1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things and it's to be good. String together, Please, 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn out. You're going 5 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: to arm. You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn 6 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: You haven't got to turn them out with the turn 7 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: of water. The water got me. Come come on your thing, 8 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I shall will. Good morning everybody, y'all listening 9 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now. One and 10 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: only Steve Arvey got a radio show. Man, Old man. 11 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: Old Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man, It's 12 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: just a constant remind of exactly how good God has 13 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: been to me over the years. And I thank him 14 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: for it too, because I realize every day that I 15 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: wake up that I would be nothing without him. That 16 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: everything I am that's any good in me, I owe 17 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: to him. Now. Have I made some mistakes along the way, yep, bunches, 18 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: bunches and bunches. And will I continue to make mistakes 19 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: along the way yep? Not as many, hopefully as I 20 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: have in the past, because a lot of stuff I 21 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: know better now. But you're still going to make mistakes. Now. 22 00:02:54,800 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: You know, hopefully I've limited the amount of intentional in 23 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: my life. I've wiped quite a few of those out. 24 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: But from time to time, because we're human, we're going 25 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: to make a mistake every now and then. The trick 26 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: what it is, y'all, it's not to let the devil 27 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: deceive you into thinking that once you make that mistake 28 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 1: that that's it. You can't do it. You're falling off 29 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 1: the wagon. You can't reboard it. That's the biggest trick 30 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: that he uses. He makes you think that if you 31 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: keep stumbling, that you can't run the race. It kind 32 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: of reminds me of a marathon runner. From time to 33 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: time I watch him on TV, and you'll see some 34 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: people who finish the race, you know, in a in 35 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: a nice pace. You see people finish the race sprinting 36 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: towards the finished line. But every now and then you'll 37 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: watch a marathon and you'll see a runner and the 38 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: runner is in really, really bad shape. The key is 39 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: they finish the race. See, you don't get disqualified in 40 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: the marathon because you stumble. You don't. They don't. They 41 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: don't take your opportunity to finish the race because you 42 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: keep falling. That's not the key. The key is finishing. 43 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: And a lot of times what the devil does is 44 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: he makes you think that because you keep stumbling, because 45 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: you're swaying from side to side, that you know you 46 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: out the race. Well, that's not the case. And see 47 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: and then this thing called life, let me help you 48 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 1: understand something. Everybody falls, Nobody sprints to the tape in 49 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: this one. Nobody just runs free and clear as some 50 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: people running faster than you and all like this. And 51 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: some people are gonna get to the end before you 52 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the 53 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: end come. I ain't in the rush to get to 54 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: the end. But in this race, though, when you're stumbling 55 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: and you're falling, it's a part of it. No one 56 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: gets through this race without stumbling and falling, swaying from 57 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:13,919 Speaker 1: side to side. So don't let the enemy deceive you 58 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: into thinking that it's over. I try to be encouraging 59 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: to people because I don't want people to get stuck 60 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 1: on this thing, you know. And my walk is very 61 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: different from a lot of people's walks. And then I 62 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: know a lot of people who walking in faith the 63 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: way I'm walking in faith. But my thing in the 64 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: morning is just to remind those that is not a 65 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: perfect walk man, that it's not something that's set up 66 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: where you're gonna be skipping through life scott free without 67 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: any pitfalls. You know, I keep saying it over and 68 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: over and over again because, like I said, when I 69 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: was in DC, my boy Hondo said this to me, 70 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: and it just kind of stuck with me that the 71 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: road to construct, the road to successes always under construction. 72 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: You have to figure and count on the setbacks and 73 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: the pitfalls. But it's those people that that that that 74 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: fight through will be the victors in the end. You 75 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: cannot give up, man, Stop going somewhen sitting down. Every 76 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: time something goes down. It's going to go down. It's 77 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: a part of it. It's going to happen. It's going 78 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: to occur that are going to be setbacks. If you 79 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: go and sit down every time there's a setback, that's 80 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: not how this works. It is designed that way. If 81 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success is 82 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 1: just reserved for those who are willing to fight through, 83 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 1: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more. Now, 84 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual. 85 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: So what I may consider to be successful, you may 86 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considers successful. 87 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considers successful. I 88 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might 89 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself. 90 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your 91 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: level of success could be tied up in community service. 92 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: It could be tied up in family. It could be 93 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: tied up into church. Your level of success could be 94 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: tied up into boys clubs. It could be any number 95 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: of things. Whatever your level of success is, you have 96 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: to determine what that is you and the best way 97 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: to determine that is to get in touch with your maker, 98 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: who created you, to find out what your mission and 99 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: your purpose is so he can put you on track. 100 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: I just had this conversation with my son and we 101 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: were talking about getting on the path that God has 102 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: set up for you. So many times we find ourselves 103 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: fighting through life because of so much uncertainty, because we 104 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: have no idea where we're headed. It's like one of 105 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: my own sayings that I have at my mentoring camp 106 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: for boys is is that a boy without a male 107 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: role model is like an explorer without a map. See 108 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: if you don't have a map laid out in front 109 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: of you of where you're going when you wake up 110 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: every day, that pretty much explains the feeling of confusion, 111 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:45,839 Speaker 1: the laxadaisical attitude, the lack of purpose, to not understanding 112 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: your mission because you don't have not gotten in touch 113 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: with your creator to find out exactly what your path 114 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: in life is. What are you supposed to be doing? 115 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: The moment you can identify that is the moment that 116 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 1: you get started waking up with purpose, with the sense 117 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: of direction. When you kill the sense of I don't 118 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: know what's next or what to do. Now, there's going 119 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: to be some confusing moments no matter what happened, it's 120 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: going to be some uncertainty, but at least you'll know 121 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: where you're going. So if you're tied a waking up 122 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: feeling loss, abandon confused, don't know what to do, don't 123 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: know what you're supposed to be doing, refer back to 124 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: your makeup. Because when he created you, he had a 125 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: plan for you. When he created you, he had a 126 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 1: path for you. Now we've made some decisions to get 127 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,959 Speaker 1: off of both of those, the mission and the path 128 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: but God can get you right back on track. Do 129 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 1: that today, asking what you're supposed to be doing, and listen, 130 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: God has all the answers if you form the relationship. Okaying, 131 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: shout who two two three? Somebody say it was moaning 132 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:21,959 Speaker 1: time to me. Somebody told me it was all up 133 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: by me. I love that man. You ever see, y'all, 134 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 1: ain't never been to a lounge where the singer is 135 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: a relative of the lounge owner and he really has 136 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: no business with the singing contract. But right at the 137 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 1: start a happy hour at five, he can go on 138 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: from five to five fifteen when they hauling nobody there. 139 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: I'd invented them lounges, and that's where they at, man, 140 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 1: and they just be up in their writing songs that 141 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: they wrote on their own that don't make no damn say. 142 00:10:56,120 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 1: You can look at me while I look at you, 143 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: You looking at me? What? And one is too hey? 144 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: And then he just kicked back like you don't rope 145 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: the line of lines. That's how we're gonna do it 146 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: this morning, y'all. We're gonna do it like ain't nobody 147 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: able to do it, and then like we ain't got 148 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: no business doing it. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 149 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: Now once again, why do we start the show different 150 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: every day? Because this is a new day. This day 151 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: will be unlike any other day you've ever lived. Nothing 152 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: about the day will be exactly the same as it 153 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: was the other day. I don't care who you are 154 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 1: and what you say. So why would we start the 155 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: show the same way when we got a brand new day. 156 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: That's why we start the show like this. Get used 157 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: to it. It ain't fitting to change. Good morning, Sherley, 158 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: Steve morning, Good Hey, Colin Pharrell, Good morning. What's happening 159 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: to Steve? What I wanted you morning? I'm morn everybody, family, 160 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 1: But nephew, comming ain't top top top top. Missip Monica, 161 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: she waves. Y'all know we don't let her talk yet, 162 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: but she will be. So promote, promote. You're in a 163 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 1: great mood this Monday, you know what. I'm so happy bad, 164 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: I'm so overjoy to be looking out this window. You know, 165 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: I had to um, had to u come to the dentist. 166 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: I had to travel to my dentist, and my dentist 167 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: got COVID. Yeah he's yeah, so you know I won't 168 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: be you know, laying back with my mouth open, then 169 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: him bring em. You're happy, right because you hate the dentist? 170 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 1: Over joy me. Well I'm not happy, no, no, no no, 171 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: but I'm having the appointment is counsel. Yeah, over Yeah, 172 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: it's a great dentist. Yeah, flew out here for nothing, 173 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: ain't no problem. Got some golf cups? You ain't mad 174 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: about that? Go get it? Do you play? Junior? I 175 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: never hear not talking about. Oh no, I showed up 176 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: and ride to cart Oh that's what I do. Okay, Yeah, 177 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: I look like I was gonna be out there, but 178 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: I didn't pass herebody, I'll be the first one back 179 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 1: at the clubs. What is the appeal? Because a lot 180 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 1: of people still don't get golf, you can't talk about it. Uh, 181 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: we're running out of time, all right, guys coming up 182 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,839 Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the CLO. 183 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. Time 184 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: now for ask the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey 185 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: in the building. This one is from Lakida and Denver. 