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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Eating While Broke.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Colleen Witt, and today we have a

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Speaker 1: very special TV host, entrepreneur podcaster that Beach exactly very

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Speaker 1: special guests I do.

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Speaker 2: We just have to end up bleeping them out for sol.

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Speaker 2: Do you believe about your social talk?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, well I heard it. It messes with the algorithms.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's probably true.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's why we haven't.

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Speaker 1: Weezy is from Horrible Decisions. She also has a TV

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Speaker 1: show called Sex Cells, and she.

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Speaker 2: Is an entrepreneur.

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Speaker 1: She owns podcast recording studios in New York. And am

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Speaker 1: I missing a market?

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Speaker 3: Not yet? If you recorded me in two months, you would.

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Speaker 1: Be okay hopefully, Alana and I real know, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: but I'm really excited to have Weezy. I met you

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Speaker 1: probably over a year ago, and literally like, I just

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Speaker 1: I love everything you're about and I plan to take notes.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, but what do you have us eating as

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Speaker 2: your broke dish today?

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Speaker 3: Well, my broke dish today is gourmet maca cheese because

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Speaker 3: I feel like, well, gourmet meat and macajeese because I

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Speaker 3: don't like to say hot dogs. It sounds cheap, and

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Speaker 3: the meal is cheap, But like when broke, I was like,

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Speaker 3: I need to feel full fast, and I always thought

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Speaker 3: that was like a protein and carbs, and so hot

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Speaker 3: dogs and macaroni and cheese like the easiest thing, even

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Speaker 3: though by itself, I feel like it tastes like shit.

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Speaker 3: So I just tried to dress it up what I had.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw that.

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Speaker 1: I saw these extra ingredients, and I didn't know which

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Speaker 1: direction your meal was going. So for our listeners, can

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Speaker 1: you say what is in.

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Speaker 2: The gourmet mecha cheese?

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Speaker 3: So I'm gonna be real with you. Allive oil is

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Speaker 3: very expensive when your rope like this is what eight

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Speaker 3: dollars for this? Maybe ten?

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Speaker 2: Probably?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I would use criscal but virgin olive oil. Lorry,

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Speaker 3: I don't know how to say his name, but Tony Shiericus,

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Speaker 3: I just call it Tony seasoning, Tony creole. So we

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Speaker 3: have the mixing bowls. I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: Oh I thought you were gonna drain the mac and

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Speaker 2: cheese water.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I didn't even have a bad I didn't

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Speaker 3: have a what's it called. I would take the top,

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Speaker 3: pour it out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we usually do that on the show. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this is just a fruit strainer.

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Speaker 2: But go on, what's the ingredients?

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Speaker 3: I like Nathan's. I'm not sure why. Hebrew National wasn't

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Speaker 3: my thing, but Nathan's was like the skinny ones. Like Nathan's,

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Speaker 3: We've got the cutting board of the knife so that

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Speaker 3: you can slice up the hot dogs, onions, butter, and milk.

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Speaker 2: Awesome.

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Speaker 1: Now it's funny because I've done mac and cheese before.

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Speaker 1: In my greatest accomplishment was adding tuna to the mac

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Speaker 1: and cheese. Okay, but I am excited because there's so much.

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Speaker 3: Don't go together. So I think it's the loster mac

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Speaker 3: and cheese and that's it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I was broke. I didn't. I don't even know there.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: But but no, I'm excited because this is my first

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Speaker 1: time ever in the history of living on this earth

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Speaker 1: having gourmet mac and cheese.

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Speaker 2: And it's really cool.

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Speaker 3: You know what I actually put in myra?

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Speaker 2: Look you getting all hyped into it? What what?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Now that I'm getting money when I make Gromet

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Speaker 3: mac and cheese for overall, I put like five different

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Speaker 3: type of cheeses in it, and I put a little

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Speaker 3: bit of beer whenever I Yes, I can't remember where

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Speaker 3: I learned about the beer from. But it's something about

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Speaker 3: the yeast and the beer. Oh my god, you can

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Speaker 3: taste it. It's so good. Beer costs extra money, so

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Speaker 3: I felt like I shouldn't added that.

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Speaker 1: No, no, but that's your But you now that you

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Speaker 1: make money, you actually.

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Speaker 2: Do to a still a twist on gormet maca cheer.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're hilarious. My mom hates it. She's like,

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Speaker 3: this is so ridiculous because every Thanksgiving we have hers,

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Speaker 3: then mine is the bougie back.

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Speaker 2: And you're mixed, right, So is your mom black?

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Speaker 3: My mom is black and my dad's is really okay,

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Speaker 3: maybe it should be Hebrew national.

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Speaker 2: You're hilarious.

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Speaker 1: My dad is Jewish and my mom is Jamaican. So

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Speaker 1: I have the same black and white mix because I

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Speaker 1: never ever meet it where the mom is black and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, that's crazy, all right.

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Speaker 3: You always see the other people was like, you're like

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Speaker 3: black and Jewish, You're like Drake.

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Speaker 1: Well, it used to be Lenny was the big thing

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Speaker 1: back in the day. People don't know nothing, You not

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Speaker 1: these young kids. But all right, weezy. So I am

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Speaker 1: dying to try this gourmet mac.

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Speaker 3: So come away. It's not gonna be good. Why you

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Speaker 3: say that, because think about the stuff we eat today.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you eat shitty meals all the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh let me tell you. I'm getting to the point

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Speaker 1: where I'm gonna start rating it. And I've been because

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Speaker 1: I've been pretty nice. Someone made tuna castrole.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna get me caught up. But this it was.

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Speaker 1: Literally it's tuna castrole and the pickled egg is the

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Speaker 2: If people said the worst pickled eg? Have you had

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Speaker 3: I thought castroles are for Caucasians. And this is the

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Speaker 3: Black Blact Network. It was.

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Speaker 1: It was two black sisters that owned a all black

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Speaker 1: a tuna castrole and it was absolutely that's terrible.

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Speaker 3: Putting the olive oil in the pan for the onions

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Speaker 3: because I like it to.

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Speaker 2: Caramel lote, okay, okay, But.

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Speaker 3: Also I'm gonna boil the hot dogs, start boiling the macacheese.

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Speaker 3: And while that's boiling, that's where I'd just be trying

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Speaker 3: to get the flavor with the onions, and shit tastes

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just learned the other day that some people seasoned

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Speaker 2: the onions. Are you one of those people?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Am I Karen? Now it was it was a black girl. Damn,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That's what I'm saying. I expect her

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Speaker 2: You you said you're a carot. You want to know.

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Speaker 3: Something that's just too black? My mom, every time she

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Speaker 3: watches my dog, won't feed the dog dog food. It's

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Speaker 3: is that chicken color different? Oh well, it has a

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Speaker 2: She seas in the dog's foods there's too bland, no way.

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Speaker 3: And every time I got the dog be peen out

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Speaker 3: of its ask. Actually, there's a very special day and

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Speaker 3: week for me. By the way, my parents, I moved

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Speaker 3: them to LA so they're flying tonight.

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Speaker 2: You moved them.

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Speaker 3: They live in Orlando, so literally I'm New York Orlando, LA.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I can't do this triangle. It's

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Speaker 3: me was like a big life goal that's summer Orlando.

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Speaker 1: First of all, that's a yeah, cause it would have

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Speaker 2: You moved them to a more expensive market.

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Speaker 3: I want them to be closer to me. This is

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Speaker 3: Orlando's where I'm from. So it was Honda Go on

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Speaker 3: my mom does. People probably see my mom all over

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Speaker 3: my content. But my dad was like, damn, I wish

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Speaker 3: wish we could have these moments together, Like I wish

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Speaker 3: And I was like, well, shit, you guys could be there,

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Speaker 3: and so yeah, I mean to me, it's crazy to

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Speaker 3: make this meal today. I actually walked by a T

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Speaker 3: a T Mobile store making the meal. I made it

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Speaker 3: shit again.

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Speaker 1: No, no, but you're making like really big moves.

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Speaker 2: I was.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited about having this conversation with you because

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Speaker 1: knowing that you came from Brokeness and seeing like you're

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Speaker 1: making like chess moves like effortlessly. So when I say like,

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Speaker 1: I'm pulling out the pen like, I've been working for

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Speaker 1: three thousand here equals twelve thousand. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not at the point where I'm playing chess.

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Speaker 1: So I'm literally excited about this episode because we're all

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Speaker 2: School, you, I hope. So yeah, So I hope.

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Speaker 1: I do the due deal with just tell us what

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Speaker 1: was going on when you were making Gourmet mac and Cheese,

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Speaker 1: the original, So I'll.

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Speaker 3: Tell you this, coming from Brokeness was.

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Speaker 1: Something that I thought you were gonna put the sorry.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were going to do the smaller pan

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Speaker 1: for the hot dogs, and I had your pan for.

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Speaker 3: That want of them first.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they you're gonna boil him in

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Speaker 3: This is the maca cheese potting.

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Speaker 2: No, it was the other because that pot small. I

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Speaker 2: love you.

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Speaker 1: I'm making my own okay, I'm staying out of the kitchen.

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Speaker 3: Said you're gonna take.

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Speaker 1: Just so you know, every time I get involved in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen, I burned someone's dish. So I need to

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Speaker 1: stay in my life, okay, okay, mae, yeah, because I've

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Speaker 1: been burning stuff on people's own meals, all right, So

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Speaker 1: so tell me what was going on.

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 3: So I actually grew up with money and there was

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Speaker 3: a stock market crash that happened that lost my parents

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Speaker 3: stroke that kept him out of work. And so after that,

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Speaker 3: I ended up dating a guy. It was just like

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Speaker 3: So started working at the mall, White House black market

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Speaker 2: Bike yeah, yeah, a little bit high play, yeah, high class.

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Speaker 3: That's my first I did, did you steal anything from them?

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Speaker 3: Like a few things? Okay, good, good, But then I

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Speaker 3: Yes, no way, all working at my house like market.

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Speaker 3: He's like, how are you gonna get there? I'm like

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Speaker 3: where I was going, That's where I was meeting these

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Speaker 3: Okay, my mom always wanted me to be with a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, without an e.

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Speaker 1: But how does it not that I also say that

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Speaker 3: like ten fifteen thousand for them. Lay down. And when

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Speaker 3: are we have two separate rooms? And every little thing

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Speaker 3: how much was my daughter making?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, we.

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Speaker 3: Got our own rooms. Okay. Then we go to the store.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you want something, I'll just get a lipstick.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, Mom, you can get more. You can

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Speaker 3: She was bugging out. And then we walk outside of

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, do you want to have dinner there?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing this with you. My mom is seventy seventieth

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Speaker 2: Oh, you said stay out the lane, so I'm staying.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching it.

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Speaker 3: I get cooked for.

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Speaker 2: Her now, Yo. You ain't been in the kitchen in

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Speaker 3: I cooked this morning.

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Speaker 2: Yo, I'm sorry you told me that. You told me

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Speaker 1: We almost about to burn down the whole even know

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Speaker 3: No, I can't. I was looking for another conterract. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'll move it to this one the ale I tried to.

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Speaker 2: I love it, No, but it was.

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Speaker 3: It was beautiful because my mom really was just so

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Speaker 3: a drink. She looks at me and she said, oh shit,

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Speaker 3: that was forty three dollars. She was let me sip slow.

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Speaker 3: But it's really great because for me, like I don't

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Speaker 2: I can only imagine.

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Speaker 3: I really really have wanted this for myself my life,

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Speaker 3: my daughter is called Charlemagne. It's just my mom is

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Speaker 3: like my daughter's on TV and they're like, really, what anfuse?

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean I feel really proud to do that.

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, and they come tonight. This is a big

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Speaker 1: freaking deal.

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Speaker 3: She's gonna get her nerves well.

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Speaker 2: And luckily you moved it right down the street.

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 5: So.

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Speaker 3: My mom wanted to get rid of her car. She

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Speaker 3: was like, I think I'm getting old. She had a

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Speaker 3: saw me parallel park. She started crying. I'm like, what's

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Speaker 3: wrong with you? She's like, I'm older than I thought.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I can do this shit. I

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Speaker 3: old lady. What if I hit somebody? Thought? And so

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Speaker 3: you know, parents don't want to give up too much

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Speaker 3: moved her in a walkable neighborhood. She'll figure it out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then now are they still together? So he's

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Speaker 1: when does your dad comes?

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Speaker 3: So my dad comes in tonight. He's just like as

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Speaker 3: mom to have a few days to herself. I'll take

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Speaker 3: care of my dad and then you know, okay, she's

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Speaker 2: There forever, Okay, Okay, So yeah, it's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about go back to your broke story, okay,

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Speaker 1: because I want to know how this elevation because it

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Speaker 1: seems like somewhere around your elevation that was like a

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Speaker 3: So the broke miss the brokest I think i'd been

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Speaker 3: was when I left the abusive X, right, he only

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Speaker 3: let me keep barely the clothes that I had that

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Speaker 3: I had when I like got with him.

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Speaker 2: Are we talking like emotional or physical abuse?

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Speaker 3: Physical and emotional? He was crazy. I mean, I don't

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Speaker 3: know how dark you can get on the show. But like,

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know it was bad because I just

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Speaker 3: kind of thought when a man is paying for things

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Speaker 3: for you, like you deal with a little bit of something, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And so to me, if you never close your fist,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So when I left him, he didn't give me anything.

