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Come celebrate 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Mother's Day at Whole Foods Market. 10 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are a hot. 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 3: Hopped in the whip, popped in the disc press play 13 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 3: to the Grand Central from van Wick Expressway. I said, 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 3: bet you'll never guess in a million years what I 15 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: just saw happened, and it probably still is. Snuck in 16 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 3: my crib, some nigga fucking my whizz saw them d 17 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 3: ain't see me. I ducked in a slid. I'm a 18 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 3: grab shorty. I need you to grab the nigga for me. 19 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 3: Just when I thought I found love, she shitted on me. 20 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: Shopped in Vegas a present for our engagement. Twenty g's 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 3: on a ring with a hitter today with my surprise 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 3: couldn't match the one she had for me. 23 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: We pulled up. 24 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: She he was walking out the house back of really 25 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 3: parked in the back of my house. They couldn't see us. 26 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 3: Ran to the side of my house, cocked the heater, 27 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 3: walked to the front. When I talked, he had jumped bitch. 28 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 3: Tried to slem the door shut, got caught on horse foot, 29 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: shot the Spanish kid in the rib, drug him, grabbed 30 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: his face, grab the face, say goodbye to your undercover friend. 31 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: One between the eye. She died. My mistake must have 32 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: held a gun to help close. 33 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 3: Pointed to her face her somebody knocked horse helped me 34 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 3: hide the bodies her sirens. I guess we're going out 35 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 3: like Kama Kazi. We surrounded, red lights flashing who's inside? 36 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: Coming out? 37 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 3: The bullhorn on contemplating suicide. Hey, welcome to the Blackout 38 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 3: Tests podcast your house, Rod and kar and we're in 39 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: the house on a Monday, the day after Easter, yep, Monday, 40 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 3: and ready to give you some hot Find your podcast 41 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 3: and of course you can find the show on iTunes. 42 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 3: Stitching your search the Blackout tests. Leave us five star 43 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 3: reviews if you like the show, and we'll read. 44 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 2: Them on the air. 45 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 3: The official weapon of the show is an unofficial sport 46 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: and bullet ball Extreme. 47 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 4: It don't feel like Monday. I don't know why. 48 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: Well, you had the day off, right, yeah, you know, 49 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: so that probably messed everything up. 50 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 4: Right, some be a day off all week? 51 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, but uh yeah we are. We're here on a Monday, 52 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: ready to do this now. I don't know. I feel like, uh, 53 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 3: this might be a show for some people that it's 54 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 3: gonna be hard to listen to. 55 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 2: Some people might want to skip this one. I don't know, 56 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: some people might, uh you know. 57 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna try to be funny by the end of this, 58 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 3: but kind of starting off on a dour. 59 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 2: Note because. 60 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 3: There's just so much shit going on, and you know, 61 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 3: it's one of those things where it's like you cannot 62 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 3: talk about it, but it doesn't really help anybody and 63 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: not talk about it. So I want to talk about it. 64 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 3: And this is gonna talk about you know, domestic violence, 65 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 3: violence towards women, things of that nature. But I feel 66 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 3: like it's important to talk about because this is what 67 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 3: everybody's kind of talking about at least on the timeline 68 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: and stuff everywhere. People are arguing about it. People are 69 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 3: going in on each other about it. You know, this 70 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 3: is it's a it's a it's a lot, you know. 71 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 3: So I'll say this because I do. I have a 72 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 3: lot to say on it. And I don't want to 73 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 3: monopolize the show or anything, but I do have a 74 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 3: lot to say. Just jump in wherever you feel comfortable. 75 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 2: Care but. 76 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 3: Every day that we do this show, I have to 77 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 3: go out and right like that's my job throughout the day. 78 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: You guys, if you follow me on social media, you 79 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 3: see I tweet some that I find, Oh this is 80 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 3: kind of interesting. 81 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: People might like this. Some we cover, some we don't. 82 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: But I'm constantly. 83 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 3: Looking at news and part of what I do is, 84 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 3: you know, for like guests the Race and some of 85 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 3: the sites. I look at some of the stuff I 86 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 3: was crime, Like a lot of it is crime, and 87 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 3: you know, especially for a gainst the Race, we cover 88 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: some stuff that sometimes gets dark, sometimes gets fucked up, 89 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 3: you know, and whether it's funny or just shocking or 90 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 3: just you know, unusual whatever. 91 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: We cover stories. 92 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 3: Sometimes we have to decide which ones we cover and 93 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 3: which ones we don't, and uh, you know, not every 94 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 3: one of them's gonna gonna be gonna pass. A lot 95 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 3: of people PC tests and shit, and that's and that's fine. 96 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,679 Speaker 3: But one of the things I see all the time 97 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 3: in the news that we don't cover that often on 98 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 3: the show. 99 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: There's a ton of violence against women. 100 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 3: Like literally literally every show, we could do the entire 101 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 3: show about what happened that day, and violence against women 102 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 3: we could every single day, probably the day is off 103 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 3: we have to. We could just cover stories of this 104 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 3: motherfucker went crazy, this man did this, and this person 105 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 3: did that. And I think, you know, because one I don't, 106 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 3: you know, if you guys listen to the show, I 107 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 3: don't find that ship to really be funny, where a 108 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 3: lot of people people do. 109 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 2: You know. 110 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 3: I'm not really one to to. 111 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 2: Try to tell people what to laugh at or what's 112 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: funny or not. 113 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 3: But some of the shit is just like I don't 114 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,799 Speaker 3: get off on seeing Ray Right hit his wife. 115 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 2: I don't think, you know, I don't get off on. 116 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 3: The bus driver hitting knee out of control woman that 117 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 3: was on the butts or whatever. 118 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 2: Like it's just not my thing, you know. 119 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 3: And And to be fair, I really don't get off 120 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 3: on a lot of violence in general, but just it's 121 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 3: specifically stuff against women. 122 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: It's not really, that's not my jam. You know. 123 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: I've seen people be able to like kind of jam too, 124 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 3: like that, Oh this is hilarious, and it hasn't been 125 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 3: that way for me. 126 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: But the point being, I see this ship all the time. 127 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 3: Like literally every day I read at least one story 128 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 3: about some man who just decided that he was gonna 129 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 3: be volunteards a woman out of whether it's ownership, whether 130 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 3: it's you know, just issues that they have with women 131 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: in general, and this just happened to be the person, 132 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 3: whether it's you know, these free killer people. A lot 133 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 3: of ninety nine percent of the time, it's a man 134 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 3: killing a bunch of people, and there's always some woman 135 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 3: at home that's dead, whether it's their mother before they leave, 136 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 3: their girlfriend, before they leave. 137 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 2: And it's almost not. 138 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 3: Covered in the stories because it becomes sensationalistic about where 139 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 3: the person killed, like, oh, he went to his job 140 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 3: and killed three people. 141 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: He went to the school in Newtown. 142 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 3: The guy shot at the kid's school, but he killed 143 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 3: his mom before he walked out the door, right. The 144 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: guy who went to New York and shot the police officers, 145 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 3: He tried to kill his girlfriend, his ex girlfriend before 146 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: he left Baltimore to go to New York and kill police. Like, 147 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 3: these are details I remember and I can't get them 148 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 3: out of my head because I do see a pattern, 149 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 3: and I feel like there's a responsibility to acknowledge that pattern, 150 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 3: and with as much vigor as we acknowledge the patterns 151 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 3: of racial animus, of gender bias and homophobiaan transphobia and shit. 152 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 2: I feel like we're obligated to do that. 153 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 3: We can't just be like I'm gonna turn a blind 154 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 3: eye to the fact that this is systemic. You know, 155 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 3: these aren't just hurt feelings, these are these are facts, 156 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 3: these are these are deaths, these are injuries, this is 157 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 3: you know, who knows how much money violence against women 158 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 3: cost us as a society. Who knows how much. 159 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 4: Money and money? 160 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 3: You know, who knows how much money, I mean, how 161 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 3: much time it cost us, how many kids will be 162 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 3: scarred forever? And I feel like when we act like 163 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 3: it's not happening, or when people are allowed to treat 164 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 3: it as an issue where there's total unquote two sides 165 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: to it, it ends up in the ship storm that 166 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 3: I saw yesterday all over social media. 167 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: So I guess I'll start with. 168 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 3: There's this guy who shot randomly shot a man in 169 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 3: the Cleveland area. A old man was just mine of 170 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 3: his business walking down the street. This guy was making 171 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: Facebook Live videos. He had a Facebook Live video of it, 172 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 3: and I think later they found out he wasn't recording 173 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 3: it live, but he was. 174 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: Uh. 175 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 3: He uploaded it to Facebook Live even though he had 176 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 3: previously already done it. I didn't either, And he also 177 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 3: recorded himself a bunch of videos of him talking to 178 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: his friend stuff. He claimed to have killed twelve other 179 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 3: people or something and hid their bodies in a warehouse 180 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,719 Speaker 3: and there. It's not being confirmed yet. You know, I 181 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 3: don't know if people in Cleveland have other people that 182 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 3: have gone missing or whatever. And the way that he 183 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 3: killed that first person is hard to believe that he did. 184 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 3: He killed twelve other people, and nobody knew about it 185 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 3: because it was just so brazen. And you know, I 186 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 3: saw the video. I didn't want to. I tried not 187 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 3: to see it, but it's that thing where literally it 188 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 3: was people were sharing it on Facebook and Twitter and 189 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 3: all that shit, and I saw it, and honestly, I 190 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 3: just I had to log off because I was like, this, 191 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 3: this is crazy, Like this person's lost their fucking mind. 192 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 3: And from the details I could gather just from the video, 193 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 3: he was blaming a woman for his crimes. 194 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:49,719 Speaker 2: Free a woman. Uh, her name is out there. 195 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 3: I don't I don't even really feel comfortable saying her name. 196 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 3: Dog Like people were playing so fast and loose with it. 197 00:09:56,120 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 3: I just like, it's like people don't have any empathy 198 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 3: or any humanity to a certain extent. But you know, 199 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 3: and I understand like they were reacting in the in 200 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 3: the in the in the time that they saw it, 201 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 3: but you know, it just feels like, in a situation 202 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 3: like this, it's just so dangerous to be like, this 203 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 3: is her name, right, you know, he's putting it in 204 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 3: the video, and I guess people are sharing it. But 205 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 3: because Facebook doesn't take that shit down immediately, because they 206 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 3: don't edit anything, and because people really just. 207 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 2: Don't give a fuck. 208 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 3: Her name's out there now, people know where she lives, 209 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 3: like all that kind of stuff. People, you know, people 210 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 3: have seen her death threats and stuff. But he basically said, 211 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 3: if this this is an ex girlfriend or strange girlfriend, whatever, 212 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 3: He's like, if she doesn't contact me, I'm going to 213 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 3: kill more people until she calls me. 214 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: And he wanted his mom to call him too. Those 215 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 2: are his demands. 216 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 4: Now. 217 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if anyone's called him or not, but 218 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 2: just the fact that I saw people being like, bitch, 219 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 2: you need to call him. 220 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 3: And because of this woman, some more people gotta die 221 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 3: because of her, you know, putting it on her and 222 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 3: then people looking up her pictures and stuff, and uh, 223 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 3: you're gonna kill somebody over this and you know, judging 224 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 3: her body and all this stuff. Man, And it was 225 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 3: just so callous and stupid. And you know, of course, 226 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 3: the majority of people I saw talking. 227 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 2: About it with men. 228 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 3: You know, now, I think since it's black people, only 229 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 3: people that care seem to be black people, So I 230 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 3: don't necessarily feel like this is something that's exclusive to black. 231 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: Men, but it is exclusive to man men in general. 232 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 3: You know, there are women who uphold this kind of shit, 233 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 3: but there's a lot less of them, know, who are 234 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 3: polled this to men. 235 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 2: But there were just so many men that were like, 236 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: you know, defending. 237 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 3: This dude, almost like, oh, because of this guy, because 238 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 3: of this woman, he's killing people, and this is what's wrong. 239 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 3: You know, women make men do this and shit like that, 240 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 3: And I already know the inclination is to be like, well, 241 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 3: that's few and far between. 242 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 2: There's not a lot of men like that. Yes there are, you. 243 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 3: Know, like these Twitter accounts and shit, these are real people, 244 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 3: these Facebook accounts, These are just some somebody knows that person. 245 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 3: These are not strangers, These aren't avatars or flags and 246 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 3: eggs and horses. These are people that tweet every single 247 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 3: day about other shit, and they also tweet about this. 248 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 3: You know that these people exist. 249 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 2: You know. 250 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 3: So that's a huge problem for me is how people 251 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 3: try to downplay it. Two, Let's say it was a 252 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 3: handful of people. Let's say it was the vast majority 253 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,880 Speaker 3: of men. When they see that shit, don't say nothing. Now, 254 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 3: we want white people to accept and change their people 255 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 3: on our behalf and and also on you know, don't 256 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 3: ever have I think lessening racism within whiteness makes white 257 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 3: people better, Like like it's a it's a it's a 258 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 3: poison that poisons everybody. Now, it's just not just only 259 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 3: black people are affected. Everybody's affected when you harbor that 260 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: kind of ill inside of you. 261 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 2: I think all men are affected when we. 262 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 3: Harbored in that uh, the negative aspects that go along 263 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 3: with what people stereotypically call man like all those things 264 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 3: are you know, those things work. 265 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 2: They cut both ways. They cut people worse, like the 266 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 2: victims always cut worse than the perpetrators. But you are 267 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: cut too though you're not. It's not healthy, you know. 268 00:13:57,280 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 2: So uh. I did find that a lot of these 269 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 2: dudes were either. 270 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 3: Silent or they waited until women were upset by these 271 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 3: people that went and said these very inflammatory and sensitive, 272 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 3: fucked up things earnestly like these weren't this is another 273 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 3: thing that happens to people. But they were just trolling. No, no, no, 274 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 3: they were being earnest. They really thought they were adding 275 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 3: something to the discussion that needed to be said that 276 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 3: people weren't saying. You know, I don't know the ages 277 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 3: of these people. I don't know their individual lives. I 278 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 3: can't know all that I do know. There were many 279 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 3: many many of them were black men, many of them. 280 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 3: And once these women saw that shit, they were like, yo, 281 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 3: this is fucked up that like, you are trash. 282 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 2: If you agree. 