186 00:13:56,080 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: Lakida writes, I'm using my boss's car temporarily while mine 187 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 1: is getting worked on. He helps me out by putting 188 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: gas in the car, getting it washed occasionally. The other 189 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: day he took the car and got it washed and 190 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: filled it up. I noticed that my weed was gone, 191 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: so I asked him if the car man threw it out. 192 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: He said he found the weed and smoked it. He 193 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: said it's his car and anything in the car is 194 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: his property. I am so hot? Should I make him 195 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: replace my weed? Are you kidding me? What? Are you 196 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: kidding me? Legal? Okay? Now let me okay, okay, let 197 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: me show them because did I get it confused? What's this? 198 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: Her car? Her bosses now her boss's car. She's using 199 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: it to she's using her boss's car. Hers is getting 200 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: work done? Okay? Cool? Has she left out the part 201 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: that her boss is trying or sleeping with her? Oh? No, 202 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: she that's not in there. Oh well it should be. 203 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: What boss letting you usday car and go washing in 204 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: and clean it up and putting gas in it, and 205 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: let you letting you use They call for what? For what? 206 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: Because hers is getting worked on? Hers in the shop? 207 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: But you cool enough with your boss where you can 208 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: buy some weed and leave it in the ashtray. He 209 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: can smoke it. Y'all got that type relationship? This ain't 210 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 1: about bosson employer, just about something else. So I'm not 211 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: even gonna answer the damn question because I don't give 212 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: a damn about your weed. But they inner in Colorado. 213 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: I guess it is, but it's not my concern who 214 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: has a weed. I'm all concerned about how you got 215 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: your boss's car driving it and he putting gas in 216 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: and washing it. Who's sleeping with who? That's minute? What 217 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 1: this about? Now? Y'all having a lover spat over some 218 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: damn weed. They ain't even put this about to me. 219 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: He said, it's his car, and anything in his car 220 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 1: is his property, and so is she when she in it. 221 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: Get it? Yeah, all right on Shirley, Moving on. Cassandra 222 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: in the Midwest says, my husband and I we're planning 223 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: to go to Antigua over the Christmas holidays, and the 224 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: travel agent told us both that we have to be 225 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: vaccinated to travel. My husband is paid for the trip 226 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: and still won't get vaccinated, so now he's backing out 227 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: of the trip. A portion of it is nonrefundable, so 228 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: I suggested that I invite my sister to go with 229 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: me instead. He said that's fine, but he'd expect my 230 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: sister to pay him back, perhaps the trip. He was 231 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 1: going to lose the money, So why does she have 232 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: to pay your thoughts? See l oh hey, dog, listen 233 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 1: to me. This situation is because you won't get a vaccine. 234 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: You won't get vaccinated. Okay, cool? Now because of that, 235 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: only half of the money is refundable. Your sister said, 236 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: Your wife says, let my sister go. You say, fine, 237 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: but she got to pay me for the other half. 238 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: What on the half your hand or the half? Dog? 239 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: It's gone cause your ass won't get the vaccine. Now 240 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 1: you can't go. It don't make no sense to ask 241 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: the girl for her money back. For your money back, 242 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: Your money gone, Yes, whether she go or not, your 243 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: half for the money gone? Get it. The unvaccinated is 244 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 1: starting to piss me off because now y'all paying this 245 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: unvaccinated thing all into vacations and everything. Man, whatever everybody 246 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: else is suffering. I think we should have a vote. 247 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: If you don't want to get vaccinated, you can't ever 248 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 1: get a ventilator that'll stop all this mess right here. 249 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,840 Speaker 1: Oh really, So if you get it, god forbid you do, 250 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 1: but don't come up in here taking up no hospital space. 251 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: Now for people who really need get your ass dynam 252 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: get vaccinated. Say what you want to say about me, whatever, 253 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: get your ass vaccinated, because I've seen what these vaccines 254 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: do to people who get vaccinated. The researchers there and 255 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 1: it's coming in. Yes, you can still get COVID if 256 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: you get vaccinated, but it has proven that the symptoms 257 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 1: are reduced greatly where you don't need hospitalization. That's a fact. Now, 258 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: other people dying from COVID who don't get vaccinated, Yes, 259 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:26,399 Speaker 1: the likelihood it happened with the vaccinated is unaccinated. I 260 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,880 Speaker 1: don't know what we're talking about. And right now I'm 261 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: talking to my old ass sister. This is personal. Why 262 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: is everything always because the family? I'm a flying down 263 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: so you can you don't sit around and chop it up. 264 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: And now we can't go yet because one of the 265 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: old my other sister ain't got the vaccine yet. You 266 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: ask get a vaccine, Okay too, damn old and be ignorant. Okay, 267 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: are you done? Because we're moving on now. Anonymous in Tennessee, 268 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: Clo says, my wife had all right, I'm gonna let 269 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: you all right marinate a little bit while I do this. 270 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 1: One anonymous in Tennessee says, my wife had a son 271 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: in December the strange line, and we hired an older 272 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: woman to come in and watch the baby while my 273 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 1: wife is in her home office working. This woman is slim, 274 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: thick with a tiny little waist and pretty feet. She 275 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: is sexy, and she knows that. I fought her off 276 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: at first, but she wore a dress with no underwear 277 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: and we ended up doing a quickie in the kitchen 278 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 1: while my wife was working. She has asked for more 279 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: than a quickie, and she wants me to come over 280 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: to her house. Should I go see what's up with granny? 281 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 1: Go see what's people are insane? Well, go see what's 282 00:19:56,960 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: up with Oh, come on, cell, I don't know what 283 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 1: you mean by granny. Do you mean, well, she's an 284 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 1: older woman. The babysitter who's watching the baby's an older woman, 285 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: so he's calling her granny. Yeah, well no, did you 286 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 1: miss that part? Yeah, we hired an older woman to 287 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: come in and watch the baby while my wife is 288 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: in her home office. The woman is slim, thick with 289 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: a tiny little waist and pretty feet. She's sexy. She knows. Okay, Well, dog, 290 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: I don't recommend going over to her house, because this 291 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: is gonna eventually cost you your family. And I don't 292 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: even know if it's your family anyway, because you say 293 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,879 Speaker 1: your wife had a son. I don't know. Is it 294 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 1: not your baby? What y'all doing? I don't really know. 295 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: But sexy Granny, don't go over her house. Dog, don't 296 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:50,920 Speaker 1: go over there. You're gonna get taped. This ain't gonna 297 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: work out. She already got you messed up. Yes, all right, 298 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: Well that's all we have time for today, Cello, thank 299 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: you very much. Coming up now, it's the Nephew and 300 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: run that brank back. Right after this. You're listening to 301 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top 302 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: of the hour. Miss Anna is standing by with today's 303 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 1: national news and then trending entertainment news. Robin Thick now 304 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 1: is being accused of groping a blurred lines music video model. 305 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: Plus in other entertainment news, Carla is here with today's 306 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 1: music news. The Beet Hip Hop Awards are tonight. Yeah, 307 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 1: all right, The Beet Hip Hop Awards are tonight. We'll 308 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 1: talk about these stories, of course at the top of 309 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: the hour, but right now, the nephew, you heard him. 310 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 1: The nephew is here with today's run that brank back. 311 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 1: What you got for his nav? I got kay dog 312 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 1: for y'all. Kay do okay, let's go cat. Hello. Oh yeah, 313 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach I'm trying to reach Terns. Yeah 314 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: this is Sans. Who's this this K dog? Uh? His brand? 315 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 1: Your brother? Then? Yeah, that's my brother? Eli up? Why 316 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:04,159 Speaker 1: what's up? Because? Yea cool? Hey look I just got that. 317 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,640 Speaker 1: I was actually uh, I was locked up with your brother. 318 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: We was on the same tier together, like I was. 319 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 1: You know, that was kind of like my boy right there. 320 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: I took kill of uh. He told me that he was. 321 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 1: He had been writing you to tell you and you was, 322 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 1: you know, letting you know I had been taken care of, 323 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: you know, while we was locked down or whatever. I 324 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 1: know he don't get off for another couple of years, 325 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: but like he told me that when he was writing 326 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 1: you that you know, y'all had already got it situated it. 327 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: You know, you was gonna take care of me when 328 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: I got out. So you know, I, like I said, 329 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 1: I just got out last night, and I wanted to 330 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: come by and pick up the first ten grand you 331 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: know sometimes this wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait, wait, wait, wait, 332 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: how much did you just say kenny grand? Yeah? You know, 333 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: I mean he told me he had already wrote you 334 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: and told you what was up. Oh bro, I ain't 335 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: talking to my brother over a year, so uh ain't 336 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,479 Speaker 1: hold on? Hold on, hold on, hold on right? You know? Okay? 337 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: He told nah. You know, Peter told me that you 338 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 1: you got me straight with the first ten grand when 339 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 1: I first get out and done. A couple of months later, 340 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: you hit me with the next ten grands. It's just 341 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 1: twenty grand. Wait wait over, that's twenty grand. Bro. I 342 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: got a wife and kids. I got a family to 343 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: take care of. Ain't no, I ain't got ten grand 344 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 1: to deal with. I gotta feed four kids and the wife. Okay, okay, 345 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 1: So what you hold on? Hold? How how old? Hold 346 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 1: them up? Man? So what you're saying Brandon was lying 347 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: to me the whole time. What I'm telling you is 348 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 1: just locked up eighty man to say anything to uh 349 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: say to the ain't no ten grand over here? You know, 350 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: twenty grand over here? You want to get in, Brandon's 351 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 1: gonna need to wait two years till you get out 352 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: and deal with that. You get no, no, no, it 353 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 1: ain't it ain't. It ain't been. It ain't been a 354 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: fall like that. Plea nigga, hear what's sens to go down? Okay, Nah, 355 00:23:56,200 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm coming over the frad So coming over here, ten grand. 