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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: So you woke up this morning and probably did the

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Speaker 2: same exact thing you did yesterday morning in the morning before,

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Speaker 2: at the same exact time. Probably, right. We are creatures

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Speaker 2: of habit in the mornings, right, Yeah. And it's easier

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Speaker 2: in the morning when you're still half asleep to be

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Speaker 2: in habit form, right, because things get done then you

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Speaker 2: just stop them. Go Wait, did I use the bathroom? Yes?

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Speaker 2: I did, because I use the bathroom. It's the same

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Speaker 2: I remember. So as you got out of bed, were

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Speaker 2: you thinking, like, what, what's the purpose of the day? Well, okay,

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Speaker 2: to brush my teeth, get on the road in time,

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Speaker 2: get to the office, check my email, you know it,

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Speaker 2: and then before you know it, it's five o'clock and

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Speaker 2: your day just kind of melted away. Right time to

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Speaker 2: go home, get in that traffic, you get home, and

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Speaker 2: then you know what do I do now? I watch

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Speaker 2: the same thing every night?

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Speaker 3: Do I.

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Speaker 2: What habits are we getting into? They're standing in the

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Speaker 2: way of us really having momentum and purpose in our lives.

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Speaker 2: Is this making sense?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Very much?

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 2: Are you happy with your sense of purpose at work?

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Speaker 2: At school? Or in life?

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Speaker 3: Are you asking us this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, yeah, absolutely I am, and everyone

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Speaker 2: and myself go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I would say I am happy with my purpose or

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Speaker 3: what I think my purpose is right now, but I

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Speaker 3: know that I could do better, and I know that

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Speaker 3: there is more purpose out there than just what I'm

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Speaker 3: doing now.

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Speaker 1: And you know what, I would have given the same exact.

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Speaker 2: Answer, right. It's easy to give the answer because it's true,

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Speaker 2: though what you're saying is I mean, it's true, Yeah, Foggy.

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Speaker 4: It's impossible to be happy with where you are but

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Speaker 4: yet want to strive to have more. You can appreciate

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Speaker 4: where you are and think it's great, but at the

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Speaker 4: same time always trying to improve and do better. Well,

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Speaker 4: and I hate to use the term do better. I

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Speaker 4: don't really wanted to do better. No.

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Speaker 2: No, When you say that you're happy with or you are,

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Speaker 2: consider that an accomplishment. You know you've obviously done something

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Speaker 2: right and you maneuvered correctly to get you where you

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Speaker 2: are to this place of happiness. Are you are? But

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Speaker 2: are you happy with just staying right here?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, exactly like.

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Speaker 4: There's got any more right line, You're you're in where

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Speaker 4: you should be in your race, trying to improve every.

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Speaker 2: Day exactly, so they're saying gen z ers are a

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Speaker 2: good example. Generation z always trying to find purpose at

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Speaker 2: work or school, and like, where are you in your life?

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Speaker 2: I mean, are you Are you feeling like your life matters?

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Speaker 2: Does your life have direction? Or is your direction just

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Speaker 2: the same direction every day? Is it good to zig

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Speaker 2: and zag from time to time to learn new things?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I think the zig and the zag is super important.

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Speaker 3: I get uncomfortable with comfort, which I know sounds weird,

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Speaker 3: but I feel like I'm much more comfortable in discomfort

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Speaker 3: when things are all out of and you don't really

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Speaker 3: know where it's going. So you have this chance every

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Speaker 3: day if it's that way to create new opportunities and

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Speaker 3: learn new things, whereas if I'm doing the same thing

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Speaker 3: all the time, that stresses me out.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I wish there was more time in

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Speaker 1: the day because there's a lot of things during the

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Speaker 1: day you have to do, being a parent or being

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Speaker 1: you know, responsible for things, you have to do them,

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Speaker 1: and then we have all these things that were like, well,

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Speaker 1: I'd love to get that done as well. And if

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Speaker 1: if sometimes there's just not enough damn time to get

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Speaker 1: it all done. Amen, will add new things that you

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Speaker 1: really want to do.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy, Amen. You know, in between the two of you,

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Speaker 2: Gandhi and Danielle, the two of you have, in my opinion,

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Speaker 2: it sure looks like a very full day every day. Danielle,

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Speaker 2: you know, gosh it right, Gandhi. There's times Danielle is like, oh,

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Speaker 2: she went to the game, she would do this, she

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Speaker 3: She daniel exhausts me. I tell her that all the time,

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Speaker 3: just hearing her day. I'm like, I gotta take a nap.

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Speaker 2: I Danielle. Danielle exhausted me too. But Gandhi, you do

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Speaker 2: the same thing with your artwork, and you're you know,

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Speaker 2: you're always you seem to be doing stuff again of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like being busy. I like having stuff to do.

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Speaker 3: I also like to sit on my couch and do nothing.

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Speaker 3: All of those things. I have to have the ability

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Speaker 3: to do it all. And then also, you know, just

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Speaker 3: go off the math completely and do something totally different,

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Speaker 3: you know, go on a vacation or do something that

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Speaker 3: I haven't done before.

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Speaker 4: I think that's fun.

