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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio. Hey everybody,

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Speaker 1: and welcome back. It's Trista and this is part two

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Speaker 1: of my little chat all about one of my favorite

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Speaker 1: days ever, my wedding day. Ryan, my amazing husband, is

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Speaker 1: going to be joining me today as well as a

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Speaker 1: very special guest, so I hope you tune in. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So my next guest I don't think needs any introduction,

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Speaker 1: but I will introduce him. Nonetheless, he was the one

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Speaker 1: who was there with me, threw it all from the engagement,

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Speaker 1: well actually even before the engagement, to the engagement, to

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Speaker 1: the planning, to the wedding, to the honeymoon to the

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Speaker 1: last twenty years. He is my best friend, my soulmate,

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Speaker 1: and my husband for twenty years. Almost crazy. Anyway, let's

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Speaker 1: bring in Ryan. Welcome to the show again. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: coming on and talking about the wedding. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: was just talking to Sarah and she asked if we

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Speaker 1: ever watch the if we watch it back on our anniversary,

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Speaker 1: because I think they watch their video every year, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, no, I don't think it's really Ryan's

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Speaker 1: cuppe Titi to watch that back, although maybe maybe we

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Speaker 1: should now that we have it now that we have

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Speaker 1: a link to it, would you watch it again with

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Speaker 1: me sometime?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I would. I would definitely watch the wedding again

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Speaker 2: for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fure. I mean, it was such a fun weekend.

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Speaker 1: I loved watching it back, just remembering all the little

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Speaker 1: things that I've kind of forgotten since then. What is

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Speaker 1: one of the favorite memories for you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I was trying to think that too,

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Speaker 2: as you've been sort of reviewing it, and I honestly

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Speaker 2: don't remember very much about it. And I know, I

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Speaker 2: kind of remember the lead up to it and the

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Speaker 2: debate as to whether or not we were going to

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Speaker 2: do it on television and sort of those conversations, and

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Speaker 2: then I remember the overall impression afterwards when everybody was

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Speaker 2: you know, trying to make the Brad Paisley thing work out,

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Speaker 2: and in the midst of you know, you were changing

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Speaker 2: then Brad had an actual concert he had to get to,

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Speaker 2: so he had a time frame, and so trying to

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Speaker 2: obviously you know, just how well done it was esthetically

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Speaker 2: always remember the helicopter sort of influence there and those

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Speaker 2: being around. But I can still sort of picture when

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Speaker 2: you were at the top of the stairs and I

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Speaker 2: was waiting for you there, and kind of the front

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Speaker 2: row with our immediate family, and those sorts of images

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Speaker 2: are still in my mind. But a lot of the

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Speaker 2: other stuff, I just you know, it just was such

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Speaker 2: a whirlwind, and you're always kind of bouncing back and forth.

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Speaker 2: So it's weird. It's weird. Do you remember. I remember

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Speaker 2: sort of wishing I wouldn't have gotten a haircut, like

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Speaker 1: You're like, oh, why don't I just get my haircut

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like just little stuff. But yeah, it's it's

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Speaker 2: hard for me to remember a lot of the details,

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Speaker 2: do you Well.

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Speaker 1: Actually, I want to go back to the Brad Paisley

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Speaker 1: the Brad Paisley moment, as you know, I love surprises.

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Speaker 1: And for those of you who don't know the backstory,

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Speaker 1: Ryan had given me a poem on our first one

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Speaker 1: on one date at SeaWorld. Well that was called something

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Speaker 1: about Her and he had it made so Rick Cowling,

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Speaker 1: the Rick Calling Band, was the band that was at

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Speaker 1: our wedding, and he worked with Sadler, one of our

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Speaker 1: in touch with Rick Calling. Rick Calling made the poem

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Speaker 1: into a song, so he put it to music. And

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Speaker 1: then you contacted Brad Paisley because I had been in

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Speaker 1: a Brad Paisley video and asked if he were to

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Speaker 1: like we're supposed to be enjoying this little do I

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Speaker 1: know that Brad Paisley has a hard out, like he

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Speaker 1: has to be right. He had to be out by

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Speaker 1: So Ryan's like, oh my god, would you please get

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Speaker 1: and he serenades us with not only a Brad Paisley song,

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Speaker 1: he did record it, it is on iTunes, but with

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Speaker 1: the song that had such sentimental value and was a

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Speaker 1: poem that you wrote for me, Like, it was just

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Speaker 1: the best surprise. It will go down as one of

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Speaker 1: the best moments of my life. So thank you for that.

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Speaker 2: It was. It was like a great moment for me. Also, yeah, Glad,

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Speaker 2: Glad pulled it off. Mindy Wise helped a ton two

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Speaker 2: sheet was instrumental in getting Rick to write the song.

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Speaker 2: And then you know Rick had to also he was

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Speaker 2: super generous and he had to agree to that Brad

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Speaker 1: So it was good to It's so I'm so thankful

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Speaker 1: to all of those people, everybody, Rick calling, Brad, Paisley,

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Speaker 1: I just love that moment. But we were going to

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Speaker 1: going to ask you if there was anything that you

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Speaker 1: did regret, like would you thinking back on it? And

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Speaker 1: you know, we did have a lot of fights about

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Speaker 1: which watching that it's just like so range, like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I.

