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Speaker 1: changed or whatever, it don't really matter. Even if he apologize,

431
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 1: it's never gonna really matter. The point being he did

432
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 1: the shit in the first place. And we are at

433
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: a time now where that whole like context time, things

434
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,919
Speaker 1: that used to matter in real life don't matter as

435
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: much on the Internet and right. So that's one of

436
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 1: the reasons, you know, we kind of be we try

437
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: to be kind of careful with who you know, like,

438
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: if it's a comedian, cool, come through the show, you

439
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: make controversial jokes and shit, probably already if it's another podcast,

440
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 1: they're cool. You do this for a living. But sometimes

441
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,919
Speaker 1: with like activism and stuff, I just try to be careful.

442
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 1: Now if the person don't give a fuck and they like,

443
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 1: I want to do it anyway, you know, sometimes we'll

444
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Speaker 1: be like that's cool. But for the most part, you know,

445
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 1: with activists with uh, like people the whole public office,

446
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 1: people that have jobs like you know, in her case,

447
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: she was doing social work. Man, I would hate for

448
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Speaker 1: somebody to try to like be like, oh, this was

449
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 1: fucked up when you thought this was okay, but you

450
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: do social work and shit, because people are so petty

451
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: at this point. So anyway, Felicity says, this was a phenomenon,

452
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: was phenomenally beautiful. What a gift to listening to you,

453
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: to talking. I was incredibly moved by the mutual respect

454
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: between you, the sense of lifting each other up together

455
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: as two people professionally engaged in making social media and

456
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: the world a kind of better or less sexist racist place.

457
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Speaker 1: Uh So, this is so nice. But I do not

458
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Speaker 1: think of myself as anything like I'm listen just like, uh,

459
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: are we making the world a kind of better, less sexist,

460
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: racist place? But I appreciate y'all feeling that way though. Seriously,

461
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: so many good points made about the intersections of feminism

462
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: and anti racism. In my heart got hope from here,

463
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: and you talk about growth. I really enjoy your reflections

464
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: on house seeking knowledge, trying to learn, making errors and

465
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Speaker 1: reflecting on our mistakes is the best any of us

466
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Speaker 1: can do. Ps A thousand percent agreed that should be

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Speaker 1: no billionaires. Yeah, like that's she was saying. That was

468
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Speaker 1: the things You've been getting a lot of pushback on

469
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Speaker 1: Twitter because she said there should be no billionaires and

470
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 1: motherfuckers have been in her mentioned for days now, which

471
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: is so, you know, so interesting. Uh, because my thing is,

472
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Speaker 1: like it's just one person's opinion. You don't have to

473
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Speaker 1: attack somebody, you know. Okay, so you agree that should

474
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Speaker 1: be billionaires? All right? Like, what is what is coming

475
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: at me? Gonna change or not change for this idea?

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Speaker 3: You know?

477
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Speaker 1: But thank you for listening, and uh, yeah, you know,

478
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Speaker 1: I really did enjoy the conversation. And I think also

479
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Speaker 1: that was the thing sitting there. You we've been Internet

480
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Speaker 1: friends quote unquote for uh a decade, you know, like

481
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Speaker 1: I still remember you know, her original username and you

482
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: know all that type of stuff, And I think yeah,

483
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Speaker 1: And I think also like because of when you become

484
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Speaker 1: aware of people, it's it's something to the fact of

485
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Speaker 1: all the people that was originally on Twitter and saw

486
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Speaker 1: each other kind of grow and become and follow their

487
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Speaker 1: past and lanes and their choosing and stuff like that.

488
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Speaker 1: It's something too that that has been lost in translation

489
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Speaker 1: in the last i'd say four or five years, because

490
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: as Twitter blew up, people started becoming introduced to the

491
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 1: already kind of more fully formed you, and so they

492
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 1: have an idea of you that is like, oh, activists, feminists, writer,

493
00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 1: and that doesn't mean you're not those things. You are.

494
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Speaker 1: You are those things, podcaster that you know all these things.

495
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Speaker 1: They think, you know, oh this person was, but it's not.

496
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 1: I was not always this, nobody was always any of this.

497
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Speaker 1: It's just the snapshot on digital media that you're seeing

498
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: makes you feel like you completely know this person or you,

499
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: but you just know the last x amount of years

500
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: and the presentation, and you don't know what it took

501
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: to get there.

502
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 2: You don't know where they started y'all don't remember when.

503
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: Everything they said it wasn't that woke quote unquote, or

504
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: when people were going in over little stuff. And so

505
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Speaker 1: as people that have kind of orbited each other via

506
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Speaker 1: social media, I feel like there's things that we've noticed

507
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: about each other just from being on social media. Or

508
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, yeah, I remember that day that you

509
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: got you know, people was in your mentions over blank,

510
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: and I remember this day that you know, you fell

511
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: out with so and so, and I remember this day

512
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: that you know, and we all have these things. And

513
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: yet that's where the commonality and the humanity lie. That's

514
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: where to me, the that's where you get the respect

515
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: for people like one, how they navigate those things, but

516
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: to how you like move on through those things, how

517
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: you overcome those things, if you show accountability for those things,

518
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 1: stuff like that. So you know, I've just always felt

519
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 1: like h and by the way, with other people, I

520
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: don't have that connection, right, There's some people I only

521
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: became aware of them through that, like, oh, they did

522
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 1: a whole lot of work, so I don't I don't

523
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Speaker 1: know what they were like ten years ago. So I

524
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: just remember, you know, with her being like, yo, remember

525
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: what it was a wild West. Remember how crazy it was?

526
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: Remember like somebody be fighting with you on Tuesday, and

527
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: then on Wednesday they want to be your best friend,

528
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: and on Thursday they you know, posting the receipts Like

529
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: it's just crazy, you know. Anyway, Angel says, this is

530
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: an awesome conversation. I never got into Twitter, and I'm

531
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: not that familiar with everyone who has come from that platform.

532
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: Thank you for introducing me to someone new. My seventeen

533
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:24,920
Speaker 1: year old daughter and I will be reading or claiming

534
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: our space together. Yeah. Man, I think the book also

535
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: really does a good job of serving It's kind of

536
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: like this is black, black Twitter, black feminist Twitter, and

537
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: kind of like a brief history of some of the

538
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 1: seminal moments of black feminism on Twitter. And you know,

539
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 1: I think it's hard for those of us that are

540
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: really own social media like that, it's hard for us

541
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: to conceptualize like, oh yeah, there's a lot of people

542
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 1: that aren't correct, like this is all like they need

543
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 1: all this shit explained to them. Hashtags and why something

544
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: was trending, what does it mean to trend and all

545
00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: that type of stuff. What is it dragging exactly? What

546
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,239
Speaker 1: is it feel like? What does it look like?

547
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 4: Ran, because most of y'all know when y'all talk to

548
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 4: people outside of Facebook and Twitter and Instagram, y'all talk

549
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 4: to quote unquote normal.

550
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 3: Ass people who most people.

551
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,959
Speaker 4: Don't have accounts, have accounts but barely use them when

552
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 4: y'all talk to them, and y'all talk about the people

553
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 4: their only big on line Nigga, who is that?

554
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: What is that?

555
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 4: That's why I don't use that meat that platform because

556
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 4: it's so fucking confusing.

557
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 3: There's more of them than it is.

558
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: Also m hm, Clarence Clawford and some more says good.

559
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: This episode is enjoyable. Really, like how you looked each

560
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 1: other up. Keep on doing that. As for why it

561
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: would matter if she dated white men or not, sighed, Hey,

562
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: if negroes be sleeping, the women gonna go elsewhere, Serena baby,

563
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: if you're listening, No, I'm still here, boy, that shit

564
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: is saild Alexus ain't never letting her go. But until then,

565
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go find some niggerfish and see how much

566
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: that cream smears off, if it or if it's gotten better.

567
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 2: Okay, good luck with that last line.

568
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, you know, it was cool to

569
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: be able to like be positive and shit, I feel

570
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: like so much of I don't know, gotta I hope. Also,

571
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: this thing is a lesson and taking some conversations off

572
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 1: the internet, correct, you know, because there's all this pressure

573
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 1: to performing in all these all the static and people

574
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: get in the conversation and like try to twist sh

575
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: it when people are talking on social media, like it's

576
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's more difficult than not. Yes, it is.

577
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 3: I think we we're listening to Queen with T and J.

578
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: Projecked that up.

579
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Speaker 3: And I was when I was listening.

580
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 4: They were talking about how when you have conversations online,

581
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 4: it's not like real life. If me and you are

582
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 4: talking right now, this comes between me and you, somebody

583
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 4: does not randomly walk through the door and starts jumping

584
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 4: and yelling in the middle of our conversation, not knowing

585
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 4: what we talked about in the past, not knowing to

586
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 4: flow the conversation, not knowing our relation, just yelling. She

587
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 4: was like, conversations don't work like that in real life.

588
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 4: Or they were saying, I'm sorry, conversation don't work like

589
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 4: that in real life.

590
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that you might be talking about was

591
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: it your gay aunties.

592
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Speaker 3: Who was listening to one of them?

593
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, not a TV queen and Jay I'm talking about that,

594
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: but I think the one you talking about is your

595
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: gay aunties. They had Queer Walk on and they had

596
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 1: but yeah, they talked about the They were also talking

597
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: about intergenerationally, like how the quote unquote old school is

598
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: pick up a phone, go see.

599
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Speaker 2: Somebody in person.

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Speaker 4: You know.

601
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Speaker 1: She was talking about wishing people happy birthday and how

602
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 1: she prefers to like hop off of like a Facebook

603
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: or whatever and instead of get somebody a phone call.

604
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 1: You know. This is a small thing, you know, but

605
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: it's big and important to her because it's like, hey,

606
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: this is real life, this is a connection we have,

607
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: and I'm for that too, man. I will say, though,

608
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Speaker 1: in the last year or two, I've had experiencepeerences where

609
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: I've tried to take a friendship off of the Internet

610
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 1: and be like, let's call each other on the phone,

611
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: let's text, let's like, you know, let's talk. Like especially

612
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: if there was like any like animosity or any level

613
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: of like tension, it's like, hey, let's talk to each

614
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: other in person, because it's a reminder that like we're

615
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: not just Internet like fact similes we're real, three dimension

616
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,239
Speaker 1: on human beings, and I want to look you in

617
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: your eye and be like, hey, hey, I care for you,

618
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: You're my friend. This is gonna be okay. I'm not gonna,

619
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 1: like ever do some wild shit to you like that.

620
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: And twice in that year I talked to people on

621
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: the phone and then later on they either like ghosted

622
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: me or couldn't handle the idea of this, not you know,

623
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: like that actual like kind of contact, you know, so,

624
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 1: and on the for the record, on the phone it

625
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: was fine, like it was, hey, we're cool, all right,

626
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: we straight everything cool.

627
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: If you have any other issues, you're gonna hit me back.

628
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna hit you up.

629
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: If you know, like we this is a real this

630
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: is a real moment. Like let's take it back to

631
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: the old school a little bit instead of trying to

632
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: make everything happen through you know, texting type on social

633
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: media with all these people looking on, and especially with

634
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: the fact that it's hard to decipher tone correct from

635
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 1: from a from a from a message on Facebook or

636
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: something sometimes and especially if you already have like kind

637
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: of either insecurity or anger animosity, you're going to take

638
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: those things negatively. Most of the time, You're not like,

639
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: no matter how they intend them, you're gonna be like,

640
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: this motherfucker is shitting on me right here in my face.

641
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: You're like, what they said, have a nice day. Yeah,

642
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: but they said it in a bitch way or whatever, right.

643
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 3: Yes, And everybody could be like that, everybody.

644
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not excluding myself from this. So sometimes

645
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Speaker 1: I'm like, let's just take this offline, let's talk on

646
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: the phone, let's do something. And you know, and in

647
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 1: that same time period, I've actually become closer with friends,

648
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: some friends, Vin let's talk on the phone. Let's let's

649
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: take this away from the internet. So yeah, I like that,

650
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: you know that conversation is something that really can only

651
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: happen and kind of like off off offline a little bit.

652
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And also to.

653
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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's a generational thing, but I

654
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 4: think our generation, because we actually grew up with actually

655
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 4: have a forcing to talk on the telephone. Our generation

656
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,760
Speaker 4: is quicker to actually physically pick up the phone and

657
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 4: talk to somebody versus the younger generation, where a lot

658
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 4: of the interpersonal skills and communicational skills.

659
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Speaker 3: That they are. Don't get me wrong, but it's a

660
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 3: different generation.

661
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Speaker 4: You to have a friend, you know, back in the day,

662
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Speaker 4: you had to talk to them.

663
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 3: There was no other option. You had to look them

664
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Speaker 3: in their eye and be like, are we cool? Can

665
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: we be friends? Exchange?

666
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 4: Like you had to go through this long process to

667
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 4: build friendships. That's like some people, some of the friendships

668
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 4: they had when they were younger, they still have to today.

669
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Speaker 4: And I think now it's different. I can make friends

670
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 4: by a click. I can make friends by a like,

671
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 4: and which is nothing wrong with that, But when I

672
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 4: do that, there's no looking you in an eye.

673
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Speaker 3: There's no really getting to know you, the quirks about you,

674
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 3: you know.

675
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: The when when you build.

676
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 4: Friendships, like we used to build friendship, you can see

677
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,880
Speaker 4: people's claws, which could be good and bad, and it

678
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 4: will can kind of determine, oh, this is gonna mess,

679
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 4: this is not gonna mesh versus. When you click something,

680
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 4: I don't see anything behind the scenes. All I see

681
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 4: is the representation of you that you want me to see.

682
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 4: And for a lot of people, that's not the reality

683
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 4: of who they really are for a lot for some

684
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 4: people it is, but for a lot of people it's not.

