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Speaker 1: My sister in law and her family is so messy,

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Speaker 1: so I'm going to throw them out of the house.

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Speaker 2: You know, the best way to clean up a message

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Speaker 2: just thrown in the garbage.

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Speaker 1: Talk about it, get it out of here. So my

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Speaker 1: husband has two brothers and one sister. His sister and

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Speaker 1: her husband are not my favorite people in the world.

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Speaker 1: Recently they have been CouchSurfing as they lost their home.

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Speaker 1: Long story, which could have been avoided if they had

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Speaker 1: adulted like they should have. First, they stayed in my

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Speaker 1: in law has diabetes to get rid of them and

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Speaker 1: their rowdy children. By the way, this comes from Critical

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Speaker 1: Lemon forty seventy two on the r slash Okay storytime

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Speaker 1: supbred It. Next was his older brother and his wife.

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Speaker 1: They had two spare rooms as two of their older

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Speaker 1: children moved out a year ago and they only have

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Speaker 1: the six year old and the thirteen year old twins

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Speaker 1: at home. After three weeks they had to move out

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Speaker 1: due to a planned refurbishment. They were happy with them

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Speaker 1: as they were generally tidy and helped out in the home.

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Speaker 1: The youngest brother next to take them in while my

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Speaker 1: sister in law was there. She helped out in the

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Speaker 1: home and kept her children on a leash. The youngest

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Speaker 1: brother's wife is a very house proud and she allowed

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Speaker 1: them to stay for a limited time only as they

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Speaker 1: had a baby recently and her mother will be staying

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Speaker 1: with them to help out for the first six months.

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Speaker 1: Then they emotionally manipulated my husband to say okay, and

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Speaker 1: just to quickly catch everyone up. They've basically been hopping

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Speaker 1: from house to house to house and have now finally

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Speaker 1: landed in Opee's house. But they've been able to.

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Speaker 2: Kind of like they've been catching waves and waves and

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Speaker 2: waves waves on the scouchsurfing and we've pulled the shore

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Speaker 2: on Ope's front door. Okay. Cool I agreed to it to.

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Speaker 1: Have them in the house on the condition that she

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Speaker 1: and her husband as well as their children keep the

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Speaker 1: place clean because in the past the only place they

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Speaker 1: were messy in was my home. For example, if they're

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Speaker 1: throwing something into the kitchen trash can, they will throw

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Speaker 1: it in the general direction of it, but not into

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Speaker 1: the actual bin. It's extra gross when it's food stuff

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Speaker 1: that dries and stinks up the place. So they're just

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Speaker 1: like they just have like a you know, a plate

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Speaker 1: of food.

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Speaker 2: They're just like, eh ah, hey, you know, it points

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Speaker 2: for at least effort in the direction.

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Speaker 1: You know, they're trying to They're trying to like practice

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Speaker 1: their their hoop skills, but they just keep missing.

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Speaker 2: Now everyone has that Steph Curry Act.

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Speaker 1: Ten thousand hours, they're trying to put it in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you know, if they're gonna ball, is gonna

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Speaker 2: be life. They gotta have every opportunity to practice. I

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Speaker 2: gotta live no time off the clock. They gotta live

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Speaker 2: shooting threes every day. Exactly.

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Speaker 1: Similar things happened in the past where she would leave

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Speaker 1: her sanitary towels in the bathroom on top of the

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Speaker 1: bin lid in the bathroom instead of inside the actual bin.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, kind of gross. Her oldest daughter started her

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Speaker 1: periods recently, and I asked the younger brother's wife how

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Speaker 1: things were for tidiness. She said that she had no complaints.

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Speaker 1: They went to bed on time, and they kept the

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Speaker 1: place clean. However, they were there for only two weeks,

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Speaker 1: so she was, you know, getting a reference from one

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Speaker 1: of the earlier houses that she was at and they

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Speaker 1: were like, yeah, it was fine, but they were on

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Speaker 2: I love how everyone's like sharing information on how clean

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Speaker 2: this this traveling family of vagrances.

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Speaker 1: When you have to like constantly be like, hey, were

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, you know, it's probably not red flags red

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Speaker 2: flags for sure, red.

