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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second d Update. You can learn a lot
Speaker 1: about life through baseball. You know, when life throwsy curveballs,
Speaker 1: you knock them out of the park. Sometimes you step
Speaker 1: up to the play, you swing and you miss, but
Speaker 1: that's okay. Or sometimes you're the pitcher and sometimes you're
Speaker 1: the catcher. Either way, you're gonna have a good time.
Speaker 1: They'll go to some famous sayings from baseball, and I
Speaker 1: bring them up because the guy on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second Date update today, his name is Matthew, and
Speaker 1: he met the girl that he wants to call at
Speaker 1: a co ed softball game. What's up, Matthew? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm doing pretty good? How about you? Guys? Pretty good?
Speaker 1: Were you the pit or the catcher that day? I
Speaker 1: meanly bats and you know, play third base. But your
Speaker 1: email said that you met the girl that you want
Speaker 1: to call. Her name is Tricia. Yeah, yeah, she's real sweet, okay,
Speaker 1: And it says here you met her at a co
Speaker 1: ed softball game. How'd that work? Yeah, she was on
Speaker 1: the opposite team. Wait, yeah, so that's you know, a
Speaker 1: little extra charm as well. Uh let me guess she
Speaker 1: was pitching to you, she struck you out, and then
Speaker 1: you threatened to fight her. How softball friendly softball games go? Yeah,
Speaker 1: physical violence is that how it went down. It was
Speaker 1: more like when we all went to the bar, then
Speaker 1: you threatened to fight her. There was no fighting. No, okay,
Speaker 1: no fighting during the game or afterwards. It's different than
Speaker 1: any co ed sports league that I've been involved in.
Speaker 1: There's always a fight at some point. But so you
Speaker 1: met her at the bar, yes, yes, and had you
Speaker 1: had your eye on her like all game? Oh yes,
Speaker 1: all game for sure. What what about her stuck out
Speaker 1: to you? Oh? I mean her her legs just gone
Speaker 1: for days, you know, one of those girls with legs
Speaker 1: all the way up to her butt. Yeah. So she
Speaker 1: was really good at the game, and on top of
Speaker 1: it all, she seemed like a genuinely cool trick. So
Speaker 1: how did you approach her at the bar? Well, I
Speaker 1: mean I grabbed her a drink and you know, said
Speaker 1: congrats for whooping her ass, and you know, then we
Speaker 1: just started talking about how long we have been playing,
Speaker 1: and then one thing led to another and I ended
Speaker 1: up getting her number and we said it day to
Speaker 1: go hiking. Really was the hike, Oh it was great.
Speaker 1: She met me where we were going to start out.
Speaker 1: What'd you say? I mean, I heard you. I was
Speaker 1: just like, what very nice she met there? She met
Speaker 1: you where you're gonna start. That's better than you at
Speaker 1: the end of the trail, I guess. And she was
Speaker 1: just as awesome as the first time you met her. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: Like she did great on the hike, and we were
Speaker 1: able to talk. We weren't winded or anything. And uh,
Speaker 1: I mean at the end, like when we say goodbye,
Speaker 1: like I didn't know, if you know, a kiss was
Speaker 1: feeling out and I mean she was real sweaty. I
Speaker 1: was real sweaty. I didn't know, Like we kind of
Speaker 1: just had a quick hug, but like it was still
Speaker 1: like you felt that connection there, and we made plans
Speaker 1: for about a week later to go out again. Oh
Speaker 1: so you guys had a second date. No, see, like
Speaker 1: a day before she texted to cancel. She needed to
Speaker 1: cancel for some reasons. But so I don't know. And
Speaker 1: now it's like now I haven't really heard from her,
Speaker 1: so kind of feel blown off. Have you tried to
Speaker 1: reschedule that date that you had planned? I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: I said one or two texts just saying, hey, sorry,
Speaker 1: you know, scheduling didn't work. Is next weekend good? You know?