685
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but also you can fake it correct because like

686
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: when it's the Internet, it's just easier to fake, right,

687
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: Like I don't have to sit at the table with you,

688
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: I don't have to look you in your eyes, I

689
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: don't have to have a tough conversation with you. I

690
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: can just eject, you know, on the Internet, I can

691
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: run to a bunch of people in my circle that

692
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Speaker 1: will make me feel like I'm right no matter what

693
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: I said, no matter what I did. Accountability for a

694
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 1: lot of people is you know, like I said, most

695
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: people's morality extends to whether or not they like a person.

696
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: So if I'm liked somewhere, I can be like, I

697
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: smack this dude in his face, and then people will

698
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: be you know, my people would be like that was okay,

699
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: that's the right thing to do, and people that don't

700
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: like me will be like, what the fuck kind of

701
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,280
Speaker 1: shit is that. So it's that kind of thing where

702
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:25,959
Speaker 1: you know, when you were in person or you're taking

703
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: something offline or whatever. I think it just makes it

704
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 1: just a little more real. I mean, there's still fake

705
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 1: people in real life. It's not hater proof, it's not

706
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: for proof, but I do think it's something to it.

707
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Speaker 4: And also, before we move on, The biggest piece of this,

708
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 4: in my opinion, is to talking to somebody and actually

709
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 4: seeing them in real life, you have to face rejection,

710
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 4: which is something nobody wants to face, right, And being

711
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 4: online allows you the privilege to avoid any form of

712
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 4: rejection that you don't want, and to deny any form

713
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 4: of rejection that you don't want.

714
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: And they're reject people befo before they can reject you

715
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Correct.

716
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 4: But the thing is when things are offline, you can

717
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 4: go through that process and it's not a public spectacle

718
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 4: for everybody to see, and you could keep it, keep

719
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 4: it in until. For me, this is why I am

720
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Speaker 4: vigilant and I get very angry when these old ass

721
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 4: niggas get on these young children when they do things

722
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Speaker 4: and act like they were fucking perfect the whole time

723
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 4: and they had it together. No, nigga, you were fucking

724
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 4: up too. We just don't have records when you were thirteen,

725
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:29,879
Speaker 4: you were.

726
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 1: Doing some dumb shit too.

727
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 3: We didn't have instantment all.

728
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Speaker 4: These places for you to post it and tweet, cause

729
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 4: we would be doing these thinging fucking thing.

730
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: Don't act like we are above the children.

731
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: Now we are not well and the last thing I'll

732
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 1: say too, is I really feel like we have to

733
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 1: have some respect for each other's humanity. And that's more.

734
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: That's really what the offline conversation reminds you of. That's

735
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: what you know.

736
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 2: I think that's why this conversation happened.

737
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: The way it is, because I think too often online

738
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 1: we can get caught up in well I agree with

739
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 1: this thing you said, or you didn't say this the

740
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: perfect way, or you're you're you're not always on like

741
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: some type of machine, and when you're a reminder like

742
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 1: because I think for a lot of people that do

743
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: know of feminist to Jones through her social media and stuff,

744
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: there's like because of one how you get hardened from

745
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: you know, all these interactions that not all of them

746
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: are positive, correct, And then also because of the expectations

747
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: of being to a lot of people are brand not

748
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: a person. You forget that. Oh yeah she's funny, Oh yeah,

749
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 1: she can be sweet, Okay, oh yeah she can be

750
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: she like things that to you feel resolute in print

751
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: when you hear her working through it's like this is

752
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: part of my process. Like I'm like, maybe I'll arrive

753
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: at this is and this will be the last thing,

754
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: I think about this thing, or maybe this is my

755
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: evolution on the other point later in life. You know,

756
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 1: it's just kind of like putting it all in context.

757
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 1: That's what I love about podcasting. So I love about

758
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: having our own podcast. We can do long form all

759
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: that stuff, because to me, it's like, oh, a medium

760
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: where we can not be just like necessarily taking too

761
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: far out of context and where people kind of give

762
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: us some benefit of doubt and they hear us and

763
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: they know we're human. We're not you know, machines. We're

764
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: not just putting out an essay and then going what

765
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: do you think about this? They're hearing us think about it.

766
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: On the air Live all Right, Anthony Davis says, a

767
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: great conversation. Super hot pop super who pop star says

768
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: Feminist to Jones a name I haven't heard in a

769
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: long time, and that is definitely a shame and my bad.

770
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 1: Thank you to black Out Tests for reintroducing her to

771
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: my life. You're welcome. Trey Swindu says, thoroughly great conversation

772
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 1: you had there were Feminist to Jones Ride. I really

773
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: appreciate her honesty and I also loved her mentioning and

774
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 1: that Julia Cooper. Everyone should read her book, A Voice

775
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: from the South, very dope read. Thanks, no problem, Thanks Trey,

776
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: and grand Schucke says, great conversation. Please have feminists to

777
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: own again if schedules allow, no doubt. Man, I know

778
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 1: I want to say, she's either I heard in an

779
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,760
Speaker 1: interview or she said she's also working on another book

780
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 1: or something like that. So maybe when that one comes out,

781
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: we'll see maga hats are Confederate flags episode one, I

782
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: mean eighteen thirty two, they are. They are guys. We

783
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 1: told you. Uh, I wondered if these boys or races

784
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,919
Speaker 1: or not. Did it got on that? Okay, well yeah,

785
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking they're race.

786
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 3: And you know what, And I'm not gonna lie, y'all.

787
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: I have been.

788
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 4: So I guess I want to say programmed, but I'm

789
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 4: so turned off by the fucking red hats.

790
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 3: A lot of times I don't even read what's on them.

791
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 4: I assume they say make America Great Again on the

792
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 4: front of them. Any any red hat that I see

793
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 4: a white person like, sometimes I have to get to

794
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 4: and read it real close.

795
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, okay, but a lot of times it's

796
00:39:58,880 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 3: not your fun.

797
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 4: It's like it's almost like a Mario hat. You know

798
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 4: how Mario has a distinct red hat. You go, oh,

799
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 4: that's a Mario hat. Now I look, I go, oh,

800
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 4: that's Donald Trump hat. I don't, And I know that's

801
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 4: not fair until I get.

802
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: A closer look.

803
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 3: But I just assumed that you don't want to be

804
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 3: bothered with me.

805
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: I'm being honest. I don't. I don't think I've ever

806
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: seen one out in a while, like in real life.

807
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever seen a Make of America

808
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: Great Again hat. And we are in Charlotte, North Carolina.

809
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: I mean we're in the South, but I don't think

810
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: I've ever been out and been like, wow, somebody had

811
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 1: to fucking audacity the way that hat, right, That's the thing.

812
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 4: Most of the time put like this, I've never actually

813
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 4: seen it, but it's just the shape of that hat.

814
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 4: Just I just go into almost like I almost say,

815
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 4: like a panic mode. But I've been looking like, okay,

816
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 4: well let me you know, is it gonna be a

817
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Speaker 4: probable Oh.

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Speaker 1: No, no, my I mean I mean to add that

819
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Speaker 1: my point runs incconcurrently with your point. It was, it

820
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: runs concurrently with your point. I'm not saying I feel

821
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: the same way you feel. When I see a red hat,

822
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: my first thought is like, is this gonna be a

823
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,399
Speaker 1: make America great again? Shit? And the thing is, I've

824
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 1: never seen of those hats, but still every time, right,

825
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: It's like when you walk, it's like when you're driving

826
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 1: you see a white caprice, You're like, ah, white caprice,

827
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: this is the police? Is the cops pulling up on me?

828
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: It don't matter how many times.

829
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Speaker 4: Right, because like you said, it's like a hood clan

830
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 4: or the Confederate flag.

831
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 3: And I have seen the Confederate flag. I look and

832
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Speaker 3: I'll be.

833
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 4: Like, Okay, it's like you won't need to know what

834
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 4: and and and it's noted and and and that's.

835
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Speaker 3: The whole purpose of it. The whole purpose is it

836
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Speaker 3: cause fear. Uh.

837
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Speaker 4: And I think that no matter what they say, that's

838
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 4: the whole purpose. And it's really fuckedlt when people go

839
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 4: ain't nothing wrong with it? That's because the fear is

840
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 4: not talking towards.

841
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: You, you know. And to me, it's like a wasp,

842
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: Like wasp is colored that way because they seeing motherfuckers,

843
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: and bees are colored that way because they gonna they

844
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: can steing your ass like nature be knowing the Mega.

845
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: The magazine is like Nature's coloring of this motherfucker's venomous.

846
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 2: You know, Whitley F. Brooks says, fun fact.

847
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: I'll be sure's fine ass son not only looks just

848
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: like him, but was born on his birthday. Wow, I

849
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: didn't know that, Sailor Agney, says Rodder Carris. Some of

850
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: these news anchors, racism is coming out of them, and

851
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: I am done parting it on some bullshit allegiance. I've

852
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: never seen so many white reporters via Twitter cape up

853
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: for Tom bro broke off.

854
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 4: Uh.

855
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: These these same people didn't even have Dad Rather's back

856
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: when CBS fired him in two thousand and six for

857
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: reporting on the atrocities at a ABU grave. What he

858
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: said was racist, offensive, obviously offensive, and typically typical of

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00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 1: a guy in the industry that tries to five millions

860
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Speaker 1: aways not to call out racism on fellow white people.

861
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: He said, He's been saying this for years. I believe

862
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: the son of bitch, son of a bitch. I also

863
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: had it also had me thinking of a petition that

864
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: NBC has its employees signed a couple of years back

865
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: to have his back, and those same employees had his

866
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: back like parademons sucking up to dark side. Apparently a

867
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 1: Latina reporter didn't make shit, didn't take shit from him,

868
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: which great. It shouldn't have to be this way. Where

869
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: was Chuck Todd and those other white people on the

870
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 1: panel to correct his ass Also, as y'all pointed out,

871
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: a good amount of Hispanics do vote Republican, especially in

872
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: my home state of Florida. They're definitely not a monolift.

873
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: That's for damn show anyway. I just need a vent

874
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: about that, I feel saying like, yeah, I mean sometimes

875
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,399
Speaker 1: it's a little unfair because I have excised a lot

876
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: of whiteness from my life, so I really was not surprised,

877
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 1: but also not involved with the white people that were like,

878
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: you know, he's a good man, and I ain't know

879
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: him man to do that. I just was like, I'm

880
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: not even entertaining y'all, Like, y'all have to stop thinking

881
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: your opinion matters on this shit. It really don't. No

882
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: white person can ever tell a black person what is

883
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: not racist ever, because you just don't know. You don't

884
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 1: have to tunes. Mostly y'all don't have the haven't done

885
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: any work, and honestly, you shouldn't say no, white people.

886
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 1: It's like a hand for that have like made race work.

887
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 1: They're fucking living right. But most of them have done

888
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: so much work they would never even go to tell

889
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: you somebody wasn't racist because they like, how the fuck

890
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to know that better. It's like me as

891
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: a man telling somebody something is the sexist. I don't

892
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: fucking know. You know, Oh, this guy is never he's

893
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: he would never do that shit. How the fuck I'm

894
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: supposed to know. I've been a man long enough to

895
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: know what the fucking men do when other niggas ain't around.

896
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 3: I don't know.

897
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: So the most I can give you is damg ain't

898
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: gonna wear around me. That's all they needed to say

899
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: with this dude. Hey, you know what, I've known Tom

900
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: Broker a long time. I'm shocked. I'm shocked at y'all.

901
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,799
Speaker 1: You never said that shit around me. That's crazy. The end,

902
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,479
Speaker 1: you don't gotta come out and be like the man

903
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,280
Speaker 1: I know would never have a racist bone in his body.

904
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 2: You're not the target all your bones racist dog. But

905
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,479
Speaker 2: mil seventy three, says Roding Caaren.

906
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: First of all, the dude doing the cover of changes

907
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: was agreed, just the simple it's from Bruce Hornsby and

908
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: the a member of his own tribe white. At least

909
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: that part should have been good. He didn't even achieve

910
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: the bare minimum. Next, I was gonna say that Tom

911
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: Brokawk could eat a dick, but he probably can't give

912
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 1: one hundred and seventy five k blowjobs, so the recipient

913
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: would be the one suffering. Shout out to Andy, I'll

914
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,959
Speaker 1: just say tarm Brokawk can fuck off right can fuck

915
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: right off. As an immigrant, I could say firsthand, everybody

916
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 1: wants to simulate. For the most part, when we get

917
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: to North America, documented or undocumented, the first thing we

918
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: want to do is get work, get working and earn

919
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: some money. I know Canada is different in the US,

920
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: but there are similarities. First of all, we live with

921
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 1: we all welcome. Does he think immigrants touched down and

922
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: have to rebuff offers from various groups of white people

923
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: wanted us to move next door to them. No, we

924
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: go to the Indian, Jamaican, Chinese and spent it LATINX

925
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: neighborhoods because that's where we can find help, where nobody

926
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: is going to question whether or not we have legitimate

927
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 1: business here.

928
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 2: Talk to your motherfucking people, Tom.

929
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: Ask why they're so fucking racist that it's hard for

930
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:03,720
Speaker 1: immigrants to assimilate. Also, let's consider what he considers a similation.

931
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 1: Some people think that to be part of society you

932
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,720
Speaker 1: have to bannon your customs and traditions that can form.

933
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: To what's American.

934
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:09,959
Speaker 3: Right.

935
00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: They think that just because they speak another language, that

936
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: they're trying to be separate from the rest of society.

937
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: Fuck that guy. Some of these cats just upset that

938
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: they have to press too for English. Don't they realize that,

939
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:25,439
Speaker 1: unlike Canada, the US has no official language connect Canada's

940
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 1: are English and French. I pause a podcast to make

941
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: this rant. I'm gonna press play now, Emil, thanks to

942
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: listening to a meal And I totally feel you that, Like, yeah,

943
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: that just theentire premise of you have to want to

944
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,919
Speaker 1: assimilate what we not.

945
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 2: The ones moving when white people move in the neighborhood.

946
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: It's the other way around. What are you talking about, right?

947
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 1: And also, yeah, I do question what the simulation means.

948
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: You talk about language, I'm also talking about shit like politics.