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Speaker 1: Flag you gotta clean to mess up with? M got

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Speaker 1: you that's a cloth facts, they're always tidy at the

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Speaker 1: other houses. I know this from experience too, because during

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Speaker 1: Christmas and summer holidays when we stayed each other's places,

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Speaker 1: I have seen the difference in how they are at

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Speaker 2: Before. Maybe you just give off that messy vibe, you know,

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Speaker 2: you just.

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Speaker 1: Have like the look that's like I want to trash your.

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Speaker 2: House, yeah, or maybe your house feet Like you know

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Speaker 2: the function way, isn't it right?

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like the equivalent of like a punchable face,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have a trash trash To be fair, my

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Speaker 2: old apartment was a very trashable place. Like it was

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Speaker 2: like relatively clean every once in a while, but you know,

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Speaker 2: a couple of parties you throw and then suddenly everyone's

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Speaker 1: The floors begged to be sticky.

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Speaker 2: The floor. The thing was so sticky. YEA, Luckily we

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Speaker 2: use mops everyone, so I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like I feel like it generally. It was only

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Speaker 2: Was only right during the party. Yeah that was that

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Speaker 2: was a sticky floor. They got sticky, It got sticky. Yeah. Wow.

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Speaker 1: But before they moved in, I made the younger brother

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Speaker 1: and my parent in law's my in laws witnessed to

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Speaker 1: them agreeing to keeping my house as clean as it

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Speaker 1: is now and to chip in with the chores. If

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Speaker 1: to be clear, they're like, hey, you can live here,

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Speaker 1: but you have to maintain it. You have to contribute

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Speaker 1: to chores. If you break this, you're gone asap. Cool, right,

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Speaker 1: that's how expectation. She fussed and denied past wrongdoings, but said,

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Speaker 2: Cause you shut up. Such a dick move coming from

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Speaker 2: someone who is literally staying, like like asking a massive

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Speaker 2: favor to stay in your home. Yeah, I would be

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Speaker 2: walking on eggshollers if I didn't have a place.

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Speaker 1: Right, if I have a place to live, I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: let me, let me clean the whole thing. Here's a pie.

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Speaker 2: Lick your boot.

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Speaker 1: God, what a favor.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, let me let me shine your shoes by

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Speaker 2: just giving a little tongue back. Like I would, I

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Speaker 2: I would be pulling some Nancy Reagan's out there, you know,

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Speaker 2: if I if I needed to stay in this house.

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Speaker 2: But uh yeah, it doesn't feel like they're doing that

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Speaker 1: If anyone wants the house, Sam, you know where to

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Speaker 1: find them. The first five days were smooth sailing. This

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Speaker 1: morning I found a sanitary towel on top of the

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Speaker 1: think when we're saying that, I think we're like, you know,

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Speaker 1: you you do your business and then you clean it up,

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Speaker 1: but they put it on top of the trash can with.

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Speaker 2: A sanitary towel. My okay, correct me if I'm wrong.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking like like pads or something, but.

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Speaker 1: That could yes, that could also be it.

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Speaker 2: What are you thinking You're thinking like like like a

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Speaker 2: baby toilets? Oh uh oh, because you're using that and

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Speaker 2: those often aren't flushables. You're throwing them in the trash can.

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Speaker 1: On top instead of it could be. I think we're

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Speaker 1: about to get more context, but let us know either way,

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound cleanly. Doesn't sound cleanly, But that's not all.

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Speaker 1: Her daughter is staying in my daughter's room, and she

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Speaker 1: made a mess of the shampoo and conditioner in her

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Speaker 2: Her husband.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not the best look.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and that's like it's even it's like worse than

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Speaker 2: a pad, because like like at least a pad, you know,

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Speaker 2: like there's it's like it's like a peanut butter jelly sandwich.

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Speaker 2: You know, you have like all the wet stuff off

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Speaker 2: a layer of bread, you know, fucking like a like

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Speaker 2: a tampon's I leave in like a wet popsicle. It's

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Speaker 2: just a yeah, yeah, a wet melting popsicles cherry flavor.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, yoins God. Her husband leaves early for work,

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Speaker 1: and the kitchen was a mess when I finally got downstairs,

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Speaker 1: and I'm a curious toddler, and I didn't want him

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Speaker 1: to pick up the bloodied sanitary towel I knocked on

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it is it is like a yeah pad, So.

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Speaker 1: It's all it's all a female hygiene products that are used.

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Speaker 2: Also, Egil says, how does John look good after being sick?

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Speaker 2: But Sam looks like he just woke up from a bender.