283 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 3: With this man's actions on any level, you're trash. And 284 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: of course that's when all the silent black men that 285 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 3: weren't saying shit, jumped stopped watching the game, turn off 286 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 3: the TV, and jumped on Twitter to callities women out 287 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 3: every name in the book. And the cycle continues, and 288 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 3: it's it's it's it's so predictable as somebody that just 289 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 3: sat back and watched it yesterday, you know it was 290 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 3: it was just so sad, man like I was hoping 291 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 3: that people could just stay out of it, if on 292 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 3: both sides, like if you. 293 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 2: Ain't say shit when them niggas said. 294 00:15:21,120 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 3: Something about, uh, you know, defending this man, if you 295 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 3: didn't say anything, then then don't say anything when women 296 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 3: be like, y'all are fucked up for letting this dude prosper. 297 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 3: You know, it's fun like men are fucked up for 298 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 3: this so so so then the predictable thing happened of. 299 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 2: Not all men. 300 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 3: And that's the reason that not all men is a 301 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 3: thing that trended for how long. A few years ago, 302 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 3: it was when Elliott Roger shot up I can't even 303 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 3: remember what campus it was, but it was in California. 304 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 3: He shot out this town and he did it, and 305 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 3: his manifesto over and over he said he shot these 306 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 3: people because he wasn't getting girls. He wasn't getting to 307 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 3: have sex with women, and he decided that he was 308 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 3: going to kill a bunch of people, and people went 309 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 3: well soon of the people he killed were men. It's like, 310 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 3: but he told you why he did it, you know, 311 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 3: he told you, literally, I'm killing these people because either 312 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 3: they get more chicks than me, Like I am entitled 313 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 3: to women and their sex and their attention, and that's 314 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 3: exactly why I'm doing this. In no uncertain terms, he 315 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 3: was not and what did we get instead, Well, he's 316 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 3: just mentally ill. Oh, he's just a one off that 317 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 3: not all men, not all men, don't think like that. 318 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 3: I don't know why you're let me just jump in 319 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 3: here between this conversation. Not all men, okay, guys, not 320 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 3: all men. And that's actually why not all men stuck 321 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 3: around this long, because enough men jumped in the middle 322 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 3: of those conversations trying to man explain to women that 323 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 3: not all men are violent towards women and not all 324 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 3: men do this. But the thing is it kind of 325 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 3: we're kind. 326 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 2: Of holding up. Oh hold on, I got to refresh'll, sorry, 327 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 2: my my stuff went in and out. Hold on, stopped robotting. 328 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, like I remember when that Elliot Roger. 329 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: Shit happened, you know, like Twitter was around then, and 330 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 3: once again, you know, people were reacting and people were 331 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 3: reacting in real time, you know, like that was the 332 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 3: thing about that that shooting with Elliott Rodgers. People were 333 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 3: reacting in real time. And once again there were men 334 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 3: who identify with Elliott Roger and then people saw that 335 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 3: went in on them, and then the vast majority of 336 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 3: men who hadn't said anything started going in and telling 337 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:55,520 Speaker 3: these women all kinds of names, telling them to shut up, 338 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 3: they didn't know what they were talking about, and stuff 339 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 3: like that. So, uh, it made me think this morning, 340 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:08,399 Speaker 3: what is it still breaking up? Somebody said breaking up? Okay, 341 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: all right, so so somebody. So it made me think 342 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 3: about something because I didn't even talk about it yesterday. 343 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 3: I saw other people talking about it, and you know, 344 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: I agree with a lot of people, and I just 345 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 3: left it at that. You know, I saw people like 346 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 3: say some tweets that people objected to and ship and honestly, 347 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 3: I was just so fucked up watching that man die. 348 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 2: I didn't have it. 349 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 3: In me to hop in the fray, and I honestly 350 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:41,959 Speaker 3: do not just hop online to argue like that's just 351 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 3: that's not really my thing. 352 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 2: Like I don't function like that, you know. 353 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 3: So the so this morning I woke up and I 354 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 3: was still thinking about it because I was I know 355 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 3: it's in vain at this point, but I was hoping 356 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 3: to bridge the gap between a lot of brothers who 357 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 3: understand racism but. 358 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 5: Refuse to to to just even give like give an 359 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 5: inch to the idea of sexism or patriarchy, putting women 360 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 5: in a worse position than us as black men, because 361 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 5: a lot of times we feel like the only thing 362 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 5: we got is our oppression, and if we ever take 363 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 5: the gas pedal off of that, we no longer get 364 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 5: to be in. 365 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:32,040 Speaker 2: The driver's seat. 366 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 3: Like even in situations where the black where a black 367 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 3: man is being oppressive, where he's abusing someone, we want. 368 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 2: Him to be the victim and you know, the. 369 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 3: Victor, like he can't be like like when like we shift, 370 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:50,439 Speaker 3: we shift our point of view based on whatever we 371 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 3: can say to win the argument, which is just like 372 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 3: white people when we talk about race. So I think 373 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 3: I talked about it's on the show the other day, 374 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 3: but it made me think about how when uh, because 375 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 3: I because I wasn't offended when I saw anybody say, like, 376 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 3: the men are trash and all this shit, It doesn't 377 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 3: bother me because in the long scope of history, men 378 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 3: are trash the same way white people are trash, the 379 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 3: same way that uh, you know, Cis had people gonna 380 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 3: be trash. Like, if you look at the long scope 381 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,439 Speaker 3: of history, there's no fucking way you can deny it, 382 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,640 Speaker 3: you know, Like, yes, if you look at who's run 383 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 3: this world and how the fuck it's turned out for 384 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 3: people who weren't in the majority, yeah, it's fucked up. 385 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 2: You know, if you look at the. 386 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 3: History of the world and how men have treated women, 387 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 3: whether it's been sexual assaults, whether it's been the right 388 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 3: to vote, whether it's been the right to work, whether 389 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 3: it's been people's pay weight, whether it's been political office, uh, 390 00:20:55,760 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 3: you know, physical assaults, the fucking killing people to say them, 391 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 3: witch trials like shit, just like the things that we 392 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 3: as men in this country, in this world have have perpetrated. 393 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: On the world. 394 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 3: How can you not look at the fucking world and 395 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 3: be like, oh, yeah, yeah, we definitely fucked that up. 396 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 3: The thing is, even within the hierarchy of men and manhood, 397 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 3: there's always like, well, I'm a black man and I 398 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 3: wasn't the one that was in charge at all this time. 399 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: It's like you weren't. That's true. 400 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 3: But if you inherit and pass down the same traits 401 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 3: that we get from whiteness, we're no better. Like, you 402 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 3: can't want to you can't want patriarchy for yourself and 403 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 3: say you're not the problem, you know, Like you can't 404 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 3: be like, well, what. 405 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 2: I want is to come home. I'm the king of 406 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 2: my castle. I tell my one what to do, and 407 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,159 Speaker 2: I want to basically have a nineteen fifty house. But 408 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 2: I'm black. You the problem too, bro, You know, you 409 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 2: can't have the same You can't have it both ways. 410 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 3: And we can't look at white peop people and want 411 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 3: them to recognize the historical truth that they have been 412 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,439 Speaker 3: fucked up and they need to make amends for that, 413 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 3: or at least take the fucking foot off of our 414 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 3: neck while also putting the foot of our our foot 415 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 3: on the neck of women and other people within our community. 416 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 2: We can't we can't have we can't have both, you know. 417 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 3: Like it's just a not of it's just not a 418 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 3: tenable position from which to discuss these matters practically. 419 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: And then, of course morally is it's reprehensible. 420 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 3: You know so, But but yet that is I think 421 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,479 Speaker 3: in a lot of black men's vision, that is what 422 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 3: they want. 423 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 2: We want to just be in the position. 424 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 3: That white men occupied or occupied, like we just want 425 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 3: equality to them and we and there's no further thinking 426 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 3: than that. 427 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 2: To us, that's progress. 428 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 3: To us, that's equality, and it's kind of fuck everybody else, 429 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,160 Speaker 3: you know, the rest of y'all get what y'll get, 430 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 3: you know, But but as long as me and this 431 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 3: white men are equal, then everybody's achieved it, and and 432 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:10,719 Speaker 3: nobody else is allowed to even want something until we 433 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 3: get ours first, and then and then everybody can get theirs, 434 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 3: you know. 435 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 2: That's kind of the that's the similarities to like white 436 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 2: women and feminism that we have. That's that space that 437 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 2: we occupy. 438 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 3: That's that that that that intersection that makes Lena Dunham 439 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 3: reach out to a black man to explain why she's 440 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 3: fucked up towards black people, and not any of the 441 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 3: black women that have critiqued her, none of the women 442 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 3: that she claims with her feminist agenda to want to 443 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:38,880 Speaker 3: to want to help. 444 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 2: She doesn't reach out to those women. 445 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 3: She skips over them because they don't occupy the same 446 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 3: space of privilege and oppression that she would like that 447 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 3: she occupies and would like to perpetuate on the other people. 448 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 3: So I feel like a lot of that shit, you know, 449 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 3: to me, it's all connected, but it's so damn hard 450 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 3: to get people to see those connections. So so, like 451 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 3: I said, I was thinking about that this morning, and 452 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 3: it made me think about a couple of weeks ago 453 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 3: when I was playing basketball at the Why, and it 454 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 3: was after this white man that stabbed a homeless black 455 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 3: man in New York, the one the dude, It was like, 456 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 3: I just want to kill black people because they fucking eye. 457 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,640 Speaker 2: Women and shit like that. And I remember. 458 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 3: Just sitting there and we were playing ball, and I 459 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,439 Speaker 3: was on the sideline waiting for the next game or whatever, 460 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,200 Speaker 3: running the clock, and this white dude came in and 461 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 3: like jeans and a T shirt, like he wasn't there 462 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 3: to play basketball, he wasn't there to work out, and 463 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 3: he just walked through and he didn't work there. 464 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 2: There was no like badge or anything. He just walked 465 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 2: through the gym. 466 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 3: And I don't know, I think I remember thinking of, like, 467 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 3: you know, Trayvon Martin, I remember. 468 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 2: Thinking of that. 469 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 3: That Jordan kid from Florida got killed just in the 470 00:24:58,760 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 3: back of a car. 471 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 2: You know, I remember thinking of the black people that 472 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 2: have been killed by just random white men who were 473 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 2: racist and armed and they didn't do anything wrong. 474 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,880 Speaker 3: And you know, it's not it's not a whole lot 475 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 3: of those people in general, because I'm not even talking 476 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,920 Speaker 3: about the ones of cops killed. I'm literally talking about 477 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 3: citizens of the United States, white people that just decide 478 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,719 Speaker 3: I'm gonna kill a black person today for whatever reason. 479 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 3: There's not a ton of examples of that. But I 480 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 3: was scared. I wasn't scared like forever. I wasn't scared. 481 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 2: It was just a split second, like, but I do 482 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,399 Speaker 2: remember thinking like what if it's today, what if it 483 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 2: is the time? What it like? 484 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 3: I was coming up in my head with shit that 485 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 3: I would have to do to this man, like oh 486 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,919 Speaker 3: maybe I can, and also like, okay, so the exit 487 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 3: is this way, maybe I can get to the exit way. 488 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 3: I saw him walking up between the divider and the court, 489 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,359 Speaker 3: and I thought I can use a divider as cover 490 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,719 Speaker 3: and run up to him from behind and knock him 491 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,439 Speaker 3: down in case he tries to do something to somebody 492 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 3: in here because there's kids in here and all kinds 493 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 3: of people in here, and this would be a spot 494 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 3: where if somebody wanted to hurt black people, or as 495 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 3: specifically black men, this would be a perfect spot because 496 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 3: it's a bunch of black men in here that play basketball, 497 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 3: some of them are in interracial relationships. Right now, since 498 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 3: Trump has been in office, hate crimes have been off 499 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 3: the fucking. 500 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 2: Off the scale. 501 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 3: You know, we just like people are feeling activated now 502 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:43,719 Speaker 3: to be hateful. And it was only a split second, 503 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 3: but he didn't obviously knowing that happened. I'm here, I'm alive, 504 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 3: I'm fine. 505 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: It was only a split second, only took like a 506 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 2: couple of seconds. All this went to my mind and. 507 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 3: It hit me when he left, was like, I'm living 508 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 3: in terror, Like that's terrorism what white people have done 509 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 3: to us, what is still happening. 510 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,479 Speaker 2: It's terrorism for us to even feel that way. 511 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 3: But we know what it feels like as black men, 512 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 3: because we also know that the now. They don't call 513 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 3: Dylan ruth a terrorists. They don't call that dude that 514 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,880 Speaker 3: stabbed the black men a terrorist. They don't call Jordan's 515 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 3: killer a terrorist. They don't call they don't call George 516 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 3: them men a terrorist. They won't acknowledge what we know 517 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 3: inside in our bones. We know that that is terror. 518 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 3: You know, we know what the police do to us. 519 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 3: It's terror, But no one will call it that. You know, 520 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 3: we know that. Now that's a situation where it's anecdotal, but. 521 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 2: It's also systemic. Those cases are not that few and 522 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 2: far between. 523 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 3: And yet it had that effect on my psyche in 524 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 3: that moment, and I know I'm not alone, and I 525 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 3: know there's a lot of black people that can fucking 526 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 3: relate to that, even if it's not about the fear 527 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,679 Speaker 3: of it, Even if you just thought to yourself, man, 528 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 3: I will fuck this white person up. Even if you 529 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 3: thought that, you're still having a fight or flight reaction 530 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 3: to the idea that you could be under attacked for 531 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 3: nothing more than the color of your skin. It's not 532 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 3: fair and it's a condition that we live under that 533 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 3: we understand. And I hope people listen to this that 534 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:32,640 Speaker 3: you know, have downplayed and disregarded what women have said. 535 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 3: I hope they can at least relate to this part. 536 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 3: And I think if you can relate to that, then 537 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 3: you should be able to relate to the next part. 538 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 3: But I think most people that are black can relate 539 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 3: to that. So just in the last week, there's some 540 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 3: stories we haven't covered. There's a black woman who called 541 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 3: nine one one and the police came down in Florida, 542 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,920 Speaker 3: and they actually have it recorded and everything, where she 543 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,960 Speaker 3: told them like, this dude is my ex he's stalking me, 544 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 3: he's been abusive towards me. He's has my keys to 545 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 3: my house. If I don't have the keys of my house, 546 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:09,719 Speaker 3: I can't get in my house and get in there 547 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 3: first before he can do something to me. And he 548 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 3: killed her and I think maybe killed her kid, and 549 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,719 Speaker 3: the police basically didn't believe her and basically told her 550 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 3: to calm down and we can't prove that he got 551 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 3: your keys, and you know, basically attack their credibility as 552 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 3: you must be lying, you know. And as much as people, 553 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 3: oh police, they hate black men, they don't hate black 554 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 3: men way more than black women. It didn't didn't work 555 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 3: out that day, huh, right, that that whole the police 556 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 3: gonna come get this brother, that it didn't work out 557 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 3: that time, and he went on and killed her. And 558 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 3: I just didn't want to play that audio on our show. 559 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 3: I didn't really want to talk about that, to be honest, 560 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 3: But I but I was. 561 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 2: Another podcast that talked about it and stuff. 