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Speaker 1: While good communication is one of the key aspects of

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Speaker 1: a good relationship, it's not always easy. It's not always easy, guys,

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Speaker 1: to tell your partner everything. Okay. In fact, most couples

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Speaker 1: hold back at least something out of fear that they

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Speaker 1: are going to upset their partner or hurt their feelings.

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Speaker 1: Now Here are a few examples from reddit dot com.

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Speaker 1: All right, so listen carefully, and if you guys have

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Speaker 1: others you might want to add or comment on these.

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Speaker 1: He needs to set better boundaries for his family or

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Speaker 1: their problems, and craziness will consume us both. He needs

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Speaker 1: to set better boundaries. This is a wife saying this

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Speaker 1: about her partner. He needs to set better boundaries with

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Speaker 1: his family, with his family, with his family or their problems,

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Speaker 1: and craziness is going to consume us both. Okay, can

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Speaker 1: you agree with that?

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Speaker 2: Oh well, okay, you're talking about my mama? Is that

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Speaker 2: what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: Did you talking about my mom? Exactly? Because you can't

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Speaker 1: say that somebody?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, can you you?

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Speaker 1: No? No? Absolutely? Not all right? All right, speaking of mother.

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Speaker 1: His mother is not a good person, period, say that.

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Speaker 2: You can't say that. I think that's because she's not

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Speaker 2: a good person to you. But he could she could

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Speaker 2: have been his everything, his all and all. So now

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Speaker 2: you got a problem. What else you need?

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Speaker 1: Man? Some days I'm just tired from work and just

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Speaker 1: want some me time. Can you say, I know you've

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Speaker 1: said that, I felt that.

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Speaker 2: Said I just went and got it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I've said it that you just want some me time?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just need some And like we have an agreement,

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Speaker 2: you know, because she knows I talk, I do radio,

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Speaker 2: and then I go do TV all day and I've

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Speaker 2: been entertaining and talking all day long. When I get

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Speaker 2: off work, this ain't the time to talk. Now we're

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Speaker 2: meeting the morning for coffee before I go to work.

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Speaker 2: We get it all out. But when I come home, Man,

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Speaker 2: she allows that for me because she knows. Let my

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Speaker 2: husband get in the front of that TV.

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Speaker 1: Set his food and do what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: And when he come up and go to bed, he'll

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Speaker 2: come up and go to bed, and she'll come down

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Speaker 2: there and wake me up. In that off, Steve, you're

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Speaker 2: sleep in the chair. I don't know how you just

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Speaker 2: sleep in this chair. But I stepped in the coffee.

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Speaker 1: Three years nothing. Yeah, all right, So what are some

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Speaker 1: of the things you wish you could say, but you

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Speaker 1: know you can't get away with Say that again. What

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Speaker 1: are some of the things you wish you could say,

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Speaker 1: but you know you can't get away with them. You

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Speaker 1: know you can't say you're getting on?

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Speaker 2: Come on, I like to shut the hell up. I

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Speaker 2: like to help him.

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Speaker 1: On my blanketed blank nerve.

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Speaker 2: And what right you can't say it? Though? All right

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Speaker 2: you be doing.

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Speaker 1: Don't try that too soon, too soon, all right, she.

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Speaker 2: Says, beautiful.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.