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Speaker 1: Ship, What's up it? Slip Services might be one of

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Speaker 1: our biggest guests ever. M Angela. Ye, I'm Stephanie Sang,

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Speaker 1: I'm g G McGuire, I'm Lauria and I'm definitely I

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Speaker 1: never look up. That's that Latin disinterested thing. How hard

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Speaker 1: I think it's why we're we are the way we

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Speaker 1: I think that that's why we have no empathy. I

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Speaker 1: think that's why people, you know, the one will get

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Speaker 1: to get why she's unconscious, to get lights because I

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Speaker 1: think people people there's no human connection. Yeah. The craziest

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Speaker 1: things happen on social media and we really don't kind

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Speaker 1: of feel too bad. People make jokes out of everything

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Speaker 1: they do, like trees crying. Yeah, I was like that

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Speaker 1: he can't see as Kenny hasn't seen as kidd in

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Speaker 1: two months, and everybody's making songs about it. And I

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Speaker 1: and everybody has a prism like it used to be.

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Speaker 1: In order to say something dumb, somebody had to ask

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Speaker 1: It's just to me when I saw Tyres as a

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Speaker 1: then you know maken of you. But you have to

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Speaker 1: admit the whole part of him saying that he's broken

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Speaker 1: these money. I was like, and then he got five

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna cry on your podcast right now. Wait, how

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Speaker 1: didn't hear that they gave him? Shut the funk up?

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Speaker 1: He posted social media and then he goes on social

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Speaker 1: media and a picture him and Smith saying like, oh,

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Speaker 1: When I saw him crying, I didn't find it funny.

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Speaker 1: But I just feel like, you know, some things you

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Speaker 1: I mean whatever, but then look at the whole society

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Speaker 1: at president you know, the biggest real with the Twitter.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I think that's what we do. That's what

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Speaker 1: I I just think you know, it's remember when Debbie

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Speaker 1: But to me, it's just like I don't know, you

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Speaker 1: you think? I think it's actuality and actuality it's not

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Speaker 1: when you let children get yours, when you let children

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Speaker 1: Who can like you? You? You want people die and

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Speaker 1: brew lies themselves at your hand. And the worst thing

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Speaker 1: up right now. Imagine this because we know you've been

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Speaker 1: carlat the way when you go? I didn't. I didn't rehabilitate,

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Speaker 1: But okay, so what about it? Men shouldn't be monogaous?

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Speaker 1: I'm paying you to leave. I'm paying you not ask

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Speaker 1: to cut the chase. Now I'm paying you to come

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Speaker 1: I got to check for you like we would them out,

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Speaker 1: If you do that, you ruin your business. The confusion

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Speaker 1: but what are we transaction? Because the confusion of the

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Speaker 1: I think when I think a lot of times guys

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Speaker 1: But that's a different, a different kind of thing. You

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Speaker 1: you want to pay for that you just would like

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Speaker 1: you to be all right. I don't want like I

424
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 1: was in the I was in the store yesterday and uh,

425
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 1: I think I told you the story. I was in

426
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,239
Speaker 1: the store and they said, hey, you stupid bitch, like

427
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: he said that third literally about it. Why would you

428
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 1: even want to be with somebody you think that little love? What?

429
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 1: What is the thing about that? That don't make you

430
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: a man? That's why? Why would you want to dehumanize somebody?

431
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 1: And that's how you Why would you want to you

432
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 1: want to be around like life is so short? Why

433
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 1: would you want to be around anybody that doesn't do

434
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: it for you? Said you like a superman? You know

435
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: what it is? This is my honest truth. Man, A

436
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: man is never supposed to I think that women, women

437
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: of color, all women, but a man has a certain

438
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: level of responsibility, like you shouldn't just let no woman

439
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: get her ass, which you should just let some ship slide.

440
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: And the only if you're a man and the only

441
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,719
Speaker 1: you only read you exist on the face of the

442
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: earth is to protect and provide for the people you love.

443
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 1: That's all you exist for. So if you and that

444
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: extends to everybody that's in your in your circle like

445
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 1: that when that guerrilla, uh, that baby fell in with

446
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: that guerrilla and Cincinnati and they shot to guerrilla. He

447
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 1: only exists to provide and protect for his family. That's

448
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: all he does. That's what he never wants tried to

449
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: hurt the baby. The females ran on the hill and

450
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 1: he was like, who baby is this? But I think

451
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: men and I think women act like they act now

452
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: because you said something earlier. You said it is because

453
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: they can work and they could they get they have

454
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 1: their own money. It used to be a time a

455
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 1: woman knew there was a dude who had her back,

456
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 1: and she didn't want to act a certain wife whether

457
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: he had another family, and that was an issue. It

458
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: was that you knew he's gonna do what he had

459
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: to do to take care of his family and he

460
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna let nobody do anything to it that she.

461
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: I think women feel unprotected and that's why they act

462
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 1: like that. You know what part of the problem though

463
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,959
Speaker 1: with men cheating is that sometimes the other woman feels

464
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 1: like really entitled and disrespectful, and that's the problem that

465
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: men like they cheat, and then the other woman is

466
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: I got your man, you don't want you, and they've

467
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: been email this is not fun. But I'm saying that's

468
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,959
Speaker 1: the disrespect because it's not even that you just cheated

469
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: and you're taking care of home, but you're not taking

470
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: care of home, and somebody else could come talk about you.

471
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 1: Look here, look here. It was three You were young dudes,

472
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: so you don't know. I'm sorry your wife hit me

473
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: right before. This is right when I grew up in

474
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 1: the three rules, it was that you had to be home.

475
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,239
Speaker 1: You had to take care of your family. You had

476
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: to be home for the street lights came on and

477
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: the sun came up, and you couldn't let no bullshit

478
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: come to your house right hour. But the idea was

479
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 1: I knew dudes and a lot of dudes who grew

480
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: who raised two families, and there was both on the

481
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 1: other side of the town. And they met at the funeral.

482
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: But everybody understood they always met at the funeral. They like,

483
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: they're looking like daddy. But people both both parties got

484
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: that this dude, take care of us, and I don't

485
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 1: want to see. It's it's the choices you make. Like

486
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: I think that women judge men on the choices that

487
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: you this bitchy Oh come on right, And but not

488
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,679
Speaker 1: even whether the guy cheated on me with her or not.

489
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 1: If is somebody in the past before me, it's like, oh,

490
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: you were her. That's like anybody. Going back to what

491
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: you were saying about having different families and stuff, y'all

492
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,400
Speaker 1: know that I have a sister that sixteen days younger

493
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: than me, and my mother and her mother. Neither one

494
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: of my mother's is my is my my father's wife.

495
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 1: Damn he didn't played like you know, but how does

496
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: that affect you? Because then you also have to think

497
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 1: how does that affect the families and the kids? Well,

498
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: growing up the mothers, you know, we're against each other.

499
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: As we grew up, and my father kept us, all

500
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: the children close, the mothers had no choice but to

501
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: accept each other, and my mother, my mother, and my

502
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: favorite stepmother became really close over the years. Unfortunately, the

503
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: third mother never really joined in, and you know they

504
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: just never you know, got your father. But my father

505
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: kept all like me and my brothers and sisters. We

506
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: are all very very close. No, he wasn't. And he

507
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: kept us family, orient said, he kept us with with

508
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: his family a lot growing up. And um, my father

509
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: has a type. We all look. You can't tell whose

510
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: mothers who because all of us look exactly like because

511
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: all of our mothers look like sisters. You know, I

512
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: respect well, there's there used to be a thing called

513
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: honor among fays. We're doing dirt, but at least we

514
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: get it. But I remember I got jammed up, right,

515
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 1: So I had knocked this check up and she had

516
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: the baby, and the baby got killed. I heard by

517
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: her boyfriend, and so it was a horrible, horrible experience.

518
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: So I had this baby, I'm paying for I'm I'm

519
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: a boy, I'm scared, I'm married, I'm just starting out

520
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: my career and I um, I get a call from

521
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: my boy and he said, your your son is in

522
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: the hospital. And I go and they were cape buried

523
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: and she was from Cabra. So I go to the

524
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: hospital and this boy uh was laying in the bed

525
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: and apparently her boyfriend is shacking him and and and

526
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: her damaged. So what I always thought about was that

527
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: I knew that one day I would be mad enough

528
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: to tell my woman what had happened, and it would

529
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: either because I think you shouldn't leave children out there

530
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: by themselfs. But I was weak and dumb small, So

531
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: he passes. I'm so funked up. Finally, one day I

532
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: tell my wife. You know what she said to me,

533
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: I wish you'd have told me and we could have

534
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: went through this together. And that's when. And so months

535
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: years later, I'm at the airport. That was when you

536
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: could remember you should be able to go to the

537
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: airport with your You didn't have to go you didn't

538
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: have to have a ticket to go through. You can

539
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: beat your family or whatever. The girl that that I

540
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: had the baby with it is there. My wife gets it,

541
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: meets me at the plane. I I see her see us,

542
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: and I know she's thinking she got me in the

543
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: trick bag, and I say, baby, this is the girl

544
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 1: had the baby by. My wife said, I'm so sorry

545
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: for your loss, and I and I felt so small

546
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: because I was. I was a coward two ways, and

547
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: it starts to change the way you see stuff. I

548
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: think when you're very young, and you like I never

549
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: thought that. I never felt bad about my inclinations too.

550
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: I have felt bad about the damages is done to

551
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: the people in my life, and I don't want to

552
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: be the kind of guy that, in the end of

553
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 1: your life, you just broken a bunch of people, children

554
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: and women and family. And so I think a lot

555
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: of guys feel like that. It doesn't mean that I

556
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: don't do what I do, but it's it means that

557
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: I take measure of what I do. And it doesn't

558
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: like I feel bad for you that you you were

559
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: telling me about your your father and how I kept

560
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: you would have been he would have been that to me.

561
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: I think I would have been that kind of guy.

562
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: And it makes me sad for you that something like

563
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: that happens to you, but it makes me happy. It

564
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: makes me happy for you that you had a man

565
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: that guided you through that he wasn't a coward, and

566
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: I don't No matter what I do with the rest

567
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: of my life, I'll always know that moments where the

568
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: common I was a coward. The craziest thing about all

569
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: of that is that, of course we all were raised together,

570
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: but I didn't find out that I always thought that

571
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 1: I was a year older than my sister. I didn't

572
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: find out that we were sixteen days apart until maybe

573
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: like three or four years. That's crazy, So you never

574
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: really knew like her, No, so that part, like I

575
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: knew that we were all snair steps, Like I knew that,

576
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: you know, he went back and forth back and forth

577
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: because there's a brother, there's a brother and another sister

578
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: that we're all like a year year year year, you know.

