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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jake is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Jake, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Serena.

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Speaker 3: It's been probably about a week and a half.

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Speaker 4: M So have you been trying to get a hold

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Speaker 4: of her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I tried to call like a couple times, but

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Speaker 5: I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: Not to be too pushy. But it's been like maybe

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Speaker 3: two days since the last time I reached out.

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Speaker 6: Okay, have you reached out a bunch?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 6: What it meant I think more.

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Speaker 2: Than three times if somebody's ghosting you, I feel like

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Speaker 2: more than three times it's too much.

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Speaker 3: How how's two calls and one text?

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Speaker 6: Oh that's not bad?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I don't know two calls counts for like

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Speaker 4: two text messages.

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Speaker 6: Oh, but that's okay.

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Speaker 4: This is where we are now.

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Speaker 6: Did you leave any crying voicemails?

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Speaker 3: Oh? No, no, I didn't leave any that's a plus.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, let's talk about the date. How did that go?

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Speaker 5: So we went out to trivia night at a bar

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Speaker 5: around town and it was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 3: We have really good vibes. I love trivia like and

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Speaker 3: I figured to be a great date because there's something interactive.

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Speaker 3: We had a lot of fun.

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Speaker 5: We crushed a few rounds, and our chemistry was it

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Speaker 5: was awesome.

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Speaker 3: The drinks were flowing.

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Speaker 5: The team name even became like a little flirty inside

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Speaker 5: joke between me and.

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Speaker 3: Her by the end of the night.

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Speaker 4: What was the team name?

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Speaker 5: The team name was the scores, like like you're scoring,

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Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I see where the joke's going, right right.

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Speaker 3: So and she's also like really really smart but now

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Speaker 3: and like web it in your face kind of way.

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Speaker 3: She was like laughing at my jokes and nobody ever

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Speaker 3: does that really special, like they land like fifty to

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Speaker 3: fifty percent of the time, you know. So, yeah, it

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Speaker 3: all went really well and there was like there was

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Speaker 3: a definitely a kiss at the end of the night.

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Speaker 3: And it was not like fireworks all over the place,

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Speaker 3: but it was a little bit of a spark, a

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Speaker 3: little bit of a thing if you feel what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so kind of feel what you mean. So what

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Speaker 4: you're saying was it wasn't the best kiss, but it

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Speaker 4: was all right enough that you want to get a

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Speaker 4: hold of her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, then I guess I wouldn't even say

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Speaker 3: that the kiss was bad. Okay. It wasn't like, you know,

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Speaker 3: to stick your foot up in the air type kids.

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Speaker 5: I think it was kind of just the It seems

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Speaker 5: like the kisses in the future are going.

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Speaker 3: To be way better, you know what I mean, kind

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Speaker 3: of like it's a little a little kiss.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, thanks, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 1: So you will show first date follow up powered by

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone.

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Speaker 6: He's getting ghosted buy Serena.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another day if he still wants one. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Jake, tell us what happened on your date

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Speaker 2: again real quick.

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Speaker 3: So we went out to go play trivia.

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Speaker 5: We had a really good time, lots of fun chemistry,

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Speaker 5: but I think I might have gotten a little bit

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Speaker 5: too intense.

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Speaker 3: But she didn't seem.

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Speaker 5: Too bothered about it at that, you know, at when

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Speaker 5: it happened.

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Speaker 3: And we did kiss at the end of the night.

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Speaker 4: But the kiss wasn't kick your leg up kiss. It

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Speaker 4: was just a spark.

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Speaker 6: I love that. Yeah, okay, all right, you ready for

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Speaker 6: us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Ma, I speak

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Speaker 2: to Serena. Please she Hey, Serena, how are you? This

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Speaker 2: is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Serena. My name's Nina.

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Speaker 6: Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jewel.

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Speaker 4: How you doing?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Is this a prank?

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Speaker 6: No, this is not a prank. Have you ever listened

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Speaker 6: to the Jubel Show before? I no, you don't have

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Speaker 6: to apologize. It's fine.

