WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Livin’ The Van Life

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels Second d Update. You can learn a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about life through baseball. You know, when life throwsy curveballs,

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<v Speaker 1>you knock them out of the park. Sometimes you step

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<v Speaker 1>up to the play, you swing and you miss, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. Or sometimes you're the pitcher and sometimes you're

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<v Speaker 1>the catcher. Either way, you're gonna have a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll go to some famous sayings from baseball, and I

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<v Speaker 1>bring them up because the guy on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second Date update today, his name is Matthew, and

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<v Speaker 1>he met the girl that he wants to call at

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<v Speaker 1>a co ed softball game. What's up, Matthew? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing pretty good? How about you? Guys? Pretty good?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you the pit or the catcher that day? I

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<v Speaker 1>meanly bats and you know, play third base. But your

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<v Speaker 1>email said that you met the girl that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call. Her name is Tricia. Yeah, yeah, she's real sweet, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And it says here you met her at a co

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<v Speaker 1>ed softball game. How'd that work? Yeah, she was on

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite team. Wait, yeah, so that's you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>little extra charm as well. Uh let me guess she

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<v Speaker 1>was pitching to you, she struck you out, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you threatened to fight her. How softball friendly softball games go? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>physical violence is that how it went down. It was

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<v Speaker 1>more like when we all went to the bar, then

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<v Speaker 1>you threatened to fight her. There was no fighting. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>no fighting during the game or afterwards. It's different than

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<v Speaker 1>any co ed sports league that I've been involved in.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always a fight at some point. But so you

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<v Speaker 1>met her at the bar, yes, yes, and had you

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<v Speaker 1>had your eye on her like all game? Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all game for sure. What what about her stuck out

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<v Speaker 1>to you? Oh? I mean her her legs just gone

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<v Speaker 1>for days, you know, one of those girls with legs

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<v Speaker 1>all the way up to her butt. Yeah. So she

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<v Speaker 1>was really good at the game, and on top of

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<v Speaker 1>it all, she seemed like a genuinely cool trick. So

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<v Speaker 1>how did you approach her at the bar? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I grabbed her a drink and you know, said

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<v Speaker 1>congrats for whooping her ass, and you know, then we

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<v Speaker 1>just started talking about how long we have been playing,

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<v Speaker 1>and then one thing led to another and I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting her number and we said it day to

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<v Speaker 1>go hiking. Really was the hike, Oh it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>She met me where we were going to start out.

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<v Speaker 1>What'd you say? I mean, I heard you. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, what very nice she met there? She met

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<v Speaker 1>you where you're gonna start. That's better than you at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the trail, I guess. And she was

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<v Speaker 1>just as awesome as the first time you met her. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she did great on the hike, and we were

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<v Speaker 1>able to talk. We weren't winded or anything. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at the end, like when we say goodbye,

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't know, if you know, a kiss was

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<v Speaker 1>feeling out and I mean she was real sweaty. I

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<v Speaker 1>was real sweaty. I didn't know, Like we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just had a quick hug, but like it was still

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<v Speaker 1>like you felt that connection there, and we made plans

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<v Speaker 1>for about a week later to go out again. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so you guys had a second date. No, see, like

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<v Speaker 1>a day before she texted to cancel. She needed to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel for some reasons. But so I don't know. And

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<v Speaker 1>now it's like now I haven't really heard from her,

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<v Speaker 1>so kind of feel blown off. Have you tried to

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<v Speaker 1>reschedule that date that you had planned? I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I said one or two texts just saying, hey, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, scheduling didn't work. Is next weekend good? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>And I I didn't really get an answer from any

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<v Speaker 1>of that, can I ask? I mean, just looking back

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<v Speaker 1>at the time you guys spend together between like the

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<v Speaker 1>softball game and the hiking, do you think that she

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<v Speaker 1>also thought of this as a romantic date? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I would hope it would be kind of obvious

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<v Speaker 1>because I asked for her number, I said I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to get together. Like to me that that sends

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty clear signal of like, hey, I'm interested in you, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, even if like things go slow or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. Right, So, how long has

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<v Speaker 1>it been since you've heard from her? It's been over

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<v Speaker 1>a week since I talked with her, and she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>responded to the two texts I sent. Oh, just a

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<v Speaker 1>sweaty hug at the end of the hike, that's all

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<v Speaker 1>you got? Yeah, yeah, right, Well play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date. Update. Okay, thanks man,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, looking jubil in the morning. Second, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm skeptical of you, Matthew Am. I suspect, yes

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<v Speaker 1>you are. For what. Well, we do a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>these second date updates, all right, and everything always sounds

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<v Speaker 1>normal until we get the person on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>then something weird comes out. Okay, Now, you said that

