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Speaker 1: Subject My husband loves to go tit for tat with me.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in my mid thirties and I've

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Speaker 1: been married for a year. My husband was great at first,

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Speaker 1: but I'm seeing a side of him that's been bugging me.

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Speaker 1: When we first met, I was in a relationship and

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend had cheated on me. So I slept with

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Speaker 1: the guy that I'm now married to to get back

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Speaker 1: at my boyfriend. My now husband knew what I was

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Speaker 1: doing and he was with it as long as he

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Speaker 1: could sleep with me. We became close after that, and

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Speaker 1: he eventually got a divorce and I broke up with

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend, so we could be together. After a few

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Speaker 1: months of living with him, he spent the night with

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Speaker 1: his ex wife. He said that he thought I would

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Speaker 1: understand since I'm a cheater, that struck a chord with me.

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Speaker 1: But what could I say? I did cheat on my

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Speaker 1: ex with him. So fast forward to a few years

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Speaker 1: down the line and we had a major argument and

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Speaker 1: I left his house for two months. During the breakup,

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Speaker 1: I was messing with a barber that cuts my son's hair.

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Speaker 1: I never expected anyone to find out, but the stylist

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Speaker 1: started gossiping and the rumor spread. I ended up getting

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Speaker 1: back with my man and we got married a year ago.

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Speaker 1: Just days after the wedding, he let me know that

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Speaker 1: he knew all about me and the barber sneaking around.

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Speaker 1: I admitted that I did it because I never want

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Speaker 1: to lie to my husband. I felt so good about

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Speaker 1: being honest, but my husband always has to go tit

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Speaker 1: for tat with me, and I was afraid he would

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Speaker 1: seek revenge. Last week, he stayed out all night and

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Speaker 1: he told me that he was with his ex wife.

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Speaker 1: This marriage won't last if he's always playing tit for

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Speaker 1: tat with me. How can we remain faithful and stop

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Speaker 1: playing these games faithful. Well, I don't know how you can.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can. You've proven that time and

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Speaker 1: time again, both of you had. Haven't you heard the saying,

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Speaker 1: if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you. That's

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Speaker 1: a real saying, and it applies here. This marriage was

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Speaker 1: doomed before it even started because you guys cheated. You

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Speaker 1: cheated on him, You cheated with him on your boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: and he cheated with you on his wife. Then he

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Speaker 1: left his wife to marry you. I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: a mess on every level. And can I just say

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Speaker 1: that cheating is not really what they meant when they

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Speaker 1: were talking about tit for tat. I mean, okay, tit

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Speaker 1: for tat does mean, you know, giving back an equal

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Speaker 1: retaliation for something done to you. We can say that,

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Speaker 1: but not in cheating. Though not in cheating. That's just

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Speaker 1: too much, it's too far. Just leave if you got

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Speaker 1: to do all of this, I don't understand why you're

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Speaker 1: staying when you know he cheats and he knows you cheat.

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Speaker 2: What kind of marriage is this?

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Speaker 1: And you guys can't get past it because the trust

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Speaker 1: is broken?

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do about this? This is crazy?

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Speaker 4: Steve First of all, there's no point in writing us

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Speaker 4: this letter nothing. There is not one single redeeming quality.

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Speaker 4: And then the one redeeming quality you try to show backfire.

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Speaker 4: So here we go. My husband loves to go tit

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Speaker 4: for tat with me. Well, that means you do something,

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Speaker 4: I do something, You do something I do You do

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Speaker 4: it back, and you do it.

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Speaker 3: I do it, I do it, you do it. That's okay,

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Speaker 3: got it? Okay, we're going. I mean you and your

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Speaker 3: mid thirties. You've been married for a year.