356 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: The first ten grand is old old frid. Now what 357 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 1: I ain't got the first. First of all, what you 358 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: need to know is just right here. I don't care 359 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 1: nothing about going back. My thing is just right here. 360 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 1: Just pay for supposed to be read. And it took 361 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 1: care of your brother all these years while I was 362 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: up in there keeping people up off of him on 363 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: the third till. And now you're been to come to me. 364 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 1: You're fens to come to me nine how to put 365 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 1: it in his work is now y'all ain't been to 366 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 1: pay up. It ain't been. The LM like this. Yeah, 367 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: that's what I'm telling y'all doesn't put it in work 368 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,680 Speaker 1: to provide my family, me and my wife work. And 369 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: you telling me that you're trying to come over here 370 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: Friday to get ten grand that I ain't even got 371 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: bo that's locked up. Hey man, look I'm not I'm not. 372 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: I'm not finna. First of all, all this backing pool, 373 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: but like this hill, this ain't nothing. I do you understand, 374 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't go backing food. I 375 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: don't you know what it is. It's ten green being 376 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,360 Speaker 1: on Friday now if you need to try to reach 377 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: out to your brother that's uh locked in. You didn't 378 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,160 Speaker 1: talk to him. But like the zill I'm coming looking 379 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 1: for terrest, you know, looking from my ten grand. That's this, 380 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 1: that's a nitti ten grand. I put some tims up 381 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,359 Speaker 1: yond you come over here to my house, to my family, 382 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: to about you're gonna get ten grand for my no 383 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: great brother that's locked down. Hold on, hold on, because 384 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: see you're gonna you're gonna remember around and take this. 385 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: You know way what First of all, what did you 386 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 1: just say on him? When I get over what you say? 387 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: You you bring your to my house with my family here, 388 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put some tims up yere? How about ten 389 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: thousand dollars and then another ten and a couple of 390 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 1: months you lost so damn blind. I ain't got no 391 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: damn grand. I've worked my often. You're gonna tell me 392 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: that you want ten grand? Another ten grand in a 393 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: few months of taking care of my brother while he 394 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: locked up. Nobody tell you take care of him. That's 395 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: a girl man. Let him take care of the self, 396 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,159 Speaker 1: Me and my family and the bell just out of 397 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 1: so much I'm dumb. Hey, hey, hey, do look at 398 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 1: I understand how it is that you've seen. But what 399 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: you what you got to look at all mine for 400 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: the land. Three and a half years, I've been over 401 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,400 Speaker 1: here taking kill and he telling me, y'all gonna take 402 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 1: kill me. So so I don't know what's going on. 403 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 1: What I do know, youll though Fried this frid I'm 404 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 1: coming to get team Graham from Tim. So you got 405 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: the six this right here. Anyway, you're gonna feast so 406 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 1: I And that's just it right there, Come Friday. I'm in. 407 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm in front of your house. Down what wait? Hunt on? 408 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: What wa? Hunt on? Kate Dog? You say your name, 409 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,479 Speaker 1: Kate dog baby from the third this Kay down from 410 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 1: the third till three tills on the side of my left. 411 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 1: I don't done three decades. You probably don't work the 412 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: everybody in the street and then jail you got with 413 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 1: my But I'm gonna tall something you bring over here 414 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: to my house. Try to me, my wife and my kids. 415 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 1: Thing gonna go down like you think it ain't gonna go. 416 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a thing I got. Then some 417 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 1: you come over here, you're gonna be laying down. Bro, 418 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,399 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be what gonna be laying down? You come 419 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: over here and try to me and my family and 420 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: my kids. That ain't gonna happen that way. You okay, 421 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: Then that's then that's that's where we're at to him. Baby, 422 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: Then we just we just gonna say this up a Friday, 423 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 1: and then because it don't make me know, i't already talk, 424 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 1: we gotta wait to fighting, k dog, we gotta way 425 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 1: to fight. I'll meet you somewhere. You're gonna like you 426 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: think it's gonna go down. Once I get you any 427 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: thing I got and lay you down, I'm gonna be 428 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: in there with my brother Brandon whooping his putting me 429 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: into he doesn't got yourn I'll call you hey. You know, 430 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 1: first of all, if you ain't got the ten grand, 431 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 1: you might well going on brand now anyway, get this. 432 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,879 Speaker 1: You need to get your out here and get a 433 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 1: job like everybody else. I don't care how long you've 434 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: been in and everybody got a job. I'm busting you 435 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 1: won't tend't work for that ten Grand and get you 436 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: out here and wash cars such grand. Hey, man, you 437 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna tell you? Know what your your brother? 438 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: One thing about him he was right about you though, 439 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 1: he was right about you. You know what I'm saying. 440 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what thing else he told me 441 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 1: about Joe? What? What the hell did he tell you 442 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: about me? He told me to tell you who I 443 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: really was. This is nephew Tom and from the Steve 444 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: Harpin more than show your sister. The feeder got me 445 00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: to point phone call you. Who is this man? This 446 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 1: is this is this is nephew jommy man for the 447 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey born to show your sister the Vita got 448 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: me the prank phone call? You get them. I didn't. 449 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: I didn't let up a cigarette in the house. I 450 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: could smoke in the house. I'm gonna get hut you 451 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 1: all right? Man? I am? You had me on ten. 452 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 1: I'm like ten, Grand, I'm gonna come to my wife. Man, 453 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 1: it's all good. Man. I gotta ask you, brother, what 454 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: is bad? And I mean the saddest radio show in 455 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: the lane. Man, you know what it is is Steve 456 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You don't make me go see my brother. 457 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 1: Now it's holidays. I'm gonna have to go see that 458 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 1: man in jail man. And then you have it. That's 459 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: the nephew, that's the k dog. I need ten K 460 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: and I hey, I mean and took you knew it 461 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: was going to be something with the name like kay Dog. Anyway, 462 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: he talked about his brother man, everybody involved in this situation. 463 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 1: He didn't give a damn one. I'm know one thing 464 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 1: for showing't nobody getting ten vows? Period? Coming up at 465 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we have some entertainment news 466 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 1: for you. Thinking, neph you we'll be back right after this. 467 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to Stry Morning Show. So model Emily Rodijowski 468 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 1: revealed that while shooting the Blurred Lines music video and Yes, 469 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 1: Steve it was a few years ago, singer Robin Thicke 470 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: groped her naked breasts. The director called cut on the 471 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: video shoot and inquired if Emily was okay. Diane Martell confirmed, quote, 472 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: I remember the moment that he grabbed her breasts, one 473 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: in each hand. I screamed, in my very aggressive Brooklyn voice, 474 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: what the effort you doing? The shoot is over? Emily 475 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: wrote in her autobiography, My Body due this month. Quote 476 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, I felt the coolness and foreignness of 477 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 1: a stranger's hands, cupping my bare breath from behind. The 478 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 1: model Emily Emily Radejowski recall that Thick was a little drunk. 479 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: I felt the heat of humiliation pumped through my body. 480 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: I didn't react, not really, not like I should have. 481 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: Oh so the book, Yeah, that's crazy. I know this 482 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: one song. He wished he would never record it. I 483 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: never lost the lawsuit with Marvin Gay children and this 484 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 1: video now when was blurred lines out? I think it 485 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 1: was twenty Yeah, that was a long time. She didn't 486 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 1: say nothing. Then years ago, Why she didn't say nothing, 487 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: We don't know if she said she said. I didn't 488 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: react like she should have. That is where. Yeah. But 489 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 1: now let me ask you a question. Uh, there's a 490 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: book out now, she's writing My Body, Let's due this month. 491 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 1: It's coming out. Oh, the book is coming out. Also, 492 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: she's she's promoting the book. Yeah, I would assume. So, yeah, 493 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: she's promoting the book, and that's something that's in the book. Yes, 494 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: out of nowhere, I felt the coolness and foreigness of 495 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: a stranger's ends, cupping my bare breast from behind yea, 496 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: so he had no right to do that. No, there's 497 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 1: no right to do that. But I gotta ask this, 498 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 1: is this for sales? That what the book? Oh is 499 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 1: she trying to promote? Is she's saying this so she 500 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 1: can promote her book and get more sales. But yeah, 501 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: I mean I expected to hear this eight years ago. 502 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 1: Whenever that happens, I mean, of course, naturally that's got 503 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:46,719 Speaker 1: a lot to do with it now because I mean, 504 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: Robin Think is a famous figure. Uh. The whether he 505 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: did it or not is not what I'm talking about 506 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 1: because I don't know. But what I do not do 507 00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 1: is assume that people are guilty. But if they got 508 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 1: witnesses and all of that, I would think. Man, I 509 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: wish that people were able to come out more freely 510 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 1: when things happen to them, you know, come out more 511 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: freely when it happens. I don't. It becomes a bit 512 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 1: m victims are scared to especially when it's somebody that's famous. Well, 513 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: that's why I said I wish it were. I wish 514 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: people were able to be able to come out when 515 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: things happen and not have to be ashamed or afraid. 516 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 1: That's for the whole me to movement, movement about you know, yeah, 517 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: them being afraid, them being you know, up against such 518 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 1: powerful entities. You know that they're afraid that they'll lose. 519 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 1: They'll be the losers, the victims will be the losers 520 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 1: and be blamed for what. Yeah, because it's been like 521 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: that for so long, you know, absolutely absolutely all right, guys, 522 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 1: moving on and other entertainment news. Carla is here with 523 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 1: today's music news, which you got, Carlotta, well quickly. Tonight 524 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: are the b ET Hip Hop Awards hosted by our 525 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: guys eighty five South DC, Young h Carlos Miller and 526 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: Chic Goban. We love them, we love them. Yes, the 527 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: I Am hip Hop Award. Nellie will receive that he's 528 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: a legend and other performance will be there, so we 529 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 1: will be watching tonight. And Big Daddy Kane he's going 530 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: to pay a tribute to Bis Marquis. B ET Hip 531 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 1: Hop Awards hosted by eighty five South Tonight, All right, Steve, 532 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: come on it. It's time now for today's headlines, ladies 533 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss Anne Trippy, Thanks Steve, good morning. This 534 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: is a trip with the news. President Biden says that 535 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 1: in refusing to raise the nation's dead limit so that 536 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 1: the government can actually pay US bills mostly run up. 537 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 1: He says, by the Trump administration anyway, that Republicans are 538 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 1: showing that they care more about politics than the American people. 539 00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: Just have to let us do our job. Get out 540 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: of the way. You don't want to help save the country, 541 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: get out of the way so you don't destroy it. 542 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 1: Mister Biden says that in only four years with the 543 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: GOP in charge, the government ran up nearly eight trillion 544 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 1: dollars in additional debt that the government now has to 545 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: pay off. That's why I need the debt limit raised, officials, 546 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 1: saying that the federal government is now only two weeks 547 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 1: away from exhausting its cash reserves. Alabama Governor kiv has 548 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: announced that she intends to use four hundred million dollars 549 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,800 Speaker 1: in federal COVID relief money. COVID relief money got this 550 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 1: and other funds not to strengthen Alabama's infrastructure, not to 551 00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 1: provide economic assistance to people in need in her state, 552 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,239 Speaker 1: and certainly not to relieve her state's health crisis. She 553 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,840 Speaker 1: says she's going to use it to build more prisons. 554 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,720 Speaker 1: Local people say, yeah, that's because you want to perhaps 555 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:55,280 Speaker 1: can incarcerate more blacks. That's what civil civil active people 556 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 1: say in Alabama. Meanwhile, the black community of Delaware County 557 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 1: demanding justice in the case of a child, an eight 558 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 1: year old little black girls shot dead August twenty seventh 559 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,399 Speaker 1: by a stray bullet outside of a high school football game, 560 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: a bullet which investigators are nearly certain came from a 561 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: cops gun. Young Fantability was killed as cops from the 562 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: County of Sharon Hill returned fire after a group of 563 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: young men got into an argument a block away from 564 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: the football stadium. State Senator Anthony Williams of the Black 565 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: Legislative Caucus says the group wants to see legal action 566 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 1: and several firings. They You've not heard one word from 567 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 1: the police chief or the police department involved in the shooting, 568 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 1: not one word. The grand jury is needed not only 569 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 1: to bring charges, but also to vet those they have 570 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 1: chosen not to cooperate with this investigation. The three officers 571 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: who fired their guns that day, by the way, are 572 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: an administrative leave. Their names have not been released or anything. 