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Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who

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Speaker 1: talk back.

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Speaker 2: Hey y'all, what's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 2: for a new episode of We Talk Back, a show

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Speaker 2: dedicated to you niggas and these hoes. How you doing, Tam?

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Speaker 2: You sound especially southern this week. It's giving real country

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Speaker 2: girl right now. I like the term southern. Okay, don't

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Speaker 2: call me country. I'll take either or, babe. Y'all come

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Speaker 2: back now, you hear? Hey, y'all, it's Tam Bam. I

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Speaker 2: love y'all, man. I really do. Thank you for coming

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Speaker 2: back to see us. How you doing, AJ? I'm good, man.

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Speaker 2: Just chilling out, trying to stay out the heat. Thank

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Speaker 2: God it's raining a little bit now. It seem like

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Speaker 2: it rain every day. It do, but it's good. Like,

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Speaker 2: we need to... Rain to me feels like a redo,

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Speaker 2: a renew, like a little fresh. A cleanse. Yes. I

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Speaker 2: like when it rains. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: My friend said sinners don't get no rain. That's why

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Speaker 1: Las Vegas stays so dry.

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Speaker 2: That might be true. I don't know. I like when

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Speaker 2: it rains. The grass be looking all fucking green and shit.

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Speaker 2: The grass likes it. What'd you do this weekend? I

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Speaker 2: didn't do shit. I can't even think of one thing.

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Speaker 2: Eat food that I shouldn't eat? Nothing. Wash my car?

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Speaker 2: Got some penis? Well, I'm going to do that anyway.

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Speaker 2: That's just how I get down. That's just how I

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Speaker 2: do it. I'm going to do that anyway. That's just

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Speaker 2: how I do. Is that how I go?

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Speaker 1: Saying I got penis this weekend is like I saying

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Speaker 1: I took a shower this weekend.

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows I did that. Oh, I was going to

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Speaker 2: do that anyway because that's just how I do it. Oh,

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Speaker 2: that's just how I am. That's what she said. Hello, TT.

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Speaker 1: I flew to Atlanta this weekend to do a photo

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Speaker 1: shoot for a friend's clothing line that's about to drop

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Speaker 1: Belle Aris clothing.

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Speaker 2: It's exciting. I'm going to wear one of her pieces

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Speaker 2: for the live show. I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: It's a very cute, sexy little blazer number with a skirt, so... Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what I did. And girl, it was hot as

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Speaker 1: fuck out there trying to take pictures and be sexy

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Speaker 2: And it's 96.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, my silk press, baby. That back of my neck,

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Speaker 1: it was an afro under these tracks.

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Speaker 2: Because I had clip-ins. Girl, mistake.

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Speaker 1: I should have just braided this shit up and just

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Speaker 2: My real hair was swelling like a mug.

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Speaker 1: The hairstylist kept having to, like, pull me to the

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Speaker 1: side and, like, reflatter my hair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Heat damage. Damn. Yeah. But other than that, it

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Speaker 2: was a great experience, though. It was fun. What's the

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Speaker 2: name of the clothing line again? Belle Aris Clothing. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I think it dropped.

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Speaker 1: The actual release date is August 20th. She's got some

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Speaker 1: cute pieces, y'all, so be on the lookout for that.

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Speaker 2: Ew. We like the black women in business, okay? Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I brought all these little outfits to wear to the club.

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Speaker 2: Auntie didn't go nowhere all weekend. Bitch, you see them

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Speaker 2: damn monkey pox popping up in Atlanta. You better stay

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Speaker 2: your ass in the house and sanitize everything you touch.

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Speaker 1: They keep talking about monkey poxes all over the place,

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Speaker 1: but I ain't seen one monkey yet.

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Speaker 2: Nowhere girl he's got their monkeys out here child please

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Speaker 2: plenty of them I ain't seen no monkey running around

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Speaker 2: Atlanta yet so I don't know anyway child stupid internet

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Speaker 2: news what's going on well this isn't really stupid and

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Speaker 2: out some super duper love and light to Brittany Griner

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Speaker 2: Brittany Griner was sentenced last week to nine and a

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Speaker 2: half years for a little under a gram of THC oil. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: THC oil. I just be out here with my shit.

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Speaker 2: right quick. But we aren't in Russia. Right. In America,

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Speaker 2: we have that luxury. We have recreational. We have medicinal purposes.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, she got caught up back in... February, right

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Speaker 2: I feel like she was targeted. Because I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 2: she does that all the time.

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Speaker 2: Did you know that? Yeah, you told me about that

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Speaker 2: before as an exchange student, right?

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Speaker 1: I was an exchange student in Ukraine, and my mama

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Speaker 2: I just told her how old I am. Fuck. Bitch,

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Speaker 2: I always tell how old I am, so they know, okay?

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Speaker 2: same age. Cut it out. Anyway, back to the story.

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Speaker 1: As soon as I got off the plane, y'all, and

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Speaker 2: Never see black like this. Can I touch? She never

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Speaker 1: And she was like all up in my face trying

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Speaker 2: Get the fuck off me, bitch. What you trying to do?

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Speaker 2: Like personal space. I think that's one of the curses

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Speaker 2: with social media is that we have now given a

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Speaker 2: need it and would not have had it. Okay. So

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Speaker 2: now they get to really like put us under a microscope,

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: And that's even worse as far as I'm concerned. Right.

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Speaker 2: what other... And I don't give a fuck who get mad, okay?

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Speaker 2: But what other group of black... Excuse me. What other

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Speaker 2: group of men do you see, like, twerking on social media? Well,

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Speaker 2: I mean, culturally, twerking is a black thing, so... You

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Speaker 2: What other group of men? So the way that we're

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Speaker 2: doesn't represent us as a whole. It just doesn't. The

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Speaker 2: And it's nothing wrong.

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Speaker 1: I used to watch Love & Hip Hop, faithfully. I

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Speaker 1: target audience. But that is a part of it. That's

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Speaker 1: the subculture within the culture, right? But there's so much

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Speaker 2: Put on TV. And I just feel like that's what's

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Speaker 2: dominating right now. Yeah, but... But back to Brittany Griner, like, man,

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Speaker 2: I just, I was so, like, when I saw the

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Speaker 2: a slap on the wrist. but like not nine and

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Speaker 2: to be a swap. But you know, in February, they

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Speaker 2: swapped this Trevor, I forgot his last name, but he

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Speaker 2: to compare like her drug charge In Russia, in comparison

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Speaker 2: it's just not the same. You cannot compare a U.S.

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Speaker 2: The shit is not as inhumane as fuck. They said

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Speaker 2: get sentenced for drugs. That's what they said. So there's

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Speaker 2: having to do time at this particular facility. Wow, that's

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Speaker 2: so scary. It's scary. So it's not the same. You

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? I understand who the fuck y'all

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Speaker 2: Y'all voted for him and he didn't do shit he

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Speaker 1: Of these motherfuckers do shit they say they gonna do.

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Speaker 2: Do. You can't compare what's happening over here to some

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Speaker 2: Y'all just stand in solidarity with Brittany Griner. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to hear nobody saying, oh, she knew better. How

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Speaker 2: many times over here y'all trying to say free, free

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Speaker 2: such and such when y'all know he a cold-blooded motherfucking killer.

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Speaker 2: But y'all still saying free him. But when it comes

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Speaker 2: to a black woman that you can't fuck. Right. It's

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Speaker 2: fuck her. Somebody can fuck her. You know, like maybe

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Speaker 2: not no dudes. That's, yeah, a woman. I'm talking about men.

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Speaker 2: It's the men that I'm seeing that's saying, oh, she

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Speaker 2: knew better. You know what I'm saying? Oh, yeah. It's

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Speaker 2: not women that I'm seeing that's saying that. So I don't, don't,

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Speaker 2: it's no justification for the treatment that she's receiving. It's

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Speaker 2: just not. No. So I hope she comes home soon.

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Speaker 2: I feel like she's coming home soon. Very soon. I

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Speaker 2: feel that way. Me too.

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Speaker 1: And I'm praying for her because, have you ever seen

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Speaker 1: that movie Broken Down Palace? Yes.

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Speaker 2: If y'all guys are.

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Speaker 1: A movie buff, it's a really good movie called Broken

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Speaker 1: Down Palace and it's about these actually two white girls

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Speaker 1: he used them as drug decoys so he could take.

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Speaker 2: A whole bunch of drugs where he was trying to go.

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Speaker 2: Was that based on a true story? Yes. I feel

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Speaker 2: like I saw it. I feel like I've seen it before.