579
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: So I knew he was going back and forth. But

580
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: when I found out that my sister was sixteen, my

581
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: head was borne, like I couldn't believe that. So I

582
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: can't right, that means that means our mother has been

583
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: pregnant at the same time, the same amount of mom

584
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: the same amount of weeks going through the station, and

585
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: he's going back and forth between them, but still got

586
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: a wife at home, and then she turned around and

587
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: had a baby after we were born. I have a

588
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: brother that's younger than us. That is by your problem

589
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: is you know math, that's your you didn't start reading ship.

590
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: That's fact that he like raised you guys together and

591
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: that y'all. So he took care of all of us.

592
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: We were I was in the private school and everything,

593
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: but my the mother even though the mothers fod each

594
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: other so much, he didn't care. He snatched us up

595
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: and had had us with his family, and he were

596
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: able to be together no matter what our mothers. You know,

597
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: we're going through amongst themselves, playing on each other phone

598
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: and the fighting and all of that. He made sure

599
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: that he grabbed us up and they picked us up

600
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: and took us holidays together and everything and everything is

601
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: the thing. This is the women say funny things. When

602
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: he wanted to give an advice to you, gotta let

603
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: a man be a man. How do you let a

604
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: man be a man? I am? You know. I think

605
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: that one of the things that one of the reasons

606
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: I was interested in talking to you because I watched

607
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: I watch what you do. And the thing about a

608
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: woman is you you pick your shots and you do

609
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: it as good as I've seen anybody. In the meeting.

610
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm doing a long time because you between two pretty

611
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: strong personalities. But there isn't a week that goes by

612
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: that I don't remember something you said. And I'm not

613
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: inclined to listen to women. I'm just not. I don't

614
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: want some movies. I'm not being disrespectful, I just you

615
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: have to be very interesting on a level I understand

616
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: or am interested in for me. But I always hear

617
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: something you say, and it's because you come across as

618
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: human and you you know how bright you gotta be

619
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: to be as bright as the day. That's that's a

620
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: pretty amazing thing. And so that's what interested to me

621
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: in me. And then I got the little uh Latin

622
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: and nice and I went out and I got to

623
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: know my side. Now when you think about somebody like

624
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: Cardi B. Since we're talking about women, and you know,

625
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: you know, she recently said that she feels like she

626
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: wants to be more Pg. Thirteen. They made it because

627
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: she sees a lot of girls just as her for

628
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: Halloween and are looking up to her. Do you think

629
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: that Cardi B? Is? It's not my thing, but I

630
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: can't judge it. I mean, everybody I like hear his

631
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: bloody shoes. I mean, I think people. I think you

632
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 1: have to give somebody credit for managing to be heard

633
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 1: through all this clutter. And I think it's it's kind

634
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: of like wanting to be married after you already had

635
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: some kids, you know what I mean, You've already become,

636
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: you know, a star, and then you want a level

637
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: of responsibility and that's not bad either. Um. I think

638
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: that most people who are who actudent only make something happen.

639
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: It's it's better to feel a sense of responsibility than

640
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 1: to not, because some people say, don't change who you are,

641
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 1: just continue to be unfiltered and uncensored. But you know,

642
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: she probably didn't know that she was gonna end up

643
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: being It's a surprise, and I think that it's human

644
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: for somebody to realize that people are listening to them

645
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 1: and to feel a sense of responsibility. And to me,

646
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: that resonates more to me than fucking you know who

647
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: I want, I know where I'm at, you know who

648
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: I be. I'll never but I relate to her as

649
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 1: an artist. Some of the greatest things that ever happened

650
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: were accidents. Fucking champagne, penicillin, America, all accidents, so and

651
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 1: and they turned out pretty good. So I think people too. Yeah,

652
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:28,720
Speaker 1: I think it's dope that she all of a sudden

653
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: is looking at people around her and seeing kids dressing

654
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: like her and seeing something and not wanting to just

655
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: uh take the money and run. Right now, let me

656
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: ask you this, being that you have it, your daughter

657
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: works with you, right, Um, what do you tell her

658
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: about being in a relationship, like should she expect that

659
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: a man teaching? Would you say, okay, give him another chance,

660
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: or would you be angry? My my daughter says something

661
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: to me that kind of hurt me and made me

662
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: both my daughter that one works for me and one

663
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: just takes money from me. But I I want a

664
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 1: man who loves me like I know you love my mother,

665
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: but to not be you because I'm I'm I'm I'm

666
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: a selfish dude. I feel entitled to do ship and

667
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 1: it's is you can see it in your your daughter.

668
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: One time, my daughter sit on the radio, It's like

669
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: if you found out the Superman wasn't what he said

670
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: he was. Where does the sense of entitlement come from?

671
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 1: I think the way you grow up it was never success.

672
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 1: It was like I always thought that that you, just

673
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: like all of you, I had to fight to be.

674
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: Like I was talking to you, you have to fight

675
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: to be heard, you have to fight to count, you

676
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: have to like in a family and a situation right,

677
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,479
Speaker 1: and so so when you when you when you live

678
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 1: your life fighting, what does the victor get the spoils? Right?

679
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: If you win the war, you get the ship that

680
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,800
Speaker 1: they were fighting for so you that that gives you

681
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: a sense of time. I never felt guilty about what

682
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: I did, and I think that that's an abusive stance

683
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: to take. Like I'm aware of what I do and

684
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,240
Speaker 1: and and have been. I just don't necessarily haven't always

685
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: taken the measurement. Have you ever done therapy? I drinks?

686
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: I knew it. I swear to god. You talk just

687
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: like my ex boyfriend, and he's a Pisces and a

688
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: lot of your views are very very bad fish, you know,

689
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: like what you said about it's not the fact that

690
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 1: what you're doing, your actions and cheating that bothers him.

691
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 1: He that don't bother him. It's the hurt that he caused,

692
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: Like and he said that to me before, like you know,

693
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: like me seeing like what I did to you and

694
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: made me see like damn, I'm really fucking up for

695
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: doing that you But he don't think what he did

696
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: was fucked up. You ever feel like you could be

697
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 1: in love with like ever fun and love with somebody else,

698
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think that you can. I don't

699
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: think that love is a love is not a limited

700
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: uh options. You have amazing capacity for love. I think

701
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: that it would be difficult for me to feel the

702
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: way I do about I was very lucky and to

703
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 1: help a couple of ways. She's known me since I

704
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 1: was eighteen years old, so she she knows the totality

705
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 1: of me. So anybody meeting me now it's in mid stream.

706
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: It's easy to dig me now. But when I was scared,

707
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: when I was weak, or when I was had a

708
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 1: regular nine But but so so every relationship I have had,

709
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: whether business or personal or sexual, is about what is this?

710
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: What's this all about? You always have that in the

711
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: back of it, like, Okay, you know, I am so

712
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: lad that people give me something. I'd be like, I

713
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: don't care how that happens. I don't. I don't like

714
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: something to be like, no woman is with a man

715
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: like it's so funny because a lot of women aren't women.

716
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 1: They want to be with they do they settle for

717
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: settling down. It's like, I really want to be that's right,

718
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 1: So I don't. I don't feel bad. I'm like, my

719
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: old lady could have did better. She got me. She's like,

720
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: I could have been with well, you with me. I

721
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: don't care being a company real, you ain't gonna do that.

722
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna do watch your conduct. Yeah, I just

723
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: think I think that you can't. The best thing you

724
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: can ever do for another human being is to not

725
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: necessarily tell them what you do, but to tell them

726
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: who you are. And you can tell them in all

727
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: kinds of by being consistently who you are, but but

728
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: by standing to a set of standards you believe. Then Like,

729
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: I've been such a It's so funny to me because

730
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: I've been. I have done such horrible things as a

731
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 1: young man, and such fearful and weak things as a

732
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: young man. It's why I think I see the world

733
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: the way I do now. I just think that you.

734
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: I don't want to live my life being afraid to

735
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: lose something. After all I've been through, I believe that

736
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to say what I believe and and and

737
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,399
Speaker 1: let the chips fall with it. Man. Wow, I mean,

738
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: so do you lie? Like if you get caught doing

739
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: by the police to the police, But I mean like

740
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, was you with this? No, I will

741
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: say this. I will make sure that you want to

742
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: hear what I have to say before I say it. Wow.

743
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: So basically like you really want to I'll tell you, right, ring.

744
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,720
Speaker 1: You gotta give people you know you're going to roller coaster,

745
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: and they always go, here's your last chance to get

746
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: I tried to do that all right now, I want

747
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,959
Speaker 1: to switch gears a little bit. I was telling the girls,

748
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: I watched the show right, my six hundred pound life.

749
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen that show with the people that

750
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: are like six hundred pounds and over? And I want

751
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: to ask you, have you ever given up on trying

752
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: to help somebody that needs help? I was watching the

753
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: show right the woman is six hundred and sixty one pounds.

754
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: Her sister was being so mean to her, and I

755
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: felt kind of bad for her because she was like, Oh,

756
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: I need to go to this doctor in Houston, and

757
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 1: I need you to drive me. I really want to

758
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 1: get better. I found this doctor and she's like no,

759
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 1: and then she's like, I'll go with you, but I'm

760
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: not driving it too far. We gotta get on the plane.

761
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: And you know how hard it is for somebody six

762
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: hundred and sixty pounds. She had to buy the whole

763
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: row and not not even just that, but like it

764
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,359
Speaker 1: was hard for her to even get outside the house,

765
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: get in the car, get to the airport, get on

766
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: the plane, she was embarrassed. It was humiliating. Then when

767
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: she got to the hotel, she was um. She went

768
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and there was blood all in her yearine,

769
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: so something mustn't happened, like you know, she's traveling. They

770
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: had to take her to the hospital. Anyway, I'm obsessed

771
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: with the show, but I kind of felt like her

772
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: sister was being really rude and nasty to her, like

773
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you there and then I'm gonna leave you.

774
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I don't heard you say this before.

775
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: And I was wondering, because you know, she could die

776
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: her family if she doesn't have somebody help her or whatever.