562 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 3: I was aware of it, and I was just like, yeah, 563 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 3: that I can't make that. There's a nothing funny about that. 564 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 3: I can't make that funny. And that was just like 565 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 3: a week ago, right, So that was just a week ago. 566 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 3: Also in the last week, a man Saturday, man groped 567 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 3: and shoved a twenty two year old woman onto the 568 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 3: New York City UH subway tracks. She broke her wrist. 569 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: She didn't die, but he attempted to murder her. Just 570 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 3: a brother just walked up, grabbed her ass and pushed 571 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 3: her into pushed her down in the training tracks. 572 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 2: You know that that that. 573 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 3: That woman has no reason to That woman hasn't That 574 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 3: woman is probably scared for the rest of her life 575 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 3: catching the train that you know, that person would probably 576 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 3: be wary. Other people will now. 577 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 2: Be wary of the fact that this could happen in them. 578 00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 2: You know. 579 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: Yeah that like, uh, there was a man who randomly 580 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 3: slapped a woman on the Brooklyn subway, just raiding and 581 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 3: slapt her. You know, just she didn't do anything. Black 582 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 3: man thirty years old walked up, slapped her. 583 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 2: That was it. Just but but still, how do you 584 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 2: just see him? 585 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 3: How do you just go out the house the next 586 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 3: day and just that's cool? Anybody that saw that, that's 587 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 3: a woman. He didn't slap a man. He didn't attack everybody, 588 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 3: you know, Like, how do you do that? There's another 589 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 3: dude in Chicago that stabbed a woman to death because 590 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 3: she spurred his advances on the CTA, the that that 591 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 3: trade line. Okay, like he I think he ad asked 592 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 3: her a question. She said no, he got up and 593 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 3: started stabbing her. She fell towards the floor and he 594 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 3: slid her neck. 595 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 4: But I'm just asking a question, though, Why can't you 596 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 4: just tell me. 597 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 2: Now, why can't you be polite? Why can't you be 598 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 2: death just. 599 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 3: Say yeah, well, they don't reject him by the train 600 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 3: that ship, uh, Sam Bernardino. 601 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 2: There was a brother that. 602 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 3: Shot his ex wife and a kid. I think it 603 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 3: was his ex wife. He had killed his wife then 604 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 3: and one of the two students. He shot two other 605 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 3: two students and one of those died. Just another domestic case. 606 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 3: Another brother, another you know, coming to coming to her 607 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 3: job and tell me how that's different than what I 608 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 3: described earlier. Tell me how women shouldn't be in fear. 609 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 2: Tell me how you. 610 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 3: Can dismiss that, because everything that I saw men say 611 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 3: to women about their fear of being surrounded by people 612 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 3: that could add on a whim's notice just decide I'm 613 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,040 Speaker 3: gonna end your life. 614 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna attack you. 615 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 3: Everything I saw is something somebody's told me after a 616 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 3: black person got killed by police or killed by one 617 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 3: of these white people or something. 618 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: Everything I saw, you're being divisive for noticing, because I mean, 619 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 2: I don't understand how women can be divisive in this 620 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 2: situation when all they're saying is yo, I feel scared, 621 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 2: and you're going you're being divisive. How how are we 622 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: equating the idea of being terrorized and feeling terror with 623 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: because real people died with the hurt feelings that you 624 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 2: have on the fucking internet, like you want to talk 625 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 2: about it's just feelings. 626 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 3: The things I've seen men say over just the past 627 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 3: twenty four hours. 628 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 2: Those are feelings. Those are just feelings, you know, like this. 629 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 3: Whole like as a black man, it's like y'all hate me. 630 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 2: Now we want to talk about some feelings because I 631 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 2: feel like white people have said that to me too. 632 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 3: When I'm like, Hey, these white people killing these black 633 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 3: People's got me scared. I don't know what the fuck 634 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 3: I'm supposed to do. I get a little bit nervous. 635 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 3: Sometimes cops pull up on me and motherfuckers go, well, 636 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 3: it's like you hate white people, you hate me. I mean, 637 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 3: it's not all white people. It's not all cops, you know. 638 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 3: And my thing is, if it's not all then why 639 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,759 Speaker 3: are you jumping in front of the fucking bullet for 640 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:42,360 Speaker 3: this person? 641 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:44,479 Speaker 2: If it's not all right? 642 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 3: If it's not all then why aren't you admonishing and 643 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 3: and shutting the fuck up. Because there's nothing you can 644 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 3: say about these men that I will defend. There's nothing 645 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 3: these dudes are scumed like if you these people took 646 00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:03,720 Speaker 3: people's lives out of a entitlement and instead of people saying, 647 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 3: you know what, that's fucked up. This is a connected pattern. 648 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 3: I only went back a week. Okay, I didn't go 649 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 3: back to Elliott Roger. You know I haven't gone I 650 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,040 Speaker 3: couldn't possibly go back to all the men that have 651 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 3: randomly killed women that we haven't covered on this show 652 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,720 Speaker 3: because of how fucking ridiculous and sad this show would become. 653 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 3: I'm not even doing all that, So it's in just 654 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 3: a week, some of the major ones that we've covered 655 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 3: didn't cover. You can't see that pattern, you because we've 656 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 3: connected patterns in all kinds of shit with much less 657 00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 3: than us. 658 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 2: You know, like, if we're being one hundred, niggas getting. 659 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:49,759 Speaker 3: Killed by the cops is not happening often enough for 660 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 3: us as nearly as often as women getting killed by 661 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:57,280 Speaker 3: men if we're keeping it one hundred. But we expect 662 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,080 Speaker 3: women to be docile, not to have any rage about this, 663 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,960 Speaker 3: to be trusting, to continue to just grind over and 664 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 3: over and over again for us, And it's not for them. 665 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 3: It's for us at this point, like to say, to say, 666 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 3: we expect them to exist on a level where they 667 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,240 Speaker 3: also come in and just continue to have the infinite 668 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 3: amount of patience as men go. 669 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:21,839 Speaker 2: I don't get it. 670 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 3: What's wrong with these bitches, these feminists to sit up 671 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 3: there and act like that's all equal and the same 672 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 3: and it's just gender fighting, and it's just you know, 673 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,759 Speaker 3: it's just people arguing on the internet to pretend that 674 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 3: that's all it is. Is the most privileged and idiotic 675 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 3: shit you can possibly say. 676 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 2: It really is. 677 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 3: When people say you played the race card when you're like, 678 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 3: I just said someone shot an unarmed black man in 679 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 3: my city and it affected me and I emotionally I 680 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,840 Speaker 3: am fucked up, And people go, oh, you're playing a 681 00:36:58,920 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 3: race card. 682 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:05,440 Speaker 2: Why you're being divisive? You know, like, I don't understand how. 683 00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 3: We can't make that connection, you know, and why we 684 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 3: get so fucking offended. I unfollow people yesterday just I 685 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 3: don't even want to say I respected them, but they 686 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,439 Speaker 3: were people that, you know, to a certain extent, it's like, well, 687 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:27,719 Speaker 3: they're not quote unquote the most wokeus motherfucker, but you know, 688 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 3: they pretty cool. But then I saw how they were 689 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 3: going at any woman that was like, Yo, this is 690 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 3: fucked up. This is part of a pattern of violence 691 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 3: that men have done to women, and they would just 692 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,760 Speaker 3: go on these women, you're being ridiculous. 693 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 2: I don't see this. Why I don't fuck with her? 694 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,720 Speaker 3: This why I don't fuck with black feminists y'all tearing 695 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,319 Speaker 3: apart our community? What's tearing a part of community more 696 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 3: than killing part of the community. 697 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 2: How can you not. 698 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 3: See the vast hypocrisy in that statement? Hey, you notice 699 00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:00,200 Speaker 3: that we're killing you'ah? 700 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 2: Why are you being so divisive. It really, it really was. 701 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 3: It was really disheartening, man, you know. And so with 702 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 3: this guy, uh, the Stevie Steve dude. He shot this old, 703 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 3: innocent black dude, but then said it was because of 704 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 3: a woman, and people were like, it's disrespectful to point 705 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 3: out that this guy is being an abuser to this 706 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,839 Speaker 3: woman as well and fitting into a pattern of you 707 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,280 Speaker 3: know a lot of the violence that men have done 708 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,840 Speaker 3: in the name of and towards women. 709 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 2: You shouldn't be you shouldn't point that out. That's distasteful. 710 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 3: It's too soon, you know when else it was too 711 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 3: soon after the New Town shooting and people were like, 712 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:51,760 Speaker 3: we need some form of gun control. 713 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 2: This is ridiculous. 714 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,880 Speaker 3: A bunch of kids died, and they and all the 715 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 3: people that, mostly white people that were pro gunned. 716 00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,439 Speaker 2: What they say, it's too soon. 717 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 3: Why are you using this for your agenda, your political agenda. Yeah, 718 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,279 Speaker 3: y'all just want playing this. It's too soon to do it. 719 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 3: I feel like the only reason you're doing this is 720 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,360 Speaker 3: because you have an agenda. You know what that means. 721 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 3: Agenda's only some shit you don't you don't agree with. 722 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 3: It's never an agenda when you agree with it right. 723 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 3: No one ever says, oh, you're using this for your agenda, 724 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 3: because if you will lead, if you agree with them 725 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 3: at the and you like that person specifically that person. 726 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 3: For a lot of people, it was about the messenger, 727 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,440 Speaker 3: not the message. You know, some people are written off 728 00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 3: certain women online and so they harbor that grudge. So 729 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,479 Speaker 3: it wouldn't matter if they said the fucking sky was blue. 730 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 3: They find a way to be like, yeah, I don't know, man, 731 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,359 Speaker 3: I feel like she was out of line pointing out 732 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 3: that the sky is blue. I mean, she could have 733 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 3: pointed it out. 734 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 2: In a different way. 735 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 3: She could have said, you know that it was turkoise, 736 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,360 Speaker 3: you know, like it's that kind of shit where you're like, oh, okay, 737 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 3: you just don't like this person, but you know what, 738 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 3: you can shut the fuck up because you don't gotta 739 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 3: like everybody, and some shit is more important than whether 740 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 3: you like somebody or not. To be honest, you know, 741 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 3: it's just not gonna be a win for you today. 742 00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,920 Speaker 3: You and that person happen to agree broken clock is 743 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 3: right twice a day, leave it at that and move on. 744 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 2: You know. But yeah, I saw that shit, and. 745 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know how we can expect women 746 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 3: not to live in terror, in fear of us, especially 747 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 3: when rather than confronting the very real violence and the 748 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 3: attitudes that men have, the vast majority of men are 749 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 3: much more happier taking women to task for saying anything. 750 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,320 Speaker 2: But then they don't want to be considered the enemy, 751 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:40,040 Speaker 2: you know. 752 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 3: They're like white people that only bring up racism when 753 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 3: black people say something was racist. They don't never It's 754 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,919 Speaker 3: like all lives matter, and when does all lives matter 755 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 3: show up for anything else other than to tell you 756 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 3: that black lives don't. That's what a lot of men are, 757 00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 3: you know. And I hate to say these things. I 758 00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 3: don't like to think these things. I hate to be 759 00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 3: proven right about this shit, you know, But I also 760 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:11,319 Speaker 3: am a person of integrity that I'm gonna say this 761 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 3: shit because it's the truth as I see it. And 762 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 3: a lot of people are cowards and they don't have 763 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 3: the they don't have the wherewithal to accept that you 764 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 3: won't be popular for saying the fucking truth. But we 765 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 3: expect and want it of other people. Okay, when it 766 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 3: comes to Republicans, we want someone in that room to 767 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,040 Speaker 3: be like, yo, this is hateful. What we're doing is wrong, 768 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 3: And when they don't, we consider ourselves better people because 769 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 3: look at them, they can't even do it. Look at 770 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 3: these coons, look at these cellouts, look at this. You know, 771 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,160 Speaker 3: we consider ourselves better people than those people because they 772 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 3: don't have the wherewithal to tell the truth. They don't 773 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 3: have the truth in them. We consider ourselves better than 774 00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,520 Speaker 3: supposedly white people when white people will are confronted with 775 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 3: obvious truths about race, and they and they just fold 776 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 3: up into a ball and say, but what about my 777 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 3: feelings first? And what about my emotions? To avoid the 778 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 3: very real truth. Hey, I didn't know slaves, I don't 779 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:14,960 Speaker 3: have white privilege. 780 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:15,680 Speaker 2: I grew up poor. 781 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 3: We laugh at that shit, well, like, that's a ridiculous 782 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:22,319 Speaker 3: fucking thing to say, because we, as black people know 783 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 3: are oppressor more than they know themselves. And now we 784 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 3: get to a point where women are saying these other 785 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,359 Speaker 3: things that. 786 00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 2: That encompass part of our experience. 787 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 3: Some of the shit that we experience is very negative, 788 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,960 Speaker 3: and we go, no, no, no, we as men know 789 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 3: better than you. 790 00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,400 Speaker 2: You don't know what you're talking about. Women. That's what 791 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,399 Speaker 2: I've been seeing, you know that. 792 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,640 Speaker 3: And then, like I said, the cowardice of people that 793 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 3: don't want to say shit because they just don't want 794 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 3: to be unpopular. You know, a lot of the shit 795 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,359 Speaker 3: I'm saying, I'm like, yeah, I won't be popular for this, Like, oh, 796 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:57,600 Speaker 3: you're saying it for retweets. 797 00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:57,919 Speaker 2: Yo. 798 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 3: I would much rather everybody fucking like me in the world. 799 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 3: I mean, if it was up to me, everybody'd be 800 00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 3: like when they think a right, they smile and be like. 801 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,839 Speaker 2: What a great guy. I fucking love that, dude. That's 802 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,239 Speaker 2: how I would love it to be, you know. But 803 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 2: at the same time, everybody can't like you if you're 804 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,440 Speaker 2: gonna tell the truth. 805 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 4: You know. 806 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 3: I could always just do like a whole lot of 807 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 3: other people and don't talk about this shit, or just 808 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:26,800 Speaker 3: feed the fucking what I consider to be the popular opinion, 809 00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,240 Speaker 3: you know, which a lot of people do, the lowest 810 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:30,279 Speaker 3: common denominator. 811 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 2: But it ain't that important to me, man. I want 812 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 2: to look back and respect the man that I am 813 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 2: at every point of my life. Man, I don't want 814 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,440 Speaker 2: to look back and be like I knew the right 815 00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:39,839 Speaker 2: thing to. 816 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 3: Say, but it was easier to just be like, no, 817 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 3: black men the most oppressed, and these bitches and feminists 818 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 3: need to learn the da da da da da da 819 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,360 Speaker 3: da That ain't that ain't I can only hope that 820 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 3: people look back when on those kinds of statements and 821 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:56,080 Speaker 3: feel foolish. I can only hope that, you know, I 822 00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 3: can only hope the people that say, well, real women 823 00:43:58,719 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 3: in real life don't talk like this. 824 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 2: I can only hope that they look back and think, well. 825 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 3: They probably wouldn't say it to my dumb ass anyway, 826 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 3: because of the way I fucking behave and the things 827 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 3: I say, like, do I like the kind of person? 