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Speaker 1: And these girls took his backpack and they got caught

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Speaker 1: with this amount of drugs. And now they're in like,

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Speaker 1: Because if she was fat and ugly now with a

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00:23:41,570 --> 00:23:43,110
Speaker 1: bunch of kids, he wouldn't have.

426
00:23:43,050 --> 00:23:45,910
Speaker 2: Mentioned her ass on the show. Not at all. Not

427
00:23:45,930 --> 00:23:47,690
Speaker 2: at all. It kills me.

428
00:23:47,750 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: All right, so if a woman is dealing with a

429
00:23:49,780 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: married man and she comes out and says anything about it,

430
00:23:53,690 --> 00:23:56,189
Speaker 1: then they're like, uh-uh, you was okay with it, so

431
00:23:56,230 --> 00:23:58,230
Speaker 1: you should have kept your mouth closed. But if a

432
00:23:58,290 --> 00:24:00,709
Speaker 1: man does it, nobody's giving him that same, like, why

433
00:24:00,730 --> 00:24:03,189
Speaker 1: are you telling on her? Like, shut your fucking mouth too.

434
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 2: Yes, Chatty Patty. Shut up, Chatty Patty. He's really, he really,

435
00:24:10,660 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 2: the interview was like three and a half hours. I

436
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,740
Speaker 2: haven't started listening to it yet, so I've only seen

437
00:24:14,820 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 2: like the little clickbait stuff that's online, but I even

438
00:24:17,260 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: saw a clip where he basically said that Jay-Z would

439
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 2: periodically ask him if DMX was better than him back

440
00:24:25,700 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 2: in the day. Like as a rapper? Yes. Yes. Why

441
00:24:33,500 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 2: would you tell that? That's something somebody asked you like

442
00:24:36,500 --> 00:24:39,619
Speaker 2: in confidence. You know what I'm saying? What's up?

443
00:24:39,900 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 1: Wait, so Jay-Z asked if Irv Gotti thought that DMX

444
00:24:43,180 --> 00:24:44,260
Speaker 1: was better than Jay-Z?

445
00:24:44,700 --> 00:24:51,689
Speaker 2: Yes, better than him. Yeah. Yeah. So this goes back to, nigga,

446
00:24:51,850 --> 00:24:54,470
Speaker 2: it's not me you can't be vulnerable with. It's your

447
00:24:54,570 --> 00:24:57,910
Speaker 2: friends you can't be vulnerable with. Don't confuse the two.

448
00:24:57,930 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 2: Because y'all niggas really be, you know, somebody different for

449
00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:05,100
Speaker 2: your friends. But your woman know exactly who the fuck

450
00:25:05,140 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 2: you are. Who you are. So now it's your friends

451
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,100
Speaker 2: that'll use some shit against your ass. Because why? Why

452
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,330
Speaker 2: would he do that? Right. Irv Gotti, I'm looking at

453
00:25:13,369 --> 00:25:16,450
Speaker 2: him sideways, child. Like, ugh. I definitely would have some

454
00:25:16,490 --> 00:25:18,470
Speaker 2: money put to the side to make his ass disappear

455
00:25:18,490 --> 00:25:25,170
Speaker 2: because I don't like that. Wait, AJ. What? What? I mean,

456
00:25:25,210 --> 00:25:27,260
Speaker 2: it could be like legally make him shut the fuck

457
00:25:27,380 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 2: up or permanently make him shut the fuck up. Either one, whichever, whichever.

458
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,340
Speaker 2: If I'm a millionaire, just listen, just so y'all know

459
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: for future reference, y'all motherfuckers let me get a B

460
00:25:37,500 --> 00:25:40,899
Speaker 2: if you want to. It's going to be shut the

461
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 2: fuck up forever. for a lot of people. Moving right

462
00:25:45,290 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 2: on because this bitch crazy, Gemini.

463
00:25:47,590 --> 00:25:49,590
Speaker 1: Y'all, we're going to pay some bills and we're going

464
00:25:49,609 --> 00:25:52,170
Speaker 1: to come back with our main topic. Are you coming

465
00:25:52,190 --> 00:25:54,790
Speaker 1: to the cookout? Are you bringing your nigga to the cookout?

466
00:25:55,470 --> 00:25:55,870
Speaker 2: Or not?

467
00:25:56,290 --> 00:25:59,209
Speaker 1: Or is it even your nigga? That's what we're going

468
00:25:59,230 --> 00:26:01,930
Speaker 1: to talk about. We'll be right back.

469
00:26:05,130 --> 00:26:10,470
Speaker 2: So, apparently Tam and I have a what is it?

470
00:26:10,540 --> 00:26:16,780
Speaker 2: A difference An opinion, okay? When it comes to dating, oftentimes, right?

471
00:26:18,340 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 2: And I was telling her how I took a guy

472
00:26:20,940 --> 00:26:23,679
Speaker 2: friend of mine to like a family gathering at my

473
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 2: dad's house. And this is a friend. And this is

474
00:26:26,660 --> 00:26:30,500
Speaker 2: how I introduced him to my family as a friend. Now,

475
00:26:30,660 --> 00:26:32,940
Speaker 2: I could count on one hand how many men I've

476
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,740
Speaker 2: had around my family, right? But I don't see a

477
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,899
Speaker 2: problem with bringing a nigga to the cookout. That's not

478
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,869
Speaker 2: your man. I'm confused.

479
00:26:43,010 --> 00:26:46,409
Speaker 1: I'm not bringing no niggas to nothing at my family

480
00:26:46,450 --> 00:26:50,380
Speaker 1: house unless we're together. They don't get to be introduced

481
00:26:50,420 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 1: to my family. If they're at my house and I

482
00:26:52,900 --> 00:26:56,940
Speaker 1: FaceTime with my mama, shh. Don't say a word until

483
00:26:56,980 --> 00:26:58,060
Speaker 1: I hang up with my mama.

484
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:06,350
Speaker 2: What? No, you need to shut up, sir. Wait a minute.

485
00:27:06,380 --> 00:27:09,170
Speaker 2: They can't come to the cookout and they can't talk

486
00:27:09,210 --> 00:27:12,250
Speaker 2: on the phone. No, just be quiet because she don't

487
00:27:12,270 --> 00:27:13,990
Speaker 2: need to know who you are unless you my man.

488
00:27:14,010 --> 00:27:17,930
Speaker 2: I just really don't think it's that serious, especially when

489
00:27:17,950 --> 00:27:21,070
Speaker 2: you in the getting to know stages and you hanging

490
00:27:21,109 --> 00:27:23,270
Speaker 2: out with somebody. So if this is somebody I already

491
00:27:23,310 --> 00:27:26,210
Speaker 2: hang out with on the weekend, right? But you fucking know.

492
00:27:26,850 --> 00:27:30,130
Speaker 2: That makes it different. What are you talking about? First

493
00:27:30,170 --> 00:27:33,510
Speaker 2: of all, what are you talking about? I haven't had

494
00:27:33,590 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 2: sex in years. What are you talking about? Girl, in

495
00:27:36,100 --> 00:27:38,380
Speaker 2: the beginning of the episode, you said you fuck like

496
00:27:38,420 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: a shower. What? Like a shower?

497
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,340
Speaker 1: Remember, you was like, I don't have to mention fucking

498
00:27:44,380 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: because that's just something I do.

499
00:27:46,060 --> 00:27:51,500
Speaker 2: That's just who I am. Y'all see how this bitch

500
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 2: be up here showing up? Lying. Just lying. Listen. Oh, goodness.

501
00:28:05,700 --> 00:28:09,460
Speaker 2: whatever okay this is somebody so but so what y'all

502
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 2: can still be like friends and this is who I

503
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 2: want to hang out with and hey I'm about to

504
00:28:13,940 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 2: go do this for a couple hours you should come

505
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,610
Speaker 2: come with and the thing is that I didn't even

506
00:28:18,670 --> 00:28:23,070
Speaker 2: expect him to actually come but he did so it

507
00:28:23,090 --> 00:28:26,610
Speaker 2: was cool but see when you invite someone to meet

508
00:28:26,650 --> 00:28:31,490
Speaker 2: your family that's typically that's normally a big deal I

509
00:28:31,510 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 2: really don't feel like that's meeting and like so people

510
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,419
Speaker 2: did have questions you know at the event but I

511
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,550
Speaker 2: haven't seen y'all in how long so y'all don't know

512
00:28:39,590 --> 00:28:41,650
Speaker 2: how the fuck my life done changed like and where

513
00:28:41,670 --> 00:28:44,850
Speaker 2: your bitch and where your baby daddy like uh this

514
00:28:44,870 --> 00:28:46,370
Speaker 2: is just my friend.

