1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 1: talks back? What's up? Y'all think if you tuning in 3 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: for a new episode that we talk back a show 4 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: dedicated to you, ninjas and these pros and everything in between. Y'all, 5 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: We're back What's up? Town? I have it's common in 6 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: black women. I have five broys removed over the weekend, 7 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: and you know, I took a girl out pretty much. 8 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: I've been out the game and I'm such not a homebody, 9 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: so this is also very much hard for me just 10 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: being in the house as much sas down. I ain't 11 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: got no choice. I barely can get up. Yeah, you 12 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: gotta take it easy. I've never had five rods surgery, 13 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: but I've definitely had a woman's surgery and that shit 14 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: is no joke and they have to cut you over. 15 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: I underestimated, Yeah, I underestimated this shit. I ain't gonna lie. 16 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: I thought three days and I was gonna be back outside. Wrong. No, you, 17 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: if you have a baby, you're gonna be smashing before 18 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: them six weeks. Yep. I don't know when my mama 19 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: had to pull my drawers up and down for me 20 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: this weekend. It's definitely humbling. You remember we did that 21 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: episode we were talking about. It was a white girl 22 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: who had a surgery coming up, and she was talking 23 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: about like, how now she needs a meete now more 24 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: than ever because she has like surgery coming up. And 25 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: what I said, then, even if you have somebody, you 26 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: really can't depend on men to do those things, Like, 27 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: of course you need somebody in the house with you 28 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: for sure, but mama's and sisters they're gonna come through. Yep. 29 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: My mama been was here all weekend. She was so good. 30 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: I couldn't have done it without here. One of my 31 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: neighbors came in took my trash out today, so that 32 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: was good. How nice is that? Yeah? And then the 33 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: instacurt lady put my groceries away from me. Yeah? Wow, 34 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: did you get her a tip? I sure did, and 35 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: sure did, thank you. Oh that's nice. You need to 36 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: get me Sure you get a ten star review? All right? 37 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: I definitely gave her all heroes have a cape. What 38 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: about your weekend? Shit? My weekend was, you know, I 39 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: just hung out a little bit dinner date weekend. Basically. 40 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: You know, it's always nice when niggas take the bitches 41 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: for walks. I said, I was gonna stop saying nigga, 42 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try real hard, real hard. You know. They 43 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: said that for the past couple of New Years. I know. 44 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 1: But listen, fellas, you have to take your bitch for 45 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: a walk. Okay. If you don't take her for a walk, 46 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: somebody else can take her for a walk. It's like, gods, 47 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: what she needs is take your girl on dates. Yes, 48 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 1: take your dates, even if instead of park literally take 49 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: her for a walk, bike ride something. Yes. I got 50 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: outside a little bit. That's about it. Good weekend, Good weekend. 51 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: It's cold outside. I don't know what the hell is happening. 52 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: You ain't missing nothing. That's cold outside. It's like Charleston 53 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: is never this cold in March. Absolutely not in tomorrow. 54 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: Like the lowest thirty nine or thirty six. I think 55 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: that is freezing. Really that cold outside right now, right 56 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: now is probably like fifty. But this is not normal weather. 57 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: This shit is different. I heard it was snowing in 58 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: La or some shit. Get your house in order, folks. Yes, look, 59 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: let's jump right into stupid internet news. Okay, because y'all 60 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: see what's going on with these banks. Okay, Like Tam said, 61 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: get your House in order. This is a small sample 62 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: size of what we could see on a larger scale, 63 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: because you know, they want to get us on a 64 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: central banking system, right, but they got to make the 65 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: US dollar fail first. So the Silicone Valley Bank in 66 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 1: California they went under, right Vamba, just excuse me? What 67 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: the hell? So now like damn shiit same people, so Biden, 68 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: Biden basically has billed them out. And it's not like 69 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: a bell out like from two thousand and eight, where 70 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: a taxpayers paid for this. One is going to be 71 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: paid for it by the bank fees essentially, like they're 72 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: the insurance that they have. And he's also calling for 73 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: the top executives to be fired from the bank. Apparently 74 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: the CEO actually sold all his stock the day before 75 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: the ZAC actually happened, and as somebody to protect his 76 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: own interest exactly, So I wonder, you know, he knew 77 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: what the hell was going to happen. And this bank 78 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: in particular, they said that the median deposit like it's 79 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: like two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. So at this bank, 80 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: the median account balance it's like two hundred and fifty 81 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. These are rich people's money y'all playing with 82 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: And these people were pulling up at the bank for 83 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: their money and they got the police called on them. Right, 84 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: they can't get it. So, because isn't it like only 85 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: a certain amount of your money like ensured that you 86 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: can get through the FDI. Yeah, through the FDI, it's 87 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty thousand dollars. After that, that's it. 88 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 1: So that's why now nanoment is stepping in. It makes 89 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: me think of my great grandmother because of the starting 90 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: market crash in the nineteen thirties, she put all her 91 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: money in coffee kids and buried it in the backyard. 92 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: Said she would never put her money back in the 93 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: bank because of that. That's not smart either. Like tomorrow, 94 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: the way it is looking like we will be wiping 95 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: all asses with one hundred dollar bills in a minute. 96 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 1: You need go. You have to you have to make 97 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 1: like actual investments and intangible assets land, housing, houses. You know. 98 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say stock market for real, even though I 99 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: funk with the stock market, because I mean that's the 100 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: same as a bank that yeah, it could crash to yep. 101 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: So definitely natural resources those things aren't going anywhere. But 102 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 1: they're definitely trying to get us on a crypto um 103 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: currency type platform, and my thing, my only problem with 104 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: that is like, what's the conversion going to be? You know, 105 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: what's the conversion from my US dollar to whatever crypto 106 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: going to be? Is it going to be, like will 107 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: I lose half of my money so you might get 108 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: a crypto one under? It is going under. All of 109 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: this shit is going under. But I think it's they're 110 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: trying to. I think the government is trying to get 111 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: more regulation around cryptocurrency because if they get everybody on crypto, 112 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: like if everybody had to do Bitcoin instead of the 113 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: US dollar whatever, you know, country currency, there's more control 114 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: involved with that. They can turn your finances off when 115 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: they want to because it's all digitized, but it's essentially 116 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: still the same thing even with fiat currency as far 117 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: as I'm concerned. What I don't understand is how they 118 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: can do that. But we're still voting an election booth 119 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: with a god down piece of paper. But okay, but 120 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: really we don't though. It's kind of like some of 121 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: those machines are electronic, what is the dominion that owns 122 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: some of them? But a lot of places have electronic ones, 123 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: which I think can have a little bit more manipulation. Yes, 124 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: people can throw pieces of paper out, but I can 125 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: literally program your shit to change. It's a little bit differ. 