1 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. So I have 2 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 1: a special guest today, So my friend Elisa Donovan is here. 3 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: Thank you. I always love seeing you and being with you. 4 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: The same, same, same, same thank you. When I was 5 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: sick filling in and being the host of Misspelling, I'm 6 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 1: grateful that you did that as a friend for me and. 7 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 2: I Well, first of all, I felt terrible that you 8 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: were sick, because I know you had a long run 9 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: of a few things and it just is the worst. 10 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: And so I was happy to do it, and I 11 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 2: was happy that I could do it, and it was 12 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 2: really fun and yeah. 13 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: So I loved it. My pleasure and killer thriller. I 14 00:00:55,360 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: am so proud of you, your bad host. 15 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 2: I am having so much fun I can't even I mean, 16 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 2: I love it, I love it, love it, love it everything. 17 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: You'd be a podcast host? No, no, right, who did 18 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: did you ever think that you would? 19 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 2: Really? 20 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: Not? I had no idea. It's just but I feel 21 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: like you and I are kind of the same in 22 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: the respect that we've been in this business a long time, 23 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: you know, acting, and it's kind of like you either 24 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: change with the flow or you're done, you know, And 25 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: to stay relevant. It's like when I remember, like actresses 26 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: would get like campaigns and brand alliances and then I'd 27 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 1: be like, yes, I'm in. And then one day they 28 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: were like, yeah, they're not going with celebrities like actresses 29 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: and pign actress. They want influencers. And I remember that, 30 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: and this is like fifteen years ago, and I was like, 31 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what an influencer is, but I'm gonna 32 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: find out out. I'm going to become one. Yeah, but 33 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: this is why. 34 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: You're so great, because you are, like, first of all, 35 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: you are just one of the most unique and warm 36 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 2: and genuine people that I think, and I say that 37 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,279 Speaker 2: all the time, So I don't know if that surprises 38 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 2: people to hear that, like because you you're you're such 39 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: a like, uh, you just have so much light about you, 40 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 2: Like you're such a big presence that I think people 41 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: might find that surprising, but it's really true, like you're hilarious, 42 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 2: which I think people The great thing about having a 43 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 2: podcast is people can actually hear that, like you're one 44 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: of the funniest people like and toop it. I don't 45 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: think that's something that people would necessarily have realized before, 46 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 2: you know, like nine or two. And no, it's not 47 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 2: like you were, uh, you know, doing one liners on 48 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 2: that show. You know, like that wasn't what it was about. 49 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 2: So anyway, I just feel like it's you are very 50 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 2: good at you, you know, leaning into what happening. 51 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: Thank you, and yeah, look at us. We're still standing 52 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: while we're sitting, right, that's. 53 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 2: Right, we're sitting because sometimes and then when I stand up, 54 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: I might be a little creaky, my legs might hurt 55 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 2: a little bit, my back might feel a little sore. 56 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: But I'll get up. I'll feel a little stiff. But 57 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: Queens of reinvention, would you not say yes on that? 58 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: I say yes, and I say tell you like all 59 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: this sudden, I mean, it's all just back in so 60 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: lucky us. 61 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: Yes, you know, people sit again to love the nineties. 62 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: They do, and you know there's always moments that things 63 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: come back and they're on trend and then they just 64 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: you know, go away. It's not going anywhere. No, I don't. 65 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: I I it doesn't feel like it is. Thank goodness. 66 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: We love it, we love it, we keep it going, 67 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: love it. So yeah, so it's back so obviously clueless, 68 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: like oh my gosh, everyone's like ah, but you. I 69 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: feel like and I'm just this is just not just 70 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: being your friend, but like watching on social media. You're 71 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: having a moment right now. 72 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: From your mouth to the God's wings, angel wings, to 73 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 2: their ears, to their. 