WEBVTT - Ain't I a Woman?

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<v Speaker 1>We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who

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<v Speaker 1>talks back? What's up? Y'all think if you tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for a new episode that we talk back a show

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<v Speaker 1>dedicated to you, ninjas and these pros and everything in between. Y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>We're back What's up? Town? I have it's common in

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<v Speaker 1>black women. I have five broys removed over the weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I took a girl out pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been out the game and I'm such not a homebody,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is also very much hard for me just

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<v Speaker 1>being in the house as much sas down. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got no choice. I barely can get up. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta take it easy. I've never had five rods surgery,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've definitely had a woman's surgery and that shit

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<v Speaker 1>is no joke and they have to cut you over.

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<v Speaker 1>I underestimated, Yeah, I underestimated this shit. I ain't gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought three days and I was gonna be back outside. Wrong. No, you,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have a baby, you're gonna be smashing before

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<v Speaker 1>them six weeks. Yep. I don't know when my mama

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<v Speaker 1>had to pull my drawers up and down for me

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend. It's definitely humbling. You remember we did that

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<v Speaker 1>episode we were talking about. It was a white girl

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<v Speaker 1>who had a surgery coming up, and she was talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like, how now she needs a meete now more

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<v Speaker 1>than ever because she has like surgery coming up. And

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<v Speaker 1>what I said, then, even if you have somebody, you

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<v Speaker 1>really can't depend on men to do those things, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>of course you need somebody in the house with you

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, but mama's and sisters they're gonna come through. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>My mama been was here all weekend. She was so good.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't have done it without here. One of my

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<v Speaker 1>neighbors came in took my trash out today, so that

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<v Speaker 1>was good. How nice is that? Yeah? And then the

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<v Speaker 1>instacurt lady put my groceries away from me. Yeah? Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>did you get her a tip? I sure did, and

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<v Speaker 1>sure did, thank you. Oh that's nice. You need to

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<v Speaker 1>get me Sure you get a ten star review? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely gave her all heroes have a cape. What

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<v Speaker 1>about your weekend? Shit? My weekend was, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just hung out a little bit dinner date weekend. Basically.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's always nice when niggas take the bitches

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<v Speaker 1>for walks. I said, I was gonna stop saying nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try real hard, real hard. You know. They

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<v Speaker 1>said that for the past couple of New Years. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, fellas, you have to take your bitch for

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<v Speaker 1>a walk. Okay. If you don't take her for a walk,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else can take her for a walk. It's like, gods,

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<v Speaker 1>what she needs is take your girl on dates. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>take your dates, even if instead of park literally take

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<v Speaker 1>her for a walk, bike ride something. Yes. I got

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<v Speaker 1>outside a little bit. That's about it. Good weekend, Good weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cold outside. I don't know what the hell is happening.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't missing nothing. That's cold outside. It's like Charleston

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<v Speaker 1>is never this cold in March. Absolutely not in tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the lowest thirty nine or thirty six. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that is freezing. Really that cold outside right now, right

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<v Speaker 1>now is probably like fifty. But this is not normal weather.

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<v Speaker 1>This shit is different. I heard it was snowing in

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<v Speaker 1>La or some shit. Get your house in order, folks. Yes, look,

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<v Speaker 1>let's jump right into stupid internet news. Okay, because y'all

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<v Speaker 1>see what's going on with these banks. Okay, Like Tam said,

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<v Speaker 1>get your House in order. This is a small sample

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<v Speaker 1>size of what we could see on a larger scale,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, they want to get us on a

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<v Speaker 1>central banking system, right, but they got to make the

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<v Speaker 1>US dollar fail first. So the Silicone Valley Bank in

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<v Speaker 1>California they went under, right Vamba, just excuse me? What

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<v Speaker 1>the hell? So now like damn shiit same people, so Biden,

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<v Speaker 1>Biden basically has billed them out. And it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>a bell out like from two thousand and eight, where

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<v Speaker 1>a taxpayers paid for this. One is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>paid for it by the bank fees essentially, like they're

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<v Speaker 1>the insurance that they have. And he's also calling for

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<v Speaker 1>the top executives to be fired from the bank. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>the CEO actually sold all his stock the day before

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<v Speaker 1>the ZAC actually happened, and as somebody to protect his

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<v Speaker 1>own interest exactly, So I wonder, you know, he knew

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell was going to happen. And this bank

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<v Speaker 1>in particular, they said that the median deposit like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. So at this bank,

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<v Speaker 1>the median account balance it's like two hundred and fifty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars. These are rich people's money y'all playing with

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<v Speaker 1>And these people were pulling up at the bank for

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<v Speaker 1>their money and they got the police called on them. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>they can't get it. So, because isn't it like only

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<v Speaker 1>a certain amount of your money like ensured that you

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<v Speaker 1>can get through the FDI. Yeah, through the FDI, it's

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. After that, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why now nanoment is stepping in. It makes

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<v Speaker 1>me think of my great grandmother because of the starting

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<v Speaker 1>market crash in the nineteen thirties, she put all her

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<v Speaker 1>money in coffee kids and buried it in the backyard.

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<v Speaker 1>Said she would never put her money back in the

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<v Speaker 1>bank because of that. That's not smart either. Like tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 1>the way it is looking like we will be wiping

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<v Speaker 1>all asses with one hundred dollar bills in a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>You need go. You have to you have to make

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<v Speaker 1>like actual investments and intangible assets land, housing, houses. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say stock market for real, even though I

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<v Speaker 1>funk with the stock market, because I mean that's the

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<v Speaker 1>same as a bank that yeah, it could crash to yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So definitely natural resources those things aren't going anywhere. But

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<v Speaker 1>they're definitely trying to get us on a crypto um

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<v Speaker 1>currency type platform, and my thing, my only problem with

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<v Speaker 1>that is like, what's the conversion going to be? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the conversion from my US dollar to whatever crypto

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<v Speaker 1>going to be? Is it going to be, like will

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<v Speaker 1>I lose half of my money so you might get

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<v Speaker 1>a crypto one under? It is going under. All of

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<v Speaker 1>this shit is going under. But I think it's they're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to. I think the government is trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>more regulation around cryptocurrency because if they get everybody on crypto,

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<v Speaker 1>like if everybody had to do Bitcoin instead of the

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<v Speaker 1>US dollar whatever, you know, country currency, there's more control

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<v Speaker 1>involved with that. They can turn your finances off when

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<v Speaker 1>they want to because it's all digitized, but it's essentially

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<v Speaker 1>still the same thing even with fiat currency as far

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm concerned. What I don't understand is how they

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<v Speaker 1>can do that. But we're still voting an election booth

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<v Speaker 1>with a god down piece of paper. But okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>really we don't though. It's kind of like some of

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<v Speaker 1>those machines are electronic, what is the dominion that owns

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<v Speaker 1>some of them? But a lot of places have electronic ones,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think can have a little bit more manipulation. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>people can throw pieces of paper out, but I can

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<v Speaker 1>literally program your shit to change. It's a little bit differ.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would prefer to keep the paper route. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you. As I was sitting around hurting, I

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<v Speaker 1>was scrolling my social media and I saw everybody upset

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<v Speaker 1>that Angela Bassett was snubbed by the Academy for the

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<v Speaker 1>Oscar that she was nominated for for Best Supporting Actress

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<v Speaker 1>in Wakanda Forever. And she I mean, We're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>honest about it. She ben should have got an Oscar

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<v Speaker 1>if we relying on white people to give us our awards,

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<v Speaker 1>but she definitely should have been got up. Jamie League

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<v Speaker 1>Curtis should have been got one too, because but anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>they Angela Bassett didn't get the Oscar, and niggas was

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<v Speaker 1>mad as fuck. I was upset too, absolutely, But I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like, why do we Why do we care

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<v Speaker 1>what white people think? Why do we need these these

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<v Speaker 1>awards that was never meant for us to validate us

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<v Speaker 1>in our careers, because she should have been had at.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody knows it. Jamie knows it. Yeah, And so Jamie

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<v Speaker 1>Lee Curtis. She she won Best Supporting Actress for Everything Everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>all at once. It's alright, movie, it's kind of on

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<v Speaker 1>the esoteric side of things, but good movie nonetheless. But

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<v Speaker 1>come on, Wakanda forever, all of these great movies. She's

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<v Speaker 1>one of the best actresses out here. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>only her even her second time even being nominated. The

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<v Speaker 1>first time she was nominated was for Best Actress in

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and four. So here it is now twenty

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<v Speaker 1>years later and she's finally nominated again, only not to

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<v Speaker 1>get the award again. It's for her me too. I

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<v Speaker 1>hate that because you know she's to us like she's

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<v Speaker 1>one of the best. Who's better than Angela Bassett. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>be clear, who. I don't know anybody better than Angela Bassett.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I hear you had my kids around that

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<v Speaker 1>tramp bitch, we're gonna regret it for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Get your ship, get your ship, and get yo.