126 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 1: So I would prefer to keep the paper route. Let 127 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: me tell you. As I was sitting around hurting, I 128 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: was scrolling my social media and I saw everybody upset 129 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: that Angela Bassett was snubbed by the Academy for the 130 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: Oscar that she was nominated for for Best Supporting Actress 131 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: in Wakanda Forever. And she I mean, We're gonna be 132 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: honest about it. She ben should have got an Oscar 133 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: if we relying on white people to give us our awards, 134 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: but she definitely should have been got up. Jamie League 135 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: Curtis should have been got one too, because but anyway, 136 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: they Angela Bassett didn't get the Oscar, and niggas was 137 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: mad as fuck. I was upset too, absolutely, But I 138 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: just feel like, why do we Why do we care 139 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:52,079 Speaker 1: what white people think? Why do we need these these 140 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: awards that was never meant for us to validate us 141 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: in our careers, because she should have been had at. 142 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: Everybody knows it. Jamie knows it. Yeah, And so Jamie 143 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: Lee Curtis. She she won Best Supporting Actress for Everything Everywhere, 144 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: all at once. It's alright, movie, it's kind of on 145 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: the esoteric side of things, but good movie nonetheless. But 146 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: come on, Wakanda forever, all of these great movies. She's 147 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: one of the best actresses out here. And this is 148 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: only her even her second time even being nominated. The 149 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: first time she was nominated was for Best Actress in 150 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: two thousand and four. So here it is now twenty 151 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 1: years later and she's finally nominated again, only not to 152 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: get the award again. It's for her me too. I 153 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: hate that because you know she's to us like she's 154 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: one of the best. Who's better than Angela Bassett. Let's 155 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: be clear, who. I don't know anybody better than Angela Bassett. 156 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: And if I hear you had my kids around that 157 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: tramp bitch, we're gonna regret it for the rest of 158 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: your life. Get your ship, get your ship, and get yo. 159 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 1: The way she was talking like that's how black women 160 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: be for real, Like you'd be talking yourself into a rut. Okay, right, 161 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: We love you Angela Bassett. If you're a fan of 162 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 1: we talk back, we love you I have been an 163 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: Oscar Award winner in our hearts since the beginning of time. Right, so, 164 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: waking up the ship this morning. Shit, m so speaking 165 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: of the Oscars the internet again, the internets are in 166 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: an uproar um comparing Sierra to Savannah James today. Um 167 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: because of her choice of attire for the awards. She 168 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: wore a barely there naked dress that was after party. Yeah, 169 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,599 Speaker 1: it was after party, and several women were dressed the 170 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: same way. But for whatever reason, in our community, it's 171 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: almost like Sierra isn't it worthy of the life she has? 172 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: To some people, it's like she was just this this 173 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: super chicken head that only deserves a man like future, 174 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: you know, like staying your place, chicken head, baby Mama. 175 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what the energy is. She is a 176 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: married woman, she does have children, She's still fine as hell. 177 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: I'm confused, and this is entertained. Why do people care 178 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: so much to other people got on if her husband 179 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: was happily standing next to her, What does it matter 180 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: to y'all? Matthews exactly. I don't. I don't get the 181 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: hate and disdain nowadays for Sierra. I don't get it. 182 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: It'd be people who ain't got her first husband or 183 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: wife or the potential for one. That's got the most 184 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: horrible things to say about Sierra, like relax, maya business. Right, 185 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 1: it's not really maya business per se, but it's almost like, Okay, 186 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: these people are entertainment, are in entertainment. I ain't talk 187 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: more shit about the bitches I see at the club 188 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: dress like that, because let's be clear, people be outside 189 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: looking like that, like like their celebrity. As soon as 190 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: our heal, I got this same dress here and I'm 191 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: gonna put it on. So that dress gonna a little 192 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: bit different on you. But oh her so bad? A laugh? 193 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: That dress a little bit different. I don't, I don't. 194 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: I don't think you should shame. But let Sierra alone. 195 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: Let that lady do what she want to do. Now. 196 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: One thing, you know, I don't have a problem like 197 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 1: um just I don't know. I guess if I were 198 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: married and had kids, I wouldn't wear that. I wouldn't personally. Yeah, 199 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: I wouldn't personally, But I'm not here to judge her 200 00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: for she probably felt empowered to wear that, right, I 201 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: honestly I wouldn't wear that now just because my body type. 202 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: She's slim, though, I feel like she can get away 203 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: with it and it be okay. I would wear that 204 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 1: as a beach cover up without a problem, right what 205 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: the thong dated suit underneath. But there were several several 206 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: several you know, she was only black woman dressed like that, 207 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 1: but there were there were a lot of model U 208 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: Victoria's Secret models, a lot of different people. It's almost 209 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: like that was like the theme for the after party 210 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: as far as because I literally just wanted to make 211 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 1: sure like its Sierra the only naked naked bitch at 212 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 1: the at the whole thing. But I mean, it's been 213 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: dresses like that at these awards for years and years years, 214 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: But it's just like when a black woman does anything, 215 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: it's a problem. And then trying to trying to compare 216 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: Savannah James and hers, like why did y'all pick this 217 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: one woman against this one woman? There was a lot 218 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: of women with fully closed dresses and a lot of 219 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: women who were naked in their dresses. So I mean, 220 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 1: it's the difference, manya business right, I guess it's just 221 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 1: like the athlete husband, you know, that's probably what it 222 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: what it boils down to. But they don't even play 223 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: the same sport. Right, if y'all want to be that particular, 224 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:16,599 Speaker 1: find somebody in the NFL. Yeah, just leave it alone altogether, 225 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: right and moving right along. Black China took to the 226 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: Internet this past weekend and she had a message for 227 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: everyone that she was getting her butt reduced to a 228 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: normal size, in her breast reduced to a normal size, 229 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: and she also said