949
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:57,239
Speaker 1: Assimilating for white people is some like why aren't you

950
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,240
Speaker 1: Republican type, But why aren't you more conservative? Why aren't

951
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: you letting go of your own heritage? Why aren't you

952
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: letting go of the political goals that will help your people?

953
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: That's what the simulation is.

954
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, And for white people, the assimilation question boils down

955
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 4: to why aren't you white? Like like when you ax

956
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 4: those series of question is why ain't you white?

957
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 3: I'm not, bitch.

958
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 4: There's nothing I can do about it, you know, because

959
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 4: a lot of it is getting closer to whiteness. You

960
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 4: would never be white. You will never be accepted into whiteness.

961
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 4: And I am okay with that. I don't want to

962
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:31,720
Speaker 4: be accepted. I just want to be tweeted as equal,

963
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 4: that's all.

964
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 3: You ain't got to accept me.

965
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 4: Though. I've gotten past the point of people doing the

966
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 4: right thing because it's the mother fucking right thing to do. That.

967
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 3: I'm past that. I'm like passed fucking.

968
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 4: Laws so that when you don't do what you're supposed

969
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 4: to do, your health fucking accountable.

970
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 3: That's the bare minimum.

971
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, it's kind of weird because the pic you know,

972
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 1: like latinix and Mexican immigrants, because some of them can

973
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:02,360
Speaker 1: be white presenting and some of them can assimilate in

974
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: the whiteness so like it was just a bad entire

975
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: thing was stupid? D Ramsey pH Done says five stars

976
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: because I want to keep the love flowing among us.

977
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: Dexter That says, awesome episode as usual, Thanks for providing

978
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 1: a way to smile and all this madness. That bill

979
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: of wall shit was even the deeper scam than these

980
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: racist people could have imagined. Episode forty five, A Behind

981
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 1: the Bastards talks about how the creators are the Goldfundme

982
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: campaign are having the contributors opt in giving their money

983
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: to a five toh one seed where the money doesn't

984
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 1: have to be accounted for and can fund bigger scammers.

985
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: These include Eric Prince, brother Bessi DeVos, and former Blackwater

986
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: CEO everyone's favorite fake medical wearing sheriff metal wearing sheriff

987
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: David Clark. Of course, a large amount of them have

988
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 1: already opted in and not to not getting their money back.

989
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: Damn Yeah. When anger Hoodie shout out to jail Kevin

990
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:02,959
Speaker 1: is on the case, you might want to consider twice

991
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 1: before giving this motherfucker some money. Right, Ah Well, guess

992
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 1: that's the cost of racisms inophobia. Ignorant. Yeah, couldn't have

993
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 1: found better people to scam, in my opinion, like a

994
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: scared Like if a racist gets their money taken from him,

995
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'll lead the empathy to ride on

996
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: this one. Well, you just heard what I think, so

997
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 1: I told you. I told y'all all empathy is still selective.

998
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: I might have a thinner membrane than a lot of

999
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 1: people or whatever, but I ain't exactly. Nobody's fucking fool Like,

1000
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: you know, you can't just be evil as fucking I'm

1001
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: just like, well, you know, I mean they evil, but

1002
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: like nah nah, sometimes it's like you racist and that's

1003
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: why you lost your money. Hauh huh. I'll be laughing

1004
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:43,360
Speaker 1: my ass off at them while I'm looking for a

1005
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 1: way to get to an alternative timeline. Oh yeah, that's funny.

1006
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Shoebak says, one I was going to say that

1007
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: Tom Brokow could eat a dick, I can carry two.

1008
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:54,800
Speaker 2: Dalhughley can also eat a whole.

1009
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: Bag of dicks. Evin E says, I think the thing

1010
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: about the MAGA hats, like anything racist nowadays, is the

1011
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 1: plausible deniability. Come on, I ain't even just nowadays It's

1012
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 1: always been that way. The thing.

1013
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: But the thing is when people wear.

1014
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: To where the hate they do it, I guess hat,

1015
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: but the hate sounds good too.

1016
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 2: They do it to get a rise out of other people.

1017
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 2: M case In points.

1018
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: In the grocery store this week, I see a white

1019
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: man who looked like the equivalent of a wet fart

1020
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: in human form coming down the aisle.

1021
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 2: Now there are other people in the aisle.

1022
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: He doesn't speak to any of them, but he goes

1023
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 1: out of his way to say hello to me. I

1024
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: look around and I notice I'm the only black person

1025
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: standing in the aisle. I give him a nod. I

1026
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: keep it moving. Now most white people will say I

1027
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: magic things being oversensitive, but it's the feelings you just

1028
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: can't shake. In the end, I feel like he was

1029
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: disappointed that I didn't react, But boy was I seeing

1030
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: this side. Yeah. It's it's crazy because they also have

1031
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 1: these people online, these personalities that were to have out places,

1032
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: and they take pictures and stuff. One girl just went

1033
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 1: through TSA and was like, I want my hand and

1034
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,760
Speaker 1: they didn't saint nothing to me because da da da,

1035
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: And it's like one you know, your ass quietly went

1036
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: through Fuck in TSA and minded your motherfucking business. You

1037
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 1: didn't say nothing about they should be happy to have

1038
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,879
Speaker 1: their jobs and all that shit, because your ass would

1039
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 1: have been somewhere getting fucking in a room, missing your plane.

1040
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm not even talking about that part, but just

1041
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: your ass will be somewhere getting missing your point flight

1042
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 1: because you fuck with the wrong ones, or just they

1043
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: were professional when about their jobs and just didn't give

1044
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:22,759
Speaker 1: a fuck.

1045
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 4: Uh.

1046
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,080
Speaker 1: Then I know there was a video this black.

1047
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 4: I mean because if you went through doing the shutdown,

1048
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 4: we know nobody was paying your ass no attention.

1049
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: It was after the shutdown was over, okay, but there

1050
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: was this black YouTube personality.

1051
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 2: It's like trying to be controversial all the time.

1052
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: He would have hat and uh in the Hooters or something,

1053
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: and then her this waitress waitress asked him about the hat,

1054
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: and then he made this big ass scene about it

1055
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 1: and posted a video online and said this, how this

1056
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: is about black women not doing their jobs and that's

1057
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: what's wrong with black women and stuff, because you know

1058
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: he's trying to be controversial, and you know he's a

1059
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: massandrist or whatever, massage no wars. He hates black women

1060
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: and it's just kind of his brand. But the point

1061
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: being all all these conversations I'm talking about, they went

1062
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,919
Speaker 1: out in public with this hat to stir up some shit.

1063
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: They knew something would happen, and then they were gonna

1064
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 1: seize on it to be like look at me on YouTube,

1065
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 1: on Instagram, on Twitter. Because the whole point is, like

1066
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: as EV said, they want a reaction, you know. That

1067
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: being said, I mean, I don't blame the people that

1068
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 1: are like, man, fuck them, or the people that are

1069
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm not gonna give into it. It

1070
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me because the problem is whatever's going

1071
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: on on their side anyway, it's not really our responsibility

1072
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: to fix. And if I saw motherfucker with a swastika

1073
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: or a fucking rebel flag or whatever, and I you know,

1074
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: and I had that look like, yeah, don't fuck with me.

1075
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: I mean, it is what it is. We down here

1076
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: in the South, we see them rebel flags. You know,

1077
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with nobody to fuck with that flag.

1078
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't care, you know, I don't care. Like you

1079
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: can be trying to do charity for me and I like,

1080
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm good, Like I don't trust you. You're wearing the

1081
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: symbol of hate on you. And there's not two ways

1082
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 1: to think about it for me. So and that's how

1083
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: I feel about them fucking Confederate the hats.

1084
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 4: D L.

1085
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 1: Hughley took an L after Terry asked if he should

1086
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: slap the shit out of him. Then that food tweet

1087
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: a story from five years ago about from when Terry

1088
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,240
Speaker 1: said that it's time for us to forgive Donald Sterling,

1089
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: as if it was gonna shame him.

1090
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 2: But that backfire big time, and DAL took another L.

1091
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,720
Speaker 1: D L is a clown. He only cares about racism

1092
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: as it pertains a black man. When Don Amas called

1093
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: that women's basketball team nap heated hells, DL agreed with him,

1094
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: so really he can kick rocks. Yeah, the d L.

1095
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 2: Hughley thing has really been disappointed because.

1096
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:49,120
Speaker 1: It's that selective shit that people do where they are

1097
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 1: ignoring what he's saying and the things he's the people

1098
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: he's trolling, and the amount of misogyny and anti LGBTQ shit.

1099
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: He said to be like, well, I just doing understand

1100
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 1: when DL Hugh became the bad guy in this situation.

1101
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: Well you a bad person there, y'all don't like him.

1102
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:09,280
Speaker 1: It's like, look, dog just because he goes on Fox

1103
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 1: News and it's pro black in only that space, in

1104
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 1: that kind of way, you know what I mean, Like

1105
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 1: cause he'll say something pro black against the most racist people.

1106
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that when he comes back to the

1107
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:23,399
Speaker 1: community and it's like, Hey, gay people, I'm gonna call

1108
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: you slurs. Get over it. It's a joke. Hey women,

1109
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk down on y'all. Shut the fuck up,

1110
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: don't be a pussy. Hey trans people. When I like,

1111
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 1: when he does that stuff, that is also part of

1112
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 1: the equation, and everybody wants, like the people that wanted

1113
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: to feed him just want to ignore that shit because

1114
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 1: and then they wonder why the fuck. I'm like, listen,

1115
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,240
Speaker 1: black men are the white people or black people because

1116
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 1: of this kind of shit, Like this is the exact shit.

1117
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 1: These are the moments that add up when we could go, oh,

1118
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: I see how you got to that point. This dude

1119
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: is actually kind of a jerk. When he's not talking

1120
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:05,480
Speaker 1: simply about basically racism as a black male perspective, anything

1121
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: other than that, he kind of is deriding, coming down

1122
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: on people in saying things in very inflammatory ways that

1123
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: would draw the ire of people within the black community.

1124
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: That's not This is not some controversial shit. To notice.

1125
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: You don't have to be a rocket science or a

1126
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: feminist scholar or read some texts. It's very fucking plain

1127
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: to see, like, oh, the kind of person that would

1128
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 1: say Roseanne bar needs to be fired because she made

1129
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,720
Speaker 1: a joke at the expense of a black woman about race,

1130
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: but then would go, but I don't, I'm a I'm

1131
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 1: a defend h When somebody says a joke at the

1132
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 1: expense of our on LGBTQ brothers and sisters in our community,

1133
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: you you can't see that that is also fucked up,

1134
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:55,439
Speaker 1: Like it's that's the that's the intersection I'm talking about.

1135
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: And it's like you're talking to people that are either

1136
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: willfully ignorant or or purposely obtuse to be like, I

1137
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: can't see what you're saying, Rod, I can't see that intersection.

1138
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: I can't see that connection. One of them is totally

1139
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: different than the other ones. No, it's not, you know.

1140
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 1: So that's the thing that bothers me more than anything

1141
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 1: is the way people do it because the DL Hughley thing,

1142
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: because I do and I do understand that. You know,

1143
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 1: Terry Crews saying and I you know, I said this

1144
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: when we start the show him saying should I slap

1145
00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:33,280
Speaker 1: the shit out of dal Hughley? It does feel hypocritical

1146
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 1: to then turn around and applaud that after saying like, nah, man,

1147
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: violence is in the way tox of masculinity, blah blah blah.

1148
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:43,440
Speaker 1: But I also understand the humanity of like, yo, man,

1149
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: I'm getting tired of y'all my brothers picking on me

1150
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: about this shit. Not to mention, people always say like, well,

1151
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 1: he should have hit that white man. I don't know

1152
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 1: if y'all heard, he pushed the white man away from

1153
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,720
Speaker 1: him and had to be restrained, told him to stop.

1154
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 1: So this, this narrative that he didn't do nothing is

1155
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,439
Speaker 1: so like you don't even, Like I said, people cherry

1156
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 1: pick the facts.

1157
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 2: That are convenient for them, you know.

1158
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 1: And I pride myself for authenticity and honesty, and when

1159
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: we do this show, I'm trying to be honest and transparent.

1160
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: So when I'm starting off on like, hey, I feel

1161
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 1: a little bit hypocritical to like celebrate to laugh at

1162
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: the idea, Damn, he'll smack the shit out of d

1163
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: L That is funny. But I also admit that I

1164
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: you know, in his in his quest to try to

1165
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: like detoxify this whole situation. Obviously, I don't want that

1166
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: to happen. Obviously, the best way to handle this will

1167
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: be them to sit down face to face and him

1168
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: be like, man, but let me tell you how this

1169
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: is kind of fucked up that you thought this shit

1170
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 1: was funny. That's it, you know, to me, it's that simple.

1171
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:53,600
Speaker 1: But it's just like I said, people cherry pick and

1172
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: then when you throw in the idea, and this is

1173
00:57:56,000 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: not mocking deal. This is actually saying things are so

1174
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: easy in theory but not in practice. DL heally said

1175
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: he had an older man that was a friend of

1176
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: his that sexually was involved with his daughter, and he

1177
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: talks about how how it hurt him because he couldn't

1178
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: do anything. And that's the point. It's so easy talk

1179
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 1: that shit online or to make those jokes, but it's

1180
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 1: harder when it's you, when it's real. It's not as

1181
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: simple as you weren't man enough. Why didn't you just

1182
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: punch him? Why didn't you punch that dude? You know, like,

1183
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: where were we supposed to have empathy for each other?

1184
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: So that that's the whole thing that bothers me. Man,

1185
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 1: it reminds me this thing my dad says, or used

1186
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: to say all the time when I was a kid.

1187
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 2: He said, if you're so smart, why you ain't rich?

1188
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 1: Right now? Most people would be like, capitalism is some

1189
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 1: stupid walk shit thatd y'all say, I'm not talking about.