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<v Speaker 1>The way she was talking like that's how black women

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<v Speaker 1>be for real, Like you'd be talking yourself into a rut. Okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>We love you Angela Bassett. If you're a fan of

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<v Speaker 1>we talk back, we love you I have been an

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<v Speaker 1>Oscar Award winner in our hearts since the beginning of time. Right, so,

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<v Speaker 1>waking up the ship this morning. Shit, m so speaking

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<v Speaker 1>of the Oscars the internet again, the internets are in

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<v Speaker 1>an uproar um comparing Sierra to Savannah James today. Um

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<v Speaker 1>because of her choice of attire for the awards. She

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<v Speaker 1>wore a barely there naked dress that was after party. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was after party, and several women were dressed the

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<v Speaker 1>same way. But for whatever reason, in our community, it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like Sierra isn't it worthy of the life she has?

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<v Speaker 1>To some people, it's like she was just this this

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<v Speaker 1>super chicken head that only deserves a man like future,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like staying your place, chicken head, baby Mama.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the energy is. She is a

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<v Speaker 1>married woman, she does have children, She's still fine as hell.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused, and this is entertained. Why do people care

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<v Speaker 1>so much to other people got on if her husband

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<v Speaker 1>was happily standing next to her, What does it matter

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<v Speaker 1>to y'all? Matthews exactly. I don't. I don't get the

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<v Speaker 1>hate and disdain nowadays for Sierra. I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It'd be people who ain't got her first husband or

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<v Speaker 1>wife or the potential for one. That's got the most

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<v Speaker 1>horrible things to say about Sierra, like relax, maya business. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not really maya business per se, but it's almost like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>these people are entertainment, are in entertainment. I ain't talk

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<v Speaker 1>more shit about the bitches I see at the club

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<v Speaker 1>dress like that, because let's be clear, people be outside

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<v Speaker 1>looking like that, like like their celebrity. As soon as

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<v Speaker 1>our heal, I got this same dress here and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put it on. So that dress gonna a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit different on you. But oh her so bad? A laugh?

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<v Speaker 1>That dress a little bit different. I don't, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should shame. But let Sierra alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Let that lady do what she want to do. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing, you know, I don't have a problem like

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<v Speaker 1>um just I don't know. I guess if I were

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<v Speaker 1>married and had kids, I wouldn't wear that. I wouldn't personally. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't personally, But I'm not here to judge her

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<v Speaker 1>for she probably felt empowered to wear that, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly I wouldn't wear that now just because my body type.

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<v Speaker 1>She's slim, though, I feel like she can get away

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<v Speaker 1>with it and it be okay. I would wear that

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<v Speaker 1>as a beach cover up without a problem, right what

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<v Speaker 1>the thong dated suit underneath. But there were several several

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<v Speaker 1>several you know, she was only black woman dressed like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but there were there were a lot of model U

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<v Speaker 1>Victoria's Secret models, a lot of different people. It's almost

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<v Speaker 1>like that was like the theme for the after party

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<v Speaker 1>as far as because I literally just wanted to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure like its Sierra the only naked naked bitch at

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<v Speaker 1>the at the whole thing. But I mean, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>dresses like that at these awards for years and years years,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just like when a black woman does anything,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a problem. And then trying to trying to compare

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<v Speaker 1>Savannah James and hers, like why did y'all pick this

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<v Speaker 1>one woman against this one woman? There was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of women with fully closed dresses and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>women who were naked in their dresses. So I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the difference, manya business right, I guess it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like the athlete husband, you know, that's probably what it

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<v Speaker 1>what it boils down to. But they don't even play

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<v Speaker 1>the same sport. Right, if y'all want to be that particular,

0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:16.599
<v Speaker 1>find somebody in the NFL. Yeah, just leave it alone altogether,

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<v Speaker 1>right and moving right along. Black China took to the

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<v Speaker 1>Internet this past weekend and she had a message for

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<v Speaker 1>everyone that she was getting her butt reduced to a

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<v Speaker 1>normal size, in her breast reduced to a normal size,

0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and she also said that her fieler her face feelers

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<v Speaker 1>would be next to be removed. So I think the

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<v Speaker 1>era of overexaggerated asses and titties and faces kind of

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<v Speaker 1>dwindling down. What you think, I'm happy for it. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have an episode soon where we actually talk

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<v Speaker 1>about body dysmorphia and maybe some of the mental health

0:14:57.720 --> 0:15:01.800
<v Speaker 1>ship that surrounds that she's been going through therapy. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she um is now more accepting of who she really is.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe um she has this stuff caused life threatening issues,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, especially with the button. Maybe it's just not

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<v Speaker 1>no longer trending. I don't know. I remember when Cardi

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<v Speaker 1>B first came out, when I first came out, once

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<v Speaker 1>she started like, because you know, to me, Cardi B

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the best dress in the industry. When

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<v Speaker 1>she got to hit the runway. I mean like it

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<v Speaker 1>hit a red carpet or song period, and I remember

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<v Speaker 1>her saying, like, you know, she wished she didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the butt shots because now she wants to fit in

0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:42.640
<v Speaker 1>those nice dresses and stuff like that, and she can't

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<v Speaker 1>always fit into things. So I don't know, Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. If your body is naturally like that then this.

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<v Speaker 1>But to add all of that shit, it just it

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<v Speaker 1>does look crazy. And I feel like doctors should be

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<v Speaker 1>hell responsible for some of the botched shit because it

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<v Speaker 1>don't be matching oftentimes, right look crazy. I would suggest

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<v Speaker 1>against it. I have a friend who was a cosmetic

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<v Speaker 1>surgeon and she does like a lot of reconstruction, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know people have to breast cancer stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but she doesn't do bbls. Yeah. Yeah, And BBLS is

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<v Speaker 1>really dangerous from what I understand, putting that fat in

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<v Speaker 1>your butt. Yeah, but they can't hit like a like

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<v Speaker 1>a major artery and it could go bad. Well. I

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<v Speaker 1>had my little cousin who actually got a BBL and

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<v Speaker 1>her body her the butt rejected the fat fans for

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<v Speaker 1>a year and so she ended up with all type

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<v Speaker 1>of infections and shit, had a hole in the top

0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:46.880
<v Speaker 1>of her ass they had to pack with gauds and

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<v Speaker 1>all type of ships. Yeah, that's a lot to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I think social media we you know,

0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.040
<v Speaker 1>when we have that episode, I think we need to

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<v Speaker 1>go into how social media plays a huge, huge role

0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:06.200
<v Speaker 1>in people's body image. Absolutely absolutely so would you say

0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:09.920
<v Speaker 1>that Kardashians kind of started this thing? What we see now?

0:17:10.119 --> 0:17:12.240
<v Speaker 1>People been getting surgery, like I know people who have

0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:16.720
<v Speaker 1>had surgery fifteen years ago, but it ramped up at

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<v Speaker 1>some hip. I don't don't. I can't say they started it,

0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:27.239
<v Speaker 1>but I think they're you know, huge platform made it

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<v Speaker 1>seem like very socially okay to do. Yeah. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to figure out like even the teeth, like

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<v Speaker 1>normal regular people wasn't getting like the teeth done and

0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:43.080
<v Speaker 1>all that shit ten ten years ago. Well they made

0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:46.520
<v Speaker 1>it so affordable. Now you can fly out there somewhere

0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and get you a new set of in a dinner

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<v Speaker 1>for six hundred dollars. I don't want those six hundred

0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:58.920
<v Speaker 1>dollars teeth. And then when you get back to the US,

0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:01.359
<v Speaker 1>ain't no dinners the fun with them? When they mess up,

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<v Speaker 1>just get them, like get the money, get your money.

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<v Speaker 1>Up and get the shit at home. You can get

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<v Speaker 1>the best, get the right ones. Because some of the

0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:13.280
<v Speaker 1>cheese I don't even think they like separate. I think

0:18:13.320 --> 0:18:15.359
<v Speaker 1>it's just one long piece they put in your mouth.

0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:19.320
<v Speaker 1>A lot of y'all look like y'all bite. Okay, I'm scared.

0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:26.879
<v Speaker 1>I hate that shit. I'm scared. Yeah, I don't know.

