Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who
Speaker 1: talks back? What's up? Y'all think if you tuning in
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Speaker 1: dedicated to you, ninjas and these pros and everything in between. Y'all,
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Speaker 1: black women. I have five broys removed over the weekend,
Speaker 1: and you know, I took a girl out pretty much.
Speaker 1: I've been out the game and I'm such not a homebody,
Speaker 1: so this is also very much hard for me just
Speaker 1: being in the house as much sas down. I ain't
Speaker 1: got no choice. I barely can get up. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta take it easy. I've never had five rods surgery,
Speaker 1: but I've definitely had a woman's surgery and that shit
Speaker 1: is no joke and they have to cut you over.
Speaker 1: I underestimated, Yeah, I underestimated this shit. I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I thought three days and I was gonna be back outside. Wrong. No, you,
Speaker 1: if you have a baby, you're gonna be smashing before
Speaker 1: them six weeks. Yep. I don't know when my mama
Speaker 1: had to pull my drawers up and down for me
Speaker 1: this weekend. It's definitely humbling. You remember we did that
Speaker 1: episode we were talking about. It was a white girl
Speaker 1: who had a surgery coming up, and she was talking
Speaker 1: about like, how now she needs a meete now more
Speaker 1: than ever because she has like surgery coming up. And
Speaker 1: what I said, then, even if you have somebody, you
Speaker 1: really can't depend on men to do those things, Like,
Speaker 1: of course you need somebody in the house with you
Speaker 1: for sure, but mama's and sisters they're gonna come through. Yep.
Speaker 1: My mama been was here all weekend. She was so good.
Speaker 1: I couldn't have done it without here. One of my
Speaker 1: neighbors came in took my trash out today, so that
Speaker 1: was good. How nice is that? Yeah? And then the
Speaker 1: instacurt lady put my groceries away from me. Yeah? Wow,
Speaker 1: did you get her a tip? I sure did, and
Speaker 1: sure did, thank you. Oh that's nice. You need to
Speaker 1: get me Sure you get a ten star review? All right?
Speaker 1: I definitely gave her all heroes have a cape. What
Speaker 1: about your weekend? Shit? My weekend was, you know, I
Speaker 1: just hung out a little bit dinner date weekend. Basically.
Speaker 1: You know, it's always nice when niggas take the bitches
Speaker 1: for walks. I said, I was gonna stop saying nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try real hard, real hard. You know. They
Speaker 1: said that for the past couple of New Years. I know.
Speaker 1: But listen, fellas, you have to take your bitch for
Speaker 1: a walk. Okay. If you don't take her for a walk,
Speaker 1: somebody else can take her for a walk. It's like, gods,
Speaker 1: what she needs is take your girl on dates. Yes,
Speaker 1: take your dates, even if instead of park literally take
Speaker 1: her for a walk, bike ride something. Yes. I got
Speaker 1: outside a little bit. That's about it. Good weekend, Good weekend.
Speaker 1: It's cold outside. I don't know what the hell is happening.
Speaker 1: You ain't missing nothing. That's cold outside. It's like Charleston
Speaker 1: is never this cold in March. Absolutely not in tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Like the lowest thirty nine or thirty six. I think
Speaker 1: that is freezing. Really that cold outside right now, right
Speaker 1: now is probably like fifty. But this is not normal weather.
Speaker 1: This shit is different. I heard it was snowing in
Speaker 1: La or some shit. Get your house in order, folks. Yes, look,
Speaker 1: let's jump right into stupid internet news. Okay, because y'all
Speaker 1: see what's going on with these banks. Okay, Like Tam said,
Speaker 1: get your House in order. This is a small sample
Speaker 1: size of what we could see on a larger scale,
Speaker 1: because you know, they want to get us on a
Speaker 1: central banking system, right, but they got to make the
Speaker 1: US dollar fail first. So the Silicone Valley Bank in
Speaker 1: California they went under, right Vamba, just excuse me? What
Speaker 1: the hell? So now like damn shiit same people, so Biden,
Speaker 1: Biden basically has billed them out. And it's not like
Speaker 1: a bell out like from two thousand and eight, where
Speaker 1: a taxpayers paid for this. One is going to be
Speaker 1: paid for it by the bank fees essentially, like they're
Speaker 1: the insurance that they have. And he's also calling for
Speaker 1: the top executives to be fired from the bank. Apparently
Speaker 1: the CEO actually sold all his stock the day before
Speaker 1: the ZAC actually happened, and as somebody to protect his
Speaker 1: own interest exactly, So I wonder, you know, he knew
Speaker 1: what the hell was going to happen. And this bank
Speaker 1: in particular, they said that the median deposit like it's
Speaker 1: like two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. So at this bank,
Speaker 1: the median account balance it's like two hundred and fifty
Speaker 1: thousand dollars. These are rich people's money y'all playing with
Speaker 1: And these people were pulling up at the bank for
Speaker 1: their money and they got the police called on them. Right,
Speaker 1: they can't get it. So, because isn't it like only
Speaker 1: a certain amount of your money like ensured that you
Speaker 1: can get through the FDI. Yeah, through the FDI, it's
Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. After that, that's it.
Speaker 1: So that's why now nanoment is stepping in. It makes
Speaker 1: me think of my great grandmother because of the starting
Speaker 1: market crash in the nineteen thirties, she put all her
Speaker 1: money in coffee kids and buried it in the backyard.
Speaker 1: Said she would never put her money back in the
Speaker 1: bank because of that. That's not smart either. Like tomorrow,
Speaker 1: the way it is looking like we will be wiping
Speaker 1: all asses with one hundred dollar bills in a minute.
Speaker 1: You need go. You have to you have to make
Speaker 1: like actual investments and intangible assets land, housing, houses. You know.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say stock market for real, even though I
Speaker 1: funk with the stock market, because I mean that's the
Speaker 1: same as a bank that yeah, it could crash to yep.