515
00:28:46,730 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: But see that's the questions that I don't want to

516
00:28:48,700 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: entertain so that's why I don't bring anybody unless it's

517
00:28:51,580 --> 00:28:53,979
Speaker 1: something where I can say yeah this is my man

518
00:28:55,340 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: and let me introduce you to my man Idris You know,

519
00:28:58,540 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: I just want.

520
00:28:58,980 --> 00:29:02,740
Speaker 2: To be able to say that. What? That is a

521
00:29:02,780 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 2: married man. He married? Yes. Okay, here. This is my man.

522
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: What's that finance dude from? Chewbacca. His name Jonathan. Jonathan Majors? Yes.

523
00:29:16,610 --> 00:29:19,210
Speaker 2: Don't play on me. That is my boyfriend. Jonathan Majors.

524
00:29:19,470 --> 00:29:22,590
Speaker 2: That is my boyfriend. Whoever you took to the cookout,

525
00:29:22,810 --> 00:29:27,370
Speaker 2: that's who your boyfriend is. No, bitch. Like, he is literally... Oh,

526
00:29:27,390 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: my God. Yes. That's my boyfriend. That's my boyfriend. Girl,

527
00:29:32,940 --> 00:29:34,540
Speaker 2: I just claimed him. How you going to say this

528
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,459
Speaker 2: to a nigga when I just said? He is on

529
00:29:36,510 --> 00:29:38,660
Speaker 2: my vision boards. You see her right there? This bitch

530
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:44,940
Speaker 2: got this nigga right on her screensaver. Girl, that is my... Listen, listen.

531
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,330
Speaker 2: I love him. Right next to the ab, the six pack. Like,

532
00:29:48,390 --> 00:29:52,070
Speaker 2: that's my whole boyfriend, girl. Anyway. I ain't never heard

533
00:29:52,090 --> 00:29:55,630
Speaker 2: you said you like him. Girl, ever since Lovecraft Country,

534
00:29:55,650 --> 00:29:58,410
Speaker 2: I've been on that nigga. What's the basketball player you like?

535
00:29:59,510 --> 00:30:02,390
Speaker 2: Serge Ibaka? I let you have him. Okay? I let

536
00:30:02,410 --> 00:30:07,490
Speaker 2: you have him. He's been doing a lot of Instagram, like, facial. Facials.

537
00:30:07,530 --> 00:30:09,370
Speaker 1: He's giving me too much Metro lately.

538
00:30:10,630 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 2: So I'm off of him. He's still fine, but I'm

539
00:30:13,100 --> 00:30:14,780
Speaker 2: off of him. I let you have him, and that's

540
00:30:14,820 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 2: how you gonna do me? You can have him back.

541
00:30:17,540 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 2: I don't want that dude. I want Jonathan Majors. Oh, girl.

542
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,260
Speaker 2: He's so fine. Yeah, he is. Y'all know he played

543
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,900
Speaker 2: on Lovecraft Country, and that other movie, Jay-Z Only, came

544
00:30:28,100 --> 00:30:31,330
Speaker 2: on Instagram to promote That The Harder They Fall, a

545
00:30:32,170 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 2: couple months ago. Yes.

546
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: He is actually doing a movie with my old crush

547
00:30:38,020 --> 00:30:41,900
Speaker 1: from back in the day. The one that was with,

548
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,030
Speaker 1: oh girl, Steve Harvey's daughter.

549
00:30:46,090 --> 00:30:49,170
Speaker 2: Oh. Michael B. Jordan. They doing a movie together. I

550
00:30:49,190 --> 00:30:52,290
Speaker 2: saw that. That's a masturbation festival for me. I ain't

551
00:30:52,310 --> 00:30:57,650
Speaker 2: going to lie. I'm going to. Watch that movie at home. No,

552
00:30:57,690 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: I don't want to go to the movies to see that.

553
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 2: I got plans. Bitch made a whole old date night

554
00:31:03,540 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: for them niggas. Me, Jonathan, Michael, and my Rose getting

555
00:31:07,700 --> 00:31:14,350
Speaker 2: it in for the movie. Shame. Oh, goodness.

556
00:31:14,670 --> 00:31:18,020
Speaker 1: But yeah, so I had one of my friends... This

557
00:31:18,100 --> 00:31:22,060
Speaker 1: is really my guy friend, my friend Rel. He came

558
00:31:22,180 --> 00:31:24,620
Speaker 1: to my, he lives in my building downstairs from me

559
00:31:24,820 --> 00:31:28,620
Speaker 1: and he came by. My family came for my birthday

560
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,870
Speaker 1: and we got on the grill and I had like

561
00:31:30,900 --> 00:31:32,690
Speaker 1: so much food. So I was like, Rel, you home?

562
00:31:32,910 --> 00:31:34,090
Speaker 1: You know, if you want to come by and get

563
00:31:34,110 --> 00:31:36,670
Speaker 1: some food, you can't. He's like, yeah, I pull up.

564
00:31:36,750 --> 00:31:38,490
Speaker 1: So he got to meet my family. And I have

565
00:31:38,550 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: not brought a man around my family since probably like 2016.

566
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: But he's just my friend. And they just was like

567
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,020
Speaker 1: so confused. Like they just didn't even know how to

568
00:31:48,100 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: act around a nigga. My mom like, are you going

569
00:31:49,940 --> 00:31:51,580
Speaker 1: to make his plate for him? Get your ass up

570
00:31:51,620 --> 00:31:53,060
Speaker 1: and make the plate for him. I was like, ma,

571
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: that is not my nigga. Let him make his own food.

572
00:31:55,500 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: That's just my friend.

573
00:31:57,620 --> 00:32:00,740
Speaker 2: Like, and my dad was like, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.

574
00:32:01,190 --> 00:32:02,150
Speaker 2: what's up my boy?

575
00:32:02,210 --> 00:32:04,430
Speaker 1: Like just being so happy because he was ready to

576
00:32:04,450 --> 00:32:07,250
Speaker 1: have like a son-in-law kind of energy.

577
00:32:08,310 --> 00:32:09,990
Speaker 2: Bruh, that's not that.

578
00:32:10,350 --> 00:32:12,780
Speaker 1: So I would never bring another guy around unless it's

579
00:32:12,820 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: something serious because they was ready to make him my hub.

580
00:32:16,700 --> 00:32:18,820
Speaker 2: I just don't think it's that serious. I don't think

581
00:32:18,860 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: it's that serious and I feel like you could be

582
00:32:22,900 --> 00:32:26,310
Speaker 2: friends with somebody. I think we, okay, I don't know.

583
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: Do we, do we look too far into like Things

584
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,090
Speaker 2: with the opposite sex. You know what I'm saying? Like, why?

585
00:32:34,140 --> 00:32:36,550
Speaker 2: I could bring my homegirl, but I can't bring this guy.

586
00:32:36,630 --> 00:32:39,990
Speaker 2: And I understand the sex part, right? But if this

587
00:32:40,030 --> 00:32:42,350
Speaker 2: is a good friend of mine who I already be

588
00:32:42,390 --> 00:32:44,590
Speaker 2: hanging out with, like, I don't see the big deal.

589
00:32:44,630 --> 00:32:46,250
Speaker 2: And maybe it has something more or so to do

590
00:32:46,290 --> 00:32:48,810
Speaker 2: with me. Because I, so one of my uncles and

591
00:32:48,830 --> 00:32:51,410
Speaker 2: then my cousin had asked me something at the cookout, right?

592
00:32:51,850 --> 00:32:54,250
Speaker 2: Other than that, my daddy ain't ask me shit. You

593
00:32:54,290 --> 00:32:56,170
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying? Like, he's been around my mom before.

594
00:32:56,190 --> 00:32:58,830
Speaker 2: My mom don't be asking me shit because he's my friend.

595
00:33:00,030 --> 00:33:05,580
Speaker 2: That's it. Your special friend. Whatever. He's my fucking friend.

596
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,860
Speaker 1: But everybody in the family, even if they don't ask

597
00:33:08,900 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: you any questions, they're going to be like, that's your

598
00:33:10,660 --> 00:33:11,430
Speaker 1: nigga in their head.

599
00:33:11,950 --> 00:33:14,250
Speaker 2: That's not true though. I think it depends on me.

600
00:33:14,670 --> 00:33:19,010
Speaker 2: Like they're not used to you bringing dudes around. Not

601
00:33:19,050 --> 00:33:20,620
Speaker 2: saying like I just be bringing all type of niggas

602
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 2: around my family because it's just not true. A thousand niggas.

