WEBVTT - Episode 115: Feat. D.L. Hughley 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:04.440 Ship, What's up it? Slip Services might be one of 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:09.240 our biggest guests ever. M Angela. Ye, I'm Stephanie Sang, 0:00:09.520 --> 0:00:15.360 I'm g G McGuire, I'm Lauria and I'm definitely I 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:24.239 never look up. That's that Latin disinterested thing. How hard 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:27.160 is it nowadays when people are always on their phone. Well, 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.720 I think it's why we're we are the way we 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:32.080 are as a society. I think that's why we're disinterested. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.280 I think that that's why we have no empathy. I 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:37.599 think that's why people, you know, the one will get 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:39.400 beat and some dude will take pictures of what her 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:41.960 to get why she's unconscious, to get lights because I 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:45.519 think people people there's no human connection. Yeah. The craziest 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:47.760 things happen on social media and we really don't kind 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:50.520 of feel too bad. People make jokes out of everything 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:54.760 they do, like trees crying. Yeah, I was like that 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:56.880 he can't see as Kenny hasn't seen as kidd in 0:00:56.880 --> 0:01:00.320 two months, and everybody's making songs about it. And I 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:03.920 think they what. I have kids and I cry when 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:10.280 they come home. But that's uh ship, Your motherfucker's won't leave. 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:14.440 But I think that you can't as a society. The 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:17.920 bad thing about social media is it catches you at 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.440 your worst moments and then your best and and and 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:23.440 and everybody has a prism like it used to be. 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:25.560 In order to say something dumb, somebody had to ask 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.959 you a question. Now you can just get on your phone. 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:30.720 It's just to me when I saw Tyres as a 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:32.560 black man and as a father, that's the reason why 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.480 men of color don't really express themselves like that, because 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:38.840 then you know maken of you. But you have to 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.039 admit the whole part of him saying that he's broken 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.720 these money. I was like, and then he got five 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:47.080 million dollars from Will and Jada. I was like, five million. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:50.960 I'm gonna cry on your podcast right now. Wait, how 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:54.760 didn't hear that they gave him? Shut the funk up? 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.840 He posted social media and then he goes on social 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:01.120 media and a picture him and Smith saying like, oh, 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:08.480 they just gave me five million n five million dollar. Cried. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:10.880 When I saw him crying, I didn't find it funny. 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:13.880 It was just like, oh my god, they made that's 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:16.640 just go out of it. Just about it. I felt bad, 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:18.920 But I just feel like, you know, some things you 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:23.240 just shouldn't put on the internet, you know, like so, 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:26.040 I mean whatever, but then look at the whole society 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:29.600 at president you know, the biggest real with the Twitter. 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:33.400 I'm sorry. I think that's what we do. That's what 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.680 we do. It's it's not have you ever put anything 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:40.560 on social media that you regretted after? I know, I mean, 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:43.880 I I just think you know, it's remember when Debbie 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:54.960 Allen died, Debbie Reynolds died, like I'm sorry, I'm sorry, 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.680 I'm sorry, but when she died, I told you know, 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:02.440 I did a joke and and people got all upset. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:06.200 But to me, it's just like I don't know, you 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:08.040 what I care what you think of it. That's like, 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:11.679 I don't I really I think these when you're younger, Um, 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.280 you you tend to get affirmation from people that have 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:18.200 no idea who you are, no connection to you, and 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:20.880 you look for it and all the wrong not I 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:23.440 don't know, even though necessarily know it's the wrong places, 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:25.040 but you look for it in different places. And I 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:29.280 just think social media is a tool, um that you 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.359 use no different than a hammer. I mean, it can 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:34.640 it can build a house, or you can hit your 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:38.880 hand and hurt yourself. So it doesn't that just because 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:42.120 as a comedian sometimes right it feels like the world 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:43.800 that we live in is a lot more you know 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:46.600 PC right now. It shouldn't be, but it is, don't 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.360 you think? I think it's actuality and actuality it's not 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:52.200 when you let children get yours, when you let children 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:53.960 get killed in church and you don't do shit about that, 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:56.440 and you care about what joke? I tell fuck you? 