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Speaker 2: Eggs is Zekeiel damn ezekiel. Boy.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I knocked on the guest room and

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Speaker 1: I told her to pack her crap and get out

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Speaker 1: the kid. I believe crazy quick reaction. Pack you're crapping,

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Speaker 1: get out. She set the expectation, is it crazy?

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Speaker 2: Chat?

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Speaker 1: Is it too much?

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Speaker 2: I mean, talk to the parents. I think first talk

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Speaker 1: We get yeah, I mean definitely like like teens for sure,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's a that is a thing for

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Speaker 1: So she looked angry and she tried to play innocent.

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Speaker 1: She said, oh, it was just only some blood, and

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Speaker 1: That's kind of crazy.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna throw you away, dude, honestly, throw you away.

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Speaker 2: That is. I feel like, throw you away right now.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what he's about to do.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I told her no, and I picked

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Speaker 1: At first, she wouldn't leave the house, saying that she

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Speaker 1: was gonna wait for her brother. She doesn't take orders

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Speaker 1: me too, so she was She was like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 1: he'll tell you what's what. And Opie's like, listen up, sweetie,

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Speaker 1: I own this house too, not just.

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Speaker 2: Because because nephew is like cock and smacking, like I'm

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Speaker 2: only going to be taken. I'm gonna be taking orders

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Speaker 2: for blood relative.

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Speaker 1: Not someone who marries into this name, the niece with

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Speaker 1: the feminine hygiene products. I dropped her and her youngest

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Speaker 1: ones off at my in laws.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, Opie.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't having it, which was like out instantly, she hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: she set an expectation and she lived up to it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah my god. Yeah, I mean, like, that's so rude.

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Speaker 2: That's so rude. Yeah, and if you can't take control

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Speaker 1: Ellie says, that's technically a biohazard. Please explain. I guess,

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Speaker 1: like you know, blood but yeah, yeah, blood out in

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Speaker 1: the open. True, yeah, true. Pieces four twenty says talking

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Speaker 1: to the mom, not the niece. Talking to the mom

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Speaker 1: and not the niece.

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Speaker 2: Okay, should we take it back a little bit?

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Speaker 1: Sure? Sure?

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Speaker 2: She Yeah, thank you guys, appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, running it back. At first, she wouldn't leave the house,

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Speaker 1: saying she was going to wait for her Uh, she

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Speaker 1: was going to wait for her brother, as she doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to take orders from me, right, because this is

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Speaker 1: it's yeah, not the uncle, Yeah, this is this is

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Speaker 1: But I told her, I told my sister in law

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Speaker 2: She was throwing down the god.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely throwing down. So the family thinks that I am

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Speaker 1: It is absolutely ridiculous. Possibly there could have just been

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Speaker 2: You know? Like I guess, like to clarify, I mean,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I mean I think, like it seems like

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Speaker 2: gauntlet as they did. It's like, hey, like, historically you've

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Speaker 1: Or like, I think, at a bare minimum, you could

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I would. I think I would still

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Speaker 2: You are out after those those two weeks. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean that's just me. That's just like I maybe

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Speaker 2: my my my house. He's cool with it, guys. Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 2: Stefanie says, right, it's not the first offense. Plus she

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Speaker 1: I honestly like, I kind of think that she just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think like, well because OP already

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think OP did the right thing by setting expectations.

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Speaker 2: to just read Ellie's comment. I have no tolerance for

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Speaker 2: and that's okay. If you're old enough to need a

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Speaker 1: Also, just going back to earlier when she had like

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Speaker 1: So they're going to change their latitude as in getting

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Speaker 2: There we go, Here we go, Yo, that needs to

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Speaker 2: I can see it like like that that's a different

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Speaker 2: It's like you can just see all these different cohorts

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Speaker 1: That's just casually living my life out here. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's why I said you shouldn't have let him and

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Speaker 1: They were out there discussing the matter while I refuse

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Speaker 2: Arekaay, oh go, we will never go nice. Now.

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Speaker 1: After two hours, yes, two whole hours, they left. They

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Speaker 1: The only way to really contain the problem is to

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Speaker 2: Too and get it up and put it in a bin.

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Speaker 2: That's right, and close the lig get out and it's.

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Speaker 1: the managing products.