603
00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:26,420
Speaker 2: A thousand niggas. But I don't think they know me

604
00:33:26,500 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: like that to even question me. Because I've been away

605
00:33:29,660 --> 00:33:31,730
Speaker 2: for a long time. So now when I come to,

606
00:33:32,470 --> 00:33:34,130
Speaker 2: like when I'm now in town and I do like

607
00:33:34,170 --> 00:33:36,190
Speaker 2: family shit, they probably don't know how to take me either.

608
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:38,260
Speaker 2: So what's the energy like?

609
00:33:38,420 --> 00:33:40,270
Speaker 1: And then you also have to look at the energy

610
00:33:40,290 --> 00:33:41,410
Speaker 1: that y'all share with each other.

611
00:33:41,430 --> 00:33:45,230
Speaker 2: Did you make his plate for him? We was eating crabs. Like, yeah,

612
00:33:45,290 --> 00:33:47,050
Speaker 2: I got whatever he needed while we was there. Cause that,

613
00:33:47,190 --> 00:33:50,690
Speaker 2: I mean, that's also like, even if you bring your

614
00:33:50,730 --> 00:33:52,469
Speaker 2: home girl, like your home girl don't like to get

615
00:33:52,530 --> 00:33:54,170
Speaker 2: up and get their own food in front of your family.

616
00:33:54,190 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 2: You don't be bringing me shit. You don't bring me shit.

617
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: When have you been, when have you ever been in like,

618
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 2: like when have you invited me, bitch?

619
00:34:03,100 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: We don't be doing shit about it. Clearly you do

620
00:34:06,980 --> 00:34:08,990
Speaker 1: be doing shit. You just had a crab ball where

621
00:34:09,010 --> 00:34:11,109
Speaker 1: you was making that nigga a plate.

622
00:34:11,260 --> 00:34:13,490
Speaker 2: First of all, the crab is dumped on a table

623
00:34:13,570 --> 00:34:15,750
Speaker 2: and everybody go eat crabs. Like I didn't have to

624
00:34:15,770 --> 00:34:17,670
Speaker 2: do much but like getting him a drink or something

625
00:34:17,690 --> 00:34:18,270
Speaker 2: like that. Yeah.

626
00:34:18,850 --> 00:34:20,589
Speaker 1: You wouldn't have got me no, let's be real. You

627
00:34:20,610 --> 00:34:22,350
Speaker 1: wouldn't have got me a drink. You would have pointed

628
00:34:22,390 --> 00:34:23,910
Speaker 1: me to where the drinks at.

629
00:34:24,270 --> 00:34:28,469
Speaker 2: That's not true. That's not true. First of all, I

630
00:34:28,550 --> 00:34:33,090
Speaker 2: serve people. So, I know that sometimes people are uncomfortable

631
00:34:33,130 --> 00:34:35,049
Speaker 2: in front of other people's families and friends and shit

632
00:34:35,070 --> 00:34:36,710
Speaker 2: like that. So, I wouldn't put you in an awkward

633
00:34:36,750 --> 00:34:38,950
Speaker 2: position to have to get up and do things for

634
00:34:38,989 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 2: yourself when you may not be comfortable doing that. Me,

635
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 2: on the other hand, I'm in your fucking mama's refrigerator. Like,

636
00:34:44,540 --> 00:34:47,339
Speaker 2: I'm comfortable. Me too. If you say I can do something,

637
00:34:47,380 --> 00:34:49,100
Speaker 2: I'm going to be doing it. Especially when it comes

638
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 2: to food.

639
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

640
00:34:50,460 --> 00:34:52,910
Speaker 2: You ain't got to do shit for me. You just

641
00:34:52,950 --> 00:34:55,469
Speaker 2: point me in the right direction. I just saw a

642
00:34:55,530 --> 00:34:57,549
Speaker 2: post online. It was like a video and it was

643
00:34:57,590 --> 00:34:59,950
Speaker 2: like these two black guys and a dude bringing a

644
00:34:59,969 --> 00:35:02,210
Speaker 2: plate of food. And it was like how you act

645
00:35:02,250 --> 00:35:04,069
Speaker 2: when somebody bring you a plate of food, like looking

646
00:35:04,090 --> 00:35:05,830
Speaker 2: around like, oh, I didn't know you were feeding me.

647
00:35:06,310 --> 00:35:08,089
Speaker 2: I'm like, nah, I'm the type that's going to meet

648
00:35:08,110 --> 00:35:09,410
Speaker 2: you with the plate, bitch, so you don't got to

649
00:35:09,450 --> 00:35:13,030
Speaker 2: walk too far. But I'm never afraid to be myself

650
00:35:13,130 --> 00:35:16,550
Speaker 2: in any setting. But some people are. So I would always...

651
00:35:16,710 --> 00:35:18,830
Speaker 2: If I bring somebody around my people, I'm going to

652
00:35:18,850 --> 00:35:23,540
Speaker 2: make sure they're good, man or a woman. Mm-hmm. Okay? Okay. So, yes,

653
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 2: I was making that nigga drink, getting him some water

654
00:35:25,940 --> 00:35:27,540
Speaker 2: if he need to instead of him going in. But

655
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,830
Speaker 2: when people see you doing that, there goes the assumption.

656
00:35:30,870 --> 00:35:33,450
Speaker 2: I don't care. Because guess what? I could bring another

657
00:35:33,510 --> 00:35:37,500
Speaker 2: nigga there next week, like next. It's really not that,

658
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,100
Speaker 2: it's not that serious to me, though. There's no other

659
00:35:40,180 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: nigga for me to bring. Look, just in case you listen. Yeah,

660
00:35:42,540 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 2: put that out there just in case. But that's just

661
00:35:47,700 --> 00:35:47,980
Speaker 2: my friend.

662
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: See, I feel like you minimize the dynamic that you

663
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:52,340
Speaker 1: have with that man.

664
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,820
Speaker 2: No, I'm not. When you say that. Okay, no, I

665
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,510
Speaker 2: don't think I'm minimizing it. It's just that I think

666
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,989
Speaker 2: a lot, I think for black women, we need to

667
00:36:04,250 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 2: watch our attachment issues. We need to live in a

668
00:36:08,340 --> 00:36:11,339
Speaker 2: moment more with relationships. I understand the older you get,

669
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:16,020
Speaker 2: you start, you know, looking at your fertility. All these

670
00:36:16,060 --> 00:36:18,590
Speaker 2: different things we start calculating, right? When we're dating and

671
00:36:18,610 --> 00:36:20,509
Speaker 2: the older you get and you're single and all these

672
00:36:20,530 --> 00:36:24,130
Speaker 2: different things. But you have to take some situations for

673
00:36:24,150 --> 00:36:28,870
Speaker 2: whatever it is. So, like I said, that's my friend. Okay?

674
00:36:28,969 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to force him into a relationship by

675
00:36:31,020 --> 00:36:34,330
Speaker 2: taking him around my damn family. Yeah. Yeah. You know,

676
00:36:34,350 --> 00:36:36,570
Speaker 2: because if he do the same thing, he would expect

677
00:36:36,650 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: me to not feel like that either. But some women would. Yeah,

678
00:36:41,460 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 2: as soon as you take.

679
00:36:43,260 --> 00:36:47,620
Speaker 1: Me to meet your mama, we are together together. And

680
00:36:47,700 --> 00:36:50,540
Speaker 1: I don't want to go until we're together together. But

681
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: the nigga mama that I met five bitches this year, like,

682
00:36:53,020 --> 00:36:54,820
Speaker 1: you're not even special like you think.

683
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:59,500
Speaker 2: You see? Yes, I am. Don't tell me that. I am. Like,

684
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,430
Speaker 2: this is why I don't fuck with mamas right now, okay?

685
00:37:04,230 --> 00:37:06,989
Speaker 2: Because mamas be lying like they lying ass. When I

686
00:37:07,050 --> 00:37:09,549
Speaker 2: meet your mama, that means something. Because I'm so good

687
00:37:09,570 --> 00:37:11,830
Speaker 2: with mamas. Like, if I'm not good at anything else,

688
00:37:11,930 --> 00:37:16,779
Speaker 2: I'm so good with moms. Mom's love me. Oh, my God.

689
00:37:16,890 --> 00:37:19,880
Speaker 2: I'm the queen of finessing mamas. I would be like...

690
00:37:20,219 --> 00:37:22,549
Speaker 2: So you think finessing a mom is like getting like

691
00:37:22,570 --> 00:37:24,650
Speaker 2: your way to the man's heart kind of? Is that

692
00:37:24,690 --> 00:37:26,029
Speaker 2: why you do it? I don't.