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Speaker 1: Literally laughed out loud watching it. The fact that Charlie's like,

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Speaker 2: I think there were like the options were either like

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Speaker 1: Was they would the cameras were going to be in

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Speaker 1: our faces twenty four to seven. That was the option.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think for me, once we agreed to

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Speaker 2: just had to surrender to the process. And yeah, that

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Speaker 2: not like I think originally they were going to try

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Speaker 2: When it was still just Warner Brothers doing it, But

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Speaker 2: out well. In hindsight, you sort of we were just

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Speaker 2: And so it's one moment in time in our relationship.

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Speaker 2: I think everybody that was their friends and family had

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Speaker 2: a different place, and people tuned in to watch it

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Speaker 2: kind of cool stories about people's experiences way back then

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Speaker 2: so all of that stuff has been really rewarding, you know,

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Speaker 2: for all we really did was just get married on television,

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Speaker 2: and it had a pretty big impact on not only us,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the one regret I do have is that, you know,

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Speaker 1: if we had done it inside, then you know, everyone

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Speaker 1: a beautiful setting. I mean, those that gazebo or orchway

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Speaker 1: with the setting was just stunning. So you know, I

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Speaker 2: I'm sous.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, actually I want you to. I want you

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Speaker 1: to tell everyone what Mindy did, Like, how how much

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Speaker 1: do we love Mindy Weiss? I mean she made you

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Speaker 1: feel because I was obviously, you know, all in it

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Speaker 1: with her. It was like my dream come true to

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Speaker 1: work with her, but you kind of were keeping yourself

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Speaker 1: have my moment. But she came in and tell them what?

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Speaker 1: Tell everyone how she made you feel comfortable?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, clearly, Mindy has done this before, and

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Speaker 1: And that's why I love you.

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Speaker 1: It's real light, it's real. Like I always say to people,

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Speaker 3: It's like I didn't want you guys to miss out

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Speaker 3: And I didn't know what it meant. So I said

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Speaker 3: to Lisa, what is is juge? They did keep talking,

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Speaker 3: Is it like just fixing everything up so it's more

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Speaker 3: than it is? And she goes, yes, that's it, you know, so.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, yep, that's totally it and you did it.

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Speaker 1: I mean looking back because I of course follow you

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and just seeing all the details, like I'm

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Speaker 1: as you know, so detail oriented, and just seeing all

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Speaker 1: of those details just makes me so happy. You are

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Speaker 3: If I could just design and not have to do

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Speaker 3: the business end, I'd be.

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Speaker 1: Do you think you will in the future.

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Speaker 3: I would like to that, you know, when you're more

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Speaker 3: of a creative, it's hard to be I'm not a

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Speaker 3: numbers person, you know, so ye, but I'm more like,

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Speaker 3: have me order a dish and I'm so excited, you know.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of dishes, I still have my Lenox china that

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Speaker 1: we my friends. Oh yeah, I was just telling my

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Speaker 1: friends that we I have it in our attic and

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Speaker 1: some in my kitchen, but we had thousands of pieces.

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Speaker 1: I feel like what they gave. Yeah, yes, it's such

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Speaker 1: a fundy.

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Speaker 3: Good step. And your shoes, remember your Steward shoes.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I remember the most start Whizman was like, these

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Speaker 1: are going to be the most expensive shoes ever worn,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh stressfuls oh my god.

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Speaker 3: And the jewelry I remember, they kept like and then

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Speaker 3: I didn't understand, you know, everything, and then I did.

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Speaker 3: You know, I learned a.

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Speaker 1: Lot, right, you had a crash course in reality show

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Speaker 1: completely Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I had a great experience with Chris. You know,

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Speaker 3: he was so lovely to me.

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Speaker 1: Of course, he was amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's getting married now Lauren. Yeah, yes, they

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Speaker 1: are getting very soon, which I'm so happy for them

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Speaker 1: them too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you think he's going to make a comeback?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean he's doing great with his podcast. I

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Speaker 1: think his podcast is really successful. The most dramatic podcast ever.

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Speaker 1: What it's called, of course, the most dramatic podcast ever.

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Speaker 3: That's hysterical.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna listen to that often.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's very funny.

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Speaker 1: It's him and Lauren, they do it together, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's great, it's great. I haven't been on yet, but

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Speaker 1: that's okay, it's all good. I say yet, just because

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Speaker 1: there's a hope you never have.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm sure you will.

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Speaker 1: I could do for hours. You even gave me ten

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Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. But just going back to memory lane, I

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Speaker 1: love it. I love I love it.

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Speaker 3: And it's very weird that I can remember everything because

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Speaker 3: I can't really remember five minutes ago, but I remember

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Speaker 3: the entire weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh gosh, I will never forget it. I mean

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Speaker 1: it was you know. I just this is funny. I

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Speaker 1: saw on Instagram. So there's this company that has these

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Speaker 1: cards or something that they they're like conversation starters for

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Speaker 1: mi peaple who have been married, and one of them

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Speaker 1: is what one memory would you like to go back

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Speaker 1: and relive? And of course my wedding popped up, as

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Speaker 1: you know that I need to incorporate my kids into

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Speaker 1: it somehow, and they of course weren't there, of course,

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Speaker 1: But that whole weekend was just over the top and

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Speaker 1: so special to me, and so much of it is

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Speaker 1: because of you.

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Speaker 3: Thanks so thank you, thank you so much that that's

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Speaker 3: why I do this. So thank you, Yes, yes, love

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Speaker 3: you so much.

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Speaker 1: All the best. Wish I could give you.

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Speaker 3: A hug, no big hug, not big hugs. Thank you. Bye,