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Speaker 3: It was really tough. I mean, mind you, I went

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Speaker 3: me to school that's how my parents were, to like

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Speaker 3: last pot holes, right, So it was really tough. And

440
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Speaker 3: I couldn't ask my parents for anything, didn't want to

441
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Speaker 3: tell them how bad it was.

442
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, so when I moved, he didn't want

443
00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,760
Speaker 1: to tell them because they were already struggling.

444
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Speaker 3: Yeah. And then I can't imagine how my mom would feel.

445
00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:23,919
Speaker 3: She's like, oh my god, was like excited about you

446
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,439
Speaker 3: having this rich boyfriend? Yeah, oh yeah, you know. So

447
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:29,120
Speaker 3: ended up finding a place I think it was seven

448
00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,320
Speaker 3: hundred a month, split the rent with a homegirls, a

449
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:35,080
Speaker 3: two bedroom in Orlando. He was right by Walmart, thank god,

450
00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 3: because that's where I was buying all the fucking hot dogs,

451
00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:40,000
Speaker 3: the mac and cheese. Wrong, but my number one broke

452
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,119
Speaker 3: thing I would do. So I used to hang with

453
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Speaker 3: all the trap news because hello, that was my jam okay,

454
00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,560
Speaker 3: and I'm from Florida, right, so like southern culture, big

455
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:54,080
Speaker 3: car shows, HBC's like it was just fun and basically

456
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,720
Speaker 3: what I would do if they were going to like

457
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:58,119
Speaker 3: buy a bottle or a table in the club, I

458
00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,159
Speaker 3: would see if I had like maybe thirty dollars to

459
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,440
Speaker 3: my account so that it would overdraft, I'd have them

460
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Speaker 3: give me the cash. And that was like my payday

461
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:05,400
Speaker 3: loan to myself.

462
00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:10,280
Speaker 1: Oh wow, hold that You are like really in deep

463
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Speaker 1: when you think of that strategy.

464
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah yeah.

465
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Speaker 3: My roommate and I at the time. I remember we

466
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 3: both got paid on different weeks. So there was a

467
00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 3: Thursday and we both got paid that or I got

468
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Speaker 3: paid that Friday. I was like, damn, we don't have

469
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 3: detergent left, but we want to go to the club.

470
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,359
Speaker 3: We had like twenty bucks. She was like, okay, we

471
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:31,159
Speaker 3: get vodka or detergent, and we got vodka. Okay, we

472
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,120
Speaker 3: use some body washing like clean shit. In the same

473
00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,239
Speaker 3: we were like, we got to go out and meet

474
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,960
Speaker 3: niggas to make more money. And it's crazy that, like

475
00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 3: that was what I thought being able to have success.

476
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Speaker 3: Look like I got to meet a rich guy, I

477
00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 3: got a date a basketball player, this fi or that guy. Yeah,

478
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,720
Speaker 3: which a lot of women still think they need to

479
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Speaker 3: do today.

480
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Speaker 1: I want to subscribe. I'm gonna say it openly. I

481
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 1: want to subscribe to the rich nigga club because I

482
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,640
Speaker 1: do the opposite. I'm like, are you broken, homeless? Let

483
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,240
Speaker 1: me help you. I can graduate you to the next week.

484
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: Oh no, trust me, you don't want to get in

485
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 1: that game. You know what the problem is because they'll

486
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 1: turn around to look at you and be like, I

487
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 1: know I'm homeless, but.

488
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 3: Oh no, my life, I think I'm better than you.

489
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,199
Speaker 3: The problem is, like I think now, a lot of

490
00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,680
Speaker 3: the dudes are in my industry right, so like the

491
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 3: people that I'm working amongst, I can't be out here

492
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,720
Speaker 3: like trying to fuck with these niggas for bread like

493
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 3: I used to. Don't get me wrong, I would still

494
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:27,880
Speaker 3: want Toby, but like for real, like you know, it's

495
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 3: like they'll know me from somewhere. I've seen me on something,

496
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 3: so I don't want to be a bird. Then I

497
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 3: just end up, you know, a bird with these niggas.

498
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 1: But whatever, I'll tell you right now, I am learning

499
00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 1: and I am done. So you know, if you ever

500
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 1: find a rich one, you can always slide on. Heyko,

501
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, because I've actually I've never actually dated

502
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Speaker 1: a rich dude.

503
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Speaker 3: My damnsel in distress thing all the time was just

504
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,199
Speaker 3: like I just really want to be able to like

505
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 3: out my you know, home parents, And it was true.

506
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 3: I was like, so, I'm just like working really hard

507
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 3: and I can't ut work college. But just like I'm

508
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 3: really smart. I read a lot. I was always like

509
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 3: doing a fucking sob story, which I'll tell you what,

510
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 3: my sugar daddy. A lot of the things that I

511
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,200
Speaker 3: think helped me now are the stock tips and investment

512
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 3: tips I got for my sugar daddy.

513
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Speaker 1: But didn't didn't you say, were your parents in stock markets?

514
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 1: Too though it crash okay, So you didn't want to

515
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 1: take tips from them, were you?

516
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Speaker 2: Like No?

517
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 3: But you know, with him, particularly my sugar daddy, I

518
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 3: remember he would get up at four o'clock in the morning,

519
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 3: five o'clock in the morning and watch the market, to

520
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 3: watch the markets in China wherever, just international stocks four

521
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 3: x right, things like that, and it never made me

522
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,679
Speaker 3: want his money. I always wanted to be him. I

523
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 3: always wanted to be that person that just had this, this, this,

524
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 3: this and that to me that was so attractive about him.

525
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 3: People used to always ask me how I could fuck

526
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 3: him and shit like that, and I was like, bro,

527
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 3: you don't know how rich the person is. You don't

528
00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 3: know how how much that drives me. The ambition that

529
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 3: made him sexier and sexier. So one day I eventually

530
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 3: just asked him like, hey, I really want to learn

531
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 3: the stock market, but like, you know, what, can I

532
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 3: put like five hundred dollars in? And he's like, that's

533
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 3: not a start. I'll give you ten thousand dollars if

534
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 3: you can make it grow. I forgot the timeframe. He said,

535
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 3: I'll reward you with another ten and he did wow,

536
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 3: And I kept growing it and growing it. I think

537
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 3: at the time I even put the money in T

538
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 3: Mobile think it opened, became a publicly traded company when

539
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 3: I worked there, became publicly traded and then it was

540
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 3: six dollars and then they went up to like thirty

541
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Speaker 3: and I probably get.

542
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Speaker 5: A lot of money.

543
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Speaker 1: So when you were doing the podcast, and this is

544
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Speaker 1: before I want to say, before everybody was on podcasting correct,

545
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: seven years ago? Yeah, I mean it was like before

546
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Speaker 1: the New wave or were you guys early in.

547
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 3: We were very early, and like people were very really

548
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 3: doing video, I think for popular podcasts, just for scale.

549
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: I don't understand how you're mixing water and oil and

550
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 1: you're not getting burns.

551
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 3: I'm standing away. I'm trying to like I didn't have

552
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 3: a grill, okay, but I'm trying to get that real plate.

553
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you know what I mean.

554
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: Okay, gourmet continue.

555
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to derail you.

556
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 3: This is fucking me up. This is hard. I can't

557
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 3: even listen to music when I cook one.

558
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Speaker 1: You would be surprised how many people will at the

559
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: after each interview, they'll be like yo, cooking and talking

560
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 1: at the same time.

561
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 2: Really really difficult because.

562
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 3: You're like knowing that you have to engage, like that's

563
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 3: what's making it.

564
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Speaker 2: And you have to like tell your story the entire time.

565
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm about to start telling you some lies.

566
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 1: No no, So so your sugar baby is sugar babe,

567
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 1: sugar daddy, so that would make you the sugar baby, right,

568
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: sugar baby. Okay, okay, I'm going to be a sugar baby.

569
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Speaker 1: I'm going to get a shirt Baisy Bros.

570
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Speaker 3: Every time I was out with him, I would take

571
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 3: him to like fucking any and this when I just

572
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 3: moved to New York. Catch just just came out at

573
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 3: the time, and SGK was super popular. I remember all

574
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 3: them niggas if you be looking at me with him,

575
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 3: and I'd be like, come on, babe. Also just turned

576
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 3: on knowing that he had to fuck me for money,

577
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 3: uh huh, which is terrible, but I was okay, it

578
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 3: was sexy to me, like especially when I remember he

579
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: would be like, you want to get some clothes and

580
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 3: I would always want to get a little Nike askict

581
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 3: to ship you know many all the niggas of you

582
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 3: in Yeah, he's my daddy, but so anyway, start horrible decisions.

583
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: But I like how you were actually inspired by his

584
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 1: moves versus well, I don't want to say I like,

585
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 1: but it's interesting that you were inspired by him being

586
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: successful to be even more successful, and you you took

587
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 1: the initiative to even say, hey, I want to learn

588
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: what you're doing and do it on my own, which

589
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: was great.

590
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Speaker 3: It's like I always wanted this sex in the city

591
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 3: life mm hmm, but I never felt like any of

592
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,719
Speaker 3: them needed men to live that life. Yeah, and so

593
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 3: I wanted to have the girlfriends that I was wearing

594
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 3: an amazing designer with and fucking enjoying fashion show and

595
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 3: doing this shit. But I knew if I was tied

596
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 3: to a man, I wouldn't have that freedom. And I

597
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 3: had also experienced my first relationship a man with money

598
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 3: and abuse, so I was like, I have to have

599
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 3: it on my own. I can't be down again. And

600
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 3: you know, I hate to say it like this, but

601
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 3: my mom was a housewife her whole life. And what

602
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 3: happened to my parents with losing their I mean their

603
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 3: house got four clothes on right, the home that I

604
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 3: SETI grew up in. It's like it was tough to

605
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,199
Speaker 3: watch them go through that. And I think about two

606
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 3: incomes or just diversifying shit what that would have meant.

607
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 3: So that really fueled me a lot. And it's tough

608
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 3: for my mom to hear that.

609
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but why have you had those sidebar conversations?

610
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, definitely, But it's not easy. Like my mom

611
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 3: is so amazing, but there's moments where she's like, oh

612
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,199
Speaker 3: my god, I never taught you to go out there

613
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,919
Speaker 3: and do it alone.

614
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 2: But look at you.

615
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 3: In a way, you're you know, well I made money

616
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 3: off of person.

617
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 2: Well you make money because you're a gangster entrepreneur.

618
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 1: That's really it. I mean the personality. I mean, in

619
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: my opinion, the personality is just like the cherry on

620
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: the cake.

621
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 3: But you know what, I'm a feller at heart. And

622
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 3: my father that's what he did growing up. He owned

623
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 3: like camera stores and like you know the little row

624
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 3: like stores back in the day they'd have where they

625
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 3: were selling electronic these shops. That was my dad's like

626
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 3: line of work. Okay, And when I was growing up,

627
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 3: I mean this shit, that's what I started selling clothes

628
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 3: T mobile by then then, like literally everything about it

629
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 3: felt like selling to me. You know, Like it's interesting

630
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 3: the way Mandy and I have kind of done our business.

631
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 3: I always felt like she has really helped us so

632
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 3: much when it comes in terms of our finances.

633
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 2: Right.

634
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 3: She had a financial background, and even though I came

635
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 3: from the tech world, was selling like I mean, I'm

636
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,479
Speaker 3: the first person when we're on a call that's like

637
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 3: I want to do it for this much, this or that.

638
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 3: And like I loved that. We've been able to play

639
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 3: up both of our corporate roles in that. Yeah, and

640
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 3: I've got a lot of seller blood in me. My

641
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 3: partner Alex now with WTF Media Studios. Anytime we have

642
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 3: a big deal or he sees someone's budget, he's like, oh,

643
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 3: you have to sell them on the phone. You have

644
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 3: to tell them why. And I really enjoy it. It makes

645
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 3: me feel like I still got it a little bit.

646
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: I I always say this that I think I used

647
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: to always say. When I have a child, I want

648
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: to teach her how to read, I want to teach

649
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 1: her financial literacy, I want to teach her about God.

650
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 1: But the number one skill that she has to have

651
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 1: before she graduates high school is the ability to sell.

652
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 2: Because I think it is the most underrated skill.

653
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: And if you're going to go work for yourself, the

654
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: number one thing you're gonna have to do is sell

655
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: a product, sell yourself. And so I don't buy anything, yep.

656
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: And I remember when I had my first company. I

657
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: remember going to home deep or office depot and buying

658
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: those little sale books and you know how well out

659
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Speaker 1: the hair pulled back and all.

660
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Speaker 2: This and whatever.

661
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: But I knew right away that sales is the one skill.

662
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: And I would listen to all these audio tapes too

663
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: about like how people you know you're almost nervous getting

664
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Speaker 1: into it.

665
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Speaker 3: Well, what's interesting about selling too? I know Mandy and

666
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: I had a conversation about this, Like, so I never

667
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 3: finished college because I couldn't afford to finish it because

668
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 3: I got out of that relationship, right, m I don't

669
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 3: want it to splatter in all this equipment. I don't

670
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 3: normally do it like this. But Mandy at the time

671
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: coming off of two degrees working for this huge firm,

672
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 3: and she was working more hours and not making as

673
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 3: much as me in accounting at that time. I understand

674
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: it was junior level. Yeah, but I think about that

675
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 3: a lot, and I think about the money you can

676
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 3: make from selling all the time, and I think about

677
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 3: that instance of like, shit, maybe she's smarter than me.

678
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 3: But why isn't she making it up? And it's because

679
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 3: that particular skill really can't be taught real you can't.

