1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast. 2 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: We're back from Boston, New York. I'm kind of feeling 3 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: withdrawals a little bit, are you. Yeah? I know yesterday 4 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: I texted you both separately. You did Hi. It's such 5 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: a high and then when you get back it's always 6 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: like amah. So it is a lot of peopling. Yeah, 7 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: oh yeah. I didn't want to speak. Still don't really 8 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: want to speak. That's problematic. That is for the next minutes. 9 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: I saved it for today. Yeah, it's crazy because we 10 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: travel together, we hotel together, we podcasted while we were there, 11 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: but then we also people with your people m and 12 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: like I have you hug but I didn't have to. 13 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: I get to do the meet and greets before and 14 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: then after the show. So it's a lot. Yeah too, 15 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: And you're taking on a lot of deep information. That's 16 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: one thing that I kind of have realized this time. 17 00:00:57,720 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, I don't know how you've done 18 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: this this well. I think one of the girls, because 19 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: I had this one girl she was so sweet and 20 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: boss that she was crying telling a near story and oh, 21 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 1: Alan ding Ding, I goes the boyfriend ding Dong in London, England. 22 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: So I yeah, So she was like crying. The next 23 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: girl goes, this must be a lot for you, and 24 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: I said, you know what I said, because the meeting 25 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: groots are what like thirty forty five minutes and then 26 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: after the show obviously was staying for however long, which 27 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: I love meeting everybody and hearing stories. I love all that. 28 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: And I told her, I said, there's so many mean, nasty, 29 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,919 Speaker 1: not not There's so many There are obviously some things. 30 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: When you open yourself up to things, you get negative comments. 31 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: But I often question myself, well why do I Why 32 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: am I still doing this? And then I go, but 33 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: this is why, because I hear these people's stories and 34 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: how it's helped, and so that makes me feel happy. 35 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: How we make them laugh, how you know they relate 36 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: to you, how they relate to you, and so I 37 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: think that's the piece where I'm like, Okay, this is 38 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: this is why like this and these weekends helped me 39 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: realize what we're doing is for good. It's really special 40 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: because you get to hug them. Yeah, Like I just 41 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: really like to hug and it was along two years 42 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,679 Speaker 1: of non hugging, so I feel like I'm a hugg 43 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 1: around the loose, but I just want to hold people 44 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: and hear and touch their faces. I have to rain 45 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: you in after the catch, like are you done over here? 46 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, cheek to cheek, minus sneaky reporters that try 47 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: and come and come to a show like that was 48 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: just so crappy. Okay, So I wasn't sure if you 49 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: wanted to talk about that. Well, and I'm still confused 50 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: by the whole thing a little bit. So it was 51 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: interesting because I met this person, so you knew it 52 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: was a reporter, well, I knew where she worked. I mean, 53 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 1: I'm assuming unless there was another one there that I 54 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: didn't meet, But she came with her mom, and I, 55 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: you know, just I was like so like I'd kept 56 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: telling her how proud I was of her making this 57 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: big choice and moving to a big city, and she 58 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 1: said it was a culture shock, and all these things 59 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: just interesting. Yeah, because those shows obviously are not recorded 60 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: and they're meant to be you know, we give them 61 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: a little more tea than we'd give them on this podcast, 62 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: but it's also a deeper level intimate exactly. And that's 63 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: the part where I'm like, in a way, I was 64 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 1: like felt a little violated and I was like, yeah, 65 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: I was. It was hurt that they went and that 66 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: publication especially are so disgustingly low with how I mean, 67 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: for example, they had someone parked outside my house, like 68 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: they're just they're a nasty, ugly site, yeah, for just drama. 69 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I just I despise the fact that 70 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: she was even an audience. Oh yeah. I thought about 71 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: this last night though, because I was like I felt 72 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: a little hurt. Yeah, you know, like that violation you're 73 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: talking about, Like I was like, shame on you, Like 74 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: this is our special time with special people, like good people, 75 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: where we like talk about really deep stuff. Yeah, and 76 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: we all share and we all cry and we all laugh. 77 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: But then I was like, you know what, we're getting closer. 78 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: That's all that is. Like when you play in the arena, 79 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: do you ever read the burnet Brown? Is the Teddy 80 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: Roosevelt que quote that she always talks about about when 81 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: you are in the arena. And so this is just 82 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: one of those things where I was like, you know what, 83 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: not today say you get out of here. This is 84 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 1: our special time. Yeah, And I think that's the thing too, 85 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: because I'm like I love going on those tours and 86 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: being so open and like not having the censor because 87 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: I don't censor a lot on here. You know, I 88 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: censor some things that I don't want to be on 89 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: US Weekly. And it wasn't from US Weekly. They're actually 90 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: classier than this other place, um, you know, from this 91 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: other So it's like there's certain things I just don't 92 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 1: want out there. And so at the shows, I'm like, 93 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: you know what, these are my people. They've they've like, 94 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: there are people they've followed along with us, and so 95 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: they can get a little snippet. I mean, I say 96 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: more of them. I sure out there. We go to 97 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: DC in Philly, I'm like, because I'm like, what, you know, 98 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: what reporter from that trash mag is going to come 99 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: maybe whatever. Yeah, we're going to figure it out. Yeah, 100 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 1: we've just got to give no more attention to them. 101 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: I think it's interesting though, because I was talking to 102 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: Alan and he was just saying, you just honestly can't 103 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: trust anyone, And that like makes me sad, I know, 104 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: because again it's like, I like the fact that we've 105 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: created this really special. It's so special because there's so 106 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: many tears and laughter. It's it's just like that's the 107 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: special is like the best word to put it, Like, 108 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: it's so sacred to me. Yeah, but you also want 109 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: them to feel safe, right, Like I was thinking about 110 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: that one girl in New York who had a very 111 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: personal question to ask if that were to be And 112 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: I know they're just picking up what you're saying, but 113 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: you never know like they I mean, you want our 114 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: people that are there to feel safe to ask questions. 