that her fieler her face feelers 230 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: would be next to be removed. So I think the 231 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: era of overexaggerated asses and titties and faces kind of 232 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: dwindling down. What you think, I'm happy for it. So 233 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: we're gonna have an episode soon where we actually talk 234 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: about body dysmorphia and maybe some of the mental health 235 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: ship that surrounds that she's been going through therapy. Maybe 236 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: she um is now more accepting of who she really is. 237 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: Maybe um she has this stuff caused life threatening issues, 238 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: you know, especially with the button. Maybe it's just not 239 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 1: no longer trending. I don't know. I remember when Cardi 240 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: B first came out, when I first came out, once 241 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: she started like, because you know, to me, Cardi B 242 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: is one of the best dress in the industry. When 243 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: she got to hit the runway. I mean like it 244 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: hit a red carpet or song period, and I remember 245 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: her saying, like, you know, she wished she didn't get 246 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: the butt shots because now she wants to fit in 247 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: those nice dresses and stuff like that, and she can't 248 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: always fit into things. So I don't know, Um, I 249 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: don't know. If your body is naturally like that then this. 250 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 1: But to add all of that shit, it just it 251 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: does look crazy. And I feel like doctors should be 252 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 1: hell responsible for some of the botched shit because it 253 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: don't be matching oftentimes, right look crazy. I would suggest 254 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: against it. I have a friend who was a cosmetic 255 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: surgeon and she does like a lot of reconstruction, like 256 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: you know people have to breast cancer stuff like that, 257 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: but she doesn't do bbls. Yeah. Yeah, And BBLS is 258 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: really dangerous from what I understand, putting that fat in 259 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: your butt. Yeah, but they can't hit like a like 260 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: a major artery and it could go bad. Well. I 261 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: had my little cousin who actually got a BBL and 262 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: her body her the butt rejected the fat fans for 263 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: a year and so she ended up with all type 264 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 1: of infections and shit, had a hole in the top 265 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: of her ass they had to pack with gauds and 266 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 1: all type of ships. Yeah, that's a lot to go through. 267 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: You know what, I think social media we you know, 268 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: when we have that episode, I think we need to 269 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: go into how social media plays a huge, huge role 270 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: in people's body image. Absolutely absolutely so would you say 271 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 1: that Kardashians kind of started this thing? What we see now? 272 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 1: People been getting surgery, like I know people who have 273 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: had surgery fifteen years ago, but it ramped up at 274 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 1: some hip. I don't don't. I can't say they started it, 275 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:27,239 Speaker 1: but I think they're you know, huge platform made it 276 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 1: seem like very socially okay to do. Yeah. Yeah, because 277 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out like even the teeth, like 278 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: normal regular people wasn't getting like the teeth done and 279 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: all that shit ten ten years ago. Well they made 280 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: it so affordable. Now you can fly out there somewhere 281 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: and get you a new set of in a dinner 282 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: for six hundred dollars. I don't want those six hundred 283 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 1: dollars teeth. And then when you get back to the US, 284 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 1: ain't no dinners the fun with them? When they mess up, 285 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: just get them, like get the money, get your money. 286 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: Up and get the shit at home. You can get 287 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: the best, get the right ones. Because some of the 288 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: cheese I don't even think they like separate. I think 289 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 1: it's just one long piece they put in your mouth. 290 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: A lot of y'all look like y'all bite. Okay, I'm scared. 291 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: I hate that shit. I'm scared. Yeah, I don't know. 292 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 1: Love yourself. God damn it. Shit, I know it's hard sometimes. Yeah, yeah, 293 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: it's you know, everybody has like things they would like 294 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 1: to fix. Like, bitch, I'm definitely gonna get me some lightee. 295 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:39,439 Speaker 1: I've been saying that shit for years. I want my 296 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: broad fat gone. And I feel like, no, no matter 297 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: how much should I do in the gym, it just 298 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: it's just not going anymore. Yeah, So I definitely want 299 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 1: some light bul on my back. Other than that, I 300 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:54,360 Speaker 1: don't want to body fucking my shape up. I want 301 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 1: my double chin gone. That's I want the second one gone. 302 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 1: But I know it's probably like if I just lost 303 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: maybe like twenty pounds that ago. That's really what it 304 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 1: boils down to. Shit. Yeah, you got all these bitches 305 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: taking this um uh we go Vie and oz and 306 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: peak this uh diabetic U shot now for rapid Yeah, 307 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: I have some friends that are doing it, and I 308 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: did the research right and I advised against it. No, 309 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: I'm not a a licensed UM physician, but that shit 310 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: causes um thyroid cancer. UM. What else did I say? 311 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: It was a lot of different side effects. You know 312 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, No, you may not. It's not 313 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: worth it to me. It's not anyway, do what y'all 314 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: want to do? Moving along? This month, March is Woman's 315 00:19:55,640 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 1: History Month. So what we would like to do today 316 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 1: is talk about what a woman is exactly for the 317 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 1: month of March. Let's get into it, all right, y'all. 318 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: So listen, it is National Women's History Month March first 319 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: through March thirty first, and you know what it being. 320 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 1: You know, this national holiday that actually was invented I 321 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: think I read it was nineteen excuse seventy something or 322 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,239 Speaker 1: nineteen sixty something. Is when different states start adopting just 323 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: to try to, um, you know, showcase the women who 324 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 1: have contributed to American history, essentially women. Right, So with 325 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: this being a national holiday kind of gets me in 326 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 1: the mind of you know, and this day, twenty twenty three, 327 00:20:54,920 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: what is a woman is an actual question? People ask, 328 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: which is crazy because I thought I knew I had 329 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 1: to google it for this episode. I wasn't sure, a 330 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: bitch and all right, so I googled it and it 331 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 1: has two separate definitions. I can't so it said. A 332 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 1: biological definition of a woman is when sperm fertilizes an egg, 333 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: it's X or Y chromosomes combine with the X chromosome 334 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: of the egg. A person with XX chromosomes usually has 335 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: a female sex and reproductive organs, and it is therefore 336 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: usually a signed biologically female. You see how they do biologically? Yeah, 337 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 1: so you know this could be a joke, like men 338 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: could possibly just be a broken X. Yes, so everybody woman. 