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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject. I knew it was too good

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Speaker 1: to be true. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty three years old,

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Speaker 1: and I've been dating this great guy that a friend

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Speaker 1: introduced me too. He's thirty eight years old, never been married,

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Speaker 1: and no children. He looks good, smells good, and he

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Speaker 1: has a good job. We started dating a month ago

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Speaker 1: when he invited me to his class reunion recently. They

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Speaker 1: had our d'ouvres and drinks, and he fixed us a

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Speaker 1: plate of food to share. He was killing these tuna

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Speaker 1: sandwiches that were cut into tiny triangles, and I told

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Speaker 1: him and didn't smell.

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Speaker 2: Right to me.

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Speaker 1: Three hours later, he excused himself to go to the

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Speaker 1: bathroom and he was gone for thirty minutes. He texted

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Speaker 1: me and said to meet him at his car, and

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Speaker 1: he asked me to drive him home. He went straight

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Speaker 1: to the bathroom. When we got to his house, I

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Speaker 1: did not go to the bathroom door to check on him.

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Speaker 1: He finally came out of the bathroom and said he

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Speaker 1: was going to take a shower and get into bed.

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Speaker 1: He asked me if I would stay with him. I

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Speaker 1: said no, and I suggested that he go to the

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Speaker 1: er if he's that much in pain. I got in

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Speaker 1: an uber and I went home. The next day, I

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Speaker 1: called to check on him and he said he didn't

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Speaker 1: want to talk to me ever again, since I didn't

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Speaker 1: seem to care that he was sick the night before.

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Speaker 1: He said, I don't know how to take care of

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Speaker 1: a man. What more could I have done for him

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Speaker 1: that night? Do I try to work things out with

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Speaker 1: him or let him go? There's really nothing to work out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you both showed who you really are. That's

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Speaker 1: when you get to see the real character, the true

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Speaker 1: character of a person, like in trying times like these,

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Speaker 1: if he's sick or if something happened to you, then

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Speaker 1: you get to see so you saw, okay, he was

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Speaker 1: sick with what sounded like food poisoning. You drove him

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Speaker 1: home after he asked you. He said after he got

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Speaker 1: go to bed, and at that point it was okay

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Speaker 1: that you went home. You obviously didn't feel comfortable staying there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys have only been dating for a month.

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Speaker 1: At the reunion, you told him the tuna sandwiches didn't

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Speaker 1: smell right. He didn't listen. He scarfed them down anyway.

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Speaker 1: You also suggested that he go to the er if

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Speaker 1: he was in that much pain. He didn't respond to

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Speaker 1: that either, and you didn't offer to take him. You

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Speaker 1: called the next morning to check on him, which shows

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Speaker 1: you do care. You were concerned, But he was mad

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Speaker 1: that you didn't stay the night with him, and he

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Speaker 1: said you didn't know how to take care.

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Speaker 2: Of a man.

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Speaker 1: Well, that was insulting. I mean, maybe a glimpse of

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Speaker 1: what's to come if something else happens between you two,

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Speaker 1: if you stay in there. So I think it's good

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Speaker 1: that you guys go your separate ways.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, you and I differ on this one so much,

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Speaker 3: so much. This is a sad, sad letter because you know,

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Speaker 3: she said the subject of the letters, I knew it

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Speaker 3: was too good to be true. Really, well, ladies, here

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Speaker 3: we go. Let's just walk down this from the male perspective,

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Speaker 3: because I know sometimes you don't like to do that,

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Speaker 3: but let's just look at this from the male perspective.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm gonna do, because I'm trying to find

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Speaker 3: out in this letter what this dude is wrong at.

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Speaker 3: I'm struggling, okay, and I'm being real with y'all because

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Speaker 3: and you'll understand what I'm saying as I take you

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Speaker 3: through this. You're thirty three years old. You've been dating

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Speaker 3: this great guy that a friend introduce you to. He's

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Speaker 3: thirty eight, never been buried in no children, He looks good,

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Speaker 2: Has a good job.

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Speaker 3: We started dating a month ago, Okay, So that means

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Speaker 3: this is that we're about to describe is not a

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Speaker 3: first date. They started dating a month ago. Now, there's

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Speaker 3: nothing in this letter that says this woman is going

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Speaker 3: by the ninety day rule or anything. All we know

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Speaker 3: is the facts is they've been dating for a month,

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Speaker 3: which means they've been out on several occasions. Ain't nobody

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Speaker 3: gonna take you to the classroom unit the first date.