115 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: And that's just fair. And that's what makes it so 116 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: cool out there is that they do feel that way, 117 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: and we feel that way. Like I don't talk about 118 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: hardly anything personal really like oh gosh, but when I'm 119 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,360 Speaker 1: out there, I say a couple, okay, and that's the thing. Yeah, 120 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: we let it, We let it fly and ride because 121 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: we're just we can just have fun and it can 122 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,039 Speaker 1: safe yes yeah to say yeah very girlfriend dye. And 123 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: it's like we want people to feel say to that 124 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: and yeah during our Q and A is when that 125 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: a few of those questions were asked. But it's like, again, 126 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: I felt safe to just be silly and fun and 127 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: also and so do you guys, And so it's just 128 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: I was like that was so disappointed, I know, but 129 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:38,799 Speaker 1: it does not shock me because they're the worst. Hey everyone, 130 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: it's Bethany Frankel. We are reliving the best moments from 131 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: all the seasons of the Real Housewives on my new 132 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: podcast Rewives. From the table flips of New Jersey to 133 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: the craziest hills of Beverly. 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Did you see the rundown? I did? 144 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: I did what? I did? You did? I did? Okay, 145 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: I have funny hands. Would anyone like to start on 146 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: the rundown of the hot topics? I would like to 147 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: avoid one if possible. Oh, I wonder which one you 148 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: could avoid Let's start with m m okay, hot topic 149 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: number one. We're just gonna go because this is let's 150 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: gets sent to us. Kelsey beller recalls sleeping on the 151 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: couch and many a night and mid marriage issues with 152 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: Morgan Evans. Kelsey Bellerini's reflecting on the painful moments that 153 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: led to her split from fellow country star Morgan Evans. 154 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: She went on call her daddy, who are you guys? 155 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: I'm like so obsessed with Alexander Alexander Cooper, So we 156 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: follow each other on Instagram and like sometimes I liked you. EMM, 157 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: she doesn't see him or she doesn't choose. Yeah, I know, 158 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,559 Speaker 1: I just I love her. I think she's so she's 159 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: like a Barbara Walter's vibe, like a cool vibe where 160 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: she goes there and I love it. And but she's 161 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 1: like the new Age. Okay, do you have thoughts? I 162 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: hate this topic. Okay, well then I'm going to keep 163 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: going so interesting. In a clip from episode, Ballerini took 164 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: work for a long time, or call sleepless nights. I think, what? 165 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:58,079 Speaker 1: I what? What? The one the thing that I ended up, 166 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: which she said was she She mentioned that he took 167 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: half the house that he didn't pay for, and she 168 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: she was shocked, and I'm trying not to misquote, but 169 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: basically that the person, how did she not know that 170 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: that existed in that person? That, um, what's the word? 171 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: Guys like out here he's all like him, the fact 172 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: that he could take half the house that he didn't buy, 173 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: so that he That's what she said, And I'm trying 174 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: to find the quote exactly, but i didn't see it 175 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: in here. I think it was on the podcast, like 176 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: she felt blindsided by like it was that it was 177 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: an actual quote that she said on the thing, So 178 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: I just want to make sure I quote it, but 179 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: she just said that she didn't she felt so how 180 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: could he take half the house like that? That he 181 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 1: had that character to take half of the How did 182 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: she not know that before? And uh, you know, I 183 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: mean I could definitely relate in a way where there 184 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 1: was a lot of anger. Obviously when I divorced my X, 185 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm like having to pay alimony or a lump sum, 186 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: and then now I pay him child support. That's hard, 187 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: and that anger has subsided because at the end of 188 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: the day, it's like I just have to think, Okay, 189 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: it's for my kids. Now having said that, it's it's 190 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: very difficult. Also, I look at it and go, okay, well, 191 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: this is what happens in divorce. Unfortunately this sucks. And 192 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: whether he paid half or or you know, um or didn't, 193 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: I mean I don't. I don't think my X was 194 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: entitled everything that he got. But unfortunately that was, you know, 195 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: the what happened. And you know, the I didn't want 196 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: to go to court fight a post up and because 197 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: yes she had a pre nup post up, that's stuff 198 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, doesn't really go in court. 199 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: So when I remember fighting with my um with Max 200 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: about He's like, I'm going to fight the post up 201 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 1: and I'm like, but you know, my lawyer is like, 202 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: well he technically could win. I'm like, then why sign 203 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: a paper if it's not even gonna work, you know. 204 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: So but one day it's like, all right, It's like, 205 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: I'd rather what spend a year fighting in court or 206 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: just pay them and you know, pay child support whatever, 207 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 1: cut my losses. My issue with the whole thing. And 208 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: I've said this, I've even said this to you when 209 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: you were frustrated with yours. If the roles were reversed, 210 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: men do that all the time for women. So I'm 211 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: gonna Devil's advocate with you this though. Here's the problem. 212 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: I have my kids seventy percent, so you would think 213 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: that I wouldn't have to pay that much child for 214 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 1: child support. But I'm talking about paying half the house. Oh, 215 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: but that's that's where I just think in that area. 216 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, my anger probably lies more with like child support. 217 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: So with that, I agree, like, yeah, it's a marital asset. 218 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: It's just how the cookie crumbles with that. It is, 219 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: but it is and child support, I mean again, yeah 220 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: a little bit. You know, on the other foot, if 221 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: it was fifty fifty, right, if it's fifty fifty and 222 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: someone can't afford to pay to live that lifestyle, man 223 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: or woman, That's my thing is I think it should 224 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: be treated the same man or woman, and I think 225 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: we naturally when it's the woman happening to pay off 226 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: the man, it just feels different. And I even think, 227 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: I mean even Nick has said this before. He's like, 228 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: it just feels different when it's a man taking a 229 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: woman's money. And I'm like, but it's how is it different? 