Speaker 1: And I I didn't really get an answer from any
Speaker 1: of that, can I ask? I mean, just looking back
Speaker 1: at the time you guys spend together between like the
Speaker 1: softball game and the hiking, do you think that she
Speaker 1: also thought of this as a romantic date? Well, I
Speaker 1: mean I would hope it would be kind of obvious
Speaker 1: because I asked for her number, I said I would
Speaker 1: love to get together. Like to me that that sends
Speaker 1: a pretty clear signal of like, hey, I'm interested in you, right,
Speaker 1: you know, even if like things go slow or whatever.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Right, So, how long has
Speaker 1: it been since you've heard from her? It's been over
Speaker 1: a week since I talked with her, and she hasn't
Speaker 1: responded to the two texts I sent. Oh, just a
Speaker 1: sweaty hug at the end of the hike, that's all
Speaker 1: you got? Yeah, yeah, right, Well play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date. Update. Okay, thanks man,
Speaker 1: all right, looking jubil in the morning. Second, I gotta
Speaker 1: say I'm skeptical of you, Matthew Am. I suspect, yes
Speaker 1: you are. For what. Well, we do a lot of
Speaker 1: these second date updates, all right, and everything always sounds
Speaker 1: normal until we get the person on the phone and
Speaker 1: then something weird comes out. Okay, Now, you said that
Speaker 1: you met this girl at a co ed softball game,
Speaker 1: you went to the bar after, asked for a number,
Speaker 1: and you guys went on a hike and had a
Speaker 1: great time and nothing weird happened. That is all true. Okay. Well,
Speaker 1: if I call her and I find out that you've
Speaker 1: been going to all of her games since then, dressed
Speaker 1: up like no, no no, no, no, no, no, buddy, I
Speaker 1: will be I will Okay. That thought did cross my mind,
Speaker 1: but I denied it because I didn't want to be
Speaker 1: a creeper. All right, good, I picture in the stands
Speaker 1: like an NFL quarterbacks mom with her name on your shirt,
Speaker 1: sitting there like, go trishot, that's my girl. So, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you promise me you haven't done that. I
Speaker 1: have not done that. All right, he's still doesn't trust you.
Speaker 1: I'm a little weary of you. I'm gonna dial the
Speaker 1: phone of her right now though, and get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why she's not calling you back. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Hello, Hi is Tricia there? Yes, this is she.
Speaker 1: Hey Tricia, how are you? My name is Jubil and
Speaker 1: I host a radio show called Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the morning. Okay, I'm calling because one of our listeners
Speaker 1: sent an email about you. His name is Matthew, and
Speaker 1: he's sitting us an email saying you guys were supposed
Speaker 1: to go out on a date and then you stopped
Speaker 1: responding to him, and he wants to know why he's
Speaker 1: sent an email about that. Why would he do that?
Speaker 1: Because he liked you and he would like to go
Speaker 1: out again, but you just stopped talking to him. So
Speaker 1: he thought maybe we could help him out and figure
Speaker 1: out the answer. Look, I am not comfortable discussing us.
Speaker 1: If it's something way too personal, you don't have to
Speaker 1: tell us. But if it's not, I mean, he wants
Speaker 1: to know he liked you a lot. You got to
Speaker 1: put yourself in his shoes. You know how frustrating it
Speaker 1: can be if you feel like you connected with somebody
Speaker 1: and then they drop off. I mean, yeah, I get that,
Speaker 1: and he's a good guy. I totally got that sense
Speaker 1: from him. Okay, so if he's a good guy, then
Speaker 1: why aren't you calling him back? Look, he was really cool.
Speaker 1: He's just not marriage material. Why is he not marriage material?
Speaker 1: Did you guys get into that conversation on your first date? No, no,
Speaker 1: we didn't like talk about it, but like you could
Speaker 1: just tell from the date you see immature or something.
Speaker 1: I mean, well, like here's where I am. I am
Speaker 1: not getting any younger and I absolutely want to get
Speaker 1: married someday and he's just not going to be that guy.