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:59.640 Who can like you? You? You want people die and 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:04.080 brew lies themselves at your hand. And the worst thing 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:06.600 you could like, like to me, uh, the cat that 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:10.480 played Frank Frank Underwood follows somebody and he lost his 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:13.600 job playing president, but the real president finows somebody. He 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:17.760 still got good. I ain't never thought about it. A 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:20.640 society that a society that gets mad at the cat 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:23.920 like Colin Kaepernick from making making a you know, a 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.680 principle stands. They don't get mad at that. They get 0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:28.159 mad at him and they call him a traitor, but 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.920 they want monuments to people who actually betrayed the country, 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:34.640 like Robberty Lee killed more Americans than Hitler, and he 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:36.320 gets a fucking statue And you're more mad at the 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:39.200 negative just want you to stop killing. I have no 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:42.080 use for people that they have no judgment, that have 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:45.520 no kind of continual experiences to judge me. Does it 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.880 get discouraging sometimes where you just feel like, man, what 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:49.560 is this world that we live in? Because I think 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:52.120 that at least twice a week it's great? Kind of 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:56.360 world do we live in? Twice every hour? Listen looking 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.560 at the news, and news makes me depress so sad 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:02.560 it does news Like I was watching um, the woman 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:06.120 whose son died from cancer. Oh my god, I was 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:09.040 I was balling crying watching all of that happened. And 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:11.279 then you know, like you said, the shooting that happened, 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.480 the mass shooting in Texas and the church, and then 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.000 you see the pastor's daughter and you see a family 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.360 of eight people killed. But you know what's so funny? 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:21.560 Not a white man? What what? What is funny? First 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:23.000 of all, when the white dude got three names, you 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:26.840 shouldn't sell them a gunther Wayne Gate, they always got 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:30.440 three names, and up haircut, you should never And every 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:33.320 time they always have three names, and they always used 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:35.520 all three of them. They always have a fun up haircut. 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:37.560 And every time they show a high school picture on them, 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:39.920 it looked like they was crazy, right, so you share 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:42.840 all messed up. You should arrest them as soon as 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:47.000 the film get developed. Mans come come up all right now. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.520 I want to ask you this. So holidays are coming 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:52.039 up right now. Imagine this because we know you've been 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:53.520 married for thirty one years, so you don't have to 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.880 worry about these things. But let's just say what my 0:05:55.920 --> 0:06:00.040 girlfriend I do, but not my We were at the 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:03.160 whole discussion about you before we did, like, he doesn't 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:08.240 cheat anymore, but because I'm exhausted. Did you ever see 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.280 carlat the way when you go? I didn't. I didn't rehabilitate, 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:12.920 I ran out of wind. Listen. I always say this. 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:15.000 My ex boyfriend when I was younger, he cheated on me, 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:17.320 and his mom told me, you know when men stopped 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:19.480 cheating when they get too tired to do it. She 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:21.360 was like, his stepfather used to cheat on me all 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:23.200 the time, and then he got too old and too 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:25.040 lazy and too tired to do it. You just gotta 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:33.400 wait it out, right, he's only twenty six. We got 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:36.200 wait till we need you. Why is that? Okay? This 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:40.160 is one I never understood. So they're eleven women every 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:43.360 man on the face of their in China, and that 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.279 was just with worldwide. Eleven men to every face, every 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:50.120 eleven women give me every every eleven women to every 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:54.600 man on the face. So if every man was faithful 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.600 to a woman, it'd be a woman. It'd be ten 0:06:56.720 --> 0:07:00.040 angry rods, that would be And I don't wait the 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:03.760 world like, I don't know if that is correct. But 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:11.880 what about like gay people, more people? That's the numbers. 