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Speaker 2: It happens like rarely that somebody doesn't listen very rarely.

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Speaker 4: But you know, maybe you don't want to know.

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Speaker 6: So, yeah, I just have to be up really early

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Speaker 6: for work though.

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Speaker 3: It probably just.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well yeah, it's fine. You are starring on

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Speaker 2: it though, right now?

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Speaker 3: Oh okay.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show called the First

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Speaker 2: Ape follow Up. That's where if you go out with

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Speaker 2: somebody and then you ghost them, they can email us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting them. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: do you know who would email us?

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Speaker 3: Not sure?

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Speaker 6: Are you ghosting anyone?

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Speaker 7: I mean I'm out here dating I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Okay. His name is Jake.

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Speaker 4: You know that's a lot of guys you remember him?

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, yeah, this is something Jake would do, like

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Speaker 8: trivia night Jake, m okay.

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 2: And he says that it's been a week and a

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Speaker 2: half since you guys hung out. He thought the day

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Speaker 2: was good, but you've been ghosting him? Can you tell

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Speaker 2: us why?

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Speaker 3: Definitely? Jake?

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Speaker 7: All right, yeah, no, nice nice in the sky.

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Speaker 3: It's just too much, is that? Look?

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Speaker 7: I love a competitive guy. But you know, we went

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Speaker 7: out for a game of trivia and it turned into

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Speaker 7: like this full, full blown game show.

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Speaker 8: Host thing like he was standing up in high.

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Speaker 7: Fiving strangers and just giving ted talks between rounds and

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Speaker 7: people thought he worked there.

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Speaker 3: He well, excuse me for my bringing some enthusiasm to

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Speaker 3: the game.

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Speaker 6: He's on the phone listening and he wants to talk

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Speaker 6: to you.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, no, hija, I just you also accused a group

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Speaker 8: of elderly women of cheating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, they were. They were suspiciously good at pop culture.

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Speaker 3: How are they gonna know? Like, how are they gonna

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Speaker 3: know this stuff?

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Speaker 5: And I swear I saw one of them looking at

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Speaker 5: their phone.

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Speaker 8: Okay, And let's not also forget that you argued with

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Speaker 8: the trivia host for a solid five minute.

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Speaker 3: I was maybe nineteen streeting off a card old he

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Speaker 3: was wrong. I was educating him.

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Speaker 8: Take the whole bar, was chanting for you to sit down,

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Speaker 8: the whole bar chanted firm down.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. They were not telling me to sit down.

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Speaker 5: They were chanting my name because I was correct.

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Speaker 6: Is that really what happened?

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, Jake, we we we were losing, all right.

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Speaker 8: I need someone who can handle losing with dignity.

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Speaker 3: Oh come on, I do handle loving well. It just

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Speaker 3: doesn't happen to me very.

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Speaker 6: Often, That's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 8: I mean, it was already bad, but when you threatened

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Speaker 8: to burn down the place because we were losing that.

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Speaker 3: Down it was a joke. I'm not God wasn't gonna

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Speaker 3: actually do that, So.

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Speaker 6: You're not denying it. You didn't place down, but I.

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Speaker 3: Didn't mean it. Joke. And Joe really take like the

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Speaker 3: owner came.

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Speaker 7: Out at that point and was saying we had to go.

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Speaker 5: Well, we were already leaving, all right, Well, like we

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Speaker 5: got roll now, Serena, would you like go out with

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Speaker 5: Jake again?

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Speaker 6: We'll pay for it, you know, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'm so good.

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Speaker 5: Well all right, fine, I guess I'll take my undefeated

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Speaker 5: record somewhere else and enjoy losing it life Serena, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Well great.

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Speaker 8: I hope you find you're someone and you can burn

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Speaker 8: down places together.

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Speaker 3: Oh it was a joke. I'll do that.

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Speaker 6: Jubile's first date fall up