435
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 2: My understanding was it was both, and that's why I

436
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 2: got a little confused on like whoop he was talking

437
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:46,440
Speaker 2: to initially, But my understanding it was both someone's leaving him. Yeah,

438
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 2: you know, Apple, don't fall far from the tree. That

439
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 2: is true that you know that blood red edh Apple?

440
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 1: Those are red had no, No, Brandy Smith's over here,

441
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 1: we're talking bright red. Oh boy, Well he left that

442
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: part for her for Denise cleaning up the shampoo. In

443
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 1: the meantime, our daughter can use our shower. We will

444
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 1: see how this turns out tomorrow. Now, yesterday was a

445
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 1: long day at my in loss and we have update

446
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 1: number two coming up. It seems like we're now going

447
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: to get into their coming back to the table.

448
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 2: Why I don't want them anywhere near my table. It's

449
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 2: so funny to leave terrible things on my table.

450
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 1: It's it's really funny because like I feel like they're

451
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 1: coming back to the table. But Opie's like, yeah, there's

452
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: just like no way they're living here, so it's kind

453
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 1: of like, what are we coming to the table? Yeah,

454
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 1: Like I feel like just call them up and be like, hey,

455
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,239
Speaker 1: you can't come back, Like I feel like, I mean,

456
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,239
Speaker 1: I guess good to like give them a seat at

457
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 1: the table before you promptly get them back out.

458
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 2: But I think the table is the tabling is just

459
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 2: there to inform them that you will not be coming

460
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 2: to the table. This is the last. This is your

461
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 2: official uninvitation from this table. Enjoy the enjoy the seat

462
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 2: that you have because that was the last time that

463
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,360
Speaker 2: you'd be sitting in this vicinity. Honestly, I do think

464
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 2: one last one, last table is like smart, I guess

465
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 2: you have communicated better than better than just like over

466
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 2: the sure. Yeah, it's like it's like you're not gonna

467
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,959
Speaker 2: it's not ghosting them. It's like saying, okay, I think

468
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: we should just be friends.

469
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: I respect it. You're right, you're right, I respect it. Well,

470
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 1: let's see what they say. It's on table. So update

471
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: number two. We went early to get it over and

472
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 1: done with. My in laws started the guilt trip. First,

473
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 1: they mentioned that they would take them in until they

474
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: found a place, but due to father in law's diabetes.

475
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,640
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be good for his health. I think this

476
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: is the illness to Ope put the quotes, the illness, which,

477
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 1: by the way, is op giveing off. Is there some

478
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: everyone sucks here or like Ops the a whole vibes too.

479
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,199
Speaker 1: I want to I just want to plant that ideed

480
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: and every do.

481
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 2: Think op is harsher than like I would be. Yes,

482
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 2: But I also haven't been confronted by a deluge of

483
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 2: uh bloody feminine products and spread throughout my house like

484
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: Hansel and Gretel are spread in bread combs throughout their

485
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 2: trail to the to the witch's layer. So if I'm house, yeah,

486
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 2: I think because I'm I'm not recently like woften with

487
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 2: those vampire sandwiches everywhere, as someone so beautifully said, and Friendsha,

488
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 2: thanks Stephanie. In my mind's eye, I am being more reserved.

489
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 2: But you know, Opie has just been confronted with it,

490
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 2: so I understand her being so uh viciously and adamantly

491
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 2: opposed to these people staying in a place so in

492
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 2: conclusion not really the a hole.

493
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: And there's there's there's we're we're not even halfway done,

494
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 1: so I have more more to lean from Opie's.

495
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 2: Judge of character.

496
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 1: But I digress. I told them to tell their daughter

497
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: to parent her children so they wouldn't run around a

498
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: muck like monkeys. That way they could stay with them

499
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: as they have spare bedrooms. Again, this is Opie talking

500
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: to the in laws.

501
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 2: The father in law, Hey, some advice to the wise.

502
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 2: You are about to deal with a violent, bloody hurricane

503
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: that could destroy your house and everything you know and

504
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 2: love before warrants.

505
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: But the thing is the in laws also don't want them.

506
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, the father in law's diabetes, it's too

507
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:07,959
Speaker 1: much for day.

508
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 2: Are they just going to have to take care of

509
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: them or okay? So they're trying the table they're trying

510
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 2: to pon, so trying to pass off the responsibility currently.

511
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, this this current table in laws, and which is

512
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 1: I think her husband's parents and then you know op

513
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 1: and her husband. They're like, you take her, no, you

514
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: take her, no, you take them.

