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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second d Update. You can learn a lot

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Speaker 1: about life through baseball. You know, when life throwsy curveballs,

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Speaker 1: you knock them out of the park. Sometimes you step

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Speaker 1: up to the play, you swing and you miss, but

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Speaker 1: that's okay. Or sometimes you're the pitcher and sometimes you're

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Speaker 1: the catcher. Either way, you're gonna have a good time.

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Speaker 1: They'll go to some famous sayings from baseball, and I

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Speaker 1: bring them up because the guy on the phone for

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Speaker 1: a second Date update today, his name is Matthew, and

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Speaker 1: he met the girl that he wants to call at

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Speaker 1: a co ed softball game. What's up, Matthew? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing pretty good? How about you? Guys? Pretty good?

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Speaker 1: Were you the pit or the catcher that day? I

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Speaker 1: meanly bats and you know, play third base. But your

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Speaker 1: email said that you met the girl that you want

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Speaker 1: to call. Her name is Tricia. Yeah, yeah, she's real sweet, okay,

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Speaker 1: And it says here you met her at a co

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Speaker 1: ed softball game. How'd that work? Yeah, she was on

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Speaker 1: the opposite team. Wait, yeah, so that's you know, a

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Speaker 1: you threatened to fight her. How softball friendly softball games go? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: physical violence is that how it went down. It was

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Speaker 1: more like when we all went to the bar, then

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Speaker 1: you threatened to fight her. There was no fighting. No, okay,

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Speaker 1: no fighting during the game or afterwards. It's different than

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Speaker 1: any co ed sports league that I've been involved in.

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Speaker 1: There's always a fight at some point. But so you

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Speaker 1: met her at the bar, yes, yes, and had you

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Speaker 1: had your eye on her like all game? Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: all game for sure. What what about her stuck out

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Speaker 1: to you? Oh? I mean her her legs just gone

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Speaker 1: how did you approach her at the bar? Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean I grabbed her a drink and you know, said

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Speaker 1: just started talking about how long we have been playing,

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Speaker 1: go hiking. Really was the hike, Oh it was great.

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Speaker 1: She met me where we were going to start out.

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Speaker 1: What'd you say? I mean, I heard you. I was

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Speaker 1: just like, what very nice she met there? She met

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Speaker 1: you where you're gonna start. That's better than you at

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Speaker 1: the end of the trail, I guess. And she was

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Speaker 1: just as awesome as the first time you met her. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: Like she did great on the hike, and we were

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Speaker 1: so you guys had a second date. No, see, like

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Speaker 1: a day before she texted to cancel. She needed to

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Speaker 1: all right, looking jubil in the morning. Second, I gotta

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Speaker 1: these second date updates, all right, and everything always sounds

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Speaker 1: sitting there like, go trishot, that's my girl. So, oh

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Speaker 1: Hey Tricia, how are you? My name is Jubil and

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Speaker 1: the morning. Okay, I'm calling because one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: sent an email about that. Why would he do that?

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Speaker 1: Because he liked you and he would like to go

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Speaker 1: he thought maybe we could help him out and figure

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Speaker 1: out the answer. Look, I am not comfortable discussing us.

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Speaker 1: If it's something way too personal, you don't have to

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Speaker 1: He's just not marriage material. Why is he not marriage material?

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Speaker 1: Did you guys get into that conversation on your first date? No, no,

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Speaker 1: That is really quick judgment to make after meeting someone

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Speaker 1: just one time. Actually we hung out twice. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: so dude, times is enough for you to know that

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Speaker 1: now you know everything about him. How can you possibly

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Speaker 1: after the second time we hung out, he took me

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Speaker 1: hey Tricia, Oh my god, I am not in my van.

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Speaker 1: But that means I can hang out everywhere, Trish out

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Speaker 1: figured out, Trisha, it just sounds weird to me. I

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Speaker 1: may be fun, Trisha. I mean it's definitely an adventure. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's the word for it. It is an adventure.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you have a great personality, You're a really

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Speaker 1: second date. I can work with that, all right, So

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Speaker 1: freedom is in our future. Texting at seven eight five

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, this is your captain speaking Welcome aboard

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Speaker 1: Flight ninety two point five