680
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta practice it and practice it and practice

681
00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: it and practice it.

682
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 3: I mean, I believe Mandy is greater than what was

683
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 3: I going to say, you know, the job that she had,

684
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 3: and that's why she's making way more and doing way

685
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 3: more things now. But yeah, I mean it's definitely a thing.

686
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

687
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 3: So yeah, with selling doing shit like that, had horrible

688
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 3: decisions on the side, and it was really difficult to

689
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 3: juggle both. And so about two years into doing horrible decisions,

690
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 3: I quit. But it was mainly because I was like,

691
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 3: you know what, if I ever wanted to come back

692
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 3: to this shit, I will, like I've been making jokes recently,

693
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, me and fifteen years I'm

694
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 3: probably gonna be a real estate agent.

695
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 2: So why did you quit? Two years?

696
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,719
Speaker 3: In the trajectory of horrible was faster than the trajectory

697
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 3: of corporate America. For example, how long do we work

698
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 3: a corporate job? Right, so you want to get promoted?

699
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 3: I worked for Teambile six years. I got to be

700
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 3: a manager after year three and a half four, if

701
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 3: there's a spot for you. So to me, I kind

702
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 3: of just felt like this is moving faster than my

703
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 3: rate in the corporate world.

704
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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you said you quit horrible.

705
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, quit my corporate.

706
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, Oh because you were like two years

707
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: in I quit horrible.

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00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 2: No, you quit your corporate okay, okay.

709
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 3: Got quit my corporate job after two years, and I

710
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 3: legitimately felt like it was not gonna make me.

711
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: But I have to ask before, how much were you making?

712
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: It horrible to say, okay, not as you make it. Oh,

713
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: you weren't making as much as T Mobile.

714
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 3: So here's the thing, because a lot of people ask

715
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 3: me when is the right time to quit a job,

716
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 3: and I can only explain it like this, starting Team Mobile,

717
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 3: I made ninety thousand, ending I was around one seventy five, okay, which.

718
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 2: Is damn T Mobile, Go ahead, go on.

719
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 3: It was like I was selling to companies that needed

720
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 3: like Ethernet I gradual disaster recovery, like I graduated from phones.

721
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 3: But basically this is what happens. So horrible decisions at

722
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 3: that time that I quit may have been making me

723
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 3: one hundred thousand, maybe one twenty five from touring mainly

724
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 3: not even Patreon ad money, and.

725
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: That's two years in. Yeah, geez, all right, go on.

726
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 3: And I think the tour money because Mandy and I

727
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 3: were buying out theaters. We brought out Carolines on Broadway.

728
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 2: And you guys were physically doing it yourself.

729
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 3: Splitting that money, paying ourselves back event bright type shit.

730
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 3: But what I realized was like, oh, took me six

731
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 3: years to make ninety to one to seventy year, took

732
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 3: me two years from zero to one hundred. So next

733
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 3: year I'm gonna make more. Yeah, let's just say I

734
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 3: make another fifty. It's worth it. Not to mention I

735
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: have more time on my hands. I could probably do

736
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 3: more appearances and more tour dates, so it's time to quit.

737
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 3: I also remember one moment it was brilliant idiots. If

738
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: anyone watches that episode, I was literally wearing a suit

739
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 3: like a blazer and a skirt, but Mandy and I

740
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 3: had to like make an excuse to leave our jobs

741
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 3: that day to go shoot with charl Mane and Andrew.

742
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 3: So I think that it really will show you, like

743
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 3: when you have to start saying no to things. Oh

744
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 3: oh yeah, when you have to start saying no to

745
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: things because of your day job. Yes, maybe that's when

746
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 3: it's time, like when you're really getting booked like that,

747
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 3: like TV appearances even like I remember we did Vice

748
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 3: Live and I couldn't be there early for the rehearsal

749
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: because of my job, And I was like, damn man,

750
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 3: and anyone who's watching this who might be semi getting entertainment,

751
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 3: whether you've got a TikTok or popular Instagram channel, you

752
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 3: want to do a Horrible Decisions podcast and maybe get

753
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 3: or even eating while robe. Who the fuck is gonna

754
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 3: do this shit at six thirty seven o'clock at night, right,

755
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 3: who's gonna do what? Like to have a guest? Yeah, entrepreneurs,

756
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 3: Like all this shit gets filmed during the day. Yeah,

757
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 3: So it's really tough to have a nine to five

758
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 3: and pursue those entertainment dreams. And like that was why

759
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 3: I was like, I got to figure the shit out.

760
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 3: I think my biggest success in this industry came during

761
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 3: the pandemic while pivoting. So made the TV show Sex Sells.

762
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 3: It's about the business of sex, having money, making money

763
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: from sex without having it. And I came up with

764
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 3: that because that's how I make money, right, I just

765
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 3: basically talk about sex covered all these adult industries and

766
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 3: I'm not a TV star, and it ended up popping

767
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 3: on cues and that's why I'm one.

768
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: How did you did you package that yourself and then

769
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 1: start selling it? Or did you package it and then

770
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: started calling Charlemagne or different people you have relationship with

771
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: and like, I have something that I need.

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00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 3: That's what made me the most proud. I didn't need

773
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: a co sign for that. Okay, I believe Horrible Decisions

774
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 3: had the Charlemagne co sign, and that's what made a

775
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 3: lot of people watch in the beginning. I do believe

776
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 3: Charlemagne made our success faster. Don't believe we're successful because

777
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 3: it happened faster. But what happened with Sex Sells was

778
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,240
Speaker 3: like I just had so much time during the pandemic

779
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 3: to think, and I knew my two loves were fucking

780
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 3: in money m hm, and so I was like, oh

781
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 3: my god, I should make the show. I want to

782
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 3: humanize sex workers, and literally people don't talk about their

783
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 3: sex lives on it, and a lot of people have

784
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 3: said like, oh, it's like horrible Decisions on TV, but

785
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 3: it's even.

786
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like it. It sounds completely different because

787
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: you're talking about this set, right.

788
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 3: I'm an interview a lot of the guests we had

789
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 3: so that I can, you know, show them some love

790
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 3: and they've got real businesses promote them. But no, it's

791
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 3: totally different and I love doing it. It makes me.

792
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 3: It really brought me into the world of seeing how

793
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 3: production works, the larger skill budgets and money.

794
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,760
Speaker 1: So, but you pitched it yourself, That's what I'm saying,

795
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: Like you went out there or did you have a

796
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: manager that helped you?

797
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 3: So it started slow. I didn't have a manager, never

798
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 3: had an agent ever.

799
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 2: Basically, oh still to this date.

800
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 3: No, not personally, Damn, you're a gangster. I have a

801
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 3: person that gives I give them a cut of my

802
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: money if they do pr stuff for me, but if

803
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 3: they get me a deal. But yeah, So basically, there

804
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 3: was a guy that reached out to me months back

805
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 3: before the pandemic was like, oh, do you want to

806
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 3: do this type of show? I was like, no pandemic

807
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 3: hits and I was like, you know what, I wonder

808
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 3: what the fuck he's doing. It's like he making TV?

809
00:35:56,280 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 3: Is TV being made? And we started talking about what

810
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 3: it would look like if we worked together and came

811
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 3: up with sex cells together. He worked at FEWS at

812
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 3: the time. Help me package it, oh, help me make

813
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 3: a bible. And we did it that way. But what

814
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 3: I will tell anyone that has a good TV idea

815
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 3: is people that work in development needs shows all the time.

816
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 3: I currently run development for Kenya Barris at Audible. Right, okay,

817
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 3: don't send me shit right now, I'm done with that.

818
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 3: But like literally, I was wondering what shows we're gonna

819
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: make for him, Like developers want to fucking know, and

820
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 3: if you have good ideas, shooting pilots, making decks, having

821
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 3: a bible, having the demographics of why it would be good,

822
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 3: not just coming in their blank like hey, I'm not

823
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 3: doing anything like I've been doing XYZ. Like if you

824
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 3: hit up the Food Network, you'd have how much to

825
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,879
Speaker 3: show them? So real? You know what I mean.

826
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take notes. Remember how I said I'll take it.

827
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 3: Notes, goge you did, But like here it is, here's

828
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 3: my spread, and this is what I do with this

829
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,280
Speaker 3: type of budget. Imagine if you gave me fifty thousand

830
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 3: an episode, I could be doing it on the load.

831
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: I could be coming to their homes. I could be

832
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 3: X y Z. Like, there's so many different ways for

833
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 3: the things that we're making right now to make them

834
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 3: next level. Yeah, and so I think that we just

835
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 3: kind of have to use our network. Like my biggest

836
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 3: thing with playing chess is making sure that I'm rubbing

837
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 3: elbows with those that can one day need to use

838
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 3: me for something I need.

839
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,320
Speaker 2: To use you. That's awesome, Yeah.

840
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 3: Because the thing is, I remember Charlotte, he said this

841
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 3: about someone they were like. He was like, that person

842
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,800
Speaker 3: is such an opportunist, And I was like, I wonder

843
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 3: if that's who I am. But really, I don't ask

844
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 3: I let every single person know what the fuck I do.

845
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 3: I just had a dinner where I sat down next

846
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,919
Speaker 3: to one of the most famous comedians in the world.

847
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 3: I don't even know if this person can travel on

848
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 3: a commercial plane, that's how famous they are, right. Wow.

849
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 3: When they asked me what I do, didn't even say

850
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 3: a podcast thing. I was like, I own a production

851
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 3: studio in New York and La Black owned. We shoot

852
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 3: podcasts mainly, but we also have a mobile team Boom.

853
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 3: Now it's in your brain. Now you know what you

854
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 3: can use me for, Like that's the job I felt

855
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 3: like I needed to sell to that person at the time.

856
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 3: When I talk to TV show, TV networks or people

857
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 3: that work in Netflix or different things like that I host,

858
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,879
Speaker 3: I do this, I do that right, Like I want

859
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 3: to make sure that I'm useful to people that I've

860
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 3: rebed elros with.

861
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think your sales skills like shines through. I

862
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: always say, like, sales is more about paying attention to

863
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:26,479
Speaker 1: what the customer wants, listening to them, and.

864
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 2: Then catering to their needs.

865
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: That's just trying to sell someone something that they don't

866
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: want to buy. So even the way you're talking is

867
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: like your sales skills are just really amazing. Yeah, because

868
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 1: that's how it is. You're supposed to sell. You're supposed

869
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: to you know, if someone walks up to me right now,

870
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna think about, you know, what it is they're

871
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: gonna need or want from me.

872
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 3: Correct. You know, that's a really good point because I

873
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 3: didn't even think about me selling myself in that way,

874
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 3: but like, damn it is.

875
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: It is.

876
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: But now opportunists is different, because opportunists are I always

877
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,240
Speaker 1: say I want to be a business person, not a hustler,

878
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: because I feel like a hustler is like, I'm gonna

879
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,240
Speaker 1: take advantage, someone's gonna get a short end of a stick.

880
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: But a business person is like, we're all gonna win.

881
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,479
Speaker 1: You're gonna walk away with your piece of the pie.

882
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: She's gonna walk away with her piece of pie, and

883
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk away with my piece, and no one

884
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 1: feels to agreed.

885
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 3: You can never make someone feel like they're doing you

886
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 3: a favor.

887
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like at all.

888
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 3: I mean, Charlotte Mine was lucky and lucky enough to

889
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 3: make horrible decisions with his rollout on Black Effect. I

890
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: know there's eighty five South all the smoke, and I

891
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 3: literally was thinking to myself the other day, Charla Mane

892
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 3: is Charlot Mane, But horrible decisions was still good enough

893
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 3: to where Black Effects was like, oh, we do need

894
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: those numbers, but we sell to add people like I

895
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 3: don't want to fucking suck anybody's dick to feel like,

896
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 3: and I'm not talking about that instance, but just anyone like,

897
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 3: thank you so much for giving this to you. Yeah yeah,

898
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 3: when you know your value, Yeah yeah, we have to

899
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 3: make sure that we're definitely pouring into ourselves in that way.

900
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 3: But I mean shit. You know, I love fuse to death,

901
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 3: but I also know my show brings number then and

902
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 3: I know that's why they treat me well. They love

903
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 3: me too, like we're definitely doing what we need to

904
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 3: do for each other. Like I'm so happy to be

905
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,879
Speaker 3: on a network that you know I can be their

906
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 3: most watch show. Like maybe if I was on an

907
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 3: HBO or some Netflix, maybe I would just kind of

908
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: go under the radar.

909
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 2: I don't think so. Maybe, I honestly don't think so.

910
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:16,959
Speaker 2: Thank you, I don't think so. I'm not even trying

911
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 2: to be not Well, what was your hardest hurdle?

912
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: I think it just to come to day because I

913
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: feel like you have a lot of great pivots. But like,

914
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: where was there a point where you were like I

915
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:47,239
Speaker 1: don't know, hmm, that you seriously like had that conversation off.

916
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:48,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, And it could have been my studio.

917
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 3: Okay, my studio, which is the best thing I've ever done. Actually,

918
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 3: my studio gave me the seal of approval to be

919
00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 3: bigger than just a podcaster, Like that was really when

920
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 3: I became a businesswoman. No matter how hard Mandy and

921
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 3: I have worked, I never felt like that and it's

922
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 3: no shade to her. I don't know if it's because

923
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 3: with women. I don't know if it's because we talk

924
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 3: about sex, but like I had to do something else

925
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 3: for myself to feel like I could be respected. And

926
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: it really shows something about brick and mortar spaces to

927
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 3: make people feel very like, oh, they're really doing something,

928
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: which is weird. But it's also because I started getting

929
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,919
Speaker 3: other people money, Like.