74 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: Nose whatever they fly and toes and thank you. We 75 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: will take it. How there's something hold on? We are? 76 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: Are we going to create another show? We? I do 77 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: feel like we have to do something together people and 78 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: create things todays executions not my things and yours. 79 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 2: Well, somebody else needs to put it together. Yes, okay, 80 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 2: that's I can do the one if I can do 81 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 2: like a lot of the uh, I can bring it together. 82 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 2: But I need somebody to like ep it. You know, 83 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 2: somebody else has got to run it. 84 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, well but I'll show up. We can run it. 85 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 1: We could like. It's not that we need procedural, procedural, 86 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: someone that is procedural, Yes, yes. 87 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: Somebody that can run a set up an Excel spreadsheet 88 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 2: type of person. That's what I don't know how to do. 89 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 2: You know, I'm not good at a spreadsheet. 90 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: A spreadsheet. 91 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 2: Or what's the one you put on the wall with 92 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: the post it No, my daughter created one of these 93 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 2: a PowerPoint presentation for the reasons. 94 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: Of why she should be allowed to go to. 95 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 2: The Kendrick Lamar concert, which I was very impressed with 96 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 2: the ability. But at the end of the day, I 97 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 2: was like, at the time, she was twelve, and I 98 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 2: was like, all the pots smoking, all the people, the language, 99 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 2: like I love Kendrick Lamar. But I was like, it's 100 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: a little much, I think for. 101 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: You and I have a lot in common, except for 102 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: the way we raise our humans. I don't know you 103 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: think this should be. And would you let them go 104 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: to the Kendric Lamar concert at twelve? Yeah, you're point 105 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: on the spot. If I say yes, then I it's 106 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: like a specific to be clear. 107 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 2: Very good friends of ours in the music business, she's 108 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: thirteen now, they said to me, of course I would 109 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 2: let her go. But then I'm like, but you guys, 110 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 2: going to the Kendrick Lamar is like you going with 111 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: Kendrick Lamar in his car, you know, like if we 112 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 2: under very special circumstances where we would be more you know, 113 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: going to the concert with everybody else. 114 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: So okay, So she's thirteen and she does not have 115 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: a cell phone. Nope, no cell phone. What's wrong with you? 116 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: She I'm kid on holding out for as long as possible. 117 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: I wish I had you do wait, do all? Does 118 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: your youngest have a cell phone? Oh? Okay, so at 119 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: first he had what was it? Got like an iPod? 120 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 1: Like one? Yeah? Yeah for music? Isn't that what the 121 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: iPod was for? Because I little like was it just no, 122 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: maybe it's not iPod. Here's the thing. It was like 123 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: I went to the store and the store and like 124 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: all the other kids were getting phones, and I'm like, 125 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: he's too young for a phone, But what's something that'll 126 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: make him think he has a phone and he can 127 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: like do something. Sorry, Alice, I am like a little 128 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: bit of a hot mess today. I've been like coming 129 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 1: and dropping things. 130 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: It's I really, it's okay, get it after it is. Sorry, 131 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 2: So okay, I'm so easily distracted. 132 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: Yeah back to the phone. Yes, I started that combo 133 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: and now I feel like I'm in a no win situation. 134 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I can't put it right. 135 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 2: You can't put it back in the tube, like the 136 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 2: toothpaste doesn't go back in the tube once they have 137 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 2: the thing. So we're just trying to wait it out. 138 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: And her class, the girls, she goes to an all 139 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: girls school. Only of their forty four girls in the grades, 140 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 2: and of the forty four, only six of them have phones. 141 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 2: And then the other all girls school. 142 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 1: It's in California. Well it's like that, it's like tech central. 143 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: But the thing is, the people that create these things, 144 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 2: the people that create these thames. 