes it different if you're talking about First of all,

466
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? You know that I haven't

467
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: had sex in years. Girl. In the beginning of the episode,

468
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: sun like a shower, Like a shower, remember, he was like,

469
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't have to miss your fucking because that's just

470
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: something I do. That's just who I am. Yeh'll see

471
00:27:50,880 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: how this miss me up here showing up lying, just lying, listen, whatever, Okay,

472
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: this is somebody, so but so what y'all can still

473
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: be like friends and this is who I want to

474
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: hang out with, and hey, I'm about to go do

475
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: this for a couple hours. Used to come come with

476
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: and the thing is that I didn't even expect him

477
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: to actually come, but he did. So I see when

478
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 1: you invite someone to meet your family, that's typically that's

479
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 1: normally a big deal. I really don't feel like that's

480
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 1: meeting and like, so people did have questions, you know,

481
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: even but I haven't seen y'all and how long? So

482
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: y'all want to know how to fun my life don't change,

483
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: like and where your bitch and where your baby daddy? Like, uh,

484
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,719
Speaker 1: this is just my friend. But see that's the questions

485
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: that I don't want to entertain. So that's why I

486
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: don't bring anybody unless it's something where I could say, yeah,

487
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: this is my man and let me let me introduce

488
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: you to my man agres. You know, I just want

489
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: to be able to say that that isn't married man,

490
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: he married. Yes, okay, here this is my man. Um

491
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: what's that finance dude from Jonathan Jonathan um majors. Yes,

492
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: this isn't playing me that that is my boyfriend. He's

493
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: whatever you too to the cook out, that's who your boyfriend?

494
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 1: Bit like he is literally, oh my god, yeah that's

495
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. That girl I just claimed him. How you

496
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: gonna when I just said, he is on my vision boards.

497
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: You see her screen saver girl as my listen listen

498
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: right next to the app the six pack, Like that's

499
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: my whole boyfriend. Girl. Look, I never heard said you

500
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: like him girl? Ever since Lovecraft Country, I've been on

501
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 1: that nigger. What's the basketball player you like? Sergery ba?

502
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: I let you have him, Okay, I leave you a

503
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: lot of he's been doing a lot of Instagram like

504
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: facial facials. He's given me too much metro lately, so

505
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,959
Speaker 1: I'm off for him. He's still fine. I let you

506
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: have him, and that's how you're gonna do me. You

507
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: can have him. I don't want that, dude. I want Johnson.

508
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: Major's a You're just so fine. Yeah he is. Y'all

509
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: know he played a Lovecraft Country and that that other movie.

510
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: Jay Z only came on Instagram to promote that The

511
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: Harder They Fall couple some months ago. Yes, he's he's

512
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: actually doing a movie with the up my old crush

513
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: from back in the day, um the one that was

514
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: with um oh girl, Steve Harvey, Darter, Oh, Michael B. Jordan.

515
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: They're doing a movie together. I saw that. That's a

516
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: masturbation festival for me. I ain't gonna at much watch

517
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: that movie out. No, I don't want to go to

518
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: the movies to see that. I got planned, sent me

519
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 1: in a whole of date night for the niggas meet

520
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: y'allathing Michael in my rooms, getting it in, and for

521
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:16,440
Speaker 1: the movie shame Goodness. But yeah, So I had one

522
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: of my friends, this is really my girlfriend, uh, my

523
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: friend real. He came to my he lives in my

524
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: building downstairs for me, and he came by my family,

525
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: came for my birthday and we got on a grill

526
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 1: and I had like so much food. So I was like, real,

527
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: you home, you know if you want to come by

528
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: and get some food, you can't. He's like, yeah, I

529
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: pull up. So he got to meet my family and

530
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: I have not brought a man around my family since

531
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: for like two thousand and sixteen. But he's just my friend.

532
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: And they just was like so confused, like they just

533
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: didn't even know how to act around niggas. My mom like,

534
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: are you gonna make his play for him? Get your

535
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: heads up and make the play for him. I was like,

536
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: my dad's not my nigga. Let him make his own food.