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Speaker 3: That ain't that ain't a good look? So okay, here

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Speaker 3: we go or derbs and drinks. He fixed play of

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Speaker 3: food for us to share. He was killing these tuna

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Speaker 3: sandwiches cut into triangles. I told him it didn't smell

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Speaker 3: right to me. Three hours later, he excused himself to

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Speaker 3: go to the bathroom. He was gone for thirty minutes.

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Speaker 3: He texted me and said to meet him at his car.

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Speaker 3: He asked me to drive him home. He went straight

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Speaker 3: to the bathroom when we got to his house. I

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Speaker 3: did not go to the bathroom door.

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Speaker 2: To check on him. Right there.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's just make note of that. She didn't even

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Speaker 3: go to the bathroom door to check on hi. You know, look,

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Speaker 3: if somebody leaves in the middle of their class reunion

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Speaker 3: asked you to come to the car and drive them home,

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Speaker 3: something's wrong. Something is wrong. Number one, You didn't even

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Speaker 3: go to the bathroom door to check on it. And

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Speaker 3: this is you writing the letter. This ain't him accusing

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Speaker 3: you of nothing. You're telling us what you did and

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Speaker 3: did not do. So you didn't even go to the

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Speaker 3: bathroom door to check on him. He finally came out

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Speaker 3: of the bathroom and said he was going to take

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Speaker 3: a shower, which means he been sweating pretty hard and

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Speaker 3: tuna sandwiches was cutting in tuning.

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Speaker 2: That tuna was doing this damn thing.

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Speaker 3: I've had a bad oystry before when you get hold

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Speaker 3: of some bad seafood who this boy was in there

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Speaker 3: eating that tuna, and that tuna was doing what tunah do,

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Speaker 3: swimming round waves and run it. That's what tuna doing

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Speaker 3: the while, That's what it was doing in his stomach.

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Speaker 3: That sandwich that he had chewed up got back together

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Speaker 3: and formed an actual tuna and was down in his

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Speaker 3: stomach cutting up all right now. He finally came out

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Speaker 3: the bathroom, said he was gonna take shower and get

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Speaker 3: in the bed. He asked me if I would stay

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Speaker 3: with him. I said no, and I suggest that he

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Speaker 3: go to the er if he was in that much pain.

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Speaker 3: I get in the uber and I went home. Damn,

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Speaker 3: the dude is in enough pain. He he ain't trying

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Speaker 3: to trap you into stay in. Ah, girl, are.

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Speaker 1: You glue gun? Hang on, yeah, I'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of Steve's response coming up. At twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour Today's Strawberry letter, subject I knew it was too.

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Speaker 2: Good to be true.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: hard Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject I knew it was too

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Speaker 1: good to be true.

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Speaker 3: I knew it now, Like I said earlier, if you

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Speaker 3: weren't here, Shirley, and I's response is quite different because,

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Speaker 3: of course I have a different perspective, because it's the

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Speaker 3: male perspective. Women don't get to have that perspective. Now,

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Speaker 3: this woman says in this letter, I knew it was

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Speaker 3: too good to be true. She's thirty three. She met

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Speaker 3: a man through some friends who's thirty eight. Great guy,

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Speaker 3: she says it off. Now this is this woman writing

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Speaker 3: this letter. Great guy, look good, smell good, got a

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Speaker 3: good job. They've been dating for a month. He invites

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Speaker 3: her to the class reunion. They get it to class reunion.

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Speaker 3: Now this man right here that invited this woman to

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Speaker 3: the class reunion. He if a dude, don't care about you.

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Speaker 3: He not taking you to the class reunion. This is

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Speaker 3: the flex moment. So now he going, hey, man, look

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Speaker 3: what I got. This is after how many years this

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Speaker 3: for that's about the twenty year reunion.

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Speaker 2: You at the twenty year you he thirty eight. He

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Speaker 2: had his twenty year reunion.

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Speaker 3: Graduated when he was eighteen, and he going, hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: look what iut' find? Been married, I ain't got no kids, man,

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Speaker 3: Look what I found. Ladies, take note of that. He

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Speaker 3: took you to a very important moment right here. All

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Speaker 3: after this is just meeting the mama. If you can

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Speaker 3: meet the mama after this, you're pretty much locked in.

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Speaker 3: Been dating for a month. He takes you to the

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Speaker 3: class for you. He's some tuna sandwiches. You told him

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Speaker 3: wasn't good. He hard hited he ain't your tuna sandwiches.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: He ended up going to the bathroom for thirty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Then he texted you and said meet him at the car.

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Speaker 3: Something happened in a bathroom. Traumatic traumatic. Not only could

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Speaker 3: you meet me at the car? Can you dry this

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Speaker 3: damn car home? I'm in pain? He'd get to the house.