777
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: Have you ever had to give up on somebody because

778
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 1: you just felt like they're just not gonna I think

779
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: I've given up. Like I have a cousin who's my um.

780
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: He's he is the most charming crackhead I've ever and

781
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:42,840
Speaker 1: I I want to believe so I can say that

782
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: I've said to him, there are things I won't do

783
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: for you, but I'll never let you just die like

784
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna. I just I think that it would

785
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: be the height of hypocrisy for me to give up

786
00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:00,120
Speaker 1: on somebody when people didn't give up on me. But

787
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 1: I can't let you just keep making me look weak,

788
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 1: like he would just do things like he would take

789
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: my daughter's you know, uh ps two and sell it.

790
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: It's just just all kinds of things that made me

791
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: look so fucking dumb. So I said, I, you know,

792
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: like I'll sneaky like I but I don't want to

793
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: give up on them to the extent that he don't

794
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: believe anybody in the corner in this corner, So I

795
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: can say that things I won't be available for, but

796
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: I'll never just say if he's like I want to

797
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: go get help, I found a doctor, You're there if

798
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: he can fool me enough to believe he believes it.

799
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: Like there's some people hard and hard so much that

800
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: go you lie to me so many times, and now

801
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: you're gonna pay for this. I don't believe that as

802
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: a human being, you're right is to take chances with

803
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: people you love. And if you your your responsibility, is

804
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 1: it what a coward you are? And like I said,

805
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: I spent enough for my life being weak and small

806
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:53,840
Speaker 1: that I don't want to do that again. So I'd

807
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: rather air on the side of doing something that make

808
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 1: that maybe make me look foolish and not being there

809
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: for human being, Right, I like that point you just

810
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 1: you started to make and then you kind of cut

811
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: yourself off. But when you was like what a coward

812
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 1: you are? For? Like not what giving a person another chance?

813
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,279
Speaker 1: Is that basically what you're gonna say? Yeah, giving them

814
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:18,479
Speaker 1: another chance because they've done something before or whatever the case.

815
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: When you, when you have done things in your life

816
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 1: you feel cowardly about, you spend every other moment trying

817
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: to make sure that you don't feel that way. Right,

818
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: that's it. That's an unrelenting thing. And we all have

819
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: done cowardly things, like let's keep it real, everybody in here. Yeah,

820
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: but most people don't admit it. I'm one of those

821
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: people who don't admit it. Now, none of us in

822
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 1: here have ever been married. We haven't right relationship for

823
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 1: seven and a half years. I agree. But so I

824
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: always think that when peop to get married, they stopped

825
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: having sex after a while, and they go for long periods.

826
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why I think that, maybe because I

827
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: know I was in a living relationship for seven and

828
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: a half years, and even through all our problems, the

829
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: only time we didn't have sex was that, you know,

830
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: thirty five days after I gave birth to my son.

831
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: Like we were we would be mad at each other

832
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, like we went to Yeah, we

833
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 1: waited thirty five days. What's the point of having to

834
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: latinether if you can't have sex. Rather in I was

835
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: really young and we were like rabbits, like we wanted

836
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: to have mad sex. Like I went into labor from

837
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: having sex, like we were having sex. Yes, And even

838
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: though like I was saying, then something in the way,

839
00:45:51,640 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: somebody's closed the door. I'm serious, we went into that

840
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: like that morning. I can tell you when I'm when

841
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: I went into labor that morning. Um, you know they

842
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: say you start nesting. So I woke up and I

843
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 1: started like washing dishes at like it was four in

844
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: the morning. I couldn't sleep, and he woke up at

845
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: like five thirty for work, and I was like, all right,

846
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: let's have sex before you go to work. And we

847
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: had sex. And that's when I was like, Okay, I

848
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: got a contraction, and he was like, all right, I'm

849
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 1: gonna calling him. I'm not gonna go in and amekr sir.

850
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: But anyway, through the seven and a half years. Like

851
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: we would have nasty arguments, nasty fights, sex, we wouldn't um,

852
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 1: we wouldn't we would we wouldn't even be talking. But

853
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:42,280
Speaker 1: we would still like manage to have sex like five

854
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: times in the week every single week, like we wouldn't

855
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 1: like like we literally would not be talking when be

856
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 1: going about our business. I'll do my day, he'll do

857
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: his day. We'll meet each other in the house and

858
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: I'll be like, all right, are you ready, and we'll

859
00:46:55,680 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: just go out. I'll turn around, we'll have sex. Yeah,

860
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:09,919
Speaker 1: you are the best, the best being on the face

861
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 1: of the earth. Serious and I'm serious then and then

862
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: we'll finish and I was like, all right, get me

863
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: the rag and we'll go right back in. That's the

864
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: last words will say to each other. You love each

865
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: other during sex and everything still sometimes but it would

866
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: be like argument sex, It'll be like yeah, you know,

867
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: it'll be like things like that. Definitely, let's getting um,

868
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: you know, like I like that. That's not that I

869
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 1: think a lot of women. I think every woman does

870
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: not everybody a little bit. It depends out smack in

871
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 1: the face. I don't really want to get snack and

872
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 1: that's a hair pull smack like a hairpull. I like

873
00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: an hairpull. Think about that and you kid ask, you

874
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: gotta just do it. And sometimes it goes too far.

875
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: So that's how you know. It's making the face of

876
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: appropriate whenness that right time like this, it's only a

877
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 1: right time when you can get away with this next

878
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: I think that might just ruin my whole movie. I

879
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:24,280
Speaker 1: was not hit me choking. I'm that's I was dealing

880
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 1: with somebody and he choked me a little too hard.

881
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: I was like, Nah, this motherfucker might kill me one that,

882
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Like I really thought that. I was like, yeah, I

883
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: was like, i gotta stop talking with him because I'm

884
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: about to die, like because I had never even been

885
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: choked before. So he didn't what you like that at first?

886
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: The first time it was cool, but the second time,

887
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: I guess he was like, let me put a little

888
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: more pressure, like let me turning blue and ship like

889
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: you're turning blue now? Literally, no, I'm not gonna lie.

890
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't breathe like, I was like, na, he's that's

891
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: not because he like started to come, you know, he

892
00:48:55,640 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: was coming, so he got a chill, like you know,

893
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: they didn't come fast or otherwise somebody go in hospital.

894
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, he would have been a jail for

895
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 1: the way to die. And he wasn't even trying to murder.

896
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 1: He wasn't just coming. He was trying to probably would

897
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:18,320
Speaker 1: have got off of that, no, not actually would have

898
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: got off of that back, Yeah, he was. He wasn't

899
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: get off. I think you could kill somebody with an alibi.

900
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: He still ain't getting They had a dude in New

901
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: Jersey to kill a shot of dude that was breaking

902
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 1: into his house to kill his son. To my mentality

903
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: type ship. He didn't get off because people do get

904
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: off of the rough sex thing. Gucci man got off him.

905
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 1: What's the safe word? Stop? I was, I can't tell

906
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: you this, I can't. This cat is a he's a

907
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,360
Speaker 1: famous comp. I can't tell you his name. So he

908
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: playing his gig and King Accommodate and uh we in

909
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: the Bay Area, right, and so I get this knock

910
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: on my door and uh, this cat comes, he said,

911
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: man kind of my room. I go, I go, I go,

912
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 1: what's up? He goes, something's wrong. So he had he

913
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 1: had this ship. She's tied up to the bed and

914
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 1: she's naked and she's unconscious and uh, he said, I said, man,

915
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 1: what happened? He said, he had this cat of nine tales?

916
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: Was this that whip? And he was they had always

917
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: whipped like he that he whipped her and um, all

918
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: of a sudden she told him it was hurting and

919
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 1: he couldn't stop. I said. He said, I couldn't stop

920
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 1: because why he whipped. So then I said, hey, man,

921
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not in this ship and I'm

922
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 1: not touching nobody. And she woke up. She woke up,

923
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: and she said, hey, dl water and then went out

924
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: a right funny's supposed to do. Like man, I'm not

925
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: in it. He was like, here, hold me the body.

926
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: She wouldn't woke up. And I went right through the

927
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: front dad, and they killed somebody. He killed it. She

928
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: didn't wake up. Dat a toad. I swear the guy

929
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: out of toad. You can't be killing motherfucker. I'm I'm

930
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: not doing me. Would you I would help me out

931
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,880
Speaker 1: the body? Yes, they would help me. A friend of you,

932
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm man. I'm not telling if my kids did some

933
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 1: like I love them, but if they did something that

934
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: it spread out harm to humanity on something just old

935
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 1: evil hump up. But mean to kill it. I mean,

936
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: she's not dead, but I might have my daughter's but

937
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 1: my son, I tell on her, my son. If I

938
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,399
Speaker 1: murder somebody, I'm gonna send him to jail. How could

939
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 1: you do that? I raised you better than now. What

940
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: are you doing murdering people? You gotta go to jail. Somebody.

941
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: It was kind of killed, like if somebody, if it

942
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: was if it was a justifiable kill, I will help.

943
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 1: But if he's being I don't like that. But if

944
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: he was being an animal about things, you know, like,

945
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call the police on him, like you gotta

946
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: go do the time? You wouldn't tell him. I'm sorry,

947
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:36,240
Speaker 1: you kid, you can. I was an accident. I've watched.

948
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that when I was when I when

949
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 1: I was a kid, I grew up a Hunting's school

950
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: at lock Guarden. So I'm a little kid, right, not

951
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,839
Speaker 1: a kid, but tinge welve, maybe two or four. These

952
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: kids they go, we got this chick were running the

953
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 1: trade on that right, And I go, oh wow, I've

954
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 1: always heard about this. What are you rt? I was

955
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: no um and so I hope that no. No I was.

956
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: So I go and I see this girl and they

957
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: are doing it to her, and I'm like, I don't

958
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 1: think she's this is not She's not with it, and

959
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: I said this ain't. She's not and I remember, so

960
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: I say, I don't. And these dudes are older than me,

961
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 1: and I like love them and that always been impressed

962
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,839
Speaker 1: by them, but at that moment, I thought that they

963
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: were like it was theirs, like it's one of the

964
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: first times I saw men who I loved and respected,

965
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: seems small to me, like they were. I was like,

966
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,760
Speaker 1: she's a girl and you and so I remember getting

967
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 1: their clothes and I said, she's not with it, and

968
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: she got and they're older than me, and I'm not

969
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: even scared because I'm like, even if something go left,

970
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 1: So to put on her clothes and she smelled like

971
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 1: pennies and it was she smelled like this real weird

972
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: smell that I would later on know that smells like blood,

973
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: like because spell a copper. So I get her clothes.