339 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: I know there has been things in the past where 340 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 1: people say, like everybody is a start out, yeah, and 341 00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: then the man, so who knows the fallas basically, maybe 342 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 1: being a man is a deformity of yo jokes. They 343 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: don't want to hear that. I was just arguing with 344 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: somebody online about how women used to like, as you know, 345 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 1: we evolved, but I believe it started female, Like there 346 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: had to be a woman, right because men cannot you 347 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: cannot like procreate with a sock. Okay, So Pat partheogenesis 348 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: is the process of a female organism reproducing by itself, 349 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 1: like a seahorse. Yes, like female seahorses in different yeah, 350 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: different animals in a while. Yeah, but I believe women 351 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: did it at one point. Y'all better hope we don't 352 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: learn how to man women like men are being born. 353 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 1: I look at like looked at some data, and there's 354 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: a lot of women being born like this last decade. 355 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: But you know what, I feel like women have always 356 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: outnumbered men. Crazy. It also said that a female human 357 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: being a person assigned a female sex at birth, or 358 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: a person who identifies herself as a woman, that's a female, 359 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: that is a woman. But if you look up man, 360 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: Claire cut Dry her adult male human being, so you 361 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: would have to one would have to try and figure 362 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: out why is it that it seems like there's an 363 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:28,200 Speaker 1: attack on the Why excuse me on the X. Why 364 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: is there an attack on women? Why is it like 365 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,679 Speaker 1: a Claire cut definition for man? Because I've said this before, 366 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: it's almost like this is the ultimate form of patriarchy 367 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 1: when a man can say bitch, I'm you because I 368 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: feel like it and people don't see this as patriarchy, 369 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 1: but it is to me, because you know the men 370 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: who were born female, they're I'll be pushing there. Yeah, 371 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 1: you don't even hear from them. Where are y'all? All right? 372 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 1: So also I google one other words, well, sis Jesus 373 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: gender gender identity. So, gender identity is a person's innate 374 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: sense of their gender, chiefly used in context where it 375 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: is contrasted with the sex registered for them at birth. 376 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 1: But now you have a judicial judicial system which legalizes 377 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: people changing their sex. Can they put it now on 378 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: their birth certificates? Can they change a birth certificate? Can 379 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: they change a driver's license? Or what's showing up on 380 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: these official documents? Is it what you were at birth? 381 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: Because now you're going to have to ask people what's 382 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: your what chromosome are you? What were you on your 383 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: birth certificates? Right? And you know a lot of you 384 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,199 Speaker 1: were born Yeah, a lot of trans people feel like 385 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: they don't have to disclose that. They're trends, like that's 386 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: the whole thing. Somebody seeing you physically and thinking that 387 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: you're a woman, that's what they go for. They're up. 388 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: You haven't seen that video on Instagram? It was a 389 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: Hispanic guy and maybe the lady was in the car 390 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: hispanic too, but it looked like a white woman. Oh man, right, 391 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,639 Speaker 1: arguing he was listen the guy. The woman in the 392 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: car was arguing with a Hispanic man outside the car, 393 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,159 Speaker 1: and she was like, what do I look like to 394 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: you when she turns the camera on herself? And transsexual? 395 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: I don't. They don't like the word transsexual, right, I don't. 396 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, I can't really. I wish we had 397 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: like a trays person on with us who could just 398 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 1: had a hand pamphlet or a booklet. We all to 399 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 1: make sure we you know, yeah, listen, nothing we say 400 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: here is meant to be offensive. It is meant to 401 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: be funny. That's it. Not even funny. We're trying to understand. Yeah, 402 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 1: but also I want to tell jokes, okay, yeah, I 403 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: want it needed to be funny too. I make light 404 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 1: of everything though, so don't take a personal right. So 405 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 1: the guy was like, you look like a man, and 406 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:01,880 Speaker 1: she was so upset because they want us to see 407 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: them in the way that they see themselves. But if 408 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 1: it's fair, right, No, it's not fair because I'm not 409 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 1: going to be delusional with you because you maybe you 410 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 1: don't have enough money to actually look like a woman 411 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,199 Speaker 1: and the way you want to You're six foot and 412 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: you're walking in look like a man to me. But 413 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: it's fair to want people to see you as you 414 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: see yourself, is what I'm saying. Not in this case, Tammy, 415 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying? You like you physically 416 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: present as a man, dressed as a woman, right, and 417 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: then you're upset with people who don't see you as 418 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: a woman. Exactly? How how am I now um being 419 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: disrespectful to you because I can't trick my mind to 420 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: see what you see? I told you once before, my homegirl, 421 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: she's a chiropractor, right. She has a client who is 422 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 1: a woman born a woman xx. She presents as a woman, right. 423 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 1: She's in a relationship with a trans woman, white trans woman, 424 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: which is a man, right, Genetically a man that's a 425 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 1: trans woman is a genetically a man. Right. But she 426 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 1: wants to be addressed as sir him he right. But 427 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,880 Speaker 1: she doesn't dress up like a man. She presents as 428 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: a woman. But I, in my mind have to look, 429 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,439 Speaker 1: have to go by your pronouns. But you look like 430 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: a woman, and you present like a woman. It's not 431 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: like she's presenting like a man to where I can 432 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: you know my mind? Am I click in my mind 433 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 1: to make sure I call him sir and stuff call 434 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 1: her sir. It's like, huh, it is hard. It is. 435 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 1: It is an adjustment that it's a new adjustment, and 436 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, but I mean, call people what they 437 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 1: want to be called, right, Yeah, I don't. I guess 438 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of those people in my life. 439 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,639 Speaker 1: And if I were to run into somebody in this 440 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 1: and they let you know what it is, of course 441 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do my due diligence to make sure I'm 442 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,479 Speaker 1: being respectful to them. But the thing is, I believe, 443 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: like just publicly online, the different conversations I see it, 444 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 1: or it gets to be disrespectful to actual women. Here's 445 00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,280 Speaker 1: the thing. Just don't be angry with me if you 446 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 1: see me trying. You know, it's one thing to be 447 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:23,440 Speaker 1: blatantly like just like fuck how you feel you a nigga? Right, 448 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: it's one thing, right. We ain't boostying, right, we ain't 449 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: boostying right. But if I'm out here trying to get 450 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 1: it right, but I'm sucking up because it's new, don't 451 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: be mean to me about it. That's not fair. Absolutely, 452 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: I'm not being mean to you about your shit. So 453 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, and as and as an 454 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: actual woman. If I say I don't want to be 455 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: called sists, seem like an actual woman, they would be 456 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: offended by that's their business. As an actual woman, I 457 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: don't want to be called sists. So at what point 458 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: do you respect my my um my stands. Yeah, I 459 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: don't like bitches in my dns tell about you my 460 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 1: favorite Auntie girl? Fuck you. I'm not your trans anti. 461 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: It's your mama's sister, not me, bitch. Listen, I met 462 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: this girl and her her instagram was Auntie. I'm not 463 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: gonna say her whole ship, but it starts off like 464 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: Auntie starch to such, I said, girl, if you don't 465 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 1: change your goddamn Instagram name, like, imagine your ship Auntie tam, 466 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: I don't play like that. And you and your third 467 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: only only bitches who only like just turned thirty call 468 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: theirself Auntie. Wish you're getting closer to forty? That is 469 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 1: like offense. Who are you talking to if I'm not 470 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 1: your Auntie? It's offensive? Right? Who are you talking to? Right? 