1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,000 Speaker 1: Speaks to the planet. 2 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 2: I go by the name of Charlamagne Tha God and 3 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 2: guess what, I can't wait to see y'all at the 4 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: third annual Black Effect Podcast Festival. That's right, We're coming 5 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: back to Atlanta, Georgia, Saturday, April twenty six at Pullman 6 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: Yards and it's hosted by none other than Decisions, Decisions Man, 7 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 2: DyB and Weezy Okay now look, tickets are on sale now. 8 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: We got the R and B Money podcast with taking 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: Jay Valentine. We got the Woman of All podcast with 10 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 2: Sarah Jake Roberts. We got Good Mom's Bad Choices. Carrie 11 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 2: Champion will be there with her next sports podcasts and 12 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 2: the Trap Nerds podcast with more to be announced. And 13 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 2: of course it's bigger than podcasts. We're bringing the Black 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 2: Effect Marketplace with black owned businesses plus the food truck 15 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: court to keep you fed while you visit us. All right, listen, listen, listen. 16 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: You don't want to miss this. Tap in and grab 17 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: your tickets now at Black Effect dot Com. Flash Podcast. 18 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 3: Jewis I'm a homegrow that knows a little bit about 19 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: everything in every body. 20 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 2: You know, if you don't lie about that, right, Lauren 21 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: can't even hot. 22 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, It's Lauren le Rosa. 23 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 3: I'm your homegirl that knows a little bit about everything 24 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 3: and everybody. You are now tuned into the latest with 25 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 3: Laura Rosa. Now this is like your daily dig on 26 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: everything pop culture and all of the conversations that shake 27 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 3: the room right here with me every single day, six am, period. 28 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 3: So you're gonna start with a check in. When you grinding, 29 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: y'all know, it's token brown girl grinding. That is when 30 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 3: you see me. That is what you know me as. 31 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 3: That's what you identify me as. When you are brown 32 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 3: girl grinding or grinding in general. You don't gotta be 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 3: a girl when you grinding in general. Sometimes you need 34 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 3: like that whole check on your strong friend thing. So 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 3: I always want to do a check in. It's me 36 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 3: and Patrick. Can hear Patrick say, what's up to the people? 37 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 4: People? 38 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: I want to know Patrick, how are you feeling, like 39 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: really feeling today? 40 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 4: Feeling inspired? 41 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: What you inspired by? 42 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 4: Inspired for new opportunities, inspire for this show and where 43 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 4: we're going with it. And today I feel like today's 44 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 4: gonna be something interesting for for your listeners. Yeah, we 45 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 4: got it, you know we're getting it. Together the vibes 46 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 4: going today's okay, I'm feeling your. 47 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: Energy, okay, going for you. 48 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 3: So I'm feeling centered today, like I feel like when 49 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 3: I say centered, I also mean alignment. And I think 50 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 3: that's important as a creator, as a human being, as 51 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: you know, a woman, a god, or y'all watching a man, 52 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 3: a guy, whoever you are. I think it's very important 53 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 3: for people to get to a place of centering and alignment. 54 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 3: And I will say that I've realized that that looks 55 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 3: different at different levels, phases and times and seasons of 56 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 3: your life. 57 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: But you use the. 58 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 3: Same tools to get back to the things, like to 59 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 3: keep the main thing the main thing, but it changes. 60 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: Does that happen with you sometimes? 61 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Just suggesting just being able to kind of like 62 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 4: go with how everything else is moving. 63 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: You know, Yes, adjust when you need to. 64 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 3: And that's a big part of this episode, episode eleven, 65 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 3: New Levels, New Devils, adjusting when you need to. And 66 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 3: now let's get into some of the trending topics. I 67 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 3: want to start out talking about some legal drama. So 68 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: you know, your girl love to take y'all a court, 69 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: lot to take y'all a court. Okay, So DMX's estate 70 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 3: has been in a very long term intellectual property feud. 71 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: Now this feud is over control over his estate. So 72 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: currently Desiree Lyndstrom, who is who was DMX's fiance at 73 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 1: the time of his passing. Her and dmxi's ex wife, Tashira, 74 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: who we all know, uh, you know, DMX spent decades 75 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: of his life with Tashier. She is the mother of 76 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: you know, his kids. Desiree is also the mother of 77 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: his last kid, his son. But they've been in this 78 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: back and forth battle. Now the battle again. 