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Speaker 3: He go in the bathroom for thirty minutes, He come out,

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Speaker 3: told up, did he look disshovel?

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Speaker 2: Probably deep? And then he went straight to the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Got to the house.

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Speaker 3: Uh you didn't she said, I didn't go to the

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Speaker 2: Okay? Cool.

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Speaker 3: He finally came out of the bathroom, said he was

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Speaker 3: asked me if I would stay with him. I said no,

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Speaker 3: and I suggested he go to the er if he's

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Speaker 3: in that much pain. Why didn't you stay with the man?

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Speaker 3: He didn't ask you to sleep with him. You said,

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Speaker 3: if he is so much pain, go to the er.

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Speaker 3: You didn't offer to take him to the er. You

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Speaker 3: didn't offer to stay with him. Where the soup at,

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Speaker 3: where the cracker is at, where that's at. You know

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Speaker 3: that's all you had to do. Hey, look, I'll stay

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Speaker 3: in here on the couch with you. Let me check

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Speaker 3: on you, make sure you're okay. That's all the man.

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Speaker 1: Won't you gotta cook?

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Speaker 2: See right here, you.

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Speaker 3: Ain't cooking crack soup coming a can? That ain't cooking?

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Speaker 3: Lord a mercy chusetts help her in the kitchen. It's

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Speaker 3: heating up some soup. Who can make soup?

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Speaker 1: No man?

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Speaker 3: Anyway, I got in an uber and I went home.

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Speaker 3: So that means he picked her up, took her to

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Speaker 3: what's the event. She drove his car to the house.

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Speaker 3: She got in the uber and went home. The next

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Speaker 3: day I called a check on him. He said, he

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Speaker 3: ain't even want to talk to me ever again, since

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Speaker 3: I didn't seem to care that he was sick the

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Speaker 3: night before. He said, I don't know how to take

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Speaker 3: care of a man, and I have news for you.

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Speaker 3: You don't because it just would have been a little

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Speaker 3: thoughtful thing to say, hey, let me stay with you

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Speaker 3: at least till you fall asleep and feel better. Then

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Speaker 3: you could have left home. Oh no, I'm not staying

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Speaker 3: have left his class reunion. It wasn't a trap to

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Speaker 3: get you to the house. Something was seriously wrong with

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Speaker 3: this man, and you didn't think enough of him, and he.

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Speaker 2: Was testing you.

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Speaker 3: He was testing you to see now, Shirley said, y'all

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Speaker 3: need to break up because both of you showed who

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Speaker 3: he was looking for somebody to care for him. You

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Speaker 3: he did. He found out exactly who you really was.

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Speaker 3: He was sick and didn't feel well, and you bounced

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Speaker 3: and he told you right, you don't know how to

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Speaker 3: He should have wrote this letter and said it was

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Speaker 3: at least just care about it. That's all you had

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Speaker 3: to do. He didn't say, Look, sleep with me, has

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Speaker 3: I'm sick. I'm gonna take a shower, get in his bed.

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Speaker 3: Would you stay with me? No, I'm getting the ober,

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Speaker 3: a pepto bismol. You ain't did nothing? What more could

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Speaker 3: I have done for him that night? It's called comfort.

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Speaker 3: It's called concern. It's the thing that I teach all

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Speaker 3: you're listening, man, that all time, want you to fix nothing.

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Speaker 3: just want to verbalize it. That's that's how they work

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Speaker 3: stuff through. They talk it out. So, bruh, just show concern.

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Speaker 3: What you had opportunity to do, young lady was show

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Speaker 3: concern and you didn't do I try to work things

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Speaker 3: to do? You know what you're finn to let go?

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Speaker 3: These are your words. Now read your letter. A great

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Speaker 3: guy that a friend introduced me to. He's thirty eight

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Speaker 3: years old, never been married, no children, He looks good,

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Speaker 3: smells good, and he has a good job. Okay, now

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Speaker 3: you're gonna let him go and go get what.

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Speaker 2: Are you? Are? You? Are? You are? Are? You? Are

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Speaker 2: you ignorant? What? What is it? What is it?

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Speaker 3: You're gonna let him go because you missed an opportunity

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Speaker 3: to learn how to treat a man, didn't That probably

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Speaker 3: why you ain't got nobody post your comments because you

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Speaker 3: don't know how to treat a man.

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Speaker 2: No, you probably don't deserve to do.

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Speaker 1: Get out of there. You don't have to cook. Post

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Speaker 1: your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM, and.

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