Speaker 1: So definitely natural resources those things aren't going anywhere. But
Speaker 1: they're definitely trying to get us on a crypto um
Speaker 1: currency type platform, and my thing, my only problem with
Speaker 1: that is like, what's the conversion going to be? You know,
Speaker 1: what's the conversion from my US dollar to whatever crypto
Speaker 1: going to be? Is it going to be, like will
Speaker 1: I lose half of my money so you might get
Speaker 1: a crypto one under? It is going under. All of
Speaker 1: this shit is going under. But I think it's they're
Speaker 1: trying to. I think the government is trying to get
Speaker 1: more regulation around cryptocurrency because if they get everybody on crypto,
Speaker 1: like if everybody had to do Bitcoin instead of the
Speaker 1: US dollar whatever, you know, country currency, there's more control
Speaker 1: involved with that. They can turn your finances off when
Speaker 1: they want to because it's all digitized, but it's essentially
Speaker 1: still the same thing even with fiat currency as far
Speaker 1: as I'm concerned. What I don't understand is how they
Speaker 1: can do that. But we're still voting an election booth
Speaker 1: with a god down piece of paper. But okay, but
Speaker 1: really we don't though. It's kind of like some of
Speaker 1: those machines are electronic, what is the dominion that owns
Speaker 1: some of them? But a lot of places have electronic ones,
Speaker 1: which I think can have a little bit more manipulation. Yes,
Speaker 1: people can throw pieces of paper out, but I can
Speaker 1: literally program your shit to change. It's a little bit differ.
Speaker 1: So I would prefer to keep the paper route. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you. As I was sitting around hurting, I
Speaker 1: was scrolling my social media and I saw everybody upset
Speaker 1: that Angela Bassett was snubbed by the Academy for the
Speaker 1: Oscar that she was nominated for for Best Supporting Actress
Speaker 1: in Wakanda Forever. And she I mean, We're gonna be
Speaker 1: honest about it. She ben should have got an Oscar
Speaker 1: if we relying on white people to give us our awards,
Speaker 1: but she definitely should have been got up. Jamie League
Speaker 1: Curtis should have been got one too, because but anyway,
Speaker 1: they Angela Bassett didn't get the Oscar, and niggas was
Speaker 1: mad as fuck. I was upset too, absolutely, But I
Speaker 1: just feel like, why do we Why do we care
Speaker 1: what white people think? Why do we need these these
Speaker 1: awards that was never meant for us to validate us
Speaker 1: in our careers, because she should have been had at.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows it. Jamie knows it. Yeah, And so Jamie
Speaker 1: Lee Curtis. She she won Best Supporting Actress for Everything Everywhere,
Speaker 1: all at once. It's alright, movie, it's kind of on
Speaker 1: the esoteric side of things, but good movie nonetheless. But
Speaker 1: come on, Wakanda forever, all of these great movies. She's
Speaker 1: one of the best actresses out here. And this is
Speaker 1: only her even her second time even being nominated. The
Speaker 1: first time she was nominated was for Best Actress in
Speaker 1: two thousand and four. So here it is now twenty
Speaker 1: years later and she's finally nominated again, only not to
Speaker 1: get the award again. It's for her me too. I
Speaker 1: hate that because you know she's to us like she's
Speaker 1: one of the best. Who's better than Angela Bassett. Let's
Speaker 1: be clear, who. I don't know anybody better than Angela Bassett.
Speaker 1: And if I hear you had my kids around that
Speaker 1: tramp bitch, we're gonna regret it for the rest of
Speaker 1: your life. Get your ship, get your ship, and get yo.
Speaker 1: The way she was talking like that's how black women
Speaker 1: be for real, Like you'd be talking yourself into a rut. Okay, right,
Speaker 1: We love you Angela Bassett. If you're a fan of
Speaker 1: we talk back, we love you I have been an
Speaker 1: Oscar Award winner in our hearts since the beginning of time. Right, so,
Speaker 1: waking up the ship this morning. Shit, m so speaking
Speaker 1: of the Oscars the internet again, the internets are in
Speaker 1: an uproar um comparing Sierra to Savannah James today. Um
Speaker 1: because of her choice of attire for the awards. She
Speaker 1: wore a barely there naked dress that was after party. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was after party, and several women were dressed the
Speaker 1: same way. But for whatever reason, in our community, it's
Speaker 1: almost like Sierra isn't it worthy of the life she has?
Speaker 1: To some people, it's like she was just this this
Speaker 1: super chicken head that only deserves a man like future,
Speaker 1: you know, like staying your place, chicken head, baby Mama.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the energy is. She is a
Speaker 1: married woman, she does have children, She's still fine as hell.
Speaker 1: I'm confused, and this is entertained. Why do people care
Speaker 1: so much to other people got on if her husband
Speaker 1: was happily standing next to her, What does it matter
Speaker 1: to y'all? Matthews exactly. I don't. I don't get the
Speaker 1: hate and disdain nowadays for Sierra. I don't get it.
Speaker 1: It'd be people who ain't got her first husband or
Speaker 1: wife or the potential for one. That's got the most
Speaker 1: horrible things to say about Sierra, like relax, maya business. Right,
Speaker 1: it's not really maya business per se, but it's almost like, Okay,
Speaker 1: these people are entertainment, are in entertainment. I ain't talk
Speaker 1: more shit about the bitches I see at the club
Speaker 1: dress like that, because let's be clear, people be outside
Speaker 1: looking like that, like like their celebrity. As soon as
Speaker 1: our heal, I got this same dress here and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put it on. So that dress gonna a little
Speaker 1: bit different on you. But oh her so bad? A laugh?
Speaker 1: That dress a little bit different. I don't, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think you should shame. But let Sierra alone.
Speaker 1: Let that lady do what she want to do. Now.
Speaker 1: One thing, you know, I don't have a problem like
Speaker 1: um just I don't know. I guess if I were
Speaker 1: married and had kids, I wouldn't wear that. I wouldn't personally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't personally, But I'm not here to judge her
Speaker 1: for she probably felt empowered to wear that, right, I
Speaker 1: honestly I wouldn't wear that now just because my body type.
