1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to enjoy your holiday cards more. Don't 4 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: just let the cards you receive pile up in a stack. Instead, 5 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: approach them mindfully so you can maximize the sense of 6 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 1: connection that is so important this time of year. I 7 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: think most of us do love getting holiday cards, at 8 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: least in theory. Unfortunately, amid the business of the season, 9 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: it can be easy to open a card, take a 10 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: quick glance, and then toss the card in the stack 11 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: of mail to be dealt with later. The pile grows 12 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: bigger until you either recycle it or let it fester 13 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: there well into the new year. Far better to come 14 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: up with a better process. One idea separate opening holiday 15 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: cards from processing the rest of the mail. One option 16 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 1: is to put cards by the place where you have 17 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: your morning coffee so you can open them then, or 18 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: set them on the kitchen table so the whole family 19 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: can see them together at dinner time. The idea is 20 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: to come up with a time when you can actually 21 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: focus on the cards themselves. Then, when it is that time, 22 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: really look at the photos, read any handwritten messages, which, 23 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: by the way, you should always include in any cards 24 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: you are sending. It really doesn't take much more time. 25 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: Take a minute to reflect on the people sending the card. 26 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: If you are opening the card with family members, you 27 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: can talk about your memories of the people who sent 28 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: the card and tell stories to younger family members who 29 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: might not know these people so well. Then figure out 30 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 1: a way to display the cards. There are lots of 31 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: great ideas floating around on the internet for doing this. 32 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: Some people use clothes pens to clip them to a 33 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: garland or to a ribbon strung around a door or 34 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: across the mantle. Some people make a holiday card wall, 35 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: either on a bulletin board or somewhere else like a 36 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: closet door where you pass by frequently but don't have 37 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: some sort of art that is already taking up space. 38 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: Looking at this wall and the smiling faces of your 39 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: loved ones can become a favorite part of your day. 40 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: But even if you're not going to do that, you 41 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: might create a particular basket or bull for the cards 42 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: so they don't just wind up wadded in among the 43 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: bills and catalogs where you have to sort through them 44 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: again as you deal with those. In any case, it 45 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: is good to be reminded of all the people in 46 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: our lives and all the people we care about and 47 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: who care about us. Over the past two years, we've 48 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: probably seen a lot less of these people in person. 49 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: Holiday cards are a way to stay connected to folks 50 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: that we don't see that often, so they are worth 51 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: treating with a bit more care and enjoying them a 52 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: bit more. Then say that. Add for your local pest 53 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: control place that also came in the mail. In the meantime, 54 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: this is Laura. 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