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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the weekend edition of your Second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know how I tell you this. We're

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Speaker 2: going to try something new, I know, for you know,

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Speaker 2: I know people don't like new.

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Speaker 1: Things, but we're just curious because we know you love

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Speaker 1: dysfunctional relationship drama and many of our new listeners on

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Speaker 1: the Second Date feed right here, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for being here.

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Speaker 2: Don't realize that.

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Speaker 1: We actually do a full hour of brand new content

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Speaker 1: every day, a full show. That's not all Second Dates.

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Speaker 1: We do another segment that is very relationship drama heavy.

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Speaker 2: And very loved. Yes, yes, totally beloved.

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Speaker 1: That's called Awkward Tuesday phone Calls, and that's whenever you

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Speaker 1: have a relationship issue and you need our help making

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Speaker 1: a phone call. So on Sundays, just for this month only,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna try it out. See what you guys think.

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Speaker 1: If you like it, if you don't like it, let

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Speaker 1: us know in the comments.

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Speaker 3: If you like the Second Date, you're gonna be obsessed

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Speaker 3: with Awkward.

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Speaker 2: To Yeah it is. Sometimes they're more dramatic, could anything?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Truly truly?

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Speaker 3: Brook tell her I stole her Walll and I want

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Speaker 3: to come clean about it.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, did you, by the way, we should talk. Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, all right, here it is.

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Speaker 1: Here's your awkward Tuesday phone call on a Sunday, just

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 2: We're trying it out. Listen up.

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Speaker 5: Is it possible to have a platonic relationship with someone

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Speaker 5: of the opposite sex?

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Speaker 4: I think so.

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Speaker 2: I think it's rare, but I think it's true.

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Speaker 5: I agree, I think it can too, And I've been

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Speaker 5: telling brook that for years. But every time I walk

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Speaker 5: by her desk, her glasses fog up. Oh my god,

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Speaker 5: jewel drips onto her keyboard.

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Speaker 2: That's probably eating my lunch.

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Speaker 5: She's watching videos of waterfalls and Ferris Wheels, trying to

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Speaker 5: get her mind off. It turns out one of our

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Speaker 5: listeners is having a similar problem with one of her

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Speaker 5: closest guy friends keep walking by her. If she doesn't

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Speaker 5: do something now, she might lose that friendship forever. Oh god,

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Speaker 5: oh great, Brooks glasses look like.

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Speaker 4: A sauna room again.

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Speaker 2: I do not find you.

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Speaker 5: Keep saying that.

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Speaker 2: I don't fight.

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Speaker 4: It's sit down.

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Speaker 5: Let's just cool things down. You can clean up your glasses.

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Speaker 5: Gunch of mom jeans. What have you got to do

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Speaker 5: before we do an awkward Tuesday phone call? Coming up next.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. You know.

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Speaker 5: Forbes magazine just declared US the number one show in

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Speaker 5: the world for relationship drama.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome.

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Speaker 5: Unfortunately, they also ranked US seven hundred and fifty eighth

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Speaker 5: at effectively solving relationship dramas.

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Speaker 1: That can't be last place, though it's not much higher

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Speaker 1: optimism that.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, today's callers should feel real good that they

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Speaker 5: turn to us. Her name is Shana. Shana, it's your

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Speaker 5: last chance to back out? Are you sure you want

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Speaker 5: to do this?

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Speaker 6: I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: We're not almost last for nothing.

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Speaker 5: I'm proud of that. So Shana, tell us a little

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Speaker 5: bit about what's going on in your life that's caused

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I have this like super weird situation going on.

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Speaker 6: I've been friends with the same group of people basically

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think everybody has like that pure group, right,

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Speaker 4: You don't, that's totally okay.

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Speaker 5: Brooke did not mean to single you out and make.

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Speaker 4: You feel bad.

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Speaker 2: Does that hurt your feelings?

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Speaker 5: I haven't traveled with I'm just saying, not everybody has

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Speaker 5: it's okay, you don't need other people anyway. I'm proud

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Speaker 5: of you for having that, Shana.