Speaker 1: She's slim, though, I feel like she can get away
Speaker 1: with it and it be okay. I would wear that
Speaker 1: as a beach cover up without a problem, right what
Speaker 1: the thong dated suit underneath. But there were several several
Speaker 1: several you know, she was only black woman dressed like that,
Speaker 1: but there were there were a lot of model U
Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret models, a lot of different people. It's almost
Speaker 1: like that was like the theme for the after party
Speaker 1: as far as because I literally just wanted to make
Speaker 1: sure like its Sierra the only naked naked bitch at
Speaker 1: the at the whole thing. But I mean, it's been
Speaker 1: dresses like that at these awards for years and years years,
Speaker 1: But it's just like when a black woman does anything,
Speaker 1: it's a problem. And then trying to trying to compare
Speaker 1: Savannah James and hers, like why did y'all pick this
Speaker 1: one woman against this one woman? There was a lot
Speaker 1: of women with fully closed dresses and a lot of
Speaker 1: women who were naked in their dresses. So I mean,
Speaker 1: it's the difference, manya business right, I guess it's just
Speaker 1: like the athlete husband, you know, that's probably what it
Speaker 1: what it boils down to. But they don't even play
Speaker 1: the same sport. Right, if y'all want to be that particular,
Speaker 1: find somebody in the NFL. Yeah, just leave it alone altogether,
Speaker 1: right and moving right along. Black China took to the
Speaker 1: Internet this past weekend and she had a message for
Speaker 1: everyone that she was getting her butt reduced to a
Speaker 1: normal size, in her breast reduced to a normal size,
Speaker 1: and she also said that her fieler her face feelers
Speaker 1: would be next to be removed. So I think the
Speaker 1: era of overexaggerated asses and titties and faces kind of
Speaker 1: dwindling down. What you think, I'm happy for it. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna have an episode soon where we actually talk
Speaker 1: about body dysmorphia and maybe some of the mental health
Speaker 1: ship that surrounds that she's been going through therapy. Maybe
Speaker 1: she um is now more accepting of who she really is.
Speaker 1: Maybe um she has this stuff caused life threatening issues,
Speaker 1: you know, especially with the button. Maybe it's just not
Speaker 1: no longer trending. I don't know. I remember when Cardi
Speaker 1: B first came out, when I first came out, once
Speaker 1: she started like, because you know, to me, Cardi B
Speaker 1: is one of the best dress in the industry. When
Speaker 1: she got to hit the runway. I mean like it
Speaker 1: hit a red carpet or song period, and I remember
Speaker 1: her saying, like, you know, she wished she didn't get
Speaker 1: the butt shots because now she wants to fit in
Speaker 1: those nice dresses and stuff like that, and she can't
Speaker 1: always fit into things. So I don't know, Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know. If your body is naturally like that then this.
Speaker 1: But to add all of that shit, it just it
Speaker 1: does look crazy. And I feel like doctors should be
Speaker 1: hell responsible for some of the botched shit because it
Speaker 1: don't be matching oftentimes, right look crazy. I would suggest
Speaker 1: against it. I have a friend who was a cosmetic
Speaker 1: surgeon and she does like a lot of reconstruction, like
Speaker 1: you know people have to breast cancer stuff like that,
Speaker 1: but she doesn't do bbls. Yeah. Yeah, And BBLS is
Speaker 1: really dangerous from what I understand, putting that fat in
Speaker 1: your butt. Yeah, but they can't hit like a like
Speaker 1: a major artery and it could go bad. Well. I
Speaker 1: had my little cousin who actually got a BBL and
Speaker 1: her body her the butt rejected the fat fans for
Speaker 1: a year and so she ended up with all type
Speaker 1: of infections and shit, had a hole in the top
Speaker 1: of her ass they had to pack with gauds and
Speaker 1: all type of ships. Yeah, that's a lot to go through.
Speaker 1: You know what, I think social media we you know,
Speaker 1: when we have that episode, I think we need to
Speaker 1: go into how social media plays a huge, huge role
Speaker 1: in people's body image. Absolutely absolutely so would you say
Speaker 1: that Kardashians kind of started this thing? What we see now?
Speaker 1: People been getting surgery, like I know people who have
Speaker 1: had surgery fifteen years ago, but it ramped up at
Speaker 1: some hip. I don't don't. I can't say they started it,
Speaker 1: but I think they're you know, huge platform made it
Speaker 1: seem like very socially okay to do. Yeah. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out like even the teeth, like
Speaker 1: normal regular people wasn't getting like the teeth done and
Speaker 1: all that shit ten ten years ago. Well they made
Speaker 1: it so affordable. Now you can fly out there somewhere
Speaker 1: and get you a new set of in a dinner
Speaker 1: for six hundred dollars. I don't want those six hundred
Speaker 1: dollars teeth. And then when you get back to the US,
Speaker 1: ain't no dinners the fun with them? When they mess up,
Speaker 1: just get them, like get the money, get your money.
Speaker 1: Up and get the shit at home. You can get
Speaker 1: the best, get the right ones. Because some of the
Speaker 1: cheese I don't even think they like separate. I think
Speaker 1: it's just one long piece they put in your mouth.
Speaker 1: A lot of y'all look like y'all bite. Okay, I'm scared.
Speaker 1: I hate that shit. I'm scared. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Love yourself. God damn it. Shit, I know it's hard sometimes. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's you know, everybody has like things they would like
Speaker 1: to fix. Like, bitch, I'm definitely gonna get me some lightee.
Speaker 1: I've been saying that shit for years. I want my
Speaker 1: broad fat gone. And I feel like, no, no matter
Speaker 1: how much should I do in the gym, it just
Speaker 1: it's just not going anymore. Yeah, So I definitely want
Speaker 1: some light bul on my back. Other than that, I
Speaker 1: don't want to body fucking my shape up. I want
Speaker 1: my double chin gone. That's I want the second one gone.
Speaker 1: But I know it's probably like if I just lost
Speaker 1: maybe like twenty pounds that ago. That's really what it
Speaker 1: boils down to. Shit. Yeah, you got all these bitches
Speaker 1: taking this um uh we go Vie and oz and
Speaker 1: peak this uh diabetic U shot now for rapid Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have some friends that are doing it, and I
Speaker 1: did the research right and I advised against it. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not a a licensed UM physician, but that shit
Speaker 1: causes um thyroid cancer. UM. What else did I say?
Speaker 1: It was a lot of different side effects. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, No, you may not. It's not
Speaker 1: worth it to me. It's not anyway, do what y'all
Speaker 1: want to do? Moving along? This month, March is Woman's
Speaker 1: History Month. So what we would like to do today
Speaker 1: is talk about what a woman is exactly for the
Speaker 1: month of March. Let's get into it, all right, y'all.
Speaker 1: So listen, it is National Women's History Month March first
Speaker 1: through March thirty first, and you know what it being.