Speaker 1: That is really quick judgment to make after meeting someone
Speaker 1: just one time. Actually we hung out twice. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: so dude, times is enough for you to know that
Speaker 1: now you know everything about him. How can you possibly
Speaker 1: know that he's not marriage material after two hangouts? Because
Speaker 1: after the second time we hung out, he took me
Speaker 1: back to his car and his car was full of stuff,
Speaker 1: like piles and piles. Are you saying that it was
Speaker 1: just messy, like there was like garbage and stuff in it? Well,
Speaker 1: like I didn't know, So I asked him, I was like,
Speaker 1: what's the deal with all your stuff. Are you moving
Speaker 1: or something? And he said no, And he said that
Speaker 1: he lives out of his van. He lives in his van. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he does it by choice. What do you mean,
Speaker 1: I like, it's not that he's hopeless, it's that he
Speaker 1: wants to be homeless. Yeah, he chooses this. Really. What
Speaker 1: did he say to you to make you think that?
Speaker 1: He said, Look, it's this really great situation. I choose this.
Speaker 1: I feel it's better. I'm saving money. And I will
Speaker 1: look in there and there is a mattress, there's a
Speaker 1: juggle water hot plate. It's really weird. Normally, when you
Speaker 1: see a van with a mattress in it on a
Speaker 1: first date, that's a good sign. So you're saying you
Speaker 1: didn't want to see him again because he lives in
Speaker 1: his van. No, I don't know. I've been going back
Speaker 1: and forth over this, like for the past few days,
Speaker 1: because like he lives in a van. Yeah, So you're
Speaker 1: saying you don't want to move into a van. If
Speaker 1: you guys ever got more serious, no, well, no, I
Speaker 1: don't know. That's the thing. You don't know if you
Speaker 1: want to move into a van, you might be willing
Speaker 1: to move into a van. No, I definitely don't want
Speaker 1: to live in a van, like that's the problem. But
Speaker 1: I mean, don't you think, Okay, granted, this is a
Speaker 1: kind of an odd situation, but he has like a
Speaker 1: regular job, right, he has a really good job, and
Speaker 1: he makes like a ton of money, is to say
Speaker 1: of it. All Right, so the guy just likes to
Speaker 1: live in a van. We seem really in love with
Speaker 1: his living situation. And if that's the take, I don't
Speaker 1: want to mess with it. You don't want to make
Speaker 1: the guy give up his house, you know, exactly, his
Speaker 1: green Vand well, Trisia, I do need to let you
Speaker 1: know that Matthew is actually on the other line listening,
Speaker 1: maybe in his van right now, and he wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. What. Yeah, Matthew you there? Oh my god, Yeah,
Speaker 1: hey Tricia, Oh my god, I am not in my van.
Speaker 1: Just to clarify, I'm I'm in my office. I'm at
Speaker 1: work right now. Well that's good for now. Yeah. I'm
Speaker 1: just really surprised because like when we went out, I mean,
Speaker 1: you do you seem to think it was really kind
Speaker 1: of cool what I was doing. Yeah, I thought it
Speaker 1: was cool when I was looking at it, because I
Speaker 1: didn't just want to tell you it was weird right
Speaker 1: off the may Oh, how you're just one eighty on this.
Speaker 1: I'm confused, Matthew, think about it. I mean, how could
Speaker 1: a girl see a van and think I want to
Speaker 1: stay the night with him. I'm not sure where I'm
Speaker 1: going to go to the bathroom if I have to go.
Speaker 1: But so owning a van and living out of it
Speaker 1: is awesome. I have this freedom that everybody else is
Speaker 1: dreaming about. I say, all this money, it keeps going
Speaker 1: in the bank when everybody else is spending and going
Speaker 1: into debt on these houses that we can't afford, and
Speaker 1: they're never in because they're always at work all day
Speaker 1: for them. I mean, what's the point of it. The
Speaker 1: point is to actually have a place where you could
Speaker 1: hang out, not something that you can like drive from
Speaker 1: point A to point B like your home, traveling everywhere.