828 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 2: You can say that too? Do I behave? Like the 829 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 2: kind of person that you could keep it real with 830 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 2: on something like that? 831 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,760 Speaker 3: Because a lot of y'all don't talk to white people 832 00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 3: the way we talk in public and private. By with ourselves, 833 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 3: you code switch and those white people go, I think 834 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 3: that guy's my friend. Oh I like him, He's that's 835 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,479 Speaker 3: my buddy, Oh Bernard, he's so funny at work because 836 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 3: they don't really know how you fucking feel because you 837 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,720 Speaker 3: would never give them the privilege of knowing your actual 838 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,360 Speaker 3: opinion or giving them some actual part of your life, 839 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:44,319 Speaker 3: because you know not to trust they ass How about that? 840 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,000 Speaker 2: Have you ever fucking thought of that? 841 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 3: Not every relationship you have is an open relationship where 842 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:53,240 Speaker 3: they tell you everything, because you can be a toxic person, 843 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 3: you know, like when I think about we think about 844 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 3: things like rape culture and stuff, and how many women 845 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,640 Speaker 3: have been and sexually assaulted at some point, but how 846 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 3: few men know somebody that they don't know, Like people 847 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:10,080 Speaker 3: within your family unit don't tell you, They never will 848 00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 3: tell you. They know that you are not the kind 849 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 3: of person they can tell. There should be some shame 850 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:21,239 Speaker 3: attached to that. You know, you can't profess to love 851 00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:26,480 Speaker 3: somebody and there's no trust within that love, you know, 852 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,239 Speaker 3: like you get married to somebody at thirty thirty five 853 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 3: or whatever, the fuck that person can't tell you the 854 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 3: things that they've gone through in their life because you're 855 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 3: as fucked up as the perpetrators are. 856 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 2: The things that they've gone through in their life. 857 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:47,279 Speaker 3: Like they don't bother you, you know, it's just sad man. 858 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 3: So like it's this shit with this dude who's still 859 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,319 Speaker 3: at large. There's a fifty thousand dollars reward out for him. 860 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 3: Some people said his phone is pained in. 861 00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 2: Like the Philadelphia area and stuff, and they're looking for them. 862 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:06,799 Speaker 3: But you know, like I hope they catch them, you know. 863 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 3: But it's just stuff like that where I don't know 864 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:16,759 Speaker 3: what we're supposed to where we're supposed to go from here, man, 865 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 3: because it really feels like we've been out here for 866 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:24,000 Speaker 3: on this podcast and on social media and each other's 867 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:27,160 Speaker 3: lives for years. You've watched people grow, you watched people's 868 00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:30,799 Speaker 3: platform grow. You know, there's a reason that all these 869 00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 3: quote unquote black feminists that y'all hate. By the way, 870 00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 3: a lot of these women are black. They're not feminists. 871 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,879 Speaker 3: They're just women you disagree with. So you call them 872 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 3: black feminists, but they don't even identify as feminists, you know. So, 873 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 3: but all these women that these brothers disagree with, there's 874 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:51,720 Speaker 3: a reason they have so many followers. There's a reason 875 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 3: they have such a high platform cause there's a lot 876 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:59,080 Speaker 3: of women that agree with them, follow them, want to 877 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 3: retweet and know what they think about things that take 878 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,279 Speaker 3: note of them. Not because I want you to tell 879 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:09,239 Speaker 3: me how to think, but because you express what I 880 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 3: already feel. 881 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,400 Speaker 2: That's why they fuck with them, you know. 882 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 3: And there's a reason that their platforms grow because people 883 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 3: are seeing. One of the things social media has done 884 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 3: it shine a light on a lot of the things 885 00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 3: people keep inside, And I think there was a time 886 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 3: when you could be like, men don't feel this way, 887 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,120 Speaker 3: men don't say that shit, and you kind of can 888 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,879 Speaker 3: be relatively safe because men don't act that way either 889 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 3: around each other with certain topics and definitely not around 890 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:44,000 Speaker 3: women with certain topics. So your homeboy might be abusive, 891 00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,839 Speaker 3: but he says that abusive shit to his woman, and 892 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 3: then when y'all gonna hang out, he's not acting that. 893 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,959 Speaker 2: Way around you. You not his woman. 894 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 3: He ain't got no reason to trying to control you, 895 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 3: put his hands on you, none of that shit. You know, 896 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:56,879 Speaker 3: he's not gonna tell you I hit my woman either. 897 00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 3: You know, they do that shit in private. But then 898 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,319 Speaker 3: we get to see what social media, the way niggas think, 899 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,880 Speaker 3: the way people talk, the way people say shit, and 900 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 3: you're like, Yo, this dude sounds fucking abusive. Now, what 901 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,960 Speaker 3: we do know is that statistically, one out of every 902 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,200 Speaker 3: four women that's had somebody put their hands on them 903 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 3: in an intimate partner relationship. So what we do know 904 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:21,759 Speaker 3: is that twenty five percent of women at least have 905 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,080 Speaker 3: been involved in violence just in partnership. That's not counting 906 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 3: all the violence men are perpetrated against strangers and shit 907 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 3: like this at least twenty five percent, you know, for women, 908 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,400 Speaker 3: all right, it is the same man hitting all the 909 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:39,400 Speaker 3: women because that means, you know, somebody that hits women. 910 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 2: That's what that is. 911 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 3: That's the kind of shit that we're allowed because of 912 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 3: our own privilege as men, the cocoon we're allowed to 913 00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 3: live in and be like, I don't experience it. 914 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 2: My woman, don't hit me. I don't hit my woman, hopefully. 915 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:57,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. 916 00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 3: You guys can't vouchfit any y'all, but I don't hit 917 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 3: my My friends don't talk about hitting a woman. 918 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 2: I don't know what the problem is. People just making 919 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:08,480 Speaker 2: this up, y'all. Act it's just hurt feelings. It's just 920 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:12,000 Speaker 2: everybody's just mad about shit today. That's not real. Nah, 921 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,759 Speaker 2: It's very fucking real, man, you know. 922 00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 3: And all that shit is connected the same way that 923 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,800 Speaker 3: I think racism is connected to the fact that police 924 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:21,400 Speaker 3: kill black. 925 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:22,359 Speaker 2: People and get away with it. 926 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,239 Speaker 3: And it ain't that big of a Leapo logic for 927 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,920 Speaker 3: me to see that connection, but white people have that 928 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,080 Speaker 3: god damned this time. 929 00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 2: Following that logical path to why not. 930 00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:34,879 Speaker 3: Valuing black life leads to police feeling a little more 931 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:38,879 Speaker 3: trigger happy towards black lives. You know, it's not hard 932 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:40,520 Speaker 3: for us as black people to see that logic. We 933 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 3: all go, yeah, that's obvious, dug You think women don't 934 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:43,920 Speaker 3: feel that. 935 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,320 Speaker 2: Way, you know, especially black women. 936 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,480 Speaker 3: You know, do you think the reasons for the numbers 937 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,160 Speaker 3: spiking when it comes to intimate partner violence and murder 938 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,280 Speaker 3: when it comes to black women, you think the reason 939 00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,960 Speaker 3: for that isn't connected to the fact that they're dealing 940 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 3: with racism and sexism. 941 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 2: Possibly, you know, you think that's not You think that 942 00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 2: that isn't. 943 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,560 Speaker 3: A real thing that at the intersection of we don't 944 00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,239 Speaker 3: give a fuck about women and we don't give a 945 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 3: fuck about black people, Black women. 946 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,959 Speaker 2: Might have a little bit, just a little bit worse 947 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 2: in those situations. No, No, it hurts your black ass 948 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,719 Speaker 2: man feelings that that somebody would bring up that somebody 949 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,360 Speaker 2: might have a little bit worse that in a situation 950 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,719 Speaker 2: where you put your hands on a woman, she might 951 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 2: actually have it worse than you. You know, the fact 952 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:33,240 Speaker 2: that women get abused by men and we ask them 953 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:37,400 Speaker 2: to take the brunt of that and not nitch on 954 00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 2: a black man to send them you're gonna put another 955 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 2: brother in the system. We do that. 956 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 3: We do that though now, and I mean it's not institution, 957 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 3: or it's not is a college not an institution, it's 958 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:56,799 Speaker 3: more house not an institution. We we do that under 959 00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:00,080 Speaker 3: the aspices of sticking together. We expect black women to 960 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 3: take the violence and the punishment and don't say anything. 961 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 2: That's sticking together for us. That's for the best of 962 00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:07,319 Speaker 2: the race. 963 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 3: Not getting an abusive person out of the fucking community 964 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,320 Speaker 3: into a place where they can actually either rehabilitate themselves 965 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 3: or at least not harm anybody else. Apparently that's not 966 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,600 Speaker 3: good for the race because that would be a man 967 00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 3: being sent away, and you know how that's tearing up 968 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 3: the community. 969 00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:31,400 Speaker 2: So yeah, man, I. 970 00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:33,640 Speaker 3: I was so disappointed. Man, I was so disappointed. And 971 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,799 Speaker 3: I you know, I don't know how you fix this. 972 00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 3: I don't I don't have. 973 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 2: A neat solution. 974 00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,960 Speaker 3: I really was hoping that some of the interactions people 975 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,560 Speaker 3: had between each other or social media, that people would 976 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:47,360 Speaker 3: start to listen. 977 00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 2: But I don't know. People feel as divided as ever 978 00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 2: when it comes to no. No, I don't even want 979 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 2: to use that word. 980 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 3: Men seem as death and defensive as ever, when it 981 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:08,400 Speaker 3: comes to listening to women, that's what that's much closer 982 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,520 Speaker 3: to what I mean. I don't understand how you can't 983 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 3: have grown some developed some over this time. You know, 984 00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 3: there's so many avenues where you can actually go learn 985 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:24,320 Speaker 3: and be like, oh, okay, that's how this person feels 986 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,080 Speaker 3: about that. And here's the difference is when women talk 987 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 3: about these things, a lot of times they have statistics 988 00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,560 Speaker 3: to back this up. Men just go by their feelings, right, 989 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,880 Speaker 3: It's not logic, like they try to call women emotional. 990 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 3: I haven't seen a man present a fucking stat since 991 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:44,319 Speaker 3: any of this shit started, not one. You know why, 992 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,120 Speaker 3: because if you look at this shit statistically, you will 993 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,640 Speaker 3: see that what they are talking about, what women are experiencing, 994 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:50,560 Speaker 3: is systemic. 995 00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 2: It is systemic. It is like racism. There is no 996 00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 2: there is no comparison. You know, if you any stat. 997 00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:03,560 Speaker 3: That you would measure, you will find that men do 998 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 3: that shit the most and the worst. If it's violence 999 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,680 Speaker 3: against women in relationships, men are doing that shit. If 1000 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 3: it's violence against women as strangers, men are doing that 1001 00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:17,120 Speaker 3: shit more. If it's violence against fucking other men, even 1002 00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:18,760 Speaker 3: men are doing that shit more. 1003 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:20,719 Speaker 2: Like we don't want to. 1004 00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:23,799 Speaker 3: Examine that all these people that do these free killings. Men, 1005 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,560 Speaker 3: these men, and many of the time many of them 1006 00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,360 Speaker 3: mad at some woman just to find why they're killing 1007 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,920 Speaker 3: if they didn't kill her first. You know, these control 1008 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:40,480 Speaker 3: issues and shit man society. Just like I said, man, 1009 00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:44,279 Speaker 3: it's so frustrating because it's one thing to deal with 1010 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 3: this shit outside of our race, Like it's one thing 1011 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 3: to see like some white person that you know, I 1012 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:57,839 Speaker 3: don't Martin Luther King, I choose you Pokemon is one 1013 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 3: thing to deal with. It's one thing to deal with 1014 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,759 Speaker 3: that kind of tone deaf white racism where it's just 1015 00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 3: you know mc burney saying it's marsh mc king and 1016 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,839 Speaker 3: we all go, yeah, this what a fucking jack off. 1017 00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:14,040 Speaker 3: It's another thing intro racially within our own community to 1018 00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,719 Speaker 3: deal with the ignorance that comes out of people's mouths 1019 00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:22,200 Speaker 3: because of how they feel. You know, look up some numbers, man, 1020 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,400 Speaker 3: back that shit up, right, Like, why don't you do 1021 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:29,560 Speaker 3: that investigated a little bit more? You know, we we've 1022 00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 3: done the numbers of sexual assault on the show, like 1023 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:37,360 Speaker 3: we you know, we've done the numbers with UH with 1024 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:42,279 Speaker 3: violence against lgbt people, like LGBTQ people, well, LGBT people 1025 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:42,839 Speaker 3: for the most part. 1026 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 2: But we've done we've done the numbers of that. 1027 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,640 Speaker 3: But I just don't see people that are making the 1028 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 3: opposite argument coming up with any numbers. It's sound like 1029 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,720 Speaker 3: white people calling Black Lives Matter the terrorist organization. 1030 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,040 Speaker 2: What you backing that up with, Homie? Oh, you just 1031 00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:00,919 Speaker 2: feel a certain way. 1032 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,560 Speaker 3: You don't like these angry black people that are tired 1033 00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:04,280 Speaker 3: of getting killed. 1034 00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:09,880 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, okay, Well I guess well, I guess that 1035 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 2: sums it up. 1036 00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 3: As long as you upset, then I guess there's no 1037 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:14,800 Speaker 3: need for people to look up anything. 1038 00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's. 1039 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,680 Speaker 3: I don't know, man, I don't These are just stories 1040 00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:26,239 Speaker 3: we haven't even covered, you know, but they pile up. 1041 00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:26,480 Speaker 4: Man. 1042 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 3: I wouldn't even know what we would do if we 1043 00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,399 Speaker 3: covered all these stories. It wouldn't be the same show, 1044 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:35,960 Speaker 3: to be honest. But so many places you can go online. 1045 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,319 Speaker 3: I just went to the World Health Organization Violence against. 1046 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:44,640 Speaker 2: Women, and they got a whole bunch of a whole 1047 00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,919 Speaker 2: bunch of statistics and stuff. Key facts violence against women, 1048 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,320 Speaker 2: particularly intimate partner violence and sexual violence, Our major public 1049 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:57,280 Speaker 2: health problems, violation of women's human rights, glad estimates estimates 1050 00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:01,759 Speaker 2: published by the WHO World Whole Thing Organization indicate that 1051 00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:05,080 Speaker 2: about one in three thirty five percent of women worldwide 1052 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:08,160 Speaker 2: have experienced either physical and or sexual intimate partner violence 1053 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,600 Speaker 2: or non partner sexual violence in their lifetime. 1054 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:14,400 Speaker 3: Most of this violence is intimate partner violence. Worldwide, almost 1055 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,400 Speaker 3: one third thirty. 1056 00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,719 Speaker 2: Percent of women who've been in a relationship report they 1057 00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:20,200 Speaker 2: have experienced some form of physical and or sexual violence 1058 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:23,879 Speaker 2: by their intimate partner in their lifetime. One in three man, 1059 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:31,279 Speaker 2: one in three, y'all know three women one in three. 1060 00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:35,920 Speaker 3: Globally, as many as thirty eight percent of murders of 1061 00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:38,000 Speaker 3: women are committed by a male intimate partner. 1062 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 2: Think about that shit, man on the people that get murdered. 1063 00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,560 Speaker 3: It's like a fucking forty percent chance if you get 1064 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 3: murdered that it will be from the person your in 1065 00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:53,160 Speaker 3: a relationship with or we're in a relationship with. Violence 1066 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,520 Speaker 3: can negatively affect women's physical, mental, sexual, and reproductive health, 1067 00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:06,520 Speaker 3: may increase vulnerability to HIV and then low income setting 1068 00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:09,200 Speaker 3: strategies to increase women's economic and social empowerments, such as 1069 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,799 Speaker 3: micro finance, combined with gender equality training and community based 1070 00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:16,160 Speaker 3: initiatives that address gender inequality and relationship skills have shown 1071 00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,080 Speaker 3: some effectiveness in reducing intimate partner violence. 