1190
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: He wasn't me in literal. His point was, if you

1191
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 1: have all the fucking answers, then why haven't you solved

1192
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: this thing already in your own life? Why aren't you

1193
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: doing great? Why aren't you out there in the world

1194
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: right now making it all happen? Because you got all

1195
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: the fucking answers over here while you're washing dishes, you

1196
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: got all the answers folking these clothes. Some of this

1197
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: shit is stuff you don't truly understand or know about

1198
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: because you haven't had to apply it practically in real life.

1199
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: If you so smart, why you ain't rich? You know,

1200
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 1: like it's that thing. It's so easy to look at

1201
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: somebody else, why they didn't do this right, they didn't

1202
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 1: do this right. It's much harder to be like, what

1203
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: about applying this to my own life? Because maybe you

1204
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,479
Speaker 1: do have the answers, then why are you worried about

1205
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: them and not applying it for yourself.

1206
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 2: If you so smart, why you ain't rich, why you.

1207
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 1: Ain't making it work for you yet? You know it's

1208
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 1: it's the biggest point, you know, like we don't all

1209
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: have all the answers. We don't know everything. Some of

1210
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: us can admit it, and some of us gonna walk

1211
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 1: around with that swager like I figured it all out.

1212
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: We don't fucking know, oh dog. So anyway, that's what

1213
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: that's what DL reminds me of, Like you couldn't even

1214
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: apply this shit to your own life, dog Lee Terry

1215
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 1: Crews alone, Grant Sugar says Terry Crews is right to

1216
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 1: call out d L, Russell Simmons and other prominence of

1217
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 1: lebs that be little and poke fun at his victimhood,

1218
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: et cetera. Yeah, that's the other thing. People kept being like,

1219
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: why you call out deal Hughley? That video is a

1220
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 1: year old. Well, he also called out Russell Simmons. He

1221
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: also called out fifty cent uh, And he's been calling

1222
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 1: these dudes out for a minute. I guess DLL decided

1223
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: to finally clap back today or this week or whatever.

1224
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: But that's not the first time. Terry Crews has brought

1225
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 1: up that as black men, y'all need to chill with this.

1226
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: The other two just seemed to go the fuck away

1227
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: because I don't guess. I guess they was like, I

1228
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: don't want this smoke or whatever. DL was acting like

1229
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: he wanted it anyway at some time. At the same

1230
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 1: time he was bossing up on DL is being called

1231
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 1: in the question because he came to the defense of

1232
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: Gena Rodriguez. One thing doesn't negate the other. Y'all didn't

1233
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 1: see him coming to the defense of Geena Rodriguez. But

1234
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: it is what it is like. We don't own any

1235
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 1: of these people. It's the same way with D. L. Hughey.

1236
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: We don't own him. We don't own fifty cent. We

1237
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: don't own Russell Simmons. If they choose to have some

1238
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 1: places where y'all disagree, they gonna disagree. You know. I

1239
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: know when I watched the tape of Gena Rodriguez crying

1240
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: on the radio or whatever, I felt bad for her,

1241
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 1: partially like it was some body crying because they got

1242
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: their feelings hurt on the internet, and shit. I just

1243
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 1: didn't really talk about it much because I don't really

1244
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 1: want to argue with people about how something makes me feel,

1245
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 1: because they gonna act like it's a choice I'm making

1246
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: to be like, and you need to leave her alone,

1247
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, like I felt something bad. I

1248
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: feel bad when I see like Ozealia Banks crying about

1249
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: and this shit that she did, Like it's that impact shit.

1250
01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: It's hard to know when it's either manipulation or when

1251
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: it's real. And then I think, also with social media,

1252
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: there's a lot of fucking uh, what's the best way

1253
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: to put a lot of peer pressure to like fold

1254
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: into what everybody's thinking. And I'm not exempt from that,

1255
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: but I try my best to stay away from from

1256
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: all that shit because it's honestly too much sometimes, you know,

1257
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 1: like if I see that after getting drugs a couple

1258
01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 1: of times, Gina Rodriguez is crying and feeling remorseful whatever

1259
01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: the fuck, or at least feeling affected by it. I

1260
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: can't even say remorseful, because I think these dragons aren't

1261
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 1: really about teaching people anything. It's about how quick we

1262
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 1: can group up together and shit on somebody for fucking

1263
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: up correct and so then when we find out it

1264
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 1: really hurt their feelings or it resonated there's a group

1265
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 1: of people that like fist pump because they really just

1266
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: want to transfer the pain, right right, it's Sean King

1267
01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 1: suing that that young these young activists's I was hurt,

1268
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: Now you're hurting. Fuck you now you know how I felt,

1269
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: you know, And it's except, you know, the power dynamic

1270
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 1: is backwards, so people are okay with it. But the

1271
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 1: point being, like I think the point was never really

1272
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 1: to educate her anyway. For a lot of people, not everybody,

1273
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 1: but for a lot of people, it wasn't really about

1274
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: educating her or whatever the fuck it's about fuck her

1275
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:22,040
Speaker 1: And I hope she cries and all this shit, and

1276
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 1: when she cries the thing that I'm still trying to

1277
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 1: figure out the words for it. But there's something inside

1278
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 1: of people that I don't know. It's so ugly because

1279
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Speaker 1: she cries, and then because of how you have portrayed

1280
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 1: the situation, you have to make that fold into your narrative.

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01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: So now even her tears have to be fake, right, Like,

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01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 1: it can't be that she's a human being that really

1283
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: got her feelings hurt and really doesn't really know what

1284
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,439
Speaker 1: the fuck she's talking about and should just stop talking

1285
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 1: about it. It has to be like, now she's faking crying.

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01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: None of this is real, And I'm like, what makes

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01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: something real? Who gets to decide what's real for a

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01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: human being? Like, it's only because we decide that we

1289
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: don't fuck with you, so therefore everything got to fit

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Speaker 1: into the narrative. So anyway, I didn't see what he

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01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,320
Speaker 1: said about Geena Rodriguez and don't really care. And for

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01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 1: the most part, I'm trying to avoid what everybody says

1293
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: about Geena Rodriguez caause she I don't know what she became.

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01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: That's fucking important to be honest, Come on, and it's

1295
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: not shade to her. I really just don't. I don't

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01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: watch your show, I don't listen to her interviews or

1297
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:34,479
Speaker 1: whatever it's And it's not worth arguing with people about

1298
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: it because it's not important. Our MAGA has basically Confederate

1299
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 1: flash you yes, no, or I wear them so I

1300
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 1: have to opt out on you niggers. One says I

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01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: wear them, so I have to opt out on you niggers.

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Speaker 1: No says five percent, I don't know who you guys are.

1303
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:56,600
Speaker 1: Ninety four percent say yeah. JV Dove says I saw

1304
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 1: something that said you can't spell hatred without red hat

1305
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 1: and I have been the same sense.

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01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 2: Oh, valid point.

1307
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 4: Come on.

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01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Shoe Base says, MAGA is a kid to a

1309
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: Confederate flag, a Nazi swastika, or an out and out

1310
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:14,600
Speaker 1: racial slur. If the majority of people were wearing Make

1311
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 1: America Great Again merchandise and were doing things like feeding

1312
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: the homeless, helping to fill the sandbags to prevent flooding

1313
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:22,840
Speaker 1: during the storm, or building habitats for humanity, then I

1314
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 1: would say that Trump and his racist supporters appropriated MEGA

1315
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: and we turned it into some evil But the creation

1316
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 1: of MEGA has been always been about protecting the white

1317
01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 1: cis had male order of this country, make America great again,

1318
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: my black ass. Yep.

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01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:42,920
Speaker 2: That's the other part of it too, though, is with

1320
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 2: those with those hats.

1321
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 1: They try and lord Ingram was saying they need to

1322
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: start doing charity and stuff and wearing their hats while

1323
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 1: they help people. Too late. It's too late, y'all can

1324
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 1: do all the charity you want. Them hats now, we

1325
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: already know why he put them on the first place.

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01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 1: Lakeita says, white privileges of mother making people see what

1327
01:06:01,200 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 1: ain't even there? I hate this shit fuck them kids

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01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 1: exactly as Michael Jordan said, the great scholar. Aha, fuck

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01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 1: them kids, that was so eighteen thirty three. What you

1330
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 1: know about that?

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01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 3: Uh?

1332
01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 2: Because Karen's talking about being old and stuff.

1333
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 3: Come on, it's a process, y'all.

1334
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Shoe Base says, Dear Rodan Caaren, your commentary on

1335
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:28,919
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon always cracks me up. He got a talk show.

1336
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 2: Do white folks know what he's saying?

1337
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 1: Lol?

1338
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel the same way.

1339
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: I appreciate the guests on the Nick Cannon talk show

1340
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 1: who champion black women, but something about what he said

1341
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: also bothered me. Black men shouldn't feel obligated to she

1342
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 1: was a black woman because of uh sacrifices, struggles, race, etc.

1343
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 1: In a perfect world, he should choose whoever makes his heart, saying,

1344
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 1: I don't believe that every black man that is with

1345
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:50,280
Speaker 1: a white woman chose a white woman because of some

1346
01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: twisted pathology of the white woman. And is the prize

1347
01:06:53,760 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 1: denied to black men?

1348
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 3: Right?

1349
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll say this part too. Most importantly, that dude,

1350
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 1: the fake brother Malcolm Muhammad X. That dude also is

1351
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 1: kind of problematic in a hotel. So, I mean, I

1352
01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 1: saw his Facebook page and it's it's I mean, it's

1353
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:19,240
Speaker 1: Twitter page and it's hotepy as fuck. So it ain't

1354
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 1: really like either one of them dudes need to be

1355
01:07:21,760 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 1: speaking on women, to be honest. And yeah, the whole

1356
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 1: the dating inter racially and versus interracially thing, especially when

1357
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 1: you bring in race and white women and all this

1358
01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:39,200
Speaker 1: shit into it, and the whole thing is so like

1359
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:41,479
Speaker 1: confusing and fucked up, and the rules on that ship

1360
01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 1: flip and flop for a lot of people based completely

1361
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: off of just what gender they are, so they identify

1362
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 1: more with black women and it's like whatever black women

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01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: are doing that there can be no wrong. Whatever. If

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01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: they're men, then it's whatever black men do that can

1365
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,680
Speaker 1: be no wrong. And a lot of the like commentary

1366
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:01,120
Speaker 1: about it is really about a dressing the other side

1367
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:03,560
Speaker 1: and like what's good for the goose is good for

1368
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 1: the game. That all that shit is just so rife

1369
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 1: with like hatred and division and shit. I really try

1370
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 1: to stay out of it because you, like you said,

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01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 1: you really can't know, you know. I mean, I hope

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01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 1: that it's not the pathology of that shit that's leading

1373
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: people today outside their race. I hope it's not self hate.

1374
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 1: I know, for some it is right, and.

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01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:30,720
Speaker 4: For most people they assume that it's not until you

1376
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 4: say something that raises flags to be like, oh, you

1377
01:08:34,479 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 4: got a problem.

1378
01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:38,400
Speaker 3: Most people assume that you have met the love of

1379
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 3: your life the end.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I and I do think that Nick Cannon's discussion

1381
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: of the pathology of some black men is true. But

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01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 1: you know, by that same token, I don't know how

1383
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: you're supposed to know that unless somebody says it right,

1384
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 1: you know, and I don't know. We've heard se we

1385
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,839
Speaker 1: have heard each other. The cis heteronormative. Black people obviously

1386
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 1: have hurt each other and been hurt so fucking deeply

1387
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:08,679
Speaker 1: on both sides. There's just no fucking way to talk

1388
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 1: about these things. It's so it's so vile at this point. It's,

1389
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 1: you know, black men resenting black women for their education

1390
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:22,800
Speaker 1: and their ability to uh provide for themselves, and resenting

1391
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: that as if it's not a positive. And you know,

1392
01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 1: black men that that big up white women, specifically for

1393
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 1: not being black, Like that's the biggest attribute they share,

1394
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 1: Like that, I see her as a better woman because

1395
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: she ain't black.

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01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 2: That's the only reason I'm really own this woman. Like this,

1397
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:43,080
Speaker 2: Like stuff like that.

1398
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 1: Is just so so foul, so fucked up, and the

1399
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 1: Negro Bedwinch and all this type of shit. And by

1400
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: the same token, you know, there's black men that do,

1401
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 1: like work in black spaces and communities that like try

1402
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: to help black people and and if they have a

1403
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: white spouse or some shit. I've seen people be like,

1404
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 1: nah fuck that I knew something was off with them.

1405
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: It don't matter. I've seen it, you know, I've seen it.

1406
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: Like it's just everybody's kind of alreadys on edge because

1407
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:14,720
Speaker 1: we've just heard each other so much. I don't think

1408
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:17,840
Speaker 1: there's a way to talk about these things that where

1409
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 1: we don't address the hurt feelings, whether whether you hurt

1410
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:23,920
Speaker 1: them or not, whether it's your relationship or not. If

1411
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 1: we don't address that part, we can't even have these discussions,

1412
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:30,280
Speaker 1: and nobody's interested in dissecting, like how do I get

1413
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 1: how do I erase? How do I work with this

1414
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,000
Speaker 1: hurt so that we can have a conversation that's more

1415
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: fruitful than just black man, white woman, white woman, black man,

1416
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 1: white man, black women black Like more, what's more fruitful

1417
01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: than that? You know, Like we got to have something

1418
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:46,960
Speaker 1: better than that.

1419
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 4: Correct And like you say it, and the thing is

1420
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 4: a poison that has been given to us since we

1421
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 4: came to this country with the dividing of the families

1422
01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:01,439
Speaker 4: and all that shit, and it has run ever since then,

1423
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 4: and it's you know, probably has been there before, but

1424
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 4: you know, when you come to this country, it's a

1425
01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 4: whole different thing. And then you know the things we

1426
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 4: do to each other. And then racism and sexism, like

1427
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 4: you said, and a lot of people don't want to

1428
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,599
Speaker 4: self reflect, you know, which would actually fix a lot

1429
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 4: of problems because when we had this conversation, we should

1430
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 4: be talking about the thing at hand, not your own

1431
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 4: personal insecurities and things like that.

1432
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 3: But people can't.