0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:32.880
<v Speaker 1>Love yourself. God damn it. Shit, I know it's hard sometimes. Yeah, yeah,

0:18:32.920 --> 0:18:35.200
<v Speaker 1>it's you know, everybody has like things they would like

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<v Speaker 1>to fix. Like, bitch, I'm definitely gonna get me some lightee.

0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:39.439
<v Speaker 1>I've been saying that shit for years. I want my

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<v Speaker 1>broad fat gone. And I feel like, no, no matter

0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:45.280
<v Speaker 1>how much should I do in the gym, it just

0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:49.040
<v Speaker 1>it's just not going anymore. Yeah, So I definitely want

0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:51.240
<v Speaker 1>some light bul on my back. Other than that, I

0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:54.360
<v Speaker 1>don't want to body fucking my shape up. I want

0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:58.879
<v Speaker 1>my double chin gone. That's I want the second one gone.

0:18:59.640 --> 0:19:02.639
<v Speaker 1>But I know it's probably like if I just lost

0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:06.040
<v Speaker 1>maybe like twenty pounds that ago. That's really what it

0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:09.760
<v Speaker 1>boils down to. Shit. Yeah, you got all these bitches

0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:14.480
<v Speaker 1>taking this um uh we go Vie and oz and

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<v Speaker 1>peak this uh diabetic U shot now for rapid Yeah,

0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I have some friends that are doing it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>did the research right and I advised against it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a a licensed UM physician, but that shit

0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:41.080
<v Speaker 1>causes um thyroid cancer. UM. What else did I say?

0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:43.440
<v Speaker 1>It was a lot of different side effects. You know

0:19:43.440 --> 0:19:46.000
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like, No, you may not. It's not

0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:49.480
<v Speaker 1>worth it to me. It's not anyway, do what y'all

0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:55.280
<v Speaker 1>want to do? Moving along? This month, March is Woman's

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<v Speaker 1>History Month. So what we would like to do today

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<v Speaker 1>is talk about what a woman is exactly for the

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<v Speaker 1>month of March. Let's get into it, all right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>So listen, it is National Women's History Month March first

0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:23.840
<v Speaker 1>through March thirty first, and you know what it being.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this national holiday that actually was invented I

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<v Speaker 1>think I read it was nineteen excuse seventy something or

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen sixty something. Is when different states start adopting just

0:20:36.320 --> 0:20:42.080
<v Speaker 1>to try to, um, you know, showcase the women who

0:20:42.119 --> 0:20:46.240
<v Speaker 1>have contributed to American history, essentially women. Right, So with

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<v Speaker 1>this being a national holiday kind of gets me in

0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:54.879
<v Speaker 1>the mind of you know, and this day, twenty twenty three,

0:20:54.920 --> 0:21:01.040
<v Speaker 1>what is a woman is an actual question? People ask,

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<v Speaker 1>which is crazy because I thought I knew I had

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<v Speaker 1>to google it for this episode. I wasn't sure, a

0:21:07.400 --> 0:21:10.720
<v Speaker 1>bitch and all right, so I googled it and it

0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:15.720
<v Speaker 1>has two separate definitions. I can't so it said. A

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<v Speaker 1>biological definition of a woman is when sperm fertilizes an egg,

0:21:22.080 --> 0:21:25.760
<v Speaker 1>it's X or Y chromosomes combine with the X chromosome

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:29.320
<v Speaker 1>of the egg. A person with XX chromosomes usually has

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<v Speaker 1>a female sex and reproductive organs, and it is therefore

0:21:33.960 --> 0:21:39.600
<v Speaker 1>usually a signed biologically female. You see how they do biologically? Yeah,

0:21:39.640 --> 0:21:43.360
<v Speaker 1>so you know this could be a joke, like men

0:21:43.480 --> 0:21:49.800
<v Speaker 1>could possibly just be a broken X. Yes, so everybody woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there has been things in the past where

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<v Speaker 1>people say, like everybody is a start out, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the man, so who knows the fallas basically, maybe

0:21:58.320 --> 0:22:03.360
<v Speaker 1>being a man is a deformity of yo jokes. They

0:22:03.359 --> 0:22:07.760
<v Speaker 1>don't want to hear that. I was just arguing with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody online about how women used to like, as you know,

0:22:12.119 --> 0:22:16.440
<v Speaker 1>we evolved, but I believe it started female, Like there

0:22:16.440 --> 0:22:19.399
<v Speaker 1>had to be a woman, right because men cannot you

0:22:19.480 --> 0:22:25.920
<v Speaker 1>cannot like procreate with a sock. Okay, So Pat partheogenesis

0:22:26.080 --> 0:22:31.840
<v Speaker 1>is the process of a female organism reproducing by itself,

0:22:31.920 --> 0:22:35.920
<v Speaker 1>like a seahorse. Yes, like female seahorses in different yeah,

0:22:36.040 --> 0:22:41.080
<v Speaker 1>different animals in a while. Yeah, but I believe women

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<v Speaker 1>did it at one point. Y'all better hope we don't

0:22:43.880 --> 0:22:47.320
<v Speaker 1>learn how to man women like men are being born.

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<v Speaker 1>I look at like looked at some data, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of women being born like this last decade.

0:22:54.200 --> 0:22:55.960
<v Speaker 1>But you know what, I feel like women have always

0:22:55.960 --> 0:22:59.920
<v Speaker 1>outnumbered men. Crazy. It also said that a female human

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<v Speaker 1>being a person assigned a female sex at birth, or

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<v Speaker 1>a person who identifies herself as a woman, that's a female,

0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:12.080
<v Speaker 1>that is a woman. But if you look up man,

0:23:12.520 --> 0:23:17.359
<v Speaker 1>Claire cut Dry her adult male human being, so you

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<v Speaker 1>would have to one would have to try and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out why is it that it seems like there's an

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<v Speaker 1>attack on the Why excuse me on the X. Why

0:23:28.280 --> 0:23:30.760
<v Speaker 1>is there an attack on women? Why is it like

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:34.679
<v Speaker 1>a Claire cut definition for man? Because I've said this before,

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:40.200
<v Speaker 1>it's almost like this is the ultimate form of patriarchy

0:23:40.840 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 1>when a man can say bitch, I'm you because I

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:48.800
<v Speaker 1>feel like it and people don't see this as patriarchy,

0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:53.240
<v Speaker 1>but it is to me, because you know the men

0:23:53.320 --> 0:23:57.080
<v Speaker 1>who were born female, they're I'll be pushing there. Yeah,

0:23:57.280 --> 0:24:00.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't even hear from them. Where are y'all? All right?

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:06.600
<v Speaker 1>So also I google one other words, well, sis Jesus

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:12.960
<v Speaker 1>gender gender identity. So, gender identity is a person's innate

0:24:13.080 --> 0:24:16.399
<v Speaker 1>sense of their gender, chiefly used in context where it

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:20.399
<v Speaker 1>is contrasted with the sex registered for them at birth.

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<v Speaker 1>But now you have a judicial judicial system which legalizes

0:24:27.119 --> 0:24:30.320
<v Speaker 1>people changing their sex. Can they put it now on

0:24:30.400 --> 0:24:32.800
<v Speaker 1>their birth certificates? Can they change a birth certificate? Can

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:35.560
<v Speaker 1>they change a driver's license? Or what's showing up on

0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:38.240
<v Speaker 1>these official documents? Is it what you were at birth?

0:24:38.720 --> 0:24:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Because now you're going to have to ask people what's

0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:44.000
<v Speaker 1>your what chromosome are you? What were you on your

0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:47.080
<v Speaker 1>birth certificates? Right? And you know a lot of you

0:24:47.160 --> 0:24:49.199
<v Speaker 1>were born Yeah, a lot of trans people feel like

0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:52.960
<v Speaker 1>they don't have to disclose that. They're trends, like that's

0:24:53.000 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. Somebody seeing you physically and thinking that

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.879
<v Speaker 1>you're a woman, that's what they go for. They're up.

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:04.080
<v Speaker 1>You haven't seen that video on Instagram? It was a

0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Hispanic guy and maybe the lady was in the car

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:10.680
<v Speaker 1>hispanic too, but it looked like a white woman. Oh man, right,

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:15.639
<v Speaker 1>arguing he was listen the guy. The woman in the

0:25:15.680 --> 0:25:18.520
<v Speaker 1>car was arguing with a Hispanic man outside the car,

0:25:18.520 --> 0:25:20.159
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, what do I look like to

0:25:20.200 --> 0:25:24.040
<v Speaker 1>you when she turns the camera on herself? And transsexual?