1072 00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:20,720 Speaker 2: Here's what you should learn from that. 1073 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,520 Speaker 3: Essentially, what they're saying is giving women the money to 1074 00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 3: be away from men is the best solution we got. 1075 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:31,360 Speaker 2: That's that's the solution. 1076 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 4: Not them going to jail, not them being accounted for 1077 00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:35,200 Speaker 4: their actions, none of that. 1078 00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:37,440 Speaker 2: But we not trash, guys. And if you call us that, 1079 00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 2: our feelings will be hurt. 1080 00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,720 Speaker 3: Now, please accept the chance that you will die at 1081 00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,080 Speaker 3: a forty percent if you are murdered, as a forty 1082 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,240 Speaker 3: percent chance, it'll be at the hands of a man 1083 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 3: that has confessed to love you. But hey, my feelings 1084 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,240 Speaker 3: are so fucking important that it's more important than what 1085 00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,200 Speaker 3: you than that very real chance that you could die. 1086 00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 3: I just I don't want to feel bad, guys, because 1087 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 3: that's like something I gotta do. That makes it something 1088 00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,120 Speaker 3: I gotta talk about, something I need to speak up on, 1089 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 3: and we can't have that. 1090 00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,480 Speaker 2: I don't hit my woman, and what else is I 1091 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:12,120 Speaker 2: supposed to do? 1092 00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 3: We don't get you wrong, wrong, but yeah that you know, 1093 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 3: that was just and that's the worldwide you know. But 1094 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 3: you can find other like statistics for just you know, uh, 1095 00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:33,320 Speaker 3: women in America, it's all there. You know, black women, 1096 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,960 Speaker 3: you know, broken down our race, and you'll see how 1097 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 3: fucking astronomical these numbers get when it's a black woman. 1098 00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1099 00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 3: I don't know if niggas are just forgetting or y'all 1100 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,120 Speaker 3: just willfully ignorant, or you think there's some strength in 1101 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,320 Speaker 3: being ignorant. But you sound like a fucking white person 1102 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:52,960 Speaker 3: to me, and you're not my brother, and you're not 1103 00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:55,520 Speaker 3: my friend, and you're not somebody I can respect. I 1104 00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:59,040 Speaker 3: can't respect that, Like I gotta draw the line somewhere. 1105 00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:03,640 Speaker 3: I can't respect that. You putting your oppression over the 1106 00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:07,880 Speaker 3: fact that we are fucking being oppressive is a ridiculous 1107 00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:10,400 Speaker 3: point of view. And I don't care if you don't 1108 00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:12,400 Speaker 3: fuck with me after that. We don't need to fuck 1109 00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,120 Speaker 3: with each other. Trust me, My life will be better 1110 00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 3: without you in it. If that's the kind of shit 1111 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,640 Speaker 3: you harbor, man, if you can't respect somebody's humanity, then 1112 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:23,280 Speaker 3: how the fuck I'm supposed to respect you? You know, 1113 00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:28,439 Speaker 3: like it's a very simple task, especially when you don't 1114 00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:31,880 Speaker 3: want to educate yourself because you're so fucking concerned with 1115 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 3: just yourself. 1116 00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:33,439 Speaker 2: That's it. 1117 00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:37,120 Speaker 3: I'm just all do is worry about myself. If that 1118 00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:38,800 Speaker 3: was true, then you would shut the fuck up when. 1119 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,920 Speaker 2: Other people are talking about what they go through. So 1120 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:41,600 Speaker 2: it's not true. 1121 00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:44,840 Speaker 3: You worry about other people feeling somehow more oppressed than 1122 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:48,360 Speaker 3: you think they should and making you feel less than 1123 00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 3: So I don't know, man, Yeah, I don't know. 1124 00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:57,920 Speaker 2: But it's a problem for men to solve. Women aren't. 1125 00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:02,120 Speaker 3: Women aren't responsible for the violence that is that has 1126 01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:09,400 Speaker 3: done to them, And only only only men can stop this. 1127 01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:12,919 Speaker 3: Only men talking to other men intervening in this ship. 1128 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,840 Speaker 3: That's the only thing that can stop this. It's not 1129 01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 3: gonna be the same way that black people can't stop 1130 01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:22,080 Speaker 3: racism in America. And you know, no offensities to people 1131 01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 3: that do this shit, But these these boycotts, it's not 1132 01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,520 Speaker 3: gonna work like that. The we're not gonna go to 1133 01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:29,840 Speaker 3: target this month. It's none of that shit's gonna work. 1134 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,080 Speaker 3: That's not They don't give a fuck, to be honest, 1135 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:35,680 Speaker 3: and you're never gonna convince one hundred percent of black 1136 01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,480 Speaker 3: people to do it. You might as well just thow 1137 01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:42,280 Speaker 3: saying that glass. It's not gonna crack it. But maybe 1138 01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:43,120 Speaker 3: if white. 1139 01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:46,280 Speaker 2: People gave a fuck it will help. 1140 01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:48,360 Speaker 3: So I'll be a man that gives a fuck if 1141 01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:51,680 Speaker 3: that's what it takes, and I'll be unpopular for that shit. 1142 01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 3: Niggas call me a trade, they call me whatever, man. 1143 01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 3: But I just this Saturday handed a black man to PEPSI. 1144 01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:03,360 Speaker 2: There's pictures online to prove it. 1145 01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:07,720 Speaker 3: Okay, So you can't tell me I don't care about 1146 01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,960 Speaker 3: black men. I am a black man. I do care 1147 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 3: about us. I do love us, and selfishly even part 1148 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 3: of the reason we need. 1149 01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:18,400 Speaker 2: To let this shit goes because it ain't healthy for us. 1150 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 3: This shit where you can't cry, this shit where you 1151 01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:26,360 Speaker 3: can't love another dude, this shit where you can't hug somebody, 1152 01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 3: this shit where you where your sexual orientation has to 1153 01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,760 Speaker 3: be in a certain spectrum before people fuck with you. 1154 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,640 Speaker 3: All that shit ain't healthy, man, all of us unhealthy. 1155 01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 3: You know, if that's unpopular, cool. I feel like the 1156 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:40,560 Speaker 3: long scope of history will look back and be like 1157 01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:41,480 Speaker 3: that nigga was right. 1158 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck they was thinking. 1159 01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:46,600 Speaker 3: You know, we don't have to hold onto this al 1160 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 3: bundie shit because we never had that in America. There's 1161 01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:52,880 Speaker 3: never been a time where black men with somehow the 1162 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:56,800 Speaker 3: white like being able to achieve and have the whiteness. 1163 01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,960 Speaker 3: So we gotta stop wanting it because all it does 1164 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:04,360 Speaker 3: this make us look stupid. So I'm so sorry Karen 1165 01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 3: to talk about that that long, but it really bothered me. 1166 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:09,479 Speaker 2: Man. 1167 01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 4: You know, I've seen somebody put it in the chat 1168 01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 4: room a while ago, and I agree. It seems like 1169 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,160 Speaker 4: everybody want to be a white man, but black women, 1170 01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 4: we don't want to be white men. White men want 1171 01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:20,760 Speaker 4: to be white men. 1172 01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:23,680 Speaker 2: White women want to be treated as white men. 1173 01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,400 Speaker 4: Black men want to be treated as white men. Black 1174 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,080 Speaker 4: women go, I don't want to be treated as a 1175 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:28,959 Speaker 4: goddamn white man. 1176 01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:30,360 Speaker 2: Well, you know what it is. 1177 01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:34,320 Speaker 3: I think one Black women in a lot of cases 1178 01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:37,439 Speaker 3: don't have a choice what to think about everybody because 1179 01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:39,919 Speaker 3: it's the way society has pitted. 1180 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:41,840 Speaker 2: Them in certain situations, you know. 1181 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 3: But then you know, there's situations where black women will 1182 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,160 Speaker 3: have privilege and gang. 1183 01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:50,560 Speaker 2: Up on shit. 1184 01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 3: You know, like when when we talk about trans women 1185 01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:58,080 Speaker 3: and stuff, there's always a contingent of black women that you. 1186 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,800 Speaker 2: Know, Caitlyn Jenna got damn man and. 1187 01:03:00,840 --> 01:03:02,320 Speaker 3: Not going to take a lot of pride in that 1188 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:04,320 Speaker 3: ignorance by also claiming. 1189 01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,840 Speaker 2: To be an ally and all that shit problematic. Yeah, 1190 01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:07,880 Speaker 2: that's privilege. 1191 01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:11,160 Speaker 3: Is I see the world kind of on on that, 1192 01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:15,320 Speaker 3: like where, okay, in this situation, who has a privilege 1193 01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:16,640 Speaker 3: and how are they using it? 1194 01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 2: And what do we expect from them? And you know, 1195 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:23,800 Speaker 2: because I don't. What's funny. What's funny is I don't 1196 01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:27,520 Speaker 2: expect much out of people. I don't like I'm so 1197 01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:28,520 Speaker 2: fucking pragmatic. 1198 01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:30,440 Speaker 3: If you if you could see the inside of my head, 1199 01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:32,760 Speaker 3: you'd be like, damn, you really think everybody ain't shit? 1200 01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:33,880 Speaker 4: You really will. 1201 01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:37,520 Speaker 3: You'll be fucking surprised how little I think of people. 1202 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:42,080 Speaker 3: But but sometimes people manage to surprise me even beyond that. 1203 01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,400 Speaker 3: You know how fucking simple it is to say nothing 1204 01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:47,520 Speaker 3: when you're the privileged person. 1205 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,160 Speaker 2: You already winning. 1206 01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 3: You're right, there's nothing to say, Like legitimately, if I 1207 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,320 Speaker 3: was some cold collage motherfucker and this dude killed this 1208 01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 3: woman and I felt like he was justified, or he 1209 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,360 Speaker 3: just got killed this old man, and I felt like 1210 01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 3: he was justified to do it, and I felt like 1211 01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 3: that woman drove him to it, you know what, I 1212 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 3: would say, not a goddamn thing, because it already happened. 1213 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:16,000 Speaker 2: It already happened. What is your statement on it changing. 1214 01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,920 Speaker 3: Let's say you do think all these black women are 1215 01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:20,520 Speaker 3: just fake feminists and crazy. 1216 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 2: They angry for no reason, they bitter, They ain't got 1217 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,880 Speaker 2: no man think. Let's say you think that. Why the 1218 01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:27,479 Speaker 2: fuck would you ever need to say that out loud? 1219 01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:33,320 Speaker 2: You're already winning. You still a black man, right, you 1220 01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:36,480 Speaker 2: still don't have to care. If you didn't care, you 1221 01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:40,240 Speaker 2: really wouldn't care. But you do care. That's the thing. 1222 01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,720 Speaker 3: A lot of this shit is a denial the way 1223 01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:45,240 Speaker 3: I see it. I don't know if it's just being 1224 01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,160 Speaker 3: empathic of what. The way I see it, a lot 1225 01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:49,520 Speaker 3: of this shit is denial. 1226 01:04:50,040 --> 01:04:53,400 Speaker 2: You do care. You want to not care. 1227 01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 3: But on a deep level, you love your people and 1228 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:02,400 Speaker 3: you can't fucking stand to see them suffer, everybody in 1229 01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:06,080 Speaker 3: so much pain, so you you can't help but to care, 1230 01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:07,920 Speaker 3: so you try to cut that shit off. 1231 01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,760 Speaker 2: What you're really saying to women. Somebody told me today, 1232 01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 2: I love you. 1233 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,800 Speaker 3: I love you without even knowing you, brother, But you 1234 01:05:13,840 --> 01:05:16,200 Speaker 3: know what he was telling me, really shut the fuck up. 1235 01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:19,200 Speaker 3: Why was he saying that because he don't want to 1236 01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:21,760 Speaker 3: think about as a black man. What is my fucking 1237 01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:24,520 Speaker 3: role in this, And why am I so hurt that 1238 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,400 Speaker 3: somebody would say black men are trash when niggas are 1239 01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:28,240 Speaker 3: doing trash shit? 1240 01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:32,600 Speaker 2: Why do I feel a connection to that? Because if 1241 01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:34,840 Speaker 2: you really didn't believe it, you wouldn't give a fuck. 1242 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:39,880 Speaker 2: That's the truth that that's why it hurts, cause it's 1243 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:40,760 Speaker 2: because it's true. 1244 01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:44,680 Speaker 3: If it wasn't true and it had no ground in reality, 1245 01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,360 Speaker 3: you wouldn't even care to mock it. You'd just be like, 1246 01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:49,360 Speaker 3: what the fuck is that person talking about? And you 1247 01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:50,959 Speaker 3: move on with your fucking day. 1248 01:05:52,240 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 2: That's the problem, you know, because because we're not talking 1249 01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,800 Speaker 2: about like when you know, someone of privilege says something 1250 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 2: our marginalized community in that community who obviously gets bristled 1251 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:05,360 Speaker 2: will say. 1252 01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:07,480 Speaker 3: Something and clap back and all that shit. That's that's 1253 01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:08,560 Speaker 3: that's le's life. 1254 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:12,040 Speaker 2: I get that. You know, if Louis c K came 1255 01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,320 Speaker 2: out tomorrow on Twitter and just type nigg nigg nigga, 1256 01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:17,160 Speaker 2: nigga ygga, everybody will be like, fuck Luis c K. 1257 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:18,520 Speaker 2: I don't like that dude. 1258 01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:20,520 Speaker 3: White people would defend him, but but you know what 1259 01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 3: I'm saying, Black people would be like, fuck him, he's 1260 01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:27,240 Speaker 3: terrible for that. Well, that's the kind of thing that 1261 01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:36,000 Speaker 3: if we say something like all Lives Matter is nothing 1262 01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:41,840 Speaker 3: but racist? Why do people find you on Twitter to 1263 01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:42,400 Speaker 3: argue with you? 1264 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,480 Speaker 2: Why do white people go out of their way to 1265 01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 2: make sure they can shut your shit down? 1266 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:53,640 Speaker 3: What is it about you with four hundred Twitter followers 1267 01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:57,200 Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck that so many and not to mention, 1268 01:06:57,440 --> 01:06:59,680 Speaker 3: so many black people will identify with what you say, 1269 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:03,200 Speaker 3: that tweet it, they'll share it, people are linking into articles. 1270 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:07,920 Speaker 3: What is it about that fundamental truth that bothers people 1271 01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:13,880 Speaker 3: so much? You know, Oh, it's distasteful. A lot of 1272 01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:17,240 Speaker 3: shit is distasteful, but it don't bother everybody. Why do 1273 01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:18,680 Speaker 3: they have to shut you up? 1274 01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:21,680 Speaker 2: Cause it's the fucking truth, is why you gotta shut 1275 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:22,040 Speaker 2: you up. 1276 01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:27,080 Speaker 3: You know, it's been a long time now, but I 1277 01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:30,880 Speaker 3: remember when Olivia said that shit about that alligator eating 1278 01:07:30,880 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 3: that white kid, and everybody went, it's so distasteful to 1279 01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:36,080 Speaker 3: bring it up. And this time, I mean, what are 1280 01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:41,640 Speaker 3: you really trying to say? And I was like, I mean, 1281 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:45,240 Speaker 3: I guess, but y'all mother fucking knows truth. 1282 01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:48,240 Speaker 2: They cared about that shit because a little white kid 1283 01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:52,960 Speaker 2: got ate. That's the truth, right, Like, uh, why did 1284 01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 2: they try to take her job? Why did they try 1285 01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:58,080 Speaker 2: to shut her down? Why they try to fucking harass 1286 01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,439 Speaker 2: her and stalk her and her family? And shit, why 1287 01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:03,320 Speaker 2: did it matter that much. Let's say you thought. 1288 01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 3: It was distasteful, Okay, why does it go to a 1289 01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:07,440 Speaker 3: next level? 1290 01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:10,840 Speaker 2: I have to find this person because it's fucking true. 1291 01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:15,720 Speaker 2: That's what bothers people. That's the shit that bothers them. 1292 01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 3: When somebody says men are trash, it bothers it bothers 1293 01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:22,160 Speaker 3: you on the inside to hear that shit, because you 1294 01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:24,840 Speaker 3: know how trash fucking men are. When you sit in 1295 01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,360 Speaker 3: your locker room, we talk to your boy the sports bar, 1296 01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 3: when you fucking hear go on the message boards, you 1297 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,040 Speaker 3: know the shit people say to each other, you know, 1298 01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:35,920 Speaker 3: and you try to gaslight and act like everybody's crazy 1299 01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:38,439 Speaker 3: and making it up because you don't want to fucking 1300 01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:39,719 Speaker 3: deal with the truth of the. 1301 01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:42,639 Speaker 2: Toxicity of yourself. You don't want to deal with that shit. 1302 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:45,880 Speaker 3: Nobody wants to have that moment where it's like, oh, 1303 01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:47,080 Speaker 3: you know, I think about it. 1304 01:08:47,439 --> 01:08:49,720 Speaker 2: This is pretty fucked up. And so all my friends. 1305 01:08:49,360 --> 01:08:52,000 Speaker 3: And the people that I love and look up to 1306 01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:54,960 Speaker 3: and I laugh with, we got some fucked up ways 1307 01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:57,200 Speaker 3: about us, and we really could do better. Just like 1308 01:08:57,240 --> 01:08:59,599 Speaker 3: how we know every single white person has a tad. 1309 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:01,720 Speaker 3: Oh no, the white person say nigger when none of 1310 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,080 Speaker 3: us are around. Every last one of us knows it 1311 01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:06,160 Speaker 3: to be true without even having to be there. We 1312 01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:08,439 Speaker 3: know it to be true. White people don't talk about 1313 01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:11,120 Speaker 3: that shit very often. Very few white people will admit that. 1314 01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:14,479 Speaker 3: White people say stuff like, oh, my uncle's old school. 1315 01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:16,080 Speaker 3: What do you really means is his uncle calls you 1316 01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:18,679 Speaker 3: nigger when you're not around, But we know that because 1317 01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:19,240 Speaker 3: we're black. 