1433
01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:30,360
Speaker 4: Help it because it's a part of why they feel

1434
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 4: the way they feel, or why they take hard stances

1435
01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 4: and all this shit in their own personal lives.

1436
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then just also the macro picture, right, the

1437
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:43,719
Speaker 1: bigger picture of demographic statistics. It's a very damning equation.

1438
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:48,839
Speaker 1: It shows you there's racism that specifically attached to black women,

1439
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: you know, especially in dating, marriage and these things. There's

1440
01:11:55,439 --> 01:11:58,639
Speaker 1: a penalty that is being inflicted upon them. And then

1441
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,880
Speaker 1: so many people are are convinced that it's a pathology

1442
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 1: of black women.

1443
01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:05,639
Speaker 2: That is everything.

1444
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 1: Except racism and sexism. It can't possibly be anything other

1445
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:11,960
Speaker 1: than that, Like it has to like you know what

1446
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like it has to be something other. It

1447
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:16,559
Speaker 1: has to be black women aren't doing the right things,

1448
01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 1: black women act a certain way black like it's all

1449
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: and then we are so many people buy into it

1450
01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:24,799
Speaker 1: and they share this thing and they feel so fucking

1451
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:29,559
Speaker 1: like valid, valid in their opinion like black women ain't

1452
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: doing enough. That's what the problem is. See if you

1453
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:35,680
Speaker 1: sisters would and people have, I mean, and it's internalized too,

1454
01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 1: because people like Steve Harvey have made a living before

1455
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:41,080
Speaker 1: off of being like, let me tell you why you

1456
01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:43,400
Speaker 1: ain't shit this. Let me tell you what you need

1457
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:45,160
Speaker 1: to think, how you need to dress, how you need

1458
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 1: to act. That'll get you the man, you know. Like,

1459
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:52,719
Speaker 1: So it's it's a big complex equation and go ahead,

1460
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. No, it's just a big complex equation that

1461
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 1: is more than just whether or not someone has a white,

1462
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:03,679
Speaker 1: white wife or white husband or not right.

1463
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 4: And for a lot of people, they've been fighting this

1464
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 4: fight their entire lives. So you know, you're talking about

1465
01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 4: thirty forty fifty years of fighting. You know, and I

1466
01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:17,160
Speaker 4: think for particularly a lot of black women in the

1467
01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:21,439
Speaker 4: internalizing things when and it's so funny when a black

1468
01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:25,040
Speaker 4: woman gets to the point to where you're never quote

1469
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:27,639
Speaker 4: unquote completely free of it because you live in the world.

1470
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 4: But once a black women get to once a black

1471
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:31,439
Speaker 4: woman gets to the point where you go, I don't

1472
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 4: care about your fucking ass fuck feelings, man, this is

1473
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 4: who I am. These are things I want, This is

1474
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 4: my demand. No, I don't support everything a black man does.

1475
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 4: You know, once you get to the point where you

1476
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 4: kind of you've heartened. In certain areas, people act like this,

1477
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:50,200
Speaker 4: particularly the black community, act like there's something wrong with

1478
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 4: you and you're not loving and supporting and.

1479
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:52,679
Speaker 3: Things like that.

1480
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 4: But a lot of black women have come to the

1481
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 4: conclusion that I refuse to drive myself crazy and insane,

1482
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 4: and I refuse to pour energy into a bottomless pit,

1483
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 4: and that's that I will never reap the rewards of

1484
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,120
Speaker 4: and that to each is own with that choice. Because

1485
01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 4: a lot of people think that that that black women

1486
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:13,240
Speaker 4: are supposed.

1487
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 3: To fix the race.

1488
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 4: That's not realistic and that and that's the birth even

1489
01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 4: though they don't say that, once you get down to

1490
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 4: the root into the cones of it. It's like everything

1491
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 4: in the black community is the black women's fault. Also,

1492
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 4: everything in the black community, black women's supposed to fix

1493
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 4: without resources, without help. You know, you're supposed to fix

1494
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 4: you and turn around and fix me too, and turn

1495
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,640
Speaker 4: around and raise children and turn around and go to

1496
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 4: work and different racism and turn around and deal.

1497
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:45,520
Speaker 3: With all these other factors.

1498
01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 4: And for someone that they break, and when they break,

1499
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 4: you know, that's for some women, it becomes ugly and

1500
01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:52,759
Speaker 4: they're just mad all the time.

1501
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 2: Well, also, I think there's.

1502
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:57,880
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, like it's not happening in the back end,

1503
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:01,080
Speaker 1: right if somebody, if you you woke up every day

1504
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 1: and your own the men within your own race, we're

1505
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: telling you how you ain't shit and you aren't good enough,

1506
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: and everything is your fault and none of it is

1507
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 1: my fault. You're going to eventually push back enough to

1508
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:18,719
Speaker 1: where you're like, I don't give a fuck what y'all say.

1509
01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 1: There's no way anything a black woman ever does is

1510
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:25,599
Speaker 1: gonna be wrong or bad. And I've seen that before

1511
01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: where it's like a teen black woman right where somebody

1512
01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: does something it's like that's actually kind of fucked up.

1513
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:34,519
Speaker 1: But it's a black woman, So I'm gonna just act

1514
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: like it was okay. You know, I've seen that, but

1515
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:42,200
Speaker 1: that's happening, not in a vacuum, like it's a response

1516
01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:44,360
Speaker 1: to a bunch of fucking people. It's like how some

1517
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,599
Speaker 1: people's pro blackness is a.

1518
01:15:46,560 --> 01:15:48,360
Speaker 2: Perfect example, perfect example.

1519
01:15:48,800 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 1: Y'all. Remember I think his name was Christopher Darden, but

1520
01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:53,280
Speaker 1: I'm not hundredson sure about this. I'm gonna be taking

1521
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 1: his name. Y'all. Remember that black dude that shot those

1522
01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 1: fucking cops in California and burned to death in a

1523
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: fucking cabin and all that, And remember how black people

1524
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 1: were like rooting for him kind of online and they

1525
01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 1: were making jokes about it or doing a Charles during

1526
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 1: the there we go. Sorry I take that, but y'all remember, y'all,

1527
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:14,680
Speaker 1: Remember y'all remember him, and Twitter was a blaze with

1528
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:18,600
Speaker 1: black people that were not just listening line, but I

1529
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:21,920
Speaker 1: mean rooting him on, making jokes about it like it

1530
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:24,840
Speaker 1: was funny to people. It was like it was us

1531
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 1: at our most callous, vengeful, angry and mocking of these

1532
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:32,960
Speaker 1: white folks. And I mean people lost their loss in

1533
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 1: this shit. Reading his manifesto and you know, acting like

1534
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:39,560
Speaker 1: what's good. You know, what's good for the goose is

1535
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:42,240
Speaker 1: good for the game. And now I think that was

1536
01:16:42,240 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 1: fucked up for black people to really do that in

1537
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 1: a way. But also it didn't happen in the vacuum. Correct,

1538
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 1: it didn't happen in the vacuum. This is not to

1539
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 1: say it's okay, but maybe it's justifying it a bit,

1540
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,880
Speaker 1: and that's fine. But the point is these things don't

1541
01:16:57,880 --> 01:16:59,679
Speaker 1: happen in the vacuum. Terry crew saying he wants to slap,

1542
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: then he doesn't happen in a vacuum. He just wake

1543
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:04,439
Speaker 1: up and say, hey, guys, fuck everything I said about

1544
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 1: tox to masculine. I want to slap the il hugely.

1545
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:09,000
Speaker 1: That's not what he said, you know, to be honest,

1546
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 1: he didn't even threaten him. He said, according to you,

1547
01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:13,200
Speaker 1: this is how should handle it. But he didn't say

1548
01:17:13,200 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 1: he was going to anyway. My point being, uh, a

1549
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:19,400
Speaker 1: lot of this stuff doesn't happen in the vacuum. So

1550
01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:24,920
Speaker 1: when we're talking about you know, black women this, black

1551
01:17:24,960 --> 01:17:27,400
Speaker 1: men that and all this, it's not a vacuum. And

1552
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 1: even these and the thing is, even these black men

1553
01:17:30,240 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 1: that covet white women not in a vacuum correct societally influenced,

1554
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:38,000
Speaker 1: you know, my conditioning, it is being conditioned like they

1555
01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: are societally influencing in a culture that hates black people,

1556
01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: anti black, and they also want to opt into some

1557
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:46,719
Speaker 1: of that white privilege. They also want to run away,

1558
01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 1: run away from the problems of blackness and race. In

1559
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:53,880
Speaker 1: many cases, you know, you can't run away. We're still

1560
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 1: black in America. But you but they but they would try,

1561
01:17:57,640 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 1: you know. So Yeah, anyway, all that stuff, it's very complicated.

1562
01:18:01,240 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 1: I know it's a huge aside to not really say much,

1563
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 1: but it's real complicated. And those two motherfuckers probably have

1564
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,640
Speaker 1: no business talking about it because half of this is

1565
01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:12,720
Speaker 1: about you know, one of them is a hotel and

1566
01:18:12,760 --> 01:18:15,520
Speaker 1: the other one is always trying to say some inflammatory

1567
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:19,439
Speaker 1: shit just to get attention. So anyway, if you find

1568
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,639
Speaker 1: a Connecting Detroit to ship you one of those shoe

1569
01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:24,559
Speaker 1: boxes from that lunch for that restaurant, please share, because

1570
01:18:24,560 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 1: I like to buy one too. Now I would never

1571
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,759
Speaker 1: feel a shame when I pack a cool little food

1572
01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:31,160
Speaker 1: when I go to on the Amma track, I will

1573
01:18:31,200 --> 01:18:35,639
Speaker 1: feel even more connected to my hairs. Come yep, even

1574
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:38,200
Speaker 1: he says, I don't know what's going on between Dan

1575
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:40,519
Speaker 1: Gaspy and B. Smith, but the optics don't look good,

1576
01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 1: and he has his mistress looking after his wife. Now,

1577
01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:45,880
Speaker 1: if there's some unfortunate incident with B Smith, then you

1578
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:49,559
Speaker 1: know everyone gonna be side. I needs to Yep, that's true,

1579
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 1: Katriz two O six. I thought it would never happen

1580
01:18:53,000 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: to me, but that I was on the highway laughing

1581
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,799
Speaker 1: hysterically wondering if I should just pull over to avoid

1582
01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:02,080
Speaker 1: a collision. You are Nick Cannon's commentary had me weak.

1583
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:05,479
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you trace Wind, who says wow at

1584
01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 1: this Dan Gasy slash B Smith article. Roddick Carre and

1585
01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:10,799
Speaker 1: this food didn't have to tell any of his business

1586
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,120
Speaker 1: to the world. But of course this dumb ass, shiftless

1587
01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 1: ass Negro Tobias well Voice just had to brag on

1588
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 1: his new side piece, even after his old own daughter said, Hey, bro,

1589
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:23,400
Speaker 1: don't do that shit. Some folks are just done by

1590
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 1: default anyway. Thanks for another great win, Roddy Carring, trace Win, Dude,

1591
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: thank you. Grand Shuggar says the whole B Smith slash

1592
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:32,600
Speaker 1: Dan Gassy thing is hella messy and tucked away in

1593
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:35,599
Speaker 1: the Washington Post article is a line about how when

1594
01:19:35,600 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 1: B Smith was lucid, moments she was not okay with

1595
01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:45,599
Speaker 1: gassy actions. He is all the way wrong, damn for real? Wow, Yeah,

1596
01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:48,479
Speaker 1: because see I think that's the other thing is they

1597
01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 1: could make that like, well, before she started really dealing

1598
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 1: with this disease, she still was kind of cognizant. We

1599
01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:57,680
Speaker 1: used to have a conversation and I was like, this

1600
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: might happen. Is that okay? And she said yes, And

1601
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:02,759
Speaker 1: this is arrangement we came to, as you know, privately,

1602
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 1: as a couple. And I can see that. And now

1603
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 1: still don't know why you're going to Washington Post, but

1604
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 1: I can see you saying something like that and being like, okay,

1605
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 1: like maybe this is something that happened, and you know,

1606
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 1: I get it. Nope. When b was lucid, this is

1607
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 1: a quote. When b was lucid, she and Dan sometimes

1608
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 1: clashed over his flirtations. Now in photos and videos Dan

1609
01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: posts on social media, his wife and his girlfriend seemed

1610
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:27,559
Speaker 1: like friends. But are they right? Wow? Wow?

1611
01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 3: Who that woman is?

1612
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:34,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, everything I read about it just get worse. Man,

1613
01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:37,320
Speaker 1: why not just keep it private or something?

1614
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 3: That's all you had to do?

1615
01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:41,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not. I mean, it's it's you know,

1616
01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 1: once again, I don't have all the answers because I've

1617
01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:45,479
Speaker 1: never been in that situation. I don't know what the

1618
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:46,240
Speaker 1: right thing.

1619
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:47,240
Speaker 3: To do is correct.

1620
01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:50,920
Speaker 1: I just know going polar with that scene pretty not

1621
01:20:51,479 --> 01:20:52,600
Speaker 1: a good idea.

1622
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:56,160
Speaker 4: Right, because now you have other you're getting other people involved,

1623
01:20:56,520 --> 01:20:57,960
Speaker 4: and people that I question, other.

1624
01:20:57,840 --> 01:20:59,240
Speaker 3: People, family and friends.

1625
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:02,680
Speaker 4: That was like, I don't know or either that's not

1626
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 4: my story to tell. You know, they're getting phone calls,

1627
01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:09,240
Speaker 4: they're getting inquiries. They were like, nigga, shut the fun up, not.

1628
01:21:09,320 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 1: Even not even asking the family, just the fact that

1629
01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 1: you went public with it. Now, you know, in the

1630
01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:18,160
Speaker 1: public discussion for everybody else who ain't married to none

1631
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:21,519
Speaker 1: of y'all, Like, you gotta be careful with this shit, man,

1632
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:24,840
Speaker 1: like all this shit not for public consumption. And then

1633
01:21:25,080 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 1: the other part is that he goes on social media

1634
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:30,519
Speaker 1: and acts an ass about it. So it's it's not

1635
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 1: even like he said it and he's secure with it.