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't. They don't like the word transsexual, right, I don't.

0:25:26.960 --> 0:25:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I can't really. I wish we had

0:25:28.880 --> 0:25:31.440
<v Speaker 1>like a trays person on with us who could just

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:35.919
<v Speaker 1>had a hand pamphlet or a booklet. We all to

0:25:36.000 --> 0:25:39.200
<v Speaker 1>make sure we you know, yeah, listen, nothing we say

0:25:39.320 --> 0:25:42.000
<v Speaker 1>here is meant to be offensive. It is meant to

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 1>be funny. That's it. Not even funny. We're trying to understand. Yeah,

0:25:45.960 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 1>but also I want to tell jokes, okay, yeah, I

0:25:48.960 --> 0:25:52.520
<v Speaker 1>want it needed to be funny too. I make light

0:25:52.560 --> 0:25:54.879
<v Speaker 1>of everything though, so don't take a personal right. So

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:57.119
<v Speaker 1>the guy was like, you look like a man, and

0:25:57.320 --> 0:26:01.880
<v Speaker 1>she was so upset because they want us to see

0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:04.760
<v Speaker 1>them in the way that they see themselves. But if

0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:07.720
<v Speaker 1>it's fair, right, No, it's not fair because I'm not

0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:11.200
<v Speaker 1>going to be delusional with you because you maybe you

0:26:11.200 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have enough money to actually look like a woman

0:26:13.600 --> 0:26:16.199
<v Speaker 1>and the way you want to You're six foot and

0:26:16.200 --> 0:26:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you're walking in look like a man to me. But

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:21.840
<v Speaker 1>it's fair to want people to see you as you

0:26:21.880 --> 0:26:24.879
<v Speaker 1>see yourself, is what I'm saying. Not in this case, Tammy,

0:26:24.960 --> 0:26:29.679
<v Speaker 1>Do you see what I'm saying? You like you physically

0:26:29.720 --> 0:26:33.359
<v Speaker 1>present as a man, dressed as a woman, right, and

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:35.920
<v Speaker 1>then you're upset with people who don't see you as

0:26:35.960 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 1>a woman. Exactly? How how am I now um being

0:26:40.119 --> 0:26:42.960
<v Speaker 1>disrespectful to you because I can't trick my mind to

0:26:43.000 --> 0:26:46.200
<v Speaker 1>see what you see? I told you once before, my homegirl,

0:26:46.280 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 1>she's a chiropractor, right. She has a client who is

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 1>a woman born a woman xx. She presents as a woman, right.

0:26:58.840 --> 0:27:05.200
<v Speaker 1>She's in a relationship with a trans woman, white trans woman,

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>which is a man, right, Genetically a man that's a

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:16.040
<v Speaker 1>trans woman is a genetically a man. Right. But she

0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:22.400
<v Speaker 1>wants to be addressed as sir him he right. But

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:25.880
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't dress up like a man. She presents as

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:29.120
<v Speaker 1>a woman. But I, in my mind have to look,

0:27:29.200 --> 0:27:32.439
<v Speaker 1>have to go by your pronouns. But you look like

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:34.399
<v Speaker 1>a woman, and you present like a woman. It's not

0:27:34.440 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>like she's presenting like a man to where I can

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:39.080
<v Speaker 1>you know my mind? Am I click in my mind

0:27:39.160 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 1>to make sure I call him sir and stuff call

0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:46.639
<v Speaker 1>her sir. It's like, huh, it is hard. It is.

0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:49.960
<v Speaker 1>It is an adjustment that it's a new adjustment, and

0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, but I mean, call people what they

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.200
<v Speaker 1>want to be called, right, Yeah, I don't. I guess

0:27:55.200 --> 0:27:56.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a lot of those people in my life.

0:27:56.960 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 1>And if I were to run into somebody in this

0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:01.359
<v Speaker 1>and they let you know what it is, of course

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do my due diligence to make sure I'm

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:06.479
<v Speaker 1>being respectful to them. But the thing is, I believe,

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 1>like just publicly online, the different conversations I see it,

0:28:11.080 --> 0:28:13.680
<v Speaker 1>or it gets to be disrespectful to actual women. Here's

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 1>the thing. Just don't be angry with me if you

0:28:16.320 --> 0:28:18.679
<v Speaker 1>see me trying. You know, it's one thing to be

0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:23.440
<v Speaker 1>blatantly like just like fuck how you feel you a nigga? Right,

0:28:24.000 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>it's one thing, right. We ain't boostying, right, we ain't

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 1>boostying right. But if I'm out here trying to get

0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 1>it right, but I'm sucking up because it's new, don't

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 1>be mean to me about it. That's not fair. Absolutely,

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not being mean to you about your shit. So

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:41.800
<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying, and as and as an

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:43.960
<v Speaker 1>actual woman. If I say I don't want to be

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:46.280
<v Speaker 1>called sists, seem like an actual woman, they would be

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 1>offended by that's their business. As an actual woman, I

0:28:49.840 --> 0:28:51.920
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be called sists. So at what point

0:28:51.960 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 1>do you respect my my um my stands. Yeah, I

0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:58.640
<v Speaker 1>don't like bitches in my dns tell about you my

0:28:58.640 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 1>favorite Auntie girl? Fuck you. I'm not your trans anti.

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 1>It's your mama's sister, not me, bitch. Listen, I met

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:12.480
<v Speaker 1>this girl and her her instagram was Auntie. I'm not

0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:14.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna say her whole ship, but it starts off like

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:17.360
<v Speaker 1>Auntie starch to such, I said, girl, if you don't

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>change your goddamn Instagram name, like, imagine your ship Auntie tam,

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't play like that. And you and your third

0:29:23.960 --> 0:29:26.760
<v Speaker 1>only only bitches who only like just turned thirty call

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 1>theirself Auntie. Wish you're getting closer to forty? That is

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:32.760
<v Speaker 1>like offense. Who are you talking to if I'm not

0:29:32.840 --> 0:29:35.680
<v Speaker 1>your Auntie? It's offensive? Right? Who are you talking to? Right?

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't even like my nieces called me that called

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 1>me teamMy bitch William exactly, y'all can cust do what

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>the fuck you want because you're not my kids. No,

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't let my nieces cut a little bit, but

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to keep it cute around me because

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 1>you will respect me. Like my sister. Y'all be power

0:29:56.480 --> 0:29:59.960
<v Speaker 1>tripping black mama's and black aunties, be pot triment, Like,

0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna do that. I was talking to my

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 1>home girl a day and she was like, yeah, the

0:30:04.240 --> 0:30:05.920
<v Speaker 1>kids is mad because they had to go to school

0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:08.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's snowing. She was like, we live in New Jersey,

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Like why they why it snows here all the time?

0:30:10.720 --> 0:30:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Type shit? I said, but you don't remember not wanting

0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 1>to go to school, Like it's like work. They need

0:30:16.040 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 1>a break. Those kids be tired. She was like, well,

0:30:18.800 --> 0:30:21.560
<v Speaker 1>they just was off on Monday. I'm like, okay, have

0:30:21.680 --> 0:30:24.040
<v Speaker 1>you never wanted five days off from work for free?

0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:29.040
<v Speaker 1>Don't mean you get it so, but it is in

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:31.840
<v Speaker 1>real life as a grown person. Stop acting like you

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:34.440
<v Speaker 1>don't remember not wanting to go to school. I remember

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:38.080
<v Speaker 1>not wanting and I remember also still having to go, right,

0:30:38.400 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 1>but they can still come. I guess my thing is

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:44.240
<v Speaker 1>is that I'm not about to like challenge my kid

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 1>on some shit that I did too as a child.

0:30:48.560 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, like complaining, yes, shut the

0:30:55.880 --> 0:30:59.400
<v Speaker 1>fuck go to school. That's the eleventh commandment that I

0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:05.600
<v Speaker 1>should not. I'm playing back to women. Yeah, um, I

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:11.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I wish things were much simpler, Like, you know,

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:15.920
<v Speaker 1>some things are offensive being born a biological woman, like

0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>giving Caitlyn Gender Woman of the Year. Lash Air was ayah,

0:31:21.480 --> 0:31:24.120
<v Speaker 1>it's her fault, but I think she got Woman of

0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 1>the Year, but she did have like a sit down

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:31.520
<v Speaker 1>with Michelle Obama last year during woman's history. Many it's

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:34.440
<v Speaker 1>just kind of like, I mean, I understand, like things

0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:39.160
<v Speaker 1>are changing, but what about me? Can I be women

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 1>of something? They're gonna say, y'all have been women for

0:31:41.760 --> 0:31:48.360
<v Speaker 1>all of this time. Now, let us that's what we at.

