WEBVTT - Darkest Just Before the Dawn 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:04.400 Hell I Suck at Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared 0:00:04.760 --> 0:00:10.040 and I Heart Radio Podcast. Hello, Hello, thank you so 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:12.520 much for joining us on another episode of Help I 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:15.760 Suck at Dating. My name is Dean Anglert and I 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:19.040 am alone without my co host today in studio, of course, 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:23.520 joined in studio by the producers Mark Easton are Lovely Tory. 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:25.599 Danielle is over there without a microphone. I don't know 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:28.040 she's gonna be tuning in at all. But we've got 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:30.960 a very special episode for you guys this week. Obviously, 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:34.279 we have Bachelor in Paradise airing. Obviously I am on 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:35.920 that show, so we might as well talk a little 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:39.680 bit about that, uh, Tory who always has the most 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.960 interesting dating dilemmas. I don't know exactly why, but we're 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:45.280 gonna dive into your dating life a little bit. Not 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:46.880 not why we're going to dive into, but why you 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:49.440 always have the most interesting dating dilemmas. I don't think 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.960 it's very interesting. I think you make them interesting because 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:56.520 you always think you're not on a date, and you're 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:59.920 you suck at dating. I think you just overthink everything. Anyway, 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.000 I'm excited to that dive into that a little bit 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:05.240 with you later on. Um, we might call Jared, who's 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:08.199 on his honeymoon somewhere in Greece, but we probably won't 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:09.840 be able to. It may not be happening because it's 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.800 not a plane right now. Oh, I see, okay, so 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:15.839 he's land in time. Where's Vanessa? Where is Vanessa Robo? 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:21.880 I'm not sure I did see that they a wedding, 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:25.560 so maybe they're looking amazing at that wedding too. Anyway, 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:27.800 don't looking amazing. I just have to say Dean that 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:30.240 I'm critical of your appearance sometimes all the time. I 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:33.920 didn't like to be honest. It's working today, it's really working. 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:35.520 Dean's got a what kind of ad is that? What 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:38.840 would you call that? It's a bucket hat? I would suppose, right, Yeah, 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.360 kind of like an out bad hat. Yeah, it's got 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:41.880 the rim all the way around. I need something like 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.640 that for hiking. Anyway. He's got longer hair that looks good. 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.960 He's got a tan going on, he's clean shaven. It's 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.160 working for me, and I think the viewers of the 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:51.400 Bachelor in Paradise reunion are in for a real treat. Yes, 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:53.040 So I just got back from Croatia, so I'm sporting 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:57.280 a nice bronze tan and uh clean shaven. We actually 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.640 have our we're filming our Bachelor in Paradise reunion showed, 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:01.440 and so I wanted to go in with a clean 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.480 shaven look. I'm pretty fortunate to just be gott have 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:06.200 gotten back from Croatian might be nice and tan I 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.080 am now. I have not bought an outfit yet. My 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:12.160 car picks me up in about three hours and uh sorry, 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.800 Jojo just attracted me over there. Car picks me up 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:16.840 about three hours after I get off this podcast. I 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:18.639 haven't even gone to the store to buy anything. So 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.840 I don't own dress clothes, which is what you're supposed 0:02:20.840 --> 0:02:23.040 to be wearing at these reunions. Right, what have you 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:26.200 warned to previous your reunions like suits and dressures? You 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:27.720 don't know to suit anymore? No, I threw them all 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:32.040 away when I moved into it. So this is my plan, 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.120 and let me actually let me question the ethics on this, 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.640 because this is what I'm gonna do with whether it's 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:39.120 ethical or unethical, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna go 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:42.080 to Nordstrom, buy a nice suits, by a nice shirt, 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:45.079 by a nice bow tie, maybe wear a bolo tie 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.440 I don't know exactly yet, keep the tags on where, 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:50.080 and then just return it the next day. I don't 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.320 think that is ethical. Is that really unethical? I think 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:56.760 that's bad. I think that's borderline theft. The first person 0:02:56.800 --> 0:03:00.640 to have ever done that, though I've done it before. Yeah, 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:02.960 maybe we haven't talked about it publicly on podcast, but 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:05.280 I don't know. I don't love it. I feel like, plus, 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:08.240 you're using it on television, that's an actual level of theft. 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.280 I think. So I've done it before on for the 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.200 tel for reunion show like that. I think for the 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.840 Winter Games reunion, I die police suit jacket. What the 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:17.800 do I need a nine suit jacket for? So? I 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.160 wore it looked amazing. I brought it back to the 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:21.920 same Nord show and I was so scared that they 0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:23.840 were going to recognize me and be like, wait a second, 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:27.040 we know what you're doing right now, but a jacket. 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:28.880 How did they police that? Because yeah, Jack is not 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:30.960 going to get all sweating necessary, You've got a shirt 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:33.080 on in between, and possibly even an undershirt, right, So 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:35.920 what's why does that become unethical? Then to wear the 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:38.080 jacket when it's just gonna be dry clean and put 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:39.800 right back up on. That's the one door just pulled 0:03:39.840 --> 0:03:42.040 it up. That's oh sure, that's a red huh. The 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:47.040 American TI it was yeah, because we were it was 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:50.720 like the Olympics theme, Got it, got it? When you 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:53.840 were doing the was his mentel all from Rachel Lindsay season. 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:57.240 That's that's a Ran Secret Distinction jacket. Is for the 0:03:57.240 --> 0:04:00.280 Mental Olive War Ryan Secret Distinction Jacket. And that was 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.440 a hit. I remember he gave me two jackets, well 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.480 Amy threw him. Gave me two jackets, right. One of 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.720 them was like this like pretty plain gray with like 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:10.320 a black lapel, and then there was this camera one 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:12.320 which she was not going to wear the like obviously 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:14.680 the camera is a little bit more out there. And 0:04:14.720 --> 0:04:16.240 I took a poll on my Twitter. I was like, 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:17.760 which one of these jackets should I wear? And by 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:19.760 a landslide the gray one one. It was like not 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:22.680 even to five percent the gray jacket one, and I 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:24.280 was like, Okay, obviously I'm going to wear the one 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:27.400 that didn't win the pole. And I really appreciate the look. 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:30.600 I thought it looks good. Um, what are we talking about? Well, 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:32.159 to be honest, when you said that you're going to 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:35.880 record for Bachelor in Paradise the reunion. My stomach turned. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:39.960 I'm stressed. Okay, so we are three weeks into Paradise. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:45.200 I think we're four maybe four four weeks. We're Oh, yeah, 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.560 you're right for this is the week week four Paradise. 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.840 Why are you stressed? Oh my gosh, Dean tell me 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:56.880 the birthday cake, the reassuring Kalin we're together, and then 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.200 you pull her aside after the rose ceremony, and now 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:01.360 I'm just left on a cliff hanger. What did you do? 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:03.760 Because you haven't seen Tuesday's episode yet? Well, we can't. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.320 It's not to say yet. You're right, and so you're 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.160 going to see what happens tomorrow. But you're saying you're 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:10.760 not confident in what's gonna unfold. Is that what you're saying. 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.320 I'm like stressed that you may have to see Klin tomorrow. 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:16.680 What do you mean, oh, at the reunion show? Yes, 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:18.240 because I don't know how this is going to end, 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.039 but I'm guessing from your track record it's not going 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:22.360 to end the best. And I'm sick. I'm sorry, but 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:24.559 my stomach is turning. I will say it was funny 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.359 that you texted me when you were watching this episode, 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.080 because like you obviously know how everything's gonna turn out, 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:31.680 and so you're like, Dn, I'm stressed out right now. 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.080 I don't know what's going on. And I was like, well, 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:35.839 just wait, because it's probably gonna get a little bit worse. 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:39.880 It's like you did so that. He said, Oh, that's 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:42.680 a bummer because it's probably gonna get worse for you something, 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:45.240 and I was like, oh, my heart can't handle this 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:47.880 on a Saturday. It's like that Batman quote, it's always 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:49.960 darkest just before the dawn. But let me assure you, 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:52.520 the dawn is coming and things are gonna get a up, well, 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:57.159 maybe get a lot brighter. We'll see. Anyways, there's a 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.159 lot more going on in Paradise besides me and my 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:01.800 stupid antick. Right, yeah, but we'll get back to that, 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:04.640 back to my antick. Yeah, I still need to know more, Okay, sure, 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:05.880 I mean, I'm happy to fill you in as much 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:07.680 as they can. Okay. By the way, that quote is 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:13.159 from Thomas Fuller from Batman. I'm just saying it goes 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:14.800 back a long way. Okay, Well, thank you for the 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:19.039 you know, when they do um, like around the horn 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:20.440 or something like that. At the very end, they do 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:22.280 all the things that they got wrong. That's basically what 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.240 you're fact checking as you go. That's that's great. Thank 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:28.360 you so much, um Tory. What other storylines from Bachelor 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.520 Paradise are you most interested in right now? Well? Do 0:06:30.520 --> 0:06:32.240 you know what? I'm so confused and I would love 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:34.839 to know more of Why don't we see any of 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:38.160 Mike and Sydney's love story? Like they keep doing like 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:40.080 cartwheels on the beach and that's all we get. We 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.280 see no dialogue between the two, no dialogue, and then 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:44.680 they get the rose and it's like solidified. Everyone knows 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.480 that maybe they're just not that much like drama developing 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:50.320 between them? Are they actually in love? Like I wish 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.159 I could be more attached to them, but I'm not, 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:57.880 um knowing both of them personally, they have like conflicting personalities, 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.479 not a bad way, but you know, to trap sometime. Yeah, 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.080 And I think that they were just like a slow 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:05.080 moving couple of Sydney I know in past relationships has 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.520 moved really slowly, and Mike is like kind of a 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.920 guy that like, you know, he's I don't know, he 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:12.840 like reads like erotic novels, and he's like into that 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.600 kind of stuff, say, erotic novels. You saw him read 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:19.200 an erotic novel on the beach. He brought an erotic 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:21.120 novel to the beach, which is fine, Like that's that's 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:24.640 perfectly fine. Wait a minute, what are we talking about here, 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:27.800 like fifty Shades or like one of those Harlequin romances 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:29.720 with the shirtless guy on the front. Let me ask 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:31.360 you this. If you went to a bookstore, would you 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:35.080 find fifty Shades of Gray and the erotic novel section? 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:36.840 Would you find it in the romance section? Because I 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:40.720 think fifty Shades more romance than erotic. Couldn't like Twilight 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:43.640 almost be It could be, of course, but that's a 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:46.120 book that you'd also find like drama or sci fi 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:49.080 or romance. So would young adult be kind of associated 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:52.520 with that thing that's separate. I'm saying there is a 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.520 section in every bookstore that goes by erotic novel and 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:59.040 none of those are going to be bestsellers quote unquote 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.760 like uh, fifty Shades or like a Twilight. These are 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:03.800 more graphic than those other ones. Again, I didn't read 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.280 the book. I saw the cover do you have an author? 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:08.480 I wish I had the photographic. I'm ready to pull 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:11.560 it back. It was just it wasn't erotic novel. I 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:13.040 don't I don't want to make a bigger deal out 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:14.880 of it because I feel bad. But were the nude 0:08:14.920 --> 0:08:16.520 people on the cover of the book. It was like 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:19.640 a hot and sensual like still of I will say 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:21.800 I had recently got one of these about a cowboy, 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:24.680 and they look like just like kind of normal, like 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:26.880 sexy book on the cover, but if you read them, 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:29.720 those things get very graphic. Oh my god, I'm giving 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.560 a target. I will say I read this book once 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.520 when I was like nineteen years old. It's like the 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.000 first novel I ever read, like willingly not like not 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:38.640 a was was signed by school. I was not much of 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:40.880 a reader when I was a kid, mind you, And 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:42.640 it was it was a stupid book. It was called 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.480 The Game by Neil Strauss, which is just like, yeah, 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:46.400 don't you guys know who Neil Strouss is. It's basically 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.600 a book, like a fictional book about how to go 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:51.120 and pick up women and heard of this and like 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.079 how these guys go out and like these magic tricks 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.520 and peacock and Negan all these things to get women 0:08:55.559 --> 0:08:58.120 to cook up with them. Horrible book. This is I 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:02.360 was meaning so much about teen years old. I get it, 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:03.760 and I get it. It was referred to me by 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:06.200 a friend. Um. Anyways, the point is I was reading 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:07.480 it one day when I was at work as a 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:09.520 bellman out of hotels. I'm standing moving around, but I 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:12.080 had some downtime, so I was reading it and they 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:14.280 got graphic with one of the scenes, like one of 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.640 the physical scenes that they had, and I was like 0:09:16.679 --> 0:09:18.360 reading and I was like, holy cow, this is getting 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.000 hot and heavy, Like I started to feel parts on 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:21.880 me tangle that I didn't want to have tingling while 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:25.160 I was working. And I can only imagine if there 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.760 was a book dedicated to eroticism, I would be just 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:29.719 losing my absolute mind the entire time. You know what 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.880 I mean, because I've got a very vivid imagination. And 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:34.559 this is what Mike redlect through it on the beach. 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:37.480 Oh yeah, back to the original point. Yes he was. 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:39.680 He was, And again no disrespect like obviously you know 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:41.360 you do. You get tre kicks however you can. But 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:45.680 I'm just saying the the dichotomy between him and Sydney 0:09:45.880 --> 0:09:47.720 is like he was this guy that that read those books, 0:09:47.720 --> 0:09:51.240 and Sydney is like a very reserve conservative woman who 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:53.920 like dates very slowly, take some time to even kiss someone. 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.000 And so I'm wondering, like if maybe the relationship blossoms 0:09:57.080 --> 0:09:58.640 later on in the series. And I'm sorry in the 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:01.319 season because it just like hasn't necessarily got to that 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:03.839 point yet. But so yes and tweach their own and 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:06.200 good for him. But if you're a woman and you'd 0:10:06.320 --> 0:10:08.360 find this out about a new guy you're seeing, is 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:10.760 that a red flag that he reads erotic novels? Well, 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:12.160 I was going to ask that about you. Would it 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:14.040 be weird if somebody who's reading like A Fifty Shades 0:10:14.040 --> 0:10:16.920 of Gray, because that's very no because everybody read that, 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:21.640 but that's still very like explicit points. Yeah, but it's 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:23.800 different because guys like women who are into that sort 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:25.599 of thing, that would be a plus. I think for 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.640 a man wouldn't. Really, I don't know, I think that 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.640 I think it goes both ways. I actually have dated 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:32.880 a girl in the past where she was like kind 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:34.599 of into that stuff a lot, and person I was like, 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:36.480 that's pretty cool with them. By like a little later on, 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:38.720 I was like well, is that cool? I don't know anymore. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:40.880 I'm kind of second guessing it. Wait, she was into 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:44.160 the like the stuff that they talk about in fifty 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.120 Shades or just she was into books like that, into 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:48.200 the books like that. Okay, yeah all right, now yeah 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.720 yeah no, because that that's that's a red flag girl 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.280 takes you home and shows you her leather strap collection. 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:54.920 That can be intimidating. It would be fun for like 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:56.680 a short amount of time, and you'd be like, Okay, 0:10:57.880 --> 0:10:59.640 actually turning out to be a personality trade, not just 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.520 like a off sort of thing. You know. It's better 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.679 than if he has like a subscription to Hustler magazine, 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:05.319 isn't it wouldn't it be a step above that? I 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:09.520 do agree with that Hustler Magazine is like a hardcore playboy. 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:11.000 I'm glad I don't know what that is. Then you know, 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.320 we're a porn collection, Like I feel like erotic novels 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:14.920 are a step up from those things. You're still getting 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:19.439 like your literature, and that's only positive, I guess, But 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.320 your vocabulary is expanding in a very different Enuni you're 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.080 saying they're all kind of in the same bubble. I 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:26.280 gotta think that. I bet you dirty talk is off 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:29.559 the charts, though, no, he would be very well versed in. 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:32.080 If you look at his Twitter, he says that he 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.720 has some funny tweets to Mike where he goes. He goes, Man, 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:36.960 I want to pull someth I'm gonna pull some tweets 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:38.640 up real quick. Let's take a Let's take a before 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.160 we do that, Let's take a quick break and I'll 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:46.760 get back to that. When was the last time you 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.520 really slept great? Isn't it the strangest thing. 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Do you 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:32.800 think that hurts his chances at all? The fact that 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.600 we don't have really a storyline with him or he's 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:37.760 like tweeting these things. Do you think that means he's 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:40.280 probably not gonna be the Bachelor because we're not really 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:43.360 attached to his storyline. People were excited about him as 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.240 a popular bat and Nick, we were like attached to 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:49.600 their storyline. We were feeling every motion they were, and 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:51.360 we don't. We don't really have that with Mike. He 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:53.360 just kind of moving behind the scenes this season, and 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.680 I wonder, I mean, you're right, you don't really see 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:57.880 it bachelor get plucked out of Paradise unless they're like 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.600 a polarizing figure from that season, and doesn't seem like 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:02.560 Mike really is that figure. This doesn't. Do you think 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:06.120 Derek could be the Bachelor? I personally don't think he 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:09.400 could be, but I see a lot of people pulling 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:12.920 for him to be the Bachelor. I don't think he 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.280 has the ability to like command a room as a 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.360 bachelor should like. I don't think he's gonna like walk 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.000 into a room full of thirty women, and all those 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:20.360 thirty women are gonna be like, damn, I want to 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:22.960 date this guy, you know what I mean. Although, to 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:25.680 to rebuttal my own point, I have gotten a few 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.360 texts over the past like four days alone from like 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:30.640 three different my girlfriends, and they all have been asking 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:33.200 me to set them up with Derek. What do you 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:36.640 say when they say that? I say, he is trying 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.440 to date someone on television right now, so let's give 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:41.440 the guy a little bit of space. And I also 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.400 say that, uh, I don't know, like I don't necessarily 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.320 I'm not good enough friends with Derek to be like, okay, cool, Like, 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:48.360 let me let me connect you too. Do you like 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:51.360 setting your friends up? No? Why? Actually, so, I just 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:52.960 spent like I said earlier, I just spent a week 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:56.120 in Croatia. Yeah, Dose boys were cute. Yeah, Ludo and 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:57.840 Law are very cute. What are you guy talking about 0:14:57.840 --> 0:14:59.120 over there? I was just trying to figure out who 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:00.760 that one is. You're talking about the Derek Wolf today, 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:04.040 because I know he went out with Steph has now 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:07.560 expressed interest in Derek and so, And I'll be honest, 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.400 down on that beach, I thought that Tasha and Derek 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:11.440 were a good match because Derek is like a mature, 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:15.200 well put together gentleman. Tassia is I feel like she's 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:17.280 looking for someone like that, And so like the Tastia 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.520 JPJ dynamic was a little different, and then the Tastia 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:21.840 Derek dynamic just made a lot more sense to me. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.040 People like, there are you on the Derek train, Tory, 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:26.320 I do like Derek. I don't think you might be 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:29.080 wrong about Derek. I think he might be commanding. I'm 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.000 not I don't think he commands around. I'm not saying 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:33.600 I dislike Derek but you like him. I'm not saying 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.120 I just like Derek by any means. He's a nice guy. Um. 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:38.760 I think that he when he eventually finds his person, 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:40.280 he's going to be a great match that person. I 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.280 just don't think that, Like I said earlier, there's gonna 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:44.800 be thirty women like salivating standing at a at a 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:46.640 rose ceremony, like damn, please give me a rose, Please 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:47.920 give me a rose. I like, I want to end 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:49.560 up with you like they would with like a Tyler 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:53.160 C or like a Peter the Pilot, or even like 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.560 to an extent, you think Pilot Pete commands a room 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:58.120 I think he's like he has the presence where he's 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:01.120 like good looking, successful in his own right. He's like 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:03.800 confident and kind of quirky. And I think that women 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:07.120 like see him, Tori. I would imagined you would probably 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:08.880 see him in person and like kind of like gush 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:12.160 and be like, oh my god, pilot Pete. Yes, judging 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:13.760 by what you've told me about the things that you 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:15.880 like in guys and how you fall for I think 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:20.680 we're probably about the same height. He's tall. He looks 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:24.160 about five. Everyone always comes up to me in person 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:26.000 and they say, oh my gosh, you're so much tallerant person. 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:29.680 I guarantee he's at least six ft tall. Okay, you cheat, Okay, 0:16:29.680 --> 0:16:31.840 but we take an inch off whatever it says online. Well, 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:35.640 the online biography says he's five eleven. Sure, what is 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.400 my online biography say? Okay, stand by, how tall are you? Tori? 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.240 I'm five ten and three quarters. Wow, so you've got 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:44.000 a quarter of a high standard. I would have to 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:49.280 shrink three fourths down so that's six one, But in 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:52.680 reality I'm six one and a half. You always take 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:54.200 an inch to one and a half of my license 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:57.440 six ladies, anytime a guy has a high on bumble 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.080 or their dating profile, always take an inch off if 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:01.400 they're putting it in a bubble. I put thing like 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:08.080 three happy to no. I think he should like under 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:09.600 six ft because when we were at all a nap 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:12.880 but together, I'm pretty sure he was taller. And Mike's 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:15.880 six five six three for Derek. Oh, that is not 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:20.159 true at all, someone at Google or something, because that 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:22.639 is a falsified number. Okay, did you just admit that 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:24.880 you falsified your number two by a half an inch? 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:27.040 You round up still counts He's not six two and 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:28.760 a half. I tower over and whenever I stand next 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:31.000 to him, a white line, a lie, or all the 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:33.040 same things. So you're telling me right now you want 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:35.879 Derek to be the next Bachelor. I would actually be 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:39.800