930
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 2: Thought, what was the hesitancy, Like where was that hesitancy at?

931
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 3: Like where was that pain that investment? Right, my partner

932
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 3: Alex shout out to him. We spent an insane amount

933
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 3: of money on fucking equipment, which is why we have

934
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 3: one of the best studios right, Like literally, I was like,

935
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 3: how can we be charging people this little but like

936
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 3: our equipment is so fucking expensive, like it doesn't add

937
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 3: up or whatever. Yeah, and he was like, Yo, that's

938
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 3: why everybody's gonna come with us, to know that the

939
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 3: podcasters like us can be there and then the Charlottamanees

940
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 3: of the world or whoever they may be. David Letterman wasn't.

941
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 2: Our shit, Oh shit, right, Okay.

942
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 3: He's like to know these people and okay, you can

943
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 3: sit amongst them like we're gonna be for all of them,

944
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 3: and that's really been our brand. I believe that's why

945
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 3: we're growing. I mean, we get resumes like fucking crazy

946
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 3: every day.

947
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: So how long did it take when you so you

948
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: made that initial investment. The by the way, you're cooking

949
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: like we are in a rich restaurant.

950
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,280
Speaker 2: Because the point look at all the food.

951
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: She made, and it's like, I feel like I'm about

952
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:26,879
Speaker 1: to eat an appetizer.

953
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 2: Gormet.

954
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 3: You try to make it look clean and minimally.

955
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: When the cameras are off, I'm gonna just go in

956
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: with a fork and just eat everything direct.

957
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 2: I know it.

958
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm starving and you gave me like an appetizer.

959
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 3: It's fucking hot dogs.

960
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 2: Girl.

961
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: I want to see you sit down next to this

962
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: mic and spend quality time with me.

963
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let's try this. It looks good but.

964
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 5: Not bad.

965
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 3: You look, there's the onions.

966
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 2: I'm surprised you didn't mix these in together.

967
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: Funny enough, my co host talks about Haitian spaghetti and

968
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 3: it's hot dogs in it. I never mixed the hot

969
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 3: dogs a pasta. But this is kind of good.

970
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: This ship is amazing. Did you mix it all on

971
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 2: one for it.

972
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 3: I'll put it together on I don't want to touch

973
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,479
Speaker 3: on the plate.

974
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 2: For all y'all listeners. The hot dog and the onions smack.

975
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: I definitely will mess with Nathan's just because I feel

976
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: like maybe it tastes different or I just haven't had

977
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: a hot dog in a while. But the freaking grilled

978
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: onions and mac and cheese cheese is genius. Bro I

979
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 1: don't know why I've never thought of seasoning up my

980
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 1: mac and cheese.

981
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 2: But the grilled onions, it's crunchy, it's amazing.

982
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 3: I am so happy.

983
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,959
Speaker 2: I am very impressible. The only thing is.

984
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: I would maybe add and I don't even know, but

985
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 1: do you agree? Would you add more salt to the

986
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: mac and cheese?

987
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 3: Oh? I put salt on my stuff, but I don't

988
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 3: want to do that to people.

989
00:43:58,719 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's what.

990
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 3: The lorries for you. You know, sodium is a bitch nowadays.

991
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 3: M Plus, there's a lot of salt in that Tony

992
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 3: Sharia whatever name is.

993
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 2: Okay.

994
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: So for a girl that came from money, went broke,

995
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: had sugar daddies, and it's self made to the point

996
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: of flying your family in from Orlando to La still

997
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: in the early early I don't even want to say

998
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: how early thirties she is because all of us are listening.

999
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 2: Can you believe that much you've accomplished. It's amazing.

1000
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 3: You know. Sometimes I get scared like I'll lose it,

1001
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 3: But then I realize the hunger that I have to

1002
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:45,280
Speaker 3: help everybody around me is too deep. It's too intense

1003
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 3: that I don't think it could happen.

1004
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 2: Now do you deal with well?

1005
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: You said you have multiple companies. You're definitely spread. It

1006
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: sounds to me like you're spread pretty thin. I'm so

1007
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: happy you shared that because I always think that maybe

1008
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing something wrong if I have so many hustles

1009
00:44:58,480 --> 00:44:59,399
Speaker 1: going at the same time.

1010
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 3: You know, there is something to be said about a

1011
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 3: master of none, But I will say this much what's

1012
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 3: worked for me. I don't steal anybody's idea. I really

1013
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 3: ride my own wave. I made a studio not because

1014
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 3: there's other podcast studios, because there were no black owned

1015
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 3: ones that were gonna have podcasters run it. I'd never

1016
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 3: been to a podcast studio run by a podcaster. I

1017
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 3: made horrible decisions because I really wanted to do a

1018
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 3: fun sex show with someone that I knew was authentic,

1019
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 3: and there were no black shows about sex that were

1020
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 3: hosted by normal girls. Yeah right, it was always like

1021
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 3: porn stars or whatever. Everything that I've done so far

1022
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 3: hadn't seen before except for stock, I would say. But like,

1023
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 3: I've really rode my own wave, and that's why I

1024
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 3: think it's worked. So when you do too many different

1025
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 3: trades and you're taking an idea, like your concept is different.

1026
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 3: We've all seen a cooking show, but your concept is different, right, Yeah. Yeah,

1027
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 3: so it's like you have to have something different added

1028
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 3: to it, and I think that if you don't, you

1029
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 3: then become a master of none because you're just trying

1030
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 3: to do things that other people do.

1031
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tough.

1032
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 1: I have a fear of I don't even know where

1033
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: this fear came from, but when it comes to partnering

1034
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 1: with other people, I feel like my greatest asset is

1035
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: my relationships. And it's probably because I have so much integrity.

1036
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I won't hurt a full I really

1037
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: won't even hurt a fly because I want to treat

1038
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: people the way I would want to be treated.

1039
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 2: So my loyalty is there.

1040
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: But when I see like you and Mandy working together

1041
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: and you and Alex working together. I'm like, either the

1042
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: integrity on you has got to be super lit or

1043
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 1: how are you managing that partnership? Because I always get nervous,

1044
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: like what if the other partner doesn't hold up or

1045
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: there's a disagreement?

1046
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: So how do you? How do you navigate that?

1047
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 3: My first partnership I've ever had was with Mandy, right,

1048
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 3: and Mandy and I had stopped we're friends, stopp being friends,

1049
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 3: became friends again during the show, fell out of friendship again.

1050
00:46:55,360 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 3: But I think we are so hungry to make money

1051
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 3: that we look past that and we're able to think

1052
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 3: of the greater purpose. Like if I had a co

1053
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 3: host that wasn't about our fans, maybe I couldn't do

1054
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 3: the job, you know what I'm saying. But Mandy's a

1055
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 3: self starter like I am too.

1056
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's not tough.

1057
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 3: Like Mandy and I were on tour putting together the

1058
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 3: merch table or doing something with the merchan of the

1059
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 3: VIP things. And you know, if I see her doing something,

1060
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 3: I don't want her to do it alone.

1061
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 2: Like yeah, because oh nice, okay.

1062
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 3: You know, And I think she feels the same for me,

1063
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 3: so we definitely try and trust me, I have a

1064
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 3: time where I didn't even realize how much work she

1065
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 3: was putting in with the finance stuff. She's making spreadsheets

1066
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 3: and shit back then and doing stuff I didn't even

1067
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 3: understand that works. I would try to do it on

1068
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 3: the creative side. But like I think, for me, with partnerships,

1069
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 3: there's a skill set that someone has that I don't.

1070
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 3: You know, wtf is so about the tech which is

1071
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 3: all Alex and not me. But I do have to

1072
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 3: give myself credit on how we were able to get

1073
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 3: this shit going. I just don't know how much I

1074
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 3: rent is where the light deep come from. He don't

1075
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 3: know what the fuck going on, which is great, Yeah,

1076
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 3: figure out the other shit. Like I really learned how

1077
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: to use our skills and work together in that way,

1078
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 3: and it's definitely been touched. She's one of my tough

1079
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,439
Speaker 3: he's one of my best friends, and it's like damn,

1080
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 3: now sometimes it's all work. So we really have to

1081
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 3: feed that friendship. You know, we have to have a

1082
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 3: night where we get drunk together and have fun and

1083
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 3: not talk about work. We have to really do that

1084
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,439
Speaker 3: to enjoy each other and separate it because it's tough.

1085
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know with Dolly. Dolly and I came from

1086
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 1: the nick Cannon area. A lot of people don't know this.

1087
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 3: So my whole hookup with Black Effects, the president of

1088
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 3: Black Man, yeah.

1089
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 2: My stuff was an accident. It was legit.

1090
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: I was telling Dolly I was literally like flying weed

1091
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: money during the pandemic because I was I was hustling

1092
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 1: all different directions. But anyways, I was trying to build

1093
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: this show and I was like, Dolly, I think you

1094
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 1: should be a part of it. But you know, she

1095
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: had this other job offer and she's like should I

1096
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: take him? Like, as long as they don't tell you

1097
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: to go to work, girl, I'm all about taking all checks.

1098
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: I didn't know it was the President of the Black

1099
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: Effect or whatever. They happened to need a cooking show

1100
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 1: and she pitched Eating while Broke and called me like,

1101
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,359
Speaker 1: you're gonna kill me? And I was like, why would

1102
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: I kill you? And we're actual friends, you know I

1103
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: told you. She's like, I told you know, iHeart and

1104
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: ICM and Charlemagne about Eating while Broke and they loved it.

1105
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, so where do I kill you?

1106
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: She's like, well, they you know, we run a podcast network,

1107
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: and your show is you want to do a TV show.

1108
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, Dolly, the table was just built in my garage.

1109
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: My neighbors are driving past it. I actually don't even

1110
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: know where this table is gonna go, okay, And I

1111
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 1: think I had just found out I was pregnant or

1112
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: I was like borderline in that conversation, and I was like, shit,

1113
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 1: you know I was doing.

1114
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 2: Illegal weed activity.

1115
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 1: I was hustling in all these different plings, but I

1116
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: had this idea that was literally sitting in my garage,

1117
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: Like they just finished putting the forks on the table,

1118
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Dolly, I'm about to go broke. And

1119
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 1: I done pitched all my celebrity friends. But I don't

1120
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: even know if we're just taking this table to their

1121
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: house or how we're even doing it. So why would

1122
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: I kill you? Like?

1123
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 2: And she was like, yeah, well, they want.

1124
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: To send you an offer, like and I was like,

1125
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: She's like, can you send me all your decks and stuff?

1126
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, I had already had everything made.

1127
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: But it was really no reason to kill her. But

1128
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: even to this day, like sometimes as friends, I'll have

1129
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: to get on the phone with her and She'll be like,

1130
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk business, or we could talk friends.

1131
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 1: So that's how we managed the friendship. It'd be like,

1132
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,439
Speaker 1: Dolly ain't joining here nothing about work.

1133
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 3: That's tough. When someone's like cutting that's tough.

1134
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah.

1135
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 3: I remember the first time I heard an attitude from

1136
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:34,760
Speaker 3: Dolly when I was asking for more money.

1137
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, oh yeah, Dolly will tell me

1138
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 1: no so fast.

1139
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, but you know, I separate.

1140
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 3: It is a safe place. It's a safer place than not,

1141
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 3: you know, in my heart is times with Mandy, I

1142
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 3: remember being so angry at her. We've definitely thought like

1143
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,919
Speaker 3: I can't do this anymore. Literally, I was like, why

1144
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 3: I go, fuck it? Where am I going to go?

1145
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 3: Like all this goddamn money, where am I gonna Where?

1146
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 3: Am I gonna go work for someone else? Fucking white dude?

1147
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 3: Like No, I'm gonna make this money with her and

1148
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 3: figure it the fuck out. Actually, it's interesting with our partnership.

1149
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 3: I recently was at dinner with someone who asked me

1150
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 3: about books and money spending and things like that, and

1151
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 3: I was like, when you talked about integrity, I just

1152
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 3: thought about it. Whether I'm angry with Mandy or not.

1153
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 3: I've never thought she would like take money from the

1154
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 3: company or something. Right with d Alex and I were bestie,

1155
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 3: so we're not going to fuck each other over. And

1156
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 3: they were telling me about how someone been sneaking money

1157
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 3: out of the their partnership. And I never thought of

1158
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 3: the bad side of what could happen for partnerships, only

1159
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 3: the good.

1160
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 5: Yea.

1161
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 3: But it's really because I do find strength in numbers,

1162
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,720
Speaker 3: and I think partnership just builds and builds and builds

1163
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 3: your portfolio. I mean, I would rather have half of

1164
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 3: ten things, you know what I mean, especially knowing that,

1165
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 3: Like there's so many times Alex has called me and

1166
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 3: is like, yo, Neil Brennan is coming in and David

1167
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 3: Lehiman coming in our studios us right, or maybe I'll

1168
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 3: hit him up and I'll be like we're locked down

1169
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 3: for a week. We got a deal from Amazon. Like

1170
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 3: it's always one or the other, and it really really helps,

1171
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 3: because when you're trying to get all that different money,

1172
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 3: you can't do all things. I don't believe in people

1173
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 3: that are trying to have too much control over everything,

1174
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 3: you know, That's that's when it gets really tough. That's

1175
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 3: when you get burnt out. You've got to be able

1176
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,800
Speaker 3: to alleviate some of that. I'm real cheap and I

1177
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 3: don't even be wanting to give money up to an assistant,

1178
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 3: but I realize it helps make your life easier.