Speaker 1: But that means I can hang out everywhere, Trish out
Speaker 1: like the world is my home, and Trish, I'm not
Speaker 1: living in the Stone Age with this, Like I've got WiFi,
Speaker 1: you know, I can run things off this generator, like
Speaker 1: I have electricity. I have the basic things that I
Speaker 1: need and stay connected with the world. I can work
Speaker 1: remotely if I want to, Like, he's got it all
Speaker 1: figured out, Trisha, it just sounds weird to me. I
Speaker 1: never pictured my boyfriend living in a van. But it
Speaker 1: may be fun, Trisha. I mean it's definitely an adventure. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's the word for it. It is an adventure.
Speaker 1: That would have been trying to tell you. I don't know, man,
Speaker 1: I mean, you have a great personality, You're a really
Speaker 1: cool guy, but the whole living in advancing is just
Speaker 1: a giant turn off for me. Just give it a weekend, Trisha, Like,
Speaker 1: can you're going on a luxurious camping trip. Give it
Speaker 1: two nights and I will convince you. I promise two nights.
Speaker 1: That is a big ask, sir. So you want me
Speaker 1: to spend two nights in your van when we've only
Speaker 1: been on one official date together. You're the one who
Speaker 1: was thrown around the marriage word of you know, needing
Speaker 1: to find marriage material. So like, two nights is not
Speaker 1: going to kill you. I mean, I say, two nights
Speaker 1: is a drop in the plank. In that case, Tricia,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Matthew on a
Speaker 1: second date? We will pay for it. I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess the date would be two nights in his van,
Speaker 1: but whatever, would you like to go out with him again?
Speaker 1: You know, I'm still kind of on the fence about it.
Speaker 1: I am going to say no to two nights in
Speaker 1: the van, but I'm up to hanging out with him again. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you'll go out on a date with him, but
Speaker 1: you won't sleep in the van. Yes, I will go
Speaker 1: out on a date. I will not spend the two
Speaker 1: nights in a van. Well, congratulations, Matthew. That's a successful
Speaker 1: second date. I can work with that, all right, So
Speaker 1: you guys go out on your date. Matthew, you try
Speaker 1: to convince her that living in a van is better
Speaker 1: than living in a house, and I wish you both luck. Tricia,
Speaker 1: freedom is in our future. Texting at seven eight five
Speaker 1: nine two that girl is totally crazy. Living in a
Speaker 1: van is awesome. It's Brook and Jubell in the morning
Speaker 1: talking about today's second date update. Matthew wanted to call
Speaker 1: Tricia to find out why she wasn't calling him back
Speaker 1: after their date. Turns out she wasn't calling him back
Speaker 1: because she's judgmental and wants the date a guy who
Speaker 1: lives in a house and not in his van. He
Speaker 1: apparently has a good job, makes money, but he prefers
Speaker 1: living in his van instead of living in a house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he just likes it. We save, he's saving money and
Speaker 1: he's making smart financial decisions. I guess that way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he can pick up and move to wherever he wants. Yeah,
Speaker 1: which is different. Normally you say, hey, this guy lives
Speaker 1: in a van. You're like, oh, he's struggling in live
Speaker 1: he's you know whatever. It's like, No, this guy, she's
Speaker 1: making a really good decision. As someone who has dated
Speaker 1: a person that lives in their car, it's not that bad.
Speaker 1: They just stay at your house a lot more. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe that was their fierce So I don't want to
Speaker 1: him over here all the time. But it sounds like
Speaker 1: he doesn't like being in a house at all. He
Speaker 1: just enjoys living in his van. Text in at seven
Speaker 1: eight five nine two. Would you date a person that
Speaker 1: lived in their van? If they had a job and
Speaker 1: made money and that was just how they chose to live,
Speaker 1: would you date them? Text in seven eight five nine two.
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