537
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 1: That's just my friend. Like and my dad was like,

538
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: what's up, my boy, and like just being so happy

539
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 1: because he's ready to have like a son in law

540
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 1: kind of energy. Bro, that's not that so I would

541
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: never bring another guy around unless it's something serious, because

542
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: it was ready to make him in my hood. I

543
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 1: just don't think it's that serious. I don't think it's

544
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: that serious. And I feel like you could be friends

545
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: with somebody. I think we okay, I don't know do

546
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: we do? We look too far into like things with

547
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: the opposite sex. You know what I'm saying, Like why

548
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: I can bring my home girl, but I can't bring

549
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: this this guy friend. I and I understand the sex part, right,

550
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: but if this is a good friend of mine who

551
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: I already be hanging out with, like, I don't see

552
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: the big deal. And maybe it has something more so

553
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: to do with me because I also one of my uncles.

554
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: And then my cousin had asked me something at the cookout, right,

555
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 1: Other than that, my daddy ain't asked me ship. You

556
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like he's been around my mom,

557
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 1: but my mom gonna be asking me because I he's

558
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: my friend, that's it, your your special friend whatever, he's

559
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: my fucking friends. But everybody in the family, even if

560
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: they don't ask you any questions, they're gonna be like,

561
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: that's your nigga and the head. That's not true, though,

562
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: I think it depends on me, Like they're not just

563
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: bringing they're not used to you bringing dudes around, not

564
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: saying like I just be bringing all the type of

565
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: niggas around my family because it's just not niggas. But

566
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: I don't think they know me like that to even

567
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: question me because I've been away for a long time.

568
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: So now when I come to come intent, like when

569
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm now in town and I do like family ship,

570
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: they probably don't know how to take me either. So

571
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: what's the energy like? And then you also have to

572
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: look at the energy that y'all sharing with each Did

573
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: you make his plate for him? We was eating crabs, Like, yeah,

574
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: I got whatever he needed while he was there, because

575
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 1: that I mean, that's also like even if you bring

576
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: your home girl, like your home girl don't like to

577
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: get up and get their own food. Family don't be

578
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: bringing me ship. You don't bring me ship. When have

579
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: you been when have you ever been in like like

580
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: whenever you went about it, you are clearly you dude

581
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: be doing ship. You just had a crab ball where

582
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: he was making that nig plate. First of all, the

583
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: crabs dumped on the table and everybody go eat crabs. Like,

584
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: I don't have to do much, but like getting him

585
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: a drink or something like that. Yeah, you wouldn't have

586
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: got me. No, let's be real, you wouldn't have got

587
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: me a drinker. You would have appointed me to where

588
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: the drink said. That's that's not true. First of all,

589
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: I am, I serve people, so I went. I know

590
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: that sometimes people are uncomfortable in front of other people's

591
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 1: families and friend and ship like that. So I wouldn't

592
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: put you in an awkward position to have to get

593
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: up and do things for yourself when you may not

594
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: be comfortable doing that. Me, on the other hand, I

595
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: mean your fucking mama refrigerator, Like I'm comfortable. Like if

596
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: you say I can do, I'm going to, especially when

597
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: it come to food. Yeah, I just saw me in

598
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,280
Speaker 1: the right direction. Look, I just saw a post online.

599
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: It was like a video and it was like these

600
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: two black guys and then the dude bringing up late

601
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,359
Speaker 1: the food and it was like how you act when

602
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: somebody bringing you a plate of food, like looking around like, oh,

603
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,879
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were feeding me. I'm like, nah,

604
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:08,879
Speaker 1: I'm the type that's gonna meet you with the plate, bitch.

605
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: So you don't gotta walk too far. But I'm never

606
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: afraid to be myself in any setting, but some people are,

607
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 1: so I would always if I bring somebody around my people,

608
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure they're good man or a woman.