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Speaker 2: I think that that can be doing something different, maybe

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Speaker 2: that could be new purpose. My purpose is to do

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Speaker 2: something different than what I do every day. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: have rehearsed this purpose for so many years. We have

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Speaker 2: it down, We've accomplished this purpose. The purpose is to

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Speaker 2: come in every day, do this show with each other,

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Speaker 2: try to get out of here without you know, another

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Speaker 2: battle or or something. I don't know. But if we

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Speaker 2: really truly enjoy each other's company, which is great, is

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Speaker 2: that enough? I would think that we would want to

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Speaker 2: try to do something beyond these walls.

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Speaker 3: Right yeah, And I have course, and there's still opportunity

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Speaker 3: even within these walls to do stuff that's different. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I've been having so much fun with my podcast because

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Speaker 3: we're talking about things that we don't talk about on

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Speaker 3: this show that I'm very interested in that we can

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Speaker 3: kind of dive into and expose a whole new audience

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Speaker 3: to all different types of things. So even here, there's

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Speaker 3: still opportunity to do it differently.

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Speaker 2: Finding your purpose is so important. Uh is it snowing

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Speaker 2: right now? Oh no, please tell me now. Okay, it's

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Speaker 2: just very white ring. Okay, never mind, But finding your purpose,

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Speaker 2: you know, it's something you have to practice several times

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Speaker 2: a day. If ever, you catch yourself just kind of

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Speaker 2: maybe not. I don't know. Wait wait, wait, hold on,

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Speaker 2: what's my purpose today? What is your purpose in life?

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Speaker 2: What's your overall purpose? It's your five year purpose, your

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Speaker 2: one year purpose, if you want to look at it

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Speaker 2: that way. I don't know, but you know, having purpose

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Speaker 2: is so important for you. It makes you want to

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Speaker 2: wake up tomorrow and live another day. But if you

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Speaker 2: recognize that and try to zig and zag a little bit. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what's up, scary? I'm pretty happy.

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Speaker 5: I feel like there's more of a purpose out there

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Speaker 5: for me somewhere. But then I get feelings of I'm

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Speaker 5: feeling elfish for wanting more because I feel like, hasn't

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Speaker 5: the world given me enough? Shouldn't I be content where

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Speaker 5: I am?

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Speaker 2: So you should just pull up your tent and take

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Speaker 2: off what?

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Speaker 5: Well, No, I'm meaning like, I feel like there's got

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Speaker 5: to even more of a purpose. But then I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I should just be thankful for everything I've accomplished and

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Speaker 5: where I am now.

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Speaker 4: You can be thankful, but then want more, strive for more,

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Speaker 4: work harder to progress.

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Speaker 2: But then that other voice hits me and says, you're

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Speaker 2: being selfish for wanting more. Just be grateful now.

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Speaker 3: We Purpose doesn't necessarily mean you're you're collecting more things

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Speaker 3: or getting more material stuff. Purpose could just be, hey,

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Speaker 3: I want to save an animal or do something like that,

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Speaker 3: and I don't think there's a.

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Speaker 1: Spend more time with your family like that, right little things.

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Speaker 5: I've been doing that.

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Speaker 2: But you know it's there's nothing wrong with being grateful

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Speaker 2: with what you have. But does does it mean okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm grateful. I can stop now and well no. But

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Speaker 2: also keep in mind when you find purpose in your

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Speaker 2: life a lot of the times, a lot of the time,

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Speaker 2: it will it will radiate out and give other people

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Speaker 2: happiness or joy, or you're helping people out where you

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Speaker 2: find For instance, when Gandhi paints another painting, wo wow,

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Speaker 2: her purpose for that day? Check. I know, but someone's

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Speaker 2: going to get that painting and hanging on their wall,

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Speaker 2: and now look at them. Their light is their life

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Speaker 2: is now full of color, you know, and really happy.

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Speaker 3: It makes me happy to finish something and deliver it.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. Feel like your life

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Speaker 2: matters because it does. But as far as finding direction

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Speaker 2: in your life, well, you're in charge of that. That's

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Speaker 2: your responsibility and no one else's. You can't wait for

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Speaker 2: someone else to give you give you direction. You can

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Speaker 2: have people help you find your direction, maybe through counseling,

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Speaker 2: through a therapist, through a good friend who's great to

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Speaker 2: bounce things off of.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: So today the challenge is to roll into the weekend

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Speaker 2: and find some purpose you may have, just like Daniel saying,

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Speaker 2: not enough hours in the day. And you know I

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Speaker 2: was looking. I shared you with you, guys my freaking

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Speaker 2: list for the weekend. It's like good, It's almost you

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Speaker 2: feel like you're drowning because you how do I have

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Speaker 2: time to do anything interesting? Because I have to do

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Speaker 2: all these things? Well, you find the time. You have

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Speaker 2: to get it to yourself. It sounds simpler than it is.

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Speaker 2: But and there you go. You guys ready for a weekend? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: let's go. Can we just play music for the next

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Speaker 2: hour and please out everybody.

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Speaker 3: You guys wanted to do Flush the format jock jams

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Speaker 3: from the nineties.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know, Flush the format just takes so much effort.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll put something together we continue with the day,

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Speaker 2: we have a little more time left together, and then

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Speaker 2: the weekend is here.

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Speaker 1: Maybe