1179
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: Have you have you considered bringing one on yet I

1180
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: have one as it has been helpful.

1181
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 3: Well, our studio is so busy. She's now just the

1182
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 3: studio manager of the two New York locations. But oh

1183
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 3: she was amazing, Like she literally helped me with my

1184
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 3: grandmother's funeral, you know, like when you've got a good one.

1185
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 3: But my sisters like a real nigga, Like she's not

1186
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 3: like she's not, Oh she's so great. She'll call me

1187
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 3: like these mother, Like she helped me with the thing

1188
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: for the wheelchair for my dad today. Right, she sent

1189
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 3: me a screenshot of an email she was like these

1190
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,799
Speaker 3: motherfucker's trying to play me bruh, and like it's so

1191
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 3: funny because like you kind of do have to work

1192
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 3: with someone that makes you feel comfortable. You know, if

1193
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 3: she was too tidied up, I don't think I can

1194
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 3: do it. Yeah, But like I love partnering and working

1195
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 3: with people that make me feel like I'm at home.

1196
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because when we.

1197
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: Face the world, there's a different person across that, you

1198
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So knowing that we hire black

1199
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 3: and hire people that are a vibe like yeah, it's

1200
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,240
Speaker 3: just it's so great, yeah.

1201
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 1: I think, but also finding someone that really is invested

1202
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: in your vision and your long term goals. I know

1203
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: with my crew, I love them, like if I feel

1204
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:32,280
Speaker 1: something's de routing, I'm like, dinner, lunch, we're getting together.

1205
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 1: Let's get to the table and find out what's going on.

1206
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 1: But we I genuinely like love my crew, Like.

1207
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 3: Everybody that works for me, I would want to have

1208
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:42,560
Speaker 3: a drink with them. Yeah. That to me, I don't

1209
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 3: want to hire anybody that makes me fe like getting

1210
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 3: my nerves and they're weird or like yeah, I want

1211
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 3: to know they're cool, whether they be nerdy as fuck

1212
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 3: and maybe we don't share those hobbies, like yeah, there

1213
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 3: has to be some connection there or I won't maybe

1214
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 3: care as much. And I think my thing to being

1215
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 3: a good boss is giving a fuck yeah, you know,

1216
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 3: writing down everyone's birthdays, making sure I get them a gift,

1217
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 3: sending them text, telling them I appreciate them. I also

1218
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 3: don't say people work for me. Like, if I'm in

1219
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 3: front of someone, I feel like that's.

1220
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 2: Do you do you call them like your team? How

1221
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 2: do you reference them?

1222
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 3: I'd be like, I say we work together. If someone

1223
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 3: wants to know, oh, I like that. Even if they

1224
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 3: walk in the studio and they know on the owner,

1225
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 3: I'd be like, this is Danny, he works with us,

1226
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 3: or like that just makes me more comfortable.

1227
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1228
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 3: I find a lot of condescendingness and when people kind

1229
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 3: of just be like they work for me.

1230
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1231
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: I was at an event the other day and someone said,

1232
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: just so you know, I'm her boss, and I was like, yeah,

1233
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if you had to say that. I

1234
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 1: don't even know the point of saying it. But I

1235
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: think mainly in corporate and maybe not very small smaller.

1236
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 2: Well, I don't want to say an entrepreneurs. I don't know,

1237
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 2: but I do see.

1238
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 1: I guess if you're not at the higher level, you

1239
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 1: see that more because I don't even think the executives

1240
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: be like I'm the boss.

1241
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 3: No, but like look at Connell from Our Heart, Yeah,

1242
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 3: he was hugging everybody and chilling. I'm like, what, I

1243
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 3: don't know, yeah, yeah, yeah, but you know that's the

1244
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,280
Speaker 3: thing too. I feel like there's this middle of success

1245
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 3: when you try to prove yourself. I can only relate

1246
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,760
Speaker 3: to this. When I was kind of getting some decent money,

1247
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 3: I wanted to wear leubatons. I wanted to wear my

1248
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 3: fucking one Louis Biton bag everywhere. I needed to throw

1249
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 3: it in your face.

1250
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1251
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 3: Now I'm kind of like, you know what I mean,

1252
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 3: Like I don't know.

1253
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well that's how I feel about Montessori school right now.

1254
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 1: Every time I see someone, I'm like, I pay.

1255
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,359
Speaker 2: Two thousand dollars a month for my one year old

1256
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 2: to go to school. I should just have it as

1257
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 2: a billboard at this point.

1258
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: Oh bro, I feel like I'm luxury and that's really

1259
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: probably a regular person thing.

1260
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 2: But I'm like, now that's a lot.

1261
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 3: That's better than they care, you.

1262
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 1: Know, I literally, but I brag about it, like and

1263
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 1: I'm pretty I saw some comedian talk about like how

1264
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: when black people brag when they're rich, Asian people brag

1265
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 1: when they're rich, and how white people brag when they're rich,

1266
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, I'm definitely the black person

1267
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: that was like, I pay two games.

1268
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 3: I try to find ways in a point where I'm

1269
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 3: feeling a little inferior. Yeah, sometimes people you never know

1270
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 3: they making my like it's I can't explain it. But

1271
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 3: there's moments where people will make you feel like you

1272
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 3: don't belong in the room there.

1273
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1274
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's when I might do a little bit of really.

1275
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm trying to think. The last time I

1276
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 3: haven't I had this story. I told him horrible. It's

1277
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 3: on our Patreon where I came back from Paris and

1278
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,360
Speaker 3: I was hanging in this Beyonce and jay Z party.

1279
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 3: It was very small, like thirty people, and after that

1280
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 3: you couldn't tell me shit. It was me and alex

1281
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 3: I was like fuck you bitch, and Mionce with like,

1282
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 3: you know, in the air together. So I just kept

1283
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 3: finding ways to bring it up. So we went to

1284
00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 3: like Spotify dinner that week and everybody's just like, oh,

1285
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 3: horrible decisions. Never heard of it. Yes, actually I've been

1286
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 3: to France, not that you asked, was there whatever, but

1287
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 3: like i'd be trying to figure out a way, but

1288
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, And I think that's kind of when

1289
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 3: you do have and I know that I came from something,

1290
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 3: so I just can't say it came from nothing, but

1291
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 3: like when you had that struggle, you want to know,

1292
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 3: you want people to know I belong here too, Yeah,

1293
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 3: because I have a lot of hell of privileged people

1294
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 3: that I know don't really.

1295
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 2: Have that that driver or the that that they're the backstory,

1296
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 2: they don't need to.

1297
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 3: Like I hang with this really rich girl sometimes when

1298
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,279
Speaker 3: I'm in LA, like grew up rich. I think our

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00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 3: family's got a fucking castle somewhere. And I never really

1300
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 3: see her tell you anything about her life because she

1301
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 3: realizes it's so it's not part of her story. Yeah,

1302
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 3: like everything she's experienced isn't exciting. Like when I told

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00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 3: her about the Beyonce and jay Z thing, She's like,

1304
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 3: oh yeah. I'm like, well you met them before. She's like, yeah,

1305
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 3: well I used to hang with the Rnall's when I

1306
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 3: was a kid who own LVMA.

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00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 1: That's hilarious And I'm like, okay.

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00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 3: It's to note the bitch, But like you know, so,

1309
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I wonder if it kind of shows

1310
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 3: that you don't really have much. But what I appreciate

1311
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 3: is like people that can enjoy with you. Like the

1312
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 3: first person I called after that Beyonce and jay z

1313
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 3: night was charlottmgne cover bed with his wife who was

1314
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,560
Speaker 3: eleven thirty at night. Me and Alex are drunk in

1315
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 3: the street or something like, oh, I tell somebody And

1316
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 3: he was so excited and laughing and he's like, y'all

1317
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 3: in now, I'm like, brouh. The next time I see

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00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 3: them one name, but they put it home the Bitch

1319
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 3: for Paris, and it's just this cool, exciting milestone. But

1320
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:14,959
Speaker 3: maybe I will get to the place where it doesn't

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00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 3: matter anymore.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, hope not, no, no, no no. So

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00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: now that you've traveled the world, you owned companies, you're

1324
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: flying your family out, what advice would you give to someone.

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00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 2: That would even just in my shoes? You know?

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00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: What advice would you give to someone that's playing hasn't

1327
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 1: fully taken off the ground yet and they've been hovering

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00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: for a long time.

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Speaker 3: I would say, thinking bigger than the biggest thing you're

1330
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 3: thinking of. I think that we sell ourselves short a lot.

1331
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 3: Whether it be I don't know. This is just made

1332
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 3: me thinking right. Eating while Broke is currently a podcast.

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00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 3: It seems like next up is TV show that seems

1334
00:58:58,160 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 3: like what that is? Right?

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00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,439
Speaker 1: But I also want to do touring, which eighty five

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00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: South has been like just do it, but Dolly's like

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00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 1: hell no, and eighty five for South is like do

1338
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: that shit?

1339
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:10,760
Speaker 3: Why does Dolly say now.

1340
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 1: She thinks I need to spend more time growing my

1341
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: audience like baby steps and then but I low key

1342
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: secretly want to do ice cube in LA.

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Speaker 3: I would tell you for this piece of advice, then

1344
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 3: I would say, you do it in the middle. You

1345
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 3: do one show. You do one show in your hometown

1346
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 3: or where your largest base of audience is, and that's LA, right,

1347
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 3: I'm assuming yeah. So it's like you do your LA show,

1348
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 3: you don't tour, you do your LA show. You practice,

1349
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 3: you get your biggest fan based there, you already have

1350
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 3: all your friends come. It's probably where all the talent

1351
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 3: you know is. So you do it right there in LA.

1352
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 3: After you do that, then you kind of get your

1353
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:52,440
Speaker 3: feet wet or this space is semi big. Make a

1354
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 3: Patreon or invite your top fans, mit fifteen fans really

1355
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:01,959
Speaker 3: and write fifteen fans, have them sitting wide laugh with you. Uh,

1356
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 3: maybe put the ingredients out there and be like this

1357
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: is what I got, y'all gonna help me make this meal?

1358
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 3: Maybe they just shout at you and they share stories

1359
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 3: with you.

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Speaker 1: When you, guys did your Patreon, what were you what

1361
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 1: was your first Like, did you even think you would

1362
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: make money when you first did the Patreon?

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01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 3: No, we make way too much on Patreon now. I

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01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 3: mean I'm sure like there you know, there's patreons bigger

1365
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 3: than me. But like we did it before. I think

1366
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,320
Speaker 3: we were one of the first black popular podcasts that

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01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 3: we know on there. Like we had our first year

1368
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 3: of year seven, I mean the first year of your seven,

1369
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 3: and we only did it to make more money for

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01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 3: the studio. Mandy and I were like, this shit costing

1371
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 3: too much. We ain't making no money. Friend of mine

1372
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 3: was like, have you heard of l Chrapo trap House

1373
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 3: something like that? It's like a white podcast. I was

1374
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 3: like no, and he's like, they make like ninety round Patreon.

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01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: You should do You guys were like, dude, du what's

1376
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: that right?

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Speaker 3: I mean, shit, we don't make ninety, but we do

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01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 3: make twenty.

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Speaker 2: Get the hang out on Patreon mm hm, get the.

1380
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:58,920
Speaker 3: But to be honest, though, our Patreon, like we started

1381
01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 3: a high very early of people that really resonated with

1382
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 3: Mandy and I because we were corporate girls talking about sex,

1383
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 3: and it was kind of the life that if you

1384
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 3: didn't live it, you'd want to live it, or you

1385
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 3: could see yourself living it like host stories while like

1386
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 3: being overdraft and are you know, being at your desk whatever.

1387
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 3: So we made Patreon. It was to get extra money

1388
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 3: for filming. I remember a thousand dollars a month feeling perfect.

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01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 2: Hell, yeah that's not I know that sounds small.

1390
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, So when it got higher, Mandy and I just

1391
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 3: started spelling more of our personal lives on Patreon, and

1392
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 3: it became like we were just talking to fans instead

1393
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 3: of like doing a show. You know, like we have

1394
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 3: so so many guests now that people that really fucked

1395
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:44,000
Speaker 3: with Mandy and Wheezy they want Patreon. Like a lot

1396
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 3: of people enjoy those episodes more. I love like a

1397
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,960
Speaker 3: better looking set, but I get it, Mandy and I'd

1398
01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 3: be on zoom. I'd be hungover shit. I think I

1399
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 3: was still mollied out on one episode. I was like,

1400
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 3: oh my god, you guys didn't sleave anyway, Like people

1401
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 3: like that shit when you're very raw, and so we

1402
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 3: offer that so it's something different. But yeah, I wouldn't

1403
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 3: write your closest fans if it's not Patreon right now,

1404
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 3: figure out where you talk to them the most, have

1405
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 3: them come and watch. Well.

1406
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: I think this season is the most I've seen fans

1407
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 1: reach out, which, by the way, I'm absolutely shocked. I'll

1408
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:18,439
Speaker 1: get a DM like please don't stop, please don't quit.

1409
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 2: We love this sir. Yeah, or like I promise you're

1410
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 2: asking the questions that we want.

1411
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 1: You to hear, and I'll be like, thank you, because

1412
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 1: I for sure had a shitty day today and I

1413
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 1: really want to jump off a bridge. But that message

1414
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 1: just like literally, I know it's random, but you help them. Yeah,

1415
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, you taketed the right time, and I will

1416
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: respond that like, Yo, the timing couldn't have been better,

1417
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: thank you for saving my life.