230 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 1: Because there's a Because I've talked to a few guys 231 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: about this. He's like, I wouldn't. There's a I would 232 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: never take your money. Yeah, that's what Nick says too. 233 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: And even like you know whatever, he would say, like 234 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. If we were, I would never, But you don't. 235 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: You don't know at the end of the day, when 236 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: someone's in that situation what they're going to Actually you don't. 237 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: And at the end of the days too, that's tricky. Well, 238 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: And when it comes to money, like I think you 239 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: get in panic mode. I mean, I remember when we 240 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: were going we hadn't even filed and we were going 241 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 1: through all these things. I was in panic mode. Am 242 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: I going to be able to afford my bills? Am 243 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 1: I going to be able to afford? And I threatened 244 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: to take things that I normally would not do. But 245 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: I think you just have to recognize that, like for 246 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: the person that makes less money, it is scary, and 247 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: I think, man or woman, it's scary, and you don't 248 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 1: know what was tabled on the back end or inside 249 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: of the marriage for that person to make less money, Like, yeah, 250 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: I make a lot of less money than my husband, 251 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: but you know, if that was to be our situation, 252 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 1: I would need I mean I've tabled. I've been a 253 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: stay at a mom, not saying Morgan was a stay 254 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: at home dad, but like there's just so much even 255 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: in the career in industry that like we the three 256 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 1: of us, will never know what happened inside the house. 257 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: She continued to go on with the career, and you know, well, 258 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: that's the thing I don't there's so much speculation, right, 259 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: And it's like there's two sides, and then there's the truth, 260 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: three sides, right, and then there's two sides of the truth. 261 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: And so I can relate in understand and have empathy 262 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: for her on the side where she's worked her ass 263 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: off where and it's hard when someone walks away with 264 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: something of their hard work. So it's like when I 265 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 1: had to write the check to Mike, I'm like, it 266 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: was painful because I've never worked harder in the last 267 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: few years. And it's like I gave you, like what 268 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: this is so not fair and you sat and played 269 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: video games and you know, and I'm not saying he 270 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: wasn't not doing anything, either Morgan or whatever, but like 271 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: that's I feel that my ex. Yeah, Like I was like, 272 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: are you kid? Is this for real? Right? Yeah? So 273 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: you would think that they would have more character to 274 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: say or but again that's where it's like the white, 275 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: black and white of divorce is. Well, they are technically owed, 276 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 1: not owed, but that's as an asset. Yeah, it's also 277 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: tricky because when this all happened, Morgan came out pretty 278 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: quickly with a single that was his heart on a 279 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: piece of paper, and he's saying this ballad I believe 280 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: about the divorce indirectly about the divorce, and Kelsey kind 281 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: of just laid loaf from what eyewitness. Again, I haven't 282 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: been scrolling. This is difficult because we're friends with both 283 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: of them. Okay, so I only I've never I met 284 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: Morgan once twice I know, obviously more Kelsey. Yeah. Well yeah, 285 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: it's just tricky for me because I like them both 286 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: and love I love them both individually, and I don't know, truthfully, 287 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: like hand on Bible, I don't know the ins and 288 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 1: outs of any of this. I just know that I've 289 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: always loved and supported Kelsey. My husband is friends with 290 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: Morgan and knows that he's a really great dude, and 291 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: so I've and we're not like this isn't a side 292 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 1: thing anyways. I just really love the shot of her. 293 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: But I have I think what's hard is that all 294 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: of a sudden it's getting like stirred back up again 295 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: because now she's come out with this project that is well, 296 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: so I don't think it's the project. So I think 297 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: because I remember I saw Morgan's DM or not Morgan 298 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 1: Morgan's post about you know, basically her call, everyone's thinking like, well, 299 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: you release songs, she can release EP. It's not the 300 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: EP that's the issue. It's what she said on called 301 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: her daddy. Yeah, that is stirring things up for because 302 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: it's I mean again basically calling him out for taking 303 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: something that he didn't pay for it. Well, the blind 304 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: sided piece of all of it has been a big 305 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: talking point. So do you think it's Do you think 306 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: her going on there and saying that was the right move? 307 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: I don't think there's a right or wrong. Honestly, I 308 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: would say that she has a lot of good people 309 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 1: around her that I would think would advise her if 310 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: they didn't think that that was something that needed to 311 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: be done. Likes too, She has such a she is isolated, 312 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: well good Both of them actually have really good friends 313 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: and people around them that I don't think would allow 314 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: them to do anything that would be like, I don't 315 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: think she did it to be hurtful, is my gut. 316 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: Probably feels good to get some truth out there, her 317 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: own truth, because she didn't say too much after it 318 00:16:56,880 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: all happened. She kind of just girl gained hard and 319 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 1: then hung out, which I think you can. I think 320 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: you can relate a little bit, you know, to wanting 321 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: to get your truth out there. Yeah. I think they're 322 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: taking a minute to do it too, which I like 323 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: because it's a lot of people are like, oh, she's trashing. 324 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think it's I think it's I 325 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 1: think it's anger because of course she's angry, just like 326 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 1: I was angry. Yeah, And so that piece if that's 327 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: and like he said, if that's your way appealing, then 328 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 1: go for it. Well, it also is hard because it's 329 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 1: like he releases this song, she doesn't say much. She 330 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 1: continues to be successful, So like, I know, that's one 331 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 1: speculation that I got when when I got divorced from 332 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: X was that I had gotten this big career and 333 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: I had forgotten about and I moved on and I 334 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: wanted to go dat an artist. It was like all 335 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: these things that were said about me that were untrue. 