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:15.280 But okay, so what about it? Men shouldn't be monogaous? 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.560 What about women? Are we are we built to be monogamous? 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.440 I think that that if you are, I don't like 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:26.240 that women take our worst qualities to say that you're like, like, 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:28.840 the only reason to be with a woman is because 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:31.360 she makes you better than you would otherwise be. But 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.840 if she starts acting like you would act, then what's 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.600 the point. If you don't elevate me, if you don't 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.440 make me aspiracial, if you don't make me want to 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:41.960 do things and be better than I am. It always 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.280 it galls me when women want to act like the 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:47.040 very worst of us, like take on our very worst 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:49.360 attributes and then not equipped to be that way. I 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:51.920 see it. Now, here's what I think. I think that 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:54.440 the way the society is now, I think at a 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:56.600 certain point in time, women have to put up with 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.400 a lot because we didn't have jobs. Our job was 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.280 to hold down a household. The men would bring it 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:03.360 home to bacon, and you kind of felt stuck in 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:05.920 a relationship. And that happens, you know, sometimes even now. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:09.600 But as women are becoming the fastest growing group of entrepreneurs, 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:12.680 as we're getting out there and working, we're realizing, well, 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.400 he did some fund up ship to me, I ain't 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:17.600 got his day, and I can and I do think 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:20.119 that for men, and they've done studies and they didn't. 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.480 Over one third of marriages one of both partners admitted cheating. 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:25.960 Of women admit to cheating, percent of men say they 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.720 did well, fourteen percent of women are line if they 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:35.000 fourteen percent? Who we fucking like the idea. I think 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:40.680 women have different justifications for what they do. Think women 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.440 also don't get caught as much. I think women wanted 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:46.800 to admit it like like yeah, that was like, no, 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:49.520 I never cheated. Women don't get caught like men do 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:51.760 it though, let's keep it real and not as my 0:08:52.960 --> 0:09:03.760 definitely did you how did you get Stephanie from my phone, like, um, 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:09.560 I got caught a few times, but one when I 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:13.400 could think of a real rememberable one is actually I 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:16.800 got drunk and I blacked out drunk usually like I 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:18.920 would sleep on my phone and like my pillow case, 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.560 like I would sleep like this one. So I got 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:25.000 drunk one night and I get drunk, and I do 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:28.120 like I would say, I don't drink no more because 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:31.000 I do stupid ship. I still do this. I still 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:33.720 do this when I come home drunk, I take everything off. 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:35.800 I start throwing everything. I throw my keys, I throw 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:38.360 my phone. I just throw everything. I don't know why. 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:43.120 It's stupid, it's it's but whatever I did that. I 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.680 threw my phone, I threw everything, and I went into 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:48.079 the bed and I went to sleep, and he went 0:09:48.120 --> 0:09:50.240 through my phone while I was sleeping. It was in there, 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:54.040 just kind of he found that. One time he found 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:57.840 sorry that one time he found um. He found an 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:02.960 email I was emailing with somebody he wasn't. And when 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.920 I see women cheating, I just don't like them. No. 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:09.200 Like I've been with I didn't can do it, but 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:13.280 women can't. But you know cheat you in the Bible, 0:10:13.320 --> 0:10:15.680 have you ever Yeah, you've cheated. Now why did you cheat? 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:19.319 Because he was cheating, that's right. See you can't even original. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.360 You just kind of that was seprecation. Oh you're doing 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:24.880 that and I'm gonna do this even. Do you know 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:27.720 every person you go to church? Right you? Yeah, you 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:29.960 want of the color. That's what y'all think. Y'all gotta do. So, 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:36.160 uh what it's true? I do I church your line 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:42.080 right right? I might get killed. So do you know 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.280 every man that you read about it in that Bible 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.680 had a lot of women, all of them women what 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:49.520 Jesus did, but that was it. But all the dudes 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:52.560 he ran what did like job? When he took his 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.680 with with job, the trials of job, he took his 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.520 wealth and health and his what women? God never said 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:01.120 Ruth and Naomi they were they belong to one guy. 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:04.959 We'll see David. But do we follow the Bible word 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:11.839 for words? Still to this. But me personally, I'm a 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:14.120 different type of woman because I believe that most menche 0:11:14.280 --> 0:11:15.920 and I believe that most men are going to cheat. 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:18.320 I believe that. How does that? How does that make 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.480 you different? Now? Because some because some of the women, 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.360 some women believe that men don't cheat. Some women believe 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.520 that they shouldn't cheat. I don't think that should cheat, 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.760 but I expect it. But I'm not. I feel like 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:36.400 there's don't cheatlie. I think majority of mention this is 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:38.760 the funny thing that's hilarious to me. There's a small 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:41.560 number of men who don't cheat. The very ship that 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.280 you like in the dude is the very ship you 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:47.480 want other women to like him. The dude, right, but 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.439 if he does something that hurts your feeling, women only 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:53.600 want a certain type of dude. The dude every woman 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.520 in here. You're very attractive. You had some dude that 0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:58.400 was crazy about you and was faithful and would do everything, 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.240 and he bored you to fucking death, and you didn't 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:03.920 like him. I mean, I'm not gonna say I didn't 0:12:03.960 --> 0:12:06.320 like him or that I got bored, but it didn't 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:09.400 work out. Any any dude who probably don't mess around 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:11.680 no more, is having a good time with his boyfriend. 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:16.240 I'm just telling either way he's cheating. Yeah, that's still cheating. 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.800 Either way, I'm cheating on. I'd rather be cheated on 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:22.559 with the woman than the boyfriend. What I'm telling you 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:27.000 nothing else so funny. You want dude, you if you 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:30.880 describe the dude that you describe in your head, the 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.120 ones that are on these movies and these poems and 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:37.880 this ship you dude. Dudes like that would bore most 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:40.520 women to death unless they've had a lot of experiences 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:43.680 and now and now are open to having some experiences 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.400 that aren't quite what they want because they look for 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:53.320 the bad boy, come home and lay up for a 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:55.720 long time, and then that was well, that was back 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:57.840 when I was a long time ago, when I was young. 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:02.320 That's right. So now, life, don't kick your head. I 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:05.319 probably was. I mean we were young, you know what 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.320 I'm saying. I wasn't shipped when I was younger at all, 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:11.480 not like, not by any means. Now that I'm older, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:13.640 like you said, I'm like, man, I'm trying to do 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:15.720 all that. It's like, I mean, I'm not even that old, 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:19.679 but I still felt like I'm cool. I lived. I lived. 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:25.400 I don't like. I do, not like the the pain 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:27.559 that you see in a woman's face when you do something. 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:29.880 That's the ship right there. So now you just get 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:35.240 better at it. Yeah, I would think that guys who 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.400 cheat should be worried that their girl is cheating. Too, 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.000 because all the time when you're like, oh, I'm going 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:42.679 to do this and cover in your tracks, she's like, 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:50.040 all right, he's out of here. Girl's trip. Call Girl's 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:54.720 Trip with the side of dick for real. And we're 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:56.760 very good at cheating because like our friends are in 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.800 on it. Yeah about that guy's cheat, and they don't 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:01.640 come be there checks. Guys, y'all cheat and do sh 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:03.680 it off on your own makeup excuses and don't inform 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:05.679 your friends that they're involved in the cheating. It's what 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:09.559 I've noticed about you cheating as a unit, and it's 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:12.120 all and it's and it's but it's always one week leak. 