79 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 3: I mentioned that he died without a will, so there 80 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 3: has been some conversation just about who has ownership and 81 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 3: what that looks like over his state, which ultimately is 82 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 3: his legacy as an artist. So a judge ruled recently 83 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 3: that DMX's ex wife, to Share has no ownership over 84 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: his music rights or trademarks. Now, in twenty sixteen, to 85 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: Share claimed that a divorce settlement that her and DMX 86 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: had entitled her to fifty percent of DMX's intellectual property. 87 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: Now that would mean that she would be able to 88 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: make decisions on things as far as like licensing and 89 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 3: you know, just a lot of a lot of things. 90 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: And y'all know you know, after DMX passed away, I 91 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 3: think that there was like there was such a want 92 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 3: and a need for people to learn his story, learn 93 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: more about him. I think a lot of us. He's 94 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 3: my favorite rapper. I listened to how it was going 95 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: down every single day. 96 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: If you really know me, you know this. 97 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 3: It's like a common fact amongst anybody who actually really 98 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 3: knows me. As I've gotten older, I went from looking 99 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 3: at DMX as this rapper who was so hot and 100 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 3: lost it on, like oh my god, like a failure story, 101 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 3: to that's a story of you know, encouragement and courageousness 102 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 3: and just the talent of DMX and how he saved 103 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 3: death Jim and you know, all of that stuff. People 104 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 3: want to hear more about that, They want to see 105 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 3: more about it. So anybody right now that is deemed 106 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 3: in control of the you know, the rights to be 107 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 3: able to tell his story, to use his likeness to 108 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 3: very hot commodity. So the court declared that DMX's estate 109 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 3: is going to remain exclusively the owner of all of 110 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: his copyrights, his trademarks, and anything else that is tied 111 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 3: to DMX's name and work, including those created during his 112 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 3: marriage with Tashira, this was a big blow so to 113 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 3: Share and DMX were married from nineteen ninety nine to 114 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 3: twenty fourteen. I watched the interview that Sashia did with 115 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 3: Carlos King. I know she also did a sit down 116 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 3: with me a Belle for BT Talks, and she has 117 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: a book out right now. Her book is all about, 118 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 3: you know, her life for real, her upbringing. 119 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: Who she is. But DMX and their love. 120 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 3: Story played a huge role in a lot of that 121 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 3: because of the amount of time they spent together. For me, 122 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 3: when I thought about DMX, his legacy, his life story, 123 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 3: and who would be in control of it, I just 124 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 3: naturally always thought that it was to cheer. But then 125 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 3: we found out that he died with no will, so 126 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 3: he didn't get to make that decision for himself. So 127 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: a judge is basically saying, like tashar, no, we're gonna 128 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 3: put it over here. And Desiree, who would have been 129 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: his Mexican once he passed away, because they were together, 130 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 3: she is now in control now. Desiree posted on Instagram. 131 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 3: You know this was three days ago when the ruling 132 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 3: came down. 133 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: Patrick. What does her Instagram paption say? 134 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 4: I'm overwhelmed with emotions. Sasha and I who run the 135 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 4: state at forced synally for so long to protect Earl, 136 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 4: his legacy and his art. Now justice has finally been served. 137 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 4: The court's decision is more than just a legal win 138 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 4: in a moment of peace in the middle of so 139 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 4: much pain. 140 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. 141 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 3: So, I just remember the time period, and I remember 142 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 3: there being conversation or background reports. Again, it's this all 143 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 3: alleged and reportedly that Tashira sent into a big DMX's 144 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: wife for some time and mother of his kids. 145 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: And Desiree were not seeing out of eye on a 146 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: lot of things. 