336 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: But I had to like stomach it and not have 337 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: a place to say it because I just was like, well, 338 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I can scream it from the rooftops, does 339 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,919 Speaker 1: that do me any good? Like, I know my truth, 340 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: I know whose I am, I know the story. So 341 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: I had to just stay there. But it's got to 342 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 1: be a little bit frustrating to watch, to write the check, 343 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 1: to watch a single come out to hear that would 344 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: be hard, Yeah, and then not have said it yet, 345 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: you know. And from everybody's perception, which is where things 346 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: get slippery, it looks like she's living her best life 347 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 1: and she's out on tours and she's getting these big things. 348 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: But she's all she's got a new boyfriend and she 349 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: basically said too that she's not single and she's chase 350 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: and yeah, and that's what I mean. I've kind of 351 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: always thought this because we she she's just I mean, 352 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: she's young, and she's learned, she's learning all the lost. 353 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 1: She is a good person, Like I just want to 354 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 1: say that out lot. Of course she is. They're both 355 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: good people, I know. And I think the divorce brings 356 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 1: out anger, it brings out resentment, it brings out all 357 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 1: of it, and so and both truth want to be hurt. 358 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 1: And I sent her a little thing just being like, 359 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: just don't let the anger um sting too much because 360 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: it's like that piece was the hardest piece for me 361 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:04,959 Speaker 1: to to overcome with my X was the paying and 362 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 1: you know the all I mean, just and what he did, 363 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: and so I think that those those pieces were the 364 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: hardest to get through. And it's like once and you 365 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: have a choice to let that anger sit in you 366 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 1: and stew over it or move on and just speak 367 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: your truth. But there's a difference, you know what I mean, 368 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I speak now in hopes of helping, 369 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: not of hurting and being angry, if that makes sense. Yeah, 370 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: Like even when I did table talk, I was like, 371 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: it's genuinely because I know, you know, obviously the X 372 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 1: wasn't too happy about that, but it was also my 373 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 1: truth and trying to help. And so yeah, everyone has 374 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 1: a right to their truth, right, I mean they do. 375 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 1: And public divorces, I just want to go on record, person, 376 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 1: I never envy ever, because it's just so layered and 377 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: so unfair, and it's so noisy that it's already a 378 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: noisy enough dark enough chapter for a lot of people. 379 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: That just seems unfair, he said. She SAIDs like are tough. Tough. Yeah, 380 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 1: Christ and Cavalary reveals she's been approached by a lot 381 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: of married men after Jay cutler divorce breaks down why 382 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: she's not ready for relationship. US Weekly wrote an article 383 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 1: that since her divorce, clearly I'm already relationship because I'm 384 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: attracting all of these unavailable men and young men and 385 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: young men. I mean, because I think she was hanging 386 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: out with m Tyler Cameron, whose thing is younger. I mean, 387 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: here's the things, like props to her for going like 388 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 1: knowing that she's not ready for a relationship, you know, 389 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 1: especially if you're still like if you're attracting like those 390 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: kind of people, like I was attracting the same cast 391 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: that I did last year, then obviously something there's something 392 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 1: in me not wanting to like move forward to the 393 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,239 Speaker 1: next chapter. I think it's great she can recognize that 394 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: and to put it back on her, like literally look 395 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 1: at her and what she's doing, because I think that's 396 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,159 Speaker 1: hard to do in the moment. Especially. Yeah, it's like 397 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: you look back and they were all unavailable, and she 398 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: really enjoyed when she was like, I tried younger men, 399 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,159 Speaker 1: and I just feel like I just need someone more 400 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: established and now there's some truth that I can really 401 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,919 Speaker 1: anchor it. I love it. Jinks girl, jinks. Well, the 402 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: younger man aspect is so interesting because they dote on 403 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:25,880 Speaker 1: the older women and it's so nice to feel like 404 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,919 Speaker 1: a queen. But then at the end of the day 405 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 1: or just like, it's also got to be hard to 406 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: like in y'all's position, because people know who you are, 407 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: so it's like are they doating? They're doating because you're 408 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 1: beautiful and they want to be near you, But also 409 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 1: like there's just so many hidden, ugly agendas too that 410 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: it's got to just be hard to be like is 411 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: this even like you don't want to just discount someone 412 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 1: because they are young, But at the same time it 413 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: gets tricky because it's like, well, shoot, I mean, do 414 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: you just want to be part of this or no, 415 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,160 Speaker 1: the inside scoop or you know whatever, that's all just 416 00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: too many layers I couldn't do well. Yeah, I mean 417 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 1: that's even in friendships too. It's like you want to 418 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: be my friend because right you want my friend, or 419 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: because do you think you can get something out of it, 420 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 1: or we've dealt with this stuff. I had. We tried 421 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 1: to look for a nanny because I've never had help, 422 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: you know, And I was like, I think number three 423 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: feels like it might be time to just really recruit someone. Yes, 424 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: and this good for you, Yeah, good for me, But 425 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: it still hasn't happened yet. Because one of these girls 426 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: that reached out was like, has a profile, a public profile? 427 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: Really great? So I insta stoctor or whatever, and then 428 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: and then I found deep, deep, deep down, she has 429 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: another Instagram profile where she's a singer songwriter. Yeah, well 430 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: that's never gonna work. What are you trying to hit it? 431 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: Hannah in my living here? No, thank you, But yeah, 432 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:50,160 Speaker 1: it's just the public profile just comes with a lot 433 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: of like layers of all of that stuff and knowing 434 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: what people's intends. I mean, you have to wonder what 435 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: people's intentions are, even if you're not in the public 436 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: eye period, and then you get these kind of things. 437 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: Well I think that's why I was so like, Okay, 438 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 1: breaking news, don't don then, because you know, obviously set 439 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: their record straight here on this one. I didn't meet 440 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 1: Alan and Riyah, right, he dmmed me and so I 441 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: ignored it because to me, it's like and I remember, 442 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: you know, I have conversations with other like like the 443 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: Christians and who you know where it's like guys will 444 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 1: DM us right and some with a blue check mark 445 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 1: those are the ones that we will see you or whatever. 