Speaker 1: You know, this national holiday that actually was invented I
Speaker 1: think I read it was nineteen excuse seventy something or
Speaker 1: nineteen sixty something. Is when different states start adopting just
Speaker 1: to try to, um, you know, showcase the women who
Speaker 1: have contributed to American history, essentially women. Right, So with
Speaker 1: this being a national holiday kind of gets me in
Speaker 1: the mind of you know, and this day, twenty twenty three,
Speaker 1: what is a woman is an actual question? People ask,
Speaker 1: which is crazy because I thought I knew I had
Speaker 1: to google it for this episode. I wasn't sure, a
Speaker 1: bitch and all right, so I googled it and it
Speaker 1: has two separate definitions. I can't so it said. A
Speaker 1: biological definition of a woman is when sperm fertilizes an egg,
Speaker 1: it's X or Y chromosomes combine with the X chromosome
Speaker 1: of the egg. A person with XX chromosomes usually has
Speaker 1: a female sex and reproductive organs, and it is therefore
Speaker 1: usually a signed biologically female. You see how they do biologically? Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you know this could be a joke, like men
Speaker 1: could possibly just be a broken X. Yes, so everybody woman.
Speaker 1: I know there has been things in the past where
Speaker 1: people say, like everybody is a start out, yeah, and
Speaker 1: then the man, so who knows the fallas basically, maybe
Speaker 1: being a man is a deformity of yo jokes. They
Speaker 1: don't want to hear that. I was just arguing with
Speaker 1: somebody online about how women used to like, as you know,
Speaker 1: we evolved, but I believe it started female, Like there
Speaker 1: had to be a woman, right because men cannot you
Speaker 1: cannot like procreate with a sock. Okay, So Pat partheogenesis
Speaker 1: is the process of a female organism reproducing by itself,
Speaker 1: like a seahorse. Yes, like female seahorses in different yeah,
Speaker 1: different animals in a while. Yeah, but I believe women
Speaker 1: did it at one point. Y'all better hope we don't
Speaker 1: learn how to man women like men are being born.
Speaker 1: I look at like looked at some data, and there's
Speaker 1: a lot of women being born like this last decade.
Speaker 1: But you know what, I feel like women have always
Speaker 1: outnumbered men. Crazy. It also said that a female human
Speaker 1: being a person assigned a female sex at birth, or
Speaker 1: a person who identifies herself as a woman, that's a female,
Speaker 1: that is a woman. But if you look up man,
Speaker 1: Claire cut Dry her adult male human being, so you
Speaker 1: would have to one would have to try and figure
Speaker 1: out why is it that it seems like there's an
Speaker 1: attack on the Why excuse me on the X. Why
Speaker 1: is there an attack on women? Why is it like
Speaker 1: a Claire cut definition for man? Because I've said this before,
Speaker 1: it's almost like this is the ultimate form of patriarchy
Speaker 1: when a man can say bitch, I'm you because I
Speaker 1: feel like it and people don't see this as patriarchy,
Speaker 1: but it is to me, because you know the men
Speaker 1: who were born female, they're I'll be pushing there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't even hear from them. Where are y'all? All right?
Speaker 1: So also I google one other words, well, sis Jesus
Speaker 1: gender gender identity. So, gender identity is a person's innate
Speaker 1: sense of their gender, chiefly used in context where it
Speaker 1: is contrasted with the sex registered for them at birth.
Speaker 1: But now you have a judicial judicial system which legalizes
Speaker 1: people changing their sex. Can they put it now on
Speaker 1: their birth certificates? Can they change a birth certificate? Can
Speaker 1: they change a driver's license? Or what's showing up on
Speaker 1: these official documents? Is it what you were at birth?
Speaker 1: Because now you're going to have to ask people what's
Speaker 1: your what chromosome are you? What were you on your
Speaker 1: birth certificates? Right? And you know a lot of you
Speaker 1: were born Yeah, a lot of trans people feel like
Speaker 1: they don't have to disclose that. They're trends, like that's
Speaker 1: the whole thing. Somebody seeing you physically and thinking that
Speaker 1: you're a woman, that's what they go for. They're up.
Speaker 1: You haven't seen that video on Instagram? It was a
Speaker 1: Hispanic guy and maybe the lady was in the car
Speaker 1: hispanic too, but it looked like a white woman. Oh man, right,
Speaker 1: arguing he was listen the guy. The woman in the
Speaker 1: car was arguing with a Hispanic man outside the car,
Speaker 1: and she was like, what do I look like to
Speaker 1: you when she turns the camera on herself? And transsexual?
Speaker 1: I don't. They don't like the word transsexual, right, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I can't really. I wish we had
Speaker 1: like a trays person on with us who could just
Speaker 1: had a hand pamphlet or a booklet. We all to
Speaker 1: make sure we you know, yeah, listen, nothing we say
Speaker 1: here is meant to be offensive. It is meant to
Speaker 1: be funny. That's it. Not even funny. We're trying to understand. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but also I want to tell jokes, okay, yeah, I
Speaker 1: want it needed to be funny too. I make light
Speaker 1: of everything though, so don't take a personal right. So
Speaker 1: the guy was like, you look like a man, and
Speaker 1: she was so upset because they want us to see
Speaker 1: them in the way that they see themselves. But if
Speaker 1: it's fair, right, No, it's not fair because I'm not
Speaker 1: going to be delusional with you because you maybe you
Speaker 1: don't have enough money to actually look like a woman
Speaker 1: and the way you want to You're six foot and
Speaker 1: you're walking in look like a man to me. But
Speaker 1: it's fair to want people to see you as you
Speaker 1: see yourself, is what I'm saying. Not in this case, Tammy,
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying? You like you physically
Speaker 1: present as a man, dressed as a woman, right, and
Speaker 1: then you're upset with people who don't see you as
Speaker 1: a woman. Exactly? How how am I now um being
Speaker 1: disrespectful to you because I can't trick my mind to
Speaker 1: see what you see? I told you once before, my homegirl,
Speaker 1: she's a chiropractor, right. She has a client who is
Speaker 1: a woman born a woman xx. She presents as a woman, right.
Speaker 1: She's in a relationship with a trans woman, white trans woman,
Speaker 1: which is a man, right, Genetically a man that's a
Speaker 1: trans woman is a genetically a man. Right. But she
Speaker 1: wants to be addressed as sir him he right. But
Speaker 1: she doesn't dress up like a man. She presents as
Speaker 1: a woman. But I, in my mind have to look,
Speaker 1: have to go by your pronouns. But you look like
Speaker 1: a woman, and you present like a woman. It's not
Speaker 1: like she's presenting like a man to where I can
Speaker 1: you know my mind? Am I click in my mind
Speaker 1: to make sure I call him sir and stuff call
Speaker 1: her sir. It's like, huh, it is hard. It is.
Speaker 1: It is an adjustment that it's a new adjustment, and
Speaker 1: I feel like, but I mean, call people what they
Speaker 1: want to be called, right, Yeah, I don't. I guess
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of those people in my life.