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Speaker 4: What's going on with your cool group of friends?

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Speaker 6: Thank you, thank you very much.

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Speaker 6: So, yeah, we do everything together, concerts, sports, stuff, everything.

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Speaker 4: We get it. You have a great friendship and we're.

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Speaker 6: All best friends and we're so happy and there's nothing

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Speaker 2: Is a is it all women or is it a

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Speaker 6: So it's actually a mix of guys and girls. And

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Speaker 6: I'm a little bit closer to one of the guys

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Speaker 6: in particular. His name's Brett. So he's dating a new

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Speaker 6: and I know it must be kind of intimidating, like,

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Speaker 2: Are you guys cool with that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I would assume between the eight of you,

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Speaker 6: And gone and yeah, exactly, like we're kind of yeah,

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Speaker 6: always just kind of like a more the merrier type thing.

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Speaker 6: We all have a good time. Yeah, well so I

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Speaker 6: a month ago, I noticed every time I would reach

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Speaker 1: That's odd, okay, And is this on a group text

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Speaker 1: or are you talking about when you privately message him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like when I privately reach out to him, to him,

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Speaker 6: he doesn't really say anything back. So I really haven't

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Speaker 6: heard from him very much in like a month now.

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Speaker 6: And what's even weirder is I noticed that when we

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Speaker 6: And then I realized it wasn't that he wasn't going

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Speaker 3: Something that must make you feel so bad.

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Speaker 1: I mean we all feel that, right, because like I

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Speaker 5: Oh really, do you have loads of male friends, Brooke boy?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 1: So I'm just saying like he's a jealousy thing with

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're too close?

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Speaker 6: Well yeah, so I reach out to my other friends

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Speaker 6: when I realized that it was it wasn't an everybody

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Speaker 6: something definitely going on there. Okay, I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 4: Can I just compliment you?

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Speaker 3: You must be very pretty because this happens a lot

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Speaker 3: if you're especially if you're attractive and you're clothes with somebody.

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Speaker 5: Or is there any like history between you and bread

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Speaker 5: or is it just strictly a friendship.

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Speaker 6: I mean, we're definitely just friends. It's strictly a friendship.

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Speaker 6: But I will say we've known each other for years,

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Speaker 6: so like we went on a road trip and like

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Speaker 6: had one random like hookup thing, Like there was no

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Speaker 6: like sex involved, but like you know, you got.

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Speaker 1: To try and make out once, you know, right, how

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Speaker 1: do you know how?

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Speaker 2: That's the thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like, how do you know if you're just going

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Speaker 1: to be friends or not? If you don't like just

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Speaker 1: dip your.

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Speaker 5: Toes what friend text is called the sample plan?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you.

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Speaker 4: Don't your toe You did your tongue, all right?

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Speaker 5: And it sounds like that happened. You said it happened

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Speaker 6: It was Yeah, it was so long ago. It's nothing.

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Speaker 6: It's ancient history. And we're one hundred percent just you know,

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Speaker 6: platonic that we're just friends, to the point.

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Speaker 3: Where if he ever came out and said he had

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Speaker 6: Be like you, Yeah, I'd be a little uncomfortable at this.

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Speaker 2: I hope she would be nicer about it. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm used to hearing you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, has this happened before as this, you know,

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Speaker 1: and it can be intimidating for potential girlfriends or boyfriends

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Speaker 1: if you're dating somebody too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it has happened. But for me to just kind

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it definitely sounds awkward. So what made you email

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Speaker 6: I just want to get in touch with him, like,

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Speaker 6: and I don't know how else to do it. I

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Speaker 6: and he's not really giving me that chance because you

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Speaker 4: He's avoiding the convo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's understandable, and avoiding their calls.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess he doesn't want to know the girlfriend's

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Speaker 3: probably got the phone.

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Speaker 1: Might not that I've done that.

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Speaker 4: That would be weird.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna play a song here real quick, Shana, and

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Speaker 5: we'll come back give you a little bit of advice

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Speaker 5: before we make the phone call to a Wait, are

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Speaker 5: we calling Brett?