1636
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 2: I feel like you secure with it. You say it

1637
01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:37,879
Speaker 2: and you like and fuck how y'all.

1638
01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:39,920
Speaker 3: Feel right, But he's not, and you go to hell

1639
01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:41,320
Speaker 3: by his response.

1640
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:42,760
Speaker 1: Like you still going back and forth with people on

1641
01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 1: Facebook over this. How why uh the poet was Dan

1642
01:21:46,600 --> 01:21:49,160
Speaker 1: Gassey tripping and going public for his new with his

1643
01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 1: new white woman. Nah? Just I just put woman uh

1644
01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:56,760
Speaker 1: with his new white with his new woman while still

1645
01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:57,759
Speaker 1: caring for his wife.

1646
01:21:58,040 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 2: Yes, he tripping those things reasonable to me.

1647
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 1: Five percent of y'all thinks seems reasonable to go in

1648
01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:04,679
Speaker 1: the watching them posts and do this. Ninety five percent

1649
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 1: of y'all think he's tripping. Book when Shoe Babe says

1650
01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 1: that Nigga was absolutely tripping. As long as you're still married,

1651
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:12,720
Speaker 1: making your side he's visible to the world is problematic,

1652
01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:15,200
Speaker 1: especially if your current spouse is sick or die. It's

1653
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 1: very disrespectful. When my ex husband and I separated and

1654
01:22:18,080 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 1: I moved out our marriage at being done, I mean

1655
01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:23,160
Speaker 1: done done. We both had lovers outside our marriage, but

1656
01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:25,600
Speaker 1: nobody knew about it because the optics of it, the

1657
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 1: ink on the death certificate or on the divorce decree

1658
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:30,280
Speaker 1: has to be dry before you show off your new boot,

1659
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:32,679
Speaker 1: and even then it's still gonna be a trouble path.

1660
01:22:33,040 --> 01:22:35,120
Speaker 1: I think people would be able to be more forgiven

1661
01:22:35,160 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 1: if she weren't in the same house as b Smith

1662
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 1: or I or if he was more discreet. It's unfair

1663
01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:44,040
Speaker 1: for us on the outside to expect him to live

1664
01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 1: as a monk. He should be free to have human companionship,

1665
01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:49,320
Speaker 1: sexual relationships, etc. With a partner who was emotionally and

1666
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:53,519
Speaker 1: physically available, but he shouldn't be on the endnet Flaunet. Yeah,

1667
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:56,760
Speaker 1: I think I'm kind of on that last that last part. Well,

1668
01:22:56,920 --> 01:22:59,600
Speaker 1: like if that's something I don't I don't know what

1669
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:02,080
Speaker 1: it's like to commit yourself to the rest of your

1670
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:05,519
Speaker 1: life of and I will never you know, my partner

1671
01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 1: is not able to be there, you know, as a

1672
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,360
Speaker 1: companion's actually all this stuff. I am going to take

1673
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: care of her because that's my not just my obligation,

1674
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 1: but I want to, you know. But yeah, but then

1675
01:23:18,320 --> 01:23:20,320
Speaker 1: the rest of this my life, I'm just gonna be

1676
01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 1: a monk. Like, yeah, I can understand how that's not

1677
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 1: a realistic thing. But then, like I said, we was.

1678
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 1: If I was on here, like me and the white

1679
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:32,000
Speaker 1: woman at tips, y'all would be like, the fuck are

1680
01:23:32,080 --> 01:23:34,200
Speaker 1: you doing? And y'all would be.

1681
01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:37,920
Speaker 4: Right, what is this right as none of their business

1682
01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:41,320
Speaker 4: and then be yeah, it's gonna be a mother fu problem.

1683
01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, how did you not see that coming homes Like,

1684
01:23:45,040 --> 01:23:47,920
Speaker 1: no part of you was like, M I think people

1685
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:53,439
Speaker 1: might not be down with this ship, all right, Charles H.

1686
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:56,760
Speaker 4: Baker, You and Fuji Apple that that y'all having to

1687
01:23:56,760 --> 01:23:58,040
Speaker 4: show together won't work well?

1688
01:24:01,320 --> 01:24:05,960
Speaker 1: All right, Charles, her name Poby still be caring. That's

1689
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:10,519
Speaker 1: the only thing Charles H. Baker says, from what I

1690
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:13,799
Speaker 1: heard and read, b Smith doesn't recognize her husband, her

1691
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:15,920
Speaker 1: daughter a husband's girlfriend any longer.

1692
01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 2: She's really not herself anymore.

1693
01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:19,160
Speaker 1: Body is that her mind is gonna Also, I heard

1694
01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:22,720
Speaker 1: that B Smith's daughter has no objection to Gasby's relationship.

1695
01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:26,640
Speaker 1: I would like to see that. I've looked up and

1696
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:27,280
Speaker 1: read about it.

1697
01:24:27,320 --> 01:24:28,799
Speaker 2: I did not see that she has no objection.

1698
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:32,320
Speaker 1: But plus, we never know what arranges America. Butles made

1699
01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:34,200
Speaker 1: b Smith might have told gays and she wants them

1700
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:36,880
Speaker 1: to find someone. We don't know. We'll see. The thing,

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01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:40,320
Speaker 1: Charles is if that's true, he would have said it,

1702
01:24:41,560 --> 01:24:43,880
Speaker 1: because you think he was that public with everything else.

1703
01:24:43,920 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 2: But that's the one piece of information he old him back.

1704
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:49,000
Speaker 1: If it was If that was the truth, you know,

1705
01:24:49,080 --> 01:24:50,400
Speaker 1: he would have been That would have been the first

1706
01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:52,160
Speaker 1: thing out of his mouth. Was like me and my

1707
01:24:52,320 --> 01:24:54,920
Speaker 1: wife talked about this and we said it was gonna

1708
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 1: be this is gonna be okay, this arrangement when she

1709
01:24:57,960 --> 01:24:59,960
Speaker 1: was lucid, when she was still here, when she got died.

1710
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:02,200
Speaker 2: This is one of the things we talked about.

1711
01:25:02,640 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 3: You know.

1712
01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:05,200
Speaker 1: So, nah, I don't buy that shiit homie, And I

1713
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:07,760
Speaker 1: know you really don't need the charles that being said

1714
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:12,280
Speaker 1: you and this is important. You can't say it's my

1715
01:25:12,479 --> 01:25:16,640
Speaker 1: business as you're telling it to people. You can't do that.

1716
01:25:17,840 --> 01:25:21,800
Speaker 1: Come on now, it's not it's not realistic, you know,

1717
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:25,559
Speaker 1: like you gotta have some understanding. And I've been here before,

1718
01:25:26,240 --> 01:25:28,360
Speaker 1: you know, we we we do a show. We are

1719
01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:32,559
Speaker 1: publicly together. We y'all come in, are invited into our

1720
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:35,559
Speaker 1: life to a little window we allowed, right, But y'all

1721
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:38,080
Speaker 1: don't know every fucking thing about our business. Come on now,

1722
01:25:38,640 --> 01:25:42,559
Speaker 1: come on now. It's like if if, and if somebody

1723
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 1: starts judging us off of what they've seen of us,

1724
01:25:45,200 --> 01:25:47,800
Speaker 1: then there's only so much we can do. I can't

1725
01:25:47,800 --> 01:25:50,840
Speaker 1: be like, it's mind your fucking business. I literally do

1726
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:54,080
Speaker 1: this for a living. Karen does this for a living.

1727
01:25:54,640 --> 01:25:56,519
Speaker 1: We are only allowed to really tell y'all to mind

1728
01:25:56,560 --> 01:25:59,240
Speaker 1: yall business to a certain extent, Like if it's some

1729
01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:01,160
Speaker 1: shit we don't s share with y'all of some shit

1730
01:26:01,240 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 1: that y'all done, pride into that, y'all have no business. Okay, cool,

1731
01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:07,559
Speaker 1: But if it's just like, yeah, the other day, Cam

1732
01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:09,439
Speaker 1: walked in the room and slapped me, and then y'all

1733
01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:12,000
Speaker 1: be like, Yo, she shouldn't be slapping you. What's wrong

1734
01:26:12,040 --> 01:26:16,879
Speaker 1: with her rights? That's my wife, Nigga, Like, what what's

1735
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 1: coming from?

1736
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 3: Yeah? I have a question me too? What is wrong

1737
01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 3: with me?

1738
01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:23,080
Speaker 1: Right? Women? Yeah? Man, the other day I woke up,

1739
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:24,479
Speaker 1: she had a knife to my neck. You know, ha

1740
01:26:24,479 --> 01:26:27,519
Speaker 1: ha ha, ry that's dangerous and she might be trying

1741
01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:30,639
Speaker 1: to kill you. Mind your business, okay when grown folks

1742
01:26:31,000 --> 01:26:34,479
Speaker 1: is handling their relationship like nah, nigga can't have that

1743
01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:38,439
Speaker 1: both ways. He publicly went public with this fucking woman

1744
01:26:38,479 --> 01:26:40,320
Speaker 1: living in the house, which your wife took pictures and

1745
01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:42,720
Speaker 1: was in the motherfucking watching the posts. You don't get

1746
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:44,720
Speaker 1: to turn around to be like, y'all don't know what

1747
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 1: you're talking about? What inn you told us enough? You

1748
01:26:47,200 --> 01:26:50,280
Speaker 1: should have told us more or nothing or nothing is

1749
01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:52,800
Speaker 1: what I suggest. Nut Boy says, I didn't like the

1750
01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:54,599
Speaker 1: way he announced it to the world, it felt like

1751
01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:58,080
Speaker 1: oversharing to the world of private issues, or he's doing

1752
01:26:58,120 --> 01:27:00,599
Speaker 1: it proudly, which was in poor taste. I just don't

1753
01:27:00,600 --> 01:27:04,080
Speaker 1: dig how the brother chosen to unnecessarily announces this publicly

1754
01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:06,479
Speaker 1: to the world, but are shocked at the backlash he's facing.

1755
01:27:07,000 --> 01:27:09,000
Speaker 2: This could all go away if.

1756
01:27:08,880 --> 01:27:11,720
Speaker 1: He says black history rum. Yeah. Actually, you know what

1757
01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:14,479
Speaker 1: he should really do. What he should have done in

1758
01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: the first place, is he should have came out and

1759
01:27:20,560 --> 01:27:23,599
Speaker 1: went total hotel and just been like this my white woman, okay,

1760
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:27,160
Speaker 1: and we I am tired of just I'm gonna be

1761
01:27:27,160 --> 01:27:30,240
Speaker 1: honest with y'all. I'm tired of going out to the

1762
01:27:30,280 --> 01:27:34,200
Speaker 1: restaurants people asking us questions. So now they all know, okay,

1763
01:27:34,600 --> 01:27:37,800
Speaker 1: maybe that's what may I'm just ripping the band aid

1764
01:27:37,880 --> 01:27:42,400
Speaker 1: off when you see when you see, yes, I am

1765
01:27:42,520 --> 01:27:46,879
Speaker 1: fucking her, Okay, So stop asking all these goddamn questions,

1766
01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:49,479
Speaker 1: you know, is it Black's like maybe that's he just

1767
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:51,800
Speaker 1: didn't go far enough. You know, I've been looking at

1768
01:27:51,800 --> 01:27:54,400
Speaker 1: this backwards the whole time, and he should have been

1769
01:27:54,400 --> 01:27:56,920
Speaker 1: he should have been more vocal like, oh, it's not

1770
01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:59,640
Speaker 1: about taking care of her. It's about taking care of

1771
01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:09,000
Speaker 1: me and this dirt, all right? Why would you tell people?

1772
01:28:09,000 --> 01:28:09,320
Speaker 1: All right?

1773
01:28:09,840 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 3: Why? Why?

1774
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:15,760
Speaker 1: Oh? Let's see we had any voicemails this week? I

1775
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:21,360
Speaker 1: think we may have a voicemail on Skype, which of

1776
01:28:21,360 --> 01:28:25,559
Speaker 1: course is going to move very slowly because why would

1777
01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:27,439
Speaker 1: it work the right way?

1778
01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:31,000
Speaker 2: But I didn't click that click here?

1779
01:28:32,840 --> 01:28:38,679
Speaker 1: Oh god, this is fucking brow all right? Is it working.

1780
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:42,479
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to keep it from calling because it

1781
01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:46,639
Speaker 1: does this thing where it's like your person. Yeah, okay,

1782
01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:51,479
Speaker 1: may if I go here, let's scroll down and then

1783
01:28:51,560 --> 01:28:53,920
Speaker 1: click this. Oh okay, this is how you do it

1784
01:28:53,960 --> 01:28:57,240
Speaker 1: through chat, not through calls. Okay, So yeah, we got

1785
01:28:57,240 --> 01:29:01,680
Speaker 1: a couple of voicemail or a voicemail for see if

1786
01:29:01,680 --> 01:29:05,200
Speaker 1: I could play it for my girl.

1787
01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:10,200
Speaker 5: Believe hey, you too. It is a legra. I am

1788
01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:13,800
Speaker 5: calling you right as the moment hit me, and it

1789
01:29:14,400 --> 01:29:16,920
Speaker 5: so that I don't forget because I'm all y'all, and

1790
01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:20,280
Speaker 5: I forget stuff because I get distracted really easily. But

1791
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:24,000
Speaker 5: the point of this call is to congratulate you guys

1792
01:29:24,040 --> 01:29:27,240
Speaker 5: for the New York Times shout out. I'm glad the

1793
01:29:27,280 --> 01:29:29,120
Speaker 5: rest of the world, or at least the rest of

1794
01:29:29,120 --> 01:29:33,080
Speaker 5: this country is catching up with you. So so proud

1795
01:29:33,320 --> 01:29:36,400
Speaker 5: to be part of you, guys, this community, So proud

1796
01:29:36,439 --> 01:29:41,040
Speaker 5: to have found you guys, so excited that you are

1797
01:29:41,200 --> 01:29:45,679
Speaker 5: getting your recognition. You too deserve it. You both work

1798
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:49,120
Speaker 5: very hard and you put out great content. One of

1799
01:29:49,160 --> 01:29:51,400
Speaker 5: these days I'll be your premium member, but we won't

1800
01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:57,720
Speaker 5: discuss that right now anyway. Congrats to you both. All

1801
01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:01,040
Speaker 5: the love that I can get it goes to you too,

1802
01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:06,599
Speaker 5: and thank you so much for giving us you both

1803
01:30:06,680 --> 01:30:12,479
Speaker 5: and being real. I really appreciate it. Thanks, guys. I'm

1804
01:30:12,479 --> 01:30:14,320
Speaker 5: not sure that I'm old you guys.