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Speaker 4: Your husband was great at first, but I'm seeing a

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Speaker 4: side of him that's been bugging me. When y'all first met,

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Speaker 4: you were in a relationship with your boyfriend who cheated

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Speaker 4: on you. So you slept with the guy that you

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Speaker 4: married to. Now to get back at my boyfriend. All right,

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Speaker 4: here we go. Now you did something lady to your

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Speaker 4: boyfriend that was tit for tap. You cheating on me.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna cheat for you. You introduced this, but it

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Speaker 4: wasn't just you because watch this, my now husband knew

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Speaker 3: It, and he was with it as long as he

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Speaker 3: could sleep with me. Ain't that always the case?

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Speaker 4: We became close after that, he eventually got a divorce

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Speaker 4: and I broke up and Nober, you can't just throw

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Speaker 4: that in now. We sought that, you said, we became

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Speaker 4: close after he eventually got a divorce and I broke

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Speaker 4: up my boyfriend so we could be together. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 4: so now he was cheating on his wife with you,

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Speaker 4: so he was she know his wife?

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Speaker 3: You cheated on your boyfriend with him?

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Speaker 4: He was cool with it. After a few months of

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Speaker 4: living with him, Where has come from? Y'all just moved it?

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Speaker 4: See you throwing stuff in here? Like ain't nobody reading

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Speaker 4: this damn letter? After a few months of living with him?

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Speaker 3: What you living with him?

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Speaker 1: Fall?

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Speaker 4: He spent the night with his ex wife?

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Speaker 3: What this letter?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 3: You could never take a breath in this letter?

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Speaker 4: One thing I would get a later, lady, she must

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Speaker 4: you remember that book used to come out called Reader's Digest.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: What Readers Digest.

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Speaker 4: Did was it took long stories and condensed them where

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Speaker 4: you could help and read it.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is to digest trouble day? Did she just help?

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Speaker 3: And after few moss and he spent the night with

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Speaker 4: He said, he thought I would understand since I'm a

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Speaker 4: cheating that struck a chord with me. But what could

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Speaker 4: I say? Okay, I don't know what you could have said,

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Speaker 4: But what you could have said? What like we said, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I did cheat on my ex with him. So when

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Speaker 4: we come back, we'll read the rest of this crazy

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Speaker 4: ass letter.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject my husband loves to

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Speaker 1: go tit for tat with me. We'll get into it,

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Speaker 1: let's recap Today's Strawberry letter, the subject my husband loves

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Speaker 1: to go tit for tat with me.

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Speaker 3: This letter is so crazy, y'all.

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Speaker 4: This is a letter about two people who don't need

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Speaker 4: to be married. This woman uh is married now and

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Speaker 4: the way they met was she was in a relationship

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Speaker 4: with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend cheated on her, so to

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Speaker 4: get back at him, she started cheating with another guy.

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Speaker 4: The guy she started cheating with is her husband. Now

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Speaker 4: he knew her husband knew that she had this ex

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Speaker 4: boyfriend and was cheating on him, but he was cool

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Speaker 4: with it. So then, y'all, after you left your boyfriend

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Speaker 4: and he got a divorce, he threw that in their owners.

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Speaker 4: Then you discovered that your boyfriend was cheating on his wife.

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Speaker 3: Your boyfriend is now your husband, who.

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Speaker 4: Was cheating on his wife. So both y'all was cheating

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Speaker 4: at the same time. So y'all got a divorce, broke

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Speaker 4: up with your boyfriend so we could be together. Then

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Speaker 4: as soon as y'all got together, y'all obviously moved in

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Speaker 4: a few moments have to live it with him.

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Speaker 3: He spent the night with his ex wife.

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Speaker 4: He said he thought I would understand since I'm a cheater,

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Speaker 4: and I guess he was saying, you already know I'm

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Speaker 4: a cheater because I was cheating on my wife when

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Speaker 4: I was with you, and it was cool with you

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Speaker 4: cause you cheating on your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: So when I saw cheating on, cheating on with her gear,

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Speaker 3: what is the damn right?

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Speaker 2: You nailed it, Steve.

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Speaker 4: That struck a card with me. But what could I say?