471 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 1: I don't even like my nieces called me that called 472 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: me teamMy bitch William exactly, y'all can cust do what 473 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 1: the fuck you want because you're not my kids. No, 474 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: I don't let my nieces cut a little bit, but 475 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to keep it cute around me because 476 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 1: you will respect me. Like my sister. Y'all be power 477 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: tripping black mama's and black aunties, be pot triment, Like, 478 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that. I was talking to my 479 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 1: home girl a day and she was like, yeah, the 480 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 1: kids is mad because they had to go to school 481 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: and it's snowing. She was like, we live in New Jersey, 482 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 1: Like why they why it snows here all the time? 483 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: Type shit? I said, but you don't remember not wanting 484 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: to go to school, Like it's like work. They need 485 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: a break. Those kids be tired. She was like, well, 486 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: they just was off on Monday. I'm like, okay, have 487 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: you never wanted five days off from work for free? 488 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 1: Don't mean you get it so, but it is in 489 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: real life as a grown person. Stop acting like you 490 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:34,440 Speaker 1: don't remember not wanting to go to school. I remember 491 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 1: not wanting and I remember also still having to go, right, 492 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: but they can still come. I guess my thing is 493 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 1: is that I'm not about to like challenge my kid 494 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 1: on some shit that I did too as a child. 495 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like complaining, yes, shut the 496 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 1: fuck go to school. That's the eleventh commandment that I 497 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: should not. I'm playing back to women. Yeah, um, I 498 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: don't know. I wish things were much simpler, Like, you know, 499 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: some things are offensive being born a biological woman, like 500 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: giving Caitlyn Gender Woman of the Year. Lash Air was ayah, 501 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: it's her fault, but I think she got Woman of 502 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: the Year, but she did have like a sit down 503 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 1: with Michelle Obama last year during woman's history. Many it's 504 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: just kind of like, I mean, I understand, like things 505 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 1: are changing, but what about me? Can I be women 506 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 1: of something? They're gonna say, y'all have been women for 507 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 1: all of this time. Now, let us that's what we at. 508 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: That's crazy. It's it's a lot of things that I 509 00:31:53,440 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 1: just don't understand. Like I don't understand trans women participating 510 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: in sports with biological women when we know biologically that 511 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 1: trains women would be stronger physically than a woman, But 512 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: are they stronger than the men that they're competing with? 513 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 1: So now they couldn't compete with the men. So you 514 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: throw them with the women to beat up on the women, 515 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 1: and when like, fuck that is wild. That's not fair. 516 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't we can sit we all can sit in 517 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: that like this is normal, but it is not okay. No. 518 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: I think maybe their own like league. Yeah, and then 519 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 1: they would think that it is disrespectful because they identify 520 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,840 Speaker 1: as a woman, right but genetically like a woman can't 521 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: compete with you, not physically. Yeah, in the sports when 522 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: it comes to like wrestling and it's trans bitches is 523 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 1: beating our egg? Watch that. I'm sorry. I said, it's 524 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: not fair. It's not fair. And again we should be 525 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: able to talk about it as we talk and not 526 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 1: be mad at us for saying what everybody's thinking. Everybody's 527 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: thinking it okay, I said it. Fuck it. So, because 528 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 1: it is National Women's History Month, let's get some history 529 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: on exactly what that is. So as as recently as 530 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: nineteen seventies, women's history was virtually an unknown topic in 531 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: the K twelve curriculum or in general public consciousness. To 532 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 1: address the situation, that Education Task Force for Sonoma County, California, 533 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: commissioned on the Status of Women, initiated a Woman's History 534 00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 1: Week celebration for nineteen seventy eight. So this is how 535 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 1: long I feel like I've only heard about maybe I 536 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 1: don't know, last five years or so that I actually 537 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: heard about one of those history month year since we've 538 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 1: been podcasting, That's what I've been hearing about it. Yeah, 539 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: the day, March eighth, International Woman's Day was chosen as 540 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 1: a focal point for the observance. So so, Tammy All, 541 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 1: what is a woman to you? A woman to me 542 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: is my mama and my grandmother. I can speak to 543 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: a black women. I wanted to say a woman, I'll 544 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,359 Speaker 1: speak to a black woman. Unfortunately, I hate to say 545 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: strong black women because they I hate the term strong 546 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,720 Speaker 1: for a woman. But I feel like my my mother 547 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 1: and my grandmother had to be that. Uh. They were resilient, 548 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 1: loving and hard at the same time. Um, they bled 549 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 1: every month and you knew it sometime because they was 550 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 1: bitches during that time. I ain't gonna lie. Um. A 551 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 1: woman is birth in life to this earth, you know. 552 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 1: I think that's what a woman is. A woman is 553 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: a mother, woman is a sister, auntie, A woman is you? 554 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 1: A woman is me? Right? So that woman is who 555 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 1: gave gave birth to you. Yeah, you know, a lot 556 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: of people not to go back to the same topic, 557 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,279 Speaker 1: but you would not exist if it weren't for a woman, 558 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: right right, So to be dismissive of what an actual 559 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 1: woman is, UM, it's kind of wild. Um. So when 560 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 1: I think about woman, I definitely think about myself. I 561 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: think about my aunts, my mother, the actual women in 562 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: my life. You know, get mad at the word actual. Um. Again, 563 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 1: I don't like the strong Black women thrope. I feel 564 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: like it's not exclusive to just Black women. Women throughout 565 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 1: every culture, UM have had times where they had to 566 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: be super resilient. We're not in those groups, so we 567 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,840 Speaker 1: may not see but I don't hear other groups me 568 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,919 Speaker 1: used that word the culture, and it's kind of like 569 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 1: the reason why I hated The reason why I hate 570 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: it is because you know this is it was an 571 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,319 Speaker 1: Indian guy on YouTube a while ago, a video I 572 00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: listened to, and he was talking shit about like a 573 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:02,800 Speaker 1: women and how we like to say we're strong Black women. 