1318 01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:21,240 Speaker 2: White people don't tell us that. They don't have to 1319 01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:25,360 Speaker 2: say that shit. We know that shit. So like, that's 1320 01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,080 Speaker 2: kind of how it is with this with the ship. 1321 01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:29,439 Speaker 2: Look where women are like yo, men are trash, and 1322 01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:31,880 Speaker 2: you know why it's even worse for women when they 1323 01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:32,240 Speaker 2: say that. 1324 01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:35,439 Speaker 3: How they know it even better than us. My homeboy 1325 01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:38,800 Speaker 3: ain't never put his hands on me. My homeboy ain't 1326 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:42,439 Speaker 3: never tried to rape me. Women know us better than 1327 01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:46,240 Speaker 3: we can know ourselves, because they do that shit in private. 1328 01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:47,840 Speaker 3: They did this ship when they're not around. They do 1329 01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:50,760 Speaker 3: that shit when there's plausible deniability, so they can come 1330 01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:52,120 Speaker 3: to you and be like pitch sure and set me 1331 01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:55,400 Speaker 3: up and shit, and niggas will believe it because they 1332 01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:56,280 Speaker 3: aint never did it to you. 1333 01:09:56,360 --> 01:10:01,640 Speaker 2: Why would you not? So yeah, man, it was really frustrating. 1334 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:04,519 Speaker 2: It was just really frustrating. I know that was a 1335 01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:05,200 Speaker 2: lot to get out. 1336 01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:10,040 Speaker 3: I know it wasn't funny. I really hope it wasn't 1337 01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:12,160 Speaker 3: rambling all over the place. I hope that people can 1338 01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:15,680 Speaker 3: see the connection between what I really want to get 1339 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:19,879 Speaker 3: across is the fact that I could feel scared of police. 1340 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:24,400 Speaker 3: I can feel scared of some random white dude walking 1341 01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:26,639 Speaker 3: in a place he don't belong. That's a black space. 1342 01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:31,320 Speaker 3: I can feel those things. And I'm not crazy and 1343 01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:35,599 Speaker 3: I'm not paranoid. And white people would tell me, well, 1344 01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:39,559 Speaker 3: not all white men. They would tell me the odds 1345 01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:41,960 Speaker 3: of him doing something to me are very low. They 1346 01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:43,880 Speaker 3: would tell me, I don't have anything to be scared of. 1347 01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:49,120 Speaker 3: But I'm still scared, just for a second, still thinking 1348 01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 3: about it. If it happens tomorrow, I'll think about it. 1349 01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:54,679 Speaker 3: Now that some people have listened to this, you'll think 1350 01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,679 Speaker 3: about it. You know, if you're in a black space 1351 01:10:57,720 --> 01:10:59,919 Speaker 3: and just some random white dude walking, You're like, eh, 1352 01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:01,519 Speaker 3: fuck heat doing here? 1353 01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:07,719 Speaker 2: Just for a second, that's that's that terror. Now imagine 1354 01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:10,320 Speaker 2: being a woman and half. 1355 01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:15,160 Speaker 3: The population, even the people that look like you, could 1356 01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:18,920 Speaker 3: put you in terror any fucking moment, dog like, we 1357 01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 3: can't sit up here and act like it's not true. 1358 01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:24,160 Speaker 2: While also well we can't. People do. 1359 01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 3: But you can't act like that's not Like one of 1360 01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 3: those is true and the other one is you can't. 1361 01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:32,080 Speaker 3: If not, then you're you're, like I said, scum, and 1362 01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:33,680 Speaker 3: you deserve to be called trash. 1363 01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,320 Speaker 2: You deserve that's why you got offended, because I god 1364 01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:40,160 Speaker 2: damned didn't. I ain't get offended by that shit anymore 1365 01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:42,479 Speaker 2: than if you my white friend, and you see me, 1366 01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:45,479 Speaker 2: be like, man, white people are fucked up. You better 1367 01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:47,840 Speaker 2: not get fucking offendo you ain't my friend. I'm gonna 1368 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:50,160 Speaker 2: tell you right fucking now, And don't you. 1369 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:53,280 Speaker 3: Not all or what about no, no, no, no no, 1370 01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:56,920 Speaker 3: I said what I fucking said. We're gonna allow that 1371 01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,080 Speaker 3: in the space that we have as friends if you 1372 01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:01,439 Speaker 3: truly want to get to know me, And you just 1373 01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:03,320 Speaker 3: gonna have to understand that they're implied. 1374 01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:06,920 Speaker 2: I didn't say all is right up in there. You 1375 01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:11,360 Speaker 2: just gonna have to understand, you know, So I don't 1376 01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:15,240 Speaker 2: know I ain't trash. I don't know what to tell you. 1377 01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,559 Speaker 2: If you felt some kind of if you feel some 1378 01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 2: kind of way about you get angry. 1379 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,439 Speaker 3: Once they say black men are trash or men are trash, 1380 01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:26,920 Speaker 3: and they make you feel a certain way, you might 1381 01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:28,120 Speaker 3: be a trash ass nigga. 1382 01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:30,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. I can't vouch for you. I can 1383 01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:31,560 Speaker 2: only speak for myself. 1384 01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:34,799 Speaker 3: I'm not trash, and I do my best every goddamn 1385 01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:37,479 Speaker 3: day not to give people another reason to fucking think 1386 01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:40,200 Speaker 3: of me as as trash or a negative person. 1387 01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,639 Speaker 2: You know, That's all I can do. I don't want 1388 01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,200 Speaker 2: to be out here making a case for motherfucking men 1389 01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:49,719 Speaker 2: hitting women, or ignoring men hitting women, or men killing 1390 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,479 Speaker 2: men for over a woman. I don't want to ignore 1391 01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:53,240 Speaker 2: any of that shit. 1392 01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:55,960 Speaker 3: If that's to be, If that's what it takes to 1393 01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,280 Speaker 3: be in the cool club of black maleness, then I 1394 01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:02,160 Speaker 3: guess I'm out. I'll be over here in my uncool ass. 1395 01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:04,599 Speaker 3: But I'm gonna always look back and respect my fucking 1396 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,719 Speaker 3: self because a lot of you motherfucker's looking real shady 1397 01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 3: right now. I can't respect yourself, and I god damn 1398 01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:13,680 Speaker 3: don't respect you period, all right? 1399 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 2: Uh? 1400 01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:18,040 Speaker 3: I know that went off for quite some time. Let's uh, 1401 01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:18,679 Speaker 3: oh yeah. 1402 01:13:18,479 --> 01:13:19,799 Speaker 2: Go ahead, Oh, no problem. 1403 01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:22,400 Speaker 4: And I know this is kind of off topic, and 1404 01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:23,560 Speaker 4: I didn't know if you want to talk about it. 1405 01:13:23,560 --> 01:13:24,720 Speaker 4: Did you want to talk about us going to the 1406 01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:26,599 Speaker 4: oyster place today? Sure? 1407 01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:31,120 Speaker 2: Why not? We had there's other fun things to talk about. Wait, 1408 01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:33,960 Speaker 2: that was it? That was Introka Okay. 1409 01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:36,640 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I carry on the conversation. Then I'm sorry. 1410 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:41,800 Speaker 4: Uh So, it's this place that I've been passing by 1411 01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 4: and I seen it and it had high rate, and 1412 01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:46,800 Speaker 4: so it went there and I didn't know it was 1413 01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:50,280 Speaker 4: like an oyster spot, and I don't think I've. 1414 01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:51,400 Speaker 2: Ever had oysters before. 1415 01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:55,120 Speaker 4: So me and Roger went up there and they had 1416 01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 4: like a tiny ass menu. You know a lot of 1417 01:13:57,800 --> 01:13:59,240 Speaker 4: times you go to the mini y you get like 1418 01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:03,000 Speaker 4: a big book. Had a little small ass menu and 1419 01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:07,040 Speaker 4: had what they called the MP, which stands for market price. 1420 01:14:07,840 --> 01:14:11,120 Speaker 4: And my motto is, if you got to ask the price, 1421 01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:14,040 Speaker 4: you don't, you don't, you probably don't need to purchase it. 1422 01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:18,360 Speaker 4: And so so she was going through the menu, we 1423 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:19,639 Speaker 4: asked us so many questions. 1424 01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:23,080 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, what was it called rock salt? 1425 01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:23,280 Speaker 5: Uh? 1426 01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:23,599 Speaker 2: Huh? 1427 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,360 Speaker 3: Carro was like, I want to go to this place, 1428 01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:31,200 Speaker 3: and you know, I was like, I'm not that adventurous, 1429 01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:34,040 Speaker 3: but I was like, yeah, well not. We tried somewhere new. 1430 01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:35,640 Speaker 3: You know, Cam has a day off. We don't have 1431 01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:39,120 Speaker 3: to rush back for munch anything, so might as well 1432 01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:41,800 Speaker 3: go out. And uh, it was expensive, I'm gonna tell 1433 01:14:41,800 --> 01:14:42,320 Speaker 3: you that much. 1434 01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:44,840 Speaker 4: Yes, I didn't realize it was that I didn't look 1435 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:45,760 Speaker 4: at the price on the menu. 1436 01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:46,200 Speaker 2: My bad. 1437 01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,120 Speaker 3: First of all, I should have known its expensive. The 1438 01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:50,479 Speaker 3: menu was on the outside of the door. Y'all know 1439 01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:51,160 Speaker 3: what I'm talking about. 1440 01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:54,400 Speaker 2: Y'all. Y'all know, like I'm not a fancy person by 1441 01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:55,960 Speaker 2: any means. I went in there in an Archer T 1442 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:59,479 Speaker 2: shirt and some shorts. But fancy people know what I'm 1443 01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:02,040 Speaker 2: talking about. If it's on the outside, They're like, these 1444 01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:05,800 Speaker 2: are the prices. It's probably a little price, Like we. 1445 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:08,600 Speaker 4: Don't want no stick a shock when you order something. 1446 01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:10,519 Speaker 2: Right k by bus you saw this ship walking in. 1447 01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,040 Speaker 3: So we went to lunch and like the bill for 1448 01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:16,759 Speaker 3: lunch came up to one hundred dollars. 1449 01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:21,680 Speaker 2: Yeah that's before the tip, you know. And yeah, I 1450 01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:25,920 Speaker 2: tipped like twenty five dollars or something. Like that. You know, 1451 01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:30,719 Speaker 2: I'm not a rockfeller, but we had oysters, rock feller, 1452 01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:35,400 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, you know, but we they 1453 01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:36,840 Speaker 2: did have dollar oysters. 1454 01:15:37,360 --> 01:15:42,640 Speaker 3: But I've never eaten ound oysters before, y'all. So I 1455 01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:46,200 Speaker 3: was like, the one thing that's on sale is the 1456 01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:50,040 Speaker 3: one thing I don't want to fucking eat. Fucking and 1457 01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:51,080 Speaker 3: they don't sound feeling. 1458 01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:54,679 Speaker 2: To be honest, I've never met somebody's like, oh, I'm 1459 01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:56,160 Speaker 2: stuffed off them oysters. 1460 01:15:56,560 --> 01:15:58,080 Speaker 4: When has anybody ever said that. 1461 01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:00,600 Speaker 2: Ship, Oh, they give you too many oysters up and there, Like, 1462 01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:03,040 Speaker 2: I've never had that conversation, too. 1463 01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,200 Speaker 4: Big for me to finish one. I've never heard that either. 1464 01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:11,640 Speaker 3: Right, But they did have you know, the menu, and 1465 01:16:12,120 --> 01:16:13,960 Speaker 3: you know so, and some of the stuff was very 1466 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,400 Speaker 3: affordable stuff. But it was almost like, well, if you 1467 01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:18,920 Speaker 3: want to eat this ship, you might as well go 1468 01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:21,760 Speaker 3: all in. They aint had no lunch specials. They don't 1469 01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:24,160 Speaker 3: even open up till after lunch. That's how you know 1470 01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:26,080 Speaker 3: it's an expensive restaurant. 1471 01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:29,920 Speaker 2: These niggas don't have a lunch three They're like, trust us, 1472 01:16:30,040 --> 01:16:33,040 Speaker 2: trust us, nobody spending this kind of money for lunch. 1473 01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:38,400 Speaker 2: Just don't open till three we ain't got I did 1474 01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:40,120 Speaker 2: take a picture of the menu, so I do have. 1475 01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:44,680 Speaker 2: Here's here's the thing, guys, I'm not fancy, but I 1476 01:16:44,840 --> 01:16:48,400 Speaker 2: prefer to fake it till I make it. 1477 01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:52,519 Speaker 3: That's how I refer Karen does not Karen will come 1478 01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:57,560 Speaker 3: out and all the questions like I. 1479 01:16:57,240 --> 01:16:59,479 Speaker 2: You know, I want to pretend to be boujie. I 1480 01:16:59,479 --> 01:16:59,720 Speaker 2: want to. 1481 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,200 Speaker 3: And if I go to some place I've never been 1482 01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:05,680 Speaker 3: to before, it's like authentic Korean dishes. 1483 01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 2: I will YouTube and google the fuck out of your menu. 1484 01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:11,519 Speaker 2: Like I'll be like, oh, I'll take a water, just 1485 01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:13,880 Speaker 2: take your time bringing it back. And then while you're going, 1486 01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:19,440 Speaker 2: I'll be like, how do you eat meat? Vietnameats, meatballs. 1487 01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:21,960 Speaker 4: I'm not We've been mad. I know I'm ignorant. 1488 01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:25,439 Speaker 2: What is cool? Coos coos coos? I don't. I'm not 1489 01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:27,960 Speaker 2: saying I don't. I'm not. I'm not saying I didn't 1490 01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:28,799 Speaker 2: know you're ignorant. 1491 01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:31,519 Speaker 3: I'm saying this is the thing I deal with every 1492 01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:34,280 Speaker 3: time we go out to someplace new. Is you know, 1493 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:38,439 Speaker 3: I prefer to go in Cognigro and Caar's just all 1494 01:17:38,520 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 3: like what's just here? And I'm like, oh god, these 1495 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:43,639 Speaker 3: white people in. 1496 01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:46,840 Speaker 2: Here judging, you know. Meanwhile, but and this happens a 1497 01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 2: lot too. 1498 01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:50,120 Speaker 3: Meanwhile, as soon as they walk away from my table, Uh, 1499 01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:51,680 Speaker 3: it'll be some white people next to us. 1500 01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:53,680 Speaker 2: Like, girl, I didn't know what that is either. So 1501 01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:57,439 Speaker 2: you say, so it's sounding and grids. Okay, I'm like, damn, 1502 01:17:57,479 --> 01:17:58,479 Speaker 2: white people didn't even know. 1503 01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:02,760 Speaker 4: I'm like, what is this? What's on it? In him? 1504 01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:04,599 Speaker 2: We all in him? Fagan? 1505 01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:06,880 Speaker 3: All right, So here's some of the things they had 1506 01:18:08,360 --> 01:18:11,639 Speaker 3: old with the E O L D E salt clams 1507 01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:17,320 Speaker 3: grown underneath are old soft oysters and. 1508 01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:25,760 Speaker 2: U what the fuck places cheek chinko talk Chico tig Virginia. 1509 01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:30,439 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, so is right? They had three different types 1510 01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:36,040 Speaker 3: of oysters on the halfshell. They had rappahannock topping Virginia. Uh, 1511 01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:40,720 Speaker 3: they had Roa Schambeau Yorktown, Virginia and old salts, which 1512 01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:42,439 Speaker 3: is the chinko tig Virginia. 1513 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:43,960 Speaker 2: Yep. I don't know. 1514 01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:45,960 Speaker 4: I don't know shout out to Virginia. 1515 01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:49,880 Speaker 2: I don't know when all those cities, those spots in 1516 01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:51,000 Speaker 2: the ocean. I have no idea. 1517 01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:55,599 Speaker 3: They had savice, which we have before at a different place. Okay, 1518 01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:57,240 Speaker 3: it wasn't my favorite. 1519 01:18:57,520 --> 01:18:58,680 Speaker 2: You know, it's like. 1520 01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:03,080 Speaker 3: And a bunch of cold seafood cooked and lemon or 1521 01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:04,640 Speaker 3: some shit. I wasn't a fan of it. It was 1522 01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:08,120 Speaker 3: okay for me. Maybe it was the one place I 1523 01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,400 Speaker 3: had it. I don't know, but you know, it felt 1524 01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:13,439 Speaker 3: like a like you get and it came in. 1525 01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:15,080 Speaker 2: Like a drinking glass. It was like, am I supposed 1526 01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:18,559 Speaker 2: drink these shrimp? It feels all too much? All too much. 1527 01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:24,200 Speaker 3: They had chilled Carolina shrimp cocktail. I almost got that. 1528 01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,920 Speaker 3: It just says to each I guess two dollars a shrimp, 1529 01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:32,719 Speaker 3: there'll be some big ass shrimp huge. The Greenway platt, 1530 01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:35,600 Speaker 3: this white niggas go to red lost it because you 1531 01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:37,960 Speaker 3: know what, right, Chella Bay Biscuits. 1532 01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:39,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna get a whole basket. 1533 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:43,559 Speaker 3: All right, the Greenway platter. Six oyster, six clan savich, 1534 01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:47,360 Speaker 3: six Carolina shrimp. That's thirty eight dollars. So I knew 1535 01:19:47,400 --> 01:19:51,840 Speaker 3: I wasn't getting that advertised right. The Meyers Park, now 1536 01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:55,680 Speaker 3: Meyer's Park is the local community where this restaurant is, 1537 01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:59,479 Speaker 3: and it's a very upscale community for rich white people 1538 01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:03,960 Speaker 3: and shit. Twelve oysters, twelve clam savche twelve Carolina shrimp 1539 01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:05,040 Speaker 3: seventy two dollars. 1540 01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:08,760 Speaker 4: Right, I was like, bit that better, feed me the 1541 01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:11,320 Speaker 4: shrimp better, just jumping my goddamn mouth. Seventy two dollars. 1542 01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:13,760 Speaker 2: It must be like a business team out if you 1543 01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:16,000 Speaker 2: get that one, you get that shit. 1544 01:20:16,000 --> 01:20:18,479 Speaker 3: It's like and seafooding, the kind of thing you can 1545 01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:21,880 Speaker 3: necessarily bring home and just let sit for a while, 1546 01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:22,120 Speaker 3: like you. 1547 01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:25,120 Speaker 2: Got to keep it chill. Everything your house a stink. 1548 01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:32,360 Speaker 3: So then they had from the Bay barclay oyster chowder, slab, bacon, leaks, 1549 01:20:32,400 --> 01:20:33,080 Speaker 3: and potatoes. 1550 01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:35,040 Speaker 2: So I can imagine that that is some type of soup. 1551 01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:36,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought about get that. 1552 01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:39,400 Speaker 3: Steam shrimp, half a pound of white shrimp o bay 1553 01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,760 Speaker 3: and lemon, and that's fourteen dollars. But I just kept 1554 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:45,640 Speaker 3: thinking like that seems like if I'm gonna go here, 1555 01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:47,600 Speaker 3: that's the least amount of effort they could put in 1556 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:50,120 Speaker 3: a dish. Nah, nigga, Nope, you're gonna do a little 1557 01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:52,960 Speaker 3: bit motor sprints and obey on it. Right, fourteen dollars 1558 01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:54,720 Speaker 3: for some a pound, nigga, I just go get a 1559 01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:56,960 Speaker 3: pound of shrimp and do that. I can do all 1560 01:20:57,000 --> 01:20:59,720 Speaker 3: that myself. All that that is the minimal put some 1561 01:20:59,840 --> 01:21:01,280 Speaker 3: old based season some lemon. 1562 01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:03,479 Speaker 2: Might as well. Like this is where I was trying 1563 01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:05,719 Speaker 2: to be bougie, right, I was like, So then basically 1564 01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:08,760 Speaker 2: that's like the broke meal. It's like, excuse me, I'm 1565 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:11,439 Speaker 2: not culture that I'm broke. I'd like shrimp, thank you 1566 01:21:11,760 --> 01:21:16,400 Speaker 2: or found of yes's just steam shrimp, nothing else, lampster, 1567 01:21:16,720 --> 01:21:24,200 Speaker 2: las lamb lamb and clam casino. And then it says Margauaves. 1568 01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what murgass is. Is that like a 1569 01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:28,320 Speaker 2: Mexican dude, I don't know. 1570 01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:33,479 Speaker 3: I don't know who that pickle peppers, lemon, and bread crunbs. 1571 01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:38,799 Speaker 3: That's ten dollars, roasted oysters, barbecue, bourbon, bacon at oyster 1572 01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:39,840 Speaker 3: fourteen dollars. 1573 01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:44,240 Speaker 2: I almost got that. I almost got that. But see 1574 01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:45,840 Speaker 2: that's the thing from the Bay. I don't like. Are 1575 01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,000 Speaker 2: these the advertisers of the meal? I don't know. It 1576 01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:50,080 Speaker 2: was so confused because this is also at the top 1577 01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:52,680 Speaker 2: of the menu, and then the meal meal is at 1578 01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:55,160 Speaker 2: the bottom. So this is from the Bay. 1579 01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:59,960 Speaker 3: Still the roasted Croxton platter for barbecue for bourbon, bay 1580 01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:00,840 Speaker 3: can for stuff. 1581 01:22:01,600 --> 01:22:02,719 Speaker 2: Who the fuck is Croxton? 1582 01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:04,040 Speaker 4: I asked that. 1583 01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:07,519 Speaker 3: I thought I listen, guys, I feel some embarrassed. But 1584 01:22:07,600 --> 01:22:09,880 Speaker 3: I literally looked up Croxton thinking it was like a 1585 01:22:09,960 --> 01:22:10,880 Speaker 3: type of fish or something. 1586 01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:12,760 Speaker 6: I was like, what is it? 1587 01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:15,560 Speaker 2: You can go fishing for Croxton? Like, is that like 1588 01:22:15,680 --> 01:22:16,120 Speaker 2: a squid? 1589 01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:18,320 Speaker 4: I was like, what is this, ma'am? 1590 01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:22,160 Speaker 2: No, Croxton is apparently the dude that founded the restaurant 1591 01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:25,000 Speaker 2: or some shit, like okay, some type of shill or 1592 01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:25,400 Speaker 2: some shit. 1593 01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:26,200 Speaker 4: Uh. 1594 01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:27,760 Speaker 2: Then you go to small place. 1595 01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:30,320 Speaker 3: Now, small places typically all like get advertisers and shit. 1596 01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:32,280 Speaker 3: So I just read you a bunch of shit, right, 1597 01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:33,640 Speaker 3: that's at the top of the menu, which is what 1598 01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:34,600 Speaker 3: advertising only go. 1599 01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:36,679 Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck those are anymore. 1600 01:22:36,760 --> 01:22:41,200 Speaker 4: With those appetisers too, I don't know, idea, I don't know. 1601 01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:42,519 Speaker 2: I'm at a lot. 1602 01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:45,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, we we went for the experience, y'all because everybody 1603 01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:45,760 Speaker 4: was lost in the. 1604 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:50,479 Speaker 2: Room, right, small plates, blistered shit shit toes. 1605 01:22:51,560 --> 01:22:55,479 Speaker 4: Oh the hell is that? I didn't even see that one. 1606 01:22:56,320 --> 01:22:58,120 Speaker 2: Blistered shit shit toes. 1607 01:22:58,760 --> 01:22:59,920 Speaker 4: They sound like they're having a hard time. 1608 01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:06,280 Speaker 3: It has Togarashi botarga olive orange and olive oil. 1609 01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:09,879 Speaker 2: For six dollars? Is that is that a mushroom? 1610 01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:12,080 Speaker 4: So? 1611 01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:15,760 Speaker 2: I don't know, and I didn't have time to google 1612 01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,120 Speaker 2: this one, so I just was like, it was like 1613 01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:20,120 Speaker 2: motival choice test. I was like, it's definitely not sea, 1614 01:23:20,320 --> 01:23:21,840 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like, no, not that one. 1615 01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:28,360 Speaker 3: Beat tartine, Greek yogurt, pecans, za tar, lemon, and deal. 1616 01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:31,360 Speaker 2: I don't know it said beat. I was out, you 1617 01:23:31,520 --> 01:23:35,400 Speaker 2: lost me at beats. I'm not like beats. I don't 1618 01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:39,800 Speaker 2: even keep those around. Pimento dip, goat cheese, white cheddar, 1619 01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:44,120 Speaker 2: and poppa dus pepper dus. I don't know what the 1620 01:23:44,120 --> 01:23:47,479 Speaker 2: pepper du is. Is that what you put to dip on? 1621 01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:54,320 Speaker 3: Beef tartar, smoke, mushroom, ashra, blue hazel nuts, earl of pepper. 1622 01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:58,559 Speaker 2: Problem with beef tartar is it sounds gross. It sounded 1623 01:23:58,600 --> 01:24:02,680 Speaker 2: like it sounds it sounds like how you think caviar 1624 01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:06,160 Speaker 2: is good, but then you order and you're like, this 1625 01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:09,559 Speaker 2: is just fish eggs. This is nasty. It's the worst 1626 01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:10,880 Speaker 2: part of the fish. This is the part of fish 1627 01:24:10,920 --> 01:24:13,679 Speaker 2: I would never want to eat. Gets all your teeth. 1628 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:15,800 Speaker 2: Uh be tatar. I feel like I saw that in 1629 01:24:15,840 --> 01:24:17,679 Speaker 2: the movie or something. It was like, Eh, that's eat 1630 01:24:17,800 --> 01:24:18,439 Speaker 2: that's nasty. 1631 01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, look creamy, can't you spread it, don't you. 1632 01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:24,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I think it's a spread. 1633 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:26,519 Speaker 3: Maybe that's brief pathao, I don't know. 1634 01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:29,800 Speaker 4: Something is I ain't know. 1635 01:24:30,000 --> 01:24:31,160 Speaker 2: So I was out right. 1636 01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:37,479 Speaker 3: Toad in the hole, which is how smoke trout, caper, aoli, 1637 01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:45,639 Speaker 3: shallotte and everything spice pop girl right, a bone marrow, 1638 01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:51,479 Speaker 3: pickled raisins, fresno duka and grilled bread bone marrow right, 1639 01:24:52,479 --> 01:24:53,880 Speaker 3: I'm like, right, do I need to? 1640 01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:57,479 Speaker 2: And it's what you donate to people. I'm not eating 1641 01:24:57,520 --> 01:25:03,360 Speaker 2: that the all right, who's bone? 1642 01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:03,639 Speaker 4: Male? 1643 01:25:04,160 --> 01:25:07,280 Speaker 2: Who agreed to this happening? Are you taking my bone? 1644 01:25:07,360 --> 01:25:08,120 Speaker 4: Maw right? 1645 01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:10,439 Speaker 2: I don't understand. Uh. 1646 01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:15,880 Speaker 3: Then there was tuna, tartar, coffee, vinegrete, egg, yolk, hazel 1647 01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:22,200 Speaker 3: nuts and chili threads. Chili threads not like the name 1648 01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:24,240 Speaker 3: where you buy your suits in Eastland. 1649 01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:29,000 Speaker 2: Mall, come on in, ymp, come in, come in, brother, 1650 01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:32,240 Speaker 2: let me be in your ear walking to chili three heads. 1651 01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:34,720 Speaker 4: Chili thread is red. They look good on you. 1652 01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:37,760 Speaker 2: You look good at a purple suit? Boy, Yes, get 1653 01:25:37,840 --> 01:25:38,559 Speaker 2: ready for Easter. 1654 01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:47,360 Speaker 3: There was charred charred farmers, cheese, seeds, honeylemon, vinaigrette and chili. 1655 01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:51,240 Speaker 3: Now we ordered this why because of all the seventy 1656 01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:53,760 Speaker 3: five things I hadn't understood at this point, that was 1657 01:25:53,800 --> 01:25:54,040 Speaker 3: the one. 1658 01:25:54,080 --> 01:25:57,200 Speaker 2: I said, let me ask her, and I know she 1659 01:25:57,360 --> 01:26:03,439 Speaker 2: explained it to us. We looked like like she might 1660 01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:05,680 Speaker 2: as well have been talking like Charlie Brown teacher, y'all, w. 1661 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:07,760 Speaker 4: Want won't want want want want want. 1662 01:26:08,479 --> 01:26:10,560 Speaker 2: I heard first of all, she started off like we 1663 01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:13,280 Speaker 2: knew what charred was. She was like, oh, well, it's 1664 01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:16,760 Speaker 2: literally charred. And we charted and I was like, that 1665 01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:19,840 Speaker 2: still don't mean nothing. Delicious, is what I said. I 1666 01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:20,960 Speaker 2: didn't say that don't mean nothing. 1667 01:26:21,240 --> 01:26:22,800 Speaker 4: And then she compared it or something else, and I 1668 01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:24,519 Speaker 4: don't know what that is either. 1669 01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:29,000 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. All right. We ordered that and it was 1670 01:26:29,080 --> 01:26:34,000 Speaker 2: basically leaves that were they burned. Then they put a 1671 01:26:34,160 --> 01:26:37,720 Speaker 2: lump of cheese on top of the leaves and some 1672 01:26:37,880 --> 01:26:41,240 Speaker 2: seeds and some some oil, and I guess she's supposed 1673 01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:43,080 Speaker 2: to mix it out together and eat it like greens. 1674 01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:47,439 Speaker 2: And that ship was twelve dollars and it was not 1675 01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:49,479 Speaker 2: very good. I don't know what was talking Abount. 1676 01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:52,320 Speaker 3: You just enjoyed it, Karen, just enjoys being out the house. 1677 01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:57,479 Speaker 3: Don't if you go there, don't order that, Okay, I'm 1678 01:26:57,560 --> 01:26:58,000 Speaker 3: just telling you. 1679 01:27:00,640 --> 01:27:03,120 Speaker 4: And the Internet told me that charret is like a 1680 01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:04,599 Speaker 4: type of leaf, like a collar green. 1681 01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:07,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I would have rather had some collar greens. Uh, 1682 01:27:10,720 --> 01:27:14,120 Speaker 2: grilled rappini, which is wheatberry preserved lemon goat cheese. And 1683 01:27:14,200 --> 01:27:18,400 Speaker 2: Fresno Fresno. That's just like a place. What the fuck 1684 01:27:18,520 --> 01:27:21,599 Speaker 2: is Fresno? If you google Fresno is gonna be like, uh, 1685 01:27:22,520 --> 01:27:26,360 Speaker 2: Fresno a place in California. The fuck. You can't put 1686 01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:29,600 Speaker 2: Fresno on a thing, you know. It's like, oh, you 1687 01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:33,240 Speaker 2: want some Charlotte on that bread? Oh, yes, indeed I 1688 01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:34,160 Speaker 2: will take some of that. 1689 01:27:34,640 --> 01:27:36,280 Speaker 4: No, it don't work like that. 1690 01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:37,960 Speaker 2: You got any Chesapeake in there? 1691 01:27:38,120 --> 01:27:38,160 Speaker 4: No? 1692 01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:44,320 Speaker 3: Okay, but yeah some Fresno Brussels scrout, Caesar Brussels sprout, 1693 01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:48,040 Speaker 3: caesar anchovy ali. So they lost me at Brussels sprouts 1694 01:27:48,080 --> 01:27:52,240 Speaker 3: and anchovy garlic, bread crumbs and pecorino. 1695 01:27:55,479 --> 01:28:00,920 Speaker 2: Then I also asked her about this cheese and charcouchie and. 1696 01:28:00,920 --> 01:28:04,360 Speaker 3: It says three or five daily special daily selection with 1697 01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:06,960 Speaker 3: the accompaniments. And she went into details and it was 1698 01:28:07,040 --> 01:28:09,160 Speaker 3: all like meats and cheeses that they bring out on 1699 01:28:09,240 --> 01:28:09,719 Speaker 3: a platter. 1700 01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:10,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1701 01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:14,880 Speaker 3: Bo, if you think I'm leaving my motherfucking house to 1702 01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:17,200 Speaker 3: pay twenty three dollars for you to sit out. So 1703 01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:21,400 Speaker 3: a goddamn unassembled sandwich in my face with no bread. 1704 01:28:21,800 --> 01:28:24,000 Speaker 3: You must be get out of your motherfucking mind. I 1705 01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:25,120 Speaker 3: knew I wasn't getting that one. 1706 01:28:25,520 --> 01:28:26,880 Speaker 4: No fread no. 1707 01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:29,839 Speaker 2: I was looking at her face, like you, this is ridiculous, 1708 01:28:30,240 --> 01:28:32,280 Speaker 2: Like I don't know what that one was, Like what 1709 01:28:33,520 --> 01:28:36,840 Speaker 2: you didn't make the meal? I can do that. I 1710 01:28:37,040 --> 01:28:38,879 Speaker 2: just go to the deli, give me a slice of everything, 1711 01:28:39,080 --> 01:28:41,040 Speaker 2: and they just put it on a plate, like, there 1712 01:28:41,080 --> 01:28:46,479 Speaker 2: you go. You got some cheese and chocolate, jewry Chicarturi enjoyed. 1713 01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:50,640 Speaker 2: That'll be thirty seven dollars. Then simple fish, which was 1714 01:28:50,720 --> 01:28:52,000 Speaker 2: market price, but I can't remember. 1715 01:28:52,280 --> 01:28:53,960 Speaker 3: She told us a simple fish when we walked in, 1716 01:28:54,360 --> 01:28:57,200 Speaker 3: but to be honest, she ain't like four different types 1717 01:28:57,240 --> 01:28:58,840 Speaker 3: of fish, and I was like, do you get all 1718 01:28:58,920 --> 01:28:59,960 Speaker 3: of those for the simple fish? 1719 01:29:00,720 --> 01:29:01,719 Speaker 2: Do you get one of those? 1720 01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:04,720 Speaker 4: I don't know. She said market price, and I tuned out, 1721 01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:05,720 Speaker 4: like I flipped. 1722 01:29:05,439 --> 01:29:07,600 Speaker 2: The tag old and was like, oh my yeah, I 1723 01:29:07,880 --> 01:29:11,080 Speaker 2: think I would have. I wasn't scared of market price. 1724 01:29:11,120 --> 01:29:12,640 Speaker 3: I just was scared of not knowing the funk that 1725 01:29:12,800 --> 01:29:16,040 Speaker 3: meant you know market no not no, no, no, not 1726 01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:19,120 Speaker 3: what market price means. When she named all five types 1727 01:29:19,160 --> 01:29:21,840 Speaker 3: of fish, she was like, and we have our simple fish, 1728 01:29:21,880 --> 01:29:25,760 Speaker 3: which is a Carolina called trout, and sea bass, and 1729 01:29:25,960 --> 01:29:27,640 Speaker 3: we have some salmon and we had I was. 1730 01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:30,519 Speaker 2: Like, do you get all of them? Do I pick one? 1731 01:29:30,680 --> 01:29:31,479 Speaker 2: Do I pick a couple? 1732 01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:32,519 Speaker 4: Just the side? 1733 01:29:33,040 --> 01:29:36,240 Speaker 2: D She didn't name a side start a new Oh ship, 1734 01:29:36,240 --> 01:29:36,760 Speaker 2: it's time. 1735 01:29:36,920 --> 01:29:40,840 Speaker 4: All I know. We lost them. They're gonna be like 1736 01:29:40,840 --> 01:29:41,560 Speaker 4: where the hell they go? 1737 01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:43,960 Speaker 2: Oh man, I hope we weren't going for a long time, 1738 01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,080 Speaker 2: but it just it just went over, okay, all right 1739 01:29:51,280 --> 01:30:06,479 Speaker 2: mm hmm starting part two mm hm hmmm. Yes, And 1740 01:30:06,600 --> 01:30:11,040 Speaker 2: I called him to the session. Oh yeah, they didn't 1741 01:30:11,040 --> 01:30:14,120 Speaker 2: miss on, like okay, yeah, I hope they didn't miss much. 1742 01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:20,479 Speaker 3: My dad, man, it's your yeah, nah, I normally keep 1743 01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:21,960 Speaker 3: track of that. That's my fault, guys. 1744 01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:25,599 Speaker 2: But uh yeah, we was at Cheese and Cutterie. 1745 01:30:26,280 --> 01:30:29,400 Speaker 3: Oh we had simple fish, so uh yeah, I didn't 1746 01:30:29,439 --> 01:30:31,320 Speaker 3: know the simple fish because I couldn't remember that. She 1747 01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:33,120 Speaker 3: had told us like thirty minutes and we had already 1748 01:30:33,120 --> 01:30:34,800 Speaker 3: made her weight and I didn't want to make her 1749 01:30:34,840 --> 01:30:35,519 Speaker 3: repeat it, so. 1750 01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:36,320 Speaker 2: I just said fuck it. 1751 01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:39,880 Speaker 4: Yea side, you get to pick one, right. 1752 01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:44,479 Speaker 2: So then we get to live place, I mean large plates, right, 1753 01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:45,960 Speaker 2: and this is like your meal meals. 1754 01:30:46,080 --> 01:30:46,200 Speaker 4: Right. 1755 01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:50,200 Speaker 2: So we get to large place, and they had the 1756 01:30:50,320 --> 01:30:52,680 Speaker 2: rock Sock burger, which is red and. 1757 01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:56,759 Speaker 3: It just says red onion jam, farmhouse cheese and garlic pickle, 1758 01:30:58,439 --> 01:30:59,280 Speaker 3: sixteen dollars. 1759 01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,519 Speaker 2: Not a thing with this one is this? That's the 1760 01:31:04,600 --> 01:31:06,240 Speaker 2: safest bat right, right? 1761 01:31:06,479 --> 01:31:09,720 Speaker 3: But I had a burger the day before something, you know, 1762 01:31:10,160 --> 01:31:12,519 Speaker 3: and I just didn't feel right getting another burger two 1763 01:31:12,560 --> 01:31:13,080 Speaker 3: days in a row. 1764 01:31:13,320 --> 01:31:15,760 Speaker 4: Not not unless that burger was made out of some ship. 1765 01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:17,439 Speaker 4: They didn't tell you it was other than beef. 1766 01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:21,360 Speaker 2: Be right, Yes, this is tar burger. 1767 01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:22,479 Speaker 4: We didn't tell you that. On the midio? 1768 01:31:23,160 --> 01:31:25,960 Speaker 2: What the mid Atlantic Mixed grill? 1769 01:31:26,200 --> 01:31:29,520 Speaker 3: Which is market cats, shrimp clowns oi, it's just anchovy 1770 01:31:29,600 --> 01:31:30,720 Speaker 3: South of Verde MP. 1771 01:31:32,360 --> 01:31:36,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know. Maybe one day I 1772 01:31:36,439 --> 01:31:38,439 Speaker 4: might be growing up to not to be afraid of MP. 1773 01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:40,560 Speaker 4: But I see MP, like, bitch, you ain't putting the 1774 01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:42,680 Speaker 4: price on here. There's a reason why I'm good. M 1775 01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:45,840 Speaker 4: please say if a man please, that's what you're telling them, 1776 01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:46,479 Speaker 4: My black ass. 1777 01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:48,880 Speaker 3: Nah, I wasn't get it the MP, to be honest, 1778 01:31:48,960 --> 01:31:51,240 Speaker 3: but I just like I said, I didn't want some 1779 01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:51,880 Speaker 3: of this stuff. 1780 01:31:54,760 --> 01:31:54,880 Speaker 4: Uh. 1781 01:31:55,120 --> 01:32:01,040 Speaker 3: Then there was a whole fish, charred tomato, oozer olas, 1782 01:32:01,160 --> 01:32:02,639 Speaker 3: grilled lemon and herbs. 1783 01:32:03,320 --> 01:32:05,800 Speaker 2: MP. I don't like whole fish because you probably get 1784 01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:08,040 Speaker 2: ahead with your eyes. 1785 01:32:07,920 --> 01:32:11,040 Speaker 4: Right and everything like uh like when your deaving will 1786 01:32:11,080 --> 01:32:13,479 Speaker 4: go fishing, you'll get with the scales on the shit. Yeah, 1787 01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:15,400 Speaker 4: got your scale the shit too. No thank you not 1788 01:32:15,520 --> 01:32:17,920 Speaker 4: a fan, No thank you if you don't take this 1789 01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:19,560 Speaker 4: shit and clean it, No thank you. 1790 01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:25,000 Speaker 3: Pork sugo, sugo, farmers dance, farmer dance, pork. I don't 1791 01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:30,360 Speaker 3: know that nigga uh semolina ha ha ha semolina, nocci, 1792 01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:35,200 Speaker 3: nucci nocci, herb ricotta and hazel nut. That one sounded good, 1793 01:32:35,439 --> 01:32:37,479 Speaker 3: but it had two prices, twelve and twenty. I don't 1794 01:32:37,520 --> 01:32:38,040 Speaker 3: know what that means. 1795 01:32:38,040 --> 01:32:38,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1796 01:32:38,479 --> 01:32:40,400 Speaker 4: I don't know. It was the smaller laws is the 1797 01:32:40,560 --> 01:32:41,519 Speaker 4: half of the full. 1798 01:32:41,720 --> 01:32:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, it felt weird going to like a seafood 1799 01:32:44,040 --> 01:32:49,280 Speaker 2: restaurant and being like, I'll take the pork please, crab cake. 1800 01:32:51,080 --> 01:32:53,120 Speaker 2: That's what I got it with the good It counts. 1801 01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:57,640 Speaker 3: With mustard, romula, rimulay, I don't know, don't pronouncing that right, 1802 01:32:58,240 --> 01:33:02,400 Speaker 3: KOs Law green, tomato, o child and Karen Howard. 1803 01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:06,320 Speaker 2: Your crab cakes good delicious. Listen. I smashed her crab cakes, 1804 01:33:06,320 --> 01:33:09,680 Speaker 2: the smith rings, the crab cakes was playing, shopped them 1805 01:33:09,720 --> 01:33:12,680 Speaker 2: all the way down to the floor. I don't think 1806 01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:12,920 Speaker 2: I did. 1807 01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:14,960 Speaker 3: When I did, I could tell the difference in them 1808 01:33:15,040 --> 01:33:18,840 Speaker 3: crab cakes and other people crab cakes because it was 1809 01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:23,760 Speaker 3: so much crab, Like, yeah, too many crabcakes, be too 1810 01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:25,320 Speaker 3: much cake, not enough crab. 1811 01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:28,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, you got the you would dare call this 1812 01:33:29,160 --> 01:33:33,600 Speaker 2: a crab cake, sir, this is a cake crab but no, 1813 01:33:33,800 --> 01:33:35,800 Speaker 2: this is felt like crab and a little bit. 1814 01:33:35,760 --> 01:33:38,280 Speaker 4: Of cake, which is what I wanted, so it was 1815 01:33:38,360 --> 01:33:38,680 Speaker 4: worth it. 1816 01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:47,160 Speaker 2: Scallops pharaoh verdet, ramp saucer verdet and charred leak. Uh, 1817 01:33:47,240 --> 01:33:56,519 Speaker 2: that's what I got. I liked. I liked it. But guys, gods, guys, listen, listen. 1818 01:33:57,760 --> 01:34:02,080 Speaker 3: It's twenty six dollars, okay, cancers, Uh will your krabcakes 1819 01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:03,559 Speaker 3: twenty four dollars? 1820 01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:06,120 Speaker 2: Okay? Mine was twenty six dollars. 1821 01:34:06,680 --> 01:34:10,600 Speaker 3: I took a picture and I posted online, nigga it 1822 01:34:10,760 --> 01:34:12,360 Speaker 3: filled only half the plate? 1823 01:34:13,840 --> 01:34:15,880 Speaker 2: Why the fuck did you bring me this big ass plate? 1824 01:34:15,960 --> 01:34:18,320 Speaker 2: I don't mind did it only? I don't mind the 1825 01:34:18,400 --> 01:34:20,360 Speaker 2: portion that I got? Yeah, the plate, I found it 1826 01:34:20,560 --> 01:34:23,240 Speaker 2: very weird. Did you put it in a huge fucking bowl? 1827 01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:27,080 Speaker 2: It looked like you went here, you can have half, you. 1828 01:34:27,080 --> 01:34:30,120 Speaker 4: Know what I mean? We didn't put the two sides 1829 01:34:30,160 --> 01:34:30,439 Speaker 4: in there. 1830 01:34:31,040 --> 01:34:35,679 Speaker 3: Now you only get four scallops. And it's on top 1831 01:34:35,760 --> 01:34:39,559 Speaker 3: of whatever that ship says they It just says far 1832 01:34:39,720 --> 01:34:40,200 Speaker 3: o verde? 1833 01:34:40,520 --> 01:34:41,080 Speaker 2: Is that a thing? 1834 01:34:42,280 --> 01:34:46,320 Speaker 3: I says averd fara verdet ramp sauce of verdet and 1835 01:34:46,439 --> 01:34:50,280 Speaker 3: charge leak, So it doesn't even say like, you know 1836 01:34:50,320 --> 01:34:51,720 Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like, I don't know what the fuck 1837 01:34:51,720 --> 01:34:53,160 Speaker 3: it was on top of it was like a fake 1838 01:34:53,200 --> 01:34:54,760 Speaker 3: ass right y'all, I don't know what it was. 1839 01:34:54,920 --> 01:34:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1840 01:34:55,160 --> 01:34:57,479 Speaker 4: With that, I do agree presentations matter. If they didn't 1841 01:34:57,479 --> 01:34:59,240 Speaker 4: done a smaller plate, it would have made a world 1842 01:34:59,280 --> 01:34:59,839 Speaker 4: for the difference. 