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Speaker 4: I did cheat on my ex with him. So fast

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Speaker 4: forward a few years down the line, we had a

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Speaker 4: major argument and I left his house.

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Speaker 3: For two months.

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Speaker 4: Okay, during the breakup, I was messing with a barber

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Speaker 4: that cuts my son's hair. You don't waste no damn ton,

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Speaker 4: You get right on back in the relationship. Because soon

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Speaker 4: as you and your boyfriend broke up and he got divorced,

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Speaker 4: y'all moved in together. As soon as y'all had argument

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Speaker 4: and you left his house, I would go down here

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Speaker 3: With my son's barber.

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Speaker 4: I never expected anybody to find out, but the styling

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Speaker 4: started gossipling in the rumor spread. Then I ended up

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Speaker 4: getting back with my man and we got married a

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Speaker 4: year ago on the basis of what the what?

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Speaker 3: What was this marriage for cheating? I don't understand it,

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Speaker 3: and say, days days after the wind.

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Speaker 4: He let me know he knew all about me and

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Speaker 4: the barber sneaking around. I admitted it because I never

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Speaker 4: want to lie to my husband.

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Speaker 3: Pumped the breaks right here where even morals come from

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Speaker 4: Now, all of a sudden, you want to be moral.

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Speaker 3: I never want to lie to my husband.

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, since when and lion become worse than cheat?

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Speaker 3: Don't understand?

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Speaker 4: Let's talk about the importance, the significance and the value

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Speaker 4: of lying.

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Speaker 2: Don't they go together?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 2: What cheating and lying?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Absolutely one has nothing to do with the other.

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Speaker 2: I think if you cheat, your lying?

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Speaker 3: No, sure it, that's not the case.

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Speaker 4: Lying is a separate skill set that requires lion holds

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Speaker 4: relationships together.

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Speaker 3: Lying leads to everlasting peace.

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Speaker 4: Lion is needed in order to maintain a level of serenity.

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Speaker 4: Don't you Dawn put cheating in jar me? How dare you?

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Speaker 4: But it felt so good about being honest? You finally

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Speaker 4: you're talking about honesty?

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Speaker 3: Felt good? Okay?

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Speaker 4: But my husband always has to go tip for tap

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Speaker 4: with me, and I was afraid he would seek revenge.

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Speaker 4: That's what you did in the beginning, last week he

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Speaker 4: stayed out all night and he told me he was

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Speaker 4: with his ex wife. This marriage won't last if he's

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Speaker 4: always playing tip for tappa me?

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Speaker 3: What marriage?

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Speaker 4: What marriage are y'all talking about? I don't understand when

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Speaker 4: the altar? Come remember that? So now I'm just trying

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Speaker 4: to ask you. I'm asking you now, which one of

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Speaker 4: them words did you say?

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Speaker 3: Maybe y'all wrote.

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Speaker 2: Your own vial that could have happened.

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Speaker 3: There could have.

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Speaker 4: Been it and them ain't worth for domn How can

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Speaker 4: we remain faithful and stop playing these games?

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Speaker 3: Y'all can't.

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Speaker 4: Ain't neither one of y'all has a track record of

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Speaker 4: being faithful.

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Speaker 3: Faithful is not what you do. Y'all don't need.

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Speaker 4: To be married because as soon as something go wrong,

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Speaker 4: y'all go get somebody else.

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Speaker 3: It ain't even got to be nothing wrong.

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Speaker 4: But he done already told you since you cheat, I

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Speaker 4: know you understand.

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Speaker 3: I'm over here with my ex wife.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like an open marriage, is it?

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Speaker 3: This one right here? Open and she's do.

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Speaker 2: Whatever they want to do and come back to each other.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what this is, yes, but everybody. But

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Speaker 4: why is everybody surprised when they wouldn't when it wouldn't

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Speaker 4: work when they get to open news though?

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Speaker 3: What is this all a gasp for? Man? Please buye?

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Speaker 3: Why y'all married? Why y'all write us?

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