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Speaker 4: Are we calling his girlfriend?

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Speaker 6: Brett?

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Speaker 5: Okay, we'll let you make the call to Brett and

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Speaker 4: Phone call right after this.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, all right, hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: As I said previously, our expertise is in ruining relationships

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Speaker 5: mending friendships, so this really isn't in our wheelhouse right now,

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Speaker 5: but we're going to try our best for Shana, who

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Speaker 5: needs our help reaching out to her good friend Brett

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Speaker 5: because Brett is not allowed to talk to her right now.

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Speaker 2: Well that's what she thinks, so she doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Feel comfortable with that. She wants our help to get

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Speaker 5: him on the phone and see if they can salvage

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Speaker 5: the friendship. And I really think we need something special

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Speaker 5: to start this one off, and I know Jose and Alexis,

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Speaker 5: you guys are friends, So to kick this off, I'd

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Speaker 5: like both of you to do a good luck kiss.

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Speaker 5: That'll make shanea feel comfortable a guy that she's kissed

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Speaker 5: the outside the studio.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about it.

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Speaker 5: Well maybe if we can't give you a good luck kiss,

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Speaker 5: Shane will at least have some advice. Brooke, do you

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Speaker 5: have anything for her?

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Speaker 2: I'm good, yeah, No, honestly, SHANEA.

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Speaker 1: Lake, I think the one thing you need to watch

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Speaker 1: out for in this conversation with him is making sure

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Speaker 1: you're not putting his girlfriend down because it's it's.

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Speaker 2: Just a landmine.

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Speaker 1: You know, it'll make him defensive. He's already got one

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Speaker 1: lady given him weird ultimatums. You need to be the sane,

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 4: That was actually some good advice.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think that a lot of people out there

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Speaker 2: Well I think that's obvious, yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: Well I'm an investigator, bro ok Yeah, no, I did that.

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Speaker 4: There's obviously something there. So once you confirm that.

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Speaker 3: I think the best solution is to find a way

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Speaker 3: a little bit.

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Speaker 4: And know that you're harmless.

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Speaker 3: You're really just a friend, there's nothing there, and that

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Speaker 6: Yeah. I didn't think of that. Actually, yeah, maybe came out.

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Speaker 5: You and Brett's girlfriend can kiss.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't like.

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Speaker 4: I mean it worked out for you and Brett. You

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Speaker 1: Is this why you don't have as.

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Speaker 6: I know?

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Speaker 5: See, I'm learning something by doing this too. This is

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Speaker 5: really useful. But we're gonna die Brett's number right now

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Speaker 5: for you, Shane and let you make your awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 5: phone call. You ready, all right.

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Speaker 2: Got it, you can do it.

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Speaker 5: We'll be here when we feel like you need a

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Speaker 4: Here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello, Hello, Hello, Yeah, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 7: Oh sorry, that's not what came up on my phone.

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Speaker 6: I know. That's because you weren't answering your phone.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Sorry, I'm kind of a I wasn't prepared to

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Speaker 6: I was trying to figure out Yeah, I'm trying to

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Speaker 6: figure out what's going on, dude, Like I haven't heard

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Speaker 6: You know, I wanted to hear from you about it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I get that. It's just the thing I'm in

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Speaker 6: I mean, like, I know, I know this relationship is

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I get that it is weird.

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Speaker 6: Like I'm trying to figure out, like does she hate

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Speaker 7: No, she doesn't. She doesn't hate you. I mean you've

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Speaker 7: which is maybe even not the good move. I told

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Speaker 7: her that you and I had had you know, weird, Well.

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Speaker 6: Well it was only I mean you only like it

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Speaker 7: Well, the road trip thing, yeah, and then the seen

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Speaker 7: good to Maya your parentast any of that.

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Speaker 4: Oops.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh oh, I totally forgot about that. But I

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Speaker 7: I know, I know I have them, but I told

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Speaker 6: Like it's not like we're not like that, like we're

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Speaker 7: Like I'm well aware, we're good, you know, just it's

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Speaker 7: it's almost like there's this interim period where I'm kind

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Speaker 7: just like I don't know how to handle this, to

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Speaker 7: be quite honest, Well, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean what can we do, Like how do we prove

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Speaker 6: how do we show her, you know, like that I'm harmless.