609
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: M hmm. Okay, So yes, I was making a nigga drink,

610
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: getting him some water if he needs to, instead of

611
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: him going When people see you doing that, I don't

612
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,840
Speaker 1: care because guess what, I can bring another nigga in

613
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: next week, like next It's really not that it's not

614
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: that serious to me though there's no other nigga for

615
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: me to bring just in case. But that's like you

616
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: minimize the dynamic that you have with them. Man. No,

617
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. Okay, No, I don't. I don't

618
00:35:56,160 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: think I'm minimizing it. It's just that I think a lot.

619
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: I think for what black women, we need to watch

620
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: our attachment issues. We need to live in a moment

621
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 1: more with relationships. Understand the older you get, you start

622
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 1: you know, looking at uh, your fertility, all these different

623
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: things we start calculating right when we're dating and the

624
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: older you get and you're single and all these different things.

625
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: But you have to take some situations for whatever it is.

626
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: So like I said, that's my friend, Okay, I'm not

627
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: trying to force him into a relationship by taking him

628
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: around my damn family. Yeah, you know, because if he

629
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 1: do the same thing, he would expect me to not

630
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,800
Speaker 1: feel like that either, But some women would if if

631
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: a man you take me to meet his mom, your mama,

632
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: we try to gather together, and I'm gonna go together together.

633
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 1: But the nigga mom and I met five bitches this year,

634
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: Like you're not even special, like you think, yes I am.

635
00:36:56,200 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: Don't tell me that. This is why I don't funk

636
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: with mama's right now, Okay, because moms to be lying

637
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: like they need your mama, that that means something because

638
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm so good with mama's. Like if I'm not good

639
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: at anything else, I'm so good with moms. Oh my god,

640
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: I'm the queen of finesse and mama's. So you think

641
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: finesse and the mom is like getting like your way

642
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: to the man's heart kinda is that why you do it.

643
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: I don't Uh, it might be a you know, last

644
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: week episode, a little bit manipulation here, Honestly, honestly, I

645
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 1: just if I love a guy, I want his mom

646
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 1: to love me too, Honestly, that's really. If I really

647
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: like this man, I want his mom to like me

648
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,760
Speaker 1: just as much. It depends. Your mama have to be married,

649
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 1: your mom have to have a man because if it's problem, yeah,

650
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: because those are the hardest wants to win. But I'm

651
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: not trying, Like I feel like, if somebody's family makes

652
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 1: it hard for me, I'm just not working with them.

653
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: I'm not ever battling anybody's family. Remember again, I've done it.

654
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 1: I would kill him with kindness, Like it's gonna be

655
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: like if you really just if you act like you

656
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 1: don't like me, you just a hater at this point

657
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: because I've been so nice to you, Like, there's no

658
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 1: reason not to remember this one guy. I won't say

659
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: who it is because y'all would know him if I

660
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:25,359
Speaker 1: said it. We used to. This is years ago, and

661
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 1: we were seeing each other and his mom came to

662
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: visit for the summer, and I swear his mama called

663
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 1: me every day to take her to Walmart. And I

664
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: used to think like them, you couldn't have got that

665
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: ship yesterday. But I would take her as every single

666
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: day to Walmart. It never failed. She called me and

667
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: I like, and she would pray for me on the phone,

668
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,240
Speaker 1: and then I come get her, take her to Walmart,

669
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: drop her off. It if I never go in with her,

670
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: and I just drop her off at the front door,

671
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: and I watched the door to wait for her to

672
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 1: be at the front door again. And I picked her

673
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: up from the front door and then take her back

674
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: to the house and she come out with like an

675
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: apple or something like bullshit, Like it would just be

676
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: like she didn't want to get out the house, yeah, something,

677
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: and she just wanted to hang out and get out

678
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: of the house. But I would take her every day.