573 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: While a review of Sharon Hill's police policies as they 574 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: relate to the use of Deadly Force, they say is underway. 575 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 1: Finalists looks like Captain James T. Kirk going into space 576 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,880 Speaker 1: for real. That's right. Actor William Shatner, who's ninety, is 577 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: scheduled to take to space to dun what was it 578 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 1: next week with je on the crew of Jeff Bezos 579 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: Blue Origin, New Shepherd things. So he's gonna do that 580 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 1: for real? Stay tuned. Now back to the Steve Harvey 581 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:24,760 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to show. Okay, here's the here's 582 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: the question. What about the current world? What about the 583 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,280 Speaker 1: current world would be most surprising to your younger self? 584 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, So do you think the most surprising 585 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: thing about the current world your younger self would be 586 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 1: upset and shocked about is how people can actually make 587 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 1: a living as influencers, you know, influencers taking pictures of 588 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 1: themselves posting them on the internet on social media. Oh 589 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 1: would I be shocked at that? That? Oh? Hell yeah? 590 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: Because all I knew was hard work. I just I 591 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: just saw my daddy hard work. I ain't never knew 592 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:03,839 Speaker 1: no if when an influence who? There were no cell phones? Who, 593 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: how are you going to influence them? And ain't but 594 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: three TV stations what are you fitting to do? I 595 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: would be stunned. I'm stunned anyway. I mean, like I'm 596 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: to be honest with you as my current self. I'm 597 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 1: still amazed at the fact and I'm really opening my 598 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: eyes to the fact that these young people have another 599 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 1: way of earning a living and it's not the route 600 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 1: we took. And it's been it's been a struggle for 601 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:41,560 Speaker 1: me admitting to that. So okay, So that's that's another 602 00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 1: part two of good Part two of this question, what 603 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,000 Speaker 1: would your younger self find shocking? What else would you 604 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 1: find shocking? Cell phones? Cell phones? Cell phones? Cell phones? 605 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,879 Speaker 1: It was unthinkable. Yeah, one of the greatest inventions. It's 606 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:03,800 Speaker 1: right up there. Think about that. And a computer that 607 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:06,680 Speaker 1: you can type in information and it talked talked back 608 00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:14,720 Speaker 1: to you Siri in your phone, Siri Alexa, dog. Dog. 609 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: We had to call four War one, right, Yeah, we 610 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 1: actually had to call four War one operator and she 611 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:26,400 Speaker 1: didn't know how to time right. Oh, you had to 612 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 1: have all the information. She would say, I don't see 613 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 1: that I need more information, old dog. Really hold up, 614 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: hold up a phone book. Hello. You needed to know, bro, 615 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,919 Speaker 1: because if you was looking for John Smith and open 616 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: up phone book dog which John Smith down that line, 617 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,200 Speaker 1: just trying to call and hope that little girl answer 618 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:59,760 Speaker 1: the phone. What a little girl? H huh? John Smith 619 00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 1: had daddy in lay. I got to go down each smell. 620 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 1: I don't have her phone number. I got called to 621 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 1: s oh a girl you liked when you were yaller 622 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,880 Speaker 1: cussed out, hung up. I wish you would bring you 623 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,319 Speaker 1: a little black ass by hill, Come on by him. 624 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:20,759 Speaker 1: She don't live him, but come by. What about landlines 625 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 1: with that real long extension cord, you could go out 626 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 1: out of nine. My daddy bought a fifty foot he 627 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 1: could talk on the porch. We thought that would the 628 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:34,279 Speaker 1: coolest thing in the wood porch talking. You tried to 629 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,000 Speaker 1: take that phone out on the porch and talking. Here 630 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: are you going with that phone? You ain't brought no 631 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 1: cord in here? All right? Coming up with thirty four 632 00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve 633 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 634 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 1: Morning Show. What is going on? Last month in Bend, Oregon, 635 00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,719 Speaker 1: a twenty two year old black man named Barry Washington 636 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: complimented a twenty se and you're a white man named 637 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: Ian Cranston's girlfriend at a nightclub. She said, no, thank you, 638 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 1: I'm flattered, but I'm in a relationship. Well, Cranston didn't 639 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,200 Speaker 1: like that, and a fight broke out between the two. 640 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 1: Prosecutor said that after the fighting stopped, there was only shouting, 641 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: at which time Cranston pulled a gun from his waistband 642 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 1: and shot Washington. There was no justification for his use 643 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,320 Speaker 1: of the weapon. Cranston was arrested but released on a 644 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollar bond. This outraged the community, and 645 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,880 Speaker 1: he was re arrested, and the prosecutor released a statement 646 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: saying our country has a disgraceful history of denigrating, prosecuting, 647 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 1: and lynching black men for talking to white women. Over 648 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 1: the last week, hundreds of people called and emailed me 649 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: to remind me of this history. This is an horrible 650 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: story right here. This is bad. This is really bad. Absolutely, 651 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:01,120 Speaker 1: you don't like the compliment. So let me just what's 652 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,240 Speaker 1: being done to this guy that's that pulled the trigger, 653 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 1: that charges they've arrested him and charged him with fire. 654 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 1: I see he got to you know, because you just 655 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:20,600 Speaker 1: you shooting a man because he complimented your girlfriend, and 656 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: the girl said no, it ain't like he physically did 657 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,919 Speaker 1: anything to the girl, tried to force hisself on the girl, 658 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: none of that. An argument ensued. Now you pull a 659 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 1: gun out and you shoot the black dude, Man, get 660 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 1: out of you. Yeah. This, this, this ain't what we're 661 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 1: doing no more. It goes back to people being able 662 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 1: to just carry these guns so freely you can just Yeah, 663 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, everybody, this open carry law, this 664 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:53,319 Speaker 1: right to bear arms in this country is the most 665 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 1: one of the most ignorant laws we have because it's 666 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:02,839 Speaker 1: causing so much. It's a sasta in Atlanta right now, 667 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: this carry law. Because here's look, man, here's a deal. 668 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: If you carry a gun, a lot of people end 669 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: up using it simply because they have access to it. Yeah, 670 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 1: that's true. And I just think, man, that when you 671 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,239 Speaker 1: carry a gun, you're using it as a way out 672 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: to solve a problem. Animal walking away, animal talking, animal, 673 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: reasoning and logic. I have the ultimate decision maker on me, 674 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,759 Speaker 1: and it's called a gun, and I'll use it. Yeah. 675 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 1: That that creates a lot of crime in our and 676 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: then the freedom to buy guns allows criminals access to guns, 677 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 1: which makes us who are law abadding people unsafe at Mars, 678 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 1: not being able to go to PHIPS and Linux is. 679 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 1: It's ridiculous what has happened in the city of Atlanta. 680 00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: It's hard enough, Steve, with law enforcement people who legally 681 00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:05,759 Speaker 1: have the right to carry guns. You know, yeah, misconduct, Yeah, 682 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 1: you know when they when they react badly or wrongly, 683 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 1: or you know, misjudge the situation or whatever. They're racist, 684 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 1: whatever the situation. And you got regular, like you say, 685 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:22,279 Speaker 1: law abiding citizens carrying guns. This is a horrible Now 686 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:29,840 Speaker 1: the law abiding citizen tries to counter trying the capabilities 687 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,840 Speaker 1: of criminals by let me, let me carry me a 688 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:37,719 Speaker 1: gun to protect me in my family. Do I understand that? Absolutely? Absolutely, 689 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:42,560 Speaker 1: I understand that. But now everybody got a gun, yes, yeah, 690 00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,759 Speaker 1: Now we live in America to shoot them up society. 691 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 1: And it's not like that in a lot of other countries. 692 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:51,759 Speaker 1: And if you look at the deaf and murder rates 693 00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:57,880 Speaker 1: in other countries, America is far and away the most 694 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 1: vicious and criminalized country on Earth. Damn near Damn, Damn 695 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: near dog. I mean, dislike hill. This over here is crazy, man, 696 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 1: and it's unfair, and I don't think it is reversible. 697 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: And the reason I don't think is reversible. Is because 698 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 1: the n r A controls the Right League part. Yeah, 699 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 1: and they'll fight to the death for those Second Amendment rights. 700 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,359 Speaker 1: But to answer your question, Tommy, the grand jury has 701 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: indict at Kranston. He has been charged with second degree murder, 702 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: first degree manslaughter, second degree manslaughter, first degree assault, in 703 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:39,040 Speaker 1: two counts of unlawful use of a weapon. Okay, all right, yeah, 704 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: all right, and we'll be back with more of the 705 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up. The Nephew with today's 706 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,960 Speaker 1: prank phone call. Right after this. You're listening to the 707 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of 708 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,680 Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry 709 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,480 Speaker 1: letter for today. The subject is my children are inconvenient. 710 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: That is the cha. I'm what all this? Everybody on 711 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: the show has kids broke the okay? And who are listening? 712 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into it. And justin Bibby right now, 713 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 1: the Nephew is here. You hear them with today's praying 714 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:18,320 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for its nat bottom of 715 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: the pyramid, Bottom of the pyramid. I think Carlin knows 716 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,320 Speaker 1: a little something about this. Right here, shout out fledge 717 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 1: your mom's we bought that life. Yes, all, here we go, 718 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:47,759 Speaker 1: Come on, cat Dog bottom of the pyramid. Hello, Hello, Hello, hello, yeah, 719 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,800 Speaker 1: can you hear me? I'm trying to read. Sorry on 720 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 1: just a second, let me turn it down. Okay, Hi, 721 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 1: who are you trying to reach? I'm trying to reach Angela? 722 00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, this Hi Andrew. This is Chip Chip. I'm 723 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:06,759 Speaker 1: the new camp director for the cheerleading camp for the summer. Hi, Hip, 724 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,200 Speaker 1: what can I do for you? I just wanted to 725 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 1: give you a courtesy call your daughter. You've got her 726 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,319 Speaker 1: signed up for four weeks with the camp, right yeah, 727 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:17,160 Speaker 1: but Joe, Yeah, this is your guys third year being 728 00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,760 Speaker 1: a part of the camp, yep. And she's really excited. 729 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 1: She loved coming to the camp and we think it's 730 00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,000 Speaker 1: a great thing for how to be involved in. What's that? Okay? 731 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 1: You guys just finished the whole cheerleading season two? Am I? Right? 