693
00:37:27,430 --> 00:37:29,350
Speaker 1: It might be a, you know, last week episode, a

694
00:37:29,370 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: little bit manipulation here. Honestly, I just, if I love

695
00:37:36,580 --> 00:37:39,860
Speaker 1: a guy, I want his mom to love me too. Honestly,

696
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:41,819
Speaker 1: that's really, if I really like this man, I want

697
00:37:41,860 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: his mom to like me just as much.

698
00:37:43,500 --> 00:37:46,230
Speaker 2: It depends. Your mama have to be married. Your mama

699
00:37:46,270 --> 00:37:51,250
Speaker 2: have to have a man. It don't matter to me. Nah. Yeah,

700
00:37:51,270 --> 00:37:53,370
Speaker 2: because those are the hardest ones to win, but I'm

701
00:37:53,650 --> 00:37:57,739
Speaker 2: still winning. I'm not trying. This is over. I feel

702
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,299
Speaker 2: like if somebody's family makes it hard for me, I'm

703
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:04,300
Speaker 2: just not fucking with them. I'm not ever battling anybody's

704
00:38:04,340 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: family member again. I've done it. I would kill them

705
00:38:08,020 --> 00:38:08,620
Speaker 2: with kindness.

706
00:38:08,660 --> 00:38:10,419
Speaker 1: Like, it's going to be like, if you really just,

707
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,020
Speaker 1: if you act like you don't like me, you're just

708
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,060
Speaker 1: a hater at this point because I've been so nice

709
00:38:15,100 --> 00:38:17,620
Speaker 1: to you. Like, there's no reason not to. I remember

710
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,989
Speaker 1: this one guy. I won't say who it is because

711
00:38:20,010 --> 00:38:23,190
Speaker 1: y'all would know him if I said it. We used to,

712
00:38:23,210 --> 00:38:26,750
Speaker 1: this is years ago and we were seeing each other

713
00:38:26,770 --> 00:38:30,380
Speaker 1: and his mom came to visit for the summer. And

714
00:38:30,510 --> 00:38:35,370
Speaker 1: I swear his mama called me every day. to take

715
00:38:35,410 --> 00:38:37,730
Speaker 1: her to Walmart. And I used to think like, damn,

716
00:38:38,170 --> 00:38:41,089
Speaker 1: you couldn't have gotten that shit yesterday. But I would

717
00:38:41,130 --> 00:38:44,810
Speaker 1: take her ass every single day to Walmart. It never failed.

718
00:38:44,830 --> 00:38:45,370
Speaker 2: She called me.

719
00:38:45,710 --> 00:38:48,310
Speaker 1: And she would pray for me on the phone. And

720
00:38:48,350 --> 00:38:50,509
Speaker 1: then I'd come get her, take her to Walmart, drop

721
00:38:50,530 --> 00:38:51,969
Speaker 1: her off at the front. I'd never go in with her.

722
00:38:52,330 --> 00:38:54,270
Speaker 1: I'd just drop her off at the front door. And

723
00:38:54,340 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: I'd watch the door and wait for her to be

724
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: at the front door again. And I'd pick her up

725
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 1: from the front door and then take her back to

726
00:38:59,580 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 1: the house. And she'd come out with an apple or

727
00:39:02,260 --> 00:39:04,020
Speaker 1: something like bullshit. It would just be.

728
00:39:03,980 --> 00:39:05,660
Speaker 2: Like something to get her. She just wanted to get

729
00:39:06,219 --> 00:39:07,819
Speaker 2: out the house. Yep. And she just wanted to hang

730
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,379
Speaker 2: out and get out the house. But I would take

731
00:39:09,420 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: her every day.

732
00:39:10,430 --> 00:39:13,339
Speaker 1: And that's back when I didn't have a lot of responsibility, honestly,

733
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: because right now I had to Uber her ass.

734
00:39:18,060 --> 00:39:21,180
Speaker 2: I couldn't give her that much time now. And she

735
00:39:21,219 --> 00:39:23,049
Speaker 2: loved me. I probably could call her right now and

736
00:39:23,090 --> 00:39:26,490
Speaker 2: ask her to pray with me and she would. Yeah.

737
00:39:27,810 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 2: You know, if I can't smack your sister, I just

738
00:39:30,140 --> 00:39:35,020
Speaker 2: don't want to be with you no more. What? Toxic.

739
00:39:36,020 --> 00:39:38,310
Speaker 2: If I can't smack your mama, I don't think we

740
00:39:38,350 --> 00:39:42,890
Speaker 2: should anymore. Why you want to smack somebody's mama? Because

741
00:39:43,090 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 2: adults be needing they ass whooped sometimes. Even mamas. Even sisters,

742
00:39:47,980 --> 00:39:49,180
Speaker 2: even daddies, even brothers.

743
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,490
Speaker 1: I want the mamas to always be on my side. Like,

744
00:39:51,510 --> 00:39:54,230
Speaker 1: if you lose 10, you're stupid.

745
00:39:54,250 --> 00:39:57,969
Speaker 2: I done had mamas on my side. I have had

746
00:39:57,989 --> 00:40:00,430
Speaker 2: a mama on my side, too. And she's like a

747
00:40:00,489 --> 00:40:03,450
Speaker 2: real family member to me. And so is her son. So, like,

748
00:40:03,469 --> 00:40:06,170
Speaker 2: that's my family at this point. We not, you know,

749
00:40:06,410 --> 00:40:09,020
Speaker 2: ain't nothing like that. But that's the only mama I

750
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: ever liked. And then, you know, nigga who ain't got

751
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 2: no mama, I like them, too.

752
00:40:14,290 --> 00:40:18,150
Speaker 1: I did have one relationship where his mom, she was

753
00:40:18,210 --> 00:40:20,290
Speaker 1: always on his side no matter what. But she did

754
00:40:20,370 --> 00:40:22,590
Speaker 1: like me and she was always nice to me. But

755
00:40:23,030 --> 00:40:25,430
Speaker 1: she definitely took her son's side on everything. And I

756
00:40:25,469 --> 00:40:27,430
Speaker 1: used to be like, are you really listening to the facts?

757
00:40:28,050 --> 00:40:29,549
Speaker 1: And he would call her every time we got in

758
00:40:29,570 --> 00:40:29,710
Speaker 1: a fight.

759
00:40:29,730 --> 00:40:31,790
Speaker 2: That's what I was about to say. Like, why are

760
00:40:31,810 --> 00:40:34,330
Speaker 2: you even discussing what's going on with the mom? Like,

761
00:40:34,370 --> 00:40:36,950
Speaker 2: what the fuck? Because he would call her every time

762
00:40:37,030 --> 00:40:37,750
Speaker 2: for advice.

763
00:40:38,030 --> 00:40:39,950
Speaker 1: And then she would call me to have a conversation

764
00:40:39,989 --> 00:40:41,850
Speaker 1: with me because she's just trying to help us have

765
00:40:41,890 --> 00:40:43,270
Speaker 1: an amicable relationship.

766
00:40:43,450 --> 00:40:43,830
Speaker 2: Amicable?

767
00:40:44,610 --> 00:40:45,930
Speaker 1: That was her word.

768
00:40:46,430 --> 00:40:48,910
Speaker 2: No. I don't need your mom in my business.

769
00:40:49,910 --> 00:40:51,370
Speaker 1: And it used to be like, a lot of things

770
00:40:51,430 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: I'd be like, do you hear yourself? Like, you sound crazy.

771
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,140
Speaker 2: Because, you know, what type of relationship is she in

772
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,940
Speaker 2: with the father? With his dad? Because are you in

773
00:40:59,960 --> 00:41:02,300
Speaker 2: a relationship with a narcissist? Are you in a relationship?

774
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,430
Speaker 2: Was she even in a relationship? No, she was very

775
00:41:05,489 --> 00:41:08,509
Speaker 2: much single. Yeah, I don't got, no, I can't take

776
00:41:08,550 --> 00:41:11,900
Speaker 2: no advice from you, ma'am. I'll take marriage advice from

777
00:41:11,940 --> 00:41:15,890
Speaker 2: married people and I'll take relationship advice from, you know, people.

778
00:41:15,989 --> 00:41:18,430
Speaker 2: I mean, dating advice from people who are actually dating.

779
00:41:18,570 --> 00:41:22,850
Speaker 2: I don't want no marriage, no dating advice from nobody

780
00:41:22,870 --> 00:41:24,989
Speaker 2: who's been married for 15 years. You don't even know

781
00:41:25,050 --> 00:41:28,050
Speaker 2: what the hell going on out here right now. Right.