679
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,320
Speaker 1: And that's back when I didn't have a lot of responsibility, honestly,

680
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: because right now I had the uber her ass. I

681
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: couldn't give her that much time now. But and she

682
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,879
Speaker 1: loved me, like I probably could call her right now

683
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: to pray with me and she would. Yeah. You know,

684
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: if I can't smack your sister, I just don't want

685
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: to be with you no more. What toxic? If I

686
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 1: can't smack your mama. I don't think we should. Why

687
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 1: do you want Why do you want to smack somebody mama?

688
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: Because adults be needing, Nate asked, whoop. Sometimes even mama's

689
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 1: even want to even on my side, but they don't, stupid,

690
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: I don't have mama's on my side. I have had

691
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: a mom on my side too, and she's a real

692
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: family member to me, and so is their son, so

693
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: like that's my family at this point, we're not, you know,

694
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: ain't nothing like that. But that's the only mom I

695
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: ever liked. And then you know nigga who ain't got

696
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 1: no mom? I liked them too. I did have a

697
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: one relationship where his mom she was always on his

698
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: side no matter what. But she did like me and

699
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 1: she was always nice to me, but she definitely took

700
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 1: her son's side on everything. And I used to be like,

701
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: are you really listening to the facts? And he would

702
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: call her every time we got That's how I was

703
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 1: about to say, like why why are you even discussing

704
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: what's going on with the mom? Like what the fun?

705
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: Because he would call her every time for advice, and

706
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: then she would call me to have a conversation with

707
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: me because she's just trying to help us have an

708
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: amicobal relations amicable relationship. That was her word. No, I

709
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 1: don't need your mom and my business. And it used

710
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: to be like a lot of things, I'd be like,

711
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: do you hear yourself? Like you sound crazy? Because you

712
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: know what type of relationship is she? And with the

713
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: father with his dad? Because are you in a relationship

714
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: with a narcissist? Are you in a relationship? Was she

715
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: even in a relationship and getting very much single? Yeah?

716
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: I don't got No. I can't take no advice from you, ma'am.

717
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: I'll take marriage advice from married people, and I'll take

718
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: relationship advice from you know people, I mean dating advice

719
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: from people who out here actually dating. I don't want

720
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: no marriage, uh, no dating advice from nobody who's been

721
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: married for fifteen years. You don't even know what the

722
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: hell going on out here right now, right, And I

723
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: don't want no relationship advice from somebody who's not in

724
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: an a successful relationship or marriage, right. I agree, Yeah,

725
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: because you're gonna be coming with all your trauma and

726
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: maybe maybe what you would have done differently, But I'm

727
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: not dealing with the same man that you might have

728
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: been dealing with. It could be all type of things.

729
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I'm taking friends to the cookouts.

730
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm taking friends to people to places with me. I am,

731
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: you can't come to my ship. I am I bring

732
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: you a play after this over. I don't. I just

733
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: really don't see the big deal. I don't. I don't

734
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 1: want you to meet my parents until not just my parents,

735
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: my sister. It's not that what y'all think. Y'all hit

736
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: us up. Let us know. Is it that serious? Meeting

737
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: a man's family on some regular that's my friend, even

738
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: if y'all kicking it intimately, Like, what's the big deal

739
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: with meeting the family and friends? Like I like to

740
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: meet new people? Maybe that's my thing. I like to

741
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: meet new people. I like. I definitely like, like, you know,

742
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: cookouts and house parties. I like that over a club

743
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: any day. So yeah, you can invite me, but I'm

744
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,280
Speaker 1: not going. What about a round of guy and his friends?