732 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,880 Speaker 1: In the competition season? Yes, it's coming off of that 733 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,800 Speaker 1: right right? Okay, Well, we're getting ready for the summer 734 00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,480 Speaker 1: and everybody's excited about coming out and being a part 735 00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,320 Speaker 1: of what's going on. So here's what I wanted to 736 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: give you a little bit like I said, I'm the 737 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,799 Speaker 1: new camp director. I was just starting at this job. 738 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,800 Speaker 1: I got a few notes that that we're giving to 739 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 1: me about about, so I wanted to give you a 740 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,920 Speaker 1: call and see if I could talk to you about it. 741 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,200 Speaker 1: A few notes giving to you about Yeah, just a 742 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 1: couple of notes. I don't think it's anything that we 743 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,839 Speaker 1: can make sure it's okay. What kind of note. Well, 744 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,600 Speaker 1: it's been brought from my team, and that some of 745 00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,359 Speaker 1: the parents whose daughters are out there as well, there's 746 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,799 Speaker 1: gonna be there this summer. A little concerned about her 747 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:11,759 Speaker 1: being on top of the pyramid, that she's uh is 748 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: getting a little heavy shit she uh wait wait wait 749 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait ho ho ho. 750 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 1: You calling me about some some other parents and said 751 00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,440 Speaker 1: about how big my child is or how much my 752 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: child waves? Is that work? What I wanted to let 753 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 1: you know was we're gonna put as a base. Oh no, 754 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,080 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna put no base. I don't already pay 755 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 1: my money. And what you say your name is Chip? 756 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 1: And um, how long have you been the director? Because 757 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,359 Speaker 1: I was just up there two weeks ago and they 758 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 1: told me that she was gonna be the same position 759 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,919 Speaker 1: that she was last year, because that is what worked. 760 00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 1: That's the formation that works. So I don't even know 761 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,640 Speaker 1: what the world supposedly that some of the girls are 762 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,359 Speaker 1: complaining that she's too heavy to hold up. So that's 763 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,320 Speaker 1: what seems to be the problem in there. They're not 764 00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,759 Speaker 1: getting a strong on the pyramids. And wait a minute, way, 765 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: way a minute. I know, well, she ain't the biggest one. 766 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,719 Speaker 1: I felt, have you been myself? My child is not 767 00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 1: the biggest child. I fell when it because I would 768 00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,719 Speaker 1: see you have not seen these chimleys and if some 769 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 1: baby so most I felt, Okay, hang on, sud Angela, 770 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: I want you to calm down a bit now. Aint 771 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:20,879 Speaker 1: nobody's gonna calm down because I'd not already paid my money, 772 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,240 Speaker 1: And it is that I'll be talking about what parents 773 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:27,239 Speaker 1: what Harrison said? Something? Is it? Uh? Is it? Carrie Man? 774 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not gonna state who it is, but 775 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: let's just say it was several Harris has got something 776 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,719 Speaker 1: to say about my child and her position on the 777 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 1: chimleading squad. Because if you ain't gonna fuck up no names, 778 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,839 Speaker 1: then I don't understand what you're calling me about. I'll 779 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 1: tell you one thing. When she get out fell I 780 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: didn't pay my money. She better not be on no base. 781 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,719 Speaker 1: She better be in the hour. I guarantee you that, right. Nah, 782 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:53,320 Speaker 1: I've been hanging with the ain't nobody said nothing to 783 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:56,720 Speaker 1: me about and my way and all this. Okay, Angela, 784 00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:58,319 Speaker 1: can you hear me? I just wanted you to hear 785 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,399 Speaker 1: me clearly. I haven't seen these young ladies yet. Once 786 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,320 Speaker 1: I see them, I will critique what I think. You 787 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 1: don't even need to be calling me because you ain't 788 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:07,880 Speaker 1: even seen nothing. Are you calling me with some He 789 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,880 Speaker 1: says she's from some other parents that's been skinny and 790 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: grinned in my face, and they now wanted you and 791 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 1: nothing to me. They have't been in my house. We 792 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,640 Speaker 1: ain't had parties, always hiving the competition every weekend of 793 00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,800 Speaker 1: other day, and they couldn't say nothing to me about 794 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 1: my baby. I tell you what, why don't you call 795 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 1: your girls on the three way? Mister Chip. If you 796 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,239 Speaker 1: can't call him on the three I got them. I 797 00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,880 Speaker 1: call him on the three way. Okay, Okay, Look man, 798 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 1: all I wanted to do is make you aware of 799 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 1: the possibility that she may be a good Thank you 800 00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,320 Speaker 1: you have made me aware, and I guarantee you that 801 00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 1: if I bring my big yellow up and come to 802 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,680 Speaker 1: the practice, I guarantee you she won't be a face. 803 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 1: How much you want to bet on that, mister Chip, Look, 804 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,120 Speaker 1: you're gonna quit holler and me and I told you 805 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 1: I would try to take a look at these girls. 806 00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 1: But I tell you what your thought is gonna be 807 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:55,480 Speaker 1: a face or she's gonna be a back support, whichever 808 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 1: I decide. She's started to do. Who enough do you 809 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 1: think you're holler that at, mister chill, No, that's not 810 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: how it's gonna go down, as a matter of fact. 811 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:07,200 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, mister chill, are you at 812 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,719 Speaker 1: the registration table to day? I'm here now while people 813 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,640 Speaker 1: are registering you? Sorry, let me turn it around. I'll 814 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,000 Speaker 1: tell you what. I'm all my way up there. Why 815 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:19,239 Speaker 1: don't you and the parents has been complaining? Why don't 816 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 1: all y'all come to the table and we gonna have 817 00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,440 Speaker 1: come to Jesus meeting about whether it's gonna be But 818 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 1: it's coming up season because I'm not going to tolerate this. 819 00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,800 Speaker 1: I've ben't told you, I haven't paid my money, and 820 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,200 Speaker 1: this high is going down? Game weight? What what is 821 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: it that you wa game way to night. What does 822 00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: they have to do with her chill meeting? Jude? You 823 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,920 Speaker 1: agree that probably bigger than most of the girls on 824 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 1: the team. It's not bigger than most of the girls 825 00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 1: on the team. Uh, mommy daughter's visited and she wasn't 826 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,959 Speaker 1: no base. Last ship they hiked up up some gonna 827 00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,480 Speaker 1: get up to We all just gonna be big impromped 828 00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 1: up in the air. I didn't turned around, and I'm 829 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 1: here to sell you the restration table, So let's be 830 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 1: with it. I'll be ready before you get here. That's 831 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,759 Speaker 1: something else I need to tell you. You ain't gonna 832 00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,279 Speaker 1: tell me something. All you gotta do is to have 833 00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 1: you and the pears around that table when I get there, 834 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,200 Speaker 1: because I'm on my way up there right now. Then 835 00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 1: y'all can say all y'all gotta say in my face, Well, 836 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,080 Speaker 1: I want to get before you get it. I just 837 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,600 Speaker 1: want to let you know, man, what this is nephew 838 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:22,600 Speaker 1: timing from the sea. Who this is on this phone? Wait? Wait, women, 839 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 1: hold on, holo ho what did you just say? This 840 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,719 Speaker 1: is a nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 841 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:40,280 Speaker 1: To be good? Oh lord, Rochelle, there's another pair named Rochelle. 842 00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,799 Speaker 1: She thought for y'all a good friends out there, oh 843 00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,400 Speaker 1: she got Oh, so she want to break out? All right, 844 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:49,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna see the season start started uniform. She'll be 845 00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 1: able to perform a fact we look at to hers. 846 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,759 Speaker 1: How about I want to break out me? Oh man, hey, 847 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,839 Speaker 1: let me ask some baby, what is the baddest I mean, 848 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:07,640 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. Now you have 849 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 1: some people got to be at the bottom. Okay, some 850 00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:13,400 Speaker 1: people got to be at the bottom. Up with me, everybody. 851 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:21,440 Speaker 1: Everybody can't be on the top. All you chier moms 852 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 1: and cheer dad's out there, y'all, y'all pull up a 853 00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 1: little bit, y'all, y'all go hard for y'all be on 854 00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 1: the sideline doing way too much yelling at the coach. 855 00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 1: You just said, we cheer moms, we about that life. 856 00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,880 Speaker 1: Everybody can't be on top. It's got to be some 857 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,880 Speaker 1: people at the bottom of the pyramid. Weight got a 858 00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 1: lot to do with it. You got to be on 859 00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,600 Speaker 1: the base. You know who you are. You can't be 860 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:57,759 Speaker 1: the flyer. We can't throw you up and had a 861 00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,400 Speaker 1: look on him kid's face on when you on your 862 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:07,799 Speaker 1: way down you're important. I'm not gonna run the risk 863 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:12,400 Speaker 1: of breaking both my arms trying to catch you. I 864 00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 1: think what costs most money is all expensive as ribbons. 865 00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:21,279 Speaker 1: And let me tell you something. Your ribbon better not 866 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,759 Speaker 1: come out your head and hit that floor. You lose 867 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 1: points for that. Yes, you better. You better have listen, No, listen. 868 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,240 Speaker 1: We're having Cheerley the Cuts this morning. The following people 869 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:45,800 Speaker 1: will not make the cut, and we will tell you why. Teresa, 870 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:52,800 Speaker 1: your inability to smile, you are out cherry, your inability 871 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 1: to wear the halfstyles we required. We said pony tails. 872 00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 1: And Larissa, you don't know how to keep your bowing 873 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:10,080 Speaker 1: your here coming up, Strawberry Letter. My children are inconvenient 874 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 1: as a subject. We'll get into it right after this. 875 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:17,359 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now 876 00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:22,440 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, 877 00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:25,480 Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve 878 00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:30,399 Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 879 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 880 00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:34,359 Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now. 881 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,480 Speaker 1: You never know, it could be yours could be could 882 00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 1: be buckle up and hold on tight. We got it 883 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry letter. Thank you, 884 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:47,480 Speaker 1: fh you. My children are inconvenient is the subject. Dear 885 00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm fifty one years old. I'm a married woman, 886 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,840 Speaker 1: and I've been with my husband for seven years. We 887 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,720 Speaker 1: met at a rap concert while picking up our daughters, 888 00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: who were both sixteen at the time. He and I 889 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,760 Speaker 1: started talking about how we shouldn't have let our daughters 890 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:07,160 Speaker 1: go unchaperoned. My daughter and her friends came out first, 891 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,279 Speaker 1: and he got my number before I walked away. We 892 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:15,200 Speaker 1: instantly clicked, and he proposed a year. After a year 893 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,120 Speaker 1: of dating, our daughters didn't know each other, so they 894 00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,920 Speaker 1: demanded separate bedrooms as we struggled to blend our families 895 00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,640 Speaker 1: after marriage. Right now, we live with two twenty three 896 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 1: year old women, and he has a son that is nineteen, 897 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,360 Speaker 1: and he comes and goes as he pleases. When he 898 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,920 Speaker 1: breaks up with this girl, he's back on our couch 899 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,800 Speaker 1: for a few weeks. All of our bedrooms, all of 900 00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:40,680 Speaker 1: our closets, and two storage rooms have been taken over 901 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,480 Speaker 1: by grown children. My husband and I are a decent couple, 902 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:48,480 Speaker 1: and my man works hard, and so do I. We 903 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,640 Speaker 1: brought our children up in the church and we made 904 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 1: sure they went to college. All three of them dropped out. 905 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 1: Our girls smoke weed, and I'm sure our son does too, 906 00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:01,480 Speaker 1: but he's just better at high The girls smoke in 907 00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:04,759 Speaker 1: our backyard, and the neighbors used to complain, but now 908 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,960 Speaker 1: they just accept it like we do. I talk to 909 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,719 Speaker 1: my husband about us selling our house and downsizing to 910 00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,480 Speaker 1: a condo so these freeloaders won't have any space, but 911 00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:17,680 Speaker 1: he's got a soft spot for these grown, lazy women. 912 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,239 Speaker 1: I want to redo our kitchen and din but I 913 00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:23,359 Speaker 1: refuse to make our home nicer until the freeloaders will leave. 