974
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 1: We walked and they hit me in the head and

975
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: pushing me and called me and buster and I was

976
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: weak and I never so I walked her to her neighborhood.

977
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 1: It was like five or maybe eight blocks away. When

978
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: we get the closer. Never she screams and runs towards

979
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: her brother, and this motherfucker picks up a butcher knife

980
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: and she is so hysterical she can't tell him. So

981
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: he's chasing me around the car and he catches me

982
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 1: and he goes, uh. He said, she said it wasn't him.

983
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 1: It wasn't him, And he said, I know this nigga,

984
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: know who did it. And I said, I can't tell

985
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 1: you who did it. He said, if you don't tell

986
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: me who did it, I'm gonna cut you. I said,

987
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: but they'll kill me. He said, I swear to guy,

988
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,400
Speaker 1: you got three. I'm accounter three. You're gonna tell me.

989
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: And I closed my eyes and waited for him the

990
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: cup and so he didn't. And so while I'm walking away,

991
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: he hit it like both the mothers. The dude my

992
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: neighborhood was hitting me, and he was hitting me because

993
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: I'm getting my ask with her and I ain't. Don't

994
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 1: sit it wrong. So you months weeks later, at this

995
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: joint called Smithy's Liquor Store on hun, I see this

996
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 1: dude and he says, thank you. But I always like

997
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 1: to me even though I I wanted to be like,

998
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 1: I didn't think that it was right to do ship

999
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: to people that you knew you could. And even though

1000
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 1: I did, like the thing with my son, or I've

1001
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,399
Speaker 1: done things that made me feel well, I always thought

1002
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: that I always knew. The greatest thing I've ever done

1003
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: to me is that that now I know I'm a

1004
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: human being. Like, I don't think it's so. I think

1005
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to go all out for people you love.

1006
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,840
Speaker 1: I think you're supposed to try. I think you're supposed

1007
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: to treat everybody with a level of certain respect in

1008
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: d City. And I think if it costs you skin,

1009
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 1: that's the price you paid for being a human. When

1010
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: did you know he was gonna be a comedian? I

1011
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: never thought about it. I never like I always knew.

1012
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 1: I was like I was really dumb, so chicks would

1013
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: always laugh at me. You know, do key either hustle

1014
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 1: or the sport or play sports or make chicks laugh.

1015
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: That's how you got When I was a kid, that

1016
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: was what my career choice was. I wanted to be

1017
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 1: a calm a comedian, and I wanted to be like

1018
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,919
Speaker 1: a voiceover person like Hello and welcome to movie phone.

1019
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 1: That's the best ship ever, I swear you're thank you.

1020
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm a little tired to them. I'm sorry.

1021
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:45,399
Speaker 1: I'm glad you ain't on energy. That's like I told

1022
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: you about that. I didn't we have a conversation about it.

1023
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: What I switch because first of all, you're not even

1024
00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: drinking your bit too. I ain't gonna lie that. Burbon

1025
00:56:52,560 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: I got back to sibies rescue dogs they have you

1026
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:06,320
Speaker 1: never get your rescue dog rescue dog rescue dogs, like,

1027
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: of course you're side baby rescue rescue dogs. They know

1028
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 1: they was this close to going out. Let always say,

1029
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 1: she's been through the system, Like, listen to the system.

1030
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: So you don't mind that she's been through the system. Coyal.

1031
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: She loved me, very loyal. You know why she knows.

1032
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 1: She and she like we're the same. You'll be doing

1033
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: that ship in the cover you and I must never alright,

1034
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: so listen, we appreciate you for coming through. We never

1035
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: really listen. This is a big deal deal. Huguley was here,

1036
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: one of our biggest guests ever, and you told him

1037
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: great stories. I was like, what are we going to

1038
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 1: talk to him about? I'm glad you're do no chicken

1039
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: and you the fucking dope ship ever so much. Drunk. Man,

1040
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 1: she's gonna be ned and I'm drunk. I told Jack

1041
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 1: and drink. Yeah she might. I can't do it. I'm fine.

1042
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: I don't thank you. I don't want to be one.

1043
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: But that's another thing. I have a drinking problem. I

1044
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: can't just have a shot once I drink. I gotta

1045
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 1: drink the whole bottle. I love you serious the best ever.

1046
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,720
Speaker 1: It's true, Ray, you know what. I was wanted to

1047
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 1: ask you how your name because then the term DL

1048
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:37,959
Speaker 1: came about, and I feel like that had to suck.

1049
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: Actually really actually like this naked do it so much?

1050
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: That was that? That was like the first time ever,

1051
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: Like when I grew up, it was deal was baseball?

1052
00:58:54,520 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 1: What was that in base it was disabled sports? Disabled?

1053
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: You can't be so your nickname was disabled. My name

1054
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 1: is Darrell Lead. But this is getting word, he said

1055
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: to him. He just made him just hate just that. Yeah,

1056
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 1: and then uh and then uh, no way around. And

1057
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: then there was like then it became download I guess

1058
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: something and everybody was reading and I was like, I'm

1059
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: stuck with the name because I always felt like I

1060
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 1: don't want to just call you d L. I'm at

1061
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: the I'm the postal check and I remember somebody said

1062
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: you downlow. I'm like what but but and they could

1063
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 1: do it so much he got that like I just

1064
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: I just laughed because I thought about it, like down't wait,

1065
01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: you didn't know that's what we would talking about this

1066
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: whole time. No I did, but I just thought about it,

1067
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: and it made me make you Puerto Rico. That's certain

1068
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: names that suct like if you're a white girl named Becky,

1069
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: and I saw Becky came out like when Erica be

1070
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: put out. Tyrone definitely went through it with Stephanie happy

1071
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: yeahs over it's so yeah like and some dude said

1072
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: it to me and fucking Memphis something. What are you saying?

1073
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 1: What do you sud like you because of that? Like

1074
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: we know you, but you know what they think about it.

1075
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: I've never this is probably horrible, but nobody has ever

1076
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: like gay dudes, don't come on me, white come on

1077
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,840
Speaker 1: to me, like I'm like, hey man, I'm attracting right

1078
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: when I was a little when I was a young dude,

1079
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: this dude as a little boy, he was a cat.

1080
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 1: I can't say name because y'all running this ship just

1081
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: to be but he used to He used to he

1082
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: was a boy scouting and he used to have all

1083
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 1: little boys over houth. He was not he was knocking

1084
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 1: them all, but he never did it to me. So

1085
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: a little boy leader house, crying and with candy in

1086
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: the hands. Now I'm not that bad, and I was

1087
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: like years later, no one's ever tried to fondle me.

1088
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: I've never been you've never been on a casting house never,

1089
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: How do you win? Everybody said, Sirie didn't he Oh

1090
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 1: my god? And now you hear about Kevin Spacey. You

1091
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: hear about all these people, and it's like nobody, all

1092
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 1: the people getting my findo and nobody touched me inappropriately. Listen,

1093
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: I'm doing a whole ary about this whole ring in

1094
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 1: Hollywood have pedophiles. You know that, and I'm sure you

1095
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: had to hear stories about it though even before I know.

1096
01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: But I was sold forlorn because nobody touched me, and

1097
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 1: that that didn't happened like bet and stuff. You know,

1098
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: he didn't got enough money to money to beified. Let

1099
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: you look at you, but you didn't let me touch you.

1100
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: You can be I'm coming with you. You would be

1101
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: miss Cleo sla things, but you didn't know about Bill Cosby,

1102
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: you know I did. I had an argument with Bill. Yeah,

1103
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 1: I remember you said that we never will get to

1104
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 1: hear it. Yeah, you never will get here because what

1105
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 1: we were what was that? It was radios? Uh, it

1106
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 1: was kids here and I was hosting the radio show

1107
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: and um me Jackie Reid cat named Steve Wilson hosting

1108
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: the show. Bill Cosby calls in to do his interview

1109
01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: and he, uh, he's a dick being obnoxious. I know

1110
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: he don't like me, so I go, I'll let them

1111
01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: do the radios. Didn't like you because I didn't. He didn't. Yeah,

1112
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 1: we did deaf jam and you know it was some

1113
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 1: old he just philosophically didn't agree with the way I

1114
01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 1: did comment. So he's doing this interview with Jackie and

1115
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: Steve and he's being such a dick. After ten fifteen

1116
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: ten ten five ten minutes, I go, Mr Kazi, what

1117
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: is it you like us to know? When he goes

1118
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: who is this like O dear deluge And you say, nigga,

1119
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: you do this? I said, with no offense, Ms Kazi,

1120
01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 1: I say nigga, but no chickens ever working with a

1121
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: draws on backwards because dude, you could have been my son.

1122
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 1: I said, I'm not your son. I said, I've never

1123
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 1: disrespected the way you do comedy. I said, but but

1124
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: but in terms of of of I'm father, I've never

1125
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: you know, the ship I've never done and you you

1126
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 1: you just ship on my life because you have a

1127
01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:01,000
Speaker 1: certain purview, but you've done things that are morally repugnant

1128
01:04:01,320 --> 01:04:04,520
Speaker 1: or words like that. We're back, go, go back and forth.

1129
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:08,960
Speaker 1: He says that he said, get something about this. This

1130
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,439
Speaker 1: interview ain't gonna happen. I like the funk it ain't.

1131
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 1: And five of timides later, people from Immage Communications came

1132
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: down and put it. They that and like and I'm like,

1133
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 1: so I knew what I've never done, but I've never

1134
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: understood and I've admitted here and not just here, how

1135
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: cowardly and weak I've been at times in my life.

1136
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 1: But what I've never done is to take something from somebody.

1137
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: And I thought that this idea that because you are

1138
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: this or that you should be able to extract a

1139
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,960
Speaker 1: thing for somebody, like to take something somebody to why

1140
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 1: drugger woman, when lies and bullshit work just as good, right,

1141
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 1: all right? It seems like it's some type of like

1142
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: mental issue our Yeah, the way of control it is

1143
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: if I and so people and people. I remember people

1144
01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 1: got mad at me because I said it. But there's

1145
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 1: no discernible difference between Weinstein or Cosby or Spacey or

1146
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: Trump their privileged people. You can say that Bill was

1147
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: a white man, black man, but he still did ship

1148
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 1: the black man. But he still did ship that white

1149
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 1: men do. And people think that he didn't do anything

1150
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 1: because they said he never got convicted of anything. Oh

1151
01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 1: j didn't get victim so fast. But we've all heard

1152
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 1: the Cosby stories, um dope and growth. Yeah, like growing up.