745
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: So is that not that's the same thing, Like a

746
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 1: guy invites you out with him and his homeboys and

747
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 1: the couples, like a couple of things. I could do

748
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: that if it's not, If it's if it's super new. No,

749
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: I ain't. I barely know you. I don't want to

750
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 1: know your friends if I feel like that's the part

751
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: of getting to know somebody, trying to see Like, so

752
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 1: this guy, his family isn't here, but I would want

753
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: to know how is his family. I would want to

754
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: know that, because what if we do get serious, I

755
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: didn't know if you came from a fucked up family

756
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: or not. Right, So I agree there, but we would

757
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: have to be headed toward that direction first. I would

758
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,919
Speaker 1: have to know if I want head there without knowing

759
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:38,359
Speaker 1: your family background. No more, I don't. I don't want

760
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: to head there because what happens is like you head there,

761
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: now you're there, right, and then you're having all these

762
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,439
Speaker 1: behavioral issues out this motherfucking now you got to now

763
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: you now you finally see mama and whoever else is like, oh,

764
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 1: this is why. But had you met them earlier on,

765
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: it would have saved you some time and your insurance

766
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: if I like to you know, I come from a

767
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: crazy family, you know, and I just don't want people

768
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, let me go meet her family

769
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: and determine who she is because of how they are.

770
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 1: Because my family of the chain, you know, like they

771
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: of the change. So I don't want I can't. I

772
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: don't want to use that as my determining factor, not

773
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: saying that I come from a bad family and my

774
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: family is great and everybody's like funny, you're gonna laugh

775
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: your ass off. But there is a little element, a

776
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: little coop, you know. I mean, that's all families. I

777
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: feel like that's kind of like the dynamic across the board.

778
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,359
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I need to see how you

779
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: interact with your daddy, how you interact with your mama

780
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: like that. That's really what I'm looking for. I'm not

781
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: really even looking for like interaction with the siblings and stuff,

782
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: you know. I want to see that though. I want

783
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: to see Yeah, I want to see that. But once

784
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: we're determining that this is getting serious and this could

785
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: be something real. But prior to that, no, no, thank you,

786
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: and the friend thing, like you don't even want to

787
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: take me around your friends to early, because if we're

788
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: just getting to know each other and we need smash it,

789
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: I might leave you for one of your homeboys. You know.

790
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: If we had sex yet and we and we're hanging out,

791
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: we're actually just friends at this point, right, friends? All right?

792
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 1: So how you listen? How do how do you pull

793
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: that out home? Let's go to break right quick. And

794
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: then I want to hear how we would apply that

795
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: in a situation. Y'all. We'll be right back, okay, damm, Like,

796
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 1: I know we joke about this type of ship all

797
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: the time, but what's the application for this? Okay? Like,

798
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: you meet a guy, y'all kicking in y'all haven't had

799
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: you haven't been intimate yet? You go, I don't know,

800
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 1: maybe he invites you out do bowling with his friends.

801
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 1: They do this every Saturday night. Whatever. Girl friends, home, girls, whoever,

802
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: everybody else. You get to pick somebody else though there's

803
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: somebody else there? How how do you go about doing that? Like?

804
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: How do you say? I would I would never be

805
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 1: the aggressor. Honestly, they would have to like come at me.

806
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 1: And if I'm not feeling in you, Like Jeffrey, he's cool,

807
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: but here's uh Andre over here, and Andre is like

808
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: making me laughing if he's you know, more entertaining me

809
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: than Jeffrey. And then he comes around and sliding my

810
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: d m S. I might holler at Andre, I might

811
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: I never fucked Jeffrey. We just went on a date.

812
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: You know, I don't owe Jeffrey ship. We already know

813
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 1: men think pussy they never even have before is on

814
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: reserve for them. So you know you'll still be a

815
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 1: hole in Jeffrey's eyes. Right, Well, ho ho ho, Merry Christmas.

816
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: I don't getting about that now. If we if if

817
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: Jeffrey and I slept together, then okay, all his friends

818
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: are off limits. I don't want that type of stigma.

819
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: But we did nothing. You're just somebody I hung out with.