914 00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:27,080 Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for them because they're a major 915 00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:30,239 Speaker 1: inconvenience at this point. They have no way to take 916 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,080 Speaker 1: care of themselves if we put them out. What can 917 00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:37,440 Speaker 1: we do to get these grown ups out of here? Wow, 918 00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:41,400 Speaker 1: this is a really sad letter. Smoking weed in the 919 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:46,800 Speaker 1: backyard not working. This has got to stop right now. Okay, 920 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:51,000 Speaker 1: and downsizing to a nice condo sounds really nice. And 921 00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,480 Speaker 1: I got to ask where is their mother? She probably 922 00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,320 Speaker 1: doesn't let them take advantage of her space like you guys, 923 00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,800 Speaker 1: You and your husband have to present some sort of 924 00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: night at front. I know you said your husband has 925 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,120 Speaker 1: a soft spot, But you all got to get this 926 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,399 Speaker 1: together so you can talk to these entitle, spoiled kids. 927 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,760 Speaker 1: You gotta let them know things are about to change. 928 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 1: The free rides over. You got to set a deadline 929 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,920 Speaker 1: for them to get it together and get out. They 930 00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,840 Speaker 1: need jobs, they need apartments so they can get out 931 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: as soon as possible. They should start looking now, You 932 00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:25,360 Speaker 1: as parents are enabling them. That's what you're doing. You 933 00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 1: have these kids have no incentive to get out. They 934 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:33,000 Speaker 1: have free meals, free room and boards. They can smoke 935 00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,720 Speaker 1: weed whenever they want to. You guys, don't say anything. 936 00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 1: I mean, what's their incentive to leave? I mean, the 937 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 1: sun does have a place to live, so you definitely 938 00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:45,560 Speaker 1: shouldn't be letting him come and go as he pleases. 939 00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:48,840 Speaker 1: I know you love your kids. We all love our kids, 940 00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,120 Speaker 1: but there does come a time when we have to 941 00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 1: let go so they can spread their wings and get 942 00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 1: started on their own paths, on their own journey. They'll 943 00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:59,160 Speaker 1: figure it out. They will figure it out as we 944 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 1: all did, and they'll thank you later. All right, but 945 00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,080 Speaker 1: you've got to tell them to get out now, set 946 00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,880 Speaker 1: that deadline and stick to it. You and your husband 947 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:13,400 Speaker 1: together as a couple. Steve, all of us on this 948 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,160 Speaker 1: show that have adult children know what this letter is 949 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 1: about and were sick of this type of letter. Yeah, 950 00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 1: we feel for you, we understand you, we empathize with you. 951 00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I've had to do some things. 952 00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 1: Now let me tell you something ain't all ease because 953 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 1: I'm all through this letter. I had blended family. All 954 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:37,840 Speaker 1: this here, so you know, here we go. Y'all met 955 00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 1: at a rap concert. Both of y'all sixteen year old 956 00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,960 Speaker 1: daughters was at the concert. Y'all met waiting on them 957 00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:46,480 Speaker 1: to come outside. Your daughters came out first with her friends. 958 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 1: You all clicked. He asked for your number before you 959 00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 1: walked away. A year later, you all were married. Your daughters, 960 00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:56,160 Speaker 1: who were both sixteen, didn't really know each other, so 961 00:58:56,320 --> 00:59:00,120 Speaker 1: they demanded separate bedrooms as we struggled to blend our 962 00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,920 Speaker 1: families after marriage. Blend in the family is not easy, 963 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,480 Speaker 1: especially the older they get. The more opinionated they are, 964 00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,480 Speaker 1: and they have personalities, and they not necessarily would have 965 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 1: been friends. They just became family thing. But families you 966 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,240 Speaker 1: don't get to pick your family. You do get to 967 00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 1: pick your friends, so when you throw them into this situation, 968 00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:24,840 Speaker 1: it is going to be some difficulties. Right now, after 969 00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:29,440 Speaker 1: seven years, you live with two twenty three year old women, 970 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,120 Speaker 1: and yeah, as a son is nineteen, come and go 971 00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,760 Speaker 1: as he pleases, he break up with his girlfriend, he's 972 00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,160 Speaker 1: back on our couch for a few weeks. All of 973 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 1: our bedrooms, all of our clauses, two stories rooms have 974 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,520 Speaker 1: been taken up, our grown children. My husband and I 975 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,400 Speaker 1: have a decent couple, and my man works hard, and 976 00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,440 Speaker 1: so do I. It's just so much going wrong in 977 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:50,919 Speaker 1: this letter. First of all, they've been at y'all's house 978 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:54,280 Speaker 1: way too long. Now. I'm off for your solution when 979 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,800 Speaker 1: we come back. But let me say this first. We 980 00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,560 Speaker 1: brought our children up in the church. Okay, so much 981 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:03,840 Speaker 1: for that, So much for that. I don't even know 982 01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:05,640 Speaker 1: why you put that in there. I don't know. I 983 01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know if that was supposed to 984 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 1: change something. Because you bought them up in the church. 985 01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:11,760 Speaker 1: You can bring them up in the church, and you 986 01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,280 Speaker 1: can bring them up in the club when they ain't 987 01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:15,760 Speaker 1: doing what they supposed to do. They ain't doing what 988 01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,800 Speaker 1: they're supposed to do, and we made sure they went 989 01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 1: to college. All three of them dropped out. Okay, so 990 01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 1: now you're making adult decisions on your own, then it 991 01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:36,360 Speaker 1: is time for adult consequences when I come back to me. 992 01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:42,160 Speaker 1: This whole letter is about consequences and you have to 993 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:45,160 Speaker 1: allow and I've learned this as a parent. You have 994 01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,840 Speaker 1: to allow for the consequences to occur. It's the only 995 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,680 Speaker 1: way they're gonna learn. And it's not consequences that you inflict. 996 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,960 Speaker 1: It's consequences that happen from their decisions. Will go over 997 01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,280 Speaker 1: this when I come there. Hang on, Steve, we'll have 998 01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:00,840 Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up twenty three minutes 999 01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: after the our subject, my children are inconvenient. We'll get 1000 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Morning show. 1001 01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:14,919 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1002 01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:21,640 Speaker 1: My children are inconvenient? Well? Well, well, well ain't they all? 1003 01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:28,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes your children get on your last damn Nerve. Oh, 1004 01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:33,280 Speaker 1: they don't think they do, but they do. And guess 1005 01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,440 Speaker 1: what the good news is they children gonna get on 1006 01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:42,240 Speaker 1: they damn nerves too, Nann. So that's how I've been 1007 01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 1: I've been looking at my son when kids now, and 1008 01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:46,720 Speaker 1: he'd be talking to me, I don't even be listening 1009 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:52,640 Speaker 1: ahead to tell me why I listening whatever? Whatever, you 1010 01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:58,560 Speaker 1: was that same damn problem you tell me. So now 1011 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 1: we got these couple gotten married. They have two daughters. 1012 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,440 Speaker 1: At sixteen, they blended a family. They're having difficulties. The 1013 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: daughters demanded each separate bed rooms. They struggle with their marriage. 1014 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:11,840 Speaker 1: They got a nineteen year old boy that comes and 1015 01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,080 Speaker 1: go when he pleased. If he break up with his girlfriend, 1016 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 1: he back on their couch for a few weeks. All 1017 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,880 Speaker 1: the bed rooms and closets and storage is taken up 1018 01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:22,480 Speaker 1: by grown children. And you all are a decent couple. 1019 01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,919 Speaker 1: You and your husband. Y'all raised your kids in church, 1020 01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:29,600 Speaker 1: which whatever, anyway, we made sure they went to college. 1021 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,840 Speaker 1: Now all three of the kids have decided to drop 1022 01:02:33,040 --> 01:02:37,400 Speaker 1: out of college. This is where your consequences have to begin. 1023 01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:39,760 Speaker 1: The one thing I've taught my children is this, the 1024 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,720 Speaker 1: older you get, the more die of the consequences. So 1025 01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 1: you can make these mistakes at a child, and then 1026 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:49,400 Speaker 1: your parents are helping. But the older you get, my man, 1027 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:52,880 Speaker 1: the more die of the consequences. And I'm not going 1028 01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:55,840 Speaker 1: to stop the consequences from happening to you. So once 1029 01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:58,840 Speaker 1: they decided to drop out of college, then guess what 1030 01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,320 Speaker 1: they needed to develop then was a plan of action 1031 01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,680 Speaker 1: since you don't want to go to college, but they 1032 01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:07,320 Speaker 1: ain't have one, and you all didn't allow them to 1033 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,400 Speaker 1: have one because you all let them come back to 1034 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,600 Speaker 1: the hole. Now all three of them then dropped out, 1035 01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:14,520 Speaker 1: and now they're smoking weed, and you sure your son 1036 01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,160 Speaker 1: does too. He just bet at hiding it. The girls 1037 01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 1: smoke weed in y'all's backyard, and the neighbors used to complain, 1038 01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:24,200 Speaker 1: but now they just accepted, like we do. Really seem 1039 01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:27,040 Speaker 1: to me like you need some rules at your house. See, 1040 01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: you can stay here, but these are the rules at 1041 01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: our house. You can't smoke weed in the backyard. It's 1042 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:39,000 Speaker 1: no longer acceptable. And if you smoke weed in the backyard, 1043 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:41,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna put you out. But they ain't got no consequences, 1044 01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:43,600 Speaker 1: so they do what they want to do. Now, you 1045 01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:47,960 Speaker 1: say you talked to your husband about selling your house 1046 01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:52,360 Speaker 1: and downsizing so you can get rid of these freeloaders 1047 01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 1: because they won't have any space. But he got a 1048 01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,800 Speaker 1: soft spot for these grown lazy women. I'm assuming that 1049 01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:01,480 Speaker 1: you don't. That's why you wrote the letter. You want 1050 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:03,400 Speaker 1: to redo your kitchen. It dead, but you don't want 1051 01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:06,200 Speaker 1: to make the place nice until the freeloaders lead. I 1052 01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:08,320 Speaker 1: don't feel bad for them because they have a major 1053 01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:11,600 Speaker 1: inconvenience at this point, they have no way to take 1054 01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,640 Speaker 1: care of themselves. This is where you and I have 1055 01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:18,920 Speaker 1: some problems. They have no way to take care of themselves. 1056 01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:23,280 Speaker 1: Well that's not true. They do have a way once 1057 01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:28,560 Speaker 1: they have to find a way. I'm gonna repeat that, 1058 01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:33,560 Speaker 1: they do have a way once they have to find 1059 01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:37,960 Speaker 1: a way. But as Shirley said, you've enabled them, so 1060 01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:40,400 Speaker 1: now they ain't got to find a way. We're in 1061 01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,480 Speaker 1: the back yard smoking weed. We got a roof over 1062 01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:46,280 Speaker 1: our head, we got some need and we can get around. 1063 01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:51,800 Speaker 1: So what do we need to do anything for if 1064 01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:56,680 Speaker 1: we put them out? What can they excuse me? I'm sorry, 1065 01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 1: we have no way to take They have no way 1066 01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:00,480 Speaker 1: to get care of themselves. If we with them out, 1067 01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,600 Speaker 1: What can we do to get these grown ups out 1068 01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,200 Speaker 1: of here? First of all, you need to set a deadline. 