Speaker 1: And if I were to run into somebody in this
Speaker 1: and they let you know what it is, of course
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my due diligence to make sure I'm
Speaker 1: being respectful to them. But the thing is, I believe,
Speaker 1: like just publicly online, the different conversations I see it,
Speaker 1: or it gets to be disrespectful to actual women. Here's
Speaker 1: the thing. Just don't be angry with me if you
Speaker 1: see me trying. You know, it's one thing to be
Speaker 1: blatantly like just like fuck how you feel you a nigga? Right,
Speaker 1: it's one thing, right. We ain't boostying, right, we ain't
Speaker 1: boostying right. But if I'm out here trying to get
Speaker 1: it right, but I'm sucking up because it's new, don't
Speaker 1: be mean to me about it. That's not fair. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: I'm not being mean to you about your shit. So
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, and as and as an
Speaker 1: actual woman. If I say I don't want to be
Speaker 1: called sists, seem like an actual woman, they would be
Speaker 1: offended by that's their business. As an actual woman, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be called sists. So at what point
Speaker 1: do you respect my my um my stands. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't like bitches in my dns tell about you my
Speaker 1: favorite Auntie girl? Fuck you. I'm not your trans anti.
Speaker 1: It's your mama's sister, not me, bitch. Listen, I met
Speaker 1: this girl and her her instagram was Auntie. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say her whole ship, but it starts off like
Speaker 1: Auntie starch to such, I said, girl, if you don't
Speaker 1: change your goddamn Instagram name, like, imagine your ship Auntie tam,
Speaker 1: I don't play like that. And you and your third
Speaker 1: only only bitches who only like just turned thirty call
Speaker 1: theirself Auntie. Wish you're getting closer to forty? That is
Speaker 1: like offense. Who are you talking to if I'm not
Speaker 1: your Auntie? It's offensive? Right? Who are you talking to? Right?
Speaker 1: I don't even like my nieces called me that called
Speaker 1: me teamMy bitch William exactly, y'all can cust do what
Speaker 1: the fuck you want because you're not my kids. No,
Speaker 1: I don't let my nieces cut a little bit, but
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to keep it cute around me because
Speaker 1: you will respect me. Like my sister. Y'all be power
Speaker 1: tripping black mama's and black aunties, be pot triment, Like,
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that. I was talking to my
Speaker 1: home girl a day and she was like, yeah, the
Speaker 1: kids is mad because they had to go to school
Speaker 1: and it's snowing. She was like, we live in New Jersey,
Speaker 1: Like why they why it snows here all the time?
Speaker 1: Type shit? I said, but you don't remember not wanting
Speaker 1: to go to school, Like it's like work. They need
Speaker 1: a break. Those kids be tired. She was like, well,
Speaker 1: they just was off on Monday. I'm like, okay, have
Speaker 1: you never wanted five days off from work for free?
Speaker 1: Don't mean you get it so, but it is in
Speaker 1: real life as a grown person. Stop acting like you
Speaker 1: don't remember not wanting to go to school. I remember
Speaker 1: not wanting and I remember also still having to go, right,
Speaker 1: but they can still come. I guess my thing is
Speaker 1: is that I'm not about to like challenge my kid
Speaker 1: on some shit that I did too as a child.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like complaining, yes, shut the
Speaker 1: fuck go to school. That's the eleventh commandment that I
Speaker 1: should not. I'm playing back to women. Yeah, um, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I wish things were much simpler, Like, you know,
Speaker 1: some things are offensive being born a biological woman, like
Speaker 1: giving Caitlyn Gender Woman of the Year. Lash Air was ayah,
Speaker 1: it's her fault, but I think she got Woman of
Speaker 1: the Year, but she did have like a sit down
Speaker 1: with Michelle Obama last year during woman's history. Many it's
Speaker 1: just kind of like, I mean, I understand, like things
Speaker 1: are changing, but what about me? Can I be women
Speaker 1: of something? They're gonna say, y'all have been women for
Speaker 1: all of this time. Now, let us that's what we at.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. It's it's a lot of things that I
Speaker 1: just don't understand. Like I don't understand trans women participating
Speaker 1: in sports with biological women when we know biologically that
Speaker 1: trains women would be stronger physically than a woman, But
Speaker 1: are they stronger than the men that they're competing with?
Speaker 1: So now they couldn't compete with the men. So you
Speaker 1: throw them with the women to beat up on the women,
Speaker 1: and when like, fuck that is wild. That's not fair.
Speaker 1: I don't we can sit we all can sit in
Speaker 1: that like this is normal, but it is not okay. No.
Speaker 1: I think maybe their own like league. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: they would think that it is disrespectful because they identify
Speaker 1: as a woman, right but genetically like a woman can't
Speaker 1: compete with you, not physically. Yeah, in the sports when
Speaker 1: it comes to like wrestling and it's trans bitches is
Speaker 1: beating our egg? Watch that. I'm sorry. I said, it's
Speaker 1: not fair. It's not fair. And again we should be
Speaker 1: able to talk about it as we talk and not
Speaker 1: be mad at us for saying what everybody's thinking. Everybody's
Speaker 1: thinking it okay, I said it. Fuck it. So, because
Speaker 1: it is National Women's History Month, let's get some history
Speaker 1: on exactly what that is. So as as recently as
Speaker 1: nineteen seventies, women's history was virtually an unknown topic in
Speaker 1: the K twelve curriculum or in general public consciousness. To
Speaker 1: address the situation, that Education Task Force for Sonoma County, California,
Speaker 1: commissioned on the Status of Women, initiated a Woman's History
Speaker 1: Week celebration for nineteen seventy eight. So this is how
Speaker 1: long I feel like I've only heard about maybe I
Speaker 1: don't know, last five years or so that I actually
Speaker 1: heard about one of those history month year since we've
Speaker 1: been podcasting, That's what I've been hearing about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the day, March eighth, International Woman's Day was chosen as
Speaker 1: a focal point for the observance. So so, Tammy All,
Speaker 1: what is a woman to you? A woman to me
Speaker 1: is my mama and my grandmother. I can speak to
Speaker 1: a black women. I wanted to say a woman, I'll
Speaker 1: speak to a black woman. Unfortunately, I hate to say
Speaker 1: strong black women because they I hate the term strong
Speaker 1: for a woman. But I feel like my my mother
Speaker 1: and my grandmother had to be that. Uh. They were resilient,
Speaker 1: loving and hard at the same time. Um, they bled
Speaker 1: every month and you knew it sometime because they was
Speaker 1: bitches during that time. I ain't gonna lie. Um. A
Speaker 1: woman is birth in life to this earth, you know.