145 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't want their kids using different value like here 146 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: right in like hardcore, like southern in La like it's 147 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: hard to the Joneses zah, not the brothers, but it's 148 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: not of the Jonases. So I get confused on the names. Same. 149 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: But I like the one Joe. I do like the one. 150 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: I like the one. 151 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: I like the one who sings. I like the one 152 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: who sings, Oh that's nick Cake by the Ocean. No, 153 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 2: not that one, the other one, you guys. 154 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: I thought it was a different song for someone. You know, 155 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 1: when you hear something, you're like, the one who's Who's 156 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: the one that's Maryton? 157 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yes him. They seem like very nice boys, which 158 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 2: I really know they do. 159 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 1: Is he the middle one? Middle kids are always nice? 160 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 1: They have no choice? Is he literally? Isn't he the oldest? No, 161 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: he is, He's only the middle of the photograph. He's 162 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: not the middle. 163 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: He's not the middle brother. He's just placed in the 164 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 2: middle of the photo. 165 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: We're looking at a photograph and indeed is standing in 166 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: the middle. Okay, going back to phones, it's a horrible conversation. 167 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: It's in no win situation because everyone judges. And so 168 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 1: my nine year old, long story short, he had this 169 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: iPod then he wanted He's like, it doesn't do what 170 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 1: the others do. 171 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: Getting back to me having a moment. I love that 172 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 2: you're about a moment. 173 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: Having a moment, I mean, and I hate when people 174 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: say this person's having a moment because you're like, wait, 175 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: I can't like just keep it going. I can't just 176 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: keep it going. I'm just here from one moment, right, 177 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: But moment can mean I'm all into my phase of like, 178 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: you know, after being a single and toory two in 179 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 1: my fifties, I'm like all about redefining words that have 180 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: hardcore definitions, but like making them how you want it 181 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: and how you can see it instead of being like no, 182 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: that has to be that way, Like why not? So 183 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: a moment can be like you're in the moment and 184 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: that moment can keep going. 185 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 2: I love this, you know, because I do feel like 186 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 2: this is the first time in my life where I'm 187 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 2: utilizing all the. 188 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 1: Parts of my self. 189 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 2: You know, I feel so good in my body, I 190 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 2: feel so good in my spirit. I'm the killer thriller 191 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 2: allows me to use my intelligence, my interest in the 192 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 2: human condition and the emotional lives of people, like all 193 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 2: these things that I care about. That you don't always 194 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 2: get an opportunity to use all the parts of yourself 195 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 2: as an actress. 196 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: You just don't. 197 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 2: When you're a Meryl Streep, when you're streeping around, you 198 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 2: get to you know, but most of us don't get 199 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 2: that luxury. So you so I just feel like it's 200 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: not that I don't want to act. 201 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: I love it. 202 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: I did a project last year that I'm so excited 203 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: about this coming out this year. But I want to 204 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 2: do other things and I have more value than just 205 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: to do being you know, a funny actress or like, oh, 206 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 2: she's like pretty and funny. 207 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: That's so nice. 208 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 2: I love that people say that, but that's not entirely 209 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 2: who I am, and I don't think it's what I'm 210 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 2: on this planet for, you know, like we're here for 211 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 2: so much more. We're given these platforms and you and 212 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: I have both had success to a degree that most 213 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 2: people don't. Yours is way bigger, but most people don't 214 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: get that. 215 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,719 Speaker 1: And then your brain felt, you know, to say that. 216 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: My brain's like my brain like you didn't have to 217 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: say Mine was like, well it is, you're not, I 218 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: don't think of it that way. Well, but I'm such 219 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: like in my I was like, if I ever say 220 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: something that's like okay, I'm like, wait, I have to 221 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: backtrack and being sure like I definitely do that. It 222 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 1: doesn't hurt anyone's feelings and doesn't it doesn't. 223 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 2: Make me so you are I definitely am. I definitely am. 224 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 2: But I do feel like that is very much a 225 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: female thing where we're always conscious of how we say that. 226 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 2: Are we taking up too much space? Am I making 227 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 2: them uncomfortable? Let me get a little bit smaller because 228 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: and that's the part that I am now done with, 229 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 2: and that comes with how I am with women and 230 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 2: men personally and professionally, friendships, work, relationships, anything. 