1069 01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:10,919 Speaker 1: That's for starters. You all have six months to find 1070 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:15,760 Speaker 1: a job. Whoever doesn't have a job will be staying 1071 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:19,920 Speaker 1: with the one that does have a job. But everybody 1072 01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:24,440 Speaker 1: got six months to find a job. Secondly, you and 1073 01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:27,240 Speaker 1: your husband stop cooking at home and y'all go out 1074 01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:30,320 Speaker 1: to dinner. I don't care if it's to go up 1075 01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,480 Speaker 1: to Popeyes. I don't give a damn. If it's to 1076 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:36,240 Speaker 1: go get salad at Wendy's Ball salad Ball, I don't 1077 01:05:36,280 --> 01:05:38,040 Speaker 1: give a damn. If it's go to Jim and Nicks, 1078 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:41,600 Speaker 1: I don't care what it is. Y'all need to stop cooking, 1079 01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 1: starved their ass out. See, stop making conveniences. Yeah, so 1080 01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:50,440 Speaker 1: stop cooking, go out to dinner, set a deadline, and 1081 01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:56,720 Speaker 1: then they have to realize consequences. You have to allow 1082 01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:02,080 Speaker 1: life to hand them what they're putting in. See, you 1083 01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:05,120 Speaker 1: get out of life what you put in. So if 1084 01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:09,920 Speaker 1: you don't allow your kids to suffer consequences, Daddy, can 1085 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:13,240 Speaker 1: I borrow some money, but what you need? And then 1086 01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:16,320 Speaker 1: they tell me, I'm under no obligation to give you 1087 01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:20,040 Speaker 1: the money. It depends on what's happening in your life. 1088 01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 1: And I'm telling you right now, for the most part, 1089 01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:29,840 Speaker 1: I forced them to figure it out. I forced them 1090 01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 1: to figure it out. And you know what, they go 1091 01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,720 Speaker 1: do they go and figure it out, because you know 1092 01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:40,240 Speaker 1: what we all did. We all struggle to give our 1093 01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:43,280 Speaker 1: kids a better life than the one we had, and 1094 01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:46,960 Speaker 1: in that process, you all, we created a safety net 1095 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:51,000 Speaker 1: for them that we didn't have. And so now guess 1096 01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,600 Speaker 1: what they do. They keep diving and laying in the 1097 01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:59,600 Speaker 1: damn net and that's all they do because they think 1098 01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,040 Speaker 1: they are and they take advantage of the safety net. 1099 01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:08,120 Speaker 1: You have to remove the net. True, I'm sorry. It's 1100 01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:10,920 Speaker 1: the only way to make it happen and let them 1101 01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:14,160 Speaker 1: figure it out. That's the only way to do it. Deadline, 1102 01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:18,680 Speaker 1: you gotta get your ass out, That's right, Steve. Post 1103 01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:21,360 Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, 1104 01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast 1105 01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:27,360 Speaker 1: on demand coming up at forty six minutes after the 1106 01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:30,760 Speaker 1: hour of Sports Talk with you know Who Junior. Right 1107 01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1108 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,600 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, Junior is here with Sports Talk. What's 1109 01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:43,280 Speaker 1: you got Junior? Okay, Shirley, first off, if I'm gonna 1110 01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:45,120 Speaker 1: get to my team in a minute, but just congratulates 1111 01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:47,440 Speaker 1: to Tom Brady for sitting the passing record. He now 1112 01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:54,560 Speaker 1: holds the NFL pass a record with eighty congratulation. Browns 1113 01:07:55,680 --> 01:08:03,440 Speaker 1: the Browns, Yeah you know it again, because you're out 1114 01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:05,480 Speaker 1: there in Texas and ain't got nothing to be grateful for. 1115 01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:11,800 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Junior. I'm sorry, yeah, ok on no, because 1116 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: he lost Sunday forty to nothing, forty to nothing to 1117 01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:20,680 Speaker 1: the Buffalo Bills for it, not a now point, not 1118 01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:23,439 Speaker 1: nothing nothing. We had nothing to show for it. So 1119 01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:26,120 Speaker 1: it says now Statistically, teams that are one in three 1120 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:31,000 Speaker 1: or folk the whole game attendance drops eighteen percent. So 1121 01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:34,120 Speaker 1: since we end that agent percent, I got some ideas 1122 01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:36,280 Speaker 1: to help the team out and get the attendance up. 1123 01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:38,680 Speaker 1: Just as a few suggestions, I think we should really 1124 01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:44,240 Speaker 1: implement ahead for a hundred dollars, just just for the take. 1125 01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,840 Speaker 1: For a hundred dollars, you can run out the tunnel 1126 01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:51,599 Speaker 1: with the team and then run to your seat, because 1127 01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 1: we need to see who out here can run. We 1128 01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:57,759 Speaker 1: need other players can't do a damn thing on the field, 1129 01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:01,840 Speaker 1: just scout retalent at the at the fort out. Why 1130 01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 1: would I give you one hundred dollars to run out 1131 01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:06,599 Speaker 1: with y'all losing asks? Go ahead? We're trying to find 1132 01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:10,200 Speaker 1: better players. We ain't really got nothing. So for fifty 1133 01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:13,200 Speaker 1: we got players or coaching. For fifty dollars, we'll let 1134 01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:15,439 Speaker 1: you drop your own play, will send it down and 1135 01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,800 Speaker 1: we'll run it. Because the one we run it ain't 1136 01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:20,040 Speaker 1: doing a damn thing for the whole peack, because we 1137 01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:26,000 Speaker 1: just go a point. We just need player coach. For 1138 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:29,479 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars, we'll put pads in a helmet on 1139 01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,080 Speaker 1: you and let you play whatever position you want. If 1140 01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:34,679 Speaker 1: you feel like you're a better quarterback. Hell, he's starting 1141 01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,320 Speaker 1: eleven games in college. If you got any none league, 1142 01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:41,080 Speaker 1: any two hand touch leading high school football, I don't 1143 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,040 Speaker 1: give a damn what it is you have done. If 1144 01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:47,680 Speaker 1: you can play better quarterback, then heat we'll came. I'm 1145 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:49,880 Speaker 1: gonna give you two hundred dollars to put on some 1146 01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:55,519 Speaker 1: pads and stand behind that ragged ass official line. Um, Um, 1147 01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:58,439 Speaker 1: did you see we lost forty or nothing? We need 1148 01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:00,400 Speaker 1: all the help we can get. Six day. Don't want 1149 01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:04,560 Speaker 1: to initiate no help, We'll I initiate it for football 1150 01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:06,439 Speaker 1: to hand touch. We don't give a damn what it is. 1151 01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:08,600 Speaker 1: What's your football sparing? You can do better than what 1152 01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:10,640 Speaker 1: we did because we put up a goose egg for 1153 01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:13,560 Speaker 1: it to nothing, but you know what, and then for 1154 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:17,240 Speaker 1: another two hundred and fifty dollars. Hell, we'll let you 1155 01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:20,639 Speaker 1: start because the startups we got ain't worth a damn, 1156 01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:26,920 Speaker 1: he says, too high, two hundred and fifty start and 1157 01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:34,920 Speaker 1: lose and just you don't. Can you get read my seasons? Parents? 1158 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:36,880 Speaker 1: And I got two seasons? Fair? Can you go? And 1159 01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm abody buying that ragged ass chair you got For 1160 01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 1: the passing time, We'll let you do the pep talk 1161 01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:47,559 Speaker 1: in the locker room to the coach. Get great suggestions, Junior, 1162 01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:49,439 Speaker 1: I love it. Coming up at the top of the hour, 1163 01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:53,519 Speaker 1: we'll talk about the man code. Right after this. You're 1164 01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:59,840 Speaker 1: listening to Steve. If you recall, you mentioned that you 1165 01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:03,479 Speaker 1: saw the public apology of B two k's Little Fizz 1166 01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:07,080 Speaker 1: when he apologized to a Marion for dating a Marion's 1167 01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:11,720 Speaker 1: X and the mother of his two children, April Jones Well. 1168 01:11:11,800 --> 01:11:14,479 Speaker 1: During a recent B two K concert in Los Angeles. 1169 01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:17,640 Speaker 1: Fizz said he was wrong and basically said, I did 1170 01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,479 Speaker 1: some fed up sugar honey iced tea stuff to my brother. 1171 01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:24,160 Speaker 1: I'm not proud of it, man, So I want to 1172 01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:27,880 Speaker 1: say humbly, I humbly and sincerely apologize to you for 1173 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:33,400 Speaker 1: any turmoil and dysfunction I caused between you and your family. 1174 01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:39,120 Speaker 1: So here's the question. Yeah you saw it, Yeah it 1175 01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:42,679 Speaker 1: was I'm sure it was a moment too. So here's 1176 01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:47,040 Speaker 1: a question for you. Junior and Tommy Steve talk about 1177 01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:50,840 Speaker 1: this man code. Fizz broke it. But can you really 1178 01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:53,960 Speaker 1: really be cool again once you break that man code? 1179 01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:56,920 Speaker 1: Can you be cool with your with your teammates or 1180 01:11:57,040 --> 01:12:03,360 Speaker 1: your bandmate, your brother again? I sent your name? Well, well, 1181 01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:05,280 Speaker 1: well we can just hold on for him because we 1182 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:10,200 Speaker 1: already know what it is. Yeah, Oh, I don't know 1183 01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 1: that it'll ever be the same because it's two people 1184 01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,120 Speaker 1: that's got to be forgiven. Fears is gonna forgive me 1185 01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:22,120 Speaker 1: for doing what he did to my girl, and then 1186 01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,519 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need forgiven it for what I did to 1187 01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:32,519 Speaker 1: Fears for doing it to my girl Maria forgiving Fiz right. Well, 1188 01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:34,560 Speaker 1: but see, I then Fear is gonna have to have 1189 01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 1: forgiven me for beating his ass as bad as I 1190 01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:47,080 Speaker 1: did once week. Then now I don't know how time 1191 01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 1: it feel. But that's that's a lot that'll partly we'd 1192 01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 1: probably still be on stage forgiving each other. Okay, all right, 1193 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:59,280 Speaker 1: what no, d Dani, same don't Yeah, I mean I 1194 01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:01,840 Speaker 1: hear what you say saying, but now you know that 1195 01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:04,280 Speaker 1: that you can't fix that because now, well my girl 1196 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,360 Speaker 1: I got Now, I can't trust you around, honey, because 1197 01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:09,320 Speaker 1: y'all ass is a girl snatches. So it ain't a 1198 01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,760 Speaker 1: where in the world. I'm gonna sit up here and 1199 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:14,000 Speaker 1: just be cool with you any time you walk in 1200 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 1: the room and here feeds in here, get your stuff, 1201 01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:18,640 Speaker 1: baby's gonna go. Come on, put the plate down and 1202 01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:22,760 Speaker 1: let's go. Feez is here ain't awhere in the world. 1203 01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:26,120 Speaker 1: All right, well, let's thank you. Let's move on to 1204 01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:30,479 Speaker 1: the man who holds a grudge until he dies. Uh, nephew, 1205 01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:35,000 Speaker 1: what about this man? Code? What you got? I'm through 1206 01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:40,719 Speaker 1: with you when we get to hell and all help, 1207 01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:45,600 Speaker 1: I don't with you. That's it. It is what it is. 1208 01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm sucky you've didn't done me. We dune. That's your age. 1209 01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:55,679 Speaker 1: That forgiveness. Yeah, I think man don't have that type 1210 01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:59,559 Speaker 1: of forgiveness towards that can't forgive each other. World thank 1211 01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:04,000 Speaker 1: forgive each other because and the reason being is, you know, 1212 01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:06,840 Speaker 1: they performing together they got a way to make this money, 1213 01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:12,639 Speaker 1: and I can show you something probably happened with that dude. 1214 01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:17,280 Speaker 1: Does a Marian still date this girl? No? Yeah, see 1215 01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:20,280 Speaker 1: that that's has two children from her. No, And it 1216 01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:22,960 Speaker 1: sounds like she was she on some revenge stuff to 1217 01:14:23,120 --> 01:14:27,040 Speaker 1: hurt him a Marian and then got with Fizz and 1218 01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:35,440 Speaker 1: he was wrong and she was wrong. So yeah, yeah, apologized. 1219 01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:39,720 Speaker 1: I think that big. That was real big. But I 1220 01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:42,559 Speaker 1: would like I said, I'd have had to apologize to them. 1221 01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 1: Since we apologize the apology to I think that's being 1222 01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:50,080 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of B two K fans 1223 01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:52,679 Speaker 1: probably thought that they would never see them perform again 1224 01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:58,920 Speaker 1: in the group still as off the stage. Well, if 1225 01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:01,240 Speaker 1: you feel to be in the group and he'll be 1226 01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:06,680 Speaker 1: a cutout, he'll be, he'll be fizzing. It'll be some 1227 01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:09,560 Speaker 1: season out of him. That's but you know what, in 1228 01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:12,600 Speaker 1: all honesty, I like the apology that he made and 1229 01:15:12,640 --> 01:15:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm glad they was able to squash it because it 1230 01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:20,280 Speaker 1: ain't just fears to your girl trifling too. Yeah, so 1231 01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:23,519 Speaker 1: sometimes you need to get the news in a different way. 1232 01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,519 Speaker 1: One more time as we go out, Tommy, just to 1233 01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:34,160 Speaker 1: be clear on how you feel what averybody annoy it. 1234 01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:37,800 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1235 01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:42,120 Speaker 1: Showed twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to 1236 01:15:42,320 --> 01:15:47,719 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. In trending COVID News. Chief 1237 01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:51,200 Speaker 1: White House Medical Advisor Anthony Fauci said yesterday on the 1238 01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:54,720 Speaker 1: CBS Face the Nation show that it is just too 1239 01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:57,759 Speaker 1: soon to tell if Americans would need to limit holiday 1240 01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:01,479 Speaker 1: gatherings this year due to a course of pandemic. Doctor 1241 01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:04,920 Speaker 1: Fauci instead says we should focus like a laser on 1242 01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:09,000 Speaker 1: continuing to get those cases down by getting people vaccinated 1243 01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:12,599 Speaker 1: and getting booster shots into the arms of those that qualify. 