820
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,839
Speaker 1: Switch right, Are you gonna automatically start trying to hook

821
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: Jeffrey up with somebody else? You know, I got a

822
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,479
Speaker 1: good friend for you. You know, honestly, if I think

823
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: there's someone that Jeffrey might get along with better than

824
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: me and vibe with, like definitely, why not If he

825
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: would be up to it. He might be salty with me,

826
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 1: you know, fucking bitch with my homeboy, But if you

827
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: are a real decent dude, he probably wouldn't, you know,

828
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: And you know it just depends. Yeah, I don't know

829
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 1: that I've ever been in that situation or like picked

830
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: somebody else over the friend. But listen, yeah, like if

831
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: it hasn't happened. I might not be the aggressor. I

832
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: might not be at the bowling alley like walking up

833
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: to your homeboy like that. I like you, Yeah, but

834
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: if your own boy don't give a funk about you

835
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 1: or jumping my dad and d MS or something. Oh,

836
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: it's on so general. Consisus a j It don't mean nothing, Like,

837
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 1: don't take it too serious. If she invites you to

838
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: the family cook out. Let's be clear. I like you

839
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: a lot, and I want to hang out with you

840
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: and my family. Like what with me, I'm gonna be

841
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 1: expecting a ring at some time in the near future.

842
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: You mean my daddy, Ni, we better be getting married

843
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: next year. That's that's the type of time. You know.

844
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: My daddy is so cool, Like I love my daddy

845
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: so much. My daddy don't ask me ship you hear me.

846
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: He ain't getting excited like like hes gonna be like, yeah,

847
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 1: I'm drone like that and that, like just regularly like

848
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: just nice, good people. That's it. That's all. I've really

849
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: got to find somebody because when real was there, my

850
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 1: daddy was just because all right, my family is nothing

851
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: but women. It's a bunch of women. It's no guys.

852
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: The guys that were in my family someone had passed

853
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: away jail, you know, the things that happened to black

854
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: So there are not very many black men left in

855
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: my family. So when Real came over, my daddy was

856
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 1: just let's go upstairs to the roof or shoot spool

857
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: real like. He was just so excited to have like

858
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: some male energy in the room. So and then my

859
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: sister and my older sister, she a lesbian soul. She

860
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: with a woman like it's nothing but bitches. So I

861
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 1: really need to find a guy to bring home and

862
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: take serious. But it won't be probably till even if

863
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: I meet you today, it won't be till three Christmas

864
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: until you get that invite. Niket terrible, that's terrible. I

865
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I think I just feel like

866
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 1: this is a that's a part of dating. For me.

867
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: It's a part of dating, and that's all we're doing.

868
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: We're just kicking it with dating. We have fun together.

869
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 1: We laugh, We laugh most of the time. So if

870
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: this's who I like to laugh with, why can't laugh

871
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: with him and my other my people? That's all. It

872
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: ain't that serious. I think women we should just enjoy

873
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 1: the moment something times, you know, and just y'all saw

874
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: with uh, Laura London, you know, just just experiencing people.

875
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,879
Speaker 1: I'm into that. I'm into experiencing people. I don't want

876
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: to own nobody. You're free, You're free to move about

877
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:18,439
Speaker 1: the country. I'm a Gemini. I definitely like to be

878
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: motherfucking independent while in a relationship. And so is this

879
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: guy here gemini too, So it's just like, yeah, don't

880
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,240
Speaker 1: don't stress me. I'll about some ship. I won't stress

881
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: you out. It's not that serious. So I feel like

882
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: those be like the best relationships like friends. No, m

883
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: it's too much pressure. I feel like we put too

884
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 1: much pressure on each other in relationships, and I don't

885
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: want to pressure anybody into anything in life. Yeah, I do.

886
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: I think my last guy, I definitely, uh, you know,

887
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: let him know how big of a deal it was

888
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: for him to meet my family. So by the time

889
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: I did invite him to meet my family, he has

890
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: so much anxiety about it, Like and then when he

891
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: shook my daddy hand, like he didn't look my daddy

892
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: in the eyes and stuff, and I was like, oh,

893
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 1: I'll never marry you. I had decided right then Wow,

894
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: why are you're not looking my daddy in the eyes

895
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: when you're talking to him? Wow? Was that tripping? Is

896
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: that too? No? I mean no, but I mean maybe listen,

897
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: you needed to have Maybe you should have done that earlier.