1418
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 3: Fans too, like we look at other people's numbers and

1419
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 3: comparison is a thief and joy.

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01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 2: Oh, I definitely do.

1421
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 1: I'll be like, look at them, but you know now,

1422
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: I look at y'all and I'll be like, take notes.

1423
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 3: Change when we're in line to them, right, Like I

1424
01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 3: remember when call her Daddy made the sixty thousand dollars

1425
01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 3: sixty million right, and I was like, oh my god.

1426
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 3: I'll never get me. I was saying ship like that.

1427
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 3: I don't have that. I'm like this podcast makes how much?

1428
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 3: Like why am I talking like this?

1429
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 2: You know?

1430
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 3: And we really have to pour into ourselves better because

1431
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 3: we always are looking at something else. I do it

1432
01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 3: with my body doing my hair. Shit, I was almost like,

1433
01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 3: oh my god, my hair is not brain different. The

1434
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 3: got my hair like thinking about all this little ship

1435
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 3: that doesn't fucking matter. And it's like we need to

1436
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 3: really learn how to be happy with ourselves because like,

1437
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 3: I think social media has bucked me up. I'm getting

1438
01:03:56,760 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 3: way better at it, but like body, hair, clothes and success,

1439
01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 3: they're all the things I see on Instagram and think

1440
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 3: I'm not doing well enough with h and this is

1441
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 3: fucked up. But it did happen to me. I went

1442
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 3: to solid Core, which is this like plate's ish cool

1443
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 3: thing to do. It's in La Chicago, New York, Big Cities, Atlanta,

1444
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 3: and there's a girl on Instagram I follow that. I

1445
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 3: always thought she was like so fucking insanely hot. When

1446
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 3: I was in the workout, she was right next to

1447
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 3: me and I recognized her halfway through. She was really struggling.

1448
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 3: And it's not like it's something to make fun of.

1449
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 3: You're already working out. But I got in the car

1450
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 3: and I thought, oh my god, I have I'm stronger

1451
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 3: than I thought. I was right. I'm looking at this

1452
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 3: girl all the time on my timeline, thinking she's the

1453
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 3: baddest bitch in the world. And I had something like

1454
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 3: she even said to me. I was like, damn bitch,

1455
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 3: she was getting it right. We don't know each other,

1456
01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 3: and I was like, wow, there's something we all have

1457
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 3: that someone else doesn't. So when you're looking and you're

1458
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 3: thinking that, it's not shit me. I want kids so bad. Really, yes,

1459
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 3: I would love to have kids, like I would love

1460
01:04:58,000 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 3: to have.

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01:04:58,920 --> 01:04:59,920
Speaker 2: Over to you for a weekend.

1462
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 3: Oh my mom would love to watch over. My mom

1463
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 3: love taking somebody's baby.

1464
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 2: Oh really, Oh she's in LA.

1465
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: That's perfect because I ain't got no family in I

1466
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: pay every minute a well.

1467
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 3: Well, my mom will act like it's an inconvenience, but

1468
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 3: she can't wait to do it. Let me watch your baby,

1469
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 3: Colleen called me, and now I've got to watch this

1470
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 3: damn baby. Now'll get in the house, baby proud anyway,

1471
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 3: I'll talk to you later. Like she loves taking somebody's

1472
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 3: problems on her kids or anything, and like, yeah, but

1473
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 3: I think about that. I think.

1474
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 5: Uh.

1475
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 3: I was at a friend's kids graduation, her daughter graduately

1476
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 3: needs her, and I was like, like three people had

1477
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 3: asked me for a picture when I was in the auditorium,

1478
01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 3: and I remember thinking, like, I wonder if they think

1479
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 3: I'm like living this cool ass like but somebody was like, damn,

1480
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 3: you came from LA to be here. Someone said that

1481
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 3: to me, and I was like, when I could like

1482
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 3: die to be one of the parents in the front.

1483
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 3: Oh wow, But you never know, right, Like there's always

1484
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 3: something we all want. I think we all need that

1485
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 3: little drama in our lives to keep going.

1486
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:56,040
Speaker 1: You think so oh, like the when you say drama,

1487
01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: like the need to want something more?

1488
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, how are we going to be autopilot if we

1489
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 3: have all we want? Like what do you want?

1490
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 5: Oh?

1491
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 2: I want this guy's limit.

1492
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 1: It's funny though, because I used to always want like

1493
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: the marriage and the baby, because I always felt like

1494
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 1: I was good at business and then I just sucked

1495
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 1: at personal. But now that I experienced marriage and the baby,

1496
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think I'm gonna stay in my business

1497
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 1: life because I suck at it. It's just like yo,

1498
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:20,640
Speaker 1: you know what I have to chop it up to Like,

1499
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 1: it's just not my forte. I don't know why I

1500
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 1: can't master my personal but I could.

1501
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 3: It's tough. We all can't because it's not something you

1502
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 3: can control.

1503
01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, maybe that's it because I feel like in business,

1504
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: like I will pivot the fuck if it's not working,

1505
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: pivot again, pivot again. But then in my personal I'd

1506
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 1: be like, oh, you went left. I don't even know

1507
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 1: what to say.

1508
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:45,479
Speaker 3: Is tough. Yeah, money we can control, Like I feel

1509
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 3: like I can make a million dollars easier than I

1510
01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 3: can find a good person to date. I mean, it's

1511
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 3: fucked up to say that, but I really do believe that.

1512
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 3: I feel like when it's things you can control, like

1513
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 3: you can't control money. Let's say, like right, like there's

1514
01:06:57,840 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 3: people out there that are working hard as fucking or

1515
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 3: not getting there, but like you could possibly take up

1516
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 3: another hustle to find some more money.

1517
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:04,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1518
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 3: But I was taking pictures out of Oo pizzeria on

1519
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 3: the side because they would give me one hundred dollars

1520
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 3: a night, okay for five hours, and I would just

1521
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 3: take pictures, pictures and I would flip them a little bit.

1522
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. The pictures of fifteen, but

1523
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 3: i'd tell people with twenty Yeah, yeah, that's like finding

1524
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 3: that hustle. I was on Craigslist looking for gig jobs.

1525
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 3: That was a caddy girl one day, Like I told

1526
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 3: you that.

1527
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,080
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. Like, do you think now

1528
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: do you think entrepreneurs are like born out the womb

1529
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: or do you think they could go to college and

1530
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 1: then become an entrepreneur.

1531
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 3: I don't think entrepreneurs are for everyone. Yeah, because I

1532
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 3: think it's too exhausting. Yeah, Like I think working a

1533
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 3: nine to five, I think the goal for me, before

1534
01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 3: realizing I wanted to be an entrepreneur, I wanted to

1535
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 3: make two fifty at a.

1536
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 2: Corporate I'm still praying to hit that too fuch at

1537
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:55,919
Speaker 2: a corporate job.

1538
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 3: Oh, at a corporate That to me would have made

1539
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 3: me not do anything else. Okay, because the one seventy

1540
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 3: five was great. I was living a great apartment and traveling,

1541
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 3: but my parents needed help and I was like, oh,

1542
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 3: I need more money for my parents. If I had

1543
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 3: two fifty, that's money I could have to help them.

1544
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 3: And if I want to have a kid, I can

1545
01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:14,439
Speaker 3: live in this money, but mind you in New York.

1546
01:08:14,680 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, like two fifty in another city might be

1547
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 3: a million dollars. Yeah, my rent even then was twenty five.

1548
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 3: It's crazy, bro Yeah. But I say all that to

1549
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 3: say nine to fivers are making a lot more money

1550
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 3: than entrepreneurs. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Entrepreneurs are

1551
01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 3: out here really struggling. It's tough. But I think it's

1552
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 3: because some people are chasing a dream that they think

1553
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 3: they should do when really that's not it.

1554
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:39,599
Speaker 1: How would they identify the dream that is it though?

1555
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 1: And from the dream that isn't.

1556
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 3: I think one if it feels like a passion, are

1557
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 3: you happy doing it?

1558
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 5: Like?

1559
01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 3: Are you doing it because you actually love this? Like

1560
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 3: why do you love making? Eating while broke?

1561
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 1: I just love great rags to riches stories, Like I

1562
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 1: have some rich friends and they always tell me they

1563
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:00,160
Speaker 1: were like in jail somewhere or they were so on

1564
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 1: the ask somewhere, and I'm like, wait, you and you

1565
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,439
Speaker 1: live in the seven thousand square Foo mansion in La Oh,

1566
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:08,560
Speaker 1: tell me more. And I just love it. Like I

1567
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 1: would hang out and I just love the stories. I'd

1568
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, but you know.

1569
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 3: And I would say then with your audience and feeling inspired.

1570
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 2: But I was.

1571
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: Definitely lucky because I felt like the friends that I have,

1572
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 1: like if I'm like, Damn, this bill was high, I'd

1573
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 1: be like, you wouldn't understand it, be like try me.

1574
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:26,600
Speaker 1: I'd be like a thousand bucks to be like, no,

1575
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:27,440
Speaker 1: that bill's.

1576
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 2: High, you know. I'd really and they'd be like, no,

1577
01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:32,320
Speaker 2: it's high, you know.

1578
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: And so luckily I was fortunate to be with some

1579
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 1: friends that really like that. I felt like, damn, you're

1580
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: hanging out with me, Like if you and I hung out,

1581
01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: I would be lowkey geeked just because you have a

1582
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 1: great personality, but I would also be lowkey geeked because

1583
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 1: I'm like I look up to you, like I definitely

1584
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 1: admire you, you know.

1585
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 3: I feel like that with people sometimes where I'm like,

1586
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 3: are we like we're peers? Right? No matter if maybe

1587
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 3: like maybe my podcast has been going on longer than yours,

1588
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,760
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, that's what I'm gonna get, Like it's

1589
01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 3: still appears.

1590
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 2: Well, you're more than just a pot.

1591
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 1: Like in my eyes, well you and Mandy accomplished was great,

1592
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 1: But you gotta think you're a beautiful attractive woman in

1593
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: the entertainment industry. I have sidebar conversations all the time.

1594
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 1: I'll leave a meeting, I'll be like, this person wants

1595
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:15,600
Speaker 1: to fuck, and my friends will be like, how do

1596
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:17,360
Speaker 1: you know, and be like, Bro, I've been in this

1597
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:19,759
Speaker 1: game way too long. I can tell by the questions

1598
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: that the hints they want to fuck, and then I

1599
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 1: gotta navigate that. So to be attractive woman, Okay, then

1600
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:28,599
Speaker 1: you're an entertainment. Then you're an entrepreneurs, then you're handling

1601
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: all this business. Then you're sale. When I hear sales,

1602
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:33,080
Speaker 1: nothing excites me, you know how you get when I

1603
01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 1: hear a girl could sell, I'll be like, oh, this

1604
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:37,679
Speaker 1: is a it says, this is a real, real time,

1605
01:10:37,800 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 1: you know. But so I look at someone like you

1606
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:43,639
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, I would definitely be in awe

1607
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 1: like you know, like you know geeks, and same with

1608
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 1: my friends. Like I have my homie day Storm, I'll

1609
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,720
Speaker 1: hang out in his house or whatever. He literally will

1610
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,719
Speaker 1: only hang out when we work out, which sucks because

1611
01:10:53,800 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: his workouts are absolutely terrifyingly terriblely hard workouts.

1612
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:01,759
Speaker 2: Like if I want to have a talk a day Storm, I'm.

1613
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:03,680
Speaker 1: Like, I'll be at your house at four to work out,

1614
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 1: and it'll be the worst workout of the century, you know,

1615
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: But I still look up to him, and I'll still

1616
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 1: be like geeked, Like yo, I could walk into your

1617
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 1: house or borrow your house for the weekend. And but I,

1618
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 1: even though we're friends, I still look up to you,

1619
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:20,439
Speaker 1: and you're vulnerable. But they're the real inspiration behind my show.

1620
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:24,080
Speaker 1: They're realize stories and realize advice.

1621
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:26,640
Speaker 3: And honestly sharing that to the world and then you

1622
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 3: receiving that fan feedback and things like that, like having

1623
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:32,600
Speaker 3: the passion that making you feel good learning in the

1624
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:35,759
Speaker 3: middle of your job. That's how you know you keep going,

1625
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. But also I think the

1626
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,759
Speaker 3: largest mistake entrepreneurs make is if they have a regular

1627
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 3: job or a steady gig, they leave it for the

1628
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 3: passion before the passion flourishes. Yeah, and I didn't do that,

1629
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 3: Like I was working eighty hours a week doing horrible

1630
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,719
Speaker 3: and yeah, you know, literally coming in with my suitcase

1631
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 3: to the office, like, oh, I went to go see

1632
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 3: my parents, but really I had a fucking four hundred

1633
01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:00,799
Speaker 3: seat show that we fill down and like that. Today

1634
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 3: is different now it's double right and it feels great,

1635
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:06,759
Speaker 3: but like, nah, I had to do both. I think

1636
01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 3: living in the entertainment industry today is interesting because it

1637
01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:16,840
Speaker 3: could be anybody, right, Like, influencers have really ruined fame?

1638
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 2: You think so?

1639
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 1: Yes, I guess I could see that. It's weird because

1640
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 1: I see, like I feel like they're self made and

1641
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:25,680
Speaker 1: they work very hard, like when you look at the

1642
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 1: behind the scenes, they work hard.