446 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 1: But that's how you know. I mean, shoot, I met 447 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: my ex husband on Twitter like he tweeted me or whatever. 448 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: Me slid into my whatever, So uh, I you know 449 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 1: that's just another dating app, I guess for And I've 450 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: slid into guys dms before, Like I'm not above saying that, 451 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: Like I've definitely done that too, because if I'm like right, 452 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 1: if they're not on RYA like that or a dating app, 453 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,040 Speaker 1: what else you got? Right? So it's like either it 454 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: was either riot meeting someone at the grocery store because 455 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 1: I love to be honest, I don't go out gymnastics 456 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 1: is not safe, not a safe or DM so like 457 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: you know, we've done freaking Jesse James Decker was like 458 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: the biggest, like she was my h who do you 459 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,360 Speaker 1: want me to DM? So actually I wasn't the one DM. 460 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: It was Jesse like she would DM straight out, so funny, 461 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: like okay, do you think this guy's CTE. Okay, I'm 462 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: a DM. So she was like my biggest hype girl 463 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 1: last year, and so with Alan, when I got his DM, 464 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: I honestly was like, you know, because it was after 465 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: kind of hot girl summer, I was like like, I'm 466 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 1: not like what saying his DM so honest it's not 467 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: like sleazy, No, not at all. I think I honestly 468 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,640 Speaker 1: don't remember what it said. And I can't remember from 469 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 1: the king because sometimes the sex messages are so appropriate 470 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I feel like I'm in trouble with 471 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: the queen or something. I don't know it just like 472 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: I would I. He's so like it's the it's just 473 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: the cultural difference, but it's so appropriate that I'm like, gosh, 474 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 1: if he slid in your DMS, I wonder what it 475 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: was like you were being called to the motherland and 476 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 1: you had to go, like was it like? Because I 477 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: think one of the time when we were in that's Australian. 478 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: Why did I suck at it? Why I suck at 479 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: his accent? I know? But when when we were on tour, 480 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 1: one of the things was you said, or he said, 481 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,479 Speaker 1: I will await your call very proper yeah, but I 482 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: was like, also, I feel nervous. He's awaiting quickly get 483 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: on it him love me. I just would have. I 484 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 1: just like, it's funny because I've seen some of your 485 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: dms that you've gotten from certain suitors as we'll call them. 486 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem to fit him, does it. No. I 487 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 1: just can't imagine what he would say. Well, that's why 488 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: it's so weird, because I would have never expected someone 489 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: like him to d M because it's just he that 490 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: just doesn't seem like, how did he know about you? 491 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: So when I that's the question I'm always asking because 492 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:07,399 Speaker 1: I'm curious because I want to know because other people 493 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 1: of And then they're like, well I didn't know who 494 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 1: you were. I'm like, but then I went member that 495 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 1: one guy that I can't talk about that and that 496 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 1: one still pisses me off to this day. I won't 497 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: tell you who it was. It is, but there was 498 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: this one guy that I dated and he was just like, oh, 499 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: I didn't even know who you were. And so then 500 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 1: when we started to date, I look in my I 501 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 1: look at him on Instagram, go in the dms, and 502 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: he had DM to me a few times and I like, 503 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: so then you did know who I was, Okay, but 504 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 1: also we believed his excuse for that. You know, I 505 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 1: know that was when I was there was a few 506 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 1: of us. I didn't, but a few people did. I 507 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 1: think I took where I stood. Pretty sure you you 508 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 1: bought into it. We're crazy anyway, so you don't know, okay, 509 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,719 Speaker 1: but you're also like beautiful. That's the thing I have 510 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 1: to say. So like when people are like, oh, I 511 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: don't know who she is, Like if I've seen somebody 512 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,159 Speaker 1: at the grocery store that's hot, I'm going to just 513 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,480 Speaker 1: DM them. No, I'm just saying like I always assume 514 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 1: there's somebody, especially in Nashville. Like I'm always like, hey, 515 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So, like, you don't look 516 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,399 Speaker 1: at Jana's profile. So he two million followers and no, 517 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: because he originally said that he didn't, he didn't. Yeah, 518 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:21,199 Speaker 1: pants up here when I say, I just came up 519 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,360 Speaker 1: on his feet, which I don't know how which one 520 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: said that? Allen? Okay, Yeah, so I came up on 521 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:32,120 Speaker 1: his speed and he he must have looked at my profile, 522 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 1: didn't not knowing who I was. But then he yeah 523 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 1: DMed me and said I again, I don't remember, and 524 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: he doesn't have it either, but it said something like 525 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: you knows been requested. It was something to the sort 526 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: of you look like a great mom, and you know, 527 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 1: I would love to get to know you or something. 528 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: At the time, I was past hawk Grow summer and 529 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not, like, yeah, I'm not like you'd 530 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: been trappling everywhere everywhere? What's the point? Like I kind 531 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: of went through that whole little like m hmm, and so, 532 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: but then, you know, something about it just kind of 533 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: kept kind of thinking like maybe something kind of kept 534 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: drawing me back there. So eventually, obviously I reached out. 535 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: But I think, you know what's interesting is I'm like, 536 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: did you like me because I blew you off? Maybe? 537 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it's okay because he's such a good looking dude. 538 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 1: They probably you know husband, I was like, not in 539 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: breast and I bought him a drink and he was like, 540 00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: what is going on right now? I think that's and 541 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't kiss him. Yeah, guys like that, that's normal. Yeah, 542 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: it's actual normal behavior. Yeah. Having said that, I'm going 543 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,400 Speaker 1: to ask Alan how he knew about you. Yeah, you 544 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 1: should shake him, shake him down little bit on that one. 545 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: I mean again, he says, I just popped up on 546 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: his just popped up, But I mean I do. I'll 547 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: tell you the rest of how maybe in another time. 548 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: But that is how I actually met him. And the 549 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: only reason I say that, Why did I go into 550 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: that whole damning thing. Kristen didn't mean to ryah or 551 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: to meet people, and it's hard. It's just hard to 552 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: meet people. So it's like you gotta you gotta, you know, yeah, 553 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 1: throw everything kind of at the wall and see what sticks. Yeah, 554 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: or across the ponds like work, just like work, or 555 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: across the pond talking across the pond. No, I just 556 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: but at the same incontinent anymore. So we know we 557 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 1: had a problem. I was ready to date though, like 558 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: after all that stuff, yeah, and after we were ready 559 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: for you to dang chill and having actual alone time, 560 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: swear alone time for sure. I was like, Okay, I'm 561 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm in a really good place and 562 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: ready and then it Then that's when it showed up. 563 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: So it will for her too, because she's studying and 564 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: you know, oh yeah, yeah, hey everyone, it's Dean Anglert 565 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: and Kaylen Miller Keys and Jared Haven I'm I'm here. 566 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 1: I'm here too, guys, hosts of the new podcast Help 567 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: We Suck at Being Newlyweds? Because I guess we just 568 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: don't suck at dating anymore. No, I mean you're newlyweds. 