782
00:41:28,450 --> 00:41:30,810
Speaker 2: And I don't want no relationship advice from somebody who's

783
00:41:30,850 --> 00:41:36,450
Speaker 2: not in a successful relationship or marriage. Right. I agree. Yeah,

784
00:41:36,469 --> 00:41:38,590
Speaker 2: because you're going to be coming with all your trauma

785
00:41:38,730 --> 00:41:42,589
Speaker 2: and maybe what you would have done differently, but I'm

786
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,739
Speaker 2: not dealing with the same man that you might have

787
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,700
Speaker 2: been dealing with. It could be all types of things.

788
00:41:47,380 --> 00:41:50,500
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I'm taking friends to the cookouts.

789
00:41:50,700 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: I'm taking friends to places with me.

790
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:53,839
Speaker 1: I am.

791
00:41:53,860 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: Y'all can't come to my shit. I am. I'll bring

792
00:41:58,620 --> 00:42:01,910
Speaker 2: you a plate after it's over. I'll bring you a plate.

793
00:42:01,930 --> 00:42:03,069
Speaker 2: That's not a problem. I just really don't see the

794
00:42:03,110 --> 00:42:04,170
Speaker 2: big deal. I don't.

795
00:42:05,489 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: I don't want you to meet my parents until not

796
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: just my parents my sister it's.

797
00:42:10,940 --> 00:42:15,020
Speaker 2: Not that serious what y'all think y'all hit us up

798
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 2: let us know is it that serious meeting a man's

799
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,500
Speaker 2: family on some regular this my friend even if y'all

800
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: kicking it intimately like what's the big deal with meeting

801
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 2: the family and friends like I like to meet new

802
00:42:29,580 --> 00:42:31,859
Speaker 2: people maybe that's my thing I like to meet new

803
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:36,259
Speaker 2: people I like I definitely like like you know cookouts

804
00:42:36,380 --> 00:42:39,420
Speaker 2: and house parties I like that over a club any

805
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 2: day so yeah.

806
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: Invite me but not you can invite me but I'm

807
00:42:46,020 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: not going.

808
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,890
Speaker 2: What about around a guy and his friends so is

809
00:42:49,910 --> 00:42:52,350
Speaker 2: that not that's the same thing like a guy invites

810
00:42:52,390 --> 00:42:55,830
Speaker 2: you out with him and his homeboys and like a

811
00:42:55,850 --> 00:42:57,590
Speaker 2: couples like a couples thing.

812
00:42:59,489 --> 00:43:02,350
Speaker 1: I could do that if it's not if it's if

813
00:43:02,430 --> 00:43:03,550
Speaker 1: it's super new no.

814
00:43:04,980 --> 00:43:06,900
Speaker 2: I barely know you. I don't want to know your friends.

815
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,379
Speaker 2: How do you then? I feel like that's a part

816
00:43:11,420 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 2: of getting to know somebody, trying to see like, so

817
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 2: this guy, his family isn't here. But I would want

818
00:43:16,390 --> 00:43:19,250
Speaker 2: to know, how's his family? I would want to know

819
00:43:19,270 --> 00:43:21,790
Speaker 2: that because what if we do get serious? I need

820
00:43:21,810 --> 00:43:23,870
Speaker 2: to know if you came from a fucked up family

821
00:43:23,910 --> 00:43:25,569
Speaker 2: or not. Right.

822
00:43:25,670 --> 00:43:28,210
Speaker 1: So I agree there. But we would have to be

823
00:43:28,310 --> 00:43:30,660
Speaker 1: headed toward that direction first.

824
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,049
Speaker 2: I would have to know. I don't want to head

825
00:43:33,090 --> 00:43:36,230
Speaker 2: there without knowing your family background no more. I don't.

826
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to head there. Because what

827
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,620
Speaker 2: happens is, like, you head there, now you're there, right?

828
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,500
Speaker 2: And then you having all these behavioral issues like this motherfucking,

829
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 2: now you got to, now you finally see mama and

830
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 2: whoever else and it's like, oh, this is why. But

831
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,980
Speaker 2: had you met them earlier on, it would have saved

832
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,060
Speaker 2: you some time and your insurance. Time and money on

833
00:43:59,080 --> 00:43:59,379
Speaker 2: your insurance.

834
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,190
Speaker 1: I don't know if I like to, you know, I

835
00:44:02,230 --> 00:44:04,850
Speaker 1: come from a crazy family, you know, and I just

836
00:44:05,030 --> 00:44:07,009
Speaker 1: don't want people to be like, oh, let me go

837
00:44:07,190 --> 00:44:09,660
Speaker 1: meet her family and determine who she is because of

838
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,940
Speaker 1: how they are. Because my family, they off the chain,

839
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,259
Speaker 1: you know, like they off the chain. So I don't want,

840
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,140
Speaker 1: I can't, I don't want to use that as my

841
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,540
Speaker 1: determining factor. Not saying that I come from a bad family.

842
00:44:20,580 --> 00:44:22,830
Speaker 1: My family is great and everybody's like funny. You're going

843
00:44:22,850 --> 00:44:25,550
Speaker 1: to laugh your ass off. But there is a little element,

844
00:44:25,610 --> 00:44:26,930
Speaker 1: a little, you know.

845
00:44:26,969 --> 00:44:29,529
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like that's all black families. I

846
00:44:29,550 --> 00:44:33,220
Speaker 2: feel like that's kind of like, the dynamic across the board.

847
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,379
Speaker 2: But I don't know. I need to see how you

848
00:44:36,469 --> 00:44:39,750
Speaker 2: interact with your daddy, how you interact with your mama. Like,

849
00:44:40,110 --> 00:44:41,989
Speaker 2: that's really what I'm looking for. I'm not really even

850
00:44:42,010 --> 00:44:44,989
Speaker 2: looking for, like, interaction with the siblings and stuff, you know?

851
00:44:45,989 --> 00:44:48,350
Speaker 2: I want to see that, though. I want to see... Yeah,

852
00:44:48,430 --> 00:44:49,069
Speaker 2: I want to see that.

853
00:44:49,150 --> 00:44:52,150
Speaker 1: But once we're determining that this is getting serious and

854
00:44:52,190 --> 00:44:53,330
Speaker 1: this could be something real.

855
00:44:53,890 --> 00:44:55,950
Speaker 2: But prior to that, no. No, thank you.

856
00:44:56,770 --> 00:44:58,670
Speaker 1: And the friend thing, like, you don't even want to

857
00:44:58,710 --> 00:45:01,580
Speaker 1: take me around your friends too early because... If we

858
00:45:01,620 --> 00:45:03,219
Speaker 1: just getting to know each other and we need to

859
00:45:03,260 --> 00:45:05,630
Speaker 1: smash it, I might leave you for one of your homeboys.

860
00:45:08,730 --> 00:45:11,190
Speaker 1: If we ain't had sex yet and we hanging out,

861
00:45:11,290 --> 00:45:13,089
Speaker 1: we're actually just friends at this point.

862
00:45:13,610 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 2: Right. I picked the wrong one. Nothing but friends. Right.

863
00:45:17,460 --> 00:45:19,020
Speaker 2: So how do you pull that off? Hold on. Let's

864
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:20,340
Speaker 2: go to break right quick. And then I want to

865
00:45:21,340 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 2: hear how we would apply that in a situation. Y'all,

866
00:45:25,020 --> 00:45:33,820
Speaker 2: we'll be right back. Okay, Tam. I know we joke

867
00:45:33,860 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 2: about this type of shit all the time, but what's

868
00:45:37,460 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 2: the application for this? Okay, you meet a guy. Y'all

869
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 2: kicking it. Y'all haven't been intimate yet. You go, I

870
00:45:45,500 --> 00:45:47,500
Speaker 2: don't know, maybe he invites you out to do bowling

871
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 2: with his friends. They do this every Saturday night, whatever, girlfriends, homegirls, whoever,

872
00:45:51,660 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 2: everybody else. You get to pick somebody else, though. There's

873
00:45:54,260 --> 00:45:59,009
Speaker 2: somebody else there. How do you go about doing that? Like,

874
00:45:59,090 --> 00:46:00,270
Speaker 2: how do you say, hey?

875
00:46:00,290 --> 00:46:05,980
Speaker 1: I would never be the aggressor, honestly. They would have to, like,

876
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:11,220
Speaker 1: come at me. And if I'm not feeling you, like, Jeffree,

877
00:46:11,260 --> 00:46:15,739
Speaker 1: he's cool. But here's Andre over here. And Andre is, like,

878
00:46:15,780 --> 00:46:19,310
Speaker 1: making me laugh. And he's, you know, more entertaining me

879
00:46:19,330 --> 00:46:22,230
Speaker 1: than Jeffree. and then he come around and slide in

880
00:46:22,250 --> 00:46:24,410
Speaker 1: my DMs, I might holla at Andre.