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:53.400
<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. It's it's a lot of things that I

0:31:53.440 --> 0:32:00.480
<v Speaker 1>just don't understand. Like I don't understand trans women participating

0:32:00.760 --> 0:32:06.800
<v Speaker 1>in sports with biological women when we know biologically that

0:32:07.320 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 1>trains women would be stronger physically than a woman, But

0:32:13.800 --> 0:32:16.000
<v Speaker 1>are they stronger than the men that they're competing with?

0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 1>So now they couldn't compete with the men. So you

0:32:18.320 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>throw them with the women to beat up on the women,

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 1>and when like, fuck that is wild. That's not fair.

0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't we can sit we all can sit in

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 1>that like this is normal, but it is not okay. No.

0:32:32.200 --> 0:32:35.840
<v Speaker 1>I think maybe their own like league. Yeah, and then

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:38.240
<v Speaker 1>they would think that it is disrespectful because they identify

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:41.840
<v Speaker 1>as a woman, right but genetically like a woman can't

0:32:41.840 --> 0:32:45.000
<v Speaker 1>compete with you, not physically. Yeah, in the sports when

0:32:45.040 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>it comes to like wrestling and it's trans bitches is

0:32:50.560 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 1>beating our egg? Watch that. I'm sorry. I said, it's

0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:01.960
<v Speaker 1>not fair. It's not fair. And again we should be

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 1>able to talk about it as we talk and not

0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>be mad at us for saying what everybody's thinking. Everybody's

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 1>thinking it okay, I said it. Fuck it. So, because

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 1>it is National Women's History Month, let's get some history

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 1>on exactly what that is. So as as recently as

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:23.560
<v Speaker 1>nineteen seventies, women's history was virtually an unknown topic in

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:28.960
<v Speaker 1>the K twelve curriculum or in general public consciousness. To

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 1>address the situation, that Education Task Force for Sonoma County, California,

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:37.240
<v Speaker 1>commissioned on the Status of Women, initiated a Woman's History

0:33:37.280 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Week celebration for nineteen seventy eight. So this is how

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>long I feel like I've only heard about maybe I

0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>don't know, last five years or so that I actually

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:50.840
<v Speaker 1>heard about one of those history month year since we've

0:33:50.840 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 1>been podcasting, That's what I've been hearing about it. Yeah,

0:33:53.320 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>the day, March eighth, International Woman's Day was chosen as

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:01.440
<v Speaker 1>a focal point for the observance. So so, Tammy All,

0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>what is a woman to you? A woman to me

0:34:05.680 --> 0:34:09.759
<v Speaker 1>is my mama and my grandmother. I can speak to

0:34:09.760 --> 0:34:12.000
<v Speaker 1>a black women. I wanted to say a woman, I'll

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:15.359
<v Speaker 1>speak to a black woman. Unfortunately, I hate to say

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:18.920
<v Speaker 1>strong black women because they I hate the term strong

0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:22.720
<v Speaker 1>for a woman. But I feel like my my mother

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:27.440
<v Speaker 1>and my grandmother had to be that. Uh. They were resilient,

0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 1>loving and hard at the same time. Um, they bled

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:36.200
<v Speaker 1>every month and you knew it sometime because they was

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:40.840
<v Speaker 1>bitches during that time. I ain't gonna lie. Um. A

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:46.799
<v Speaker 1>woman is birth in life to this earth, you know.

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that's what a woman is. A woman is

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:55.080
<v Speaker 1>a mother, woman is a sister, auntie, A woman is you?

0:34:55.160 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 1>A woman is me? Right? So that woman is who

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:02.640
<v Speaker 1>gave gave birth to you. Yeah, you know, a lot

0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 1>of people not to go back to the same topic,

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:07.279
<v Speaker 1>but you would not exist if it weren't for a woman,

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>right right, So to be dismissive of what an actual

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:16.920
<v Speaker 1>woman is, UM, it's kind of wild. Um. So when

0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 1>I think about woman, I definitely think about myself. I

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 1>think about my aunts, my mother, the actual women in

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:27.640
<v Speaker 1>my life. You know, get mad at the word actual. Um. Again,

0:35:27.760 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't like the strong Black women thrope. I feel

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 1>like it's not exclusive to just Black women. Women throughout

0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:38.799
<v Speaker 1>every culture, UM have had times where they had to

0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 1>be super resilient. We're not in those groups, so we

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:43.840
<v Speaker 1>may not see but I don't hear other groups me

0:35:44.160 --> 0:35:47.919
<v Speaker 1>used that word the culture, and it's kind of like

0:35:49.200 --> 0:35:51.719
<v Speaker 1>the reason why I hated The reason why I hate

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.759
<v Speaker 1>it is because you know this is it was an

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.319
<v Speaker 1>Indian guy on YouTube a while ago, a video I

0:35:57.360 --> 0:36:00.279
<v Speaker 1>listened to, and he was talking shit about like a

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:02.800
<v Speaker 1>women and how we like to say we're strong Black women.

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, yeah, just because you can have

0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:08.440
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of kids when no fathers and struggle to

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:11.440
<v Speaker 1>take care of them and persevere doesn't make you a

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:14.080
<v Speaker 1>strong Black woman. So you put yourself in a situation

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:17.239
<v Speaker 1>to have to struggle. What does that make you? Then

0:36:17.320 --> 0:36:19.400
<v Speaker 1>it definitely makes you a strong but shut the fucker.

0:36:20.440 --> 0:36:22.400
<v Speaker 1>It definitely makes you strong if you had to. And

0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:25.000
<v Speaker 1>he was talking about like how how other women from

0:36:25.040 --> 0:36:28.360
<v Speaker 1>other groups like they you know, their husbands are wealthy

0:36:28.440 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>this and the third like the people they choose to

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:33.640
<v Speaker 1>have children with are not just leaving them with kids

0:36:33.719 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. So his whole stance was, you

0:36:36.600 --> 0:36:41.480
<v Speaker 1>put yourself in a position to have to be strong, Okay,

0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:44.560
<v Speaker 1>And what the fuck you say it's strong and strong?

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I just don't want us to have to

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:49.680
<v Speaker 1>be strong. I want us to live a soft life.

0:36:49.719 --> 0:36:53.839
<v Speaker 1>I want Black women to be in reside in their

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:58.040
<v Speaker 1>feminine energy and not if you're providing yourself. And I

0:36:58.080 --> 0:37:02.120
<v Speaker 1>think heaven saying that women are a strong black woman,

0:37:02.360 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 1>then other cultures view the head. And then now when

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>you're in a hospital and pay maybe like, but you're

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.279
<v Speaker 1>a strong black woman, but other black people do that

0:37:10.320 --> 0:37:12.360
<v Speaker 1>to black people of black women as well, you realize

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:16.120
<v Speaker 1>that it's not even just other groups of people, it's

0:37:17.200 --> 0:37:19.640
<v Speaker 1>everybody just does that to black women. We do it

0:37:19.719 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to each other. Yeah, now you're in the hospital, hurting

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:28.120
<v Speaker 1>and nobody recognizes your pain because because is actually built

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:31.600
<v Speaker 1>off of us and how much you know end exactly

0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 1>some bullshit which we be in pain. Yeah, but yeah,

0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 1>So for me, um, yes, an actual woman, you have

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:45.520
<v Speaker 1>to be able even if something happened and you haven't procreated, right,

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:48.120
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of signs going on right now. You

0:37:48.160 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 1>can have a child. So you have to have a

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>womb to be a woman made be functioning or not.

0:37:56.040 --> 0:38:00.080
<v Speaker 1>If you don't have a womb, you know, to me

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>and my definition of what a woman is, you couldn't

0:38:03.160 --> 0:38:07.839
<v Speaker 1>you couldn't be a woman. And that's okay, It's okay, Yeah,

0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I agree, it's fine. You know, how can we celebrate

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:15.120
<v Speaker 1>Women's History Month and we talk back? I guess it

0:38:15.280 --> 0:38:19.440
<v Speaker 1>just you know, comes right after Black History Month or

0:38:19.480 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 1>we celebrate the different batties, so we can continue to

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:28.880
<v Speaker 1>celebrate awesome ass women in a month of m March. Okay.

0:38:28.920 --> 0:38:31.680
<v Speaker 1>So I have somebody that I would like to celebrate

0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:34.279
<v Speaker 1>for Women's History and I found this girl on a

0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:41.960
<v Speaker 1>little Duvall's page earlier. She is a pilot, a young pilot.