147 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 3: Now I read to you guys what Desiree said on 148 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 3: her Instagram after this ruling came down. I actually reached 149 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 3: out to a rep for t Shira who sent me 150 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 3: a statement from Tshira on this whole thing. The statement said, 151 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: from to Shira, this evil is too big for a statement. 152 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 3: I'll be sharing everything with the world on my upcoming show. 153 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 3: So she has a show that she's you know, coming 154 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 3: out with again. I mentioned to you guys that she 155 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 3: also dropped a book. But in this ruling, another part 156 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 3: of the dispute was centered around there's these like five 157 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 3: letters of direction that DMX signed before his death, so 158 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,239 Speaker 3: there was no real will, but there were these letters 159 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 3: that DMX before his death tried to put into place 160 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 3: so that, you know, people could have something to like 161 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 3: guide themselves by. And here's the catch, though, Tashira was 162 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 3: basically saying, okay, based off of our divorce, you know, 163 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 3: in our marriage like agreements in these five letters, I 164 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 3: should be entitled to ABC and D. 165 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: A judge looked at those and said no. 166 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 3: According to these five letters that dmxign before his death, 167 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: they only gave these letters only gave instruction about royalty 168 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 3: payments to be split with to share for specific recordings. Now, 169 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 3: these recordings that the judge is referencing were made between 170 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 3: nineteen ninety eight and twenty thirteen, so during the time 171 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 3: of their marriage. Basically, this was you know, DMX's way 172 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 3: of ensuring that she would get money from certain things 173 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 3: that he had done while they were together. But it 174 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 3: didn't ensure and it doesn't ensure ownership or like leadership 175 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 3: or say so over something as big as the estate. 176 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 3: So as y'all can imagine, this is a devastating hit 177 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: for Tashira. But Desiree, you know who was his you know, 178 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 3: new life partner was his new life partner at the time. 179 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 3: Of course, she's looking at this as a win because 180 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 3: I don't think anybody in this those two women who 181 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: love him and if he was here, he wouldn't want 182 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 3: them to be beefing, you know what I'm saying. So 183 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: I think for both of them are like, Okay, this happened, 184 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 3: We got to turn the chapter. But there will be 185 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 3: more coming out about this. As you guys heard from Tashia, 186 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 3: like you know, it doesn't seem like she's done talking 187 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 3: about her side of things and what that back and 188 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 3: forth was. But the biggest thing to me here is 189 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: the fact that these women got kids, their kids are siblings. 190 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: They gonna have to figure this on out. 191 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 2: Now. 192 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: Topic number two Wendy Williams. 193 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 3: This week, there were a ton of stories and reports 194 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 3: that dropped around Wendy Williams this week. So on every 195 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 3: ninth there was a story that broke that Wendy Williams 196 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 3: was denied the ability to do dinner with her niece 197 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 3: in her attorney Joe Takapina. Now for background, and the 198 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: reason why this is so crazy is because probably about 199 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 3: a month ago, I reported on the fact that the 200 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 3: judge in Wendy Williams situation made it very clear that 201 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 3: Wendy was allowed because you remember Wendy came on or 202 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 3: and I came on, but she called into the breakfast 203 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 3: club and she said, y'all'm in a prison. I can't 204 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 3: go now where I can't see nobody. 205 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: Y'all know. 206 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 3: I went to where she's stay. They wouldn't let me 207 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 3: up to see it. They wouldn't let her down to 208 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 3: see me. The conservatives and the judge came out and said, no, 209 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: she's allowed to see family, she's allowed to go out. 210 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: She's very monitored. So then this story breaks. 