1805
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:20,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. You know we're trying. You know, it's good

1806
01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:23,599
Speaker 1: to be mentioned, it's good to be uh to be uh,

1807
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:29,400
Speaker 1: you know, uh, give us some recognition, man. You know,

1808
01:30:29,479 --> 01:30:34,240
Speaker 1: we've definitely been grinding for a long time, so uh,

1809
01:30:34,439 --> 01:30:40,479
Speaker 1: we appreciate everybody. And that was dope, man, James. All right,

1810
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 1: we got some emails the Black Gyur Tips at gmail

1811
01:30:43,400 --> 01:30:45,800
Speaker 1: dot com. First of all, we got a five star

1812
01:30:45,880 --> 01:30:50,599
Speaker 1: review from outside the US from Australia. Yay a relief.

1813
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 1: This podcast has become my family cookout while living in Australia.

1814
01:30:55,240 --> 01:30:58,240
Speaker 1: My favorite part of my day. The segments are the best.

1815
01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 1: The intro rants and rot the rod does always gets

1816
01:31:01,439 --> 01:31:05,400
Speaker 1: me Donna laughing. Had to finally put in my five stars.

1817
01:31:05,479 --> 01:31:10,080
Speaker 1: Keep up the gut work. This is from Who's the

1818
01:31:10,200 --> 01:31:15,440
Speaker 1: same from Australia. It doesn't say who wrote it it iTunes.

1819
01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:17,800
Speaker 1: Oh bye for the black ouyt who tips, that's who.

1820
01:31:18,000 --> 01:31:19,719
Speaker 1: That's who wrote it for the black out tips.

1821
01:31:19,720 --> 01:31:20,800
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1822
01:31:21,479 --> 01:31:24,280
Speaker 1: That's all we asking for. Okay, we'll reach you internationally.

1823
01:31:26,920 --> 01:31:27,559
Speaker 1: Let's see.

1824
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:29,400
Speaker 4: I know.

1825
01:31:30,880 --> 01:31:32,600
Speaker 1: What is this one? Did I put this in the

1826
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:36,519
Speaker 1: wrong folder? Okay, yeah, I actually put.

1827
01:31:36,320 --> 01:31:37,200
Speaker 2: This in the wrong folder.

1828
01:31:37,280 --> 01:31:40,000
Speaker 1: So let's put this back in the inbox, the old

1829
01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:44,600
Speaker 1: inbox here. That's my bad, guys. Okay, why can't I

1830
01:31:44,640 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 1: just move it to the inbox? Do I have to

1831
01:31:46,479 --> 01:31:50,240
Speaker 1: type in inbox? Oh goddamn, Okay, I don't know how

1832
01:31:50,280 --> 01:31:55,080
Speaker 1: to do that. Move to Gmail? All right, all right,

1833
01:31:55,520 --> 01:32:01,720
Speaker 1: let's see Leonardo right saying hello guys, Hello, Neil Leonardo.

1834
01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:05,800
Speaker 1: Y'all always coming up with some message that be right

1835
01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:07,720
Speaker 1: on time. And this is why I messed with y'all.

1836
01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:10,040
Speaker 1: You take the time to fully discussed thing to try

1837
01:32:10,080 --> 01:32:12,360
Speaker 1: to make sure all the listeners walk away with some understanding.

1838
01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:15,240
Speaker 1: A while back. You guys had an episode about financials

1839
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:18,400
Speaker 1: and paying things off. At the time, I was in

1840
01:32:18,479 --> 01:32:21,960
Speaker 1: my white in law's basement with my newborn daughter, and

1841
01:32:22,000 --> 01:32:24,479
Speaker 1: that really resonated with me. As a twenty six year

1842
01:32:24,479 --> 01:32:26,880
Speaker 1: old that's the only one. That's the only one with

1843
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:28,880
Speaker 1: a wife and a kid. None of my friends really

1844
01:32:28,920 --> 01:32:31,160
Speaker 1: understood how I was feeling at the moment, and you

1845
01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:32,960
Speaker 1: guys really spoke some words that made me want to

1846
01:32:33,040 --> 01:32:35,840
Speaker 1: keep saving my bread so that we could move out

1847
01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:38,800
Speaker 1: and buy a house. I can understand where Terry's coming from. Oh,

1848
01:32:38,880 --> 01:32:42,200
Speaker 1: by the way, that's dope. You know, I wish I

1849
01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:46,320
Speaker 1: had that type of mentality did at that age. You know,

1850
01:32:46,600 --> 01:32:49,920
Speaker 1: although in all Fairers we kind of did like it

1851
01:32:50,080 --> 01:32:52,639
Speaker 1: just was a struggle, but we did, like we script

1852
01:32:52,640 --> 01:32:56,120
Speaker 1: and saved and fucking put money aside and worked hard

1853
01:32:56,160 --> 01:32:58,320
Speaker 1: and all that stuff. And you know, we're doing better

1854
01:32:58,400 --> 01:33:01,120
Speaker 1: than we were at the time. We have paid off

1855
01:33:01,200 --> 01:33:05,200
Speaker 1: more stuff because you know, a lot of people don't

1856
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:08,000
Speaker 1: talk about it, but like debt, like people always say,

1857
01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:09,920
Speaker 1: like put some money in savings and shit, which is fine,

1858
01:33:10,000 --> 01:33:14,000
Speaker 1: but you can be negatively saving because you're putting money

1859
01:33:14,040 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 1: in savings while accumulating debt, and the interest on debt

1860
01:33:17,200 --> 01:33:20,080
Speaker 1: is much higher than the interest on your savings, so

1861
01:33:20,160 --> 01:33:22,519
Speaker 1: you have to really balance that out, like what's more

1862
01:33:22,520 --> 01:33:26,520
Speaker 1: important payoff the shit that I owe that's also accumulating

1863
01:33:26,560 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 1: interest at a much higher rate, or put a couple

1864
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:30,360
Speaker 1: you know, put some money aside.

1865
01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:33,400
Speaker 2: And especially with the way most people operate with savings.

1866
01:33:33,200 --> 01:33:35,320
Speaker 1: You really can't get much in there, and then when

1867
01:33:35,360 --> 01:33:39,960
Speaker 1: you do, you end up taking it out sooner than later, you.

1868
01:33:39,920 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 4: Know, right, And like you said, it's a difficult choice

1869
01:33:44,520 --> 01:33:46,559
Speaker 4: to make because a lot of times when a lot

1870
01:33:46,600 --> 01:33:48,920
Speaker 4: of these people tell talk to people in general about

1871
01:33:48,960 --> 01:33:51,800
Speaker 4: saving and all this stuff, they're talking to people that

1872
01:33:51,920 --> 01:33:54,559
Speaker 4: have enough money to actually put a decent amount of

1873
01:33:54,560 --> 01:33:55,560
Speaker 4: money into savings.

1874
01:33:55,720 --> 01:33:57,320
Speaker 3: The average person can't do that.

1875
01:33:57,439 --> 01:33:59,600
Speaker 4: Like you, you need to focus on paying off the

1876
01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 4: debt to get to the point to where you can

1877
01:34:01,439 --> 01:34:03,839
Speaker 4: save and put it in there and it actually means

1878
01:34:03,840 --> 01:34:06,240
Speaker 4: something and it actually can accumulate and can it actually

1879
01:34:07,200 --> 01:34:08,599
Speaker 4: be beneficial to you?

1880
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:10,519
Speaker 3: You know, when people go, well, you know, you need

1881
01:34:10,560 --> 01:34:11,559
Speaker 3: three months work for.

1882
01:34:11,640 --> 01:34:15,160
Speaker 4: Salary, and the savings we're who can dabage person cannot

1883
01:34:15,200 --> 01:34:16,240
Speaker 4: afford that initially?

1884
01:34:16,280 --> 01:34:17,360
Speaker 3: What are we talking about here?

1885
01:34:17,479 --> 01:34:19,280
Speaker 4: Who is trying to put that money to the side

1886
01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:21,880
Speaker 4: when my loans are probably higher than the little bit

1887
01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:23,120
Speaker 4: of money, like said, a little bit of money I'm

1888
01:34:23,120 --> 01:34:25,120
Speaker 4: putting in there. And when I didn't something I know

1889
01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:27,160
Speaker 4: it might sound sity, but is something that I reasonedly learned.

1890
01:34:27,240 --> 01:34:30,880
Speaker 4: I didn't know that what compound interest was. Like, you

1891
01:34:30,880 --> 01:34:32,760
Speaker 4: know how well you do your credit card and you

1892
01:34:32,800 --> 01:34:34,720
Speaker 4: know your balance rolls, and they'd be like, well, you

1893
01:34:34,720 --> 01:34:37,960
Speaker 4: have compound interests. I didn't realize the compound interest is

1894
01:34:38,000 --> 01:34:40,920
Speaker 4: actually a daily interest. It's like a really small fraction

1895
01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 4: of interest that actually is accumulated daily. That's why a

1896
01:34:44,080 --> 01:34:46,280
Speaker 4: lot of times people wonder, why can't I never pay

1897
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:48,479
Speaker 4: this off? And why am I always paying the interest?

1898
01:34:48,520 --> 01:34:51,559
Speaker 4: And not principle, that's because it's a constantly growing thing.

1899
01:34:51,600 --> 01:34:53,920
Speaker 4: And this is one reason why they always are trying

1900
01:34:53,920 --> 01:34:56,120
Speaker 4: to get people to open up new credit cards. Another

1901
01:34:56,160 --> 01:34:59,080
Speaker 4: trick that they do, particularly when you're younger. When you're older,

1902
01:34:59,080 --> 01:35:01,559
Speaker 4: you're more wise wise when you're when you're younger, they

1903
01:35:01,600 --> 01:35:03,519
Speaker 4: don't tell you this. If you keep your credit cards

1904
01:35:03,520 --> 01:35:05,920
Speaker 4: paid off and pay low, they will actually increase your

1905
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:09,920
Speaker 4: credit limit without you asking a lot of times, and

1906
01:35:09,920 --> 01:35:11,479
Speaker 4: shit like that too, because at the end of the day,

1907
01:35:11,479 --> 01:35:13,920
Speaker 4: they want and they desire you to be into debt.

1908
01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:17,080
Speaker 1: I can understand where Terry's coming from because it's a

1909
01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:19,280
Speaker 1: big ass black man. One of my first things you

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Speaker 1: learned is you can't do what everyone else is doing.

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Speaker 1: If he had fought that, dude, we will be hearing

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Speaker 1: how he is out of control and all that bullshit.

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01:35:25,960 --> 01:35:27,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, a lot of people will be happy with

1914
01:35:27,640 --> 01:35:30,679
Speaker 1: him being a martyr. That's just real. Talk like him,

1915
01:35:30,800 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 1: they like listen. I don't know. I don't mean to

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Speaker 1: I don't mean it to sound mean, but it sounds

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Speaker 1: a little bit mean and it's not.

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Speaker 2: And I love my people and shit, but.

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Speaker 1: Some of these motherfuckers are much more happier worshiping a

1920
01:35:43,479 --> 01:35:46,880
Speaker 1: dead martyr than a live human being. Come on, it's

1921
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:49,519
Speaker 1: the way that everybody hates all these activists that are

1922
01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:52,200
Speaker 1: being an activist right now, But then they all love Martin,

1923
01:35:52,240 --> 01:35:55,000
Speaker 1: Luther King and Malcolm X when no motherfuckers was alive.

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01:35:55,160 --> 01:35:57,559
Speaker 1: It was other black people that have problems with them. Yes,

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01:35:57,760 --> 01:36:00,479
Speaker 1: it's never a mono lift to you dead. You know,

1926
01:36:00,920 --> 01:36:04,240
Speaker 1: Kaepernick wasn't the wokest king and shit until he fucking

1927
01:36:04,280 --> 01:36:06,800
Speaker 1: took that knee and he didn't get no job. Well,

1928
01:36:06,800 --> 01:36:08,559
Speaker 1: he was out here telling people not to vote or

1929
01:36:08,760 --> 01:36:10,960
Speaker 1: saying that he wasn't gonna vote, because both sides of

1930
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:12,920
Speaker 1: the same coin. It was a lot of black people

1931
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Speaker 1: that had a problem.

1932
01:36:13,600 --> 01:36:15,439
Speaker 2: With him, like, hey, man, what the fuck you doing?

1933
01:36:15,960 --> 01:36:18,040
Speaker 1: You got this platform, and it's the shit you want

1934
01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:21,120
Speaker 1: people listening to you to hear, like, you gotta think

1935
01:36:21,120 --> 01:36:23,600
Speaker 1: about these things, you know. And I'm not saying he

1936
01:36:23,640 --> 01:36:25,799
Speaker 1: hadn't thought about them, but you know, that's how people felt.

1937
01:36:25,800 --> 01:36:28,120
Speaker 1: They felt like they could disagree now that he ain't

1938
01:36:28,160 --> 01:36:30,360
Speaker 1: got no job, right, he's a martyr in the sense,

1939
01:36:30,400 --> 01:36:32,439
Speaker 1: and now it's all just he need to have a job.

1940
01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:35,639
Speaker 1: I know that much. We can all agree on his suffering.