1153
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 1: Like even when I had that argument with him, it

1154
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: was an article and people I forgot what magazine and

1155
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: it was on the sixth page. I remember Oprah stopped

1156
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 1: sunk with him because he did so stop. I'm not

1157
01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 1: gonna lie. When I was a little my mom told

1158
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 1: me stories about Bill Cosbie. She do some lawyer or

1159
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,640
Speaker 1: somebody that she said that he did that to her.

1160
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 1: She was like, if you ever are alone, don't ever

1161
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 1: be alone with Bill Cosby. My mom has told me

1162
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: that when I was mad young, why first of all,

1163
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: why would I ever be in the room with Bill Cosby? Well,

1164
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 1: I wasn't he never tried to touch Yeah, somebody touched you.

1165
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: Please don't stop. You need to reach out to it.

1166
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 1: Lawsuit it, goddamnit. I swear to guy, I closed the

1167
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:31,440
Speaker 1: bronx down. You don't start touching me. Get there? Did

1168
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 1: she say she was from? He just guess that you

1169
01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 1: got really from you from man Chelsea? But how did

1170
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: you make it that for? From? No? No, not Chelsea

1171
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,320
Speaker 1: in the United Kingdom, Chelsea and New York. So I

1172
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:50,200
Speaker 1: don't know what it is, of course, what type of ship.

1173
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: But actually I am from the grand guy. He said

1174
01:06:55,480 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: that I've had an apartment here. I guess I grew

1175
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,440
Speaker 1: up from Chelsea because my mom lived there, so that's

1176
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 1: where I went to school when a lot of my

1177
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,280
Speaker 1: friends were. But my grandmother lived on one name to

1178
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:12,440
Speaker 1: get in the concourse? Where from? Hey, man, where's she from?

1179
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: She's look her smile and she's trying to see if

1180
01:07:16,200 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 1: you guys? Okay, wait, wait, wait what's your last name? Shot?

1181
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 1: My last name? Her real last name? What are you?

1182
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: What are you? I'm black? She's not Brooklyn Queens. Oh

1183
01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: what the funk? I thought you from Philly? You're beautiful?

1184
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: How are you from Philly Brows. It's you Amberrows, Vivian

1185
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: Green and and and uh and Jill Scott the only

1186
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 1: beautiful woman. That's not true. In the fire shout out

1187
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: saw some of your beautiful sisters in a lot of

1188
01:07:53,840 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 1: beautiful people and Cherry Hill Hills, Jersey Bucks counting that

1189
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 1: they're not it's no beautiful women Philly. That's not don't

1190
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:09,439
Speaker 1: do that. You know it's true. Well you guys saying

1191
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: that have you ever seen beautiful women in Philly? You

1192
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 1: was in looking mirror. No, there's some beautiful with my

1193
01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 1: best friend from Philly and she's beautiful to you, she

1194
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 1: really is. She really My best friend is from Philly

1195
01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:34,160
Speaker 1: and she's beautiful. She's and you see, Mick mill just

1196
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 1: got sentences two to four years. Why violating probation. Who

1197
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 1: hasn't he just want to stand it. He wanted to

1198
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: be Tea so bad because because I was always getting

1199
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: out of gail until he got his wife together, like

1200
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:52,640
Speaker 1: for having you going to deal for thirty days. I

1201
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 1: went to jail New York for what? Because I had

1202
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 1: a gun at the what? At the I didn't know

1203
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: it was illegal that a gun but not I I

1204
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 1: went to jail. But in New York the day that

1205
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:11,759
Speaker 1: they announced that my show was getting picked up by ABC.

1206
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: I went to jail the night before. You didn't lose

1207
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: your show that they still picked it up. Okay, that's

1208
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 1: good because you know they could have fronted on you. Yeah,

1209
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: but that was before they had Twitter and ship like

1210
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: they were back home. So I got arrested and I

1211
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:28,400
Speaker 1: went to what y'all call that? No, it's you'll have

1212
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 1: twenty for our court. Oh yeah, twenty four court. So

1213
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,400
Speaker 1: I go, I get arrested. I played the gig. I

1214
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 1: got arrested the jef ke K. I played a gig

1215
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 1: the night before I got caught with a pistol with JFK.

1216
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 1: Go to court at ten o'clock in the night, ten

1217
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 1: o'clock at night. The judge says, uh, mr went have

1218
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:52,799
Speaker 1: to impose significant bail and they say is ten thousand

1219
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:55,679
Speaker 1: dollars and my business masamers. Then she said, you gotta

1220
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 1: have to give us a thousand dollars. You can't go

1221
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: ship give it her. I'm out. I go back to

1222
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:04,600
Speaker 1: l A. Then um, I get Dave Becky, who was

1223
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:07,599
Speaker 1: my manager, and Kevin harsh Man, he'd been my match

1224
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,080
Speaker 1: for all the time. He goes, nobody's ever gonna find

1225
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: out about it. ABC picks me up. I walked to

1226
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:14,600
Speaker 1: the air part with my wife and all on the

1227
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:19,759
Speaker 1: TV deal. He got arrested. It was horrible. Well who told?

1228
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,599
Speaker 1: But that wasn't everybody told. But keep it real, that's

1229
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: not a bad one. It ain't like you. Because when

1230
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 1: I landed and I had there was no bodies on

1231
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:34,080
Speaker 1: the gun. And this cat named Murray Richmond, who represented

1232
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:38,599
Speaker 1: d m X, said if you have thirty grand, you'll

1233
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:41,920
Speaker 1: never go to jail like thirty grand because it was

1234
01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 1: a class D fella. Yeah, Murs and that mothercker came

1235
01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:56,520
Speaker 1: to court with essential book and what you'll have since Yeah,

1236
01:10:59,360 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: I'd never heard no ship like that. They put me

1237
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 1: in jail right, and they made me take my tenner

1238
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: shoes off, my strings off my tenner shoes and uh

1239
01:11:06,840 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 1: and that the cops left my door open and they're

1240
01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 1: like this to sell Anthony Mason for the next was

1241
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 1: in and they left my cell open, and so I

1242
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 1: bought the guards dinner and lunch and ship keep you like,

1243
01:11:21,040 --> 01:11:23,599
Speaker 1: I'm not going to I'm not going to the regular

1244
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 1: sale because like in l A, if you go to jail,

1245
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 1: l a. They have high power, which means like people.

1246
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:34,559
Speaker 1: It's like what they got Like Sean Penn was right

1247
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 1: next to the nice stalker when he was enjoyed. They

1248
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 1: don't have you. They don't have so I said, you

1249
01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 1: ain't got no sale everybody, and so then, uh so

1250
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 1: I buy the people lunch and they kept the door.

1251
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 1: But I was on the phone. My lawyer comes. He

1252
01:11:57,680 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 1: don't talk about here. But but I went to jail

1253
01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 1: and l a for thirty days when I got kicked

1254
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: out of high school and got killed with a gun Chad,

1255
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: and my mother wouldn't let me out. She's like, I'm

1256
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 1: gonna let you. She had this workout, but thirty days,

1257
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: thirty days? Did you masturbate? That's not you know, to

1258
01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: start masturbating our thirty two or so. Well, he was

1259
01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: a late masturbator. Why aren't you supposed to masturbate? Went

1260
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 1: more when you're younger. But I always got ass oh yeah,

1261
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 1: because you was yeah. I was like, I had this

1262
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 1: girl name and then I ain't say her name because

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01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 1: you little street. But she had a small point she

1264
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 1: had a small pointy. She had a little pony towel,

1265
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 1: did y'all She looked like kind of like a gorilla.

1266
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:45,520
Speaker 1: But she was sold wonderful. So what made you start masturbating?

1267
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: One time they had to stink of the spice shallow, Yeah,

1268
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 1: the channels, and then we were catching a little glass.

1269
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah little you know. I used to steal. Okay, well,

1270
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 1: so you got it all free and I and I

1271
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 1: and I cut it one time when my wife is

1272
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 1: mad at me for getting busted for doing some bullshit.

1273
01:13:05,600 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: I didn't think anything, but all of a sudden, I'm

1274
01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 1: so lazy and mastibated. I fall asleep with my hand

1275
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 1: on my dick every leg. That's when you know. That's

1276
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 1: when you know you're lazy. I'm too lazy to butt

1277
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 1: never so fucking wonderful, Like I'm too lazy to get

1278
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:32,920
Speaker 1: to the to the end. I can't talk. That's a

1279
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 1: good really, Sometimes that's when you know you're lazy when

1280
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: you can't need to talk dirty to you and then

1281
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 1: goes sleep because I feel like you know how to

1282
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 1: make yourself come really quick if you want to, yeah,

1283
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 1: really quick. Yeah, like you know what you know what

1284
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:52,640
Speaker 1: to do for yourself, so you know how to just

1285
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 1: do it real quick. That's the whole point of it.

1286
01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:59,679
Speaker 1: I'm just too romantic sometimes I do with my other hands.

1287
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:03,640
Speaker 1: I think, get somebody else. It's a stranger how you do,

1288
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:11,600
Speaker 1: it's not me. I think it's a longer process with

1289
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:14,639
Speaker 1: a guy than it is for a girl. Really, yeah,

1290
01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 1: I do think that because if I ever like done it,

1291
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: or seeing somebody doing whatever in the case, like, I

1292
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: can make myself come faster that girl's masturbating. A sexy

1293
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 1: guy's masturbating. This like animals. Yes, I like castibating. It's like,

1294
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: g you're not gonna like a guy. What you like?

1295
01:14:39,320 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 1: You like how a guy? I like? I do when

1296
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: it's like a nice looking because the guy can't romantically masturbated.

1297
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:52,559
Speaker 1: Guys have big hands, so they got a little dicky

1298
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:57,919
Speaker 1: mascipating and they look like you got you. Guys are wonderful.

1299
01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: I got to take care with me. I made a

1300
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:06,720
Speaker 1: guy in a masterbase with two hands. Yeah. I used

1301
01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 1: to go to I used to go to this joint here.