211 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 3: On on April ninth, that Wendy Williams is not allowed 212 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 3: to do dinner with her attorney and her niece. So 213 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 3: her new attorney, her personal attorney, Joe Takapina a sapt Joe, 214 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 3: he just you know, defeated you know, the prosecutor's office 215 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 3: and got asap Rocky off on those gun charges. It 216 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 3: makes no sense. It's like at her niece, it's her attorney, Like, 217 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 3: why not she's been able to move around with her 218 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,839 Speaker 3: other attorney when she had the black woman a personal 219 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,680 Speaker 3: attorney that she had been you know, talking to so 220 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 3: it made no sense. And then after that we then 221 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 3: saw photos literally like I think this was like the 222 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: eleventh So a few days after this, we didn see 223 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 3: photos of Wendy out with Don Lemon and her niece 224 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 3: Alex Finney, which is weird because it's like, Okay, why 225 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 3: can't she do dinner with Alex in her attorney, but 226 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 3: she can do dinner with Alex and Don Lemon? It 227 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 3: almost is given, like Okay, wait, is the conservativeship trying 228 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 3: to block Joe Tacopina out at least because they can't 229 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 3: control Wendy's calling them you know what I mean, things 230 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:11,439 Speaker 3: like that, but trying to block him out as much 231 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 3: as they can. And the reason why people are like, hey, 232 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 3: is this should we be worried? Is this retaliation against Wendy? 233 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 3: Is because not only did the judge and the conservativeship 234 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 3: come out and say Wendy's allowed to go out and 235 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 3: do dinner with her niece and you know these people 236 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 3: as it's approved now TMZ broke this story. But we 237 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 3: had been you know, and I say we like the 238 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 3: Breakfast Club, We had been in a know of this 239 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 3: for some time that Joe Tacapina was approached by the 240 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 3: conservator who wanted Joe Tacopina to represent Sabrina Morrissey in 241 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 3: this A and E lawsuit. So instantly, when you know 242 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 3: all of that background and you see that he can't 243 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 3: do dinner, or from what it looks like reportedly, he 244 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 3: can't do dinner, you're like, is this a retaliation thing? 245 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 3: Especially after a judge came out and said, you know, 246 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 3: they didn't like the fact that Whendy was speaking to 247 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 3: the media. They allowed Sabrina Morrissey to talk on record 248 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: when she wasn't allowed to talk on record for a 249 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 3: while about the conservatorship because they felt like she talking 250 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: but from our standpoint, what she's alleging is not true, 251 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 3: So they let Sabrina come out to clarify some things. 252 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 3: There was a letter that was sent, you know what 253 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 3: I mean, There was There was a lot of different 254 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 3: things that happened, so you could tell the judge was 255 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: pissed off. The same week that all this happens, the 256 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 3: denial for the dinner, her being able to pop out 257 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 3: with Don Lemon. It is then reported that Wendy Williams 258 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,679 Speaker 3: is in court and a judge allegedly tells Wendy Williams. 259 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 3: Your career is over and it's not coming back, so 260 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 3: give that up, which sounds very personal, which the judge 261 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 3: is not a person that works in entertainment. I will 262 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 3: tell y'all my own self from me being, you know, 263 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 3: just close to this situation. I don't think that these 264 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 3: people knew who Wendy Williams was to us in the 265 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 3: beginning of this. I think that they realized that when 266 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 3: she did the Breakfast Club interview. They realized that, and 267 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 3: you know the interviews that came after that, But I 268 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 3: don't think that they understood who Wendy Williams was, you know, 269 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 3: just culturally right. So I reached out to Joe because 270 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, look, Joe, I need to know what's going 271 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 3: on and why does this look like this is retaliation? 272 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 3: Here on the Latest with Laura Rosea the podcast, I'm 273 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: telling y'all from what I'm being told, how it looks 274 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 3: is not exactly what it is, and it needs to 275 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 3: be explained a bit more. 276 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: On the Breakfast Club. We're gonna do that. 277 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 3: Joe Tucapina is gonna call in during the last with 278 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 3: Lawna Rosa and he's gonna clarify this because right now, 279 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: we feeling like our girls being targeted and I don't 280 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 3: don't I don't know about y'all, but I don't like 281 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 3: that right wrong, aren't different. I think anybody that is 282 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: in a situation where they are like almost like helpless 283 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 3: because of their mental capacity there like just sold many things, y'all. 284 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 3: Like I I've told y'all multiple times, I'm a caregiver 285 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 3: my mother and my grandmother. I wish somebody would you 286 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 3: leaning on the fact of what they cannot do. And 287 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 3: I'm not saying that this is what the judge is doing. 