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:15.160 You can get to commit. You know what happens, all right, 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:21.400 I'm sorry, exactly what always want it the weak link 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.160 and we know him, but it's always Yeah, that's one 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:30.040 thing about me. When I was cheating, I wouldn't tell anybody. Yeah, 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.320 I wouldn't even tell my home girls, well except for 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:35.440 just but Justic was like telling myself, right, or you'll 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:37.200 be like, I'm going out with Angela and you're not. 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:40.360 Really that's exactly what I would do. Yeah, like I would, 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:45.480 I'm not you, but somebody like that, you are you 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:52.880 are this close to pass that way? No? No, but 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:55.840 I was saying earlier, I'm really tired today, like I 0:14:55.840 --> 0:15:00.240 couldn't sleep last I'm really tired. I'm sorry. Know I 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:07.480 like it, like the vibe. Whatever. All right, it's very 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:12.320 Latin and just there. Whatever. Now let's talk about holiday 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:14.800 season coming up and being in a new relationship. Right 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:16.920 when do you bring it up to somebody as a woman, 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:19.080 what would you advise somebody if they asked you, I've 0:15:19.080 --> 0:15:21.400 been dating this guy for three months? Okay, this is 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:24.800 a real situation. It's not me, but I need to know, 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:27.680 like is he just with me? Should I ask? Am 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:29.680 I asking? What's going on? Are we in a relationship? 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:31.680 Should you ever bring that up? Well, I'll tell you 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.120 what what the lawyers say, never ask a question you 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:37.000 don't know the answer to, And when you're on the streets, 0:15:37.240 --> 0:15:40.240 you never asked a question they didn't ask. So it 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:43.560 depends a lot of people always pretend like they want 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.400 to know some what your mama said. If you're looking 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:47.960 for something you're gonna find, make sure you're ready. And 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:50.480 a line of chicks don't want to look for around 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:53.080 the holidays because they want to go holiday like, let's see, 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:58.880 they always say that people break up the most around 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:02.000 the holidays. Yeah, the guys, they're trying to save that money. 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:05.560 They're like, let me get let me get rid of 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:09.200 this bitch to side. And you don't want to buy 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:14.360 a present that sucks, not even he's like he's buying presidents. 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:17.600 It's spending time. Like you gotta choose. You can come 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:20.240 up with something like, oh my mom's living Virginia. They 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.120 could come up with some kind of lie, but you 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:25.040 can't lie with a gift. What am I? This guy 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:27.360 for three years and never met his family. Every year 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:28.800 he would say he was going to spend time with 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:30.600 his family and never invited her. He didn't like her. 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:34.480 What his wife was there, That's that's what I said. 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:38.640 But she was made him every night his wife was there, 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:47.960 or maybe his parents were already embarrassing. My dad's embarrassing. 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:54.800 He's not he's not funny, No, he's hilarious. He's like 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:59.920 my dad says, a mad inappropriate ship he does inappropriate. 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:09.400 He's Chinese. Yes, god damn, he's so embarrassing. But so 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:12.600 he's the Chinese guy and he got a black woman. Yeah, boy, 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:15.600 did that do he had her mom was here earlier. 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.359 I bet he never with all these products on my 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.879 count why do you have a stove in the bathroom? 0:17:23.880 --> 0:17:27.520 Who fries here? He would say that he is crazy. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:29.800 He's spent thanksgiving him one of my friend's houses, and 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:34.000 he was like, this is just like so food having 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:36.480 like fried rice and stuff like that for Thanksgiving? You 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:41.240 are your friends? Think your father? No karate? He does? 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:47.679 That's that's pretty like, you know what, Most people come 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:52.040 from one experience, So it's dope that you have culturally 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.600 different experiences that you got that you kind of both 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:56.919 are right, you know, this is it's cool. I like 0:17:57.040 --> 0:17:59.800 the fact that I have like these different cultures. Have 0:17:59.880 --> 0:18:01.800 you ever done the twenty three and me or whatever? 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:08.080 Then you find out it's a sale right now? Sale sale? 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:12.399 What are you're not? It's nondescript. They had to make 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:14.000 me do it twice because they could not find out 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:15.800 where it was from. Wit can y'all tell me what 0:18:15.840 --> 0:18:20.520 it is? Because I never answers theory that could probably 0:18:20.560 --> 0:18:24.359 have a negative you like you a swaba spit or whatever, 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:25.880 and then you stand it in and they tell you 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:29.560 like you're a genetic makeup. I'm gonna do it. You're 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:39.840 not just sporting from it like that. It ain't from nowhere. Yo, 0:18:40.080 --> 0:18:43.800 that's weird. No parents found out that she was. She 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:48.000 was mad as hell. She was so mad. I had 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:49.879 a lot of white many man, I have a lot 0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:51.880 of my mother's father's wife. So I know they're gonna 0:18:51.920 --> 0:18:55.800 tell me. He said, definitely. But if it's if I 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:59.720 got white, I want white. I can use deep white. 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:02.280 I need white, I can cash in. I don't want 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:04.760 to just be a white dude that people don't recognize that. 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:07.760 I've been a nigger long enough. I want to break 0:19:08.080 --> 0:19:10.760 this if I want to. If I was, if I 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:12.800 had white to me, it better to be white. People respect. 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:15.520 I've a lot of white women have come on to you, 0:19:15.560 --> 0:19:19.119 though not really. I can't knocked off. I never knocked off. 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:22.520 Probably you would never been with a white woman. I 0:19:22.560 --> 0:19:26.520 don't believe that. Never believe you don't want to be 0:19:26.600 --> 0:19:32.879 with a white woman. That something I don't never seemed 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:37.119 to me organic where I just see some broad it's 0:19:37.160 --> 0:19:39.680 never seen. It always seemed like some old you've seen 0:19:39.800 --> 0:19:48.280 very white women accessible for I'm available. But I tell 0:19:48.320 --> 0:19:50.119 you what, if something happened to my wife, I'm going 0:19:50.160 --> 0:19:53.719 to get me a Spanish woman. What can they get 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:59.439 naked when they get drunk and if something happen to her, 0:19:59.480 --> 0:20:02.880 I'm gonna get me a uh Dominican of Porto y Why? 0:20:02.960 --> 0:20:09.000 Why is that why I've been with I've done that, 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:13.800 you know what? Maybe maybe maybe an angel the thing 0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:15.600 for me? This is this just the truth for me, 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:20.320 for me when I see black woman, not I don't. 0:20:20.480 --> 0:20:23.640 It's not some misguid that since loyally, I've just never 0:20:23.680 --> 0:20:26.800 seen anything that moved me like they do. Okay, they 0:20:29.640 --> 0:20:34.399 shut up more. But the way they the way they moved, 0:20:34.400 --> 0:20:37.159 the way they whold ship, the way they this is 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:42.239 to me nobody that I've you ever uh had like 0:20:42.359 --> 0:20:44.800 a food that hurt your stomach after you ate it, 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:47.360 but you know it's gonna hurt your stomach, but it's 0:20:47.400 --> 0:20:56.399 so good because I'm going home, I'm gonna be in 0:20:56.440 --> 0:20:59.200 the bathroom. I'm gonna be home. I can only eat 0:20:59.320 --> 0:21:01.760 something here. So a white woman's never sucked a dick 0:21:01.840 --> 0:21:08.080 or anything. Wow, Yeah, if you pay them that the same, 0:21:11.200 --> 0:21:12.840 I don't see you having to pay Why do you 0:21:12.880 --> 0:21:14.280 have I think he was telling a joke. I don't 0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:18.159 know if you wasn't cheating, but it looked like he 0:21:18.200 --> 0:21:20.640 was serious. I was, I was, I wasn't kidding. But no, 0:21:21.480 --> 0:21:23.480 it's not, it's not that, it's just not. I don't 0:21:23.520 --> 0:21:25.800 it's not a misguided says the lord. It's just they don't. 0:21:26.000 --> 0:21:28.840 Women of color. I like black and Latin women. I 0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:32.399 think they're just those are the best women. The black 0:21:32.440 --> 0:21:34.760 woman and the lying woman, they're the best. I wouldn't 0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:36.800 enough if you think it's cheating if you pay them, 0:21:37.400 --> 0:21:44.320 is that cheating? So it's not cheating if a woman 0:21:44.320 --> 0:21:46.160 pays a jigglo either. We had a jigglo one hand 0:21:46.160 --> 0:21:50.680 the other day. Well, she better use my money. I 0:21:52.440 --> 0:21:56.159 don't don't worry Overen had to pay. There are some 0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:57.800 men that, like you said, oh, I wouldn't think you 0:21:57.840 --> 0:21:59.480 had to pay. Men don't have to pay to pay 0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:01.840 out of convene. They pay you to come, handle your 0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:03.639 blasies and shut the but they pay you to shout 0:22:03.640 --> 0:22:06.040 out okay and leave. But I don't. I don't pay. 0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:08.080 I'm paying you to leave. I'm paying you not ask 0:22:08.160 --> 0:22:10.639 me no questions, but so okay, So I'm paying you 0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:12.479 to cut the chase. Now I'm paying you to come 0:22:12.520 --> 0:22:14.800 to chase I don't want to bullshit. I don't want 0:22:14.800 --> 0:22:17.360 to on the Mallberry bush bitch. You know what I want. 0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:19.840 I got to check for you like we would them out, 0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:21.879 like we were saying, you can still pay her and 0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:24.480