898
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 1: Maybe he should have met your daddy sooner. You could

899
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: have been the relationship earlier. Like, if that's really all

900
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: it took, you didn't know. Now that's saying it. But

901
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: I like people who just be cool. They could be

902
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: in any setting. They're just chilling everybody like them. You

903
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,319
Speaker 1: can't be like scared, go find that out? How do

904
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: you find that out? Yeah? But I mean, like, still,

905
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:52,720
Speaker 1: you need to be serious. We need to be serious.

906
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 1: I kid, just bringing around my daddy. I don't think

907
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 1: it's that serious. I'd be listening. I like, this is

908
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: this is why all the people that I like, I

909
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 1: love when they are all in the same place. I

910
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: guess so much joy Like when this set of friends

911
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: is around, this set of friends, like, I'd be so

912
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:11,319
Speaker 1: happy that all my favorite people like together. That's fun

913
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: for me. Meanwhile, y'all, I have been invited to ship

914
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: girl white been ats? Where what have I been doing? Like, like,

915
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: you want to come up with me and this nigga

916
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: I like crabs that line. All right, So y'all we're

917
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 1: nearing the end of the show obviously, and I just

918
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:36,959
Speaker 1: wanted to remind everybody that, uh, it is currently uh

919
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: the Lion's Gate Portal portal open between like either I think, um,

920
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: it's at its peak today. So obviously our show is

921
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: all pre recorded. So today is August eighth, okay, this week,

922
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 1: so the portal is at its peak today. So any

923
00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: magic anything you want to manifest, uh, you want to

924
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: meditate on on you know, some more uh being abundant anything,

925
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: this is what you want to do today, right, and

926
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 1: it's the gate is going to be the portals open

927
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: no today to eight today. Well, they ain't gonna here

928
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: this till I understand. He's not gonna here till Thursday.

929
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,240
Speaker 1: But if you let me finish what I'm saying, then

930
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: we can. I can, I could wrap it up. Okay.

931
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: So the portal the portals open from they of July

932
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 1: through August the twelfth, right, which is Friday, So you

933
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: have they still have time, you know what I'm saying,

934
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: to do any magic manifestation they want to do, just

935
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 1: do some research research on um um the lions Gate.

936
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: So it's uh leo the moon is in leo um

937
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: right now, Okay, so just look it up. It's just

938
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: a magical time of the year. It happens every time

939
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 1: I think I manifested some magic. Today my friend me

940
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: and him rode out to look at some pretty u

941
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: uh in Edgewood and we was on the way back

942
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: to his space and it's like twelve red lights. You

943
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 1: gotta go through twelve lights to get to his house,

944
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 1: and all of them was green, And I told him

945
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: all of them are gonna be green. He said, that's

946
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: only happened to me one time in fifteen years. I

947
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: was like, it's gonna be all green today, and they were.

948
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 1: If but it do be that type of ship or

949
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: even just like pulling for me, It's like it'd be

950
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 1: simple as little ship. I'd be like, you know what,

951
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 1: just gonna parking space in the front every time, Like

952
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: that be for me. Every every time, like I think

953
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: about something and it goes as planned, I'm like, this

954
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: is this is all the ship for me? Like you

955
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: got the power to manifest your own destiny. So today

956
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: it's at that peak. I like it. I feel energized.

957
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: I did my work out to David ate some mothering

958
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 1: salt in Venniker chips and eyes. Was that bag? I

959
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: might do me some motherfucking yoga pilates in a little bit. Okay,

960
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:02,280
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961
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,560
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966
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Speaker 1: coming season. We know a lot of y'all gonna end

967
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Speaker 1: up with a whole ball in your house. Uh, we

968
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Speaker 1: need some assistance. Was that like we can try to

969
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: get the nick up out of there whatever he like

970
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: right now? He probably like coming over too much. Okay,

971
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972
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977
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