288 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, guys, how it feels and how it 289 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 3: looks to Wendy's fans and her audience, which is why 290 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 3: you keep asking me to provide context. 291 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 1: And we are going to do that tomorrow morning on 292 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. So you got the little breakdown here. 293 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, guys what I've been told as far 294 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 3: as like when we put all these reports together, make 295 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 3: sure you tune in to Lace with Lorna. 296 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: Rosea on the Breakfast Clup tomorrow and we'll clarify. 297 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: Now. 298 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:18,079 Speaker 3: There's one thing though, I did want to mention Don Lemon. 299 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 3: He has you know, his show that he does on 300 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 3: his YouTube channel now after leaving CNN, but he has 301 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 3: this like written newsletter that he does on substack. I 302 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 3: thought that this was really good, especially in lines of 303 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 3: what we're talking about today of like, you know, new levels, 304 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 3: new devils, being able to just kind of like adjust 305 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: and grow and feel and just how that flows and 306 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 3: how that makes you feel. Patrick, can you read that 307 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 3: first graph from me from a don limit Substack. 308 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 4: We don't talk enough about what it means for women, 309 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 4: especially women in the spotlight, to age on their own terms, 310 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 4: to be seen without being picked apart. There's this outdated 311 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 4: idea that if you're not chasing youth, you're letting yourself go, 312 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 4: But what if you're just letting yourself be? 313 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 3: Now that to me that hit home, especially in recapin 314 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: it's whole Wendy Williams situation and just you know where 315 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 3: I'm at today as we're recording and when he talks about, 316 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 3: you know, women being seen without being picked apart, there's 317 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 3: an outdated idea that if you're not chasing youth, you're 318 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 3: letting yourself go, But what if you're just letting yourself be? 319 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 3: To me, it's not even about a number of an age. 320 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 3: It's about chasing a trend. It's about, you know, feeling 321 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 3: like you gotta fit within this box or just check 322 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 3: a box for things to work out. And I know 323 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 3: from my own personal experience that you do, especially if 324 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 3: you're a woman, you feel like if you're not the 325 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: hottest topic and everybody's not like everything's not all good, 326 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 3: it's all bad and it's not. Sometimes being able to 327 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 3: sit in things and sit in life experience and going 328 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 3: through the things and doing it in front of people 329 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 3: is tough. It is really tough to learn and grow 330 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 3: and all that here on this platform with you guys 331 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 3: in front of the world. But the record, like the 332 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 3: reckoning that you learn from doing it, and for where 333 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 3: Wendy is right now in her life, Me and Charlemagne 334 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 3: and Wendy went out to dinner with her with her 335 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 3: niece Alex and there were some things that she said 336 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 3: to us that I was just like man number one, 337 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 3: I don't want to have to go through some of 338 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 3: the things she went through to get to this point 339 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 3: of reckoning. I want to be able to catch you early. 340 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 3: But also it was just like man, that was deep, 341 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 3: Like Wendy's different right now. The way life will sit 342 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 3: you down and humble you. But that era of just 343 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 3: being is so good, and I'm excited to see that. 344 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 3: Judge said her career is over. I don't believe that. 345 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 3: I'm excited to see what Wendy comes back with and 346 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 3: does once she gets through all of this and figures 347 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: it out, because you know it's gonna be some hiccup. 348 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 3: Just real quick. I saw this video of Serena Williams 349 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,359 Speaker 3: on my timeline. She had sat down with People magazine. 350 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 3: She did an exclusive chat with People magazine. She was 351 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 3: at the she was at like a beauty shopify like 352 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 3: pop up, and they were talking to her just about 353 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 3: being the let's take a. 354 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 5: Listen your boss. 355 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: What does it cost you and. 356 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:06,640 Speaker 5: Has it been worth it? 357 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? 