231 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: I will not make myself smaller anymore. I won't. 232 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: And sometimes that means people have a response that isn't positive. 233 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: But what that fails to me then is that maybe. 234 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: That's not somebody who needs to be in my. 235 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 2: Life because I'm kind, I am warm hearted, like that's 236 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 2: truly who I am, and if I take up space 237 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 2: with that, like I I don't know, it's it's a 238 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 2: really so interesting. 239 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get to that place too, because everything 240 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: you're saying I agree with, I just still fall back 241 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 1: in the old yeah. And it's like, I guess I 242 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: care too much what people think, which is such like 243 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to teach my kids that I like 244 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: be you like if they don't like you, they don't 245 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: like you. But I'm like, I'm still like, please like me, 246 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: and I'm I'm working on it. I feel those things too. 247 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: I definitely don you like move through it, yes, yes, 248 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: and it kind of has to happen simultaneously, like in 249 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: the like it's not about reflection because you're like, you know, 250 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: it's literally in your moment, like what I said before, 251 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: second to process it being like okay, that's okay, it's 252 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 1: not about it's not about you personally, this is them 253 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: and this is their reaction, this is perhaps how they feel. 254 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: And stick to who you are and what you want 255 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 1: and you're still nice like it's okay, and push through it. Yep. Yep. 256 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 1: The only way yeah is through is through. 257 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 2: The only way out is through, and that sometimes those 258 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 2: moments of literally confronting it in the moment, I'm never 259 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 2: going to think of a good examp now, but like 260 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 2: when it's actually happening, of taking a second of that 261 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 2: feeling of either I'm intimidated by this person or I 262 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 2: don't want to do this thing, or everyone hates me, 263 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: or oh god, I'm fat, or like whatever it is 264 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 2: in the moment being like, oh, that's what I'm feeling 265 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 2: right now, and I'm just gonna actually talk to this 266 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 2: person or see what And it doesn't mean it turns 267 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: into like roses and you know, joy, it could be 268 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 2: maybe maybe she's a bitch, maybe she's just not a 269 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 2: nice person, you know, and I but the difference is 270 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, it actually isn't about me. 271 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: Right, And that's the thing dealing with other people that 272 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: perhaps you know we lead from kindness and yes, you 273 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: know we have light and love, but we're still why 274 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 1: I wanted to say, I've never even said this word. 275 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to say. It popped into my brain brainiacts yeah, 276 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: but then I'm like, well, no, I can't do math. 277 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: I don't know a world history. I am not a rainiac. 278 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: No, this is again that's fine, Fine, what a rainiac? 279 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: Guess? I like that? Okay, But and I'm also a 280 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: squirrel and I already forgot what I was talking about. Wait, 281 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: I was saying with someone that is tough or strong 282 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 1: or just not nice, but it is about like I'll 283 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: hear it. And then I'm like, attershit, she's dealing. Yes, 284 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 1: that comes from something that probably has It's not about you, 285 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 1: it's not about the situation. It's not about work, it's 286 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: not about personal. This could go all the way back 287 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: to childhood. Yeah, like it. 288 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: Yeep, Like there is somebody that I know in professional 289 00:16:55,440 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 2: circumstances who does not like me, and I for years 290 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 2: you tell me about like trying to like do the 291 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 2: right thing, trying to like get or like make them 292 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 2: like me. And then I was like, you know what, 293 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: she doesn't She doesn't like me, and she might not. 294 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 2: And the more that I do this, the smaller I become. Right, 295 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 2: And then I realized I. 296 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 1: Don't care, Like why do I care? What do I want? 297 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 2: Like they're not they have nothing to offer me. And 298 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 2: now it's like, huh, I don't. 299 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 1: Care it's very freeing. How did you do this? I 300 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I know, I do know that much. Truly, 301 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:46,360 Speaker 1: we're like mirrors. 