515
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: Like they're pushing the blood from table to table, and

516
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 2: it's just going back and forth. It's just creating like this.

517
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 2: It's like Jackson Pollock between the two tables.

518
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, yes, they couldn't be described as such. This did

519
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,679
Speaker 1: not land well with sister in law. She went on

520
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: a tirade about how I had always been jealous of her,

521
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: and then I was trying to drive a wedge between

522
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: her and her brother. I told her she doesn't like

523
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 1: her own life, so me being jealous of her and

524
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: her life was a stretch that required suspension of reality.

525
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: Dude, do no, she will done.

526
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 1: Jesus fended going to attention because reality is in suspension.

527
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 2: My lord. Well.

528
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: She then asked my husband if he was okay with

529
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 1: me telling him what to do with his family, as

530
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: he always stays out of my family's business. She told

531
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: him to lay down the law and to tell me

532
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: that his sister and her family would stay as long

533
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: as it took them to find a new place. So

534
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: sister in law is like, I will stay here as

535
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: long as it takes. That's what's going to be.

536
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: No famn, well, not famn. Wow.

537
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: If you're curious what their response was, we're about to

538
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: get that.

539
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: You know what, I think. I hope he's going to

540
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 2: be tempered, temper so cool, so collected.

541
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: Oh man, well, my husband was having none of that.

542
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: He told her that the house was mine as it

543
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 1: was his and it was a two yes and one

544
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: no deal. Just because I was a stay at home

545
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: mom now didn't mean that I didn't contribute to buying

546
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: the house when I was working. The younger brother and

547
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: his wife said they wouldn't be able to host them

548
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: as they had his mother in law staying due to

549
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 1: the baby. So it's again, all of the family members

550
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: are basically just saying.

551
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 2: Like, hey me, we can't not me tag, I'm not it.

552
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 2: They're nim being, nim being, nim being being, not in

553
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:37,120
Speaker 2: my backyard, nimbi politics. Indeed, usually the way it's used.

554
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: The older ones mentioned the refurbishments, kind of you know,

555
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: some new construction. Both the younger and older wives said

556
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: that I was that I was making it up about

557
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: the cleanliness, as she always kept their own house clean

558
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: and kept their places clean. They told me to suck

559
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: it up and act like family who. I told him

560
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: that I wasn't there to argue about her cleanly, as

561
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: I saw what I saw and her brother was witness

562
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: to it and had to clean it up. He confirmed

563
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 1: that he did and that I wasn't making it up.

564
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: My sister in law slipped up and said, why did

565
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: you clean it up? To her brother because according to her,

566
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,959
Speaker 1: I was meant to clean it up and slipping up

567
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: because she essentially admitted to it being there right like

568
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: she was like everyone else is like, oh, well they

569
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: kept our house and got out, So it was almost

570
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: like kind of like low key denying it. But then

571
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: the sister in law afft up and was like, well,

572
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,479
Speaker 1: why did you clean it? And it's like, well, that

573
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 1: proves that you made the mess.

574
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 2: Do you think like they planted this there on purpose

575
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: for any reason? I don't know why they.

576
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: Were, I mean, but no, because then that's just guaranteed.

577
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: Like I feel like they want to stay in the house.

578
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: I feel like they didn't do it on purpose, they

579
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: just did it.

580
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: Being if you guys have to say conspiracy theory, I'm like,

581
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 2: if or why they would do that on purpose? Let

582
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: us know and chat.

583
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: Please tell us yeah, because I cannot think.

584
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 2: I don't see it ice you, but if you see

585
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: an ICU, let me know.

586
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 1: Either she is the dumbest bee alive to admit it,

587
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: or she knows that she has a whole family in

588
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: her pocket. Either way, I made it clear she wasn't

589
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: going to stay with me because she got along much

590
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: better with everyone else in the family, they would figure

591
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: something out around their own lives. My husband told his

592
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: niece that she was old enough to clean up the

593
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: remaining mess, but she said no. Her father jumped in

594
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 1: and said that she is your niece, but she's my daughter.

595
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: Don't you dare tell her what to do. It got

596
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: heated between them, so they both had to walk it off.

597
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: I told her and her husband that the only reason

598
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,479
Speaker 1: me and my husband were there was to get money

599
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: back for the bin that we had to throw out

600
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: due to her sprinkling biohazards around the house. I am

601
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: getting further on the line that Ope's just like.