569 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 1: I am not a newlywed anymore. Yeah, I'm curious if 570 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,479 Speaker 1: I sucked at being a newlywed. I don't think so. 571 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: I mean I made it to the altar, and I 572 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 1: am so happy to be joining you, guys. I can't 573 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: wait to talk about relationships, marriage, and just everything in between. 574 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 1: It's about time we have someone smart to join this podcast. 575 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: It's too long between us. This young lady's a broadcast 576 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 1: journalism major. She knows what she's doing. I'm so excited 577 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: to be hosting a podcast with my soon to be 578 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: wife and of course my best friend Jared. How's that 579 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: going to make you feel? Working together now? You guys 580 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: live together, we're together, going to get married. Yeah, it'll 581 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: be interesting. You think you need to get tired of 582 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 1: each other? Absolutely? Yes. Be sure to listen to Help 583 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: We Suck At Being Newlyweds on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 584 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to podcasts. Hey, dude, I'm David 585 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,960 Speaker 1: Lasher and I'm Christine Taylor, and we host the podcast 586 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 1: Hey Dude the Nineties called if you all are nostalgic 587 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 1: for the nineties, We just wanted to make sure you 588 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: didn't miss amazing guests like the Brady Bunch cast reunion, 589 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: the White Squall Cast reunion with Jeff Bridges. We've got 590 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: Ben Stiller. We've got the lead singer of Counting Crows, 591 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,719 Speaker 1: Adam Durrett's Jerry O'Connell. We also had a Hey Dude 592 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 1: cast reunion, So come join us on Hey Dude the 593 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 1: Nineties called We have so many more great guests coming up, 594 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: so please come back and join us. Listen to Hey 595 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: Dude the Nineties called on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 596 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to podcasts. Moving on hot topics, 597 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 1: it makes me feel really in the know when we 598 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 1: do hot topics because these little, sweet young things. Chris 599 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: Jenner sixty seven has no plans to ever marry Corey 600 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,920 Speaker 1: Gamble forty two younger guy because she knows things would 601 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: not end well if they got divorced. After she sparked 602 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: engagement rumor Frenzy the Diamond Ring photo. I'm Chris Jenner. 603 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 1: If my heart gets broken, never remarried. I'm over. I'm 604 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,480 Speaker 1: just trying to figure out exactly what she means it 605 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: would not end well if they got divorced in what way? Well, 606 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 1: maybe he knows too much financially too well, but yeah, 607 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: but I mean she would be because she can't be 608 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: in the inner circles exactly what she wants with him 609 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: right now. And when you're kind of at that age 610 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 1: you have kids, it's like it's almost like I saw 611 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 1: Kate Hudson too, She's like, no plans to rush to 612 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: get married. Yeah, I am such an obviously, like I 613 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: love I want the fairy tale and the wedding and 614 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 1: the being married. I think that like sanctity of sanctity 615 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 1: of marriage is like I love that. But when you're 616 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 1: sixty seven, it's kind of like I'm Chris Jenner. Yeah, 617 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: but what about him? Has he ever been married? He's 618 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: forty some years old. I mean, well he didn't marry 619 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: her to that baby. I'm kind of feeling and I 620 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 1: can see where she wouldn't want to get married one 621 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 1: hundred percent. Her age, her money situation, like all the 622 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: things that gets complicated understood. I'm sure, who is pivoting 623 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: on me and me having to really think Christian If 624 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: your Corey gamble, he's fine, he's living. You may want 625 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,800 Speaker 1: to get married if it was Flip, if he had 626 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: an older man, I bet you a bunch of money. 627 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: I bet you she would. You guys together would maybe 628 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: maybe if it was something that was actually really important 629 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 1: to him. Now It's not like I feel bad for 630 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 1: this guy or anything. But at the same time, I'm curious. 631 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: It's not having kids. Does he wait? How how long 632 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: have they been together? It's years it's been a ye. Oh, 633 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 1: then been together since twenty fifteen. Oh wow, yeah, so 634 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: eight years at that time. And yeah, I mean I 635 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: know she'd be a beautiful bride. I kind of would 636 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,840 Speaker 1: love to see that, like love story. Oh, I would 637 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 1: love to see her in address or whatever. She'd pick 638 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: some sort of power suit, probably like carry branch that 639 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 1: that would be fun. No, I'm just curious how he 640 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,760 Speaker 1: feels about it. Obviously he's fine and live in the 641 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 1: good life. He's just always making me think. I'm like, 642 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: I don't care how any things. I'm never marrying again. 643 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 1: I just put my so you said that on tour. 644 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 1: I don't believe you. I don't think I would, and 645 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: I would have. I think i'd build up commune with 646 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: my best friends. I raised our babies together because I 647 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:19,880 Speaker 1: have a backup plan with my best friend of Michigan. 648 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 1: That's what we'll do. What the world, We just would 649 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 1: raise our kids together. If you would just yeah, well, 650 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:33,399 Speaker 1: you're gonna get your Alan or whoever it is you're 651 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 1: gonna be. We do know that you just said that. 652 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: Megan Fox says no cheating was involved in the MGK 653 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,879 Speaker 1: relationship as she returns to Instagram. So she deleted all 654 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 1: she deleted Instagram deleted all. Well, first she deleted all 655 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: the photos of her and him, of her and him, 656 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 1: which I've done before. Yeah, and then come back with 657 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 1: my tail between my life. The old clean up was 658 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: really a it's damage control. It's damage control. I get it. 659 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: It's hard to come back. The problem is is when 660 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: you have so much out there and then you get 661 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: hurt and then you see that it's like that's the 662 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 1: initial like f you, But unfortunately it creates a public 663 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 1: chit storm, shit storm, And that's basically what just happened. 