Speaker 1: I think that's what a woman is. A woman is
Speaker 1: a mother, woman is a sister, auntie, A woman is you?
Speaker 1: A woman is me? Right? So that woman is who
Speaker 1: gave gave birth to you. Yeah, you know, a lot
Speaker 1: of people not to go back to the same topic,
Speaker 1: but you would not exist if it weren't for a woman,
Speaker 1: right right, So to be dismissive of what an actual
Speaker 1: woman is, UM, it's kind of wild. Um. So when
Speaker 1: I think about woman, I definitely think about myself. I
Speaker 1: think about my aunts, my mother, the actual women in
Speaker 1: my life. You know, get mad at the word actual. Um. Again,
Speaker 1: I don't like the strong Black women thrope. I feel
Speaker 1: like it's not exclusive to just Black women. Women throughout
Speaker 1: every culture, UM have had times where they had to
Speaker 1: be super resilient. We're not in those groups, so we
Speaker 1: may not see but I don't hear other groups me
Speaker 1: used that word the culture, and it's kind of like
Speaker 1: the reason why I hated The reason why I hate
Speaker 1: it is because you know this is it was an
Speaker 1: Indian guy on YouTube a while ago, a video I
Speaker 1: listened to, and he was talking shit about like a
Speaker 1: women and how we like to say we're strong Black women.
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, just because you can have
Speaker 1: a bunch of kids when no fathers and struggle to
Speaker 1: take care of them and persevere doesn't make you a
Speaker 1: strong Black woman. So you put yourself in a situation
Speaker 1: to have to struggle. What does that make you? Then
Speaker 1: it definitely makes you a strong but shut the fucker.
Speaker 1: It definitely makes you strong if you had to. And
Speaker 1: he was talking about like how how other women from
Speaker 1: other groups like they you know, their husbands are wealthy
Speaker 1: this and the third like the people they choose to
Speaker 1: have children with are not just leaving them with kids
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. So his whole stance was, you
Speaker 1: put yourself in a position to have to be strong, Okay,
Speaker 1: And what the fuck you say it's strong and strong?
Speaker 1: I don't. I just don't want us to have to
Speaker 1: be strong. I want us to live a soft life.
Speaker 1: I want Black women to be in reside in their
Speaker 1: feminine energy and not if you're providing yourself. And I
Speaker 1: think heaven saying that women are a strong black woman,
Speaker 1: then other cultures view the head. And then now when
Speaker 1: you're in a hospital and pay maybe like, but you're
Speaker 1: a strong black woman, but other black people do that
Speaker 1: to black people of black women as well, you realize
Speaker 1: that it's not even just other groups of people, it's
Speaker 1: everybody just does that to black women. We do it
Speaker 1: to each other. Yeah, now you're in the hospital, hurting
Speaker 1: and nobody recognizes your pain because because is actually built
Speaker 1: off of us and how much you know end exactly
Speaker 1: some bullshit which we be in pain. Yeah, but yeah,
Speaker 1: So for me, um, yes, an actual woman, you have
Speaker 1: to be able even if something happened and you haven't procreated, right,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of signs going on right now. You
Speaker 1: can have a child. So you have to have a
Speaker 1: womb to be a woman made be functioning or not.
Speaker 1: If you don't have a womb, you know, to me
Speaker 1: and my definition of what a woman is, you couldn't
Speaker 1: you couldn't be a woman. And that's okay, It's okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree, it's fine. You know, how can we celebrate
Speaker 1: Women's History Month and we talk back? I guess it
Speaker 1: just you know, comes right after Black History Month or
Speaker 1: we celebrate the different batties, so we can continue to
Speaker 1: celebrate awesome ass women in a month of m March. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I have somebody that I would like to celebrate
Speaker 1: for Women's History and I found this girl on a
Speaker 1: little Duvall's page earlier. She is a pilot, a young pilot.
Speaker 1: Her name is she Naya Noel and her Instagram y'all
Speaker 1: should follow her is I am all right? So I
Speaker 1: am n y A n o E L l E.
Speaker 1: I am Naya Noel. And this is a young young
Speaker 1: girl and baby she is lying these big ass Look
Speaker 1: at this girl, y'all can't You can't see her, but
Speaker 1: y'all go look at her Instagram. I can't tell. She
Speaker 1: got the baby's little face. She looks very very young,
Speaker 1: and she is a pilot and she just flew across
Speaker 1: country and she is a beautiful young black woman and
Speaker 1: she's getting to it and I love to see it.
Speaker 1: And she started a little group called Pretty Pink Pilots.
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Even getting into air
Speaker 1: traffic control if you're under thirty years old, because you
Speaker 1: have there's an age limit to being um being be
Speaker 1: in air traffic control, So I think you have to
Speaker 1: be younger than thirty. So if any of our listeners
Speaker 1: that is a job. If you are into you know,
Speaker 1: working for somebody, you're already gonna do it, get that
Speaker 1: job because usually people will start that and then they
Speaker 1: that's where they retire from there's an age limit. I
Speaker 1: feel like more black people need to get into air
Speaker 1: traffic control. They make a lot of money as well,
Speaker 1: and also in to being pilots, is there an awesome
Speaker 1: black person that's not exactly celebrated, like not someone that's
Speaker 1: a celebrity, a black woman that you or any woman,
Speaker 1: let me not say, just black, that you would like
Speaker 1: to celebrate today. Um, not off top of my head,
Speaker 1: I happen to see nobody flying a planes. Maybe not
Speaker 1: not nobody, maybe maybe somebody that you know personally that
Speaker 1: just like did something great that you just want to celebrate.
Speaker 1: You know, my best friend Priscilla, I'd like to celebrate her. Okay.