1244 01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:15,840 Speaker 1: Last year, at the start of October twenty twenty, the 1245 01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,439 Speaker 1: seven day moving average of cases was around forty three thousand, 1246 01:16:19,760 --> 01:16:23,360 Speaker 1: according to the CDC. The current seven day moving average 1247 01:16:23,479 --> 01:16:29,160 Speaker 1: is around a one hundred and three thousand. Wow. That's 1248 01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:33,599 Speaker 1: a huge difference. Wow. Yeah, it's almost double, or more 1249 01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:36,519 Speaker 1: than double, more than double, yeah, more than double. People 1250 01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:40,840 Speaker 1: are not listening. They're not doing this Christmas like they 1251 01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:44,800 Speaker 1: did last Christmas. They're gonna gather, is what you're saying. 1252 01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:48,679 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, they had football games right now? Will 1253 01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:54,960 Speaker 1: you watch college football? You're watching a super soaker spreader. 1254 01:16:55,840 --> 01:17:01,240 Speaker 1: But the pros too though, right, professional games too. Yeah, 1255 01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:10,960 Speaker 1: everything is back, surely, I said it exactly. Why so yeah? Man? Yeah, 1256 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:14,240 Speaker 1: well man, my grandmother. You gotta have your vaccine car 1257 01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:20,360 Speaker 1: to get in hot house. But Thanksgiving that first. All right, 1258 01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:23,960 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1259 01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:26,880 Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after. Right after this, you're 1260 01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:32,120 Speaker 1: listening to the show? Time now for, asked the CLO 1261 01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. This one 1262 01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:39,800 Speaker 1: is from Lakida and Denver. Lakida writes, I'm using my 1263 01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:44,000 Speaker 1: boss's car temporarily while mine is getting worked on. He 1264 01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:46,360 Speaker 1: helps me out by putting gas in the car, getting 1265 01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:49,519 Speaker 1: it washed occasionally. The other day he took the car 1266 01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,559 Speaker 1: and got it washed and filled it up. I noticed 1267 01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:55,479 Speaker 1: that my weed was gone, so I asked him if 1268 01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:57,880 Speaker 1: the car man threw it out. He said he found 1269 01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,160 Speaker 1: the weed and smoked it. He said it's his are 1270 01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:03,479 Speaker 1: and anything in the car is his property. I am 1271 01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:07,800 Speaker 1: so hot? Should I make him replace my weed? Are 1272 01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:14,000 Speaker 1: you kidding me? Are you kidding me? Legal? Okay? Now, 1273 01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:16,120 Speaker 1: let me okay, okay, let me ask something, because did 1274 01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:19,400 Speaker 1: I get it confused. What's this her car? Her bosses 1275 01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:22,120 Speaker 1: now her boss's car, she's using it. She's using her 1276 01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:24,560 Speaker 1: boss's car, hers is getting worked done it? Has she 1277 01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:27,920 Speaker 1: left out the part that her boss is trying or 1278 01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:34,840 Speaker 1: sleeping with her? Oh? Well it should be. What boss 1279 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:38,680 Speaker 1: letting you use their car and go wash it in 1280 01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:42,519 Speaker 1: and clean it up and pitting gas in it? But 1281 01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,840 Speaker 1: you cool enough with your boss where you can buy 1282 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:46,840 Speaker 1: some weed and leave it in the ashtray he can 1283 01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:50,040 Speaker 1: smoke it. Y'all got that type relationship. This ain't about 1284 01:18:50,080 --> 01:18:52,720 Speaker 1: bossing employees, just about something else. So I'm not even 1285 01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:54,680 Speaker 1: gonna answer the damn question because I don't give a 1286 01:18:54,720 --> 01:19:00,880 Speaker 1: damn about your weed. But they in Colorado, I guess 1287 01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:04,320 Speaker 1: it is. But it's not my concern. Who has we? 1288 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm more concerned about how you got your boss's car, 1289 01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:09,400 Speaker 1: driving it and he putting gas in and washing it. 1290 01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:15,880 Speaker 1: Who's sleeping with Who's That's really what y'all having a 1291 01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:19,560 Speaker 1: love of spat over some damn we dat me. He 1292 01:19:19,680 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 1: said it's his car and anything in his car is 1293 01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:26,120 Speaker 1: his property, and so is she when she in it? 1294 01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:32,560 Speaker 1: Get it? Yeah, all right, sir? Moving on, Cassandra in 1295 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:35,240 Speaker 1: the Midwest, says, my husband and I we're planning to 1296 01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:38,040 Speaker 1: go to Antigua over the Christmas holidays, and the travel 1297 01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:40,840 Speaker 1: agent told us both that we have to be vaccinated 1298 01:19:40,920 --> 01:19:43,240 Speaker 1: to travel. My husband is paid for the trip and 1299 01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:47,000 Speaker 1: still won't get vaccinated, so now he's backing out of 1300 01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:49,920 Speaker 1: the trip. A portion of it is nonrefundable, so I 1301 01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:52,799 Speaker 1: suggested that I invite my sister to go with me instead. 1302 01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:55,800 Speaker 1: He says, that's fine, but he'd expect my sister to 1303 01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:58,360 Speaker 1: pay him back for half the trip. He was going 1304 01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 1: to lose the money, so why did she have to 1305 01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:05,240 Speaker 1: pay your thoughts c l oh, hey, dog, listen to me. 1306 01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:10,360 Speaker 1: This situation is because you won't get a vaccine. You 1307 01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:15,200 Speaker 1: won't get vaccinated, Okay, cool. Now because of that, only 1308 01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:18,880 Speaker 1: half of the money is refundable, your sister said, Your 1309 01:20:18,920 --> 01:20:21,080 Speaker 1: wife says, let my sister go. You say, fine, but 1310 01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:22,680 Speaker 1: she got to pay me for the other half. What 1311 01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:25,760 Speaker 1: other half? You don't hand no other half? Dog, it's 1312 01:20:25,880 --> 01:20:29,800 Speaker 1: gone cause your ass won't get the vaccine. Now you 1313 01:20:29,960 --> 01:20:32,680 Speaker 1: can't go. It don't make no sense to ask the 1314 01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:35,200 Speaker 1: girl for her money back, for your money back, Your 1315 01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:39,479 Speaker 1: money gone. The unvaccinated is starting to piss me off. 1316 01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:44,639 Speaker 1: Coming up, it is our last break of the day, 1317 01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:47,880 Speaker 1: and of course we'll have some closing remarks from the 1318 01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:51,280 Speaker 1: one and only, our fearless leader, our Captain, Steve Harvey 1319 01:20:51,479 --> 01:20:54,679 Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after right after this, you're listening 1320 01:20:55,439 --> 01:20:58,599 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, here we are 1321 01:20:58,720 --> 01:21:01,960 Speaker 1: on this Tuesday with our last break of the day, 1322 01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:06,679 Speaker 1: and this is it for our show for today. We've 1323 01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:10,960 Speaker 1: had fun. It's been good. Yes man, had a good time. Yeah, 1324 01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:16,160 Speaker 1: good Tuesday. Uh huh? And I don't what are you 1325 01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:21,799 Speaker 1: so mad? You don't really need to say nothing else today? Really? 1326 01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:24,840 Speaker 1: Really you really think you need to be talking? I 1327 01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:28,240 Speaker 1: told y'all cut his mic off. But what is he 1328 01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:34,759 Speaker 1: mad about? The little fist and mary stuff? Too long? Caller, 1329 01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:40,599 Speaker 1: that was forty minutes ago. We talked about that for years, 1330 01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:48,599 Speaker 1: than boy and mad at Earl Patterson on street about 1331 01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:54,919 Speaker 1: his bike that will never change. That makes you bitter inside. 1332 01:21:57,400 --> 01:22:00,760 Speaker 1: Earl Patterson. Earl got always be, Earl got to be 1333 01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 1: at least sixty eight now he's still be talking about 1334 01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:12,240 Speaker 1: Earl Patterson. I'll be gonna Tommy, if you saw Earl, 1335 01:22:12,240 --> 01:22:19,439 Speaker 1: you wouldn't need recognized, all right, what is that? What 1336 01:22:19,560 --> 01:22:23,360 Speaker 1: the close remark about? On? Man, we ain't got enough 1337 01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:26,040 Speaker 1: time for them closing my mom with him. Hey, y'all, 1338 01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 1: I do want to say this though. I want to 1339 01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:33,400 Speaker 1: remind people of something. I want everybody to go back 1340 01:22:33,520 --> 01:22:40,080 Speaker 1: and look again. Go back and look again. If you 1341 01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:43,479 Speaker 1: have given up on a mission in life, if you've 1342 01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:46,200 Speaker 1: given up on a dream, if you've given up on 1343 01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:53,640 Speaker 1: an aspiration, if you've stopped pursuing anything you that that 1344 01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:57,080 Speaker 1: that you had your eyes on as a goal, I 1345 01:22:57,200 --> 01:23:01,200 Speaker 1: want you to go back and look again. Sometimes you 1346 01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:05,120 Speaker 1: have to rekindle the dream. Sometimes you got to fire 1347 01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:09,080 Speaker 1: fired back up. Sometimes you gotta find a new motivation. 1348 01:23:09,520 --> 01:23:12,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes you just gotta Sometimes you just gotta go back 1349 01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:16,120 Speaker 1: and look again. I can't tell you how many times 1350 01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:21,439 Speaker 1: I stopped doing something because I thought it wasn't gonna happen, 1351 01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:26,400 Speaker 1: or because I thought that wasn't God's will, or because 1352 01:23:27,000 --> 01:23:32,080 Speaker 1: I just got tired. But if you go back and 1353 01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:38,639 Speaker 1: look again, you might come to the realization that God 1354 01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:41,519 Speaker 1: was behind the scenes working some stuff out for you. 1355 01:23:43,479 --> 01:23:46,760 Speaker 1: Because God sees things you don't see. He hears conversations 1356 01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:50,320 Speaker 1: you don't hear, so quite naturally, God gonna make moves 1357 01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:55,160 Speaker 1: you wouldn't make. Sometimes you got to go back and 1358 01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:59,760 Speaker 1: look again, because I can promise you it was not 1359 01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:03,640 Speaker 1: his fault at all. It is always because of a 1360 01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:09,280 Speaker 1: decision we make. Stop letting the devil rob you of 1361 01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:16,240 Speaker 1: your destiny by giving up too early. A blessing delayed 1362 01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:22,120 Speaker 1: is not a blessing denied. God has impeccable timing. His 1363 01:24:22,400 --> 01:24:26,880 Speaker 1: timing is always on point. He's never too late. The 1364 01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:30,880 Speaker 1: problem with people is we give up too early. We 1365 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:34,599 Speaker 1: get tied awaiting on God's impeccable timing, and we give 1366 01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:38,120 Speaker 1: up too early. When all you got to do is 1367 01:24:38,200 --> 01:24:41,680 Speaker 1: stay the course. If you stay the course, lem la 1368 01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:45,160 Speaker 1: menation you something? What's wrong with staying the course? If 1369 01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:49,200 Speaker 1: you don't see any move then happening? Why would you 1370 01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:53,879 Speaker 1: not just stay the course when you don't see movement happening? 1371 01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:59,840 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean movement ain't happening. Could it possibly be 1372 01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:03,200 Speaker 1: that God is doing some things behind the scenes? You 1373 01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:06,960 Speaker 1: ever thought about that? I'm telling y'all, man, Sometimes you 1374 01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:10,400 Speaker 1: got to go back and look again. You gotta take 1375 01:25:10,439 --> 01:25:13,800 Speaker 1: a second look, man, and you'll find out. Oftentimes, man, 1376 01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:18,080 Speaker 1: it ain't God as you you got to stop giving 1377 01:25:18,160 --> 01:25:21,519 Speaker 1: up so quick. You got to stop throwing in the towel. 1378 01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:24,360 Speaker 1: You got to stop raising the white flag. What you're 1379 01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:30,600 Speaker 1: doing that for? What you're quitting for the problem with 1380 01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 1: quitting is you, when you quit, you finalize the blessing 1381 01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:40,960 Speaker 1: from happenings. You impede the blessing from coming because you quit, 1382 01:25:42,040 --> 01:25:47,799 Speaker 1: You gave up. Sometimes you gotta go back and look again. 1383 01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:55,400 Speaker 1: God has always working behind the scenes. He's always preparing 1384 01:25:55,479 --> 01:26:00,280 Speaker 1: a table for you. I can't count the times how 1385 01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:03,000 Speaker 1: many times God didn't prepare the table in the presence 1386 01:26:03,040 --> 01:26:06,600 Speaker 1: of my enemies. I can't even tell you. I'm a 1387 01:26:06,800 --> 01:26:11,519 Speaker 1: living witness to this, man. But you gotta keep the faith. 1388 01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:17,560 Speaker 1: You gotta keep believing. You gotta keep going when it 1389 01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:21,519 Speaker 1: feels like it ain't gonna happen hanging there? Why quit 1390 01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:26,680 Speaker 1: when it doesn't feel right, when it doesn't seem like 1391 01:26:26,800 --> 01:26:32,000 Speaker 1: it's moving. This is not the time to quit. This 1392 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:36,280 Speaker 1: is the time to knuckle down, stand still, and keep 1393 01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:40,880 Speaker 1: your faith. This is all what faith is. How many 1394 01:26:40,960 --> 01:26:43,679 Speaker 1: times can I say it? Man, Faith is the belief 1395 01:26:43,720 --> 01:26:47,559 Speaker 1: in things that you cannot see. God ain't gonna always 1396 01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:50,760 Speaker 1: reveal to you exactly how he's doing it. You just 1397 01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:53,320 Speaker 1: got to believe that it's gonna get done, just like 1398 01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:57,439 Speaker 1: it's been done every other time. Tell me one time 1399 01:26:57,560 --> 01:27:01,479 Speaker 1: God has failed you. Name it. Name the one time 1400 01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:09,280 Speaker 1: he failed you. Now, if you thank you're smart enough 1401 01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:11,519 Speaker 1: where you can name a time God has failed you. 1402 01:27:11,840 --> 01:27:14,280 Speaker 1: I want you to look back at that. Was it 1403 01:27:14,400 --> 01:27:20,160 Speaker 1: really God? Or was it you? I bet you it 1404 01:27:20,320 --> 01:27:26,080 Speaker 1: was you. God never fails. Come on, y'all, keep your faith, 1405 01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:29,800 Speaker 1: keep your head up. God is working. Look back again, 1406 01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:32,439 Speaker 1: take a look, don't give up hanging there. Those are 1407 01:27:32,479 --> 01:27:34,920 Speaker 1: my closing remarks. Y'all have a great one today. Hey, look, 1408 01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:38,519 Speaker 1: we'll see y'all tomorrow or God willing, and we'll have 1409 01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:41,519 Speaker 1: another great day. We'll have another great show. This Steve R. 1410 01:27:41,680 --> 01:27:45,880 Speaker 1: Martin Show. Anybody doing it like this? PI for all 1411 01:27:45,920 --> 01:27:49,600 Speaker 1: Steve Very contests, No purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants 1412 01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:52,559 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1413 01:27:52,720 --> 01:27:56,479 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. 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