664 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 1: Do you think he cheated? Do you think they just 665 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: got into a fight. What is y'all stance? I mean, 666 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: I hate to make an assumption about something I know 667 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 1: nothing about, but I'm gonna go if you cheated, who's 668 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: cheating on Megan Fox? Who's cheating on Janna Kramer? Who's 669 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 1: cheating on plenty of people? Not me? Um? I seriously, 670 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just kind of wonder, can I 671 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,359 Speaker 1: just say something? I might really start a pot? Yeah? Sure? 672 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 1: Was it ever real? Yeah? You think it was real? 673 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: For sure? That one was real? I know, I know 674 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,799 Speaker 1: someone that worked on a film. Yes, absolutely so it 675 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 1: was real. Yeah, because at first I was like, is 676 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,879 Speaker 1: this salt? Because it's so extra drink your blood, kiss 677 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: your lips that I get like very like, okay, this 678 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 1: is very showy for me, and I'm kind of out. 679 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,880 Speaker 1: I think they got into a fight. Obviously they were leaving. 680 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: They were left. They were they were photographed leaving a 681 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: couple's therapy session. Oh well, that makes they really like them, right, 682 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,759 Speaker 1: they love therapy. I think it does. It makes the 683 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 1: humanizing them a little bit. The drinking the blood part 684 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 1: gets weird for me. I think there's uh some truth 685 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: to some things that are said, like that maybe there 686 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 1: was a DM and maybe she didn't like something that 687 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 1: she saw. I think a boundary was crossed in some way. 688 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. That's not obviously there's 689 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,800 Speaker 1: something happened for her to delete the photos and then 690 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: for her to get off Instagram ned her to come 691 00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: back on and talk about the guitar player the other girl. 692 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: I have mad respect for that because she could just 693 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 1: let her burn whether something happened or didn't happen, I 694 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,960 Speaker 1: have like I think that's very classy of her to 695 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: come back and say I liked that. Yeah, you know, 696 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 1: she was not involved in this because it's not fair 697 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,880 Speaker 1: because if she really truly wasn't it's not fair for 698 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: her to get dragged in a shot store. No no no, 699 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 1: no, no no, so and if she was the way, that's 700 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,719 Speaker 1: big on her either way. Yeah. Yeah, the way that 701 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: she worded it was great. So I I personally like that, 702 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,080 Speaker 1: And I think again, at the end of the day, 703 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:32,280 Speaker 1: relationships are hard. Something probably happened, and it's just again 704 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,440 Speaker 1: it's hard being in the public eye and then and 705 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 1: then doing having that emotional I'm going to delete everything 706 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,279 Speaker 1: and then all that stuff, like, I get it, I've 707 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 1: done it. This may be my forty year old forty 708 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 1: one year old mom brain have nothing. But isn't this 709 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,879 Speaker 1: the same person that actively went on Instagram and said 710 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: she was looking for a girlfriend for her and her boyfriend. 711 00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,600 Speaker 1: What didn't Megan Fox do that? Wasn't it her saying 712 00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: DM me, if you want to be a brother, probably 713 00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need someone to check that because I feel 714 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,719 Speaker 1: like if we're gonna start getting worried about dams, I'm 715 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: just gonna need some consistency. That's all I'm asking for. 716 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:10,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm pretty sure they looked for a girlfriend. Okay. 717 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 1: Can I just say one thing about all this, because 718 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 1: a part of me is like I always hate when 719 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:19,560 Speaker 1: people speculate and feel like they can come into our lives. 720 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,200 Speaker 1: I personally feel like it's being done right now in 721 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,400 Speaker 1: a classy way that we're not We're not hating on it, 722 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: We're not being mean to anybody. We're just having conversations 723 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 1: that bring up topics of conversation as we also have 724 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,720 Speaker 1: to be in the know about topics. If something happened, 725 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 1: would you what happen? Yeah? Megan Fox is okay for 726 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,960 Speaker 1: a girlfriend on Instagram? She took to Instagram on Friday, 727 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:45,719 Speaker 1: December thirty just to December thirty d December two months 728 00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 1: ago of what year. That's all I'm saying. Did she 729 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 1: was she being serious? I don't know. I mean, honestly, 730 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: I thought it was a really good engagement, so I 731 00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 1: was like, good for you to get those numbers up. 732 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 1: Maybe she wasn't being serious, doesn't matter. Currently she's pretty 733 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: submit applications in the DMS. I think it came from 734 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 1: something else. I don't think, because I'm pretty sure she's Oh, 735 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,840 Speaker 1: I don't think it was that. But I'm also just like, 736 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 1: we gotta we gotta lay a real timeline now, right, Yeah, anyhow, Yeah, 737 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 1: it's also the industry is hard, like can we just 738 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: all agree that, like public entertainment, music, actress, all of it. 739 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 1: It's just really a lot more layer than people understand. 740 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: And I also think too, and this is something that 741 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,240 Speaker 1: there's so many beautiful people out there that it's easy 742 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:38,919 Speaker 1: to get a little shady when the boundaries aren't good. 743 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:42,280 Speaker 1: So Alan and I were talking and it's like, hey, 744 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 1: let's just make sure there are such clear boundaries. And 745 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,120 Speaker 1: he is the one that brought up which I loved 746 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: that that way, like there's no like, well, how did 747 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 1: you not know that D that this is not okay, 748 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,960 Speaker 1: or that dmor or this that the other. So there's 749 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 1: no like literally no blurn lines good Like I was like, 750 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: oh my god, like you want to have an absolutely yeah, 751 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,479 Speaker 1: Like let's because I think that's like the part where 752 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 1: it gets a little shady and like hazy in relationships 753 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,799 Speaker 1: is because you don't think. Like the other time we 754 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: were talking about not knowing what the person likes, who 755 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,319 Speaker 1: doesn't like it's not no, actually that's not good too. 756 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,680 Speaker 1: I don't want you doing that. That's not right respectful 757 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 1: what I think is respectful or disrespectful. You might disagree, right, 758 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 1: and there may be something that doesn't bother you, but 759 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 1: that would bother him. Right, there's a lot that like 760 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 1: doesn't bother you that really bothers me. Like what, uh well, no, 761 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:39,680 Speaker 1: we've already