Speaker 1: Priscilla had two kids when we were in high school. Okay,
Speaker 1: And when I tell you like this that this is
Speaker 1: like a lot of people's stories, and I kind of
Speaker 1: use her oftentimes, um, over the years for people when
Speaker 1: I hear them complaining about certain shit like Priscilla did it,
Speaker 1: I really be feeling like that about her because the
Speaker 1: way she set her life up, even with having little
Speaker 1: small kids is a fuck amazing. So I don't want
Speaker 1: to call her like the strong black woman, but she
Speaker 1: would be that, yeah, you know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: actually her oldest child is my little cousin. Essentially, her
Speaker 1: dad is my cousin and he's not the like she
Speaker 1: really did it by herself out here. I'm here a
Speaker 1: lot of black women, so I want to celebrate my
Speaker 1: best seat. So, y'all, if y'all know a woman that
Speaker 1: you love and you see her doing her thing, we
Speaker 1: challenge you to celebrate her. Send her lunch cash or
Speaker 1: send her money, right, some good words of encouragement, just
Speaker 1: to let her know that you see her. So just
Speaker 1: this one, say hi to every woman you see like,
Speaker 1: stop walking past each other, not speaking. Yeah, eye contact here, girl,
Speaker 1: you look good girl? Y. Yes, I don't know. I'm
Speaker 1: definitely one of those. I'm always like I will stop
Speaker 1: a girl in the street like, oh ka, girl, I
Speaker 1: see like girls okay, eyebrows okay baby here, I will
Speaker 1: say all of that. Yeah, you make people day, right, Mary,
Speaker 1: celebrate each other. So I challenge y'all to dudd watching
Speaker 1: this episode, celebrate your sisters outside. What's your agenda to
Speaker 1: your sisters is celebrate them. I'm here for that. So
Speaker 1: when we come back from break, I do have a
Speaker 1: dumb bitch story. I can't wait to get into it.
Speaker 1: All right, We'll be right back to dumb bitch stories
Speaker 1: because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once
Speaker 1: or twice, all right, So, and look, this girl sent
Speaker 1: me a damn picture at all, so I know what
Speaker 1: the people look like. So, she says, been with this
Speaker 1: guy for about sixteen months. Me and his youngest BM
Speaker 1: have had words on two occasions. Their youngest kid is
Speaker 1: almost five. She posted on Facebook an old video and
Speaker 1: pick from last year, saying, happy sixteen years, Happy birthday,
Speaker 1: baby daddy. Y'all want him so bad, I'm cushan, I'm
Speaker 1: not going nowhere. That's the whole capture and of the
Speaker 1: post for his birthday, right, She said. I told him
Speaker 1: today he needs to tell her we are together and
Speaker 1: the back and forth Facebook subliminal and BS need to
Speaker 1: stop if he is serious about me, or go be
Speaker 1: with her because I'm not going through this shit anymore.
Speaker 1: He says he has no problem with that, so we
Speaker 1: shall see. But I feel like I'm right to give
Speaker 1: him an ultimatum after sixteen months. I've expressed the importance
Speaker 1: of boundaries before with their relationship, and I'm ready to
Speaker 1: walk away if he doesn't make the right, If he
Speaker 1: doesn't make this right, even though I really want to
Speaker 1: be with him. What do you think? So and then
Speaker 1: she sends like a picture of the guy with the
Speaker 1: post from the BM. So I asked her, like, how
Speaker 1: many how many kids? How many bms? He has? Three
Speaker 1: baby moms, five kids, last two are four and twelve
Speaker 1: years old. Lady, yeah, must be what the youngest says.
Speaker 1: First of all, what grown? I mean? They just got
Speaker 1: the one five year old? Sixteen years in and you
Speaker 1: out here talking about you? Wait? Is that? What is that?
Speaker 1: What I said her post? First of all, you are grown.
Speaker 1: You're an old ass lady because you've been working with
Speaker 1: somebody for sixteen years. How dare you call yourself Chrishan Khan?
Speaker 1: That's who you say? Thirty five? Both her and the girl?
Speaker 1: How are you talking about you? Krishan? That is a
Speaker 1: young girl trying to figure it out out here, like
Speaker 1: she got a lot of trauma and a lot of
Speaker 1: you know, and that's what you're talking about. Look, I
Speaker 1: asked her, how the hell does she see the post?
Speaker 1: She basically said, the girl has her block, or they
Speaker 1: have each other block. But you know she obviously if
Speaker 1: you want to see my thing is why are you lurking?
Speaker 1: If you weren't lurking, you would have never seen her
Speaker 1: post at oh so it's on her page. It's on
Speaker 1: the baby mama's page. So don't post my nigga talking
Speaker 1: about that's her baby daddy. Don't post my nig girl.
Speaker 1: We know what it is like. So, okay, you have
Speaker 1: a decision to make. You don't have any kids with
Speaker 1: this guy. He has three baby mamas? Are you strapping up?
Speaker 1: Are you trying to be the fourth baby mama and
Speaker 1: sixth with the sixth child? Right? Like? It really? Is
Speaker 1: that what you want your life to be at thirty five?
Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's what she wants. She says she
Speaker 1: want to be with him, so that's what she's signed
Speaker 1: up for. But there is a thing called boundaries and
Speaker 1: don't disrespect my relationship. He needs to check her, right absolutely,
Speaker 1: So you know you can't you can't fault anybody outside
Speaker 1: the relationship, right, So definitely, if it's a situation, he
Speaker 1: definitely needs to handle it, right. I don't like, I
Speaker 1: can't do you know what I want you to do?
Speaker 1: You know exactly what the same shit you would want
Speaker 1: me to do if my baby daddy was doing that, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: like control your people, yeah, because no, she wouldn't be
Speaker 1: accepting that bullshit either, right, exactly. Yeah, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think he must be still sleeping with her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because yeah, where a man would probably be like, why
Speaker 1: are you posting that? Right? See, no bms, no mama's,
Speaker 1: no sisters, no problems, no baby mama, no sister, no mother.
Speaker 1: Damn who I agree with me? Shut up? He fined
Speaker 1: too that, Derek Luke. Yeah, where is Derek Luke? We
Speaker 1: didn't say that in the last couple of years, Derek Luke.
Speaker 1: We want Derek Luke on the show. Come talk to us, Derek.
Speaker 1: We want to see where you've been at. I'm with
Speaker 1: men when they say women are out here having kids
Speaker 1: with men who already have kids, because there are. I'm
Speaker 1: finding that there are some single men out here who
Speaker 1: don't have kids, who haven't started a family, who you
Speaker 1: can start a family with. You don't necessarily have to
Speaker 1: be with somebody who already has kids. But the older
Speaker 1: we get, you know, the more difficult it becomes. Right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I told my guy friend he said he doesn't
Speaker 1: want any more kids, and I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: most him and have kids, So you're gonna end up
Speaker 1: with somebody with kids helping take care of a kid.