881
00:46:24,430 --> 00:46:27,469
Speaker 2: I might. I ain't never fucked Jeffrey. We just went

882
00:46:27,530 --> 00:46:31,770
Speaker 2: on a date, you know? I don't owe Jeffrey shit. Right?

883
00:46:31,790 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 2: We already know men think pussy they never even had

884
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,819
Speaker 2: before is on reserve for them. So you know you'll

885
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,219
Speaker 2: still be a hoe in Jeffrey's eyes, right? Well, ho, ho, ho,

886
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:41,779
Speaker 2: Merry Christmas. I don't care nothing about that.

887
00:46:44,900 --> 00:46:50,109
Speaker 1: Now, if Jeffrey and I slept together, then okay, all

888
00:46:50,180 --> 00:46:52,339
Speaker 1: his friends are off limits. I don't want that type

889
00:46:52,420 --> 00:46:53,260
Speaker 1: of stigma.

890
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 2: But we ain't did nothing. You're just somebody I hung

891
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:01,439
Speaker 2: out with. Switch. Right. Are you going to automatically start

892
00:47:01,460 --> 00:47:04,890
Speaker 2: trying to hook Jeffrey up with somebody else? You know,

893
00:47:04,910 --> 00:47:06,210
Speaker 2: I got a good friend for you.

894
00:47:07,290 --> 00:47:10,110
Speaker 1: You know, honestly, if I think there's someone that Jeffrey

895
00:47:10,170 --> 00:47:12,990
Speaker 1: might get along with better than me and vibe with,

896
00:47:13,510 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 1: like definitely.

897
00:47:14,410 --> 00:47:16,140
Speaker 2: Why not? If he would be up to it, he

898
00:47:16,180 --> 00:47:19,810
Speaker 2: might be salty with me, you know? fucking bitch with

899
00:47:19,850 --> 00:47:21,070
Speaker 2: my homeboy.

900
00:47:21,110 --> 00:47:23,450
Speaker 1: But if he a real decent dude he probably wouldn't

901
00:47:23,489 --> 00:47:26,250
Speaker 1: you know you know it just depends.

902
00:47:26,780 --> 00:47:28,819
Speaker 2: Yeah I don't know that I've ever been in that

903
00:47:28,860 --> 00:47:31,980
Speaker 2: situation or like picked somebody else over the friend but

904
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,500
Speaker 2: listen yeah like if it hasn't happened I might not

905
00:47:35,540 --> 00:47:37,700
Speaker 2: be the aggressor I might not be at the bowling

906
00:47:37,780 --> 00:47:42,779
Speaker 2: alley like walking up to your homeboy like I like

907
00:47:42,820 --> 00:47:46,910
Speaker 2: you right that's kind of wild yeah but But if

908
00:47:46,950 --> 00:47:48,990
Speaker 2: your homeboy don't give a fuck about you or jumping

909
00:47:49,030 --> 00:47:51,390
Speaker 2: my damn DMs or something, oh, it's on.

910
00:47:51,989 --> 00:47:57,060
Speaker 1: So general consensus, AJ, it don't mean nothing. Like, don't

911
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,460
Speaker 1: take it too serious. If she invites you to the

912
00:47:59,500 --> 00:48:01,900
Speaker 1: family cookout, that don't mean you her nigga.

913
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: Let's be clear. I like you a lot and I

914
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,180
Speaker 2: want to hang out with you and my family. Like, what?

915
00:48:11,810 --> 00:48:14,770
Speaker 1: With me, I may be expecting a ring at some

916
00:48:14,810 --> 00:48:15,890
Speaker 1: time in the near future.

917
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,980
Speaker 2: You mean my daddy, nigga. We better be getting married

918
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,620
Speaker 2: next year. That's the type of time you on? And

919
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,540
Speaker 2: you look, my daddy is so cool. Like, I love

920
00:48:29,580 --> 00:48:32,020
Speaker 2: my daddy so much. My daddy don't ask me shit.

921
00:48:32,140 --> 00:48:35,990
Speaker 2: You hear me? He ain't getting excited. Like... Like, he

922
00:48:36,010 --> 00:48:38,540
Speaker 2: going to be like, yeah, I'm Jerome. Like, da, da, da. Like,

923
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 2: just regular, like, just nice, good people. That's it. That's all.

924
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,820
Speaker 1: I really got to find somebody because when Rel was there,

925
00:48:47,900 --> 00:48:50,140
Speaker 1: my daddy was just, because, all right, my family is

926
00:48:50,180 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: nothing but women.

927
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,460
Speaker 2: It's a bunch of women. It's no guys.

928
00:48:54,750 --> 00:48:57,150
Speaker 1: The guys that were in my family, some of them

929
00:48:57,170 --> 00:48:59,939
Speaker 1: have passed away, jail, you know, the things that happen

930
00:48:59,960 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: to black men a lot. So there are not very

931
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,260
Speaker 1: many black men left in my family. So when Rel

932
00:49:05,300 --> 00:49:07,419
Speaker 1: came over, my daddy was just.

933
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,660
Speaker 2: Let's go upstairs to the roof and go shoot some pool, Rel.

934
00:49:11,020 --> 00:49:13,870
Speaker 1: Like he was just so excited to have like some

935
00:49:13,910 --> 00:49:17,350
Speaker 1: male energy in the room. And then my sister, my

936
00:49:17,410 --> 00:49:19,510
Speaker 1: older sister, she a lesbian, so she with a woman

937
00:49:19,580 --> 00:49:22,620
Speaker 1: It's nothing but bitches. So I really need to find

938
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:27,509
Speaker 1: a guy to bring home and take serious But it

939
00:49:27,550 --> 00:49:29,550
Speaker 1: won't be probably till, even if I meet you today,

940
00:49:29,590 --> 00:49:33,370
Speaker 1: it won't be till 2023, like Christmas, till you get

941
00:49:33,410 --> 00:49:34,190
Speaker 1: that invite, nigga.

942
00:49:34,210 --> 00:49:38,750
Speaker 2: That's terrible. That's terrible. I just, I don't know. I

943
00:49:38,790 --> 00:49:41,009
Speaker 2: just feel like that's a part of dating for me.

944
00:49:42,060 --> 00:49:43,779
Speaker 2: It's a part of dating. And that's all we do.

945
00:49:43,860 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 2: And we just kicking it. We dating. We have fun together.

946
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,460
Speaker 2: We laugh. We laugh most of the time. So if

947
00:49:50,500 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 2: this who I like to laugh with, why I can't

948
00:49:52,420 --> 00:49:56,900
Speaker 2: laugh with him and my people? That's all. It ain't

949
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,420
Speaker 2: that serious. I think women, we should just enjoy the

950
00:49:59,460 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: moment sometimes. Y'all saw with Laura London. Just experiencing people.

951
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,819
Speaker 2: I'm into that. I'm into experiencing people. I don't want

952
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:15,050
Speaker 2: to own nobody. You're free to move about the country.

953
00:50:15,750 --> 00:50:20,629
Speaker 2: I'm a Gemini. I definitely like to be motherfucking independent

954
00:50:20,770 --> 00:50:23,430
Speaker 2: while in a relationship. And so is this guy. He

955
00:50:23,530 --> 00:50:26,460
Speaker 2: a fucking Gemini too. So it's just like, So y'all

956
00:50:26,500 --> 00:50:29,420
Speaker 2: just work. Yeah, don't fucking stress me out about some

957
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,859
Speaker 2: shit I won't stress you out. It's not that serious.

958
00:50:32,850 --> 00:50:35,270
Speaker 2: So I feel like those be like the best relationships.

959
00:50:35,290 --> 00:50:40,270
Speaker 2: Like friends, no? It's too much pressure. I feel like

960
00:50:40,290 --> 00:50:43,390
Speaker 2: we put too much pressure on each other in relationships.

961
00:50:43,430 --> 00:50:48,390
Speaker 2: And I don't want to pressure anybody into anything in life. Yeah,

962
00:50:48,469 --> 00:50:48,710
Speaker 2: I do.

963
00:50:48,830 --> 00:50:53,529
Speaker 1: I think my last guy, I definitely, you know, Let

964
00:50:53,570 --> 00:50:55,170
Speaker 1: him know how big of a deal it was for

965
00:50:55,230 --> 00:50:57,730
Speaker 1: him to meet my family. So by the time I

966
00:50:57,810 --> 00:51:00,310
Speaker 1: did invite him to meet my family, he had so

967
00:51:00,410 --> 00:51:04,150
Speaker 1: much anxiety about it. And then when he shook my

968
00:51:04,190 --> 00:51:06,969
Speaker 1: daddy's hand, he didn't look my daddy in the eyes

969
00:51:07,030 --> 00:51:09,069
Speaker 1: and stuff. And I was like, oh, I'll never marry you.