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Speaker 6: We are literally just really good friends.

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Speaker 7: Like you'll have to bury those really really strong feelings

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Speaker 7: you have for me. That's the first thing.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, br shut the hell you are not

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Speaker 6: making it's better. That's not funny.

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Speaker 7: But I mean, you're so in love with me that

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Speaker 7: it's just kind of hard, you know.

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Speaker 6: Oh, it's unbearable, it's really Oh god, whatever will I do?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? I actually I think I have a theory about

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Speaker 7: the Synco de Mayo thing. I don't think you knew

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Speaker 7: it with me, you were so.

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Speaker 6: I mean I don't remember most of when I so

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Speaker 7: But yeah, see, I mean.

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Speaker 6: That's what that's what I mean. That doesn't make me

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Speaker 6: you know, like it's not about you or anything. Like

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Speaker 6: I just want to.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I just want to be friends with you again. And

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I don't want I obviously don't want

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Speaker 7: And for now, I mean, I don't know. You like

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Speaker 7: I bought a burner phone or something and me online,

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Speaker 7: you know, since we know we're not going to be

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Speaker 7: doing anything we shouldn't, we can just have like a

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Speaker 6: Uh, that is not going to work. Shoot. So the

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Speaker 6: thing is when I couldn't get in touch with you,

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Speaker 6: the reason that you don't recognize the phone number is

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Speaker 7: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Right? Secret?

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Speaker 6: So right? I'm so sorry. I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 7: You mean, like on a rate like like live. Yeah, hey,

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Speaker 7: why is there fifty people saying yeah.

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Speaker 4: There's four of us here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're on Brookly Jeffrey in the morning right now, Brett,

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Speaker 5: Well that it's okay, you didn't.

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Speaker 7: I'm thinking about the secret friends thing. That's not going

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Speaker 7: to play very well on my.

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Speaker 5: Just a few brillion people know.

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Speaker 2: It was good.

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Speaker 1: I mean you were joking about her being in love

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Speaker 4: That a joke. I couldn't tell.

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Speaker 7: I hope sarcasm like reads over the radio or whatever.

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Speaker 2: It was just very dry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, it's a it's a joke though.

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Speaker 5: You guys don't have secret feelings for each other outside

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Speaker 6: No, No, I mean that's why I came on here, like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: this isn't it shouldn't be a big deal. But I

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Speaker 3: But what about you told us you hooked up once

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Speaker 2: I forgot about the other time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that's hooking up when it comes to cheating,

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Speaker 3: Jose is like suddenly a math whiz.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is it was so forgettable that she

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Speaker 4: It doesn't bode well for you, Brett.

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Speaker 1: Brett, it doesn't sound like you have delivered your friendship

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Speaker 1: to your girlfriend very well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it wasn't handled well obviously. So I just once

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Speaker 5: And look, we are running a little bit short on

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Speaker 5: time here. But Brett, something that you don't know is

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Speaker 5: before we called you, we went around the room and

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Speaker 5: all gave advice to Shane on what we thought she

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Speaker 5: should do. And somebody here suggested that Shana and your

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Speaker 5: What do you think of that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: But she's she's such a like ballbuster that I'm afraid

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Speaker 7: she's gonna like overshoot and then I'm going to be like,

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Speaker 4: That's how you're bone.

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Speaker 5: I understand it's a weird situation, but I think you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's worth bringing up.

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Speaker 7: It's low risk, bro Yeah, and be like, you're the

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Speaker 7: So I know her now, you know, Like, well.

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Speaker 2: I gotta tell you. Awkward Tuesday is one of our

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Speaker 2: most popular podcasts. You could actually send it to her,

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Speaker 2: find it on Spotify anywhere else. She can hear it

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Speaker 2: all over again.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can hear your not good joke. We'll laugh

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Speaker 6: Hey, I don't have to rag on you. They're doing

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Speaker 6: it for me.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning