WEBVTT - You Can’t Break Our Soul 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:45.479 If you watch Coffee Time, the baby you know the 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:48.280 name flame my role also known as my row flame. 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:51.680 Come in with last and come in with you love lounds. Baby, 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:53.800 you better catch it when you can't drop a knowledge 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:57.920 from Fatherhoods of Politics, Shouting now comics just paying homics. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.880 What's up? Tip? Yeah you know she read shout towns 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:03.840 on speaking to the grown a second, We're gonna last 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:06.040 kind of kicking and at the end we leave it 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:08.640 with just a lift dispiritcepect you want to revisit, so 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:11.160 your first take a listen kill folks, you slip oh 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:16.200 funk that we take it to no do no do 0:01:16.319 --> 0:01:41.480 what you don't no kiss, do what I do. Welcome 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:44.039 to laughing like ladies, Jim, I'm your host, flaming along 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:46.800 with my gorgeous and beautiful co host Lauren Hogan, who's 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:50.320 right there, and our fabulous cameramain, Mr Kendall. Y'all say 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:52.920 hello to Kendle, And I gotta remember look up at 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:54.600 kind because y'all got at me because I wasn't looking 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.760 up at Kennaby, were trying to read your comments. How 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:59.600 are you today, Mrs Hogan? I'm good, I'm good. How 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:03.040 are you Lauren giving your legs today a little warm 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.400 in southern California. I thought I was doing something. I 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.760 was like, I'll leave my legs out, but I should 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.959 have just had my arms out to this. It's always warm, 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:13.120 but it's humid today for some reason, we got warming 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:17.000 global warming. Tell that to the penguins that live in 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:21.640 uh article and article and they over there with bathing 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:24.839 suit sound ship. It's hot. They're supposed be cold. It's hot. 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:28.280 Thank you guys for watching the page yesterday to see that. 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:30.640 We did the rooftop show with Tiffany Hattish and Kevin 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:34.359 Taide and Dion Cole. I had a good time. Thank 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:38.320 you to DJ Sidekick and to Elliott Productions sty don time. 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:41.000 But thank you guys for that. But I was there. 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:43.519 We did the show and a new episode is uploaded 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:47.040 at least to your YouTube page. Yes, Lauren did left 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.640 last week's episode of um Coffee of the Ship, Laugh 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:53.519 and Learned with Flaming Lawn. It's up now on YouTube, 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:55.919 so subscribe to my page. Long did you put on 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.240 your page as well? And not yet? Priority was putting 0:02:58.280 --> 0:02:59.880 on your page. So it's up there, go look at 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:02.600 it for now. She's very professional That's why I keep 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:06.240 our around. She she is, She's very I don't even 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:07.480 want to tell you all about the call I got 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:09.560 on Friday. But anyway, let's get to the let's get 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:11.359 to laugh and learning, because we're not gonna keep it alone. 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:14.079 It's hot, We're hot. It's a lot going on in 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:15.919 the world. And I wanted to just say that I 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:18.400 made a hole. I had a meeting or did the 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:20.760 interview with Fox was that like a week or so ago, 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:25.000 and I talked about the whole incident about centering or 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.600 censoring comedians and what we could not say. I made 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:29.400 the point about and I hate that Fox to show 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.359 that that to say that I've heard of a mass 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:33.840 shooting every week. In fact, they just had one in 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.960 um in Florida. A mass shooting every week. Have you 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:41.040 ever heard of mask laughter hurting anyone? It's just a 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:44.240 hypothetical question. Don't answer because you know you want to 0:03:44.240 --> 0:03:46.040 You don't want to stop selling the A R fifteens, 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:47.640 but you want to stop us from saying what we 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:50.080 want to say. I ain't heard of nobody being shot 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:53.080 and killed from a damn laughter. Mass laughing. Mass laughter 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.120 don't happen unless you go to a comedy club to laugh. 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:58.720 Mass shootings happen in grocery stores, funeral roles, you know, schools. 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:03.080 Can we addressed that though, because because of all the 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:06.880 mass shootings and just you know, grocery stores and malls 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.240 and things like that. I've had two incidents, probably in 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:12.320 the last week, where I've gotten like anxiety ridden being 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.720 in the store because somebody looks suspicious. So once I 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:20.640 was in Albertson's last weekend over in Guardina and there 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.800 was a guy outside, but he had a backpack and 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:24.640 it was open and I couldn't see it. And then 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:26.240 he ended up coming to the store and was just 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:28.800 holding the backpack in front of him with it open. 0:04:30.279 --> 0:04:32.280 I did. I got paranoid, and I like rushed to 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.120 the checkoutline and I was like, let me get the 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:37.320 hell out of here. But you still checked out. I 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.880 would have got paranoia and left. Well, no, because I 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.960 watched him, because he the way that my mind works. 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:45.040 I was like, let me see where he goes. So 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.960 I made sure I stayed on the opposite side of 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:48.800 the store from where I saw him, just in case 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:51.000 I needed to exit. There was an exit door right there, 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:53.240 so I was like, let me just get this stuff 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.360 and I'm a head out. And then yesterday I was 0:04:56.400 --> 0:05:00.320 in Costco. I got in line to get my meds 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:02.480 from the pharmacy and there was this white man that 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:05.680 was just staring at me for like five seconds. And 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.200 when I mean seconds, I mean twenty five seconds is old. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.760 White man was just staring at what was the look 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.120 on his face though, like he could have been attracted to, 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.160 you know, it was giving like he hated me, like 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:18.120 and it was just staring at me, and I was 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.920 just like okay, and he had his hands in his pocket, 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:24.520 so I'm and I know you, you ain't hear your. 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:27.200 You don't hear your. I had my knife with me. 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:30.680 She's a knife can't stop a bullet, cannot so he 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:32.880 and I was like, you know, my knee jerk reaction 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.000 was definitely to go off and be like what tuck 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.360 are you looking at? But I was like, okay, his 0:05:37.440 --> 0:05:40.679 hands are in his pocket, he looks crazy, and he's white. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.720 So I just was like looking down. I was like, 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:46.120 let me not engage. And every time I looked back up, 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.440 this man was still staring at me. Yeah. It's you 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:51.479 know what that that speaks volumes because you're twenty seven, 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:56.320 I'm w age probably where I am. And it's still 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:58.680 the same fear because when I was a member, I 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.080 told you I was in Walmart and I'm so suspicious. 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:03.120 I'm like what TJ and say, I'm keeping because now 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:04.640 I'm looking at you. If you got a long code 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:07.000 on for no reason, if you're dressed in all black 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.520 or something for no reason, I'm like, paranoid is ship? 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:11.800 This is the world that we're living in and monkey 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.520 pops ain't helping it because now they want us to 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.359 live in a touchless world. They don't even want us 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:17.920 to embrace each other. I'm telling you, But long story short, 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.680 that man was crazy because another person came up behind me. 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.280 He started talking to us out of out of the 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:24.800 blue and was like, it isn't being a human such 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:27.240 a beautiful thing? And look at all these chips around 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.840 he was he was crazy. Bottom line, I would have 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.680 went to another costco, preferably one way. They give a 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:36.159 lot of free food. You know, we love a good sample. 0:06:36.240 --> 0:06:40.840 But just to say, I am so paranoid now, and 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:44.360 so mind imagine your demographic and my demographic. If we 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:46.240 don't you ever meet out of out or come to 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.200 no conclusions where we meet about the same thing about anything, 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.080 we meet the same thing about that because I'm nervous too. 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:54.840 And I'm not nervous that, you know, because you never 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:57.000 know where it's gonna happen. I'm not even nervous that 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:59.440 are being hurt or maimed or whatever. But I'd be 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.360 nervous from my children because I'm old school. I'm gonna 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:03.920 try to have the freeze or some ship or I'm 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:06.520 gonna try to retaliate back. But when you don't see 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:08.760 it coming and you don't expect it, that we're living 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:11.080 in the same kind of environment, and it don't matter 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:15.600 whether you in an all black neighborhood or all white neighborhood. Craziest, 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:19.080 crazy and crazy travels, you ain't say none of the words. 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:21.000 And I think I may have to come to your 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.760 facility and get me a monkey pox vaccine because I'm 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:26.280 thinking about getting that one. Because let me tell you something, Fans, 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.480 I love y'all. I know y'all love to take pictures 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.160 of me and hug me and smell me, and I 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:32.679 love it, love it, love it. But baby, that monkey 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.720 pox is ugly and I'm like skiing to oh No. 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:37.840 The crazy thing is I'm gonna say, well, good luck 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.320 be qualifying to get one. You have to meet a 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:42.760 certain criterion in order to get a monkey box vaccine. 0:07:43.000 --> 0:07:46.600 They're just not readily available. Well, I can always lad 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:49.440 say I'm having sex with me. You can't. You can't 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:52.880 do that. But that's the gay men or men who 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:56.480 are having sex with men are at the forefront of saying, Okay, 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:59.560 I meet this criteria, you can get a monkey pox vaccine. Well, 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:01.800 let me publicly say this that that I do not 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:03.840 agree with the ship that they're putting out to say 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.560 that this disease is a gay man's disease. That was 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:09.360 the same ship they said about AIDS and eighty one 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.040 that if you wasn't white and going to bath houses 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.760 you couldn't catch it. Meanwhile, women and babies were dying 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:18.880 all the time from from HIV and AID. So it 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.720 is not a gay man's disease. It is your responsibility 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:23.880 to know who you're sleeping with and protect yourself. And 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:26.160 this ain't you gotta to do with sex. Somebody could 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.960 just touch you. Yeah, it's a skin to skin disease 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:32.240 or not. I shouldn't say the skin skin virus let 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:34.400 me be correcting what I'm gonna go to. I'm gonna 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.120 am I talking to tell him I'm thinking about taking 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:38.000 it up to ask can I'm thinking about putting a 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:43.960 little murder. Can I get a shot? I'm thinking about 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:45.839 pulling me a little. Speaking of little murder, I met 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:49.800 Niko the other day Lauren at the d first time 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:53.120 that each other. We knew each other from talking on live, 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.240 but I had never faced the face person, like I 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.679 never met teacher Campbell, we interview her. I never met 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:01.040 Joe Core we interview him, but I met him and 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.360 he singed on the red carpet. We did a red comedy, 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.199 the O M and T S O M E N 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:07.960 T S, which is shoe line. So it was all 0:09:07.960 --> 0:09:09.679 about the shoes on the red car That's why all 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:11.240 of those funky shoes that I was trying to find 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.760 a dress the match. And he's seemed more excited to 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:15.600 meet me than I was to me. But it felt 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:19.160 so familiar, like I knew him already, like oh my god, 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.600 And everybody thought he was sorry when he was smelling 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:24.199 my fragrance, because I'd be smelling good. I was gonna 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:26.600 say your cover photo of that video of y'all together 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.000 as a it's telling a bit of a different story. 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:31.120 It looked like we was doing it. Yeah, it looked 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:33.080 like I was doing something. Well, you know, he topping 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:36.160 this quarter, so he topping, I'm topping. What that's gonna do? 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:40.520 What that's gonna look? I on God, it is still 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:42.360 laughing before we get to the deep. But that's the 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:45.240 that's be funny. So how was your week missing? Because 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:48.520 we're gonna be missing you after winning Monday Tuesday. No, no, no, 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:51.719 I'll still be here for a couple Mondays, but there 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:53.600 is a Monday in the month where I'm gonna be gone. 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:56.160 But things are getting busy for me again. I go 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.440 to Vegas tomorrow for a week, and then I gotta 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:01.079 go to like Atlanta and in New Orleans and New 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:06.920 York and maybe Ohio. Please save Corona. Corona is back 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:10.439 with a vengeance. President tested negative and then positive the 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:12.160 day later. I don't think that he had got past 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:15.040 the first hurdle first, let me be and I think 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:19.920 they were just old and he's old. He is old. 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:22.840 And remember when Corona first hit, mostly it was affecting 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:25.720 a lot of older people. So you don't forget that y'all. 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:29.439 And they are so afraid, they are so afraid to 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:33.959 say for an hour that Kamala Harris has the responsibility 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:37.160 of being the president of these United States, that they 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.160 would he could be on his death bed and they won't. 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:41.000 They won't give her that title. Well they did give 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:42.679 it to remember when he went into four Dietrich to 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.760 have that surgery. She was president for like five hours 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:48.440 and they kept it as low key as possible. Yeah, 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.640 she was president for like five hours because Joe Biden 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:52.440 had to go in and have a surgery. I remember 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:56.400 that that was months ago. But um, yeah, child, he 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:59.560 just keeps getting COVID. Poor man, COVID is out here, y'all. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:02.760 But you ask where your mask? I use lifestyle but 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.520 lifstynge and do not for monkey pox. Oh we gotta 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:09.559 get to the lightheartedt stuff. First, Beyonce released another album UK, 0:11:09.760 --> 0:11:13.800 Break My Soul UK. She released an album and I actually, 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.480 like officially just listened to it. I really like it. 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:19.079 It's like it reminded me of her self titled album 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:22.240 Blow you know that song. It's like she stayed in 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:25.440 that lane and just created a whole album. Well they 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:28.079 I haven't heard alien Superstar, But I heard that was 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.240 the one that was really hot. But I love Big 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:32.520 Freedom on Break My Soul and shout out to Big 0:11:32.600 --> 0:11:36.440 Freedom and ts Matters for both having uh not lyrics 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:38.520 on the song, but they both have spoken parts on 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:42.679 both of the one of I don't know the name 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:44.559 of the song that TS is. I don't even know that, 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.880 but she's on something. I'm black and black. I'm motherfucking black, 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:50.559 I'm double black. So it was it was It's cute, 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:53.680 uh huh. And free to Big Freedo. I love released 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.120 the trade released the stress. I just love Big Free. 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.080 Big Freedom pretty much has a bit of a feature. Yeah, 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.800 Big Freedo came through with it so well. Madison is 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.720 on Cozy. I listened to Cozy. I did not hear her. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:05.560 Oh Cozy that's the name of his song. I did 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:08.240 not hear her. Shout out to Maddie and shout out 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:12.120 to Big Freedom for representation and being on with the 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:15.880 number one start Miss Beyonce the Diva. But yeah, I said, 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.559 when you make the video, I just want to be 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:20.600 to be dressed up as Tina in the video. Want 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:22.960 to Yeah, I could be the stud double for the Mama. 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:24.400 You can throw me off a bus or train and 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.960 some ship you know, and wanted to break my soul. 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:28.559 You can you can't break my soul. And you just 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:30.439 stoke Mama, I'm sick of your mom and pushed me 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:33.200 off the train and I played I be Tina. Oh 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:36.360 my lord for real, like for play. So let's get 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:37.960 to the deepness. Lord, I really do want to get 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:40.920 a monkey I need to see I would get that one. Then, 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:45.439 well you know it's just like basically a small pox vaccine, right, Okay, 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:47.960 Well I take the pneuma vaccine, so I'm not against 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:49.840 I don't want people to think that I'm against vaccines. 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:53.439 I'm not against vaccines. I just some ship I just 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:56.120 be scary to me. But I take that monkey pox one. 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.840 But supposedly more background information, they're supposed to be two doses, 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:03.480 but because there's not enough supply to meet the demand, 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:06.200 they're only gonna, like in some states, they're only giving 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:08.440 one the first dost. They're not gonna give you both. 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.079 If y'all thought fatal attraction stopped you from cheating, this 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:13.240 monkey pop is gonna and scare the hell out of me. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:16.920 I don't want to give it to nobody. That's the front, 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:20.640 the back or the side. What else is in the news, 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.360 Lauren Hogan, Um, well, I don't know about the national news, 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:25.800 but in my news, my birthday is on Friday. That 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:29.120 is true, the day after the president Barack Obama's Lauren's 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:32.760 birthday special more just special people, it's mine. I gotta 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.400 really oh in the house. If there's a word, it's 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:40.520 a special, it's another meaning with that special I am. 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:42.560 I'm a very different kind of Look at my black 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:48.040 lady at to wear for office lips. That's right, Lauren's birthday. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:52.640 It's Friday. She's going to be Oh god, I feel 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:56.880 Oh you're thirty nine? Is remember that was on that day. 0:13:56.960 --> 0:14:00.040 You keep getting the realization of old age. Kick and 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:03.280 like that next morning you've been so old when you 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:04.640 get up and you raise them and you sit on 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.120 the bed, you have to just let your feet where 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:07.520 you over the edge of the bid because you're like, 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:09.000 what do I want to do? First? Do I want 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:10.320 to step down and go to the bath for Oh 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:13.000 my god, it's a mess. So we're gonna we're gonna 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.120 send Lauren. We're gonna have a special love lounge for 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:16.800 Lauren Friday. Even though she won't be here, and we're 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:19.720 gonna send cash because you know, she got a new house, 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.160 and she got a she got about toilet paper and paper, 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:27.480 talent and stuff. You know how they do deep in 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:29.840 the conversation, what we're going on. Let's talk about what 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.720 I want to talk about the main topic. Okay, So 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:36.800 here's my thing. So Congress has a hundred and fifty 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.640 A hundred and fifty seven congress members of Congress voted 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:47.920 against uh, gay marriage right, including one of the congressmen 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:51.920 who had just attended his sons gay son's wedding to 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.240 another and so he voted against that. So my question is, 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.680 are you against your son? That ain't even my biggest 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.320 issue right now. The biggest issue is that they're made 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.640 this whole thing about they don't want kids to be 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:04.680 going to drag shows. Now, yeah, before y'all attacked me, 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.320 let me say how I feel about that. I'm in 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:11.200 a complete agreement with that, but not on the aspect 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.920 of where I'm agreeing with Congress. I'm agreeing with the 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:17.440 entertainers and the club owners. It is not their responsibility 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:21.320 nor the entertainer's responsibility, to be responsible for what your 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.600 child sees when you knew up front what was going on. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.240 A lot of these drag shows have a lot of ugarities, 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:28.960 and I'm talking about the brunches. I don't even talk 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:30.480 about the night shows because you gotta be twenty one 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:32.560 to get a night or at least eighteen. And when 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:35.200 I say kids, I'm talking about ages three to eleven 0:15:35.200 --> 0:15:40.520 when they're really impressionable for garty nudity. The language is ridiculous. 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:43.640 And I say this about the brunches because brunches you 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.160 can't do ballot. You have to do upbeat numbers, which 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:49.400 is Beyonce naked, and the titties and the breastplates and 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:52.080 the breast Some of these blessed breastplates look very real 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:55.000 to adults, so I can only imagine what they look 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:58.640 like to children. And I think it's inappropriate, first of all, 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.240 for you to bring your children to that and less 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:04.080 and less because there is an unless they have been 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.600 exposed to that at home, or been exposed to that 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.600 in your personal life. So you may have an uncle 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:11.480 or brother or somebody that does drag or close free it, 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:13.960 so they understand that. They know that because my children 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:15.960 knew that. Not only have my children been to the 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.480 drag show. My daughters have been in a drag show 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:21.120 with me, but they were used to that. If you 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:23.600 take somebody who has never been exposed to a very 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.600 impressionable kid, you could do a lot of personal damage 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.240 to that kid. And that's not not to say that 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:30.480 you can't pick up a cell phone right now and 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:33.000 go to Twitter and see everything you want to see. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:36.880 But the kid did that on their own, not you 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.960 taking your kid to a drag show. Lauren, I want 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:44.720 to know your opinion. You're a straight one. I I agree. 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:47.000 I agree with you, just saying, um, I think it's 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:49.640 just interesting because you know, before when I was like 0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:52.080 doing events and stuff with my job, I would go 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:55.200 around and like see different prides, and like, some prides 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:58.280 are just drawing the connection. Some prides are buck wild. 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.640 Like if you went to Houston and everybody's naked, want 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:04.600 to jump in water. You go to New York, everybody's naked. 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:07.480 But then if you go to a place oddly enough, 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:12.240 like matt and Rouge, Louisiana, their pride is actually family oriented. 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.280 You see a lot of parents that bring their kids 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:19.120 to this pride and it's it's very family like. It's 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:23.600 it's different so saying that to say, I would say, 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.840 know the event kind of like I know your audience. 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.440 But if you are going to bring your kid to 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:32.120 a drag show, know what type of content your kid's 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:34.639 gonna see and if it's appropriate to have your kid 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:37.679 in that setting, and if it's not, don't bring them. 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:41.480 But I don't know if maybe we want to split 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:45.000 responsibility and maybe some drag shows need to say eighteen 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:48.040 and older or twenty one plus or whatever that is 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:51.760 to kind of keep that younger crowd out that shouldn't 0:17:51.920 --> 0:17:54.520 be seeing those things because maybe the parents judgment is 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:56.680 in their ass at the time. I don't know. Maybe 0:17:56.720 --> 0:17:58.840 that's something that promoters and the club owners could do. 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:01.920 But um, I agree with you. I don't think that 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:05.280 young kids need to necessarily see that. Whether it's the 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:07.760 problem with that is a lot of are at restaurants, 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:10.280 you know what I mean. So you can't say, oh, 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:12.640 it's eighteen at a restaurant when your kids is coming 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:14.600 to eat and they have kids menus and all of that. 0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:17.520 It is just like you said, it really is up 0:18:17.560 --> 0:18:20.439 to the individual who's raising their kid or who's responsible 0:18:20.520 --> 0:18:22.360 for that kid. But I don't like that they're trying 0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:25.320 to blame that the entertainers or the club owner. It's 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.400 not the drag queen's fault. I'm not going to change 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:29.040 my act because you didn't change your ways. If I'm 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:31.159 Beyonce is the hottest ticket on the market and I 0:18:31.240 --> 0:18:33.119 know that's gonna make me the most money and tips, 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.120 I'm gonna do Beyonce, which means I'm going to probably 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:37.679 have on the bathing suit and try to look as 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:41.440 much like Beyonce as I possibly could. But your kids, 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:43.199 you know, I've been at the drag show here, when 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:44.520 I used to work at the direct show here, they 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:46.199 would have their kids that come up to tip us 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:48.879 and everything in my boobs all out, and you know, 0:18:49.040 --> 0:18:53.840 you feel like it's a kid, and it ain't my kid. Honestly, 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:57.080 I feel like it just depends on if you are 0:18:57.160 --> 0:19:01.080 that parent, because honestly, speaking from a personal arians, when 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:03.440 my mom was out, if she could be out in 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:05.720 the street, I was with her. So sometimes when I 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:07.520 was eight years old, I was out till two o'clock 0:19:07.520 --> 0:19:09.080 in the morning, you know what I mean, just hanging 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:12.399 out with her. And my mom was born and raised 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:16.560 in New York, so I in my opinion, I think 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:19.600 sometimes that upbringing is a little different. Like my grandmother, 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:22.880 for instance, worked on Broadway. She was, you know, a hairstylist, 0:19:22.960 --> 0:19:25.399 so my mom was out late hours of the night 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:27.920 because her because my grandmother was working, you know, so 0:19:28.080 --> 0:19:30.880 she was backstage with dancers who sometimes had to strip 0:19:30.920 --> 0:19:33.159 because they had to do a quick change. So yes, 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:35.840 there was nudity on display and those different things. So 0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:39.479 I grew up as a dancer, so I experienced those 0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:42.160 things too as a young age. It just it just depends, 0:19:42.200 --> 0:19:44.840 And I think it also goes to the parents and 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:47.120 how you educate your child and the surrounding that you're 0:19:47.119 --> 0:19:49.480