970
00:51:09,469 --> 00:51:14,370
Speaker 2: I had decided right then. Wow. Why you not looking

971
00:51:14,390 --> 00:51:17,530
Speaker 2: my daddy in the eyes when you talking to him? Wow.

972
00:51:18,610 --> 00:51:22,010
Speaker 2: Was I tripping? Is that too... No, I mean, no,

973
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,700
Speaker 2: but I mean, maybe... Listen, you needed to have, maybe

974
00:51:25,739 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 2: you should have done that earlier. Maybe he should have

975
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 2: met your daddy sooner. You could have ended the relationship earlier.

976
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,390
Speaker 2: Like if that's really all it took for you to know, nah,

977
00:51:36,410 --> 00:51:39,250
Speaker 2: that's ain't it. But I like people who just be cool.

978
00:51:39,270 --> 00:51:41,510
Speaker 2: They could be in any setting. They just chilling. Everybody

979
00:51:41,550 --> 00:51:44,210
Speaker 2: like them. You can't be like scared.

980
00:51:44,230 --> 00:51:46,830
Speaker 1: You gotta find that out. But how do you find

981
00:51:46,850 --> 00:51:51,330
Speaker 1: that out? Yeah, but I mean, like, still, you need

982
00:51:51,350 --> 00:51:53,070
Speaker 1: to be serious. We need to be serious. I can't

983
00:51:53,090 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: just bring you around my daddy.

984
00:51:54,060 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 2: I don't think it's that serious. I be... Listen, I like...

985
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 2: This is why. All the people that I like, I

986
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,620
Speaker 2: love when they all in the same place. I get

987
00:52:03,660 --> 00:52:06,090
Speaker 2: so much joy, like, when this set of friends is

988
00:52:06,110 --> 00:52:08,110
Speaker 2: around this set of friends. Like, I be so happy

989
00:52:08,150 --> 00:52:12,589
Speaker 2: that all my favorite people, like, together. That's fun for me. Meanwhile, y'all,

990
00:52:12,610 --> 00:52:16,770
Speaker 2: I ain't been invited to shit. Girl, where I been at? Where...

991
00:52:16,590 --> 00:52:19,070
Speaker 2: What have I been doing? Like... Like, you want to

992
00:52:19,110 --> 00:52:24,300
Speaker 2: come up with me and this nigga? Fuck. I like craps.

993
00:52:25,140 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 2: I love craps. All right, so y'all, we're nearing the

994
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,560
Speaker 2: end of the show, obviously. And I just wanted to

995
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 2: remind everybody that it is currently the Lionsgate portal. Portal

996
00:52:39,739 --> 00:52:41,859
Speaker 2: open between either the 26th to the 28th. I think

997
00:52:41,890 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 2: the 28th. It's at its peak today, so obviously our

998
00:52:46,860 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 2: show is all pre-recorded. So today is August the 8th, okay?

999
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:55,180
Speaker 2: This week. So the portal is at its peak today.

1000
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 2: So any magic, anything you want to manifest, you want

1001
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:04,180
Speaker 2: to meditate on, you know, some more being abundant, anything.

1002
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,090
Speaker 2: This is what you want to do today, right? And

1003
00:53:07,210 --> 00:53:10,230
Speaker 2: the gate is going to be, the portal is open. Mm-hmm. No,

1004
00:53:10,410 --> 00:53:12,790
Speaker 2: today the 8th. Today. Well, they ain't going to hear

1005
00:53:12,810 --> 00:53:15,190
Speaker 2: this until Thursday, bitch. I understand you're not going to

1006
00:53:15,210 --> 00:53:16,850
Speaker 2: hear it until Thursday, but if you let me finish

1007
00:53:16,890 --> 00:53:20,430
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, then I could wrap it up, okay?

1008
00:53:20,780 --> 00:53:25,460
Speaker 2: So the portal is open from the 28th of July

1009
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 2: through August the 12th, right? Which is Friday. So they

1010
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,500
Speaker 2: still have time, you know what I'm saying, to do

1011
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: any magic manifestation they want to do. Just do some

1012
00:53:37,300 --> 00:53:46,820
Speaker 2: research on the Lionsgate. Leo, the moon is in Leo

1013
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 2: right now. Okay, so just look it up. It's just

1014
00:53:52,300 --> 00:53:54,779
Speaker 2: a magical time of the year. It happens every year.

1015
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:56,740
Speaker 2: I think I manifested some magic today.

1016
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,589
Speaker 1: My friend, me and him rode out to look at

1017
00:53:59,630 --> 00:54:02,850
Speaker 1: some property out in Edgewood, and we was on the

1018
00:54:02,890 --> 00:54:08,170
Speaker 1: way back to his space. And it's like 12 red lights.

1019
00:54:08,489 --> 00:54:10,299
Speaker 1: You got to go through 12 lights to get to

1020
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:10,780
Speaker 1: his house.

1021
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 2: All of them was green? Yeah.

1022
00:54:14,030 --> 00:54:15,569
Speaker 1: All of them was green. And I told him all

1023
00:54:15,590 --> 00:54:17,500
Speaker 1: of them were going to be green. He said, that's

1024
00:54:17,580 --> 00:54:20,100
Speaker 1: only happened to me one time in 15 years. I

1025
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: was like, it's going to be all green today.

1026
00:54:21,940 --> 00:54:26,129
Speaker 2: And they were. Shit was exciting. But it do be

1027
00:54:26,150 --> 00:54:28,410
Speaker 2: that type of shit. Or even just like pulling. For me,

1028
00:54:28,469 --> 00:54:30,410
Speaker 2: it's like, it be simple as low shit. I be like,

1029
00:54:30,450 --> 00:54:33,049
Speaker 2: you know what? Just getting a parking space in the

1030
00:54:33,090 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 2: front every time. Like, that'd be for me. Every time, like,

1031
00:54:37,580 --> 00:54:40,470
Speaker 2: I think about something and it goes as planned, I'm like,

1032
00:54:40,530 --> 00:54:42,930
Speaker 2: this is all a shift for me. Like, you got

1033
00:54:42,950 --> 00:54:46,130
Speaker 2: the power to manifest your own destiny. So today, it's

1034
00:54:46,170 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 2: at that peak. I like it. I feel energized. I

1035
00:54:49,420 --> 00:54:53,020
Speaker 2: did my workout today, bitch. Ate some motherfucking salt and

1036
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:54,779
Speaker 2: vinegar chips that I was supposed to eat. I'm going

1037
00:54:54,820 --> 00:54:57,450
Speaker 2: to finish that bag. I might do me some motherfucking

1038
00:54:57,510 --> 00:55:00,029
Speaker 2: yoga Pilates in a little bit, okay? If you guys

1039
00:55:00,070 --> 00:55:02,610
Speaker 2: enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on your

1040
00:55:02,730 --> 00:55:05,710
Speaker 2: iHeartRadio app or wherever the fuck you get your podcasts at.

1041
00:55:06,070 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 2: This is your co-host, AJ Holiday. You're at a 2.0

1042
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,859
Speaker 2: on Instagram. follow me now if you won't get on

1043
00:55:14,219 --> 00:55:16,439
Speaker 2: y'all send them dumb bitch stories we know it's about

1044
00:55:16,460 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 2: to be winter season cuffing season we know a lot

1045
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 2: of y'all gonna end up with a hobo in y'all

1046
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:23,910
Speaker 2: house need some assistance with that like we can try

1047
00:55:23,930 --> 00:55:26,009
Speaker 2: to get the nigga up out of there whatever like

1048
00:55:26,070 --> 00:55:28,990
Speaker 2: right now he probably like coming over too much okay

1049
00:55:30,570 --> 00:55:35,299
Speaker 2: so that's your emails that we talk back P-O-D at gmail.com. Y'all,

1050
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:40,770
Speaker 2: we got our website coming soon with our consultations, with

1051
00:55:40,950 --> 00:55:46,090
Speaker 2: our merchandise. It's going to be lit. We talk back any...

1052
00:55:45,850 --> 00:55:49,430
Speaker 2: What is it? We talk back E & T. com. Coming soon.

1053
00:55:49,570 --> 00:55:53,569
Speaker 2: All right? Y'all follow me on Instagram, Official Tambam. I

1054
00:55:53,610 --> 00:55:57,020
Speaker 2: love y'all. Remember to speak now. And never hold your

1055
00:55:57,300 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: motherfucking peace.

1056
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: Ow.

1057
00:56:02,770 --> 00:56:05,529
Speaker 2: Deuces ain't nobody come to see you Otis