1941
01:36:35,720 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 1: That's what they would have did with Terry Crews. Some

1942
01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:40,360
Speaker 1: people wont that. They'd rather him not be making a

1943
01:36:40,400 --> 01:36:43,200
Speaker 1: living so we can go, Oh, these white people, they

1944
01:36:43,240 --> 01:36:47,320
Speaker 1: hate a black man. It's inconvenient that he's alive, living,

1945
01:36:47,680 --> 01:36:50,559
Speaker 1: making a living and also calling out other black people

1946
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:52,879
Speaker 1: like yo, this shit is fucked up. We shouldn't support,

1947
01:36:53,280 --> 01:36:57,559
Speaker 1: you know, villainifying and demonizing survivors of abuse. They don't

1948
01:36:57,640 --> 01:37:01,599
Speaker 1: like that anyway. And yeah, he's a big black man.

1949
01:37:01,600 --> 01:37:03,000
Speaker 1: He will punch that dude. Have been the wrap for

1950
01:37:03,080 --> 01:37:05,600
Speaker 1: him anyway. Love to show you guys are one of

1951
01:37:05,600 --> 01:37:08,240
Speaker 1: the constants in my life, even though I don't know

1952
01:37:08,320 --> 01:37:11,080
Speaker 1: y'all on a personal level. Character reactions and ad libs

1953
01:37:11,080 --> 01:37:13,040
Speaker 1: are the funniest part to show to me. I love

1954
01:37:13,080 --> 01:37:17,080
Speaker 1: the way you guys covered Trump. Love Thank you, Leonardo.

1955
01:37:18,640 --> 01:37:22,200
Speaker 1: Let's see what else you got here. We got this

1956
01:37:22,360 --> 01:37:29,680
Speaker 1: from uh Ka, who says, uh oh, hey, Rod and

1957
01:37:29,720 --> 01:37:32,040
Speaker 1: Karen recently caught up on Balls he sports and listen

1958
01:37:32,040 --> 01:37:33,840
Speaker 1: back in Good episodes from a couple of weeks ago

1959
01:37:33,920 --> 01:37:35,040
Speaker 1: and had several comments.

1960
01:37:35,120 --> 01:37:37,880
Speaker 2: One, please have Puerto Rico Soavee back on soon.

1961
01:37:37,920 --> 01:37:40,439
Speaker 1: He was fantastic. It was like seeing you guys tweek

1962
01:37:40,479 --> 01:37:43,479
Speaker 1: back and forth in real time. Laugh my ass off. Yeah,

1963
01:37:43,600 --> 01:37:47,960
Speaker 1: Dom is cool, dude, man. You know it's his team

1964
01:37:48,120 --> 01:37:51,479
Speaker 1: just bet uh the Sixers who didn't have Klay Thompson,

1965
01:37:51,560 --> 01:37:54,439
Speaker 1: and he was very excited about that for some reason.

1966
01:37:54,720 --> 01:37:54,840
Speaker 4: Uh.

1967
01:37:54,880 --> 01:37:58,719
Speaker 1: I was congrating him. Uh, but you know his team

1968
01:37:58,760 --> 01:38:00,960
Speaker 1: also was trying to ship out. I said, folks as

1969
01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:03,120
Speaker 1: I said they would, because they wouldn't just sit him

1970
01:38:03,120 --> 01:38:06,080
Speaker 1: for the year and let him heal and Jimmy Butler

1971
01:38:06,080 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 1: didn't make the All Star Game, even though Dom told

1972
01:38:09,240 --> 01:38:11,479
Speaker 1: me he was a top five to ten player in

1973
01:38:11,520 --> 01:38:16,840
Speaker 1: the NBA. And I said, no, he's top twenty. And

1974
01:38:16,880 --> 01:38:19,479
Speaker 1: he argued me down at the time, and I said, no,

1975
01:38:19,560 --> 01:38:22,280
Speaker 1: I won't back down from this. I know my shit,

1976
01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:26,200
Speaker 1: and you don't understand that these things I say may

1977
01:38:26,240 --> 01:38:30,240
Speaker 1: sound funny, but I'll be knowing what I'm talking about.

1978
01:38:30,360 --> 01:38:33,479
Speaker 1: And he refused to acknowledge that I was right. And

1979
01:38:33,520 --> 01:38:35,960
Speaker 1: then he slipped up the other day and said, well,

1980
01:38:36,000 --> 01:38:39,280
Speaker 1: Jimmy Butler still top twenty And I said, oh, oh,

1981
01:38:39,320 --> 01:38:41,919
Speaker 1: hold up, player, That's why I started.

1982
01:38:42,479 --> 01:38:43,320
Speaker 3: You see what I'm saying.

1983
01:38:43,479 --> 01:38:46,360
Speaker 1: So if you stick around long enough, eventually you had

1984
01:38:46,400 --> 01:38:48,800
Speaker 1: to concede that I'm right. I just want to know

1985
01:38:49,040 --> 01:38:52,639
Speaker 1: how many top five to ten players in the NBA

1986
01:38:53,600 --> 01:38:57,519
Speaker 1: wild healthy, not on suspension of underscandal haven't made it

1987
01:38:57,560 --> 01:39:03,040
Speaker 1: to the NBA All Star Team. I'll wait, and also

1988
01:39:03,280 --> 01:39:05,280
Speaker 1: let's add in this, how many haven't made it to

1989
01:39:05,280 --> 01:39:09,439
Speaker 1: the NBA All Star reserve roster, like just the people

1990
01:39:09,439 --> 01:39:13,160
Speaker 1: that are like the coaches pick okay, well, how many

1991
01:39:13,160 --> 01:39:15,240
Speaker 1: of those people also didn't even make it to the

1992
01:39:15,320 --> 01:39:18,760
Speaker 1: alternate roster when one person, Victor Oladipot, got hurt out

1993
01:39:18,760 --> 01:39:20,720
Speaker 1: for the season, so they need a replacement, and they

1994
01:39:20,720 --> 01:39:26,599
Speaker 1: get DiAngelo Russell and not Jimmy Butler. But that's your man, Okay.

1995
01:39:26,680 --> 01:39:30,360
Speaker 1: I rest my case number two. As a Chinese American,

1996
01:39:30,400 --> 01:39:33,240
Speaker 1: I thought Karen's Asian comments were hilarious. Good thing the

1997
01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:35,680
Speaker 1: show is behind the paywall or woke asing. Twitter may

1998
01:39:35,720 --> 01:39:38,600
Speaker 1: have tried to cancel YouTube. Don't add me up in

1999
01:39:38,680 --> 01:39:40,639
Speaker 1: it because I'll be the only one on the show

2000
01:39:40,680 --> 01:39:41,040
Speaker 1: like Karen.

2001
01:39:41,080 --> 01:39:42,080
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's racist.

2002
01:39:43,760 --> 01:39:47,599
Speaker 1: Those are Karen's thoughts, Okay, Like I will throw this

2003
01:39:47,640 --> 01:39:51,760
Speaker 1: black woman under the bus, just like b Smith. Oh

2004
01:39:52,600 --> 01:39:55,320
Speaker 1: uh three, that's how it's gonna have it carry or

2005
01:39:55,400 --> 01:39:57,360
Speaker 1: say something racist and get canceled. Then I'm gonna come

2006
01:39:57,360 --> 01:39:59,600
Speaker 1: out here with my white woman that lives in the

2007
01:39:59,600 --> 01:40:03,519
Speaker 1: House of t like guys, it's riding the white woman

2008
01:40:03,520 --> 01:40:06,080
Speaker 1: who tells guys, we are just back with a new

2009
01:40:06,120 --> 01:40:13,800
Speaker 1: episode number three. I too think Gusbatio is overrated. Have

2010
01:40:13,880 --> 01:40:16,599
Speaker 1: I have Oh yeah, that cold soup we had at

2011
01:40:17,160 --> 01:40:20,200
Speaker 1: bull y'all. It's tasty and I will never turn it down.

2012
01:40:20,280 --> 01:40:23,479
Speaker 1: But soup is meant to eat eating hot. That what

2013
01:40:23,600 --> 01:40:24,880
Speaker 1: that's a hell. I'm willing to die.

2014
01:40:25,520 --> 01:40:27,840
Speaker 3: The cold soup always throw me off.

2015
01:40:27,920 --> 01:40:31,120
Speaker 4: I don't know why because I always act sometimes is

2016
01:40:31,160 --> 01:40:34,000
Speaker 4: it hot of cold? Because I prefer cold. I mean

2017
01:40:34,040 --> 01:40:36,559
Speaker 4: hot soup. And like I said, I got cold soup

2018
01:40:36,560 --> 01:40:38,240
Speaker 4: for the first time. I was looking at them like

2019
01:40:38,439 --> 01:40:40,400
Speaker 4: I almost wanted to be like, can you hear this up?

2020
01:40:41,000 --> 01:40:44,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just letting y'all know for real. Dog. I

2021
01:40:44,240 --> 01:40:46,799
Speaker 1: don't know if that's racist or ed tig against the culture,

2022
01:40:46,840 --> 01:40:50,760
Speaker 1: but that cold soup is not for me. No offense. Uh.

2023
01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:55,800
Speaker 1: Tanya says uh, oh toy. Tony says, hey, it's toy.

2024
01:40:55,840 --> 01:40:59,080
Speaker 1: Two things. One beast. Smith's husband isn't wrong for one companionship.

2025
01:40:59,360 --> 01:41:01,559
Speaker 1: He is dead wrong for bringing that woman into his

2026
01:41:01,600 --> 01:41:04,679
Speaker 1: wife's house. It is disrespectful to his marriage and his family.

2027
01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:07,280
Speaker 1: My grandmother is friends with a man who is married

2028
01:41:07,280 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 1: to a woman with Alzheimer's. He is still in the

2029
01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:12,559
Speaker 1: marriage with her out of respect for his family and

2030
01:41:12,560 --> 01:41:15,360
Speaker 1: his love for her. It is his income and health

2031
01:41:15,360 --> 01:41:17,760
Speaker 1: insurance that is taking care of her. She is very

2032
01:41:17,760 --> 01:41:21,280
Speaker 1: well taken care of. My grandmother has zero intention of

2033
01:41:21,320 --> 01:41:24,320
Speaker 1: being his girlfriend and or wife. She definitely would never

2034
01:41:24,400 --> 01:41:26,639
Speaker 1: move into that nigga's house, like hell no. She took

2035
01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:29,280
Speaker 1: care of my grandfather until he died, and she thinks

2036
01:41:29,320 --> 01:41:31,160
Speaker 1: it is honorable that he wants to do the right

2037
01:41:31,200 --> 01:41:33,479
Speaker 1: thing by his wife too. I listen to y'all on

2038
01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:35,800
Speaker 1: Spotify and they don't let you leave reviews. Who can

2039
01:41:35,840 --> 01:41:38,880
Speaker 1: you talk to about this? I want to leave five stars?

2040
01:41:39,240 --> 01:41:41,799
Speaker 3: I do not understand that about Spotify, y'all.

2041
01:41:41,840 --> 01:41:45,599
Speaker 4: I wonder why they don't allow you to leave because

2042
01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:47,400
Speaker 4: guess that Spotify is a music platform.

2043
01:41:47,439 --> 01:41:49,920
Speaker 3: Most people don't leave views for music.

2044
01:41:49,680 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 4: But with the podcasting because they have a big d

2045
01:41:52,479 --> 01:41:55,760
Speaker 4: it's like all in one, which is very convenient. They

2046
01:41:55,800 --> 01:41:58,280
Speaker 4: should allow to have a system where you can leave.

2047
01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:00,719
Speaker 4: I do where you can leave five stars. Never understood

2048
01:42:00,720 --> 01:42:03,639
Speaker 4: that about them and another particularly Google Play. Why don't

2049
01:42:03,640 --> 01:42:05,599
Speaker 4: Why can't I leave five star review on Google Play?

2050
01:42:06,120 --> 01:42:10,080
Speaker 1: Huh hug and foughts and prayers for my girl, sugar Bag,

2051
01:42:10,520 --> 01:42:12,680
Speaker 1: high Caring and Rod. I just wanted to drop a

2052
01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:15,360
Speaker 1: quick line to send much love and condolences to your

2053
01:42:15,400 --> 01:42:18,599
Speaker 1: long time listening really dark Knight. I don't know exactly

2054
01:42:18,680 --> 01:42:20,960
Speaker 1: how he feels, but it's someone who dealt with that

2055
01:42:21,000 --> 01:42:25,439
Speaker 1: in my family. It's an unfathomly tough and devastating They

2056
01:42:25,600 --> 01:42:28,400
Speaker 1: are always the right words or react There are always

2057
01:42:28,439 --> 01:42:30,479
Speaker 1: the right words or reactions that will ease the loss

2058
01:42:30,479 --> 01:42:32,920
Speaker 1: and heal the pain. That said, I wish him the

2059
01:42:33,000 --> 01:42:36,040
Speaker 1: cliche love like healing, prayers and less pain and more

2060
01:42:36,120 --> 01:42:39,679
Speaker 1: laughter as time goes by. Love and commiserations, sugar bag.

2061
01:42:39,920 --> 01:42:42,519
Speaker 3: Thank you, very nice of you.

2062
01:42:42,760 --> 01:42:45,680
Speaker 2: And yeah, I think I speak for the entire community.

2063
01:42:45,240 --> 01:42:47,360
Speaker 1: When we say, you know, wish him the best and

2064
01:42:47,960 --> 01:42:50,600
Speaker 1: understanding that you know, that's a very difficult thing to

2065
01:42:50,640 --> 01:42:54,120
Speaker 1: go through. All right, guys, that's it for today. We

2066
01:42:54,280 --> 01:42:57,200
Speaker 1: appreciate y'all so much. Thank you for all the love

2067
01:42:57,360 --> 01:43:01,040
Speaker 1: and listens and the sharing and all that stuff. We

2068
01:43:01,080 --> 01:43:05,800
Speaker 1: will talk to you guys later. Until then, I love you.

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Speaker 3: I love you too.

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Speaker 4: Wo