574 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, just because you can have 575 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 1: a bunch of kids when no fathers and struggle to 576 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 1: take care of them and persevere doesn't make you a 577 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,080 Speaker 1: strong Black woman. So you put yourself in a situation 578 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 1: to have to struggle. What does that make you? Then 579 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 1: it definitely makes you a strong but shut the fucker. 580 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 1: It definitely makes you strong if you had to. And 581 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 1: he was talking about like how how other women from 582 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 1: other groups like they you know, their husbands are wealthy 583 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: this and the third like the people they choose to 584 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: have children with are not just leaving them with kids 585 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. So his whole stance was, you 586 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: put yourself in a position to have to be strong, Okay, 587 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: And what the fuck you say it's strong and strong? 588 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: I don't. I just don't want us to have to 589 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: be strong. I want us to live a soft life. 590 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,839 Speaker 1: I want Black women to be in reside in their 591 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: feminine energy and not if you're providing yourself. And I 592 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: think heaven saying that women are a strong black woman, 593 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 1: then other cultures view the head. And then now when 594 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: you're in a hospital and pay maybe like, but you're 595 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 1: a strong black woman, but other black people do that 596 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 1: to black people of black women as well, you realize 597 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 1: that it's not even just other groups of people, it's 598 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: everybody just does that to black women. We do it 599 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 1: to each other. Yeah, now you're in the hospital, hurting 600 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 1: and nobody recognizes your pain because because is actually built 601 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 1: off of us and how much you know end exactly 602 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:36,200 Speaker 1: some bullshit which we be in pain. Yeah, but yeah, 603 00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: So for me, um, yes, an actual woman, you have 604 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 1: to be able even if something happened and you haven't procreated, right, 605 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: there's a lot of signs going on right now. You 606 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: can have a child. So you have to have a 607 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: womb to be a woman made be functioning or not. 608 00:37:56,040 --> 00:38:00,080 Speaker 1: If you don't have a womb, you know, to me 609 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,160 Speaker 1: and my definition of what a woman is, you couldn't 610 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:07,839 Speaker 1: you couldn't be a woman. And that's okay, It's okay, Yeah, 611 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 1: I agree, it's fine. You know, how can we celebrate 612 00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 1: Women's History Month and we talk back? I guess it 613 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:19,440 Speaker 1: just you know, comes right after Black History Month or 614 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 1: we celebrate the different batties, so we can continue to 615 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: celebrate awesome ass women in a month of m March. Okay. 616 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 1: So I have somebody that I would like to celebrate 617 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,279 Speaker 1: for Women's History and I found this girl on a 618 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 1: little Duvall's page earlier. She is a pilot, a young pilot. 619 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: Her name is she Naya Noel and her Instagram y'all 620 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 1: should follow her is I am all right? So I 621 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 1: am n y A n o E L l E. 622 00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 1: I am Naya Noel. And this is a young young 623 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:02,359 Speaker 1: girl and baby she is lying these big ass Look 624 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 1: at this girl, y'all can't You can't see her, but 625 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 1: y'all go look at her Instagram. I can't tell. She 626 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 1: got the baby's little face. She looks very very young, 627 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 1: and she is a pilot and she just flew across 628 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: country and she is a beautiful young black woman and 629 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 1: she's getting to it and I love to see it. 630 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 1: And she started a little group called Pretty Pink Pilots. 631 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Even getting into air 632 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: traffic control if you're under thirty years old, because you 633 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: have there's an age limit to being um being be 634 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 1: in air traffic control, So I think you have to 635 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,279 Speaker 1: be younger than thirty. So if any of our listeners 636 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: that is a job. If you are into you know, 637 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 1: working for somebody, you're already gonna do it, get that 638 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 1: job because usually people will start that and then they 639 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 1: that's where they retire from there's an age limit. I 640 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: feel like more black people need to get into air 641 00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: traffic control. They make a lot of money as well, 642 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 1: and also in to being pilots, is there an awesome 643 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:07,319 Speaker 1: black person that's not exactly celebrated, like not someone that's 644 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,479 Speaker 1: a celebrity, a black woman that you or any woman, 645 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 1: let me not say, just black, that you would like 646 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 1: to celebrate today. Um, not off top of my head, 647 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:21,839 Speaker 1: I happen to see nobody flying a planes. Maybe not 648 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 1: not nobody, maybe maybe somebody that you know personally that 649 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 1: just like did something great that you just want to celebrate. 650 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,360 Speaker 1: You know, my best friend Priscilla, I'd like to celebrate her. Okay. 651 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,160 Speaker 1: Priscilla had two kids when we were in high school. Okay, 652 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: And when I tell you like this that this is 653 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: like a lot of people's stories, and I kind of 654 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: use her oftentimes, um, over the years for people when 655 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: I hear them complaining about certain shit like Priscilla did it, 656 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 1: I really be feeling like that about her because the 657 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: way she set her life up, even with having little 658 00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 1: small kids is a fuck amazing. So I don't want 659 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 1: to call her like the strong black woman, but she 660 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: would be that, yeah, you know what I'm saying. And 661 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:09,239 Speaker 1: actually her oldest child is my little cousin. Essentially, her 662 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 1: dad is my cousin and he's not the like she 663 00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 1: really did it by herself out here. I'm here a 664 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: lot of black women, so I want to celebrate my 665 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 1: best seat. So, y'all, if y'all know a woman that 666 00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 1: you love and you see her doing her thing, we 667 00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 1: challenge you to celebrate her. Send her lunch cash or 668 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: send her money, right, some good words of encouragement, just 669 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,440 Speaker 1: to let her know that you see her. So just 670 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 1: this one, say hi to every woman you see like, 671 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,920 Speaker 1: stop walking past each other, not speaking. Yeah, eye contact here, girl, 672 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 1: you look good girl? Y. Yes, I don't know. I'm 673 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: definitely one of those. I'm always like I will stop 674 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 1: a girl in the street like, oh ka, girl, I 675 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 1: see like girls okay, eyebrows okay baby here, I will 676 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: say all of that. Yeah, you make people day, right, Mary, 677 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 1: celebrate each other. So I challenge y'all to dudd watching 678 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 1: this episode, celebrate your sisters outside. What's your agenda to 679 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:16,319 Speaker 1: your sisters is celebrate them. I'm here for that. So 680 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,000 Speaker 1: when we come back from break, I do have a 681 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,880 Speaker 1: dumb bitch story. I can't wait to get into it. 682 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:25,279 Speaker 1: All right, We'll be right back to dumb bitch stories 683 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 1: because we've all been a dumb bitch at least once 684 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:33,319 Speaker 1: or twice, all right, So, and look, this girl sent 685 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,120 Speaker 1: me a damn picture at all, so I know what 686 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 1: the people look like. So, she says, been with this 687 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,360 Speaker 1: guy for about sixteen months. Me and his youngest BM 688 00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 1: have had words on two occasions. Their youngest kid is 689 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 1: almost five. She posted on Facebook an old video and 690 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,680 Speaker 1: pick from last year, saying, happy sixteen years, Happy birthday, 691 00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,919 Speaker 1: baby daddy. Y'all want him so bad, I'm cushan, I'm 692 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,360 Speaker 1: not going nowhere. That's the whole capture and of the 693 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 1: post for his birthday, right, She said. I told him 694 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: today he needs to tell her we are together and 695 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 1: the back and forth Facebook subliminal and BS need to 696 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 1: stop if he is serious about me, or go be 697 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: with her because I'm not going through this shit anymore. 