1643
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 2: But I definitely will say I don't know. I would

1644
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 2: like to hear your perspective on it.

1645
01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:39,560
Speaker 3: I think influencers ruined fame because not saying that they're talentless,

1646
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 3: the content creation as a form of a talent. Like

1647
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:47,639
Speaker 3: if the Internet is gone, then where do you take

1648
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:49,680
Speaker 3: it and what do you do with it? You know,

1649
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:51,640
Speaker 3: I have a big influencer that reached out to me.

1650
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 3: They're not going broke or anything like they're making like

1651
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:58,040
Speaker 3: maybe thirty fortieth posts, but they reached out to me

1652
01:12:58,040 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 3: and we're like, I need you to have dinner with

1653
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 3: me or some shit and influences me to do some

1654
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 3: other shit. Because I realized this is like just what

1655
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 3: if Instagram doesn't want me to do ads anymore? What

1656
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 3: if Instagram stops advertisments for influencers, what if the hashtag

1657
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:12,639
Speaker 3: goes away? Like she was terrified, and it was when

1658
01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:15,040
Speaker 3: TikTok was about to get banned or something, and I

1659
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 3: was like, damn. I'm like, I don't know half of

1660
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:20,760
Speaker 3: my nas year off of heigi ads. But she was right,

1661
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:23,559
Speaker 3: like I didn't do anything else. I've just been learning

1662
01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 3: this one skill and that shit is tough because like,

1663
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:28,240
Speaker 3: I don't know, I wouldn't want my kids to be

1664
01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 3: an influencer. I think it also inflates when I say

1665
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:35,200
Speaker 3: it ruined fame, like you have movie stars, actors, actresses,

1666
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 3: and even podcasters make fame to me, like it's not real.

1667
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: Well, I've seen people too that will get like ten

1668
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 1: thousand followers and they all already switch up. I'm like, yo,

1669
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 1: if your bank account still read zero, who gives a

1670
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: fuck about some likes?

1671
01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:51,080
Speaker 3: But the same shit is weird because the likes and

1672
01:13:51,120 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 3: all this stuff makes you think you're better than you

1673
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:56,920
Speaker 3: are when there's so many more of you, so you

1674
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,919
Speaker 3: really have to find a thing that makes you different.

1675
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 3: Like honest, I follow so many girls that are just

1676
01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 3: hot and kind of look the same because of their

1677
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 3: clothes or their workouts. Or whatever. I don't think I

1678
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 3: know their names.

1679
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:08,760
Speaker 2: Really no.

1680
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:11,759
Speaker 3: I remember sitting at Lucy and it's my favorite restaurant

1681
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 3: New York. I always go there in the East Village

1682
01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:16,439
Speaker 3: and I was looking at this girl and I tapped

1683
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 3: her and I was like, do I know you? Do

1684
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:20,759
Speaker 3: we have a school together? Genuinely didn't know. I feel

1685
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 3: like I know you, And she was like, oh, I'm

1686
01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 3: an influencer. I was like, maybe I follow you. What's

1687
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:29,600
Speaker 3: your name? Didn't ring a bell? Looked at it and

1688
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 3: I was like, damn, I've been following this bitter a minute.

1689
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 2: But that's it.

1690
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,720
Speaker 3: You're not even connecting to the content. Yeah, because it's

1691
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:37,759
Speaker 3: just grid post after grid post up or something something.

1692
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 3: That's why people like just hilarious Drew Ski a Pretty V.

1693
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 3: They fucking stick out because we know what they're doing.

1694
01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 1: Yeah and they yeah, but those are also like I know. Well,

1695
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:51,719
Speaker 1: I'll say for Pretty V because we had her aunt,

1696
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 1: she's she's also hard.

1697
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 2: She's like a hustler too.

1698
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,640
Speaker 1: I would say she's she's more of an entrepreneur than

1699
01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 1: an influencer. Know she started that way, you know you could.

1700
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:05,000
Speaker 1: I feel the same with like b Simone, but something that.

1701
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 3: I have something that they do.

1702
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 1: But I will say I honestly say like and it

1703
01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 1: could be just me vibed, but I would say almost

1704
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 1: ninety percent of my guests have true integrity. There's somewhere

1705
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 1: I'll be like after interview reps, I'll be like, Wow,

1706
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:24,000
Speaker 1: I called bullshit, and I won't say who, but there

1707
01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: was a couple of episodes where my team I'll be like, damn,

1708
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 1: that was a bullshit, meaning like they looked bigger than

1709
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:31,000
Speaker 1: what they were. And then when I got in, I

1710
01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 1: was like, you don't know your shit, You're a fake.

1711
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 3: Maybe some people just get lucky.

1712
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 1: They got lucky, or they didn't name drop like hey,

1713
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 1: your baby mama helped you, or your mom helped you.

1714
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:42,400
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you give them the credit that they deserved.

1715
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:45,879
Speaker 3: Strange when people don't credit those that helped along the way.

1716
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:47,679
Speaker 2: I think it's completely strange.

1717
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 3: Do you know one of them?

1718
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:50,680
Speaker 1: By the way, if you're on my show and I

1719
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 1: catch it, I won't say it in front of the guests,

1720
01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:55,479
Speaker 1: but I will go me even the show raps, I'll

1721
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:58,639
Speaker 1: be like, I called bullshit. They left out somebody because

1722
01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:01,600
Speaker 1: their story isn't adding up, And I will literally you

1723
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 1: could ask my crew.

1724
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 2: I will be wait, it was.

1725
01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:07,560
Speaker 3: Mine, the sugar Daddy.

1726
01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 2: Your story was as real as they get.

1727
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: But you know, you know you could tell because they'll

1728
01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 1: be a missing gap. You know, they'll be like some

1729
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 1: part of the story where you'd be like that that

1730
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: doesn't line up. There's something missing there. I can always

1731
01:16:19,160 --> 01:16:21,280
Speaker 1: tell because I like, well, you.

1732
01:16:21,200 --> 01:16:23,760
Speaker 3: Know, sometimes the struggle isn't what people like to show,

1733
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 3: right the highlight reels that they need to show.

1734
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:26,800
Speaker 2: The struggle on this show.

1735
01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: On this show, you gotta tell me to credit your wife.

1736
01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:33,639
Speaker 3: If you're not giving other people their flower, it never

1737
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 3: takes from you. I was gonna say to you, Charlottagne

1738
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 3: makes me do that more than anyone like. It makes

1739
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 3: me thank my team so much. Like I've never seen

1740
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 3: anyone be so gracious towards those around him, even when

1741
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 3: I pay him a compliment, just no one else around

1742
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 3: Damn you kill this shit man. That was some though.

1743
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:56,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, okay, I've never really I've seen Charlomage

1744
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 1: one time, so I literally saw him, was like, thank

1745
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 1: you so much for everything you do for me.

1746
01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:03,519
Speaker 3: Have a good day. Wait, you just met him in Atlanta.

1747
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was it. And that's all I said was

1748
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:06,200
Speaker 2: thank you.

1749
01:17:06,240 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 3: What every Christian famous person like normal and authentic. And

1750
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 3: I think I made a joke on a podcast and

1751
01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:17,760
Speaker 3: I tested it once. I was like, man like, they

1752
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:21,280
Speaker 3: were like, who do you think is someone that you've

1753
01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:23,759
Speaker 3: met that's a celebrity that you expected to be different?

1754
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 3: I was like, Charlomanne answers the phone every time. I

1755
01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 3: think it's very strange. Yeah, because you're so like, he's

1756
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 3: literally answered. I could hear him at the breakfast. I

1757
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:35,280
Speaker 3: was up, he's monnies me, Like, just really wants to

1758
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 3: make sure he's accessible to people that he cares about.

1759
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:40,960
Speaker 3: And I think that's what's inspired me to be a

1760
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 3: really good leader and just all around good person when

1761
01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 3: it comes to people that have paved the way, because like,

1762
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:49,960
Speaker 3: we don't see that, we see a lot of I

1763
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:51,840
Speaker 3: I I, yeah, you know.

1764
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:52,040
Speaker 2: Well.

1765
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 1: Also, I think the cool thing about him is that

1766
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,719
Speaker 1: he has like an all black woman team pretty much,

1767
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:00,800
Speaker 1: and he treats all those women great. Because I've worked

1768
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 1: for other people and with other people in the industry

1769
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:05,719
Speaker 1: and it ain't like that it's more of the boy's club.

1770
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 1: I see the boys getting blessed and the woman getting dirty.

1771
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 3: And Charlemagne is very much again an authentic person. Yeah,

1772
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,599
Speaker 3: Like I heard him on a I had a call

1773
01:18:14,640 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 3: with him for something else, and the other person on

1774
01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 3: the other end of the call was very like, what's

1775
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:25,080
Speaker 3: the word I'm looking for, almost like a shell of

1776
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:27,400
Speaker 3: themselves trying to show you how great they are. Charlamagne

1777
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:31,360
Speaker 3: was in a T shirt in South Carolina, I think

1778
01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 3: visiting family, or maybe he was outside of his crib,

1779
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:35,719
Speaker 3: but he was like on a chair on a porch,

1780
01:18:35,960 --> 01:18:38,320
Speaker 3: just looking like he was chilling, and everybody else is

1781
01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 3: suited up, and he's like, y'all are so lucky for

1782
01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:41,720
Speaker 3: me to be on this call. Just I could tell

1783
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 3: you that's what he's thinking. And he's so much of

1784
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 3: himself and still giving you gems. And I was like, Wow,

1785
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:49,760
Speaker 3: he didn't even feel the need to like do it

1786
01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:52,680
Speaker 3: up for some Hollywood people. Yeah, because he knows like this.

1787
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:56,639
Speaker 3: His brand is so raw, and I think we have

1788
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 3: to be that way. We can't try to be the

1789
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 3: person that we think other people would like, because they'll

1790
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 3: smell it just like you do. You know what I'm saying.

1791
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:06,880
Speaker 3: People smell that all day every day. You could be

1792
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:09,120
Speaker 3: a casual listener that's in that YouTube that's like this

1793
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 3: person's a liar.

1794
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:11,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, people clock it. Yeah.

1795
01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:13,679
Speaker 3: And for you to know that as someone that's bringing

1796
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:16,559
Speaker 3: these people in, like I think that says a lot.

1797
01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1798
01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1799
01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 3: Eventually we'll get to the.

1800
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:23,920
Speaker 1: Space where there's like I can actually call bullshit on

1801
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 1: the mic. I'm not there yet, I know, but there

1802
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 1: have been a couple where I'm like, bull shit, what

1803
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:31,680
Speaker 1: about you?

1804
01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 3: Being like, there's got to be a.

1805
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 1: Oh I go in and you can tell because they

1806
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 1: won't answer the question. And that's how I know it's bullshit.

1807
01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 1: I'll be like, Okay, you're just boying. I'll ask seven

1808
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 1: different ways. I'm like, Okay, I call bullshit, but I

1809
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:47,160
Speaker 1: won't say it on the mic yet. I'm not there yet.

1810
01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:51,840
Speaker 3: Plus I gotcha host, They're like, oh, like be there

1811
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 3: for the moment.

1812
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1813
01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 1: And then also like there's the uncomfortable space, you know

1814
01:19:57,160 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 1: with our shows, like we dig into the vulnerability a

1815
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 1: little bit deep, and I like to say to everybody

1816
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: it's a safe space. Like if I think there's something

1817
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 1: that you're going to say on our show that I

1818
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:09,920
Speaker 1: think is going to ruin your career or cancel you

1819
01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:12,439
Speaker 1: do you don't even have to send your publicists or

1820
01:20:12,439 --> 01:20:14,840
Speaker 1: whoever over to like, oh my god, Colleen or beg me,

1821
01:20:15,320 --> 01:20:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm going to remove it just on game. I'm just

1822
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 1: you shared your story.

1823
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 3: I completely agree with you. I think that keeping those

1824
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 3: moments like I've seen Megan James, I mean, I don't

1825
01:20:26,080 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 3: want to talk too much shit. She's spent some money

1826
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 3: about WTS Studio, but there's some clips where I'm like, WHOA, yeah,

1827
01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:36,880
Speaker 3: you know, like I'm kind of surprised you invite someone

1828
01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:39,920
Speaker 3: in your space to like do that m h. And

1829
01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 3: she's just sticking out of my mind right now. I'm

1830
01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 3: not saying she's like a terrible person, but it's a

1831
01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:50,800
Speaker 3: it's a style interviewing that works for her. Maybe she's

1832
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:52,840
Speaker 3: on more streams than almost who knows, But like, I

1833
01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 3: don't know if I could do it.

1834
01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:56,240
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about honestly, like Jason Lee, to

1835
01:20:56,280 --> 01:20:57,840
Speaker 1: be honest, I feel like some of the stuff he'd

1836
01:20:57,880 --> 01:20:59,280
Speaker 1: be doing, I'll be like, well maybe, And I have

1837
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:01,599
Speaker 1: this conversation with little brother all the time, and I'm

1838
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: always like, ego, maybe maybe I should sell out, Like

1839
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 1: because I look at such and such kind of like

1840
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:07,960
Speaker 1: how you look at social media, be like, look at

1841
01:21:08,000 --> 01:21:11,679
Speaker 1: this person. It's like they're really honestly, like they don't

1842
01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:14,000
Speaker 1: give a fuck about anybody's career, you know, and then

1843
01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:15,680
Speaker 1: they Jason Lee.