302 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: I think I have done so much therapy in my life, yes, 303 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: so much, really actually leaning into what I enjoy and 304 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 2: what I know I'm good at, like, you know, as 305 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 2: an actress who spends so much time not being told 306 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 2: that we're wrong or that someone's better, like you just 307 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: don't get the job, or you do you know, like 308 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 2: all those things that it imprints on you. And once 309 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 2: I started to really remember that I'm so much more 310 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 2: than that and the things that like, yeah, I might 311 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 2: be good as an actress sometimes at some things, but 312 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 2: there are all these other facets of myself that I 313 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 2: appreciate that like that I like about myself, or that 314 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: people will want to be with me, not because I 315 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,679 Speaker 2: was in clueless, you know, or whatever it is, but 316 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: because they like coming to my house for a dinner party, 317 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 2: because they enjoy spending time with me, you know. 318 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: I like. 319 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 2: That's the stuff that is very I think that's how 320 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 2: I got there. 321 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, that's beautiful. It's really hard to not 322 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 1: define yourself based on what the world defines you as. Yes, 323 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 1: and yes as young girls. Like my brother is really 324 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,680 Speaker 1: he's a life coach, so he he has all the skills. 325 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 1: But I am programmed because it worked for a bit 326 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: to put my name in everything, putting saying misspelling for 327 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:24,479 Speaker 1: this podcast was a conscious thing because I put Tory 328 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:32,959 Speaker 1: and everything and it weren't like you know, and it 329 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 1: was fun, and misspelling was kind of like, oh, I'm 330 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: taking back my power and not apologizing for my last 331 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:43,199 Speaker 1: name in my family history anyway. And so that was 332 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: a conscious thing. But he's like, I still like, oh, 333 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 1: I'm creating this show or I'm doing this, like this 334 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: line I'm creating, and I'm like Torri And he's like, 335 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 1: you don't stop putting your name and everything. Wow. And 336 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 1: I was like what And he's like, because you're more 337 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: than that that define you. Yeah, you have so much 338 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 1: to offer. Yes, believe in yourself, like bank on yourself. 339 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: And that's the thing. It's so easy to make, you know, 340 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: when I do something like oh, let's do a Donna 341 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: Martin joke or let's you know right, because it's what 342 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: everyone else sees. But guess what if what you're saying, 343 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: if you push through that and you have so much 344 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: to offer so slowly. But that's great. That's a time 345 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 1: capsule there. That's beautiful and like put up on my shelf, 346 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 1: like in a word, I want people to be it's chiny, 347 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: it's pretty. You loved it. But I also want to do. 348 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 2: Other Yes, this is, but this is that's that's what's happening. 349 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 2: That's what's happening. And it's not a glow up. 350 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're having a Are we having a blow up? 351 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 1: Is that what one is? 352 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 2: Because I sure won't know you know what a blow 353 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: up is is? Or I don't know if I straighten 354 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 2: out my legs now when I stand up. I like 355 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 2: do yoga all the time. And let me tell you, 356 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 2: I'm getting stiffer in the older ages. 357 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: A little stiff just like a little stiff in my legs. 358 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: So so many jokes I can make better, I know, 359 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: you know me? 360 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 2: Oh my yeah, sorry, I really set you up for that, Okay. 361 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 2: I Also, like I said before. 362 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: This is not the nineties as. 363 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 2: This is not the nineties as, even though it may 364 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 2: appear so because we're sitting here together. But I do 365 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 2: need to eat food these days because I didn't eat 366 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 2: a lot in the nineties and I'm starving. 