1302
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know why we I'm even having this guy,

1303
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 1: But I used to stay at this place called the

1304
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 1: Royalty here right, and it's on forty four, my favorite

1305
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 1: till before I got an apartment there. So I would

1306
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: go to the Royalton and back then they had to

1307
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 1: bring you. The porn came in a tape, so they

1308
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:30,479
Speaker 1: had to give it to you right now. So you

1309
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:34,479
Speaker 1: would call down and you would say I want Black

1310
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:41,040
Speaker 1: Rods Latin Bods value. So they would bring it up

1311
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,559
Speaker 1: and then they would ask you do you want something,

1312
01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 1: you bitch, I don't, I'm good. You want popcorn? And

1313
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 1: I say now they probably want to help. They would

1314
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,640
Speaker 1: bring it to you popcorn. It was hilarious. Look to

1315
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: the popcorn like you need anything else? Extra hands you

1316
01:15:57,920 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 1: ever try to hold you ever trying to hold out?

1317
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 1: Are you watching porn like I want to come just yet? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1318
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 1: I definitely you got that. One part of your favorite

1319
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 1: porn is yeah do you listen? Do you watch porn

1320
01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 1: with volume on the one? Yeah? I was truly my

1321
01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 1: side baby, I like watching. Yeah, I don't care. I

1322
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 1: don't want to hear you bit like you care about

1323
01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:28,719
Speaker 1: the plot. No, I don't think I care about the sounds.

1324
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 1: I care about this ship get started. Like when it's

1325
01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:37,599
Speaker 1: consensual or non consensual porn, you're using too much big

1326
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:40,720
Speaker 1: words where you like it? When the girl is like

1327
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:47,320
Speaker 1: with it or when she's like no, the like's not

1328
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 1: with it? Me too. No, I like it when when

1329
01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: it's when it's lesbian porn and the one girl not

1330
01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 1: with it, but then the other girl talk her into it.

1331
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:02,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's what I non consensual like a part. Yeah,

1332
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:04,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, let me skip funk all this talking ship

1333
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:07,240
Speaker 1: where they're gonna start sucking. Yeah. Yeah, And what's really

1334
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: good is that now you could like look at it

1335
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 1: and you can see like where you alright, like scenes

1336
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 1: from right here, right you start right here. I never

1337
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 1: knew that about y'all, pervert. I always didn't think it

1338
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 1: was so destination specific women. Yeah I didn't. I mean,

1339
01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I like men like a man

1340
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 1: and a woman porn, like you know, I watch everything

1341
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 1: I like. I like, Uh, I like either two chicks

1342
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 1: old cheeks who are shocked and things. Why just wker

1343
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:59,720
Speaker 1: that's damn people. They call that um century porn or

1344
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 1: something like that. I thought he meant milk. It's called

1345
01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:15,360
Speaker 1: I cracked the rim. No, kid, I can't. I don't

1346
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:19,679
Speaker 1: want to see that. That's the only one I dig those.

1347
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 1: I think this centurion point, let me look at this up.

1348
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 1: I'll watch any other porn and stuff for that's just

1349
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: called Centurion. How do you know this though, because you'll

1350
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:29,640
Speaker 1: be watching it too. No, I don't watch it. I

1351
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 1: just know a lot about point because I've met a

1352
01:18:31,200 --> 01:18:33,360
Speaker 1: lot of porn stars in my life. I met, well,

1353
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 1: you know, I live in a valley, so I've seen before.

1354
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:40,719
Speaker 1: What's your name? A big chick? The real big chicken.

1355
01:18:41,160 --> 01:18:44,640
Speaker 1: W No, No, she's bigg A long time ago. The

1356
01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:50,559
Speaker 1: chicken which one has had, she's the white cheek changed

1357
01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 1: the game. What was the other? Um? I think you

1358
01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:58,680
Speaker 1: know Janet? I got a years ago. I got a

1359
01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 1: copy of her first ship with the dude. Uh. They

1360
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:06,519
Speaker 1: did it for her, like I worked at the gym

1361
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 1: with him. He said, yeah, this is a little hot

1362
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 1: chicken and it was jenn and Jamison. She was afraid

1363
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:13,920
Speaker 1: of dick, like if she couldn't take the dick in this,

1364
01:19:14,800 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 1: but it was so and then years later now she

1365
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:19,519
Speaker 1: just chased the game. Doesn't ever throw you up when

1366
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 1: you're watching porn and it's like, um, the dick is

1367
01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:24,519
Speaker 1: all in the screen and you're like watching it and

1368
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:28,200
Speaker 1: she kind of suck everything up. They focused on what

1369
01:19:28,439 --> 01:19:32,280
Speaker 1: you like, you'll be watching you watching like the port

1370
01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:33,600
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden they focused on like

1371
01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:38,400
Speaker 1: his balls and dick and come on, but I don't

1372
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,519
Speaker 1: like want to dude is having too much fun? Like

1373
01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:44,759
Speaker 1: one thing about porn over guys. Why the guys always

1374
01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:50,920
Speaker 1: with their boots only black dude? I was watching and

1375
01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:52,840
Speaker 1: this dick up was on the he was on the

1376
01:19:52,880 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 1: massage table, but booty Hoole niked with some boots on

1377
01:19:57,000 --> 01:20:03,479
Speaker 1: always and Hi, it's always a one a big She like, no,

1378
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:12,640
Speaker 1: not that, Sean, Yeah, I don't want that's all right,

1379
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Sorry, I don't want to see that note

1380
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,600
Speaker 1: that looked like the reddis from Braveheart. I don't like that.

1381
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 1: Before she started sucking that dick like that. You're like

1382
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,799
Speaker 1: old women. I don't like. He's older than what ages

1383
01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 1: old like what we say, but he looks disgusted. And

1384
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:41,639
Speaker 1: have you ever had sex with an old lady? Like? Yeah,

1385
01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:45,599
Speaker 1: my wife? Were you like when you were younger? Yeah?

1386
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:51,200
Speaker 1: When I was thirteen, he said, My wife was her

1387
01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:54,599
Speaker 1: great name? Her name was Sean. Right, I'm thirteen years old,

1388
01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:57,600
Speaker 1: and she's always come to the neighbor. She had a

1389
01:20:57,600 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 1: little what they call it toyota. I don't even everyone

1390
01:21:01,520 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 1: what do you people call it? Remember Dotson two teens

1391
01:21:06,080 --> 01:21:07,920
Speaker 1: she had one of those and she had a shirt

1392
01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:10,599
Speaker 1: with her name on it and said Michean. So I used,

1393
01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 1: I was like twelve thirteen and I had knocked off

1394
01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: the ugly chick named Shoulder. So I thought, I'm I'm

1395
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:18,479
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing. So I would always

1396
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,800
Speaker 1: talk to her and I would always say I could,

1397
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 1: I could I tell that as I was thirteen or twelve.

1398
01:21:26,680 --> 01:21:29,719
Speaker 1: So she said, no, you won't, and she would always

1399
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:32,040
Speaker 1: say ship. So one day she said, I said I

1400
01:21:32,080 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 1: would do it and and and she said we'll get

1401
01:21:34,840 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 1: in the car. So I go to the car and

1402
01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:39,919
Speaker 1: she had this shittys apartment. So we go to the department.

1403
01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:43,240
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I've been with this broad in my neighborhoods.

1404
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:45,559
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing. And she's like twenty three.

1405
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 1: It was oh my god, what So I go and uh,

1406
01:21:53,360 --> 01:21:57,360
Speaker 1: We're going a room and she was rough, and I look,

1407
01:21:57,439 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 1: this is I don't want you to be like this.

1408
01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:02,639
Speaker 1: What do you mean by She was like she couldn't

1409
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 1: do it hard? Yeah, And I was like, I don't

1410
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:09,519
Speaker 1: know what this is. And she would make it like

1411
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:12,880
Speaker 1: she would make with onions and stuff like that, like

1412
01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:16,040
Speaker 1: I don't like this, like shut up, take it. And

1413
01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:18,680
Speaker 1: she was smoking the bed and she would always come

1414
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:21,280
Speaker 1: get me. She would always like in the neighborhood, she

1415
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:23,160
Speaker 1: would come get me, and everybody thought I was so

1416
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:25,280
Speaker 1: cool because I had this older chick. She had her

1417
01:22:25,320 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 1: name because she was she was wonderful, disgusting, and she

1418
01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:31,880
Speaker 1: would have she would have like she would buy me

1419
01:22:32,280 --> 01:22:36,360
Speaker 1: a game, but I could only play him there. She

1420
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 1: would buy me clothes. I was gonna buy there. And

1421
01:22:38,880 --> 01:22:40,800
Speaker 1: one time she gave me head and I didn't know

1422
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: what that was. Third, it was hard, like that's what

1423
01:22:43,160 --> 01:22:44,640
Speaker 1: she said. Shut up, you don't never say that was

1424
01:22:45,080 --> 01:22:48,559
Speaker 1: second God, and it was it was like a rough

1425
01:22:49,120 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 1: like I remember when she would pull up and the

1426
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:54,360
Speaker 1: dudes would be like, I think you're going to get that,

1427
01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:58,760
Speaker 1: like yeah, and I'd be like that nobody touched you.

1428
01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:03,640
Speaker 1: It was was that wasn't right, that's not at all.

1429
01:23:06,040 --> 01:23:08,840
Speaker 1: You didn't even enjoy it. I did. I just didn't

1430
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:10,360
Speaker 1: like her. No, I didn't want to be with her.

1431
01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 1: I thought I had to marry her. I wanted to.

1432
01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:16,919
Speaker 1: I liked I liked that you thought you had I'm thirteen.

1433
01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 1: So my one time she pulls up and she hunts

1434
01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 1: her hor and I go out, diuldn't call my mother's

1435
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,560
Speaker 1: outside water in the grass, and she said, who is this?

1436
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:29,559
Speaker 1: Who is this spitch? Right there? She said, who are you? Ship? Oh?

1437
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:32,840
Speaker 1: My name is it Sean? And she shaid, uh, what

1438
01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:35,439
Speaker 1: are you doing? She said, Oh, he's my friend. She said,

1439
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:38,560
Speaker 1: how do you you know? He's thirteen? Bait you? You

1440
01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 1: ever come around here? Right? So take your ass in

1441
01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:45,880
Speaker 1: the house. And I remember I remember walking through the

1442
01:23:46,000 --> 01:23:48,160
Speaker 1: back and in my back with him going thank you,

1443
01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 1: because I never wanted to advantage. I liked it, but

1444
01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:55,880
Speaker 1: I didn't want her to mean. But let's keep it real.