1844
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:18,200
Speaker 3: At Charlemagne back in the day, I'm Magan James. I

1845
01:21:18,240 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 3: think you know what you're getting when you go on

1846
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 3: the door. Yeah, And I think people almost it's like

1847
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,880
Speaker 3: ze Way. People would say, how the fuck does anyone

1848
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 3: keep going on there?

1849
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:29,720
Speaker 2: Like, you know, I don't know what ze Way is, but.

1850
01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 3: You don't know what she's the black girl that had

1851
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:33,639
Speaker 3: the show on Showtime where she would ask people questions

1852
01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:37,559
Speaker 3: and like should Julia Fox. Charlemagne was a guest on there.

1853
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:39,240
Speaker 3: She was her famous one.

1854
01:21:39,840 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 2: But what was she ask them?

1855
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:43,880
Speaker 3: She would just ask them questions that would make them

1856
01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:47,520
Speaker 3: look bad. Oh really, Like she showed Charlemgne a diagram

1857
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 3: and had them point out someone She was like, oh,

1858
01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 3: so you think that white people are superior type shit?

1859
01:21:51,120 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 3: Oh okay, But like it's like she was one of

1860
01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 3: those and I think like people prepare themselves for those

1861
01:21:56,040 --> 01:21:57,639
Speaker 3: funny Marco. I don't know how people.

1862
01:21:57,479 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 1: Say what that nes is that the one is where

1863
01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: the guy just says like insulting things or something kind

1864
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:05,479
Speaker 1: of yeah, because I saw that show and I was like, look,

1865
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:06,960
Speaker 1: I just love that show period.

1866
01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 3: But like it's content.

1867
01:22:08,680 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's content is very good.

1868
01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:12,880
Speaker 3: I think maybe it's just content that I can't make,

1869
01:22:12,960 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 3: but yeah, you know, it's hard for me to push

1870
01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 3: unless I think something's wrong, Like I do Man on

1871
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:21,880
Speaker 3: the Street for my TV show a lot. Yesterday, this

1872
01:22:21,880 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 3: guy talked about how he had another girl to work

1873
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 3: or do something and I was like, he's black. Oh,

1874
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 3: all kind of girls you day, and he's like, I

1875
01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:31,080
Speaker 3: prefer white. And then I can see the camera crewisers

1876
01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 3: in the back, like oh, like really, he was like, yeah,

1877
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:36,360
Speaker 3: I just updated a black girl and they're really crazy.

1878
01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, so have you ever met a Karen?

1879
01:22:39,920 --> 01:22:42,120
Speaker 3: He was like, well, I don't think that type of way. Oh,

1880
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 3: but there are crazy white women.

1881
01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 1: But basically right now, my future ex husband he loves

1882
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 1: white women. But his thing is that black women's standards

1883
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:55,920
Speaker 1: are are higher or like they're not as easy as

1884
01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:58,679
Speaker 1: a white girl, and so he lives for the white girls.

1885
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:00,519
Speaker 2: He lives for that's.

1886
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 3: Literally only cheated, I mean the white women, to the

1887
01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 3: point that I was like, you must, yeah, you must,

1888
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:08,160
Speaker 3: you're dating me, So your mom is happy. Yeah, and

1889
01:23:08,160 --> 01:23:10,680
Speaker 3: then I realized, oh, maybe I was just light skinning up.

1890
01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 1: Like, do you This is completely random, but I have

1891
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:16,719
Speaker 1: a pet peeve about dating a guy that only dates

1892
01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 1: mixed girls.

1893
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 2: I can't do it.

1894
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:19,320
Speaker 3: I haven't missed.

1895
01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 2: I feel like you haven't.

1896
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:23,439
Speaker 3: Only I didn't know, Like you don't know until.

1897
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 2: You don't know, but when you find I know.

1898
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:27,080
Speaker 1: For me, I just feel like there's a little bit

1899
01:23:27,120 --> 01:23:29,720
Speaker 1: of colorism issues there, Like dudes that are like I

1900
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:33,360
Speaker 1: only like light skin I'm like, all right, I don't know,

1901
01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 1: that's weird. But I started to think when my ex

1902
01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:41,200
Speaker 1: husband my future that maybe he maybe he genuinely just

1903
01:23:41,320 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 1: likes white girls and he's just saying that as like

1904
01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:44,200
Speaker 1: a cover up.

1905
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 2: No, I think you're right.

1906
01:23:47,120 --> 01:23:53,120
Speaker 3: He's like, hey, she light white in a different light, Yeah, exactly,

1907
01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:56,040
Speaker 3: like on some real shit. I think it's kind of

1908
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:58,200
Speaker 3: scary because you really have to clock them as light

1909
01:23:58,200 --> 01:24:00,200
Speaker 3: skinn people. You gotta clock them as mixed girls like

1910
01:24:00,439 --> 01:24:02,600
Speaker 3: this shit is not cute for like a man that

1911
01:24:02,640 --> 01:24:05,000
Speaker 3: you're dating to only date. I had a guy tell

1912
01:24:05,080 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 3: me once that I was acting dark skin He told

1913
01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:11,240
Speaker 3: me it was crazy that my hair wasn't super curly.

1914
01:24:11,320 --> 01:24:13,840
Speaker 3: Like most mixed girls. Wow, And he was like, you

1915
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:15,559
Speaker 3: talk different. Wow.

1916
01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 2: Yeah I don't like that. Yeah I don't. I won't.

1917
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:21,080
Speaker 2: I won't.

1918
01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 1: Well right now, thank god, I'm like one hundred percent

1919
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:25,960
Speaker 1: focused on not dating, which is this is the longest

1920
01:24:25,960 --> 01:24:26,799
Speaker 1: I've ever been seeing.

1921
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 3: That's when they be coming too. I'll be trying to

1922
01:24:28,479 --> 01:24:30,040
Speaker 3: act like I'm not focused on dating. I'll walk in

1923
01:24:30,080 --> 01:24:33,000
Speaker 3: the club and be like, I'm not looking for anyone.

1924
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:37,720
Speaker 3: I like how you be positioned in it too. I

1925
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:41,320
Speaker 3: want to date so bad, man, but it's it's tough,

1926
01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:42,520
Speaker 3: and honestly.

1927
01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:46,000
Speaker 1: How do you juggle a breakup with a with a business. Honestly,

1928
01:24:46,080 --> 01:24:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm terrible. If it wasn't for my high school friends

1929
01:24:48,200 --> 01:24:50,920
Speaker 1: scooping me off the floor behind closed doors.

1930
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:52,800
Speaker 2: Girl, he's gonna.

1931
01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:55,480
Speaker 3: Be okay, you know what I'm saying, Like, I have responsibilities,

1932
01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:57,000
Speaker 3: like hate to get more of it. But the only

1933
01:24:57,040 --> 01:24:58,760
Speaker 3: things that have kept me from killing myself is my

1934
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Speaker 3: dog and my team. And it's not because they're encouraging

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Speaker 3: me to stay, you know, and it's like, hey, we

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Speaker 3: need you to be alive so we can make money.

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Speaker 3: But like, literally I think about them and I'm like

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Speaker 3: one of the people that worked for me I recently

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Speaker 3: found out used to be homeless and thanks me all

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Speaker 3: the time for being able to do things for their

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Speaker 3: mother now and like it's fucking wild. I get random

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Speaker 3: texts from a lot of our staff at two in

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Speaker 3: the morning, love working with you, and I'm like, all

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Speaker 3: these niggas is wrong and it's such a good feeling.

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Speaker 3: But I think about that. I think about that when

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Speaker 3: I'm getting down on myself, like how dare you? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like, you are helping all

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Speaker 3: of these people. I'm gonna leave my parents alone in

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Speaker 3: the world. And when I tell you, my dog no bullshit.

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Speaker 3: I was just being trauma queen one day. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be here anymore. And I looked

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Speaker 3: at her. I was like, who's gonna feed me up

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Speaker 3: with those little things? Like really got to bring you back.

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Speaker 3: But when running those businesses, I'm sure for people that

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Speaker 3: are listening that only have themselves, you probably feel like, well,

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Speaker 3: who do I fight for? You? Fight for your future self?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Right? Everything is momentary. When you're broke, it's momentary. Sometimes

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Speaker 3: when you get in a big check, it might be momentary.

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Speaker 2: Like everything is.

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Speaker 3: Kind of momentary. It's just that feeling that will last

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Speaker 3: for a little bit, as strong emotions only for a

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Speaker 3: little bit, even when you're crazy in love. It just

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Speaker 3: kind of lasts for a period of time. And I

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Speaker 3: think that when we're down, we feel like it's the end.

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Speaker 3: But you've gotta have faith in your future self.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like that. I'm a personally remember that.

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Speaker 1: No, now that I have Zariyah, my daughter, I'm like, yo,

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Speaker 1: if you leave and you the number one gangst the

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Speaker 1: soldier for her, ain't nobody gonna go harder for ze

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Speaker 1: than you?

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Speaker 2: Then then what's she gonna have?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, shit, I guess, I guess that's it.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. But I do think too though.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes when you are having a bad day and you

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Speaker 1: have all these responsibilities, I'll.

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Speaker 2: Be like, well, how can I go? I got like

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Speaker 2: sixteen things planned next week that I have to get done.

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Speaker 2: I can't even take the one day off.

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Speaker 3: This is why they said they all done. There say

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Speaker 3: this thing about how you have to have something for

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Speaker 3: two week, month, No, I think next days, week or month.

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Speaker 3: I can't remember what it is, but it's basically so

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Speaker 3: that you don't get to where you feel like you

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Speaker 3: have nothing. There has to be something on the calendar,

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Speaker 3: whether it be a workout, whether it be a nail,

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Speaker 3: something you scheduled for yourself. Even if it's not a trip,

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Speaker 3: it's dinner at a cool place. You gotta have something

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Speaker 3: because if you don't have that, then you feel hopeless,

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Speaker 3: like we need to have those things. My mother actually

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Speaker 3: gets like that. My mom's in her seventies. She gets

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Speaker 3: so bored.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to bring the riots to your mom.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, baby something to do bad. She does

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Speaker 3: it with random people in like restaurants, especially if they're

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Speaker 3: like black and cool. Shed just be looking at the baby.

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Speaker 3: She won't talk either. She'll just start to do this

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Speaker 3: while the mom's eating it's fine, and then keep talking

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Speaker 3: to me.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, weezy, it was such a good

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Speaker 1: time having you that.

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Speaker 2: I hope that now that you're in LA, or when

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Speaker 2: you pop in LA, you hit me up.

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Speaker 1: Please do and hopefully you know if you pass a

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Speaker 1: rich dude and you want to pull me to my

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Speaker 1: first school, I want to. I want to experience I've

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Speaker 1: never done it girl arrangement.

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Speaker 2: I will. I'm serious.

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Speaker 3: I want to Chuggard at your website.

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Speaker 2: I want to.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna check it out and I'm gonna be texting

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Speaker 1: you girl. You would not believe it.

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Speaker 3: Financial domination, Financial domination. You got to make people feel

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Speaker 3: like shiit online and they just send you money for

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Speaker 3: doing it.

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Speaker 1: Really, I'm gonna I'm gonna look up all these pay picks,

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Speaker 1: pay picks, but thank you for taking time out of

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Speaker 1: be a crazy schedule to come visit and cook for

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Speaker 1: me before we close out? Can you tell everybody all

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Speaker 1: the different assets that you have and how to keep

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Speaker 1: up with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm on tour right now. Horrible Decisions. This is

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Speaker 3: our final tours, the climax. We're not breaking up, we

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Speaker 3: just really are Like, touring is a lot of work.

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Speaker 3: Can't do it. So check us out on her hive

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Speaker 3: dot com and Horrible Decisions. Visit if you're an up

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Speaker 3: and coming podcaster of a studio in New York and LA.

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Speaker 3: It's super affordable. You can literally record for sixty bucks

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Speaker 3: if you wanted to, or a thousand if you're rich.

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Speaker 3: And my TV show Sex, I was confused stream that

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Speaker 3: motherfucker because that's the place that got the most mouthed

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Speaker 3: to be so.

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Speaker 2: Really just literally sit in streaming not really help. No,

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Speaker 2: I want to watch it.

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Speaker 3: It's really fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm definitely gonna watch it.

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Speaker 3: It's a cute show. I go to a brothel this season.

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Speaker 3: It's not out yet, but I've become a processing really.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I sat down with a client.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm definitely watching it was crazy.

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Speaker 3: My favorite episode of all time on there was when

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Speaker 3: my mom did phone sex. That was crazy.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I would be greatest phone sex.

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Speaker 3: By the way, maybe you would, it's I would.

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Speaker 2: I would be phenomenal.

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Speaker 3: Just so I covered the business that does it. She

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Speaker 3: teaches women how to keep them on the phone.

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Speaker 2: And like, I was in a celibate relationship, so I

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Speaker 2: will say.

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Speaker 3: I just got out of a smular relationship.

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Speaker 2: Really, I hated it, and I absolutely hated it.

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Speaker 1: I have hundred and then I got with my husband,

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Speaker 1: who was like the opposite, just a SuperH and I

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Speaker 1: was like.

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Speaker 2: This is the best.

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Speaker 1: But it came out of a celibate relationship and ran

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Speaker 1: right to the opposite.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, yeah, you need to do it three times

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Speaker 3: a week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But thank y'all for tuning in to another episode of

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Speaker 1: Eating while Broke.

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Speaker 2: I'm your girl. Colleen, and this is Wheezy Bye, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Bys.

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Speaker 1: For more eating while broke from iHeartRadio and The Black Effect,

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Speaker 1: visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you listen

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