Speaker 1: That that isn't depending on how old he is and
Speaker 1: kids might be out of the house. Yeah, grown, big kids,
Speaker 1: they still there, always be a child, but they're not.
Speaker 1: Let me let him, let him keep thinking that he
Speaker 1: got to be with a bitch with little kids, Okay,
Speaker 1: because why not be with somebody who has your kid.
Speaker 1: I'm confused. You don't work out like that always anyway, girl,
Speaker 1: run run, He's still fucking his baby mama. That's what
Speaker 1: I think too. Get up out of there. Still get
Speaker 1: that man, ultimatum. Grown people don't do well with ultimatums.
Speaker 1: They are who they're gonna be. That situation was going
Speaker 1: on prior to you, even though you've been there for
Speaker 1: sixteen months now, it may never change. So that means
Speaker 1: she would to fight by that nigga, you're hearing me
Speaker 1: trying to fight, right, You're trying to fight. Can't you fight?
Speaker 1: That's question? Can't you fight? Fight? Because that girl says
Speaker 1: she'll fight. She beat your ass about her baby, daddy.
Speaker 1: Can't you fight? I'm not trying to fight at this
Speaker 1: age in my life. I'm not trying to fight by nobody.
Speaker 1: Did you fighting? Can't get up the next day? You know,
Speaker 1: like you the last time I got in a fight, y'all.
Speaker 1: I was in Live in Miami, of all places in
Speaker 1: the club, and we whipped out of a chance. But
Speaker 1: the next day I felt everything, that whole donkey kicking
Speaker 1: me in my ship. I was limped through the airport
Speaker 1: and trying to get kick backwards like that backwards, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I was in the back of the head, y'all.
Speaker 1: We do not could violence. I was very young when
Speaker 1: that happened. Volens is sometimes and I was attacked, so
Speaker 1: I was defending myself. I did not start anything. Let
Speaker 1: me just put that out there. It's necessary sometimes. I
Speaker 1: was a hacked in a rental dress. I was so mad.
Speaker 1: I'm so mad. I had risen this two thousand dollars
Speaker 1: dress for the night so I could be a bad
Speaker 1: bags father to night and that dress and it was
Speaker 1: one of my friends Beef. I didn't even know these girls.
Speaker 1: They were actually girls from New York. And my friend
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, me and this girl got a
Speaker 1: situation or whatever. We don't get along. We're in a VP, chilling,
Speaker 1: having a good time, sparkly in my little rental dress
Speaker 1: and her the girl and her friend walk up and
Speaker 1: you know, I'm on like I'm watching because I know
Speaker 1: it's smoked, right, um and y'all this is a long
Speaker 1: time ago. Okay. So we're in the promoter section or whatever.
Speaker 1: They come over. They're talking to the promoter. They were
Speaker 1: sitting on the top of the couch. They one of
Speaker 1: them climbs up into the couch. The other one is
Speaker 1: on the floor. So she keeps bumping into my friend,
Speaker 1: like on purpose, for real. So my friend was like,
Speaker 1: please stop bumping me. Nothing disrespectful, Please stop bumping into me.
Speaker 1: So then I stood up. But I stood up like
Speaker 1: on no aggressive shit. I just stood up because there's
Speaker 1: a lot going on. So I stood up because I
Speaker 1: was I was vulnerable sitting Right when I stood up,
Speaker 1: the friend that was standing on the floor punched me
Speaker 1: in the face soon as I stood up. Goddamn, on,
Speaker 1: go on go. Just soon as I stood up, a
Speaker 1: bitch hit me in my face. But little did they know,
Speaker 1: they thought it was just me and my homegirl in
Speaker 1: the section. It was six to us. We just like
Speaker 1: me and my homegirl was sitting next to the promoter.
Speaker 1: My sister was right next to me, sitting on the couch.
Speaker 1: And then I had full home girl sitting on the
Speaker 1: other It was a big ass couch, right, So I
Speaker 1: got hit. I turned, I got hit. My sister was like,
Speaker 1: you hit my soul bitch right in the side of
Speaker 1: her face. And it was just on. It was a
Speaker 1: melee in that big motor just got up and walked away.
Speaker 1: He's just like, this is ran. I'm disgusted. I was, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was disgusted because that's not why I came. I
Speaker 1: came to have a good time. Did you fucking people
Speaker 1: dress up? Though? Yes? Did you return it? Fucked up?
Speaker 1: I had to pay for it. It was ruined. It
Speaker 1: was ruined. You should have took them the court for
Speaker 1: that dress. That would have been a nice ass judge
Speaker 1: Joe Brown or one of them judges I should have.
Speaker 1: That would have been because I actually was like like
Speaker 1: an executive for Hennessy or something. Oh no, oh girl,
Speaker 1: I would have random muck on her ass. You. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I should have the girl who hit you? Yeah, oh no, bitch,
Speaker 1: when I tell you the man letter, I would have
Speaker 1: send that bitch of the man letter so fucking fat.
Speaker 1: And I think she like got on Twitter talking about like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, her red bottles was fake because it was
Speaker 1: rubbing off. I was like, no, I rubbed that shit
Speaker 1: off on your forehead, bitch, the red bottom, the red
Speaker 1: was rubbing off on her. Yeah, the red bottom comes
Speaker 1: off the shoe. That hadn't said that way. We're talking
Speaker 1: about beating bitches up for Women's History Month. This is all.
Speaker 1: It's a part of women's history all my life. I
Speaker 1: had what We don't do that anymore here we talked back.
Speaker 1: That is a story from very early, like late twenties
Speaker 1: in Miami. So shit that love stories. That was funny
Speaker 1: as hell. Man, but girl lead that nigga, right man?
Speaker 1: We need to do like seed dating, don't speed friends.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a speed dating and speed friends. What's
Speaker 1: the speed friends? Like making girlfriends? Yeah, that would be nice. Yes,
Speaker 1: we can host that in Charlotte for a day. Let's
Speaker 1: do speed friends for what History Month. I'm here for that.
Speaker 1: It's little, it's little. Do you have any last words?
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a new segment we need to
Speaker 1: add to the show. Like since we talk back, and
Speaker 1: we always got to have the last words. Uh, love
Speaker 1: your sisters, love your women, love the women in your
Speaker 1: in your life, call them today and give them some
Speaker 1: nice words of encouragement because we'll be going through it.
Speaker 1: We'll be going through it. Call your friends, Call your mama,
Speaker 1: Call your aunt who've been fucking with her baby daddy
Speaker 1: for the last thirty five years, and shit like, call
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