358 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 5: It definitely costs a lot. I'm here now without my kids, 359 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 5: and that's a big cost for me because I spend 360 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 5: a lot of time with my children and they're very 361 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 5: attached to me, which a pardon it loves and so 362 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,719 Speaker 5: it's always, you know, some costs my whole life. I've 363 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 5: had to kind of way like, if I want to 364 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 5: win a championship, well, what is that going to cost me? 365 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 5: It's going to cost me time, with my family. It's 366 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 5: gonna cost me friends instead of cost me relationships, and 367 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 5: they're very expensive. We have decided it's worth it for you, 368 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:33,880 Speaker 5: and so I definitely. 369 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: Agree with that. 370 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:38,239 Speaker 3: Saym let me tell y'all something. Go on, watch our 371 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 3: vlog on my YouTube channel, Laura La Rosa TV. We' 372 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 3: vlogged every time we record an episode on a Sunday, 373 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 3: We're going vlog it. And I've been doing vlogs on 374 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 3: my YouTube channel for a minute. But I was like, 375 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 3: I was like, yo, it's nine o'clock. I know my 376 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: grandmother's going to sleep. I'm not using not being able 377 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: to talk to my mom and my grandmother every day, 378 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 3: but because things have changed where I have so much 379 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 3: more going on now these last couple weeks, it's been 380 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 3: happening and it's been tearing at my heart because, like 381 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 3: Lord knows, they depend on hearing from me and depend 382 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 3: on me so much. 383 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: When I saw this video, I was like, oh. 384 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 3: My god, I feel seen like I like I hear her, 385 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,399 Speaker 3: but I also it made me think about so much, 386 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 3: like because family time and the things that make her 387 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 3: feel full, it's literally like that's her sacrifice for where 388 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 3: Serena Williams is in her career today. But I remember 389 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 3: when Serena Williams made the decision to like step away 390 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 3: from tennis and focus on being a mom and a 391 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 3: wife and all of these things. 392 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: People were like, Yo, she crazy she did. But it's 393 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: like I think people in general. 394 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 3: I don't think it's just women that have to pick 395 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 3: and choose and have the sacrifice and make things better 396 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,239 Speaker 3: and to you know, level up the way that they 397 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 3: want to. But I do think that it hits women 398 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 3: harder because a lot of times we are the backbone, 399 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 3: like in a nurturing way, like men are the backbone 400 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 3: as a provider financially as a strength, but women in 401 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 3: a way that we provide as a backbone. And it 402 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 3: was strength and nurturing and we have the kids, were 403 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:08,959 Speaker 3: taking care of home. It's so much, it's so different, 404 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 3: like sometimes it halts us. It's like you have to 405 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 3: choose between the things. And these last couple of weeks 406 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 3: for me, I've been not good at choosing between the 407 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 3: things until I was like, you know what, I'm gonna 408 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 3: take control back. 409 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 1: I am. 410 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 3: Charlemagne said something to me last week that made me 411 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 3: be like, who what we were talking about? You know, 412 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 3: just some decisions that he makes day to day in 413 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 3: his career when it comes to doing things he doesn't 414 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 3: want to do. And he was telling me a story 415 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:37,199 Speaker 3: about you know, you know, him making a choice and 416 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 3: being like, in the moment, I don't want to do this, 417 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 3: so why am I doing it? And he just didn't 418 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 3: do it, and I was like, well, you can do 419 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 3: that because you're Charlemagne, the god Louren l Rosa is 420 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 3: still building. I'm trying to get to my cost to 421 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:52,120 Speaker 3: be the boss moment, like Serena Williams. I'm figuring it out. 422 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 3: And he was like, yeah, but like you can still 423 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 3: choose and I do things you don't want to do. 424 00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 3: At the end of the day, you're still at a 425 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:01,959 Speaker 3: sp where you can make that choice and it creates 426 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 3: a pattern and a rhythm of what people will bring 427 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 3: to you and what you allow to happen. 