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Her name is she Naya Noel and her Instagram y'all

0:38:46.000 --> 0:38:49.799
<v Speaker 1>should follow her is I am all right? So I

0:38:49.880 --> 0:38:53.920
<v Speaker 1>am n y A n o E L l E.

0:38:54.520 --> 0:38:58.600
<v Speaker 1>I am Naya Noel. And this is a young young

0:38:58.680 --> 0:39:02.359
<v Speaker 1>girl and baby she is lying these big ass Look

0:39:02.400 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 1>at this girl, y'all can't You can't see her, but

0:39:05.080 --> 0:39:08.480
<v Speaker 1>y'all go look at her Instagram. I can't tell. She

0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 1>got the baby's little face. She looks very very young,

0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>and she is a pilot and she just flew across

0:39:17.000 --> 0:39:19.600
<v Speaker 1>country and she is a beautiful young black woman and

0:39:19.640 --> 0:39:21.400
<v Speaker 1>she's getting to it and I love to see it.

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:24.719
<v Speaker 1>And she started a little group called Pretty Pink Pilots.

0:39:26.160 --> 0:39:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I love that. I love that. Even getting into air

0:39:29.520 --> 0:39:32.160
<v Speaker 1>traffic control if you're under thirty years old, because you

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:35.759
<v Speaker 1>have there's an age limit to being um being be

0:39:35.920 --> 0:39:38.600
<v Speaker 1>in air traffic control, So I think you have to

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:41.279
<v Speaker 1>be younger than thirty. So if any of our listeners

0:39:41.520 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 1>that is a job. If you are into you know,

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 1>working for somebody, you're already gonna do it, get that

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:50.239
<v Speaker 1>job because usually people will start that and then they

0:39:50.280 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 1>that's where they retire from there's an age limit. I

0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:56.040
<v Speaker 1>feel like more black people need to get into air

0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:58.759
<v Speaker 1>traffic control. They make a lot of money as well,

0:39:59.080 --> 0:40:02.640
<v Speaker 1>and also in to being pilots, is there an awesome

0:40:02.960 --> 0:40:07.319
<v Speaker 1>black person that's not exactly celebrated, like not someone that's

0:40:07.320 --> 0:40:10.479
<v Speaker 1>a celebrity, a black woman that you or any woman,

0:40:10.560 --> 0:40:12.719
<v Speaker 1>let me not say, just black, that you would like

0:40:12.800 --> 0:40:18.600
<v Speaker 1>to celebrate today. Um, not off top of my head,

0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:21.839
<v Speaker 1>I happen to see nobody flying a planes. Maybe not

0:40:21.840 --> 0:40:26.440
<v Speaker 1>not nobody, maybe maybe somebody that you know personally that

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:29.279
<v Speaker 1>just like did something great that you just want to celebrate.

0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:34.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, my best friend Priscilla, I'd like to celebrate her. Okay.

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Priscilla had two kids when we were in high school. Okay,

0:40:37.440 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 1>And when I tell you like this that this is

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:42.560
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of people's stories, and I kind of

0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:47.440
<v Speaker 1>use her oftentimes, um, over the years for people when

0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I hear them complaining about certain shit like Priscilla did it,

0:40:50.160 --> 0:40:53.719
<v Speaker 1>I really be feeling like that about her because the

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:56.640
<v Speaker 1>way she set her life up, even with having little

0:40:56.760 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 1>small kids is a fuck amazing. So I don't want

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:02.120
<v Speaker 1>to call her like the strong black woman, but she

0:41:02.160 --> 0:41:04.120
<v Speaker 1>would be that, yeah, you know what I'm saying. And

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:09.239
<v Speaker 1>actually her oldest child is my little cousin. Essentially, her

0:41:09.320 --> 0:41:14.040
<v Speaker 1>dad is my cousin and he's not the like she

0:41:14.120 --> 0:41:17.719
<v Speaker 1>really did it by herself out here. I'm here a

0:41:17.760 --> 0:41:19.400
<v Speaker 1>lot of black women, so I want to celebrate my

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:22.560
<v Speaker 1>best seat. So, y'all, if y'all know a woman that

0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:26.239
<v Speaker 1>you love and you see her doing her thing, we

0:41:26.440 --> 0:41:30.719
<v Speaker 1>challenge you to celebrate her. Send her lunch cash or

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:34.360
<v Speaker 1>send her money, right, some good words of encouragement, just

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:37.440
<v Speaker 1>to let her know that you see her. So just

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 1>this one, say hi to every woman you see like,

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:43.920
<v Speaker 1>stop walking past each other, not speaking. Yeah, eye contact here, girl,

0:41:44.160 --> 0:41:48.480
<v Speaker 1>you look good girl? Y. Yes, I don't know. I'm

0:41:48.520 --> 0:41:51.080
<v Speaker 1>definitely one of those. I'm always like I will stop

0:41:51.120 --> 0:41:53.239
<v Speaker 1>a girl in the street like, oh ka, girl, I

0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:58.239
<v Speaker 1>see like girls okay, eyebrows okay baby here, I will

0:41:58.280 --> 0:42:02.560
<v Speaker 1>say all of that. Yeah, you make people day, right, Mary,

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:05.400
<v Speaker 1>celebrate each other. So I challenge y'all to dudd watching

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:11.360
<v Speaker 1>this episode, celebrate your sisters outside. What's your agenda to

0:42:11.440 --> 0:42:16.319
<v Speaker 1>your sisters is celebrate them. I'm here for that. So

0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:18.000
<v Speaker 1>when we come back from break, I do have a

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:20.880
<v Speaker 1>dumb bitch story. I can't wait to get into it.

0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:25.279
<v Speaker 1>All right, We'll be right back to dumb bitch stories

0:42:26.760 --> 0:42:28.920
<v Speaker 1>because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once

0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:33.319
<v Speaker 1>or twice, all right, So, and look, this girl sent

0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:35.120
<v Speaker 1>me a damn picture at all, so I know what

0:42:35.160 --> 0:42:38.759
<v Speaker 1>the people look like. So, she says, been with this

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:42.360
<v Speaker 1>guy for about sixteen months. Me and his youngest BM

0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:45.400
<v Speaker 1>have had words on two occasions. Their youngest kid is

0:42:45.400 --> 0:42:49.400
<v Speaker 1>almost five. She posted on Facebook an old video and

0:42:49.600 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 1>pick from last year, saying, happy sixteen years, Happy birthday,

0:42:53.719 --> 0:42:57.919
<v Speaker 1>baby daddy. Y'all want him so bad, I'm cushan, I'm

0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:00.360
<v Speaker 1>not going nowhere. That's the whole capture and of the

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:04.560
<v Speaker 1>post for his birthday, right, She said. I told him

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:07.279
<v Speaker 1>today he needs to tell her we are together and

0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:10.960
<v Speaker 1>the back and forth Facebook subliminal and BS need to

0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:14.040
<v Speaker 1>stop if he is serious about me, or go be

0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:17.040
<v Speaker 1>with her because I'm not going through this shit anymore.

0:43:17.920 --> 0:43:20.480
<v Speaker 1>He says he has no problem with that, so we

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 1>shall see. But I feel like I'm right to give

0:43:23.000 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>him an ultimatum after sixteen months. I've expressed the importance

0:43:26.600 --> 0:43:30.759
<v Speaker 1>of boundaries before with their relationship, and I'm ready to

0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:33.680
<v Speaker 1>walk away if he doesn't make the right, If he

0:43:33.719 --> 0:43:36.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make this right, even though I really want to

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:39.239
<v Speaker 1>be with him. What do you think? So and then

0:43:39.280 --> 0:43:42.719
<v Speaker 1>she sends like a picture of the guy with the

0:43:42.760 --> 0:43:46.399
<v Speaker 1>post from the BM. So I asked her, like, how

0:43:46.440 --> 0:43:50.200
<v Speaker 1>many how many kids? How many bms? He has? Three

0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:53.280
<v Speaker 1>baby moms, five kids, last two are four and twelve

0:43:53.360 --> 0:43:56.759
<v Speaker 1>years old. Lady, yeah, must be what the youngest says.

0:43:56.800 --> 0:43:58.879
<v Speaker 1>First of all, what grown? I mean? They just got

0:43:58.880 --> 0:44:01.520
<v Speaker 1>the one five year old? Sixteen years in and you

0:44:01.560 --> 0:44:06.120
<v Speaker 1>out here talking about you? Wait? Is that? What is that?