602
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 2: It's not that she's wrong, but like she mad. She

603
00:29:59,120 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 2: is mad, and.

604
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm like really making them pay back, like yes, but

605
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: it's just like like like let it go, Like do

606
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: you really want to like hover over them until they

607
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: buy you back the trash can? Like I just get

608
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: them out of your house. Yeah, that's I don't know.

609
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: It seems like I purposely trying to like twist the

610
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: knife first.

611
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: So I think she's trying to do what she believes

612
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 2: is like as fair as possible. I don't think I

613
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: think it's not the most angelic thing to do, for sure,

614
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 2: But again, is she like the ale hole for it?

615
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: I still don't think so, Lewis says, I think that's

616
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 2: too far. Just let it go. Would your life be

617
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: better if you let it go? For sure?

618
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: Yes?

619
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 2: Are you entitled to a nuke trash can because they're

620
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: destroying the sanctity and cleanliness of your items? Yeah, but

621
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 2: like you're not gonna be happier by chasing after that.

622
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: It's trash.

623
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: It's a trash can. Like how expensive is a trash can?

624
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: You know? Like I mean, like you can pretty expensive?

625
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: But you know I'm trying to buy, like, you know,

626
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 2: five ten bucks trash can do dollar store. De Red says,

627
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 2: Opie is being justifiably petty.

628
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: Hmm okay, okay, Well we'll keep cooking on it. I'm

629
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm very curious on everyone's opinion on onopape. As we

630
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: keep going in the story, she laughed in my face

631
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: and said it would never happen. So I said, fine,

632
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: I hope you realize that when I threw you out,

633
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: I didn't pack all your belongings. I still had her

634
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: daughter's switch, her husband, and her two younger ones, tablets,

635
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: and some of her jewelry, and a few other bits

636
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: and pieces. As it all happened quickly that day, it

637
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: would all be sold to recuperate my cost.

638
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 2: Dude, dude, hey, all right, like I Opie, I understand

639
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 2: you want revenge. You know you want what's yours. You

640
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: don't want your trash cans to be like disgraced. Yeah. Hey,

641
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: I like a tree and trash clean trash can as

642
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: much as the next guy, cars, Spice, Will this act

643
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: make your life more or less complicated? One hundred percent

644
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 2: more complicated? Dude, They're gonna be pissed. They're gonna be pissed, Like,

645
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: do just give that back? Is the trash can worth

646
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: your piece?

647
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: Op says she wants piece, but she truly really wants warm.

648
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 2: She wants she wants, she wants, she wants to just

649
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 2: watch the world burn.

650
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: Low key, ice, you conspiracy theory? Did she let them

651
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 1: in knowing how bad they would mess up, just to

652
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Speaker 1: like start.

653
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 2: This beef to punish them? Yead, Dude, I because.

654
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: That's a big These jewelry and Nintendo switch like these

655
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: are expensive items. We're talking about a trash can that's

656
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: literally where garbage goes.

657
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 2: Two tablets. Let's say like you know, yeah, like lower

658
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 2: lower to your tablets. That's like four hundred bucks each,

659
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: plus a Nintendo switch, which is like another like two

660
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 2: hundred three hundred bucks. Yeah, Like, are you really saying

661
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 2: that your trash cans are collectively worth a thousand dollars? Lady?

662
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: What kind of golden trash cans do you have?

663
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Speaker 2: Dude? I want to see those trash can Maybe it's

664
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: like the ones with the sensors where it sings to you. Yeah,

665
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 2: you see, it's like those toilets in Japan. Then like

666
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 2: blast your bottle with like warm water. Yeah. I don't

667
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 2: know what these trash cans are going to do sing

668
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 2: you back. It's like maybe it's like a room but

669
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 2: trash can that follows you around every time you like

670
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 2: do a steph Curry shot in autumn. That's what they do.

671
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: That's what they need. If they had those track, if

672
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 2: they bought the five hundred dollars trash cans, they wouldn't

673
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 2: have a problem with these so sanitary projects. Suit. They

674
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 2: just they just need their You know what, I actually

675
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 2: think we've stumbled on a solution. Get the five hundred

676
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: dollars trash cans, and now all of your problems are solved.

677
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Speaker 1: Dude, you're actually completely accurate, like, like literally none of

678
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: this would have although although they need the super premium

679
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: one where because remember they left the the hygiene products

680
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: on the on the table.