428 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 1: And you should do that. 429 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 3: You should set that boundary now because if not, you're 430 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 3: gonna find yourself in the space of doing things you 431 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 3: don't want to do and just fall into the motional 432 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 3: things and sacrificing things you don't want to sacrifice. You 433 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 3: have to sacrifice, But y'all get my gist of what 434 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 3: that conversation was. So when I saw this video and 435 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 3: I thought about all the topics I wanted to do today, 436 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 3: I thought about how different it is for me. Like 437 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 3: I'm a young creator, it's twenty twenty five. I've been 438 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 3: granted the opportunity of platform. I've been blessed to be 439 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 3: in a space where I can curate what this looks like, 440 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 3: what this feels like, and how y'all get it from me. 441 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 3: So my sacrifice is going to still have to be 442 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 3: sacrificed some time. I'm not gonna get back. So I 443 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 3: thought that this video was a great way to end 444 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 3: the show because again, it makes me think of so 445 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 3: many different things. It makes me feel so many different 446 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:50,400 Speaker 3: ways too. 447 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 4: So what we takeing away from episode eleven, Laurn. 448 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 3: So from episode eleven, we're gonna take it, you know, 449 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 3: for the tweets, for the tweets segment. You're gonna bring 450 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 3: this whole thing to get their new levels new Devils, 451 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 3: I had tweeted a couple of days ago. Every level 452 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 3: of growth requires change and adjustment. And when I think 453 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 3: about like Wendy, I feel like she sacrificed her ability 454 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 3: to really live for career, like to really really live 455 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 3: life for her career. And you know, she's in her 456 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 3: readjustment stage because she's learning now that just being and 457 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 3: sitting still and being able to live and remember that 458 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 3: everybody's living too. That's her new phase of career. Serena 459 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:31,880 Speaker 3: Williams had to sacrifice her family, but now in her 460 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 3: new life, she's prioritizing family, the things that make her 461 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 3: feel whole. DMX's family, as I mentioned, had to on 462 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 3: so many different levels sacrifice the ability to adjust because 463 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 3: he was young, he was figuring it out. Resources were different. 464 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 3: Up until the day he passed away. I think things 465 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 3: were just still figuring and it was new levels and 466 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 3: new devils and new people and knew all of this. 467 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 3: And you know, like today, in this episode and just 468 00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 3: in this moment where I'm at today, what I've learned 469 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 3: is that adjustment is necessary. 470 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 1: You can't escape it. But in learning that, I'm feeling 471 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 1: like a sense of. 472 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 3: Like renaissance from this episode of you know, I want 473 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 3: to make a way. I want to make a space 474 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 3: for those people who are adjusting in real time, learning 475 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 3: to live in real time, learning to utilize their resources 476 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 3: in real time, but not always getting it right because 477 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 3: we're not gonna always get it right. And when we don't, 478 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 3: use that as an inspo. Baby, that's the vision board, 479 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 3: that's the pinterest, that's the move board. Use that refuel, 480 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 3: come back stronger than ever pop out, you know what 481 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 3: I mean. 482 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: Like, we don't gotta in today's. 483 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 3: Time, you don't have to fully lose grip before you 484 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 3: figure it out. 485 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: And if you do, talk about it, share it. That's 486 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 1: the beauty of where we're at right now. 487 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 3: At the end of the day, there's always a lot 488 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 3: to talk about and you guys, y'all could be anywhere 489 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 3: in the world talking with anybody about it, but you 490 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 3: choose to be right here with me, and y'all know, 491 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 3: I appreciate y'all for that. I'm Laura l Rosa. This 492 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 3: is the latest with Laura Rosa. I'm the homegirl that 493 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,439 Speaker 3: knows a little bit about everything and everybody a bronco 494 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 3: on her grind. I appreciate you all for tuning in 495 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,679 Speaker 3: this episode and I will see you in the next episode.