698 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,480 Speaker 1: He says he has no problem with that, so we 699 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: shall see. But I feel like I'm right to give 700 00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: him an ultimatum after sixteen months. I've expressed the importance 701 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,759 Speaker 1: of boundaries before with their relationship, and I'm ready to 702 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,680 Speaker 1: walk away if he doesn't make the right, If he 703 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: doesn't make this right, even though I really want to 704 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,239 Speaker 1: be with him. What do you think? So and then 705 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: she sends like a picture of the guy with the 706 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:46,399 Speaker 1: post from the BM. So I asked her, like, how 707 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 1: many how many kids? How many bms? He has? Three 708 00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,280 Speaker 1: baby moms, five kids, last two are four and twelve 709 00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,759 Speaker 1: years old. Lady, yeah, must be what the youngest says. 710 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,879 Speaker 1: First of all, what grown? I mean? They just got 711 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 1: the one five year old? Sixteen years in and you 712 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: out here talking about you? Wait? Is that? What is that? 713 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 1: What I said her post? First of all, you are grown. 714 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,279 Speaker 1: You're an old ass lady because you've been working with 715 00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 1: somebody for sixteen years. How dare you call yourself Chrishan Khan? 716 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 1: That's who you say? Thirty five? Both her and the girl? 717 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: How are you talking about you? Krishan? That is a 718 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:26,399 Speaker 1: young girl trying to figure it out out here, like 719 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 1: she got a lot of trauma and a lot of 720 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,719 Speaker 1: you know, and that's what you're talking about. Look, I 721 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,800 Speaker 1: asked her, how the hell does she see the post? 722 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: She basically said, the girl has her block, or they 723 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,319 Speaker 1: have each other block. But you know she obviously if 724 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 1: you want to see my thing is why are you lurking? 725 00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,839 Speaker 1: If you weren't lurking, you would have never seen her 726 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 1: post at oh so it's on her page. It's on 727 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:52,839 Speaker 1: the baby mama's page. So don't post my nigga talking 728 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,319 Speaker 1: about that's her baby daddy. Don't post my nig girl. 729 00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,239 Speaker 1: We know what it is like. So, okay, you have 730 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: a decision to make. You don't have any kids with 731 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: this guy. He has three baby mamas? Are you strapping up? 732 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,360 Speaker 1: Are you trying to be the fourth baby mama and 733 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,000 Speaker 1: sixth with the sixth child? Right? Like? It really? Is 734 00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,000 Speaker 1: that what you want your life to be at thirty five? 735 00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:14,759 Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's what she wants. She says she 736 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 1: want to be with him, so that's what she's signed 737 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 1: up for. But there is a thing called boundaries and 738 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,839 Speaker 1: don't disrespect my relationship. He needs to check her, right absolutely, 739 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 1: So you know you can't you can't fault anybody outside 740 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 1: the relationship, right, So definitely, if it's a situation, he 741 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,399 Speaker 1: definitely needs to handle it, right. I don't like, I 742 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:41,400 Speaker 1: can't do you know what I want you to do? 743 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 1: You know exactly what the same shit you would want 744 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,319 Speaker 1: me to do if my baby daddy was doing that, right, yeah, 745 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,880 Speaker 1: like control your people, yeah, because no, she wouldn't be 746 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:54,400 Speaker 1: accepting that bullshit either, right, exactly. Yeah, so I don't know. 747 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:59,440 Speaker 1: I think he must be still sleeping with her. Yeah, 748 00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:01,319 Speaker 1: because yeah, where a man would probably be like, why 749 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:06,120 Speaker 1: are you posting that? Right? See, no bms, no mama's, 750 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:13,799 Speaker 1: no sisters, no problems, no baby mama, no sister, no mother. 751 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 1: Damn who I agree with me? Shut up? He fined 752 00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 1: too that, Derek Luke. Yeah, where is Derek Luke? We 753 00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: didn't say that in the last couple of years, Derek Luke. 754 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,920 Speaker 1: We want Derek Luke on the show. Come talk to us, Derek. 755 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,719 Speaker 1: We want to see where you've been at. I'm with 756 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: men when they say women are out here having kids 757 00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:40,959 Speaker 1: with men who already have kids, because there are. I'm 758 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: finding that there are some single men out here who 759 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 1: don't have kids, who haven't started a family, who you 760 00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,759 Speaker 1: can start a family with. You don't necessarily have to 761 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:51,200 Speaker 1: be with somebody who already has kids. But the older 762 00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:54,759 Speaker 1: we get, you know, the more difficult it becomes. Right. Yeah, 763 00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 1: So I told my guy friend he said he doesn't 764 00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,839 Speaker 1: want any more kids, and I was like, you know, 765 00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 1: most him and have kids, So you're gonna end up 766 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,040 Speaker 1: with somebody with kids helping take care of a kid. 767 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: That that isn't depending on how old he is and 768 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:12,280 Speaker 1: kids might be out of the house. Yeah, grown, big kids, 769 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: they still there, always be a child, but they're not. 770 00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 1: Let me let him, let him keep thinking that he 771 00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 1: got to be with a bitch with little kids, Okay, 772 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 1: because why not be with somebody who has your kid. 773 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm confused. You don't work out like that always anyway, girl, 774 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 1: run run, He's still fucking his baby mama. That's what 775 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,319 Speaker 1: I think too. Get up out of there. Still get 776 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: that man, ultimatum. Grown people don't do well with ultimatums. 777 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,399 Speaker 1: They are who they're gonna be. That situation was going 778 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 1: on prior to you, even though you've been there for 779 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:52,680 Speaker 1: sixteen months now, it may never change. So that means 780 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,759 Speaker 1: she would to fight by that nigga, you're hearing me 781 00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,359 Speaker 1: trying to fight, right, You're trying to fight. Can't you fight? 782 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 1: That's question? Can't you fight? Fight? Because that girl says 783 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 1: she'll fight. She beat your ass about her baby, daddy. 784 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,359 Speaker 1: Can't you fight? I'm not trying to fight at this 785 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,600 Speaker 1: age in my life. I'm not trying to fight by nobody. 