1843 01:35:00,240 --> 01:35:03,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. I was very taken aback by because 1844 01:35:03,280 --> 01:35:06,080 Speaker 2: people visually eat. Yeah, I was like, what, so what's 1845 01:35:06,120 --> 01:35:08,040 Speaker 2: the extra part to play for? Just to play around in. 1846 01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:12,519 Speaker 4: Even though designs or not, Because that's knowing what people doing, 1847 01:35:12,600 --> 01:35:13,200 Speaker 4: they get them big. 1848 01:35:13,120 --> 01:35:22,680 Speaker 3: As plates, right handmade Kapunti. It comes with house milled furrow, smoke, carrots. 1849 01:35:22,439 --> 01:35:25,719 Speaker 2: Zach, spetta, and sug. I don't know that sug avery 1850 01:35:25,880 --> 01:35:27,800 Speaker 2: sugar night. I don't know it. 1851 01:35:27,960 --> 01:35:31,760 Speaker 3: Just said sug s hug, which I meant I'm not 1852 01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:36,519 Speaker 3: getting it. And then they only had four sides, smoky grits, 1853 01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:43,280 Speaker 3: sweet potatoes with spiced soy and butter, braised greens with 1854 01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:47,040 Speaker 3: spicy miso broth, and roasted coliflower, yogurt and serrano. 1855 01:35:47,680 --> 01:35:52,519 Speaker 2: We got the grits and split it. Yeah, and I 1856 01:35:52,600 --> 01:35:55,479 Speaker 2: had a beer too. I felt very underdressed. I was 1857 01:35:55,520 --> 01:35:58,080 Speaker 2: wearing my Archer dangersone shirt. 1858 01:36:00,080 --> 01:36:01,680 Speaker 4: That might be but I du looked at him like, 1859 01:36:01,720 --> 01:36:02,599 Speaker 4: did y'all below here? 1860 01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:04,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, if I knew the prices before I walked in, 1861 01:36:04,800 --> 01:36:06,080 Speaker 2: I probably wouldn't have did that. 1862 01:36:08,120 --> 01:36:12,280 Speaker 4: And the grits came in like a little small black skillet. 1863 01:36:13,160 --> 01:36:15,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, all the grits was off the hook. The grits 1864 01:36:15,080 --> 01:36:17,439 Speaker 2: were the best part of meal. Here's the thing. Also, 1865 01:36:17,720 --> 01:36:21,360 Speaker 2: they don't give you any seasoning on your on your uh, 1866 01:36:21,840 --> 01:36:23,559 Speaker 2: on your table because they fans. 1867 01:36:23,680 --> 01:36:25,040 Speaker 4: They don't be salting pepper. 1868 01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:27,720 Speaker 2: And it's like you gotta ask for some salt man 1869 01:36:29,320 --> 01:36:31,400 Speaker 2: and uh. Then we had a couple of drinks. I 1870 01:36:31,439 --> 01:36:34,320 Speaker 2: had a beer and Karen had a cider. 1871 01:36:34,720 --> 01:36:37,479 Speaker 4: Yes, I got a cider, but I didn't know my 1872 01:36:37,640 --> 01:36:40,240 Speaker 4: sider was gonna be the whole goddamn bottle. I was like, yeah, 1873 01:36:40,280 --> 01:36:41,880 Speaker 4: can I ask them sider. She bought me a glass 1874 01:36:42,000 --> 01:36:43,400 Speaker 4: and poured the bottle and I thought she was gonna 1875 01:36:43,400 --> 01:36:44,760 Speaker 4: walk away. She set the bottle down. 1876 01:36:45,439 --> 01:36:46,960 Speaker 2: I got and then it was also weird. 1877 01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:50,640 Speaker 3: When I unrolled my napkin, I had a fork, a 1878 01:36:50,720 --> 01:36:52,479 Speaker 3: knife and then a little Kevin Hart fork. 1879 01:36:52,520 --> 01:36:54,280 Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck use this little one for? 1880 01:36:55,920 --> 01:36:57,759 Speaker 3: But I think you're supposed to use it to pokate 1881 01:36:57,840 --> 01:36:59,840 Speaker 3: the old oysters and then. 1882 01:37:00,120 --> 01:37:03,519 Speaker 2: You get loosen it up and suck it down. Ah okay, yeah. 1883 01:37:03,920 --> 01:37:06,880 Speaker 4: So and you know what, I bet you the wait 1884 01:37:07,000 --> 01:37:09,160 Speaker 4: staff there, I take you three much to learne them 1885 01:37:09,240 --> 01:37:09,400 Speaker 4: in you. 1886 01:37:10,560 --> 01:37:15,000 Speaker 2: It probably does care. They probably does. And they were 1887 01:37:15,040 --> 01:37:17,679 Speaker 2: training somebody new and stuff. They were very good service. 1888 01:37:17,800 --> 01:37:18,599 Speaker 2: I mean they were nice. 1889 01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:20,719 Speaker 3: One of the other ways I could tell it was fancy. 1890 01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:23,400 Speaker 3: They already have your water glasses on the table, y'all 1891 01:37:23,400 --> 01:37:26,800 Speaker 3: know what I'm talking about. And uh, it wasn't a 1892 01:37:26,920 --> 01:37:29,599 Speaker 3: big ass glass of water. It was like a fucking 1893 01:37:29,760 --> 01:37:32,880 Speaker 3: like a bigger than the shot glass. 1894 01:37:32,960 --> 01:37:35,840 Speaker 4: But he's like like one of them glasses. Somebody would 1895 01:37:35,840 --> 01:37:38,200 Speaker 4: just poor brown lit guion and just sip on for 1896 01:37:38,320 --> 01:37:41,200 Speaker 4: our and your granddaddy, like you put them half glasses 1897 01:37:41,439 --> 01:37:43,240 Speaker 4: right of water, like. 1898 01:37:43,439 --> 01:37:45,360 Speaker 3: The one thing you know you're gonna be drinking with 1899 01:37:45,439 --> 01:37:47,880 Speaker 3: the meal, and they give you like that little sip 1900 01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:51,320 Speaker 3: of water. Like eyes don't get too thirsty, yeah, because they. 1901 01:37:51,320 --> 01:37:52,479 Speaker 4: Go, well, we know most of it here. 1902 01:37:52,560 --> 01:37:53,080 Speaker 6: They ordered the. 1903 01:37:53,120 --> 01:37:53,960 Speaker 4: Drinks and shit like that. 1904 01:37:54,360 --> 01:37:57,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but uh yeah, it was an experience. 1905 01:37:57,960 --> 01:37:58,920 Speaker 4: Was just what we paid for. 1906 01:37:59,680 --> 01:38:02,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's that's definitely what we paid for. Yeah, 1907 01:38:05,479 --> 01:38:06,120 Speaker 2: all right, so. 1908 01:38:07,640 --> 01:38:09,760 Speaker 4: Make it good thing. We married. And we didn't put 1909 01:38:09,760 --> 01:38:11,760 Speaker 4: this on Twitter because people people have been fussing about it. 1910 01:38:11,840 --> 01:38:15,160 Speaker 4: They said for three days fussing about married people going 1911 01:38:15,200 --> 01:38:16,439 Speaker 4: out to lunch. 1912 01:38:17,840 --> 01:38:19,280 Speaker 2: Dollars mm hmm. 1913 01:38:21,080 --> 01:38:23,479 Speaker 3: I didn't even get no sex afterwards in now the hotel, 1914 01:38:23,560 --> 01:38:26,879 Speaker 3: nigga can come in. See that's the fine with these bitches, 1915 01:38:27,040 --> 01:38:28,040 Speaker 3: these black femininees. 1916 01:38:29,640 --> 01:38:33,000 Speaker 4: Black man ain't ship. It should have been indeed hours. 1917 01:38:33,000 --> 01:38:38,040 Speaker 3: M Yeah, I had golden boy blond l that's what 1918 01:38:38,160 --> 01:38:40,880 Speaker 3: I had, So it was good. 1919 01:38:41,640 --> 01:38:45,360 Speaker 2: It looked good. Mm hmmm. And I didn't get none 1920 01:38:45,360 --> 01:38:48,320 Speaker 2: of your what you college either. I forgot I was 1921 01:38:48,800 --> 01:38:51,640 Speaker 2: about about cider. 1922 01:38:51,640 --> 01:38:54,360 Speaker 4: Get a side about a quarter about a quarter leof 1923 01:38:54,400 --> 01:38:55,840 Speaker 4: I dropped the boat of that bottle. It was a 1924 01:38:55,880 --> 01:38:56,479 Speaker 4: whole biggest. 1925 01:38:56,960 --> 01:38:58,400 Speaker 3: Well, we gotta get out here ten thirty, so we 1926 01:38:58,439 --> 01:39:00,760 Speaker 3: don't have much time. So I guess we can do 1927 01:39:00,840 --> 01:39:05,280 Speaker 3: some guests the race because at ten thirty we're gonna 1928 01:39:05,439 --> 01:39:09,519 Speaker 3: talk to uh, we're gonna talk to the guys from 1929 01:39:09,560 --> 01:39:12,680 Speaker 3: Medium Popcorn, and we're gonna review fast and Furious for 1930 01:39:13,240 --> 01:39:14,320 Speaker 3: all you guys. 1931 01:39:14,080 --> 01:39:18,280 Speaker 2: That are premiums to cover it. So we got y'all. 1932 01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:23,639 Speaker 2: I didn't want to say. I did have one thing 1933 01:39:24,360 --> 01:39:24,760 Speaker 2: to add. 1934 01:39:24,840 --> 01:39:31,960 Speaker 3: I'm glad Lovey and Tyrese apologized. We didn't say that yesterday. 1935 01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:35,439 Speaker 3: I'm glad they apologize. I just think it's gonna take 1936 01:39:35,439 --> 01:39:44,800 Speaker 3: a whole lot more pepsi for people to really forgive them, Okay, leaders, Yeah, 1937 01:39:44,920 --> 01:39:47,040 Speaker 3: it's gonna take a little bit more pepsi than that, guys, 1938 01:39:47,120 --> 01:39:51,080 Speaker 3: all right, pass it around, all right, let's get into 1939 01:39:52,640 --> 01:39:56,320 Speaker 3: the guest the race whenever that comes up on Oh 1940 01:39:56,520 --> 01:39:58,519 Speaker 3: and of course, why would it not come straight up? 1941 01:40:00,600 --> 01:40:02,080 Speaker 3: We'll get to that in a second. 1942 01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:08,880 Speaker 2: Do you know when Spotify started moving so slow? 1943 01:40:09,280 --> 01:40:11,559 Speaker 4: I don't know, but baby, I thank you. I really 1944 01:40:11,720 --> 01:40:14,400 Speaker 4: enjoyed the the experience. 1945 01:40:14,840 --> 01:40:17,320 Speaker 2: It was dope. It was dope. I mean, I'm not 1946 01:40:17,360 --> 01:40:21,519 Speaker 2: gonna fry, y'all. I was like halfway here, like, well, 1947 01:40:21,560 --> 01:40:23,080 Speaker 2: I guess I can always get winded is on the 1948 01:40:23,120 --> 01:40:27,720 Speaker 2: way home. But I didn't. But I was like, at 1949 01:40:27,800 --> 01:40:31,080 Speaker 2: least it's only five dollars, but at least a spicy 1950 01:40:31,200 --> 01:40:35,559 Speaker 2: chicken is always there for me. Always spicy chicken ain't 1951 01:40:35,600 --> 01:40:36,479 Speaker 2: never did me wrong. 1952 01:40:37,520 --> 01:40:40,000 Speaker 4: But yeah, you know what the hell is only it's chicken. 1953 01:40:40,360 --> 01:40:42,639 Speaker 3: Like I see how rich people can stay skinny man, y'all. 1954 01:40:42,920 --> 01:40:45,360 Speaker 3: Like the more quality the food, the smaller the plate, 1955 01:40:45,960 --> 01:40:48,200 Speaker 3: that's the true fact. It's like, here go fox scallops. 1956 01:40:48,240 --> 01:40:51,040 Speaker 2: You're like, okay, I mean they were delicious buttery scallops, 1957 01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:57,879 Speaker 2: but that was fa foe twenty something dollars, Folk scottops, 1958 01:40:57,880 --> 01:40:58,840 Speaker 2: you better gone up there. 1959 01:40:58,760 --> 01:41:00,840 Speaker 6: To Captain Steven to get the whole old fucking platter 1960 01:41:00,920 --> 01:41:03,280 Speaker 6: place for twenty five dollars, and this ship so being 1961 01:41:03,320 --> 01:41:07,200 Speaker 6: you gotta baked potato French fries, cole swaw and everything 1962 01:41:07,280 --> 01:41:09,479 Speaker 6: else on the side with your with your salt and 1963 01:41:09,520 --> 01:41:12,240 Speaker 6: pepper fish and your shrimp and your scatups all mixed together, 1964 01:41:12,280 --> 01:41:13,519 Speaker 6: and gonna have to take a big ass. 1965 01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:14,080 Speaker 4: Play home too. 1966 01:41:14,840 --> 01:41:17,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you'll remember that scallars forever, because you're gonna be 1967 01:41:17,240 --> 01:41:19,080 Speaker 3: like I remember that time I had them scallons and 1968 01:41:19,120 --> 01:41:20,120 Speaker 3: I was still hungry. 1969 01:41:23,200 --> 01:41:25,400 Speaker 2: Now that is come for some guest star. 1970 01:41:26,960 --> 01:41:29,200 Speaker 4: That's right, this guest star race time. 1971 01:41:30,760 --> 01:41:35,120 Speaker 2: Now, that is time for some guest the race. That's right, 1972 01:41:35,240 --> 01:41:35,959 Speaker 2: it's guests. 1973 01:41:35,800 --> 01:41:36,719 Speaker 4: The race time. 1974 01:41:38,760 --> 01:41:42,679 Speaker 2: That's right. It's time for Gus the raise the number 1975 01:41:42,680 --> 01:41:43,160 Speaker 2: one game show. 1976 01:41:43,200 --> 01:41:45,559 Speaker 3: Go across all the podcast land, we read or play 1977 01:41:45,840 --> 01:41:48,519 Speaker 3: news articles and from all over the globe. 1978 01:41:48,520 --> 01:41:49,600 Speaker 2: When we got our contestants to. 1979 01:41:49,720 --> 01:41:53,400 Speaker 3: Guests the race and Karen and the chat room artic 1980 01:41:53,400 --> 01:41:55,439 Speaker 3: contestants and they elbro frass. 1981 01:41:56,560 --> 01:41:57,720 Speaker 2: All right, let's get into it. 1982 01:41:58,680 --> 01:41:58,800 Speaker 4: Uh. 1983 01:41:58,880 --> 01:42:03,240 Speaker 3: Louisiana man got arrested for saying fuck in front of 1984 01:42:03,280 --> 01:42:06,799 Speaker 3: a woman who was seventy five years old, which disturbed 1985 01:42:06,800 --> 01:42:14,560 Speaker 3: her peace. An eighteen year old man was arrested on 1986 01:42:14,680 --> 01:42:16,200 Speaker 3: charge of the disturbing the piece for swearing in the 1987 01:42:16,240 --> 01:42:20,080 Speaker 3: presence of a female senior citizen in Louisiana. Jared Dylan 1988 01:42:20,240 --> 01:42:24,120 Speaker 3: Smith alleged allegedly said the word fuck in front of 1989 01:42:24,160 --> 01:42:25,880 Speaker 3: a woman seventy five in West Moreau. 1990 01:42:26,360 --> 01:42:27,960 Speaker 2: His arrest report, obtained by the. 1991 01:42:28,160 --> 01:42:33,400 Speaker 3: Otchita Citizen reads, while standing next to my seventy five 1992 01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:37,360 Speaker 3: year old complaintant, Jared yelled the word fuck and clearly 1993 01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:40,800 Speaker 3: disturbed her peace. He was booked for disturbing the peace 1994 01:42:41,160 --> 01:42:46,160 Speaker 3: though through language and disorderly conduct. On April eighth, Freedom Speach. 1995 01:42:46,760 --> 01:42:49,400 Speaker 3: His bomb was set at two hundred dollars. Smith denied 1996 01:42:49,439 --> 01:42:52,600 Speaker 3: the allegation and there were no other witnesses, according to 1997 01:42:52,600 --> 01:42:54,120 Speaker 3: the rest report, So it's like this old. 1998 01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:56,360 Speaker 2: Woman lied on me. Louisiana. 1999 01:42:56,439 --> 01:42:59,360 Speaker 3: Loud defies disturbing the piece as addressing any offensive, derisive, 2000 01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:02,839 Speaker 3: or an annoying word to another person who was lawfully 2001 01:43:02,960 --> 01:43:06,479 Speaker 3: in any street or other public place, that. 2002 01:43:06,560 --> 01:43:07,439 Speaker 2: Seems pretty broad. 2003 01:43:08,960 --> 01:43:11,439 Speaker 3: Or call him by any offensive or derisive name, or 2004 01:43:11,520 --> 01:43:14,439 Speaker 3: make any noise or estimation in his presence and hearing 2005 01:43:14,600 --> 01:43:17,800 Speaker 3: with the intent to deride, offend, or annoy him, or 2006 01:43:17,840 --> 01:43:20,920 Speaker 3: to prevent him from pursuing his lawful business, occupation, or duty. 2007 01:43:21,640 --> 01:43:24,679 Speaker 4: Them dollars are broad like that for niggas for walking 2008 01:43:24,760 --> 01:43:26,280 Speaker 4: around cussing in the court. 2009 01:43:26,560 --> 01:43:28,479 Speaker 2: If the court found of a guilty, you subber up 2010 01:43:28,479 --> 01:43:30,120 Speaker 2: the ninety days in jail need to pay a fine 2011 01:43:30,160 --> 01:43:32,400 Speaker 2: of one hundred dollars. The Advocate report it he was 2012 01:43:32,439 --> 01:43:34,439 Speaker 2: booked in the correction center and a wait sentence and 2013 01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:38,040 Speaker 2: guess the race of Jared Dillon Smith. Wa check the 2014 01:43:38,120 --> 01:43:41,959 Speaker 2: chat room. See what you guys believe? This guy's racist? 2015 01:43:43,120 --> 01:43:47,400 Speaker 2: The Dylan gave it away? White. When when's the last 2016 01:43:47,479 --> 01:43:51,000 Speaker 2: time you heard a black man named Dylan? Come on? Man? 2017 01:43:51,160 --> 01:43:56,519 Speaker 3: White one who who could have yelled nigger and he 2018 01:43:56,640 --> 01:43:59,439 Speaker 3: would have just said she would have just said where? 2019 01:44:00,120 --> 01:44:00,320 Speaker 4: Oh? 2020 01:44:00,840 --> 01:44:04,200 Speaker 2: She was also mad. He called his mother by. 2021 01:44:04,200 --> 01:44:07,880 Speaker 3: Her first name, white, white male and cheese soundsy the 2022 01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:09,800 Speaker 3: white ship. That's a fucking white boy. 2023 01:44:09,920 --> 01:44:12,519 Speaker 2: Damn it, damn that was angry one. The correct dance 2024 01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:26,360 Speaker 2: is white. It looks after the after the bucker, after 2025 01:44:26,400 --> 01:44:30,280 Speaker 2: the buzzer, Jackie said, d t P black. I don't 2026 01:44:30,320 --> 01:44:33,080 Speaker 2: know what that what dt P means, but that's wrong. 2027 01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:45,200 Speaker 4: Got some. 2028 01:44:46,840 --> 01:44:49,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, got that natural the whole woman. 2029 01:44:49,360 --> 01:44:50,360 Speaker 4: Get that what's happening. 2030 01:44:50,439 --> 01:44:54,680 Speaker 2: He looked unbothered for the most part, like they know 2031 01:44:54,800 --> 01:44:55,519 Speaker 2: me on these streets. 2032 01:44:55,560 --> 01:44:58,760 Speaker 3: I'm the kid, that's what they called meyeh out here 2033 01:44:58,800 --> 01:44:59,760 Speaker 3: telling these old lades. 2034 01:44:59,800 --> 01:45:08,840 Speaker 2: Fu you ah, let's see uh. A stolen gun falls 2035 01:45:08,880 --> 01:45:14,320 Speaker 2: from an inmate's body cavity during the search A whole 2036 01:45:14,479 --> 01:45:18,840 Speaker 2: gun uh huh yep at North Alabama jail. 2037 01:45:19,720 --> 01:45:20,880 Speaker 4: Oh it. 2038 01:45:20,960 --> 01:45:22,879 Speaker 2: It's not clear whether. 2039 01:45:22,720 --> 01:45:25,200 Speaker 3: The owner wants it back, but Lonstone County authorities or 2040 01:45:25,240 --> 01:45:27,520 Speaker 3: covered a stolen gun when it fell from an inmate's 2041 01:45:27,880 --> 01:45:33,000 Speaker 3: body cavity during the search at the jail. Jesse O'Neil Roberts, 2042 01:45:33,080 --> 01:45:36,080 Speaker 3: twenty three, of Elkmont, was being booth on Stone County 2043 01:45:36,160 --> 01:45:39,120 Speaker 3: Jail on a misdemeanor charge of public intoxication when the 2044 01:45:39,200 --> 01:45:42,280 Speaker 3: weapon fell from his body. I immediately considered that he 2045 01:45:42,439 --> 01:45:45,920 Speaker 3: had defecated on himself before noticing a similar shape in 2046 01:45:45,960 --> 01:45:49,080 Speaker 3: the form of a pistol in his boxers. UH Correction's 2047 01:45:49,120 --> 01:45:52,639 Speaker 3: officers said in the report. Roberts was arrested after midnight 2048 01:45:53,080 --> 01:45:55,720 Speaker 3: when deputy responded into a call about a prowler on 2049 01:45:55,800 --> 01:45:56,479 Speaker 3: Easton Lane. 2050 01:45:56,920 --> 01:45:59,680 Speaker 2: The call of fould Roberts around his garage. 2051 01:45:59,320 --> 01:46:02,960 Speaker 3: And held the expect the gunpoint until deputies arrived, Young 2052 01:46:03,080 --> 01:46:08,679 Speaker 3: said in the news release. Deputy Chad Harvin found Roberts, 2053 01:46:09,040 --> 01:46:11,560 Speaker 3: who was showing signs of impairment, and arrested him for 2054 01:46:11,640 --> 01:46:15,759 Speaker 3: public intoxication. Young said when they arrived at the jail, 2055 01:46:15,880 --> 01:46:20,360 Speaker 3: corrections officers noticed Roberts appeared to be walking strangely because 2056 01:46:20,360 --> 01:46:21,360 Speaker 3: they had a gun of his ass. 2057 01:46:22,439 --> 01:46:24,040 Speaker 2: You got a gun up your ass, You're just happy 2058 01:46:24,080 --> 01:46:24,439 Speaker 2: to see me. 2059 01:46:25,320 --> 01:46:28,679 Speaker 3: While being searched, Roberts stumbled and the pistol fell from 2060 01:46:28,720 --> 01:46:31,759 Speaker 3: his body cavity. The weapon, which was a poorly stolen 2061 01:46:31,760 --> 01:46:34,479 Speaker 3: from Florence, was not loaded. It is a Yemen Ass 2062 01:46:34,640 --> 01:46:37,920 Speaker 3: thirty eight caliber pistol, value at one hundred dollars. In 2063 01:46:38,000 --> 01:46:40,920 Speaker 3: addition to public intoxication, Roberts is charged with first degree 2064 01:46:40,920 --> 01:46:44,360 Speaker 3: promoting prison contraband carrying a canceled weather without a permit. 2065 01:46:46,880 --> 01:46:49,200 Speaker 3: What permit allowed you to carrying in your booty hold? 2066 01:46:49,200 --> 01:46:52,880 Speaker 3: Though I don't know a fourth degree were receiving stolen property? 2067 01:46:52,920 --> 01:46:55,719 Speaker 3: Bell said, that's seventy two hundred and fifty dollars. 2068 01:46:56,640 --> 01:46:59,840 Speaker 2: Asked about the incident, Sheriff Mike Blakely says, it happens 2069 01:47:00,080 --> 01:47:03,240 Speaker 2: according to the news least he was now that's unbothered. 2070 01:47:04,320 --> 01:47:06,519 Speaker 2: It's not yet clear whether the owner wants the gun back, 2071 01:47:06,640 --> 01:47:10,360 Speaker 2: probably after you at least clean it right. All right, Cairen, 2072 01:47:10,479 --> 01:47:14,960 Speaker 2: guess the race. Karen's going with white for Jesse Roberts. 2073 01:47:15,040 --> 01:47:16,920 Speaker 3: Let's check the chat room and see what you guys believe. 2074 01:47:17,600 --> 01:47:21,599 Speaker 3: Arrested for publican's oxication. White white, white black guy would 2075 01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:23,280 Speaker 3: have held the gun sideways in his body. 2076 01:47:23,360 --> 01:47:31,080 Speaker 2: Cavity shitty situation. White black. Also is oh you want 2077 01:47:31,160 --> 01:47:35,960 Speaker 2: this ass surprised? Nigga black? The correct answer is white. 2078 01:47:49,360 --> 01:48:02,400 Speaker 2: A few of you missed it. That's him in the 2079 01:48:02,479 --> 01:48:04,160 Speaker 2: chat Wait did it I show up? Yeah? Okay, that 2080 01:48:04,320 --> 01:48:05,439 Speaker 2: is so. 2081 01:48:06,080 --> 01:48:08,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, you named that town. I was like, Dad's not 2082 01:48:08,720 --> 01:48:10,559 Speaker 4: like ask in the middle of who knows where? 2083 01:48:11,240 --> 01:48:18,120 Speaker 2: Mm hmm, in the middle of his tank apparently, mm hmm. 2084 01:48:20,520 --> 01:48:22,920 Speaker 2: All right, Let's see last one. 2085 01:48:25,760 --> 01:48:29,320 Speaker 3: A caretaker allegedly performed a provocative dance on a one 2086 01:48:29,439 --> 01:48:30,960 Speaker 3: hundred year old with dementia. 2087 01:48:32,920 --> 01:48:35,720 Speaker 4: Oh, Brandon, they need to get a dun I guess he. 2088 01:48:35,720 --> 01:48:36,679 Speaker 2: Won't remember it though. 2089 01:48:37,479 --> 01:48:41,559 Speaker 3: A caretaker at an assistant living center to who police 2090 01:48:41,600 --> 01:48:45,439 Speaker 3: say was film performing a sex provocative dance on an 2091 01:48:45,840 --> 01:48:48,160 Speaker 3: one hundred year old resident was doing it as a 2092 01:48:48,240 --> 01:48:50,000 Speaker 3: prank and trying to make the man feel good. 2093 01:48:50,080 --> 01:48:53,400 Speaker 2: Her attorney said, make me feel. 2094 01:48:53,320 --> 01:48:56,439 Speaker 4: Good and I'm gonna forget five minutes later, but sure. 2095 01:48:56,680 --> 01:48:59,599 Speaker 3: Britney Folks twenty six plead not guilty their growth, sexual 2096 01:48:59,640 --> 01:49:03,160 Speaker 3: and bosis Tuesday. Police said she showed her breast and 2097 01:49:03,280 --> 01:49:06,360 Speaker 3: butterocks while she danced in front of and on the 2098 01:49:06,479 --> 01:49:07,320 Speaker 3: man in December. 2099 01:49:08,040 --> 01:49:09,000 Speaker 4: Oh, she did it all. 2100 01:49:09,520 --> 01:49:09,840 Speaker 2: M h. 2101 01:49:11,479 --> 01:49:12,960 Speaker 4: You know he can't do nothing but that right. 2102 01:49:13,320 --> 01:49:14,400 Speaker 2: The man has dementia. 2103 01:49:14,720 --> 01:49:17,400 Speaker 3: But Fulls attorney said the resident could could have told 2104 01:49:17,439 --> 01:49:18,479 Speaker 3: her to stop, but didn't. 2105 01:49:19,600 --> 01:49:20,839 Speaker 4: He got goddamn dementia. 2106 01:49:21,040 --> 01:49:22,439 Speaker 2: Can you imagine this went the other way? 2107 01:49:22,479 --> 01:49:22,719 Speaker 6: Guys? 2108 01:49:23,680 --> 01:49:25,559 Speaker 2: There was just some orderly that pulled his dick out 2109 01:49:25,640 --> 01:49:26,240 Speaker 2: and slapped it on. 2110 01:49:26,320 --> 01:49:28,200 Speaker 3: Your grandmama talk about she ain't want me to stop 2111 01:49:28,280 --> 01:49:31,879 Speaker 3: on me she She'll say something old lady with dementia. 2112 01:49:33,720 --> 01:49:35,880 Speaker 3: The man knew exactly what he was, what was going on, 2113 01:49:36,200 --> 01:49:38,719 Speaker 3: and had no problem whatsoever with the defense, attorney Gregory 2114 01:49:38,800 --> 01:49:39,760 Speaker 3: olgles He said. 2115 01:49:39,840 --> 01:49:43,479 Speaker 2: Wednesday. Police said the caretaker recorded Fulks later showed the 2116 01:49:43,520 --> 01:49:45,879 Speaker 2: video to a supervisor, who reported it to the police. 2117 01:49:46,120 --> 01:49:49,920 Speaker 2: Of course, uh the second caretaker. 2118 01:49:51,080 --> 01:49:55,519 Speaker 3: Look, she lucky it was the right, honest person that 2119 01:49:55,640 --> 01:49:57,120 Speaker 3: she showed it to, because it would have been a 2120 01:49:57,200 --> 01:49:59,800 Speaker 3: pimp who would have been like, all right, first of all, 2121 01:50:00,120 --> 01:50:02,400 Speaker 3: we're charging more for this facility from now on. 2122 01:50:03,720 --> 01:50:04,320 Speaker 2: That's number one. 2123 01:50:04,400 --> 01:50:05,680 Speaker 4: The price the brick just went up. 2124 01:50:05,760 --> 01:50:08,920 Speaker 3: Price of the brick just went up. Number two, we 2125 01:50:09,040 --> 01:50:11,080 Speaker 3: need to get a lot more singles in here for 2126 01:50:11,240 --> 01:50:15,800 Speaker 3: these old folks. The second caretaker wasn't charged, or the 2127 01:50:15,840 --> 01:50:19,200 Speaker 3: one who recorded, and the director of the Assistant Living 2128 01:50:19,240 --> 01:50:21,960 Speaker 3: center said folks A of Marrowhead was fired, and the 2129 01:50:22,040 --> 01:50:23,080 Speaker 3: other caretaker. 2130 01:50:22,720 --> 01:50:24,280 Speaker 2: Also no longer works at the facility. 2131 01:50:24,600 --> 01:50:26,920 Speaker 3: The most recent annual state inspection report of the center 2132 01:50:26,960 --> 01:50:30,400 Speaker 3: shows no citations, according to the Higher Department of Aging Records. 2133 01:50:30,720 --> 01:50:36,400 Speaker 3: Guess the race, Karen of Britney folks, Karen's going with white, 2134 01:50:37,240 --> 01:50:41,320 Speaker 3: the older white trifecta. A gonna ride this one on out. 2135 01:50:41,600 --> 01:50:43,439 Speaker 3: The correct answer is I don't have time to tell 2136 01:50:43,479 --> 01:50:47,000 Speaker 3: y'all read them all white, Karen. You gotta absolutely correct, 2137 01:50:56,880 --> 01:51:00,439 Speaker 3: all right, We gotta do a sword ratchetness before we 2138 01:51:00,520 --> 01:51:01,080 Speaker 3: get out of here. 2139 01:51:02,560 --> 01:51:04,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they don't make them wier than that. 2140 01:51:30,560 --> 01:51:37,120 Speaker 3: Sword stabbing critically injures a Wichita man, Wichita, Kansas. 2141 01:51:38,439 --> 01:51:40,559 Speaker 2: You guys know the heart of America. 2142 01:51:41,320 --> 01:51:43,080 Speaker 3: Someone started at twenty two year old man with a 2143 01:51:43,160 --> 01:51:49,320 Speaker 3: sword Thursday ninth, parted reports news channel w H Channel twelve. 2144 01:51:49,400 --> 01:51:52,360 Speaker 3: A supervisor with Sedgwick County Emergency Dispatch said the man 2145 01:51:52,479 --> 01:51:56,000 Speaker 3: was hospitalized a critical condition after the call came around a. 2146 01:51:56,080 --> 01:51:57,160 Speaker 2: Nine to thirty Thursday night. 2147 01:51:57,240 --> 01:51:58,920 Speaker 3: The man was found a six hundred block of South 2148 01:51:59,000 --> 01:52:02,200 Speaker 3: Kansas near Kellogg and Hydraulic with life threatening injuries. He 2149 01:52:02,320 --> 01:52:04,760 Speaker 3: was at reportedly being stabbed in the chest by some 2150 01:52:05,000 --> 01:52:08,639 Speaker 3: kind sword. M M, well, that's it for today, guys. 2151 01:52:08,760 --> 01:52:12,960 Speaker 3: We'll be back tomorrow at five point thirty and we 2152 01:52:13,040 --> 01:52:13,800 Speaker 3: will have guests. 2153 01:52:13,880 --> 01:52:14,160 Speaker 2: Guys. 2154 01:52:15,120 --> 01:52:19,040 Speaker 3: We will have the guys from three Guys on. Yep, 2155 01:52:19,120 --> 01:52:23,400 Speaker 3: that's gonna totally happen tomorrow. So until then, I love you, Rah,