681
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 2: It needs to be able to pick it up.

682
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: Hey, I detect that there's trash round and then boom

683
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: if they had that, get a spot and maybe that's

684
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: a trash canop he wants to buy. Maybe we're maybe

685
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: we're totally and then she's like, hey, now you can

686
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: live here because we have.

687
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 2: It all right, Here we go, here we go. You

688
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 2: know those spot robot dogs with the little arms on top,

689
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: little robot dogs. Yeah, the robot dogs and they have

690
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: an arm on top, you know, you know about their

691
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,919
Speaker 2: arm eddie, pull that up. Look up Spot robot dog

692
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: with arm. We'll watch it later. But yeah, like I

693
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: could pick up trash, so maybe they just need that

694
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 2: in the trash.

695
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: We've landed on this crazy outcome. Yeah, maybe it's true.

696
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 2: We'll see.

697
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: Let's goind out. It would all be sold to recuperate

698
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: my cost. We left. She was yelling loudly about what

699
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: she would do to me if I dared to sell anything.

700
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 1: My husband has my back and he said, go ahead

701
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 1: and sell whatever you need to.

702
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 2: I know about that. Buh, that's what I'm saying.

703
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: Later on, they kept texting my husband to do them

704
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: one last favor by putting up with her for just

705
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: a few months until she could get back on her feet.

706
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait what period of time?

707
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: Just a few months? Few months?

708
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: Hell no, hell a few months? Yeah, dude, that's crazy,

709
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: that's crazy. You know what, creativity loves constraints, you know,

710
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 2: don't give one like the how long a task will

711
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 2: take will expand to how long you give a task

712
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 2: to take, So you know what, for their betefit say

713
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: three days, three days, get back on your feet.

714
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: And you will figure it out. Time is like water.

715
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: It will fill the container that, whatever containers it's in. Ye,

716
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: you will find the house within three days if that's

717
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: all you have until you all.

718
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you're forced to do it. You're gonna make

719
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 2: something work. Boom, Well, you're welcome.

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00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: I told them that, no matter what, I would not

721
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: agree to let her in, her slobby husband and her

722
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: horde of children back in my house. They texted me too,

723
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: guilting me about his niece's education.

724
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,240
Speaker 2: With no place to stay.

725
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: Close to her school she might have to start and

726
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: another school if they get a rental, which isn't in

727
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 1: the school zone. I texted back, tough luck and I

728
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: blocked him.

729
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: Ope, he's done by family, goodbye. Also, I just want

730
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 2: to say chat has been having some fun with that it.

731
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: Kimberly finds like that's a multiple metro cycles for three. Yeah, dude,

732
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 2: a little too many cycles.

733
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Speaker 1: And female audience.

734
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Chad knows about cycles, Tabby knowing there they know

735
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 2: about those sew cycles. Lance Armstrong couldn't been cycling more

736
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: than anyone else.

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00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 1: No, no performance enhancing.

738
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 2: No, yeah, there we go.

739
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: My husband won't block his parents, but was pissed at

740
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: his brother's for telling him that he was selfish to

741
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 1: not take them in as they are in a hard

742
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 1: place in their lives. They did admit it was gross,

743
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: but excuse her behavior by texting that maybe I did

744
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: something to gravade it.

745
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were asking for this, you're asking for it. Well.

746
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: To top all this off, the oldest wife left a

747
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: voice message through her husband's number to my husband's WhatsApp.

748
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: She said, I kid you not you are still okay

749
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 1: to watch her six year old on Tuesdays. And Wednesdays,

750
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 1: they're like usual, I told him to say, figure out

751
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: what the answer to that request is. So that is

752
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: where we are now. So I think basically staying like, hey,

753
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: you're still good to like watch the I think maybe

754
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: one of their kids like, oh, kind of come over

755
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 1: Tuesday Wednesday and they're like, what about your band? Do

756
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: not understand? I think that's what they're saying. Here we

757
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: have update three, and might I remind everyone we're not

758
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: even halfway through yet. This is we are buckled into

759
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 1: a saga.

760
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 2: Frickin' doozy, do you have.

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00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: Anything uh to say before we get into update number three?

762
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 2: Now, dude, I'm I'm ready to jump on jump on

763
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: in like a jump and jelly Bean.

764
00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: Well, let's dive in splitsh splash. Update number three