367 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: Right now and we are so backstory. We're here together 368 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: at the Roosevelt Hotels Iconic in Hollywood. We are going 369 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 1: to the Dolby Theater night because we're attending. 370 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: Hanna iHeart Music Awards, and I can't wait. 371 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: Me too, so excited, very excited. 372 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm going to get a picture with 373 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 2: Kendrick Lamar, which will make me so cool to my 374 00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 2: daughter by white and let your child get Yeah, that'll 375 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 2: again be like you did something cool without me, Oh 376 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 2: for sure. 377 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: But so we're going to go have a break and 378 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 1: snack before we have to hit that red card. That's correct, 379 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: But I just want to say your moment. So I 380 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: looking on social media and Instagram and I'm seeing it's 381 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: not just the photos. It goes back to what you're saying. 382 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: I can I can look at a photo and I'm 383 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 1: feeling your energy and feeling that you feel good, you 384 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: feel commedy, and you're like, yeah, I'm taking this all 385 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: on and it's like a next level thing. And I'm like, 386 00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: So I was looking at like I was like, oh 387 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 1: my god, you're fashion and the events you're going to, 388 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: you are putting yourself back out there in a way 389 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 1: and it's iconic. I was looking at it and I 390 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:51,160 Speaker 1: was like, oh, okay, I'm following Suit's sister. Oh my gosh, 391 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, I'm going for it. That really makes it. 392 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: We didn't call Tom. We didn't call time waka. 393 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,680 Speaker 2: This is so Tom and I went to high school together, 394 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 2: known each other a very long time. 395 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: And uh and Tory, Yeah, Tom and I have been friends. 396 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: We met working wise, Tom and I yes, yes. 397 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 2: And then nineties con Tom came with me, which that 398 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 2: was the first time we had seen each other in 399 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: a lot of years. I feel like yes and yes, 400 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: Tom is like I know Tory and I said what 401 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 2: so like it sort of reconnected, made the connected the 402 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: dots for me. But now you guys work together in 403 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,239 Speaker 2: various capacity together. 404 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: And also have become like actual friends in real life. 405 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my gosh. Yes, and he better 406 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 1: deliver on this phone call. He's going to stay plus 407 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:47,719 Speaker 1: one tonight. Always he's the best. Hello, what kicked up 408 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:53,959 Speaker 1: on Ring one one? Ring? Hi? Tom? Hi, I have 409 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 1: a friend here with me? 410 00:23:54,920 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, it is Oh okay, So he and I 411 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 3: were texting another night. 412 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 1: Why didn't even come up? Oh I know why. I 413 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: came up. That's a different story for a different podcast. 414 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: You're on our toys podcast right now. Hi, Oh he 415 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: just got quiet? Hello? Hello? Did you just get stage fright? 416 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: Okay I supposed to talk? Oh no, okay, go ahead. 417 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: So okay, I have a story that I'll tell on 418 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: a different toy story day. But anyway, Tom and I 419 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: decided that we are going to make elite the new words. 420 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: Oh love it just because going on, you know, yeah, 421 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: we need some fun, get it back into the Yeah, yeah, 422 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 1: there you go. I like when she says everywhere I 423 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: go now yeah. So so the new thing is we're 424 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 1: going to see if we can make this catch on, 425 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 1: like okay linstead of saying like that's hot, we're going 426 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: to be that's so elite. Okay, I'm down for it. 427 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: Like I just ordered a burger and I'm like, can 428 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: I have a burger? What like an elite burger? 429 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 2: Or it's elite that you're ordering a burger? 430 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 1: Oh, we don't know, he's going to say. Totally confused people, 431 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: but you can make them think like, oh gosh, did 432 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,360 Speaker 1: I not know I need to be saying this, So 433 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,119 Speaker 1: like eventually someone will be like, that's so elite. And 434 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: like at a different table like in La and I'll 435 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, Tom and I started, and you will 436 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 1: know that you two started it all right, Okay, so 437 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: here quickly we have to go, but we want to 438 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 1: talk about you are Elasa's quote unquote state at day 439 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: her plus one and you were wearing diamonds tonight and 440 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: she's not. She's walking the red carpet. So what's going on? 441 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, I, oh, look at this doesn't have anything 442 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 2: to say day, which is. 443 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: Never the case. I have Italy friends. 