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<v Speaker 1>you met this girl at a co ed softball game,

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<v Speaker 1>you went to the bar after, asked for a number,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys went on a hike and had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time and nothing weird happened. That is all true. Okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if I call her and I find out that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been going to all of her games since then, dressed

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<v Speaker 1>up like no, no no, no, no, no, no, buddy, I

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<v Speaker 1>will be I will Okay. That thought did cross my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but I denied it because I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>a creeper. All right, good, I picture in the stands

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<v Speaker 1>like an NFL quarterbacks mom with her name on your shirt,

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there like, go trishot, that's my girl. So, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, you promise me you haven't done that. I

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<v Speaker 1>have not done that. All right, he's still doesn't trust you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little weary of you. I'm gonna dial the

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<v Speaker 1>phone of her right now though, and get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out why she's not calling you back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Hello, Hi is Tricia there? Yes, this is she.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Tricia, how are you? My name is Jubil and

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<v Speaker 1>I host a radio show called Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Okay, I'm calling because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>sent an email about you. His name is Matthew, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's sitting us an email saying you guys were supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a date and then you stopped

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<v Speaker 1>responding to him, and he wants to know why he's

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<v Speaker 1>sent an email about that. Why would he do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he liked you and he would like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again, but you just stopped talking to him. So

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<v Speaker 1>he thought maybe we could help him out and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out the answer. Look, I am not comfortable discussing us.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's something way too personal, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell us. But if it's not, I mean, he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know he liked you a lot. You got to

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<v Speaker 1>put yourself in his shoes. You know how frustrating it

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<v Speaker 1>can be if you feel like you connected with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and then they drop off. I mean, yeah, I get that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's a good guy. I totally got that sense

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<v Speaker 1>from him. Okay, so if he's a good guy, then

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<v Speaker 1>why aren't you calling him back? Look, he was really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just not marriage material. Why is he not marriage material?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys get into that conversation on your first date? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't like talk about it, but like you could

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<v Speaker 1>just tell from the date you see immature or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, like here's where I am. I am

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<v Speaker 1>not getting any younger and I absolutely want to get

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<v Speaker 1>married someday and he's just not going to be that guy.

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<v Speaker 1>That is really quick judgment to make after meeting someone

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<v Speaker 1>just one time. Actually we hung out twice. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so dude, times is enough for you to know that

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<v Speaker 1>now you know everything about him. How can you possibly

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<v Speaker 1>know that he's not marriage material after two hangouts? Because

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<v Speaker 1>after the second time we hung out, he took me

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<v Speaker 1>back to his car and his car was full of stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>like piles and piles. Are you saying that it was

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<v Speaker 1>just messy, like there was like garbage and stuff in it? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't know, So I asked him, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the deal with all your stuff. Are you moving

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<v Speaker 1>or something? And he said no, And he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he lives out of his van. He lives in his van. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he does it by choice. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, it's not that he's hopeless, it's that he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be homeless. Yeah, he chooses this. Really. What

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<v Speaker 1>did he say to you to make you think that?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Look, it's this really great situation. I choose this.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel it's better. I'm saving money. And I will

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<v Speaker 1>look in there and there is a mattress, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>juggle water hot plate. It's really weird. Normally, when you

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<v Speaker 1>see a van with a mattress in it on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, that's a good sign. So you're saying you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to see him again because he lives in

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<v Speaker 1>his van. No, I don't know. I've been going back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth over this, like for the past few days,

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<v Speaker 1>because like he lives in a van. Yeah, So you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying you don't want to move into a van. If

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<v Speaker 1>you guys ever got more serious, no, well, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. That's the thing. You don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to move into a van, you might be willing

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<v Speaker 1>to move into a van. No, I definitely don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to live in a van, like that's the problem. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, don't you think, Okay, granted, this is a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of an odd situation, but he has like a

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<v Speaker 1>regular job, right, he has a really good job, and

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<v Speaker 1>he makes like a ton of money, is to say

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<v Speaker 1>of it. All Right, so the guy just likes to

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<v Speaker 1>live in a van. We seem really in love with

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<v Speaker 1>his living situation. And if that's the take, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to mess with it. You don't want to make

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<v Speaker 1>the guy give up his house, you know, exactly, his

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<v Speaker 1>green Vand well, Trisia, I do need to let you

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<v Speaker 1>know that Matthew is actually on the other line listening,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe in his van right now, and he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. What. Yeah, Matthew you there? Oh my god, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hey Tricia, Oh my god, I am not in my van.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to clarify, I'm I'm in my office. I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>work right now. Well that's good for now. Yeah. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just really surprised because like when we went out, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you do you seem to think it was really kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cool what I was doing. Yeah, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was cool when I was looking at it, because I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't just want to tell you it was weird right

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<v Speaker 1>off the may Oh, how you're just one eighty on this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused, Matthew, think about it. I mean, how could

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<v Speaker 1>a girl see a van and think I want to

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<v Speaker 1>stay the night with him. I'm not sure where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to go to the bathroom if I have to go.