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 1>What I said her post? First of all, you are grown.

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:12.279
<v Speaker 1>You're an old ass lady because you've been working with

0:44:12.320 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody for sixteen years. How dare you call yourself Chrishan Khan?

0:44:16.640 --> 0:44:19.399
<v Speaker 1>That's who you say? Thirty five? Both her and the girl?

0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:22.680
<v Speaker 1>How are you talking about you? Krishan? That is a

0:44:22.760 --> 0:44:26.399
<v Speaker 1>young girl trying to figure it out out here, like

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:28.160
<v Speaker 1>she got a lot of trauma and a lot of

0:44:28.600 --> 0:44:31.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, and that's what you're talking about. Look, I

0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:33.800
<v Speaker 1>asked her, how the hell does she see the post?

0:44:33.920 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>She basically said, the girl has her block, or they

0:44:36.560 --> 0:44:39.319
<v Speaker 1>have each other block. But you know she obviously if

0:44:39.320 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 1>you want to see my thing is why are you lurking?

0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:44.839
<v Speaker 1>If you weren't lurking, you would have never seen her

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 1>post at oh so it's on her page. It's on

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:52.839
<v Speaker 1>the baby mama's page. So don't post my nigga talking

0:44:52.880 --> 0:44:57.319
<v Speaker 1>about that's her baby daddy. Don't post my nig girl.

0:44:57.360 --> 0:45:00.239
<v Speaker 1>We know what it is like. So, okay, you have

0:45:00.280 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 1>a decision to make. You don't have any kids with

0:45:02.160 --> 0:45:06.120
<v Speaker 1>this guy. He has three baby mamas? Are you strapping up?

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:08.360
<v Speaker 1>Are you trying to be the fourth baby mama and

0:45:08.480 --> 0:45:11.000
<v Speaker 1>sixth with the sixth child? Right? Like? It really? Is

0:45:11.000 --> 0:45:13.000
<v Speaker 1>that what you want your life to be at thirty five?

0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:14.759
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, that's what she wants. She says she

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:17.160
<v Speaker 1>want to be with him, so that's what she's signed

0:45:17.239 --> 0:45:19.600
<v Speaker 1>up for. But there is a thing called boundaries and

0:45:19.600 --> 0:45:23.839
<v Speaker 1>don't disrespect my relationship. He needs to check her, right absolutely,

0:45:23.920 --> 0:45:27.920
<v Speaker 1>So you know you can't you can't fault anybody outside

0:45:27.960 --> 0:45:31.759
<v Speaker 1>the relationship, right, So definitely, if it's a situation, he

0:45:31.840 --> 0:45:35.399
<v Speaker 1>definitely needs to handle it, right. I don't like, I

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:41.400
<v Speaker 1>can't do you know what I want you to do?

0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:43.759
<v Speaker 1>You know exactly what the same shit you would want

0:45:43.800 --> 0:45:46.319
<v Speaker 1>me to do if my baby daddy was doing that, right, yeah,

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 1>like control your people, yeah, because no, she wouldn't be

0:45:50.040 --> 0:45:54.400
<v Speaker 1>accepting that bullshit either, right, exactly. Yeah, so I don't know.

0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I think he must be still sleeping with her. Yeah,

0:45:58.080 --> 0:46:01.319
<v Speaker 1>because yeah, where a man would probably be like, why

0:46:01.320 --> 0:46:06.120
<v Speaker 1>are you posting that? Right? See, no bms, no mama's,

0:46:06.200 --> 0:46:13.799
<v Speaker 1>no sisters, no problems, no baby mama, no sister, no mother.

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:21.480
<v Speaker 1>Damn who I agree with me? Shut up? He fined

0:46:21.480 --> 0:46:26.239
<v Speaker 1>too that, Derek Luke. Yeah, where is Derek Luke? We

0:46:26.239 --> 0:46:29.799
<v Speaker 1>didn't say that in the last couple of years, Derek Luke.

0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>We want Derek Luke on the show. Come talk to us, Derek.

0:46:32.960 --> 0:46:34.719
<v Speaker 1>We want to see where you've been at. I'm with

0:46:34.960 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 1>men when they say women are out here having kids

0:46:37.640 --> 0:46:40.959
<v Speaker 1>with men who already have kids, because there are. I'm

0:46:41.000 --> 0:46:43.040
<v Speaker 1>finding that there are some single men out here who

0:46:43.080 --> 0:46:45.279
<v Speaker 1>don't have kids, who haven't started a family, who you

0:46:45.280 --> 0:46:47.759
<v Speaker 1>can start a family with. You don't necessarily have to

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:51.200
<v Speaker 1>be with somebody who already has kids. But the older

0:46:51.239 --> 0:46:54.759
<v Speaker 1>we get, you know, the more difficult it becomes. Right. Yeah,

0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:56.719
<v Speaker 1>So I told my guy friend he said he doesn't

0:46:56.760 --> 0:46:58.839
<v Speaker 1>want any more kids, and I was like, you know,

0:46:59.560 --> 0:47:02.960
<v Speaker 1>most him and have kids, So you're gonna end up

0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:06.040
<v Speaker 1>with somebody with kids helping take care of a kid.

0:47:06.080 --> 0:47:08.480
<v Speaker 1>That that isn't depending on how old he is and

0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:12.280
<v Speaker 1>kids might be out of the house. Yeah, grown, big kids,

0:47:13.400 --> 0:47:15.640
<v Speaker 1>they still there, always be a child, but they're not.

0:47:15.920 --> 0:47:18.880
<v Speaker 1>Let me let him, let him keep thinking that he

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:22.120
<v Speaker 1>got to be with a bitch with little kids, Okay,

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:25.160
<v Speaker 1>because why not be with somebody who has your kid.

0:47:25.280 --> 0:47:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm confused. You don't work out like that always anyway, girl,

0:47:31.280 --> 0:47:34.600
<v Speaker 1>run run, He's still fucking his baby mama. That's what

0:47:34.640 --> 0:47:37.319
<v Speaker 1>I think too. Get up out of there. Still get

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that man, ultimatum. Grown people don't do well with ultimatums.

0:47:41.200 --> 0:47:44.399
<v Speaker 1>They are who they're gonna be. That situation was going

0:47:44.480 --> 0:47:46.440
<v Speaker 1>on prior to you, even though you've been there for

0:47:46.480 --> 0:47:52.680
<v Speaker 1>sixteen months now, it may never change. So that means

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:55.759
<v Speaker 1>she would to fight by that nigga, you're hearing me

0:47:56.320 --> 0:47:59.359
<v Speaker 1>trying to fight, right, You're trying to fight. Can't you fight?

0:47:59.680 --> 0:48:02.080
<v Speaker 1>That's question? Can't you fight? Fight? Because that girl says

0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:05.239
<v Speaker 1>she'll fight. She beat your ass about her baby, daddy.

0:48:05.440 --> 0:48:08.359
<v Speaker 1>Can't you fight? I'm not trying to fight at this

0:48:08.400 --> 0:48:10.600
<v Speaker 1>age in my life. I'm not trying to fight by nobody.

0:48:10.600 --> 0:48:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Did you fighting? Can't get up the next day? You know,

0:48:13.280 --> 0:48:17.160
<v Speaker 1>like you the last time I got in a fight, y'all.

0:48:17.200 --> 0:48:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I was in Live in Miami, of all places in

0:48:20.040 --> 0:48:23.160
<v Speaker 1>the club, and we whipped out of a chance. But

0:48:24.480 --> 0:48:28.840
<v Speaker 1>the next day I felt everything, that whole donkey kicking

0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:31.760
<v Speaker 1>me in my ship. I was limped through the airport

0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:38.919
<v Speaker 1>and trying to get kick backwards like that backwards, Yeah,

0:48:38.960 --> 0:48:45.160
<v Speaker 1>because I was in the back of the head, y'all.

0:48:45.200 --> 0:48:48.919
<v Speaker 1>We do not could violence. I was very young when

0:48:48.920 --> 0:48:52.400
<v Speaker 1>that happened. Volens is sometimes and I was attacked, so

0:48:52.440 --> 0:48:55.239
<v Speaker 1>I was defending myself. I did not start anything. Let

0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:59.520
<v Speaker 1>me just put that out there. It's necessary sometimes. I

0:48:59.640 --> 0:49:06.760
<v Speaker 1>was a hacked in a rental dress. I was so mad.

0:49:04.840 --> 0:49:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm so mad. I had risen this two thousand dollars

0:49:12.200 --> 0:49:14.680
<v Speaker 1>dress for the night so I could be a bad

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:18.560
<v Speaker 1>bags father to night and that dress and it was

0:49:18.600 --> 0:49:20.959
<v Speaker 1>one of my friends Beef. I didn't even know these girls.

0:49:21.040 --> 0:49:25.080
<v Speaker 1>They were actually girls from New York. And my friend

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:26.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, yeah, me and this girl got a

0:49:26.920 --> 0:49:31.160
<v Speaker 1>situation or whatever. We don't get along. We're in a VP, chilling,

0:49:31.320 --> 0:49:34.520
<v Speaker 1>having a good time, sparkly in my little rental dress

0:49:35.160 --> 0:49:39.040
<v Speaker 1>and her the girl and her friend walk up and

0:49:39.239 --> 0:49:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm on like I'm watching because I know

0:49:41.600 --> 0:49:45.279
<v Speaker 1>it's smoked, right, um and y'all this is a long

0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:49.480
<v Speaker 1>time ago. Okay. So we're in the promoter section or whatever.

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:51.920
<v Speaker 1>They come over. They're talking to the promoter. They were

0:49:51.960 --> 0:49:53.880
<v Speaker 1>sitting on the top of the couch. They one of

0:49:53.920 --> 0:49:55.840
<v Speaker 1>them climbs up into the couch. The other one is

0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:59.280
<v Speaker 1>on the floor. So she keeps bumping into my friend,

0:49:59.320 --> 0:50:01.839
<v Speaker 1>like on purpose, for real. So my friend was like,

0:50:02.320 --> 0:50:06.160
<v Speaker 1>please stop bumping me. Nothing disrespectful, Please stop bumping into me.

0:50:06.760 --> 0:50:09.560
<v Speaker 1>So then I stood up. But I stood up like

0:50:09.680 --> 0:50:12.799
<v Speaker 1>on no aggressive shit. I just stood up because there's

0:50:12.840 --> 0:50:15.279
<v Speaker 1>a lot going on. So I stood up because I

0:50:15.320 --> 0:50:19.480
<v Speaker 1>was I was vulnerable sitting Right when I stood up,

0:50:19.560 --> 0:50:22.360
<v Speaker 1>the friend that was standing on the floor punched me

0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:25.800
<v Speaker 1>in the face soon as I stood up. Goddamn, on,

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:28.200
<v Speaker 1>go on go. Just soon as I stood up, a

0:50:28.239 --> 0:50:30.880
<v Speaker 1>bitch hit me in my face. But little did they know,

0:50:31.040 --> 0:50:32.759
<v Speaker 1>they thought it was just me and my homegirl in

0:50:32.800 --> 0:50:35.600
<v Speaker 1>the section. It was six to us. We just like

0:50:35.800 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 1>me and my homegirl was sitting next to the promoter.

0:50:38.080 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 1>My sister was right next to me, sitting on the couch.

0:50:40.800 --> 0:50:43.200
<v Speaker 1>And then I had full home girl sitting on the

0:50:43.239 --> 0:50:46.400
<v Speaker 1>other It was a big ass couch, right, So I

0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:50.040
<v Speaker 1>got hit. I turned, I got hit. My sister was like,

0:50:50.120 --> 0:50:54.440
<v Speaker 1>you hit my soul bitch right in the side of

0:50:54.440 --> 0:50:58.479
<v Speaker 1>her face. And it was just on. It was a

0:50:58.560 --> 0:51:01.440
<v Speaker 1>melee in that big motor just got up and walked away.

0:51:01.480 --> 0:51:05.080
<v Speaker 1>He's just like, this is ran. I'm disgusted. I was, Yeah,

0:51:05.120 --> 0:51:07.360
<v Speaker 1>I was disgusted because that's not why I came. I

0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:08.919
<v Speaker 1>came to have a good time. Did you fucking people

0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:12.239
<v Speaker 1>dress up? Though? Yes? Did you return it? Fucked up?

0:51:12.280 --> 0:51:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I had to pay for it. It was ruined. It

0:51:15.360 --> 0:51:17.239
<v Speaker 1>was ruined. You should have took them the court for

0:51:17.320 --> 0:51:20.160
<v Speaker 1>that dress. That would have been a nice ass judge

0:51:20.239 --> 0:51:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Joe Brown or one of them judges I should have.

0:51:23.200 --> 0:51:26.400
<v Speaker 1>That would have been because I actually was like like

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:29.520
<v Speaker 1>an executive for Hennessy or something. Oh no, oh girl,

0:51:29.560 --> 0:51:31.799
<v Speaker 1>I would have random muck on her ass. You. I mean, yeah,

0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I should have the girl who hit you? Yeah, oh no, bitch,

0:51:37.280 --> 0:51:41.680
<v Speaker 1>when I tell you the man letter, I would have

0:51:41.719 --> 0:51:44.520
<v Speaker 1>send that bitch of the man letter so fucking fat.

0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:46.839
<v Speaker 1>And I think she like got on Twitter talking about like,

0:51:46.920 --> 0:51:49.799
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, her red bottles was fake because it was

0:51:49.880 --> 0:51:52.040
<v Speaker 1>rubbing off. I was like, no, I rubbed that shit

0:51:52.120 --> 0:51:55.399
<v Speaker 1>off on your forehead, bitch, the red bottom, the red

0:51:55.480 --> 0:51:58.759
<v Speaker 1>was rubbing off on her. Yeah, the red bottom comes

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:00.759
<v Speaker 1>off the shoe. That hadn't said that way. We're talking

0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:03.399
<v Speaker 1>about beating bitches up for Women's History Month. This is all.

0:52:05.680 --> 0:52:07.759
<v Speaker 1>It's a part of women's history all my life. I

0:52:07.880 --> 0:52:14.879
<v Speaker 1>had what We don't do that anymore here we talked back.

0:52:14.960 --> 0:52:18.280
<v Speaker 1>That is a story from very early, like late twenties

0:52:18.320 --> 0:52:23.520
<v Speaker 1>in Miami. So shit that love stories. That was funny

0:52:23.520 --> 0:52:26.640
<v Speaker 1>as hell. Man, but girl lead that nigga, right man?

0:52:26.640 --> 0:52:30.000
<v Speaker 1>We need to do like seed dating, don't speed friends.

0:52:30.040 --> 0:52:32.479
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do a speed dating and speed friends. What's

0:52:32.480 --> 0:52:36.200
<v Speaker 1>the speed friends? Like making girlfriends? Yeah, that would be nice. Yes,

0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:38.719
<v Speaker 1>we can host that in Charlotte for a day. Let's

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:42.400
<v Speaker 1>do speed friends for what History Month. I'm here for that.

0:52:42.680 --> 0:52:46.520
<v Speaker 1>It's little, it's little. Do you have any last words?

0:52:47.000 --> 0:52:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's a new segment we need to

0:52:48.680 --> 0:52:51.239
<v Speaker 1>add to the show. Like since we talk back, and

0:52:51.280 --> 0:52:57.359
<v Speaker 1>we always got to have the last words. Uh, love

0:52:57.440 --> 0:53:00.920
<v Speaker 1>your sisters, love your women, love the women in your

0:53:01.040 --> 0:53:03.640
<v Speaker 1>in your life, call them today and give them some

0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:06.840
<v Speaker 1>nice words of encouragement because we'll be going through it.

0:53:07.680 --> 0:53:10.520
<v Speaker 1>We'll be going through it. Call your friends, Call your mama,

0:53:10.640 --> 0:53:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Call your aunt who've been fucking with her baby daddy

0:53:13.640 --> 0:53:17.160
<v Speaker 1>for the last thirty five years, and shit like, call

0:53:17.200 --> 0:53:19.640
<v Speaker 1>all the women you love. That's my last word. Call

0:53:19.719 --> 0:53:22.279
<v Speaker 1>your home girl that's still shouting her baby daddy, y'all

0:53:22.280 --> 0:53:27.120
<v Speaker 1>talking about sixty years and she krew shun her rock

0:53:27.280 --> 0:53:31.560
<v Speaker 1>her ass. She needs a love. And then also show

0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:34.399
<v Speaker 1>love to our trades women, because I have friends who

0:53:34.400 --> 0:53:36.880
<v Speaker 1>are trains women and I love y'all, so you know,

0:53:36.960 --> 0:53:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to understand. I don't get it all

0:53:39.160 --> 0:53:42.080
<v Speaker 1>the way yet, and that's okay. I want to. And

0:53:42.520 --> 0:53:45.680
<v Speaker 1>we got love for y'all too, So love everybody out here.

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