786 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 1: Did you fighting? Can't get up the next day? You know, 787 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:17,160 Speaker 1: like you the last time I got in a fight, y'all. 788 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 1: I was in Live in Miami, of all places in 789 00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 1: the club, and we whipped out of a chance. But 790 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:28,840 Speaker 1: the next day I felt everything, that whole donkey kicking 791 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,760 Speaker 1: me in my ship. I was limped through the airport 792 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:38,919 Speaker 1: and trying to get kick backwards like that backwards, Yeah, 793 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: because I was in the back of the head, y'all. 794 00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:48,919 Speaker 1: We do not could violence. I was very young when 795 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,400 Speaker 1: that happened. Volens is sometimes and I was attacked, so 796 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 1: I was defending myself. I did not start anything. Let 797 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: me just put that out there. It's necessary sometimes. I 798 00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:06,760 Speaker 1: was a hacked in a rental dress. I was so mad. 799 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:12,120 Speaker 1: I'm so mad. I had risen this two thousand dollars 800 00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 1: dress for the night so I could be a bad 801 00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 1: bags father to night and that dress and it was 802 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,959 Speaker 1: one of my friends Beef. I didn't even know these girls. 803 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:25,080 Speaker 1: They were actually girls from New York. And my friend 804 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,880 Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, me and this girl got a 805 00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 1: situation or whatever. We don't get along. We're in a VP, chilling, 806 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:34,520 Speaker 1: having a good time, sparkly in my little rental dress 807 00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: and her the girl and her friend walk up and 808 00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,560 Speaker 1: you know, I'm on like I'm watching because I know 809 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:45,279 Speaker 1: it's smoked, right, um and y'all this is a long 810 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 1: time ago. Okay. So we're in the promoter section or whatever. 811 00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,920 Speaker 1: They come over. They're talking to the promoter. They were 812 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 1: sitting on the top of the couch. They one of 813 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 1: them climbs up into the couch. The other one is 814 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,280 Speaker 1: on the floor. So she keeps bumping into my friend, 815 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,839 Speaker 1: like on purpose, for real. So my friend was like, 816 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: please stop bumping me. Nothing disrespectful, Please stop bumping into me. 817 00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 1: So then I stood up. But I stood up like 818 00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,799 Speaker 1: on no aggressive shit. I just stood up because there's 819 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 1: a lot going on. So I stood up because I 820 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 1: was I was vulnerable sitting Right when I stood up, 821 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,360 Speaker 1: the friend that was standing on the floor punched me 822 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,800 Speaker 1: in the face soon as I stood up. Goddamn, on, 823 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 1: go on go. Just soon as I stood up, a 824 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 1: bitch hit me in my face. But little did they know, 825 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:32,759 Speaker 1: they thought it was just me and my homegirl in 826 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: the section. It was six to us. We just like 827 00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 1: me and my homegirl was sitting next to the promoter. 828 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 1: My sister was right next to me, sitting on the couch. 829 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,200 Speaker 1: And then I had full home girl sitting on the 830 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:46,400 Speaker 1: other It was a big ass couch, right, So I 831 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:50,040 Speaker 1: got hit. I turned, I got hit. My sister was like, 832 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 1: you hit my soul bitch right in the side of 833 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,479 Speaker 1: her face. And it was just on. It was a 834 00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 1: melee in that big motor just got up and walked away. 835 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 1: He's just like, this is ran. I'm disgusted. I was, Yeah, 836 00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 1: I was disgusted because that's not why I came. I 837 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:08,919 Speaker 1: came to have a good time. Did you fucking people 838 00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 1: dress up? Though? Yes? Did you return it? Fucked up? 839 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 1: I had to pay for it. It was ruined. It 840 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 1: was ruined. You should have took them the court for 841 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 1: that dress. That would have been a nice ass judge 842 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 1: Joe Brown or one of them judges I should have. 843 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,400 Speaker 1: That would have been because I actually was like like 844 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: an executive for Hennessy or something. Oh no, oh girl, 845 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,799 Speaker 1: I would have random muck on her ass. You. I mean, yeah, 846 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:37,200 Speaker 1: I should have the girl who hit you? Yeah, oh no, bitch, 847 00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 1: when I tell you the man letter, I would have 848 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 1: send that bitch of the man letter so fucking fat. 849 00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,839 Speaker 1: And I think she like got on Twitter talking about like, 850 00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,799 Speaker 1: oh yeah, her red bottles was fake because it was 851 00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: rubbing off. I was like, no, I rubbed that shit 852 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:55,399 Speaker 1: off on your forehead, bitch, the red bottom, the red 853 00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 1: was rubbing off on her. Yeah, the red bottom comes 854 00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,759 Speaker 1: off the shoe. That hadn't said that way. We're talking 855 00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,399 Speaker 1: about beating bitches up for Women's History Month. This is all. 856 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 1: It's a part of women's history all my life. I 857 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:14,879 Speaker 1: had what We don't do that anymore here we talked back. 858 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,280 Speaker 1: That is a story from very early, like late twenties 859 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:23,520 Speaker 1: in Miami. So shit that love stories. That was funny 860 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 1: as hell. Man, but girl lead that nigga, right man? 861 00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,000 Speaker 1: We need to do like seed dating, don't speed friends. 862 00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,479 Speaker 1: We're gonna do a speed dating and speed friends. What's 863 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:36,200 Speaker 1: the speed friends? Like making girlfriends? Yeah, that would be nice. Yes, 864 00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 1: we can host that in Charlotte for a day. Let's 865 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:42,400 Speaker 1: do speed friends for what History Month. I'm here for that. 866 00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 1: It's little, it's little. Do you have any last words? 867 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 1: I feel like that's a new segment we need to 868 00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:51,239 Speaker 1: add to the show. Like since we talk back, and 869 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:57,359 Speaker 1: we always got to have the last words. Uh, love 870 00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 1: your sisters, love your women, love the women in your 871 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 1: in your life, call them today and give them some 872 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 1: nice words of encouragement because we'll be going through it. 873 00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,520 Speaker 1: We'll be going through it. Call your friends, Call your mama, 874 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,600 Speaker 1: Call your aunt who've been fucking with her baby daddy 875 00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 1: for the last thirty five years, and shit like, call 876 00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 1: all the women you love. That's my last word. Call 877 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,279 Speaker 1: your home girl that's still shouting her baby daddy, y'all 878 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: talking about sixty years and she krew shun her rock 879 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 1: her ass. She needs a love. And then also show 880 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,399 Speaker 1: love to our trades women, because I have friends who 881 00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:36,880 Speaker 1: are trains women and I love y'all, so you know, 882 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 1: I'm still trying to understand. I don't get it all 883 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,080 Speaker 1: the way yet, and that's okay. I want to. And 884 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,680 Speaker 1: we got love for y'all too, So love everybody out here. 885 00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 1: Women's mom Yay, that was nice. You're so smart. Anyway, y'all, 886 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,719 Speaker 1: I enjoyed this episode. If you enjoyed this episode, please 887 00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,880 Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on your iHeartRadio Apple wherever the 888 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,719 Speaker 1: fuck you get your podcast at s your co host 889 00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:05,280 Speaker 1: aj Holiday y'all follow me on Instagram. It's Aja Holiday 890 00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:09,880 Speaker 1: two point oh. Check out we talk back unt dot 891 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:14,080 Speaker 1: com when you got tam what else? I'm official tam 892 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:16,759 Speaker 1: Bam on Instagram, y'all following me. I love y'all once again. 893 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,359 Speaker 1: I want y'all to know that I really do love 894 00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: y'all and I appreciate y'all so much for tuning in 895 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 1: every weekend, talking shit with us, and trying to learn 896 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:26,680 Speaker 1: and understand with us. I love y'all. Thank y'all for ttuning, 897 00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 1: and remember to speak now and never hold your piece, Duces,