444 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 2: I was able to get some diamonds from. But I 445 00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 2: also shared that you have a gift for Amy Sugarman. 446 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: I didn't not for me or me well oratory. Well, 447 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,439 Speaker 1: I did have to be your personal shopper last night 448 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: at Bloomingdal. 449 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 2: Okay, this is fair, he did. So I forgot my 450 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 2: purse and I had I don't. I just didn't have 451 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 2: a person. So the thing I have as a black 452 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 2: fanny pack, which doesn't really go with my outfit. So 453 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,199 Speaker 2: maybe you could fit your stuff in my person. So 454 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: Tom did go uh shopping for me last night? 455 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: So I do you're the best. Yeah, you are the best. Yeah, 456 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: thank you so much for saying that, and he is 457 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,439 Speaker 1: wearing a diamond necklace tonight. 458 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 2: That is like, I said, give it to me as 459 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 2: a bracelet, because I can't wear a necklace with my outfit, 460 00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,959 Speaker 2: but I could wear it as a bracelet. 461 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: I could wrap it around twice. And he's like, absolutely not. 462 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,199 Speaker 1: I called my outfit to my friends a douche canoe outfit, 463 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 1: Like I'm totally going to be like a douche canoe 464 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: with my outfit. A douche canoe. What is the one 465 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 1: you said? What is a douche canoe? What's a juice canoe? 466 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: A canoe? 467 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 2: Are you going to go down the rid garbet in 468 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 2: a canoe? That's a way for me to get PRESD. 469 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 2: That's how that's how all. 470 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 1: Hashtag douche canoe. I'm using that one from now on. 471 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 1: Not I'm not sure. 472 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 2: I don't know if we can make I don't know 473 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 2: if we can make that one. 474 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, well thanks. We thought this would be really 475 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: funny if you called you, but you didn't deliver, so 476 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 1: I feel good that you called me. 477 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,719 Speaker 2: We don't have a good history of calling people and 478 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 2: having them take my call on podcasts, so I appreciate 479 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 2: that you did take my call. 480 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 1: I thought you were going to answer and say what 481 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: what do you want? But you didn't. You said, hello, 482 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: well it's I'm in an uber and oh you're on 483 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,360 Speaker 1: your way here, and then yeah, I'm here and it's 484 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: my uper driver's birthday. 485 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 2: So okay, well, happy birthday. 486 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: I was singing happy birthday to him when you called. 487 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,119 Speaker 2: Well, now this is his Maybe he wants a happy 488 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: birthday from Tori Spelling or Alisa Donovan. 489 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:32,160 Speaker 1: Maybe you should give him that diamond necklace, get one 490 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: for happy birthday. What's your name? Sir? Thank you? What's 491 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 1: your name? Look? Can be talking here and birthday, Happy birthday, 492 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: Happy birthday. 493 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 2: You're welcome. Tom, give me? Did you get him here safely? 494 00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 2: Is he at the hotel? 495 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,880 Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm waiting, I'm get out of the car. 496 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: Oh okay, we're sorry. Okay, we are coming up in 497 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 1: the hospitality because we need to eat. Yeah, we need 498 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 1: to eat. 499 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 2: You can't miss me. 500 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: Do you walking in the hotel with my diamonds? Okay, 501 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:21,120 Speaker 1: they're on right now. Did you sleep in them? Necklace? 502 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: You were it everywhere? I wouldn't. I wouldn't know either. Well, 503 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: obviously someone did something. 504 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: Right, Okay, Okay, Tom, he's the best. 505 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: He's the best. Yeah. 506 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,760 Speaker 2: Now he's going to get more necklaces out of this, 507 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 2: and we I hope we do too. 508 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 1: Oh okay, Oh yeah, I forgot. We're on a podcast. Yeah, 509 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 1: who's the designer? Who is I know? I don't even 510 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: know the name. This is terrible. This is my bad. 511 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: All right, we got to go, so we before I 512 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: pass out, born and gaze and jealousy at his necklace. Okay, 513 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: I love you, Okay, I love you. Thank you so 514 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 1: much for having me.