talked about it on here before. But just 762 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 1: like that, you could make out with someone and then 763 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 1: hand him to another friend. Like that's my favorite thing 764 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,040 Speaker 1: in the world to do. I want everyone to find 765 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,399 Speaker 1: their person. Yeah, you're like a great kisser. Not for me, 766 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 1: but here this guy and I'm always just like, how 767 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 1: do they do that? That is I can't do it. 768 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,360 Speaker 1: That's probably something in some therapist for he wants to 769 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 1: dig into it, wants to get him off for back. 770 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 1: Do you rebound them? Is that what that is? Some 771 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:10,319 Speaker 1: sort of like professional rebounder? Huh? Like you just you 772 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 1: give them a rebound somebody to move on to or 773 00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:18,280 Speaker 1: could be their person. I'm not giving a way out enough. No, 774 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 1: that's how we know. So there was an interesting TikTok 775 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: that went on Holly lamp here. I probably butchered that. 776 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: So he basically her TikTok was her her husband cheated 777 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,720 Speaker 1: and she wants clarification and advice. So her husband had affair. 778 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 1: He won't tell her who it is. He's admitted to 779 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:46,480 Speaker 1: it because she caught him keywords, she caught him. He 780 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,880 Speaker 1: had her number saved under a different name in his 781 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: tex So she doesn't who it is and he refuses 782 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: to tell her. He says that he's doing her a 783 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: favor because he doesn't want her to know the details, 784 00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,799 Speaker 1: and he says the details are not important. He just 785 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 1: wants to have her forgiveness. Her point is she needs 786 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,359 Speaker 1: to know the truth in order to process and heal. 787 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 1: Is she wrong for wanting to know? No? Nope, he 788 00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,840 Speaker 1: I think there might be some truth to that. It 789 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,279 Speaker 1: is protection for her, but she is not going to 790 00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:15,520 Speaker 1: know that. She's not going to understand that, and she's 791 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 1: she's not dingo who it is? Is it the babysitter 792 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 1: she might dri later is yeah? I mean yeah, like 793 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 1: cousin gross, I just I think he doesn't get to 794 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 1: choose that. No. Again, I think he could say, I 795 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 1: think this is going to hurt you worse, but this 796 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 1: is your choice, and then she has to be willing 797 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 1: to deal with the consequences of knowing everything. I agree 798 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: with that a lot also, And also I think there's levels, 799 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 1: not levels, uh, there's certain things she should ask about, 800 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: in certain things she shouldn't. So I've always wanted to 801 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,800 Speaker 1: know who the affair girls were, and it sucks sometimes 802 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,359 Speaker 1: that I'm like, in the past, I didn't know who 803 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: they were and drove me crazy. And so with this situation, 804 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,360 Speaker 1: if it's you know, he obviously knows who it is, 805 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,359 Speaker 1: I think he should tell her. But also after that, 806 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,760 Speaker 1: the details, like that's the stuff I wish I could 807 00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 1: unburn out of my brain because I saw way too much. 808 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:23,919 Speaker 1: It's just it's like, I M so traumatic. I just yeah, 809 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,959 Speaker 1: it's like you don't. You don't trust me. You do 810 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 1: not want to know? How many times? Where was it at? 811 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: What was it? Like? Did did she? Because I mean 812 00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,640 Speaker 1: I was I would ask like, that's where we're a 813 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 1: lot alike. Yeah, could someone have convinced you of that 814 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 1: at the time though, yeah, by therapist in so I 815 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,640 Speaker 1: stopped asking, oh good, yeah, because I would literally be like, 816 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 1: how did she do it? Like you know, did you come? 817 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:52,800 Speaker 1: Did you you know? And so one intended I didn't like, 818 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: but I mean I hear you. Yeah. So it's like 819 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 1: those details because because then then now you have a 820 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,800 Speaker 1: picture and a movie be in your brain that you 821 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 1: will replay over and over and over no matter what 822 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,440 Speaker 1: I know. But the less details of certain for me personally, 823 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,400 Speaker 1: the less details, and the therapist said the same thing, 824 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 1: the less details are actually it's it's more helpful to 825 00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: not ruminate on because it's just it's just it's not 826 00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: it's it's not great. Having said that, I do think 827 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,760 Speaker 1: she deserves to know, like who it is, Yeah, whether 828 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 1: he knows who it is or not, because that's a thing, 829 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,919 Speaker 1: Like he might be like, I don't I don't remember 830 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: a last name because I was a few of them too. 831 00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,000 Speaker 1: I would just be thinking it was every girl that 832 00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,319 Speaker 1: I ever came in contact with, you, right, exactly what 833 00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean. It's the neighbor down the street. I wouldn't 834 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 1: trust anybody. It's a teacher, it's a well, if that's hard, 835 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:45,799 Speaker 1: I feel for her. I just hope that I just like, 836 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,280 Speaker 1: I hate it because it's just the worst feeling. And also, 837 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 1: let me just say this, and this is something that 838 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,040 Speaker 1: I thought of too when I saw it, and something 839 00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 1: that you know dealt with with X is is no 840 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 1: matter what they tell you, a, are you really gonna 841 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,839 Speaker 1: believe him anyways? No, because it's not like they came 842 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 1: to you and told you about the affair, right, So 843 00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:09,880 Speaker 1: they're obviously not very honest, trustworthy people. They're not dupids. 844 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: So it's not like whatever they're telling you, expect it 845 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:16,240 Speaker 1: to not be one hundred percent of the truth, right true? 846 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 1: So really, what's the like you're not going to really 847 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: get the truth? If he could easily make it up, 848 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:23,880 Speaker 1: that's a thing. It's like he's already a liar. And 849 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 1: that's when I'm just like, well, I don't try that. 850 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,759 Speaker 1: That's what I told, you know, I've told people and 851 00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 1: obviously Alan's like I can't come back from the mistrust 852 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: because my brain goes MS too much. Yeah, no, too much. Yeah. Anyways, 853 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:45,280 Speaker 1: way to end it on a high note. High note, 854 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,600 Speaker 1: that was fun. Though it was so fun guys. Oh, 855 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 1: which just makes me feel real current when we talk 856 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 1: about current events. Uh huh, like actually don't feel like 857 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 1: I live under a rock. Under a rock. Can send 858 00:45:56,000 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: us in if you go to wind down Podcasts on Instagram, 859 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,000 Speaker 1: let us know what you want us to talk about 860 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 1: on topics DMUs slide into our DMS on wind Down podcast. 861 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 1: We would love to know what you guys want us 862 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,600 Speaker 1: to talk about topics and um we'll bring it to 863 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:30,279 Speaker 1: you next week. Bye bye