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<v Speaker 1>But so owning a van and living out of it

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<v Speaker 1>is awesome. I have this freedom that everybody else is

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<v Speaker 1>dreaming about. I say, all this money, it keeps going

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<v Speaker 1>in the bank when everybody else is spending and going

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<v Speaker 1>into debt on these houses that we can't afford, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're never in because they're always at work all day

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<v Speaker 1>for them. I mean, what's the point of it. The

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<v Speaker 1>point is to actually have a place where you could

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<v Speaker 1>hang out, not something that you can like drive from

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<v Speaker 1>point A to point B like your home, traveling everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>But that means I can hang out everywhere, Trish out

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<v Speaker 1>like the world is my home, and Trish, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>living in the Stone Age with this, Like I've got WiFi,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I can run things off this generator, like

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<v Speaker 1>I have electricity. I have the basic things that I

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<v Speaker 1>need and stay connected with the world. I can work

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<v Speaker 1>remotely if I want to, Like, he's got it all

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<v Speaker 1>figured out, Trisha, it just sounds weird to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>never pictured my boyfriend living in a van. But it

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<v Speaker 1>may be fun, Trisha. I mean it's definitely an adventure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's the word for it. It is an adventure.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have been trying to tell you. I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you have a great personality, You're a really

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<v Speaker 1>cool guy, but the whole living in advancing is just

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<v Speaker 1>a giant turn off for me. Just give it a weekend, Trisha, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you're going on a luxurious camping trip. Give it

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<v Speaker 1>two nights and I will convince you. I promise two nights.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a big ask, sir. So you want me

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<v Speaker 1>to spend two nights in your van when we've only

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<v Speaker 1>been on one official date together. You're the one who

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<v Speaker 1>was thrown around the marriage word of you know, needing

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<v Speaker 1>to find marriage material. So like, two nights is not

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<v Speaker 1>going to kill you. I mean, I say, two nights

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<v Speaker 1>is a drop in the plank. In that case, Tricia,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Matthew on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? We will pay for it. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess the date would be two nights in his van,

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<v Speaker 1>but whatever, would you like to go out with him again?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm still kind of on the fence about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to say no to two nights in

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<v Speaker 1>the van, but I'm up to hanging out with him again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you'll go out on a date with him, but

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<v Speaker 1>you won't sleep in the van. Yes, I will go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date. I will not spend the two

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<v Speaker 1>nights in a van. Well, congratulations, Matthew. That's a successful

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<v Speaker 1>second date. I can work with that, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go out on your date. Matthew, you try

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<v Speaker 1>to convince her that living in a van is better

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<v Speaker 1>than living in a house, and I wish you both luck. Tricia,

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<v Speaker 1>freedom is in our future. Texting at seven eight five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two that girl is totally crazy. Living in a

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<v Speaker 1>van is awesome. It's Brook and Jubell in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>talking about today's second date update. Matthew wanted to call

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<v Speaker 1>Tricia to find out why she wasn't calling him back

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<v Speaker 1>after their date. Turns out she wasn't calling him back

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<v Speaker 1>because she's judgmental and wants the date a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>lives in a house and not in his van. He

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<v Speaker 1>apparently has a good job, makes money, but he prefers

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<v Speaker 1>living in his van instead of living in a house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he just likes it. We save, he's saving money and

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<v Speaker 1>he's making smart financial decisions. I guess that way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he can pick up and move to wherever he wants. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which is different. Normally you say, hey, this guy lives

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<v Speaker 1>in a van. You're like, oh, he's struggling in live

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<v Speaker 1>he's you know whatever. It's like, No, this guy, she's

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<v Speaker 1>making a really good decision. As someone who has dated

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<v Speaker 1>a person that lives in their car, it's not that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>They just stay at your house a lot more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that was their fierce So I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>him over here all the time. But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't like being in a house at all. He

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<v Speaker 1>just enjoys living in his van. Text in at seven

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<v Speaker 1>eight five nine two. Would you date a person that

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<v Speaker 1>lived in their van? If they had a job and

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<v Speaker 1>made money and that was just how they chose to live,

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<v Speaker 1>would you date them? Text in seven eight five nine two.

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<v Speaker 1>Ladies and gentlemen, this is your captain speaking Welcome aboard

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<v Speaker 1>Flight ninety two point five