1445
01:23:56,400 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: If your son, if that happened to him, you would

1446
01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:00,519
Speaker 1: be hard. My son has asked for soon, so I

1447
01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:03,599
Speaker 1: want him to get all the pussy. Stop it. My son.

1448
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 1: My son hires hookers. I don't even care. No, he

1449
01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: felt that, but he's retarded. So it's just it's why

1450
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 1: I know he's autistic. But I'm saying, listen, you still

1451
01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 1: don't want that. At thirteen years old, you wouldn't have

1452
01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 1: wanted that. I don't want anybody to rape them. Come on, now,

1453
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:25,360
Speaker 1: why do you say them like that. That's that's what

1454
01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:30,600
Speaker 1: he wanted trying to you was crying going on, he

1455
01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:34,040
Speaker 1: didn't slow down. That is not why you were traumatized,

1456
01:24:34,040 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 1: and you wanted the therapy at all. Can we get

1457
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 1: a therapist? Can we get him money? I didn't one.

1458
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:46,400
Speaker 1: I wanted to say, like she was say, pulling hair,

1459
01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:50,439
Speaker 1: like why you're a person, your mond your mind so much?

1460
01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:52,680
Speaker 1: But I didn't. I didn't. I didn't. I did not

1461
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 1: like it. I just didn't want to know. You won't

1462
01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 1: admit that you didn't like because you feel like you

1463
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:58,880
Speaker 1: were supposed to like it. But I know what I like.

1464
01:25:00,120 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 1: You didn't like it? I did like. I just didn't

1465
01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:08,320
Speaker 1: like her cookie she with onions or or like saying

1466
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:15,360
Speaker 1: me to me like what she said up? Where did

1467
01:25:15,400 --> 01:25:19,400
Speaker 1: it go? And you have to admit something had to

1468
01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 1: be wrong with her to do that with it. Well,

1469
01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 1: I don't think I would never look at a thirteen

1470
01:25:25,600 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 1: year old in my life if I was out there.

1471
01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:30,200
Speaker 1: That's in jail for that right now, you know. But

1472
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:33,479
Speaker 1: they weren't her. She was beautiful and she's a sweet girl.

1473
01:25:33,920 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 1: But her dude was like, like a dude that's been

1474
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:39,640
Speaker 1: mean to hers? What if you're doing year old how

1475
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:46,759
Speaker 1: about that? Yes? Well come on, now, what's the difference?

1476
01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:51,720
Speaker 1: Drink that bourbon if you want stuck up? What if

1477
01:25:51,760 --> 01:25:54,519
Speaker 1: they were cooking with onions and she would do that?

1478
01:25:55,120 --> 01:26:02,280
Speaker 1: Like I didn't like like this? You know? She told

1479
01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:06,000
Speaker 1: me that was the coolest shit ever, she said. She said,

1480
01:26:06,080 --> 01:26:10,040
Speaker 1: when when a woman is doing something, you don't ever

1481
01:26:10,240 --> 01:26:13,639
Speaker 1: let her feel like you're not enjoying it, and don't

1482
01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 1: ever let her feel like you're not in charge. That's

1483
01:26:16,880 --> 01:26:19,120
Speaker 1: I love learned that. She was like, why are you crying?

1484
01:26:19,160 --> 01:26:29,680
Speaker 1: The onions? Why are you crying? Because and she was

1485
01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:34,920
Speaker 1: smoking the bed like I'm thirty because it's terrible cigarettes

1486
01:26:34,920 --> 01:26:40,240
Speaker 1: and onions and copper. Right, she was smoking. But I've

1487
01:26:40,280 --> 01:26:42,040
Speaker 1: never saw that ship like that. Showing her didn't do

1488
01:26:42,120 --> 01:26:47,280
Speaker 1: that was the funniest shout molestation story I've ever heard.

1489
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:53,479
Speaker 1: It was it was trauma. I don't know, traumatize. She's

1490
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:58,840
Speaker 1: a sweet girl. It doesn't sound very after this. Can

1491
01:26:58,880 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 1: we still go back and at her arrested? Who is

1492
01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:05,320
Speaker 1: this up for that? I'm fifty three, she'll be sixty

1493
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:08,719
Speaker 1: sever Google like people you used to have sex, baby,

1494
01:27:09,680 --> 01:27:11,720
Speaker 1: look like it was a girl. I won't tell your

1495
01:27:11,840 --> 01:27:17,360
Speaker 1: last name. But she gave me crabs. And then she's

1496
01:27:17,400 --> 01:27:21,480
Speaker 1: an evangelist, so I see her my name is evangelist,

1497
01:27:22,560 --> 01:27:25,839
Speaker 1: and I'd be like you you your kid, your your churchman?

1498
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:29,320
Speaker 1: Was don't know you gave me crabs? She got it

1499
01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:31,920
Speaker 1: from the past. I was fifteen years old, and I

1500
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:35,200
Speaker 1: used to knock this broad off right, So my appendix was,

1501
01:27:35,479 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 1: why am I telling your podcast what happened with the

1502
01:27:41,439 --> 01:27:46,680
Speaker 1: crabs of the appendix, I'm fifteen years old. My oppendix like,

1503
01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:48,439
Speaker 1: I'm real sick. They take me to the doctor and

1504
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:52,320
Speaker 1: uh so they take my appendics out right, So when

1505
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:55,559
Speaker 1: I work up, the nurse she leans over and she goes, cough, baby, cough,

1506
01:27:55,640 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 1: because you have to cough when you have surgery. I

1507
01:27:57,920 --> 01:28:00,920
Speaker 1: don't even know why. She said, you have crap. No,

1508
01:28:02,040 --> 01:28:03,920
Speaker 1: because they have to shave all your hair out. So

1509
01:28:04,080 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 1: I didn't want to tell my mother, tray, help you

1510
01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:13,160
Speaker 1: help you. Shies don't cover crap. I didn't because I

1511
01:28:13,280 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 1: felt like that I didn't take it to them and

1512
01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:17,000
Speaker 1: they'd be like crawling around. But I was a kid,

1513
01:28:17,080 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 1: so I tell my uncle. I said, Uncle, put, I

1514
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:24,560
Speaker 1: gotta have this medicine so I can because because the

1515
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:27,960
Speaker 1: surgery cut my my my hair off and it's gonna eat.

1516
01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:30,840
Speaker 1: And that mothercker went and got and he came back

1517
01:28:30,880 --> 01:28:33,680
Speaker 1: and he closed door. He said, you made me go

1518
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 1: down and they get this best ft crap and I

1519
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:45,080
Speaker 1: got white pants on. I got told man, I used

1520
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:49,240
Speaker 1: to go through it. We learned so much. This is

1521
01:28:49,360 --> 01:28:51,200
Speaker 1: none of this gonna make it. But I had the best.

1522
01:28:51,920 --> 01:28:54,519
Speaker 1: It's all gonna make it all making it. Trust and believe.

1523
01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:56,280
Speaker 1: Shout out to your wife for dealing with all this

1524
01:28:56,360 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 1: ship crabs when I had her. No, I'm talking about

1525
01:29:00,000 --> 01:29:02,680
Speaker 1: generally not You came into the relationship with a lot

1526
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:06,080
Speaker 1: of luggage. I did. You came with a lot of baggage,

1527
01:29:06,479 --> 01:29:12,439
Speaker 1: a battering, scrawling around. I wasn't a badder job. Sean

1528
01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:14,960
Speaker 1: loved me and she's a sweet girl. And you're sitting

1529
01:29:15,000 --> 01:29:22,400
Speaker 1: here judging. Okay, I'm sorry. Understand I'm not judging. I'm not.

1530
01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 1: You know, crabs never goes away. I remember seeing this

1531
01:29:29,920 --> 01:29:32,880
Speaker 1: daily eggs. I know I had had a little comb.

1532
01:29:33,840 --> 01:29:36,840
Speaker 1: You had a little com It was horrible. I used

1533
01:29:36,880 --> 01:29:38,599
Speaker 1: to go I didn't even have no hair to comb

1534
01:29:38,640 --> 01:29:40,720
Speaker 1: because they cut it all out. Well, No, I had

1535
01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:43,360
Speaker 1: had They only cut half. Did you know you never

1536
01:29:43,439 --> 01:29:48,640
Speaker 1: saw one of the crabs like walking around? Yes, a

1537
01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:54,000
Speaker 1: terrible feeling. I was. I was a horrible kid, I

1538
01:29:54,120 --> 01:29:56,880
Speaker 1: really could. I can't blame my mother for not liking me.

1539
01:29:56,920 --> 01:30:02,760
Speaker 1: I was horrible, so I can't how great you turned out? Right? Yeah? Yeah?

1540
01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:07,599
Speaker 1: And so now it's a couple of things I would

1541
01:30:07,760 --> 01:30:10,479
Speaker 1: I would have a son like me. My son's retarded,

1542
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:12,600
Speaker 1: but he's a sweet kid. Well then he's like you.

1543
01:30:19,000 --> 01:30:22,120
Speaker 1: You're so hurtful if I didn't respect you, someone, I

1544
01:30:22,240 --> 01:30:27,080
Speaker 1: walk out with my half empty glass the bottom with

1545
01:30:27,240 --> 01:30:29,519
Speaker 1: you too. Yes, that's yours. Okay, now what's we can

1546
01:30:29,560 --> 01:30:32,240
Speaker 1: add later? Alright, dear me, thank you so much for

1547
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:35,880
Speaker 1: doing you check out his show to you don't want

1548
01:30:35,880 --> 01:30:37,760
Speaker 1: to talk about your show? Wait? Wait, we got that.

1549
01:30:38,320 --> 01:30:42,160
Speaker 1: We have we have my show on the Uh what

1550
01:30:42,320 --> 01:30:44,719
Speaker 1: the fun I talking about? Well? No, we have bet

1551
01:30:44,920 --> 01:30:50,240
Speaker 1: comedy get down with me Eddie Griffin, Charlie Murphy. Uh,

1552
01:30:50,560 --> 01:30:55,360
Speaker 1: says the intendant George Lopez. Charlie, you know he passed right,

1553
01:30:56,000 --> 01:31:00,400
Speaker 1: so Charlie. Uh, I'd always love Charlie. So we had

1554
01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:02,360
Speaker 1: his church at the funeral of the church. And I

1555
01:31:02,400 --> 01:31:05,200
Speaker 1: don't like going to church, so I went to Charlie's

1556
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:08,400
Speaker 1: funeral because it was Charlie. But the funeral was so long,

1557
01:31:09,280 --> 01:31:10,880
Speaker 1: like five hours later, I was like, I wish I

1558
01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 1: was dead. Why am I not? Funerals are the worst.

1559
01:31:16,280 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 1: But Charlie Murphy did lip service. When I was as

1560
01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:21,639
Speaker 1: serious way back in the day, he was really good.

1561
01:31:22,600 --> 01:31:26,040
Speaker 1: George Lopez, George Lopez, we're doing this thing for and

1562
01:31:26,120 --> 01:31:27,519
Speaker 1: I know you're gonna have to cut it up. I

1563
01:31:27,600 --> 01:31:32,000
Speaker 1: know you're tired. So George Lopez calls everybody. He's doing

1564
01:31:32,080 --> 01:31:35,760
Speaker 1: this thing for Richard Pryor and and so it was

1565
01:31:35,880 --> 01:31:40,320
Speaker 1: me and said and he called, he called Charlie, and

1566
01:31:40,760 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 1: Eddie came on. So we go through this thing to

1567
01:31:43,560 --> 01:31:48,040
Speaker 1: get up Eddie Griffin. I'm excuse me, uh, Eddie Uh.

1568
01:31:48,680 --> 01:31:51,840
Speaker 1: Richard Pryor statue. So when we get there, we played

1569
01:31:51,880 --> 01:31:54,679
Speaker 1: pr Illinois. We have such a good time. We decide

1570
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:57,240
Speaker 1: that we want to go on tour. And it's weird

1571
01:31:57,320 --> 01:31:59,960
Speaker 1: because Blacks and Mexicans in l A don't get along

1572
01:32:00,000 --> 01:32:02,880
Speaker 1: at all. It's like the only time you see them

1573
01:32:02,880 --> 01:32:10,400
Speaker 1: together as a prison ride and so together. And it

1574
01:32:10,600 --> 01:32:13,679
Speaker 1: was it was brave of him to do something because

1575
01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:16,840
Speaker 1: it cost him a lot of fans. Yeah, a lot

1576
01:32:16,920 --> 01:32:18,519
Speaker 1: of a lot of pigs. Why why are you with

1577
01:32:18,680 --> 01:32:21,760
Speaker 1: those what they call us, I don't know what they

1578
01:32:21,800 --> 01:32:24,479
Speaker 1: call us, but whatever it means, it means nigger. So

1579
01:32:24,640 --> 01:32:27,719
Speaker 1: you would go to these gigs And I remember playing

1580
01:32:27,760 --> 01:32:30,600
Speaker 1: the gig in San Antonio and this Catawood just got

1581
01:32:30,640 --> 01:32:34,360
Speaker 1: out of the joint and he, uh, we would take

1582
01:32:34,400 --> 01:32:36,880
Speaker 1: these pictures and he was tatted up as a big

1583
01:32:37,000 --> 01:32:41,200
Speaker 1: Mexican kid, and he shook my hand and his old

1584
01:32:41,320 --> 01:32:44,400
Speaker 1: lady I had tears in eyes. He said, that's the

1585
01:32:44,479 --> 01:32:48,120
Speaker 1: first time he's ever shook a black man's head. So

1586
01:32:48,280 --> 01:32:53,439
Speaker 1: when so comedy brought us all together? And when I

1587
01:32:53,640 --> 01:32:55,720
Speaker 1: one time we were playing a gig in Phoenix and

1588
01:32:55,840 --> 01:32:58,679
Speaker 1: George told this joke about this black chick and everybody's

1589
01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:03,040
Speaker 1: calling him racist, and I went, this dude has risked

1590
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:08,360
Speaker 1: his fan base because he loves the people he loves, right,

1591
01:33:08,920 --> 01:33:11,160
Speaker 1: And that's to me what comedy means. It's it's like,

1592
01:33:12,000 --> 01:33:13,920
Speaker 1: you're supposed to take chances, you're supposed to make me.

1593
01:33:14,040 --> 01:33:16,880
Speaker 1: Motherfucker's not like you like somebody's gonna see this interview

1594
01:33:16,920 --> 01:33:19,720
Speaker 1: and hate something I said. Right, Listen, people watch his

1595
01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:26,240
Speaker 1: interviews and hate some of us. Sometimes everybody they don't now,

1596
01:33:26,680 --> 01:33:29,040
Speaker 1: but people be like, say, he's nice, sister. In my head,

1597
01:33:29,240 --> 01:33:31,640
Speaker 1: it's funny because you came money are you noticed you

1598
01:33:31,760 --> 01:33:34,200
Speaker 1: noticed Latina sitting next to you right away? And the

1599
01:33:34,320 --> 01:33:37,160
Speaker 1: people are so many people complain that I'm always talking

1600
01:33:37,200 --> 01:33:40,400
Speaker 1: about Latina on the show. I get that all the time.

1601
01:33:41,160 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 1: You have to always say you're Puerto Rican, like yes,

1602
01:33:44,680 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 1: I do, yes, I do, Yes, I do. I love

1603
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:50,679
Speaker 1: being Puerto Rican. It's like my favorite thing in the world.

1604
01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:55,360
Speaker 1: It's my favorite thing. That's the first time taking a

1605
01:33:55,400 --> 01:34:00,479
Speaker 1: part his hand. Not in my head though, but it's

1606
01:34:00,840 --> 01:34:07,120
Speaker 1: like it's it's like, so I think comedy, comedy is brave,

1607
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:11,160
Speaker 1: and I think, uh, the cats I love to do,

1608
01:34:11,360 --> 01:34:14,320
Speaker 1: like like the Chapelle's and the Rocks and the Lopez

1609
01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:19,160
Speaker 1: and said gentertaining Eddie Griffin, like you can't ever pick

1610
01:34:19,240 --> 01:34:22,679
Speaker 1: a side. People were upset that Chris Rock just recently, yeah,

1611
01:34:22,880 --> 01:34:25,519
Speaker 1: for telling some jokes about like not wanting to hire

1612
01:34:25,600 --> 01:34:29,920
Speaker 1: women and women uh, because they want to say, um,

1613
01:34:30,160 --> 01:34:32,200
Speaker 1: rape for money or something like that. I didn't. I

1614
01:34:32,280 --> 01:34:34,320
Speaker 1: wasn't there, so you know, I don't know exactly what happened.

1615
01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:36,800
Speaker 1: It's so funny. People would never have slaves, but they

1616
01:34:36,840 --> 01:34:40,960
Speaker 1: will have interns. So if what your slaves that you

1617
01:34:41,040 --> 01:34:43,840
Speaker 1: can't sell, I think that we have a just Some

1618
01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:47,680
Speaker 1: interns get paid. Yeah, I heard get paid. You're the

1619
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:49,360
Speaker 1: ones that I heard get paid. They do? They do,

1620
01:34:50,040 --> 01:34:53,800
Speaker 1: ye intensips, they do? They get paid. I hurt, not mine.

1621
01:34:54,040 --> 01:34:55,840
Speaker 1: I did a lot of internships. I ain't get paid

1622
01:34:55,920 --> 01:34:58,879
Speaker 1: for it though, me black and Chinese. You built railroads

1623
01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:03,320
Speaker 1: and pick cotton. I was definitely didn't doing both. You.

1624
01:35:04,040 --> 01:35:05,640
Speaker 1: Let me tell you whether this makes it or not.

1625
01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:08,680
Speaker 1: I love Charlotte Man and I love em. I think

1626
01:35:08,680 --> 01:35:11,760
Speaker 1: they're very talented, but I think it takes unique human

1627
01:35:11,840 --> 01:35:18,320
Speaker 1: being to be heard between so distinctly different voices, and

1628
01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:21,360
Speaker 1: you don't do it in an allowed way or an

1629
01:35:21,439 --> 01:35:26,960
Speaker 1: obtrusive way. Being you is enough to be clear, and

1630
01:35:27,040 --> 01:35:29,720
Speaker 1: you should always That's why I was excited to see you. Well,

1631
01:35:29,840 --> 01:35:32,519
Speaker 1: thank you. That means a lot to me. I would

1632
01:35:32,560 --> 01:35:35,160
Speaker 1: like because don't even know who I am. That's not true,

1633
01:35:35,320 --> 01:35:37,240
Speaker 1: but I'm excited. Thank you so much. We had a

1634
01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:39,200
Speaker 1: great time until thank you. Now you gotta come in

1635
01:35:39,200 --> 01:35:41,719
Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club next, you know, Yeah, what my contract

1636
01:35:41,760 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 1: gonna let me do? That. Okay, well this is funny,

1637
01:35:46,680 --> 01:35:50,040
Speaker 1: and you have a podcast too, right, yeah, truth, I'm

1638
01:35:50,080 --> 01:35:53,160
Speaker 1: gonna have downa Brazil one don't know so you don't

1639
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:56,120
Speaker 1: even know who that is, Donna Brazil. You don't even

1640
01:35:56,160 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 1: know who that is. You're like, honestly spell it b

1641
01:35:58,680 --> 01:36:02,240
Speaker 1: r A Z. I keep doing you. I'm telling you

1642
01:36:02,280 --> 01:36:05,479
Speaker 1: you're a bad little bro. But I only like the

1643
01:36:05,520 --> 01:36:10,160
Speaker 1: black part of you, the aging part of racism. It's fine.

1644
01:36:11,600 --> 01:36:13,240
Speaker 1: I just want to help them. I want them to

1645
01:36:13,280 --> 01:36:16,120
Speaker 1: help me with my homework. But I love go homework.

1646
01:36:16,200 --> 01:36:19,360
Speaker 1: Get out of here alright, Lift Service, be out of here.

1647
01:36:19,800 --> 01:36:23,000
Speaker 1: Oh and don't forget. We have our live show coming November,

1648
01:36:23,760 --> 01:36:26,720
Speaker 1: Highlighting Ballroom, the first ever Lip Service live. So make

1649
01:36:26,720 --> 01:36:28,240
Speaker 1: sure you're bout tickets. I know we have it all

1650
01:36:28,280 --> 01:36:31,080
Speaker 1: posted in our Instagram pages in New York City